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Speaker 1: Advice. Hello, Hello, welcome to the Naughty but Nice Show.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rob Shooter. Every Tuesday, our friend Elena

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Mr Shooter. How are you doing today? Really good?

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Speaker 1: Tons of gossip, a lot of j Lo gossip to

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Speaker 1: get into jump into the show. What time is it?

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Speaker 1: My friends? It is hot today. So we told you first,

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Speaker 1: let's brag about this last Monday before anybody else was

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Speaker 1: talking about it. We told you that j Lo and

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Speaker 1: Ben were back together. Now it has been confirmed. We've

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Speaker 1: seen photographs of them together in Montana where he has

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Speaker 1: a house. Let me give you all the scoop. So

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Speaker 1: he's been emailing her for quite a while. To g

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Speaker 1: M C say, since February, he's been in undating her

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Speaker 1: with emails. So if it seems like benefit Part two

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Speaker 1: went from zero to a hundred really really quickly, what

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Speaker 1: we didn't see is zero to sort of fifty sixty

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Speaker 1: was all happening behind the scenes. So after she broke

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Speaker 1: up with a Rod, Ben was on that computer and

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Speaker 1: these were not just like hello emails, how are you emails?

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Speaker 1: These were romantic. They were very very aggressive. So they

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Speaker 1: decided to meet up in l A at her house.

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Speaker 1: Jennifer was the one dragon her heels a little bit here.

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Speaker 1: They got along magnificently and then he invited her to

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Speaker 1: are telling me they're now back in l A. Their

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Speaker 1: Sources are telling me they are in love. This is

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Speaker 1: not casually dating mysterio. This is the love that got

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Speaker 1: away that now they've got a chance to fix. They

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Speaker 1: I worked for Jennifer. I worked for Jennifer during benefit

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Speaker 1: part one, so I know these couple. My insiders are

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Speaker 1: telling me they will get engaged. Cool. Well, there's nothing

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Speaker 1: like going back to an X. I mean, you already

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Speaker 1: have this intimate history with one another, you know each

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Speaker 1: other's quirks, so it's really easy to get back into

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Speaker 1: a rhythm. And if I'm not mistaken, j Low still

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Speaker 1: has her engagement ring from Ben right, so I mean

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Speaker 1: all she needs now is a wedding dress and a venue.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean, Jennifer Lobe has has been looking

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Speaker 1: long time. I think we're all rooting for her to

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Speaker 1: find happiness. And if she found it again with Ben,

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Speaker 1: you know, so, oh be it best of luck. However,

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Speaker 1: there's usually a reason why you break up with someone,

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Speaker 1: and you have to keep that on the top. So

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Speaker 1: maybe you know, enjoy the rebound if it's more great,

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Speaker 1: if you're just enjoying it to get over a Rod,

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Speaker 1: I understand that too. Yeah, whatever the reason is here,

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Speaker 1: Jen loved her ex fiance a rod Alex, but never

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Speaker 1: like this. She thought it was love, But this is different.

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Speaker 1: This is a whirlwind. She's head over heel. She has

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Speaker 1: that butterfly feeling that you have. Literally, Benny's the one

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Speaker 1: the following quote, Jen might get to wear that wedding

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Speaker 1: dress she ordered, after all, so she was going to

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Speaker 1: So she's got the ring from Ben from a decade ago.

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Speaker 1: Jennifer reconnect. We've talked about that on this show. He

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Speaker 1: Will they get engaged again? Go and vote on our

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Speaker 1: Twitter page at Naughty Nice Rob. Facebook page is Naughty

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Speaker 1: your results. Misste Love, what are you working on? Well,

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Speaker 1: let's talk about the new season of The Bachelor Red.

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Speaker 1: So it's Katie Thurston sees in and she's getting something,

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Speaker 1: of what Katie brought when she was on Matt James season,

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Speaker 1: at Titia Adams and Caitlin Bristow as temporary hosts. I

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Speaker 1: of The Bachelorette. It's coming back June seven, only on

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Speaker 1: Abies Can't Wait. I love the ba I hate that,

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Speaker 1: into the house last season, so maybe it's funny. You know,

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Speaker 1: the producers really encourage them to do this too. So

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Speaker 1: if you go on the show, you're probably an extrovert.

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Speaker 1: You don't audition for these shows if you're shy. So

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Speaker 1: I have producers do encourage that, but they definitely push.

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Speaker 1: They let you know, to be as wild as you want.

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Speaker 1: So is this gentleman there for love or is he

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Speaker 1: there to be a start? That's what the problem with

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Speaker 1: this show is now, Mr. I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: be wildly entertaining. I think it's a mistake. Mr. How

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Speaker 1: talk about my body. This has turned into as for

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Speaker 1: your love life. Hey, you're welcome. Tom Cruise has returned

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Speaker 1: all three of his Golden Globes. So Tom is the

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Speaker 1: Press for legitimate outlets. It's always been a really strange

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Speaker 1: you and I should just start our own group for

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Speaker 1: share one the best Actress for Burlesk Angelina, one for

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Speaker 1: can throw private dinners. Harvey Weinstein really used this system

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Speaker 1: breaking news on Bill Gates? Lots of shocking stuff. I know, well,

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Speaker 1: of course we know him being a very very rich man,

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Speaker 1: so the Microsoft co founders, wild lifestyle was well known

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Speaker 1: He can do what he wants. This is what James

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Speaker 1: back to page six in two thousand and ten, where

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Speaker 1: they wrote that the then married mogul was dancing Paris

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Speaker 1: Young Women at Sundance Film Festival. This is really interesting

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Speaker 1: because it gives us some in site on his relationship

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Speaker 1: over the past twenty seven years and maybe one of

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Speaker 1: out this book is quite old. It's not a new book.

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Speaker 1: So the book by James Wallace has been out for

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Speaker 1: a while. I've ordered a copy. Now watch After the Divorce.

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