WEBVTT - Ep 264: He Put A Ring On It (ft. Hannah Berner & Des Bishop) 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:08.840 I guess what decision we're about to make A horrible decisions. Guys, 0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:14.360 welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your host, 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:16.960 Mandy b a k A full corp pumps ak pit 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:20.640 saying A K beach, I'm weazy. Of course I brought 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:25.320 the white people here today. She's a quiet mind you 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:28.400 like anytime we have white people and I'm not gonna lie, like, 0:00:28.880 --> 0:00:33.840 so I have these white people, but they're cool and 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:36.800 I know it's not really our brand, but they're they're amazing, 0:00:36.840 --> 0:00:38.600 And she think you're really gonna like She's put us 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:41.640 through a lot of tests to get here because the 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:44.199 courses and ship. What did your first recording with with 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:47.400 his Dave? I think so because Dave told me he 0:00:47.479 --> 0:00:49.120 was like, Oh, there's this girl that comes here. She's 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:57.240 on TV and I'm like, bitch on TV. Shve Oh 0:00:57.360 --> 0:01:00.680 I love me some h motherfucking real house slas some 0:01:00.800 --> 0:01:03.120 below day a show at one of the real Porsche. 0:01:03.360 --> 0:01:07.440 Oh yeah, Porsche Giselle staying from below Deck. We had 0:01:07.440 --> 0:01:12.920 actually Gazelle on the podcast that was amazing wedding. Does 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:15.759 that comin joined us? So they're part of the Black 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:19.440 Effect family. Shout out to um reasonably shady because they 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:22.360 were also just dominated for n double a CP Image 0:01:22.400 --> 0:01:25.080 Awards for the pandcast because you don't why because we 0:01:25.120 --> 0:01:27.600 don't have a fucking publicist that's why. Okay, okay, but 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:32.119 it a lot. But yeah, that's that's amazing that you're 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:34.760 in that hole. Well was it real quick? Because we 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:36.560 do a bad job at this. Can you introduce you 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:40.960 go introducer? We gotta keep going. So first I research 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:46.280 who Hannah is Hannah's arrival? Yes, So I find out 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:50.440 that people on the internet hate you know, like if 0:01:50.480 --> 0:01:53.240 you don't have research doing your research, sir at peak, 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.000 Hannah hate time, right, And I'm like, okay, well who 0:01:56.080 --> 0:01:57.760 is this person? And then the other thing that really 0:01:57.800 --> 0:01:59.840 pissed me off because great she comes to the studio 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.280 black o and let's go. This bitch only gets one angle, 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:03.600 but you are about to have all these millions of 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:09.639 people watching people. You've only got one angle, jewish to please, please, 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:12.040 I'll get it to you for free. Just get some time. 0:02:14.000 --> 0:02:16.320 So whiteco comes in and I started asking for free angles. 0:02:16.360 --> 0:02:20.520 That makes me look bad, you know. I was like, okay, 0:02:20.560 --> 0:02:22.720 she's kind of popping. And so anyway, we started chatting. 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:24.359 We followed each other for years, and I remember you 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:27.200 followed I think some other black people like Mouths or something. 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.880 So I was like, guys, next story. I did them 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:32.520 way back. But it's interesting though, for real, like when 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:35.880 you're having it's two different podcast worlds. So I'm just like, 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:37.440 who does she know that I know? And I did 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.519 her show and we went to eat and the first 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:43.639 thing she told me about was her hate online. And 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:47.919 I never said welcome to the club. No, because I 0:02:48.120 --> 0:02:49.760 thought that we have people that don't like her this, 0:02:49.919 --> 0:02:52.000 or that I have people that hate me. I did 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.480 hand No, No you're not no, no, let me be 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:59.560 in it. Okay, this is another level of witch I got. Actually, 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.560 I what upset. I hung out with Hannah. I like her, 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:05.320 I understand how TV editing works. People were like, oh, 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.320 you you don't know who the funk she is? Bitch? 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:09.839 Did you meet the bitch or did you read something 0:03:09.840 --> 0:03:12.680 about online? Well that's when I knew about a person 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:14.480 I met in real life. Are you out of your mind? 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.639 People set me Reddit think pieces about her. That has 0:03:17.720 --> 0:03:19.840 really set me off because now you're telling me that 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:22.880 the person I choose to collab with or talk about 0:03:23.120 --> 0:03:25.320 or want to work with again, I don't know what 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:27.840 the funk I'm doing? Fuck you and white people got 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:30.160 some nerve, bro, So they really were coming from me 0:03:30.280 --> 0:03:33.120 talking about they thought better of me. So wait, wait 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:37.880 for those listening. Can you explain where people may know 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:41.040 her from and her name? We are trying and nobody 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:43.520 knows who the funk you're talking about? My point, I 0:03:43.640 --> 0:03:46.320 had no idea share it with the audience, Mandy, Can 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:51.200 I get to it? Go leet up? Is I still 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:54.040 at this point I have no magnitude of Hannah And 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:58.120 you know I wanted her the personality as the hand 0:03:58.160 --> 0:03:59.960 of the person. Yes, you've met hand of the person 0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:02.160 I have? Like who the fund is Hannah? And how 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:05.360 do people know you? And also your partner is here 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:06.920 who was also on TV with you? So I want 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:09.839 you to tell us about that, like how do people know? First? 0:04:10.800 --> 0:04:12.560 Can I just on that point before you get into 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:17.600 that past. We were living together, just just like people 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.800 message you. We were literally living together, right, But she 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:22.040 was on the show and I guess it was like 0:04:22.080 --> 0:04:24.719 episode six or seven, and somebody messed me and said, 0:04:25.160 --> 0:04:28.360 you need to watch a summer house than you need 0:04:28.400 --> 0:04:30.640 to watch the show to know who you're living with? 0:04:31.240 --> 0:04:34.520 Wait are you kidding? Like, no, No, that sounds like 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:36.760 a joke, but that is literally the because because I 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.080 think Hannah used to say on the podcast that Dez 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:41.200 doesn't watch the show, which I didn't watch the show, 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.360 so somebody messed me said, you need to watch the show. 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:46.400 You need to know who Hannah is. I'm literally living 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:48.760 with her. Do you know what's crazy about you saying 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:52.280 that too? In therapy, I've talked about the comments that 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:54.800 I received because we share and are so vulnerable here 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:58.520 on this podcast, I've had like I've had to separate 0:04:58.680 --> 0:05:01.160 the comments because when I say, here'll be like, man, 0:05:01.320 --> 0:05:03.240 they don't know who I am. They don't know about me. 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:05.560 They will sit here and try to tell me about me, 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:08.440 and I'm like, but who you think I am is 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:09.960 not who I think i'm. Just because I show up 0:05:10.240 --> 0:05:14.080 every fucking week into your fucking podcast, that doesn't mean 0:05:14.160 --> 0:05:15.880 you know who the who the funk I am? You 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.560 not only have a podcast, but you are also on 0:05:19.279 --> 0:05:26.000 reality quote unquote, I was. I was okay, So I'm 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:29.920 sure I started as like a comedy video producer. I 0:05:30.040 --> 0:05:31.760 was writing like a bunch of tweets and memes for 0:05:31.880 --> 0:05:34.960 this company, Betches. I was like making the content for them, 0:05:35.520 --> 0:05:37.840 and that's where like I learned a lot about joke writing. 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:39.880 It super fun, got a d M to go on 0:05:40.000 --> 0:05:42.880 a reality TV show. I said, let's go, let's do this, 0:05:43.240 --> 0:05:44.680 and my goal going into it, I was like, I 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.800 want to show that women could be multifaceted, Like you 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:50.160 could be hot but also sad, and you could be 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:54.760 like strong but also like we we you could be 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:57.200 nice but also a count like you can We're all 0:05:57.560 --> 0:05:59.720 And that's the thing the Internet likes to oversimplify, like 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:02.880 this woman's evil or this woman is like the Holy Spirit, 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:06.520 and no, it's it's way more complex than that. Why 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:08.840 do I sound like I'm making myself I'm talking bad 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:11.520 about myself again. But anyway, long story show, I get 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:13.600 on the show, and in your career, you're gonna have 0:06:13.720 --> 0:06:15.640 hot times and you're gonna have low times, especially when 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.000 you're putting yourself out there. And when I first hung 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:20.600 out with Wheezy, it was a real hot time online 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:24.040 where like I couldn't do it. I had someone handling 0:06:24.080 --> 0:06:25.800 my social media for me because I couldn't go near 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:28.400 my phone or I would have like a four day, 0:06:29.080 --> 0:06:32.960 you know, depression naps. So every now and then I'd 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:34.600 come in and I could see she was like in 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:36.680 a bad, bad way, and she was like I had 0:06:36.720 --> 0:06:43.920 a weak moment, and also like what's great is like 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:45.560 all I want to do is make people laugh and 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:48.320 entertain and make also put myself out there to make 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.440 people think twice about like their lives and what they're 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.640 doing or fill us alone. That was like my only 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:54.880 hope for getting. I wanted to make the world a 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:58.560 better play than you've been, just like only only in 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:02.279 this third season. Yeah, my, that's the problem. The first 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.360 two seasons were like epic people like people were giving 0:07:05.400 --> 0:07:07.200 me all this love, which again is fake, like you 0:07:07.279 --> 0:07:08.920 don't know me. I'm not as great as you think 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:12.000 I am. And then people love like when but you're 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:14.360 as bad as they think you already exactly, so like 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.680 when you get really popular. And then they started to 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:19.640 show like they started to show me reacting to this 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.640 guy I was having a fight with, and and they 0:07:21.680 --> 0:07:23.640 weren't really showing what I was reacting to, so they 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:25.920 were like this girl just lost her mind. And I 0:07:26.000 --> 0:07:28.360 hate the crazy girl narrative, but I just kind of 0:07:28.440 --> 0:07:31.480 had to be quiet and then when I was with you, 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:33.640 you got these messages of girls being like, watch out 0:07:33.720 --> 0:07:36.640 for her. She's crazy. She's crazy, she's a narcissist, she's crazy. 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:39.320 Showed her. No, no, no, I didn't have to show her. 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:40.920 It was in my threat after I did her show 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:43.880 on Twitter and I'm like, which I don't know the same, 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:48.240 but you could. They were like and then the way 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:59.800 yea so good of all time I met. I met 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:04.600 Azell after being a six year fan of the Potomac franchise, 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:07.800 and she ended up shout out to Gazelle Robin. They 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:09.880 came to Our Lives show the very next day after recording. 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:14.000 But I literally told her after recording, I said, y'all 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.320 are so amazing, and now I have to like you. 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:20.200 And I didn't realize because of what I was being 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:21.840 shown in mind you. I liked her in the beginning, 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:25.480 but then she wasn't who I liked from the beginning. 0:08:25.800 --> 0:08:27.560 And I literally told her to her face, I said, 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:30.680 I loved the franchise. I would never have recorded with Candice, 0:08:30.960 --> 0:08:38.880 but I was anyway what happened, I would have never liked. 0:08:38.880 --> 0:08:40.760 I don't give a about Candice. But when I was like, 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:42.199 I was like, I don't like them now. And so 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:45.439 when I met Robin and Giselle, I said, you know, 0:08:45.760 --> 0:08:47.400 first off, I knew Robin was gonna be late, and 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:52.240 she was. No. She was on time because because I 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:54.360 made sure to tell her thirty minutes earlier than the 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:57.800 time she had to show up. Um. But after meeting them, 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:01.000 they literally talked like you and was, well, we get 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:02.800 what they show on TV me and we were like, 0:09:02.840 --> 0:09:05.160 we get what we show on the podcast. We're still people. 0:09:05.559 --> 0:09:09.520 And after like having just dope conversations with them, we 0:09:09.600 --> 0:09:13.839 were like all night, Giselle, Gizelle. The reason Giselle is 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:15.760 doing so well is because I'll talk to her and 0:09:15.840 --> 0:09:17.880 she's like, oh, I got something good for the plot, 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:20.640 this this, Like she's the one who's pushing ship and 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:22.839 she's the one who's like, get sitting here, you with 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:26.400 your TV you want. She's very authentic, very authentic. No, 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:31.439 but no, but she serves every day at work like 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:33.319 she could you could sit back and have no drama 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:35.319 around you and let everyone else fight and just kind 0:09:35.320 --> 0:09:37.280 of look pretty in interviews, or you show up to 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.240 work and you're like, I'm gonna get involved. I'm gonna 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:41.439 try to make this most entertaining TV show. So this 0:09:41.480 --> 0:09:43.480 show gets picked up the next summer. You know, you 0:09:43.600 --> 0:09:45.719 guys think me and we ate each other, Oh my god, 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:47.719 we love each other. And I just come in and 0:09:48.000 --> 0:09:53.400 give attitude ships for YouTube viewers like, definitely are arguing 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:57.240 now they're actlutely. It's funny because there when y'all think 0:09:57.240 --> 0:10:02.679 we're arguing, But no, days, bro, it'll be they'll say, 0:10:02.720 --> 0:10:04.880 we're are doing it will be a day where bitch 0:10:05.280 --> 0:10:07.800 you just like the last episode. By the way, y'all 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:09.959 they just watched this change. They didn't see no nipples 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:12.199 and titties. But we record two episodes in a day, 0:10:12.400 --> 0:10:14.520 so they'll watch two episodes that we record in the 0:10:14.600 --> 0:10:17.120 same day and they'll be like, oh my god, there's 0:10:17.160 --> 0:10:19.959 definitely drama brewing. And then the next episode they'll be like, 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:23.719 this was so great, the energy, the chemistry. We love it. 0:10:24.280 --> 0:10:28.040 We have people project their ship onto you. But also, 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:30.000 if this didn't have attitude, why would you want to 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.679 watch it? It's fun for two people to hate each other. 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:34.199 First of all, a tweet came out. I want to 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:37.400 shout out to you, Oh god, no, don't talk o drums? 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:40.079 Did you guys literally like a Bravo show. Yeah, we 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:42.800 are one of those reality polls instagrams. You ever see 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:45.760 them with the likability ratings go up and down. I 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:47.520 don't think we get paid like a Bravo show, but 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:54.839 they should be. You're right. We actually a little bit 0:10:56.040 --> 0:10:57.400 tweet that came out with this girl's like, I'm so 0:10:57.520 --> 0:10:59.319 tired of these friendly bitches. I want a podcast for 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:02.880 two bitches, and I'm like, go back, we got in it. 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:05.000 I has to get on Twitter for a day. I 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.040 retweeted it and I'm like, bro, hey, it is a 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:09.959 very strong word. Yes, Like I love money, but I 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.439 have more pride than that. Like, I'm not gonna work 0:11:12.480 --> 0:11:14.280 with someone I hate. No, but we're here for the money. 0:11:14.320 --> 0:11:16.439 Stop lying to do. I don't hate you. Maybe you 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:19.199 hate me, but I don't hate you. Guys. Hey, I 0:11:19.280 --> 0:11:22.840 love is a very close. I don't love. I don't 0:11:22.880 --> 0:11:24.400 have I don't love money that much to where I 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:25.959 could walk in here if I hate it somebody, But 0:11:26.080 --> 0:11:28.120 you guys hate like a boss I've worked for. At 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:30.920 the end of the day, I feel like there's moments 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:34.320 where I've been angry, but at the end of the day, 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:38.959 like I'm doing something that I love doing I'm doing 0:11:39.040 --> 0:11:41.280 it with another black girl. I'm making great money. I'm 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:44.240 making strides. Like she's saying she hates the more people more, 0:11:44.640 --> 0:11:47.199 I'm saying, like she's like, I hate her, but not 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:51.600 the most. But the sweets were crazy because they started 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:53.880 going into like episodes where I was like, damn, I'm 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:56.839 not glad. I thought you guys and we tease each 0:11:56.880 --> 0:11:58.560 other a lot, and they think that it is nasty. 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:01.840 I mean, but that that engagement and you guys is great, 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:06.200 It's amazing. I hate I'll be honest, We'll have an 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:08.240 Alex and Sophia. We might have broke up so a 0:12:08.320 --> 0:12:10.320 bit because you can't just keeping like that was an 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:12.280 amazing story. I love that for you, and that was 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:14.880 you have to be like I disagree and have people 0:12:15.040 --> 0:12:17.120 oh no, no, no no. As women were not allow 0:12:17.240 --> 0:12:20.600 to disagree because now we're having a full blown argument 0:12:20.800 --> 0:12:25.120 and I'm being offensive and aggressive. They don't know a 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.800 lots of space for women to disagree. You with your partner, 0:12:27.920 --> 0:12:31.240 can disagree. You as a man can disagree with another 0:12:31.320 --> 0:12:33.680 man and dap it up if and you guys are 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:37.640 podcasts when they start arguing, bro, they love how it 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:42.320 goes viral, but me and really disagree. It's fucking oh 0:12:42.400 --> 0:12:46.240 my god. They're so jealous of each other. You've been 0:12:46.240 --> 0:12:48.520 around black people when they say who got my money? 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:51.760 Then who? Or who's a better player, Jordan or Lebron? Yea, 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:54.679 we always talk about my black people every party and 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:59.439 who all time. But this this seems female sports, like 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:01.320 this is our sports, And like when you watch Bravo, 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:05.439 it's like the w W, like they simplify the storylines 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:08.200 where like with the whole word villain, like you see 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:10.880 early on Who because of confessionals, people talk to you 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:13.439 about who's going to be the villain, and it's not 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:16.199 based on the reality of what happened day to day. 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:18.959 It's based on what they want, what they're for, and 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:22.360 they will purposely create gray where there isn't great, Like 0:13:22.440 --> 0:13:24.760 someone will do something fucked up, but they'll make it like, 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:27.280 well was it not sucked up and add things so 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:29.120 that you're more confused and you can fight with your 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:31.319 friends about it. Because if it's black and white, no 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:35.360 one wants to watch and listen skinny five, skinny five 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:37.360 ft five white guys are shouting at the TV saying 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:39.679 Lebron is ship. So like this is what you're dealing with. 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:41.599 You're dealing with people that don't know what's going on 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:45.240 with strong opinions. JJ Reddick is not saying that you 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:50.760 know how toxic it can be. Why did you choose 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:52.640 to bring does in there? Or did you want to 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:56.280 go like did you? Honey? I was None of that 0:13:56.400 --> 0:13:58.840 had anything to do with the reality TV, But go ahead, 0:13:58.920 --> 0:14:01.719 you can. Oh, you grow him because people got to 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:03.679 see a relationship on TV and talk about it, and 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:07.560 when I met, yeah, I never watched it. We don't like, literally, 0:14:07.840 --> 0:14:11.080 we don't even care. But also, but also with howevery 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:14.160 I'm so glad that the relationship is still standing because 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:16.719 my co is on other podcast brought her relationship to 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:18.880 Love and Hip Hop and said she would never bring 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:23.880 her real relationship to reality TV again because it drew 0:14:23.960 --> 0:14:26.440 so much of a wrench between the relationship that it 0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:28.000 would have never happened. So I just want to So 0:14:28.200 --> 0:14:29.720 I want to be clear. I brought him on for 0:14:29.920 --> 0:14:32.160 three days, but they put it into like three episodes 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:35.400 because it was the only drama. Yeah. Yeah, I don't 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:36.560 want to get I don't want to get too into 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:40.240 I literally can't. I can't stand all these as no, No, 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:45.320 what I'm saying is, I know I don't want to 0:14:45.600 --> 0:14:48.200 have any of the chatter build up. But in terms 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:51.160 of our relationship, we had just met. Actually, so we 0:14:51.360 --> 0:14:55.400 we literally hadn't you just met on tonight? Just met? 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.320 So what happened? So they were in that house for 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:02.200 a long time, longer than people actually no, because there 0:15:02.280 --> 0:15:03.760 was like some time where they weren't film U but 0:15:03.800 --> 0:15:06.000 they weren't allowed to leave. And uh so we had 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:08.080 a lot of time to build up a relationship on 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:11.080 the phone. I mean we were in like a sexual Yeah, 0:15:11.160 --> 0:15:12.880 we were a little bit of less blind a little 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.680 bit actually, So I just wanted me to I didn't 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:19.760 give an Actually I didn't. We did have getting you 0:15:19.840 --> 0:15:23.360 were an inmate and look at I mean, that's not 0:15:23.480 --> 0:15:28.760 my j It was a little like that. I was like, sho, 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:33.200 I just got a burner. I just got a burner, 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:39.600 still smells like my friends asked anyway anyway, Um, so 0:15:40.680 --> 0:15:42.440 I just wanted to see her. I literally care. Now 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:44.200 you got instance. I had my own career is very 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:47.400 much Irish based, but like in Ireland, I'd be well 0:15:47.480 --> 0:15:49.800 known enough that going into that show is kind of 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:52.720 like insane. So I did not tell anybody and tell 0:15:52.760 --> 0:15:55.120 my agent. I didn't tell anybody. Have to complete on 0:15:55.160 --> 0:15:57.600 the download because I knew it was madness, But literally 0:15:57.640 --> 0:15:59.800 I didn't care because I was just dying to see her. 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.760 So I was just trying to shorten the time between 0:16:01.760 --> 0:16:04.320 when we saw each other again. Yeah, you know. But 0:16:04.440 --> 0:16:07.200 in the meantime, she was having this like this other 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.440 type of season, which was an experience I hadn't had before. 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:11.520 So when when you asked her, like, oh, what did 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:12.880 you think it was a good idea to bring him in, 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:19.000 like she would have never known that. When the season aired, 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:22.680 I was flabbergasted, and I had so much trust and 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:26.520 like my producers and the people around I had two 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:31.440 seasons where like I felt like everything showed authentically. I 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.920 was that bit when they were like, Oh, bring this guy, 0:16:33.960 --> 0:16:36.600 it's gonna be great TV to add romance to the story. 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:39.080 I was like, absolutely, whatever you guys want. And then 0:16:39.200 --> 0:16:41.880 when it aired, I was like, yeah, just trips me. 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:46.240 You know, he tripped me. I don't I don't watch it. 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:47.600 I didn't watch it at the time. I tried to 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:49.720 encourage her not to watch. What is like having sex 0:16:49.760 --> 0:16:53.280 and having to sneak around a camera, so there's no 0:16:53.360 --> 0:16:57.440 camera the bathroom. You put the bathrooms the bathrooms, and 0:16:57.520 --> 0:17:00.720 you put the faucet on really loud because everything you 0:17:00.800 --> 0:17:02.560 can't take your mic off, you get in trouble. You know, 0:17:02.640 --> 0:17:05.640 it's like that seeing what was that the Tom Cruise movie? 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:07.520 You know whatever, Like he knows he's being watched, or 0:17:07.560 --> 0:17:09.680 you turned up. You make as much noise as possible. 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:16.600 But I'm like sixth cents a long time ago, actually 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:23.040 back to the threesome. I feel like you guys got 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:25.600 back to the threesome. You didn't. There's no preface of 0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:27.400 a threesome. You're just asking if they've had him because 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:28.600 I was making a joke, but I wanted you to know. 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:32.280 So you know, Mandy doesn't have a taste for what 0:17:32.440 --> 0:17:34.080 she likes to call pink dick. But I think we 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:43.000 can you. I've never been with a white man, would 0:17:43.000 --> 0:17:46.399 you not? This man? Like you're tall, which is normally 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:52.359 a requirement, and I have been loving the silver Za 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:56.240 is what I've been calling it. Um it depends if 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:58.720 it is it down to your knee, like I mean, 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:01.200 I don't know you need a big dick as I do. 0:18:01.440 --> 0:18:05.320 I mean I would definitely I mean, I would Hanna, 0:18:05.520 --> 0:18:10.119 it's just Nna wasn't the with lingerie on, I'd be like, 0:18:11.400 --> 0:18:17.760 I would be like, oh, she seems eccentric, you know, 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:21.320 she like you guys, don't all bottom. I feel like 0:18:21.440 --> 0:18:24.520 I would, and then like it would be like he 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:28.159 can watch. I don't know if I would literally like 0:18:28.280 --> 0:18:30.280 put his dick in my mouth unless you say, you know, 0:18:30.400 --> 0:18:33.160 unless it turns to drunk. I am with drugs them on, true, 0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:36.879 but I would for sure I might suck. I just 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:38.479 have to be out of like you know, all ea 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:41.639 or alcohol. Yeah, that's basically. I love attention so much 0:18:41.680 --> 0:18:44.959 I'll go gay for attention. Oh so you're so then 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:47.560 back to the three esom y'all. I was gonna say, 0:18:47.840 --> 0:18:49.240 have you had a threesome because I feel like we 0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:52.159 haven't because she just said she but you guys, So 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:56.400 I'm saying, like, you don't like attracts to have threesomes? Well, 0:18:56.480 --> 0:18:59.200 I wasn't say serious. Even attractive couples get people to 0:18:59.280 --> 0:19:02.480 like come in, No you don't. That's but we're pretty 0:19:04.840 --> 0:19:07.040 year and a half we her I was at the 0:19:07.119 --> 0:19:11.480 sex club with my partner during the pandemic at month four. 0:19:13.200 --> 0:19:17.280 Were talking about that no, no COVID COVID role. There 0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:20.440 was only fifteen of us, however, only a couple of 0:19:20.520 --> 0:19:24.120 droplets however weight at the At the first sex club 0:19:24.200 --> 0:19:27.760 experience with my partner, we got into an eight person orgy, 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:30.840 so there were three other couples, so six. Yeah. There. 0:19:30.960 --> 0:19:35.480 He was like, what's your favorite color again? And I 0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:37.600 was like, damn, I didn't. Okay, you were kissing her, 0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:41.600 and okay, what's like my A D D chaotic energy. 0:19:42.000 --> 0:19:44.040 You're like, you don't even know who's there, who's dick 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:46.320 you're touching? Oh no, no, no, I was really there 0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.399 for the women, like the men were all just kind 0:19:48.440 --> 0:19:51.240 of watching. We didn't play with Brilli that that's not 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:54.000 really her thing. That means you would want it if 0:19:54.040 --> 0:19:56.800 you can get it. It doesn't even come up for 0:19:56.920 --> 0:19:59.280 us because we've never even had the conversation. I mean, 0:19:59.720 --> 0:20:04.040 why not, because you just know she not down. It's 0:20:04.080 --> 0:20:08.560 what it never even it hasn't even come up. I've 0:20:08.600 --> 0:20:10.960 never have you ever had one of you ever wanted 0:20:11.000 --> 0:20:12.760 one way? But I've had threesome, but not in like 0:20:12.800 --> 0:20:15.520 a relationship situation. It's never been like myself and my 0:20:16.160 --> 0:20:18.280 partner at the time being like let's throw somebody else 0:20:18.320 --> 0:20:20.520 in the mix. You were just like tall, daddy hot. 0:20:21.440 --> 0:20:24.840 I'm not trying to up. It just happened to you. 0:20:24.880 --> 0:20:27.119 It fell in your lap. Have you ever had a through? No, 0:20:28.760 --> 0:20:31.240