Speaker 1: You probably don't realize this, but whenever we do a
Speaker 1: second date update where a couple actually agrees to go
Speaker 1: out again, not only do we pay for their date,
Speaker 1: but we always send them follow up emails to see
Speaker 1: how they're doing. And most of the time they don't
Speaker 1: respond back. Sometimes they'll tell us they never went on
Speaker 1: the date and they just took us for the free
Speaker 1: gift cards, which is fine, were in that situation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But very rarely we'll get a reply with a genuine
Speaker 1: update and we'll talk to them on the air about
Speaker 1: it and what we call a second date update update.
Speaker 1: We're really creative with these titles. And now we have
Speaker 1: another couple who actually reached out to us. Rachel and Josh.
Speaker 1: If you're not familiar, Rachel was the girl who lost
Speaker 1: her cat. Anybody's memory yet, yeah, yeah, and Josh bravely
Speaker 1: went to go help her look for it, and while
Speaker 1: he was out searching, he got hit by a car
Speaker 1: and had to go to the hospital, and that's why
Speaker 1: he wasn't calling her back. And she had no idea
Speaker 1: that that had happened. She had no idea that he
Speaker 1: even went to look for her cat. A lot of
Speaker 1: our listeners are probably familiar with that one, but if
Speaker 1: you're not, we're gonna play it for you right now,
Speaker 1: and then after we'll get an update from Rachel and Josh.
Speaker 1: What has happened since he was hit by the car?
Speaker 1: I hope he's out of that coma. I'm kidding. Here
Speaker 1: we go, here's that second date update right now, and
Speaker 1: then we'll talk to them right after brooking Jubils second
Speaker 1: date update. People often say that romance is dead. Well
Speaker 1: not today, Oh good, Not when you hear today's second
Speaker 1: date update. Rachel is on the phone and today she
Speaker 1: wants to call a guy named Josh, and they actually
Speaker 1: met in the most romantic way I've ever heard of
Speaker 1: anybody meeting each other. You better not be being sarcastic,
Speaker 1: because I do not want to be disappointed today. Jubil
Speaker 1: fly one bit. Normally I joke about this kind of stuff,
Speaker 1: but this story actually really tugged at my heartstrings, and
Speaker 1: I thought it was a beautiful way to make a
Speaker 1: first connection. Rachel, how are you hi? I'm good? How
Speaker 1: are y'all not too bad? I can't wait too? You
Speaker 1: really excited for you to share your story with everybody.
Speaker 1: Tell us how you met the guy? That you want
Speaker 1: to call today. So I met Josh. Actually, wait, hold on, Rachel,
Speaker 1: let me give you some music to set the mood first, Rachel,
Speaker 1: why don't you tell everybody how you met the guy
Speaker 1: that you want to call today? So his name is Josh.
Speaker 1: And we met um at a moment when we were
Speaker 1: both really just raw and vulnerable. Whoa we were? We
Speaker 1: were puking off the same balcony, shut up, wonderful story
Speaker 1: of how love can overcome all things. And I just
Speaker 1: want to say, I'm not proud of this. This is
Speaker 1: not a story that I really am proud to share.
Speaker 1: So you're not going to retell it at the wedding
Speaker 1: if it gets to that point. Um, maybe not. Maybe
Speaker 1: this will be a secret. So how'd you guys meet?
Speaker 1: Did your streams cross? Or he asked for a napkin?
Speaker 1: Maybe he needs to hold your hair back at the
Speaker 1: same No, no, no no, no, I okay, listen. I'm normally
Speaker 1: a lightweight and I really wouldn't get the drunk at
Speaker 1: a party, but it was my roommate's birthday, so like,
Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? Um? And I felt like
Speaker 1: I was like feeling really queasy, you know, like it
Speaker 1: wasn't about to happen, but I really felt in my
Speaker 1: heart that it was going to happen soon. See you
Speaker 1: felt it in your heart that love was about to
Speaker 1: come from your stomach and out of your mouth. You're
Speaker 1: like rushed over to a man to meet him real
Speaker 1: quick before you started vombing. No, no, no, come on.
Speaker 1: I went to the bathroom. I tried to get in
Speaker 1: the bathroom, but somebody was in there, so it was
Speaker 1: just like the only thing that I could seemed to
Speaker 1: do was to run outside. And I leaned over this
Speaker 1: balcony and I like just shoot my guts out and like,
Speaker 1: I'm so embarrassed. And then I looked up and there
Speaker 1: was this guy right next to me doing exactly the
Speaker 1: same thing. Oh my gosh. We locked eyes and it
Speaker 1: was so romantic. Shut up, No, it was pretty gross.
Speaker 1: Did you like immediately strike up a conversation like, Hey,
Speaker 1: what are you doing out here? Too? He actually was.
Speaker 1: It was kind of sweet. We like started laughing at
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, And it was just sort of this
Speaker 1: moment of like, well here we are. Yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: you've seen each other at probably your worst already. It's
Speaker 1: all uphill From that point, I would think exactly, you're
Speaker 1: just praying that one of you has some gum on them.
Speaker 1: I mean we didn't kiss that night, okay, did he
Speaker 1: ask for your number or something at that point? So
Speaker 1: the thing is like, it was like kind of a
Speaker 1: funny situation. We started laughing at each other kind of
Speaker 1: and he asked for my number and I was like,
Speaker 1: you know, what's the heck? And I gave it to him,
Speaker 1: and all of a sudden we had plans to go
Speaker 1: get dinner and see a movie. And oh my god,
Speaker 1: so you actually went on a real date. I was
Speaker 1: thinking that your date was just the balcony moment. No, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, real, actual, real, actual plans. Okay, and
Speaker 1: did your other plans involve bomb two or did you
Speaker 1: guys have a bomb free date? We we talked about
Speaker 1: it and we decided one drink each diner. You're cappying
Speaker 1: each other. Um, well, okay, so it actually ended up
Speaker 1: not even happening. Um oh no. Yeah, got there, started
Speaker 1: getting all of these texts from my roommate that my
Speaker 1: cat had been missing, and so I'm like freaking out
Speaker 1: pretty much immediately had to leave right when my food
Speaker 1: got there. Yeah, but he was super nice drove me
Speaker 1: back home, and I felt like such a jerk because
Speaker 1: I didn't even say goodbye. I like ran out of
Speaker 1: the car inside. Yeah I know, I know, I know,
Speaker 1: but I love my cat. Um, you find your cat. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it turned out he was in the closet, so it
Speaker 1: was like a huge, huge to do for absolutely nothing.
Speaker 1: Did you text this guy or call him and let
Speaker 1: him know what happened? Yeah, Like I tried to call
Speaker 1: him and apologize for like running off. You know, it's
Speaker 1: not my fault that my cat got lost, but I
Speaker 1: can't get a hold of him. It's been like four days.
Speaker 1: I don't know what's up, and I really just like
Speaker 1: I want to explain. I want to explain myself. Right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call him and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, that sounds great. I mean
Speaker 1: he just seemed like a really cool guy. I don't
Speaker 1: really want this opportunity to be by all right, we'll
Speaker 1: do it right after this. Hang up, looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Hey, Rachel, I really don't know why you're
Speaker 1: not getting a call back. Your dating experience had all
Speaker 1: of the key elements that it takes to be successful
Speaker 1: in love. You had projectile vomiting and you had missing
Speaker 1: cats and that's really all you need to win at
Speaker 1: this crazy little game that we called love. It does
Speaker 1: sound like a Taylor Swift song. If you missed the
Speaker 1: first part of the second date update, Rachel is on
Speaker 1: the phone. She wants to call a dude named Josh.
Speaker 1: They met at a house party when both of them
Speaker 1: were vomiting on a balcony. They struck up a conversation
Speaker 1: after and agreed to go out on a date. They
Speaker 1: didn't really finish the date, though, because when they met
Speaker 1: up for dinner at the beginning of it, she started
Speaker 1: getting text messages from her roommate saying that her cat
Speaker 1: was lost, so she stopped the date. He drove her home,
Speaker 1: she ran out of the car, and she hasn't heard
Speaker 1: from him since. So we're about to call him and
Speaker 1: find out what could have possibly gone wrong and that
Speaker 1: whole thing. And it seems like if a guy's cool
Speaker 1: with the vomit part, you think he'd be cool with
Speaker 1: the freak out on the cat issue, right, Yeah, So,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think you could have done anything
Speaker 1: worse than what you started with that late this whole thing.
Speaker 1: He just doesn't make any sense to me. I really
Speaker 1: appreciate you guys calling him for me. All Right, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna this one of her right now here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Josh. M hmm, that's yeah. I'm
Speaker 1: I'm Josh. Hey Josh, how are you doing? I'm time?
Speaker 1: Who's this? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. It's a radio show. All right, okay, um,
Speaker 1: I help you with something. Yes, you can help me
Speaker 1: with something. We actually got an email about you from
Speaker 1: one of our listeners. Email. Yeah, because you actually went
Speaker 1: out on a date with them, and now you're not
Speaker 1: calling her back. I'm not whom who am I not
Speaker 1: calling back? Her name is Rachel, and she said that
Speaker 1: you guys met at a house party and then went
Speaker 1: out to dinner, but the dinner had to be short
Speaker 1: because of a missing cat. Oh the cat. It's the way.
Speaker 1: It's that hard to remember the girl that you were
Speaker 1: puking off the balcony with Rachel. Yeah, so you remember Rachel? Yes?
Speaker 1: Did you like Rachel? Uh? Yeah, I liked Rachel. I
Speaker 1: feel like you don't actually remember Rachel the way that
Speaker 1: you answered that, Oh that girl. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I no, I liked her. I did, okay, so why
Speaker 1: not call her back? She said, it's been four days
Speaker 1: since your date and you haven't been responding to anything. Oh, um, no,
Speaker 1: it's I know, it's it's been six days. It's been
Speaker 1: six days. Wait, you've also been county And how many
Speaker 1: days it's been since you haven't called her back? Uh? Well,
Speaker 1: I've I kept track of it because that's how long
Speaker 1: I've been in the hospital. What what are you currently
Speaker 1: in the hospital right now? No? No, I just I Um,
Speaker 1: I just got out yesterday. Oh my god? Is that
Speaker 1: why it sounds like you're on drugs right now. Uh,
Speaker 1: I'm a little bit on some painkillers and stuff. Whoa
Speaker 1: are you what happening? Um? Wow? That was It was
Speaker 1: such a crazy night. Um. So, her cat was missing
Speaker 1: and she was I remember, she was really distraught. So
Speaker 1: I felt bad and she got out of the car.
Speaker 1: So I drove around the corner and then I decided
Speaker 1: to get out of the car to maybe look for
Speaker 1: the cat. I thought maybe the cat was like outside
Speaker 1: or around the area. So I was looking for her
Speaker 1: cat and it was really dark and I couldn't really
Speaker 1: see that well. And then a car came and hit me, what,
Speaker 1: you got hit by a car. Oh? Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: got like a broken arm and I got a couple
Speaker 1: of broken ribs. Oh my god, you're lucky that that's it, dude. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been in the hospital because that happened. So you
Speaker 1: were going to call her back, but obviously you've had
Speaker 1: other things going on right now. Yeah. Um, it's just
Speaker 1: it's just been nuts dealing with all this stuff. So
Speaker 1: glad you're okay. Yeah, we talked to her. It sounds
Speaker 1: like she doesn't have any idea that you got hit
Speaker 1: by a car looking for a cat. I don't. I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I've been in the hospital. I I
Speaker 1: don't know what. I would feel so bad if I
Speaker 1: was Rachel. I played myself forever. Very nice of you
Speaker 1: to try to find her cat, though, I don't even
Speaker 1: I but I didn't find a cat. No, I didn't know.
Speaker 1: He found a car instead. You definitely found a car. Hey,
Speaker 1: Josh m I hate to throw under the bus again,
Speaker 1: but Rachel is actually on the other line listening to
Speaker 1: this conversation and wants to talk to you. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Rachel's here. Hi, Oh my god, Hi, I am so
Speaker 1: glad you're okay, Gosh, Josh, are you there? There's too
Speaker 1: many pain meds to comprehend. H Yeah, no, I'm here.
Speaker 1: I'm here. Um, but what so what's happening? Oh? You're
Speaker 1: so sweet. I Um, I thought that you weren't calling
Speaker 1: me back because I screwed up our gate. I thought
Speaker 1: that you were mad at me. She tried to laugh
Speaker 1: it off. No, no, I was in the hospital. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know. We heard the sirens when we were looking
Speaker 1: for my cat and that was you. Yeah. They that
Speaker 1: must have been for me. Um. I'm sorry. No, please,
Speaker 1: don't apologize. What do you apologize? I got hit by
Speaker 1: a car to be sent Oh, I feel so guilty, Josh,
Speaker 1: I'm so I'm sorry. It's fine. I just I wanted
Speaker 1: to help you find your cat because you seemed really upset,
Speaker 1: and I just, how is this pretty weird? Th thank you?
Speaker 1: That's really sweet. So Rachel, Yeah, you're your cat. Um,
Speaker 1: did you find it? Yes? Yes, don't worry about him. Please,
Speaker 1: that's good. That's good. Where where was it? Oh? My god, Josh,
Speaker 1: you're gonna hate this. Um. He was in um my closet.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. He was in your closet. Yeah, Josh,
Speaker 1: you got hit by a car trying to find her cat,
Speaker 1: and the whole time it was hiding in her closet.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my god, that is so sad.
Speaker 1: All right, Josh, you're trying to do such a nice thing. Maybe, um,
Speaker 1: maybe on our second date. UM, I can pay just
Speaker 1: like even the score. Actually, actually, Rachel, I'll ask a
Speaker 1: question for you. Hey, Josh, would you like to go
Speaker 1: out on another date with Rachel? We will pay for it,
Speaker 1: so you're you're serious? The cat was in the closet
Speaker 1: the whole time? Yes, I don't. I know, Josh, it
Speaker 1: would be tough to hear too if I were in
Speaker 1: your shoes. That's always going to be thinking. But would
Speaker 1: you like another date with Rachel? She'd love to see
Speaker 1: you again? H wow. I'm just like, I'm on a
Speaker 1: lot of medication and I don't I don't know when
Speaker 1: i'll be able when I can go out again. Okay,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Rachel. I well, I can come and
Speaker 1: visit you and I'll bring you dinner, because it's I
Speaker 1: think it's the least I can do. Honestly, that's close
Speaker 1: to paid for his medical bills. How about it, Josh,
Speaker 1: will you let Rachel come over and bring you dinner
Speaker 1: and you guys can have another date. Uh that that
Speaker 1: that'd be nice? All right, Well, congratulations Josh and Rachel.
Speaker 1: You guys got another date. All it took was Josh
Speaker 1: being hit by a car. Yeah, thank you guys so
Speaker 1: much for getting in touch with him. I completely misread
Speaker 1: all of this. Yeah, you know what, I think we
Speaker 1: all learned something here because Rachel I started this off
Speaker 1: by saying, since you two met puking and then you
Speaker 1: had the missing cat, I said that was the recipe
Speaker 1: for true love. I think we found what the recipe is.
Speaker 1: The recipe for true love is projectile vomiting together, a
Speaker 1: missing cat and then getting hit by a car. And
Speaker 1: that's what true love is. That's all you need in
Speaker 1: order to have a healthy relationship. Congratulations a Rachel, thank you,
Speaker 1: thank you, and Josh rest up man. Okay, yeah, I
Speaker 1: just in the closet the whole time. Yeah, jew in
Speaker 1: the morning. All right. What you just heard was the
Speaker 1: second date update with Josh and Rachel from six months ago,
Speaker 1: and now we have them back on the phone to
Speaker 1: do a second date update update. Josh and Rachel, you
Speaker 1: guys there, thank you for being on with us again. Yeah, Josh,
Speaker 1: you sounds so sober. Yeah, I'll better kick that pain
Speaker 1: pill habit that you have. Yeah, Just so you guys know,
Speaker 1: this was one of the most popular second date updates
Speaker 1: that we ever have had on the show, and a
Speaker 1: lot of people were hoping that you guys would end
Speaker 1: up with each other. Awesome. Is this where you called
Speaker 1: to disappoint us and let us know that you went
Speaker 1: out on a date and it was the worst experience ever?
Speaker 1: And no, actually, I mean it did take us like
Speaker 1: two months really to actually go out on a date. Really, Josh,
Speaker 1: when your injuries that bad that you really didn't leave
Speaker 1: the house for two months. Yeah, we couldn't go on
Speaker 1: an actual proper like date for at least like two months. Mostly,
Speaker 1: I mean we saw each other within those two months,
Speaker 1: but it was mainly just her coming over to my
Speaker 1: place and watching a movie while I was like propped
Speaker 1: up in a chair. Ye, his ribs were messed up. Oh,
Speaker 1: and that's the worst. You can't do anything about it.
Speaker 1: You just have to wait it out. Like funny, you know.
Speaker 1: But he looks really cute in his little bandages. Some
Speaker 1: guys look good in bandages. Some guys don't. I've seen
Speaker 1: some guys that cannot wear a bandage. So good for you,
Speaker 1: Josh for being able to support a bandage and look cute.
Speaker 1: So when you guys actually went out on your date
Speaker 1: after the second date update two months later, when you
Speaker 1: were healed, how did that go? Was it? Was it good?
Speaker 1: She lost her cat again? No, I'm just kidding got
Speaker 1: hit by another car? Yeah, No, honestly, it was like
Speaker 1: really great. I mean I was so excited to actually
Speaker 1: like leave the house and go on a real date
Speaker 1: with him. What did you guys end up doing, because
Speaker 1: that's pretty awesome. You got to spend two months getting
Speaker 1: to know each other before actually taking that step. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we kind of just like had a really nice night,
Speaker 1: went out to dinner, talked, kind of walked around the
Speaker 1: area and kind of hung out. And you're like, this
Speaker 1: is what it feels like to walk again. This is amazing. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys like gave us, you know, crazy story.
Speaker 1: Not every couple has this, like you know, crazy like meeting,
Speaker 1: you know, and so like whenever we meet new people,
Speaker 1: we like tell the story of how we met um.
Speaker 1: And it's actually kind of funny because people will be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like I heard that on the radio. You're
Speaker 1: the guy that got hit by a Are you guys
Speaker 1: officially boyfriend and girlfriend? Then? Yes, yes, yes, perfectly a couple.
Speaker 1: I know, I know it's exciting, but actually the reason
Speaker 1: that we emailed you guys is because we have some
Speaker 1: like big news. Um. I wanted to to let you
Speaker 1: guys know that we're moving in together. Oh that's wow,
Speaker 1: after those only six months ago. Yeah. Yeah, don't judge
Speaker 1: their love too, Okay, if they're ready for it, they're
Speaker 1: ready for it. Listen, we've already been through you know,
Speaker 1: trials and populations, physical trauma. Yeah. I mean she was
Speaker 1: basically my nurse for like two months, so she was
Speaker 1: so great. She brought me food, she brought me soup.
Speaker 1: You know, she helped me itch my cast because I
Speaker 1: was pretty bandage up. Yeah, she was on me taking
Speaker 1: my medication and everything like that. She helped me. I
Speaker 1: keep that sorted because I was pretty out of it.
Speaker 1: So give you a sponge bath. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: thought about asking her, but I don't want to. I
Speaker 1: don't want to push my luck anything. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think at that point, she shows you just saying
Speaker 1: I would have done it honestly. Yeah, I guess it's
Speaker 1: only been six months, but you guys have lived like
Speaker 1: two years in a normal relationship. Yeah, they're not going
Speaker 1: to have to adjust that whole like peen with the
Speaker 1: door open thing. Yeah, we sped right past that. I've
Speaker 1: I've seen a lot of things that I never expected
Speaker 1: to see. That's so cute. Good for you guys. Are
Speaker 1: all your friends and family really excited? Yeah they are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're excited for Yeah. Most importantly is the cat excited? Yeah?
Speaker 1: With the cat? Now you have to live with the cat.
Speaker 1: Everyone will be happy to know that. Me and the
Speaker 1: cat get along very well and we're very good. Yeah,
Speaker 1: except when she's not around. You know, you kind of
Speaker 1: want to kick it a little bit. It is the
Speaker 1: reason you got hit by a car, after all. I
Speaker 1: just make sure I know where he is at all time.
Speaker 1: Really accepted the cat into his heart, even though he's
Speaker 1: a little bit allergic. You're allergic to the cat, Josh, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have a little bit of allergies. But it's not
Speaker 1: a man. This cat is just kicking your ass. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but Rachel's totally worth it. Oh my god, Rachel, what
Speaker 1: we both this man do for you. That's what I know.
Speaker 1: A yeah, I'm pretty lucky. Not many dudes out there
Speaker 1: would take on a car for a woman and get
Speaker 1: broken ribs, broken arm, broken collar bone, whatever else, and
Speaker 1: then live with her cat who is allergic to So
Speaker 1: congratulations you guys, Thank you for the update. Thank you
Speaker 1: five