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Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Brandon, good morning, Welcome to the program. Hi,

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Speaker 1: we'ren in so waiting on the phone. We're trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out why you may have been ghosted. So we

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Speaker 1: got to know all the backstory. This guy's name is Ryan.

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Speaker 1: How did you meet him? How many dates have you

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Speaker 1: been on? Tell us about the dates? Kind of fill

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Speaker 1: us in.

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Speaker 2: So we went on one date and I met him

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Speaker 2: on a dating app, and to be honest, he took

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Speaker 2: me on like the best, like most fun date I've

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Speaker 2: been on a whole long long time. You know, we

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Speaker 2: hit it off, funny, charming, We had a couple of

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Speaker 2: drinks and you know, he told me he would call

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Speaker 2: me again and then never did.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what happened?

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Speaker 2: Why is he ghosting me?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So you had a great time, and you make it

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Speaker 1: sound like maybe a lot of the other dates that

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Speaker 1: you've been on and are not as much fun.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I mean, he just doesn't take life too seriously,

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Speaker 2: which I really like, Like I feel like a lot

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Speaker 2: of guys right now are just you.

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Speaker 3: Know, so heavy, like very very serious and intent. You're

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Speaker 3: saying very serious.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And Ryan's fun and like hilarious, like I was

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Speaker 2: lasting the whole time, and giddy, like I felt really giddy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, the dating app game is tough. I mean

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Speaker 1: it's just like, you know, you can think of day

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Speaker 1: went really well and then never hear from the person again,

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Speaker 1: or I don't know, they match with somebody else. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's just who knows. But let's see if we can

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Speaker 1: get this guy on the phone and we'll ask the

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Speaker 1: questions for you. You'll be on the phone at the

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Speaker 1: same time, and hopefully whatever's going on we can straighten out,

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Speaker 1: and then we'll set you up on another date that

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Speaker 1: we pay for.

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Speaker 3: Sound good, That sounds great? Please, you got it?

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Speaker 1: Gonna play one song, we'll come back and do it.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Brenda, let's see what happens next. Part two

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Speaker 1: of Waiting by the Phone after this song on the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show. Good morning, It's the Friend Show. Part two

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Speaker 1: of Waiting by the Phone. Hey, Brenda, Hey, okay, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Ryan. You guys met on a dating app.

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Speaker 1: You had a really fun date as you described it,

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Speaker 1: and you haven't heard from this guy and you want

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Speaker 1: to know why exactly. All right, let's call him right now.

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Speaker 3: Good luck.

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Speaker 2: Thanks.

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Speaker 3: Hello. Hi is this Ryan? Yeah? This is Brian Ryan. Hi,

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Speaker 3: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the morning.

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Speaker 4: Wait a checkond Wait a second, wait a second.

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Speaker 3: What Fred?

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Speaker 4: You're Fred from waiting by the phone, aren't you?

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Speaker 1: That didn't take long? Yeah, I was about I was

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Speaker 1: about to tell you all of it. Yes, yes, you're

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Speaker 1: on waiting by the phone on the Fred Show. Wow

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Speaker 1: listener one of the thirteen shout out to Ryan, Ryan,

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Speaker 1: so you know exactly what this is about.

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Speaker 4: You're calling about Eva, aren't you?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: No, we are not, so Ryan knows what this is about. No, No,

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Speaker 1: who's Eva?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, Stacey, you're joking now, you're just being funny.

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Speaker 4: No, Kasey, Michelle Kelsey, No i'm.

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Speaker 1: Calling about I don't know this guy's kidding or what

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Speaker 1: I'm calling about. Brenda dude, who I guess you met

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Speaker 1: him on a met her on a dating app. Do

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Speaker 1: you remember Brenda?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You don't.

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you remember going out with her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Don't be ridiculous, of course I remember you.

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Speaker 1: How could we be ridiculous after you just named four

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Speaker 1: other people that you might have gone out with? How

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Speaker 1: many dating I mean, I'm not judging. I'm just wondering

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Speaker 1: how many women are you going out with and not

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Speaker 1: calling in a given period of time.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, I'm just trying to meet the right person.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well I think a good strategy might have been

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Speaker 1: to wait and let me tell you who I was

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Speaker 1: calling about. I mean, which I was getting to. But okay,

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Speaker 1: so wait a minute, So what's going on? Why why

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Speaker 1: don't you like Brenda? Because I mean, you know how

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Speaker 1: this works. You knew who I was. So, I mean,

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Speaker 1: she's wanting to know why you haven't called her again.

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Speaker 1: Sounds like you've been busy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've been really busy. Sounds yeah, sounds like it. Yeah, Okay,

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Speaker 3: with Lisa and Felicia and Katie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't believe that.

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Speaker 3: Brenda.

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Speaker 4: So Katie, I'm seriously ghost and Katie is done.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know Katie, I don't know who that is. So,

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Speaker 1: but we're still talking about Brenda. So right, can you

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Speaker 1: hear me?

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Speaker 3: Oh it's funny, I can hear you. Brenda.

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Speaker 1: It's funny because people ask me all the time if

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Speaker 1: this ever happens, and believe it or not, it doesn't

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Speaker 1: happen that often. Where somebody knows right away what we're doing.

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Speaker 1: So Ryan, can we talk about Brenda though for a minute. Please?

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Speaker 1: Why don't you like her?

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Speaker 3: I do not like Brenda? Well then why didn't you

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Speaker 3: call it?

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Speaker 2: You never called me back?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Right, okay? Were you planning to call her again?

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Speaker 1: Were you planning? Did she make the cut? It sounds

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Speaker 1: like you've been out with some other people too. I mean,

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Speaker 1: is Brenda you gonna come back around to her? No?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I actually had a lot of fun

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Speaker 4: with Brenda.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well she said the same thing. So I mean,

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Speaker 1: are you going to call her again, Ryan, or or

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Speaker 1: one of the other people? Or are we moving on?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? I might call her, all right, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not, okay, because Brenda, it sounds like he might

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Speaker 1: call you. But it also sounds like he's been going

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Speaker 1: out with some other people, which is no big deal.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's pretty standard.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: You know, when you meet someone going one day, you

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Speaker 1: got to assume they're going going out with other people.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, after this, are you interested in seeing

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Speaker 1: him again?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not. No, it's ridiculous.

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Speaker 1: I mean you can't be surprised that he's seeing other people.

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Speaker 1: I mean probably it's not sexy to hear about it

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Speaker 1: or have him list multiple people. But I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: give this guy the benefit of the doubt. It's very difficult.

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Speaker 2: I mean, sure, but I'm not I'm absolutely not interested anymore.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well Ryan, I hope one of the

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Speaker 1: other seven people you name works out well.

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Speaker 4: Thank you. Yeah. Sorry, Brenda, you know I was about

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Speaker 4: to call you tomorrow actually, but that's how you feel.

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Speaker 4: That's how you feel you.

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Speaker 3: Were next time, you were next up in the rotation.

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Speaker 5: I feel we'll be talking to Ryan real soon. We

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Speaker 5: got to go through our other stuff and see will

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Speaker 5: you cross checks some of those names.

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Speaker 1: I think they're going to be on our to do

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Speaker 1: list here, guys, all right, look, this isn't gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: This is this is crazy. Thank you both for your time.

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Speaker 1: Best elect to both of you guys.

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Speaker 2: Thank you too.

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Speaker 4: All right, cool, take care,