WEBVTT - Ep. 418: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater (Ft. Tone Bell)

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<v Speaker 1>Horrible Decisions. Hey guys, Welcome to another episode of Decisions Decisions.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm your girl, man dy b, I'm your girl Weezy,

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<v Speaker 3>and I have one question for you. Do you like

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<v Speaker 3>the Thick Girls? I do like that girl better with

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<v Speaker 3>that show.

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<v Speaker 2>Title, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>We have Tone Bell in the building.

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<v Speaker 2>And y'all may know him. He's an actor.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a comedian, he is also the star next to

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<v Speaker 1>the star. I would say on Survival of the Thickest

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<v Speaker 1>on Netflix Now season one and.

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<v Speaker 2>Season two, what did it do? Or I'm so glad

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<v Speaker 2>to like have you here on this show?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we've been trying to do this for a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but also the rebrand makes sense now.

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<v Speaker 1>For you to come on.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you were like you were a little like

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<v Speaker 2>when I'm gonna come on.

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<v Speaker 3>There's so many as as we've talked, Janelle James is

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<v Speaker 3>one of them, and like, there's just so many people

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that are like, y'all come on some

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<v Speaker 3>tell soon.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it's safe. Now it's now, it's much safe.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, there was, there was some bumps on the road.

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<v Speaker 1>Now a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you want us to do a little old school

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<v Speaker 3>on you got me throw an old school question?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm here, I'm here for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's the whole school question?

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<v Speaker 1>You know our do or died? Would you rather our

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<v Speaker 1>number one? Would you rather? He asked? Or suck tone?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, we're bringing this back to horrible.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, uh, that's probably said toes and that's what

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<v Speaker 5>everybody say.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the safe, that's the dirtier to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I'm you gotta be I'm carrying you at

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<v Speaker 4>the tub.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I'm carrying you out.

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<v Speaker 4>You're not gonna walk around and then I'm sucking toes.

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<v Speaker 5>No, if you I washed the foot, I washed the foot.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I always noticed my partner only sucks my toes if

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<v Speaker 3>we're out of a shower together, and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>what does this say about me?

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<v Speaker 5>I've never sucked a toe, and I don't think I've

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<v Speaker 5>ever intentionally eatn ass.

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<v Speaker 1>Not intentionally by accident. It was by accident. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>an intention. If I've nobody say he did it and

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<v Speaker 1>mints it.

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<v Speaker 2>It went darre and then he left.

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<v Speaker 1>You never had a tone in your mouth though.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm not saying no.

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<v Speaker 1>It took me a long time to get it toe

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<v Speaker 1>in my mouth, and I was a hedonism the first.

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<v Speaker 2>Time I did it. It was wild guy over.

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<v Speaker 1>They finished, it came out the pull and it was

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<v Speaker 1>a lady toe.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't even a male.

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<v Speaker 5>Toe came out first.

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<v Speaker 2>You said, She's said it came out of the pool.

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<v Speaker 1>She came out playing it to be clean. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>By the way, Lauren will kill something, you know, let's

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<v Speaker 3>just say Ler Pete. What you said, Mandy out of

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<v Speaker 3>the sex resort pool.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's some strong chlorine.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, to be honest with you, that pool this mone

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<v Speaker 1>like bleach. At one point I was like, this can't

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<v Speaker 1>good for us.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh that both y'all with Yeah, he was there for

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<v Speaker 4>the the toe sucking.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think, yeah, I thought you left. And

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<v Speaker 2>then it got a little crazy. I remember feat going

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<v Speaker 2>in Valves and I was like, I'm gonna go.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean if I was, I mean, look, man,

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<v Speaker 5>if I get off the plane at Hedonism and and

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<v Speaker 5>I get to im, it's probably I ain't going to

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<v Speaker 5>be reserve.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're going to Heto, you're going.

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<v Speaker 1>You'd always level one to watch they're doing to Brave.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to Heto, You're going? Do you do?

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<v Speaker 2>You come to New York still often? Yeah, Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean outside of filming, because we filmed for about

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<v Speaker 5>three months okay for the show and in between stand updates.

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<v Speaker 1>And it is it is shot here, right, Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>They shout around the corner.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's given Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 1>Even when I.

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<v Speaker 3>Didn't live in New York, like and it's been almost

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<v Speaker 3>a decade now, I just love New York storylines because

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the men are gonna be a certain way,

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<v Speaker 3>it's gonna be a certain energy vibe. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>there's certain characters you always see in a New York show.

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<v Speaker 4>It's hard for me.

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<v Speaker 5>It was hard first season because I'm like, I'm still

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<v Speaker 5>when I get here, I still love the city. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>the first place, the first time you get somewhere, and

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<v Speaker 5>then I mean, I'm still looking, you know, I'm still

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<v Speaker 5>looking like I don't live here.

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<v Speaker 1>What I love about it is now watching like Sex

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<v Speaker 1>and the City or like older shows, I'm like, how

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<v Speaker 1>are these people affording these apartments?

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<v Speaker 2>In Survival though?

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<v Speaker 1>It's giving these they they got roommates, they got cats.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, this is kipping, it's real. No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>giving very rare, you know. I would like to ask you.

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<v Speaker 3>That never came to mind to ask an actor because

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<v Speaker 3>whenever people come on, we're like interested in knowing about

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<v Speaker 3>the show they're on. But it hit me when we

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<v Speaker 3>interviewed Kiki recently for one of them days and she said,

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<v Speaker 3>we shot this in twenty something days, right, Yes, people

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<v Speaker 3>really don't know what it's like to be on set

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<v Speaker 3>or what it's like to make a scene.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you kind of walk us through a.

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<v Speaker 4>Day, give me, give me more?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like walk us.

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<v Speaker 3>Through a day on a real production set. This is

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<v Speaker 3>a Netflix show, right, So that's a big fucking show.

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<v Speaker 3>This ain't the YouTube ship. This is a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell us what it's like.

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<v Speaker 2>I wake up.

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<v Speaker 5>It's different because okay, so this is a single cam.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh you know, single camera four walls.

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<v Speaker 1>Englace.

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<v Speaker 5>So a multicam is like fresh Prince Martin live audience.

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<v Speaker 5>They're like the viewer is only seeing three walls in

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<v Speaker 5>the set.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, right?

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<v Speaker 2>Three sixty is a single cam, no laughter nor nothing, yep.

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<v Speaker 5>So which is a longer day? A multicamp was Papa's

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<v Speaker 5>house multiicam?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>So Damon and Damon Jr.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah no, I'm going with the example.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll ask you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm telling you.

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<v Speaker 5>But you get there, and if you shoot an episode,

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<v Speaker 5>you shoot the episode in two days, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>You shoot for a TV show, for a sitcom, oh okay,

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<v Speaker 4>that cheers.

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<v Speaker 3>H oh, that's right, because they're kind of like improving

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<v Speaker 3>along the way they're going.

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<v Speaker 5>And so you traditionally, like you shoot on a Thursday

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<v Speaker 5>and you're there probably I don't know, eight ten hours

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<v Speaker 5>shooting half the scenes and then Friday you do the

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<v Speaker 5>other half of the show in front of the audience,

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<v Speaker 5>and so it only takes you sixteen hours probably to

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<v Speaker 5>get the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, now I want to I want to ask, because

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<v Speaker 1>are you still in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have to talks? I saw a ring on

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<v Speaker 1>the fingers. Oh well yeah, some people just peoking rings listen,

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<v Speaker 1>were talking about TV.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I am not. That's where I'm getting to.

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<v Speaker 1>So in this show, though, there's like you in the

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<v Speaker 1>bed having sex with a woman.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a dating woman.

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<v Speaker 1>You're catching feelings, there's kisses, there's all these things. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there ever a time that your partner feels away with

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<v Speaker 1>your on scene action? Me and I say that because

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<v Speaker 1>I know we just brought up or we didn't bring

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<v Speaker 1>it up recently. But there was like this big thing

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<v Speaker 1>about Lauren London not actually kissing Jonah in the movie

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<v Speaker 1>on Netflix, and there's a lot of times there's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot that came.

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<v Speaker 3>Out about that though that was during that was the

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<v Speaker 3>first kiss it would.

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<v Speaker 1>Have been since she's kissed Nippers. Sure, so that was

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but that's a personal That's why I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I'm asking because you have a job to do, and

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<v Speaker 1>then of course your personal life is something completely different.

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<v Speaker 2>Makes sense.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it still has to make sense in the story.

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<v Speaker 5>If it makes sense for the story then because sometimes you.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't do it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but if it makes sense, then you do it.

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<v Speaker 5>If it doesn't, then you discussed it to go. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't think we need this here, and maybe we can

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<v Speaker 5>get rid of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you done that with the thought of your partner though?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, I really do want

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<v Speaker 3>to go back to VTS because I'm finding it's interesting. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>So to Mandy's way, let's just say it's an intimacy

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<v Speaker 3>scene because I really like knowing how things happen.

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<v Speaker 4>I've met I do have a story for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, boy, Well, first we should mention what an intimacy

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<v Speaker 3>quarter coordinator.

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<v Speaker 2>Is, which is still pretty bad one on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah that Troy.

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<v Speaker 4>I've had Troy you worked with twice?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that is we've had it on the show to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about actually only had Troy.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, she's like, really like spearheading what that looks like?

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<v Speaker 2>You know in TV? That's awesome? Is it? No?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe I've had I think I had one on on the.

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<v Speaker 4>Billy Us versus Billy Howdy. I think we did have

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<v Speaker 4>one there too.

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<v Speaker 3>A conversation like when an intimacy coordinator has to talk.

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<v Speaker 5>I think everybody's right when it's still more awkward, it's

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<v Speaker 5>still more awkward than it is because I'm like, if

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<v Speaker 5>if I've known you for a couple of years, I know,

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<v Speaker 5>we just met today, but if I know you for

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<v Speaker 5>a couple of years and we got a scene, we

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<v Speaker 5>can probably go what you're comfortable with, right, let me

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<v Speaker 5>know what not to do, and then as a dude

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<v Speaker 5>that you know and respect to go, he'll he'll listen

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<v Speaker 5>to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 4>There is a also but.

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<v Speaker 5>Also is important for the enemacy coordinator to talk to

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<v Speaker 5>the director to go, what are you going to be

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<v Speaker 5>asking him to do? Because I mean when I did

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<v Speaker 5>us first Reality Holiday, it was me and Andrew Day.

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<v Speaker 5>We had a I think two scenes that were I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>go back and watch it, go back and watch it's uh,

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<v Speaker 5>but Lee was asking us to to you know, I

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<v Speaker 5>want to see more.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>And.

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<v Speaker 5>Be checking in with Andrew going you're good because I'm

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<v Speaker 5>gonna go And then you know.

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<v Speaker 1>What does that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Does an actor know that means more because when if

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking more of the thing, more.

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<v Speaker 5>Like Lee amaze Andrews. Like we checked in with Andrew.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, yo, we're good, We're both going. Were

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<v Speaker 5>all in and she was like, let's go. And then

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<v Speaker 5>and then you got Lee Guard.

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<v Speaker 2>I love you Lee.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm want to let Lee and know because he Lee

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<v Speaker 5>is also very funny and hilarious.

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<v Speaker 4>But when he wanted to get something, he wanted to

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<v Speaker 4>get it.

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<v Speaker 5>And long as the same partners know we locked in,

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<v Speaker 5>everybody else just appears all right. I mean because Lia

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<v Speaker 5>Lee and that bitch like fuck that bitch, chump that

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<v Speaker 5>out chump, back up, serious thrust that shun out and

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<v Speaker 5>I mean you hear that the side, but you're like,

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<v Speaker 5>you're like, I I feel like I'm stroking the fun

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<v Speaker 5>out of this motherfucker, right, And so then and then

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<v Speaker 5>so you know, she played harder, so I'll play harder.

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<v Speaker 4>But you're in it.

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<v Speaker 5>You locked in, and and then once you know, once

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<v Speaker 5>you cut, you try to you know, you're like, all right,

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<v Speaker 5>let's because one of the funny stories I got is

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<v Speaker 5>is I hadn't I had had a you know, the

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<v Speaker 5>cock sock before.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't know about a cock sock.

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<v Speaker 3>We actually, yeah, we did talk about it on Horrible.

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<v Speaker 3>We talked about the cop and the underwear.

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<v Speaker 4>Cock sock is a little tiny crowd royal bag.

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<v Speaker 2>That you tie.

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<v Speaker 4>It is not a crowd roy it's a crowd royal bag.

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<v Speaker 2>It's pretty much a crowdroy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, everything stuff, all of it.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it uncomfortable?

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<v Speaker 2>No, okay, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Mean you got to get the right size. You gotta

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<v Speaker 5>tape up certain pieces. But it's just a little pad

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<v Speaker 5>with the little sack and just so you know, you

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<v Speaker 5>you bumping right, but if it gets too I mean

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<v Speaker 5>I've had the bag come off right, I mean other

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<v Speaker 5>people have.

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<v Speaker 4>It was it was crazy and that's my god, how

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<v Speaker 4>embarrassing in that scene.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I was like I was, We're on the vanity

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm facing Andre or you know, Billy and heels

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<v Speaker 5>cut and then we both looked down and I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>oh oh no, and she was like you're good. I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, I'm just stand near you until the roade comes,

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<v Speaker 5>because I mean, if I've been down you catching.

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<v Speaker 1>No the ball people do they have leaves.

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<v Speaker 5>And mostly everybody everybody lead. Yeah, I think I think

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<v Speaker 5>I think everybody was in that scene. I think everybody

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<v Speaker 5>was out of the room except for the you know camera.

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<v Speaker 3>So I had a nudity scene that I did for

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<v Speaker 3>a show that I do about sex work or how

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<v Speaker 3>people make money from sex. I got waxed on camera

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<v Speaker 3>and asked the waxer about how she makes money, how

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<v Speaker 3>this is a business.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about legs spread open.

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<v Speaker 3>I also didn't shave for maybe three months because I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted it to be real.

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<v Speaker 2>You ain't shaving, Okay, so down kinsful you could have shag.

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<v Speaker 5>Harry, You're getting waxed on camera like this, But that's

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<v Speaker 5>what you went in there for.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you would it for what? No, that's not it's

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<v Speaker 1>respectful tone manscaping.

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<v Speaker 5>They changed the scene day, So let's go back to No. No,

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<v Speaker 5>let's go back to your original question about what's a normal.

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<v Speaker 4>Day on set.

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<v Speaker 5>Sometimes they fuck you up being like, we got this

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<v Speaker 5>set today and tomorrow we need to get this scene

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<v Speaker 5>while you hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, wait, wait, would you only manscape because it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be shown on.

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<v Speaker 5>But also sometimes you gotta you know, you can't just

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<v Speaker 5>you gotta sometimes let the roots.

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<v Speaker 2>Grow out grow NBA.

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<v Speaker 3>Today got because I feel like the second I got

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<v Speaker 3>off side' be like it was too tall.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, I told her. I was like, look y'all, go,

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<v Speaker 4>were gonna shoot this ship?

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<v Speaker 2>Win?

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<v Speaker 5>I go, I need to go like you know, I

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<v Speaker 5>want to be seal smooth. And he was like, niggas

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<v Speaker 5>didn't do that in the goddamn.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, that's right, because it was you had to

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<v Speaker 1>have the pro down there.

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, but we weren't going to see that right.

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<v Speaker 4>And it was supposed to be theatrical. But yeah, him

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<v Speaker 4>coming home.

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<v Speaker 3>Because it was actually something I just thought about when

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<v Speaker 3>you said we just met today.

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<v Speaker 1>You've known Mandy for years. Don't you think it would be.

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<v Speaker 3>More awkward to work or kiss a colleague versus someone

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<v Speaker 3>that just showed up on zet like a peer that

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<v Speaker 3>you know. I feel like it would be hard for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just say Eden was active.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't even say it would be easy to do

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<v Speaker 2>it because my ex was jealous of him.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we hung out at the bar Madam and it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't until he brought his girl and he was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>oh he got somebody.

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<v Speaker 2>I think.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I don't think.

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<v Speaker 1>You're right it normally, don't.

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<v Speaker 5>We have some talks where I could see that, but

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<v Speaker 5>I was talking to him too. I don't disregard somebody's dude.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll make sure that everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>You made him comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>But when we've had the conversation recently about having friends

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<v Speaker 1>of other sexes and.

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<v Speaker 4>That, that's when it gets awkward. I think, if I

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<v Speaker 4>know your.

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<v Speaker 5>Your partner, I can see that because like, I do

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<v Speaker 5>respect your partner so and I want to talk to

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<v Speaker 5>him first.

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<v Speaker 3>Yo, Jonathan Major's damn show was sitting there like, I've

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<v Speaker 3>never heard.

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<v Speaker 1>That, mich Michael, Wait, do you think that that was

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<v Speaker 1>an appropriate hug? Let's get like as if you're if

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<v Speaker 1>you know the partner.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know how long because I just met Jonathan recently.

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<v Speaker 5>I've known making in and out for for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>We always say hello. I don't know her well, but

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<v Speaker 5>you got to imagine that Eli and Good have known

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<v Speaker 5>each other for a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>I think he also probably acknowledged him, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>that's different, like I think we probably they probably cut. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure he said.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do know those Is there a might it's

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<v Speaker 1>not family to pick up my I'm gonna is there

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<v Speaker 1>an exchange that's inappropriate?

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<v Speaker 5>But ain't known each other probably twenty I do think

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<v Speaker 5>that's different. I do think that's different twenty years ago, Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean before you get this relationship with her, you

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<v Speaker 5>know she know him, Okay, and that's probably happened before.

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<v Speaker 1>Only honest fucking matter.

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<v Speaker 3>See, Like, just because Mo Niggan knows I'm cool with somebody, shouldn't.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but I think you respect the fact. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not saying don't do it. I'm not saying don't

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<v Speaker 5>do it, but but also, woulden't you want me.

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<v Speaker 2>To feel a way?

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Like that. I think.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think it's jealousy as much as it's like,

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<v Speaker 5>y'all gonna do that. But I should be okay having

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<v Speaker 5>a feeling about this.

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<v Speaker 1>You're always you should have a feeling way. I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird, but I'm not saying don't do it.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Here's the thing that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 3>I realized, because we all work in this industry, we

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<v Speaker 3>have so many male and female interpersonal relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>However, what the fuck do I look like jumping up.

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<v Speaker 3>And being that excited about another man while my man

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<v Speaker 3>stands there and waits for me to come down, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, but I don't really like situations where we

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<v Speaker 3>can put someone's partner to like sit and like I

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<v Speaker 3>don't like the embracing that way that like gentleman, oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, if he was doing all that with another bitch,

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<v Speaker 3>bet it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Hello, you're like, I see you both. You know me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a but you're a very.

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<v Speaker 1>Social person to be with, a confident person because you

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<v Speaker 1>work a whole room.

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<v Speaker 5>Men, women, I'm a charming mor right, it's but also

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<v Speaker 5>some people don't know how to be charmed. So it's like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, you know, when I come into a room,

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<v Speaker 5>like I'm giving.

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<v Speaker 1>You money, and some people don't know how to be charmed.

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<v Speaker 5>Some like as a dude, if I'm being charming a

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<v Speaker 5>woman that's not used to being charmed, like you know,

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<v Speaker 5>it doesn't it doesn't leave this room.

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<v Speaker 4>It doesn't leave this experience.

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<v Speaker 5>But understand, I can still giggle what you make you

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<v Speaker 5>smile and laugh and week and weekn jab and all there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's so funny about that? I have a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of mine and I will farly talk about it

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<v Speaker 1>on his podcast. I don't know yet, but basically I

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<v Speaker 1>went to a show that he was a part of

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<v Speaker 1>and I was there for a person I would excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>He was also on the lineup, So I go, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>here clearly for this other person on backstage.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a friendly person. Do you know this nigga.

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<v Speaker 1>Is to this day is going around saying that while

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<v Speaker 1>I was with another nigga, I was trying to bag him,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, I got multiple numbers that night. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a friendly person. I'm like, oh, you thought I was

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<v Speaker 1>hitting on you, nigga. I didn't want to say you,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, because I just go into a room, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>exchanging numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>He took it as I was hitting on him, and

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<v Speaker 1>we've had to have this conversation. We're still friends to

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<v Speaker 1>this day.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm saying that night, no, I was in the bedroom set,

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<v Speaker 5>I guess, and that's when I think, that's when you

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<v Speaker 5>determine what I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see him the end of that night. I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up going leaving the show with the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>I was there for. But literally, to this day, we

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<v Speaker 1>just had to have this conversation and it was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>so when you say people aren't used to being charmed,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, wow, do men not expect women to be

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<v Speaker 1>friendly is a number exchange flirting? Because we exchanged numbers

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<v Speaker 1>the night I met you with my homegirl. Sometimes and

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't like a.

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<v Speaker 5>I was sometimes like some people, some people go, did

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<v Speaker 5>you spend too much time with this person?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? Like?

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<v Speaker 5>But then if that look don't come, then you should

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<v Speaker 5>be able to know this was just a social interaction. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's not true. You don't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>For number one, if both of you didn't have the

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<v Speaker 3>jobs that you had, exchanging numbers would be beyond platonic.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I think, I mean I disagree.

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<v Speaker 3>If you met Mandy and Mandy worked at oh I

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<v Speaker 3>was in an account.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you be exchanging numbers with Mandy when you have.

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<v Speaker 4>A partner if she was only an accountant?

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<v Speaker 1>Because when I met you, I wasn't potting.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I need if you were, like he said, we

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<v Speaker 3>need an account like when it's like there is a

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<v Speaker 3>small pass and we are not going to act like

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<v Speaker 3>it's not real that we all have with our partners.

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<v Speaker 3>If I met you random somewhere else, we would probably

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<v Speaker 3>maybe do I know you? Oh you're the solves or whatever?

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<v Speaker 3>Come upon sometimes do this. There's something we're gonna use

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<v Speaker 3>from each other. There's something that there's.

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<v Speaker 5>Majority of the time, majority of the time, but I

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<v Speaker 5>will I will say, depend on what we talked about

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<v Speaker 5>in that interaction, I will say that you might have

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<v Speaker 5>mentioned something for someone that you know that I can't

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<v Speaker 5>get to, that you can that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Can advant me. So I haven't done that.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's my point.

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<v Speaker 4>So I can exchange numbers, but you maybe get to

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<v Speaker 4>But Tom.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the point.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's saying that unless there's like a business connection

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<v Speaker 1>of some sort in any other way or relationship, it

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<v Speaker 1>would be wrong for you, as a man who's in

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship or me as a woman in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>to just casually exchange numbers because you wouldn't be doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>There is something to us being in an industry. To

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<v Speaker 3>be honest with you, most times, sometimes the only thing

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<v Speaker 3>is black. I've been I do lax to JFK a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>If there's someone else black adults one swear.

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<v Speaker 1>To that, we'd be like, because like right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>how are gonna take you to get that number seconds?

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<v Speaker 1>Because we have the same industry.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, if he was just chilling traveling New York with

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<v Speaker 3>his homeboys, I'm not shooting on my man.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, if.

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<v Speaker 3>You just met a woman sitting next to you who

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<v Speaker 3>didn't say I have a podcast, I work in TV,

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<v Speaker 3>I work in radio, and you're like, let's connect.

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<v Speaker 2>What the fuck are we connecting for? You know what?

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<v Speaker 5>It depends on what you do, because you might you

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<v Speaker 5>might have a wonderful dropwall business and I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 5>renovate a world.

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<v Speaker 3>It's madness related, but on the vibe. Because the thing

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<v Speaker 3>Mandy just said, they made me make this point is, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we were connecting whatever. That's the point. When two people

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<v Speaker 3>connect like this, they have to be tied to each

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<v Speaker 3>other some way.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I even told him, I said, nigga that night, I

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<v Speaker 1>got two other nigga's numbers.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't talk to them like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, but the exchange of numbers for this person, he assumed,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a Oh, it's gonna be something more

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<v Speaker 1>now I do.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, Yes, okay, I don't disagree with you, but I

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<v Speaker 5>do think there's a great area where sometimes it does

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<v Speaker 5>make some not the gray area.

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<v Speaker 1>Your woman get a number from a nigga and she

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<v Speaker 1>say it's Gray Bay.

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<v Speaker 2>It's great, it's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>You know it might be you see how you said that.

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<v Speaker 2>Listen, Yeah, I want to get to.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk to them, but after you make dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, Well we have a clip that I

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<v Speaker 1>want to play while we're speaking on cheating, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want to because we weren't speaking on cheating. Here's was

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<v Speaker 1>it while we're talking about cheatastic We didn't get the

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<v Speaker 1>cheating by the way, well we said the exchanging.

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<v Speaker 6>Numbers with she I get like my Nieme got like

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<v Speaker 6>four times a cheat on me before I leave and

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<v Speaker 6>I you know the in and that and other be

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<v Speaker 6>Oh my god, she's someone In reality, we all got

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<v Speaker 6>cheated on the stage, every right. If you really in

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<v Speaker 6>love with your nigga, you locked in. Y'all been together.

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<v Speaker 6>It's not easy to walk away. You got some women

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<v Speaker 6>that's going to get the fuck on some women that

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<v Speaker 6>you got some women that's going to the first time

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<v Speaker 6>they man cheat, they're out. It's easy to walk away.

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<v Speaker 6>Like if you don't build something with somebody, I don't

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<v Speaker 6>been together to put some on their hurts. Of course

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<v Speaker 6>you want to leave, but you're not just want to

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<v Speaker 6>leave like y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Love to get on in there.

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<v Speaker 6>I'll beat you someone, don't you said fourth times?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Bitch.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, Opinel, We're just.

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<v Speaker 6>In a relationship. They getting chicken on right now or

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<v Speaker 6>being chitting on. It ain't no they checking. Some women's

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<v Speaker 6>just not leaving a man. My first time, it's like

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<v Speaker 6>you hurting me. I can't believe you do this to me. Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 6>we might we probably gonna get back together, but the alreations,

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<v Speaker 6>she will never be the same, right, It's never gonna

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<v Speaker 6>be the same. Second time, it's like you you Oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>so you're a cheetah. Third time, I'm already cheating back.

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<v Speaker 6>Fourth time, I know you got to go beach hold on?

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<v Speaker 1>Way is that me I started cheating back at the

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<v Speaker 1>third time, I would Oh god, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know if you guys ate, do you all

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<v Speaker 1>agree with her? Like is it like or is there

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<v Speaker 1>a certain number of times you would give your partner

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<v Speaker 1>or have in the past given a partner to cheat,

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<v Speaker 1>like where you actually stayed or they stayed because you cheated.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't. I mean, I'm sure it's happened.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know of I mean since college, I don't

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<v Speaker 5>after college, I don't know of the time I've been

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<v Speaker 5>cheated on.

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<v Speaker 4>But also I don't go looking for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't ask. I just go this ain't working and

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<v Speaker 4>and we move on.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sure I haven't cheated on since college, but I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you agree with her that most women stay after

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<v Speaker 1>I mean cheats.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, oh damn.

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<v Speaker 4>Matter of fact, Yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think we can all agree.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The only woman that I know that left was Robin

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<v Speaker 1>Thix's ex wife. That bitch left and it ain't never

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<v Speaker 1>come back.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what's so fucked up to say?

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<v Speaker 1>And there we go.

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<v Speaker 3>The only time I left the man that's cheated was

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<v Speaker 3>because I ain't want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Much because when you was looking for a way out anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, you know what's crazy about what she

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<v Speaker 1>said though to me like this? And I know you

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<v Speaker 1>can cheat even if you're in a like Polly or.

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<v Speaker 2>Open relationship like me.

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<v Speaker 1>And we both got cheated on, and you know I

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<v Speaker 1>was opening sale with that fuck nigga. He's still cheated

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<v Speaker 1>like an idiot. So for this though, I always wonder,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a woman that's gonna constantly stay with a

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<v Speaker 1>man who you know is cheating on you, why not

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<v Speaker 1>just be in a non monogous relationship if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a deal breaker for you, like to me, normally,

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<v Speaker 1>in monogamy, the deal breaker is you sleeping with someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you are saying that Nigga got four.

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<v Speaker 1>Times till I leave him, he gonna go and probably volted.

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<v Speaker 3>From I mean, I think she's being facetious, But you

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<v Speaker 3>think that was her being facetious.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I feel like she was just fucking around.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sound like some city girls should to me.

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<v Speaker 3>But the reason that women aren't getting in non monogamous

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<v Speaker 3>relationships because they have faith.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the day, Like we all have

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<v Speaker 1>faith our relationships will work out.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't want to lose access to what you have

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<v Speaker 5>in that relationship. Oh, I think that's what do you

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<v Speaker 5>mean by access? If if you take it? If I

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<v Speaker 5>got if I'm doing well and I got money, and

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<v Speaker 5>you live in the lifestyle you want to, and all

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<v Speaker 5>I'm doing is I run out of town real quick.

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<v Speaker 5>You find out I might and you fall into might

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<v Speaker 5>smash and then I come back. But you still live

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<v Speaker 5>in the same lifestyle. You you're probably more for that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Only for a woman who's benefiting from what you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Financially.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are broke men that cheat, and women say

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<v Speaker 1>the broken broke.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it can be, it can be.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have to stop.

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<v Speaker 3>Thinking women really want money that bad, when really they

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<v Speaker 3>just want time, they want availability, They.

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<v Speaker 2>Want to say they got a man. You you.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't believe you said that out loud like you

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<v Speaker 4>believe it.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually really do.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that is I would literally die on the cross

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<v Speaker 3>about that tone. And I'll tell you why, why do

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<v Speaker 3>you know how many bitches out here waiting on niggas

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<v Speaker 3>from jail?

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<v Speaker 4>Let me I got let that download?

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<v Speaker 2>Just give one second?

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<v Speaker 4>Will let you finish? I'm gonna let you finish. That

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<v Speaker 4>is a wild fucking take.

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to debate you on this.

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<v Speaker 4>Believe that shit that you just said.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, and I know we met today, but I've

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<v Speaker 5>known you for years. We know each other, but I've

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<v Speaker 5>known you for years.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a.

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<v Speaker 3>One percent of men, let's just say even five percent

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<v Speaker 3>of men in this country. Let me sit up, have

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<v Speaker 3>bread enough to where it's just like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>this is something to gag over. Black women are making

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<v Speaker 3>money way higher rates than men. Higher education in men

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<v Speaker 3>not mentioned entrepreneurs. These women are staying with men just

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<v Speaker 3>to say they have a man. They are not staying

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<v Speaker 3>with men because they're going to dinner and being slowed

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<v Speaker 3>on private jets.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not the case.

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<v Speaker 3>These girls want access, they want time, they want to

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<v Speaker 3>keep the fucking photos on the grade glories.

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<v Speaker 2>Of women that you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm talking about if I'm doing I'm doing better, and

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<v Speaker 5>then she is benefiting off of what I have.

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<v Speaker 2>She's more likely to stay if I step.

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<v Speaker 1>Out in that instance. But there's not many of those

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<v Speaker 1>only instance.

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<v Speaker 3>I just say, Okay, I'm just saying there's less of

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<v Speaker 3>those instances than the others.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you're talking about that, then yes, I agree

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<v Speaker 4>with you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's what I'm talking When she got her own ship,

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<v Speaker 5>you don't have to put up with that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually no, if she has the own ship, she's still

0:27:17.960 --> 0:27:18.399
<v Speaker 1>staying with that.

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<v Speaker 5>Fuck yeah, but how long you've been I mean yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>well look, I mean yeah, well yes, I mean but

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<v Speaker 5>but that is Look, there's always what do people call it?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's that's the no, that's stock syndrome, like

0:27:30.040 --> 0:27:31.040
<v Speaker 5>it's the it's the.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, see now you flustered? What No, all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to say is I just think the trope

0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:45.480
<v Speaker 1>of women get ran over by men with money.

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<v Speaker 5>Exception, not the rule that like there is an exception

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<v Speaker 5>to the rule, and a lot of times it's that

0:27:50.560 --> 0:27:52.760
<v Speaker 5>those are the people that will stick stick around, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>because like some people just go, I don't want to

0:27:54.760 --> 0:27:56.320
<v Speaker 5>get back out there. I'll deal with this because I

0:27:56.320 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 5>don't want to go through this again. I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to go up to New Dennis to take somebody against

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<v Speaker 5>some side puss and know when I go to the

0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:05.240
<v Speaker 5>bathroom he gonna order the bruss sprouts like somebody rather

0:28:05.280 --> 0:28:08.159
<v Speaker 5>than stick with that then to go, I'm not doing

0:28:08.240 --> 0:28:09.080
<v Speaker 5>this over again.

0:28:09.440 --> 0:28:11.360
<v Speaker 1>It's just we're not seeing many scenarios.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's just the Instagram highlight big the thing

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:17.119
<v Speaker 3>we're talking about on Twitter, to see girls being with

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:18.280
<v Speaker 3>rich men the cheat.

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:20.440
<v Speaker 2>But in reality it's to everyday dude.

0:28:20.480 --> 0:28:22.720
<v Speaker 5>It's a girl who saying, got they ship together, don't

0:28:22.720 --> 0:28:23.920
<v Speaker 5>put their shit on Instagram?

0:28:24.160 --> 0:28:27.159
<v Speaker 3>Who people have got their shit together? Still staying though, Okay,

0:28:27.800 --> 0:28:28.800
<v Speaker 3>I really think.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what they're supposed to do.

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:31.800
<v Speaker 2>They're supposed to stay through cheating.

0:28:31.920 --> 0:28:33.040
<v Speaker 4>They're supposed to stay together.

0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:38.000
<v Speaker 1>No no, wait, wait, wait, no matter how no other

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:38.800
<v Speaker 1>partners up?

0:28:39.000 --> 0:28:41.440
<v Speaker 4>If no, no, And that's how you negotiate.

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<v Speaker 5>If you negotiate, I'm cool with you stepping out or

0:28:43.600 --> 0:28:44.720
<v Speaker 5>it ain't that big a deal to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>As much as I don't want to check the cheat

0:28:46.960 --> 0:28:49.560
<v Speaker 5>on me, I'd rather look, I'd rather I'd rather like,

0:28:49.880 --> 0:28:53.000
<v Speaker 5>don't watch Paradise without me. Oh that means if you

0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.040
<v Speaker 5>if you're out of town and look, hey man, some

0:28:55.120 --> 0:28:57.280
<v Speaker 5>charming dudes out there. If you fuck around and get

0:28:57.320 --> 0:28:59.760
<v Speaker 5>some but you watch you show, we're gonna have a problem.

0:28:59.800 --> 0:29:02.560
<v Speaker 5>That's our thing. Okay, you know I don't want it

0:29:02.600 --> 0:29:04.760
<v Speaker 5>to have it, but we can. We can talk about

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:05.200
<v Speaker 5>you have.

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<v Speaker 1>Those conversations as well, like like you know, well do

0:29:09.440 --> 0:29:12.280
<v Speaker 1>you have like do you have deal breakers? Here's the

0:29:12.320 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 1>thing I think that women out up front say they

0:29:15.600 --> 0:29:19.720
<v Speaker 1>have these deal breakers like cheating, and then once he

0:29:19.880 --> 0:29:22.560
<v Speaker 1>cheats and you stay, all of those deal breakers are

0:29:22.560 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 1>now thrown out the window because now he doesn't believe

0:29:25.040 --> 0:29:26.560
<v Speaker 1>that you really have any deal breakers.

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<v Speaker 2>How did you find out he cheated?

0:29:29.040 --> 0:29:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Wait, I'm asking.

0:29:33.360 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to hate men to say I don't

0:29:35.320 --> 0:29:36.640
<v Speaker 3>want to hate light skin man.

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:40.640
<v Speaker 4>How did you find out? What is that asked the question.

0:29:40.480 --> 0:29:43.080
<v Speaker 3>You know, because this is what he's gonna say. Was

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:45.680
<v Speaker 3>it disrespectful? Did she come to you as a woman?

0:29:45.800 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:29:45.800 --> 0:29:49.200
<v Speaker 2>No, no, do you go through my phone?

0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:49.680
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:29:49.920 --> 0:29:52.960
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no, no, you asked that. I didn't ask them.

0:29:53.280 --> 0:29:55.560
<v Speaker 3>He's gonna say there's a disrespectful cheating. Did he take

0:29:55.560 --> 0:29:56.840
<v Speaker 3>her out? Did other people find out?

0:29:56.840 --> 0:29:58.520
<v Speaker 5>And that was about to say no, because if you

0:29:58.600 --> 0:30:00.800
<v Speaker 5>like you fucked the around, you was out of town,

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:02.800
<v Speaker 5>you hooked up with your ex, and I told you

0:30:02.800 --> 0:30:05.040
<v Speaker 5>about y'all fucked around, got drunk, hooked up with my ex.

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:06.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm letting you know up top.

0:30:06.920 --> 0:30:08.520
<v Speaker 4>Or is this a thing where you invaded?

0:30:09.360 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 3>No?

0:30:10.440 --> 0:30:11.240
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I made it?

0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:12.560
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck? Who cares?

0:30:13.400 --> 0:30:13.520
<v Speaker 2>Who?

0:30:14.160 --> 0:30:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Who care?

0:30:14.960 --> 0:30:15.760
<v Speaker 2>Let me go through my ship.

0:30:17.200 --> 0:30:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I'll have you.

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:19.680
<v Speaker 5>I'll rather you find out I'm cheating. Final I got

0:30:19.680 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 5>a secret bank account, which I do.

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:23.280
<v Speaker 1>It ain't a secret.

0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:25.720
<v Speaker 3>No, but so you actually the X would be a

0:30:25.760 --> 0:30:29.240
<v Speaker 3>deal breaker for me. Oh but but you say that

0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:31.240
<v Speaker 3>my ex but not random?

0:30:31.600 --> 0:30:31.760
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:30:32.160 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh, an ex would kill and ex would kill you.

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:39.040
<v Speaker 3>My partner and I've talked about this, so being there

0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:41.280
<v Speaker 3>were ethically non monogamous we've had to talk about like

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 3>who would be Okay, and a very hard note for me.

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 3>Women you said I love you two women you were

0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:49.680
<v Speaker 3>really seriously dating. Like if there was a bitch that

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:50.800
<v Speaker 3>wanted to be with you, you.

0:30:50.760 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Can't fund that house.

0:30:51.720 --> 0:30:53.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean, yeah, that'd get that. Give me you know

0:30:53.960 --> 0:30:54.360
<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying.

0:30:54.400 --> 0:30:56.680
<v Speaker 3>Like now, if you went out there every day people

0:30:56.720 --> 0:30:58.600
<v Speaker 3>and there was something every day you got a little.

0:30:58.320 --> 0:31:00.080
<v Speaker 1>Waistbeed John, I get it.

0:31:00.280 --> 0:31:02.040
<v Speaker 3>But you ain't about to go oh wow, out of

0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:04.120
<v Speaker 3>all the bitches in this world and you fucked your.

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:05.920
<v Speaker 2>Ex, are you fucking high?

0:31:06.240 --> 0:31:06.400
<v Speaker 3>No?

0:31:06.480 --> 0:31:07.640
<v Speaker 2>I feel safe over there.

0:31:09.280 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah that's the problem.

0:31:10.440 --> 0:31:13.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, No, I don't mean that some devil's advocate,

0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:15.240
<v Speaker 2>but I understand.

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:17.120
<v Speaker 5>It's a good scenario. I'm just saying that's a scenario

0:31:17.160 --> 0:31:18.280
<v Speaker 5>throughout No, because you know what.

0:31:18.280 --> 0:31:20.960
<v Speaker 1>It is, you miss that pussy. That's the problem.

0:31:21.240 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 3>New pussy's supposed to be better than any pussy, and

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 3>you fucking took the opportunity to go into some pussy.

0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:30.080
<v Speaker 1>You know they are they able to communicate at all?

0:31:30.600 --> 0:31:34.080
<v Speaker 4>Oh, my partner in his exes like, no, I don't

0:31:34.120 --> 0:31:34.400
<v Speaker 4>like that.

0:31:34.560 --> 0:31:35.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't like that.

0:31:35.320 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 5>I mean, I think if you if because I'm a

0:31:37.160 --> 0:31:39.920
<v Speaker 5>monogamous person. But if you if you are dealing in monogamy,

0:31:39.920 --> 0:31:41.160
<v Speaker 5>I think you should get rid of the number, like

0:31:41.160 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 5>we should. I don't even want I don't put myself

0:31:43.080 --> 0:31:44.400
<v Speaker 5>in a situation too fuck that up.

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 1>It's so crazy because I just had an incident. Uh,

0:31:48.160 --> 0:31:50.920
<v Speaker 1>and my partner was so shocked. I didn't get upset

0:31:51.000 --> 0:31:54.240
<v Speaker 1>about it. Basically, Uh, he ordered a shirt that you

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>really need. They're mature of him, by the way, No,

0:31:56.600 --> 0:31:59.080
<v Speaker 1>don't do that. We're not going to do that. We're

0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:01.760
<v Speaker 1>not going to do that. He's British, so of course

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 1>he's mature. Oh my god.

0:32:03.040 --> 0:32:05.120
<v Speaker 2>So he's like, really thirty five. So he drink tea,

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:06.520
<v Speaker 2>and shit, don't do that.

0:32:06.720 --> 0:32:10.360
<v Speaker 4>Don't do that, tea drinker, go ahead.

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:12.360
<v Speaker 2>Young tea drinks crazy.

0:32:12.720 --> 0:32:16.400
<v Speaker 1>But basically, he ordered something and it went to the

0:32:16.480 --> 0:32:20.680
<v Speaker 1>ex's address, and the ex was like, I just got something,

0:32:21.040 --> 0:32:23.280
<v Speaker 1>do you need it? And he actually needed it the

0:32:23.280 --> 0:32:27.719
<v Speaker 1>next day and she came and brought it over and

0:32:27.760 --> 0:32:29.720
<v Speaker 1>his friend was there and was like, oh my god,

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:32.280
<v Speaker 1>I can't believe, like who you're in a relationship. Your

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:33.960
<v Speaker 1>ex came over and so we had to have a

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 1>whole conversation about it because he almost, he of course

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 1>asked my permission.

0:32:37.600 --> 0:32:39.280
<v Speaker 2>I was like, hey, you need the share. I don't

0:32:39.280 --> 0:32:42.120
<v Speaker 2>give fuck oh because and see.

0:32:41.960 --> 0:32:44.360
<v Speaker 4>See ask permission or we're just like I'm just.

0:32:44.840 --> 0:32:46.440
<v Speaker 2>He said he's I need it?

0:32:46.680 --> 0:32:49.520
<v Speaker 1>Like is that something that I guess he's used to

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 1>everything being a problem with his past relationships in terms

0:32:52.560 --> 0:32:54.680
<v Speaker 1>of women, And for me, I was like, maybe you

0:32:54.680 --> 0:32:56.240
<v Speaker 1>need it. I don't care if you're X game. So

0:32:56.400 --> 0:32:58.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like, did she suck your dick and drop the

0:32:58.520 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 1>shirt off? If that didn't happen out give a fun

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:02.880
<v Speaker 1>get your ship, oh.

0:33:02.720 --> 0:33:06.720
<v Speaker 3>Because Uber has this package and it's significantly less than

0:33:06.880 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 3>when you're in a regular Uber and I would gladly

0:33:09.400 --> 0:33:09.719
<v Speaker 3>call it.

0:33:09.800 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 4>I would I would have.

0:33:10.720 --> 0:33:14.920
<v Speaker 1>Like, makes you half way, or I would tell you

0:33:15.040 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 1>all right now, sorry for interrupting you.

0:33:17.840 --> 0:33:20.480
<v Speaker 3>Ex call me Tom and said, I got a shirt

0:33:20.520 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 3>over there. If I won't, I'm gonna drop it off.

0:33:25.080 --> 0:33:27.240
<v Speaker 3>If I want that nigga to see me, I'm gonna

0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:28.520
<v Speaker 3>go out my way to drop it off.

0:33:28.600 --> 0:33:29.520
<v Speaker 1>Am I line right now.

0:33:31.200 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 5>I hear you. I hear you, and you're not wrong.

0:33:35.040 --> 0:33:37.640
<v Speaker 5>Did they just break up because like they weren't working. Yeah,

0:33:37.720 --> 0:33:39.920
<v Speaker 5>it was a few years ago, but it's like like

0:33:39.960 --> 0:33:43.000
<v Speaker 5>it just don't work. Yeah, I'm fine with that that.

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:47.800
<v Speaker 2>I don't think there's any desire for them to be together.

0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:50.240
<v Speaker 5>If two people go, you know what, we tried, this

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:51.920
<v Speaker 5>ship don't work.

0:33:53.160 --> 0:33:56.480
<v Speaker 2>That don't matter to me. You can Hey, now now.

0:33:56.320 --> 0:33:59.680
<v Speaker 1>We are dissecting, it matters how you break. That's the weather.

0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:00.920
<v Speaker 1>As an ex you.

0:34:00.920 --> 0:34:01.560
<v Speaker 2>Could come around.

0:34:01.680 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 1>He started it cheat.

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:06.479
<v Speaker 2>That is crazy.

0:34:06.880 --> 0:34:08.440
<v Speaker 1>Wait, let me ask you this question, because we had

0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:10.759
<v Speaker 1>a debate off camera when we were recording the other day.

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:14.520
<v Speaker 1>Do you believe once a cheater, always a cheater. Uh No,

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:15.759
<v Speaker 1>you don't believe that.

0:34:16.960 --> 0:34:20.239
<v Speaker 5>I think a former cheater can as long as you

0:34:20.280 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 5>know how you got yourself in them positions, you can.

0:34:23.080 --> 0:34:25.359
<v Speaker 2>You can. You can be the bitch over that's how

0:34:25.360 --> 0:34:26.280
<v Speaker 2>they got in the position.

0:34:28.080 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Like, that's your free no.

0:34:31.680 --> 0:34:34.000
<v Speaker 5>To put yourself in that circumstance if you can, if

0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:36.160
<v Speaker 5>you know, if you know how you got yourself there

0:34:36.320 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 5>in that circumstance, you can avoid that.

0:34:38.560 --> 0:34:41.120
<v Speaker 4>So I mean, look, man, I've cheated. I don't cheat

0:34:41.160 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 4>no more and I haven't in years.

0:34:42.800 --> 0:34:44.920
<v Speaker 5>But I go, but I don't trust myself if I

0:34:44.960 --> 0:34:47.400
<v Speaker 5>go to this place, stay here too long, be around,

0:34:47.400 --> 0:34:50.319
<v Speaker 5>Who's going to be there, so like I'm back out going. Nah,

0:34:50.360 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 5>I don't even want to think that this might be

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:54.239
<v Speaker 5>an issue, Like I might be having some tequila that night.

0:34:54.400 --> 0:34:56.520
<v Speaker 5>You give me that look, ago, I can't take that look.

0:34:56.560 --> 0:34:58.200
<v Speaker 5>That look got me in the first place, so I'd

0:34:58.239 --> 0:34:58.839
<v Speaker 5>rather not go.

0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:01.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Damn I disagree.

0:35:01.640 --> 0:35:05.720
<v Speaker 1>So I mean yeah, like for me, I think right now,

0:35:06.239 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 1>but now you're not cheap.

0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:10.040
<v Speaker 4>I always think about it.

0:35:10.200 --> 0:35:12.040
<v Speaker 1>You always think about it. It is so honest, and

0:35:12.080 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that.

0:35:15.080 --> 0:35:17.880
<v Speaker 5>You'll never go. You'll never I don't care how monogamous

0:35:17.920 --> 0:35:21.319
<v Speaker 5>you are. You will never go ooh. That would be

0:35:21.440 --> 0:35:25.920
<v Speaker 5>lovely to take down, it would I don't you don't

0:35:25.920 --> 0:35:27.960
<v Speaker 5>shoot your shot, but you go ooh ooh if I

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:28.680
<v Speaker 5>was still.

0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:30.080
<v Speaker 3>Now you know why I think this is such a

0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:34.160
<v Speaker 3>healthy thing to hear because a conversation I was having

0:35:34.200 --> 0:35:36.799
<v Speaker 3>with my partner, like he was like, I feel like

0:35:36.960 --> 0:35:40.319
<v Speaker 3>when people make comments about what we're doing, they don't

0:35:40.320 --> 0:35:44.480
<v Speaker 3>realize how much we talk, how much conversation is surrounding

0:35:44.920 --> 0:35:48.160
<v Speaker 3>our relationship, not to mention how much we talk about

0:35:48.239 --> 0:35:51.520
<v Speaker 3>things that's in a head, Like I'm telling you I'm

0:35:51.520 --> 0:35:53.839
<v Speaker 3>thinking about fucking someone or I'm telling you when women

0:35:53.880 --> 0:35:56.719
<v Speaker 3>are walking by, like we're sharing this together, right. Do

0:35:56.719 --> 0:35:58.920
<v Speaker 3>you know how many times in a monogamous relationship you

0:35:59.040 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 3>just shut the fucking share it. There was a video

0:36:01.239 --> 0:36:04.120
<v Speaker 3>going around, and it'll make someone feel invalidated, Like a

0:36:04.120 --> 0:36:05.759
<v Speaker 3>lot of women would feel.

0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:07.960
<v Speaker 2>Like why open that? Motherfucker? Is?

0:36:08.239 --> 0:36:09.880
<v Speaker 1>Uh, yeah, why open if you monogamous?

0:36:09.920 --> 0:36:10.319
<v Speaker 4>Now, buddy?

0:36:10.360 --> 0:36:11.080
<v Speaker 2>He no, no.

0:36:11.239 --> 0:36:13.520
<v Speaker 3>But what I'm saying is like, just to know you

0:36:13.520 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 3>have the thought, there's a woman that could hear her

0:36:15.960 --> 0:36:18.200
<v Speaker 3>man say that and be like, oh he hates me.

0:36:18.280 --> 0:36:18.759
<v Speaker 2>I'm ugly.

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 1>I think there's a lot I'm not actually feel away

0:36:22.320 --> 0:36:25.279
<v Speaker 1>and getting your Everyone's entitled to feel how they want, yeah,

0:36:25.320 --> 0:36:27.000
<v Speaker 1>but a lot of I don't think a lot of

0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:29.440
<v Speaker 1>men are able to admit what you just admitted, even

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:34.440
<v Speaker 1>to their partner, Like I think just even saying that

0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:38.640
<v Speaker 1>it crosses your mind to possibly like the idea of

0:36:38.680 --> 0:36:41.400
<v Speaker 1>being with another woman would bother a partner.

0:36:41.440 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 4>That's I mean, you can't stop the imagination. Whyle A'm

0:36:43.640 --> 0:36:44.240
<v Speaker 4>I hoted.

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:47.480
<v Speaker 5>Ooh okay, now what if your partner's dold you there?

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 5>And I don't think it's attached to fantasy. I just

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:53.000
<v Speaker 5>think going, oh, man, I bet you've given that mind.

0:36:53.120 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 5>If I'm single and I was had the opportunity, I

0:36:55.960 --> 0:36:58.719
<v Speaker 5>bet you I could pull that and in twenty four

0:36:58.760 --> 0:37:00.399
<v Speaker 5>forty dollars, I could be Horrizon word.

0:37:00.600 --> 0:37:02.560
<v Speaker 4>I bet you I could. But that's it.

0:37:03.040 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 5>I think everybody you don't see nobody when you out

0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:06.800
<v Speaker 5>by yourself being like, Oh.

0:37:07.120 --> 0:37:09.799
<v Speaker 4>If I was in, I could, I could, I could

0:37:09.840 --> 0:37:10.359
<v Speaker 4>knock that out.

0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:12.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's rocket scroll.

0:37:13.040 --> 0:37:16.080
<v Speaker 3>Fuck being outside, I'll scroll on the motherfucking phone.

0:37:16.160 --> 0:37:19.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm like, I can knock, which is also a problem.

0:37:19.480 --> 0:37:21.919
<v Speaker 2>Shit, yeah, that's the biggest problem. But I was gonna

0:37:21.920 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 2>ask you scroll.

0:37:22.840 --> 0:37:25.160
<v Speaker 3>So if we said that women would feel away, I

0:37:25.200 --> 0:37:29.080
<v Speaker 3>really think men would die if they heard their girl

0:37:29.200 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 3>say I see men every day constantly think about what

0:37:32.280 --> 0:37:34.319
<v Speaker 3>I would do to do like, I really think men

0:37:34.360 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 3>couldn't handle that.

0:37:35.200 --> 0:37:39.400
<v Speaker 5>Bo that's a step further though, Oh that's the same step.

0:37:39.440 --> 0:37:41.080
<v Speaker 5>That's not the same step you said.

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:42.480
<v Speaker 2>I constantly think I.

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:45.560
<v Speaker 5>Get yours was the action word you gave verbs, not

0:37:45.719 --> 0:37:50.160
<v Speaker 5>you gave. I didn't give verbs. You you out here

0:37:50.239 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 5>like like like you on the line, and the fucking

0:37:53.040 --> 0:37:55.000
<v Speaker 5>gun went off, like, oh, if I'm getting to the race. No,

0:37:55.320 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 5>I'm talking about just looking being like that motherfucker's attractive. Well,

0:38:00.520 --> 0:38:02.480
<v Speaker 5>I bet you we'd have some good sex, and then

0:38:02.520 --> 0:38:04.839
<v Speaker 5>you go and get by the rest of your growth.

0:38:04.960 --> 0:38:07.040
<v Speaker 3>I bet you we'd have some good sex. I'm my gosh,

0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 3>I bet you we'd have some good sex.

0:38:08.840 --> 0:38:09.600
<v Speaker 2>I bet you know.

0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:11.440
<v Speaker 5>I'll bet you out there that motherfuck right there as

0:38:11.440 --> 0:38:14.480
<v Speaker 5>fine as fuck. And let me not even look over

0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:15.040
<v Speaker 5>there too long.

0:38:21.480 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 1>I can. I say that it has to be this

0:38:24.200 --> 0:38:27.080
<v Speaker 1>has to be the easiest role that you have ever had,

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:28.680
<v Speaker 1>because very simpler.

0:38:29.600 --> 0:38:33.439
<v Speaker 4>Oh yes me, I'm not gonna hold you.

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:37.799
<v Speaker 2>Was watching UH season one and there was a scene and.

0:38:37.760 --> 0:38:39.000
<v Speaker 1>I kind of wanted to bring it up because I

0:38:39.040 --> 0:38:41.040
<v Speaker 1>want to know how this happens there. If we could

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:43.440
<v Speaker 1>talk about men, we talk about with women, how we

0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:46.680
<v Speaker 1>get into situationships. We were having sex casually, and as

0:38:46.719 --> 0:38:50.640
<v Speaker 1>women we always end up catching feelings. Season one, episode four,

0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:55.200
<v Speaker 1>You've been having sex, sleeping with this woman, and as

0:38:55.200 --> 0:38:57.040
<v Speaker 1>a man, you realize, damn you like her, and you

0:38:57.040 --> 0:39:00.640
<v Speaker 1>don't your homegirls had to tell you, oh, you like

0:39:00.680 --> 0:39:04.160
<v Speaker 1>this bitch. How often does that happen for men to

0:39:04.320 --> 0:39:07.319
<v Speaker 1>catch feelings in a casual situationship with a woman?

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:07.719
<v Speaker 5>Uh?

0:39:08.320 --> 0:39:10.280
<v Speaker 4>I think that question. I canna only answer for myself.

0:39:10.360 --> 0:39:11.520
<v Speaker 4>But has it happened?

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:11.920
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:14.759
<v Speaker 5>Okay, but yeah, it starts off sex first, and then

0:39:14.960 --> 0:39:16.439
<v Speaker 5>you go, oh, man, I think I want to see

0:39:16.520 --> 0:39:17.959
<v Speaker 5>if I like eating with you, if I like hanging

0:39:18.040 --> 0:39:20.239
<v Speaker 5>with you. It starts off as just sex, and then

0:39:20.280 --> 0:39:23.920
<v Speaker 5>you go, I don't really want you leave, so I'll

0:39:23.960 --> 0:39:24.960
<v Speaker 5>there's steps to it.

0:39:25.200 --> 0:39:28.319
<v Speaker 1>Give us the steps, just as for the ladies, just

0:39:28.360 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 1>so that maybe they're not confused, because men have a

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:32.719
<v Speaker 1>hard time saying that they like you. So if you're

0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:38.760
<v Speaker 1>just in a casual situationship fuck buddy situation, the man

0:39:39.120 --> 0:39:42.560
<v Speaker 1>leading may start to like you if he's asking you

0:39:42.600 --> 0:39:43.200
<v Speaker 1>to spend the night.

0:39:43.480 --> 0:39:47.520
<v Speaker 5>We can put this at the first it's been years. Okay,

0:39:48.000 --> 0:39:50.680
<v Speaker 5>it's been a while. It's been a while, but I

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:52.719
<v Speaker 5>guess my move used to be, all right, we hook

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:55.520
<v Speaker 5>up and then you eventually you can stay.

0:39:56.040 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 1>Eventually you could stay, right, you mean eventually after a

0:39:59.080 --> 0:40:00.520
<v Speaker 1>few times we both, yeah, you can?

0:40:00.560 --> 0:40:01.480
<v Speaker 4>You can?

0:40:00.880 --> 0:40:02.359
<v Speaker 2>You having sex?

0:40:03.000 --> 0:40:05.319
<v Speaker 1>Not the first time, probably not the first time.

0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:09.839
<v Speaker 3>How do you politely tell someone they can't stay right after?

0:40:09.880 --> 0:40:11.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't let you in my game?

0:40:11.160 --> 0:40:12.719
<v Speaker 4>Well, one, you don't bite them in your house you

0:40:12.760 --> 0:40:13.319
<v Speaker 4>go to the house.

0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:18.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh, I hate niggas. My nigga told me that's the trick. Damn.

0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:19.239
<v Speaker 2>I thought.

0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I like just being able to tell a nigga by

0:40:22.760 --> 0:40:24.760
<v Speaker 1>and I don't have to move. But you know that's

0:40:24.840 --> 0:40:25.880
<v Speaker 1>really you only.

0:40:25.719 --> 0:40:26.960
<v Speaker 4>Come to mind if you got a roommate.

0:40:28.160 --> 0:40:35.279
<v Speaker 1>What why's that matter? Not he's saying you don't want

0:40:35.520 --> 0:40:37.919
<v Speaker 1>no roommate. Hearing him slapping cheeks.

0:40:38.400 --> 0:40:41.880
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I got I don't need if when they got company.

0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:43.880
<v Speaker 5>I'm not dealing with this whole. I'm walking when I

0:40:43.920 --> 0:40:44.880
<v Speaker 5>go to the kitchen in the middle of.

0:40:45.480 --> 0:40:48.040
<v Speaker 1>Rock to brief to boxing. You know what's crazy. When

0:40:48.080 --> 0:40:49.919
<v Speaker 1>I did have roommates, that used to be a thing.

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:51.600
<v Speaker 1>We'd have niggas over at the same time.

0:40:52.719 --> 0:40:55.520
<v Speaker 4>If you are when you're youngest, what happens.

0:40:55.560 --> 0:40:58.319
<v Speaker 1>But if you well and your this was in my twenties. Yeah,

0:40:58.360 --> 0:41:00.239
<v Speaker 1>I remember having a man come over and he'd have

0:41:00.360 --> 0:41:01.200
<v Speaker 1>to what's up?

0:41:01.239 --> 0:41:01.479
<v Speaker 2>Bruh.

0:41:01.640 --> 0:41:04.239
<v Speaker 3>So the nigga on the couch and that that can

0:41:04.360 --> 0:41:05.920
<v Speaker 3>be not talking two.

0:41:05.800 --> 0:41:08.839
<v Speaker 5>Os, Oh my god, it's I'm not I'm not doing it.

0:41:08.960 --> 0:41:10.960
<v Speaker 5>I'm especially if y'all sharing a wall. If the if

0:41:10.960 --> 0:41:12.080
<v Speaker 5>they're not playing.

0:41:11.960 --> 0:41:14.200
<v Speaker 1>Is awkward, is this a two.

0:41:14.840 --> 0:41:17.480
<v Speaker 4>I want to we're floor playing, sharing walls.

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:19.759
<v Speaker 1>You need to see the floor plan before you go.

0:41:19.920 --> 0:41:21.960
<v Speaker 4>You know what diagram that's out for me.

0:41:23.719 --> 0:41:23.919
<v Speaker 1>Now.

0:41:24.280 --> 0:41:27.279
<v Speaker 3>I've always like heard some men say so most of

0:41:27.320 --> 0:41:29.120
<v Speaker 3>my male friends are now in their forties and the

0:41:29.120 --> 0:41:31.160
<v Speaker 3>one or late thirties for the ones who are single,

0:41:31.960 --> 0:41:34.720
<v Speaker 3>and they'll say things to me once in a blue

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:37.880
<v Speaker 3>about how they went to a woman's house to impress them, like, damn,

0:41:37.920 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 3>she was doing this, she's cooking for me, her spot

0:41:40.120 --> 0:41:42.960
<v Speaker 3>was nice. Did you ever find the like, go into

0:41:42.960 --> 0:41:45.600
<v Speaker 3>a woman's house made you actually want to sleep over?

0:41:45.880 --> 0:41:48.880
<v Speaker 3>Has a woman ever got you so cozy and fucking for?

0:41:49.120 --> 0:41:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Absolutely? Yeah?

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:52.040
<v Speaker 1>How do we trick them?

0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:52.920
<v Speaker 4>That's not how?

0:41:54.000 --> 0:41:55.279
<v Speaker 2>What are the things that you look for?

0:41:55.520 --> 0:41:59.120
<v Speaker 5>I mean just like the organization that the tidiness, a

0:41:59.239 --> 0:42:04.560
<v Speaker 5>nice fool free You've got good pots and pants. You

0:42:04.719 --> 0:42:07.040
<v Speaker 5>you got spatulors that ain't got the little plastics you

0:42:07.080 --> 0:42:08.960
<v Speaker 5>ca hang off because you the hadis in college you

0:42:09.040 --> 0:42:11.719
<v Speaker 5>got you know, you got ceramic cook wear instead of

0:42:11.880 --> 0:42:14.200
<v Speaker 5>uh teflon some ship you got from big life.

0:42:14.280 --> 0:42:16.840
<v Speaker 3>You know what you're making anything you ever started? Stop

0:42:18.360 --> 0:42:20.200
<v Speaker 3>not want to cut someone off because there was cooking.

0:42:20.480 --> 0:42:21.239
<v Speaker 4>They keep doing it to me.

0:42:21.960 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 2>No cutting someone off like a.

0:42:26.520 --> 0:42:27.200
<v Speaker 1>Cutting you off?

0:42:27.760 --> 0:42:28.480
<v Speaker 4>No, no, go ahead.

0:42:28.520 --> 0:42:31.000
<v Speaker 3>Oh, I mean like you know, when someone's cooking so

0:42:31.080 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 3>good or the pussy too good. Has there ever been

0:42:33.080 --> 0:42:36.400
<v Speaker 3>something that's kept you in the relationship longer because the

0:42:36.440 --> 0:42:37.240
<v Speaker 3>woman was doing.

0:42:37.040 --> 0:42:37.600
<v Speaker 1>It so right?

0:42:38.440 --> 0:42:39.360
<v Speaker 2>Uh?

0:42:39.440 --> 0:42:43.959
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, usually only those things without other time, like because

0:42:44.000 --> 0:42:45.440
<v Speaker 5>you really got to get bored with somebody to.

0:42:45.440 --> 0:42:48.480
<v Speaker 2>See if y'all gonna rock. It's easy.

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:51.719
<v Speaker 5>It's easy to go out, it's easy to have it's

0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:53.760
<v Speaker 5>easy to fuck, it's easy to find food, it's easy

0:42:53.760 --> 0:42:56.200
<v Speaker 5>to to to go to a concert when you got

0:42:56.200 --> 0:42:58.360
<v Speaker 5>other distractions. That's easy to have a good time with somebody.

0:42:58.480 --> 0:43:01.120
<v Speaker 5>That's it's time to be bored when you when you're

0:43:01.120 --> 0:43:03.360
<v Speaker 5>sitting at the house being like, cool, you got a show,

0:43:03.480 --> 0:43:04.080
<v Speaker 5>I got a show.

0:43:04.120 --> 0:43:04.839
<v Speaker 4>We got our show.

0:43:04.960 --> 0:43:06.960
<v Speaker 5>And then when you can spend a weekend from Friday

0:43:07.040 --> 0:43:09.040
<v Speaker 5>to probably Monday, and.

0:43:09.040 --> 0:43:10.160
<v Speaker 4>You go, oh, how do we?

0:43:10.600 --> 0:43:10.960
<v Speaker 2>How do we?

0:43:11.080 --> 0:43:12.719
<v Speaker 4>How does this dance go? With both of us?

0:43:12.719 --> 0:43:12.879
<v Speaker 1>Here?

0:43:13.040 --> 0:43:14.640
<v Speaker 2>Got tell any couple, And I mean, you know, I'm

0:43:14.640 --> 0:43:15.440
<v Speaker 2>a street therapist.

0:43:16.800 --> 0:43:18.759
<v Speaker 5>I tell I tell any couple, like if especially if

0:43:18.800 --> 0:43:21.080
<v Speaker 5>it's long distance, like start out slow, start out, and.

0:43:21.719 --> 0:43:22.640
<v Speaker 1>What I'm doing right now.

0:43:22.680 --> 0:43:25.000
<v Speaker 5>Take three to four days and then you go, boom,

0:43:25.000 --> 0:43:27.239
<v Speaker 5>We're going from the Thursday to a Monday, and the

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:29.439
<v Speaker 5>next trip like maybe we'll maybe we'll do five or six,

0:43:29.520 --> 0:43:30.320
<v Speaker 5>maybe seven.

0:43:30.160 --> 0:43:30.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:43:31.080 --> 0:43:31.520
<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

0:43:31.920 --> 0:43:33.440
<v Speaker 4>I'm saying you have to graduate to that.

0:43:33.560 --> 0:43:36.200
<v Speaker 1>And that's where so my part in right now is

0:43:36.280 --> 0:43:39.279
<v Speaker 1>like trying to sneak in five by coming in like

0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:40.400
<v Speaker 1>a day like.

0:43:40.920 --> 0:43:43.200
<v Speaker 2>But but to me, you get there, he would.

0:43:43.080 --> 0:43:45.239
<v Speaker 1>Want to spend more time, and for me, I'm the same.

0:43:45.280 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 1>I would like to gradually do that, but not maybe

0:43:48.680 --> 0:43:50.520
<v Speaker 1>more than four because I also need space.

0:43:50.920 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 4>But that's if he busy.

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:53.600
<v Speaker 5>If he coming just to see you, he got nothing

0:43:53.600 --> 0:43:55.359
<v Speaker 5>else going on, that means you gotta make time for him.

0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:56.799
<v Speaker 5>But if he come in town, you got shit to do.

0:43:57.040 --> 0:44:01.080
<v Speaker 5>Six days don't seem like in Atlanta, that's then that yeah,

0:44:01.160 --> 0:44:01.960
<v Speaker 5>that's an issue.

0:44:02.360 --> 0:44:02.520
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:44:02.680 --> 0:44:04.000
<v Speaker 4>It's like if i'm you.

0:44:03.960 --> 0:44:04.719
<v Speaker 1>Know, I'm getting him.

0:44:05.680 --> 0:44:07.960
<v Speaker 2>You know he already found a gym by I think he's.

0:44:08.080 --> 0:44:10.759
<v Speaker 3>Fair if he's coming to Atlanta and he doesn't have

0:44:10.800 --> 0:44:13.839
<v Speaker 3>anything to do but spend time with many.

0:44:12.680 --> 0:44:15.400
<v Speaker 5>Many treating a trip with me like it's spring break.

0:44:15.480 --> 0:44:18.000
<v Speaker 5>I have ship to do who also needs to be

0:44:19.680 --> 0:44:21.760
<v Speaker 5>right because when you go to LA you know people

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:22.400
<v Speaker 5>you guys should to do.

0:44:22.680 --> 0:44:24.520
<v Speaker 3>But he could also be doing work at home and

0:44:24.520 --> 0:44:27.000
<v Speaker 3>stuff like that. So our conversation just to give you

0:44:27.040 --> 0:44:27.440
<v Speaker 3>some back.

0:44:27.280 --> 0:44:29.000
<v Speaker 4>Story something with you make me miss you.

0:44:31.040 --> 0:44:35.440
<v Speaker 1>Being together, separate down well give.

0:44:35.320 --> 0:44:37.240
<v Speaker 4>Them that shirt everybody.

0:44:37.239 --> 0:44:39.040
<v Speaker 5>And I heard this from some other people too, but

0:44:39.040 --> 0:44:40.680
<v Speaker 5>also those are just my rules of like over the

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:43.160
<v Speaker 5>years of the twenty plus years I've been dating, how

0:44:43.200 --> 0:44:44.600
<v Speaker 5>do I get to learn somebody like you?

0:44:44.680 --> 0:44:47.040
<v Speaker 4>Better take a trip, take a road trip.

0:44:47.239 --> 0:44:48.080
<v Speaker 2>How long trip?

0:44:48.239 --> 0:44:52.280
<v Speaker 5>For at least three hours one way? Three hours one way?

0:44:53.120 --> 0:44:54.480
<v Speaker 5>Figure out because look, let me tell you something. You

0:44:54.480 --> 0:44:55.719
<v Speaker 5>know it's a big deal to me, and I don't know.

0:44:55.840 --> 0:44:57.520
<v Speaker 5>I don't know if I've heard somebody say this before

0:44:57.600 --> 0:44:59.160
<v Speaker 5>or not. Like I don't need you to drive. I've

0:44:59.200 --> 0:45:00.799
<v Speaker 5>got the driving. You can and be the DJ. You

0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:03.040
<v Speaker 5>can do the music. But also asked me what I

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:05.000
<v Speaker 5>like to listen to. Sometimes you can listen to a

0:45:05.000 --> 0:45:07.400
<v Speaker 5>podcast if you can introduce me to something. I don't know,

0:45:07.560 --> 0:45:08.960
<v Speaker 5>but I want the opportunity to do that too. But

0:45:09.000 --> 0:45:11.920
<v Speaker 5>if we stop for food, I need you to unwrap

0:45:11.960 --> 0:45:16.640
<v Speaker 5>my sandwich okay, unwrapped, give me the half and then

0:45:16.680 --> 0:45:18.560
<v Speaker 5>you put the fries and the cup holder, you hold it.

0:45:18.600 --> 0:45:20.200
<v Speaker 4>You figure out what to do with your drink. I

0:45:20.200 --> 0:45:21.719
<v Speaker 4>need my drink and the fries and.

0:45:21.640 --> 0:45:22.200
<v Speaker 2>The cup holder.

0:45:22.280 --> 0:45:24.439
<v Speaker 5>You need to coach and you and you, I mean,

0:45:24.520 --> 0:45:28.480
<v Speaker 5>if you gonna be a good partner. Interesting, I needed

0:45:28.680 --> 0:45:32.560
<v Speaker 5>goddamn good co pilot. And then when I bought that

0:45:32.640 --> 0:45:37.360
<v Speaker 5>motherfuck up you you you have your hair ready. I

0:45:37.400 --> 0:45:40.440
<v Speaker 5>got my knee on the wheel, I got my nursery

0:45:40.560 --> 0:45:42.680
<v Speaker 5>right there. I take my last bite. I put my

0:45:42.680 --> 0:45:44.359
<v Speaker 5>fucking drink down here. Take that ship.

0:45:44.480 --> 0:45:46.319
<v Speaker 1>That's such a comfortability to get to to.

0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:48.440
<v Speaker 5>When you have to plan your gas, you clean the

0:45:48.520 --> 0:45:51.080
<v Speaker 5>car out. I'm pumping gas and then I'll go to

0:45:51.080 --> 0:45:51.520
<v Speaker 5>the bathroom.

0:45:52.239 --> 0:45:55.719
<v Speaker 1>So basically, uh, fellas, if you like a bitch and

0:45:55.800 --> 0:45:58.480
<v Speaker 1>you are considering moving forward, go on a road trip.

0:45:58.920 --> 0:46:00.319
<v Speaker 1>So many would you consider.

0:46:01.560 --> 0:46:02.600
<v Speaker 4>Take a road trip?

0:46:03.840 --> 0:46:07.040
<v Speaker 5>That's for look, And I'm biased because I'm a dude.

0:46:07.760 --> 0:46:10.480
<v Speaker 5>I'm always gonna feel like I'm a dude. So I'm like,

0:46:10.840 --> 0:46:13.600
<v Speaker 5>can I I there's a girl who I thought I

0:46:13.680 --> 0:46:16.279
<v Speaker 5>was like, this should work out. I met her back

0:46:16.320 --> 0:46:19.200
<v Speaker 5>in Atlanta in like two thousand and five he's reconnected,

0:46:22.040 --> 0:46:22.719
<v Speaker 5>ain't helping.

0:46:22.760 --> 0:46:25.200
<v Speaker 4>Run even if it's even if it's not in.

0:46:27.160 --> 0:46:27.480
<v Speaker 2>Uh.

0:46:27.520 --> 0:46:30.680
<v Speaker 5>And then I was moving from Dallas to La and

0:46:30.760 --> 0:46:32.399
<v Speaker 5>so she was already living in La. So I flew

0:46:32.440 --> 0:46:34.239
<v Speaker 5>her out of being like yo's that was my thing

0:46:34.239 --> 0:46:36.240
<v Speaker 5>to be Like we have been talking. I go, maybe

0:46:36.600 --> 0:46:40.640
<v Speaker 5>helped me drive out. We got four hours in. I go,

0:46:41.040 --> 0:46:44.400
<v Speaker 5>this will never work this. I mean, you should be

0:46:44.440 --> 0:46:46.000
<v Speaker 5>able to be quiet and be fine. You should have

0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:47.920
<v Speaker 5>listened to something to be fine. You should have a

0:46:47.920 --> 0:46:49.840
<v Speaker 5>great conversation to be fine. But we ain't got to

0:46:49.920 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 5>talk six hours straight. I go, I am.

0:46:53.640 --> 0:46:55.880
<v Speaker 1>You need would up.

0:46:57.719 --> 0:47:00.279
<v Speaker 5>You need to shut the fuck up. I need to

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:03.320
<v Speaker 5>make me care about you more. You need to take

0:47:04.000 --> 0:47:05.799
<v Speaker 5>a walk, you need to do.

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 4>Take about there.

0:47:06.880 --> 0:47:09.040
<v Speaker 5>How can the backseat take a phone call, talk to

0:47:09.080 --> 0:47:09.799
<v Speaker 5>someone else.

0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:12.920
<v Speaker 2>I need some silence right now. I need it.

0:47:13.080 --> 0:47:15.280
<v Speaker 5>We have talked about it all and then you're asking

0:47:15.320 --> 0:47:17.160
<v Speaker 5>me something that you're trying to make me care about

0:47:17.160 --> 0:47:19.280
<v Speaker 5>some shit you know I don't care about that.

0:47:19.719 --> 0:47:22.000
<v Speaker 4>Like that is what you bringing up right now is

0:47:22.040 --> 0:47:23.759
<v Speaker 4>for a friend. That is not for me.

0:47:23.800 --> 0:47:25.600
<v Speaker 2>That's a homegirl conversation.

0:47:25.560 --> 0:47:28.480
<v Speaker 5>Not a homegirl conversation to shut the fuck up.

0:47:29.160 --> 0:47:32.520
<v Speaker 2>Take your partner can't have all the conversations with you.

0:47:32.600 --> 0:47:34.480
<v Speaker 4>We got a twenty two hour drive. You're gonna need

0:47:34.760 --> 0:47:35.839
<v Speaker 4>to break that ship though.

0:47:35.800 --> 0:47:37.120
<v Speaker 1>Because I'm going to kick you with my nigga.

0:47:37.239 --> 0:47:40.560
<v Speaker 5>U's a long it should happen. You should be able

0:47:40.560 --> 0:47:42.080
<v Speaker 5>to get through that. You shouldn't be able to man.

0:47:42.120 --> 0:47:43.759
<v Speaker 5>We talk strong for an hour, hour and a half.

0:47:44.000 --> 0:47:46.200
<v Speaker 5>If we listen to a podcast, we could be listening

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:49.200
<v Speaker 5>to us right now. Okay, and if you want to

0:47:49.239 --> 0:47:51.239
<v Speaker 5>talk about it, cool, let us get thirty minutes in,

0:47:51.520 --> 0:47:55.120
<v Speaker 5>pause it and then we'll have a discussion about what

0:47:54.560 --> 0:47:57.680
<v Speaker 5>what maybe me in tone just talked about. But then

0:47:57.760 --> 0:48:00.440
<v Speaker 5>and then we're gonna pick it back up. Okay, let

0:48:00.520 --> 0:48:02.600
<v Speaker 5>us have a conversation about it. But also if I

0:48:02.680 --> 0:48:04.160
<v Speaker 5>could just listen, sometimes.

0:48:03.800 --> 0:48:06.560
<v Speaker 1>I think it's crazy because we talk about chemistry and

0:48:06.600 --> 0:48:07.480
<v Speaker 1>the Belgium.

0:48:07.160 --> 0:48:11.040
<v Speaker 2>Take notes and then this is chemistry. Up, go ahead,

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:13.880
<v Speaker 2>this is chemistry. That what you're talking about. Like I

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 2>could sit and talk to my friends like my friends.

0:48:17.040 --> 0:48:18.839
<v Speaker 1>Maybe because we've also known each other and we've been

0:48:18.880 --> 0:48:21.440
<v Speaker 1>so comfortable around each other, we'll just get quiet.

0:48:21.239 --> 0:48:22.040
<v Speaker 2>Even more together.

0:48:22.360 --> 0:48:25.759
<v Speaker 1>But when you're newly dating somebody sometimes you feel like

0:48:25.840 --> 0:48:28.279
<v Speaker 1>you have to kind of okay, twenty one questions, then

0:48:28.320 --> 0:48:31.120
<v Speaker 1>what's new? Like we a few days on end? That's

0:48:31.200 --> 0:48:33.760
<v Speaker 1>like I mean, I'm talking about even for this drive,

0:48:34.160 --> 0:48:37.120
<v Speaker 1>like if it's new, Like I think that what you

0:48:37.280 --> 0:48:40.560
<v Speaker 1>just described, though, is like chemistry of being out of

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:43.120
<v Speaker 1>the bedroom and out of being intimate knowing each other

0:48:43.680 --> 0:48:44.399
<v Speaker 1>social that.

0:48:44.560 --> 0:48:47.040
<v Speaker 5>That goes back to if you hook up with somebody,

0:48:47.120 --> 0:48:50.040
<v Speaker 5>if you if you if it's casual encounter, whatever, and

0:48:50.080 --> 0:48:51.200
<v Speaker 5>then you like, how does this grow?

0:48:51.400 --> 0:48:54.120
<v Speaker 4>Like if we eventually get there? Okay, yo, why don't we?

0:48:54.160 --> 0:48:56.359
<v Speaker 5>Because I used to go this a little fishing town

0:48:56.440 --> 0:48:59.520
<v Speaker 5>or kind of beach town up past Santa Barbara. Okay,

0:48:59.560 --> 0:49:01.560
<v Speaker 5>that was kind to my getaway alone for a while.

0:49:01.600 --> 0:49:02.759
<v Speaker 5>It's like I need to get to LA but I

0:49:02.760 --> 0:49:05.839
<v Speaker 5>ain't got no road road dates for comedy. So I'm

0:49:05.840 --> 0:49:07.759
<v Speaker 5>gonna go up to this little spot and then I'm

0:49:07.800 --> 0:49:09.560
<v Speaker 5>gonna spend two nights by myself and then as a

0:49:09.600 --> 0:49:11.920
<v Speaker 5>you know, if I was eventually with somebody, I'm like,

0:49:11.920 --> 0:49:13.279
<v Speaker 5>all right, you want to go with me?

0:49:13.360 --> 0:49:13.879
<v Speaker 2>What's it called?

0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:17.080
<v Speaker 1>Give us the plug? Give it, give it, give it

0:49:17.160 --> 0:49:21.759
<v Speaker 1>to a city? Yeah, are you really gate keeping? A

0:49:21.800 --> 0:49:22.759
<v Speaker 1>whole city right now.

0:49:22.840 --> 0:49:24.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't like how your voice changed.

0:49:26.920 --> 0:49:29.439
<v Speaker 3>I was kind of crazy. It ain't like I don't

0:49:29.440 --> 0:49:32.640
<v Speaker 3>want you niggas there. It's literally follow the wall.

0:49:32.800 --> 0:49:36.399
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, give us the whole, not give us the whole.

0:49:36.920 --> 0:49:38.279
<v Speaker 1>No holds barn over here.

0:49:39.040 --> 0:49:40.239
<v Speaker 4>It's called it's called.

0:49:41.560 --> 0:49:49.000
<v Speaker 5>It's called morro Bay, Morrow, morro Bay, Morrow Bay w Hotel,

0:49:49.480 --> 0:49:52.120
<v Speaker 5>morro Bay, Okay. And also it's a nice sleepy town

0:49:52.120 --> 0:49:53.440
<v Speaker 5>where they got a couple of bars, a couple of

0:49:53.440 --> 0:49:56.280
<v Speaker 5>good restaurants whatever. But also it ain't ain't no clubs.

0:49:56.800 --> 0:49:58.280
<v Speaker 5>Can we can we take a walk?

0:49:58.320 --> 0:50:01.359
<v Speaker 2>Can we like? Do we do during the day? Can

0:50:01.400 --> 0:50:02.439
<v Speaker 2>you be nice and board?

0:50:02.520 --> 0:50:04.440
<v Speaker 5>Like we're going to go watch the seals on the

0:50:04.480 --> 0:50:07.760
<v Speaker 5>pier e Oysh's, We're going to hear the Somba jazz

0:50:07.800 --> 0:50:08.399
<v Speaker 5>band at night.

0:50:08.440 --> 0:50:11.680
<v Speaker 1>It's very just I like, can you be nice and board?

0:50:11.680 --> 0:50:14.040
<v Speaker 3>I think the most impactful thing you said today was

0:50:14.560 --> 0:50:16.880
<v Speaker 3>about the boredom, because I've said a lot of impactful

0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:21.760
<v Speaker 3>things about the most the most people will say because

0:50:21.840 --> 0:50:25.360
<v Speaker 3>a lot of us are planning when we meet somebody

0:50:25.680 --> 0:50:28.360
<v Speaker 3>and trying to like, you know, like just do it up.

0:50:28.400 --> 0:50:30.279
<v Speaker 3>If I'm gonna spend Thursday with Ma May, I gotta

0:50:30.280 --> 0:50:31.719
<v Speaker 3>figure out what I got to do. And we never

0:50:31.760 --> 0:50:33.799
<v Speaker 3>really think somebody just wants to sit with us. Can

0:50:33.840 --> 0:50:35.840
<v Speaker 3>you be back the thing that Mandy's talking about with

0:50:35.840 --> 0:50:38.480
<v Speaker 3>friendship that's built over so many years. True to be

0:50:38.520 --> 0:50:41.520
<v Speaker 3>able to sit with your friend and watch TV with partners.

0:50:41.920 --> 0:50:44.839
<v Speaker 3>You are kind of scared somebody will be bored with you.

0:50:45.040 --> 0:50:48.120
<v Speaker 5>Oh by the time you I mean, look and everybody's

0:50:48.160 --> 0:50:49.919
<v Speaker 5>healthy in their own way, like you know what rocks

0:50:49.920 --> 0:50:52.520
<v Speaker 5>for you and you know how to really people should negotiate.

0:50:52.560 --> 0:50:54.000
<v Speaker 4>This is kind of what I'm into. What I'm not,

0:50:54.400 --> 0:50:55.560
<v Speaker 4>what I need versus.

0:50:55.280 --> 0:50:57.239
<v Speaker 2>What I what I'm talking about with my faith.

0:50:57.040 --> 0:51:00.359
<v Speaker 4>That there is a difference. Look, man, my lady, I go,

0:51:00.600 --> 0:51:01.080
<v Speaker 4>I want this.

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:01.319
<v Speaker 2>I go.

0:51:01.600 --> 0:51:03.879
<v Speaker 5>I'm worried about your needs first. We'll get to you once.

0:51:03.960 --> 0:51:05.480
<v Speaker 5>If you once come up, then we'll get there. But

0:51:05.520 --> 0:51:07.080
<v Speaker 5>your needs is what I need to take care of first,

0:51:07.080 --> 0:51:10.080
<v Speaker 5>and then then we'll that'll trickle down hopefully that we

0:51:10.160 --> 0:51:12.200
<v Speaker 5>will try to get there. But I sleep in a

0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:15.080
<v Speaker 5>different bedroom maybe four or five nights. I'm in the house, okay,

0:51:15.120 --> 0:51:17.719
<v Speaker 5>but I need a wonderful night sleep. Sometimes that might be.

0:51:17.719 --> 0:51:20.880
<v Speaker 1>You that no I think that's very that might actually

0:51:20.880 --> 0:51:21.239
<v Speaker 1>be be.

0:51:21.320 --> 0:51:25.600
<v Speaker 5>In the house, but you you need might be or

0:51:25.640 --> 0:51:27.640
<v Speaker 5>I might sleep on the ca I don't know. But

0:51:27.719 --> 0:51:29.880
<v Speaker 5>my majority of time I'll get into bed, but I

0:51:29.920 --> 0:51:31.440
<v Speaker 5>need a night because sometimes I'm up till three four

0:51:31.360 --> 0:51:32.080
<v Speaker 5>o'clock in the morning.

0:51:32.080 --> 0:51:32.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm right there.

0:51:33.200 --> 0:51:35.279
<v Speaker 5>I'm in my zone and I don't want to You're

0:51:35.320 --> 0:51:36.640
<v Speaker 5>gonna get up and pee at three am.

0:51:36.640 --> 0:51:37.520
<v Speaker 4>You're gonna wake me up.

0:51:37.560 --> 0:51:37.759
<v Speaker 2>I go.

0:51:38.000 --> 0:51:41.120
<v Speaker 5>Let me just oh wow, a good nights, okay, because

0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:43.759
<v Speaker 5>I mean, like the people you know, that conversation came

0:51:43.840 --> 0:51:47.680
<v Speaker 5>up recently about people even having two different residents.

0:51:47.320 --> 0:51:47.880
<v Speaker 4>They made.

0:51:49.360 --> 0:51:51.640
<v Speaker 5>Or yeah, but I mean i've heard this like even

0:51:51.880 --> 0:51:53.600
<v Speaker 5>like somebody said it recently, like they live in the

0:51:53.640 --> 0:51:56.040
<v Speaker 5>same building but on different floors. Oh wow, but they're

0:51:56.080 --> 0:51:58.960
<v Speaker 5>they're in a committed relationship, monogamous. But I got my apartment,

0:51:58.960 --> 0:52:00.680
<v Speaker 5>you got yours, and sometimes I'm sleep over.

0:52:00.760 --> 0:52:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I love that. That's my mom and I love but

0:52:04.000 --> 0:52:04.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't.

0:52:04.280 --> 0:52:06.200
<v Speaker 4>Need to go that far. But you need to know, Hey, man, look,

0:52:06.239 --> 0:52:07.880
<v Speaker 4>i've been busy. I've been on the road two weeks.

0:52:08.400 --> 0:52:09.879
<v Speaker 4>I want to be at home and in my and.

0:52:09.800 --> 0:52:11.560
<v Speaker 2>My boyfriend's like, well, let me good work.

0:52:11.560 --> 0:52:14.279
<v Speaker 1>And I said, I'll help you find an apartment, like

0:52:14.920 --> 0:52:17.560
<v Speaker 1>you ain't moving in with me? No, no, he but

0:52:17.640 --> 0:52:20.080
<v Speaker 1>he wasn't saying that though, No, no, no, no, regardless, I

0:52:20.120 --> 0:52:22.520
<v Speaker 1>just let me know if you move to Atlanta, I

0:52:22.560 --> 0:52:25.080
<v Speaker 1>can't wait to help you find a nice dope spot

0:52:26.040 --> 0:52:27.000
<v Speaker 1>and help you decorate it.

0:52:27.120 --> 0:52:29.879
<v Speaker 4>Due to three to five days, because that's what I did.

0:52:29.880 --> 0:52:31.359
<v Speaker 4>I did. I did, Who's la New York?

0:52:31.760 --> 0:52:33.640
<v Speaker 5>Okay, And so it was like first couple of trips

0:52:33.719 --> 0:52:35.439
<v Speaker 5>was like three to four days. That's what we're doing

0:52:35.480 --> 0:52:37.440
<v Speaker 5>in a five to seven a couple of times, and

0:52:37.480 --> 0:52:40.239
<v Speaker 5>then and then over it was like, all right, now,

0:52:40.280 --> 0:52:41.320
<v Speaker 5>let's do two weeks.

0:52:41.640 --> 0:52:43.760
<v Speaker 4>But we busy. She going to the office.

0:52:43.800 --> 0:52:46.680
<v Speaker 5>I'm doing shit barely, sorry, because I'm out doing comedy

0:52:46.680 --> 0:52:50.360
<v Speaker 5>at night. It's you have to have don't be like

0:52:50.520 --> 0:52:53.719
<v Speaker 5>I don't like we're grown now. If you come visit me,

0:52:55.160 --> 0:52:58.799
<v Speaker 5>you on vacation, right, I'm not right. You got two

0:52:58.880 --> 0:53:01.600
<v Speaker 5>nights and you need to have a car. Well, I

0:53:01.600 --> 0:53:03.000
<v Speaker 5>live in the country, so so you need to have

0:53:03.040 --> 0:53:05.160
<v Speaker 5>a car that I'm giving you.

0:53:05.280 --> 0:53:06.279
<v Speaker 1>Dick you me.

0:53:08.200 --> 0:53:09.879
<v Speaker 2>You don't gotta go to another road.

0:53:10.680 --> 0:53:13.920
<v Speaker 1>It's okay, get a negotiating and that's and that's what

0:53:14.719 --> 0:53:18.120
<v Speaker 1>this is. This is this is the response to like,

0:53:19.080 --> 0:53:21.240
<v Speaker 1>I know for the listeners because I see.

0:53:21.040 --> 0:53:21.720
<v Speaker 2>It in the comments.

0:53:22.160 --> 0:53:25.480
<v Speaker 1>The way you sound sounds crazy, so I love hearing

0:53:25.480 --> 0:53:27.080
<v Speaker 1>it because you sound.

0:53:26.880 --> 0:53:27.759
<v Speaker 2>As crazy as I do.

0:53:28.239 --> 0:53:30.160
<v Speaker 1>So I well that he could do two weeks though

0:53:30.760 --> 0:53:32.600
<v Speaker 1>you've only give you a nigga fast four days even

0:53:32.600 --> 0:53:40.040
<v Speaker 1>in Europe, four days to Italy to Italy. Yeah, four days,

0:53:40.040 --> 0:53:42.080
<v Speaker 1>that's all I got is South African four days. Okay,

0:53:42.160 --> 0:53:42.600
<v Speaker 1>let me love.

0:53:42.640 --> 0:53:44.640
<v Speaker 5>Then you need to take a trip with like two

0:53:44.680 --> 0:53:47.920
<v Speaker 5>of the couples.

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:51.240
<v Speaker 3>That would be too much so to me, if Mandy

0:53:51.280 --> 0:53:54.480
<v Speaker 3>can't handle being with her person for more than four days,

0:53:55.200 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 3>five like four other people, that's a.

0:53:57.000 --> 0:53:57.520
<v Speaker 1>Lot of edula.

0:53:57.960 --> 0:54:00.680
<v Speaker 5>But like you're thinking, everybody doing everything together. No, you

0:54:00.719 --> 0:54:03.040
<v Speaker 5>break off, you do your own thing. Fellas going to

0:54:03.120 --> 0:54:06.400
<v Speaker 5>this night and we sometimes you you take other people

0:54:07.000 --> 0:54:09.080
<v Speaker 5>to go. We can space this out. Oh the fella's

0:54:09.080 --> 0:54:10.640
<v Speaker 5>doing this on Monday. We're gonna find a bar. We

0:54:10.640 --> 0:54:12.520
<v Speaker 5>can watch the game, even if we don't see.

0:54:12.440 --> 0:54:13.239
<v Speaker 4>It's gonna come on first.

0:54:13.640 --> 0:54:16.480
<v Speaker 3>We would enjoy five or six days. You really care

0:54:16.480 --> 0:54:20.120
<v Speaker 3>about this person, like he's not gonna we'll see if

0:54:20.120 --> 0:54:22.160
<v Speaker 3>that ever happened. I do want to build on something

0:54:22.160 --> 0:54:26.920
<v Speaker 3>you said tone about. Yes, she was busy in two weeks.

0:54:27.200 --> 0:54:28.840
<v Speaker 3>I think the problem with a lot of couples that

0:54:29.000 --> 0:54:31.440
<v Speaker 3>visit each other. I didn't even keeep I was doing this.

0:54:32.040 --> 0:54:34.920
<v Speaker 3>My partner came to LA because I was working. After

0:54:34.960 --> 0:54:36.200
<v Speaker 3>he left, I was like, oh my god, I have

0:54:36.239 --> 0:54:37.799
<v Speaker 3>so much work. He's like, why the fuck weren't you

0:54:37.840 --> 0:54:38.719
<v Speaker 3>working while I was there?

0:54:38.920 --> 0:54:40.879
<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I took the four days off

0:54:40.960 --> 0:54:41.719
<v Speaker 1>because you were there.

0:54:42.200 --> 0:54:44.440
<v Speaker 3>He was like, yo, you live your life. If you

0:54:44.480 --> 0:54:46.160
<v Speaker 3>need me to sit because you got a meeting, go

0:54:46.560 --> 0:54:48.640
<v Speaker 3>And for some reason, I feel like you're.

0:54:48.520 --> 0:54:51.160
<v Speaker 5>On realistic expectation. That wasn't a vacation. He was coming

0:54:51.160 --> 0:54:52.759
<v Speaker 5>to visit you. But if you're gonna take off four days,

0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:54.680
<v Speaker 5>that ain't your normal life. Living like that you're gonna

0:54:54.719 --> 0:54:58.640
<v Speaker 5>be doing if we end up really together. That's how

0:54:58.880 --> 0:55:00.440
<v Speaker 5>I mean. It's I had to take check on the

0:55:00.520 --> 0:55:01.839
<v Speaker 5>road with me to be like this one. I won't

0:55:01.880 --> 0:55:04.000
<v Speaker 5>talk to you on Fridays and Saturdays. We don't tell

0:55:04.000 --> 0:55:05.840
<v Speaker 5>you got your own life. I'm not checking in like that.

0:55:05.920 --> 0:55:08.440
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't until she saw what your route.

0:55:08.280 --> 0:55:09.200
<v Speaker 2>She's like, I'm going back to the room.

0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:09.800
<v Speaker 4>I'm exhausted.

0:55:09.880 --> 0:55:13.520
<v Speaker 5>Nah, but you're gonna be with me, so I'm exhausted too.

0:55:13.960 --> 0:55:14.759
<v Speaker 5>I'm exhausted too.

0:55:14.760 --> 0:55:15.080
<v Speaker 4>I spent.

0:55:15.200 --> 0:55:17.120
<v Speaker 5>I just flew here or drove in wherever you know

0:55:17.120 --> 0:55:19.680
<v Speaker 5>we're coming from. I go, it's it's pressing them. No,

0:55:19.800 --> 0:55:21.520
<v Speaker 5>you're gonna be there at pressing the morning. I wake

0:55:21.600 --> 0:55:23.280
<v Speaker 5>up at five thirty, I'm doing press.

0:55:23.280 --> 0:55:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Oh are you a writer on this show?

0:55:24.719 --> 0:55:27.000
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like the way you talk about relationships,

0:55:27.040 --> 0:55:29.400
<v Speaker 1>you dumped in a whole bunch of scenarios for all

0:55:29.440 --> 0:55:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the characters in that bitch because goddamn you know, but

0:55:34.719 --> 0:55:36.560
<v Speaker 1>you don't sell it this before though I know I know,

0:55:36.680 --> 0:55:40.160
<v Speaker 1>but I'm like, wow, like now about to watch and

0:55:40.200 --> 0:55:42.040
<v Speaker 1>be like, yo, this is him?

0:55:42.280 --> 0:55:45.680
<v Speaker 5>This is This season definitely gets into this is more

0:55:45.719 --> 0:55:48.040
<v Speaker 5>of like how I really am. I mean, there's some

0:55:48.040 --> 0:55:50.279
<v Speaker 5>things that that I wouldn't do, but also that's that's

0:55:50.320 --> 0:55:50.959
<v Speaker 5>the character that.

0:55:50.920 --> 0:55:56.000
<v Speaker 1>You know, like tone thing that your character does, uh.

0:55:55.680 --> 0:55:58.399
<v Speaker 4>In this in this season or period this season season.

0:56:01.960 --> 0:56:04.120
<v Speaker 5>There's there are a couple of conversations with my love interested

0:56:04.200 --> 0:56:07.080
<v Speaker 5>season that are really good. And then I would say

0:56:07.120 --> 0:56:10.960
<v Speaker 5>the interactions with the mom are very accurate how me

0:56:11.000 --> 0:56:14.600
<v Speaker 5>and my mom are now the woman playing my mom

0:56:14.880 --> 0:56:16.920
<v Speaker 5>is she's phenomenal. Now, my mom would never do what

0:56:16.960 --> 0:56:20.080
<v Speaker 5>she's doing, but that type of relationship is what we have.

0:56:20.320 --> 0:56:23.799
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's cool. Yeah, I love it. Well, y'all make

0:56:23.840 --> 0:56:26.360
<v Speaker 1>sure y'all check out The Survival of the Thickest.

0:56:26.480 --> 0:56:27.600
<v Speaker 2>Y'all make sure y'all.

0:56:27.400 --> 0:56:28.960
<v Speaker 4>Get I'm gonna get in trouble for this one.

0:56:30.400 --> 0:56:30.960
<v Speaker 3>Is he really?

0:56:31.320 --> 0:56:33.920
<v Speaker 4>No, No, I'm talking about I know, didn't know how

0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:34.200
<v Speaker 4>I talk.

0:56:34.320 --> 0:56:34.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay.

0:56:34.600 --> 0:56:36.480
<v Speaker 2>I was like, she's gonna laugh at this.

0:56:36.920 --> 0:56:38.280
<v Speaker 1>The last decisions because.

0:56:39.040 --> 0:56:39.880
<v Speaker 2>Get wide open with you.

0:56:40.040 --> 0:56:41.759
<v Speaker 4>A while ago, we couldn't do this.

0:56:41.920 --> 0:56:45.080
<v Speaker 5>Yes, but yes and now now because like my new shoot,

0:56:45.120 --> 0:56:45.719
<v Speaker 5>my new special song.

0:56:45.760 --> 0:56:48.080
<v Speaker 4>Castle said this real quick, Yes, shoot my new special.

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<v Speaker 5>Zone, and a lot of this is a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>these talking points are are here because what you just

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<v Speaker 5>said a second ago is like, yes, you are crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>But everybody I can say you can't.

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely, I can't. I think everyone.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, look, I'm forty two now, every everyone I

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<v Speaker 5>know is certifiably emotionally retarded.

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<v Speaker 4>Everyone.

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<v Speaker 5>But that's okay, because you really just have to find

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<v Speaker 5>the person that fits.

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<v Speaker 4>That's it.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's it. If you if that lid fit that

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<v Speaker 5>pot great? Is that the name of your special it should be?

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<v Speaker 2>That's not a bit? Are you gonna shoot it?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I'm shooting Austin. Oh yeah, I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Might have to come out for that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, congratulations, quiet this time. That's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to know that you weren't even there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, why are you out at the end.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time we met, yeah, I was you. I

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<v Speaker 1>came in and it was what it was, black facts,

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<v Speaker 1>he count yeah, comedy.

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<v Speaker 2>So you were talking in.

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<v Speaker 1>The show and literally he got off the stage and

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<v Speaker 1>he's like, I knew I heard your.

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<v Speaker 2>I knew it was you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like upstairs, like I wasn't a far upstairs,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, look, my bad, you do the headliner.

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<v Speaker 1>By the time he came on, I was fucking drunk. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>God damn it. And then I knew though that enforced

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<v Speaker 1>them drinks on. You don't do this they do.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too minimum, So where can they follow and support?

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<v Speaker 4>About that.

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<v Speaker 1>You forgot about accept the term.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think it's insane.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just not scared to say everyone is insane. Everyone's

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<v Speaker 1>a little crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm only scared, like I don't like when people call

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<v Speaker 3>someone that is an insult.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not scared to say the word. He generalized.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I know, I dont like I am you are?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what.

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<v Speaker 4>That's just how it goes.

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