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Speaker 1: before we do that, We're gonna do a few words today.
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Speaker 1: Please don't cut us off. We're gonna do a few
Speaker 1: different words today because we're just vibe and you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We've got some stuff on our mind
Speaker 1: in our hearts. Were talking about before the episode started.
Speaker 1: So let's start off with for powerful word, a word
Speaker 1: we all know about ego. So you get definition for ego,
Speaker 1: any type of definition for eggular definition, urban definition for ego.
Speaker 1: Check your is a person sense of self esteem or
Speaker 1: self importance. That's the textbook definition, a person's sense of
Speaker 1: self esteem or self importance. That's what I like that.
Speaker 1: And then the urban definition of ego is an inflated
Speaker 1: sense of self gained exclusively from Facebook popularity, friend count,
Speaker 1: a number of likes received to boost people's egos. That's
Speaker 1: the that's the vehicle, though, like, that's the vehicle to
Speaker 1: potentially stroke the ego. But that's not ego. But anyway,
Speaker 1: that's the urban But he said, you said it was
Speaker 1: boosted by those accounts. Though, yeah, it's it's the vehicle. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not the actual thing. Yeah, it's not dastural ego. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So why is ego? So? Um? Why can't why can
Speaker 1: someone's ego be so detrimental to their well being? What
Speaker 1: are the things that coming from ego or having a
Speaker 1: bad ego that can stop a person from becoming their
Speaker 1: best self? I'm sorry, So, why is the ego detrimental
Speaker 1: to a person? Ego can be detrimental to a person
Speaker 1: for the same reason that arrogance can be detrimental to
Speaker 1: a person, which it can provide a false sense of
Speaker 1: security about their overall importantception and their importance to the world. Mhm.
Speaker 1: And it can prevent them from growing. Yeah, it can
Speaker 1: prevent growth. It can stunt your growth because you feel
Speaker 1: like you're already whatever it is that you're trying to be. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what what what what ego? Why does it go bad
Speaker 1: for you? Why can't to be? Why can't it be?
Speaker 1: Why can it be? Detrimental? Is the word for real?
Speaker 1: But why why can't the ego be detrimental to one? Something? Men?
Speaker 1: Just some time, my Sari, what you say, just come
Speaker 1: up to the Michael. But I feel like it can't
Speaker 1: keep you from growing. Like j j J said, speak
Speaker 1: on the West Side, keep you so much? Didn't helped
Speaker 1: me with me, you know. Yeah, Like basically he was saying,
Speaker 1: like the ego, goddamn, the wirst part of the ego
Speaker 1: is got to keep you like this when you really
Speaker 1: like this, really be like this, like especially with two
Speaker 1: people that egos like in friendshis of relationship. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that ship is always what I'm saying. So it's just
Speaker 1: like you can keep you separated it from people, but
Speaker 1: it also keeps you separated from your peace. And then
Speaker 1: she yeah, and then she can have you react different
Speaker 1: and can make you react in a way that you
Speaker 1: wouldn't react if you if ego went involved, right, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because you have a false perception
Speaker 1: of reality. M Yeah, I think it's an unchecked emotion,
Speaker 1: unchecked the emotion. Yeah, it's an unchecked the emotion that
Speaker 1: can hinder you never thought about it like that. That's
Speaker 1: a good that's a good answer, unchecked emotion. So how
Speaker 1: do you, like, do you think everybody knows when they're
Speaker 1: letting their ego get in the way of their progression
Speaker 1: or do you think that that's sometimes like the the
Speaker 1: like what someone has adopted, like they're just egotistic, or
Speaker 1: they might not even know it because ain't nobody even
Speaker 1: told them, Like arrogance is a little different because generally
Speaker 1: people tell you about that and you feel that. But
Speaker 1: sometimes I think people being egotistic going to profit. Egotisticalism
Speaker 1: is just like toxicity. What do you mean? You don't
Speaker 1: know in certain instances, but people can't tell you but
Speaker 1: generally you don't know. I'm being You're not aware because
Speaker 1: you think some people have that in them, which could
Speaker 1: be considered a character flaw. It might not be dependent
Speaker 1: upon who's so we named several instances while back of
Speaker 1: why arrogance can be good, right, but are there instances
Speaker 1: where your ego can be good? Mm hmmm. Yeah, Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's always Everything is good in moderation and just depends
Speaker 1: on how you're ego manifests itself. So if you have
Speaker 1: if you're in a situation to where maybe nobody believes
Speaker 1: in whatever your talent or your gift is, but you
Speaker 1: believe in it to a point where you push through
Speaker 1: all the negativity and you make sure you get to
Speaker 1: love that you know you're supposed to be at the Yeah,
Speaker 1: your ego served you in that situation. How do ego
Speaker 1: allow with confidence though it's an inflated sense of confidence,
Speaker 1: just like arrogance is the minimal version of cockiness. Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: They're parallel. You think ego allowing with covenant m M.
Speaker 1: I think ego is your netics. We all have them,
Speaker 1: but they can grow big. So if it's unchecked, Oh,
Speaker 1: you're saying, just like even jealousy. Yeah, but I mean
Speaker 1: your ego can get real, real big, and it can
Speaker 1: cause you. It can cause you to have harm. Check
Speaker 1: it to your to your to yourself. So if you
Speaker 1: don't check it, how can you go up egos unchecked emotion?
Speaker 1: Check emotion. That's basically I don't think you don't learn.
Speaker 1: You don't learn your ego. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You might learn how to be arrogant or confident or
Speaker 1: you like, those are words that you learned. But I
Speaker 1: feel like we all how to control. You have an ego,
Speaker 1: but you're not how to control it. I don't know
Speaker 1: how to control it. That's why it come down to
Speaker 1: you got to control the ego and don't let the
Speaker 1: ego control you because it can't be detrimental. So another word,
Speaker 1: another powerful word, right, Um, that could be very detrimental
Speaker 1: to someone. And that's not the word that can from uh, greed, greed.
Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Let's get let's greed. Why it
Speaker 1: is greed detrimental to a person? Um, Greed can be
Speaker 1: detrimental because when normally, when you greedy, you go out
Speaker 1: of your way to get extra or or to do more.
Speaker 1: And I feel like that is a way to put
Speaker 1: yourself in a bad situation, and a lot of times
Speaker 1: in the process you hurt others or yourself. What about
Speaker 1: the greed as nigga with the ego, Well, then all
Speaker 1: of that going on. If you got greed ego, all
Speaker 1: that going on then. But in the Urban Dictionary, the
Speaker 1: urban definition of grade, simply put, is the root of
Speaker 1: all evil. That's the urban diction the dictionary, greed is
Speaker 1: the root of all evil. I can't think of It's
Speaker 1: an intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power
Speaker 1: or food. It's like you're never satisfied. Oh, so, is
Speaker 1: there any instance we just asked us about ego? Is
Speaker 1: there any instance where greed can be good? And greed
Speaker 1: ever be good? We just said that ego can be
Speaker 1: necessary a little bit. I'm trying to think a good
Speaker 1: instance of greed is when you're greedy for love or
Speaker 1: greedy or like not not you're greedy for self love,
Speaker 1: but you're greedy for like somebody love, your love, Well,
Speaker 1: that can kind of be up turned into obsession, I guess.
Speaker 1: And if you're greedy for love, I feel like you're
Speaker 1: gonna take take take from whoever and not really give
Speaker 1: anything back in return. Yeah, if you're greedy for love, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it could be greedy for love, Like I want this
Speaker 1: person so bad and i want them to give me
Speaker 1: all their attention, but I'm not really only give anything back.
Speaker 1: But but greed, greed has to have, like per the definition,
Speaker 1: a little bit of selfishness in it. So if you're
Speaker 1: being selfish, yeah, I'm saying, if you be, But we're
Speaker 1: trying to we're trying to talk about the instance where
Speaker 1: greed can be good. That's that's I don't think. I
Speaker 1: don't think there's anything we greed can be good. What's
Speaker 1: the definition greedy? I'll put it up greed. Greed isn't
Speaker 1: in showing an intense or selfish desire for something, especially wealth,
Speaker 1: power or food. I don't think it's no good. Wealth
Speaker 1: power or food ain't no good, and greed I don't
Speaker 1: think it's no good. Man. I can't see the only
Speaker 1: time I could see, oh, maybe greed will be good
Speaker 1: is let's say you decided to prioritize yourself and your
Speaker 1: personal space and your personal well being, and you say,
Speaker 1: I'm prioritizing me. I don't think that's being greedy. I
Speaker 1: don't think that's greed. I just think that shifting focus, prioritizing.
Speaker 1: But some people, some people call that selfish, greedy with
Speaker 1: my time. I'm going to be greedy with my own
Speaker 1: time for myself. But is that really bad because you're
Speaker 1: looking out for yourself. It depends on if you have
Speaker 1: people that are looking that depend on you, because like
Speaker 1: like say, if like say, if if a mother was
Speaker 1: she would then in turn neglect her kids. And even
Speaker 1: though it's good to look out for yourself, but at
Speaker 1: the same time, people looking are depending on you. Know,
Speaker 1: you gotta did you that time up properly? We're not
Speaker 1: get big, but I think, but I think greed in
Speaker 1: moderation is good because hear me out, hear me out.
Speaker 1: I feel like greed and moderation is good because too
Speaker 1: much great for anything is bad. But greed and moderation
Speaker 1: to a certain point or to a certain extent is
Speaker 1: actually motivation to push you to work harder to achieve
Speaker 1: whatever goals it is that you're trying to achieve. Like
Speaker 1: just saying I think I think we did. We say
Speaker 1: the definition the regular All I know is it has selfishness,
Speaker 1: showing an intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth
Speaker 1: or power. But know what I'm saying is greed in moderation.
Speaker 1: For like, let's just take a businessman, a realtor. He
Speaker 1: has a greed for land. There's an ambition, I mean,
Speaker 1: he has a has a passion. Ye, greed, greed is
Speaker 1: m hard like let's just take that. That's why that
Speaker 1: greed in moderation, there's no moderation is passion. It's passion
Speaker 1: or liking. Those words are you try to connect to
Speaker 1: words that don't even go to get what I'm motion.
Speaker 1: Once you greed, once you greedy, you already like you
Speaker 1: already there. You can't be a little bit greedy. One thing,
Speaker 1: one thing that comes along with greed to generally is
Speaker 1: getting that well for that power again, ing whatever you
Speaker 1: want to get, it usually is at the expense of
Speaker 1: other people's good. That's I think that there can't be
Speaker 1: any greed good with greed because you're usually sucking somebody
Speaker 1: over to get to where you want to go. That's
Speaker 1: the greed. Ill fuck anybody over to have all this money.
Speaker 1: I fuck anybody over to have all this money. You
Speaker 1: see what I'm saying, And they ain't gonna never have enough,
Speaker 1: right It will never be enough because I'm greed y,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. No, I agree, I'm trying.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of a way. Like with greed,
Speaker 1: I think greedy is like really one of the words
Speaker 1: that just all negative. Like there's there isn't a good
Speaker 1: connotation to greedy mm hmm. Like even even if like
Speaker 1: you were talking about you were just talking about land
Speaker 1: or like you know, if you're greedy with land, like
Speaker 1: you're just it's really like if I say, one of
Speaker 1: the examples of food, if you're greedy with food, you're
Speaker 1: not eating to satisfy yourself. You're you're eating and taking food. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you want to just take it, you know, because I
Speaker 1: want it. There's no reason behind it, there's no there's
Speaker 1: no pasification. Um, it's just I want the food. You
Speaker 1: could give somebody else some of the food who might
Speaker 1: be starving. Yeah, agreed, And nigga guy then eat what
Speaker 1: he eat a whole bunch of ship. Nobody else to
Speaker 1: have it. Yeah, yeah, like you don't wan't nobody to
Speaker 1: have ship. You won't like how some of these corporations
Speaker 1: like that ain't no good out of that. They're throw
Speaker 1: away food. That's that's edibles, the homeless people. Exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so no good agreed ego can be necessary because we're
Speaker 1: born with ego, we're not born with greed. But what
Speaker 1: about another powerful word, which is jealousy. Jealousy may be subjective,
Speaker 1: subjective how and greed isn't I agreed, ain't greed. Ain't greed.
Speaker 1: Ain't greed. Ain't You can not make nothing right out
Speaker 1: of greed. But you could be jealous. You could be
Speaker 1: a jealous person and not help. Madison sent You be
Speaker 1: jeal that your your your brother got rid bike and
Speaker 1: you want the blue. That don't mean that you hate
Speaker 1: your bro and emotionally can't be missing. But that is
Speaker 1: what is eventually gonna turn into what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: jealous not of you, but jealousy can. Yeah, you know
Speaker 1: how to walk your bike fast me, so I might.
Speaker 1: It might motivate Yeah, jealousy condemn them, motivate you. Okay,
Speaker 1: So that's emotions that plays. What's what's the root of jealousy.
Speaker 1: Let's get the definition jealous feeling or showing envy of
Speaker 1: someone you grew jealous this person is success. There's nothing
Speaker 1: good about envy. You write about that, Clau Those everything
Speaker 1: we're talking about that bad first one ego, ego, that's
Speaker 1: the emotion. Yeah, that's an emotion. An ego is a thing,
Speaker 1: egotistical as the state. Being egotistical as the state. Ego
Speaker 1: is actually like you, it's a nown okay. And greed
Speaker 1: greed is that action or being greedy? That's a choice. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you ain't born with greed. You're not greed it now
Speaker 1: and also great as a thing. Oh, let's trick. What
Speaker 1: about somebody? What is that man? Should greed? Is it
Speaker 1: nown bro yea we can't be only big guessing jade
Speaker 1: is correct? Greed now yeah, now I learned how this
Speaker 1: in literature. I know it for a fact. But so
Speaker 1: how do they all tie together? Like because we hear
Speaker 1: these words all the time. We greed sometimes fuels greed
Speaker 1: and yeah, fuels greed. And when you're greedy and no
Speaker 1: agree you that's why I don't give a fun. But now,
Speaker 1: when you have a big ego that makes you feel
Speaker 1: like that makes that makes you like feel like you
Speaker 1: need everything and like nobody else deserves to have anything
Speaker 1: because you're the best of whatever it is that you're
Speaker 1: trying to be or whatever what I'm going to jump
Speaker 1: over and then and then the way the greed ties
Speaker 1: into jealousy is when a greedy person isn't able to
Speaker 1: take everything and somebody else gets a piece of what
Speaker 1: they're trying to get the whole of, then they become
Speaker 1: jealous of that person, like how are they able to
Speaker 1: get a piece of this? And I don't have all
Speaker 1: of it? Type ship that the wholesome, the whole it
Speaker 1: shut up. My ego would have slapped the funk. I
Speaker 1: have checked my emotions. Yeah, I'm glad that you're cognizant
Speaker 1: and you thought about that ship, because I would have
Speaker 1: slapped the fun. I have been ameliorated. You know we're
Speaker 1: gonna use all these words to dig right now? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because my hand was gonna permeate your faith. Okay, alright,
Speaker 1: I like that. Good. So, but I feel this jealousy.
Speaker 1: What would I do without y'all? Man? I don't know, Man,
Speaker 1: my life would be so boring? So what what? So?
Speaker 1: So so let's let's uh, I don't know, keeping the trashes?
Speaker 1: So ego? Are we keeping in a trashing? I still
Speaker 1: have an ego when it comes to a certain things.
Speaker 1: I would like to my ego completely, but I'm not
Speaker 1: completely there, want trash your ego completely though you don't
Speaker 1: know what you want to go for anything? Right, No,
Speaker 1: that's what I was. That's what we're saying. I feel
Speaker 1: like in this industry, in an entertainment industry, you gotta
Speaker 1: have ego. Everybody has an ego in Entertainmentusty, you don't
Speaker 1: let me make it right, I'm saying everybody else to. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm saying it's everybody. People to be different sizes, but
Speaker 1: I'm saying you have to have a bit of one.
Speaker 1: You have to have some type of an ego to
Speaker 1: be successful, have to be an asshole about it because
Speaker 1: you're born with it. So I don't think you can't
Speaker 1: get Yeah, you're born with the ego. Yeah, how do
Speaker 1: you have an ego? You agree with that? Like I said,
Speaker 1: I think it can grow it. Right, it's a fact.
Speaker 1: If you're born with emotion, you're born with ego. Okay,
Speaker 1: same family, So ego, don't trash it. We're gonna keep ego.
Speaker 1: We gotta keep all the rest of that. You can
Speaker 1: definitely don't trash. Keep keep it on the fence, keep
Speaker 1: keep it, keep it to the side of the case. Right.
Speaker 1: Let let the ego, know you will put it in
Speaker 1: the trash. Okay, okay, So if we're keeping ego and
Speaker 1: we're keeping we putting greed to the side of the trash,
Speaker 1: greed in the trash, freeders in the trash. I don't
Speaker 1: want to be greedy. Jealousy, we gotta got them burn
Speaker 1: it up, namely because the envy and hate. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so you throw away jealousy. Don't need to be jealous.
Speaker 1: You should never be jealous. Um. Some people would take
Speaker 1: jealous jealousy to the extreme of saying some people, I
Speaker 1: don't know, y'all talk about this because women tend to
Speaker 1: joke about the jealous word a little bore. I think
Speaker 1: it's a joke, But I'm so I don't talk about that.
Speaker 1: I don't play that. All three of those. Everybody to
Speaker 1: have a little bit of any of each one of
Speaker 1: those words in life. Life you feel like there's certain
Speaker 1: things I was a little I was fool greedy for sure.
Speaker 1: You thinking that you got feel fool about make you
Speaker 1: jealous for sure. Jealousy is like a natural emotion that's
Speaker 1: like human interest. I don't think I got a jealous
Speaker 1: side of me. YEA, if somebody drive by when I
Speaker 1: was younger in a nice car and I was like,
Speaker 1: damn that car harm and I want that car. It
Speaker 1: ain't like but not jealousy, So what is? But I
Speaker 1: guess jealousy is a weak emotion, right, Definitely, jealousy becomes
Speaker 1: like jealousy is the lady of a nigger? For real?
Speaker 1: Why them not me? You know that? Yeah, they get ready?
Speaker 1: But could you you could be jealous that the same
Speaker 1: things your your girl want to want to go out
Speaker 1: with a friend and you asked out. That could make
Speaker 1: you jealous the lady of a nigger what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: but that ship can make you jealous, like really or disappointed?
Speaker 1: Which one is it? Jealousy? Girl? That's what say. Females,
Speaker 1: y'all can chime in from the back. Don't you'll joke
Speaker 1: about the jealous ship, like, girl, I'm jealous of your hair.
Speaker 1: I'm jealous that your hair do this? And j yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't play that ship that's jealous because
Speaker 1: that's really like, that's like something that's like some some
Speaker 1: some slick hate and ship from a farm women hating them. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: that's all. Ye, Like I think that every woman had
Speaker 1: some type of jealousy, right, but you can be jealous
Speaker 1: of somebody and it not be you can't, that's not
Speaker 1: by definition. Its hold let's say Jess I said, women,
Speaker 1: women hold your knitting. Makeup is like emotion, so it's
Speaker 1: only right that got the jellous side. Yeah, that's why
Speaker 1: I said, for me, it's a week. What's kind of emotion?
Speaker 1: I don't I don't even know. Yeah, jealousy or some
Speaker 1: men got it like you take for example, like like okay,
Speaker 1: let's say one of your friends is getting married. You
Speaker 1: could be like, I'm jealous and getting back. I don't
Speaker 1: mean it, no, no, no no, but if you're saying
Speaker 1: you could be. If you're saying if a bitch. If
Speaker 1: I'm getting married and a bench that's supposed to be
Speaker 1: my friend told me that she was jealous and I'm
Speaker 1: getting married, I'm gonna look at this whole like, what
Speaker 1: are you like? What is it like what she said
Speaker 1: she's saying, She's saying basically like like that's a form
Speaker 1: of saying I'm proud of you, because I don't trying
Speaker 1: to say I get young girls. I swear to god,
Speaker 1: I don't have a jealous I'm a lot of things
Speaker 1: and I'm not a hair and I'm never jealous of nobody.
Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from. Really, yeah, that what
Speaker 1: you're trying to say, and I'll tell him what time,
Speaker 1: my girl, I'm jealousy. I'm jealous that you want this
Speaker 1: dump ass the relationship. I don't say. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I guess, I guess like a congratulation if you if
Speaker 1: you go tell it's like this bitch that got mad,
Speaker 1: that's jealousy. So you're telling her. Yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 1: Like I guess, I guess I'm burnt out on bitches,
Speaker 1: and I don't. I haven't been through too much ship
Speaker 1: with bitches to even start to try to play like that.
Speaker 1: Like that has set me on. What's she doing is
Speaker 1: she's using it as slang. Yes, it's slang. Let's use
Speaker 1: just like one woman call another woman. Women call other
Speaker 1: women bitches all the time and all that ship. It's slang.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's like, yeah, calling me a bitch
Speaker 1: is a slang. But saying that you're jealous of something
Speaker 1: that I had not us I'm not jealous for How
Speaker 1: do I know that? I'm just I would have thought
Speaker 1: him to that point that you weren't. But now that
Speaker 1: you're saying it out your mouth as a joke, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I didn't because they're like you
Speaker 1: coming up with the Jay's on when you pull up,
Speaker 1: jut like them be so I wish i'll they'd gotten
Speaker 1: the first. You know, I ain't hate No you a
Speaker 1: no type of way. No, No, that's you though, Like
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's what I said. So what if
Speaker 1: how she can't feel like that about one of her
Speaker 1: friends and that's play with her friends like that. Just
Speaker 1: don't play with me like that. What I'm saying, I
Speaker 1: actually got to be somebody who comfortable with. But that's
Speaker 1: a friend. But I actually feel like you're in my heart.
Speaker 1: Like people, how you get the Jay first? I had them? No,
Speaker 1: but but I know, like like you get what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I don't get what you're saying, but you take me.
Speaker 1: I can't use you as an example. It's the scream
Speaker 1: like damn Jay, you got the mother for the shirt.
Speaker 1: I'm a context and the relationship hating the certain things
Speaker 1: I say to certain people that I won't say to
Speaker 1: certain people. Yeah, because I don't like and I and
Speaker 1: it could be because of my past experiences with bitches,
Speaker 1: Like that's why I don't funk with bitches. But it's
Speaker 1: just like, don't don't don't say no ship like that
Speaker 1: to me because I'm gonna take it the wrong way. Yeah, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't do that. Don't do that. That's the woman.
Speaker 1: If you're really justalous of a person and you're not
Speaker 1: gonna tell him, you're not gonna tell just this, so
Speaker 1: the woman. Some people do though. Some people do some
Speaker 1: people do you got some people do that. That's got
Speaker 1: them trolling in your truth. That's what that is. You know,
Speaker 1: when you do that to a person, sometimes you could
Speaker 1: be hating for real. Yeah, and I don't play like that.
Speaker 1: I don't play like that at all. But you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: like I'm munching it on face, like start playing with
Speaker 1: me for real? Like, Jay, you come here all the
Speaker 1: time for shoes that I ain't got. I don't think
Speaker 1: I'll come and be like I'm jealous. You got some
Speaker 1: shoes that ain't he being like jealous? Business you got
Speaker 1: shoes I ain't gotten. It's contact, it's content. But but
Speaker 1: you know, but she said, she's saying, basically, I know
Speaker 1: your relationships, So it depends on. That's what you're called
Speaker 1: context and relationships subject. It depends on who it is. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like it's gone already, know you like already sniff some
Speaker 1: sh on you. But I think, I think, I think,
Speaker 1: I think I get you a say that, I get
Speaker 1: you a pell life, right, Yeah, ego, that's what's keeping
Speaker 1: her from harling herself to understand where she's coming from.
Speaker 1: So that's why I said it's a it's a unchecked
Speaker 1: what's called emotion. Yeah, and you go all the way back. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm over bit. Yeah, So that's gonna keep her from
Speaker 1: understanding that you're saying, whoever say something to us, she
Speaker 1: just over that ship? Yeah no, no, no, but yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: exactly exactly. We can see it like that because we
Speaker 1: ain't what she oh what ship doesn't happen to her
Speaker 1: that makes her feel that way, So we can be like,
Speaker 1: I see you just saying like you're telling me you
Speaker 1: like these shoes or mother tell you like bank, I
Speaker 1: see you can lose weight, but how then you do it?
Speaker 1: But if she made me feel like I'm jealous that
Speaker 1: I can't do that ship, that's that's to me. That's
Speaker 1: a compliment you telling me I can do something that
Speaker 1: you can't do that but you know type, but your
Speaker 1: hominism is with allowing you to see it from both sides. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so Jay have an unchecked emotion and unchecked ego. Checked
Speaker 1: that ship. Now, I just got PTSD when it comes
Speaker 1: to bitches like you know what I'm saying, bouncing and
Speaker 1: making me scared. Now I'll stay as still at something girls,
Speaker 1: because like ship that I've been through, like my whole
Speaker 1: life WITHOUD was like I just I when when certain
Speaker 1: people say certain ship or just like Black said, if
Speaker 1: I didn't already sniffed something on you and I already
Speaker 1: feel like your energy is weird or something like that,
Speaker 1: and you say something like that to me, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be a problem period. And it's not. It ain't got
Speaker 1: nothing to do with nothing else other than the fact that,
Speaker 1: like I feel like you're not coming from the correct place,
Speaker 1: like saying some ship like that to me. Do you
Speaker 1: think it's somewhat of a defense mechanism because you think
Speaker 1: that I'm just saying this obviously what you think I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You think that maybe because we all do it and
Speaker 1: not know I've done it. I've been in therapy, But
Speaker 1: you think you might be overreacting if that happened. It's
Speaker 1: a possibility. It's a possibility, but it's a strong going
Speaker 1: to allow you to be like, I don't give a
Speaker 1: fucking I'm over reacting or not right. But but my my,
Speaker 1: because I don't have been that way with my ego.
Speaker 1: Like that's why ain't really MP on that point, because
Speaker 1: I don't give a funk once. I don't give a
Speaker 1: funk once, I don't roach it. Fuck it if I'm
Speaker 1: wrong or if I'm right, it's fucking it can demanage growth.
Speaker 1: They can keep you from growing, exactly. I know I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's why I just sat back and just listen to it,
Speaker 1: because I ain't even see and try to act like
Speaker 1: my ego ain't sucked up. Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: because I know it's situation and I want to be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, man hitting the gas suck don't feel
Speaker 1: like that no more. But then I'll just be like
Speaker 1: they ain't calm me. We're not got big ego and pride.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a good to go together, for sure. I
Speaker 1: mean one is the root of the other. Pride is
Speaker 1: the root of it. You go for sure, but it's so.
Speaker 1: I think again, it's like, what is your ultimate goal? Like,
Speaker 1: is everybody's ultimate goal in here? To be a true piece?
Speaker 1: Is it? You could say? No, yours is so? And
Speaker 1: I gotta understand this. Everybody gotta understand this. Like some
Speaker 1: of these emotions and some of this ship that we
Speaker 1: have inside of us that we was taught, We're gonna
Speaker 1: have to eliminate them or or or minimize them to
Speaker 1: get closer to the true piece. Definitely, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, that's just it. He I think you
Speaker 1: can if that's your goal. I think you can accomplish
Speaker 1: what you want to accomplish if that's truly your goal.
Speaker 1: But it's gonna take, just like anything else is gonna
Speaker 1: take sacrifice. Oh that wake up jumping and stuff. He's
Speaker 1: starting growling or something. I've been up since five man
Speaker 1: with ship checking whatever the word is a snaring about
Speaker 1: we talk about your snaring and it is a narc
Speaker 1: ealyptic greeting. How am I hearing all these words? And
Speaker 1: once because you treat your backlash bulls. Get this thing
Speaker 1: out of here? Shot a snoring anyway? So seriously, like,
Speaker 1: I think that if you just like just like you
Speaker 1: want to accomplish, oh, getting fit or being the biggest wrapper,
Speaker 1: just like you want to accomplish getting fit, being the
Speaker 1: biggest rapper, getting rich or whatever. We all know that
Speaker 1: come with sacrifice. So we're willing the sacrifice to get rich,
Speaker 1: but we gotta be willing to sacrifice to be a
Speaker 1: piece too. Facts. You know what I'm saying. If that's
Speaker 1: what we really won't and it's gonna come with definitely
Speaker 1: having to check that ego to a minimum. Man said
Speaker 1: the right thing. You want to completely get rid of it.
Speaker 1: I don't think none of us got a problem with
Speaker 1: greed or jealousy. Uh but ship, we all got our
Speaker 1: different ship. Okay, So let me ask all this then,
Speaker 1: So when it comes to working on or trying to
Speaker 1: tame or check those unchecked emotions, what's the first step?
Speaker 1: Conscious decision? Like anything decision right here to say, conscious decision,
Speaker 1: that's always the first step. I am not going to
Speaker 1: do this, no modec it's just in your head. You
Speaker 1: made it. You gotta go. You gotta the more you
Speaker 1: acting on it, like man, I ain't drinking, the more
Speaker 1: now you got to know it's wrong too, because if
Speaker 1: you're okay, with being the greedy. That's the part of
Speaker 1: the conscious decision. I'm not doing this no more like it.
Speaker 1: It hits you like, man, I'm gonna work out like
Speaker 1: this and this is Yeah, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: And ground big didn't need to sleep like oh the
Speaker 1: Big homies and fall asleep to be comfortable at the
Speaker 1: house CBD. We got being bags the CBD. Conscious decision, bro, Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, this is a result of conscious decision, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, Man, this is we're going
Speaker 1: to do this ship. You know what I'm saying. When
Speaker 1: you're looking back, We're going to do this. It's a
Speaker 1: conscious decision. Everybody has the power to do if you
Speaker 1: want to do it, you can't be forced in doing it.
Speaker 1: Though trying to force somebody into doing it never works out.
Speaker 1: But the conscious decision is the moment where you're like,
Speaker 1: I don't gonna do this. And the powerful thing about
Speaker 1: that ship is usually when you make that conscious decision
Speaker 1: and put your complete mind to it, you accomplish this
Speaker 1: ship or something close to it. Yeah, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, though, like all of my changes has come
Speaker 1: from within, Let start with yourself. For sure. You gotta
Speaker 1: want to do it. Yeah, you gotta want to do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta think all of the stuff from right here.
Speaker 1: So he's saying a consciouency and all of the stuff
Speaker 1: from here. Okay, but let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you another question. So, since everything starts
Speaker 1: from here, and you know, like you have to change
Speaker 1: yourself to be able to get to whatever point, when
Speaker 1: you notice some of the similar characteristics and the people
Speaker 1: that are close to you and the people that you
Speaker 1: love that you're trying to change, do you project your
Speaker 1: self change onto them and try to help them change
Speaker 1: like the thing the same things that you know that
Speaker 1: you are wrong, that like is wrong within you, and
Speaker 1: you can see how they receive conscious conversation. You can't
Speaker 1: be mad at them. If they can't take a person,
Speaker 1: we're gonna make you mad. If you're taking a person, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you got every about to beat them. But if you
Speaker 1: found a couple of people that you probably can change
Speaker 1: and then inflict everything that you can on them. But
Speaker 1: if they don't change, hey, you can't true, yeah, and
Speaker 1: you can't really look at them different and you might
Speaker 1: be mad. You just gotta just the way you deal
Speaker 1: with them yeah, yeah, okay, right, conscious conversation which could
Speaker 1: lead to them making a conscious decision or not. But
Speaker 1: you can't force nobody to ship. Yeah, you're right, so, oh,
Speaker 1: don't agree in trash. Throw the jealousy in the trash. Yeah,
Speaker 1: hold on a little bit to your ego and make
Speaker 1: the conscious decision to do what you want to do
Speaker 1: when you decide to do it, big fact, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Big facts, less words? Cod that up
Speaker 1: out of here. Can jealousy be converted into a positive thing? Though,
Speaker 1: like we already said, I can. I'm when I'm when
Speaker 1: I'm talking how jealous of the motherfucker that did inspire you?
Speaker 1: Jealous of motivation? You don't think so? No, jealousy of
Speaker 1: motivation I think don't work yet, but starts from a
Speaker 1: negative place. Some some by the problem can inspire you,
Speaker 1: but you cannot get that from from them being what's
Speaker 1: col jealousy? Inspirational motivation? But jealously I'm trying Now, you're right,
Speaker 1: I feel what you're trying to say, because I'm trying
Speaker 1: to think that too. But that ain't really jealous that
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like like really admired the person. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: really admiration, inspiration. Next you want to be like, that's
Speaker 1: not jealous inspiration, that's exactly inspiring. Admiration, inspiration and motivation
Speaker 1: are great. Thing is to feel jealousy and envy and
Speaker 1: jealous to a negative exactly if you can't find no
Speaker 1: positive in that ship. Yeah, you're right, I get what
Speaker 1: he thought. Are you trying to say of thout thinking that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm saying because if I'm because I think being justice
Speaker 1: want what the next person want. That's what I thought
Speaker 1: the definition of justice would like, I want what you got,
Speaker 1: envy what you have. It's a different that's different I want.
Speaker 1: I would like a wife. It's different than I want
Speaker 1: your wife. You know what I'm saying. But sure it's
Speaker 1: completely differ. So one and a wife is fine, But
Speaker 1: if somebody wants your wife, then that's when it becomes
Speaker 1: jealousy and envy. And that time I unders thinking about
Speaker 1: jealousy is in terms of like somebody else's position, like
Speaker 1: if I'm if I'm an upcoming rapper and I see
Speaker 1: a little baby on TV, or you're not jealous, I
Speaker 1: thought you trying to Yeah that's what I'm thinking. No,
Speaker 1: he said, you said jealousy when you look at that
Speaker 1: a little baby on TV? Yeah, why him and not meat? Exactly?
Speaker 1: You know you feel a little baby. I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: be up there jealously not not not with him. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be just like a little baby in five
Speaker 1: years or like that. Yeah, that wasn't saying like, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah exactly, that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, I don't think
Speaker 1: you find good out of jealous You can't, yeah, because
Speaker 1: it's all it's in the same family with envy and hatreds.
Speaker 1: So I don't know, it's like we trying to use
Speaker 1: words for ship that they don't fit with because it's
Speaker 1: just like, you know what I'm saying, I like jealousy,
Speaker 1: that's the word. Yeah, like, yeah, basically the same thing,
Speaker 1: but but one means positive, want me to jealous jeous
Speaker 1: motivation not what it is motivating. They're not They're not
Speaker 1: in the same motivating you talking about. You talk about correlation,
Speaker 1: you talk about the words correlate. People don't take let's correlate,
Speaker 1: correlate jealous for me, you just jealous attention that I get, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I'm just being myself, but not its siously synonym
Speaker 1: means the same antony yeah, yeah. A synonym would be
Speaker 1: like great and fantastic, and antonym would be like yeah
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