1 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: Another thing about work. 2 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:21,759 Speaker 2: Partnerships, lawyers, agents, real estate agents, contractors, designers, construction. 3 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 1: Admit what you don't know. 4 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 2: I run into so many business problems because people are 5 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 2: so either insecure or paranoid or think they're going to 6 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 2: get fired or in fear and have to prove that 7 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,840 Speaker 2: they know everything, that they act like they know everything, 8 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: like you're doing a deal and they just have answers 9 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 2: for everything. You're doing this, and they have answers for everything. 10 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 2: You're traveling somewhere. They have to act like they know everything. 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 2: You're designing something. Nobody knows everything, and don't ever assume 12 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 2: anyone's smarter than you. And I like to be surrounded 13 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,639 Speaker 2: by people, whether it's the president of my company, an 14 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 2: agent or representative, a doctor, that will say what they 15 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 2: don't know. Of course they should know many things, but 16 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 2: they will say what they don't know. A lawyer like I, listen, 17 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:06,279 Speaker 2: I haven't seen this before. We will figure it out together. 18 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: I don't exactly understand this, what do you think? Or 19 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,760 Speaker 2: let's all crowdsource and I'll be then we can have 20 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: a workshop and talk about it. 21 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: Because most times I'll be like, right, listen, I'm gonna. 22 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 2: Call three people, and it could literally be I'm calling 23 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,640 Speaker 2: Mark Cuban, I'm calling this big powerhouse, I'm calling Steve Cohen, 24 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 2: I'm calling you know some of my powerhouse women that 25 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 2: I know, and I'm gonna ask and I'm in a 26 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:28,199 Speaker 2: crowdsource and I'll get back to you and we're gonna 27 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:29,840 Speaker 2: figure it out. Or I'm gonna call this lawyer, or 28 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: I'm gonna call this class action lawyer, or i'm gonna 29 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 2: call this one. I'm gonna call this intellectual property. I'll 30 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: fucking figure it out. If you don't know, you better 31 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:39,959 Speaker 2: act somebody, Okay, do not act like you know everything. 32 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,559 Speaker 2: It's immature, it's insecure, and it's for losers. And as 33 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 2: we get into dating sometimes this guy was this guy 34 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 2: on social who gives dating advice. He basically text his 35 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: own back immediately and said like, I'm not gonna play 36 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 2: games and I'm gonna text you back right away because 37 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 2: of blah blah blah. And I put in his comments. 38 00:01:57,440 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 2: I was like, dude, you don't need to say all that. 39 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 2: You need to be all that. Like if someone texts 40 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: you in a weird way and they are not responsive 41 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: or they seem like it could take like twenty four hours, 42 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 2: Like I had a guy that had his cadences to 43 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 2: text and then like you won't hear from him again. 44 00:02:12,200 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 2: You'll respond, you may not hear from him for twenty 45 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: four hours, could be eight hours, could be the next day, 46 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: and they'll. 47 00:02:16,200 --> 00:02:18,519 Speaker 1: Be like, oh, hey, sorry, was that my kids? Whatever? 48 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 2: It's like, really, you don't have fingers. You're a successful person. 49 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,239 Speaker 2: I know how successful youyre, because it wouldn't be fucking 50 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 2: going out with you if you weren't successful. But you 51 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 2: don't have fingers in a telephone. Like fuck, you're a 52 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 2: fucking loser. 53 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: So I don't care. I dismiss those people because they're 54 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 1: fucking losers. 55 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: And I text back right away because I'm a grown 56 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:37,919 Speaker 2: ass woman who text back right away. I'm not gonna 57 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:39,720 Speaker 2: go if you go jump off a bridge, I'm not 58 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 2: jumping off if you go after a moron, I'm not 59 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: acting like a moron. A text right away because I'm 60 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 2: secure and I'm a grown ass woman, and obviously we'll 61 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 2: get to where we need to get to. Meaning if 62 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 2: I text right away and you go every time four days, 63 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: you're never gonna hear from me again anyway. 64 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, anybody got time for this. I'm not. 65 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 2: And again this is because this person is used to 66 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 2: dealing with thirty five year olds. We've talked about that before. 67 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 2: So here's what goes on with the thirty five year 68 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 2: old or the young women. And here's what goes on 69 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: why women need to work for their own money. Why 70 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 2: you need to have financial independence. I don't give a 71 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 2: shit about any of you that are going to be 72 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,360 Speaker 2: like it's a valuable job to be a stay at 73 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:17,400 Speaker 2: home mom, because it is. 74 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: I know that. I agree with that. It's not just 75 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: a lie. 76 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 2: It is harder to be a mom and manage multiple 77 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 2: children than it is to work and be an entrepreneur. 78 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 2: I know all that. All this is true. It is gnarly, 79 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 2: it is hardcore. It is a dance. It is organizational hell. 80 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 2: It is insufferable. It's very difficult to run a household, 81 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 2: to cook, to clean, to have children, to do the costumes, 82 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 2: to do it all, to be a wife, to have 83 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 2: sex look good, asked and answered. And it's not just 84 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: a pat like bullshit check the box thing. 85 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: I know that. Here's what I also know. 86 00:03:54,200 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 2: Women need to be financially independent so they have options. 87 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,800 Speaker 2: Something goes sideway. Someone dies as you were married to 88 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 2: was lying to you about your finances, or you're just 89 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 2: not good at them and you didn't understand them. Somebody 90 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 2: loses their jobs, someone gets hit by a car, something happens, 91 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 2: God forbid, there's a medical issue, and you guys need fine, 92 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 2: you need money, and it's not enough because you weren't 93 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: planning for this. Something happens, somebody gets arrested. You need 94 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 2: to defend them. Things happen in life that costs money 95 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:24,560 Speaker 2: that you didn't plan for. If I've done ten renovations 96 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 2: and I know that every single one had unforeseen costs 97 00:04:29,400 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 2: in something that was locked in life has unforseeable costs, 98 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,560 Speaker 2: So you must plan for a disaster. 99 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 1: But guess what else? Guess what else? 100 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 2: If you're dating and you don't have money, and you 101 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 2: see the shiny objects and you hear about a great guy. 102 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 2: He's super rich, he's a prince, he's a mogul, he's 103 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 2: a finance guy. 104 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: He's just rich. He's a doctor, he's got a nice car. Whatever. 105 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 2: It changes the way you act when you feel like 106 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 2: they're running the show because they've got the money. Because 107 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 2: guess what, he or she who makes the gold makes 108 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 2: the rules. You gotta really understand this is for the 109 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 2: moms that have the young daughters, and this is for 110 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 2: the young daughters. He who makes the gold makes the rules. 111 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 2: And there's a dynamic because I see it all the 112 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 2: time with the girls, like panting and waiting around for 113 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 2: the gift. I just heard from someone the other day 114 00:05:17,279 --> 00:05:18,760 Speaker 2: that said, like the girl would like every time they 115 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 2: were going on a date, tell the guy to meet 116 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 2: her a store so he could buy her stuff. Like 117 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 2: girls are like gasping and guess what else I've been 118 00:05:25,480 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 2: the girl, the broke girl hoping not only that someone 119 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 2: would pay the bill, that someone would buy me something. 120 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:32,440 Speaker 2: I'm in a store, you're sort of hinting, you're sort 121 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 2: of hoping, you're sort of looking, and you feel like 122 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 2: a desperado. And they can feel it and they know it, 123 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: and it gives them the power. And then it gives 124 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:42,160 Speaker 2: them the power in the dating dynamic. With the texting, 125 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 2: you're texting back more often and they don't have to 126 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 2: because they have the power. 127 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 1: They're the ones running the show. 128 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 2: They can tell you to be ready in an hour 129 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 2: or tomorrow, or where they're going or where we're going 130 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:54,600 Speaker 2: on vacation. Why because they run the fucking show, and 131 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 2: there's a power struggle, and it ends up being resentment 132 00:05:57,400 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 2: on all sides. The guy doesn't resent the girl because 133 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 2: he doesn't respect the fact that he just says, bark 134 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 2: and you bark, sit and you sit, run and you run. 135 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 2: And it also becomes boring because the guy wants somebody 136 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 2: to talk to. And if your whole identity is just 137 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:12,680 Speaker 2: buying shit and you sit with the girls and talk 138 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 2: about recipes and shopping, it gets real boring, real fast. 139 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: So be a woman who. 140 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 2: Has your own money, and guess what, don't spend it. 141 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: If you fucking think that with any of the men 142 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 2: that I date, I spend money on the date or 143 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: on the things, you're gravely mistaken. But guess what, I 144 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:29,360 Speaker 2: don't need them for the things, and I can buy 145 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 2: anything I want. And because of that, I don't want anything, 146 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 2: because I know I can. Half the thing is when 147 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 2: you can't afford it, you kind of want someone else 148 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 2: to get it for you. When you have the money 149 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 2: and you can afford it, you really don't give a shit. 150 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 2: As I've said sixty five times, I've gotten rid of 151 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 2: like seventy percent of my stuff. I buy shoes on 152 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,440 Speaker 2: fucking Amazon and then give them to the person that's 153 00:06:48,520 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 2: like you know, at the hotel because I no longer 154 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 2: need the flex of the super expensive things to make 155 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 2: me feel secure, So I definitely don't need anybody else 156 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: to buy me the shit. Once you have your own money, 157 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 2: you can afford it. 158 00:06:58,360 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: You calm down. 159 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 2: It's like the money noise. It's like food noise, but 160 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 2: it's money noise. It calms down, takes a while, but 161 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 2: you have it. No One else is in control. So 162 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 2: when the rich guys that I am thinking off the 163 00:07:09,840 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 2: top of my head text me and they're big baller 164 00:07:12,920 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 2: shop callers, okay, could make your life. We're talking yachts, planes, trains, automobiles. 165 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 2: They will text and ask you something and then like 166 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 2: you won't hear from them for a day or two. 167 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 2: You'll be like, you're fucking in your mind. You're like 168 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 2: nobody can and they're in shock that I couldn't care less. 169 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 2: There's no like I'll give a one word answer because 170 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 2: I don't care. But I can tell you that if 171 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 2: I was thirty seven, broke and needed a guy for anything, 172 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 2: I would be panicked. I would have anxiety. I would 173 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 2: wonder why they're not texting me, I'd think, oh my god, 174 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 2: is this my Is this the one that's gonna take 175 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 2: care of me? Is this the one that's gonna save me? Well, 176 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 2: guess what, I saved myself. I don't need any of that. 177 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 2: So be that girl. And then if you decide you 178 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 2: want to stay at home, great, you have a skill set, 179 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 2: you have a nest egg, do whatever the fuck you want, 180 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 2: but have options. Options are always good on a menu 181 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 2: on a vacation, for business and for your financial security. 182 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 2: So I was the other day waking up and I 183 00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 2: was thinking about Jennifer Aniston. There's no reason why I 184 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 2: was thinking about Jennifer Aniston, and how I don't know her. 185 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: I met her once for one second. She's successful, she's 186 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 2: an actress. 187 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,439 Speaker 1: She was married to Brad Pitt. 188 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 2: She has had an extraordinary career in the sense that 189 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 2: she is exceptionally famous and more than other people, not 190 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,839 Speaker 2: unlike me, actually in ways more than other people. On 191 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 2: her show, which was an iconic show, but it was 192 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 2: still the one show, and she hasn't had anything else 193 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: be as iconic as that show. But like she's the one, 194 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 2: it's more well known, and she's Jennifer Anniston, it's just 195 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 2: she's an A list star, and she's gotten to be 196 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 2: an a list star by wearing her hat the same 197 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: way every single time and the strapless sheath dress, and 198 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 2: she's got her own just like way about her. And 199 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:18,040 Speaker 2: she has been in relationships and married and never had 200 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 2: a kid and is not married and is about my age. 201 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: I remember once seeing her as a struggling actress before 202 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 2: she was famous at Sue Plantation. If I ever run 203 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 2: into her, I'm going to just say, will you can someone? 204 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 2: Just can the internet just ask her? Did she use 205 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 2: to go to sup Plantation? Because I'm pretty sure it 206 00:09:35,280 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 2: was her, And she had a look like she looked 207 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 2: like a Hollywood actress before she was, and I always 208 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:44,160 Speaker 2: remembered her, and like later when she became her, I 209 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 2: was like, I think I used to see that girl 210 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 2: a supe Plantation. I just need someone to ask her. 211 00:09:48,640 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 2: So I wonder if the Internet tries to impose on No, 212 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 2: I don't wonder. I know like she probably got to 213 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 2: a point in her life where she was like, I 214 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: don't think I want this anymore. If she wanted to 215 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 2: have kids, she could have had a kid on her own. 216 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 2: She didn't want to have a kid, she didn't want 217 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:07,960 Speaker 2: to be married. And I'm finding that there are so 218 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 2: many women my age who it's not that they can't, 219 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 2: they don't want to, and society for different reasons. They're younger, 220 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 2: they don't know like, oh wow, it's weird, weird she 221 00:10:19,040 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 2: never had a kid, weird she never got married. It's 222 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 2: not weird, it's what she wanted. And also, like or 223 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: people her own age that are married, they either are 224 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 2: so happy they can't imagine she doesn't want what they have, 225 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 2: they're so bored they want company, or they're miserable and 226 00:10:35,840 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 2: they just like want to act like it's the only 227 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 2: thing going. And I'm not saying she's happy, and I'm 228 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 2: not saying she's unhappy. I'm just saying for some reason, 229 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 2: she came up as someone who's done it her way, 230 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,679 Speaker 2: and I know that she could have gotten married and 231 00:10:48,840 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 2: could have had a kid. And the headline is that 232 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:56,240 Speaker 2: like the world and the internet imposes what they think 233 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:01,000 Speaker 2: people should have to be happy. And I think, I 234 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 2: bet she just is living the life that she wants 235 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 2: to live. And they are women that I meet my 236 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 2: age all the time that are like, I don't want 237 00:11:07,880 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 2: someone fucking with my peace, like I don't want it. 238 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,439 Speaker 2: It's very popular for everyone to impose what they think 239 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 2: we should want. I'm not there yet. 240 00:11:17,400 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I don't want it, but the thought 241 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: has occurred to me. The thought has occurred. 242 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:25,319 Speaker 2: To me, like I find myself now in the ozembic 243 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 2: of dating, where it's like I don't know the appaths, 244 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 2: I don't care. Yes, I went out with a really 245 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:35,959 Speaker 2: nice guy on Friday, successful, beyond your wildest dreams, tall, funny, 246 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 2: nice whatever. Has text he wants to get together again, 247 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: but he's not frothing, just like a normal text exchange. 248 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 2: And to say that I'm not frothing, I've finally gotten 249 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: to the anti frothing stage. I don't really care. I 250 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 2: don't even really care if I like you do, I 251 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 2: not care. Like the days of like getting fixated, obsessed, 252 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,160 Speaker 2: like And that's the thing that's where a lot of 253 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: people are our age. And so if there's there are 254 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 2: women who are dating people my age, ish, you gotta 255 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:03,840 Speaker 2: know that the person my age doesn't really give a fuck. 256 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: They really don't. They just don't give a fuck,