1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: Bang. You don't be on nothing ill beyond. Okay, so 2 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:10,479 Speaker 1: let me ask this bring you big big Now visit 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: the new website today, Big Facts Paul dot com live 4 00:00:14,160 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: for first class sounds. You know who it is. DJ Scream, 5 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 1: Big Bankers Here, Baby Jade, here, Holmi Jesse, This here, 6 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: Big Homi Koda, and it's time for a Big Facts Friday. 7 00:00:23,480 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: What's up? What's up? Everybody? What's up? We're on the 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 1: west side couch over here, that's the west side couch. 9 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: On the east side couch. I guess well whatever, I'm 10 00:00:30,880 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 1: closer to the east side couch. Anyway, what's on everybody mind? 11 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: What's happening? Somebody talked, Please, it's a great they said, 12 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 1: he's gonna start talking to you. Lied to me. Okay, 13 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: So yeah, so what we're doing so well, hold on 14 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: before we do that, We're gonna do a few words today. 15 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:51,240 Speaker 1: Thunder's taking place. She said. Salute, Yeah, okay, salute the tongue. 16 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: Please don't cut us off. We're gonna do a few 17 00:00:53,000 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: different words today because we're just vibe and you know 18 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. We've got some stuff on our mind 19 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: in our hearts. Were talking about before the episode started. 20 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: So let's start off with for powerful word, a word 21 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 1: we all know about ego. So you get definition for ego, 22 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 1: any type of definition for eggular definition, urban definition for ego. 23 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: Check your is a person sense of self esteem or 24 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:21,120 Speaker 1: self importance. That's the textbook definition, a person's sense of 25 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 1: self esteem or self importance. That's what I like that. 26 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 1: And then the urban definition of ego is an inflated 27 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 1: sense of self gained exclusively from Facebook popularity, friend count, 28 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: a number of likes received to boost people's egos. That's 29 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: the that's the vehicle, though, like, that's the vehicle to 30 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,920 Speaker 1: potentially stroke the ego. But that's not ego. But anyway, 31 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: that's the urban But he said, you said it was 32 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 1: boosted by those accounts. Though, yeah, it's it's the vehicle. Yeah, yeah, 33 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 1: it's not the actual thing. Yeah, it's not dastural ego. Yeah. 34 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: So why is ego? So? Um? Why can't why can 35 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 1: someone's ego be so detrimental to their well being? What 36 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,920 Speaker 1: are the things that coming from ego or having a 37 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: bad ego that can stop a person from becoming their 38 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 1: best self? I'm sorry, So, why is the ego detrimental 39 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 1: to a person? Ego can be detrimental to a person 40 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: for the same reason that arrogance can be detrimental to 41 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: a person, which it can provide a false sense of 42 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: security about their overall importantception and their importance to the world. Mhm. 43 00:02:43,639 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 1: And it can prevent them from growing. Yeah, it can 44 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 1: prevent growth. It can stunt your growth because you feel 45 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: like you're already whatever it is that you're trying to be. Yeah, 46 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 1: what what what what ego? Why does it go bad 47 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: for you? Why can't to be? Why can't it be? 48 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:06,399 Speaker 1: Why can it be? Detrimental? Is the word for real? 49 00:03:06,480 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: But why why can't the ego be detrimental to one? Something? Men? 50 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: Just some time, my Sari, what you say, just come 51 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: up to the Michael. But I feel like it can't 52 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: keep you from growing. Like j j J said, speak 53 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:36,040 Speaker 1: on the West Side, keep you so much? Didn't helped 54 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: me with me, you know. Yeah, Like basically he was saying, 55 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: like the ego, goddamn, the wirst part of the ego 56 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: is got to keep you like this when you really 57 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:51,560 Speaker 1: like this, really be like this, like especially with two 58 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 1: people that egos like in friendshis of relationship. Oh yeah, 59 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,400 Speaker 1: that ship is always what I'm saying. So it's just 60 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: like you can keep you separated it from people, but 61 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: it also keeps you separated from your peace. And then 62 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: she yeah, and then she can have you react different 63 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: and can make you react in a way that you 64 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: wouldn't react if you if ego went involved, right, you 65 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, because you have a false perception 66 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: of reality. M Yeah, I think it's an unchecked emotion, 67 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: unchecked the emotion. Yeah, it's an unchecked the emotion that 68 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 1: can hinder you never thought about it like that. That's 69 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: a good that's a good answer, unchecked emotion. So how 70 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 1: do you, like, do you think everybody knows when they're 71 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: letting their ego get in the way of their progression 72 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 1: or do you think that that's sometimes like the the 73 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,479 Speaker 1: like what someone has adopted, like they're just egotistic, or 74 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: they might not even know it because ain't nobody even 75 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 1: told them, Like arrogance is a little different because generally 76 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: people tell you about that and you feel that. But 77 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: sometimes I think people being egotistic going to profit. Egotisticalism 78 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: is just like toxicity. What do you mean? You don't 79 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: know in certain instances, but people can't tell you but 80 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: generally you don't know. I'm being You're not aware because 81 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 1: you think some people have that in them, which could 82 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,239 Speaker 1: be considered a character flaw. It might not be dependent 83 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: upon who's so we named several instances while back of 84 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: why arrogance can be good, right, but are there instances 85 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: where your ego can be good? Mm hmmm. Yeah, Yeah, 86 00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: there's always Everything is good in moderation and just depends 87 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: on how you're ego manifests itself. So if you have 88 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: if you're in a situation to where maybe nobody believes 89 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: in whatever your talent or your gift is, but you 90 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,160 Speaker 1: believe in it to a point where you push through 91 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 1: all the negativity and you make sure you get to 92 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 1: love that you know you're supposed to be at the Yeah, 93 00:05:53,839 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: your ego served you in that situation. How do ego 94 00:05:56,600 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: allow with confidence though it's an inflated sense of confidence, 95 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: just like arrogance is the minimal version of cockiness. Mm hmm. 96 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: They're parallel. You think ego allowing with covenant m M. 97 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: I think ego is your netics. We all have them, 98 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 1: but they can grow big. So if it's unchecked, Oh, 99 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 1: you're saying, just like even jealousy. Yeah, but I mean 100 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 1: your ego can get real, real big, and it can 101 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: cause you. It can cause you to have harm. Check 102 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 1: it to your to your to yourself. So if you 103 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: don't check it, how can you go up egos unchecked emotion? 104 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 1: Check emotion. That's basically I don't think you don't learn. 105 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: You don't learn your ego. You know what I'm saying. 106 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 1: You might learn how to be arrogant or confident or 107 00:06:58,320 --> 00:07:00,080 Speaker 1: you like, those are words that you learned. But I 108 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: feel like we all how to control. You have an ego, 109 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: but you're not how to control it. I don't know 110 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: how to control it. That's why it come down to 111 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: you got to control the ego and don't let the 112 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: ego control you because it can't be detrimental. So another word, 113 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 1: another powerful word, right, Um, that could be very detrimental 114 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: to someone. And that's not the word that can from uh, greed, greed. 115 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Let's get let's greed. Why it 116 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: is greed detrimental to a person? Um, Greed can be 117 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: detrimental because when normally, when you greedy, you go out 118 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: of your way to get extra or or to do more. 119 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 1: And I feel like that is a way to put 120 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: yourself in a bad situation, and a lot of times 121 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: in the process you hurt others or yourself. What about 122 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: the greed as nigga with the ego, Well, then all 123 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: of that going on. If you got greed ego, all 124 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 1: that going on then. But in the Urban Dictionary, the 125 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: urban definition of grade, simply put, is the root of 126 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: all evil. That's the urban diction the dictionary, greed is 127 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:32,439 Speaker 1: the root of all evil. I can't think of It's 128 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: an intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth, power 129 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: or food. It's like you're never satisfied. Oh, so, is 130 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 1: there any instance we just asked us about ego? Is 131 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: there any instance where greed can be good? And greed 132 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,760 Speaker 1: ever be good? We just said that ego can be 133 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:57,319 Speaker 1: necessary a little bit. I'm trying to think a good 134 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 1: instance of greed is when you're greedy for love or 135 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 1: greedy or like not not you're greedy for self love, 136 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: but you're greedy for like somebody love, your love, Well, 137 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 1: that can kind of be up turned into obsession, I guess. 138 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: And if you're greedy for love, I feel like you're 139 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: gonna take take take from whoever and not really give 140 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:29,199 Speaker 1: anything back in return. Yeah, if you're greedy for love, Yeah, 141 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: it could be greedy for love, Like I want this 142 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 1: person so bad and i want them to give me 143 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: all their attention, but I'm not really only give anything back. 144 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:40,719 Speaker 1: But but greed, greed has to have, like per the definition, 145 00:09:40,760 --> 00:09:42,760 Speaker 1: a little bit of selfishness in it. So if you're 146 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,559 Speaker 1: being selfish, yeah, I'm saying, if you be, But we're 147 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: trying to we're trying to talk about the instance where 148 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: greed can be good. That's that's I don't think. I 149 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: don't think there's anything we greed can be good. What's 150 00:09:52,440 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: the definition greedy? I'll put it up greed. Greed isn't 151 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: in showing an intense or selfish desire for something, especially wealth, 152 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: power or food. I don't think it's no good. Wealth 153 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:09,560 Speaker 1: power or food ain't no good, and greed I don't 154 00:10:09,559 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: think it's no good. Man. I can't see the only 155 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: time I could see, oh, maybe greed will be good 156 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: is let's say you decided to prioritize yourself and your 157 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 1: personal space and your personal well being, and you say, 158 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: I'm prioritizing me. I don't think that's being greedy. I 159 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: don't think that's greed. I just think that shifting focus, prioritizing. 160 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 1: But some people, some people call that selfish, greedy with 161 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: my time. I'm going to be greedy with my own 162 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,439 Speaker 1: time for myself. But is that really bad because you're 163 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: looking out for yourself. It depends on if you have 164 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: people that are looking that depend on you, because like 165 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: like say, if like say, if if a mother was 166 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:57,079 Speaker 1: she would then in turn neglect her kids. And even 167 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: though it's good to look out for yourself, but at 168 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: the same time, people looking are depending on you. Know, 169 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: you gotta did you that time up properly? We're not 170 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:17,599 Speaker 1: get big, but I think, but I think greed in 171 00:11:17,760 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 1: moderation is good because hear me out, hear me out. 172 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: I feel like greed and moderation is good because too 173 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: much great for anything is bad. But greed and moderation 174 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 1: to a certain point or to a certain extent is 175 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: actually motivation to push you to work harder to achieve 176 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,720 Speaker 1: whatever goals it is that you're trying to achieve. Like 177 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 1: just saying I think I think we did. We say 178 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:59,600 Speaker 1: the definition the regular All I know is it has selfishness, 179 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: showing an intense and selfish desire for something, especially wealth 180 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 1: or power. But know what I'm saying is greed in moderation. 181 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:12,719 Speaker 1: For like, let's just take a businessman, a realtor. He 182 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: has a greed for land. There's an ambition, I mean, 183 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 1: he has a has a passion. Ye, greed, greed is 184 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 1: m hard like let's just take that. That's why that 185 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: greed in moderation, there's no moderation is passion. It's passion 186 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,480 Speaker 1: or liking. Those words are you try to connect to 187 00:12:36,520 --> 00:12:39,199 Speaker 1: words that don't even go to get what I'm motion. 188 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 1: Once you greed, once you greedy, you already like you 189 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: already there. You can't be a little bit greedy. One thing, 190 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 1: one thing that comes along with greed to generally is 191 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:56,640 Speaker 1: getting that well for that power again, ing whatever you 192 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: want to get, it usually is at the expense of 193 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: other people's good. That's I think that there can't be 194 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,160 Speaker 1: any greed good with greed because you're usually sucking somebody 195 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: over to get to where you want to go. That's 196 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: the greed. Ill fuck anybody over to have all this money. 197 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:11,680 Speaker 1: I fuck anybody over to have all this money. You 198 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: see what I'm saying, And they ain't gonna never have enough, 199 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: right It will never be enough because I'm greed y, 200 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. No, I agree, I'm trying. 201 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of a way. Like with greed, 202 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:29,679 Speaker 1: I think greedy is like really one of the words 203 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,439 Speaker 1: that just all negative. Like there's there isn't a good 204 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:38,520 Speaker 1: connotation to greedy mm hmm. Like even even if like 205 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 1: you were talking about you were just talking about land 206 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: or like you know, if you're greedy with land, like 207 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 1: you're just it's really like if I say, one of 208 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:48,720 Speaker 1: the examples of food, if you're greedy with food, you're 209 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: not eating to satisfy yourself. You're you're eating and taking food. Yeah, 210 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 1: you want to just take it, you know, because I 211 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 1: want it. There's no reason behind it, there's no there's 212 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:03,480 Speaker 1: no pasification. Um, it's just I want the food. You 213 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 1: could give somebody else some of the food who might 214 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: be starving. Yeah, agreed, And nigga guy then eat what 215 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: he eat a whole bunch of ship. Nobody else to 216 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: have it. Yeah, yeah, like you don't wan't nobody to 217 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 1: have ship. You won't like how some of these corporations 218 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:21,520 Speaker 1: like that ain't no good out of that. They're throw 219 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:28,359 Speaker 1: away food. That's that's edibles, the homeless people. Exactly. Yeah, 220 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 1: so no good agreed ego can be necessary because we're 221 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: born with ego, we're not born with greed. But what 222 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 1: about another powerful word, which is jealousy. Jealousy may be subjective, 223 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: subjective how and greed isn't I agreed, ain't greed. Ain't greed. 224 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 1: Ain't greed. Ain't You can not make nothing right out 225 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 1: of greed. But you could be jealous. You could be 226 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: a jealous person and not help. Madison sent You be 227 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 1: jeal that your your your brother got rid bike and 228 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: you want the blue. That don't mean that you hate 229 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: your bro and emotionally can't be missing. But that is 230 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 1: what is eventually gonna turn into what I'm saying. But 231 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: jealous not of you, but jealousy can. Yeah, you know 232 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:17,720 Speaker 1: how to walk your bike fast me, so I might. 233 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 1: It might motivate Yeah, jealousy condemn them, motivate you. Okay, 234 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: So that's emotions that plays. What's what's the root of jealousy. 235 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: Let's get the definition jealous feeling or showing envy of 236 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:41,960 Speaker 1: someone you grew jealous this person is success. There's nothing 237 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: good about envy. You write about that, Clau Those everything 238 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 1: we're talking about that bad first one ego, ego, that's 239 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: the emotion. Yeah, that's an emotion. An ego is a thing, 240 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 1: egotistical as the state. Being egotistical as the state. Ego 241 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: is actually like you, it's a nown okay. And greed 242 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: greed is that action or being greedy? That's a choice. Yeah, yeah, 243 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 1: you ain't born with greed. You're not greed it now 244 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: and also great as a thing. Oh, let's trick. What 245 00:16:17,560 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: about somebody? What is that man? Should greed? Is it 246 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: nown bro yea we can't be only big guessing jade 247 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 1: is correct? Greed now yeah, now I learned how this 248 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: in literature. I know it for a fact. But so 249 00:16:40,760 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: how do they all tie together? Like because we hear 250 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: these words all the time. We greed sometimes fuels greed 251 00:16:50,840 --> 00:16:59,080 Speaker 1: and yeah, fuels greed. And when you're greedy and no 252 00:16:59,200 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 1: agree you that's why I don't give a fun. But now, 253 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,679 Speaker 1: when you have a big ego that makes you feel 254 00:17:10,760 --> 00:17:15,200 Speaker 1: like that makes that makes you like feel like you 255 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,399 Speaker 1: need everything and like nobody else deserves to have anything 256 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 1: because you're the best of whatever it is that you're 257 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: trying to be or whatever what I'm going to jump 258 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:35,639 Speaker 1: over and then and then the way the greed ties 259 00:17:35,680 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 1: into jealousy is when a greedy person isn't able to 260 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 1: take everything and somebody else gets a piece of what 261 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:48,080 Speaker 1: they're trying to get the whole of, then they become 262 00:17:48,160 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: jealous of that person, like how are they able to 263 00:17:50,560 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 1: get a piece of this? And I don't have all 264 00:17:52,080 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 1: of it? Type ship that the wholesome, the whole it 265 00:18:00,440 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: shut up. My ego would have slapped the funk. I 266 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 1: have checked my emotions. Yeah, I'm glad that you're cognizant 267 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: and you thought about that ship, because I would have 268 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 1: slapped the fun. I have been ameliorated. You know we're 269 00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:20,399 Speaker 1: gonna use all these words to dig right now? Yeah, 270 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 1: because my hand was gonna permeate your faith. Okay, alright, 271 00:18:26,280 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 1: I like that. Good. So, but I feel this jealousy. 272 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: What would I do without y'all? Man? I don't know, Man, 273 00:18:44,080 --> 00:18:46,760 Speaker 1: my life would be so boring? So what what? So? 274 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 1: So so let's let's uh, I don't know, keeping the trashes? 275 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:56,960 Speaker 1: So ego? Are we keeping in a trashing? I still 276 00:18:57,040 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 1: have an ego when it comes to a certain things. 277 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:02,159 Speaker 1: I would like to my ego completely, but I'm not 278 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:07,880 Speaker 1: completely there, want trash your ego completely though you don't 279 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: know what you want to go for anything? Right, No, 280 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: that's what I was. That's what we're saying. I feel 281 00:19:11,600 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: like in this industry, in an entertainment industry, you gotta 282 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: have ego. Everybody has an ego in Entertainmentusty, you don't 283 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: let me make it right, I'm saying everybody else to. Yeah, 284 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,760 Speaker 1: I'm saying it's everybody. People to be different sizes, but 285 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: I'm saying you have to have a bit of one. 286 00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: You have to have some type of an ego to 287 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,680 Speaker 1: be successful, have to be an asshole about it because 288 00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: you're born with it. So I don't think you can't 289 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 1: get Yeah, you're born with the ego. Yeah, how do 290 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:43,720 Speaker 1: you have an ego? You agree with that? Like I said, 291 00:19:43,720 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: I think it can grow it. Right, it's a fact. 292 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:52,919 Speaker 1: If you're born with emotion, you're born with ego. Okay, 293 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:58,880 Speaker 1: same family, So ego, don't trash it. We're gonna keep ego. 294 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 1: We gotta keep all the rest of that. You can 295 00:20:03,320 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 1: definitely don't trash. Keep keep it on the fence, keep 296 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: keep it, keep it to the side of the case. Right. 297 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: Let let the ego, know you will put it in 298 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: the trash. Okay, okay, So if we're keeping ego and 299 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 1: we're keeping we putting greed to the side of the trash, 300 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,200 Speaker 1: greed in the trash, freeders in the trash. I don't 301 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,400 Speaker 1: want to be greedy. Jealousy, we gotta got them burn 302 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: it up, namely because the envy and hate. Yeah, yeah, 303 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,959 Speaker 1: so you throw away jealousy. Don't need to be jealous. 304 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: You should never be jealous. Um. Some people would take 305 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:49,000 Speaker 1: jealous jealousy to the extreme of saying some people, I 306 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: don't know, y'all talk about this because women tend to 307 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 1: joke about the jealous word a little bore. I think 308 00:20:54,280 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 1: it's a joke, But I'm so I don't talk about that. 309 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,639 Speaker 1: I don't play that. All three of those. Everybody to 310 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 1: have a little bit of any of each one of 311 00:21:04,400 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: those words in life. Life you feel like there's certain 312 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: things I was a little I was fool greedy for sure. 313 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: You thinking that you got feel fool about make you 314 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:22,960 Speaker 1: jealous for sure. Jealousy is like a natural emotion that's 315 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:27,240 Speaker 1: like human interest. I don't think I got a jealous 316 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: side of me. YEA, if somebody drive by when I 317 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:31,680 Speaker 1: was younger in a nice car and I was like, 318 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: damn that car harm and I want that car. It 319 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,960 Speaker 1: ain't like but not jealousy, So what is? But I 320 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: guess jealousy is a weak emotion, right, Definitely, jealousy becomes 321 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 1: like jealousy is the lady of a nigger? For real? 322 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: Why them not me? You know that? Yeah, they get ready? 323 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: But could you you could be jealous that the same 324 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 1: things your your girl want to want to go out 325 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 1: with a friend and you asked out. That could make 326 00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,400 Speaker 1: you jealous the lady of a nigger what I'm saying, 327 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 1: but that ship can make you jealous, like really or disappointed? 328 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,919 Speaker 1: Which one is it? Jealousy? Girl? That's what say. Females, 329 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 1: y'all can chime in from the back. Don't you'll joke 330 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,679 Speaker 1: about the jealous ship, like, girl, I'm jealous of your hair. 331 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:22,480 Speaker 1: I'm jealous that your hair do this? And j yeah, 332 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't play that ship that's jealous because 333 00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 1: that's really like, that's like something that's like some some 334 00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:35,120 Speaker 1: some slick hate and ship from a farm women hating them. Yes, yes, 335 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: that's all. Ye, Like I think that every woman had 336 00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 1: some type of jealousy, right, but you can be jealous 337 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:45,600 Speaker 1: of somebody and it not be you can't, that's not 338 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: by definition. Its hold let's say Jess I said, women, 339 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:59,120 Speaker 1: women hold your knitting. Makeup is like emotion, so it's 340 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 1: only right that got the jellous side. Yeah, that's why 341 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: I said, for me, it's a week. What's kind of emotion? 342 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 1: I don't I don't even know. Yeah, jealousy or some 343 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 1: men got it like you take for example, like like okay, 344 00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: let's say one of your friends is getting married. You 345 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 1: could be like, I'm jealous and getting back. I don't 346 00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: mean it, no, no, no no, but if you're saying 347 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: you could be. If you're saying if a bitch. If 348 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 1: I'm getting married and a bench that's supposed to be 349 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 1: my friend told me that she was jealous and I'm 350 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:32,960 Speaker 1: getting married, I'm gonna look at this whole like, what 351 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,560 Speaker 1: are you like? What is it like what she said 352 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 1: she's saying, She's saying basically like like that's a form 353 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 1: of saying I'm proud of you, because I don't trying 354 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,360 Speaker 1: to say I get young girls. I swear to god, 355 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:49,880 Speaker 1: I don't have a jealous I'm a lot of things 356 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 1: and I'm not a hair and I'm never jealous of nobody. 357 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from. Really, yeah, that what 358 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: you're trying to say, and I'll tell him what time, 359 00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: my girl, I'm jealousy. I'm jealous that you want this 360 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 1: dump ass the relationship. I don't say. I don't know. 361 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: I guess, I guess like a congratulation if you if 362 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,640 Speaker 1: you go tell it's like this bitch that got mad, 363 00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 1: that's jealousy. So you're telling her. Yeah, I don't know, 364 00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: Like I guess, I guess I'm burnt out on bitches, 365 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: and I don't. I haven't been through too much ship 366 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: with bitches to even start to try to play like that. 367 00:24:25,800 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 1: Like that has set me on. What's she doing is 368 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,000 Speaker 1: she's using it as slang. Yes, it's slang. Let's use 369 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 1: just like one woman call another woman. Women call other 370 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,479 Speaker 1: women bitches all the time and all that ship. It's slang. 371 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: I don't think it's like, yeah, calling me a bitch 372 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:43,280 Speaker 1: is a slang. But saying that you're jealous of something 373 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:48,239 Speaker 1: that I had not us I'm not jealous for How 374 00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: do I know that? I'm just I would have thought 375 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,320 Speaker 1: him to that point that you weren't. But now that 376 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 1: you're saying it out your mouth as a joke, you 377 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:56,680 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I didn't because they're like you 378 00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,199 Speaker 1: coming up with the Jay's on when you pull up, 379 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,000 Speaker 1: jut like them be so I wish i'll they'd gotten 380 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 1: the first. You know, I ain't hate No you a 381 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,399 Speaker 1: no type of way. No, No, that's you though, Like 382 00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:04,879 Speaker 1: I don't know, that's what I said. So what if 383 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 1: how she can't feel like that about one of her 384 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:10,280 Speaker 1: friends and that's play with her friends like that. Just 385 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: don't play with me like that. What I'm saying, I 386 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,880 Speaker 1: actually got to be somebody who comfortable with. But that's 387 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,199 Speaker 1: a friend. But I actually feel like you're in my heart. 388 00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 1: Like people, how you get the Jay first? I had them? No, 389 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: but but I know, like like you get what I'm saying. 390 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: I don't get what you're saying, but you take me. 391 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:29,080 Speaker 1: I can't use you as an example. It's the scream 392 00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 1: like damn Jay, you got the mother for the shirt. 393 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm a context and the relationship hating the certain things 394 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 1: I say to certain people that I won't say to 395 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,800 Speaker 1: certain people. Yeah, because I don't like and I and 396 00:25:39,920 --> 00:25:43,240 Speaker 1: it could be because of my past experiences with bitches, 397 00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,400 Speaker 1: Like that's why I don't funk with bitches. But it's 398 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: just like, don't don't don't say no ship like that 399 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:51,760 Speaker 1: to me because I'm gonna take it the wrong way. Yeah, Like, 400 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: I don't do that. Don't do that. That's the woman. 401 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: If you're really justalous of a person and you're not 402 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,440 Speaker 1: gonna tell him, you're not gonna tell just this, so 403 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 1: the woman. Some people do though. Some people do some 404 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:08,320 Speaker 1: people do you got some people do that. That's got 405 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: them trolling in your truth. That's what that is. You know, 406 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,360 Speaker 1: when you do that to a person, sometimes you could 407 00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 1: be hating for real. Yeah, and I don't play like that. 408 00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 1: I don't play like that at all. But you know, yeah, 409 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 1: like I'm munching it on face, like start playing with 410 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 1: me for real? Like, Jay, you come here all the 411 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: time for shoes that I ain't got. I don't think 412 00:26:34,000 --> 00:26:35,720 Speaker 1: I'll come and be like I'm jealous. You got some 413 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: shoes that ain't he being like jealous? Business you got 414 00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 1: shoes I ain't gotten. It's contact, it's content. But but 415 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 1: you know, but she said, she's saying, basically, I know 416 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,280 Speaker 1: your relationships, So it depends on. That's what you're called 417 00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: context and relationships subject. It depends on who it is. Yeah, 418 00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: like it's gone already, know you like already sniff some 419 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: sh on you. But I think, I think, I think, 420 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 1: I think I get you a say that, I get 421 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:11,440 Speaker 1: you a pell life, right, Yeah, ego, that's what's keeping 422 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,360 Speaker 1: her from harling herself to understand where she's coming from. 423 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 1: So that's why I said it's a it's a unchecked 424 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 1: what's called emotion. Yeah, and you go all the way back. Yeah, 425 00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,640 Speaker 1: I'm over bit. Yeah, So that's gonna keep her from 426 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 1: understanding that you're saying, whoever say something to us, she 427 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 1: just over that ship? Yeah no, no, no, but yeah, yeah, 428 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 1: exactly exactly. We can see it like that because we 429 00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,520 Speaker 1: ain't what she oh what ship doesn't happen to her 430 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 1: that makes her feel that way, So we can be like, 431 00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,680 Speaker 1: I see you just saying like you're telling me you 432 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: like these shoes or mother tell you like bank, I 433 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,720 Speaker 1: see you can lose weight, but how then you do it? 434 00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:51,639 Speaker 1: But if she made me feel like I'm jealous that 435 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,360 Speaker 1: I can't do that ship, that's that's to me. That's 436 00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 1: a compliment you telling me I can do something that 437 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:01,000 Speaker 1: you can't do that but you know type, but your 438 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 1: hominism is with allowing you to see it from both sides. Yeah, yeah, 439 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 1: so Jay have an unchecked emotion and unchecked ego. Checked 440 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,680 Speaker 1: that ship. Now, I just got PTSD when it comes 441 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 1: to bitches like you know what I'm saying, bouncing and 442 00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 1: making me scared. Now I'll stay as still at something girls, 443 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: because like ship that I've been through, like my whole 444 00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 1: life WITHOUD was like I just I when when certain 445 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 1: people say certain ship or just like Black said, if 446 00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 1: I didn't already sniffed something on you and I already 447 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: feel like your energy is weird or something like that, 448 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 1: and you say something like that to me, it's gonna 449 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,000 Speaker 1: be a problem period. And it's not. It ain't got 450 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 1: nothing to do with nothing else other than the fact that, 451 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,600 Speaker 1: like I feel like you're not coming from the correct place, 452 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 1: like saying some ship like that to me. Do you 453 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:02,840 Speaker 1: think it's somewhat of a defense mechanism because you think 454 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: that I'm just saying this obviously what you think I'm saying. 455 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:09,360 Speaker 1: You think that maybe because we all do it and 456 00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: not know I've done it. I've been in therapy, But 457 00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: you think you might be overreacting if that happened. It's 458 00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 1: a possibility. It's a possibility, but it's a strong going 459 00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 1: to allow you to be like, I don't give a 460 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 1: fucking I'm over reacting or not right. But but my my, 461 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: because I don't have been that way with my ego. 462 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: Like that's why ain't really MP on that point, because 463 00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 1: I don't give a funk once. I don't give a 464 00:29:32,800 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 1: funk once, I don't roach it. Fuck it if I'm 465 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 1: wrong or if I'm right, it's fucking it can demanage growth. 466 00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 1: They can keep you from growing, exactly. I know I'm saying. 467 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 1: That's why I just sat back and just listen to it, 468 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: because I ain't even see and try to act like 469 00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: my ego ain't sucked up. Yeah, you know what I'm saying, 470 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: because I know it's situation and I want to be like, 471 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:53,440 Speaker 1: you know what, man hitting the gas suck don't feel 472 00:29:53,520 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 1: like that no more. But then I'll just be like 473 00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: they ain't calm me. We're not got big ego and pride. 474 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: Oh that's a good to go together, for sure. I 475 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 1: mean one is the root of the other. Pride is 476 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 1: the root of it. You go for sure, but it's so. 477 00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 1: I think again, it's like, what is your ultimate goal? Like, 478 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 1: is everybody's ultimate goal in here? To be a true piece? 479 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: Is it? You could say? No, yours is so? And 480 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,920 Speaker 1: I gotta understand this. Everybody gotta understand this. Like some 481 00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 1: of these emotions and some of this ship that we 482 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: have inside of us that we was taught, We're gonna 483 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: have to eliminate them or or or minimize them to 484 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: get closer to the true piece. Definitely, you know what 485 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, that's just it. He I think you 486 00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: can if that's your goal. I think you can accomplish 487 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,480 Speaker 1: what you want to accomplish if that's truly your goal. 488 00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: But it's gonna take, just like anything else is gonna 489 00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 1: take sacrifice. Oh that wake up jumping and stuff. He's 490 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:10,920 Speaker 1: starting growling or something. I've been up since five man 491 00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:20,800 Speaker 1: with ship checking whatever the word is a snaring about 492 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 1: we talk about your snaring and it is a narc 493 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 1: ealyptic greeting. How am I hearing all these words? And 494 00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 1: once because you treat your backlash bulls. Get this thing 495 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: out of here? Shot a snoring anyway? So seriously, like, 496 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 1: I think that if you just like just like you 497 00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 1: want to accomplish, oh, getting fit or being the biggest wrapper, 498 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 1: just like you want to accomplish getting fit, being the 499 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 1: biggest rapper, getting rich or whatever. We all know that 500 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:04,600 Speaker 1: come with sacrifice. So we're willing the sacrifice to get rich, 501 00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,760 Speaker 1: but we gotta be willing to sacrifice to be a 502 00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 1: piece too. Facts. You know what I'm saying. If that's 503 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 1: what we really won't and it's gonna come with definitely 504 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: having to check that ego to a minimum. Man said 505 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 1: the right thing. You want to completely get rid of it. 506 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: I don't think none of us got a problem with 507 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,479 Speaker 1: greed or jealousy. Uh but ship, we all got our 508 00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 1: different ship. Okay, So let me ask all this then, 509 00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 1: So when it comes to working on or trying to 510 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 1: tame or check those unchecked emotions, what's the first step? 511 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 1: Conscious decision? Like anything decision right here to say, conscious decision, 512 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,960 Speaker 1: that's always the first step. I am not going to 513 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:57,160 Speaker 1: do this, no modec it's just in your head. You 514 00:32:57,320 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: made it. You gotta go. You gotta the more you 515 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,239 Speaker 1: acting on it, like man, I ain't drinking, the more 516 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,400 Speaker 1: now you got to know it's wrong too, because if 517 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: you're okay, with being the greedy. That's the part of 518 00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,560 Speaker 1: the conscious decision. I'm not doing this no more like it. 519 00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: It hits you like, man, I'm gonna work out like 520 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 1: this and this is Yeah, you know what I'm saying, 521 00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 1: And ground big didn't need to sleep like oh the 522 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,440 Speaker 1: Big homies and fall asleep to be comfortable at the 523 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 1: house CBD. We got being bags the CBD. Conscious decision, bro, Like, 524 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: I mean, this is a result of conscious decision, you 525 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,200 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, Man, this is we're going 526 00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:55,959 Speaker 1: to do this ship. You know what I'm saying. When 527 00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: you're looking back, We're going to do this. It's a 528 00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,040 Speaker 1: conscious decision. Everybody has the power to do if you 529 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,400 Speaker 1: want to do it, you can't be forced in doing it. 530 00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: Though trying to force somebody into doing it never works out. 531 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,320 Speaker 1: But the conscious decision is the moment where you're like, 532 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,520 Speaker 1: I don't gonna do this. And the powerful thing about 533 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:14,160 Speaker 1: that ship is usually when you make that conscious decision 534 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: and put your complete mind to it, you accomplish this 535 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 1: ship or something close to it. Yeah, you know what 536 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 1: I'm saying, though, like all of my changes has come 537 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 1: from within, Let start with yourself. For sure. You gotta 538 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 1: want to do it. Yeah, you gotta want to do it. Yeah, 539 00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: you gotta think all of the stuff from right here. 540 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,320 Speaker 1: So he's saying a consciouency and all of the stuff 541 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,399 Speaker 1: from here. Okay, but let me ask you a question. 542 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,160 Speaker 1: Let me ask you another question. So, since everything starts 543 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,520 Speaker 1: from here, and you know, like you have to change 544 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,839 Speaker 1: yourself to be able to get to whatever point, when 545 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:51,960 Speaker 1: you notice some of the similar characteristics and the people 546 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:53,640 Speaker 1: that are close to you and the people that you 547 00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 1: love that you're trying to change, do you project your 548 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,880 Speaker 1: self change onto them and try to help them change 549 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:06,520 Speaker 1: like the thing the same things that you know that 550 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: you are wrong, that like is wrong within you, and 551 00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 1: you can see how they receive conscious conversation. You can't 552 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,799 Speaker 1: be mad at them. If they can't take a person, 553 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 1: we're gonna make you mad. If you're taking a person, Yeah, 554 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,480 Speaker 1: you got every about to beat them. But if you 555 00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: found a couple of people that you probably can change 556 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,320 Speaker 1: and then inflict everything that you can on them. But 557 00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: if they don't change, hey, you can't true, yeah, and 558 00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 1: you can't really look at them different and you might 559 00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: be mad. You just gotta just the way you deal 560 00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 1: with them yeah, yeah, okay, right, conscious conversation which could 561 00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:41,719 Speaker 1: lead to them making a conscious decision or not. But 562 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 1: you can't force nobody to ship. Yeah, you're right, so, oh, 563 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:53,160 Speaker 1: don't agree in trash. Throw the jealousy in the trash. Yeah, 564 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 1: hold on a little bit to your ego and make 565 00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: the conscious decision to do what you want to do 566 00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,560 Speaker 1: when you decide to do it, big fact, you know 567 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:06,279 Speaker 1: what I mean, Big facts, less words? Cod that up 568 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 1: out of here. Can jealousy be converted into a positive thing? Though, 569 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:15,359 Speaker 1: like we already said, I can. I'm when I'm when 570 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,800 Speaker 1: I'm talking how jealous of the motherfucker that did inspire you? 571 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,440 Speaker 1: Jealous of motivation? You don't think so? No, jealousy of 572 00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:26,440 Speaker 1: motivation I think don't work yet, but starts from a 573 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 1: negative place. Some some by the problem can inspire you, 574 00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,319 Speaker 1: but you cannot get that from from them being what's 575 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 1: col jealousy? Inspirational motivation? But jealously I'm trying Now, you're right, 576 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,480 Speaker 1: I feel what you're trying to say, because I'm trying 577 00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 1: to think that too. But that ain't really jealous that 578 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,759 Speaker 1: I'm saying, like like really admired the person. Yeah, that's 579 00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 1: really admiration, inspiration. Next you want to be like, that's 580 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: not jealous inspiration, that's exactly inspiring. Admiration, inspiration and motivation 581 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 1: are great. Thing is to feel jealousy and envy and 582 00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 1: jealous to a negative exactly if you can't find no 583 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:13,200 Speaker 1: positive in that ship. Yeah, you're right, I get what 584 00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,399 Speaker 1: he thought. Are you trying to say of thout thinking that? Yeah, 585 00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:17,880 Speaker 1: I'm saying because if I'm because I think being justice 586 00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:20,439 Speaker 1: want what the next person want. That's what I thought 587 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 1: the definition of justice would like, I want what you got, 588 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:32,000 Speaker 1: envy what you have. It's a different that's different I want. 589 00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:35,600 Speaker 1: I would like a wife. It's different than I want 590 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 1: your wife. You know what I'm saying. But sure it's 591 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 1: completely differ. So one and a wife is fine, But 592 00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,320 Speaker 1: if somebody wants your wife, then that's when it becomes 593 00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,439 Speaker 1: jealousy and envy. And that time I unders thinking about 594 00:37:45,480 --> 00:37:48,800 Speaker 1: jealousy is in terms of like somebody else's position, like 595 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,960 Speaker 1: if I'm if I'm an upcoming rapper and I see 596 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:55,320 Speaker 1: a little baby on TV, or you're not jealous, I 597 00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: thought you trying to Yeah that's what I'm thinking. No, 598 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,080 Speaker 1: he said, you said jealousy when you look at that 599 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:09,719 Speaker 1: a little baby on TV? Yeah, why him and not meat? Exactly? 600 00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:11,759 Speaker 1: You know you feel a little baby. I'm supposed to 601 00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:16,720 Speaker 1: be up there jealously not not not with him. Yeah, okay, 602 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,439 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be just like a little baby in five 603 00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:21,919 Speaker 1: years or like that. Yeah, that wasn't saying like, yeah, 604 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:26,120 Speaker 1: yeah exactly, that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, I don't think 605 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 1: you find good out of jealous You can't, yeah, because 606 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,520 Speaker 1: it's all it's in the same family with envy and hatreds. 607 00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 1: So I don't know, it's like we trying to use 608 00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,600 Speaker 1: words for ship that they don't fit with because it's 609 00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:41,760 Speaker 1: just like, you know what I'm saying, I like jealousy, 610 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: that's the word. Yeah, like, yeah, basically the same thing, 611 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:50,000 Speaker 1: but but one means positive, want me to jealous jeous 612 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 1: motivation not what it is motivating. They're not They're not 613 00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:01,800 Speaker 1: in the same motivating you talking about. You talk about correlation, 614 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 1: you talk about the words correlate. People don't take let's correlate, 615 00:39:05,760 --> 00:39:12,520 Speaker 1: correlate jealous for me, you just jealous attention that I get, yeah, 616 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:20,560 Speaker 1: because I'm just being myself, but not its siously synonym 617 00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:26,920 Speaker 1: means the same antony yeah, yeah. A synonym would be 618 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:33,799 Speaker 1: like great and fantastic, and antonym would be like yeah 619 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: ant fruits and vegetables, tomato, potatoes, great job, pass well 620 00:39:45,239 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: to put you on the phone. Hey, check us out 621 00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,640 Speaker 1: at Triple W dot Big Facts pod dot com. It's 622 00:39:51,640 --> 00:40:00,600 Speaker 1: another Big Facts Friday salute. Exactly Facts don't catch this mess.