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Speaker 1: Thank you nephew. Subject. If he can do it, I

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Speaker 1: can too. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married to my

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Speaker 1: husband for six years now. Recently I found out that

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Speaker 1: he was cheating on me. He had nude photos of

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Speaker 1: his side chick on his phone, and I saw all

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Speaker 1: their text messages and even listen to all of his

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Speaker 1: voicemail messages. He got really mean and defensive when he

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Speaker 1: got exposed. He even told me that she was better

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Speaker 1: in bed than I am. And I am the reason

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Speaker 1: that he cheated. I let him have this woman on

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Speaker 1: the side, and I go on about my business because

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Speaker 1: I'm not leaving this house that I just fixed up.

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Speaker 1: What's bad is that a side chick married too, so

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Speaker 1: I could blow up her marriage if I was an

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Speaker 1: evil person. I keep my emotions in check by making love.

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Speaker 1: You ready for this one? By making love to my stepson.

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Speaker 1: My husband's son turned twenty two in December, yes okay,

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Speaker 1: and I went to drop his birthday presents off at

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Speaker 1: his apartment and he came to the door in his boxers.

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Speaker 1: It's like he knew what was up. He said, he

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Speaker 1: knows his dad is trash, and he wants to show

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Speaker 1: me that all men aren't dogs. I told him he

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Speaker 1: is not a man at all because he's barely legal.

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Speaker 1: He said he could show me better than he could

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Speaker 1: tell me, so I told him, let's do this. That

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Speaker 1: young man has changed my whole outlook on sex because

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Speaker 1: of what he does for me. I'm able to coexist

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Speaker 1: in my loveless marriage in a way. I want my

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Speaker 1: husband to know that two can play that game. But

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Speaker 1: it's his son, so that's tricky. My stepson is catching feelings,

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Speaker 1: so I told him we need to go slowly because

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Speaker 1: I'm not leaving his dad. Now. I've got the son

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Speaker 1: feelings some kind of way about us. In quotations. He

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Speaker 1: wants more and I can't give him that I turned

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Speaker 1: thirty in January, and I feel like society looks down

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Speaker 1: on women that date younger men. What should I do?

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Speaker 1: So this is what we're doing now for the getback.

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Speaker 1: We're sleeping with our husband's sons. I mean, I understand

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Speaker 1: you're hurt, but fooling around with his son is definitely

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Speaker 1: not the answer. It's too close to home, and you know,

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Speaker 1: this could blow up the family. This could break up

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Speaker 1: the entire family. I'm surprised that the son was so

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Speaker 1: bold as to come onto you like that, But you

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Speaker 1: guys are not that far apart in age, and he

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Speaker 1: obviously doesn't like or respect his father. He said his

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Speaker 1: father was trash. But have you thought this out? You

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Speaker 1: know there's a double standard in life with women and men.

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Speaker 1: You also know that two wrongs do not make a right.

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Speaker 1: I understand your hurt. Yes, he said some awful things

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Speaker 1: to you, some very mean things to you, and at

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Speaker 1: that time you had no defense. Now you do. I

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Speaker 1: just think that there are a lot of men in

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Speaker 1: the world. Why couldn't you Why you got to date

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Speaker 1: his twenty two year old son while you got to

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Speaker 1: sleep with him. Could it be that you've been feeling

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Speaker 1: some kind of way about his son. Anyway, Now you

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Speaker 1: guys are in this full fledged relationship, and now the

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Speaker 1: sun is catching feelings. And once more you say, but

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Speaker 1: you don't want to leave your husband or your home

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Speaker 1: because you just fixed that up. The son is going

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Speaker 1: to let it out. You do know that he's gonna

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Speaker 1: want to flex on his dad. So get ready to

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Speaker 1: leave because when your husband finds out, no matter what

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Speaker 1: he's done, he won't forgive you. Men don't usually do that. Steve,

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Speaker 1: if he.

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Speaker 2: Can do it, I can't.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well that can be your that's obviously attitude, and

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Speaker 3: that's what you decided to do.

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Speaker 2: His hew.

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Speaker 3: I started. They've been married sixteen years. I mean they've

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Speaker 3: been with you. He's been a husband for six years.

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Speaker 3: So that means when you married this man, this boy

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Speaker 3: that you with now, this young dude you with now,

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Speaker 3: was sixteen. I'm just throwing out some numbers here. Now,

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking, since this lady's thirty and her son in law,

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Speaker 3: could have had the boy when he was eighteen or twenty. So,

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Speaker 3: if I'm doing some numbers here, the dad right now,

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Speaker 3: if he had the boy, if he got a girl

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Speaker 3: pregnant when he was eighteen, the dad right now is forty.

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Speaker 3: If he got a girl pregnant when he was twenty,

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Speaker 3: the dad right now would be forty two. So I'm

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Speaker 3: just trying to get a little perspective of the numbers

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Speaker 3: we're talking about here. So the boy was, he's twenty two.

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Speaker 3: Now his dad is either forty or twenty two. He

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Speaker 3: at least. So now you got this man that's forty

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Speaker 3: forty two years old and got this house y'all live in,

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Speaker 3: and he was going through his phone, and you found

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Speaker 3: out that he's cheated, and you know, you saw text messages, photos,

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Speaker 3: nude pictures, voice messages, and he got mean and defensive

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Speaker 3: when you exposed it. He even told me she was

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Speaker 3: better in bed than I am. And I'm the reason

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Speaker 3: he cheated. So now he gonna try the ultimate gangs

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Speaker 3: to move on you by trying to embarrass you, humiliate you,

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Speaker 3: and make you the villain.

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Speaker 2: You the reason.

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Speaker 3: Okay, then you said I let him have his woman

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Speaker 3: on the side, and I went on by a bit

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Speaker 3: business because I'm not leaving this house that I just

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Speaker 3: fixed up. Okay, So now that statement there lets me

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Speaker 3: know that this house was probably in his name, which

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Speaker 3: is one of the one of the detracting reasons you went.

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Speaker 2: With this guy in the first place because he had something.

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Speaker 3: Now you done went in there and fixed it up,

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Speaker 3: and you not leaving the house you just fixed up

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Speaker 3: because you don't have no rights to claim the house

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Speaker 3: as yours. Most women who get cheated on by their

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Speaker 3: husband will put the man out. Don't you come in

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Speaker 3: here and come in his bed?

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Speaker 2: No more?

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Speaker 3: But the paperwork ain't right yet. I just wanted to

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Speaker 3: throw that out to you off before I come back

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Speaker 3: and tell you what happened when she took the boy's

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Speaker 3: in his drawers.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Steeve, hang on, we'll have part two of your

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Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject is if he can do it,

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Speaker 1: I can too. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject if he can do it, I can too.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know what I was going over this letter.

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Speaker 3: This woman who's married to this guy that's a little

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Speaker 3: bit older than her because he has a twenty two

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Speaker 3: year old son that just had a birthday. They've been

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Speaker 3: married six years, which means the son in law in

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Speaker 3: this letter, I mean the step son in this letter

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Speaker 3: was sixteen when she married the man. Probably knew him

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Speaker 3: a year or two before that before they got married.

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Speaker 3: So been around it will the board and grove up now.

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Speaker 3: And she was going through her husband's phone, found out

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Speaker 3: he's cheating on and found some new pictures, text messages,

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Speaker 3: voicemails and all that confirmed the guy.

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Speaker 2: The guy turns around and says, this is your fault.

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Speaker 3: She is better in bed than you, and you the

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Speaker 3: reason I cheated anyway, So now he gonna just throw

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Speaker 3: a double canandra on you, make you think you the

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Speaker 3: reason for it, and shame you like you ain't good enough.

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Speaker 3: So then but you said you're gonna let him go

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Speaker 3: on to have his little side chick, and you went

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Speaker 3: on about your business because you're not leaving this house

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Speaker 3: that you then fixed up. Obviously your paperwork ain't on it,

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Speaker 3: so y'all you did was decorate the house. So anyway,

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Speaker 3: and you say in the letter, I keep my emotions

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Speaker 3: in check by making love to my step son.

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Speaker 1: Wow wow wow wow.

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Speaker 3: Now just threw that out in the middle of the

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Speaker 3: damn letter. And then this is the story. My husband's

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Speaker 3: he came to the door in his boxes.

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Speaker 2: It's like he knew what was up. Lady.

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Speaker 3: First of all, this a twenty two year old young man.

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Speaker 3: Why you got to bring his birthday gifts over to

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Speaker 3: little boy's ears went back, Oh she want to come

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Speaker 3: over here and drop off the kills it? Well, you

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Speaker 3: know easily Hey, next time you overhear your dad's we

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Speaker 3: have some gifts for you. Now I'm gonna bring them

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Speaker 3: over to your apartment. Young Buck came up in their

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Speaker 3: draws on just draws. He said, he knows his da

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Speaker 3: men ain't dogs. I told him he's not a man

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Speaker 3: show me better than you tell. We're gonna call his

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Speaker 3: nickname is gonna be Jack Rabbit. Jack Rabbit went up

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Speaker 3: in here because yeah, because at twenty two. Let me

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Speaker 3: tell you something. It ain't that they can last. It's

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Speaker 3: just they can just keep coming back over and over.

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Speaker 3: That the energize a bunny. That's why we're gonna call

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Speaker 3: it jack Rabbit. So now he doesn't change your whole

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Speaker 3: view of sex now and now because of what he

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Speaker 3: does for me, she says, I'm able to coexist in

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Speaker 3: my loveless marriage in a way. I want my husband

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Speaker 3: to know that two can play this game. What but

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Speaker 3: it's his son, So that's tricky. It's way past tricky

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Speaker 3: now this way. Now, first of all, you tricky, your

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Speaker 3: people is in here tricking each other. That's all tricky, tricky, tricky,

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Speaker 3: which means you'd.

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Speaker 2: Have been over there over and over and over.

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Speaker 3: And I told him we need to go slowly because

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Speaker 3: I'm not leaving his dad, because first of all, you're

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Speaker 3: not moving out this big ass house to go over

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Speaker 3: there in that little lass apartment with that refrigerator in

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Speaker 3: that flat screen TV. Now, he don't put together full ikia.

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Speaker 3: Now see he don't put together full ike. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 3: what it is. He don't put together full ikea desk,

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Speaker 3: he done took a blanket and covered that. You're not

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Speaker 3: finna go over there with there. Now, I got his

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Speaker 2: Down on women to day. Younger man, What should I do? Lady?

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Speaker 2: What should you do?

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Speaker 1: Well?

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Speaker 2: I don't care what you do. You do? Know this

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Speaker 2: is gonna blow up in everybody's face.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your husband is a Cheatah, your husband and then

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Speaker 3: he's he's manipulative, So now he trying to make you

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Speaker 3: think it's your fault. Your get back. Look, I understand

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Speaker 3: to get back. Moved two can play that game. But

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Speaker 3: of all the men out here, the man's son. But

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Speaker 3: then his son and his dad ain't got no kind

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Speaker 3: of relationship because them trifling. Everybody in this letter trifling.

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Speaker 3: There is no good person in this letter, including you.

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Speaker 3: And now we can't give you no good advice because

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Speaker 3: there's no good can come of anything you've told it.

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Speaker 2: Boy, you're gonna keep.

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Speaker 3: Coming over there knocking his brains back in his head,

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Speaker 3: but you're not leaving his daddy because you fixed up

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Speaker 3: at the house.

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Speaker 2: All y'all got a real low set of standards. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but can't help you.

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Speaker 1: Is that she feels like society looks down on women

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Speaker 1: who date younger men.

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Speaker 2: That issue, I'm prob that's what your problem is.

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Speaker 3: You're in a bad marriage and you chose to make

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Speaker 3: it worse by sleeping with the man's son.

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Speaker 2: Come on, you could have went to work.

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Speaker 3: And picked any one of them guys and they'd have

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Speaker 3: volunteered to help you out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is a series of bad choices, bad decisions

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Speaker 3: and there's nothing I can do for you, and I

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Speaker 3: really don't care.

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Speaker 2: Please write us back and.

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Speaker 1: Let us know how it goes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, when they followed up the father son all right.

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