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Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. It is straw Berry

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Speaker 1: letter three. Yeah, I gotta shell here today, so country,

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Speaker 1: all right, look at him. You're gonna go. You're gonna go.

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Speaker 1: Get on opposite ship, chubby letty whatever. This is the

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Speaker 1: subject dating married and single men. I date both single

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Speaker 1: men and married men. I find nothing wrong dating them.

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Speaker 1: Most of them need love to The man that's married

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Speaker 1: made the agreement with someone else, not me. He's the

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Speaker 1: one breaking it, not me. Why should I feel guilty?

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Speaker 1: This has been going on since from the beginning of

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Speaker 1: time and will never change. I don't expect more from

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Speaker 1: a married man. I'm smart enough to realize that I can't.

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Speaker 1: I don't want anymore. I'm just enjoying the time for

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Speaker 1: the moment. You may call me stupid. I don't care

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Speaker 1: to what I believe. I like a variety, and I

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Speaker 1: don't discriminate. I date single men too desperate. You may

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Speaker 1: say no, no, no, not I I got plenty. Women

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Speaker 1: have to realize the power they have in them. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm single and enjoying it. I also had three proposal

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Speaker 1: and I turned them down. I'm just not ready. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I never will. But I'm happy, happy, happy, happy, wow, Carlage,

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Speaker 1: since Sherley and here, let me talk to you about this. Hell.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I think this is an age issue.

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Speaker 1: This is not a letter written by a very mature woman.

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Speaker 1: Right you agree with that? Also? I want to know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, what do you look? You're looking for something here?

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Speaker 1: Because why did you write the letter? You know she's

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Speaker 1: not asking for any question? What should I do? Should

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Speaker 1: I stop? Why am I this way? How has this

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Speaker 1: happened to me? Do you agree with me that that's

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Speaker 1: not in the letter at all? This letter came to us.

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Speaker 1: This is just a statement. Well, and she put at

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Speaker 1: the end, but I'm happy, happy, happy. So if you're

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Speaker 1: so happy, why did you write the letter? What's the hello? See?

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Speaker 1: That's that's the part that throws me, which lets me

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Speaker 1: know something is going on. See, there's a conflict in

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Speaker 1: this woman's mind. So therefore she decided to pen her

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Speaker 1: response to her own conscious. This is all this is

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Speaker 1: to me, because you're not asking us anything. You're writing

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Speaker 1: down on a piece of paper. How you are responding

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Speaker 1: to yourself? Who you're questioning. This woman is obviously questioning

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Speaker 1: what she's doing, and now she did. She'd wrote a

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Speaker 1: letter to herself and send it to us. Yes, because

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Speaker 1: she knows right from she knows it's wrong to date

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Speaker 1: a married man. Guess what she says. She says, I

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Speaker 1: find nothing wrong dating them. Most of them needly need

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Speaker 1: love to she said. The man that's married made the

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Speaker 1: commitment with, made the agreement with someone else, not me.

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Speaker 1: He's the one breaking it, not me, this woman. Okay,

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Speaker 1: do you understand anything about morality? Exactly? The morality of

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Speaker 1: it all? Not care? She does care, Steve, she wrote

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Speaker 1: the letter. She does care. She absolutely care. She's in

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Speaker 1: the conflict with her. Say, and you remember you said, Steve,

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Speaker 1: this is a perfect time for you to share your

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Speaker 1: book with her. No, she doesn't need my book. She

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Speaker 1: needs a bier because no, yeah, no, no, no, she

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Speaker 1: needs a real deal because my book doesn't go into

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Speaker 1: the morality of it. My book just deals with the

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Speaker 1: common sense part that I try to get women to

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Speaker 1: empower themselves. She needs a Bible. She needs to understand

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Speaker 1: that this type of behavior has ramifications behind it. You

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Speaker 1: cannot do what you wanna do in life. It just

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Speaker 1: doesn't work this way. Uh, talking about he's the one

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Speaker 1: breaking it, not me. Why should I feel guilty? You

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Speaker 1: play a part in it too. You have to be

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Speaker 1: responsible for your actions to Hello, Um, hell is not

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Speaker 1: open just for one person. Hell is open has multiple slots,

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Speaker 1: you know. Just because he broke the agreement, not you,

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Speaker 1: that's it's still a ticket for you. Wait, if you

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Speaker 1: keep going at this pace, you think there's some self

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Speaker 1: esteem issues there. It's something there that that she feels

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Speaker 1: that she could just date married man. She could. She's

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Speaker 1: just smiling out. I think she's trying to prove I

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Speaker 1: think she's trying to prove something that that she's wannable.

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Speaker 1: I mean not. I don't know if that's a word

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Speaker 1: that she's desire. Desirable. I think that one out there,

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Speaker 1: that's not a word. She would have died. She would

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Speaker 1: have just desirable. Yeah, is that what she's trying to prove?

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Speaker 1: Use it in a sentence, don't I find you very

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Speaker 1: very vulnerable? Girls? Girl, you is so vulnerable to me.

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Speaker 1: I want you so bad? Damn you wonerable? Yeah, something

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Speaker 1: like the wannable of Captain Crush. It's a hornable situation.

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Speaker 1: I knew he couldn't put what wanna What are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Why why are you talking right now? Because I hornable?

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Speaker 1: Be with you all right, We'll have part two of

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Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's get to a part two of

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. What you get dating married and single men?

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Speaker 1: I date both single men and married men. I find

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Speaker 1: nothing wrong dating the most of them need love to

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Speaker 1: The man that's married. Made the agreement with someone else,

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Speaker 1: not me. He's the one breaking and not me. Why

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Speaker 1: should I feel guilty. It's been going on since the

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Speaker 1: beginning of time and will never change. I don't expect

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Speaker 1: more from a married man. I'm smart enough to realize

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Speaker 1: that I can't. I don't want anymore. I'm just enjoying

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Speaker 1: the time for the moment. You may call me stupid.

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Speaker 1: I don't care. It's what I believe. I like a variety,

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Speaker 1: and I don't discriminate. I date single men to desperate.

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Speaker 1: You may say no, no, no, I got plenty. Women

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Speaker 1: have to realize the power they have in them. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm single and enjoying it. I also had three proposal

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Speaker 1: I turned them down. I'm just not ready. Maybe I

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Speaker 1: never will be. But I'm happy, happy, happy, happy. Mhm um.

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Speaker 1: You know what this is? It line you always infidelity,

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Speaker 1: cheating men. You know, the number one question women always

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Speaker 1: ask is why do men cheat? And there's a million

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Speaker 1: why men cheat, the number one reason is that there

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Speaker 1: are so many women willing to cheat with them. Wow.

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Speaker 1: I mean, at one point in time, somebody's got to stop.

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Speaker 1: Pull up, you know. But if you got a woman

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Speaker 1: out there saying, look, that man is married. He made

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Speaker 1: the agreement with someone else, not me. He's the one

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Speaker 1: breaking it, not me. He may be breaking the wedding vials,

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Speaker 1: but you know there's some bigger rules. Come on, man,

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Speaker 1: I mean, how about like one of the commandments. I mean, now,

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Speaker 1: I'm not not look, I'm please, No, I'm not throwing

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Speaker 1: stones because guess what, I've broken a lot of rules

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Speaker 1: in my life, so I'm not throwing stones. But please

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Speaker 1: don't justify your actions by staying I have nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with this. It ain't because you have everything to

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Speaker 1: do with it. Yes, she does, and if she accepts

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Speaker 1: a proposal, how would she feel if her husband cheated

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Speaker 1: on her woman that said the same excuse that she's saying. Now,

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Speaker 1: that's a good point how she feel. But you know,

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Speaker 1: what Carl is using an example that many women always use.

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Speaker 1: How would you feel if someone was out there presenting

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Speaker 1: that philosophy to your husband? Yeah, you know, how how

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Speaker 1: would you feel? And then a woman called me on

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Speaker 1: Oprah show one time and said, I'm so sick of

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Speaker 1: me and not if that's all it takes. What you know,

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Speaker 1: that's not all it takes sometimes, but then sometimes that

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Speaker 1: is all it take. Care I ain't trying to make

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Speaker 1: an excuse. Is it is what it is. But whoever's

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Speaker 1: being cheated on feels wrong. And I don't care what

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Speaker 1: use the persons. I don't care what excuse you give

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Speaker 1: the person you cheating on, they ain't gonna like it.

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