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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. It's Monday, Monday, Monday,

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Speaker 2: Monday Sunday.

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Speaker 3: It's the best Monday ever because there's so much talk about.

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Speaker 4: Period.

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Speaker 2: Period that was just like, how many people message you

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Speaker 2: and thought that that weird block of silence last week?

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Speaker 2: They were like, I thought my phone died. I thought

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Speaker 2: it froze.

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Speaker 3: I will say, the living really took off, really took.

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Speaker 4: Off, started a movement.

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Speaker 3: It started a movement, and you know I took that

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Speaker 3: movement into my weekend and I really was living ah okay.

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Speaker 2: But you know it was kind of held against you

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Speaker 2: when you want to do the TikTok with me, because

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Speaker 2: the amount of people that were like Tanya is not

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Speaker 2: living let.

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Speaker 3: Me, living with an e does not equal tiktoking. But

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Speaker 3: I will say, I actually do want to do it

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Speaker 3: with you, because living us.

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Speaker 5: Is about supporting your friends and going along with the

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Speaker 5: fun ideas other people have.

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Speaker 2: You know what upset me the most about that whole

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Speaker 2: thing wasn't even that she wanted.

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Speaker 4: To do the TikTok of me.

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Speaker 6: The tone.

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Speaker 2: The tone was upsetting, but also What was upsetting is

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Speaker 2: that afterwards, because I was like, oh my gosh, people

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Speaker 2: are upset with you, like they're really disappointed you're not

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Speaker 2: doing this with me, but you always dance with Brad

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Speaker 2: like all this stuff.

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Speaker 4: And then she was like, oh.

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Speaker 2: My gosh, I don't like how all the Beccas side

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Speaker 2: with you and then all the tania side with me.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't know, I think a

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Speaker 2: lot of these people actually are Tanya's and they're upset,

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Speaker 2: they're feeling hurt by you.

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Speaker 3: I got a couple of dms from some Becca's and

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Speaker 3: they were on my side with it, so you know, yeah.

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Speaker 2: So that they're saying it wasn't all you tried to separate,

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Speaker 2: you tried to start a divide.

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Speaker 3: Because I realized in your DMS you get the backup

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Speaker 3: of like yeah yeah yeah, and then my DMS I

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Speaker 3: get the backup of like.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 6: But the two do not cross, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah no, they didn't not in that.

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Speaker 6: Situation, but I do want to do that TikTok with you.

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Speaker 4: Interesting is that because you saw Joe Jonas do it?

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Speaker 3: No, but yes kind of yeah, I realized how much

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Speaker 3: easier it is than I thought, like, I think I

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Speaker 3: can learn it pretty quickly, and I've been learning.

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Speaker 6: It for you. TikTok dancing, I've been learning it for you.

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Speaker 2: Are not meant to be hard because like there's supposed

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Speaker 2: to be something that everyone can participate in, So it's

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Speaker 2: not just like professional dancers can do it. Some people

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Speaker 2: look better doing it, some people look a little more

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Speaker 2: crisp when they do it.

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Speaker 6: But well, the learning it, thank you.

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Speaker 4: I can't wait to see it, see it in action.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so we're gonna do it together at some point.

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Speaker 4: Great, I can't wait.

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Speaker 3: I silly to practice the Lord, but I do want

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Speaker 3: to support the song because I love the song.

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Speaker 2: The song is so fun, I say Balenciases as if

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Speaker 2: it's a real word.

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Speaker 4: Yea, so good. So you took notes what?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So on my path to Livan this weekend, and.

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Speaker 6: I have a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 3: First of all, I want to talk about because this

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Speaker 3: isn't much of a topic.

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Speaker 6: But I didn't escape room on Friday night.

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Speaker 4: Oh I haven't done one of those.

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Speaker 3: And there was like these red stars that were like

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Speaker 3: on the stuff in the room, and they like explained

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Speaker 3: and he was like, you guys are gonna see red

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Speaker 3: stars everywhere. And I was like, oh, you know, this

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Speaker 3: is so significant. He was with me and we were

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Speaker 3: all like what does it mean? And they were like,

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Speaker 3: they mean absolutely nothing. Don't think anything into it. I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh, this feels so dark.

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Speaker 4: Not the significance you were looking for.

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Speaker 6: Correct. Correct.

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Speaker 3: But so my Friday night was like super fun. I

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Speaker 3: got really drunk, I broke a nail, I was really hungover.

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Speaker 3: And so Saturday I enjoyed some pigs in a blanket

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Speaker 3: And let me tell you, no finer of a delicacy.

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Speaker 3: Where have those been on myn Wow.

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Speaker 5: I'm surprised to hear you say this because you're so

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Speaker 5: clean all the time. But I am one hundred percent

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Speaker 5: with you on those.

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Speaker 2: Same They're underappreciated, they don't They're not talked about enough.

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Speaker 3: Not talked about at all, Like I've never I don't

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Speaker 3: even know if I've ever had a pig in a blanket.

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Speaker 4: Surely at least in your college day.

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Speaker 6: In my college days, I could two hundred of those.

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Speaker 3: I think we polished off the plate at this that

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Speaker 3: this party that we were at because we were both

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Speaker 3: so hungover and I was just like dipping those and

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Speaker 3: ketchup and muscle was all I needed.

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Speaker 2: And let me tell you, if you have not had

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Speaker 2: the pigs in a blanket from Dave and Busters.

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Speaker 4: Those are it.

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Speaker 2: They have like this salty seasoning on the outside of

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Speaker 2: the bread and.

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Speaker 6: That's what these like.

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Speaker 3: They were everything but the bagel season around.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, but it was so good.

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Speaker 3: And I went on a little rant on my Instagram

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Speaker 3: about it, and so many people were like, wow, Becca

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Speaker 3: would really appreciate this, and I was like, sure enough,

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Speaker 3: she has responded and she does.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for talking about the subject. It's not talked

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Speaker 2: about enough. And I it brought back a memory when

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Speaker 2: we were like The Bachelor, when they had roast ceremony nights.

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Speaker 2: They put out like catered food and you know they

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Speaker 2: have like little snacks and stuff, and I would be

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Speaker 2: like hovering over the pigs in a blanket plate because

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Speaker 2: they would go so fast and if you didn't get

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Speaker 2: in quick, they were gone.

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Speaker 4: They're always snatched up. I never know about it.

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Speaker 6: I never knew. This is a whole new world.

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Speaker 3: So I want to figure out a way to make

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Speaker 3: it my new hobby.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean or what does that look like?

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Speaker 6: I don't know, but like.

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Speaker 3: Is your new hobby, Like no, just just discovering the

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Speaker 3: world of pigs in a blanket, like you know, different.

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Speaker 2: Like the variety, like how they're made.

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Speaker 6: You get them, you know, like make your own. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: maybe make my own.

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Speaker 3: I'm cooking a lot this week, so you know, you

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Speaker 6: Cooking.

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Speaker 2: You're Tanya was a cooking show now.

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Speaker 3: But I'm really trying to kind of get back into

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Speaker 3: my like routine of you know how I was very

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Speaker 3: pre pandy. I was very like buttoned up, and I'd

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Speaker 3: always make my food the night before. And I feel

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Speaker 3: like reel it back in.

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Speaker 2: I kind of like off track Tanya a little bit,

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Speaker 2: Like she's a little chaotic and there's something like nice

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Speaker 2: about it. But I understand, like for your sanity, maybe

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Speaker 2: you need to balance it out a little bit.

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Speaker 6: On the weekends. But it's so funny.

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Speaker 3: So I'm eating the pigs in a blanket and I

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Speaker 3: at this birthday party with like all of Robby's family,

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Speaker 3: and I have just like mustard stains all over like

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Speaker 6: Blazer and it's like in my hair.

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Speaker 3: And he was like, you were chowing down, Like how

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Speaker 2: It's like, did y'all see the girl over at the

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Speaker 2: Pigs in a Blanket station?

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Speaker 4: She didn't breathe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh god, it was so good though, So uh

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Speaker 3: just really wanted to share my admiration for that.

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Speaker 4: Well, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like I said, I don't know if it's

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Speaker 3: It's not how delicious is Nobody has recommended those to

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Speaker 2: Maybe they're not talked about because they're always the first

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Speaker 6: Don't get try. They don't even get a chance to try.

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Speaker 3: Our next live show, we should have pigs in a

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Speaker 3: blanket Oh yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Like people can just snatch up a pigs and blanket

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Speaker 2: on the way in like.

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Speaker 6: Popcorn, like in a little popcorn bag.

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Speaker 7: You guys go out with a basket and thrown out

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Speaker 7: to the audience like you do even better.

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Speaker 2: I would be kind of upset though, if I just

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you'd be like, oh, grease.

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Speaker 2: Sting in't a waste of a pig and a blanket. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe we'll we'll figure out a way to do that.

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Speaker 4: I hope we have a live show soon.

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Speaker 6: That would be great.

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Speaker 2: Oh next, next, I wonder what she's going down her

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Speaker 2: notes page.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about the Avamax song because I

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Speaker 3: I swear, as Bob as my witness, it's gonna be

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Speaker 3: the song of the summer.

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Speaker 6: Oh wow, it is so good.

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Speaker 4: Could we get a taste of it from you? Does

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Speaker 4: it go?

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Speaker 3: You should take a little finger and just point it

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Speaker 3: in the mirror.

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Speaker 6: Baby, Maybe you know the problem?

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Speaker 4: Okay, you.

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Speaker 6: Should take a little finger and just point it in

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Speaker 6: the mirror. Baby, Maybe yo the problem?

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's my favorite song right now. It's so good.

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Speaker 7: It's called Maybe You're the Problem by MMAX.

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Speaker 8: It's so good.

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Speaker 6: It's so good.

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Speaker 3: So I just want to check back in at the

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Speaker 3: end of August, and I'm sure we'll do that.

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Speaker 6: Mark put it in the calendar.

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Speaker 8: Okay, checking back in if.

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Speaker 3: I know what, we'll be hitting that, hit it real

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Speaker 3: hard summer and check back in.

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Speaker 8: I feel like, as it was already, is the song

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Speaker 8: of summer.

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Speaker 6: You know, that can be your vote. That's fine.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's the song is the Spring, Like

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna associate that song with the Spring anywhere anytime soon.

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Speaker 2: I think his album is gonna come out, so I

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Speaker 2: think it might turn into you know, some something different.

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Speaker 3: What else do you have a pitch for a song

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Speaker 3: of the summer?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna go for the Girls by Hailey Kyoko.

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, this which also feels like it has a

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Speaker 3: little bias to it.

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Speaker 2: Which also drops May twentieth or May what's nineteenth?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the twenty frid Night of the nineteenth.

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Speaker 4: It's so fun. It goes some I saw the girls

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Speaker 3: That was last on my notes, aside from Mother's Day?

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Speaker 3: She's this weetest girl, and she gave it to me

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Speaker 6: And put it on my Instagram bio.

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Speaker 4: No, she didn't. Phoebe and I have.

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Speaker 2: guess is trying a cardiologist, but they don't have any

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 4: It's really stressful.

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Speaker 2: it's okay that she didn't give me a car. She's

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Speaker 3: So, oh, don't even I'm already bracing myself for sunny

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Speaker 4: Oh god, that day.

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Speaker 3: Everybody have eyes on me on May seventeenth, because I'm

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Speaker 8: Next week, next week, already next week.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, my little girl is not is not becoming

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Speaker 3: a total I already told Red Star. I was like,

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Speaker 6: Be good that day.

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Speaker 4: Yeah She's gonna be great.

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Speaker 3: I know, but it's a whole like twelve hours I

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Speaker 4: You probably wouldn't want photos of her in that position.

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Speaker 3: No text updates how she's doing. Just gone for twelve hours.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's gonna be great. Yeah, and then maybe she'll

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Speaker 2: Y'all have never I have never seen a female dog

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Speaker 4: I'm like, she is her mother's dog.

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Speaker 2: That's also an upsetting text that I get on the

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Speaker 2: regular with the video of Sunny humping is tell me

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Speaker 5: I'm like, Okay, so she inherited your gassliness at nail salons.

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Speaker 3: Yes, and she had inherited red Stars, chicken allergy, and.

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Speaker 6: Metabolism. They poop on the same schedule.

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Speaker 4: Oh wow. Okay, no, yeah, we're putting that out there. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 4: so too much? I don't know, it's never too much

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Speaker 2: Taylor Slitch released her version of This Love Taylor's version,

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Speaker 2: and for some reason, I don't I need to listen

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Speaker 4: It is so good. No they're not.

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Speaker 2: There's something different. No, they're I promise you they're not identical.

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Speaker 2: There is something different, and maybe it's the association with

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Speaker 2: this new movie. It's like in the trailer and that

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Speaker 2: amplified it. But that song takes me back to you.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 3: I was like this song, it honestly is quite triggering

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Speaker 1: Love is good, this love is bad, this love is alive,

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Speaker 1: back from the dead. These hands had to let it

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that was like took me out of the

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Speaker 2: podcast mode. It reminds It's so funny because I think

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Speaker 2: I heard it that I think I've talked about this before,

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Speaker 2: but on Chris's season, that's all we had was Taylor

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Speaker 2: Swift's nineteen eighty nine album. I had it in like

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Speaker 2: that was the song that I kept playing.

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Speaker 4: It was like so dramatic. I bee like, if it's

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Speaker 6: Yeah, said them free.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But do you think the re release of nineteen

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Speaker 4: What are your theories on that?

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Speaker 6: I do? I mean it's like what else is? Will

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Speaker 4: Speak now?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 3: But she's already released this one and Wildest Dreams Now.

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Speaker 3: Wildest Dreams came out her for that d Hall movie.

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Speaker 6: Remember.

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Speaker 5: I feel like, if she's gonna do an album, she's

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Speaker 5: different song from that album. If she's only had two

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think we're there, and I'm excited. Man, those

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Speaker 4: The Fault songs on nineteen eighty nine are going that's.

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Speaker 6: Gonna be insanity.

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Speaker 4: What does that mean?

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Speaker 6: Like insane?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, in soanity?

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Speaker 4: Oh in sonity?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like how do they get better than what we got?

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Speaker 3: Or actually no, they're probably worse because they didn't make

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Speaker 4: I don't know, though.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like art have to choose a certain amount,

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Speaker 2: and maybe they were, like she was just like it

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Speaker 6: Maybe they didn't fit into the story.

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Speaker 3: She's trying to tell, but now the story is okay

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Speaker 3: to tell.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she can do anything she will, because really.

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Speaker 3: We didn't get very many Harry style songs aside from Style,

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Speaker 4: Mm about him? You mean yes, correctly? Yeah, I would

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Speaker 6: I don't think that's in the cars.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, if you watch TikTok, here would be.

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Speaker 3: I mean, she would never do this, but if she

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Speaker 6: House comes out, she wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 3: They don't have bad blood, do they No.

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Speaker 6: But she's not petty like that with people that she likes.

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Speaker 2: I think they're good because they had a moment at

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Speaker 2: that was it the Grammys.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think they're good too. But if this was

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Speaker 2: It's so funny how we care so much about like

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 4: I was thinking this.

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Speaker 2: The other day because Chrishelle announce her relationship with g

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Speaker 2: and they were like Chrishelle's having a midlife crisis, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, these people don't even know this person, Like

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Speaker 2: they don't even know Chrishelle, and they're just like having

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, as someone.

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Speaker 2: Who knows her, it's so frustrating because I'm like, she's

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I actually got the down low on that

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Speaker 3: I actually don't think I like it because they don't

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's just I think it's just like

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Speaker 2: any other real it's like Love Island but real estate talking.

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Speaker 3: No, Okay, I'm sorry you cannot compare Love Island because

451
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,639
Speaker 3: they don't fight each other. They treat each other with

452
00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:59,000
Speaker 3: respect and it's actually really quite amazing. Side note, Molly

453
00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 3: May and Tommy Love Island are visiting Los Angeles. They're

454
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,800
Speaker 3: on like This Los Angeles, and I've been wanting Molly

455
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:05,520
Speaker 3: May on the podcast forever and I'm just like, how

456
00:20:05,560 --> 00:20:06,600
Speaker 3: have I not bumped into her?

457
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,520
Speaker 6: But anyways, so.

458
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Speaker 3: I never watched the show, but I got a little

459
00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:18,120
Speaker 3: background on why people were so taken aback by the news,

460
00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:20,879
Speaker 3: and that's because a big thing that she has talked

461
00:20:20,880 --> 00:20:22,640
Speaker 3: about mark just Yonder, really big.

462
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Speaker 8: So clearly Monday.

463
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Speaker 5: I'm sorry, it's Monday. I'm not really invested in Rishelle,

464
00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:28,159
Speaker 5: but go ahead.

465
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Speaker 6: But they she.

466
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Speaker 3: Has been really vocal about wanting to have a baby,

467
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:35,640
Speaker 3: like wanting to have a baby, and like she keeps

468
00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,119
Speaker 3: breaking up with these people because they don't want to

469
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Speaker 3: have a baby.

470
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Speaker 6: So then they're like, oh, now it's gonna be even

471
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Speaker 6: harder for you to have a baby.

472
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Speaker 4: But she could still have a baby.

473
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's I guess what the controversy was.

474
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Speaker 2: I know, but I think like we're way past that

475
00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:50,080
Speaker 2: way of thinking of being like, oh, you can't have

476
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Speaker 2: a baby.

477
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Speaker 4: If, like, I don't know, I think it's just and.

478
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 2: Even if maybe it was like that's what she thought

479
00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:00,159
Speaker 2: she wanted with Jason, and then when they were.

480
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,320
Speaker 4: Up, she was like, that's not a priority right now.

481
00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 3: And the other guy she dated too, that's why they

482
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:06,119
Speaker 3: broke up, allegedly.

483
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:10,000
Speaker 4: Kia the or the guy from death at the Store, No.

484
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:11,080
Speaker 6: The guy she was married to.

485
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Speaker 2: Oh, justin Yeah, I don't know, But my whole point

486
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,960
Speaker 2: is that I just find it so fascinating how invested

487
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,800
Speaker 2: we get into people's lives and people like make assumptions

488
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 2: without even know, like literally no one knows her that's

489
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,439
Speaker 2: making these claims against her. And I really appreciated she

490
00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:31,840
Speaker 2: posted something and she was like, you know, I understand

491
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 2: like some of y'all are confused, but I'm not.

492
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 4: And I really liked that because it's like I get it.

493
00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 2: Maybe you don't understand it, or maybe it wasn't what

494
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 2: you expected, but it's I'm not confused about it, you know,

495
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 2: and it's my life. So it was just kind of

496
00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:48,480
Speaker 2: an eye opener. And we do it with like I'm

497
00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,480
Speaker 2: so fascinated by other like celebrities.

498
00:21:50,960 --> 00:21:52,879
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I am so invested in the

499
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 3: Jonahs brothers lives, Like it's not even funny. I'm really

500
00:21:57,640 --> 00:22:00,920
Speaker 3: invested in them, Like I genuinely feel like, well, you're

501
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 3: kind of.

502
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 2: Friends with them, but you are kind of friends with them,

503
00:22:03,840 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 2: so that mightd of but not really, I'm invested in

504
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,120
Speaker 2: people like people I know, I don't feel weird being

505
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:12,680
Speaker 2: invested in their love life, but like it's like strangers

506
00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:16,399
Speaker 2: that if someone started like Jennifer Aniston is dating so

507
00:22:16,480 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 2: and so, I'd be.

508
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 4: Like, oh, like all about it, you know, but why

509
00:22:20,840 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 4: does it mad her? Like I'm not her friend, I

510
00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 4: don't have any associations. I want to be her friends

511
00:22:25,600 --> 00:22:26,280
Speaker 4: so badly, but.

512
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 3: I know, you know, actually I saw I went to

513
00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 3: this John Legend listening thing last week and I met

514
00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 3: John Legend and everybody, all the scrubbers were messaging me

515
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,280
Speaker 3: and they're like, did you ask him to get Chrissy

516
00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 3: on the podcast?

517
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 6: And I was like, no, no, because we're there to

518
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:42,080
Speaker 6: hear his music.

519
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 3: And I didn't want to like use it as like

520
00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:45,879
Speaker 3: a in to get her because I feel like we

521
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 3: could get her on our own, you know, like I

522
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:53,679
Speaker 3: didn't need to interrupt his love and about the music.

523
00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 6: You know, it's about more about the music, yeah, instead

524
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:57,159
Speaker 6: of it.

525
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 4: Was a mouse scrubbing in.

526
00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, inappropriate next time you see him, because

527
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: you'll be like John and Tanya I remember, I like

528
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 2: totally remember you, yeah, and he'll be like, oh yeah,

529
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 2: she was just like appreciating the music exactly.

530
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:10,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

531
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Speaker 3: But now it's time to go in with a big,

532
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 3: big ask.

533
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:13,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, the big ass.

534
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, we're gonna take a break and then we'll

535
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 2: be right back. I wanted to talk about part of

536
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 2: the met Gala, was Kim Kardashian fitting into the dress.

537
00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 2: I don't know if you've had this conversation on the

538
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 2: morning show, but I wanted to talk about it on

539
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:27,719
Speaker 2: the podcast.

540
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 4: So we'll be right back with that.

541
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:47,199
Speaker 2: Okay, we're back. So there was this during one of

542
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,240
Speaker 2: the interviews at the Met gala, Kim Kardashian and they

543
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 2: were asking about her dress and she was saying it

544
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 2: was Marilyn Monroe's and she said she lost sixteen pounds

545
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,879
Speaker 2: in three weeks and she basically wore like a sweatsuit,

546
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 2: ran on the treadmill, and she basically did to eat

547
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: carbs or sugar. Yeah, And it was a big controversy

548
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 2: because obviously the Kardashians are they're uh, they're women that

549
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:15,040
Speaker 2: young girls and people are watching and like copying and

550
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,159
Speaker 2: modeling after their lives.

551
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 4: And Lily Ryan Hart came out and.

552
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 2: She didn't address Kim Kardashian by name, but she was

553
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 2: just like, can we please stop giving these celebrities attention?

554
00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 4: You know, like this is well.

555
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:31,880
Speaker 3: Like she was being praised for it, and I think

556
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 3: that's the thing that is unhealthy to like be.

557
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 6: Like, god, that's so cool.

558
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 3: She lost sixteen pounds and three we's like, yeah, let's

559
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Speaker 3: starve ourselves and like run in a sweatsuit.

560
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Speaker 4: See.

561
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Speaker 2: I guess I didn't see a lot of the praise

562
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 2: for it. I just saw like what in the heck?

563
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 2: Like that is crazy that your body can do that?

564
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 2: But I also is it I think where I struggle

565
00:24:56,840 --> 00:24:59,640
Speaker 2: sometimes with this is that like do I think it's

566
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 2: healthy or do I think it's like what is it

567
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 2: something that I would do?

568
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 4: And no? But is it her fault that people praise

569
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 4: her for that?

570
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 2: Like I guess I took it more as like her

571
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 2: just being honest about what the process was to fit

572
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,800
Speaker 2: into this dress. That was like this iconic moment and

573
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 2: she wasn't saying like this is what everyone should do.

574
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 2: She was just saying, like, this is what I did

575
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 2: to fit into this dress. Because a lot of people

576
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 2: were like, how did like Kim Kardashian's body type fit

577
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 2: into Like they have a very different shape.

578
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,640
Speaker 6: Let me tell you what your girl would have done.

579
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 3: Because I'm one day without sugar in my coffee and

580
00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 3: it's rough. If I were Kim, I would have just

581
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 3: gotten a little more of that fabric maybe from the

582
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 3: bottom of the dress, and just stitched it right up

583
00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 3: the middle.

584
00:25:44,160 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 4: Well, I don't think they's allowed to do anything for

585
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 4: the dress. And I think that.

586
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 2: A lot of people were like all that to fit

587
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Speaker 2: into a dress, like why not just wear something else?

588
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Speaker 4: But she committed to being in the.

589
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 2: Dress, So I think, I I it's hard because I

590
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 2: see both sides of it, of like not praising this lifestyle,

591
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: of like you have to look a certain way and

592
00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: lose this much weight in this amount of time.

593
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,680
Speaker 3: I know, but it's also like the unhealthy. It's it's

594
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 3: the it's the praise of the I think what Lily

595
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,800
Speaker 3: is saying is it's the praise of the unhealthyness of

596
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,359
Speaker 3: it all the like losing sixteen pounds.

597
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Speaker 6: And then she went on the red carpet.

598
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Speaker 3: I was talking about how she's gonna have this pizza

599
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:19,919
Speaker 3: and donuts party after and like that, you know, like

600
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 3: it's the the yo yo and the I'm gonna starve

601
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 3: myself and then I'm gonna like you know, binge eat

602
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 3: after and it's I think that's what she's talking about

603
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 3: for people that you know I have eating disorders or

604
00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,360
Speaker 3: have had eating disorders. It's like triggering and it's harmful

605
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:41,919
Speaker 3: to kind of spread that that message of like starve

606
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 3: yourself to fit into a dress and then eat a

607
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:46,639
Speaker 3: bunch of pizza and donuts after because you deserve it.

608
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 6: You know.

609
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 4: It's like, yeah, I guess, I don't know.

610
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: Sometimes I I guess when you have that big of

611
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:57,960
Speaker 2: a platform, you do have to consider all of these

612
00:26:57,960 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 2: things and who's watching you and who's paying attention to

613
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 2: and what you're saying. But I just didn't think that

614
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 2: it was Kim being like everyone should do this to achieve.

615
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 2: I just took it more as like, this is what

616
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,960
Speaker 2: I did, and to be honest, I imagine so many

617
00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:13,920
Speaker 2: other people did similar things to fit into their met

618
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 2: Gala outfits. Like whether it was that extreme, yeah, and

619
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:17,959
Speaker 2: she was just honest about it.

620
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 4: So I I.

621
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 2: Understand both sides, Like I see the danger in it,

622
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 2: and I also am like, is that Kim Kardashian's like

623
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 2: fault if she.

624
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, No, I know I think it's But also it's

625
00:27:30,600 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 3: like she does have such a huge, huge platform, and

626
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 3: I think people, you know, I think that you can

627
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,239
Speaker 3: kind of be naive to those things sometimes because you know,

628
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 3: I've been talking a lot about how I want to

629
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:44,000
Speaker 3: cut out sugar, and like, you know, I talk about that,

630
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 3: and somebody actually wrote me a really kind of meaningful

631
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:49,639
Speaker 3: message about how that's harmful because sugar's not you know,

632
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,640
Speaker 3: sgre's not the devil and stuff, but for me, it's

633
00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 3: causing personally, it's I want to just get rid of

634
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 3: my addiction, because it's the addiction to it that I

635
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 3: don't like, not necessarily the fact that it's sugar in

636
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 3: a sense, but I'm just so addicted to it and

637
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 3: I don't like that I'm that addicted to it. But

638
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:10,399
Speaker 3: I can't see it from somebody else's perspective because I

639
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 3: haven't lived that their experience, you know what I mean.

640
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 3: So it's like, you know, just being cautious and how

641
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 3: you how you say things and express things, because I think,

642
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 3: you know, eating disorders and relationship with food for unfortunately

643
00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:31,919
Speaker 3: for women is a really really touchy, touchy subject, you know,

644
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 3: Like I think there's like a stat where it's just

645
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 3: like some crazy number of women aren't happy with their

646
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 3: bodies and have gone to like extremes to you know,

647
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 3: whether it's starving themselves or purging and you.

648
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 6: Know, things like that.

649
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 3: So I don't know, I think it's Lili's onto something

650
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 3: because I think it's just spreading like.

651
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: A I agree, I get what you're saying, like, don't

652
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: don't think that this is what you have to do

653
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 2: to feel good about yourself, Like, don't don't feel like

654
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 2: you have to follow this example of this. And on

655
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:04,680
Speaker 2: the flip side, I don't know that Kim Kardashian was

656
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 2: doing anything other than stating like, yeah, I worked my

657
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 2: ass off to get into this dress, like literally worked

658
00:29:10,120 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: my ass off to get into this dress because I

659
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: it was this iconic moment I wanted to have at

660
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 2: the Met Gala.

661
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, So I don't know.

662
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 2: I just found it was like an interesting conversation because

663
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 2: I was reading Lily's Oh this the article about Lily,

664
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 2: and I was like, I totally get this, and I

665
00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 2: see this.

666
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I know.

667
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 3: I saw a lot of I saw a lot of

668
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:33,160
Speaker 3: articles that were like talking really negatively about what Kim

669
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 3: was saying and stuff and how it's problematic now and yeah,

670
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 3: so it was definitely.

671
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Speaker 4: She knows how to get people talking. That's one thing

672
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Speaker 4: she can.

673
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Speaker 6: Know how to get people.

674
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Speaker 3: I was more along, like looking at her saying how

675
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 3: did her roots look so blonde? Like, how do I

676
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 3: get that going?

677
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 4: I guarantee her scalp was burnt from that.

678
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 3: It looks like somebody took a ce tip and dipped

679
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 3: it in bleach and just went straight in there.

680
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Speaker 6: But you know what, I'm gonna tany this thing, not

681
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Speaker 6: at off our hairdresser.

682
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Speaker 3: This is the podcast, but yeah, you know what I'm

683
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 3: looking for next time? Yeah, get a look que tip

684
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Speaker 3: in there going.

685
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

686
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Speaker 2: I mean there's just a lot of it's a lot

687
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 2: of talk about I mean, even in our climate right

688
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 2: now with the potential possible overturn of versus Wade, it's

689
00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 2: that conversation about our bodies and our responsibility to them.

690
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 2: And I personally, I have so many people in my

691
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 2: life who are genuinely scared by this news and like

692
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 2: the their rights being taken away. And it's not official yet,

693
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 2: it hasn't been overturned.

694
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Speaker 4: Am I speaking?

695
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 2: But I think there's just a huge I've seen so

696
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 2: many beautiful points about this, and I am able to see. Unfortunately,

697
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 2: I see everything from both sides. And I grew up

698
00:30:57,400 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: very conservative, very Christian. I was very much like there

699
00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: is it was very black and white. For me, it

700
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 2: was very much like abortion. You know, I did not

701
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Speaker 2: agree with that. I did not support it. And now

702
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 2: I've seen so many things where it's saying I am

703
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 2: not I don't love abortion, but I I feel like

704
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 2: everyone deserves the right to choose.

705
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 6: Well, that's the whole thing.

706
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 3: Like, you know, for me, I could not get an abortion,

707
00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 3: but I don't think it's for me to say what

708
00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 3: somebody else can or can't do.

709
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 6: Right, that makes sense.

710
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 3: So it's like for me, that's what I choose for myself.

711
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 3: But I don't think anybody should tell somebody me or

712
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:40,960
Speaker 3: anybody else what to do with my body.

713
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 6: That's my choice, that's the thing.

714
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,000
Speaker 2: And I think it's it's not so black and white,

715
00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 2: like I've seen so many people who had a different

716
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: stance and then they had kids and their stance change,

717
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 2: or they had something happened to them, And I don't

718
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 2: think it's for someone else to make that decision of

719
00:31:58,320 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 2: what is.

720
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 4: Right for that person.

721
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 2: And not everyone has the same religious reliefs around it,

722
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 2: and I don't think it's it's one group.

723
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,000
Speaker 4: And I also I hate this about social media.

724
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 2: Part of it is because on both sides of the

725
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: coin do this where they share the most extreme version

726
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,240
Speaker 2: of a group of people, and it'll show someone who

727
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 2: is saying like horrible things, hateful things, evil things, And

728
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, you could pick people out from any group

729
00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 2: of people and show that example and everyone would agree

730
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Speaker 2: that that is not right.

731
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 4: But that is not the majority.

732
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:37,479
Speaker 2: The majority is saying everyone deserves the chance to do

733
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 2: what they want with their body, how they want to

734
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Speaker 2: do it.

735
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Speaker 4: And that's not saying that you love abortion.

736
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 2: It's just saying, like it is some it is someone's

737
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 2: personal choice to do that too, with their body what

738
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 2: they want. And I think that the conversations have gotten

739
00:32:55,680 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 2: so nasty and hateful, and it's just it's as simple

740
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 2: as someone having the right to choose, and you don't

741
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: have to make that decision. If you don't believe in it,

742
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,800
Speaker 2: that is full of your decision, right. And so I

743
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 2: think it's just I think it's a scary time. And

744
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 2: I think the fact that it's men. I am not

745
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: someone who is like all men are terrible, we hate men.

746
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 4: I think there are wonder I'm not. I think there

747
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 4: are wonderful men.

748
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 2: O there.

749
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Speaker 4: I don't make that. I just don't like that mentality

750
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 4: of like.

751
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 3: That we they just don't think about women, They just

752
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 3: think about themselves, but.

753
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:33,440
Speaker 4: Some men do.

754
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 2: And I'm saying I don't want to group them all together,

755
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 2: just like I wantn't want to be grouped together with

756
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 2: everything I believe, with like the intense extremes, you know,

757
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 2: Like I don't want.

758
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 4: To be grouped with those people for what I believe.

759
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 2: But I just hate that something that is so specific

760
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: and personal to a woman is being controlled and dictated

761
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 2: by men who have never experienced any of the things

762
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Speaker 2: that women go through.

763
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Speaker 4: It is just like mind boggling, and my.

764
00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 6: Guys can just go round and like they.

765
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,400
Speaker 2: Well, I wrote this whole threat and I wish I

766
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 2: had it saved. I'm sure I can find it. But

767
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 2: it was talking about how there should be a law

768
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:19,759
Speaker 2: where men that men have to get a vasectomy or

769
00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:23,120
Speaker 2: something too, because it's not just all on women, Like

770
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 2: so much of the blame and the pressure and everything

771
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:29,959
Speaker 2: gets put on women, and it's not there's takes two

772
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 2: to tango here, and there's I think I don't know

773
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 2: who the conversation was with, and it may have been

774
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:41,359
Speaker 2: between Kamala and Brett Kavanaugh, but she was saying, can

775
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 2: you think of any law that what does she say,

776
00:34:45,719 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 2: like any law that is required of a man with

777
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 2: his body right? And he said something along the lines

778
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,040
Speaker 2: of like not that I can think of right now.

779
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: And I was thinking, think of all of the laws

780
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 2: that we have not had, We've not been able, we've

781
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 2: not always been able to vote, we've not always been

782
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: able to have a bank.

783
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 4: Account, and now it's this.

784
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 2: So I think I think the anger and frustration is

785
00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 2: surrounding that aspect of it, and it's it's scary, and

786
00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:14,280
Speaker 2: I think it's.

787
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:20,720
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know. I hope that it doesn't happen.

788
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 5: You guys, you mentioned men, and I wish these men

789
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 5: in charge didn't think about women so much. But honestly,

790
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,240
Speaker 5: they seem obsessed with it. They am obsessed with controlling women.

791
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,680
Speaker 5: It's an attack on women. It's a war on women.

792
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 5: They don't want you women having that kind of control

793
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 5: over your body and who you have sex with and

794
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 5: all that stuff. They don't want that, and they're very

795
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:42,279
Speaker 5: scared of that. I've been talking to my daughter's a

796
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 5: lot about this over the past week, and they're pissed,

797
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 5: and I'm proud of them for being pissed because they

798
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 5: should be, because they should be able to make these

799
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 5: choices for themselves. Now, I know a lot of I

800
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 5: know that you two now are going to get heat

801
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 5: from your Facebook group. I know there's a lot of

802
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 5: people in the scrubbing world that don't agree with you

803
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 5: on for choice. I just want to address them. I'm

804
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 5: anti abortion. I would never get one. I would never

805
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 5: want my wife or daughters to get one. But there

806
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 5: are things we can do for society that actually reduces

807
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 5: the number of abortions. It's sex education, it's access to contraception,

808
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 5: it's free clinics, women's health clinics, their availability and accessibility.

809
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 5: Those actually bring the numbers down. Banning abortion in any

810
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 5: state isn't going to bring the numbers down, but it's

811
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:24,360
Speaker 5: going to kill women. Women are going to die because

812
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,439
Speaker 5: of this, in the thousands, depending on how long it's

813
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 5: on the books. And that's bad and we should have

814
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 5: a problem with that. And if you really think this

815
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 5: is these politicians are just good hearted people who are

816
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 5: just trying to save the babies. You haven't looked into

817
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 5: this enough. And if you really think that it's a baby,

818
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,440
Speaker 5: the second that man ejaculates, you haven't looked into this enough.

819
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:46,880
Speaker 5: And if you think that it's just about stopping abortion,

820
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 5: you haven't looked into this enough, because they're not going

821
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 5: to stop with that. They want to get rid of contraception.

822
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 5: They're already in states talking about banning. IUDs they wanted

823
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 5: to get rid of same sex marriage, which some of

824
00:36:58,000 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 5: you are probably fine with, but they.

825
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 8: Want to get rid of inter marriage.

826
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 5: I mean, everything is on the table right now unless

827
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 5: somebody does something to stop this before it officially goes

828
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 5: into place.

829
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 8: So anyway, that's my rant.

830
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: No, that was a good point, And I think there's

831
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 2: a huge misconception that roe versu Wait is just about abortion.

832
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 4: It's not.

833
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 2: It's about like all the care and the prevention and

834
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 2: the education surrounding sex education. And I think I'm one

835
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 2: hundred percent with you, Mark. I am against abortion. I

836
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 2: don't believe in an abortion, but that is my decision.

837
00:37:31,760 --> 00:37:34,240
Speaker 5: And so let's do real things that stop the number

838
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 5: of unwanted pregnancies. You can do that because it's not

839
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 5: about abortion, it's not about babies.

840
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:39,720
Speaker 8: It's about control.

841
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is about control. And like these politicians

842
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:49,920
Speaker 3: are not they're not good, they're not like thinking of

843
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 3: the the doing good. They're just like I just can't.

844
00:37:56,880 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, I'm I mean, I'm always prepared to

845
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,759
Speaker 2: get you know, he over these things. But I did

846
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 2: think it was something to be addressed and to talk about.

847
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 2: And I just I think it's a good conversation to

848
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: have and to be having with each other. And I

849
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 2: think there is a I've seen people do it in

850
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: respectful way, but people are mad and people are scared,

851
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 2: and I think when people are mad and they're scared,

852
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 2: things escalate and that's what happens.

853
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 3: So but also think too, there's something that happened with

854
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 3: like religion and politics where it was like just because

855
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 3: you're this, you have to do this. And it's like again,

856
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:40,840
Speaker 3: yes I am. I I am against abortion. I would

857
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 3: not get one myself, but that's not for me to

858
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 3: choose for anybody else, you know what I mean, Like

859
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 3: I would never it's like me pushing my religion on

860
00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 3: somebody else. Like my religion is that that's my fav

861
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: My relationship with God is my own. Like I'm not

862
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 3: I'm not sitting here and trying to you know, write

863
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 3: and not everyone has to make you do it, like

864
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, I know.

865
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 2: It gets really tricky the merge of politics and religion,

866
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,320
Speaker 2: and it's it shouldn't be merged.

867
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 5: The same people saying hey, just adopt those the same

868
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 5: people trying to stop gay couple from adopting it.

869
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:17,480
Speaker 1: I know.

870
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 4: That's what's so frustrating.

871
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, so then everyone who gets pregnant has

872
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 2: to have the baby, and and yeah, you can put

873
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,839
Speaker 2: it up for adoption. It's not saying that you have

874
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 2: to raise the baby, put it up for adoption. And

875
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:32,560
Speaker 2: then a gay couple says, hey, we'd love to adopt

876
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 2: a baby and give a baby a home, and they're like, oh,

877
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 2: but we can't. You're same sex, so that's not gonna work.

878
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 2: It does not make any sense to me, and it

879
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 2: is infuriating. I've always had that thought of like how

880
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 2: difficult it is, how the how the same people that

881
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 2: want to force people to have babies also will not

882
00:39:55,719 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 2: let two loving people adopt the baby because their love

883
00:39:59,040 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 2: looks different.

884
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't get me started on that.

885
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 7: I just want to say, really quick, if I've never

886
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 7: had any combative d M in my entire life, but

887
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 7: I'm extremely pro choice. If you have something to say

888
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 7: to Antonia, send it my way.

889
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 8: Instead, give it to me.

890
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Speaker 7: I'm gonna be like that that soldier standing over the

891
00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 7: child in the bed. Send me to angry d ms.

892
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 7: I don't care. I'm an atheist. I don't believe God

893
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 7: is real. Send those dms my way. My instagram is

894
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 7: at Easton Allen. I will take it. Send them to me.

895
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 7: That's all I have to say.

896
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:35,320
Speaker 6: Oh my god.

897
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 3: I mean honestly, it's like I can take it.

898
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 6: It's just all right.

899
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 8: I think we should take a break.

900
00:40:49,560 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, let's take a break. We'll be right back.

901
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: All right, you guys, we are back and we have

902
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 2: some email, so Mark take it.

903
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 5: Away, all right, beck I thank you very much. This

904
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 5: is from Rachel to get directed to the point. I'm

905
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 5: a virgin and there's a chance I will be on

906
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 5: my period on our wedding night slash honeymoon. No, I'm

907
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 5: just wondering what to do here. He's also a virgin.

908
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 5: I just want to know what you think. Do I

909
00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:29,239
Speaker 5: try not to worry about it, just go with it

910
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 5: in a normal way. Do I try a disk or

911
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 5: something similar? Will that make it weird? Considering it's my

912
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 5: first time, I'm curious what you girls would do and

913
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,040
Speaker 5: from a guy's perspective what East did and mark and

914
00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:40,440
Speaker 5: speak to, as well as an unbiased perspective.

915
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,120
Speaker 2: Well, it's just in the wrong girl. Oh yeah, I

916
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 2: bless you, thank you. I feel like I could be

917
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: speaking wrong on this. So I don't know if there's

918
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 2: anyone here who can help me, but I think that

919
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 2: your guy, no can.

920
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 6: I don't know if you're you're gonna try and tell

921
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 6: rusper period?

922
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 1: Yeah?

923
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 6: Is that birth control bills? Is that bad? Yes, it's

924
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 6: like messing with your hormones.

925
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 4: Okay, don't do don't listen to me.

926
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 2: I've never done I've never been on birth control, so like,

927
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 2: I don't know what.

928
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 4: But I just have known people are like, yeah.

929
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna skip my period. Okay, don't listen to me.

930
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:16,280
Speaker 2: Bad advice.

931
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Speaker 3: I mean, it's just you don't want to tinker with

932
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 3: your hormones like that. In my I've done it before,

933
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 3: and I I wish I could go turn the hands of.

934
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Speaker 6: Time and not.

935
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I love period sex, so I just embrace

936
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 3: it your time, so so it only gets better from there.

937
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 3: I say, embrace it, you know, like as long as

938
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Speaker 3: it's not your heavy flow day like game on.

939
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Speaker 6: Girl. Well, honestly it might help, Okay, I yeah, I

940
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Speaker 6: don't know.

941
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 2: I would just say I mean, I also would say, like,

942
00:42:51,160 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: if you feel comfortable, like just you know, have have it,

943
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 2: lay a towel.

944
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 6: Down, and yeah, lay a towel down.

945
00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 2: But I want to I would get stressed or over stressed,

946
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 2: Like I would not overstress about that because it's already

947
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 2: gonna be a little like nervous and anxious going into it,

948
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,320
Speaker 2: being both of your first time. So don't like overthink

949
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 2: it with that aspect of it, and just see what happens.

950
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,959
Speaker 2: Maybe you won't start your period around that time, maybe

951
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 2: it'll naturally delay itself for you. But I would just say,

952
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 2: don't stress yourself out more than you're already gonna be stressed,

953
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 2: and let what happens happens.

954
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,399
Speaker 4: And if you wait a few more days, you've waited this.

955
00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 5: Yes, it's fine. It's not the end of the world.

956
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 5: If it doesn't happen on your wedding night, it's okay.

957
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 5: Save it for the honeymoon. I don't think you're going

958
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 5: to be in that problematic for the wedding night and

959
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 5: your entire honeymoon.

960
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 8: It's fine. Just go with it. He'll be fine.

961
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 6: Your advice is to wait.

962
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 4: Well, I was kind of thinking that too.

963
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 2: I'm like I always have said how exhausted couples must

964
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:50,479
Speaker 2: be after the wedding, Like I feel like I would

965
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 2: just want to go home and be like go to

966
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 2: sleep and then wake up the next day and that

967
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Speaker 2: be like the day.

968
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,840
Speaker 4: But I would say, you've waited as long as you have.

969
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 2: I don't know how old she is. You're fine if

970
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Speaker 2: you don't want it. If you don't want your first

971
00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:05,000
Speaker 2: time to be period sex.

972
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Speaker 8: And you don't, I don't think you do.

973
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:09,800
Speaker 6: I think you do. I'm team period sex. It is great.

974
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 5: It is, honestly, I don't know what it's like obviously

975
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:16,560
Speaker 5: from the female perspective, but y'all don't seem to love it,

976
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 5: accepting Tanya, and so until.

977
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 8: You're got to love it, I want you to be

978
00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 8: able to not worry about it.

979
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 3: And also like the first time, it's like I don't

980
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:28,280
Speaker 3: know how graphic we can be, but like kind of dry,

981
00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:32,480
Speaker 3: like you know when you're period. It just adds like

982
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 3: natural lubricant. Oh my god, thank me later, everybody who's listening,

983
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 3: just try it.

984
00:44:38,680 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 7: With In my experience, I think sex is an awkward

985
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 7: thing for a while. I think you got to put

986
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 7: points on the board first. You know, you gotta like

987
00:44:46,000 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 7: you gotta run the clock a bit. So like it's

988
00:44:48,680 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 7: just it's going to be awkward anyway. I say, if

989
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 7: you want to do it, go for it. I didn't

990
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 7: have sex on my wedding, right, you know, because we

991
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 7: were tired. And yeah, you know, it's just it's a

992
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 7: crazy like culmination of so much planning and stress and everything,

993
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 7: and like, I'm sorry, the last thing you want to

994
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 7: do is do that, So like put it off to

995
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 7: the I'm with the wait till the honeymoon situation.

996
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 8: But if you want to do it, do it.

997
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:11,800
Speaker 7: And it's going to be awkward anyway.

998
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like I'm out numbered here, but.

999
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 2: We said we're agreeing with you, just not as graphically

1000
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,360
Speaker 2: like excited about what you said.

1001
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 3: We're just saying, like, go with the go, go with

1002
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 3: the flow.

1003
00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 6: If it's flow, just go with the flow.

1004
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 8: Oh my god.

1005
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 2: There's only one Tailor Sliss song, and that is red Yeah.

1006
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 6: Wow, good one. I actually wrote a list of all the.

1007
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:42,440
Speaker 4: We didn't need it today, all right.

1008
00:45:42,480 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 5: This is from anonymous. She says, my boyfriend and I

1009
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 5: have been together four years. We're twenty seven. Met through

1010
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 5: mutual friends after college. I've always thought he was my soulmate.

1011
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 5: We're best friends. He's so kind, loving, respectful, not like

1012
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 5: other boyfriends I've had in the past. I was in

1013
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 5: an emotionally abusive relationship before him, a narcissist who made

1014
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 5: me apologize for everything all the time. When I got out,

1015
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 5: I promised myself I would never be treated that way again. Well,

1016
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 5: fast forward four years into my current relationship. I'm ready

1017
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 5: for him to propose. I love him so much, so

1018
00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 5: does my family. We live together, we have a dog

1019
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 5: and everything. It's going so good, but he confessed to

1020
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 5: me that he's been lying about two things. One I

1021
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 5: asked him not to watch porn, but apparently he's been

1022
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,319
Speaker 5: lying to me and watching it since Thanksgiving two a

1023
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 5: month ago. He was away from me for three weeks

1024
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 5: in a work trip and then went straight to a

1025
00:46:29,880 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 5: wedding with his college buddies. I wasn't invited, and he

1026
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 5: missed his flight the next morning. He told me it

1027
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 5: was because he got too drunk, but really he stayed

1028
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 5: out till four am with his buddies, partying in another

1029
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 5: girl's hotel room. He's being honest now, but he lied initially,

1030
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 5: and now I'm going back to feeling soone secure about

1031
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 5: myself in a relationship and feeling I can't trust him.

1032
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,799
Speaker 5: I just feel like we're drifting apart and I don't

1033
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 5: know what to do.

1034
00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 3: This seems very fixable to me, okay in my opinion, Okay, sure,

1035
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 3: I mean, look, I don't like that he covered it

1036
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 3: up and now he's telling you the truth.

1037
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 6: But I don't like that, and I trust to me

1038
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:11,840
Speaker 6: is everything.

1039
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 3: But I feel like it's salvageable if you guys can

1040
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 3: kind of like commit to coming back to the basics

1041
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 3: of your relationship and maybe do some couple's therapy and

1042
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 3: kind of get to the root of why he lied

1043
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 3: and why he didn't tell you the truth initially, you

1044
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 3: know what I mean, because maybe you know, there's a

1045
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 3: reason for that. Maybe there's, you know, a reason why

1046
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 3: he kept that from you. Maybe he felt like you

1047
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 3: guys were growing apart and he didn't want to rock

1048
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,680
Speaker 3: the boat, you know, which is not an excuse. I'm

1049
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,200
Speaker 3: just saying, like, I don't know, kind of get to

1050
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 3: the root of why he covered those things up.

1051
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,399
Speaker 6: I don't know. I mean, the porn thing I'm less

1052
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 6: concerned about.

1053
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 2: But I think the porn thing is more that he

1054
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:57,360
Speaker 2: lied in. Yes, you know, I think this is tough

1055
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,880
Speaker 2: because she was in a relationship that made her question

1056
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:04,359
Speaker 2: herself and her confidence, and I think him doing this

1057
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 2: has like brought back feelings of that relationship, and she

1058
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,479
Speaker 2: said she would never let herself be treated like that again.

1059
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 2: So I also think that trying something like couple's therapy

1060
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,839
Speaker 2: or counseling or something where y'all can both have an

1061
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 2: open space because maybe it is something like he's scared,

1062
00:48:25,320 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 2: like maybe there's a certain reason why he feels that

1063
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 2: it's better for him to lie than just be honest

1064
00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:34,120
Speaker 2: about it. And I think that having that space to

1065
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 2: both be open and honest together in front of someone

1066
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 2: who's not biased, would be really helpful.

1067
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 4: But I also think, like, listen to your.

1068
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 2: Gut, because if you've experienced this before and you're feeling

1069
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 2: like it's making you question yourself again, then it's you know,

1070
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,080
Speaker 2: you got to really pay attention to that feeling because

1071
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 2: you don't want to end up in.

1072
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 4: The same situation you were in. All Right, Taylor Swith's song.

1073
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 6: About like What's really going on?

1074
00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:04,080
Speaker 4: Where's your list?

1075
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 6: It's in my bag down.

1076
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:08,879
Speaker 4: A written list.

1077
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 6: I wrote it down.

1078
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:16,279
Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, this is this love. No, No, I think

1079
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,959
Speaker 9: this is I think this is.

1080
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 4: Delicate.

1081
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:25,720
Speaker 6: I think this is message in a bottle.

1082
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 4: What you just hell?

1083
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 3: Because I feel as though maybe she just needs to

1084
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 3: write him a letter and put in a bottle and

1085
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 3: make it like, let's work on this.

1086
00:49:43,239 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 8: Even Tany's not buying that load.

1087
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, Tanya doesn't even buy her.

1088
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,040
Speaker 3: Maybe we can get a cliff Notes version of the

1089
00:49:49,160 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 3: emails so that we don't have to.

1090
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:53,800
Speaker 6: Bog down the time.

1091
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,760
Speaker 2: Can okay, we just pre prescribed, okay, pre prescriptions, Okay,

1092
00:49:58,000 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: all right, Well for today, we're gonna go with no body,

1093
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 2: no crime and that'll.

1094
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:06,799
Speaker 8: That's pretty good. Actually, that's pretty good.

1095
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 3: And on that note, that is actually really good because

1096
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 3: it's really good.

1097
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 8: There was no body involved, no other body.

1098
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, we do not have an episode this Thursday, but

1099
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 2: I did want to remind you about Wango Tango because

1100
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 2: the tickets are selling.

1101
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Speaker 4: It's going to be a part t in the US.

1102
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Speaker 6: Of a should we wear exposed songs ys the look

1103
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Speaker 6: now with below.

1104
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Speaker 2: I don't know if my body is ready for the

1105
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Speaker 2: exposed long look, but you put a pin in that

1106
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Speaker 2: and maybe I'll try to find a cohesive fit that

1107
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Speaker 2: goes with the exposed.

1108
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 10: All right, we love you all, have a great week.

1109
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 10: And you know what time it is? What it's thick thirty?

1110
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Speaker 4: Bye?

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00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,480
Speaker 3: This is the Lizo song. It's bad bitch o'clock. Yeah,

1112
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 3: it's thick thirty.

1113
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 4: Wait, I was gonna give the itch.

1114
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 2: Do I need to talk about the Wingo Tango tickets

1115
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 2: and how to get them?

1116
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:13,919
Speaker 3: Wheels are falling off this joint Wango Tango tickets, Get

1117
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:16,320
Speaker 3: them now, get them while they're hot. Hang out scrubbing

1118
00:51:16,640 --> 00:51:19,720
Speaker 3: section axs dot com and the code of scrubber.

1119
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Speaker 4: Yes, that is right. Okay, it's what time?

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00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 6: It's thick thirty.

1121
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 4: All right, thick thirty.

1122
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 6: We gotta go, I gotta go.

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00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 4: Heave up, bye, lady my