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Speaker 3: I'm your girl, man dy b, I'm your girl Weezy,
Speaker 3: and I have one question for you. Do you like
Speaker 3: the Thick Girls? I do like that girl better with
Speaker 3: that show.
Speaker 2: Title, y'all.
Speaker 1: We have Tone Bell in the building.
Speaker 2: And y'all may know him. He's an actor.
Speaker 1: He's a comedian, he is also the star next to
Speaker 1: the star. I would say on Survival of the Thickest
Speaker 1: on Netflix Now season one and.
Speaker 2: Season two, what did it do? Or I'm so glad
Speaker 2: to like have you here on this show?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've been trying to do this for a minute.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but also the rebrand makes sense now.
Speaker 1: For you to come on.
Speaker 2: I think you were like you were a little like
Speaker 2: when I'm gonna come on.
Speaker 3: There's so many as as we've talked, Janelle James is
Speaker 3: one of them, and like, there's just so many people
Speaker 3: I feel like that are like, y'all come on some
Speaker 3: tell soon.
Speaker 1: Now it's safe. Now it's now, it's much safe.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there was, there was some bumps on the road.
Speaker 1: Now a little bit.
Speaker 3: Do you want us to do a little old school
Speaker 3: on you got me throw an old school question?
Speaker 4: I'm here, I'm here for you.
Speaker 2: Okay, what's the whole school question?
Speaker 1: You know our do or died? Would you rather our
Speaker 1: number one? Would you rather? He asked? Or suck tone?
Speaker 1: Oh wait, we're bringing this back to horrible.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, uh, that's probably said toes and that's what
Speaker 5: everybody say.
Speaker 2: That's the safe, that's the dirtier to me.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm you gotta be I'm carrying you at
Speaker 4: the tub.
Speaker 2: Now I'm carrying you out.
Speaker 4: You're not gonna walk around and then I'm sucking toes.
Speaker 5: No, if you I washed the foot, I washed the foot.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 3: I always noticed my partner only sucks my toes if
Speaker 3: we're out of a shower together, and I'd be like,
Speaker 3: what does this say about me?
Speaker 5: I've never sucked a toe, and I don't think I've
Speaker 5: ever intentionally eatn ass.
Speaker 1: Not intentionally by accident. It was by accident. It wasn't
Speaker 1: an intention. If I've nobody say he did it and
Speaker 1: mints it.
Speaker 2: It went darre and then he left.
Speaker 1: You never had a tone in your mouth though.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying no.
Speaker 1: It took me a long time to get it toe
Speaker 1: in my mouth, and I was a hedonism the first.
Speaker 2: Time I did it. It was wild guy over.
Speaker 1: They finished, it came out the pull and it was
Speaker 1: a lady toe.
Speaker 2: It wasn't even a male.
Speaker 5: Toe came out first.
Speaker 2: You said, She's said it came out of the pool.
Speaker 1: She came out playing it to be clean. Yeah.
Speaker 3: By the way, Lauren will kill something, you know, let's
Speaker 3: just say Ler Pete. What you said, Mandy out of
Speaker 3: the sex resort pool.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's some strong chlorine.
Speaker 1: Hey, to be honest with you, that pool this mone
Speaker 1: like bleach. At one point I was like, this can't
Speaker 1: good for us.
Speaker 4: Oh that both y'all with Yeah, he was there for
Speaker 4: the the toe sucking.
Speaker 2: I think I think, yeah, I thought you left. And
Speaker 2: then it got a little crazy. I remember feat going
Speaker 2: in Valves and I was like, I'm gonna go.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean if I was, I mean, look, man,
Speaker 5: if I get off the plane at Hedonism and and
Speaker 5: I get to im, it's probably I ain't going to
Speaker 5: be reserve.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: If you're going to Heto, you're going.
Speaker 1: You'd always level one to watch they're doing to Brave.
Speaker 1: You're going to Heto, You're going? Do you do?
Speaker 2: You come to New York still often? Yeah, Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 5: I mean outside of filming, because we filmed for about
Speaker 5: three months okay for the show and in between stand updates.
Speaker 1: And it is it is shot here, right, Yeah?
Speaker 4: They shout around the corner.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's given Brooklyn.
Speaker 1: Even when I.
Speaker 3: Didn't live in New York, like and it's been almost
Speaker 3: a decade now, I just love New York storylines because
Speaker 3: you know, the men are gonna be a certain way,
Speaker 3: it's gonna be a certain energy vibe. I feel like
Speaker 3: there's certain characters you always see in a New York show.
Speaker 4: It's hard for me.
Speaker 5: It was hard first season because I'm like, I'm still
Speaker 5: when I get here, I still love the city. So yeah,
Speaker 5: the first place, the first time you get somewhere, and
Speaker 5: then I mean, I'm still looking, you know, I'm still
Speaker 5: looking like I don't live here.
Speaker 1: What I love about it is now watching like Sex
Speaker 1: and the City or like older shows, I'm like, how
Speaker 1: are these people affording these apartments?
Speaker 2: In Survival though?
Speaker 1: It's giving these they they got roommates, they got cats.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is kipping, it's real. No, it's
Speaker 1: giving very rare, you know. I would like to ask you.
Speaker 3: That never came to mind to ask an actor because
Speaker 3: whenever people come on, we're like interested in knowing about
Speaker 3: the show they're on. But it hit me when we
Speaker 3: interviewed Kiki recently for one of them days and she said,
Speaker 3: we shot this in twenty something days, right, Yes, people
Speaker 3: really don't know what it's like to be on set
Speaker 3: or what it's like to make a scene.
Speaker 2: Can you kind of walk us through a.
Speaker 4: Day, give me, give me more?
Speaker 1: Yeah, like walk us.
Speaker 3: Through a day on a real production set. This is
Speaker 3: a Netflix show, right, So that's a big fucking show.
Speaker 3: This ain't the YouTube ship. This is a big deal.
Speaker 3: Tell us what it's like.
Speaker 2: I wake up.
Speaker 5: It's different because okay, so this is a single cam.
Speaker 5: Uh you know, single camera four walls.
Speaker 1: Englace.
Speaker 5: So a multicam is like fresh Prince Martin live audience.
Speaker 5: They're like the viewer is only seeing three walls in
Speaker 5: the set.
Speaker 1: Okay, right?
Speaker 2: Three sixty is a single cam, no laughter nor nothing, yep.
Speaker 5: So which is a longer day? A multicamp was Papa's
Speaker 5: house multiicam?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 4: So Damon and Damon Jr.
Speaker 2: Yeah no, I'm going with the example.
Speaker 1: I'll ask you.
Speaker 4: I'm telling you.
Speaker 5: But you get there, and if you shoot an episode,
Speaker 5: you shoot the episode in two days, Okay.
Speaker 4: You shoot for a TV show, for a sitcom, oh okay,
Speaker 4: that cheers.
Speaker 3: H oh, that's right, because they're kind of like improving
Speaker 3: along the way they're going.
Speaker 5: And so you traditionally, like you shoot on a Thursday
Speaker 5: and you're there probably I don't know, eight ten hours
Speaker 5: shooting half the scenes and then Friday you do the
Speaker 5: other half of the show in front of the audience,
Speaker 5: and so it only takes you sixteen hours probably to
Speaker 5: get the show.
Speaker 1: Now, now I want to I want to ask, because
Speaker 1: are you still in a relationship?
Speaker 2: Okay, do you?
Speaker 1: Did you have to talks? I saw a ring on
Speaker 1: the fingers. Oh well yeah, some people just peoking rings listen,
Speaker 1: were talking about TV.
Speaker 2: You know, I am not. That's where I'm getting to.
Speaker 1: So in this show, though, there's like you in the
Speaker 1: bed having sex with a woman.
Speaker 2: You're a dating woman.
Speaker 1: You're catching feelings, there's kisses, there's all these things. Is
Speaker 1: there ever a time that your partner feels away with
Speaker 1: your on scene action? Me and I say that because
Speaker 1: I know we just brought up or we didn't bring
Speaker 1: it up recently. But there was like this big thing
Speaker 1: about Lauren London not actually kissing Jonah in the movie
Speaker 1: on Netflix, and there's a lot of times there's a
Speaker 1: lot that came.
Speaker 3: Out about that though that was during that was the
Speaker 3: first kiss it would.
Speaker 1: Have been since she's kissed Nippers. Sure, so that was
Speaker 1: I mean, but that's a personal That's why I guess
Speaker 1: I'm asking because you have a job to do, and
Speaker 1: then of course your personal life is something completely different.
Speaker 2: Makes sense.
Speaker 5: I think it still has to make sense in the story.
Speaker 5: If it makes sense for the story then because sometimes you.
Speaker 4: Don't do it.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but if it makes sense, then you do it.
Speaker 5: If it doesn't, then you discussed it to go. I
Speaker 5: don't think we need this here, and maybe we can
Speaker 5: get rid of it.
Speaker 2: Have you done that with the thought of your partner though?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: No, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, I really do want
Speaker 3: to go back to VTS because I'm finding it's interesting. Okay,
Speaker 3: So to Mandy's way, let's just say it's an intimacy
Speaker 3: scene because I really like knowing how things happen.
Speaker 4: I've met I do have a story for you.
Speaker 3: Okay, boy, Well, first we should mention what an intimacy
Speaker 3: quarter coordinator.
Speaker 2: Is, which is still pretty bad one on the show.
Speaker 1: Yeah that Troy.
Speaker 4: I've had Troy you worked with twice?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is we've had it on the show to
Speaker 2: talk about actually only had Troy.
Speaker 1: She's like, she's like, really like spearheading what that looks like?
Speaker 2: You know in TV? That's awesome? Is it? No?
Speaker 5: Maybe I've had I think I had one on on the.
Speaker 4: Billy Us versus Billy Howdy. I think we did have
Speaker 4: one there too.
Speaker 3: A conversation like when an intimacy coordinator has to talk.
Speaker 5: I think everybody's right when it's still more awkward, it's
Speaker 5: still more awkward than it is because I'm like, if
Speaker 5: if I've known you for a couple of years, I know,
Speaker 5: we just met today, but if I know you for
Speaker 5: a couple of years and we got a scene, we
Speaker 5: can probably go what you're comfortable with, right, let me
Speaker 5: know what not to do, and then as a dude
Speaker 5: that you know and respect to go, he'll he'll listen
Speaker 5: to me.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 4: There is a also but.
Speaker 5: Also is important for the enemacy coordinator to talk to
Speaker 5: the director to go, what are you going to be
Speaker 5: asking him to do? Because I mean when I did
Speaker 5: us first Reality Holiday, it was me and Andrew Day.
Speaker 5: We had a I think two scenes that were I mean,
Speaker 5: go back and watch it, go back and watch it's uh,
Speaker 5: but Lee was asking us to to you know, I
Speaker 5: want to see more.
Speaker 2: Let's go, Oh my god.
Speaker 3: And.
Speaker 5: Be checking in with Andrew going you're good because I'm
Speaker 5: gonna go And then you know.
Speaker 1: What does that mean?
Speaker 3: Does an actor know that means more because when if
Speaker 3: I'm thinking more of the thing, more.
Speaker 5: Like Lee amaze Andrews. Like we checked in with Andrew.
Speaker 5: I was like, yo, we're good, We're both going. Were
Speaker 5: all in and she was like, let's go. And then
Speaker 5: and then you got Lee Guard.
Speaker 2: I love you Lee.
Speaker 5: I'm want to let Lee and know because he Lee
Speaker 5: is also very funny and hilarious.
Speaker 4: But when he wanted to get something, he wanted to
Speaker 4: get it.
Speaker 5: And long as the same partners know we locked in,
Speaker 5: everybody else just appears all right. I mean because Lia
Speaker 5: Lee and that bitch like fuck that bitch, chump that
Speaker 5: out chump, back up, serious thrust that shun out and
Speaker 5: I mean you hear that the side, but you're like,
Speaker 5: you're like, I I feel like I'm stroking the fun
Speaker 5: out of this motherfucker, right, And so then and then
Speaker 5: so you know, she played harder, so I'll play harder.
Speaker 4: But you're in it.
Speaker 5: You locked in, and and then once you know, once
Speaker 5: you cut, you try to you know, you're like, all right,
Speaker 5: let's because one of the funny stories I got is
Speaker 5: is I hadn't I had had a you know, the
Speaker 5: cock sock before.
Speaker 2: No, I don't know about a cock sock.
Speaker 3: We actually, yeah, we did talk about it on Horrible.
Speaker 3: We talked about the cop and the underwear.
Speaker 4: Cock sock is a little tiny crowd royal bag.
Speaker 2: That you tie.
Speaker 4: It is not a crowd roy it's a crowd royal bag.
Speaker 2: It's pretty much a crowdroy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, everything stuff, all of it.
Speaker 1: Is it uncomfortable?
Speaker 2: No, okay, I.
Speaker 5: Mean you got to get the right size. You gotta
Speaker 5: tape up certain pieces. But it's just a little pad
Speaker 5: with the little sack and just so you know, you
Speaker 5: you bumping right, but if it gets too I mean
Speaker 5: I've had the bag come off right, I mean other
Speaker 5: people have.
Speaker 4: It was it was crazy and that's my god, how
Speaker 4: embarrassing in that scene.
Speaker 5: Well, I was like I was, We're on the vanity
Speaker 5: and I'm facing Andre or you know, Billy and heels
Speaker 5: cut and then we both looked down and I was like,
Speaker 5: oh oh no, and she was like you're good. I
Speaker 5: was like, I'm just stand near you until the roade comes,
Speaker 5: because I mean, if I've been down you catching.
Speaker 1: No the ball people do they have leaves.
Speaker 5: And mostly everybody everybody lead. Yeah, I think I think
Speaker 5: I think everybody was in that scene. I think everybody
Speaker 5: was out of the room except for the you know camera.
Speaker 3: So I had a nudity scene that I did for
Speaker 3: a show that I do about sex work or how
Speaker 3: people make money from sex. I got waxed on camera
Speaker 3: and asked the waxer about how she makes money, how
Speaker 3: this is a business.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about legs spread open.
Speaker 3: I also didn't shave for maybe three months because I
Speaker 3: wanted it to be real.
Speaker 2: You ain't shaving, Okay, so down kinsful you could have shag.
Speaker 5: Harry, You're getting waxed on camera like this, But that's
Speaker 5: what you went in there for.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you would it for what? No, that's not it's
Speaker 1: respectful tone manscaping.
Speaker 5: They changed the scene day, So let's go back to No. No,
Speaker 5: let's go back to your original question about what's a normal.
Speaker 4: Day on set.
Speaker 5: Sometimes they fuck you up being like, we got this
Speaker 5: set today and tomorrow we need to get this scene
Speaker 5: while you hear.
Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, would you only manscape because it's gonna
Speaker 1: be shown on.
Speaker 5: But also sometimes you gotta you know, you can't just
Speaker 5: you gotta sometimes let the roots.
Speaker 2: Grow out grow NBA.
Speaker 3: Today got because I feel like the second I got
Speaker 3: off side' be like it was too tall.
Speaker 4: I was like, I told her. I was like, look y'all, go,
Speaker 4: were gonna shoot this ship?
Speaker 2: Win?
Speaker 5: I go, I need to go like you know, I
Speaker 5: want to be seal smooth. And he was like, niggas
Speaker 5: didn't do that in the goddamn.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, that's right, because it was you had to
Speaker 1: have the pro down there.
Speaker 2: But I mean, but we weren't going to see that right.
Speaker 4: And it was supposed to be theatrical. But yeah, him
Speaker 4: coming home.
Speaker 3: Because it was actually something I just thought about when
Speaker 3: you said we just met today.
Speaker 1: You've known Mandy for years. Don't you think it would be.
Speaker 3: More awkward to work or kiss a colleague versus someone
Speaker 3: that just showed up on zet like a peer that
Speaker 3: you know. I feel like it would be hard for me.
Speaker 3: Let's just say Eden was active.
Speaker 2: I can't even say it would be easy to do
Speaker 2: it because my ex was jealous of him.
Speaker 1: Well, we hung out at the bar Madam and it
Speaker 1: wasn't until he brought his girl and he was like, okay,
Speaker 1: oh he got somebody.
Speaker 2: I think.
Speaker 4: No, I don't think.
Speaker 1: You're right it normally, don't.
Speaker 5: We have some talks where I could see that, but
Speaker 5: I was talking to him too. I don't disregard somebody's dude.
Speaker 5: I'll make sure that everybody.
Speaker 2: You made him comfortable.
Speaker 1: But when we've had the conversation recently about having friends
Speaker 1: of other sexes and.
Speaker 4: That, that's when it gets awkward. I think, if I
Speaker 4: know your.
Speaker 5: Your partner, I can see that because like, I do
Speaker 5: respect your partner so and I want to talk to
Speaker 5: him first.
Speaker 3: Yo, Jonathan Major's damn show was sitting there like, I've
Speaker 3: never heard.
Speaker 1: That, mich Michael, Wait, do you think that that was
Speaker 1: an appropriate hug? Let's get like as if you're if
Speaker 1: you know the partner.
Speaker 5: I don't know how long because I just met Jonathan recently.
Speaker 5: I've known making in and out for for a little bit.
Speaker 5: We always say hello. I don't know her well, but
Speaker 5: you got to imagine that Eli and Good have known
Speaker 5: each other for a long time.
Speaker 3: I think he also probably acknowledged him, and I think
Speaker 3: that's different, like I think we probably they probably cut. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm sure he said.
Speaker 1: But I do know those Is there a might it's
Speaker 1: not family to pick up my I'm gonna is there
Speaker 1: an exchange that's inappropriate?
Speaker 5: But ain't known each other probably twenty I do think
Speaker 5: that's different. I do think that's different twenty years ago, Okay,
Speaker 5: I mean before you get this relationship with her, you
Speaker 5: know she know him, Okay, and that's probably happened before.
Speaker 1: Only honest fucking matter.
Speaker 3: See, Like, just because Mo Niggan knows I'm cool with somebody, shouldn't.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think you respect the fact. I mean,
Speaker 5: I'm not saying don't do it. I'm not saying don't
Speaker 5: do it, but but also, woulden't you want me.
Speaker 2: To feel a way?
Speaker 1: I want you to?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Like that. I think.
Speaker 5: I don't think it's jealousy as much as it's like,
Speaker 5: y'all gonna do that. But I should be okay having
Speaker 5: a feeling about this.
Speaker 1: You're always you should have a feeling way. I think
Speaker 1: it's weird, but I'm not saying don't do it.
Speaker 4: But you know.
Speaker 2: Here's the thing that's the problem.
Speaker 3: I realized, because we all work in this industry, we
Speaker 3: have so many male and female interpersonal relationships.
Speaker 1: However, what the fuck do I look like jumping up.
Speaker 3: And being that excited about another man while my man
Speaker 3: stands there and waits for me to come down, Like
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but I don't really like situations where we
Speaker 3: can put someone's partner to like sit and like I
Speaker 3: don't like the embracing that way that like gentleman, oh
Speaker 3: my god, if he was doing all that with another bitch,
Speaker 3: bet it down.
Speaker 2: Hello, you're like, I see you both. You know me,
Speaker 2: I'm a but you're a very.
Speaker 1: Social person to be with, a confident person because you
Speaker 1: work a whole room.
Speaker 5: Men, women, I'm a charming mor right, it's but also
Speaker 5: some people don't know how to be charmed. So it's like,
Speaker 5: you know, you know, when I come into a room,
Speaker 5: like I'm giving.
Speaker 1: You money, and some people don't know how to be charmed.
Speaker 5: Some like as a dude, if I'm being charming a
Speaker 5: woman that's not used to being charmed, like you know,
Speaker 5: it doesn't it doesn't leave this room.
Speaker 4: It doesn't leave this experience.
Speaker 5: But understand, I can still giggle what you make you
Speaker 5: smile and laugh and week and weekn jab and all there.
Speaker 1: You know what's so funny about that? I have a
Speaker 1: friend of mine and I will farly talk about it
Speaker 1: on his podcast. I don't know yet, but basically I
Speaker 1: went to a show that he was a part of
Speaker 1: and I was there for a person I would excuse.
Speaker 1: He was also on the lineup, So I go, I'm
Speaker 1: here clearly for this other person on backstage.
Speaker 2: I'm a friendly person. Do you know this nigga.
Speaker 1: Is to this day is going around saying that while
Speaker 1: I was with another nigga, I was trying to bag him,
Speaker 1: and I said, I got multiple numbers that night. I'm
Speaker 1: a friendly person. I'm like, oh, you thought I was
Speaker 1: hitting on you, nigga. I didn't want to say you,
Speaker 1: but yeah, because I just go into a room, I'm
Speaker 1: exchanging numbers.
Speaker 2: I'm friendly.
Speaker 1: He took it as I was hitting on him, and
Speaker 1: we've had to have this conversation. We're still friends to
Speaker 1: this day.
Speaker 5: I'm saying that night, no, I was in the bedroom set,
Speaker 5: I guess, and that's when I think, that's when you
Speaker 5: determine what I didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't see him the end of that night. I
Speaker 1: ended up going leaving the show with the guy that
Speaker 1: I was there for. But literally, to this day, we
Speaker 1: just had to have this conversation and it was just like,
Speaker 1: so when you say people aren't used to being charmed,
Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, do men not expect women to be
Speaker 1: friendly is a number exchange flirting? Because we exchanged numbers
Speaker 1: the night I met you with my homegirl. Sometimes and
Speaker 1: it wasn't like a.
Speaker 5: I was sometimes like some people, some people go, did
Speaker 5: you spend too much time with this person?
Speaker 2: Right? Like?
Speaker 5: But then if that look don't come, then you should
Speaker 5: be able to know this was just a social interaction. Okay,
Speaker 5: you know.
Speaker 1: That's that's not true. You don't think so.
Speaker 3: For number one, if both of you didn't have the
Speaker 3: jobs that you had, exchanging numbers would be beyond platonic.
Speaker 1: Oh I think, I mean I disagree.
Speaker 3: If you met Mandy and Mandy worked at oh I
Speaker 3: was in an account.
Speaker 1: Why would you be exchanging numbers with Mandy when you have.
Speaker 4: A partner if she was only an accountant?
Speaker 1: Because when I met you, I wasn't potting.
Speaker 3: Maybe I need if you were, like he said, we
Speaker 3: need an account like when it's like there is a
Speaker 3: small pass and we are not going to act like
Speaker 3: it's not real that we all have with our partners.
Speaker 3: If I met you random somewhere else, we would probably
Speaker 3: maybe do I know you? Oh you're the solves or whatever?
Speaker 3: Come upon sometimes do this. There's something we're gonna use
Speaker 3: from each other. There's something that there's.
Speaker 5: Majority of the time, majority of the time, but I
Speaker 5: will I will say, depend on what we talked about
Speaker 5: in that interaction, I will say that you might have
Speaker 5: mentioned something for someone that you know that I can't
Speaker 5: get to, that you can that you.
Speaker 2: Can advant me. So I haven't done that.
Speaker 1: So that's my point.
Speaker 4: So I can exchange numbers, but you maybe get to
Speaker 4: But Tom.
Speaker 2: That's the point.
Speaker 1: So she's saying that unless there's like a business connection
Speaker 1: of some sort in any other way or relationship, it
Speaker 1: would be wrong for you, as a man who's in
Speaker 1: a relationship or me as a woman in a relationship,
Speaker 1: to just casually exchange numbers because you wouldn't be doing that.
Speaker 3: There is something to us being in an industry. To
Speaker 3: be honest with you, most times, sometimes the only thing
Speaker 3: is black. I've been I do lax to JFK a lot.
Speaker 3: If there's someone else black adults one swear.
Speaker 1: To that, we'd be like, because like right now, and
Speaker 1: how are gonna take you to get that number seconds?
Speaker 1: Because we have the same industry.
Speaker 3: Now, if he was just chilling traveling New York with
Speaker 3: his homeboys, I'm not shooting on my man.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, if.
Speaker 3: You just met a woman sitting next to you who
Speaker 3: didn't say I have a podcast, I work in TV,
Speaker 3: I work in radio, and you're like, let's connect.
Speaker 2: What the fuck are we connecting for? You know what?
Speaker 5: It depends on what you do, because you might you
Speaker 5: might have a wonderful dropwall business and I'm trying to
Speaker 5: renovate a world.
Speaker 3: It's madness related, but on the vibe. Because the thing
Speaker 3: Mandy just said, they made me make this point is, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: we were connecting whatever. That's the point. When two people
Speaker 3: connect like this, they have to be tied to each
Speaker 3: other some way.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: I even told him, I said, nigga that night, I
Speaker 1: got two other nigga's numbers.
Speaker 2: I ain't talk to them like that.
Speaker 1: Like, but the exchange of numbers for this person, he assumed,
Speaker 1: it was like a Oh, it's gonna be something more
Speaker 1: now I do.
Speaker 5: Well, Yes, okay, I don't disagree with you, but I
Speaker 5: do think there's a great area where sometimes it does
Speaker 5: make some not the gray area.
Speaker 1: Your woman get a number from a nigga and she
Speaker 1: say it's Gray Bay.
Speaker 2: It's great, it's cool.
Speaker 1: You know it might be you see how you said that.
Speaker 2: Listen, Yeah, I want to get to.
Speaker 4: Talk to them, but after you make dinner.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well we have a clip that I
Speaker 1: want to play while we're speaking on cheating, and I
Speaker 1: want to because we weren't speaking on cheating. Here's was
Speaker 1: it while we're talking about cheatastic We didn't get the
Speaker 1: cheating by the way, well we said the exchanging.
Speaker 6: Numbers with she I get like my Nieme got like
Speaker 6: four times a cheat on me before I leave and
Speaker 6: I you know the in and that and other be
Speaker 6: Oh my god, she's someone In reality, we all got
Speaker 6: cheated on the stage, every right. If you really in
Speaker 6: love with your nigga, you locked in. Y'all been together.
Speaker 6: It's not easy to walk away. You got some women
Speaker 6: that's going to get the fuck on some women that
Speaker 6: you got some women that's going to the first time
Speaker 6: they man cheat, they're out. It's easy to walk away.
Speaker 6: Like if you don't build something with somebody, I don't
Speaker 6: been together to put some on their hurts. Of course
Speaker 6: you want to leave, but you're not just want to
Speaker 6: leave like y'all.
Speaker 1: Love to get on in there.
Speaker 6: I'll beat you someone, don't you said fourth times?
Speaker 1: Yes? Bitch.
Speaker 4: I know, Opinel, We're just.
Speaker 6: In a relationship. They getting chicken on right now or
Speaker 6: being chitting on. It ain't no they checking. Some women's
Speaker 6: just not leaving a man. My first time, it's like
Speaker 6: you hurting me. I can't believe you do this to me. Okay, cool,
Speaker 6: we might we probably gonna get back together, but the alreations,
Speaker 6: she will never be the same, right, It's never gonna
Speaker 6: be the same. Second time, it's like you you Oh, okay,
Speaker 6: so you're a cheetah. Third time, I'm already cheating back.
Speaker 6: Fourth time, I know you got to go beach hold on?
Speaker 1: Way is that me I started cheating back at the
Speaker 1: third time, I would Oh god, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: want to know if you guys ate, do you all
Speaker 1: agree with her? Like is it like or is there
Speaker 1: a certain number of times you would give your partner
Speaker 1: or have in the past given a partner to cheat,
Speaker 1: like where you actually stayed or they stayed because you cheated.
Speaker 4: I don't. I mean, I'm sure it's happened.
Speaker 5: I don't know of I mean since college, I don't
Speaker 5: after college, I don't know of the time I've been
Speaker 5: cheated on.
Speaker 4: But also I don't go looking for it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.
Speaker 4: I don't ask. I just go this ain't working and
Speaker 4: and we move on.
Speaker 2: But I don't.
Speaker 4: I'm sure I haven't cheated on since college, but I
Speaker 4: don't know about it.
Speaker 1: Do you agree with her that most women stay after
Speaker 1: I mean cheats.
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh damn.
Speaker 4: Matter of fact, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Think we can all agree.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The only woman that I know that left was Robin
Speaker 1: Thix's ex wife. That bitch left and it ain't never
Speaker 1: come back.
Speaker 2: You know what's so fucked up to say?
Speaker 1: And there we go.
Speaker 3: The only time I left the man that's cheated was
Speaker 3: because I ain't want to.
Speaker 2: Much because when you was looking for a way out anyway.
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what's crazy about what she
Speaker 1: said though to me like this? And I know you
Speaker 1: can cheat even if you're in a like Polly or.
Speaker 2: Open relationship like me.
Speaker 1: And we both got cheated on, and you know I
Speaker 1: was opening sale with that fuck nigga. He's still cheated
Speaker 1: like an idiot. So for this though, I always wonder,
Speaker 1: if you're a woman that's gonna constantly stay with a
Speaker 1: man who you know is cheating on you, why not
Speaker 1: just be in a non monogous relationship if you know,
Speaker 1: that's not a deal breaker for you, like to me, normally,
Speaker 1: in monogamy, the deal breaker is you sleeping with someone else.
Speaker 2: So if you are saying that Nigga got four.
Speaker 1: Times till I leave him, he gonna go and probably volted.
Speaker 3: From I mean, I think she's being facetious, But you
Speaker 3: think that was her being facetious.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like she was just fucking around.
Speaker 1: It's sound like some city girls should to me.
Speaker 3: But the reason that women aren't getting in non monogamous
Speaker 3: relationships because they have faith.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, Like we all have
Speaker 1: faith our relationships will work out.
Speaker 5: You don't want to lose access to what you have
Speaker 5: in that relationship. Oh, I think that's what do you
Speaker 5: mean by access? If if you take it? If I
Speaker 5: got if I'm doing well and I got money, and
Speaker 5: you live in the lifestyle you want to, and all
Speaker 5: I'm doing is I run out of town real quick.
Speaker 5: You find out I might and you fall into might
Speaker 5: smash and then I come back. But you still live
Speaker 5: in the same lifestyle. You you're probably more for that's.
Speaker 1: Only for a woman who's benefiting from what you do.
Speaker 2: Financially.
Speaker 1: But there are broke men that cheat, and women say
Speaker 1: the broken broke.
Speaker 4: Okay, it can be, it can be.
Speaker 1: I think we have to stop.
Speaker 3: Thinking women really want money that bad, when really they
Speaker 3: just want time, they want availability, They.
Speaker 2: Want to say they got a man. You you.
Speaker 4: I can't believe you said that out loud like you
Speaker 4: believe it.
Speaker 1: I actually really do.
Speaker 3: Is that is I would literally die on the cross
Speaker 3: about that tone. And I'll tell you why, why do
Speaker 3: you know how many bitches out here waiting on niggas
Speaker 3: from jail?
Speaker 4: Let me I got let that download?
Speaker 2: Just give one second?
Speaker 4: Will let you finish? I'm gonna let you finish. That
Speaker 4: is a wild fucking take.
Speaker 1: I would love to debate you on this.
Speaker 4: Believe that shit that you just said.
Speaker 5: I know, and I know we met today, but I've
Speaker 5: known you for years. We know each other, but I've
Speaker 5: known you for years.
Speaker 2: That's a.
Speaker 3: One percent of men, let's just say even five percent
Speaker 3: of men in this country. Let me sit up, have
Speaker 3: bread enough to where it's just like, oh my god,
Speaker 3: this is something to gag over. Black women are making
Speaker 3: money way higher rates than men. Higher education in men
Speaker 3: not mentioned entrepreneurs. These women are staying with men just
Speaker 3: to say they have a man. They are not staying
Speaker 3: with men because they're going to dinner and being slowed
Speaker 3: on private jets.
Speaker 2: That's not the case.
Speaker 3: These girls want access, they want time, they want to
Speaker 3: keep the fucking photos on the grade glories.
Speaker 2: Of women that you're talking about.
Speaker 5: I'm talking about if I'm doing I'm doing better, and
Speaker 5: then she is benefiting off of what I have.
Speaker 2: She's more likely to stay if I step.
Speaker 1: Out in that instance. But there's not many of those
Speaker 1: only instance.
Speaker 3: I just say, Okay, I'm just saying there's less of
Speaker 3: those instances than the others.
Speaker 4: And if you're talking about that, then yes, I agree
Speaker 4: with you.
Speaker 5: Okay, that's what I'm talking When she got her own ship,
Speaker 5: you don't have to put up with that ship.
Speaker 1: Actually no, if she has the own ship, she's still
Speaker 1: staying with that.
Speaker 5: Fuck yeah, but how long you've been I mean yeah,
Speaker 5: well look, I mean yeah, well yes, I mean but
Speaker 5: but that is Look, there's always what do people call it?
Speaker 5: I mean, that's that's the no, that's stock syndrome, like
Speaker 5: it's the it's the.
Speaker 1: I don't know, see now you flustered? What No, all,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is I just think the trope
Speaker 1: of women get ran over by men with money.
Speaker 5: Exception, not the rule that like there is an exception
Speaker 5: to the rule, and a lot of times it's that
Speaker 5: those are the people that will stick stick around, you know,
Speaker 5: because like some people just go, I don't want to
Speaker 5: get back out there. I'll deal with this because I
Speaker 5: don't want to go through this again. I don't want
Speaker 5: to go up to New Dennis to take somebody against
Speaker 5: some side puss and know when I go to the
Speaker 5: bathroom he gonna order the bruss sprouts like somebody rather
Speaker 5: than stick with that then to go, I'm not doing
Speaker 5: this over again.
Speaker 1: It's just we're not seeing many scenarios.
Speaker 3: I think it's just the Instagram highlight big the thing
Speaker 3: we're talking about on Twitter, to see girls being with
Speaker 3: rich men the cheat.
Speaker 2: But in reality it's to everyday dude.
Speaker 5: It's a girl who saying, got they ship together, don't
Speaker 5: put their shit on Instagram?
Speaker 3: Who people have got their shit together? Still staying though, Okay,
Speaker 3: I really think.
Speaker 4: That's what they're supposed to do.
Speaker 2: They're supposed to stay through cheating.
Speaker 4: They're supposed to stay together.
Speaker 1: No no, wait, wait, wait, no matter how no other
Speaker 1: partners up?
Speaker 4: If no, no, And that's how you negotiate.
Speaker 5: If you negotiate, I'm cool with you stepping out or
Speaker 5: it ain't that big a deal to me.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 5: As much as I don't want to check the cheat
Speaker 5: on me, I'd rather look, I'd rather I'd rather like,
Speaker 5: don't watch Paradise without me. Oh that means if you
Speaker 5: if you're out of town and look, hey man, some
Speaker 5: charming dudes out there. If you fuck around and get
Speaker 5: some but you watch you show, we're gonna have a problem.
Speaker 5: That's our thing. Okay, you know I don't want it
Speaker 5: to have it, but we can. We can talk about
Speaker 5: you have.
Speaker 1: Those conversations as well, like like you know, well do
Speaker 1: you have like do you have deal breakers? Here's the
Speaker 1: thing I think that women out up front say they
Speaker 1: have these deal breakers like cheating, and then once he
Speaker 1: cheats and you stay, all of those deal breakers are
Speaker 1: now thrown out the window because now he doesn't believe
Speaker 1: that you really have any deal breakers.
Speaker 2: How did you find out he cheated?
Speaker 1: Wait, I'm asking.
Speaker 3: I don't want to hate men to say I don't
Speaker 3: want to hate light skin man.
Speaker 4: How did you find out? What is that asked the question.
Speaker 3: You know, because this is what he's gonna say. Was
Speaker 3: it disrespectful? Did she come to you as a woman?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, no, do you go through my phone?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, you asked that. I didn't ask them.
Speaker 3: He's gonna say there's a disrespectful cheating. Did he take
Speaker 3: her out? Did other people find out?
Speaker 5: And that was about to say no, because if you
Speaker 5: like you fucked the around, you was out of town,
Speaker 5: you hooked up with your ex, and I told you
Speaker 5: about y'all fucked around, got drunk, hooked up with my ex.
Speaker 2: I'm letting you know up top.
Speaker 4: Or is this a thing where you invaded?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I made it?
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Who cares?
Speaker 2: Who?
Speaker 1: Who care?
Speaker 2: Let me go through my ship.
Speaker 1: I'll have you.
Speaker 5: I'll rather you find out I'm cheating. Final I got
Speaker 5: a secret bank account, which I do.
Speaker 1: It ain't a secret.
Speaker 3: No, but so you actually the X would be a
Speaker 3: deal breaker for me. Oh but but you say that
Speaker 3: my ex but not random?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, an ex would kill and ex would kill you.
Speaker 3: My partner and I've talked about this, so being there
Speaker 3: were ethically non monogamous we've had to talk about like
Speaker 3: who would be Okay, and a very hard note for me.
Speaker 3: Women you said I love you two women you were
Speaker 3: really seriously dating. Like if there was a bitch that
Speaker 3: wanted to be with you, you.
Speaker 1: Can't fund that house.
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that'd get that. Give me you know
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: Like now, if you went out there every day people
Speaker 3: and there was something every day you got a little.
Speaker 1: Waistbeed John, I get it.
Speaker 3: But you ain't about to go oh wow, out of
Speaker 3: all the bitches in this world and you fucked your.
Speaker 2: Ex, are you fucking high?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 2: I feel safe over there.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's the problem.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, No, I don't mean that some devil's advocate,
Speaker 2: but I understand.
Speaker 5: It's a good scenario. I'm just saying that's a scenario
Speaker 5: throughout No, because you know what.
Speaker 1: It is, you miss that pussy. That's the problem.
Speaker 3: New pussy's supposed to be better than any pussy, and
Speaker 3: you fucking took the opportunity to go into some pussy.
Speaker 1: You know they are they able to communicate at all?
Speaker 4: Oh, my partner in his exes like, no, I don't
Speaker 4: like that.
Speaker 1: You don't like that.
Speaker 5: I mean, I think if you if because I'm a
Speaker 5: monogamous person. But if you if you are dealing in monogamy,
Speaker 5: I think you should get rid of the number, like
Speaker 5: we should. I don't even want I don't put myself
Speaker 5: in a situation too fuck that up.
Speaker 1: It's so crazy because I just had an incident. Uh,
Speaker 1: and my partner was so shocked. I didn't get upset
Speaker 1: about it. Basically, Uh, he ordered a shirt that you
Speaker 1: really need. They're mature of him, by the way, No,
Speaker 1: don't do that. We're not going to do that. We're
Speaker 1: not going to do that. He's British, so of course
Speaker 1: he's mature. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: So he's like, really thirty five. So he drink tea,
Speaker 2: and shit, don't do that.
Speaker 4: Don't do that, tea drinker, go ahead.
Speaker 2: Young tea drinks crazy.
Speaker 1: But basically, he ordered something and it went to the
Speaker 1: ex's address, and the ex was like, I just got something,
Speaker 1: do you need it? And he actually needed it the
Speaker 1: next day and she came and brought it over and
Speaker 1: his friend was there and was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I can't believe, like who you're in a relationship. Your
Speaker 1: ex came over and so we had to have a
Speaker 1: whole conversation about it because he almost, he of course
Speaker 1: asked my permission.
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, you need the share. I don't
Speaker 2: give fuck oh because and see.
Speaker 4: See ask permission or we're just like I'm just.
Speaker 2: He said he's I need it?
Speaker 1: Like is that something that I guess he's used to
Speaker 1: everything being a problem with his past relationships in terms
Speaker 1: of women, And for me, I was like, maybe you
Speaker 1: need it. I don't care if you're X game. So
Speaker 1: it's like, did she suck your dick and drop the
Speaker 1: shirt off? If that didn't happen out give a fun
Speaker 1: get your ship, oh.
Speaker 3: Because Uber has this package and it's significantly less than
Speaker 3: when you're in a regular Uber and I would gladly
Speaker 3: call it.
Speaker 4: I would I would have.
Speaker 1: Like, makes you half way, or I would tell you
Speaker 1: all right now, sorry for interrupting you.
Speaker 3: Ex call me Tom and said, I got a shirt
Speaker 3: over there. If I won't, I'm gonna drop it off.
Speaker 3: If I want that nigga to see me, I'm gonna
Speaker 3: go out my way to drop it off.
Speaker 1: Am I line right now.
Speaker 5: I hear you. I hear you, and you're not wrong.
Speaker 5: Did they just break up because like they weren't working. Yeah,
Speaker 5: it was a few years ago, but it's like like
Speaker 5: it just don't work. Yeah, I'm fine with that that.
Speaker 2: I don't think there's any desire for them to be together.
Speaker 5: If two people go, you know what, we tried, this
Speaker 5: ship don't work.
Speaker 2: That don't matter to me. You can Hey, now now.
Speaker 1: We are dissecting, it matters how you break. That's the weather.
Speaker 1: As an ex you.
Speaker 2: Could come around.
Speaker 1: He started it cheat.
Speaker 2: That is crazy.
Speaker 1: Wait, let me ask you this question, because we had
Speaker 1: a debate off camera when we were recording the other day.
Speaker 1: Do you believe once a cheater, always a cheater. Uh No,
Speaker 1: you don't believe that.
Speaker 5: I think a former cheater can as long as you
Speaker 5: know how you got yourself in them positions, you can.
Speaker 2: You can. You can be the bitch over that's how
Speaker 2: they got in the position.
Speaker 1: Like, that's your free no.
Speaker 5: To put yourself in that circumstance if you can, if
Speaker 5: you know, if you know how you got yourself there
Speaker 5: in that circumstance, you can avoid that.
Speaker 4: So I mean, look, man, I've cheated. I don't cheat
Speaker 4: no more and I haven't in years.
Speaker 5: But I go, but I don't trust myself if I
Speaker 5: go to this place, stay here too long, be around,
Speaker 5: Who's going to be there, so like I'm back out going. Nah,
Speaker 5: I don't even want to think that this might be
Speaker 5: an issue, Like I might be having some tequila that night.
Speaker 5: You give me that look, ago, I can't take that look.
Speaker 5: That look got me in the first place, so I'd
Speaker 5: rather not go.
Speaker 2: Okay, Damn I disagree.
Speaker 1: So I mean yeah, like for me, I think right now,
Speaker 1: but now you're not cheap.
Speaker 4: I always think about it.
Speaker 1: You always think about it. It is so honest, and
Speaker 1: I appreciate that.
Speaker 5: You'll never go. You'll never I don't care how monogamous
Speaker 5: you are. You will never go ooh. That would be
Speaker 5: lovely to take down, it would I don't you don't
Speaker 5: shoot your shot, but you go ooh ooh if I
Speaker 5: was still.
Speaker 3: Now you know why I think this is such a
Speaker 3: healthy thing to hear because a conversation I was having
Speaker 3: with my partner, like he was like, I feel like
Speaker 3: when people make comments about what we're doing, they don't
Speaker 3: realize how much we talk, how much conversation is surrounding
Speaker 3: our relationship, not to mention how much we talk about
Speaker 3: things that's in a head, Like I'm telling you I'm
Speaker 3: thinking about fucking someone or I'm telling you when women
Speaker 3: are walking by, like we're sharing this together, right. Do
Speaker 3: you know how many times in a monogamous relationship you
Speaker 3: just shut the fucking share it. There was a video
Speaker 3: going around, and it'll make someone feel invalidated, Like a
Speaker 3: lot of women would feel.
Speaker 2: Like why open that? Motherfucker? Is?
Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, why open if you monogamous?
Speaker 4: Now, buddy?
Speaker 2: He no, no.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like, just to know you
Speaker 3: have the thought, there's a woman that could hear her
Speaker 3: man say that and be like, oh he hates me.
Speaker 2: I'm ugly.
Speaker 1: I think there's a lot I'm not actually feel away
Speaker 1: and getting your Everyone's entitled to feel how they want, yeah,
Speaker 1: but a lot of I don't think a lot of
Speaker 1: men are able to admit what you just admitted, even
Speaker 1: to their partner, Like I think just even saying that
Speaker 1: it crosses your mind to possibly like the idea of
Speaker 1: being with another woman would bother a partner.
Speaker 4: That's I mean, you can't stop the imagination. Whyle A'm
Speaker 4: I hoted.
Speaker 5: Ooh okay, now what if your partner's dold you there?
Speaker 5: And I don't think it's attached to fantasy. I just
Speaker 5: think going, oh, man, I bet you've given that mind.
Speaker 5: If I'm single and I was had the opportunity, I
Speaker 5: bet you I could pull that and in twenty four
Speaker 5: forty dollars, I could be Horrizon word.
Speaker 4: I bet you I could. But that's it.
Speaker 5: I think everybody you don't see nobody when you out
Speaker 5: by yourself being like, Oh.
Speaker 4: If I was in, I could, I could, I could
Speaker 4: knock that out.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's rocket scroll.
Speaker 3: Fuck being outside, I'll scroll on the motherfucking phone.
Speaker 4: I'm like, I can knock, which is also a problem.
Speaker 2: Shit, yeah, that's the biggest problem. But I was gonna
Speaker 2: ask you scroll.
Speaker 3: So if we said that women would feel away, I
Speaker 3: really think men would die if they heard their girl
Speaker 3: say I see men every day constantly think about what
Speaker 3: I would do to do like, I really think men
Speaker 3: couldn't handle that.
Speaker 5: Bo that's a step further though, Oh that's the same step.
Speaker 5: That's not the same step you said.
Speaker 2: I constantly think I.
Speaker 5: Get yours was the action word you gave verbs, not
Speaker 5: you gave. I didn't give verbs. You you out here
Speaker 5: like like like you on the line, and the fucking
Speaker 5: gun went off, like, oh, if I'm getting to the race. No,
Speaker 5: I'm talking about just looking being like that motherfucker's attractive. Well,
Speaker 5: I bet you we'd have some good sex, and then
Speaker 5: you go and get by the rest of your growth.
Speaker 3: I bet you we'd have some good sex. I'm my gosh,
Speaker 3: I bet you we'd have some good sex.
Speaker 2: I bet you know.
Speaker 5: I'll bet you out there that motherfuck right there as
Speaker 5: fine as fuck. And let me not even look over
Speaker 5: there too long.
Speaker 1: I can. I say that it has to be this
Speaker 1: has to be the easiest role that you have ever had,
Speaker 1: because very simpler.
Speaker 4: Oh yes me, I'm not gonna hold you.
Speaker 2: Was watching UH season one and there was a scene and.
Speaker 1: I kind of wanted to bring it up because I
Speaker 1: want to know how this happens there. If we could
Speaker 1: talk about men, we talk about with women, how we
Speaker 1: get into situationships. We were having sex casually, and as
Speaker 1: women we always end up catching feelings. Season one, episode four,
Speaker 1: You've been having sex, sleeping with this woman, and as
Speaker 1: a man, you realize, damn you like her, and you
Speaker 1: don't your homegirls had to tell you, oh, you like
Speaker 1: this bitch. How often does that happen for men to
Speaker 1: catch feelings in a casual situationship with a woman?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 4: I think that question. I canna only answer for myself.
Speaker 4: But has it happened?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 5: Okay, but yeah, it starts off sex first, and then
Speaker 5: you go, oh, man, I think I want to see
Speaker 5: if I like eating with you, if I like hanging
Speaker 5: with you. It starts off as just sex, and then
Speaker 5: you go, I don't really want you leave, so I'll
Speaker 5: there's steps to it.
Speaker 1: Give us the steps, just as for the ladies, just
Speaker 1: so that maybe they're not confused, because men have a
Speaker 1: hard time saying that they like you. So if you're
Speaker 1: just in a casual situationship fuck buddy situation, the man
Speaker 1: leading may start to like you if he's asking you
Speaker 1: to spend the night.
Speaker 5: We can put this at the first it's been years. Okay,
Speaker 5: it's been a while. It's been a while, but I
Speaker 5: guess my move used to be, all right, we hook
Speaker 5: up and then you eventually you can stay.
Speaker 1: Eventually you could stay, right, you mean eventually after a
Speaker 1: few times we both, yeah, you can?
Speaker 4: You can?
Speaker 2: You having sex?
Speaker 1: Not the first time, probably not the first time.
Speaker 3: How do you politely tell someone they can't stay right after?
Speaker 1: I don't let you in my game?
Speaker 4: Well, one, you don't bite them in your house you
Speaker 4: go to the house.
Speaker 1: Oh, I hate niggas. My nigga told me that's the trick. Damn.
Speaker 2: I thought.
Speaker 1: I like just being able to tell a nigga by
Speaker 1: and I don't have to move. But you know that's
Speaker 1: really you only.
Speaker 4: Come to mind if you got a roommate.
Speaker 1: What why's that matter? Not he's saying you don't want
Speaker 1: no roommate. Hearing him slapping cheeks.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I got I don't need if when they got company.
Speaker 5: I'm not dealing with this whole. I'm walking when I
Speaker 5: go to the kitchen in the middle of.
Speaker 1: Rock to brief to boxing. You know what's crazy. When
Speaker 1: I did have roommates, that used to be a thing.
Speaker 1: We'd have niggas over at the same time.
Speaker 4: If you are when you're youngest, what happens.
Speaker 1: But if you well and your this was in my twenties. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I remember having a man come over and he'd have
Speaker 1: to what's up?
Speaker 2: Bruh.
Speaker 3: So the nigga on the couch and that that can
Speaker 3: be not talking two.
Speaker 5: Os, Oh my god, it's I'm not I'm not doing it.
Speaker 5: I'm especially if y'all sharing a wall. If the if
Speaker 5: they're not playing.
Speaker 1: Is awkward, is this a two.
Speaker 4: I want to we're floor playing, sharing walls.
Speaker 1: You need to see the floor plan before you go.
Speaker 4: You know what diagram that's out for me.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: I've always like heard some men say so most of
Speaker 3: my male friends are now in their forties and the
Speaker 3: one or late thirties for the ones who are single,
Speaker 3: and they'll say things to me once in a blue
Speaker 3: about how they went to a woman's house to impress them, like, damn,
Speaker 3: she was doing this, she's cooking for me, her spot
Speaker 3: was nice. Did you ever find the like, go into
Speaker 3: a woman's house made you actually want to sleep over?
Speaker 3: Has a woman ever got you so cozy and fucking for?
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah?
Speaker 1: How do we trick them?
Speaker 4: That's not how?
Speaker 2: What are the things that you look for?
Speaker 5: I mean just like the organization that the tidiness, a
Speaker 5: nice fool free You've got good pots and pants. You
Speaker 5: you got spatulors that ain't got the little plastics you
Speaker 5: ca hang off because you the hadis in college you
Speaker 5: got you know, you got ceramic cook wear instead of
Speaker 5: uh teflon some ship you got from big life.
Speaker 3: You know what you're making anything you ever started? Stop
Speaker 3: not want to cut someone off because there was cooking.
Speaker 4: They keep doing it to me.
Speaker 2: No cutting someone off like a.
Speaker 1: Cutting you off?
Speaker 4: No, no, go ahead.
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean like you know, when someone's cooking so
Speaker 3: good or the pussy too good. Has there ever been
Speaker 3: something that's kept you in the relationship longer because the
Speaker 3: woman was doing.
Speaker 1: It so right?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, usually only those things without other time, like because
Speaker 5: you really got to get bored with somebody to.
Speaker 2: See if y'all gonna rock. It's easy.
Speaker 5: It's easy to go out, it's easy to have it's
Speaker 5: easy to fuck, it's easy to find food, it's easy
Speaker 5: to to to go to a concert when you got
Speaker 5: other distractions. That's easy to have a good time with somebody.
Speaker 5: That's it's time to be bored when you when you're
Speaker 5: sitting at the house being like, cool, you got a show,
Speaker 5: I got a show.
Speaker 4: We got our show.
Speaker 5: And then when you can spend a weekend from Friday
Speaker 5: to probably Monday, and.
Speaker 4: You go, oh, how do we?
Speaker 2: How do we?
Speaker 4: How does this dance go? With both of us?
Speaker 1: Here?
Speaker 2: Got tell any couple, And I mean, you know, I'm
Speaker 2: a street therapist.
Speaker 5: I tell I tell any couple, like if especially if
Speaker 5: it's long distance, like start out slow, start out, and.
Speaker 1: What I'm doing right now.
Speaker 5: Take three to four days and then you go, boom,
Speaker 5: We're going from the Thursday to a Monday, and the
Speaker 5: next trip like maybe we'll maybe we'll do five or six,
Speaker 5: maybe seven.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I'm saying you have to graduate to that.
Speaker 1: And that's where so my part in right now is
Speaker 1: like trying to sneak in five by coming in like
Speaker 1: a day like.
Speaker 2: But but to me, you get there, he would.
Speaker 1: Want to spend more time, and for me, I'm the same.
Speaker 1: I would like to gradually do that, but not maybe
Speaker 1: more than four because I also need space.
Speaker 4: But that's if he busy.
Speaker 5: If he coming just to see you, he got nothing
Speaker 5: else going on, that means you gotta make time for him.
Speaker 5: But if he come in town, you got shit to do.
Speaker 5: Six days don't seem like in Atlanta, that's then that yeah,
Speaker 5: that's an issue.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 4: It's like if i'm you.
Speaker 1: Know, I'm getting him.
Speaker 2: You know he already found a gym by I think he's.
Speaker 3: Fair if he's coming to Atlanta and he doesn't have
Speaker 3: anything to do but spend time with many.
Speaker 5: Many treating a trip with me like it's spring break.
Speaker 5: I have ship to do who also needs to be
Speaker 5: right because when you go to LA you know people
Speaker 5: you guys should to do.
Speaker 3: But he could also be doing work at home and
Speaker 3: stuff like that. So our conversation just to give you
Speaker 3: some back.
Speaker 4: Story something with you make me miss you.
Speaker 1: Being together, separate down well give.
Speaker 4: Them that shirt everybody.
Speaker 5: And I heard this from some other people too, but
Speaker 5: also those are just my rules of like over the
Speaker 5: years of the twenty plus years I've been dating, how
Speaker 5: do I get to learn somebody like you?
Speaker 4: Better take a trip, take a road trip.
Speaker 2: How long trip?
Speaker 5: For at least three hours one way? Three hours one way?
Speaker 5: Figure out because look, let me tell you something. You
Speaker 5: know it's a big deal to me, and I don't know.
Speaker 5: I don't know if I've heard somebody say this before
Speaker 5: or not. Like I don't need you to drive. I've
Speaker 5: got the driving. You can and be the DJ. You
Speaker 5: can do the music. But also asked me what I
Speaker 5: like to listen to. Sometimes you can listen to a
Speaker 5: podcast if you can introduce me to something. I don't know,
Speaker 5: but I want the opportunity to do that too. But
Speaker 5: if we stop for food, I need you to unwrap
Speaker 5: my sandwich okay, unwrapped, give me the half and then
Speaker 5: you put the fries and the cup holder, you hold it.
Speaker 4: You figure out what to do with your drink. I
Speaker 4: need my drink and the fries and.
Speaker 2: The cup holder.
Speaker 5: You need to coach and you and you, I mean,
Speaker 5: if you gonna be a good partner. Interesting, I needed
Speaker 5: goddamn good co pilot. And then when I bought that
Speaker 5: motherfuck up you you you have your hair ready. I
Speaker 5: got my knee on the wheel, I got my nursery
Speaker 5: right there. I take my last bite. I put my
Speaker 5: fucking drink down here. Take that ship.
Speaker 1: That's such a comfortability to get to to.
Speaker 5: When you have to plan your gas, you clean the
Speaker 5: car out. I'm pumping gas and then I'll go to
Speaker 5: the bathroom.
Speaker 1: So basically, uh, fellas, if you like a bitch and
Speaker 1: you are considering moving forward, go on a road trip.
Speaker 1: So many would you consider.
Speaker 4: Take a road trip?
Speaker 5: That's for look, And I'm biased because I'm a dude.
Speaker 5: I'm always gonna feel like I'm a dude. So I'm like,
Speaker 5: can I I there's a girl who I thought I
Speaker 5: was like, this should work out. I met her back
Speaker 5: in Atlanta in like two thousand and five he's reconnected,
Speaker 5: ain't helping.
Speaker 4: Run even if it's even if it's not in.
Speaker 2: Uh.
Speaker 5: And then I was moving from Dallas to La and
Speaker 5: so she was already living in La. So I flew
Speaker 5: her out of being like yo's that was my thing
Speaker 5: to be Like we have been talking. I go, maybe
Speaker 5: helped me drive out. We got four hours in. I go,
Speaker 5: this will never work this. I mean, you should be
Speaker 5: able to be quiet and be fine. You should have
Speaker 5: listened to something to be fine. You should have a
Speaker 5: great conversation to be fine. But we ain't got to
Speaker 5: talk six hours straight. I go, I am.
Speaker 1: You need would up.
Speaker 5: You need to shut the fuck up. I need to
Speaker 5: make me care about you more. You need to take
Speaker 5: a walk, you need to do.
Speaker 4: Take about there.
Speaker 5: How can the backseat take a phone call, talk to
Speaker 5: someone else.
Speaker 2: I need some silence right now. I need it.
Speaker 5: We have talked about it all and then you're asking
Speaker 5: me something that you're trying to make me care about
Speaker 5: some shit you know I don't care about that.
Speaker 4: Like that is what you bringing up right now is
Speaker 4: for a friend. That is not for me.
Speaker 2: That's a homegirl conversation.
Speaker 5: Not a homegirl conversation to shut the fuck up.
Speaker 2: Take your partner can't have all the conversations with you.
Speaker 4: We got a twenty two hour drive. You're gonna need
Speaker 4: to break that ship though.
Speaker 1: Because I'm going to kick you with my nigga.
Speaker 5: U's a long it should happen. You should be able
Speaker 5: to get through that. You shouldn't be able to man.
Speaker 5: We talk strong for an hour, hour and a half.
Speaker 5: If we listen to a podcast, we could be listening
Speaker 5: to us right now. Okay, and if you want to
Speaker 5: talk about it, cool, let us get thirty minutes in,
Speaker 5: pause it and then we'll have a discussion about what
Speaker 5: what maybe me in tone just talked about. But then
Speaker 5: and then we're gonna pick it back up. Okay, let
Speaker 5: us have a conversation about it. But also if I
Speaker 5: could just listen, sometimes.
Speaker 1: I think it's crazy because we talk about chemistry and
Speaker 1: the Belgium.
Speaker 2: Take notes and then this is chemistry. Up, go ahead,
Speaker 2: this is chemistry. That what you're talking about. Like I
Speaker 2: could sit and talk to my friends like my friends.
Speaker 1: Maybe because we've also known each other and we've been
Speaker 1: so comfortable around each other, we'll just get quiet.
Speaker 2: Even more together.
Speaker 1: But when you're newly dating somebody sometimes you feel like
Speaker 1: you have to kind of okay, twenty one questions, then
Speaker 1: what's new? Like we a few days on end? That's
Speaker 1: like I mean, I'm talking about even for this drive,
Speaker 1: like if it's new, Like I think that what you
Speaker 1: just described, though, is like chemistry of being out of
Speaker 1: the bedroom and out of being intimate knowing each other
Speaker 1: social that.
Speaker 5: That goes back to if you hook up with somebody,
Speaker 5: if you if you if it's casual encounter, whatever, and
Speaker 5: then you like, how does this grow?
Speaker 4: Like if we eventually get there? Okay, yo, why don't we?
Speaker 5: Because I used to go this a little fishing town
Speaker 5: or kind of beach town up past Santa Barbara. Okay,
Speaker 5: that was kind to my getaway alone for a while.
Speaker 5: It's like I need to get to LA but I
Speaker 5: ain't got no road road dates for comedy. So I'm
Speaker 5: gonna go up to this little spot and then I'm
Speaker 5: gonna spend two nights by myself and then as a
Speaker 5: you know, if I was eventually with somebody, I'm like,
Speaker 5: all right, you want to go with me?
Speaker 2: What's it called?
Speaker 1: Give us the plug? Give it, give it, give it
Speaker 1: to a city? Yeah, are you really gate keeping? A
Speaker 1: whole city right now.
Speaker 2: I don't like how your voice changed.
Speaker 3: I was kind of crazy. It ain't like I don't
Speaker 3: want you niggas there. It's literally follow the wall.
Speaker 2: Yeah, give us the whole, not give us the whole.
Speaker 1: No holds barn over here.
Speaker 4: It's called it's called.
Speaker 5: It's called morro Bay, Morrow, morro Bay, Morrow Bay w Hotel,
Speaker 5: morro Bay, Okay. And also it's a nice sleepy town
Speaker 5: where they got a couple of bars, a couple of
Speaker 5: good restaurants whatever. But also it ain't ain't no clubs.
Speaker 5: Can we can we take a walk?
Speaker 2: Can we like? Do we do during the day? Can
Speaker 2: you be nice and board?
Speaker 5: Like we're going to go watch the seals on the
Speaker 5: pier e Oysh's, We're going to hear the Somba jazz
Speaker 5: band at night.
Speaker 1: It's very just I like, can you be nice and board?
Speaker 3: I think the most impactful thing you said today was
Speaker 3: about the boredom, because I've said a lot of impactful
Speaker 3: things about the most the most people will say because
Speaker 3: a lot of us are planning when we meet somebody
Speaker 3: and trying to like, you know, like just do it up.
Speaker 3: If I'm gonna spend Thursday with Ma May, I gotta
Speaker 3: figure out what I got to do. And we never
Speaker 3: really think somebody just wants to sit with us. Can
Speaker 3: you be back the thing that Mandy's talking about with
Speaker 3: friendship that's built over so many years. True to be
Speaker 3: able to sit with your friend and watch TV with partners.
Speaker 3: You are kind of scared somebody will be bored with you.
Speaker 5: Oh by the time you I mean, look and everybody's
Speaker 5: healthy in their own way, like you know what rocks
Speaker 5: for you and you know how to really people should negotiate.
Speaker 4: This is kind of what I'm into. What I'm not,
Speaker 4: what I need versus.
Speaker 2: What I what I'm talking about with my faith.
Speaker 4: That there is a difference. Look, man, my lady, I go,
Speaker 4: I want this.
Speaker 2: I go.
Speaker 5: I'm worried about your needs first. We'll get to you once.
Speaker 5: If you once come up, then we'll get there. But
Speaker 5: your needs is what I need to take care of first,
Speaker 5: and then then we'll that'll trickle down hopefully that we
Speaker 5: will try to get there. But I sleep in a
Speaker 5: different bedroom maybe four or five nights. I'm in the house, okay,
Speaker 5: but I need a wonderful night sleep. Sometimes that might be.
Speaker 1: You that no I think that's very that might actually
Speaker 1: be be.
Speaker 5: In the house, but you you need might be or
Speaker 5: I might sleep on the ca I don't know. But
Speaker 5: my majority of time I'll get into bed, but I
Speaker 5: need a night because sometimes I'm up till three four
Speaker 5: o'clock in the morning.
Speaker 2: I'm right there.
Speaker 5: I'm in my zone and I don't want to You're
Speaker 5: gonna get up and pee at three am.
Speaker 4: You're gonna wake me up.
Speaker 2: I go.
Speaker 5: Let me just oh wow, a good nights, okay, because
Speaker 5: I mean, like the people you know, that conversation came
Speaker 5: up recently about people even having two different residents.
Speaker 4: They made.
Speaker 5: Or yeah, but I mean i've heard this like even
Speaker 5: like somebody said it recently, like they live in the
Speaker 5: same building but on different floors. Oh wow, but they're
Speaker 5: they're in a committed relationship, monogamous. But I got my apartment,
Speaker 5: you got yours, and sometimes I'm sleep over.
Speaker 1: I love that. That's my mom and I love but
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 4: Need to go that far. But you need to know, Hey, man, look,
Speaker 4: i've been busy. I've been on the road two weeks.
Speaker 4: I want to be at home and in my and.
Speaker 2: My boyfriend's like, well, let me good work.
Speaker 1: And I said, I'll help you find an apartment, like
Speaker 1: you ain't moving in with me? No, no, he but
Speaker 1: he wasn't saying that though, No, no, no, no, regardless, I
Speaker 1: just let me know if you move to Atlanta, I
Speaker 1: can't wait to help you find a nice dope spot
Speaker 1: and help you decorate it.
Speaker 4: Due to three to five days, because that's what I did.
Speaker 4: I did. I did, Who's la New York?
Speaker 5: Okay, And so it was like first couple of trips
Speaker 5: was like three to four days. That's what we're doing
Speaker 5: in a five to seven a couple of times, and
Speaker 5: then and then over it was like, all right, now,
Speaker 5: let's do two weeks.
Speaker 4: But we busy. She going to the office.
Speaker 5: I'm doing shit barely, sorry, because I'm out doing comedy
Speaker 5: at night. It's you have to have don't be like
Speaker 5: I don't like we're grown now. If you come visit me,
Speaker 5: you on vacation, right, I'm not right. You got two
Speaker 5: nights and you need to have a car. Well, I
Speaker 5: live in the country, so so you need to have
Speaker 5: a car that I'm giving you.
Speaker 1: Dick you me.
Speaker 2: You don't gotta go to another road.
Speaker 1: It's okay, get a negotiating and that's and that's what
Speaker 1: this is. This is this is the response to like,
Speaker 1: I know for the listeners because I see.
Speaker 2: It in the comments.
Speaker 1: The way you sound sounds crazy, so I love hearing
Speaker 1: it because you sound.
Speaker 2: As crazy as I do.
Speaker 1: So I well that he could do two weeks though
Speaker 1: you've only give you a nigga fast four days even
Speaker 1: in Europe, four days to Italy to Italy. Yeah, four days,
Speaker 1: that's all I got is South African four days. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me love.
Speaker 5: Then you need to take a trip with like two
Speaker 5: of the couples.
Speaker 3: That would be too much so to me, if Mandy
Speaker 3: can't handle being with her person for more than four days,
Speaker 3: five like four other people, that's a.
Speaker 1: Lot of edula.
Speaker 5: But like you're thinking, everybody doing everything together. No, you
Speaker 5: break off, you do your own thing. Fellas going to
Speaker 5: this night and we sometimes you you take other people
Speaker 5: to go. We can space this out. Oh the fella's
Speaker 5: doing this on Monday. We're gonna find a bar. We
Speaker 5: can watch the game, even if we don't see.
Speaker 4: It's gonna come on first.
Speaker 3: We would enjoy five or six days. You really care
Speaker 3: about this person, like he's not gonna we'll see if
Speaker 3: that ever happened. I do want to build on something
Speaker 3: you said tone about. Yes, she was busy in two weeks.
Speaker 3: I think the problem with a lot of couples that
Speaker 3: visit each other. I didn't even keeep I was doing this.
Speaker 3: My partner came to LA because I was working. After
Speaker 3: he left, I was like, oh my god, I have
Speaker 3: so much work. He's like, why the fuck weren't you
Speaker 3: working while I was there?
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I took the four days off
Speaker 1: because you were there.
Speaker 3: He was like, yo, you live your life. If you
Speaker 3: need me to sit because you got a meeting, go
Speaker 3: And for some reason, I feel like you're.
Speaker 5: On realistic expectation. That wasn't a vacation. He was coming
Speaker 5: to visit you. But if you're gonna take off four days,
Speaker 5: that ain't your normal life. Living like that you're gonna
Speaker 5: be doing if we end up really together. That's how
Speaker 5: I mean. It's I had to take check on the
Speaker 5: road with me to be like this one. I won't
Speaker 5: talk to you on Fridays and Saturdays. We don't tell
Speaker 5: you got your own life. I'm not checking in like that.
Speaker 1: It wasn't until she saw what your route.
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm going back to the room.
Speaker 4: I'm exhausted.
Speaker 5: Nah, but you're gonna be with me, so I'm exhausted too.
Speaker 5: I'm exhausted too.
Speaker 4: I spent.
Speaker 5: I just flew here or drove in wherever you know
Speaker 5: we're coming from. I go, it's it's pressing them. No,
Speaker 5: you're gonna be there at pressing the morning. I wake
Speaker 5: up at five thirty, I'm doing press.
Speaker 2: Oh are you a writer on this show?
Speaker 1: I just feel like the way you talk about relationships,
Speaker 1: you dumped in a whole bunch of scenarios for all
Speaker 1: the characters in that bitch because goddamn you know, but
Speaker 1: you don't sell it this before though I know I know,
Speaker 1: but I'm like, wow, like now about to watch and
Speaker 1: be like, yo, this is him?
Speaker 5: This is This season definitely gets into this is more
Speaker 5: of like how I really am. I mean, there's some
Speaker 5: things that that I wouldn't do, but also that's that's
Speaker 5: the character that.
Speaker 1: You know, like tone thing that your character does, uh.
Speaker 4: In this in this season or period this season season.
Speaker 5: There's there are a couple of conversations with my love interested
Speaker 5: season that are really good. And then I would say
Speaker 5: the interactions with the mom are very accurate how me
Speaker 5: and my mom are now the woman playing my mom
Speaker 5: is she's phenomenal. Now, my mom would never do what
Speaker 5: she's doing, but that type of relationship is what we have.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's cool. Yeah, I love it. Well, y'all make
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Speaker 4: Get I'm gonna get in trouble for this one.
Speaker 3: Is he really?
Speaker 4: No, No, I'm talking about I know, didn't know how
Speaker 4: I talk.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: I was like, she's gonna laugh at this.
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Speaker 4: A while ago, we couldn't do this.
Speaker 5: Yes, but yes and now now because like my new shoot,
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Speaker 4: Castle said this real quick, Yes, shoot my new special.
Speaker 5: Zone, and a lot of this is a lot of
Speaker 5: these talking points are are here because what you just
Speaker 5: said a second ago is like, yes, you are crazy.
Speaker 1: But everybody I can say you can't.
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I can't. I think everyone.
Speaker 5: I mean, look, I'm forty two now, every everyone I
Speaker 5: know is certifiably emotionally retarded.
Speaker 4: Everyone.
Speaker 5: But that's okay, because you really just have to find
Speaker 5: the person that fits.
Speaker 4: That's it.
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Speaker 5: pot great? Is that the name of your special it should be?
Speaker 2: That's not a bit? Are you gonna shoot it?
Speaker 4: I think I'm shooting Austin. Oh yeah, I'm.
Speaker 2: Might have to come out for that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations, quiet this time. That's a big deal.
Speaker 4: I want to know that you weren't even there.
Speaker 2: Okay, why are you out at the end.
Speaker 1: The first time we met, yeah, I was you. I
Speaker 1: came in and it was what it was, black facts,
Speaker 1: he count yeah, comedy.
Speaker 2: So you were talking in.
Speaker 1: The show and literally he got off the stage and
Speaker 1: he's like, I knew I heard your.
Speaker 2: I knew it was you.
Speaker 1: I was like upstairs, like I wasn't a far upstairs,
Speaker 1: and I was like, look, my bad, you do the headliner.
Speaker 1: By the time he came on, I was fucking drunk. Okay,
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