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Speaker 1: My long distance boyfriend is snapchatting his ex. Should I

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Speaker 1: be worried? This is okayob the home of the craziest

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Speaker 1: stories on Earth. I'm Sam and John. Should op be worried?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: What?

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Speaker 2: Why would you possibly like? What? Because think about it,

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Speaker 2: there's no excuse. It's like, oh, this is the only

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Speaker 2: means I have of contacting.

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Speaker 1: Those Yeah, I mean I may be dating myself here,

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Speaker 1: but back in my day, snapchat used to be new

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Speaker 1: used for nudes and nudes andldes, So I don't know

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Speaker 1: about just you know, texting each other is nefarious.

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Speaker 2: Yes, be worried, That's what I say.

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Speaker 1: Average five sixty five. So, I female eighteen and my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend Will male eighteen have been together for a little

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Speaker 1: over a year. This has been a record breaking time

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Speaker 1: for us. I think mid June to early July of

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty two. We forgot the date we got back together.

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Speaker 1: So I guess they've been on and off and on

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Speaker 1: and thanks for breaking those records. Op, we're happy for you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we are.

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Speaker 1: We've had a rocky pass and I've been on and

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Speaker 1: off for four years.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty it's pretty tough.

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Speaker 1: That's extensive. I've I was I was only on off

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Speaker 1: and on and off. I was on off, on off

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Speaker 1: with my last girlfriend, So that's true.

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Speaker 3: He almost was on again. But he's.

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Speaker 2: Damn Riley. Really, Riley's really trying to spill some tea

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Speaker 2: right now. I think I think we need to put

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Speaker 2: the top back on your kettle.

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Speaker 1: Right, nothing happened, nothing happened, to be clear, to be clear,

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Speaker 1: this guy, right, you don't even, you don't even, you

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Speaker 1: don't even, you don't even know about the other thing yet.

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Speaker 2: No, not today.

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Speaker 1: I would say I'm still new to dating, since he's

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Speaker 1: the only one I've talked to and have taken an

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Speaker 1: interest in, and he, on the other hand, has had

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Speaker 1: quite a few failed relationships. Some important details are that

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Speaker 1: we have been long distance, we both live in different states,

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Speaker 1: and for the entirety we've known each other. It's been

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Speaker 1: around seven years now going on eight, so they've known

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Speaker 1: each other for like eight years. Basically, Wow, Will has

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Speaker 1: cheated on me twice with the same chick who was

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Speaker 1: his ex at the time. What a shocker when we

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Speaker 1: had first started dating, which I had forgive a girl,

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Speaker 1: forgive me once? Shame on you forgive me, make me

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Speaker 1: a fool again? George Bush, George Bush, George Ye didn't

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Speaker 1: I know, even judge me all you want. But we

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Speaker 1: were young and dumb, so I choose to not hold

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Speaker 1: that time against him, even though it hurt at the time.

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Speaker 1: I mean true, but you also still are young and dumb.

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Speaker 1: So I mean not dumb, but young. You're young. That's eighteen,

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Speaker 2: I mean you know, hey, listen, eighteen, I was a

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Speaker 2: little dumb.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm still a little dumb. I'm still a little dumb.

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Speaker 1: Last July he came to visit me for the first

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Speaker 1: time and it lasted three days and he left with

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Speaker 1: quite a few hickeys. Fourteen what are you a vampire?

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Speaker 2: Sh what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Fourteen?

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Speaker 2: Did she did op give them?

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Speaker 1: Opie gave those hickeys to him, which Dawn Girls mark

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Speaker 1: in her territory. After he went back home his sister's

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Speaker 1: A and B discovered he'd basically been mauled in the

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Speaker 1: three days he was gone, and B decided it would

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Speaker 1: be a good idea to yap about it to his

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Speaker 1: most recent ex before me, Callie. I'm not sure the

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Speaker 1: whole story, but Calli had gotten caught because she had

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Speaker 1: cheated on her then boyfriend, was Guy, and she decided

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Speaker 1: that she and him have been together during that week,

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Speaker 1: even though he was obviously with me. And that was

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Speaker 1: Oh man, damn, this is this is complicated. We're getting

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Speaker 2: This is an FBI like cooperated story level it's kind

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Speaker 1: So my boyfriend started freaking out because he was worried

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Speaker 1: I'd believe it due to his track record. Understandable, but

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Speaker 1: there was no proof, and again he was with me,

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Speaker 1: so I didn't believe it. Skip to November and he

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Speaker 1: stayed with me during Thanksgiving week from Sunday to Sunday,

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Speaker 1: and we had a wonderful and fun filled time together.

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Speaker 1: Calli had found this out, and a few days later

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Speaker 1: had contacted me through Snapchat claiming that my boyfriend had

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Speaker 1: been texting her for over a couple months bro just

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Speaker 1: after the first visit, and had been telling her that

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Speaker 1: he wanted a life with her and that he would

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Speaker 1: break up with me, to which he supposedly did because

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Speaker 1: Callie was under the impression we hadn't been talking for

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Speaker 1: a couple of weeks. I have very few time stamps,

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Speaker 1: so sorry if this is confusing. So the boyfriend, So

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Speaker 1: Opie's Boyfriend's like, yeah, we're done with Opie, don't worry,

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Speaker 2: And then to Calli and then Opie's like what yeah,

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Speaker 2: but so so he's cheating. He's cheaten. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I didn't believe her at first because she had been

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Speaker 1: stamped a liar and drama starter in my book. So

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Speaker 1: I asked for proof and she delivered. There was a

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Speaker 1: screen recording dating texts from a few days ago, all

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Speaker 1: the way back till August seventeenth. I feel like Calli's

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Speaker 1: like happy about this, almost oh. She's like yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: here's the receipts. Enjoy, You're welcome. It all looked real.

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Speaker 1: It was the exact same way he texted. There were

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Speaker 1: tons of pictures of him, most not incriminating, but there

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Speaker 1: was one of him shirtless and two others that were

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Speaker 1: less than okay, with the caption asking Cali, how can

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Speaker 1: you be horny this early in the morning, and another

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Speaker 1: saying I fix my boner issue, no problem or something

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Speaker 1: like that, which is such an eighteen year old boy thing.

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Speaker 2: This is RBS. It's tragic disease. What is that random

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Speaker 2: boner syndrome? Yeah, dude, it happens all the time. It

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Speaker 2: affects one hundred Yeah, young male teens.

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Speaker 1: Yeah dude, that's tough. What was the weirdest place you

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Speaker 2: My last one? I mean I would I would get

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Speaker 2: weird like at their age, like in high school, just

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Speaker 2: like turning a pizza paper a little wind gusts, boom

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Speaker 2: dam in biology class Riley.

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Speaker 3: H like the most awkward one.

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Speaker 1: Last weird place you've got in a boner Wait you podcast, I.

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Speaker 3: Would say, like maybe sometime in church.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like that is an awkward place.

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Speaker 3: Or like when I work out, like sometimes like my

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Speaker 3: short school, do something weird and then I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm working out, not trying to you know, get turned

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Speaker 1: Too late, too late. I had noticed in the screen

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Speaker 1: of the video, which was surprised because he had said

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Speaker 1: she was not added on his snap. The screen recording

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Speaker 1: day and time of this whole event. It was all

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Speaker 1: too convincing and it seems so blatantly obvious that he

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Speaker 1: was cheating on me. So I confronted him and he

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Speaker 1: He claimed that it wasn't him and that someone must

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Speaker 1: have logged into his snap since he used the same

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Speaker 2: Who okay, So someone is logging in and hacked into

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Speaker 2: your Snapchat account is messaging her. We haven't seen any.

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Speaker 1: Pictures, send like weird boner picks? Come on, what are you?

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Speaker 1: Family is sending a weird boner picks?

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Speaker 2: Stopchat? So we're here by bro.

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Speaker 1: So one must have just like got these photos somehow. Dude,

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Speaker 1: the paparazzi are.

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Speaker 2: Crazy these days. Stop it, stop it.

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Speaker 1: Another side note, sister be loved starting drama and making

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Speaker 1: up things to get reactions out of people. She is

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Speaker 1: was her. Oh oh pee, I don't think so. At

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Speaker 1: this point, I didn't know who to believe. But he

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Speaker 1: He has owned up to it and had answered all

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Speaker 1: my questions truthfully. I mean he lied, I guess while cheating,

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Speaker 1: right or he always like immediately afterwards, like I cheated.

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Speaker 2: I guess we're are we are we clear? Do we

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Speaker 1: I don't think it sounds to me that he was

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Speaker 2: Just don't just don't do it.

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Speaker 1: There was one text that had been weirdly shaped, so

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Speaker 1: I thought maybe editing was at play, but again I'm

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Speaker 1: not sure. I barely use Snapchat. I hate going through

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Speaker 1: prevent more drama from occurring. Yeah, to prevent more drama

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Speaker 1: it to see everything for myself, but at this time,

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Speaker 1: But I thought that excuse was pretty dumb. We think

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Speaker 1: but I've been keeping it in and choosing to go

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Speaker 1: I want closure. I want to know who supposedly framed him.

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Speaker 1: I want to believe he's innocent, but the evidence is

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Speaker 1: so horridly realistic. It's driving me insane. Cheat on me once,

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Speaker 1: shame on you, Cheat on me twice, shame on me,

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Speaker 1: cheat on me three times. I'm castrating you will wooh, fool.

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Speaker 2: Me one time, shame on you, fool me two times

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Speaker 2: with the blame on you, fool me three times funck

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Speaker 2: the peace on load of choppa, let a rain on you.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, I don't think she should fill a

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Speaker 1: chopper and let it rain on the boyfriends.

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Speaker 2: Do it?

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Speaker 1: Maybe not that? But okie, I think he's cheating on

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Speaker 1: you and it doesn't sound like a nice and healthy relationship.

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Speaker 1: If he's cheated on you twice before and is talking

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Speaker 1: to his ax, like that is more than enough information

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Speaker 1: to be like, maybe don't keep dating this guy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like and also like I will say, like,

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Speaker 2: so op, he's eighteen, you know, still still young getting

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Speaker 2: this person for four years. I think it'd be very

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Speaker 2: Time For okay With. Relash my sister instantly gets pregnant

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Speaker 2: Know it sounds like the sister is The Babe ruth

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Speaker 2: Of babes of, babes The Babe Ruth, babe she's, ruthless squeezing.

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Speaker 1: OUT i got a Freaking gatland gun or like, no

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Speaker 1: like a freaking what's the turn that shoots the. Baseballs oh,

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Speaker 1: yeah like the baseball shooting seventy miles an, hour you're

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Speaker 1: just shooting babies at one hundred miles for an. Hour,

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Speaker 1: me twenty seven, female and my Husband, will thirty, male

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Speaker 1: Time like whatever someone says they're trying for a, BABY

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Speaker 2: we Hate jane.

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Speaker 1: Ye But, JANE i feel Like i've heard this story.

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Speaker 2: All i'm shocked this isn't AN ivf. Story oh, true.

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Speaker 2: TRUE i guess they wanted to do it the old. Fashion, yeah. Boning.

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Speaker 2: Now jane is nice and, kind but she does tend

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Speaker 2: If your uterus wasn't a barren. Wasteland, god she's the

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Speaker 2: feels meaningless and. Unsupported SOMETIMES yo sounds, like oh, p it's, jealous.

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Speaker 1: Bruh just because you're rich and famous and good looking

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Speaker 2: Have you heard heard the song Super Rich kids By

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Speaker 1: Rich kids nothing but fake.

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Speaker 2: Friends. Yeah, yeah that's like a whole song, basically like

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Speaker 1: Money but that's why super rich friend kids only have fake.

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Speaker 1: Friends but what IF i want only fake, friends make

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Speaker 1: and then give it all away TILL i get evicted

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Speaker 1: and just be surrounded by the warmth of fake. Friends

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Speaker 1: that's that's my new life. GOAL i think the only

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Speaker 1: Alive that's, true like witches and fourteen Hundred.

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Speaker 2: Salem that's. Right burn your fake, friends use them for.

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Speaker 2: Warmth that's that's how we do it on this.

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Speaker 1: Podcast, yeah if you're not hearing their, screams.

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Speaker 2: You're not living your. Dreams, yeah OH i like. THAT

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Speaker 2: i like that now. Again jane is. Wonderful she's so,

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Speaker 2: great but she tries to act like The i'm not

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Speaker 1: Op maybe she ain't lack other.

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Speaker 2: Girls just just because her uterus is frothy doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: Frothy what does a frothy uterus look?

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Speaker 2: Like, BRO a frothy uterus is just seeping with, fertility

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Speaker 1: Muzing that's how that's how babies are. Created but that's, science,

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Speaker 1: Right that's like like the eggs kind of like there's

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Speaker 1: Freestyle that's a new.

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Speaker 2: Freestyle my uterus is so fucking. Fat, yeah, YEAH i

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Speaker 2: got a uterus fad. Is this ain't no one's uterus

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Speaker 1: MINE i like. THIS i THINK i think this is

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Speaker 1: a woman that could that could be empathize you, know.

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Speaker 2: The beauty the beauty of being a. Rappers you have multiple,

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Speaker 2: aliases so one of my aliases could be fat.

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Speaker 1: Uterus, hey you want to see fat uterus drop a single?

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Speaker 2: Colo, also another thing about my, sister she has said

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Speaker 2: multiple times before that she doesn't care about having, kids

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Speaker 2: like she would play with our little cousins and kids in,

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Speaker 2: fine because that's her. Choice see like she's saying that's fine,

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Speaker 2: backhand but it don't sound like it. Fine but don't

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Speaker 1: Fine it's kind of like when someone is, like, hey

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Speaker 1: do you mind IF i have like the last Like

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Speaker 1: french fry and they're, like it's, fine and then and

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Speaker 1: then then you take, it, yeah and then then they're

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Speaker 1: Fine you gotta be like this is my. Friend, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah i'm. Sorry, Yeah, like if you're gonna be, salty

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Speaker 1: Exactly don't like hide it beneath pleasant. Trees that's.

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Speaker 2: Right have a have a fat salt, Bag yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: dude fat uteruses would have it out in the. Open

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Speaker 2: if you have a fat, year then you're, yeah you're

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Speaker 2: waving that ship, everywhere.

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Speaker 1: Dude if you have a fat, us loud and proud.

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Speaker 1: God so you know how like guys will be like

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Speaker 1: AND i just like want, yeah you, know big dick,

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Speaker 1: energy and it's, like you're all, right, right, yeah this is. Fat,

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Speaker 1: Yeah AND i just threw my uterus on the. Table

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Speaker 1: the uses ui big uterus. Energy that's right. NOW a

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Speaker 1: few days, Ago jane AND i met it for. LUNCH

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Speaker 1: i haven't physically seen her in a few, months but

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Speaker 1: we've been. Texting she looked like she gained a bit of.

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Speaker 2: Weight Fatty jane's just just a freaking.

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Speaker 1: Balloon this is the fat.

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Speaker 2: YOU i laid eyes upon her and almost vomited at

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Speaker 1: Her, no she's not say, that.

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Speaker 2: But she's thinking. It but she's thinking, it AND i

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Speaker 2: assumed it was from work stress or something like. That

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Speaker 2: she then dropped the tidbit that she was five months.

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Speaker 1: Pregnant wow did she not know? Beforehand she had no?

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Speaker 1: Idea but do you Think jane? Knew like when Did?

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Speaker 2: Jane that's a good. QUESTION i don't know if we

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Speaker 2: ever find that out for two? Months probably, yeah not,

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Speaker 2: IMMEDIATELY i don't, think given the circumstances are about to

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Speaker 2: FIND i was, shocked mainly BECAUSE i didn't know she

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Speaker 2: was in a serious relationship and she never mentioned pregnancy

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Speaker 2: when we. Talked she said she slept with the guy

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Speaker 2: she met at a club a couple of. Times, again

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Speaker 2: this was also pretty shocking news to, me and Because

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Speaker 2: jane is never the type for one night stands and

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Speaker 2: things like, THAT i asked her if our parents, knew

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Speaker 2: and she said, no, hmmm mom and daddy do. No.

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Speaker 1: Wow So jane is like like going to op for

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Speaker 1: like first in the, family.

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Speaker 2: Which is, like you, know hero p is trashing her

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Speaker 2: when she's like probably having this very vulnerable.

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Speaker 1: Mission, ALSO i, mean like that's that's, tough getting like

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Speaker 1: you probably like a hundred presentated by by a random.

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Speaker 2: Dude, dude big decisions have to be. Made that. Happens

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Speaker 2: that's a. LOT i asked what her plan was, now

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Speaker 2: and she said that she's looking forward to becoming a. Mom,

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Speaker 2: Yeah this sort of felt like a punch in the

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Speaker 2: gut to.

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Speaker 1: Me punch and your barren? Uterus oh, why? Bro what

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Speaker 1: is wrong with?

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Speaker 2: YOU i could you be? Happy could you imagine someone's

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Speaker 2: Like i'm someone's Like i'm, pregnant and you're like like, fuck.

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Speaker 2: You you know WHAT i hand your baby and your

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Speaker 2: Baby god so.

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Speaker 1: Terrible to be, Fair opu just sounds super insecure about her.

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Speaker 2: Situation she just needs to get over herself a little.

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Speaker 1: Bit it's like it's like the ball guy in the

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Speaker 1: room being surrounded by a bunch of male models with

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Speaker 1: the fabulous. Hair, yeah and then all the male models be, like,

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Speaker 1: OH i love my product in my, hair and then

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Speaker 1: the ball guys, like fuck you, GUYS i can't believe

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Speaker 1: you would have a head of hair around.

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Speaker 2: ME i love that, analogy the bald men surrounded by

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Speaker 2: Like i'm just imagining like fifty men with just the most,

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Speaker 2: yeah fifty. Fabios this sort of felt like a punch

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Speaker 2: in the gut that me and my, husband who have

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Speaker 2: been trying for so long to have a, baby and my,

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Speaker 2: sister who never even wanted kids in the first, place

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Speaker 2: is having one sleeping. Around. Yikes and she didn't say sleeping,

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Speaker 2: yo so Goshus, like that's terrible to think about of

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Speaker 2: your own. Sister it's too.

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Speaker 1: MUCH i know how insecure you gotta.

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Speaker 2: BE i said To, JANE i thought that she didn't

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Speaker 2: care to have, kids But jane said that she feels

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Speaker 2: different now and this baby is a. Blessing oh my,

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Speaker 2: Gosh i'm so happy for my.

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Speaker 1: Baby OH p is the. Worst oh he's the? Ahole ire,

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Speaker 1: Reasking AM i THE a? Hole BECAUSE i have THE a?

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Speaker 2: HOLE i got kind of tired of her talking about,

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Speaker 2: this SO i told her that she knows full well

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Speaker 2: about me and will, struggles and she's acting like she's

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Speaker 2: going to Play Happy families with Some rando's. Baby.

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Speaker 1: YIKES OUCHI i realized WHAT i said was kind of. Harsh,

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Speaker 1: yeah it was unnecessary and. Harsh get a freaking grip and,

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Speaker 1: like understand how insecure you're being too?

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Speaker 2: Much AND i did say, sorry But jane got really

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Speaker 2: upset and ended up leaving some crazy right to Leave.

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Speaker 2: JESUS i did try and call text her, back but

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Speaker 2: she hasn't. REPLIED i think she's overreacting BECAUSE i did.

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Speaker 1: Apologize you? Overreacted, hey AM I? Ale, yes, yes you

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Speaker 1: are the a. Whole you're the. Worst? Wow, Wow never

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Speaker 1: has it been so easy to just be like you.

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Speaker 2: Are The and you know what the people have read

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Speaker 2: it actually agree they she was deemed a whole good.

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Speaker 1: GOOD i can't. IMAGINE i wonder if is there anyone defending. Her, Uh,

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Speaker 1: like how do you write a story like this and

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Speaker 1: not be self aware enough to realize you're being a.

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Speaker 1: Dick