1 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: There Are No Girls on the Internet, as a production 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio and Unbossed Creative. I'm Bridget Todd and this 3 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: is There Are No Girls. 4 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:15,120 Speaker 2: On the Internet. 5 00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: Welcome to There No Girls on the Internet, where we 6 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: explore the intersection of identity, technology and social media. And 7 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: this is another installment of our weekly news roundup, where 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: we break down and explain all the different news stories 9 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 1: from the Internet that you might have missed. Yes, it 10 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: has been a while since we've done one of these. 11 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,160 Speaker 1: I took a little bit of a break from the news, 12 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: but now we are back and better than ever. Mike, 13 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: you are also back. Thanks for being here. 14 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 3: Thanks for having me, Bridget. It's great to be back. 15 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: It has indeed been a minute. There's been a lot 16 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 3: of tech news in that time, and it's great to 17 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 3: be here talking with you again. 18 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: I'm a little bit distracted because I'm scrolling through these 19 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: like polished Mark Zuckerberg pictures. Have you seen these? 20 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 4: I have. Yeah, it's like a whole new zuck. 21 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 1: Someone from Mark Zuckerberg or Meta pr is working overtime 22 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:11,880 Speaker 1: to try to convince us the public that Mark Zuckerberg 23 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: is a more polished, more stylished, more refined kind of guy, 24 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: and farbe it of me to spend a lot of 25 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: time talking about the sartorial choices of a tech leader. However, 26 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: we know there is a ton of precedent for tech 27 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: leaders using their fashion and style and hair to try 28 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,759 Speaker 1: to project things at us, the public. So it does 29 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: kind of seem like their game to be talking about 30 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:37,559 Speaker 1: Mark Zuckerberg rocking a chain at his fortieth birthday party, 31 00:01:37,680 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 1: et cetera, et cetera, clearly trying to signal to us 32 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 1: that he's a little more polished, a little more refined, 33 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:44,120 Speaker 1: a little more stylish. 34 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, right, you know you've talked about this before. Didn't 35 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:51,160 Speaker 3: you write a whole op ed about Elizabeth Holmes's hair 36 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 3: and her active choices to have questionably nourished looking hair. 37 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: Good memory, I definitely did. I wrote a whole piece 38 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:06,040 Speaker 1: about Elizabeth Holmes his hair choices. If you remember her, 39 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: she definitely was known for a certain type of hairstyle 40 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: that I think was with intention. It did not look 41 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:16,079 Speaker 1: nourished or conditioned, and I think that was my choice. 42 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: We'll throw the article in the show notes if you 43 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 1: want more information, but she was definitely somebody who knew 44 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: how to use her fashion and hair to signal a 45 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:26,680 Speaker 1: certain kind of thing to us. 46 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you're right that. You know, all of 47 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 3: these tech leaders do that. You know, they get up 48 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 3: on a stage. There's a lot of photos of them. 49 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 3: It's all, I think, pretty deliberate. It's and so like 50 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 3: for this new Zuckerberg rebrand, do you think they brought 51 00:02:39,639 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 3: in the Rick Perry guy, the guy who brought us 52 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 3: the smart Rick Perry, the one who wears glasses. 53 00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: Oh that was my favorite like rebrand when it was 54 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: like they put them in glasses and it was like, 55 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 1: guess what, y'all, Rick Perry is smart. Now from the 56 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 1: team that brought you smart, Rick Perry comes Zuckerberg. 57 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 4: Glow Up, Zucker glow up, the Zuck blow up. 58 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: The Zuck glow. So basically in these pictures, there's one 59 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: he made an announcement about Meta AI and he was 60 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: wearing like a silver like a silver Cuban link chain 61 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: and everyone was like, oh, nice chain. And then somebody 62 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: like used AI deep fakes to put a little like 63 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: one of those kind of thin beards on him. So 64 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 1: if you saw that picture, the chain that was legit, 65 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: the beard that was not legit. But even though that 66 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 1: picture wasn't real. It really highlights my belief that what 67 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:36,839 Speaker 1: contouring makeup is for some women, beards are for some men. 68 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: Like a beard can completely change the way a man's 69 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: face looks. It can like it is like magic. 70 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, beard really changes a man's face. 71 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: So it sounds like Over the weekend, Zuckerberg had a 72 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:55,839 Speaker 1: birthday party where for the party, his wife recreated all 73 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 1: of the places that he lived when he was growing up, 74 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: so like his Harvard dorm room where he created Facebook, 75 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 1: and there are all these pictures of him wearing like 76 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: a fitted black tea and a chain, like in a 77 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: fake dorm room kind of diorama, like adult sized diorama. 78 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: The whole thing is like, I don't know, it's clear 79 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: to me that somebody wants us to think of Mark 80 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: Zuckerberg as this affable guy with friends and family who 81 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:24,880 Speaker 1: love him, you know what I mean. That's that clear 82 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: to me that that's what we're all supposed to be 83 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: taken away from this god. 84 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 3: I have to look for those photos of him in 85 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 3: the dorm rooms with a chain, because that was definitely 86 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:35,479 Speaker 3: a type of guy in Boston in like the early 87 00:04:35,520 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 3: two thousands when he was there. That's when I was 88 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 3: in dorms in Boston, and like that was definitely a 89 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 3: type of guy, like fitted black shirt chain usually not like, 90 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 3: you know, a forty something. 91 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 4: Year old Zuckerberg. What a nice and strange gift from 92 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 4: his wife. 93 00:04:55,279 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 1: The pictures are unreal. I did see if someone comparing 94 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: it to Marie Antoinette that apparently Marie Ane Toinette had 95 00:05:04,600 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: built an entire fake village in Versailles that was equipped 96 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: with like a working farm and fake people to work it, 97 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 1: so that whenever she wanted to pretend to be a 98 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 1: peasant girl on the farm, she could do that. And 99 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 1: somebody compared Mark Zuckerberg's kind of fake set pieces of 100 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 1: his college dorm and like crappy first apartment to that, 101 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: which I thought was kind of funny. That's actually a 102 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: pretty good segue into what I want to talk about first, 103 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: which is the digital guillotine movement aka digiting if you 104 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,679 Speaker 1: don't know what that is. Basically, people on social media 105 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:44,160 Speaker 1: are using hashtags like hashtag let the meat cake, hashtag 106 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: blockout twenty twenty four, and hashtag celebrity blocklist to rally 107 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: people to boycott celebrities like Zindea, Taylor Swift, and the Kardashians. 108 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: Here's how Mashable describes it, labeled quote Celebrity Blackout twenty 109 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 1: twenty four and digitine aka the Digital Guillotine. The movement 110 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: is a protest against celebrity culture, specifically blocking people of 111 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: influence who have not yet used their power or privilege 112 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,280 Speaker 1: to take a stance on the humanitarian crisis that has 113 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: devastated millions. So this all seems to have really been 114 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 1: sparked by the MET Gala last week. The night at 115 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: the Met Gala was also the night that airstrikes targeted 116 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: Ratha and Gaza, which is an enclave on the border 117 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 1: of the Gaza Strip, which is really key for transporting 118 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: aid and supplies to Palestinians. So there has been a 119 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 1: lot of chatter about the Mech Gala as this symbol 120 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 1: for out of touch, wealthy celebrities really reveling in their 121 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 1: privilege and opulence, while just a few blocks away protesters 122 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 1: are on the streets calling for a ceasefire in Palestine. 123 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 1: People were even comparing this to the Hunger Games, and honestly, 124 00:06:46,839 --> 00:06:49,679 Speaker 1: from like an optics perspective, it is kind of hard 125 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: to disagree. I will say that for what it's worth. 126 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,640 Speaker 1: I don't really feel like I have a clear take here. 127 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 1: On the one hand, I totally get how it looks 128 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,359 Speaker 1: very out of time much to have these celebrities like 129 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 1: flaunting their wealth while so much is going on in 130 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: the world. I don't say that to say that I'm 131 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: like above paying attention to the Mechala. In fact, I 132 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: own a T shirt that says Rihanna is my Pope, 133 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: which is a reference to the time that Rihanna addressed 134 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: as the Pope at the Mechala. But I didn't even 135 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: watch it this year, and I didn't even really pay 136 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: attention to any of the coverage or any of the 137 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 1: like online posts about it, in part because Conde Nas 138 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 1: staff were boycotting the Mechala, so I was like, I'm 139 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: not going to pay attention. And also it just seemed 140 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: like kind of boring, like not in a like I'm 141 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: above this kind of way, more anda like this just 142 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: doesn't seem like a good use of my time to 143 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: be paying attention to kind of way. I also really 144 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 1: get the argument around how much money so is spent 145 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: at the Mechala. I've seen people say things like, oh, well, 146 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: the mechala is really expensive, but celebrities aren't actually paying 147 00:07:51,440 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 1: to attend, And of course all the proceeds from the 148 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: Mechala goes to the Metropolitan Museum of Arts Costume Institute, 149 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: which is like a worthy cause, and that's true, But 150 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: I have also feel that like bringing that up feels 151 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: like a bit of a dodge to what people are 152 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:09,280 Speaker 1: pointing out when they are talking about the Metcala, which 153 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: is like this dissonance between the mechala and what is 154 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: going on in the world, which I think is like 155 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 1: a valid point, and I don't think people should just 156 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: be dismissing that. However, I also don't want this to 157 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: be a conversation where women are just being scolded for 158 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: enjoying things like deemed trivial, right, and so easy to 159 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 1: fall into that this could sort of be a bit 160 00:08:29,160 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: of an unpopular opinion, but I do feel a little 161 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: bit weird about the entire thing. Like, truthfully, there's been 162 00:08:36,760 --> 00:08:39,719 Speaker 1: a humanitarian crisis in Palestine for many, many years, right, 163 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 1: and in all of those years, there were met galas 164 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: and rich celebrities doing rich celebrity things, you know. I 165 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: think there's an element of people scolding celebrities for partying 166 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:53,280 Speaker 1: while there's a big human rights crisis going on, but 167 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: it seems to me that has been the dynamic for 168 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 1: a very long time, and like, I don't know, it 169 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: almost sort of reads like, how dare you go to 170 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: a party when I have just started being more tuned 171 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:05,240 Speaker 1: into this situation in Palestine that has been ongoing for 172 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: many years, which I'm not sure that is a useful stance. 173 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 1: But that said, counterpoint, some of these people seem freaking insufferable, 174 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:16,760 Speaker 1: and it kind of almost sounds like they were asking 175 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: for it. So I'm talking about people like influencer Haley 176 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:24,719 Speaker 1: Bailey Khalil, who goes by Hailey Bailey on TikTok, who 177 00:09:24,760 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: posted a video of herself at the Mecala pre event 178 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 1: lip syncing to the alleged Marie Antoinette quote let Them 179 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: Eat Cake from the Sofia Coppola two thousand and six 180 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 1: movie Marie Antoinette, which is a masterpiece, go see it. However, 181 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: I just learned this. Did you know that Marie Antoinette 182 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: might not have actually even ever said let them eat cake? 183 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 4: I did not know that. I thought it was an 184 00:09:45,640 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 4: actual quote. 185 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: No, historians don't even think she ever actually said that. 186 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:50,960 Speaker 4: Huh. 187 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: Fascinating so basically, this influencer really not something I would 188 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: have recommended she'd do. She posted a video from the 189 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: Mechala lip syncing Marie antoinettes Let Them Eat Cake, and 190 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: people unsurprisingly did not like this. And so this whole 191 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: celebrity blockout thing started with TikTok user Ray, who goes 192 00:10:13,559 --> 00:10:16,760 Speaker 1: by Lady from the Outside, who really kicked off the movement, 193 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: specifically asking for TikTok users to unfollow Bailey, the influencer 194 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 1: who made that let Them Eat Cake video from the Mechala, 195 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 1: specifically asking for users to block her in particular. But 196 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 1: now it has led the people making lists of celebrities 197 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:34,640 Speaker 1: to block just generally who have not used their platform 198 00:10:34,720 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: to speak up. Here's what Ray said about the celebrity 199 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:41,240 Speaker 1: blockout movement on TikTok. She said, we gave them their platforms. 200 00:10:41,280 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: It's time to take it back. Take our views away, 201 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: our likes, our comments, our money now. There has been 202 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:49,520 Speaker 1: a suggestion that this movement could be making a real 203 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: dent in some celebrities social media followings. Middle East Monitor 204 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 1: reported that according to Social Blade, a US based social 205 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: media and a lids website, it has caused some celebrities 206 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: to lose followers. They reported that Selena Gomez lost one 207 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 1: million followers on Instagram and one hundred thousand on x 208 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: Zindeya lost one hundred and fifty three thousand followers on 209 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: Instagram and forty thousand on x Kim Kardashian lost seven 210 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,960 Speaker 1: hundred and eighty thousand followers on Instagram, and her sister 211 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 1: Kaylie Jenner lost five hundred and forty thousand followers on 212 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: Instagram and fifty three thousand followers on x SO. I 213 00:11:21,320 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: would say those are like decent chunks of followings that 214 00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: they have lost. However, I don't know if you have 215 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: millions and millions and millions of followers, I don't know 216 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: that that it sounds like it seems like a drop 217 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:32,839 Speaker 1: in the bucket. I don't know. I don't know that 218 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 1: they're really going to feel this in their wallets, I guess, 219 00:11:34,760 --> 00:11:36,959 Speaker 1: is what I'm saying. If that is the intent of this. 220 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 4: Movement, Yeah, I mean. 221 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:44,960 Speaker 3: I and you said the hashtag was digitein like a 222 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,079 Speaker 3: mashup of digital and guillotine. 223 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: That's right. 224 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:51,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like pretty intense, you know, like you could 225 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 3: be mad at celebrities. But I don't know, I feel 226 00:11:54,400 --> 00:12:00,280 Speaker 3: like maybe invoking the French Revolution and the right of 227 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 3: terror specifically is like not what we need in twenty 228 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:04,200 Speaker 3: twenty four. 229 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 4: Maybe these people feel differently. 230 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: Mike doesn't make it's time to roll in the gallows? 231 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, like maybe not. 232 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I'm not necessarily saying that, you know, 233 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 3: who knows who's going to be in power when you know, 234 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be some sort of counter revolutionary here. 235 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,160 Speaker 1: I mean, I kind of I'm I guess I'm a 236 00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: little bit conflicted. I do think this whole thing represents 237 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: where we are when it comes to celebrity right now. 238 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,319 Speaker 1: I think that unless you are somebody who is a 239 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:41,079 Speaker 1: hardcore stan of somebody, I don't think that in general 240 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: people are really looking to celebrities the same way that 241 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: maybe they once were. Ultimately, I personally just do not 242 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: have any kind of faith and celebrity whatsoever. Like obviously, 243 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,000 Speaker 1: I think it's like nice and good or whatever when 244 00:12:54,000 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: they use their platforms for good, and they should do 245 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 1: that and all of that. But I just think that 246 00:12:58,080 --> 00:13:01,560 Speaker 1: we should be looking the celebrities less in general, and truly, 247 00:13:01,600 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: if there was one moment in the in the recent 248 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: past that I think solidified how useless celebrity is and 249 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 1: how we also be looking to celebrity less for all things. 250 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:16,959 Speaker 1: It was the twenty twenty Imagine video when it was 251 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:21,240 Speaker 1: the early days of COVID, and celebrities were like, you 252 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 1: know what everyone is in their houses. People are scared. 253 00:13:24,679 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: You know, we can offer the world us singing John 254 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: Lennon's Imagine. Do you remember this? 255 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 4: I do? 256 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe you're right, maybe that was like I don't 257 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 3: know that that caused the end of celebrity, but it 258 00:13:37,880 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 3: definitely does seem like a. 259 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 4: Good indicator that. 260 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:46,200 Speaker 3: Things are not like they were, right, like, uh, yeah, 261 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 3: we celebrities do not have that place in culture that 262 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 3: they used to. They're just like they're just like us, right, 263 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 3: it's like page five everywhere. 264 00:13:56,320 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really think of that video. That Imagine video 265 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: is my Roman empire. I always wonder do our celebrities like, well, 266 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 1: I only got roped into this because Gal Gadot asked me, 267 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: or Will Ferrell asked me. He wrote me into it, 268 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 1: like like celerity celebrities look at who convinced them to 269 00:14:14,280 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: do that, and they're like, why did I get mixed 270 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: up in that? And I really see it in conjunction 271 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:19,920 Speaker 1: with I know you're not gonna know what this is, 272 00:14:19,960 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: so bear with me. But the twenty fourteen selfie that 273 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 1: Ellen took at the Oscars where it's like Ellen and 274 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: Bradley Cooper and Jennifer Lawrence and Kevin Spacey, I think 275 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: like it's it's like a bunch of celebrities all crowded 276 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:41,400 Speaker 1: into a selfie that Ellen is taking. And I remember 277 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:43,200 Speaker 1: when it came out, everybody was like losing their mind, like, 278 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: oh my god, all these celebrities together, Oh, oh my god, 279 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god, oh my god. And it's just funny. 280 00:14:47,400 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: Now how like five years later, six years later, in 281 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: twenty twenty, how collectively we were like, we don't need 282 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 1: celebrities right now. We don't want to see this. 283 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, not like that. Yeah, I guess is it? Is it? 284 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 4: Lusers now? Is it? Nobody? 285 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: Is it? 286 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:02,560 Speaker 4: Mister beast? 287 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: You keep trying to sprinkle mister Beast into conversation and 288 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: then he will be like, I don't want I don't 289 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: want to talk about him, I don't want any follow up. 290 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: I want to reference him, and I want to move on. 291 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:16,120 Speaker 4: I gets I'm curious. Yeah, I don't get it. 292 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 1: You've not done this on the mic so listeners have 293 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: no idea what I'm talking about. But in non recorded 294 00:15:23,560 --> 00:15:27,400 Speaker 1: conversation you will reference mister Beast, like, who is this 295 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 1: mister Beasts? Why is he everywhere? Why am I reading 296 00:15:29,360 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: about him in the New York Times? And I'll start 297 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 1: to go like tell you, and You're like, I don't 298 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: actually want to know, I just want to like raise 299 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: the question. 300 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 4: I'm just asking questions. Bridget, Yeah, you're. 301 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: Just asking questions that need answers about mister Beasts. 302 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 2: Let's take quick break at our back. 303 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: So you know who else is just asking questions. The 304 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: FTC to Better Help, and if you get your therapy 305 00:16:09,560 --> 00:16:12,200 Speaker 1: and mental health services from better Help, you might have 306 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: gotten notice that will be getting an insultingly low refund. Soon, 307 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:20,160 Speaker 1: around eight hundred thousand customers of the online therapy platform 308 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 1: Better Help will start getting refund notices related to a 309 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: settlement with the Federal Trade Commission because last year Better 310 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: Help agreed to pay seven point eight million dollars to 311 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 1: settle the FTC charges that it co opted user data, 312 00:16:32,800 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 1: including personal health questions, for advertising purposes, sharing sensitive information 313 00:16:38,000 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 1: with social media platforms like Facebook and Snapchat. So the 314 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 1: FTC allegs that better help not only failed to get 315 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: consent before sharing this data, they also misled users by 316 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: promising they would keep their data private but then sharing 317 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: it with advertising companies like Meta and Snapchat. Now Betterhelp 318 00:16:56,880 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 1: did not admit to any of this, although they are 319 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: paying the settlement. I had in a statement this week 320 00:17:00,960 --> 00:17:03,560 Speaker 1: that they were quote deeply committed to the privacy of 321 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 1: our members and we value the trust people put in 322 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: us by using our services. So I don't know how 323 00:17:08,080 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 1: deeply committed to the privacy of their members they can 324 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: be if they're just given their sensitive information to whoever 325 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 1: wants it for money. 326 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:18,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, and after telling people that they wouldn't do that, 327 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 3: that they would keep their information private. Yeah, with some 328 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 3: pretty damning allegations. 329 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 1: And this is something that you have particular expertise in, right, Mike. 330 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. Some. 331 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 3: I mean it's not like, you know, rocket science, the 332 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 3: idea that when you are dealing with people's sensitive health 333 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 3: information and you tell them that it will be kept private, 334 00:17:40,359 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 3: they could reasonably expect that it would be kept private 335 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 3: and not shared with advertising companies to market goods to them. 336 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 1: You know. 337 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:53,320 Speaker 3: It was I think I was reading the FTC complaint 338 00:17:53,320 --> 00:18:00,080 Speaker 3: here and it seemed like that misleading aspect was a 339 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:04,239 Speaker 3: big core part of their complaint. 340 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,800 Speaker 1: So it is not just Better Help. Eligible refund customers 341 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: include anybody who paid for services on Better Help or 342 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: any of its affiliated websites that cater to certain communities 343 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 1: like youth or queer people, places like Team Counseling, Faithful Counseling, 344 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: or Pride Counseling. If you use those services from August first, 345 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:26,560 Speaker 1: twenty seventeen to December thirty first, twenty twenty, you are 346 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 1: eligible for a refund. Okay, so you are a member 347 00:18:30,480 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 1: of a vulnerable community. Right, Your therapy app has just 348 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 1: gotten pinched for selling your deepest, most intimate details that 349 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 1: you thought you were sharing with your mental health professional 350 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,159 Speaker 1: and them alone. Right, So now Betterhelp is like, okay, 351 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:48,199 Speaker 1: maybe we did this. We need to compensate you for 352 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: this wrongdoing. What do you think is a number amount 353 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 1: that you think is commiserate with that with what happened there? 354 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:01,919 Speaker 3: For like, what is the the value of my privacy? 355 00:19:02,040 --> 00:19:03,520 Speaker 3: Like how much would it be worth to me to 356 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 3: not unwittingly share personal information about me and my health? 357 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:14,639 Speaker 3: How much would that be worth? Yes, I don't know. 358 00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 3: I mean that seems like some pretty pretty big stuff. 359 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 3: It's hard to put a dollar amount on that kind 360 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:20,200 Speaker 3: of personal information, you. 361 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 1: Know, how about less than ten of them. 362 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 4: Dollars? 363 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:29,560 Speaker 1: How about less than ten dollars? People got less than 364 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: ten dollars. When I saw that, it's just it's I'm 365 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: a big proponent of like take your little money, like 366 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:41,920 Speaker 1: even if it's a dollar, get your coffee whatever. Ten 367 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: dollars is like insultingly low for what they have been 368 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 1: alleged to have done wrong, selling the most intimate data 369 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 1: and then telling people like don't worry, it's going to 370 00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,840 Speaker 1: be between you and a doctor and Snapchat and Mark 371 00:19:56,920 --> 00:20:01,400 Speaker 1: Zuckerberg and his stylist team, and like it's like I'm like, whoa, what, 372 00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 1: here's how ella unchained? Put it on threads better help 373 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 1: sold my data to Facebook? And all I got was 374 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: this nine dollars and seventy two cent refund. Corporate accountability 375 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:14,440 Speaker 1: is a shoke, And I completely agree. When I saw 376 00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:17,199 Speaker 1: that amount of money, I was like shocked that that 377 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,480 Speaker 1: is how low that they were giving out. And I 378 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:22,199 Speaker 1: think that threads is that what we're calling threads. I 379 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: think that thread or whatever post on threads really nails 380 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:28,159 Speaker 1: how I feel about it. That like tech platforms and 381 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 1: lacks policy and lack of accountability have created this dynamic 382 00:20:31,720 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 1: where nothing private or intimate about us is not for sale. 383 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: Even if they tell you that it's not for sale, 384 00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 1: it is still for sale, even the stuff that you 385 00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:44,320 Speaker 1: talk about with your mental health professional. A dynamic that 386 00:20:44,359 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 1: we once really understood as private and sacred and intimate, 387 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:51,159 Speaker 1: even that it's for sale. And when they sell it 388 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 1: in a way that the government says breaks the law, 389 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: they will barely face any consequences for it, And the 390 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,200 Speaker 1: compensation that you, as the person who was exploited, will 391 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 1: get from that will be not just low, insultingly low, 392 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:05,800 Speaker 1: like an embarrassingly low. 393 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:06,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right. 394 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:11,399 Speaker 3: It really speaks to the expectation we have that people 395 00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:15,640 Speaker 3: don't have privacy, that all of our private information is 396 00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 3: available to be sold and traded and used to market 397 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 3: us goods. And I think that's a really destructive norm 398 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:30,960 Speaker 3: to have. And you know, it's not like in some ways, 399 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 3: it's just endemic to everything being online, right, Like it's 400 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:42,040 Speaker 3: just a fact of the digital world that every product, 401 00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 3: every service is just like one business entity away from 402 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 3: an advertising company who's trying to use your eyeballs and 403 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,159 Speaker 3: your attention to sell you stuff, and so there's just 404 00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 3: like so much pressure there and incentive to violate people's 405 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 3: privacy and use personal information to surface them advertising. That 406 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:09,040 Speaker 3: just wasn't there in previous eras of like health in 407 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,359 Speaker 3: you know, personal health information, when it was all kept 408 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,520 Speaker 3: in paper files at a hospital. They just didn't have 409 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 3: the opportunity or the incentive to try to use that 410 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 3: for advertising. Whereas now that's you know, for companies like 411 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 3: Better Help. I think probably a big part of their 412 00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:28,880 Speaker 3: business model is advertising. 413 00:22:29,200 --> 00:22:34,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, And I guess, just philosophically, I think that we 414 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 1: should all be stopping to wonder, like, do we want 415 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 1: the most intimate parts of who we are, the parts 416 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:42,679 Speaker 1: that we share when we're vulnerable, the parts that we 417 00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,080 Speaker 1: share when we're told no one else will hear them 418 00:22:45,160 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: except for this one health professional. Do we want that 419 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:50,800 Speaker 1: to be fair game to be taken from us and 420 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: use to exploit us? Like I just you know, you know, 421 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: I went to Catholic school. It would be like if 422 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 1: you did confession and you confess something in the confess 423 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,600 Speaker 1: what you were told was between you and your religious leader, 424 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,880 Speaker 1: and then the next thing, you know, it's like, oh, 425 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 1: did you cheat on your spouse. Here's an advertisement for 426 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: a spouse cheating. You're like, what, wait a minute, like 427 00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: that would be we would not accept that. So, like, 428 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,000 Speaker 1: I think it's really like a philosophical thing of like, 429 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:21,639 Speaker 1: do we want these very intimate things that we share 430 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 1: to just be fodder to exploit us further and for 431 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 1: some tech company to make money from us. 432 00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:29,919 Speaker 4: I argue, now this indulgence has been brought to you 433 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 4: by Ashley Madison. 434 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,240 Speaker 1: I'm sure somebody somewhere is working on if it doesn't 435 00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 1: exist already, somebody somewhere is working on like a confessional 436 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: app where when you make the confession, how they make 437 00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: money is selling the data about the confession about you. 438 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,120 Speaker 1: Someone has that app. You can't convince me that does 439 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: not exist. 440 00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think I totally agree there needs to 441 00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 3: be more I don't know safeguards against this right, like 442 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 3: we need a federal law protecting privacy. We don't have 443 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:09,360 Speaker 3: that right. So we're left with companies like Better Help. 444 00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,959 Speaker 3: They can can do things like this, and you know, 445 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 3: may point to the fact that it's kind of a 446 00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,320 Speaker 3: new space and there'ren't really rules, so maybe they can 447 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 3: you know, write a check and not have to admit 448 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 3: to any wrongdoing. What we need are some like clear 449 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 3: standards around privacy where you know, as a society and 450 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:39,200 Speaker 3: you know, backed up by laws, we've clearly stated that 451 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 3: this sort of thing is not okay. Privacy is worth something, 452 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:48,520 Speaker 3: and hopefully that is more than nine dollars and seventy 453 00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:49,119 Speaker 3: two cents. 454 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: Yes. So the reason that I wanted to talk about 455 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 1: this is because we actually did an episode about Betterhelp 456 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:57,080 Speaker 1: in the wake of the Astro World crowd crush incident 457 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: that left a bunch of people, including children dead. I 458 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: was really take it up by that story, especially when 459 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,439 Speaker 1: in the wake of that the organizers announced that they 460 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:09,600 Speaker 1: were going to be offering free, like a free trial 461 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,280 Speaker 1: of Better Help mental health services. That whole thing that's 462 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: left a terrible taste in my mouth, from the fact 463 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: that they were that it was better Help to begin 464 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:21,560 Speaker 1: with and not like go talk to a licensed mental 465 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: health professional in your community or whatever, and the fact 466 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: that it was like I think they were offering like 467 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 1: three months or something. I'm like, oh, yeah, if you 468 00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: almost died in a crowd crush incident, you might need 469 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,159 Speaker 1: more than a free Better Help trial to help you 470 00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: navigate that. And it just felt to me like, Oh, 471 00:25:34,840 --> 00:25:39,840 Speaker 1: these people were harmed, and now to compensate for that harm, 472 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: they are going to be served up for another platform 473 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 1: that will only further exploit and take from them. I 474 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,640 Speaker 1: found it really despicable. And so one of the things 475 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,120 Speaker 1: that came up in that episode that we did about 476 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: Better Help was the relationship that Better Help has with 477 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: the podcasting industry. If you listen to podcasts, which I 478 00:25:57,080 --> 00:25:59,359 Speaker 1: guess you obviously do because you're hearing me say this 479 00:25:59,480 --> 00:26:01,919 Speaker 1: right now, I or I guess maybe you're my upstairs 480 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,880 Speaker 1: neighbor who is like listening to me for court this, 481 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,840 Speaker 1: I bet you know. If you listen to podcasts, you've 482 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 1: probably heard an ad for Better Help or two. According 483 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:14,439 Speaker 1: to NBC in March, Better Help spend eight point three 484 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:19,040 Speaker 1: million dollars on podcast opportunities, nearly double the next biggest sponsor, 485 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 1: which is Amazon. And also, just to put that in context, 486 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: they spend eight point three million dollars on podcasting opportunity 487 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: advertising in March alone. What they had to pay for 488 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 1: misusing the data of almost a million people was seven 489 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,800 Speaker 1: point eight million dollars. So there's really it's like, when 490 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: I say that, it feels like a slap on the 491 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,159 Speaker 1: wrist or a drop in the bucket to them. That 492 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: is what I mean. They could just pull their advertising 493 00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,640 Speaker 1: from podcasts for a month and it would still be 494 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: more than they paid out to these people whose data 495 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: they misused. And despite the fact that we have made 496 00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:55,239 Speaker 1: episodes talking about better Help and they're sometimes not so 497 00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: great policies, they have reached out to us to advertise 498 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: on this podcast. And it kind of goes back to 499 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:04,239 Speaker 1: something that came up in our Andrew Huberman episodes that 500 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: you know, podcasting is this weird space where it's a business, 501 00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 1: and that in a lot of cases you just have 502 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:12,640 Speaker 1: to take ads to make sure that the people who 503 00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:15,479 Speaker 1: make the show can continue to be paid. But you 504 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:19,600 Speaker 1: walk this line of not wanting to take money from 505 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 1: companies whose practices are not on the level with wanting 506 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: to keep the lights on. And so I don't want 507 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,480 Speaker 1: to make it seem like I'm gloating that, like, oh, 508 00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 1: podcasters who made ads for better Help are bad and 509 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: they should be doing XYZ, because I recognize, like, as 510 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:37,280 Speaker 1: a podcaster, I completely get that it is complicated, but 511 00:27:38,320 --> 00:27:42,199 Speaker 1: because Better Help took up so much space in the 512 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: podcasting landscape, I just think it's important to talk about 513 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,000 Speaker 1: this on a podcast that if you've heard better Help 514 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: ads and you've thought about using better Help, this is 515 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 1: just information and context that you should know about how 516 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: a government says they have been exploiting people who pay 517 00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:01,399 Speaker 1: for their services. Okay, so quick heads up that this 518 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 1: story does involve sex crimes against children. A New York 519 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 1: Times piece just added a lot more context to a 520 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,560 Speaker 1: story that we've been talking about a ton on the podcast, 521 00:28:11,800 --> 00:28:14,440 Speaker 1: and that is the way that Instagram has been knowingly 522 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:19,160 Speaker 1: connecting children to adult men who are sexually interested in kids. 523 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,200 Speaker 1: So people who run brands related to children, for products 524 00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: like children's jewelry or children's clothing, will run paid ads 525 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 1: on Instagram, and they'll tell Instagram like, I want to 526 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 1: show these ads to people who are interested in things 527 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 1: related to kids, like obviously trying to reach moms who 528 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,439 Speaker 1: might buy kids clothing or kids jewelry, which makes a 529 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: ton of sense. But then they will look at their 530 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: back end data, and that data will show them that 531 00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:46,280 Speaker 1: Instagram is actually serving those ads, which are pictures of 532 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: kids using these products to adult men. This whole thing 533 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 1: started when a mom happened to reach out to the 534 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 1: New York Times after seeing their previous reporting. It's The 535 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: New York Times writes. When a children's jewelry maker began 536 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,440 Speaker 1: advertising on Instagram, she promoted photos of a five year 537 00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,280 Speaker 1: old girl wearing a sparkly charm to users interested in 538 00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 1: parenting children, ballet, and other topics identified by Meta as 539 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: appealing mostly to women. But when the merchant got the 540 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 1: automated results of her ad campaign from Instagram, the opposite 541 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 1: had happened. The ads had gone almost entirely to adult men. 542 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: Perplexed and concerned, the merchant contact with The New York Times, 543 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,200 Speaker 1: which had recently published multiple articles about the abuse of 544 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,000 Speaker 1: children on social media platforms. In February, the Times investigated 545 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: Instagram accounts run by parents for their young daughters and 546 00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 1: the dark underworld of men who have sexualized interactions with 547 00:29:35,520 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 1: those accounts. With the photos from the jewelry ads in hand, 548 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: the Time set out to understand why they attracted an 549 00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: unwonted audience. Test Ads run by The Times using the 550 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:49,240 Speaker 1: same photos with no text not only replicated the merchant's experience, 551 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 1: they drew the attention of convicted sex offenders and other 552 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: men whose accounts indicated a sexual interest in children or 553 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: who wrote sexual messages. So The Times was like, we're 554 00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: going to get to the this. They did an investigation 555 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: where their reporters opened two Instagram accounts and promoted posts 556 00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: showing a five year old girl her face turned away 557 00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 1: from the camera, wearing a tank top and a charm 558 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 1: Then separate posts showed the clothing and jewelry without the 559 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,479 Speaker 1: child model or with a black box kind of covering 560 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,840 Speaker 1: her up. All of the paid ads were promoted to 561 00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:21,240 Speaker 1: people interested in topics like childhood, dance and cheerleading, which 562 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 1: metas audience tools estimated as predominantly women. What they found 563 00:30:25,240 --> 00:30:30,200 Speaker 1: from this experiment is horrifying. Aside from reaching a surprisingly 564 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: large proportion of men, the ads got direct responses from 565 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: dozens of Instagram users, including phone calls from two accused 566 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:42,080 Speaker 1: sex offenders, offers to pay the child for sexual acts, 567 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: and professions of love. 568 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 3: H That is gross. That seems like the sort of 569 00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 3: thing that we should be involved in. 570 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: Well yeah, and I guess what makes it even more 571 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,680 Speaker 1: horrifying is that all of this really suggests that the 572 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 1: platform's algorithm are playing a role in directing these men 573 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: to photos of children to sexualize and DM and reach 574 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 1: out to and so previously we had talked about this 575 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: bombshell New York Times investigation about how Instagram was using 576 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 1: a loophole to allow grown adult men to connect directly 577 00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 1: with children like as young as like five six seven 578 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: on the platform by allowing men to subscribe to these 579 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:27,200 Speaker 1: like Mommy Run accounts that were set up on behalf 580 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: of the children, because adults are not meant to be 581 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: able to subscribe to the accounts of kids. But if 582 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,480 Speaker 1: the account is technically like a mom run account, that 583 00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,120 Speaker 1: is a loophole where adults can subscribe to the content 584 00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,719 Speaker 1: of kids. And like this New York Times investigation showed 585 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 1: that people who worked at Facebook were like, oh, this 586 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 1: seems to be a loophole that is allowing grown men 587 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,160 Speaker 1: to connect with children. So Facebook was certainly aware this 588 00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 1: was happening, like their own engineers were telling them this 589 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 1: was happening. And so this new report says there is 590 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 1: a lot of overlap between the men who are connecting 591 00:32:03,280 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: to children via these mom run accounts and the men 592 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: for whom the algorithm is surfacing this paid ad content 593 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 1: involving kids. The New York Times rights an analysis of 594 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 1: the users who interacted with these ads posted by the 595 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 1: Times found an overlap between these two worlds. About three 596 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 1: dozen of the men followed child influencer accounts that were 597 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: run by parents and were previously studied by The Times. 598 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 1: One followed one hundred and forty of them. In addition, 599 00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 1: nearly one hundred of the men followed accounts featured or 600 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 1: advertising adult pornography, which is barred under Instagram's rules. So 601 00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:40,719 Speaker 1: all of this is like, pretty horrifying, pretty terrible. Do 602 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,040 Speaker 1: you want to take a guest at Instagram's response to 603 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 1: all of this was. 604 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 4: It like a snappy sweater and a silver chain. 605 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 1: It was Have you seen Mark Zuckerberg's new look? People 606 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,719 Speaker 1: are saying he has a hashtag glow up. 607 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 4: No. 608 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 1: Their response was it's really not that big of a deal. 609 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: Danny Lever, a spokesperson for Meta, dismissed the Times ad 610 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 1: tests as quote a manufactured experience that failed to account 611 00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 1: for the many factors that contribute to who ultimately sees 612 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,000 Speaker 1: an ad, and suggested that it was flawed and unsound 613 00:33:12,040 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 1: to draw conclusions from limited data. This really reminds me 614 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: of how Twitter responded when Media Matters and other watchdog 615 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: organizations were pointing out these dart pockets where nefarious people 616 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 1: were using the platform together, and they were like, oh, well, 617 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:30,400 Speaker 1: you would only see that if you met xyz circumstances. 618 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 1: That's manufactured data. But that is exactly the point, Like 619 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 1: pedophiles are taking advantage of these unexamined corners of the 620 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: platform to connect with kids. So even if they're saying, well, 621 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 1: most people wouldn't get these results and most people wouldn't 622 00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,960 Speaker 1: have this experience, that is exactly what these people are saying, 623 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,160 Speaker 1: is that pedophiles are taking advantage of the fact that 624 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,680 Speaker 1: this is a little bit under the radar to operate 625 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 1: in plain sight. So the way that Facebook is responding 626 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: it makes me feel that they don't really understand what's 627 00:33:58,560 --> 00:33:59,920 Speaker 1: actually the threat. 628 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:05,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think I totally agree that they It 629 00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 3: sounds a lot like that way the way Twitter responded 630 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 3: to that Media Matters investigation of like how easy it 631 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:20,719 Speaker 3: was to get to hateful comment through specific searches. But 632 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:23,480 Speaker 3: this actually feels substantially different from that. When you were 633 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,920 Speaker 3: describing what The Times did, it sounded like a quite 634 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 3: good experiment that was set up using paid ads to 635 00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 3: see what the algorithm would do and to you know, 636 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 3: who would surface this ad. 637 00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:42,399 Speaker 4: To so you know, they can this spokesperson can say 638 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 4: that the methodology was flawed and unsound, but when you 639 00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 4: described it to me, it sounded pretty sound. 640 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,760 Speaker 1: Well, what's interesting is that the New York Times talked 641 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: to like former Facebook engineers, and then they talked to 642 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,880 Speaker 1: Peter Sapienski, a research scientist at Northeastern University who specializes 643 00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:04,400 Speaker 1: testing online algorithms, and he basically said that it sounds 644 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 1: like these algorithms are working as intended and as designed 645 00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,960 Speaker 1: by Facebook. So what's really interesting to me is that 646 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 1: the potential algorithmic reason that this is happening, which is 647 00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:19,880 Speaker 1: that most ads on Instagram are designed to reach women 648 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:21,839 Speaker 1: because women are more likely to be buying stuff from 649 00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,600 Speaker 1: Instagram as and so we're like a more competitive audience. However, 650 00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 1: reaching men is a lot easier. Peter Sapienski that research 651 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,200 Speaker 1: scientists at Northeastern put it this way. He said that 652 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,120 Speaker 1: advertisers compete with one another to reach women because they 653 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:38,400 Speaker 1: dominate US consumer spending. He said, as a result, the 654 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: algorithm probably focused on highly interested easier to reach men 655 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:46,160 Speaker 1: who had interacted with similar content. The men do engage, 656 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: he said, the machine is doing exactly what you want 657 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 1: it to do. 658 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:53,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, on one level, that is what the machine 659 00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 3: is supposed to do. On another level, it seems pretty 660 00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:01,839 Speaker 3: bad that that is what the machine is supposed to do, Like, 661 00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 3: there should probably be something to prevent that from happening. 662 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 1: So it's horrifying as all of this is. The Times 663 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,400 Speaker 1: also looked into the kind of men who were dming 664 00:36:13,440 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: and engaging with these accounts, some of whom use their 665 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:18,480 Speaker 1: real names or link to their real identities from their 666 00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 1: Facebook pages, and some of them have convictions for sex 667 00:36:22,000 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 1: crimes against children. Now, per Meta's rules, people who are 668 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,760 Speaker 1: sex offenders or have been convicted of sex crimes against 669 00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 1: kids are not allowed to have Instagram accounts. However, these 670 00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: people did have Instagram accounts, and it's not clear how 671 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:37,800 Speaker 1: they did have Instagram accounts that they're meant to be 672 00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 1: registering their email addresses, and Meta has a program that 673 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,840 Speaker 1: is meant to keep them from having these accounts. I 674 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 1: don't know why or how, but that did not work. 675 00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: So when The New York Times used Meta's internal tool 676 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 1: to flag these accounts and tell Facebook like, hey, these 677 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: people have been convicted of sex crimes against kids, or hey, 678 00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,920 Speaker 1: these people are on sex offender registries. Per your rule, 679 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: they should not have Instagram accounts. They used Meta's own 680 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:07,080 Speaker 1: internal tools to flag these accounts, and Meta did not 681 00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 1: remove them. According to The New York Times, the accounts 682 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,600 Speaker 1: remained online for about a week until the Times flag 683 00:37:12,680 --> 00:37:15,520 Speaker 1: them to accompany spokesperson. And so I guess this is 684 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: my point. If you have these rules in place but 685 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,360 Speaker 1: then do nothing to make sure that they are followed, 686 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: in what way is it a meaningful rule? The fact 687 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 1: that your own tool that you internally used to flag 688 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 1: accounts that should not be on your platform, that The 689 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: New York Times could be flagging people who have been 690 00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: convicted of sex crimes against kids that you know are 691 00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 1: then using your platform to try to connect with children sexually, 692 00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: and you just leave them up until the New York 693 00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,000 Speaker 1: Times has to directly reach out to a spokesperson. I 694 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 1: would say that something is very broken, but per the 695 00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,800 Speaker 1: algorithm expert at Northeastern, things are working as intended. And so, 696 00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:59,480 Speaker 1: you know, it's really hard to say that something is 697 00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 1: broken when it actually kind of seems like things are 698 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,000 Speaker 1: working on with what they were designed to work. 699 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, Wilson. 700 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: More, after a quick. 701 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:23,440 Speaker 2: Break, let's get right back into it. 702 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:29,839 Speaker 1: Okay, so we have to talk about what is being 703 00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 1: called on the internet bumble fumble. So there's a ton 704 00:38:33,640 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 1: going on in the dating app scene right now, namely 705 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: that a lot of women are just fed up with 706 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,640 Speaker 1: dating apps. As y'all might recall bumble the dating app 707 00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 1: down than by Whitney wolf Heard used to have this 708 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 1: thing where their whole sort of gimmick was that the 709 00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:50,920 Speaker 1: women on the dating app would have to message first, 710 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,359 Speaker 1: and you couldn't talk to a woman without her being 711 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,719 Speaker 1: the first person to initiate conversation. But last week they 712 00:38:56,760 --> 00:39:01,040 Speaker 1: announced they are not doing that anymore. According to women 713 00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,799 Speaker 1: can now add prompts to their profiles for men to 714 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:07,640 Speaker 1: respond to. For same sex and non binariy users, either 715 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,400 Speaker 1: person can set and respond to these prompts called opening moves. 716 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,680 Speaker 1: This is all happening against a backdrop of I guess 717 00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: what you could call dating app fatigue. People are sort 718 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,920 Speaker 1: of sick of dating apps. I think that the idea 719 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,279 Speaker 1: that you would have to put so much work in 720 00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 1: to actually find a suitable mate. I also think there's 721 00:39:27,520 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 1: some screen time fatigue happening, where the idea that you 722 00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 1: would be on your phone on your screen all the 723 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: time and that that is the key to finding your mate. 724 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,080 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people are just fed up 725 00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:41,240 Speaker 1: with that, So listen, I have to say, like, I 726 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 1: am fascinated by the dating app Bumble as a company. 727 00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:49,200 Speaker 1: When it first started, the creator, Whitney wolf Heard, was 728 00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: working at Tinder, and in twenty fourteen, she was part 729 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,320 Speaker 1: of a team that launched Bumble after this like pretty 730 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:59,440 Speaker 1: tumultuous departure from Tinder, which she also helped launch. According 731 00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,560 Speaker 1: to NPR, she had this like string of bad relationships, 732 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,240 Speaker 1: one of which even involved a sexual harassment lawsuit against 733 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,520 Speaker 1: one of Tender's co founders, which was later settled. So 734 00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:13,080 Speaker 1: she used all of this experience to build a platform 735 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,360 Speaker 1: that put more power in the hands of women. So 736 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:19,839 Speaker 1: all of that sounds great, right, Like more power and 737 00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,600 Speaker 1: the women messaging first, like that gives women a lot 738 00:40:23,640 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: more autonomy, right, sounds great. However, NPR spoke to Demona Hoffman, 739 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,960 Speaker 1: an online dating coach and the author of the book 740 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,560 Speaker 1: f the fairy Tale, who basically said this whole women 741 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:38,880 Speaker 1: message first thing just leads a lot of women feeling 742 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,200 Speaker 1: like they have to do the bulk of the work 743 00:40:41,239 --> 00:40:43,680 Speaker 1: on dating sites, and like the bulk of the work 744 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 1: to keep the conversation going, keep things moving, is on them, 745 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 1: which if you are already working a full time job, 746 00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:54,320 Speaker 1: who wants dating to feel like another job? Like dating 747 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 1: is supposed to be fun, it's supposed to be enjoyable. 748 00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,400 Speaker 1: Who wants something that's like, oh yeah, more work piled 749 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,840 Speaker 1: on it. And because it's dating apps and they're like 750 00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:06,400 Speaker 1: algorithmically generated, at the end of the day, we're only 751 00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,640 Speaker 1: surfacing you the duves. 752 00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:13,440 Speaker 4: Not the duds. Oh man, it's a rough group to 753 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:14,760 Speaker 4: be in the dud group. 754 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:17,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you're Miilache may vary for what a 755 00:41:17,960 --> 00:41:20,000 Speaker 1: dud is to you, but you know a dud when 756 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,640 Speaker 1: you see one. And algorithms know who the duds are, 757 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:27,160 Speaker 1: and they those are the only profiles they surface to 758 00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:30,399 Speaker 1: you unless you are willing to pay for premium. Then 759 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:32,680 Speaker 1: they might show you somebody that you might actually want 760 00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:35,400 Speaker 1: to have sex with, But until you pay up, it's. 761 00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 4: Duds, poor broke duds. 762 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,880 Speaker 1: So I think all of this is kind of adding 763 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:46,920 Speaker 1: to this backdrop of dating app fatigue that people, particularly women, 764 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 1: are feeling with these these apps. However, Whitney, we've heard, 765 00:41:51,320 --> 00:41:55,800 Speaker 1: the co founder of Bumble actually has suggested an answer. 766 00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:59,239 Speaker 1: Your AI could just go on a date for you. 767 00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 1: Here's what she said. If you want to get really 768 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:04,840 Speaker 1: out there, there's a world where your AI dating concierge 769 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: to go on a date for you with other dating concierges, truly, 770 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:10,920 Speaker 1: and then you don't have to talk to six hundred people. 771 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 1: It will scan all of San Francisco for you and 772 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,400 Speaker 1: say these are the three people you really ought to meet. So, 773 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 1: for example, you could in the near future be talking 774 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,919 Speaker 1: to your AI dating concierge and share your insecurities. I've 775 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 1: just come out of a breakup, I've got commitment issues, 776 00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,479 Speaker 1: and it could help you train yourself into a better 777 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 1: way of thinking about yourself. 778 00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:34,279 Speaker 3: Sounds nice but also creepy and also like, come on, 779 00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:35,759 Speaker 3: that's that's not gonna work. 780 00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:37,520 Speaker 1: I would be remiss if I did not mention there 781 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 1: was literally a Black Mirror episode about two people's ais 782 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:45,839 Speaker 1: dating each other within the framework of a dating app, 783 00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:47,759 Speaker 1: and like that's how they find each other and know 784 00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,879 Speaker 1: they're compatible. So, given the story that we talked about 785 00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,440 Speaker 1: earlier about better help about how they just give the 786 00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:57,880 Speaker 1: most intimate data and information about us to Facebook and 787 00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:01,800 Speaker 1: Snapchat and whoever, else for money. I think we really 788 00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,759 Speaker 1: should be wary of this kind of AI integration into 789 00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 1: our romantic and sexual lives. So I know that the 790 00:43:07,920 --> 00:43:10,959 Speaker 1: idea of an AI dating concierge is very different from 791 00:43:11,000 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 1: like an AI enabled chat bot or love bot or 792 00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:19,600 Speaker 1: sex bot or romantic partner. But Mozilla Foundation looked into 793 00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:22,800 Speaker 1: it and found in an analysis of eleven romantic chatbot 794 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:27,120 Speaker 1: apps released in February that nearly every app tested sells 795 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:31,440 Speaker 1: user data, shares it for advertising, or doesn't provide adequate 796 00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:35,520 Speaker 1: information about any of these points and its privacy policies. 797 00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 1: So basically it's just the wild wild West already when 798 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,120 Speaker 1: it comes to AI and romance, and I think these 799 00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,880 Speaker 1: kinds of things become even more concerning for like queer 800 00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:50,879 Speaker 1: or gender expansive people, like are you someplace where it's 801 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 1: safe to have AI offering up intimate information about who 802 00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 1: you are and your identity to a potential date that 803 00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:01,240 Speaker 1: you yourself have not personally vetted, Like are you safe 804 00:44:01,280 --> 00:44:06,000 Speaker 1: if that information has pretty much no policies around who 805 00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:09,080 Speaker 1: that platform is going to share it with, how they 806 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 1: will share it with them, what third parties will have 807 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,400 Speaker 1: access to it? You know, I have said this before that, 808 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,680 Speaker 1: when you're talking about connecting with people in ways that 809 00:44:17,719 --> 00:44:23,480 Speaker 1: are intimate and happening. Irl, safety and privacy isn't just 810 00:44:23,520 --> 00:44:26,480 Speaker 1: a nice to have, Like it genuinely does matter. And 811 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: I'm just not sure that I would trust AI designed 812 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:33,120 Speaker 1: by like mostly white straight CIS men that we know 813 00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,279 Speaker 1: is like buggy and full of problems to do that 814 00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:38,320 Speaker 1: for me if the stakes really were high. 815 00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, the stakes definitely do seem pretty high. 816 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:44,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, especially if you're dating someplace where it's not safe 817 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:47,840 Speaker 1: to be your identity, if you're a queer or trands 818 00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:52,160 Speaker 1: are gay. Like, this is real. So we have to 819 00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,000 Speaker 1: talk about those Bumble ads, which are sort of being 820 00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:58,319 Speaker 1: referred to as the bumble Fumble. When I first saw 821 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:00,360 Speaker 1: this reported, I was like, well, they're really seeing an 822 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:02,880 Speaker 1: opportunity to like make bumble fumble a thing. But we 823 00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:07,960 Speaker 1: got there eventually, So bumble Fumble basically Bumble released these 824 00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:12,240 Speaker 1: billboards saying things like you know full well a valve 825 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,640 Speaker 1: celibacy is not the answer, and thou shalt not give 826 00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:18,359 Speaker 1: up on dating and become a nun. The ads were 827 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:22,399 Speaker 1: criticized and Bumble apologized, saying we made a mistake. Our 828 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,120 Speaker 1: ads referencing celibacy were an attempt to lean into a 829 00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:28,719 Speaker 1: community frustrated by modern dating, and instead of bringing joy 830 00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:34,080 Speaker 1: and humor, we unintentionally did the opposite. So I actually 831 00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 1: saw a lot of the criticism of these billboards and 832 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 1: people were saying like, oh, they're knocking celibacy as a 833 00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,440 Speaker 1: lifestyle all of that. Totally get that, but I actually 834 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:48,200 Speaker 1: have a different take. So I think that if anything, 835 00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:52,719 Speaker 1: the problem that Bumble was actually like making light of 836 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,560 Speaker 1: in a way that was in poor taste is that 837 00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:59,480 Speaker 1: Bumble is just no longer serving women, who they say 838 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:03,200 Speaker 1: is their life like main intended user base. So more 839 00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 1: and more women are just getting off of these platforms, 840 00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:09,759 Speaker 1: and on top of that, more and more bots are 841 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:13,240 Speaker 1: on these platforms too. Like I recently watched the Ashley 842 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,719 Speaker 1: Madison documentary on Netflix, and it is so wild how 843 00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:19,799 Speaker 1: they're basically like, oh yeah, on top of the like 844 00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:23,280 Speaker 1: cheating most of the time, we were just like charging 845 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,640 Speaker 1: stupid men twenty dollars a month to chat with bots 846 00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:31,440 Speaker 1: and other men and themselves. Right, So, like, dating apps 847 00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:34,880 Speaker 1: are kind of a like house of cards where women 848 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:38,560 Speaker 1: have been like this sucks, We're leaving, and these platforms 849 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 1: are like, oh god, we have to charge men who 850 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,040 Speaker 1: want to be in conversation with women for something, and 851 00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,800 Speaker 1: a lot of that is bots. And so I actually 852 00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:51,760 Speaker 1: see these ads as almost this like weird tone death 853 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:56,440 Speaker 1: plea to women to come back to these platforms, even 854 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,280 Speaker 1: though these platforms are kind of acknowledging that they failed 855 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:03,040 Speaker 1: them because the platforms need women on them to make money. 856 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:06,520 Speaker 1: And so I totally see what people who are saying like, oh, 857 00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,640 Speaker 1: this was a dig on celibacy are saying, but I 858 00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:11,200 Speaker 1: think it's actually more insulting than that. I think what 859 00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:15,360 Speaker 1: these platforms are saying is like, listen, women, we need 860 00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 1: you on this platform to make money. So like, what 861 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,640 Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Be celibate? No way, come back 862 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:21,720 Speaker 1: to our platform. 863 00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:27,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, it does feel a little like desperate and like 864 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 3: trying to be edgy, but just coming off as desperate, 865 00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:32,920 Speaker 3: which is definitely not a good look if you've ever 866 00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:33,800 Speaker 3: been on a dating. 867 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 1: Platform, especially if you are the dating platform. And I 868 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,680 Speaker 1: think desperate is the right word for it. And I 869 00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,720 Speaker 1: just feel like I wish we lived in a world 870 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:50,200 Speaker 1: where what these platforms were offering was functionally and meaningfully 871 00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:54,240 Speaker 1: just something better, something that feels like respect and fun 872 00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:59,600 Speaker 1: and exploration and excitement, not just fatigue, Like I don't know, 873 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 1: I get mirrors a lot of the different ways that 874 00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 1: people are feeling about digital experience these days, that it's 875 00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:10,360 Speaker 1: just fatigue. So Bumble really fumbled on this one. I'm 876 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 1: glad they apologized, But I think the problem is deeper 877 00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:16,840 Speaker 1: than just these billboards. I think that they are not 878 00:48:17,000 --> 00:48:20,720 Speaker 1: serving women. Women are smart enough to not stick around 879 00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,600 Speaker 1: where they are not having good experiences and where it's 880 00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:27,160 Speaker 1: clear that they, you know, aren't wanted or aren't value 881 00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,120 Speaker 1: And I think that's a real it's a it's a 882 00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 1: real problem, not just for the women that they're failing 883 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 1: to serve, but also for their business model, Like you 884 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:37,759 Speaker 1: can't just have a dynamic that women feel like they're 885 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: being mistreated and not served and expect them to continue 886 00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:43,240 Speaker 1: showing up for more of the same. 887 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:48,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, And maybe the problem is even broader and deeper 888 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:53,839 Speaker 3: that you know. The problem they're trying to solve is 889 00:48:54,480 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 3: people lacking human connection in their life. And and there's 890 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:05,320 Speaker 3: just the fundamental tension of offering people a digital tool 891 00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:09,520 Speaker 3: to solve that problem, where the financial success of that 892 00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 3: digital tool depends on people continuing to use that tool 893 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,320 Speaker 3: and continuing to engage with it and pay subscription fees 894 00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:17,240 Speaker 3: month after month. 895 00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 4: Yes, you know you can. You can have one, but 896 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:22,480 Speaker 4: you can't have them both. 897 00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:27,359 Speaker 1: And I fundamentally believe you know. In later on, in 898 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:31,880 Speaker 1: this conversation with Bloomberg that that Wendy wolf Heard had 899 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:35,920 Speaker 1: about the future of online dating, she was talking about 900 00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 1: this loneliness epidemic that we're all in, and that's very real. 901 00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:44,040 Speaker 1: But I'm not sure that the people who have given 902 00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 1: us our current tech and digital landscape are the same 903 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,560 Speaker 1: ones that I would trust or want to be using 904 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:56,680 Speaker 1: technology to solve our current loneliness crisis. Like the people 905 00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:59,360 Speaker 1: that got us into our current situation are not the 906 00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:00,960 Speaker 1: people that I would trust to get us out of it. 907 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:03,920 Speaker 1: Like if you drove my car into a ditch, I 908 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 1: don't think I would trust you to drive it out 909 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 1: of the ditch. I might say it's time for you 910 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 1: to sit in the back seat let somebody else take 911 00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:12,400 Speaker 1: a turn at the wheel. Yeah, well, Mike, thanks for 912 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:16,239 Speaker 1: being in the passenger seat on this journey through this 913 00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:17,840 Speaker 1: week's tech stories. 914 00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,719 Speaker 3: I appreciate it, Bridgid. 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