1 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: I guess what decision we're about to make A horrible decisions. Guys, 2 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm your host, 3 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: Mandy b a k A full corp pumps ak pit 4 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: saying A K beach, I'm weazy. Of course I brought 5 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:25,320 Speaker 1: the white people here today. She's a quiet mind you 6 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: like anytime we have white people and I'm not gonna lie, like, 7 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:33,840 Speaker 1: so I have these white people, but they're cool and 8 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: I know it's not really our brand, but they're they're amazing, 9 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:38,600 Speaker 1: And she think you're really gonna like She's put us 10 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: through a lot of tests to get here because the 11 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: courses and ship. What did your first recording with with 12 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: his Dave? I think so because Dave told me he 13 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 1: was like, Oh, there's this girl that comes here. She's 14 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 1: on TV and I'm like, bitch on TV. Shve Oh 15 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: I love me some h motherfucking real house slas some 16 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: below day a show at one of the real Porsche. 17 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Porsche Giselle staying from below Deck. We had 18 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: actually Gazelle on the podcast that was amazing wedding. Does 19 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,759 Speaker 1: that comin joined us? So they're part of the Black 20 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 1: Effect family. Shout out to um reasonably shady because they 21 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: were also just dominated for n double a CP Image 22 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: Awards for the pandcast because you don't why because we 23 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: don't have a fucking publicist that's why. Okay, okay, but 24 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 1: it a lot. But yeah, that's that's amazing that you're 25 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: in that hole. Well was it real quick? Because we 26 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:36,560 Speaker 1: do a bad job at this. Can you introduce you 27 00:01:36,880 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: go introducer? We gotta keep going. So first I research 28 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: who Hannah is Hannah's arrival? Yes, So I find out 29 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: that people on the internet hate you know, like if 30 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 1: you don't have research doing your research, sir at peak, 31 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,000 Speaker 1: Hannah hate time, right, And I'm like, okay, well who 32 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:57,760 Speaker 1: is this person? And then the other thing that really 33 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 1: pissed me off because great she comes to the studio 34 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: black o and let's go. This bitch only gets one angle, 35 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: but you are about to have all these millions of 36 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:09,639 Speaker 1: people watching people. You've only got one angle, jewish to please, please, 37 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 1: I'll get it to you for free. Just get some time. 38 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: So whiteco comes in and I started asking for free angles. 39 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: That makes me look bad, you know. I was like, okay, 40 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: she's kind of popping. And so anyway, we started chatting. 41 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 1: We followed each other for years, and I remember you 42 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: followed I think some other black people like Mouths or something. 43 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 1: So I was like, guys, next story. I did them 44 00:02:29,960 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: way back. But it's interesting though, for real, like when 45 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 1: you're having it's two different podcast worlds. So I'm just like, 46 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: who does she know that I know? And I did 47 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,519 Speaker 1: her show and we went to eat and the first 48 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: thing she told me about was her hate online. And 49 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 1: I never said welcome to the club. No, because I 50 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: thought that we have people that don't like her this, 51 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: or that I have people that hate me. I did 52 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: hand No, No you're not no, no, let me be 53 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: in it. Okay, this is another level of witch I got. Actually, 54 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: I what upset. I hung out with Hannah. I like her, 55 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: I understand how TV editing works. People were like, oh, 56 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: you you don't know who the funk she is? Bitch? 57 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:09,839 Speaker 1: Did you meet the bitch or did you read something 58 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,680 Speaker 1: about online? Well that's when I knew about a person 59 00:03:12,720 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: I met in real life. Are you out of your mind? 60 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,639 Speaker 1: People set me Reddit think pieces about her. That has 61 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: really set me off because now you're telling me that 62 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: the person I choose to collab with or talk about 63 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: or want to work with again, I don't know what 64 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: the funk I'm doing? Fuck you and white people got 65 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 1: some nerve, bro, So they really were coming from me 66 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 1: talking about they thought better of me. So wait, wait 67 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: for those listening. Can you explain where people may know 68 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: her from and her name? We are trying and nobody 69 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,520 Speaker 1: knows who the funk you're talking about? My point, I 70 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: had no idea share it with the audience, Mandy, Can 71 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: I get to it? Go leet up? Is I still 72 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: at this point I have no magnitude of Hannah And 73 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 1: you know I wanted her the personality as the hand 74 00:03:58,160 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: of the person. Yes, you've met hand of the person 75 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: I have? Like who the fund is Hannah? And how 76 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: do people know you? And also your partner is here 77 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 1: who was also on TV with you? So I want 78 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,839 Speaker 1: you to tell us about that, like how do people know? First? 79 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 1: Can I just on that point before you get into 80 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 1: that past. We were living together, just just like people 81 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: message you. We were literally living together, right, But she 82 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: was on the show and I guess it was like 83 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:24,719 Speaker 1: episode six or seven, and somebody messed me and said, 84 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 1: you need to watch a summer house than you need 85 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: to watch the show to know who you're living with? 86 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: Wait are you kidding? Like, no, No, that sounds like 87 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: a joke, but that is literally the because because I 88 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: think Hannah used to say on the podcast that Dez 89 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: doesn't watch the show, which I didn't watch the show, 90 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: so somebody messed me said, you need to watch the show. 91 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 1: You need to know who Hannah is. I'm literally living 92 00:04:46,480 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: with her. Do you know what's crazy about you saying 93 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,280 Speaker 1: that too? In therapy, I've talked about the comments that 94 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: I received because we share and are so vulnerable here 95 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: on this podcast, I've had like I've had to separate 96 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 1: the comments because when I say, here'll be like, man, 97 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: they don't know who I am. They don't know about me. 98 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 1: They will sit here and try to tell me about me, 99 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: and I'm like, but who you think I am is 100 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: not who I think i'm. Just because I show up 101 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: every fucking week into your fucking podcast, that doesn't mean 102 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: you know who the who the funk I am? You 103 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: not only have a podcast, but you are also on 104 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: reality quote unquote, I was. I was okay, So I'm 105 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: sure I started as like a comedy video producer. I 106 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: was writing like a bunch of tweets and memes for 107 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: this company, Betches. I was like making the content for them, 108 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: and that's where like I learned a lot about joke writing. 109 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:39,880 Speaker 1: It super fun, got a d M to go on 110 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: a reality TV show. I said, let's go, let's do this, 111 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: and my goal going into it, I was like, I 112 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: want to show that women could be multifaceted, Like you 113 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 1: could be hot but also sad, and you could be 114 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: like strong but also like we we you could be 115 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: nice but also a count like you can We're all 116 00:05:57,560 --> 00:05:59,720 Speaker 1: And that's the thing the Internet likes to oversimplify, like 117 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: this woman's evil or this woman is like the Holy Spirit, 118 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:06,520 Speaker 1: and no, it's it's way more complex than that. Why 119 00:06:06,560 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: do I sound like I'm making myself I'm talking bad 120 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: about myself again. But anyway, long story show, I get 121 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,600 Speaker 1: on the show, and in your career, you're gonna have 122 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: hot times and you're gonna have low times, especially when 123 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: you're putting yourself out there. And when I first hung 124 00:06:18,040 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: out with Wheezy, it was a real hot time online 125 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 1: where like I couldn't do it. I had someone handling 126 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: my social media for me because I couldn't go near 127 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: my phone or I would have like a four day, 128 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:32,960 Speaker 1: you know, depression naps. So every now and then I'd 129 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 1: come in and I could see she was like in 130 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:36,680 Speaker 1: a bad, bad way, and she was like I had 131 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:43,920 Speaker 1: a weak moment, and also like what's great is like 132 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 1: all I want to do is make people laugh and 133 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: entertain and make also put myself out there to make 134 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: people think twice about like their lives and what they're 135 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: doing or fill us alone. That was like my only 136 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: hope for getting. I wanted to make the world a 137 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: better play than you've been, just like only only in 138 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: this third season. Yeah, my, that's the problem. The first 139 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: two seasons were like epic people like people were giving 140 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: me all this love, which again is fake, like you 141 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: don't know me. I'm not as great as you think 142 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: I am. And then people love like when but you're 143 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,360 Speaker 1: as bad as they think you already exactly, so like 144 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: when you get really popular. And then they started to 145 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: show like they started to show me reacting to this 146 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 1: guy I was having a fight with, and and they 147 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: weren't really showing what I was reacting to, so they 148 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: were like this girl just lost her mind. And I 149 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:28,360 Speaker 1: hate the crazy girl narrative, but I just kind of 150 00:07:28,440 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: had to be quiet and then when I was with you, 151 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 1: you got these messages of girls being like, watch out 152 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: for her. She's crazy. She's crazy, she's a narcissist, she's crazy. 153 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:39,320 Speaker 1: Showed her. No, no, no, I didn't have to show her. 154 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 1: It was in my threat after I did her show 155 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: on Twitter and I'm like, which I don't know the same, 156 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: but you could. They were like and then the way 157 00:07:50,840 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 1: yea so good of all time I met. I met 158 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:04,600 Speaker 1: Azell after being a six year fan of the Potomac franchise, 159 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,800 Speaker 1: and she ended up shout out to Gazelle Robin. They 160 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: came to Our Lives show the very next day after recording. 161 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: But I literally told her after recording, I said, y'all 162 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 1: are so amazing, and now I have to like you. 163 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: And I didn't realize because of what I was being 164 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: shown in mind you. I liked her in the beginning, 165 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:25,480 Speaker 1: but then she wasn't who I liked from the beginning. 166 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: And I literally told her to her face, I said, 167 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 1: I loved the franchise. I would never have recorded with Candice, 168 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: but I was anyway what happened, I would have never liked. 169 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 1: I don't give a about Candice. But when I was like, 170 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:42,199 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't like them now. And so 171 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 1: when I met Robin and Giselle, I said, you know, 172 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: first off, I knew Robin was gonna be late, and 173 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 1: she was. No. She was on time because because I 174 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: made sure to tell her thirty minutes earlier than the 175 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: time she had to show up. Um. But after meeting them, 176 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: they literally talked like you and was, well, we get 177 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: what they show on TV me and we were like, 178 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 1: we get what we show on the podcast. We're still people. 179 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 1: And after like having just dope conversations with them, we 180 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:13,839 Speaker 1: were like all night, Giselle, Gizelle. The reason Giselle is 181 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,760 Speaker 1: doing so well is because I'll talk to her and 182 00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: she's like, oh, I got something good for the plot, 183 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: this this, Like she's the one who's pushing ship and 184 00:09:20,679 --> 00:09:22,839 Speaker 1: she's the one who's like, get sitting here, you with 185 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,400 Speaker 1: your TV you want. She's very authentic, very authentic. No, 186 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 1: but no, but she serves every day at work like 187 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,319 Speaker 1: she could you could sit back and have no drama 188 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 1: around you and let everyone else fight and just kind 189 00:09:35,320 --> 00:09:37,280 Speaker 1: of look pretty in interviews, or you show up to 190 00:09:37,320 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: work and you're like, I'm gonna get involved. I'm gonna 191 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 1: try to make this most entertaining TV show. So this 192 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: show gets picked up the next summer. You know, you 193 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:45,719 Speaker 1: guys think me and we ate each other, Oh my god, 194 00:09:45,800 --> 00:09:47,719 Speaker 1: we love each other. And I just come in and 195 00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: give attitude ships for YouTube viewers like, definitely are arguing 196 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 1: now they're actlutely. It's funny because there when y'all think 197 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 1: we're arguing, But no, days, bro, it'll be they'll say, 198 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:04,880 Speaker 1: we're are doing it will be a day where bitch 199 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: you just like the last episode. By the way, y'all 200 00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 1: they just watched this change. They didn't see no nipples 201 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,199 Speaker 1: and titties. But we record two episodes in a day, 202 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: so they'll watch two episodes that we record in the 203 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 1: same day and they'll be like, oh my god, there's 204 00:10:17,160 --> 00:10:19,959 Speaker 1: definitely drama brewing. And then the next episode they'll be like, 205 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:23,719 Speaker 1: this was so great, the energy, the chemistry. We love it. 206 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: We have people project their ship onto you. But also, 207 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 1: if this didn't have attitude, why would you want to 208 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 1: watch it? It's fun for two people to hate each other. 209 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,199 Speaker 1: First of all, a tweet came out. I want to 210 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: shout out to you, Oh god, no, don't talk o drums? 211 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 1: Did you guys literally like a Bravo show. Yeah, we 212 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: are one of those reality polls instagrams. You ever see 213 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 1: them with the likability ratings go up and down. I 214 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: don't think we get paid like a Bravo show, but 215 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:54,839 Speaker 1: they should be. You're right. We actually a little bit 216 00:10:56,040 --> 00:10:57,400 Speaker 1: tweet that came out with this girl's like, I'm so 217 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,319 Speaker 1: tired of these friendly bitches. I want a podcast for 218 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: two bitches, and I'm like, go back, we got in it. 219 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: I has to get on Twitter for a day. I 220 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: retweeted it and I'm like, bro, hey, it is a 221 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,959 Speaker 1: very strong word. Yes, Like I love money, but I 222 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 1: have more pride than that. Like, I'm not gonna work 223 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: with someone I hate. No, but we're here for the money. 224 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 1: Stop lying to do. I don't hate you. Maybe you 225 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:19,199 Speaker 1: hate me, but I don't hate you. Guys. Hey, I 226 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: love is a very close. I don't love. I don't 227 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: have I don't love money that much to where I 228 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 1: could walk in here if I hate it somebody, But 229 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 1: you guys hate like a boss I've worked for. At 230 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 1: the end of the day, I feel like there's moments 231 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:34,320 Speaker 1: where I've been angry, but at the end of the day, 232 00:11:34,440 --> 00:11:38,959 Speaker 1: like I'm doing something that I love doing I'm doing 233 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: it with another black girl. I'm making great money. I'm 234 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: making strides. Like she's saying she hates the more people more, 235 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:47,199 Speaker 1: I'm saying, like she's like, I hate her, but not 236 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: the most. But the sweets were crazy because they started 237 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: going into like episodes where I was like, damn, I'm 238 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:56,839 Speaker 1: not glad. I thought you guys and we tease each 239 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 1: other a lot, and they think that it is nasty. 240 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: I mean, but that that engagement and you guys is great, 241 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: It's amazing. I hate I'll be honest, We'll have an 242 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: Alex and Sophia. We might have broke up so a 243 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 1: bit because you can't just keeping like that was an 244 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: amazing story. I love that for you, and that was 245 00:12:12,440 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: you have to be like I disagree and have people 246 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 1: oh no, no, no no. As women were not allow 247 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 1: to disagree because now we're having a full blown argument 248 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: and I'm being offensive and aggressive. They don't know a 249 00:12:25,160 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: lots of space for women to disagree. You with your partner, 250 00:12:27,920 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: can disagree. You as a man can disagree with another 251 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 1: man and dap it up if and you guys are 252 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 1: podcasts when they start arguing, bro, they love how it 253 00:12:37,720 --> 00:12:42,320 Speaker 1: goes viral, but me and really disagree. It's fucking oh 254 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:46,240 Speaker 1: my god. They're so jealous of each other. You've been 255 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: around black people when they say who got my money? 256 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: Then who? Or who's a better player, Jordan or Lebron? Yea, 257 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,679 Speaker 1: we always talk about my black people every party and 258 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 1: who all time. But this this seems female sports, like 259 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:01,320 Speaker 1: this is our sports, And like when you watch Bravo, 260 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 1: it's like the w W, like they simplify the storylines 261 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,200 Speaker 1: where like with the whole word villain, like you see 262 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 1: early on Who because of confessionals, people talk to you 263 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 1: about who's going to be the villain, and it's not 264 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,199 Speaker 1: based on the reality of what happened day to day. 265 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,959 Speaker 1: It's based on what they want, what they're for, and 266 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: they will purposely create gray where there isn't great, Like 267 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 1: someone will do something fucked up, but they'll make it like, 268 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: well was it not sucked up and add things so 269 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: that you're more confused and you can fight with your 270 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,319 Speaker 1: friends about it. Because if it's black and white, no 271 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 1: one wants to watch and listen skinny five, skinny five 272 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: ft five white guys are shouting at the TV saying 273 00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 1: Lebron is ship. So like this is what you're dealing with. 274 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:41,599 Speaker 1: You're dealing with people that don't know what's going on 275 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: with strong opinions. JJ Reddick is not saying that you 276 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 1: know how toxic it can be. Why did you choose 277 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: to bring does in there? Or did you want to 278 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: go like did you? Honey? I was None of that 279 00:13:56,400 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 1: had anything to do with the reality TV, But go ahead, 280 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,719 Speaker 1: you can. Oh, you grow him because people got to 281 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,679 Speaker 1: see a relationship on TV and talk about it, and 282 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 1: when I met, yeah, I never watched it. We don't like, literally, 283 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:11,080 Speaker 1: we don't even care. But also, but also with howevery 284 00:14:11,360 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: I'm so glad that the relationship is still standing because 285 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:16,719 Speaker 1: my co is on other podcast brought her relationship to 286 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:18,880 Speaker 1: Love and Hip Hop and said she would never bring 287 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: her real relationship to reality TV again because it drew 288 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: so much of a wrench between the relationship that it 289 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 1: would have never happened. So I just want to So 290 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: I want to be clear. I brought him on for 291 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,160 Speaker 1: three days, but they put it into like three episodes 292 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 1: because it was the only drama. Yeah. Yeah, I don't 293 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 1: want to get I don't want to get too into 294 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: I literally can't. I can't stand all these as no, No, 295 00:14:42,840 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, I know I don't want to 296 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: have any of the chatter build up. But in terms 297 00:14:48,240 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: of our relationship, we had just met. Actually, so we 298 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: we literally hadn't you just met on tonight? Just met? 299 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: So what happened? So they were in that house for 300 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: a long time, longer than people actually no, because there 301 00:15:02,280 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: was like some time where they weren't film U but 302 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 1: they weren't allowed to leave. And uh so we had 303 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: a lot of time to build up a relationship on 304 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: the phone. I mean we were in like a sexual Yeah, 305 00:15:11,160 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: we were a little bit of less blind a little 306 00:15:12,920 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: bit actually, So I just wanted me to I didn't 307 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 1: give an Actually I didn't. We did have getting you 308 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 1: were an inmate and look at I mean, that's not 309 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:28,760 Speaker 1: my j It was a little like that. I was like, sho, 310 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: I just got a burner. I just got a burner, 311 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: still smells like my friends asked anyway anyway, Um, so 312 00:15:40,680 --> 00:15:42,440 Speaker 1: I just wanted to see her. I literally care. Now 313 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 1: you got instance. I had my own career is very 314 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: much Irish based, but like in Ireland, I'd be well 315 00:15:47,480 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: known enough that going into that show is kind of 316 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 1: like insane. So I did not tell anybody and tell 317 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: my agent. I didn't tell anybody. Have to complete on 318 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:57,600 Speaker 1: the download because I knew it was madness, But literally 319 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 1: I didn't care because I was just dying to see her. 320 00:16:00,080 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: So I was just trying to shorten the time between 321 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: when we saw each other again. Yeah, you know. But 322 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: in the meantime, she was having this like this other 323 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: type of season, which was an experience I hadn't had before. 324 00:16:09,480 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: So when when you asked her, like, oh, what did 325 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 1: you think it was a good idea to bring him in, 326 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: like she would have never known that. When the season aired, 327 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: I was flabbergasted, and I had so much trust and 328 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 1: like my producers and the people around I had two 329 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:31,440 Speaker 1: seasons where like I felt like everything showed authentically. I 330 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: was that bit when they were like, Oh, bring this guy, 331 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: it's gonna be great TV to add romance to the story. 332 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 1: I was like, absolutely, whatever you guys want. And then 333 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:41,880 Speaker 1: when it aired, I was like, yeah, just trips me. 334 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 1: You know, he tripped me. I don't I don't watch it. 335 00:16:46,280 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: I didn't watch it at the time. I tried to 336 00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 1: encourage her not to watch. What is like having sex 337 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:53,280 Speaker 1: and having to sneak around a camera, so there's no 338 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: camera the bathroom. You put the bathrooms the bathrooms, and 339 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: you put the faucet on really loud because everything you 340 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:02,560 Speaker 1: can't take your mic off, you get in trouble. You know, 341 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 1: it's like that seeing what was that the Tom Cruise movie? 342 00:17:05,640 --> 00:17:07,520 Speaker 1: You know whatever, Like he knows he's being watched, or 343 00:17:07,560 --> 00:17:09,680 Speaker 1: you turned up. You make as much noise as possible. 344 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: But I'm like sixth cents a long time ago, actually 345 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: back to the threesome. I feel like you guys got 346 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 1: back to the threesome. You didn't. There's no preface of 347 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:27,400 Speaker 1: a threesome. You're just asking if they've had him because 348 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:28,600 Speaker 1: I was making a joke, but I wanted you to know. 349 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:32,280 Speaker 1: So you know, Mandy doesn't have a taste for what 350 00:17:32,440 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 1: she likes to call pink dick. But I think we 351 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:43,000 Speaker 1: can you. I've never been with a white man, would 352 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 1: you not? This man? Like you're tall, which is normally 353 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:52,359 Speaker 1: a requirement, and I have been loving the silver Za 354 00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 1: is what I've been calling it. Um it depends if 355 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: it is it down to your knee, like I mean, 356 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 1: I don't know you need a big dick as I do. 357 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: I mean I would definitely I mean, I would Hanna, 358 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: it's just Nna wasn't the with lingerie on, I'd be like, 359 00:18:11,400 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 1: I would be like, oh, she seems eccentric, you know, 360 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,320 Speaker 1: she like you guys, don't all bottom. I feel like 361 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,520 Speaker 1: I would, and then like it would be like he 362 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 1: can watch. I don't know if I would literally like 363 00:18:28,280 --> 00:18:30,280 Speaker 1: put his dick in my mouth unless you say, you know, 364 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: unless it turns to drunk. I am with drugs them on, true, 365 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 1: but I would for sure I might suck. I just 366 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:38,479 Speaker 1: have to be out of like you know, all ea 367 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: or alcohol. Yeah, that's basically. I love attention so much 368 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,959 Speaker 1: I'll go gay for attention. Oh so you're so then 369 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: back to the three esom y'all. I was gonna say, 370 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:49,240 Speaker 1: have you had a threesome because I feel like we 371 00:18:49,359 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 1: haven't because she just said she but you guys, So 372 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 1: I'm saying, like, you don't like attracts to have threesomes? Well, 373 00:18:56,480 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: I wasn't say serious. Even attractive couples get people to 374 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 1: like come in, No you don't. That's but we're pretty 375 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: year and a half we her I was at the 376 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:11,480 Speaker 1: sex club with my partner during the pandemic at month four. 377 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: Were talking about that no, no COVID COVID role. There 378 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:20,440 Speaker 1: was only fifteen of us, however, only a couple of 379 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:24,120 Speaker 1: droplets however weight at the At the first sex club 380 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: experience with my partner, we got into an eight person orgy, 381 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:30,840 Speaker 1: so there were three other couples, so six. Yeah. There. 382 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: He was like, what's your favorite color again? And I 383 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: was like, damn, I didn't. Okay, you were kissing her, 384 00:19:38,200 --> 00:19:41,600 Speaker 1: and okay, what's like my A D D chaotic energy. 385 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: You're like, you don't even know who's there, who's dick 386 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: you're touching? Oh no, no, no, I was really there 387 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,399 Speaker 1: for the women, like the men were all just kind 388 00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: of watching. We didn't play with Brilli that that's not 389 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:54,000 Speaker 1: really her thing. That means you would want it if 390 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 1: you can get it. It doesn't even come up for 391 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: us because we've never even had the conversation. I mean, 392 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:04,040 Speaker 1: why not, because you just know she not down. It's 393 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: what it never even it hasn't even come up. I've 394 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: never have you ever had one of you ever wanted 395 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:12,760 Speaker 1: one way? But I've had threesome, but not in like 396 00:20:12,800 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 1: a relationship situation. It's never been like myself and my 397 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: partner at the time being like let's throw somebody else 398 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: in the mix. You were just like tall, daddy hot. 399 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to up. It just happened to you. 400 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,119 Speaker 1: It fell in your lap. Have you ever had a through? No, 401 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: you feel like a threesome girl, which is fucking crazy. No. No, 402 00:20:31,440 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: I'm like the girl that people are like, oh, I'm 403 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:36,159 Speaker 1: gonna give you coke and like a crazy and I like, 404 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, it doesn't realize that step one, I feel 405 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 1: like a bark really loud and was like that girls 406 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:46,800 Speaker 1: so fun and then I'm like, you guys, don't go sleep. 407 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm tired. Like I'm actually like I leave midway after 408 00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,440 Speaker 1: my stand up shows. Everyone's like, let's fucking party, and 409 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I know I seemed fun on stage, but 410 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:59,440 Speaker 1: I actually like watch like the Food Network after What 411 00:20:59,520 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: do you mean you know? No, it's not you. You're 412 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: gonna see your lie right now, Mandy. You make fun 413 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: of me because I won't go to out after the shows? 414 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:11,280 Speaker 1: Are you serious? Right now? What one time I'm gonna 415 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 1: bump in l A? Dude, I don't want you in 416 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: l A? They offered us, Okay, what do you want 417 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:23,760 Speaker 1: me to say? That was at one time? You outside 418 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,360 Speaker 1: but it sounds cool, cool, You're still with the guy. 419 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,919 Speaker 1: So we just broke up because he didn't show up 420 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,480 Speaker 1: on Valentine's say how you need to flowers? Yeah, but 421 00:21:33,560 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: we talked about that statement. I'm not gonna lie. We 422 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:42,719 Speaker 1: talked about that with a couple of therapists. But I mean, 423 00:21:42,960 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 1: I'm past it. Yeah, what's crazy is the problem in 424 00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 1: our relationship was never the orgies or sex clubs. Mind you. 425 00:21:51,480 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: Pretty much every friend that came to New York to 426 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 1: visit both of us, um, so we were having a 427 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: lot of sex. The sex was never the issue was 428 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 1: more of like the commune occasion and the boundaries, and 429 00:22:02,680 --> 00:22:08,240 Speaker 1: so we did. We did. It's not that I have 430 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: to bring it up here. Real He's also someone on 431 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,160 Speaker 1: this podcast I broke up with and got back together, 432 00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: and broke up and got back together for the for 433 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: for enough time that now I'm just like, I'm cool, 434 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 1: like I'm cool on it. To be fair with you, 435 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:27,359 Speaker 1: though in the realm of dating, which I have zero 436 00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,560 Speaker 1: time for it right now with work, I know that 437 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,879 Speaker 1: that's still something I would want in my next relationship. 438 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,040 Speaker 1: I actually enjoyed the sex clubs because I like women. 439 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,840 Speaker 1: I got the guy for you man? Who is it? John? Comedian? 440 00:22:40,840 --> 00:22:44,080 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you comedians. I don't know my 441 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: pussy dry up. Guys, they're both comings. Have you ever 442 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 1: dated others? Comedian? Comedian? Alright, comedian, the podcasters? Those are 443 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 1: the two things. Last sex. How you gonna make me 444 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 1: look him up? Let's get that about talking like a 445 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: little way. He used to be a basketball player. That Actually, 446 00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: I'm telling you John is just crushed me. Good boy. 447 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 1: It can't just to smiss comedians out right, No, I 448 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: mean look him up. Number I'm telling you why. I'm 449 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: telling you why I'm bringing him up. First of all, 450 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 1: he created the act the app Black. He's also an 451 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:24,160 Speaker 1: entrepreneur b l A p l a p Slack owned 452 00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:30,879 Speaker 1: business app right just started entrepreneur black, entrepreneur, super funny 453 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,560 Speaker 1: but literally said to me recently, I cannot be in 454 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,239 Speaker 1: a relationship but a woman that doesn't want to bring 455 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 1: other people into the relationship. How everybody minute future hire 456 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:48,280 Speaker 1: Sego was drawing. But he might not be a type. 457 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 1: Now he's not my type. He's super famous. No, he's not. 458 00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,320 Speaker 1: He's not super he's not reckless. I know who the 459 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: person is, you know, I don't like super famous people. No, no, no, 460 00:23:56,840 --> 00:24:00,800 Speaker 1: not get him up too much. He's a great guy. 461 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,159 Speaker 1: I just one of my let me see any swag. 462 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: He's sick, sick, sick, he's six. No, I run away. 463 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to give away and I don't know 464 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,119 Speaker 1: you know. All I'm saying is that he sounds like 465 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: the guy for you. I don't want to get in trouble, 466 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 1: but no, no, And that's would place. I mean, that's 467 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 1: that's the experience life. So what you're saying though, in 468 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: terms of three sims and bringing out the people into 469 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 1: the bedroom. Before my last relationship, it was only with 470 00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: people that I didn't see myself being with so I 471 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:39,080 Speaker 1: didn't have to worry about being judged or it was 472 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: just something fun. But now that that's something that I 473 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: did experience, I realized, like, nah, I'm gonna need you 474 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 1: to let me like be with other people. And it 475 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: wasn't even men as much as it was women. But 476 00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 1: my problem is women be wanting to go on dates, 477 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,879 Speaker 1: maybe one too much, but just be fucking wanting a lot, 478 00:24:56,320 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 1: and I just want to find I'm not away for 479 00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 1: the right person. Was their first date like, oh not? 480 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:12,520 Speaker 1: He was in a dark place. I had had sex 481 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,320 Speaker 1: and eight months I was living with my parents with 482 00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 1: four cats. I was like face timing, like football players 483 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,800 Speaker 1: and ship who were like injured and had CT. It wasn't. 484 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 1: I wasn't in a good place. Their brains were mashed 485 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: potatoes and it was fine. This dude, I saw him 486 00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,920 Speaker 1: performed like six years ago at the comedy Cellar, and 487 00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,200 Speaker 1: I was like, this guy is cute, but he talked 488 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 1: about LEVI in Ireland, so I'm like, I guess I'll 489 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 1: never date that guy. Fast forward because of pandemic. He's 490 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,880 Speaker 1: in Long Island. I'm in Long Island. He sees him 491 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,920 Speaker 1: out there and he just sends me a straightforward text. 492 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: He goes, are you out east? And I said yes, 493 00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:45,560 Speaker 1: and he goes, do you want to do you wanna 494 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 1: get coffee and zide harper. I said, yes, here's my digits, 495 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 1: not coffee. I know, I knew when handles like my 496 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,959 Speaker 1: boyfriend has. Yeah, I'm not. I was a bit im. 497 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,160 Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you. I've had a I don't 498 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: know how I would connect with someone who doesn't drink. 499 00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 1: I'm drinking both not drink, so I'm I love eating drinking. 500 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,600 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not great at I don't get sucked 501 00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 1: up with you. But when you're just taking out, I 502 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 1: don't need a glass, so I'll be honest with you. 503 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,320 Speaker 1: I think a lot of people this is an interesting 504 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: conversation because I might have said on this podcast, I 505 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 1: couldn't dat someone who doesn't drink. I've hung out with 506 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:28,160 Speaker 1: Hannah who doesn't drink. Um My homegirl Brianda doesn't drink 507 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 1: right now. I think it depends on if someone comes 508 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,440 Speaker 1: alive when they drink or not. You always seem extrovert 509 00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 1: and have that energy, so I and you know when 510 00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,879 Speaker 1: you feel bad sometimes that someone's not drinking, so you're like, 511 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,920 Speaker 1: that's how everyone always thinks I'm high because I'm always 512 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 1: giggling and eating, so like I already have that when 513 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: I drink, I'm like I ruined the party. I'm like, 514 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: I'm just like shaking my butt in the corner, like 515 00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 1: I'm way more fun right now. How do you in 516 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 1: page get along? You're partnering Giggly squadrother podcast page. She 517 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 1: has her side where she likes to like party, go out, 518 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: but me and her at our core, we like to 519 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,320 Speaker 1: sit around and talk ship and make each other laugh 520 00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 1: pretty sober. Great because sober. But with I feel like 521 00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: a lot of my girlfriends, they get into a lot 522 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: of fights, like when they're drunk with their significant other, 523 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 1: he's going out whatever, they're going out, Like, we've never 524 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 1: had drunk sex before, We've never had playing very cautious. 525 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 1: When I first met her, our first day was was great, 526 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: like in terms of we just hung out and then 527 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:27,240 Speaker 1: she left. We didn't even kiss. And then the second 528 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,240 Speaker 1: day we actually went and played golf, played nine holes 529 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:32,680 Speaker 1: of golf, and I was like, playing this is super cautious. 530 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:34,639 Speaker 1: And we finished playing nine holes of golf. Now I 531 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:36,639 Speaker 1: have a house on the beach in West Hampton, so 532 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: that is a that is a I guess a bonus. No, 533 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 1: this was so. Then at the end of the nine holes, 534 00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,159 Speaker 1: she goes, uh, do you want to do you want 535 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 1: to go to your house? I had to see the house. 536 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: I had to see who we're working with. We did 537 00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: have sex in the second day. So the second day 538 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 1: we had sex. How was the house? Very basic? Man? 539 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 1: But it's a course the street from the ocean. On 540 00:27:56,520 --> 00:28:00,680 Speaker 1: the ocean. I saw it and I said, I where 541 00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 1: are we? No? No, no, you know how it happened. 542 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. This is like it's like a beach bungalow. 543 00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:09,959 Speaker 1: That's how I would describe it. Okay, this is my thing. 544 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:12,359 Speaker 1: If I was gonna giving them all, like what are 545 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: you talking, I'm tolding nine. If I'm gonna invest myself 546 00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:17,000 Speaker 1: in someone, I want to see this beach house. I 547 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 1: want to make sure it's lit. And I was manifesting 548 00:28:19,200 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 1: a beach house in my life and I saw it 549 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:22,879 Speaker 1: lining up. And the problem is I was trying to 550 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 1: be cute, like I was in my bikini and it 551 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: was all wet, and we went back to his place 552 00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:27,840 Speaker 1: and you know how you want to like slowly strip, 553 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:29,440 Speaker 1: but I was like, funking, this ship's wet. So I 554 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,119 Speaker 1: just took all my clothes off and I'm like, let's go. 555 00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:34,359 Speaker 1: We fuck, and then I give the whole like you know, 556 00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: I don't normally do that, and he's like, I don't 557 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: give a funk, I don't have time. I'm old, why 558 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 1: did you give that? I normally don't do this speech. 559 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,920 Speaker 1: I think her grown age because she's getting all those 560 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 1: like five date rules ships in her head. You know, 561 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,440 Speaker 1: I mean to be fair, we do as women Unfortunately, 562 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 1: like I just thought, especially because you want to make 563 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:53,240 Speaker 1: sure someone invests. I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I hate. 564 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: I didn't have sex with the people I liked too, 565 00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: So it's like, I think sex with people you liked 566 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: in your twenties, No, I didn't. I know. What I'm 567 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,959 Speaker 1: saying is I know that's the problem. What would you even? 568 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 1: I just met I just met one last week and 569 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: thought I was sister, was a little friend of mine. 570 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,120 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, I didn't suck him because 571 00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,080 Speaker 1: I actually liked him back in two thousand nine. No, 572 00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: you have to suck them to know that the sex 573 00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:18,440 Speaker 1: is good, to know that you're into it, to know 574 00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: that you like their smells and their stuff. And I 575 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: merely was into it. And then two days later I 576 00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 1: was like, I have to go some reality show, The 577 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,360 Speaker 1: Devil's Entertainment, And and then I called him every night crying, 578 00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,400 Speaker 1: and I have to say he showed me that, like, 579 00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 1: you don't have to play the cool girl, you have 580 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: to play perfect. I was a fucking mess and this 581 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,520 Speaker 1: guy was like, I want her to be the mother 582 00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 1: of my children. I was like, I'm going to fix that. 583 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 1: The mess. The girl that was the mess, right, the 584 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 1: one and like the hardest time of what made you 585 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: propose to a person like that? Because see, we needs 586 00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:51,200 Speaker 1: to know that people needs to know. Yeah, you want 587 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 1: to know the truth? Man. I knew from them literally 588 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,680 Speaker 1: within ten minutes of meeting Hannah that she was the 589 00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: one that I knew really like I don't believe in 590 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,800 Speaker 1: the one like destiny wise she was the one. But 591 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: just like I was forty five when we met, and 592 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 1: like within ten minutes, I was like, Oh, she's like 593 00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: a winner for real. So once we had this deep connection, 594 00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,840 Speaker 1: I didn't need to wait too long. Plus we were 595 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 1: kind of like joking about it from pretty early on. 596 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,240 Speaker 1: Do you think if you were younger when you met 597 00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:17,760 Speaker 1: Hannah you would have proposed? Well, if I was younger 598 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 1: when I met Hannah would have been she would have 599 00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 1: been like, but I would have been awkward. I probably 600 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,000 Speaker 1: would have kept it on the down low high. I 601 00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:29,280 Speaker 1: never dated an older guy like this. The oldest I 602 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: dated was thirty six. What the old guy does he do? 603 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,719 Speaker 1: His back is always hurting? Well, yeah, everywhere he's snort 604 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: and advil. I say, if you want to me to Daddy, 605 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: go to Walgreen's hang out in the pain section. They 606 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:46,000 Speaker 1: will come. The thing with these older guys, they're like, 607 00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: it's jealous of my love for j Low. Okay, that type, 608 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 1: that's old man ship. The thing is he is pre trained, 609 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,720 Speaker 1: like he has almost fully baked, Like all these women 610 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 1: have already like set kind of good boundaries with him 611 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:00,040 Speaker 1: and trained him in a lot of ways. So and 612 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 1: I know what I'm getting. It's it's like I'm adopting 613 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: a senior dog, like I know what he's getting. Also, 614 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 1: he's wheezy, he's fucking exhausted, Like I joke, I don't 615 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: have to worry about him chasing women in the streets anymore. 616 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:11,280 Speaker 1: Like he's on the verge of my thread. It's like 617 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:14,960 Speaker 1: he's tired, fucking and I kind of last real quick, 618 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:18,560 Speaker 1: how old you are? I don't believe any of this. 619 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 1: The man, my my ex just turned fifty. It was 620 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 1: all further taken man, the sex. But that's what I'm saying. 621 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 1: Like he was still very much like we went like 622 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 1: probably no minimum than four rounds a night, minimum, Like 623 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 1: what did she say in the pain section? And he wasn't. 624 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:45,719 Speaker 1: I mean, we did massagy each other before we got 625 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 1: into it, but then we went I type like she 626 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 1: wasn't suggesting that we don't yeah about me being out 627 00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:55,600 Speaker 1: of the game of one note like he was in 628 00:31:55,640 --> 00:32:00,720 Speaker 1: the game. Now you still in there. You're still in 629 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:04,560 Speaker 1: there at forty nine, Well you're still in there until 630 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 1: night break. You already get married. Man, He's like, motherfucker, 631 00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:20,600 Speaker 1: you ain't done more. You were spreading. Also, he is 632 00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 1: lying to you out of trash thing. But I do 633 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,760 Speaker 1: think if I met him in his thirties, we might 634 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: have missed each other because he's like, wasn't a very 635 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: I think in the pandemic you said you you were 636 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 1: feeling like, Okay, I actually do value maybe having a 637 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,640 Speaker 1: partner because the world was about the fucking end. That's 638 00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 1: the same time I got into a fucking relationship. I 639 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 1: saw your rejected thinking as your normal self because it 640 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,120 Speaker 1: was there in the fucking pandemic. And mind you, but 641 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,760 Speaker 1: the pandemic and will have the pandemic still over? Do 642 00:32:54,840 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: you know I have to get COVID tested tomorrow. Sucking over? Okay, Wait, 643 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 1: do you have a three sum? Is that what you 644 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,240 Speaker 1: trying to say? I mean, he would be I would 645 00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: circumcised to us. You're circumcising you like that, But I 646 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 1: would totally just be into Like if you let me 647 00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:19,560 Speaker 1: just eat her out and you could watch, I mean, 648 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: if that was her thing, I would allow it. But 649 00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,640 Speaker 1: I don't think it's her thing. But does she like head? 650 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: If you liked does she like? That's the only question 651 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 1: like that, I would be fine with it, but you 652 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 1: know you wouldn't. I think I told you, Like, I'm 653 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,800 Speaker 1: like a former athlete. I have a lot of really 654 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: good lesbian friends. I mean, they are strong women. When 655 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,280 Speaker 1: you I've had d m s from girls just being like, hey, like, 656 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 1: I'm super attracted to you whatever, and it's just never 657 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,000 Speaker 1: happy into me. I feel like I'm almost lame at 658 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 1: this time in my life that I've never experiment with 659 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:07,640 Speaker 1: a woman. But it just never. It never. But everybody 660 00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,040 Speaker 1: loves the funny hot girl. Everybody wants to the funny 661 00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 1: hot girl. Stop you're making me blush. It's true, I mean, 662 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 1: and also the funny hot girls insecure, and she wants 663 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,600 Speaker 1: everyone to laugh at her. I don't care what you are, 664 00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:19,799 Speaker 1: where you're from, what you're attracted to. I want your laugh. 665 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,640 Speaker 1: Who would you? Who would you? You're a fantasy woman 666 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:31,800 Speaker 1: being well, we're starting up a question that was cute 667 00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,439 Speaker 1: you just created a safe space for us to explore something. 668 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,520 Speaker 1: I know this is I was an elevator. I'm like, 669 00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:40,879 Speaker 1: we're about to get the next level. Um ship, Um okay, 670 00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,160 Speaker 1: you gotta and you you gotta pick someone like in 671 00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:50,240 Speaker 1: your you can't say, like beyondus famous. I get turned 672 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:54,760 Speaker 1: on watching girls who look like me masturbate online because 673 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 1: I think, oh shout, I was trying to prove I'm 674 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 1: not narciss damn it. Okay, so Monica Bellucci is he likes? 675 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,480 Speaker 1: I think I might be interested in like a blonde 676 00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:09,719 Speaker 1: because they like short hair, like short hair and like 677 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:19,360 Speaker 1: a big ass, like listen, don't we're colorful eyelashes that 678 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:23,239 Speaker 1: she pulls off somehow. No, but I haven't even thought 679 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:26,120 Speaker 1: about it. What kind of girl i'd be into. It's 680 00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:28,399 Speaker 1: we're like I just haven't went there in my head. 681 00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 1: But she's like, stop pushing sexuality onto I think alcoholic. 682 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,520 Speaker 1: We can't even watch point like she gets to get 683 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:38,480 Speaker 1: it in uncomfortable. We try different points, comics, watching she 684 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:43,000 Speaker 1: was watching you see the blame game. We go online 685 00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:44,759 Speaker 1: and and he starts to making fund of the guy. 686 00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,279 Speaker 1: I started making fund the girl. And then it's a 687 00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 1: bit and we're like, can't be serious. We do have 688 00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: a point where like we need comics. We cover our 689 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 1: intimacy through humor, right, But that's how me and him connect, 690 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 1: Like that's our love language, humor. But then we have 691 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,000 Speaker 1: to work on being intimate and not like making a 692 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,560 Speaker 1: joke out of it. Wasn't one of the five languages 693 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:04,360 Speaker 1: I looked at. Actually, I recently did it my own podcast, 694 00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: and I did a whole thing about the love languages 695 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 1: and how they're not broad enough, and I said, humor 696 00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 1: should be a love language. I believe that's that's our 697 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 1: love language. Is that what we connected straight away. We 698 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:16,719 Speaker 1: sometimes have trouble being serious with stuff, We sometimes have 699 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,480 Speaker 1: trouble expressing emotions, but we never have trouble each other. 700 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,440 Speaker 1: I was dating someone in l A that told me, 701 00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: you don't all of that at this point, I'm talking 702 00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:35,239 Speaker 1: about d d Okay, he said, Dave big, dig big, 703 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 1: because they're gonna put two and two to basically not 704 00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:43,320 Speaker 1: the ding', not the DN. He's a very serious person 705 00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:46,360 Speaker 1: and he will try to compliment me or tell me 706 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:48,320 Speaker 1: something about myself, and he will tell me all the 707 00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,279 Speaker 1: time that I can't make a joke, and he gets 708 00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: angry with me because he'll try to say something into 709 00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 1: me and I'd be like, don't you know, I don't 710 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,759 Speaker 1: know how to stop. And I think that when you 711 00:36:56,840 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 1: meet someone who he was on, how do would you 712 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,360 Speaker 1: turn it stuff into jokes all the time? Yeah, not 713 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:06,120 Speaker 1: even like not even more uncomfortable then because he understood it, 714 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,600 Speaker 1: because that's me. But he's just like, you need to 715 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,360 Speaker 1: unlearn this ship. You need to unlearn when like you 716 00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:13,680 Speaker 1: need to be serious, you need to like meet me 717 00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 1: there like stop kind of light in the mood for everything. 718 00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,279 Speaker 1: There can be a time and place for like a 719 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: dark and deeper conversation. And I think for two people 720 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:22,840 Speaker 1: to like bond on humor is perfect. But it's like, 721 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:25,680 Speaker 1: can you ever fight? Do you guys fight? We fight? 722 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,120 Speaker 1: What'd you last fight about? I feel like I thought 723 00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 1: we were going to fight more because he's a scorpio, 724 00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 1: I'm a Leo. We are like big personalities. We're not 725 00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 1: going to start in moments of this podcast that He's like, 726 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:46,319 Speaker 1: I get a girl, and then I feel like we don't. 727 00:37:46,520 --> 00:37:49,920 Speaker 1: The only thing we thought about is, honestly, some external 728 00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 1: situations like reality TV was that stuff was stressful. But 729 00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:54,759 Speaker 1: other than that, what was it. I'm trying to think 730 00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,279 Speaker 1: of what were really I want to know why people 731 00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: fight about No, we'd fight because he'd be like, don't 732 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 1: look at the comments, and then I look at the 733 00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 1: comments and be upset, and then he says, I told 734 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: you I st look at the comments, and I'd be like, 735 00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,239 Speaker 1: but I need you right now. After a while, that's 736 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:10,880 Speaker 1: all we thought about. After while, the the energy that 737 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,840 Speaker 1: that creates, like the negative energy. Eventually you're like, you know, 738 00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,439 Speaker 1: it's it's difficult, but it's a normal quote unquote people. 739 00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,839 Speaker 1: Do you know what that is? That's when you've got 740 00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:21,120 Speaker 1: drama with your friends and you keep venting about it 741 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 1: to your partner. Men need a break from that, sheep, 742 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,080 Speaker 1: get a therapist or another persons. I got a therapist. 743 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,719 Speaker 1: But I remember once I was like, he went to 744 00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 1: bed early, and I'm on TikTok and someone did like 745 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:35,960 Speaker 1: a whole TikTok about how much they hate me, and 746 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,480 Speaker 1: I just I felt it, like it just and then 747 00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: I'm like, I need to tell my partner and I 748 00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:44,400 Speaker 1: like wake him up, and I'm like and I can't now. 749 00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 1: And so honestly, when people say there's no perfect relationships, 750 00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,920 Speaker 1: it's true, because there's no perfect lives. So when we 751 00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:57,320 Speaker 1: came together my life after a couple of months, my 752 00:38:57,480 --> 00:38:59,960 Speaker 1: life went through the worst public like I want the 753 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:01,239 Speaker 1: gott to fall in love with me, while the whole 754 00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,800 Speaker 1: world hated me, and it was really difficult for me, 755 00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:06,239 Speaker 1: especially not to get deep of growing up in my life. 756 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:08,320 Speaker 1: I thought people love me more than more successful. I 757 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,879 Speaker 1: am talking about it right now, to get into that ship. Yeah, 758 00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:12,880 Speaker 1: but I think it's important it helps you. Yeah, I 759 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:15,319 Speaker 1: love someone because that's it's like a type. I think 760 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,120 Speaker 1: a lot of well, you know a lot of type 761 00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,880 Speaker 1: hard workers girls. Yeah, a lot of type of hard 762 00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,000 Speaker 1: work and girls listeners podcast probably. And I always felt 763 00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:24,839 Speaker 1: men would love me more than more successful. I am 764 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:27,720 Speaker 1: so I get this man, who I fucking think is amazing? 765 00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:33,680 Speaker 1: How do you this is that bullshit millennial? We grew 766 00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:37,600 Speaker 1: girl being independent, girl ball ship and to be fair, 767 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,319 Speaker 1: as women who are now super successful now become even 768 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:43,799 Speaker 1: harder for us to date because, to be fair, men 769 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,600 Speaker 1: now don't understand their position with us. They don't understand 770 00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: if they're needed, they don't understand where they show up 771 00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 1: because now you make your own money and you're this 772 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:53,759 Speaker 1: girl bass And we had the opportunity to get all 773 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 1: of the jobs that men can't. We grew up with 774 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 1: the anything you can do, I can do it better, 775 00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:04,480 Speaker 1: and it's caused men unfortunately presents us specifically in dating, 776 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,839 Speaker 1: not me. I can't wait to net work. Oh my god, 777 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,319 Speaker 1: Look so this is fine, Like, man, I can't wait 778 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:12,719 Speaker 1: to go out there and make that money. Man, I'm 779 00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: gonna relax. You want to be you want to be 780 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,560 Speaker 1: a house husband. This is how I fell in love 781 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,520 Speaker 1: with this man. He looked at me, he goes, I 782 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:24,439 Speaker 1: want to play golf and take care of the kids. 783 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,400 Speaker 1: And I said, where do I sign? Okay, where do 784 00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,279 Speaker 1: I sign? But also this is a man who has 785 00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: had his own success, his own fame, his own money, 786 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,239 Speaker 1: who's done it and is able to watch me doing 787 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 1: it and give me good insight and kind of be 788 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,320 Speaker 1: there for me because we're at different stages. Was hired. 789 00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:41,839 Speaker 1: It was the only reason we were. I think you're hired. 790 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:46,239 Speaker 1: I didn't high was only joking around. I'm going to 791 00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 1: tell you something, Hannah. So they met old day and 792 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,799 Speaker 1: he's he's forty four, and um, he has a great career. 793 00:40:53,880 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: But there were moments where I was like, I can 794 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,800 Speaker 1: only tell from the Dog. I was like the fact that, 795 00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 1: like I could do a show this weekend, I could 796 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,400 Speaker 1: bounce around, he could kind of be home. I was like, 797 00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,359 Speaker 1: I kind of like this ship because he's already owned 798 00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,560 Speaker 1: his ship. You know, he's gonna get another property and 799 00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,120 Speaker 1: do this, like he's got it with him. Are you 800 00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:14,279 Speaker 1: with him in a fight right now? I really like you. 801 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 1: He is that guy that and it's how I you know, 802 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 1: I fell in love with him. He's the guy I 803 00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: feel like, I'm a girl that could blend with any 804 00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:25,440 Speaker 1: friend circle. Like if I want to go to the 805 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 1: Hampton's Bitch, I will. And then when I get home 806 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:29,239 Speaker 1: and I want to go to Last Lap or some 807 00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:31,040 Speaker 1: hoe to Ask club, I'm gonna go there too. And 808 00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,319 Speaker 1: I can influx that ship, and so can he. We'll 809 00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:34,920 Speaker 1: be at fucking Sole House. I'll be all right, I'm 810 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 1: ready to be he'd be like me to. That's how 811 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: I feel with him, to like I compare him in 812 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: any situation. Throw him with the fucking wolves and he'll 813 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:44,319 Speaker 1: be fine. Put him on reality TV, he'll be fine. 814 00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,400 Speaker 1: Yeah you need somebody that can be a chameleon any relationship, 815 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,080 Speaker 1: what are Yeah? Yeah you need you need I mean, 816 00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,879 Speaker 1: I agree that, like those are the things that really matter. 817 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:53,840 Speaker 1: I know we're joking around all the crazy ship, the 818 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:58,439 Speaker 1: orgies and stuff, but she was very real. I told 819 00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:02,319 Speaker 1: him at my long Honors to your partner City, it's 820 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:05,200 Speaker 1: giving big rich town. Look at the view Emerald City. 821 00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 1: You feel me, it's always been more important to just 822 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,600 Speaker 1: like the majority of your life you're not fucking so 823 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,120 Speaker 1: Actually it's really important to have somebody who you just 824 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,240 Speaker 1: can chill with most of the time, and more importantly, 825 00:42:16,360 --> 00:42:19,359 Speaker 1: well as importantly take them anywhere. That's actually a real 826 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:22,280 Speaker 1: Irish thing. You could take her anywhere or take him anywhere. 827 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,160 Speaker 1: That's like an expression they have. Yeah, it's like an 828 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 1: important thing to Irish people. Lady in the street, is 829 00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:32,440 Speaker 1: she a freaking the sheets? What's the freakiest that? I 830 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,840 Speaker 1: felt like it finger in your ass? I love a 831 00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,960 Speaker 1: fingerbout if she's not great with the with the anal ship. Wait, bro, 832 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:40,240 Speaker 1: you don't even have a Cralic nails. These are perfectly 833 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 1: I just kind of up to talk about that. I 834 00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,280 Speaker 1: started to get have long nails, and then I felt 835 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,799 Speaker 1: like a dude going through puberty trying to finger someone 836 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,359 Speaker 1: for the first time, where you I just was like, oh, 837 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: and he was like whoa, whoa, whoa, And I was like, 838 00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,840 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but um, he's open to that stuff and 839 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:59,640 Speaker 1: I'm open to it too. I just couldn't navigate stuff. Yeah, 840 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:04,840 Speaker 1: butth I like it, none of it, you know what 841 00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:07,960 Speaker 1: I mean. Like it was always like we we never 842 00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:10,720 Speaker 1: got past the kind of like let's try this phase 843 00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:12,920 Speaker 1: with that. It never became like I didn't even talk 844 00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 1: about it. No, no, no, we discussed it. You discussed 845 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,879 Speaker 1: required a discussion. Okay, you haven't done much but play 846 00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:23,239 Speaker 1: before that, right with other guys. No. Yeah, so it 847 00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:26,200 Speaker 1: was love I have about that. They were like, I'm 848 00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,839 Speaker 1: very openly into the I like a real quick, real quick. 849 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:33,120 Speaker 1: Then this is a great conversation. Hold on, so strap up. 850 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:36,880 Speaker 1: I'm into pegging and my partner would not let me 851 00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 1: peg him. However, he bade me eat his ass in 852 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 1: front of a whole set. Like I mean, it was 853 00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 1: I was a little during that point, but I'm not. 854 00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,760 Speaker 1: I'm not into pegging, like I've never been stream however, 855 00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 1: even just fingering and licking up the ass, that's something 856 00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: you were into and you were like, I've never done. 857 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: How was that conversation then? And you been like, I'm 858 00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 1: in SUI would you do it? Like you can't remember? 859 00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 1: I know, so he made handy when you have like 860 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,759 Speaker 1: routines and like Instagram, he's getting drunk your routines all 861 00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,600 Speaker 1: the time, and I remember him being like, yeah, let's 862 00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:16,720 Speaker 1: try it. I personally loved the power of inserting something 863 00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,800 Speaker 1: into a guy, being able to because you're getting fucked 864 00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:21,480 Speaker 1: all the time, and I was able to actually like 865 00:44:21,680 --> 00:44:25,800 Speaker 1: add sensation to him. And then I joke, my asshole, 866 00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:30,200 Speaker 1: if it's unkept, is truly scary. I'm Italian and Jewish, 867 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,839 Speaker 1: so it's Harry. It's a lot of things, asshole. I mean, 868 00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 1: I've been working on it, but great part so I 869 00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:38,520 Speaker 1: was I was nervous about going down on him and 870 00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 1: he's Irish and it was beautiful and very well kept. 871 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:43,640 Speaker 1: I love a pretty buddhole. Did you wink it? Did 872 00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,160 Speaker 1: you wake her budle? Like you know, you can make 873 00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:50,919 Speaker 1: up defense. We hadn't unfortunate period of time. There's probably 874 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 1: too much information. We had a portunate period of time. 875 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: My butt hole was going through some issues that perhaps 876 00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,360 Speaker 1: it wasn't like the best place to face, so that 877 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:04,480 Speaker 1: probably that happened between that stuff. Wait is your but 878 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,839 Speaker 1: was it nice and clean? Because you were My boat 879 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 1: was real nice and clean. But then there was just 880 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,399 Speaker 1: like a there was just like a short period where 881 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,920 Speaker 1: you know, whatever, it doesn't matter science, it's just what 882 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:18,880 Speaker 1: do you mean hemorhoid? Yeah? Yeah. Basically My favorite like 883 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:22,240 Speaker 1: immediate story about a hemorhoid ever was Andrew Schultz talking 884 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,960 Speaker 1: about his hamorreid. Have you guys ever heard him talking 885 00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,439 Speaker 1: about it? He's actually I don't know if he's joking, though, 886 00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: it's very like he had a really bad hemorroid and 887 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,360 Speaker 1: his now wife her father had to help him with 888 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:33,799 Speaker 1: medicines and ship. He said that it was so bad 889 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:36,319 Speaker 1: he was in a restaurant and he couldn't sit down 890 00:45:36,320 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 1: because it's like spread it. He had to get pellos 891 00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:43,200 Speaker 1: or like, uh, what hellos? What? Why are we doing this? Agame? 892 00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,239 Speaker 1: Why does it always come three months later and you 893 00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:49,160 Speaker 1: still don't know how to say pillow? Hello? Hello, Hello, 894 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:54,280 Speaker 1: it's a pillow. It's okay, that's a thing, Okay, it's pillo. 895 00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 1: We know what, we knew, what we knew even met 896 00:45:56,760 --> 00:45:58,400 Speaker 1: with the word and he said he got no, he 897 00:45:58,440 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 1: can't take anything seriously. But so you wouldn't separate his 898 00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:04,920 Speaker 1: fucking hemorrhids. Bro, and I really want to can't separate hemorheids? Like, well, no, 899 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:10,680 Speaker 1: I said, I've never had it like that. Yeah, he extreme. 900 00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:12,759 Speaker 1: I was like, you know that maybe if you like it, 901 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:16,400 Speaker 1: it feels better. You can't. Can't so nice because you 902 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:20,719 Speaker 1: were used to like or you wanted out there. I 903 00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 1: always feel like if we were going to do that, 904 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,439 Speaker 1: I would make sure that it was in good orders? 905 00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,640 Speaker 1: How do you do that? How do men make sure that? 906 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:30,120 Speaker 1: But just wash my butt? But that I just watched 907 00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 1: about a little bit of like if you got to 908 00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: go in there to get it out? Oh douche. I've no, 909 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,800 Speaker 1: I've never douched. But if if if I knew that 910 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,160 Speaker 1: we were gonna do that, probably the time, like any 911 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: time that might come up, I will make sure I 912 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:46,680 Speaker 1: will do a little. I will do a little. Make 913 00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: sure I love you. You just said I'm not going 914 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,320 Speaker 1: to drink coffee that morning. That's that's what I smart. No, no, no, 915 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:57,040 Speaker 1: I'm not. I will, but you know what you should 916 00:46:57,160 --> 00:47:01,160 Speaker 1: be like thinking like that. I'm sure it's respectful that 917 00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:03,200 Speaker 1: he'll be like sometimes I'm like, do you want me 918 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:04,880 Speaker 1: to to be like not today. It's not set up 919 00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,800 Speaker 1: like that. And I'm like, I appreciate you. It's not 920 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:12,719 Speaker 1: that I'm not prepared. I feel like it's also I 921 00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,440 Speaker 1: would lick, I would lick harrass all the time, but 922 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,120 Speaker 1: you you know, you're not really like it doesn't really 923 00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 1: do much. I mean, I'm into it, but but I 924 00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:24,319 Speaker 1: get nervous because I love Mexican food. I eat all 925 00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:28,480 Speaker 1: the time. You love you always Mexican food. I eat, sleep, 926 00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 1: breathe Mexican food. Honestly, I think I have ibs or 927 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:33,480 Speaker 1: some ship because I'm hot. But I do think that 928 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,640 Speaker 1: I don't like having a partner because you have to 929 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: change the whole way you like consume food and all 930 00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,200 Speaker 1: that ship. So yeah, that's my own issues. Yeah, she 931 00:47:42,320 --> 00:47:48,759 Speaker 1: got like a little paranoria. What kind of stuff have 932 00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:51,440 Speaker 1: you guys had to like since living together? Change or like, 933 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,839 Speaker 1: you know, nothing. We're both very messy. We don't want 934 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:57,440 Speaker 1: to give each other a hard time about mess And 935 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: you got a cat. Oh can't you not make that 936 00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 1: fucking face. I have a cat too, and you sound 937 00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:05,560 Speaker 1: real judgment you're Bessie and you got a cat like 938 00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:11,200 Speaker 1: cat clearer than dogs, dogs, little pists and ship all 939 00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,160 Speaker 1: of your fucking house. A cat know to get his 940 00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,799 Speaker 1: motherfucking letter. He just always pists and ships in the house. Yea, 941 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:19,759 Speaker 1: And a cat always ships in his litter box like 942 00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:22,319 Speaker 1: a dog. If you leave, if you don't come home 943 00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:24,200 Speaker 1: in time, Yes, you were going to have piste and 944 00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,080 Speaker 1: ship in your house. I can leave my cap for 945 00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,120 Speaker 1: three days and it's going in this litter box, you know, 946 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,000 Speaker 1: I mean the cat. The cat thing is convenient I 947 00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 1: have to say about. Yeah, it's catty. We have to 948 00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,359 Speaker 1: learn from cats. Like my cat. He's been feeding her 949 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 1: every morning for over a year, and she just started 950 00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 1: to let him pet her. And that's called boundaries and 951 00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: self respect. Like this bitch. She finally would sit next 952 00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,759 Speaker 1: to him, but like turn away, like I don't want 953 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 1: you to pet me, but I'll let you. And she's 954 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:52,359 Speaker 1: aspirational butter, she is a self respecting independent woman. Can 955 00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,920 Speaker 1: I tell you something I stole from you? You have 956 00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:58,880 Speaker 1: your cat's name as a name plate. Oh, Nana, Simone 957 00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:00,640 Speaker 1: is getting made right now, have to I got it 958 00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,880 Speaker 1: in Chinatown. I got it one of these places in Chinata. 959 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,839 Speaker 1: Did Alright, let's get back to it. And then your 960 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:08,480 Speaker 1: sex light. Yeah, we give a good blowjob? Oh yeah, 961 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,799 Speaker 1: great blowjob? Really great blowjob? Give us tell us why 962 00:49:12,040 --> 00:49:13,799 Speaker 1: because you put a ring on it? So I feel 963 00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,319 Speaker 1: like we've never had these talks. What's the best thing 964 00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:19,600 Speaker 1: she does when she sucks your dick? We don't say cock, 965 00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,200 Speaker 1: but you got a great mouth. First of all, if 966 00:49:22,239 --> 00:49:27,320 Speaker 1: you look, it's a very good not to v fool 967 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,880 Speaker 1: it's it's it's a cupid do you. I don't know. 968 00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:32,880 Speaker 1: I think I've never really thought about what is it 969 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 1: specifically about hand burn? Is that it's that I love 970 00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:43,879 Speaker 1: I love his cock'dication you don't like the word cock? 971 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 1: It bothers me. Oh, and you guys don't say blow 972 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:49,879 Speaker 1: jobs either. Right, I hate the word, but I wanted 973 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:52,000 Speaker 1: to give it a little for you guys to sation. 974 00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,399 Speaker 1: We could say schlan with all terms. Yeah, he said, 975 00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,160 Speaker 1: I don't say either. Yeah. Cat to me is just 976 00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:04,320 Speaker 1: like cock, a chicken or a tail tail when I 977 00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,320 Speaker 1: think of cock. You know, he had as a performer. 978 00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: So when she's when she's sucking my dick, when she 979 00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,399 Speaker 1: has my penis in her mouth, I want to say 980 00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,800 Speaker 1: the thing that makes you most comfortable, dick pish my 981 00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 1: deck is in her mouth, you know, I know that 982 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:23,360 Speaker 1: she's she wants it to be good. You know that. 983 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,720 Speaker 1: To be fair, we've said that in terms of women, 984 00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:33,399 Speaker 1: like giving good head or blow jobs, it comes from 985 00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,319 Speaker 1: whether you enjoyed or not. If a woman doesn't enjoy 986 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:39,200 Speaker 1: what she's doing, the person receiving it is going to 987 00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:42,200 Speaker 1: feel that they're not enjoying doing this. But that goes 988 00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:44,400 Speaker 1: back to my toxic trait that to be loved, I 989 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:45,920 Speaker 1: need to be good at things. So I'm like you, 990 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,120 Speaker 1: I clus to heres does. But in college, I was 991 00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,440 Speaker 1: a Division one tennis player and someone guy, some guy 992 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:53,880 Speaker 1: told me, I'm do you want a sucking dick? And 993 00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,160 Speaker 1: I never forget that and I bring my best, but 994 00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:58,160 Speaker 1: I do I want to feel somebody's I want to 995 00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:00,359 Speaker 1: feel somebody's dysfunction when my dick is in them out. 996 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:05,160 Speaker 1: That's really what gets me off sports at all. So 997 00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:09,720 Speaker 1: I was like one good. So also I have stupid 998 00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:12,319 Speaker 1: things that I had a girl who loves sucking. Take 999 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:14,080 Speaker 1: in college, you always just have time one girl and 1000 00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:17,120 Speaker 1: she would give me, like or a gay guy. True 1001 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:21,160 Speaker 1: um to deep throat, you put your thumb in between 1002 00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:23,759 Speaker 1: your fore finger and your middle finger and you hold 1003 00:51:23,840 --> 00:51:26,439 Speaker 1: that and it helps you not gag, I'll pull that ship. 1004 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 1: And I also think you have to think of like 1005 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:32,680 Speaker 1: your own rhythm when someone's touching you. Like guys aren't 1006 00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,640 Speaker 1: completely different, where like when you keep the rhythm that 1007 00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,600 Speaker 1: you want and don't be just like showing off in 1008 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,200 Speaker 1: a lot of different ways. There's like something to be 1009 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: said about a good rhythm to it now that you 1010 00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:43,960 Speaker 1: live together, because this is great for our horder, which 1011 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:46,360 Speaker 1: is our sex chip segment. You live together. A lot 1012 00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 1: of people say their sex life dies. How do you 1013 00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:51,000 Speaker 1: keep it alive? Quote unquote? And if it gets stale? 1014 00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:52,759 Speaker 1: Do you take a staycation? Do you guys have better 1015 00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:55,520 Speaker 1: sex off? Like tell us about that. I mean you 1016 00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,880 Speaker 1: definitely sometimes have to like make the effort. You're probably 1017 00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,399 Speaker 1: better these days at like bringing it up. She's actually better. 1018 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:05,040 Speaker 1: How do you bring it up? Like look like literally 1019 00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:08,520 Speaker 1: it's just like honestly sometimes it can literally be I 1020 00:52:08,600 --> 00:52:11,000 Speaker 1: think we should fuck like in other words, like it's 1021 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:15,760 Speaker 1: we need to funk now before. I'm so sexually attracted 1022 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,759 Speaker 1: to this man like I've normally after like six months, 1023 00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,319 Speaker 1: I hate every man I've ever been with just six months, 1024 00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:22,920 Speaker 1: something happens, and this man I've been with for a 1025 00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 1: year and a half and I would just see him 1026 00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:26,279 Speaker 1: sitting on his phone and I'll be like, I want 1027 00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:28,000 Speaker 1: to pounce on this man. And I would just like 1028 00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:29,480 Speaker 1: take my pants off and be like, do you have 1029 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,320 Speaker 1: sex with me? And then he looks at me and 1030 00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:34,439 Speaker 1: because he's probably thinking about like taxes or some ship, 1031 00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:36,120 Speaker 1: and he's like wait, wait, wait, and then he'll be 1032 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 1: like okay, let's go, and then we just go in 1033 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:43,319 Speaker 1: the bedroom. She's more of a masturbator for coming. I mean, 1034 00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:47,400 Speaker 1: I mean the pressure is like love most that you 1035 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,960 Speaker 1: just said that with no fucking ego. Do you don't 1036 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:54,200 Speaker 1: have any idea how many people say if they don't 1037 00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,080 Speaker 1: know how to tell their partner, they're not making them come. 1038 00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:58,719 Speaker 1: It's not always about them, and sometimes it's about our 1039 00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:01,480 Speaker 1: sucking pussy. So were you to say, oh, pressure is 1040 00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:04,439 Speaker 1: off me? We are very simple where he's And also 1041 00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,080 Speaker 1: I feel like he gets turned on when I make 1042 00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:08,640 Speaker 1: myself come, So he'll be like, okay, make yourself come, 1043 00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:10,560 Speaker 1: and then I do it and then it feels so good. 1044 00:53:10,760 --> 00:53:12,160 Speaker 1: Well it's only a couple of times, and she's a 1045 00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:14,040 Speaker 1: little you know, like well we were playing her ound 1046 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 1: finger and lower her spot. Honestly, you need a fucking 1047 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,840 Speaker 1: like the US Army tracking device to find her. So 1048 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,799 Speaker 1: like it's like it was there a second ago, now 1049 00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,520 Speaker 1: it's lower. But anyway, whatever, I'm just joking around. Anyway. 1050 00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:27,000 Speaker 1: You know, she's good at like telling me where to be, 1051 00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,719 Speaker 1: which I love, you know, and uh so, but then 1052 00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:31,560 Speaker 1: sometimes like it's taken a while, I'd be like, yo, 1053 00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 1: you want to just take over, and then five seconds 1054 00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:35,919 Speaker 1: you know, she's like, what are the boom? It's done? 1055 00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:37,960 Speaker 1: And then it's like I'm in there afterwards because she 1056 00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:40,480 Speaker 1: likes to get sucked after she comes, So that's what's great. 1057 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:43,480 Speaker 1: That's high and I come first. Yeah, and then I 1058 00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 1: like that. I mean feminism, right, feminism, you damn right. 1059 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:54,480 Speaker 1: I meant to do this, so I will say, is 1060 00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,440 Speaker 1: there any part of you that like has felt a 1061 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,960 Speaker 1: little insecure that you can't or that in hand and 1062 00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:02,640 Speaker 1: needs masturbation to come quicker or anything like, but first 1063 00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 1: of all, you think honestly, like literally that was like 1064 00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:08,080 Speaker 1: because I actually had a sex podcast before, but my partner, 1065 00:54:08,120 --> 00:54:10,239 Speaker 1: Irish Girl, was actually quite inexperience. A part of it 1066 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:12,239 Speaker 1: was just kind of like her learning and me being 1067 00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:14,840 Speaker 1: like the old fucking creep saying home back in my 1068 00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:18,400 Speaker 1: day and anyway, Uh, it came up a lot, this 1069 00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 1: issue about the masturbation, and I've always been comfortable with that, 1070 00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:25,840 Speaker 1: and I've always been like, tell me what's works you like, 1071 00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 1: guide me around. I have routines about it about like 1072 00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:31,319 Speaker 1: google maps, whatever you know. So like, I've always been 1073 00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:33,520 Speaker 1: comfortable with that. I understand that some guys have egos 1074 00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:37,000 Speaker 1: around that ship, but for me, I love women coming. 1075 00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,360 Speaker 1: That's my turn on. So what am I gonna fucking 1076 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:41,600 Speaker 1: cut off my nose despite my face and be like, well, 1077 00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:43,239 Speaker 1: it's gotta be me that makes you come, because I 1078 00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 1: don't care how you come. I just want you to come. Yeah. 1079 00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,200 Speaker 1: I love that because whenever I tell the dude to 1080 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,120 Speaker 1: like jerk off, if I know I'm not getting them there, 1081 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:52,360 Speaker 1: Like there's a part of you sometimes that are like 1082 00:54:52,600 --> 00:54:55,359 Speaker 1: are they going to think that I couldn't make them come? 1083 00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:56,840 Speaker 1: Or you make it come a different way, like they 1084 00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,520 Speaker 1: jerk off while they're looking at you like touching. I've 1085 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,320 Speaker 1: not that a guy didn't make me come. When I 1086 00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:04,640 Speaker 1: do come, I'm never like, oh, well he didn't do it. 1087 00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:06,440 Speaker 1: I had I really don't do because also you're with 1088 00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:08,799 Speaker 1: him like clearly you're turned on. I can't come if 1089 00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:10,399 Speaker 1: I'm in a bed with someone who's grossing me out. 1090 00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,120 Speaker 1: But also it's my issues too, where like for me 1091 00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:15,120 Speaker 1: to come, I joke like the moon has to be 1092 00:55:15,239 --> 00:55:17,000 Speaker 1: like in a certain like I have to be in 1093 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 1: the right mindset if a guy's going down on me. 1094 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:21,919 Speaker 1: Sometimes I feel like it's too intimate. Sometimes my legs 1095 00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,839 Speaker 1: have to be straight for me to come straight when 1096 00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:29,480 Speaker 1: I have to like like, I can't come like this, 1097 00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:32,960 Speaker 1: I have to be like just straight leg comer. I 1098 00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:36,360 Speaker 1: think it's because when I was jerking off because I 1099 00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:40,239 Speaker 1: feel like not but because I wanted to be like 1100 00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:50,040 Speaker 1: was that hot? You have come? But I can't not hurt. 1101 00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:52,920 Speaker 1: It's not her easy way coming. We're going down to 1102 00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:57,400 Speaker 1: the once normally. I even have a joke that you 1103 00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,640 Speaker 1: can't because you can't know she don't. You haven't come 1104 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,160 Speaker 1: that off of when I've gone down here. She's more 1105 00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:04,680 Speaker 1: of a straight leg finger. I appreciate you for not 1106 00:56:04,760 --> 00:56:07,799 Speaker 1: being a liar. Oh, that's only I'm not hunting. Straight 1107 00:56:08,400 --> 00:56:15,520 Speaker 1: leg coming is wild? No, that's yes, that's really yeah. 1108 00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:19,680 Speaker 1: Before we also a girl who had a sushi piast 1109 00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:21,200 Speaker 1: on her body and like she got gang bang with 1110 00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:24,399 Speaker 1: a lightsaber. But that is wild. No what you said? 1111 00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,960 Speaker 1: If so, this is my thing. When I started touching 1112 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,360 Speaker 1: myself when I was younger, I was laying down, so 1113 00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:31,200 Speaker 1: I would like, I like to you know, you want 1114 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,279 Speaker 1: your like squeeze your butt cheeks and your legs are out, 1115 00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,520 Speaker 1: and they's like me, you get what I was saying. 1116 00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:40,520 Speaker 1: So then when I changed my leg position, I wasn't 1117 00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,000 Speaker 1: able to like do it like I did it how 1118 00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 1: I made myself come, you know. And that's normally what 1119 00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:48,279 Speaker 1: people should practice for anybody who's listening that was happening 1120 00:56:48,280 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 1: trouble worgasm and drink sex. Try to do it how 1121 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:54,520 Speaker 1: you do it alone. Yeah, that's super helpful. Yeah. Yeah, 1122 00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:56,759 Speaker 1: I don't give a funk if they're there. Yeah. If 1123 00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,239 Speaker 1: I need to watch bou cockey, I'm watching it. All right, 1124 00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:04,880 Speaker 1: let's get into the hope. No, is that? Like? Is that? 1125 00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:11,840 Speaker 1: A Greek food? Cockey is a term for when a 1126 00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:15,440 Speaker 1: bunch of people will ejaculate on someone's face. I prefer 1127 00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:17,640 Speaker 1: it like after a gang bang. Sometimes I like when 1128 00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:19,120 Speaker 1: they're getting sucked. In the book, why do you guy 1129 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:21,320 Speaker 1: had a camera? Arm me? Dave? It's a folding cameras 1130 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,720 Speaker 1: have moved there on you. No, no, no, I'm watching 1131 00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,200 Speaker 1: what he did. He change the angle to just me 1132 00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:29,760 Speaker 1: because because you're talking about yourself. No, we can have 1133 00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:36,280 Speaker 1: a collective experience. Let's David is very fast. It's a 1134 00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 1: group group. I like it when they all come on 1135 00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:41,800 Speaker 1: the girl's face and sometimes at the same time. I 1136 00:57:41,840 --> 00:57:44,919 Speaker 1: don't know why, I just like it. Anyway. Fo mail 1137 00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 1: is about the sex club, so Mandy probably should need 1138 00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:50,640 Speaker 1: to answer this, but let's all join in. Hey ladies, 1139 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,680 Speaker 1: love y'all want to thank you for the knowledge you 1140 00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,640 Speaker 1: drop on your show. I went eighteen months without sex, 1141 00:57:55,680 --> 00:57:58,760 Speaker 1: and now I'm ready for some dick. All caps see 1142 00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:01,440 Speaker 1: our audience. Let's any to your show has really made 1143 00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:03,520 Speaker 1: me come out of my shell. Me and my home 1144 00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,000 Speaker 1: girl went to a sex club for the first time, 1145 00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:06,840 Speaker 1: and it was her second time, but she invited me. 1146 00:58:07,320 --> 00:58:08,480 Speaker 1: I had it in my head that I was going 1147 00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:11,320 Speaker 1: to go in, even packed a hobag with condoms, deep 1148 00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:15,320 Speaker 1: throat spray, platorial stimulating gel the words I got in 1149 00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:17,040 Speaker 1: and I was so shy. I ended up just watching 1150 00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:18,680 Speaker 1: all night. There was a guy in there with the 1151 00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:20,720 Speaker 1: biggest dick I've ever seen. It was like a pringle 1152 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:24,959 Speaker 1: can sized dick. Damn. I was amazed. I couldn't stop watching, 1153 00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:26,360 Speaker 1: and he came over to me. At some point in 1154 00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:28,240 Speaker 1: the night we vibed. I got his number. While we 1155 00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,040 Speaker 1: were dancing on each other. My home girl slipped in 1156 00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:31,840 Speaker 1: and started dancing on him too, so I let her 1157 00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:33,960 Speaker 1: do her thing. She ended up taking him home after 1158 00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:36,280 Speaker 1: but damn, I still want to suck too, especially after 1159 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:39,840 Speaker 1: hearing it was good. Is there DIBs on sex club dick? Ps? 1160 00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:42,480 Speaker 1: I really hope you come to Toronto again. We got cocked. 1161 00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:47,720 Speaker 1: Like from the COVID, there's there's there's de dig period. 1162 00:58:47,840 --> 00:58:50,720 Speaker 1: To me, the fact that your friends ask your friend 1163 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:54,920 Speaker 1: just it's it's still to me, your loyalty is to 1164 00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:56,960 Speaker 1: your friend, not to if you're at a sex club 1165 00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,400 Speaker 1: and everyone's fucking, everyone's fucking. Like I was gonna say, 1166 00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:01,920 Speaker 1: I would have sucked him if we were still in 1167 00:59:01,960 --> 00:59:03,600 Speaker 1: the sex club, But if you took him out of 1168 00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:06,720 Speaker 1: the sex club, I feel like, now you gotta because 1169 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,960 Speaker 1: she might really like this guy. Yeah yeah, but then 1170 00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:11,200 Speaker 1: but then to me, I ain't gonna hold you depending 1171 00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,480 Speaker 1: on a friend. There'd be friends that be acting like 1172 00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:16,800 Speaker 1: Dick is off limits when it's like that man means 1173 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,520 Speaker 1: nothing to you. You can't hold everybody's dick constant. I 1174 00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:22,680 Speaker 1: need you to let some of them. Any feelings do 1175 00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,240 Speaker 1: you have? Yeah, I think she should ask, only because 1176 00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:27,920 Speaker 1: it was so soon in the timeframe. Um, I think 1177 00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:30,200 Speaker 1: that's important, and you went to the club with her, like, 1178 00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of factors to that. I mean, 1179 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,320 Speaker 1: but to be fair in the sex club, I've I 1180 00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:39,560 Speaker 1: shared my first experience at the sex club where I'm 1181 00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:42,400 Speaker 1: at a bar talking to a woman and she's like, yeah, 1182 00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:45,560 Speaker 1: my man was just eating your fussy upstairs. That's my 1183 00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:49,280 Speaker 1: that's my husband. And so like the fact that I 1184 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:52,280 Speaker 1: was just sharing drinks at the bar talking to someone 1185 00:59:52,600 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 1: whose husband was just eating me out, It's like that's 1186 00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,600 Speaker 1: where in the sex club there are there's really no 1187 00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,280 Speaker 1: rules except at one at the scent, but not really 1188 01:00:02,400 --> 01:00:05,920 Speaker 1: the It's weird because, to be fair to my partner, 1189 01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:09,040 Speaker 1: when we were to the sex clubs, he didn't even 1190 01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:11,640 Speaker 1: a man couldn't really talk to me without coming in first. 1191 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,920 Speaker 1: Also six eight, So when we walk in the fucking club, 1192 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,400 Speaker 1: everyone else why I walked in with no man should 1193 01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,600 Speaker 1: feel like they can approach you without asking me first. 1194 01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:23,640 Speaker 1: That's that's the first thing. However, if this is your 1195 01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:26,560 Speaker 1: friend and y'all came across a man in the club 1196 01:00:26,640 --> 01:00:29,760 Speaker 1: with a big old dick, I still think he's for 1197 01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:34,000 Speaker 1: everybody at that point. So then, but but but only 1198 01:00:34,080 --> 01:00:38,200 Speaker 1: because you and your your home girl are not in 1199 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:41,080 Speaker 1: the relationship like me and my partner. In terms of 1200 01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:43,920 Speaker 1: man and ego in a club, I think that if 1201 01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:45,600 Speaker 1: you show up to a sex club with a man, 1202 01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:48,480 Speaker 1: any other man that approaches you, or any man that 1203 01:00:48,560 --> 01:00:51,160 Speaker 1: deals with you outside the club should probably talk to 1204 01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:53,120 Speaker 1: You're saying because they're not in a quote unquote relations 1205 01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:56,040 Speaker 1: Because her and her friend are in a relationship, I 1206 01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 1: think that she can move kind of forward with him 1207 01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,520 Speaker 1: as long as her friend is now not seeing this 1208 01:01:02,680 --> 01:01:06,240 Speaker 1: person as a possible boyfriend. If it's just sex, the 1209 01:01:06,360 --> 01:01:09,160 Speaker 1: sex club is just sex, to be fair, there's not 1210 01:01:09,280 --> 01:01:11,440 Speaker 1: really feelings involved. I have a girlfriend for the night 1211 01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:13,680 Speaker 1: which I've gone to the club. I don't know the girls. 1212 01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:15,400 Speaker 1: The next time I go to the sex club, Hey, 1213 01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 1: what's your name? I remember last time I forget names. 1214 01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:21,920 Speaker 1: I think, as you're my girlfriend for the night. But 1215 01:01:22,160 --> 01:01:24,920 Speaker 1: the next time I go, yeah, we had a great time, 1216 01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,320 Speaker 1: once time, what was your name? Again? And we reintroduce 1217 01:01:27,400 --> 01:01:29,680 Speaker 1: each other because in the sex club, you're kind of 1218 01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:33,960 Speaker 1: in like this realm where yes, everyone is consentful, but 1219 01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 1: the emotions are kind of detached from sex, not consul No, 1220 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,160 Speaker 1: it is consent ful. I thought, that's given work. What 1221 01:01:40,280 --> 01:01:46,240 Speaker 1: happened between between Pello consentful? I get exactly what's going on. 1222 01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,120 Speaker 1: I think if you have to ask if you should 1223 01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,000 Speaker 1: ask your friend, you should probably ask. You should, just 1224 01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:57,000 Speaker 1: as if you're wondering, just when you're wondering, should I 1225 01:01:57,040 --> 01:01:58,640 Speaker 1: break up with this dude, you should. So there's two 1226 01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:01,840 Speaker 1: things that came across that friend. One, sometimes people are 1227 01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:03,760 Speaker 1: like really nervous about telling others about their sex live. 1228 01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:06,680 Speaker 1: I ran into this situation recently where um, I was 1229 01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:09,400 Speaker 1: visiting New York again and there was this cute guy 1230 01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:12,160 Speaker 1: that has a mutual friend with me on Instagram and 1231 01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:14,000 Speaker 1: her and I are friends friends, but we've gone out 1232 01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:15,960 Speaker 1: a few times and I was gonna funk him, and 1233 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:19,400 Speaker 1: I was like, damn, should I hit her up? But 1234 01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:21,520 Speaker 1: I don't. Also, if you consider her your friends. But 1235 01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 1: I also really wouldn't have told anyone I sucked him, 1236 01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:26,800 Speaker 1: And I came into this place of like, I would 1237 01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:28,520 Speaker 1: have never have called this girl to tell her I 1238 01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:30,120 Speaker 1: was having sex with someone. I don't really want people 1239 01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:32,720 Speaker 1: to know who I'm sleeping with. So it was really 1240 01:02:32,760 --> 01:02:35,560 Speaker 1: difficult for me because I had do you know they before? 1241 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,720 Speaker 1: You know that? I didn't want to ask him. It's 1242 01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:43,000 Speaker 1: just mutual friends on Instagram, but come on New York. 1243 01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:46,280 Speaker 1: Just vibe. They're both hot. They both lived in Atlanta. 1244 01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:49,800 Speaker 1: At one point, I'm like, they've a right so and 1245 01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:52,080 Speaker 1: it was your me. Sorry. I also wanted to add, 1246 01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,520 Speaker 1: this is not like a guy that's like you live 1247 01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,120 Speaker 1: in New York. I live in New York. Like everybody 1248 01:02:56,160 --> 01:02:58,800 Speaker 1: follows everybody. It was just like these were the only 1249 01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:01,080 Speaker 1: mutual friends. Like okay, but it's also like you're not 1250 01:03:01,200 --> 01:03:03,520 Speaker 1: responsible to be the FBI and figure out like her 1251 01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:07,480 Speaker 1: whole past every dude. So for me, I was having 1252 01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:09,360 Speaker 1: a hard time. I end up saying it they did fuck. 1253 01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:10,920 Speaker 1: She was like, oh I had a three years ago. 1254 01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:12,000 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, great, and she was like, but 1255 01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:14,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe I would feel a way. Yeah, 1256 01:03:14,720 --> 01:03:19,760 Speaker 1: you called, but I didn't want to tell her because 1257 01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:21,960 Speaker 1: I wouldn't have naturally called this person and told her 1258 01:03:21,960 --> 01:03:24,160 Speaker 1: about my sex life. So you had to open up 1259 01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 1: two things, you know what I mean. And I think 1260 01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:28,040 Speaker 1: that was like something that was weird for me. So 1261 01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:31,919 Speaker 1: I get that. But um, as far as this particular dick, 1262 01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:34,560 Speaker 1: you guys were both there, I would definitely hit her 1263 01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:38,040 Speaker 1: up because but also but also the nicks in the 1264 01:03:38,040 --> 01:03:41,400 Speaker 1: sex club baby for everybody. So you, Mandy, you just 1265 01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:43,120 Speaker 1: said he's like a sex story. Do you ask her? 1266 01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:46,720 Speaker 1: So you're saying no, no, no, I'm saying I'm saying, like, no, no, no, no. 1267 01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:49,600 Speaker 1: I didn't say not ask her, but she should let know, 1268 01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:51,480 Speaker 1: she should let it, she should let it be known, 1269 01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:54,320 Speaker 1: or wait till you'll go not asked. You're saying, Tyler, 1270 01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:57,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna suck him. They're not in a relationship. They 1271 01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,760 Speaker 1: met him at a sex place, she didn't even know 1272 01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:03,760 Speaker 1: if he could. He wants to hurt a lot of conversations, 1273 01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,280 Speaker 1: got a lot of conversations to happen. That's actually valid. 1274 01:04:06,440 --> 01:04:08,200 Speaker 1: That is, how does she know the man even wants 1275 01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:11,320 Speaker 1: to suck her? Valid? She wants to check with her 1276 01:04:11,360 --> 01:04:15,120 Speaker 1: before she even tried. Everyone does, Mandy, how often do 1277 01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:17,160 Speaker 1: you think people meet in a sex club and like 1278 01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:19,960 Speaker 1: become full on relationships. So to be fair, we we've 1279 01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:23,040 Speaker 1: had a we've had a couple on here um Mr 1280 01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:26,680 Speaker 1: Slithers and mistress. So they met, they met in the 1281 01:04:27,280 --> 01:04:30,040 Speaker 1: style and they met a cup called lifestyle. They met 1282 01:04:30,120 --> 01:04:32,240 Speaker 1: in cup holding it referred to the lifestyle. No, no, no, 1283 01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:34,400 Speaker 1: calm down. There's a difference. There's a sex club in 1284 01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:37,240 Speaker 1: the lifestyle. Lifestyle would be so I want to the 1285 01:04:37,280 --> 01:04:43,360 Speaker 1: sex club. But I also engaged in swinging where where swapped. 1286 01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:46,560 Speaker 1: There's lifestyle. As far as if your Polly, if you're 1287 01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:50,200 Speaker 1: an open relationship, anything that's non monogamy is considered lifestyle. 1288 01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:53,520 Speaker 1: She hates that work. I just laugh at it because 1289 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:57,760 Speaker 1: it took a lifestyle brand. I love for two reasons. 1290 01:04:58,280 --> 01:05:00,520 Speaker 1: One because people say it, and I this way of 1291 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,880 Speaker 1: like I'm trying to be low key about what I'm saying, 1292 01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:06,200 Speaker 1: but like pitch, it's not at all in the lifestyle. Yeah. 1293 01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:08,000 Speaker 1: It's like when you talk to a couple and you're 1294 01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:09,479 Speaker 1: like you're gonna have a baby and they're like, we're trying. 1295 01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:11,280 Speaker 1: I'm like you're fucking every day. You could just say 1296 01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 1: I'm just like we're trying. Yeah, it's like this low 1297 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:16,400 Speaker 1: key with like no, no, you stuck everyone's day. You know, 1298 01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,760 Speaker 1: I do us know what kind of lifestyle, but yeah, 1299 01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:20,840 Speaker 1: you know, I just joke about the term. But yeah, 1300 01:05:21,040 --> 01:05:24,040 Speaker 1: well and the story and TikTok. Since I'm in the lifestyle, 1301 01:05:24,360 --> 01:05:27,600 Speaker 1: that's your algorithm on TikTok. Like every now and then 1302 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,880 Speaker 1: I get you because my rhythm is the press girls 1303 01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 1: like all right, you know, like these video nails and cats, nails, 1304 01:05:36,720 --> 01:05:42,680 Speaker 1: cats and recipes. Why are you can enlist? It's not random, man, No, 1305 01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:46,160 Speaker 1: it's not random. It's based on your searches. No, not 1306 01:05:46,320 --> 01:05:48,240 Speaker 1: you blame in TikTok for your out there baby, I 1307 01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:55,200 Speaker 1: don't know how to fun game. Man came up, A man, 1308 01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:59,320 Speaker 1: don't come up on my I think they just think. 1309 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I think a video probably came up and 1310 01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 1: I like watching it too long and just be told, 1311 01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:07,400 Speaker 1: I have no interest in the lifestyle, but I do 1312 01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:10,560 Speaker 1: find those videos about the lifestyle pretty fascinating. Yeah you 1313 01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:13,080 Speaker 1: think that that we couldn't do like a sex club 1314 01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:15,160 Speaker 1: because me and you both have main character energy too much? 1315 01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:18,160 Speaker 1: Do you just said a worried and we're at a 1316 01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:22,880 Speaker 1: sex club next week? It's sad. I'm blond and right, 1317 01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:27,200 Speaker 1: but also I'm literally like the Troubled Guide. Any of 1318 01:06:27,280 --> 01:06:29,240 Speaker 1: my friends that come and want to experience sex clubs, 1319 01:06:29,640 --> 01:06:31,600 Speaker 1: I end up having to take them to them. And 1320 01:06:31,680 --> 01:06:33,960 Speaker 1: it's weird because you said main character energy when you 1321 01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:36,640 Speaker 1: go into a sex club. Like me and my partner 1322 01:06:36,920 --> 01:06:38,840 Speaker 1: my ex at the time, we didn't have the same 1323 01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:43,160 Speaker 1: type of women, so we would separate after we enjoyed 1324 01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:46,000 Speaker 1: each other, we would separate. He would go up, it's fun, 1325 01:06:46,080 --> 01:06:48,720 Speaker 1: and I would grab my fun with whatever girlfriends it's getting. 1326 01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:51,040 Speaker 1: You guys are going to the sex club before the wedding. 1327 01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:53,280 Speaker 1: I feel it, yeah, and I think it'd be super 1328 01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,280 Speaker 1: fun if you guys went many loves to be the 1329 01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:58,480 Speaker 1: fucking tour guy. Should anybody who walks in here. I 1330 01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,880 Speaker 1: swear to you, this is a compliment. We've not met 1331 01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,320 Speaker 1: people before. I feel like y'all have been in the room. 1332 01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:06,640 Speaker 1: Mandy be like, okay, that's the sex of me. I'd 1333 01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:11,040 Speaker 1: be like, this is a cult leader. Like everybody ends 1334 01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:13,120 Speaker 1: up of the sex of the most unassuming people. They 1335 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:14,960 Speaker 1: end up were going with Mandy. But also, I've one 1336 01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:17,800 Speaker 1: charge like two thousand dollars. Now when you're with me, 1337 01:07:19,200 --> 01:07:23,560 Speaker 1: how do you know that? I just know would be 1338 01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:25,280 Speaker 1: really fun. You guys probably won't have sex when you 1339 01:07:26,520 --> 01:07:28,640 Speaker 1: but I know I have a few friends that have 1340 01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:30,520 Speaker 1: been and we've chatted about they do. They charge men 1341 01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:33,560 Speaker 1: astronomical rates, which let's just say. I said to one 1342 01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:34,960 Speaker 1: of my friends, like, I'd love to go, and they 1343 01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:36,680 Speaker 1: were like, oh, they charged two times and for a guy. 1344 01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:38,919 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, I'm not going. I'm gonna 1345 01:07:38,920 --> 01:07:41,080 Speaker 1: spend two thousand dollars on pussy. It's gonna be Hannah 1346 01:07:43,960 --> 01:07:47,760 Speaker 1: pandemic happened. One of the others. Very engagement you where 1347 01:07:47,800 --> 01:07:49,480 Speaker 1: to find you because I feel like they like the vine. 1348 01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:53,320 Speaker 1: Oh follow me at being burns b I n G 1349 01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:56,360 Speaker 1: b r n Z to talk on Instagram. Listen to 1350 01:07:56,360 --> 01:07:58,200 Speaker 1: my podcast Burning in Hell, where I talk to people 1351 01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:00,560 Speaker 1: about their demons. Wheezy was great on it. It mantal 1352 01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:03,440 Speaker 1: beyond it soon and Giggly Squad is kind of like 1353 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:09,000 Speaker 1: the less sexual version of Horrible Decisions. Good good They 1354 01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:12,480 Speaker 1: call it crack in Ireland. Good ship talking mark pop 1355 01:08:12,560 --> 01:08:14,840 Speaker 1: culture ship, but good chemistry like you too, and we 1356 01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:17,799 Speaker 1: fight sometimes does work and we'll vol you do. Bishop 1357 01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:19,640 Speaker 1: is my Instagram d S B I S h O P. 1358 01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:25,519 Speaker 1: And that's Bishop podcast, not the Bishop. The line back 1359 01:08:25,560 --> 01:08:29,280 Speaker 1: in for the Green Bay Packers. I about the black 1360 01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 1: people think I have a black name because Desmond Bishop 1361 01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:34,080 Speaker 1: is my name. Demand is a black name. It's like Caribbean. 1362 01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:36,600 Speaker 1: Black people say it all the time. You got a 1363 01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:40,479 Speaker 1: black name. But but anyways black, Yeah, that's Bishop podcast. 1364 01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:43,479 Speaker 1: Also and see us perform life stand up around town, 1365 01:08:43,600 --> 01:08:45,519 Speaker 1: around the world. You did you do the common? Where 1366 01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:47,840 Speaker 1: else can we catch you? In New York? I mean 1367 01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:49,680 Speaker 1: New York, I mean them saw else. I'm doing my 1368 01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:51,680 Speaker 1: own thing that like Carolines or something. But at the moment, 1369 01:08:51,720 --> 01:08:55,760 Speaker 1: I'm actually touring Ireland. I'm going to Ireland's Evening. He 1370 01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,200 Speaker 1: came all the way back to let me suck his 1371 01:08:58,280 --> 01:09:05,000 Speaker 1: dick and to go on horrible decisions. This is so 1372 01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:07,439 Speaker 1: happy bridge the gap between the time where he can't 1373 01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:08,720 Speaker 1: put it all on you. She's like, he's gonna be 1374 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:12,640 Speaker 1: so happy. I was like, I was happy to do 1375 01:09:12,680 --> 01:09:15,880 Speaker 1: it though, I'm very happy. Actually, yeah, there's not many 1376 01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:18,880 Speaker 1: white guys that grace white women. Well at least they're girls, 1377 01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:20,679 Speaker 1: but not a lot of white men. No out thought 1378 01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:23,360 Speaker 1: of Andrew. We've not had another white man besides and 1379 01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:26,920 Speaker 1: Daniel white Out then white Out, and Daniel's Latin and 1380 01:09:27,880 --> 01:09:31,240 Speaker 1: and Andrew that's in six years and he's that can't 1381 01:09:31,280 --> 01:09:33,720 Speaker 1: be right. He's like, you don't have white men on 1382 01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:36,360 Speaker 1: the show, Eddie's lat you know. No, I love very 1383 01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:45,800 Speaker 1: comfortable in this atmosphere. 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