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Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. Hey guys, Welcome to another episode of Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 3: I'm your girl, man dy b, I'm your girl Weezy,

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Speaker 3: and I have one question for you. Do you like

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Speaker 3: the Thick Girls? I do like that girl better with

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Speaker 3: that show.

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Speaker 2: Title, y'all.

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Speaker 1: We have Tone Bell in the building.

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Speaker 2: And y'all may know him. He's an actor.

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Speaker 1: He's a comedian, he is also the star next to

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Speaker 1: the star. I would say on Survival of the Thickest

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Speaker 1: on Netflix Now season one and.

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Speaker 2: Season two, what did it do? Or I'm so glad

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Speaker 2: to like have you here on this show?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we've been trying to do this for a minute.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but also the rebrand makes sense now.

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Speaker 1: For you to come on.

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Speaker 2: I think you were like you were a little like

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Speaker 2: when I'm gonna come on.

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Speaker 3: There's so many as as we've talked, Janelle James is

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Speaker 3: one of them, and like, there's just so many people

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Speaker 3: I feel like that are like, y'all come on some

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Speaker 3: tell soon.

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Speaker 1: Now it's safe. Now it's now, it's much safe.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there was, there was some bumps on the road.

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Speaker 1: Now a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Do you want us to do a little old school

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Speaker 3: on you got me throw an old school question?

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Speaker 4: I'm here, I'm here for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what's the whole school question?

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Speaker 1: You know our do or died? Would you rather our

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Speaker 1: number one? Would you rather? He asked? Or suck tone?

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, we're bringing this back to horrible.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, uh, that's probably said toes and that's what

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Speaker 2: That's the safe, that's the dirtier to me.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm you gotta be I'm carrying you at

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Speaker 4: the tub.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm carrying you out.

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Speaker 4: You're not gonna walk around and then I'm sucking toes.

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Speaker 5: No, if you I washed the foot, I washed the foot.

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Speaker 6: You know.

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Speaker 3: I always noticed my partner only sucks my toes if

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Speaker 3: we're out of a shower together, and I'd be like,

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Speaker 3: what does this say about me?

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Speaker 5: I've never sucked a toe, and I don't think I've

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Speaker 5: ever intentionally eatn ass.

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Speaker 1: Not intentionally by accident. It was by accident. It wasn't

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Speaker 1: an intention. If I've nobody say he did it and

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Speaker 1: mints it.

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Speaker 2: It went darre and then he left.

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Speaker 1: You never had a tone in your mouth though.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying no.

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Speaker 1: It took me a long time to get it toe

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Speaker 1: in my mouth, and I was a hedonism the first.

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Speaker 2: Time I did it. It was wild guy over.

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Speaker 1: They finished, it came out the pull and it was

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Speaker 1: a lady toe.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't even a male.

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Speaker 5: Toe came out first.

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Speaker 2: You said, She's said it came out of the pool.

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Speaker 1: She came out playing it to be clean. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: By the way, Lauren will kill something, you know, let's

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Speaker 3: just say Ler Pete. What you said, Mandy out of

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Speaker 3: the sex resort pool.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's some strong chlorine.

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Speaker 1: Hey, to be honest with you, that pool this mone

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Speaker 4: Oh that both y'all with Yeah, he was there for

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Speaker 2: I think I think, yeah, I thought you left. And

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Speaker 2: then it got a little crazy. I remember feat going

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Speaker 2: in Valves and I was like, I'm gonna go.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean if I was, I mean, look, man,

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Speaker 5: if I get off the plane at Hedonism and and

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Speaker 5: be reserve.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If you're going to Heto, you're going.

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Speaker 1: You'd always level one to watch they're doing to Brave.

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Speaker 1: You're going to Heto, You're going? Do you do?

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Speaker 2: You come to New York still often? Yeah, Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 5: I mean outside of filming, because we filmed for about

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Speaker 1: And it is it is shot here, right, Yeah?

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Speaker 4: They shout around the corner.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's given Brooklyn.

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Speaker 3: Didn't live in New York, like and it's been almost

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Speaker 3: a decade now, I just love New York storylines because

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Speaker 3: it's gonna be a certain energy vibe. I feel like

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Speaker 3: there's certain characters you always see in a New York show.

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Speaker 4: It's hard for me.

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Speaker 5: It was hard first season because I'm like, I'm still

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Speaker 5: when I get here, I still love the city. So yeah,

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Speaker 5: the first place, the first time you get somewhere, and

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Speaker 5: then I mean, I'm still looking, you know, I'm still

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Speaker 1: What I love about it is now watching like Sex

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Speaker 1: and the City or like older shows, I'm like, how

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Speaker 1: are these people affording these apartments?

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Speaker 2: In Survival though?

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Speaker 1: It's giving these they they got roommates, they got cats.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, this is kipping, it's real. No, it's

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Speaker 1: giving very rare, you know. I would like to ask you.

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Speaker 3: That never came to mind to ask an actor because

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Speaker 3: whenever people come on, we're like interested in knowing about

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Speaker 3: we shot this in twenty something days, right, Yes, people

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Speaker 3: really don't know what it's like to be on set

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Speaker 2: Can you kind of walk us through a.

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Speaker 4: Day, give me, give me more?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like walk us.

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Speaker 3: Through a day on a real production set. This is

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Speaker 3: This ain't the YouTube ship. This is a big deal.

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Speaker 3: Tell us what it's like.

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Speaker 2: I wake up.

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Speaker 5: It's different because okay, so this is a single cam.

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Speaker 5: Uh you know, single camera four walls.

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Speaker 5: So a multicam is like fresh Prince Martin live audience.

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Speaker 5: They're like the viewer is only seeing three walls in

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Speaker 1: Okay, right?

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Speaker 2: Three sixty is a single cam, no laughter nor nothing, yep.

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Speaker 5: So which is a longer day? A multicamp was Papa's

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Speaker 5: house multiicam?

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Speaker 4: So Damon and Damon Jr.

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Speaker 2: Yeah no, I'm going with the example.

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Speaker 1: I'll ask you.

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Speaker 4: I'm telling you.

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Speaker 5: But you get there, and if you shoot an episode,

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Speaker 4: You shoot for a TV show, for a sitcom, oh okay,

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Speaker 3: H oh, that's right, because they're kind of like improving

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Speaker 5: And so you traditionally, like you shoot on a Thursday

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Speaker 5: and you're there probably I don't know, eight ten hours

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Speaker 1: Now, now I want to I want to ask, because

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Speaker 1: are you still in a relationship?

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Speaker 2: Okay, do you?

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Speaker 1: Did you have to talks? I saw a ring on

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Speaker 1: the fingers. Oh well yeah, some people just peoking rings listen,

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Speaker 1: were talking about TV.

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Speaker 2: You know, I am not. That's where I'm getting to.

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Speaker 1: So in this show, though, there's like you in the

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Speaker 1: bed having sex with a woman.

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Speaker 2: You're a dating woman.

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Speaker 1: You're catching feelings, there's kisses, there's all these things. Is

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Speaker 1: there ever a time that your partner feels away with

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Speaker 3: Out about that though that was during that was the

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Speaker 1: Have been since she's kissed Nippers. Sure, so that was

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Speaker 1: I mean, but that's a personal That's why I guess

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Speaker 1: I'm asking because you have a job to do, and

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Speaker 1: then of course your personal life is something completely different.

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Speaker 5: I think it still has to make sense in the story.

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Speaker 5: If it makes sense for the story then because sometimes you.

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Speaker 4: Don't do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but if it makes sense, then you do it.

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Speaker 5: If it doesn't, then you discussed it to go. I

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Speaker 2: Have you done that with the thought of your partner though?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: No, okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, I really do want

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Speaker 3: to go back to VTS because I'm finding it's interesting. Okay,

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Speaker 3: So to Mandy's way, let's just say it's an intimacy

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Speaker 3: scene because I really like knowing how things happen.

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Speaker 4: I've met I do have a story for you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, boy, Well, first we should mention what an intimacy

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Speaker 3: quarter coordinator.

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Speaker 2: Is, which is still pretty bad one on the show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that Troy.

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Speaker 4: I've had Troy you worked with twice?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is we've had it on the show to

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Speaker 2: talk about actually only had Troy.

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Speaker 1: She's like, she's like, really like spearheading what that looks like?

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Speaker 2: You know in TV? That's awesome? Is it? No?

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Speaker 5: Maybe I've had I think I had one on on the.

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Speaker 4: Billy Us versus Billy Howdy. I think we did have

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Speaker 3: A conversation like when an intimacy coordinator has to talk.

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Speaker 5: I think everybody's right when it's still more awkward, it's

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Speaker 5: if I've known you for a couple of years, I know,

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Speaker 5: a couple of years and we got a scene, we

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Speaker 5: can probably go what you're comfortable with, right, let me

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Speaker 4: Cock sock is a little tiny crowd royal bag.

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Speaker 4: It is not a crowd roy it's a crowd royal bag.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, everything stuff, all of it.

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Speaker 5: Mean you got to get the right size. You gotta

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Speaker 4: It was it was crazy and that's my god, how

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Speaker 5: Well, I was like I was, We're on the vanity

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Speaker 1: No the ball people do they have leaves.

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Speaker 5: And mostly everybody everybody lead. Yeah, I think I think

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Speaker 3: So I had a nudity scene that I did for

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about legs spread open.

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Speaker 3: I also didn't shave for maybe three months because I

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Speaker 2: You ain't shaving, Okay, so down kinsful you could have shag.

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Speaker 5: Harry, You're getting waxed on camera like this, But that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you would it for what? No, that's not it's

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Speaker 5: let's go back to your original question about what's a normal.

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Speaker 4: Day on set.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes they fuck you up being like, we got this

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Speaker 5: set today and tomorrow we need to get this scene

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Speaker 1: Wait, wait, wait, would you only manscape because it's gonna

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Speaker 5: But also sometimes you gotta you know, you can't just

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Speaker 5: you gotta sometimes let the roots.

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Speaker 2: Grow out grow NBA.

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Speaker 3: Today got because I feel like the second I got

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Speaker 4: I was like, I told her. I was like, look y'all, go,

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Speaker 4: were gonna shoot this ship?

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Speaker 2: Win?

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Speaker 5: I go, I need to go like you know, I

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Speaker 5: didn't do that in the goddamn.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, that's right, because it was you had to

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Speaker 2: But I mean, but we weren't going to see that right.

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Speaker 4: And it was supposed to be theatrical. But yeah, him

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Speaker 3: Because it was actually something I just thought about when

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Speaker 1: You've known Mandy for years. Don't you think it would be.

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Speaker 3: More awkward to work or kiss a colleague versus someone

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Speaker 3: Let's just say Eden was active.

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Speaker 2: I can't even say it would be easy to do

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Speaker 1: Well, we hung out at the bar Madam and it

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Speaker 1: wasn't until he brought his girl and he was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: oh he got somebody.

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think.

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Speaker 1: You're right it normally, don't.

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Speaker 5: I'll make sure that everybody.

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Speaker 2: You made him comfortable.

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Speaker 1: But when we've had the conversation recently about having friends

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Speaker 4: That, that's when it gets awkward. I think, if I

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Speaker 4: know your.

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Speaker 5: Your partner, I can see that because like, I do

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Speaker 3: Yo, Jonathan Major's damn show was sitting there like, I've

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Speaker 1: That, mich Michael, Wait, do you think that that was

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Speaker 1: an appropriate hug? Let's get like as if you're if

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Speaker 1: you know the partner.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how long because I just met Jonathan recently.

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Speaker 5: I've known making in and out for for a little bit.

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Speaker 5: We always say hello. I don't know her well, but

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Speaker 5: you got to imagine that Eli and Good have known

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Speaker 3: I think he also probably acknowledged him, and I think

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Speaker 3: I'm sure he said.

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Speaker 1: But I do know those Is there a might it's

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Speaker 1: not family to pick up my I'm gonna is there

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Speaker 5: But ain't known each other probably twenty I do think

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Speaker 5: that's different. I do think that's different twenty years ago, Okay,

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Speaker 5: I mean before you get this relationship with her, you

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Speaker 1: Only honest fucking matter.

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Speaker 3: See, Like, just because Mo Niggan knows I'm cool with somebody, shouldn't.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but I think you respect the fact. I mean,

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Speaker 2: To feel a way?

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Speaker 1: I want you to?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Like that. I think.

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Speaker 5: I don't think it's jealousy as much as it's like,

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Speaker 1: You're always you should have a feeling way. I think

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Speaker 1: it's weird, but I'm not saying don't do it.

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Speaker 4: But you know.

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Speaker 2: Here's the thing that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: I realized, because we all work in this industry, we

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Speaker 1: However, what the fuck do I look like jumping up.

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Speaker 3: And being that excited about another man while my man

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but I don't really like situations where we

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Speaker 3: bet it down.

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Speaker 2: Hello, you're like, I see you both. You know me,

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Speaker 2: I'm a but you're a very.

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Speaker 1: Social person to be with, a confident person because you

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Speaker 5: Men, women, I'm a charming mor right, it's but also

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Speaker 5: some people don't know how to be charmed. So it's like,

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Speaker 1: You money, and some people don't know how to be charmed.

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Speaker 5: Some like as a dude, if I'm being charming a

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Speaker 5: it doesn't it doesn't leave this room.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't leave this experience.

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Speaker 5: But understand, I can still giggle what you make you

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Speaker 1: You know what's so funny about that? I have a

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Speaker 2: I'm a friendly person. Do you know this nigga.

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Speaker 1: Is to this day is going around saying that while

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Speaker 1: and I said, I got multiple numbers that night. I'm

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Speaker 1: a friendly person. I'm like, oh, you thought I was

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Speaker 1: hitting on you, nigga. I didn't want to say you,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, because I just go into a room, I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm friendly.

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Speaker 1: He took it as I was hitting on him, and

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Speaker 1: we've had to have this conversation. We're still friends to

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Speaker 1: this day.

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Speaker 5: I'm saying that night, no, I was in the bedroom set,

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Speaker 5: determine what I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't see him the end of that night. I

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Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, do men not expect women to be

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Speaker 1: friendly is a number exchange flirting? Because we exchanged numbers

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Speaker 1: the night I met you with my homegirl. Sometimes and

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Speaker 1: it wasn't like a.

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Speaker 5: I was sometimes like some people, some people go, did

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00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:27,000
Speaker 5: you spend too much time with this person?

452
00:18:27,160 --> 00:18:27,479
Speaker 2: Right? Like?

453
00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,000
Speaker 5: But then if that look don't come, then you should

454
00:18:31,040 --> 00:18:34,200
Speaker 5: be able to know this was just a social interaction. Okay,

455
00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,320
Speaker 5: you know.

456
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Speaker 1: That's that's not true. You don't think so.

457
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Speaker 3: For number one, if both of you didn't have the

458
00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:44,359
Speaker 3: jobs that you had, exchanging numbers would be beyond platonic.

459
00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,040
Speaker 1: Oh I think, I mean I disagree.

460
00:18:47,160 --> 00:18:51,040
Speaker 3: If you met Mandy and Mandy worked at oh I

461
00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:52,320
Speaker 3: was in an account.

462
00:18:52,760 --> 00:18:54,800
Speaker 1: Why would you be exchanging numbers with Mandy when you have.

463
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Speaker 4: A partner if she was only an accountant?

464
00:18:57,160 --> 00:18:59,320
Speaker 1: Because when I met you, I wasn't potting.

465
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Speaker 3: Maybe I need if you were, like he said, we

466
00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:05,400
Speaker 3: need an account like when it's like there is a

467
00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:08,080
Speaker 3: small pass and we are not going to act like

468
00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:10,639
Speaker 3: it's not real that we all have with our partners.

469
00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,560
Speaker 3: If I met you random somewhere else, we would probably

470
00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:15,640
Speaker 3: maybe do I know you? Oh you're the solves or whatever?

471
00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:18,760
Speaker 3: Come upon sometimes do this. There's something we're gonna use

472
00:19:18,840 --> 00:19:20,920
Speaker 3: from each other. There's something that there's.

473
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Speaker 5: Majority of the time, majority of the time, but I

474
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Speaker 5: will I will say, depend on what we talked about

475
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Speaker 5: in that interaction, I will say that you might have

476
00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,080
Speaker 5: mentioned something for someone that you know that I can't

477
00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,520
Speaker 5: get to, that you can that you.

478
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Speaker 2: Can advant me. So I haven't done that.

479
00:19:32,640 --> 00:19:33,320
Speaker 1: So that's my point.

480
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Speaker 4: So I can exchange numbers, but you maybe get to

481
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:36,760
Speaker 4: But Tom.

482
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:37,080
Speaker 2: That's the point.

483
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:43,720
Speaker 1: So she's saying that unless there's like a business connection

484
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Speaker 1: of some sort in any other way or relationship, it

485
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Speaker 1: would be wrong for you, as a man who's in

486
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Speaker 1: a relationship or me as a woman in a relationship,

487
00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,480
Speaker 1: to just casually exchange numbers because you wouldn't be doing that.

488
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Speaker 3: There is something to us being in an industry. To

489
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Speaker 3: be honest with you, most times, sometimes the only thing

490
00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:05,280
Speaker 3: is black. I've been I do lax to JFK a lot.

491
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 3: If there's someone else black adults one swear.

492
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,080
Speaker 1: To that, we'd be like, because like right now, and

493
00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 1: how are gonna take you to get that number seconds?

494
00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:13,560
Speaker 1: Because we have the same industry.

495
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,879
Speaker 3: Now, if he was just chilling traveling New York with

496
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 3: his homeboys, I'm not shooting on my man.

497
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:23,320
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, if.

498
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Speaker 3: You just met a woman sitting next to you who

499
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:27,920
Speaker 3: didn't say I have a podcast, I work in TV,

500
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 3: I work in radio, and you're like, let's connect.

501
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,360
Speaker 2: What the fuck are we connecting for? You know what?

502
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,240
Speaker 5: It depends on what you do, because you might you

503
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 5: might have a wonderful dropwall business and I'm trying to

504
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Speaker 5: renovate a world.

505
00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:41,160
Speaker 3: It's madness related, but on the vibe. Because the thing

506
00:20:41,200 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 3: Mandy just said, they made me make this point is, oh, yeah,

507
00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:47,560
Speaker 3: we were connecting whatever. That's the point. When two people

508
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 3: connect like this, they have to be tied to each

509
00:20:50,560 --> 00:20:51,080
Speaker 3: other some way.

510
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:51,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

511
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Speaker 1: I even told him, I said, nigga that night, I

512
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,000
Speaker 1: got two other nigga's numbers.

513
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,560
Speaker 2: I ain't talk to them like that.

514
00:20:56,880 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 1: Like, but the exchange of numbers for this person, he assumed,

515
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,400
Speaker 1: it was like a Oh, it's gonna be something more

516
00:21:03,760 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 1: now I do.

517
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:06,720
Speaker 5: Well, Yes, okay, I don't disagree with you, but I

518
00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 5: do think there's a great area where sometimes it does

519
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 5: make some not the gray area.

520
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Speaker 1: Your woman get a number from a nigga and she

521
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,040
Speaker 1: say it's Gray Bay.

522
00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:15,280
Speaker 2: It's great, it's cool.

523
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 1: You know it might be you see how you said that.

524
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 2: Listen, Yeah, I want to get to.

525
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,800
Speaker 4: Talk to them, but after you make dinner.

526
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well we have a clip that I

527
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,199
Speaker 1: want to play while we're speaking on cheating, and I

528
00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 1: want to because we weren't speaking on cheating. Here's was

529
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Speaker 1: it while we're talking about cheatastic We didn't get the

530
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 1: cheating by the way, well we said the exchanging.

531
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Speaker 6: Numbers with she I get like my Nieme got like

532
00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,119
Speaker 6: four times a cheat on me before I leave and

533
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 6: I you know the in and that and other be

534
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,719
Speaker 6: Oh my god, she's someone In reality, we all got

535
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,679
Speaker 6: cheated on the stage, every right. If you really in

536
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,440
Speaker 6: love with your nigga, you locked in. Y'all been together.

537
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,800
Speaker 6: It's not easy to walk away. You got some women

538
00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,680
Speaker 6: that's going to get the fuck on some women that

539
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 6: you got some women that's going to the first time

540
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 6: they man cheat, they're out. It's easy to walk away.

541
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 6: Like if you don't build something with somebody, I don't

542
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 6: been together to put some on their hurts. Of course

543
00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:18,720
Speaker 6: you want to leave, but you're not just want to

544
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:19,640
Speaker 6: leave like y'all.

545
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:20,239
Speaker 1: Love to get on in there.

546
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:22,400
Speaker 6: I'll beat you someone, don't you said fourth times?

547
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 1: Yes? Bitch.

548
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 4: I know, Opinel, We're just.

549
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 6: In a relationship. They getting chicken on right now or

550
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,919
Speaker 6: being chitting on. It ain't no they checking. Some women's

551
00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,240
Speaker 6: just not leaving a man. My first time, it's like

552
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 6: you hurting me. I can't believe you do this to me. Okay, cool,

553
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 6: we might we probably gonna get back together, but the alreations,

554
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 6: she will never be the same, right, It's never gonna

555
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 6: be the same. Second time, it's like you you Oh, okay,

556
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,120
Speaker 6: so you're a cheetah. Third time, I'm already cheating back.

557
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 6: Fourth time, I know you got to go beach hold on?

558
00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: Way is that me I started cheating back at the

559
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: third time, I would Oh god, I don't know. I

560
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:58,880
Speaker 1: want to know if you guys ate, do you all

561
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: agree with her? Like is it like or is there

562
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: a certain number of times you would give your partner

563
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 1: or have in the past given a partner to cheat,

564
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 1: like where you actually stayed or they stayed because you cheated.

565
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:14,639
Speaker 4: I don't. I mean, I'm sure it's happened.

566
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 5: I don't know of I mean since college, I don't

567
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:20,679
Speaker 5: after college, I don't know of the time I've been

568
00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:21,080
Speaker 5: cheated on.

569
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 4: But also I don't go looking for it.

570
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.

571
00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 4: I don't ask. I just go this ain't working and

572
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 4: and we move on.

573
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: But I don't.

574
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,359
Speaker 4: I'm sure I haven't cheated on since college, but I

575
00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 4: don't know about it.

576
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: Do you agree with her that most women stay after

577
00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 1: I mean cheats.

578
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh damn.

579
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 4: Matter of fact, Yeah, I.

580
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: Think we can all agree.

581
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah.

582
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,439
Speaker 1: The only woman that I know that left was Robin

583
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,480
Speaker 1: Thix's ex wife. That bitch left and it ain't never

584
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,040
Speaker 1: come back.

585
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 2: You know what's so fucked up to say?

586
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:55,679
Speaker 1: And there we go.

587
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 3: The only time I left the man that's cheated was

588
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 3: because I ain't want to.

589
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:03,800
Speaker 2: Much because when you was looking for a way out anyway.

590
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:09,960
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what's crazy about what she

591
00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 1: said though to me like this? And I know you

592
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: can cheat even if you're in a like Polly or.

593
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 2: Open relationship like me.

594
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: And we both got cheated on, and you know I

595
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: was opening sale with that fuck nigga. He's still cheated

596
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:24,879
Speaker 1: like an idiot. So for this though, I always wonder,

597
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,679
Speaker 1: if you're a woman that's gonna constantly stay with a

598
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: man who you know is cheating on you, why not

599
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 1: just be in a non monogous relationship if you know,

600
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 1: that's not a deal breaker for you, like to me, normally,

601
00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: in monogamy, the deal breaker is you sleeping with someone else.

602
00:24:42,000 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 2: So if you are saying that Nigga got four.

603
00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 1: Times till I leave him, he gonna go and probably volted.

604
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 3: From I mean, I think she's being facetious, But you

605
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 3: think that was her being facetious.

606
00:24:55,119 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like she was just fucking around.

607
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: It's sound like some city girls should to me.

608
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 3: But the reason that women aren't getting in non monogamous

609
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 3: relationships because they have faith.

610
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:07,800
Speaker 2: That's it.

611
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, Like we all have

612
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:10,800
Speaker 1: faith our relationships will work out.

613
00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:14,399
Speaker 5: You don't want to lose access to what you have

614
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,199
Speaker 5: in that relationship. Oh, I think that's what do you

615
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,960
Speaker 5: mean by access? If if you take it? If I

616
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:20,960
Speaker 5: got if I'm doing well and I got money, and

617
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:22,880
Speaker 5: you live in the lifestyle you want to, and all

618
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 5: I'm doing is I run out of town real quick.

619
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 5: You find out I might and you fall into might

620
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:28,879
Speaker 5: smash and then I come back. But you still live

621
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 5: in the same lifestyle. You you're probably more for that's.

622
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:34,199
Speaker 1: Only for a woman who's benefiting from what you do.

623
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:34,879
Speaker 2: Financially.

624
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: But there are broke men that cheat, and women say

625
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 1: the broken broke.

626
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 4: Okay, it can be, it can be.

627
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: I think we have to stop.

628
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 3: Thinking women really want money that bad, when really they

629
00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 3: just want time, they want availability, They.

630
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 2: Want to say they got a man. You you.

631
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 4: I can't believe you said that out loud like you

632
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 4: believe it.

633
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: I actually really do.

634
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 3: Is that is I would literally die on the cross

635
00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,520
Speaker 3: about that tone. And I'll tell you why, why do

636
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 3: you know how many bitches out here waiting on niggas

637
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:04,200
Speaker 3: from jail?

638
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 4: Let me I got let that download?

639
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 2: Just give one second?

640
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,439
Speaker 4: Will let you finish? I'm gonna let you finish. That

641
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 4: is a wild fucking take.

642
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: I would love to debate you on this.

643
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,160
Speaker 4: Believe that shit that you just said.

644
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 5: I know, and I know we met today, but I've

645
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 5: known you for years. We know each other, but I've

646
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 5: known you for years.

647
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 2: That's a.

648
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 3: One percent of men, let's just say even five percent

649
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 3: of men in this country. Let me sit up, have

650
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 3: bread enough to where it's just like, oh my god,

651
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:32,160
Speaker 3: this is something to gag over. Black women are making

652
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,719
Speaker 3: money way higher rates than men. Higher education in men

653
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,560
Speaker 3: not mentioned entrepreneurs. These women are staying with men just

654
00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 3: to say they have a man. They are not staying

655
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 3: with men because they're going to dinner and being slowed

656
00:26:46,440 --> 00:26:47,200
Speaker 3: on private jets.

657
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 2: That's not the case.

658
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 3: These girls want access, they want time, they want to

659
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 3: keep the fucking photos on the grade glories.

660
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 2: Of women that you're talking about.

661
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 5: I'm talking about if I'm doing I'm doing better, and

662
00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 5: then she is benefiting off of what I have.

663
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 2: She's more likely to stay if I step.

664
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 1: Out in that instance. But there's not many of those

665
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: only instance.

666
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 3: I just say, Okay, I'm just saying there's less of

667
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 3: those instances than the others.

668
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 4: And if you're talking about that, then yes, I agree

669
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 4: with you.

670
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 5: Okay, that's what I'm talking When she got her own ship,

671
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 5: you don't have to put up with that ship.

672
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: Actually no, if she has the own ship, she's still

673
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 1: staying with that.

674
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,359
Speaker 5: Fuck yeah, but how long you've been I mean yeah,

675
00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 5: well look, I mean yeah, well yes, I mean but

676
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 5: but that is Look, there's always what do people call it?

677
00:27:26,000 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 5: I mean, that's that's the no, that's stock syndrome, like

678
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 5: it's the it's the.

679
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:39,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, see now you flustered? What No, all,

680
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say is I just think the trope

681
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: of women get ran over by men with money.

682
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,679
Speaker 5: Exception, not the rule that like there is an exception

683
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 5: to the rule, and a lot of times it's that

684
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 5: those are the people that will stick stick around, you know,

685
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 5: because like some people just go, I don't want to

686
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 5: get back out there. I'll deal with this because I

687
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 5: don't want to go through this again. I don't want

688
00:27:58,040 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 5: to go up to New Dennis to take somebody against

689
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 5: some side puss and know when I go to the

690
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 5: bathroom he gonna order the bruss sprouts like somebody rather

691
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,159
Speaker 5: than stick with that then to go, I'm not doing

692
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 5: this over again.

693
00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 1: It's just we're not seeing many scenarios.

694
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 3: I think it's just the Instagram highlight big the thing

695
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 3: we're talking about on Twitter, to see girls being with

696
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 3: rich men the cheat.

697
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 2: But in reality it's to everyday dude.

698
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 5: It's a girl who saying, got they ship together, don't

699
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 5: put their shit on Instagram?

700
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 3: Who people have got their shit together? Still staying though, Okay,

701
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: I really think.

702
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 4: That's what they're supposed to do.

703
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 2: They're supposed to stay through cheating.

704
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 4: They're supposed to stay together.

705
00:28:33,920 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: No no, wait, wait, wait, no matter how no other

706
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: partners up?

707
00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 4: If no, no, And that's how you negotiate.

708
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 5: If you negotiate, I'm cool with you stepping out or

709
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:44,720
Speaker 5: it ain't that big a deal to me.

710
00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 2: Okay.

711
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 5: As much as I don't want to check the cheat

712
00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 5: on me, I'd rather look, I'd rather I'd rather like,

713
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 5: don't watch Paradise without me. Oh that means if you

714
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 5: if you're out of town and look, hey man, some

715
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 5: charming dudes out there. If you fuck around and get

716
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,760
Speaker 5: some but you watch you show, we're gonna have a problem.

717
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 5: That's our thing. Okay, you know I don't want it

718
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 5: to have it, but we can. We can talk about

719
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 5: you have.

720
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: Those conversations as well, like like you know, well do

721
00:29:09,440 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: you have like do you have deal breakers? Here's the

722
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 1: thing I think that women out up front say they

723
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 1: have these deal breakers like cheating, and then once he

724
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: cheats and you stay, all of those deal breakers are

725
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 1: now thrown out the window because now he doesn't believe

726
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: that you really have any deal breakers.

727
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 2: How did you find out he cheated?

728
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 1: Wait, I'm asking.

729
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 3: I don't want to hate men to say I don't

730
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 3: want to hate light skin man.

731
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 4: How did you find out? What is that asked the question.

732
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:43,080
Speaker 3: You know, because this is what he's gonna say. Was

733
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 3: it disrespectful? Did she come to you as a woman?

734
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 1: No?

735
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: No, no, do you go through my phone?

736
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: No?

737
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no, you asked that. I didn't ask them.

738
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 3: He's gonna say there's a disrespectful cheating. Did he take

739
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 3: her out? Did other people find out?

740
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 5: And that was about to say no, because if you

741
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 5: like you fucked the around, you was out of town,

742
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 5: you hooked up with your ex, and I told you

743
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 5: about y'all fucked around, got drunk, hooked up with my ex.

744
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:06,440
Speaker 2: I'm letting you know up top.

745
00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 4: Or is this a thing where you invaded?

746
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 3: No?

747
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, I made it?

748
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Who cares?

749
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 2: Who?

750
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 1: Who care?

751
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 2: Let me go through my ship.

752
00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: I'll have you.

753
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:19,680
Speaker 5: I'll rather you find out I'm cheating. Final I got

754
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 5: a secret bank account, which I do.

755
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 1: It ain't a secret.

756
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 3: No, but so you actually the X would be a

757
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 3: deal breaker for me. Oh but but you say that

758
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 3: my ex but not random?

759
00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: No?

760
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, an ex would kill and ex would kill you.

761
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 3: My partner and I've talked about this, so being there

762
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,280
Speaker 3: were ethically non monogamous we've had to talk about like

763
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 3: who would be Okay, and a very hard note for me.

764
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 3: Women you said I love you two women you were

765
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 3: really seriously dating. Like if there was a bitch that

766
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 3: wanted to be with you, you.

767
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: Can't fund that house.

768
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, that'd get that. Give me you know

769
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

770
00:30:54,400 --> 00:30:56,680
Speaker 3: Like now, if you went out there every day people

771
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 3: and there was something every day you got a little.

772
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 1: Waistbeed John, I get it.

773
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 3: But you ain't about to go oh wow, out of

774
00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 3: all the bitches in this world and you fucked your.

775
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 2: Ex, are you fucking high?

776
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 3: No?

777
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 2: I feel safe over there.

778
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: Yeah that's the problem.

779
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, No, I don't mean that some devil's advocate,

780
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 2: but I understand.

781
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 5: It's a good scenario. I'm just saying that's a scenario

782
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 5: throughout No, because you know what.

783
00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: It is, you miss that pussy. That's the problem.

784
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 3: New pussy's supposed to be better than any pussy, and

785
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 3: you fucking took the opportunity to go into some pussy.

786
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: You know they are they able to communicate at all?

787
00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 4: Oh, my partner in his exes like, no, I don't

788
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 4: like that.

789
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: You don't like that.

790
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 5: I mean, I think if you if because I'm a

791
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 5: monogamous person. But if you if you are dealing in monogamy,

792
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 5: I think you should get rid of the number, like

793
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 5: we should. I don't even want I don't put myself

794
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 5: in a situation too fuck that up.

795
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: It's so crazy because I just had an incident. Uh,

796
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: and my partner was so shocked. I didn't get upset

797
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:54,240
Speaker 1: about it. Basically, Uh, he ordered a shirt that you

798
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: really need. They're mature of him, by the way, No,

799
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: don't do that. We're not going to do that. We're

800
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: not going to do that. He's British, so of course

801
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 1: he's mature. Oh my god.

802
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 2: So he's like, really thirty five. So he drink tea,

803
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 2: and shit, don't do that.

804
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,360
Speaker 4: Don't do that, tea drinker, go ahead.

805
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 2: Young tea drinks crazy.

806
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: But basically, he ordered something and it went to the

807
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:20,680
Speaker 1: ex's address, and the ex was like, I just got something,

808
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 1: do you need it? And he actually needed it the

809
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:27,719
Speaker 1: next day and she came and brought it over and

810
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 1: his friend was there and was like, oh my god,

811
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 1: I can't believe, like who you're in a relationship. Your

812
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: ex came over and so we had to have a

813
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 1: whole conversation about it because he almost, he of course

814
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: asked my permission.

815
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 2: I was like, hey, you need the share. I don't

816
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 2: give fuck oh because and see.

817
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,360
Speaker 4: See ask permission or we're just like I'm just.

818
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 2: He said he's I need it?

819
00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: Like is that something that I guess he's used to

820
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: everything being a problem with his past relationships in terms

821
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: of women, And for me, I was like, maybe you

822
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: need it. I don't care if you're X game. So

823
00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 1: it's like, did she suck your dick and drop the

824
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: shirt off? If that didn't happen out give a fun

825
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,880
Speaker 1: get your ship, oh.

826
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 3: Because Uber has this package and it's significantly less than

827
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 3: when you're in a regular Uber and I would gladly

828
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:09,719
Speaker 3: call it.

829
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 4: I would I would have.

830
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 1: Like, makes you half way, or I would tell you

831
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: all right now, sorry for interrupting you.

832
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 3: Ex call me Tom and said, I got a shirt

833
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 3: over there. If I won't, I'm gonna drop it off.

834
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 3: If I want that nigga to see me, I'm gonna

835
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:28,520
Speaker 3: go out my way to drop it off.

836
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: Am I line right now.

837
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 5: I hear you. I hear you, and you're not wrong.

838
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 5: Did they just break up because like they weren't working. Yeah,

839
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 5: it was a few years ago, but it's like like

840
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 5: it just don't work. Yeah, I'm fine with that that.

841
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: I don't think there's any desire for them to be together.

842
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 5: If two people go, you know what, we tried, this

843
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 5: ship don't work.

844
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: That don't matter to me. You can Hey, now now.

845
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: We are dissecting, it matters how you break. That's the weather.

846
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 1: As an ex you.

847
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:01,560
Speaker 2: Could come around.

848
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 1: He started it cheat.

849
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:06,479
Speaker 2: That is crazy.

850
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 1: Wait, let me ask you this question, because we had

851
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 1: a debate off camera when we were recording the other day.

852
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: Do you believe once a cheater, always a cheater. Uh No,

853
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:15,759
Speaker 1: you don't believe that.

854
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 5: I think a former cheater can as long as you

855
00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 5: know how you got yourself in them positions, you can.

856
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 2: You can. You can be the bitch over that's how

857
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 2: they got in the position.

858
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: Like, that's your free no.

859
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 5: To put yourself in that circumstance if you can, if

860
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 5: you know, if you know how you got yourself there

861
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 5: in that circumstance, you can avoid that.

862
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 4: So I mean, look, man, I've cheated. I don't cheat

863
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 4: no more and I haven't in years.

864
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 5: But I go, but I don't trust myself if I

865
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 5: go to this place, stay here too long, be around,

866
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 5: Who's going to be there, so like I'm back out going. Nah,

867
00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 5: I don't even want to think that this might be

868
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 5: an issue, Like I might be having some tequila that night.

869
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 5: You give me that look, ago, I can't take that look.

870
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 5: That look got me in the first place, so I'd

871
00:34:58,239 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 5: rather not go.

872
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 2: Okay, Damn I disagree.

873
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:05,720
Speaker 1: So I mean yeah, like for me, I think right now,

874
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: but now you're not cheap.

875
00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 4: I always think about it.

876
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: You always think about it. It is so honest, and

877
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: I appreciate that.

878
00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:17,880
Speaker 5: You'll never go. You'll never I don't care how monogamous

879
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 5: you are. You will never go ooh. That would be

880
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 5: lovely to take down, it would I don't you don't

881
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 5: shoot your shot, but you go ooh ooh if I

882
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:28,680
Speaker 5: was still.

883
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 3: Now you know why I think this is such a

884
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:34,160
Speaker 3: healthy thing to hear because a conversation I was having

885
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,799
Speaker 3: with my partner, like he was like, I feel like

886
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 3: when people make comments about what we're doing, they don't

887
00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 3: realize how much we talk, how much conversation is surrounding

888
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 3: our relationship, not to mention how much we talk about

889
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 3: things that's in a head, Like I'm telling you I'm

890
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,839
Speaker 3: thinking about fucking someone or I'm telling you when women

891
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 3: are walking by, like we're sharing this together, right. Do

892
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 3: you know how many times in a monogamous relationship you

893
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 3: just shut the fucking share it. There was a video

894
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 3: going around, and it'll make someone feel invalidated, Like a

895
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 3: lot of women would feel.

896
00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 2: Like why open that? Motherfucker? Is?

897
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 1: Uh, yeah, why open if you monogamous?

898
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 4: Now, buddy?

899
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 2: He no, no.

900
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is like, just to know you

901
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 3: have the thought, there's a woman that could hear her

902
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 3: man say that and be like, oh he hates me.

903
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 2: I'm ugly.

904
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: I think there's a lot I'm not actually feel away

905
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 1: and getting your Everyone's entitled to feel how they want, yeah,

906
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 1: but a lot of I don't think a lot of

907
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: men are able to admit what you just admitted, even

908
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 1: to their partner, Like I think just even saying that

909
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: it crosses your mind to possibly like the idea of

910
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 1: being with another woman would bother a partner.

911
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 4: That's I mean, you can't stop the imagination. Whyle A'm

912
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 4: I hoted.

913
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 5: Ooh okay, now what if your partner's dold you there?

914
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 5: And I don't think it's attached to fantasy. I just

915
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 5: think going, oh, man, I bet you've given that mind.

916
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 5: If I'm single and I was had the opportunity, I

917
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 5: bet you I could pull that and in twenty four

918
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 5: forty dollars, I could be Horrizon word.

919
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 4: I bet you I could. But that's it.

920
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 5: I think everybody you don't see nobody when you out

921
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:06,800
Speaker 5: by yourself being like, Oh.

922
00:37:07,120 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 4: If I was in, I could, I could, I could

923
00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 4: knock that out.

924
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 1: Okay, that's rocket scroll.

925
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 3: Fuck being outside, I'll scroll on the motherfucking phone.

926
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 4: I'm like, I can knock, which is also a problem.

927
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:21,919
Speaker 2: Shit, yeah, that's the biggest problem. But I was gonna

928
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: ask you scroll.

929
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 3: So if we said that women would feel away, I

930
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 3: really think men would die if they heard their girl

931
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 3: say I see men every day constantly think about what

932
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 3: I would do to do like, I really think men

933
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 3: couldn't handle that.

934
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:39,400
Speaker 5: Bo that's a step further though, Oh that's the same step.

935
00:37:39,440 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 5: That's not the same step you said.

936
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:42,480
Speaker 2: I constantly think I.

937
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 5: Get yours was the action word you gave verbs, not

938
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 5: you gave. I didn't give verbs. You you out here

939
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 5: like like like you on the line, and the fucking

940
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 5: gun went off, like, oh, if I'm getting to the race. No,

941
00:37:55,320 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 5: I'm talking about just looking being like that motherfucker's attractive. Well,

942
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 5: I bet you we'd have some good sex, and then

943
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 5: you go and get by the rest of your growth.

944
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 3: I bet you we'd have some good sex. I'm my gosh,

945
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,759
Speaker 3: I bet you we'd have some good sex.

946
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 2: I bet you know.

947
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 5: I'll bet you out there that motherfuck right there as

948
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,480
Speaker 5: fine as fuck. And let me not even look over

949
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 5: there too long.

950
00:38:21,480 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: I can. I say that it has to be this

951
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: has to be the easiest role that you have ever had,

952
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: because very simpler.

953
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,439
Speaker 4: Oh yes me, I'm not gonna hold you.

954
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 2: Was watching UH season one and there was a scene and.

955
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 1: I kind of wanted to bring it up because I

956
00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: want to know how this happens there. If we could

957
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: talk about men, we talk about with women, how we

958
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 1: get into situationships. We were having sex casually, and as

959
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:50,640
Speaker 1: women we always end up catching feelings. Season one, episode four,

960
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 1: You've been having sex, sleeping with this woman, and as

961
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: a man, you realize, damn you like her, and you

962
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: don't your homegirls had to tell you, oh, you like

963
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: this bitch. How often does that happen for men to

964
00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: catch feelings in a casual situationship with a woman?

965
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 5: Uh?

966
00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 4: I think that question. I canna only answer for myself.

967
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 4: But has it happened?

968
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 2: Yes?

969
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 5: Okay, but yeah, it starts off sex first, and then

970
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:16,439
Speaker 5: you go, oh, man, I think I want to see

971
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:17,959
Speaker 5: if I like eating with you, if I like hanging

972
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 5: with you. It starts off as just sex, and then

973
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 5: you go, I don't really want you leave, so I'll

974
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 5: there's steps to it.

975
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:28,319
Speaker 1: Give us the steps, just as for the ladies, just

976
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: so that maybe they're not confused, because men have a

977
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,719
Speaker 1: hard time saying that they like you. So if you're

978
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:38,760
Speaker 1: just in a casual situationship fuck buddy situation, the man

979
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: leading may start to like you if he's asking you

980
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 1: to spend the night.

981
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 5: We can put this at the first it's been years. Okay,

982
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 5: it's been a while. It's been a while, but I

983
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 5: guess my move used to be, all right, we hook

984
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 5: up and then you eventually you can stay.

985
00:39:56,040 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 1: Eventually you could stay, right, you mean eventually after a

986
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: few times we both, yeah, you can?

987
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 4: You can?

988
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 2: You having sex?

989
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,319
Speaker 1: Not the first time, probably not the first time.

990
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 3: How do you politely tell someone they can't stay right after?

991
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,080
Speaker 1: I don't let you in my game?

992
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 4: Well, one, you don't bite them in your house you

993
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 4: go to the house.

994
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: Oh, I hate niggas. My nigga told me that's the trick. Damn.

995
00:40:18,880 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 2: I thought.

996
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: I like just being able to tell a nigga by

997
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:24,760
Speaker 1: and I don't have to move. But you know that's

998
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: really you only.

999
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 4: Come to mind if you got a roommate.

1000
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: What why's that matter? Not he's saying you don't want

1001
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,919
Speaker 1: no roommate. Hearing him slapping cheeks.

1002
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, I got I don't need if when they got company.

1003
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 5: I'm not dealing with this whole. I'm walking when I

1004
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:44,880
Speaker 5: go to the kitchen in the middle of.

1005
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 1: Rock to brief to boxing. You know what's crazy. When

1006
00:40:48,080 --> 00:40:49,919
Speaker 1: I did have roommates, that used to be a thing.

1007
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: We'd have niggas over at the same time.

1008
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 4: If you are when you're youngest, what happens.

1009
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 1: But if you well and your this was in my twenties. Yeah,

1010
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:00,239
Speaker 1: I remember having a man come over and he'd have

1011
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: to what's up?

1012
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:01,479
Speaker 2: Bruh.

1013
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 3: So the nigga on the couch and that that can

1014
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 3: be not talking two.

1015
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 5: Os, Oh my god, it's I'm not I'm not doing it.

1016
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 5: I'm especially if y'all sharing a wall. If the if

1017
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:12,080
Speaker 5: they're not playing.

1018
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: Is awkward, is this a two.

1019
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 4: I want to we're floor playing, sharing walls.

1020
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: You need to see the floor plan before you go.

1021
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:21,960
Speaker 4: You know what diagram that's out for me.

1022
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:23,919
Speaker 1: Now.

1023
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:27,279
Speaker 3: I've always like heard some men say so most of

1024
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 3: my male friends are now in their forties and the

1025
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 3: one or late thirties for the ones who are single,

1026
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 3: and they'll say things to me once in a blue

1027
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 3: about how they went to a woman's house to impress them, like, damn,

1028
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 3: she was doing this, she's cooking for me, her spot

1029
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 3: was nice. Did you ever find the like, go into

1030
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 3: a woman's house made you actually want to sleep over?

1031
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 3: Has a woman ever got you so cozy and fucking for?

1032
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 2: Absolutely? Yeah?

1033
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: How do we trick them?

1034
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 4: That's not how?

1035
00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 2: What are the things that you look for?

1036
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 5: I mean just like the organization that the tidiness, a

1037
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 5: nice fool free You've got good pots and pants. You

1038
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 5: you got spatulors that ain't got the little plastics you

1039
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:08,960
Speaker 5: ca hang off because you the hadis in college you

1040
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:11,719
Speaker 5: got you know, you got ceramic cook wear instead of

1041
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 5: uh teflon some ship you got from big life.

1042
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 3: You know what you're making anything you ever started? Stop

1043
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 3: not want to cut someone off because there was cooking.

1044
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 4: They keep doing it to me.

1045
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: No cutting someone off like a.

1046
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 1: Cutting you off?

1047
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 4: No, no, go ahead.

1048
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean like you know, when someone's cooking so

1049
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 3: good or the pussy too good. Has there ever been

1050
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 3: something that's kept you in the relationship longer because the

1051
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:37,240
Speaker 3: woman was doing.

1052
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 1: It so right?

1053
00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 2: Uh?

1054
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:43,959
Speaker 5: Yeah, usually only those things without other time, like because

1055
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 5: you really got to get bored with somebody to.

1056
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 2: See if y'all gonna rock. It's easy.

1057
00:42:48,480 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 5: It's easy to go out, it's easy to have it's

1058
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,760
Speaker 5: easy to fuck, it's easy to find food, it's easy

1059
00:42:53,760 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 5: to to to go to a concert when you got

1060
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 5: other distractions. That's easy to have a good time with somebody.

1061
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,120
Speaker 5: That's it's time to be bored when you when you're

1062
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 5: sitting at the house being like, cool, you got a show,

1063
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 5: I got a show.

1064
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 4: We got our show.

1065
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 5: And then when you can spend a weekend from Friday

1066
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 5: to probably Monday, and.

1067
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 4: You go, oh, how do we?

1068
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 2: How do we?

1069
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 4: How does this dance go? With both of us?

1070
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:12,879
Speaker 1: Here?

1071
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:14,640
Speaker 2: Got tell any couple, And I mean, you know, I'm

1072
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 2: a street therapist.

1073
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 5: I tell I tell any couple, like if especially if

1074
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 5: it's long distance, like start out slow, start out, and.

1075
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 1: What I'm doing right now.

1076
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 5: Take three to four days and then you go, boom,

1077
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,239
Speaker 5: We're going from the Thursday to a Monday, and the

1078
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,439
Speaker 5: next trip like maybe we'll maybe we'll do five or six,

1079
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 5: maybe seven.

1080
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1081
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1082
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 4: I'm saying you have to graduate to that.

1083
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 1: And that's where so my part in right now is

1084
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:39,279
Speaker 1: like trying to sneak in five by coming in like

1085
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:40,400
Speaker 1: a day like.

1086
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 2: But but to me, you get there, he would.

1087
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,239
Speaker 1: Want to spend more time, and for me, I'm the same.

1088
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 1: I would like to gradually do that, but not maybe

1089
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 1: more than four because I also need space.

1090
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 4: But that's if he busy.

1091
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 5: If he coming just to see you, he got nothing

1092
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 5: else going on, that means you gotta make time for him.

1093
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:56,799
Speaker 5: But if he come in town, you got shit to do.

1094
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 5: Six days don't seem like in Atlanta, that's then that yeah,

1095
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 5: that's an issue.

1096
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 2: Right.

1097
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 4: It's like if i'm you.

1098
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: Know, I'm getting him.

1099
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 2: You know he already found a gym by I think he's.

1100
00:44:08,080 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 3: Fair if he's coming to Atlanta and he doesn't have

1101
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:13,839
Speaker 3: anything to do but spend time with many.

1102
00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 5: Many treating a trip with me like it's spring break.

1103
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 5: I have ship to do who also needs to be

1104
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 5: right because when you go to LA you know people

1105
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:22,400
Speaker 5: you guys should to do.

1106
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 3: But he could also be doing work at home and

1107
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: stuff like that. So our conversation just to give you

1108
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 3: some back.

1109
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 4: Story something with you make me miss you.

1110
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: Being together, separate down well give.

1111
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,240
Speaker 4: Them that shirt everybody.

1112
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 5: And I heard this from some other people too, but

1113
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:40,680
Speaker 5: also those are just my rules of like over the

1114
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 5: years of the twenty plus years I've been dating, how

1115
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:44,600
Speaker 5: do I get to learn somebody like you?

1116
00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 4: Better take a trip, take a road trip.

1117
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 2: How long trip?

1118
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:52,280
Speaker 5: For at least three hours one way? Three hours one way?

1119
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 5: Figure out because look, let me tell you something. You

1120
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:55,719
Speaker 5: know it's a big deal to me, and I don't know.

1121
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 5: I don't know if I've heard somebody say this before

1122
00:44:57,600 --> 00:44:59,160
Speaker 5: or not. Like I don't need you to drive. I've

1123
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 5: got the driving. You can and be the DJ. You

1124
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 5: can do the music. But also asked me what I

1125
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 5: like to listen to. Sometimes you can listen to a

1126
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,400
Speaker 5: podcast if you can introduce me to something. I don't know,

1127
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 5: but I want the opportunity to do that too. But

1128
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:11,920
Speaker 5: if we stop for food, I need you to unwrap

1129
00:45:11,960 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 5: my sandwich okay, unwrapped, give me the half and then

1130
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 5: you put the fries and the cup holder, you hold it.

1131
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,200
Speaker 4: You figure out what to do with your drink. I

1132
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:21,719
Speaker 4: need my drink and the fries and.

1133
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 2: The cup holder.

1134
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,439
Speaker 5: You need to coach and you and you, I mean,

1135
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 5: if you gonna be a good partner. Interesting, I needed

1136
00:45:28,680 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 5: goddamn good co pilot. And then when I bought that

1137
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 5: motherfuck up you you you have your hair ready. I

1138
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 5: got my knee on the wheel, I got my nursery

1139
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 5: right there. I take my last bite. I put my

1140
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 5: fucking drink down here. Take that ship.

1141
00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:46,319
Speaker 1: That's such a comfortability to get to to.

1142
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:48,440
Speaker 5: When you have to plan your gas, you clean the

1143
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 5: car out. I'm pumping gas and then I'll go to

1144
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:51,520
Speaker 5: the bathroom.

1145
00:45:52,239 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 1: So basically, uh, fellas, if you like a bitch and

1146
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,480
Speaker 1: you are considering moving forward, go on a road trip.

1147
00:45:58,920 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 1: So many would you consider.

1148
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 4: Take a road trip?

1149
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 5: That's for look, And I'm biased because I'm a dude.

1150
00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 5: I'm always gonna feel like I'm a dude. So I'm like,

1151
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 5: can I I there's a girl who I thought I

1152
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 5: was like, this should work out. I met her back

1153
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 5: in Atlanta in like two thousand and five he's reconnected,

1154
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 5: ain't helping.

1155
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 4: Run even if it's even if it's not in.

1156
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 2: Uh.

1157
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 5: And then I was moving from Dallas to La and

1158
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 5: so she was already living in La. So I flew

1159
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 5: her out of being like yo's that was my thing

1160
00:46:34,239 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 5: to be Like we have been talking. I go, maybe

1161
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 5: helped me drive out. We got four hours in. I go,

1162
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 5: this will never work this. I mean, you should be

1163
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 5: able to be quiet and be fine. You should have

1164
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 5: listened to something to be fine. You should have a

1165
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,840
Speaker 5: great conversation to be fine. But we ain't got to

1166
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 5: talk six hours straight. I go, I am.

1167
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 1: You need would up.

1168
00:46:57,719 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 5: You need to shut the fuck up. I need to

1169
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:03,320
Speaker 5: make me care about you more. You need to take

1170
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 5: a walk, you need to do.

1171
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 4: Take about there.

1172
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 5: How can the backseat take a phone call, talk to

1173
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:09,799
Speaker 5: someone else.

1174
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 2: I need some silence right now. I need it.

1175
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,280
Speaker 5: We have talked about it all and then you're asking

1176
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:17,160
Speaker 5: me something that you're trying to make me care about

1177
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,280
Speaker 5: some shit you know I don't care about that.

1178
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,000
Speaker 4: Like that is what you bringing up right now is

1179
00:47:22,040 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 4: for a friend. That is not for me.

1180
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 2: That's a homegirl conversation.

1181
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 5: Not a homegirl conversation to shut the fuck up.

1182
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 2: Take your partner can't have all the conversations with you.

1183
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 4: We got a twenty two hour drive. You're gonna need

1184
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 4: to break that ship though.

1185
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: Because I'm going to kick you with my nigga.

1186
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 5: U's a long it should happen. You should be able

1187
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 5: to get through that. You shouldn't be able to man.

1188
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 5: We talk strong for an hour, hour and a half.

1189
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 5: If we listen to a podcast, we could be listening

1190
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 5: to us right now. Okay, and if you want to

1191
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,239
Speaker 5: talk about it, cool, let us get thirty minutes in,

1192
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:55,120
Speaker 5: pause it and then we'll have a discussion about what

1193
00:47:54,560 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 5: what maybe me in tone just talked about. But then

1194
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 5: and then we're gonna pick it back up. Okay, let

1195
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 5: us have a conversation about it. But also if I

1196
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 5: could just listen, sometimes.

1197
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,560
Speaker 1: I think it's crazy because we talk about chemistry and

1198
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: the Belgium.

1199
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 2: Take notes and then this is chemistry. Up, go ahead,

1200
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 2: this is chemistry. That what you're talking about. Like I

1201
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 2: could sit and talk to my friends like my friends.

1202
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:18,839
Speaker 1: Maybe because we've also known each other and we've been

1203
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 1: so comfortable around each other, we'll just get quiet.

1204
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: Even more together.

1205
00:48:22,360 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: But when you're newly dating somebody sometimes you feel like

1206
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 1: you have to kind of okay, twenty one questions, then

1207
00:48:28,320 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: what's new? Like we a few days on end? That's

1208
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:33,760
Speaker 1: like I mean, I'm talking about even for this drive,

1209
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:37,120
Speaker 1: like if it's new, Like I think that what you

1210
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: just described, though, is like chemistry of being out of

1211
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: the bedroom and out of being intimate knowing each other

1212
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:44,399
Speaker 1: social that.

1213
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 5: That goes back to if you hook up with somebody,

1214
00:48:47,120 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 5: if you if you if it's casual encounter, whatever, and

1215
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 5: then you like, how does this grow?

1216
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 4: Like if we eventually get there? Okay, yo, why don't we?

1217
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 5: Because I used to go this a little fishing town

1218
00:48:56,440 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 5: or kind of beach town up past Santa Barbara. Okay,

1219
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 5: that was kind to my getaway alone for a while.

1220
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 5: It's like I need to get to LA but I

1221
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 5: ain't got no road road dates for comedy. So I'm

1222
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:07,759
Speaker 5: gonna go up to this little spot and then I'm

1223
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 5: gonna spend two nights by myself and then as a

1224
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 5: you know, if I was eventually with somebody, I'm like,

1225
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 5: all right, you want to go with me?

1226
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 2: What's it called?

1227
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:17,080
Speaker 1: Give us the plug? Give it, give it, give it

1228
00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: to a city? Yeah, are you really gate keeping? A

1229
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 1: whole city right now.

1230
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 2: I don't like how your voice changed.

1231
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:29,439
Speaker 3: I was kind of crazy. It ain't like I don't

1232
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 3: want you niggas there. It's literally follow the wall.

1233
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, give us the whole, not give us the whole.

1234
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: No holds barn over here.

1235
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 4: It's called it's called.

1236
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 5: It's called morro Bay, Morrow, morro Bay, Morrow Bay w Hotel,

1237
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 5: morro Bay, Okay. And also it's a nice sleepy town

1238
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 5: where they got a couple of bars, a couple of

1239
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,280
Speaker 5: good restaurants whatever. But also it ain't ain't no clubs.

1240
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:58,280
Speaker 5: Can we can we take a walk?

1241
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:01,359
Speaker 2: Can we like? Do we do during the day? Can

1242
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:02,439
Speaker 2: you be nice and board?

1243
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 5: Like we're going to go watch the seals on the

1244
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,760
Speaker 5: pier e Oysh's, We're going to hear the Somba jazz

1245
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:08,399
Speaker 5: band at night.

1246
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: It's very just I like, can you be nice and board?

1247
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 3: I think the most impactful thing you said today was

1248
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:16,880
Speaker 3: about the boredom, because I've said a lot of impactful

1249
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:21,760
Speaker 3: things about the most the most people will say because

1250
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:25,360
Speaker 3: a lot of us are planning when we meet somebody

1251
00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:28,360
Speaker 3: and trying to like, you know, like just do it up.

1252
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 3: If I'm gonna spend Thursday with Ma May, I gotta

1253
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 3: figure out what I got to do. And we never

1254
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,799
Speaker 3: really think somebody just wants to sit with us. Can

1255
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 3: you be back the thing that Mandy's talking about with

1256
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,480
Speaker 3: friendship that's built over so many years. True to be

1257
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 3: able to sit with your friend and watch TV with partners.

1258
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,839
Speaker 3: You are kind of scared somebody will be bored with you.

1259
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 5: Oh by the time you I mean, look and everybody's

1260
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:49,919
Speaker 5: healthy in their own way, like you know what rocks

1261
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 5: for you and you know how to really people should negotiate.

1262
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 4: This is kind of what I'm into. What I'm not,

1263
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 4: what I need versus.

1264
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 2: What I what I'm talking about with my faith.

1265
00:50:57,040 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 4: That there is a difference. Look, man, my lady, I go,

1266
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 4: I want this.

1267
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 2: I go.

1268
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:03,879
Speaker 5: I'm worried about your needs first. We'll get to you once.

1269
00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 5: If you once come up, then we'll get there. But

1270
00:51:05,520 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 5: your needs is what I need to take care of first,

1271
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 5: and then then we'll that'll trickle down hopefully that we

1272
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 5: will try to get there. But I sleep in a

1273
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 5: different bedroom maybe four or five nights. I'm in the house, okay,

1274
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 5: but I need a wonderful night sleep. Sometimes that might be.

1275
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: You that no I think that's very that might actually

1276
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:21,239
Speaker 1: be be.

1277
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 5: In the house, but you you need might be or

1278
00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 5: I might sleep on the ca I don't know. But

1279
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 5: my majority of time I'll get into bed, but I

1280
00:51:29,920 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 5: need a night because sometimes I'm up till three four

1281
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 5: o'clock in the morning.

1282
00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 2: I'm right there.

1283
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 5: I'm in my zone and I don't want to You're

1284
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:36,640
Speaker 5: gonna get up and pee at three am.

1285
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 4: You're gonna wake me up.

1286
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 2: I go.

1287
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 5: Let me just oh wow, a good nights, okay, because

1288
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 5: I mean, like the people you know, that conversation came

1289
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 5: up recently about people even having two different residents.

1290
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 4: They made.

1291
00:51:49,360 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 5: Or yeah, but I mean i've heard this like even

1292
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 5: like somebody said it recently, like they live in the

1293
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 5: same building but on different floors. Oh wow, but they're

1294
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 5: they're in a committed relationship, monogamous. But I got my apartment,

1295
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 5: you got yours, and sometimes I'm sleep over.

1296
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,960
Speaker 1: I love that. That's my mom and I love but

1297
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 1: I don't.

1298
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,200
Speaker 4: Need to go that far. But you need to know, Hey, man, look,

1299
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:07,880
Speaker 4: i've been busy. I've been on the road two weeks.

1300
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:09,879
Speaker 4: I want to be at home and in my and.

1301
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 2: My boyfriend's like, well, let me good work.

1302
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 1: And I said, I'll help you find an apartment, like

1303
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: you ain't moving in with me? No, no, he but

1304
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:20,080
Speaker 1: he wasn't saying that though, No, no, no, no, regardless, I

1305
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: just let me know if you move to Atlanta, I

1306
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 1: can't wait to help you find a nice dope spot

1307
00:52:26,040 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 1: and help you decorate it.

1308
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,879
Speaker 4: Due to three to five days, because that's what I did.

1309
00:52:29,880 --> 00:52:31,359
Speaker 4: I did. I did, Who's la New York?

1310
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 5: Okay, And so it was like first couple of trips

1311
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:35,439
Speaker 5: was like three to four days. That's what we're doing

1312
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 5: in a five to seven a couple of times, and

1313
00:52:37,480 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 5: then and then over it was like, all right, now,

1314
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 5: let's do two weeks.

1315
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,760
Speaker 4: But we busy. She going to the office.

1316
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 5: I'm doing shit barely, sorry, because I'm out doing comedy

1317
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:50,360
Speaker 5: at night. It's you have to have don't be like

1318
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 5: I don't like we're grown now. If you come visit me,

1319
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:58,799
Speaker 5: you on vacation, right, I'm not right. You got two

1320
00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:01,600
Speaker 5: nights and you need to have a car. Well, I

1321
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 5: live in the country, so so you need to have

1322
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,160
Speaker 5: a car that I'm giving you.

1323
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: Dick you me.

1324
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:09,879
Speaker 2: You don't gotta go to another road.

1325
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: It's okay, get a negotiating and that's and that's what

1326
00:53:14,719 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: this is. This is this is the response to like,

1327
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:21,240
Speaker 1: I know for the listeners because I see.

1328
00:53:21,040 --> 00:53:21,720
Speaker 2: It in the comments.

1329
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 1: The way you sound sounds crazy, so I love hearing

1330
00:53:25,480 --> 00:53:27,080
Speaker 1: it because you sound.

1331
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 2: As crazy as I do.

1332
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: So I well that he could do two weeks though

1333
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Speaker 1: you've only give you a nigga fast four days even

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Speaker 1: in Europe, four days to Italy to Italy. Yeah, four days,

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Speaker 1: that's all I got is South African four days. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let me love.

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Speaker 5: Then you need to take a trip with like two

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Speaker 5: of the couples.

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Speaker 3: That would be too much so to me, if Mandy

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Speaker 3: can't handle being with her person for more than four days,

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Speaker 3: five like four other people, that's a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of edula.

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Speaker 5: But like you're thinking, everybody doing everything together. No, you

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Speaker 5: break off, you do your own thing. Fellas going to

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Speaker 5: this night and we sometimes you you take other people

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Speaker 5: to go. We can space this out. Oh the fella's

1347
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Speaker 5: doing this on Monday. We're gonna find a bar. We

1348
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Speaker 5: can watch the game, even if we don't see.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna come on first.

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Speaker 3: We would enjoy five or six days. You really care

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Speaker 3: about this person, like he's not gonna we'll see if

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00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 3: that ever happened. I do want to build on something

1353
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 3: you said tone about. Yes, she was busy in two weeks.

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Speaker 3: I think the problem with a lot of couples that

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Speaker 3: visit each other. I didn't even keeep I was doing this.

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Speaker 3: My partner came to LA because I was working. After

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Speaker 3: he left, I was like, oh my god, I have

1358
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Speaker 3: so much work. He's like, why the fuck weren't you

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00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 3: working while I was there?

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Speaker 1: I was like, well, I took the four days off

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00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 1: because you were there.

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Speaker 3: He was like, yo, you live your life. If you

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00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 3: need me to sit because you got a meeting, go

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Speaker 3: And for some reason, I feel like you're.

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Speaker 5: On realistic expectation. That wasn't a vacation. He was coming

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00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 5: to visit you. But if you're gonna take off four days,

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Speaker 5: that ain't your normal life. Living like that you're gonna

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Speaker 5: be doing if we end up really together. That's how

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Speaker 5: I mean. It's I had to take check on the

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Speaker 5: road with me to be like this one. I won't

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Speaker 5: talk to you on Fridays and Saturdays. We don't tell

1372
00:55:04,000 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 5: you got your own life. I'm not checking in like that.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't until she saw what your route.

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00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm going back to the room.

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Speaker 4: I'm exhausted.

1376
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 5: Nah, but you're gonna be with me, so I'm exhausted too.

1377
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 5: I'm exhausted too.

1378
00:55:14,760 --> 00:55:15,080
Speaker 4: I spent.

1379
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 5: I just flew here or drove in wherever you know

1380
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 5: we're coming from. I go, it's it's pressing them. No,

1381
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 5: you're gonna be there at pressing the morning. I wake

1382
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,280
Speaker 5: up at five thirty, I'm doing press.

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Speaker 2: Oh are you a writer on this show?

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00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: I just feel like the way you talk about relationships,

1385
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:29,400
Speaker 1: you dumped in a whole bunch of scenarios for all

1386
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 1: the characters in that bitch because goddamn you know, but

1387
00:55:34,719 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 1: you don't sell it this before though I know I know,

1388
00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: but I'm like, wow, like now about to watch and

1389
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 1: be like, yo, this is him?

1390
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Speaker 5: This is This season definitely gets into this is more

1391
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 5: of like how I really am. I mean, there's some

1392
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,279
Speaker 5: things that that I wouldn't do, but also that's that's

1393
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:50,959
Speaker 5: the character that.

1394
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: You know, like tone thing that your character does, uh.

1395
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,399
Speaker 4: In this in this season or period this season season.

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00:56:01,960 --> 00:56:04,120
Speaker 5: There's there are a couple of conversations with my love interested

1397
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:07,080
Speaker 5: season that are really good. And then I would say

1398
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:10,960
Speaker 5: the interactions with the mom are very accurate how me

1399
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 5: and my mom are now the woman playing my mom

1400
00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 5: is she's phenomenal. Now, my mom would never do what

1401
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 5: she's doing, but that type of relationship is what we have.

1402
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: Okay, that's cool. Yeah, I love it. Well, y'all make

1403
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Speaker 1: sure y'all check out The Survival of the Thickest.

1404
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 2: Y'all make sure y'all.

1405
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 4: Get I'm gonna get in trouble for this one.

1406
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 3: Is he really?

1407
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 4: No, No, I'm talking about I know, didn't know how

1408
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:34,200
Speaker 4: I talk.

1409
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Speaker 1: Okay.

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00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 2: I was like, she's gonna laugh at this.

1411
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,280
Speaker 1: The last decisions because.

1412
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Speaker 2: Get wide open with you.

1413
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 4: A while ago, we couldn't do this.

1414
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 5: Yes, but yes and now now because like my new shoot,

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00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:45,719
Speaker 5: my new special song.

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00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 4: Castle said this real quick, Yes, shoot my new special.

1417
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 5: Zone, and a lot of this is a lot of

1418
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 5: these talking points are are here because what you just

1419
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,879
Speaker 5: said a second ago is like, yes, you are crazy.

1420
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,959
Speaker 1: But everybody I can say you can't.

1421
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I can't. I think everyone.

1422
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 5: I mean, look, I'm forty two now, every everyone I

1423
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 5: know is certifiably emotionally retarded.

1424
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 4: Everyone.

1425
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:15,480
Speaker 5: But that's okay, because you really just have to find

1426
00:57:15,560 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 5: the person that fits.

1427
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:17,000
Speaker 4: That's it.

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00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,000
Speaker 5: Okay, that's it. If you if that lid fit that

1429
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 5: pot great? Is that the name of your special it should be?

1430
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Speaker 2: That's not a bit? Are you gonna shoot it?

1431
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 4: I think I'm shooting Austin. Oh yeah, I'm.

1432
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:29,360
Speaker 2: Might have to come out for that.

1433
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, congratulations, quiet this time. That's a big deal.

1434
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:37,280
Speaker 4: I want to know that you weren't even there.

1435
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 2: Okay, why are you out at the end.

1436
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,600
Speaker 1: The first time we met, yeah, I was you. I

1437
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 1: came in and it was what it was, black facts,

1438
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 1: he count yeah, comedy.

1439
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 2: So you were talking in.

1440
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,160
Speaker 1: The show and literally he got off the stage and

1441
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 1: he's like, I knew I heard your.

1442
00:57:55,760 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 2: I knew it was you.

1443
00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 1: I was like upstairs, like I wasn't a far upstairs,

1444
00:57:59,800 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 1: and I was like, look, my bad, you do the headliner.

1445
00:58:03,960 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 1: By the time he came on, I was fucking drunk. Okay,

1446
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 1: God damn it. And then I knew though that enforced

1447
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: them drinks on. You don't do this they do.

1448
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 2: It's too minimum, So where can they follow and support?

1449
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: You got damn.

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Speaker 5: Tone bell on everything. So it's just tone Bell t

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Speaker 5: O and E B E L L. And my new

1452
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 5: website should be up as of today or whatever.

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Speaker 2: It's out.

1454
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it so my all my road dates and all

1455
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,560
Speaker 5: the stuff got going on, and new clips.

1456
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: And all that website. Just do the Instagram plus bab

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00:58:31,440 --> 00:58:32,560
Speaker 1: We're money.

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00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 5: I got fifth year olds that follow me who'll still

1459
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 5: go to websites for tour days.

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Speaker 3: Okay, go to ATTTPS sports.

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Speaker 1: about the pre order the book, you know what's as

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Speaker 1: a matter of fact, give me your phone.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty order.

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Speaker 4: About that.

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Speaker 1: You forgot about accept the term.

1472
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Speaker 2: No, I think it's insane.

1473
00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 1: I'm just not scared to say everyone is insane. Everyone's

1474
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: a little crazy.

1475
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:20,439
Speaker 3: I'm only scared, like I don't like when people call

1476
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 3: someone that is an insult.

1477
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:23,960
Speaker 1: I'm not scared to say the word. He generalized.

1478
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 2: No, I know, I dont like I am you are?

1479
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Speaker 2: You know what.

1480
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 4: That's just how it goes.

1481
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Speaker 2: Hop Yo enjoyed this episode of Decisions, Decisions, y'all.

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Speaker 2: We are a website. You saw that and did look

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Speaker 2: at you.

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Speaker 1: We have websites who shaded website.

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Speaker 4: Disrespect that's crazy, disrespect

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Speaker 3: M