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Speaker 2: Would I be the a hole for telling my boss's

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Speaker 2: wife that he's cheating on us?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Maybe, No, I didn't listen to the title.

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Speaker 2: I work as a project manager at a small business

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Speaker 2: less than or around twenty five employees, and I've been

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Speaker 2: in this role for more than six years.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: I was referred to the position through Katie, a friend

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Speaker 2: from a hobby club I belong to. I want to

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Speaker 2: know the hobby I don't. I don't care what killing

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Speaker 2: people's hobbies?

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Speaker 1: You know? Also, can everyone hear us? Hello? Hello, hear us?

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Speaker 1: How's it going? We're outside? We're outside? How about that? Yes?

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Speaker 3: That is a.

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Speaker 4: Green flat break. Oh, we don't have any of our props.

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Speaker 1: We don't have any of our pos, but we're outside.

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Speaker 2: We love it. And yes, I like my umbrella. My

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Speaker 2: umbrella is fun. It's zebra's so I'm camouflaged. You can't

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Speaker 2: even see it because it's so camouflage. Anyway, she learned

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Speaker 2: I'd been laid off from my last position and offered

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Speaker 2: to introduce me to her husband, John, who owns a

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Speaker 2: consulting firm in my field. After a standard interview process,

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Speaker 2: I was hired and I have been here ever since. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so Opie is working at a job. Oh, about eighteen

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Speaker 2: months ago, we were looking for a new administrative assistant

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Speaker 2: for the business. Instead of advertising the position like we

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Speaker 2: would normally, John hired Tammy, the daughter of a family

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Speaker 2: friend of some nepotism right here, some nepo baby.

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Speaker 1: I see you, I see you, you see it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I am predicting that this Tammy is going

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Speaker 2: to suck. That's what I'm predicting. Put some ICUs if

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Speaker 2: you agree, which suck? Hal Yeah, it's not that John.

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Speaker 1: That's old old Sam and John, I'm human. We're outside.

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Speaker 2: That's like yeah, yeah god.

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Speaker 3: Uh.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, she was supposedly a recent grad, very eager, would

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Speaker 2: need some training, but would be a great addition to

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Speaker 2: the team. So it's like, yeah, she's like pretty fresh,

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Speaker 2: but you're gonna do her best. From her first day,

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Speaker 2: it was clear that she was not right for the position.

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Speaker 2: Her computer and communication skills were quite poor. She took

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Speaker 2: forever to do basic tasks, was dressed inappropriately for an office,

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Speaker 2: and played on her phone frequently.

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Speaker 1: What is inappropriate? Or like these these booty shorts inappropriate? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That shirt? Oh? Oh god, whoa, whoa, whoa?

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Speaker 2: Come on, come on, also, are we laggy? What do

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Speaker 2: y'all think?

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Speaker 1: Talk to her? Laggy?

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Speaker 2: We met were trying to be as smooth as boss.

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Speaker 1: Let us let us freaking.

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Speaker 2: Know anyway, uh yeah, and played on her phone Classic

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Speaker 2: gen Z Kids. She was also coming in late or

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Speaker 2: leaving early every day. Every attempt to provide her with

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Speaker 2: the instruction or feedback was met with confusion and eye rolling.

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Speaker 2: Another manager asked her for help in stuffing envelopes for

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Speaker 2: a promotional event, and she laughed in his face, stuffing envelopes,

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Speaker 2: that's beneath me. But you know what's never beneath us?

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Speaker 2: What Lossandra Rivera? Because you are rating a tip from

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Speaker 2: on high. Thanks for the five dollars tip. I'm glad

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Speaker 2: you guys don't want to burn like big protein.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I do. Look at that? What is that sunscreen? Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Where I donscreens? Why, yes, I do. I don't burn. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't I want to burn. You guys don't want

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Speaker 1: to burn?

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Speaker 2: Oh John wants to want to burn. He has sunscreenless. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he's gonna be a cherry cherry red cherub airis. Thanks

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Speaker 2: for Rivus, Thanks for the two bucks. Josephe Madolo Burquist,

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Speaker 2: thanks for the two point fifty like the stream.

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Speaker 1: Or face my wrath?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, go face our wrath too. Arias, thanks for the

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Speaker 2: two bucks. Yes, finally catch you guys. Live glad you're here.

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Speaker 2: Uncle Daddy, Jesse, Uncle Daddy. Let's freaking uncle uncle Dad.

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Speaker 2: Uncle Daddy here with a twenty five dollar tip.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Sunshine boys said, Okop, a package should arrive by the

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Speaker 2: end of the week. Love y'all. I'm excited to receive

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Speaker 2: your package, Uncle Dad. Oh yeah, and thenlessandro Vera thanks

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Speaker 2: to the ten dollars tip. When Sam used to brush

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Speaker 2: his hair, my mom keeps telling me that my hair

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Speaker 2: looks like a bad tupey and a rat diet in

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Speaker 2: my head. Do you agree, my mo?

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Speaker 4: For the record, my mom said that Sam's face, uh

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Speaker 4: dam is a great face shape that can fit almost

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Speaker 4: any haircut.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you like?

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Speaker 2: Well, let's let us know if you're in John's mom's

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Speaker 2: camp or my mom's camp, John or Sam's mom. We're

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Speaker 2: keeping Riley on his nose for Sam's hair. That's right anyway, Um,

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Speaker 2: go back to this story. Thanks for all the donations, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Uh Sylvia twenty five says John will become a shrunken

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Speaker 2: prune in a few years. Love Bubbles, it's not a

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Speaker 2: two pay fuck you, love bubble.

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Speaker 1: Hey, whoa whoa whoa, No.

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Speaker 4: That's our family, my hair two pey, No, it's hey, hey,

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Speaker 4: listen if I you know how many old jokes I've gotten?

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Speaker 2: All right, one, I love you, But also, what the

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Speaker 2: heck anyway, I'm going back to this story. She was

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Speaker 2: also coming in late every day and laughed in his

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Speaker 2: face about the guy being like, open some envelopes. So

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Speaker 2: I went to John and asked him what exactly Tammy's

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Speaker 2: do much of anything. He said not to worry, he

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Speaker 2: would have a word with her the next day. He

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Speaker 2: told me he would be managing her directly from then on,

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Speaker 2: and if I needed something that fell under the assistant's umbrella,

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Speaker 2: I could email him and he would see to it

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Speaker 2: that it was done.

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Speaker 1: So basically, he's becoming his own assistant.

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Speaker 2: Nice and this Tammy is just I don't know, dead

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Speaker 2: to wait, Davvy, Just Tammy. Tammy is the personality ire

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Speaker 2: ah to hear that Kidney says Adam, and he for

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Speaker 2: the F bomb Riley dipped away for a second, so

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Speaker 2: he will be there. Also, I don't think that the

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Speaker 2: poll is active, but keep voting, But keep voting. I'm

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Speaker 2: seeing a lot of twos, which is John's mom. Oh thanks. Anyway,

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Speaker 2: he'd never taken over management of an assistant before this,

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Speaker 2: and it felt like something was a miss. Within a

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Speaker 2: few weeks, it seemed clear, Oh my goodness, within a

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Speaker 2: few weeks. Rightly, I don't think the poll is working.

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Speaker 2: And I accidentally said the F word, so we need to.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well I haven't all I got you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Also, did we want to do the new hour structure? Uh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, sorry, I yeah, we can do that. We can

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Speaker 2: Within a few weeks, it seemed clear that Tammy and

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Speaker 2: John were having an affair. Oh that's her role, yeah,

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Speaker 2: classic John's whoa.

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Speaker 1: What are we talking about here?

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Speaker 5: I would never hire someone for that position, really, dude.

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Speaker 6: To you.

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Speaker 1: It is the hote of food.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, I worked here all day in the song

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Speaker 5: in this heartless yeah, I was just standing in the

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Speaker 5: glass door, like the panting.

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Speaker 2: Riley and I were met at work earlier today, you know,

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Speaker 2: mostly Riley, but.

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Speaker 1: I gave it a tool every once in a while.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was nice.

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Speaker 1: It was nice.

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Speaker 2: It was nice, it was good. We were handy, pansy,

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Speaker 2: I mean handy anyway, take it over all right. Within

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Speaker 2: a few weeks, seeing that clear that John was having

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Speaker 2: affair with Tammy. John has never admitted to me, but

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Speaker 2: they drive in together every single day, have hours long

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Speaker 2: meeting in his locked office every afternoon, and whenever she's

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Speaker 2: If anyone asks Tammy to do something for their team,

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Speaker 2: she goes straight to John's office and a few minutes later,

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Speaker 2: he sends a message that someone else will need to

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Speaker 2: do the task. Tammy's doing nothing. Yep, Well she's doing

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Speaker 2: something he's doing.

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Speaker 1: That's true. He's doing something. She's doing John.

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Speaker 2: She's doing John by the way, all right, you know what,

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Speaker 2: John is a great task.

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Speaker 5: It's honestly a level when we team workshop it, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, Oh yeah, when we all do John together, I'm

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Speaker 2: not gonna win on this story. You went in that

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Speaker 2: situation for sure, everyone doing John at the same time.

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Speaker 2: Come on, yeah, there we go. A little love try

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Speaker 2: and goal.

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Speaker 5: Don't clip this, which me saying that is going to

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Speaker 5: take everyone.

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Speaker 1: And we're doing John, Please don't anyway.

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Speaker 2: My emails to John regarding my team's administrative needs just

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Speaker 2: get ignored and I wind up doing those tasks myself

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Speaker 2: or handing it off to one of my team members

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Speaker 2: who have enough on their plate as is. I've tried

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Speaker 2: to talk to John about how this is impacting your

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Speaker 2: he snaps that these tasks are not so urgent that

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Speaker 2: we can handle them ourselves with our own teams.

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Speaker 3: John.

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Speaker 2: John's reliability as our CEO and decision maker has plummeted

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Speaker 2: as well, and morale is low.

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Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 2: I've been quietly trying to find another job since early

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty COVID through a wrench in those plans, and

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Speaker 2: I have a few prospects at this time. My dilemma

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Speaker 2: is what did Katie my friend slashed John's wife? So again,

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Speaker 2: as a reminder, Katie is the one that got op

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Speaker 2: this job and is John's wife. And as a reminder,

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Speaker 2: John has had and been having an affair.

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Speaker 1: And as a reminder, not me, John.

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Speaker 4: We gotta say like John Smith or something, John, Oh,

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Speaker 4: whoa These are false.

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Speaker 2: False accusation joh, the accusations aren't true. Also, it's yeah,

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Speaker 2: where we have the we have have so basically we

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Speaker 2: can like, Uh, it's easier to attack on time. So

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Speaker 2: it's the same thing as like what we had before. Anyway, Uh,

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Speaker 2: she truly I'm confident that they don't have an open marriage,

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Speaker 2: which is something that happens. She truly thinks Tammy is

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Speaker 2: an assistant at our workplace. I have not told her

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Speaker 2: about the affair, which rough maybe you should.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We'll talk about if there is a holary going on.

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Speaker 2: And not talking about this with the person.

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Speaker 1: There's some kind of horror going on.

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Speaker 2: I am the only oh, but partly because I it's

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Speaker 2: not my business, and partly because I need to protect

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Speaker 2: my job. I'm the only person at work who would

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Speaker 2: possibly tip her off about this, and it'd be obvious

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Speaker 2: it was me if I were to tell her. I

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Speaker 2: feel absolutely awful keeping the secret. I feel so guilty

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Speaker 2: when she earnestly asked me how work is at our

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Speaker 2: hobby group. They're at the hobby together, what do I do?

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Speaker 2: And there is an updates? There is an updates, but question, yes,

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Speaker 2: do we think ope should tell her friend? Also the

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Speaker 2: the for the new donation structure. It's the exact same,

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Speaker 2: but except we're doing like thirty minute increments so it

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Speaker 2: will be like easier to hit them. We think we'll

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Speaker 2: see if you like it as before, you could let

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Speaker 2: us know too. Yes, but if it's what Riley you

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Speaker 2: hot Riley the hotty body.

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Speaker 1: Shade.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yep, just take off the shirt. Oh my goodness,

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Speaker 2: goodness gracious. Anyway, So John is Op the a hole

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Speaker 1: Maybe. Here's here's what it is.

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Speaker 5: Cook you you you tell John to do that first, Okay?

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Speaker 4: You aren't like meddling to the fullest degree or whatever,

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Speaker 1: How's that relationship with Tammy? Like I was that looking

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Speaker 2: But I think if you get the lawyer beforehand, and

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Speaker 4: Definitely a tough one with the job makes it much

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't think she's the a hole for

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I literally her livelihood. I think I agree with you.

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Speaker 1: What ra else?

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Speaker 2: Oh uh Arius, thanks for the ten bucks sticker.

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Speaker 1: This is the first time we can see these.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 2: Elizabeth says, tell friends she knows something and she needs

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Speaker 2: and hope she has your back too.

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Speaker 2: Jac also says damned if you do, damned if you don't.

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Speaker 2: But let's freaking go into the update and see what

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Speaker 1: All right, update?

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Speaker 2: So I try to keep under the radar at work

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Speaker 2: Sometimes people will tattle on themselves, that's right, Yes, snitch.

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Speaker 2: John was poorly covering his tracks at home, and my

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: My friend was understandably devastated, but she did not ask

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Speaker 1: Dude?

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Speaker 2: Get a sports car, die your hair black, and that

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Speaker 2: Yeah, give it a beat, especially if you're you're I

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Speaker 2: I've never heard that term before. Do you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm doing good. Actually, God, I love seeing you lift

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Riley, Riley's Riley's a hot boy right now, Guys,

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Speaker 2: Courtney G says, I learned how to do a sneaky

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Speaker 2: doing shady stuff behind my mom's back. Courtney G, what

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Speaker 1: You did?

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Speaker 2: Moontalks? And he said I didn't, But I assuming the

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Speaker 2: Dry stitching is telling on yourself without saying it directly.

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Speaker 2: Oh so the husband dry snitched. It's like wet snitching,

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Speaker 2: says tar Lad. I don't know what that means, so

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Speaker 4: Because thing about it like this, like John is the

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Speaker 4: Devastating shit, like you might not have the finances to

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Speaker 4: I feel like, like generalized generally speaking, yeah, getting fired,

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Speaker 4: like you can find new friends, but like finding a

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Speaker 4: new job is like it's John john'slack.

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Speaker 2: I don't can't give a shit about my friends exactly

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Speaker 2: you got out of it.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, I don't give a crap about my friends.

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Speaker 5: But money, money's your friend forever, all my little.

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Speaker 1: Biggies scooge mcnugg over here.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, I can always depend on what

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Speaker 2: John reading this next story?

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Speaker 1: Where are we at h f al gesul TLDR. We

450
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Speaker 1: just finished the story.

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Speaker 2: That's it, So cars be faster next time? Yeah, yeah,

452
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Speaker 2: maybe get in. How is it you co sign op here?

453
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Speaker 2: But expect other ops to be perfect and polite in

454
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Speaker 2: relationship stories when they get into arguments. I know I'm

455
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Speaker 2: saying the angelic thing is to do it, but like,

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Speaker 2: I think when your livelihood is at risk, that and

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Speaker 2: I think that's what John was saying, is like on

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Speaker 2: a lot of cases, it's like a friend group situation

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Speaker 2: that you could lose. This is like your job, which

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Speaker 2: I think is a little bit more impactful than losing

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Speaker 2: a friend.

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Speaker 1: Like what if that makes you homeless? Yeah, yeah, exactly, that's.

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Speaker 4: That's that's a lot to have to put on the

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Speaker 4: line for something that's a wrong that someone else exactly

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Speaker 4: is doing. Not not that you know, ideally they the

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Speaker 4: cheater gets exposed. But it's it's a hard it's a

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Speaker 4: it's a it's a much much harder position from an

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Speaker 4: already hard position.

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Speaker 1: Agree.

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Speaker 2: But uh, before John gets into the next story, HII Browning,

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Speaker 2: least are the one buck tip?

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Speaker 1: A work is good?

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Speaker 2: Why not come in and visit around their hours long

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Speaker 2: meeting time? Yeah, live stream it and make sure sure

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Speaker 2: Katie is in there.

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Speaker 4: Hey, guys, what's up, I'm touring my boss's office.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, yeah, that's great. And also someone just celebrated

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Speaker 1: what are will go to the beginning? Yeah, send me

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Speaker 1: from the from pre pre stream.

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Speaker 2: Mommy Meadow thanks to the five bucks tip in with

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Speaker 2: that B day money, Sam, love your umbrella, cute af

482
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Speaker 2: my little Zebra umbrella and Mommy Meadow's Happy Birthday, Happy.

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Speaker 4: Birthday, Batika Waterman, thanks for a three buck tip.

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Speaker 1: Hello everyone. The funeral for my cousin is Saturday.

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Speaker 4: Unable to go because tickets are expensive for myself and

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Speaker 4: two kids, but my parents are going there to represent us.

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Speaker 4: But I hope you guys had a good day and

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Speaker 4: it's really nice over there.

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Speaker 1: Guys.

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Speaker 4: Hearts of the chat for Mortika Waterman. We love you,

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Speaker 4: Martika and Kirsten Ferguson. Thanks for the twenty five buck

492
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Speaker 4: and ten cent donation on the super chat where the

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Speaker 4: Worm Queen. Also, have you guys seen Supernatural? Worm Queen

494
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Speaker 4: is here but working on some stuff.

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Speaker 5: She's inside. She didn't want to dry out out here.

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Speaker 4: Yep, she she abandoned us. We might we might tager

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Speaker 4: in here for a bit at some point. Also, I've

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Speaker 4: not seen Supernatural, but my sister has.

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Speaker 1: Is that the vampire wine? And are you saying that

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Speaker 1: because we have umbrellas? It's the It's not the vampire one. Vampires.

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Speaker 4: They're like, they're like eternal, they're like angels, angels.

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Speaker 1: I don't think, I don't think. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: there's no vampires.

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Speaker 4: Pigeon General, thanks for five bucks on the don't know link.

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Speaker 4: Let's go boys only stream, Let's go Sam. Do you

506
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:19,399
Speaker 4: prefer pigeon Boy, pigeon Lord, pigeon King, or pigeon President. Sam,

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Speaker 4: Pigeon Lord, pigeon Lord.

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Speaker 1: Let's freaking go Reverd pigeon boy boy.

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Speaker 2: I'm okay with being pigeon boy, gin boy, pigeon boy.

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Speaker 1: That's whatever pigeon does.

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Speaker 4: Thanks Gina or Gianna for the five bucks tip on

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Speaker 4: the not like, Hey, guys, I graduate dental hygiene school Saturday.

513
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Speaker 4: Are graduated, So congrats. Just got just got a job today.

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00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 4: So I'm sharing some of my success with y'all today. Janna, congrats,

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Speaker 4: I'm getting a job. I got birthdays, we got jobs.

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Speaker 1: Let's go. Also Courtney g Face for five bucks. Dad

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Speaker 1: was set.

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Speaker 4: Uh, Dad was cyper sexy sleep on his VR Saturday

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Speaker 4: and mom has no idea VR set.

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Speaker 1: But it's not.

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Speaker 5: Cheating if it's virtual, according to him, Courtney.

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Speaker 4: Gee, it sounds like you need to go to our

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Speaker 4: slash Kop show and write it in a story to

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Speaker 4: you got it?

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Speaker 1: We got it.

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Speaker 2: We gotta see that your dad cheating on your mom

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Speaker 2: in a VR headset. Yeah, oh I'm I'm doing sock

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Speaker 2: I'm doing sock pud.

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Speaker 4: It's this new game game. It's a uh rock rock climbing.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, lame his money. Thanks for the ten

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Speaker 4: book tip on the dome like this is my second

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Speaker 4: storym I caught live and first one tipping.

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Speaker 1: Let's go hope I did it right? You did it great.

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Speaker 1: I love you guys and your sensit of humor.

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Speaker 4: Me and my four year old listen to your videos

536
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 4: almost every day in the car, and he is convinced.

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Speaker 4: Y'all are his best friends who read him stories. We

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00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 4: are his best friend who read him story. So he's correct.

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00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 4: Cut out to your four year old. I'll swear less

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Speaker 4: so I do not hear his virgineers.

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Speaker 1: There we go. Had a girl for celebrating two month membership.

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Speaker 4: Although I'm new to Little Sillies, I've been watching you

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Speaker 4: guys in your videos since it first started.

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Speaker 1: I love your videos in this community. Love y'all, love

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Speaker 1: your back.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 4: Had a girl and Alan Foster. Thanks for a five

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Speaker 4: buck tip. I like the new thirty minute set up.

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00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 4: Sweet there we go. Keep giving us feedback. We appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Heidi Browning for the one buck work is good. Why

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Speaker 4: not come in and visit their hours long meeting time?

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Speaker 1: Oh I think I think we hit we hit that one.

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Speaker 1: Are we all cut up? Is our little sillies?

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Speaker 2: I seeko weirdo celebrating one month love you, love you,

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00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 2: love you all. I finally got my husband hooked on

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Speaker 2: you guys, let's go straight into the veins. Darlene, thanks

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Speaker 2: for the five gifted memberships. We appreciate you. And then

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Speaker 2: Courtney Gks for the five buck tip. Dad was oh

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Speaker 2: wait we read that VR and then matd hatter girl

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Speaker 2: Gal four four five, thank you for the five gifted memberships.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you, and you know what, I appreciate what

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Speaker 2: most of the what John and his next story.

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Speaker 4: Let's go so am I the all for kicking my

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Speaker 4: husband out after he said I love you for the

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Speaker 4: first time, The keys to get married and never say

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Speaker 4: I love you yes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't reveal your heart because it will get stamped on.

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Speaker 1: And then kick him out when they revealing their loft

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Speaker 1: for you. Yeah, yeah, stamp on his heart and throw

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Speaker 1: out the pieces.

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Speaker 4: This comes from user who says advice needed. We're both Indian,

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Speaker 4: but we have lived in North America since our childhoods.

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Speaker 4: As you might guess, it was an arranged marriage, so

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Speaker 4: we only met a couple of times before the wedding.

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Speaker 4: He told me right away that he had just gone

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Speaker 4: through a breakup with a longtime girlfriend and it was

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Speaker 4: the only reason he was going down the mariage, the

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Speaker 4: arranged marriage route. So interestingly, wait, He's like, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: don't have anything better.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 4: He's literally like, I tried love marriages. Forget it. I'm

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Speaker 4: thrown in the towel.

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Speaker 1: Your love marriages are hard.

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Speaker 4: They hard, though they are honestly Indian matchmaker watch that show?

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Speaker 1: Right? Say again, you watched that show and you said

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Speaker 1: it was pretty good? Right, yes?

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Speaker 4: And I am legitimately like, if I were in your position,

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Speaker 4: I would hire her.

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Speaker 1: She is literally like.

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Speaker 2: What do you say if I was a lonely man

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Speaker 2: like you? I also, I broke things off with my

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Speaker 2: the person that I was kind of seeing.

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Speaker 4: That's dude, that's a that's a early early stream Big Newsy.

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Speaker 1: Big Juice right there. Anyway, dude, big juice, you talk

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Speaker 1: about it yet on that chat. I want to see

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Speaker 1: you going to see each other for a couple of months.

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Speaker 4: That's right, that's all right. Riley's adjusting the light light

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Speaker 4: for us here. How Samy looking at Sam?

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Speaker 3: Good? Right?

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Speaker 1: Sam bright? We Gucci beautiful, No overheat? There we go.

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Speaker 4: So I was fine with this as long as there

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Speaker 4: wouldn't be any infidelity issues down the line.

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Speaker 1: And he promised, he promised he wouldn't cheat on me.

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Speaker 1: You promised this is that in the marriage I guess

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Speaker 1: not what are there Indian marriage vows? Oh ah, good question.

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Speaker 1: I don't know for sure. I think so though, especially

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Speaker 1: probably like uh in the West. I would imagine. Let

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Speaker 1: us know in the comments if you know more.

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Speaker 4: He stayed true to this, but he was very cold

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Speaker 4: to me for the first couple of months. In these months,

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Speaker 4: we got very intimate, very often, but the relationship felt

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Speaker 4: purely physical and lacked any emotional or personal connection.

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Speaker 1: That's so wild.

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Speaker 4: You have like an arranged marriage and you're like hooking

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Speaker 4: up with no emotional or personal connection.

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Speaker 1: Like just to have a baby. I think just for fun.

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Speaker 1: You're hooking your arranged marriage but there's no emotional or

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Speaker 1: personal connection.

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Speaker 4: We got intimate very often, but the relationship felt purely physical.

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Speaker 1: And lacked any emotional or physical or personal connection.

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Speaker 5: That's wild that people like hook up and just like

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Speaker 5: don't have feelings for the other person.

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Speaker 1: Like, that's just crazy.

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Speaker 2: I only hook up with people that I have an

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Speaker 2: emotional connection to.

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Speaker 1: But what are you talking about? Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Get the f out of here with that noise.

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Speaker 5: I just can't imagine it. I'm not saying you do it.

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Speaker 5: I'm just saying I can't imagine it.

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Speaker 1: Also, what's up with all the w's in the chat?

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Speaker 1: Who's winning? I don't know?

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Speaker 2: Break it down for us? Where are the views of

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Speaker 2: the chat? I don't know what's going on anyway.

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Speaker 1: What'sboard he's done? So? Even the ring he got me

635
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Speaker 1: was a sixty dollars plane ring from Walmart. Dude, at

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Speaker 1: least at least go to like the pawn shop and

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Speaker 1: get like a vintage like sixty bucks. Sixty bucks. That's

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Speaker 1: all right? Well, but is he like is does he

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Speaker 1: not have it like that? Maybe? I don't know, but

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Speaker 1: you know who you know does have it like that?

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Speaker 2: Jojo with one hundred dollars. Tip kidding us, thirty more minutes.

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Speaker 2: Let's go tomorrow. I start clinicals and need a long

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Speaker 2: episode to listen on my commutes. O jojo, we are

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Speaker 2: here for you, and we're gonna freaking we're gonna, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna move. Got thirty more minutes. And also we made

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Speaker 2: it so that the donations would be due to do.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right. Easier to hit the goals now

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Speaker 1: every thirty.

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Speaker 4: Minutes, okay is yeah, So back to the story. Uh,

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Speaker 4: seeing that honestly broke my heart and I wasn't sure

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Speaker 4: if he would ever actually.

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Speaker 1: Love and care about me. Oh.

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Speaker 4: The one thing he did for me was noticing that

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Speaker 4: I was struggling and overworked at my job. He makes

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Speaker 4: twelve times what I'm making at my job, twelve domes.

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Speaker 7: So you got sixty dollars.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, Broya, you're kidding me. You gotta put your

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Speaker 4: money where.

659
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 1: You're kidding here. Sixty dollars.

660
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 2: I mean you can get some cool rings for sixty

661
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 2: bucks pop. Yeah, literally, like thirty ring pops is probably

662
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 2: sixty bucks.

663
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:09,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, which is like like you can make a cute

664
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 4: thing that's like wild salt that is wild. Honestly, it's

665
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:15,720
Speaker 4: the Walmart for me. It's more more of the Walmart

666
00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 4: than the sixty dollars.

667
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,399
Speaker 1: No, but you could get expensive stuff at Walmart. You can,

668
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: but like a wedding ring.

669
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 2: You could get a wedding ring at Walmart. You can

670
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 2: get like a wedding like you can, but like the branding,

671
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 2: the branding. Well, but like I think it would get

672
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:35,720
Speaker 2: like Tiffany's at Walmart. Like I think there's like name brand.

673
00:35:36,560 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 2: I actually don't know. I I don't go walt Off.

674
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 4: I lived across from Walmart Florida, start lift. I've ever

675
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 4: seen a Tiffany's ring at Walmart.

676
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 5: What if you want to share someone like I love

677
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 5: you want to get married to asap, and all you

678
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:50,840
Speaker 5: had close to was a Walmart.

679
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: Well, this is not the situation though, you don't know.

680
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 5: I mean, I know this guy doesn't like him, but

681
00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 5: in the moment, at that second, he probably was like,

682
00:35:58,560 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 5: I need to get a ring a SAP.

683
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 4: But she's said, she says, he has no emotional emotional

684
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,439
Speaker 4: connection or personal personal PAM, not even like hey, how's

685
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 4: your day going.

686
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 5: It's just like so a few people have like Walmart rings,

687
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 5: and you know, I just gotta, you know, give him, like,

688
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 5: good job you did.

689
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,520
Speaker 1: So there is a Walmart Walmart ring?

690
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 3: Is it?

691
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 4: But it's it's I mean, yeah, he got his ring

692
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 4: from Walmart, but it was sixty dollars.

693
00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 2: But you could get expensive rings at Walmart, Rightley, what's

694
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: the most expensive bring to get at Walmart?

695
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: Got you?

696
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 2: Let's find out. I think I think we can get some.

697
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 2: I think I can probably get your rings like a

698
00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 2: thousand bucks at least, oh, at least at least right am?

699
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,600
Speaker 1: I am I wrong with Tiffany's. I don't know.

700
00:36:40,640 --> 00:36:42,400
Speaker 4: Maybe, I mean, I guess we read a story. I

701
00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,960
Speaker 4: don't know how much. My gosh, what thirty k?

702
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 1: What freaking gosh is Tiffany's.

703
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 5: Though, No, it says Walmart free shipping thirty k, thirty kh.

704
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

705
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, everyone's like, no, Sam, you can't get it. Get

706
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 2: out of here with that noise. Thirty k at Walmart

707
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 2: one point eight million dollar ring?

708
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: Look at that?

709
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 5: You got some pretty nice options here. Yeah, yeah, get

710
00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:10,240
Speaker 5: out of here with that noise.

711
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 4: Just can't Like, just saying your ring is from Walmart

712
00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 4: just sucks.

713
00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: You should you never say that just sucks. But that's

714
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: fine anyway.

715
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 5: Also way wait, would you rather have your ring at

716
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 5: Walmart but have like the best proposal, or have like

717
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 5: the best ring but like being proposed at McDonald's.

718
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:35,799
Speaker 2: Oh definitely I would. I would definitely rather Walmart ring. Yeah,

719
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 2: and propose wherever I want? But I could, I could, dude,

720
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 2: when I propose, get ready.

721
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,800
Speaker 1: I am, I will be ready. You'll be waiting, though.

722
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:57,320
Speaker 4: I'm gonna be I'm the meme with bones shots fired back.

723
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 1: I'm not old anyway.

724
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:03,600
Speaker 2: That's actually a great that's a great recurring joke. Yeah a,

725
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:05,840
Speaker 2: that's that's a big loan forever.

726
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: Oh no, I was saying me as old. I was

727
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,439
Speaker 1: saying me as old. I got both.

728
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 4: Its also a scroll up real quick on the chat.

729
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 4: I don't want to miss someone. Someone made a no, no,

730
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 4: I can't want to miss it.

731
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: And we'll get back to. Oh, there's a bunch of

732
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:18,880
Speaker 1: donuts that we have to do.

733
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: I just those we lose, right, No, no, no, just

734
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 2: only you know, only the only the what's it called stickers, stickers?

735
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 4: The stickers go thank you, thank you so but he

736
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 4: makes twelve times when I was making up my job

737
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 4: and told me that I didn't have to work and

738
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 4: could be a housewife slash homemaker, as his income was

739
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,720
Speaker 4: more than enough to afford us a very comfortable lifestyle,

740
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,720
Speaker 4: just not enough to more than sixty dollars for rinks.

741
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: I want to I want to be clear. Uh.

742
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 4: I want to clear this and say that he never

743
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,800
Speaker 4: pressured or manipulated me into quitting my job. The decision

744
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 4: was solely mine. Anyway, This gave me a lot of

745
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,759
Speaker 4: time to really get to know him, learn to cook

746
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:01,560
Speaker 4: his favor meals, et cetera, et cetera. Despite him trying

747
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 4: to be the best possible wife to him, he was

748
00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,799
Speaker 4: still super cold to me and the most affection I

749
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 4: got was a smile for anything I would do for him.

750
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 1: Damn not even hang not even a thank you. That's tough.

751
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 2: Also, I think it's everyone is saying they would rather

752
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 2: have the most expensive ring at McDonald's. Interesting, That's that's crazy.

753
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 2: What if it was on top of a mountain in Tibet, I.

754
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 4: Would definitely prefer Yes, I would definitely prefer like the

755
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 4: location because I feel like it and like you can

756
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 4: make it's just what's a meaningful Yeah.

757
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,200
Speaker 2: It wouldn't just I think I would to rephrase that,

758
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 2: it wouldn't only be a pop of the Mountain of Tibet.

759
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,720
Speaker 2: I think it would be like whatever is most meaningful.

760
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 4: Like imagine like you met at a library and then

761
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 4: you like got the whole library in on the proposal,

762
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 4: like maybe got a violinist for an hour.

763
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,439
Speaker 1: I don't know. Violent dude, you have to be quiet

764
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: in the library, though, Will you tell? You tell, you

765
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 1: tell the library, Like we're gonna get lit and I'm

766
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:09,279
Speaker 1: gonna kill it. Yeah, shot sat Okay. Also people need

767
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: to tell the R.

768
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:14,760
Speaker 5: Okay, so teal the R for everyone. Op Uh married

769
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 5: her husband.

770
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 4: They had an arranged marriage, and Uh going into it, basically,

771
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 4: the husband was like, I had a a love relationship,

772
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 4: I'm over it.

773
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,280
Speaker 1: I'm getting an arranged marriage.

774
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:28,279
Speaker 4: He doesn't really have feelings for her, and she's like

775
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 4: trying to build a connection and spark with him and

776
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:31,759
Speaker 4: it's not really cutting through.

777
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 1: So that brings us to here.

778
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 4: Suddenly, just before our three month wedding anniversary, he asked

779
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,280
Speaker 4: me if I wanted to join him on a walk

780
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 4: after dinner. The walk was the first time I felt

781
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 4: him being affectionate and caring. These walks became our new normal,

782
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 4: and it expanded to actual date nights spontaneous activities and

783
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 4: better intimacy.

784
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,520
Speaker 1: Do we have a bathroom inside?

785
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 3: Riley?

786
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 4: I will literally grab your wiener and put it back

787
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 4: in your pants if you be outside, we have a bathroom.

788
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 5: Literally, show us have a backyard. What we also have

789
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 5: a backyard. We have a bathroom.

790
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: Stop stop.

791
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 5: Anyways, I'm conflicted.

792
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 1: There is no confliction.

793
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 5: Look, okay, I'm from the country. I like to pee outside.

794
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 5: So what I come out here most mornings and take

795
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 5: a pee.

796
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:31,680
Speaker 1: No, you don't, I know you don't.

797
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:35,240
Speaker 5: Okay, you haven't seen me most warnings.

798
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,839
Speaker 2: Is it because you're peeing in the pushes? Yeah, you're

799
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 2: peeing every day.

800
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: What where? Show me right over there on the tree

801
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: on our best street.

802
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 4: I'm gonna I'm gonna start planting like little those little

803
00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 4: h spring triggered traps everywhere.

804
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do. No wonder the old backyards

805
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 1: spells like pitts.

806
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 5: No, that's not the reason why M. J.

807
00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 1: Gross is marking his territory.

808
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 2: Anyway, getting back to the story, Riley side, I'm sick.

809
00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call the police on you. Yeah. Exposure, Yeah, anyways, I.

810
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 4: Feel super loved and safe with him. Everything became great.

811
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 4: He would compliment and appreciate even the smallest things, surprise

812
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 4: me with gifts and flowers, make me feel beautiful. But

813
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,880
Speaker 4: he never said I love you, despite me saying very often,

814
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 4: and this was nearing our first anniversary.

815
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 2: Well, but isn't that like kind of the norm with

816
00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 2: from what I've heard about, uh, well, from what I've

817
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:51,120
Speaker 2: heard about relationships where it's like arranged, like you you're

818
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 2: kind of dating each other from marriage.

819
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I yeah.

820
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 4: My understanding is it's like the general vibing goal is

821
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:02,920
Speaker 4: kind of like learning to love someone.

822
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,280
Speaker 1: That's that's my understanding.

823
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 2: And so I actually think it's expected too, yeah, to

824
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:15,520
Speaker 2: to which like honestly, like I I totally get it. Like, dude,

825
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:17,799
Speaker 2: if I just met someone and I'm like spending time

826
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 2: with them and and like figuring out like who they are, Like,

827
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:25,280
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna say I love you probably until maybe

828
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 2: like a year in eight months in I've also said

829
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,280
Speaker 2: I love you like a month in. It just depends.

830
00:43:36,280 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 5: I'm like doing my best not to right now.

831
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 1: I feel like you could. I think you could let

832
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 1: one of those really I almost did.

833
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 2: I mean, if you feel it, it's all about a

834
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 2: like instantaneously that's so cute, but like as.

835
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 5: A friend, but like romantically, like probably.

836
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 1: Say it. You know what he said, right, Yeah, I

837
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 1: know what he said. Yeah.

838
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:07,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's like the biggest It's like it's like saying

839
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 2: the thing and then stamping on the thing immediately after

840
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,320
Speaker 2: saying it. Well, okay, it's like making someone a sand

841
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,720
Speaker 2: castle and be like, but it's better just a sand

842
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 2: like and then pounding it to the ground.

843
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 1: No, you all out there?

844
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:20,080
Speaker 8: You go?

845
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 5: Oh the way that it was like, I was like, hey,

846
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 5: I just want you to know, like I'm your friend

847
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,680
Speaker 5: first and then your boyfriend, but I love you as

848
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 5: a friend. That's like the conversation I had. So that's

849
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:34,879
Speaker 5: why I said it like that.

850
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 1: I mean, it's yeah, it's fine, that's cute. Anyways, it's cute. No,

851
00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:43,279
Speaker 1: it's cute.

852
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 5: But a year that's crazy.

853
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it. I think it just it just depends.

854
00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 1: I think. Yeah, it's kind of really hard to put

855
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: a rule on it.

856
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 2: I think I think I've definitely said it six months

857
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 2: in before six months in for all my relationships. But

858
00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 2: I understand understand if it's an arranged marriage waiting a year.

859
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: Yeah.

860
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 4: Anyway, anyways, so the night before our first anniversary, we

861
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,760
Speaker 4: were watching a show together and around eleven thirty pm,

862
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 4: he said, let's go for a walk. He had a

863
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 4: planned this, and our walk went so we reached my

864
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 4: favorite spot in our area, a specific spot along a

865
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 4: walking path with a beautiful view of a nearby lake.

866
00:45:20,760 --> 00:45:21,560
Speaker 1: Just before midnight.

867
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 4: He apologized for how cold and distant he was in

868
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,319
Speaker 4: the first few months after the wedding, followed by him

869
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,359
Speaker 4: telling me how thankful he was to have me as

870
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 4: his wife and appreciating my presence. Turned his giant pile

871
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 4: of bricks referring to the house we live in into

872
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 4: a place he can actually call home.

873
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 1: Dute, that's super cute.

874
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:44,000
Speaker 4: At midnight aka our anniversary, he told me he loved me,

875
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 4: and got on one knee and slid a beautiful diamond,

876
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:49,960
Speaker 4: stuttered a ring onto my finger, and presented me with

877
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 4: my favorite flowers that he had hid nearby a few

878
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:53,919
Speaker 4: hours ago.

879
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,759
Speaker 1: Wait, so he's reproposing. He's reproposing.

880
00:45:56,800 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 2: That's so cute, because an arrange marriage. It's like, all right, now, dude,

881
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 2: that's great. I love this, I like this.

882
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: But like low key His first was like, so, I

883
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: don't know, but it's a range. She doesn't even know

884
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: this person.

885
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 4: But like like it felt like it was he was

886
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 4: like almost going he makes twelve times more than she did,

887
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 4: and he buys a sixty dollars walmart Ring. It feels

888
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 4: like you're going out of your way way to show

889
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 4: someone like I don't mess with you.

890
00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 2: I mean, he should have communicated definitely been like, hey,

891
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:27,920
Speaker 2: I don't really feel that much right now, but I

892
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:29,520
Speaker 2: expect my love to grow as I get to know

893
00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: you well.

894
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 4: Like I feel like he wasn't thinking that. I feel

895
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:34,239
Speaker 4: like he was being like like kind of like a

896
00:46:34,280 --> 00:46:36,799
Speaker 4: little baby. I was like, all right, I don't marry you,

897
00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 4: but like I'm not he like, I mean, he apologized

898
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 4: for how reacted and he he I don't think his

899
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,759
Speaker 4: vibe was like I need to like get to know you.

900
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,279
Speaker 4: He was like, f love, I'm just gonna freaking get

901
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 4: married whatever. I'm just gonna get the dang thing done,

902
00:46:53,040 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 4: and like I'm gonna give you the sixty dollars walmart

903
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 4: Ring even though I make like six figures through it.

904
00:46:58,680 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 4: That's that's the vibe I'm getting.

905
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: Hmmm, No, I I understand that, and I feel like

906
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,479
Speaker 2: I I agree. Yeah, I feel like yeah, so that, yes,

907
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 2: he was the a hole for how he acted, But

908
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 2: I don't I understand in an arranged marriage situation that

909
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 2: being like how things he could have started, but he

910
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 2: could have been a little bit like more communicative where

911
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 2: he's like like maybe gives her a ring that's like

912
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 2: a I don't know, a couple of hundred bucks or

913
00:47:26,800 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: something and saying like, hey, this is.

914
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:29,839
Speaker 1: The starter ring.

915
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 2: I want to, like, like, I wanna when I really

916
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 2: feel it, that's when I'm going to propose, when I

917
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 2: like actually love you.

918
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: But he just met, dude, he just met. It's an

919
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: arranged marriage. He just met. That's true. That's yeah, that

920
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:44,479
Speaker 1: that makes it better.

921
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 4: It's just just the words of when I really love you,

922
00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:49,879
Speaker 4: just never It never sounds great, but it's true.

923
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: It's true. True.

924
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 4: I would say everyone would be like, you're a whole

925
00:47:53,800 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 4: this in this uh setting it I think it definitely

926
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 4: knows what he says. But anyway's back to your story.

927
00:47:58,360 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 1: What do you guys think?

928
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 2: Put your answers in the chat else anyone who knows

929
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:02,800
Speaker 2: anything about arranged marriages let us know.

930
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 1: We don't. We don't know, SAP. I only know a

931
00:48:04,680 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: couple friends who's told me about it, but bup.

932
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 3: Uh.

933
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 4: He had some of our friends secretly record and take

934
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 4: pictures of this entire conversation.

935
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't stop smiling.

936
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 4: The beautiful ring, his I love you, him saying it,

937
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:22,160
Speaker 4: his genuine appreciation meant the world to me. Twenty four

938
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 4: hours and many more I love you. Later, we had

939
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,239
Speaker 4: just got home from our anniversary dinner. We looked at

940
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 4: dinner and I posted on my social media. A few

941
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 4: minutes later, I got a nasty DM from his longtime ex,

942
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 4: calling me names like or in salute and saying that

943
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 4: I ruined their relationship and she should be the one

944
00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 4: with the ring and just crapping on my entire existence. Uh,

945
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 4: you fumbled the bag, girl, you fumbled the freaking Where

946
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 4: did that come from?

947
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 2: That's kind of random, right, Well a guy, I mean, I,

948
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 2: but daddy as kind of whack to do it now.

949
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:00,840
Speaker 1: Right, I guess.

950
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 4: I guess maybe before she knew that he was like

951
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 4: not into it and just doing mate.

952
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 1: Conspiracy theory, conspiracy spiracy theory.

953
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 4: Maybe he was doing he he only married OPI initially

954
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 4: as revenge to to this person who it seems like

955
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 4: they had a really nast toxic relationship.

956
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 2: And he's like, I'm just done with this whole love thing,

957
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 2: get it over with. And then bam, Mary's the first

958
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 2: person his mom picks out. Was it his mom that

959
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 2: picked it up? I don't Yeah, we don't know the

960
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 2: theay whoever arranged the arrangement. And then but now he

961
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 2: actually like loves her and they're seeing social media evidence

962
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: of that, dude.

963
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: And then yep, there's more.

964
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 4: She also sent an intimate video of her and my husband.

965
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, yeah, dude, yep. I started crying and yelling

966
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: at my husband and accusing him of cheating. My husband

967
00:50:02,080 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: showed me his phone and it showed thousands of messages

968
00:50:05,080 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 1: from his ex over the past year that he had

969
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,200
Speaker 1: never responded to. My husband hugged me and held me close,

970
00:50:10,400 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: but I couldn't stop crying and asked my husband to

971
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: leave the house. Wait wait, but he but this was

972
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,800
Speaker 1: from this is not from when they were together.

973
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 4: So yeah, so it seems reading between the lines, it

974
00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:26,440
Speaker 4: seems that she sent a video of them hooking up

975
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 4: from when they before, when they were in a relationship.

976
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 4: But I think op in the moment is like not

977
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:39,920
Speaker 4: believing that or not sure why that's dumb. I mean,

978
00:50:40,000 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 4: I guess it's a like kind of instant emotional.

979
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:46,880
Speaker 2: That's yeah, but that's kind of like like, don't believe

980
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 2: the crazy ax who sent in if someone's if the

981
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 2: crazy ax sends you nudes or dudes, goods, goods and

982
00:50:57,920 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 2: and then is like trying to break up your relation

983
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 2: and jip, obviously you shouldn't listen to that person.

984
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: I agree, I.

985
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 4: Agree, I think, yeah, I think this is just Ope's

986
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 4: headspace right now.

987
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, OPI is a I think that's a bad move

988
00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: on Opie's part. I agree. I would love to know

989
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: what you guys think, though, Yes, bye bye bah.

990
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 4: He reluctantly agreed, hugged me again and promised me he'd

991
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:23,759
Speaker 4: never betray me, and headed to his best friend's place

992
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:26,760
Speaker 4: for night. I felt so insecure because of his ex.

993
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: Uh.

994
00:51:27,840 --> 00:51:30,319
Speaker 4: I felt in so insecure because his ex is so

995
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:33,400
Speaker 4: much more attractive than I am, and the video showed

996
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 4: how intensely in love they were.

997
00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 1: Ouch.

998
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,719
Speaker 4: I asked two of my girlfriends to spend the night,

999
00:51:38,719 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 4: and they came immediately and were able to calm me down.

1000
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 4: But my husband came by the next day but couldn't.

1001
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 4: I bet but I couldn't bear to look at him.

1002
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 4: I asked him to give me some more time alone.

1003
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 4: He said okay and kissed my forehead and dropped off

1004
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 4: some food and my favorite chocolate that he had gotten

1005
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 4: for me. Three days went by like this, and I

1006
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 4: called him asking if he could come back home. He

1007
00:51:58,560 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 4: left work early and came straight to me. I didn't

1008
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 4: even say anything. I just broke down crying when I

1009
00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 4: saw him. He helped me close and promised me that

1010
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 4: the only woman he cares about is me, his wife.

1011
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 4: It's been four days since he came back home and

1012
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 4: he's been giving me flowers, random hugs, and kisses everything

1013
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 4: a wife dreams of getting from her husband. But I

1014
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,359
Speaker 4: just can't move on from seeing that video of him

1015
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 4: and his ex. My husband has been trying to talk

1016
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 4: to me about this, but I've been shutting down any conversation.

1017
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 4: He tried again during dinner today, and this time I

1018
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,279
Speaker 4: blew up at him and told him to leave. I

1019
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:36,480
Speaker 4: told him something in the heat of the moment, but

1020
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 4: he looked hurt. He packed up some clothes and said

1021
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 4: he's going back to his friend's place until I'm ready

1022
00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:41,959
Speaker 4: to talk.

1023
00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 5: I tried to stop him when he was heading out.

1024
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:47,400
Speaker 5: I tried to stop him when he was leaving, but

1025
00:52:47,480 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 5: he left any way and wouldn't pick up my calls.

1026
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 5: My girlfriend. His friend's wife called and said he's staying

1027
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:57,560
Speaker 5: here for at least the nights. I called my sister

1028
00:52:57,640 --> 00:53:00,320
Speaker 5: and explained the whole situation to her. She told me

1029
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 5: I effed up big time and told me that I

1030
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 5: was an a hole for one kicking him out the

1031
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 5: first time, two not even being open to a conversation,

1032
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 5: and three kicking him out again.

1033
00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:11,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, am I the a hole?

1034
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 3: Yes?

1035
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,080
Speaker 4: I am understanding that my husband is innocent in this,

1036
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:15,400
Speaker 4: but no one seems.

1037
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: Oh.

1038
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 4: I understand that my husband is innocent in this, but

1039
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,839
Speaker 4: no one seems to understand what I am going through

1040
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 4: seeing that video. There are some comments, but let's break

1041
00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 4: it down. I think op is one the a hole. Yeah,

1042
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:33,879
Speaker 4: like it was. It was the X is the ex

1043
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 4: is winning. You are letting the X win.

1044
00:53:35,880 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

1045
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 2: The ex is sending these messages in the hope that

1046
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:43,719
Speaker 2: she breaks up the marriage and op Opie's husband. I

1047
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,799
Speaker 2: don't think Dine anything wrong, Like it was a video

1048
00:53:45,880 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 2: that they took before the marriage even started. Yes, really

1049
00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 2: fed up of the X to send that, for sure,

1050
00:53:56,560 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 2: very much so, but I and then to k to

1051
00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 2: not even have a conversation about it. Yeah, Like, I

1052
00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 2: think OPI is having all the wrong all the wrong responses.

1053
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 2: She's blaming the wrong person for doing something. And h

1054
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,120
Speaker 2: Jesse says, idea, send a nice little bit new video back.

1055
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:25,880
Speaker 2: I don't know of that. I think just honestly blockdaysed X.

1056
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:30,280
Speaker 2: Y Anna Banana says, TLDR what video is she talking about?

1057
00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 2: So basically, Op had an arranged marriage with this guy.

1058
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 2: The first year was not that great, but then the

1059
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 2: guy slowly fall fell in love with her and gave

1060
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 2: her like an actual ring and proposed and everything. It

1061
00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 2: went out in social media, and the guy's ex saw

1062
00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 2: the social media post and it's like, you stole my

1063
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 2: my like would be husband, and here's here's proof of

1064
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 2: how passionate and love we are and sends some revenge

1065
00:54:57,719 --> 00:55:01,640
Speaker 2: coorn to oh, and Op's like, oh my god, I

1066
00:55:01,680 --> 00:55:05,920
Speaker 2: can't believe my husband did this and kicks him out.

1067
00:55:06,080 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 2: And all of this video was before they were even together. Yes,

1068
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,040
Speaker 2: So like, I don't think it makes any sense. I

1069
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 2: think Op is the ahle.

1070
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:16,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think OPI's the ahole for I

1071
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:20,160
Speaker 4: honestly think it's okay to have a moment of insecurity

1072
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:23,759
Speaker 4: and be like, hey, this might be irrational, but I'm

1073
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:27,800
Speaker 4: just like I'm insecure, Like basically say what OPI said

1074
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 4: to us, Like I'm insecure because she's so much prettier,

1075
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 4: Like I see how you know, passionate the love making is,

1076
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 4: and like it just makes me insecure, And like I

1077
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:41,399
Speaker 4: I I do have this like sneaking suspicion that it's

1078
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 4: the OPI hasn't even outright said this, but it seems

1079
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 4: like op is thinking, like was this actually recorded during

1080
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 4: our relationship or not before you have to voice that

1081
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:53,799
Speaker 4: and have a conversation.

1082
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 2: And qua and like maybe she's quasi Queen is a

1083
00:55:56,680 --> 00:55:57,279
Speaker 2: good uh.

1084
00:55:58,880 --> 00:55:59,240
Speaker 1: Comment.

1085
00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,400
Speaker 2: She didn't assume husband cheated and the fact that he

1086
00:56:01,480 --> 00:56:03,400
Speaker 2: was close to someone else before her is what she

1087
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:07,160
Speaker 2: could not handle. So it might not even be that

1088
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 2: it's cheating. It just could be insecurity. Yeah, so I

1089
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 2: did get you again, I drank the selsey too early.

1090
00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 2: But yeah, I think I think op is the a

1091
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 2: hole here for sure. Yeah, I would love to know

1092
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 2: what all of y'all think I'm saying. Oh p is

1093
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:27,319
Speaker 2: the A hole A hole? Yeah, we'll start a little

1094
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:31,280
Speaker 2: poll also for everyone who's on Facebook or Twitch watching

1095
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Speaker 2: right now. Because we're I'm still getting things worked out.

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00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 2: We can only see comments from uh YouTube, and we

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00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 2: can only see like like uh donation. So if you

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00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 2: want to like, if you're on Facebook, you could send

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00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 2: us a small donation. We could see your comment, or

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Speaker 2: you could come over to YouTube and then comment there.

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Speaker 1: But speaking of donations, there is there is there's a

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Speaker 1: juicy update. Oh yes, there Yeah, this is not a

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Speaker 1: short story.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well before we get into that big, thick, juicy update,

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Speaker 2: Joanna Lynn, thanks for the sixteen forty two Hey y'all,

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Speaker 2: last week of school for me. Retail management certification soon

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Speaker 2: to be acquired.

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Speaker 1: Whoop, poop poop.

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Speaker 2: Also, thirty more minutes doesn't have the same ring as

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Speaker 2: one more hour even gang, So this is I guess

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Speaker 2: a vote towards one more hour. We got one vote

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Speaker 2: to thirty more minutes, one vote one more hour. Cassandra

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Speaker 2: verying so the five bucks, Sam, I just shipped you

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Speaker 2: a beautiful umbrella. Don't want your hands tired next time.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for that, Assandra, I appreciate you. Matt Haddigau

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00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 2: with another five gifted membership. Shout out to you, Liz

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Speaker 2: K five bucks, first time donating at work watching as

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Speaker 2: we are slow, well glad you're watching Sleepless Nights. Hello,

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00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 2: good morning guys. Hope everything is great. This week has

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Speaker 2: been pretty great for me. I hope it has been.

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Speaker 1: Sleep Leepless is a good week. We have a good week.

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Speaker 2: Linda lone Wall, thanks for becoming a one month of

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Speaker 2: memberships one month because I got to another membership with

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Speaker 2: the Oko p fam is a wonderful.

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Speaker 1: Community and I'm so glad. Y'all are so awesome. Love

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Speaker 1: seeing that.

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Speaker 2: Jojo forty five x we already read this one but

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Speaker 2: one hundred dollars tip. Tomorrow I start clinicals and need

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Speaker 2: a long episode to listen to the on my commute. Jojo,

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Speaker 2: thanks for getting us another thirty minutes on the stream. Then,

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Speaker 2: Pigeon General five buck tip, Sam, don't worry. Pigeons mate

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Speaker 2: for life and you will find yours someday. It's honestly

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Speaker 2: just because I feel like I'm I'm like on the

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Speaker 2: prow for my wife, and so i feel like I'm

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Speaker 2: like I'm setting a like I'm I'm I'm like trying

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Speaker 2: to make sure I want like I'm I find someone

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Speaker 2: who matches my values completely. So that's why it's a

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Speaker 2: little bit more more stringent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sure standards. Standard standards are high. MJ. Grow thanks

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Speaker 1: for the two bucks. Hot pitche summer.

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Speaker 4: Oh oh it's a hot pitch in summer.

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Speaker 1: Throw the wife shit out the window, bitch summer. Here

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00:58:57,720 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: we go.

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Speaker 2: Special Wieder, thanks for the sixty five. That's what I'm

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Speaker 2: talking about for hot pigeon summer. Hey, John Riley and

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00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 2: that weird pigeon. I have two flat tours lined up

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Speaker 2: and I need some luck with how the housing market

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Speaker 2: is right now. Love from Germany. Luck to you Special

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Speaker 2: Wiener and your German housing doors.

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Speaker 5: I hope the housing market in Germany is better than

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Speaker 5: here in America.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how is it here in America? Have no idea? Yea,

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Speaker 1: I had no idea that we are not home owners? Is

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Speaker 1: that it?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: No? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Alan Foster, actually John, you take this over. He is there,

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Speaker 4: Alan Foster, thanks for two bucks. Rings are a scam.

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Speaker 4: Wife's and mine together are four hungred bucks. They do

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Speaker 4: price it up like insane. I don't know if you

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Speaker 4: guys have ever seen videos of someone will be like, oh,

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Speaker 4: I bought this for like fifteen granted k jewelers and

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00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 4: they're like, yeah, I can give like you one.

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Speaker 1: Hundred bucks for this crazy.

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Speaker 4: Uncle Daddy Jesse, thanks for a ten bucks tip on

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Speaker 4: the dineral link. My husband proposed to me in the

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Speaker 4: parking lot of our workplace, so we got married. I

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Speaker 4: asked the officiant to marry us in the parking lot,

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Speaker 4: and then we went to McDonald's and ate in the

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Speaker 4: parking lot.

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Speaker 1: Made a parking lot our thing. L All there you go.

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Speaker 1: You know see, it's all about what it means. What

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Speaker 1: does it mean? What does it mean? Austin Ricketts, thanks

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Speaker 1: for the ten bucks.

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Speaker 4: Hey, fellas, I've gotten super into your show recently and

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Speaker 4: fallen down the okop rabbit hole.

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Speaker 1: Let's go.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for being a fun listen and helping me get

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Speaker 4: through the workday. All the best, all the best to you, Austin,

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Speaker 4: not to you.

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01:00:29,000 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 2: But you know what, I am ready for the best

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01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 2: of watch the best of Redditor updates.

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Speaker 1: Let's get these relevant comments.

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Speaker 4: Babe, so level Fortune forty sixty two says you're the

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Speaker 4: a hole one hundred percent. You know he didn't do

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01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 4: anything and still kicked him out. Your sister is right

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01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,480
Speaker 4: about what you did wrong, which was everything here. You

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Speaker 4: had a right to be angry, but not at him,

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Speaker 4: not even a little bit. He didn't do it. The

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Speaker 4: extend new Tony Laws says, you're the a hole. You won,

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Speaker 4: and you've ruined your own happiness. Take a victory lot,

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Speaker 4: then show your hobby how happy you are that you

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Speaker 4: love each other. You are bitter about how he treated

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Speaker 4: you at first, but he was attacking.

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Speaker 5: But he was being attacked emotionally by his ex.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure how you.

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Speaker 4: Let that go and got out of the way of

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Speaker 4: yourself living happily ever after. No Teacher at thirty thirty

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Speaker 4: thirteen says people have passed generally, they have been in

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Speaker 4: love and had spicy sleep before.

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Speaker 1: He loves you.

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Speaker 4: Now you have a whole, happy life together. The X

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Speaker 4: lost and is bitter. It's not your husband's fault. She

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Speaker 4: is trying to create trouble. Try not to fixate on

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Speaker 4: the video, block her and move on and then Revolutionary

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Speaker 4: Dot thirty four to thirty two close up closes us out.

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Speaker 4: The ex isn't trying to cause trouble. She succeeded in

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Speaker 4: causing trouble. Got what she wanted to because op, he's

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Speaker 4: going to lose her husband for acting like this, and

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Speaker 4: the ex will be able to swoop in and be

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Speaker 4: his shoulder to cry on big facts. I mean, but

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Speaker 4: like if the husband goes back to her after she

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Speaker 4: did this, I mean, I would pray he wouldn't be

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Speaker 4: that much of an.

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Speaker 1: Idiot to get back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: One and eighty five percent of people are our community.

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Speaker 4: Eighty five percent voted the ahole.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I think I think I agree, I think

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Speaker 1: I agree, I think ahole for sure, I agree to

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Speaker 1: ah But there's an up date. There's an update.

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Speaker 2: Let's go and shout out Kristin foil out for the

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Speaker 2: five gifted membership.

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Speaker 1: Gotta love it. Gotta love it. So.

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Speaker 4: I couldn't sleep after he left the second time last

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Speaker 4: night and stayed up reading every single comment. Thank you

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Speaker 4: all for helping me realize how much I was hurting

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Speaker 4: my husband by not being open to a conversation.

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Speaker 2: Oh peace, taking advice, taking that advice, and it was

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Speaker 2: good and it was good advice.

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Speaker 1: Let's go.

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Speaker 4: Uh, I was hurting my husband by by not being

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Speaker 4: open to a conversation and repeatedly asking him to leave.

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Speaker 1: I called him again.

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Speaker 4: He didn't pick up, so I left a voicemail and

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Speaker 4: begged him to come home and promised that we.

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Speaker 1: Could talk about everything.

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Speaker 4: He couldn't sleep either, and came home around three am.

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Speaker 4: I was still awake and asked if and asked if

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Speaker 4: we could talk now. We sat down and I began

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Speaker 4: the conversation. I explained that I truly love him, but

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Speaker 4: seeing the intense chemistry he and his ex had in

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01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 4: the video made me feel jealous and insecure. He promised

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Speaker 4: that that was something of the past and I am

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Speaker 4: his present in future and he only loves me all.

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Speaker 4: I apologize for ignoring his attempts at talking to me

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Speaker 4: and telling him to leave. I said a lot of

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Speaker 4: I'm sorries and promised to become a better communicator. He

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01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 4: forgave me, but also told me that he was at

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Speaker 4: fault as well. He said he enabled his ex by

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Speaker 4: not blocking her.

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Speaker 1: That's what you guys said. You guys said that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if we said that, but I read

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01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 2: I read your your your chats, and you're like, why

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Speaker 2: didn't he block her?

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Speaker 1: Why didn't he block her? Like, you're sotally right. Our

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01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:44,880
Speaker 1: community is literally the best guys, are the best, we

1258
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Speaker 1: have the best and brightest.

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Speaker 2: We were literally we were talking about this morning. We

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Speaker 2: released a video yesterday that was like had a lot

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Speaker 2: of controversy in it, and like we were talking about

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01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 2: it and responded on the on the video. But it

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Speaker 2: was like it was really cool, Like so if Riley

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Speaker 2: and I and Riley's girlfriend, we're all like and and

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01:04:04,680 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 2: and Christian. We were all like talking about the issue

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Speaker 2: together and it was really cool to like be able

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Speaker 2: to hear what y'all have to say and like talk

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Speaker 2: about it from different angles.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: One thing that I love about our community is I

1271
01:04:15,480 --> 01:04:18,160
Speaker 4: feel like a lot of shows are like very like

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Speaker 4: one directional where they just like spout information to you

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01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 4: versus like this is like really a conversation, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Between us and and you all, and we like learn

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01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:27,760
Speaker 1: a lot.

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Speaker 4: And Yeah, I just think that's a I think that's

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Speaker 4: a super dope part of our community and a testament

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01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 4: to how amazing everyone here is.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we.

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Speaker 2: Don't we don't get all were our takes are not

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01:04:39,600 --> 01:04:42,280
Speaker 2: all right too correct, but it's like I think we're

1282
01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 2: ready to learn.

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01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:44,360
Speaker 1: We love the combo, but.

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01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,320
Speaker 2: Let's get it back into this update because that's awesome

1285
01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 2: that she's listening.

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01:04:48,120 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: Yes, so uh.

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01:04:51,320 --> 01:04:53,959
Speaker 4: He said he enabled X by not blocking her, giving

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01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 4: her the idea that she still had a chance with him,

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01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:58,440
Speaker 4: which caused her to try to come after me and

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Speaker 4: cause a rift in our marriage.

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Speaker 1: Bro, she's she's coming at her like Kendrick Lamar. This

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01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:02,960
Speaker 1: is crazy.

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01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 4: He also told me she messaged him the day after

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Speaker 4: sending the message in video, again begging him.

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Speaker 1: To leave me for her.

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01:05:10,440 --> 01:05:11,040
Speaker 3: Wow.

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01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:14,480
Speaker 4: He apologized for quote unquote his part in letting his

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01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 4: ex disrespect me and showed me he had blocked her. Now,

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Speaker 4: we decided not to go to counseling for now and

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01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 4: just work on things ourselves.

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Speaker 1: That's I feel like, that's why not.

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Speaker 4: That's a little weird for my self esteem issues regarding

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01:05:31,160 --> 01:05:33,760
Speaker 4: thinking his ex was much more attractive than me. My

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01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 4: husband reassured me and told me that I'm perfect the

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01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 4: way I am, and.

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01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:39,160
Speaker 1: He loves every part that's beautiful. We love it.

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01:05:39,440 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 4: He suggested that some sort of physical exercise could help

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01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:46,080
Speaker 4: me improve my own self confidence, the same way weightlifting

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01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 4: helped him when he was going through a dark phase

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01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:51,200
Speaker 4: in his late teens. That dude, that's always such a

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01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:54,080
Speaker 4: hard thing to say. Just it's like, it's like it's

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Speaker 4: a very specific way.

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01:05:56,160 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it could easily be taken. Yeah, so I'm

1314
01:06:00,960 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 1: going to be joining a plates class.

1315
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:04,840
Speaker 2: There we go, okay, okay, she seems like she took

1316
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 2: it well, and he said it in a way that

1317
01:06:06,200 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 2: wasn't gonna wasn't gonna be taking like we love to

1318
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 2: see it.

1319
01:06:08,920 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 4: I'm going to be joining a plates class where a

1320
01:06:10,960 --> 01:06:13,919
Speaker 4: couple of my girlfriends already go quite regularly. We spent

1321
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 4: a few more hours just talking and the topic of

1322
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 4: his ex came up, and I asked if he could

1323
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 4: tell me what had happened between them. Long story short,

1324
01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 4: he was reluctant to tell me his ex of four

1325
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 4: years cheated when he was planning to propose.

1326
01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 2: Bro, why is she mad she fumbled the bag herself?

1327
01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:35,520
Speaker 1: But she sounds like a complete lunatic.

1328
01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:40,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, like someone who's just like will not take any accountability,

1329
01:06:40,760 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 4: responsibility and just like maniacally go for what she wants

1330
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 4: at all costs. So he went on a bender. Parents

1331
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 4: asked if he wanted to try the or the arranged

1332
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 4: marriage route. He agreed, saying he was in no condition

1333
01:06:53,800 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 4: to make good decisions. The best time to get married

1334
01:06:58,040 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 4: oh my god.

1335
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:02,320
Speaker 1: We met a month after he got clean and things

1336
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 1: went from there. Wow. So he literally like bender clean married.

1337
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:12,760
Speaker 4: Uh uh bender induced by cheating right before during the

1338
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:15,000
Speaker 4: proposal planning like wow.

1339
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: What what?

1340
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 2: What?

1341
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:20,800
Speaker 4: What circumstances also paints a lot of clarity and context

1342
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:24,680
Speaker 4: for their initial phase of their relationship. He said he

1343
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:27,440
Speaker 4: regrets treating me poorly early in our relationship and regrets

1344
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:30,280
Speaker 4: getting me the crappy walmart ring because of what another

1345
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 4: woman did to him and asked for my friend.

1346
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 2: H So he's like that, that's some trauma. That's like

1347
01:07:36,120 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 2: uh Like he's like, uh, I don't want to go

1348
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:39,600
Speaker 2: through this again, and so.

1349
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:41,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will let me not get invested. He was hurt,

1350
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:44,680
Speaker 1: he was, Yeah, he doesn't want to invest about the

1351
01:07:44,760 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 1: thousands of messages.

1352
01:07:45,960 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 4: He didn't block his ex on any form of communic

1353
01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:52,840
Speaker 4: communication because his revenge was showing her his life could

1354
01:07:52,840 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 4: be better without her, but admitted he also found.

1355
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:57,640
Speaker 1: Her desperation pretty funny.

1356
01:07:58,440 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 5: Uh.

1357
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 4: We read some of the message together and had a

1358
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,960
Speaker 4: nice laugh before he deleted all of them permanently on

1359
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:04,720
Speaker 4: his own accord.

1360
01:08:05,160 --> 01:08:05,640
Speaker 1: So that's that.

1361
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:08,320
Speaker 4: I guess talking with him went as best as it

1362
01:08:08,320 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 4: could have he forgave me and admitted to and apologized

1363
01:08:11,120 --> 01:08:13,320
Speaker 4: for his parts in this. We fell asleep together, I

1364
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:15,200
Speaker 4: cooked him his favorite meal for lunch, we went on

1365
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 4: a walk and all seems good.

1366
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,120
Speaker 1: Oh we love to see it.

1367
01:08:18,320 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 4: Thank thank you everyone who helped me realize how much

1368
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:24,559
Speaker 4: we how much we needed to calmly talk to each other.

1369
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 4: And we're closing out with these two short comments. Miss

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01:08:27,880 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 4: Austria twenty seven says, wow, once in a blue moon,

1371
01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 4: the comments on a post are good and actually make

1372
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:34,639
Speaker 4: the person realize their error.

1373
01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 2: I love, like literally, it's my favorite thing when this happens. Yes,

1374
01:08:38,000 --> 01:08:40,599
Speaker 2: it's my favorite things. All the best of your future,

1375
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:44,320
Speaker 2: and so Laier says, that was a really beautiful story.

1376
01:08:44,360 --> 01:08:47,000
Speaker 2: I wish you both many happy years and as many

1377
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:50,040
Speaker 2: healthy children as you both desire. Coming from Western culture,

1378
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 2: I can't imagine how difficult and scary and arranged marriage

1379
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 2: could be on both sides.

1380
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,640
Speaker 1: You should both be proud and that is the end

1381
01:08:56,640 --> 01:09:00,479
Speaker 1: of the story. There, WHOA, that's beautiful. Yeah, what what journey?

1382
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:02,519
Speaker 1: What a whirl one? I think?

1383
01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:07,280
Speaker 2: I think I love when people are wrong and then

1384
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 2: get advice and take it like that's that.

1385
01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 1: It is a real hero's journey. It seems it just.

1386
01:09:14,520 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 4: Seems like so many stories like people are like so

1387
01:09:18,320 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 4: hard headed and yeah.

1388
01:09:19,360 --> 01:09:20,160
Speaker 1: They double down.

1389
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:24,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think, like like you where it reminds

1390
01:09:24,160 --> 01:09:26,799
Speaker 2: me that the reason people are coming to these platforms,

1391
01:09:26,880 --> 01:09:30,160
Speaker 2: reason people like submitting our subritt Kop show is actually

1392
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:33,800
Speaker 2: asking for like real advice exactly, and like hopefully they

1393
01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:36,880
Speaker 2: they take it hopefully. Speaking of real advice, do you

1394
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 2: guys want to give me some advice on some thoughts?

1395
01:09:41,920 --> 01:09:44,600
Speaker 1: Do you want to let's go? I actually don't know

1396
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:45,840
Speaker 1: where we're going.

1397
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 2: So this is the okay story time on my recent

1398
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:52,080
Speaker 2: recent developments story time. Let's get into it.

1399
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:53,479
Speaker 1: Okay, So.

1400
01:09:55,240 --> 01:10:00,720
Speaker 2: I have been seeing this girl for a few two

1401
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 2: months and we had we initially went on like three

1402
01:10:06,320 --> 01:10:09,879
Speaker 2: dates and it was lovely, like an insane physical connection,

1403
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 2: like absolutely insane that we both kind of acknowledged. But

1404
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:18,720
Speaker 2: after like three or four dates, I'm like, hey, I

1405
01:10:18,760 --> 01:10:21,719
Speaker 2: don't think that I see you as a long term partner.

1406
01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:28,120
Speaker 2: And she responded basically by saying, like, because you don't

1407
01:10:28,160 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 2: know me right, Like it's it's like we've only been

1408
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 2: on three or four dates, Like how could you know

1409
01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,880
Speaker 2: if someone's like a long term partner. If Riley's laughing,

1410
01:10:36,520 --> 01:10:38,800
Speaker 2: he knows this part, How could you know if you're

1411
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:41,720
Speaker 2: like a long term partner or not after only three

1412
01:10:41,760 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 2: or four dates? And I'm like, I guess that's a

1413
01:10:44,240 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 2: good point. And so then I wrote her this whole letter,

1414
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:51,640
Speaker 2: how like, I'm unsure whether I want to be in

1415
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:55,120
Speaker 2: a long term relationship with you, but I am willing

1416
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 2: to like talk about it more or like like like

1417
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 2: keep dating and see right, And so I was kind

1418
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:04,840
Speaker 2: of like very transparent about my reservations, like I wasn't

1419
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:07,000
Speaker 2: like fully in, but I was like, all right, let

1420
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 2: me see, let me see what happens. We date for

1421
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,040
Speaker 2: like another month?

1422
01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 1: Was it two months?

1423
01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:15,640
Speaker 2: Well, I think we didn't see each other for a

1424
01:11:15,680 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 2: couple weeks, and then we dated for like another month

1425
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 2: or so, and we kept hanging out and I liked

1426
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 2: her a little bit more every day, like she's she's awesome,

1427
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,880
Speaker 2: but I still felt there were things that I like,

1428
01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:29,599
Speaker 2: I don't I really don't feel like it's a long

1429
01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 2: term fit. And then I basically said, hey, I still

1430
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:39,400
Speaker 2: feel similarly to how I felt in the beginning. I

1431
01:11:40,080 --> 01:11:42,400
Speaker 2: like you a lot more, but I I really I

1432
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 2: don't I still don't see it as like like I

1433
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:47,880
Speaker 2: don't think I can make a further commitment to you,

1434
01:11:48,040 --> 01:11:52,639
Speaker 2: like to boyfriend. Oh because we had this we had

1435
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:55,200
Speaker 2: this walk on the a dock together.

1436
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:58,600
Speaker 1: Should I say this part? Uh, I don't know. I

1437
01:11:58,640 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know this part. You know, you do?

1438
01:12:00,520 --> 01:12:03,240
Speaker 1: I remember where she was like she was I introduced

1439
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:06,280
Speaker 1: her as a friend, and she's like, my friend.

1440
01:12:06,000 --> 01:12:06,559
Speaker 3: That you.

1441
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 1: Up to you there is Riley.

1442
01:12:12,920 --> 01:12:16,400
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So I don't know if I should

1443
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 2: say it. All right, fine, yeah right, Riley is choosing anyway.

1444
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: So we like we're walking on this like doc and

1445
01:12:29,040 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 2: we're talking and she was like she was making a

1446
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:37,400
Speaker 2: she was making like a joke basically like she phrased

1447
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 2: as a joke, but I think it was real. I

1448
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:42,640
Speaker 2: introduced her as a friend and then she was like

1449
01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:45,040
Speaker 2: he was just like, oh yeah, your friend, your friend

1450
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 2: that you like have for like four hours yesterday and

1451
01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 2: because our physical connection is insane. But I kind of

1452
01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,640
Speaker 2: laughed it off. And then the next week I was like, hey, like,

1453
01:12:59,680 --> 01:13:03,040
Speaker 2: are you like I feel like you might want more?

1454
01:13:03,800 --> 01:13:05,800
Speaker 1: Is that true?

1455
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 2: Because I feel like we needed like emotionally align and uh,

1456
01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:13,439
Speaker 2: we talked about it and I and and I was like,

1457
01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:15,599
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can commit further, Like I'm

1458
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:17,840
Speaker 2: still open to seeing you because I enjoyed spending time

1459
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:19,680
Speaker 2: with you, but I don't know if like things can

1460
01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 2: go further or I can't like promise that things are

1461
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:24,599
Speaker 2: going to develop. And initially she was like that's fine,

1462
01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:27,800
Speaker 2: but then she called me back and she's like, I

1463
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:30,800
Speaker 2: don't want to be just waiting around while you find

1464
01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 2: someone else, which I totally understand. Yeah, but then I

1465
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,280
Speaker 2: heard from another friend that she feels like she was

1466
01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:42,800
Speaker 2: let on because I was like romantic during the uh

1467
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 2: like when we saw each other together. So question is,

1468
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 2: is being romantic with someone that you're not sure about

1469
01:13:50,200 --> 01:13:50,840
Speaker 2: leading someone on?

1470
01:13:52,479 --> 01:13:54,760
Speaker 1: Oh? Is that leading someone on? Right?

1471
01:13:55,800 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 5: I guess I guess it can be confused. I think

1472
01:13:58,120 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 5: I think the thing that.

1473
01:13:58,920 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 1: You did very very well.

1474
01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:04,519
Speaker 4: It's like uh or over communicate and clearly communicate on

1475
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:09,599
Speaker 4: where you're at, which which gave the UH Like that's

1476
01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:12,760
Speaker 4: that's when you're like okay when because when you communicate,

1477
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 4: that is like that's the most clear, clearest way we

1478
01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 4: can't of knowing something. So it's like okay that that

1479
01:14:19,960 --> 01:14:22,760
Speaker 4: gives the other person the option to either opt in

1480
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,880
Speaker 4: or opt out, knowing like where they stand without having

1481
01:14:26,160 --> 01:14:28,559
Speaker 4: to guess. And I feel like you did that very well.

1482
01:14:28,840 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 4: But then there's this like tricky part of like, uh,

1483
01:14:35,520 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 4: like I feel like I feel like some people and

1484
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 4: it kind of like what you were saying earlier where

1485
01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:44,439
Speaker 4: you're like, oh, I'm like looking for my wife, So

1486
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 4: like I'm I'm like a little bit more stringent and

1487
01:14:46,920 --> 01:14:51,640
Speaker 4: like more like you're leaning towards like leaving something that

1488
01:14:51,840 --> 01:14:55,639
Speaker 4: isn't progressing towards yea, like a wife.

1489
01:14:55,960 --> 01:14:58,880
Speaker 2: And I felt like as soon as I as soon

1490
01:14:58,920 --> 01:15:03,840
Speaker 2: as I new for sure, I was like, I need

1491
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:07,320
Speaker 2: to like I need to leave. But there's this argument

1492
01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:13,480
Speaker 2: where it's like, if you're romantic before feeling love essentially,

1493
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:18,559
Speaker 2: are you or like feeling like love super intensely to

1494
01:15:18,640 --> 01:15:21,840
Speaker 2: the point of wanting to marry someone? I guess like,

1495
01:15:22,000 --> 01:15:23,720
Speaker 2: are you leading someone on? But I don't know if

1496
01:15:23,760 --> 01:15:26,160
Speaker 2: that's true, Like I can't imagine not being romantic with

1497
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 2: someone interested in No.

1498
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:31,519
Speaker 4: I got I guess I guess that the the the

1499
01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:35,439
Speaker 4: tricky part is when you enter a point where one

1500
01:15:35,479 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 4: of the other it's like, as long as if two

1501
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:41,640
Speaker 4: people are on the same pace, then there's there's not

1502
01:15:41,720 --> 01:15:45,360
Speaker 4: an issue, right because they're both being equally romantic at

1503
01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:47,840
Speaker 4: the same pace. But it's when people are on two

1504
01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 4: different paces where it just gets like, not like wrong,

1505
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:51,920
Speaker 4: but I think just like harder.

1506
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:52,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1507
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 2: Something that she said is like, if you were more

1508
01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:01,880
Speaker 2: like we were talking about, like if we would hang

1509
01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 2: out or like see each other just like in a

1510
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:07,679
Speaker 2: friend context, and like if we started off as more casual,

1511
01:16:07,760 --> 01:16:10,800
Speaker 2: maybe it would be easy to that, but because we

1512
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 2: like started off so intentionally, it would be hard. But

1513
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:17,640
Speaker 2: I don't want to start off relationships like not intentionally

1514
01:16:17,880 --> 01:16:20,680
Speaker 2: and like really putting out like like I want to

1515
01:16:20,680 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 2: be romantic and see if I like being that with

1516
01:16:23,800 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 2: that person. Yeah, but I understand that could be mixed signals.

1517
01:16:27,520 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

1518
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 4: I don't think it's it's kind of like you yeah,

1519
01:16:32,400 --> 01:16:34,960
Speaker 4: because then if you're never romantic, then it's like you're never.

1520
01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:37,120
Speaker 1: Yeah or right.

1521
01:16:37,880 --> 01:16:39,040
Speaker 5: You just need a new approach.

1522
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:40,479
Speaker 1: What's the new approach?

1523
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:43,840
Speaker 5: Because my approach has been working on pretty well.

1524
01:16:44,600 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 1: Well.

1525
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:48,400
Speaker 2: You're but you like you you know for sure from

1526
01:16:48,400 --> 01:16:51,160
Speaker 2: the get go. Maybe it's like, yeah, I think you're

1527
01:16:51,200 --> 01:16:52,120
Speaker 2: more sure from the get go.

1528
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:53,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay.

1529
01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:55,960
Speaker 4: Actually, I think Riley did a pretty good job of

1530
01:16:56,960 --> 01:17:03,360
Speaker 4: like knowing and moving on at a at like the

1531
01:17:03,479 --> 01:17:07,639
Speaker 4: right time, like both with people that are like, Okay,

1532
01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:09,759
Speaker 4: this isn't the best fit, and then with the person

1533
01:17:09,800 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 4: that was yeah.

1534
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 5: Because I didn't, like there were a few people here.

1535
01:17:13,520 --> 01:17:15,439
Speaker 5: I was like, okay, cool, but then he goes super

1536
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:20,200
Speaker 5: like too crazy romantically, but I was still sweet and

1537
01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:22,120
Speaker 5: a gentleman. And then and then I'm like, Okay, I

1538
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:24,120
Speaker 5: really like this person. I could, I could see something

1539
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 5: happening and then went down the romantic route. But I

1540
01:17:27,960 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 5: don't know, I just do the I just do the

1541
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:31,880
Speaker 5: goofy guy until I'm like cause yeah.

1542
01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 4: Because also, when you communicate with someone where you're at

1543
01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:37,519
Speaker 4: it is it is at that point on the other

1544
01:17:37,560 --> 01:17:41,840
Speaker 4: person to decide to opt in or opt out. And also,

1545
01:17:42,000 --> 01:17:45,960
Speaker 4: like you could say, like after you're with someone for

1546
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 4: and when I mean with someone, I mean like like

1547
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:50,880
Speaker 4: hours spent, I guess you get like enough of a

1548
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 4: barometer on like how they behave to like, Okay, history

1549
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,800
Speaker 4: predicts the future, so like how we've like interacted previously

1550
01:17:57,920 --> 01:18:00,320
Speaker 4: is probably gonna be similar to how we're gonna interact

1551
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:00,960
Speaker 4: in the future.

1552
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:06,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, Mmmm, yeah, because I would have been fine things

1553
01:18:06,640 --> 01:18:09,880
Speaker 2: staying as it is, but in terms of history continuing,

1554
01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:12,519
Speaker 2: but I like, she's not looking for that. I don't

1555
01:18:12,520 --> 01:18:15,439
Speaker 2: think that's fair to continue it. My mom says, I

1556
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:20,960
Speaker 2: should just not hook up with people unless I'm in

1557
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:21,320
Speaker 2: love with.

1558
01:18:21,280 --> 01:18:23,679
Speaker 5: Them, Yeah, or be demi sexual.

1559
01:18:24,520 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just a just a being.

1560
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:38,720
Speaker 2: Should we read some of the comments. Cynthia A said

1561
01:18:38,720 --> 01:18:40,599
Speaker 2: if you cuddle with her, you messed up. In my opinion,

1562
01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:43,960
Speaker 2: that's far more intimate than spicy sleep and VL, which

1563
01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:48,640
Speaker 2: can be translated as something that it's not, which definitely.

1564
01:18:48,240 --> 01:18:51,680
Speaker 1: Did Did you give her a forehead kiss? Definitely?

1565
01:18:52,120 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 5: Dude, that's why you messed up.

1566
01:18:57,800 --> 01:18:59,800
Speaker 1: I wanted but like I wanted to see.

1567
01:19:00,360 --> 01:19:04,599
Speaker 5: No, you'd give four head kisses to someone, You're like,

1568
01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:07,360
Speaker 5: if you die tonight, my heart would be broken.

1569
01:19:09,560 --> 01:19:11,760
Speaker 1: You know, you don't just give them all the wow.

1570
01:19:12,760 --> 01:19:16,759
Speaker 4: Riley is such a certified lover boy. It's amazing he's.

1571
01:19:16,080 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 2: He's yeah, yeah, maybe that's true. I just like I

1572
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:22,559
Speaker 2: find it hard not to like, I'm so like touchy

1573
01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:25,120
Speaker 2: with all of my friends, Like I find it hard to.

1574
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:35,360
Speaker 1: Hard to not slithy Toves says, or we said it.

1575
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:41,920
Speaker 2: Slipy sleepy Toave's sleepy to Romantic gestures are how people

1576
01:19:42,000 --> 01:19:44,200
Speaker 2: gauge if you're going to be more than a friend

1577
01:19:44,200 --> 01:19:46,240
Speaker 2: with benefits. If you want to hook up, leave that out,

1578
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:48,720
Speaker 2: leave the romance. But how do you know if you

1579
01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:50,440
Speaker 2: really like someone if you're not romantic.

1580
01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 4: Well, I think it's like there's like dating and then

1581
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:57,080
Speaker 4: there's entering, like having the conversation with two people at

1582
01:19:57,080 --> 01:19:59,840
Speaker 4: a different pace and like being more in the friends

1583
01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:02,840
Speaker 4: with benefits zone, because like I feel like two people

1584
01:20:03,240 --> 01:20:06,919
Speaker 4: dating initially, no one's like, yeah, you can be romantic

1585
01:20:06,920 --> 01:20:09,240
Speaker 4: because you're like still, I feel like it's that like

1586
01:20:10,080 --> 01:20:14,559
Speaker 4: once once the pace on one side is different than

1587
01:20:14,600 --> 01:20:14,920
Speaker 4: the other.

1588
01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:16,559
Speaker 1: Maybe, but I felt.

1589
01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:19,519
Speaker 5: Like, honestly, you knew beforehand, I knew you wanted to

1590
01:20:19,520 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 5: be proven wrong, but that gut, that initial gut feeling.

1591
01:20:22,200 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think the big lesson is like I kind

1592
01:20:24,960 --> 01:20:26,439
Speaker 2: of like knew from the get go, and I should

1593
01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:28,800
Speaker 2: have just cut I should have cut things off before

1594
01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:31,000
Speaker 2: I gave a forehead kiss, which would would have been

1595
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 2: that first time. But then like it like she was like,

1596
01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 2: oh no, you like you don't even know me, and

1597
01:20:37,040 --> 01:20:39,639
Speaker 2: I'm like okay, and I can't hang out with someone

1598
01:20:39,680 --> 01:20:44,360
Speaker 2: intimately and not give them four head kisses. Bro, I

1599
01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:47,120
Speaker 2: give you four head kisses, but like.

1600
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:49,639
Speaker 5: We also have a pretty intimate relationship.

1601
01:20:49,680 --> 01:20:52,960
Speaker 1: I would say, yeah, like and like she was like

1602
01:20:53,000 --> 01:20:54,720
Speaker 1: a friend, but.

1603
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:58,320
Speaker 5: Like I don't know, man, don't be give them out

1604
01:20:58,320 --> 01:21:02,640
Speaker 5: willy nilly, Yeah, do that do one thing for me?

1605
01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:04,519
Speaker 5: You could still hook up in whatever, But the forehead

1606
01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:06,240
Speaker 5: kisses they're sacred.

1607
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:10,519
Speaker 2: Forehead kisses are sacred. Learn values before learned body share

1608
01:21:10,600 --> 01:21:13,320
Speaker 2: and values before sharing bodies. That's really that's a pretty

1609
01:21:13,360 --> 01:21:18,400
Speaker 2: good don't have sex if not in love. I mean

1610
01:21:18,400 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 2: that's like I feel like that's bro. Sam into Tinder. Yeah,

1611
01:21:23,240 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 2: I don't like Tinder. I just like meeting people in person.

1612
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:29,800
Speaker 2: It's Carl says. I think Sam did nothing wrong. He

1613
01:21:29,840 --> 01:21:31,960
Speaker 2: communicated what he was feeling about where he was during

1614
01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:34,200
Speaker 2: the relationship. She she like she was trying to have

1615
01:21:34,280 --> 01:21:37,799
Speaker 2: something more. It seems like people are split. Oh should

1616
01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 2: be a pole.

1617
01:21:43,280 --> 01:21:45,759
Speaker 1: Dude. Sam is putting yourself on the line today. Oh okay,

1618
01:21:45,760 --> 01:21:46,200
Speaker 1: I'm okay.

1619
01:21:46,840 --> 01:21:48,920
Speaker 2: I could I could see me being the a hole

1620
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 2: and I could see me being not the a hole.

1621
01:21:52,720 --> 01:21:56,439
Speaker 5: Oh boy, shit, because I know you spoke words out,

1622
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:59,400
Speaker 5: but like words and actions are different, so I could

1623
01:21:59,439 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 5: see where she could be mixed up there.

1624
01:22:01,840 --> 01:22:09,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard, it's hard. Yeah, No, Sam needs rules, you.

1625
01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:10,879
Speaker 1: Mean needs rules.

1626
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:13,680
Speaker 2: But I think, like I feel like understanding how you

1627
01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:18,200
Speaker 2: feel when you do romantic gestures is an indicator of

1628
01:22:18,240 --> 01:22:21,679
Speaker 2: like it like it shows you how you feel.

1629
01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:22,040
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1630
01:22:22,120 --> 01:22:25,960
Speaker 4: Like like someone said, uh, like avoid hooking up before

1631
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:29,120
Speaker 4: you know you're in love with the person. But which

1632
01:22:29,160 --> 01:22:32,519
Speaker 4: which is also like that, I think that's a that's

1633
01:22:32,520 --> 01:22:34,240
Speaker 4: a that's a great way, and I know a lot

1634
01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:36,479
Speaker 4: of people do that, but I also feel like that

1635
01:22:37,640 --> 01:22:41,280
Speaker 4: it's also very valid to have that be part of

1636
01:22:41,320 --> 01:22:44,639
Speaker 4: the process as well, you know what I mean, because

1637
01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:46,920
Speaker 4: that's like, I don't know, to me, like a kind

1638
01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:49,759
Speaker 4: of natural progression of of.

1639
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 2: The Yeah, like it's a natural progressionship. Yeah, Like like romantic

1640
01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:56,400
Speaker 2: gestures are a natural part of the relationship, and to

1641
01:22:56,600 --> 01:23:00,280
Speaker 2: like to not do that would be holding something back. Yeah,

1642
01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:05,599
Speaker 2: but then to do that and then no fully is better.

1643
01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 2: Sam said, too many practice least Okay, So it looks

1644
01:23:12,280 --> 01:23:14,439
Speaker 2: like people are saying it's pretty split, but people are

1645
01:23:14,439 --> 01:23:16,920
Speaker 2: said fifty four percent of people were saying are saying yes,

1646
01:23:19,960 --> 01:23:23,880
Speaker 2: unity keeping it a buck. Yeah, people say I need

1647
01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 2: to give more. Like what I mean, I invited her

1648
01:23:27,439 --> 01:23:29,800
Speaker 2: to things like we did laser Tag.

1649
01:23:30,080 --> 01:23:37,880
Speaker 1: She's super fun, she's great, she's great, she's awesome. Movie

1650
01:23:37,920 --> 01:23:42,479
Speaker 1: movie premiere. Yeah, I invite her to like the movie premiere.

1651
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:45,719
Speaker 1: It was kind of a little sauce though a little

1652
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 1: so what do you mean?

1653
01:23:46,240 --> 01:23:47,920
Speaker 5: It was a little sauce because of the pot of

1654
01:23:47,960 --> 01:23:51,640
Speaker 5: the movie and he takes her there the plot of

1655
01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:54,600
Speaker 5: the movie, but he didn't have a control of that.

1656
01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:59,000
Speaker 5: We didn't even know what it was, no idea. The

1657
01:23:59,040 --> 01:24:01,800
Speaker 5: plot of the movie was an older woman getting with

1658
01:24:01,840 --> 01:24:05,720
Speaker 5: a younger guy, and he took her there and then explained, oh, yeah,

1659
01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:08,799
Speaker 5: this happened to me like pretty recently.

1660
01:24:08,920 --> 01:24:09,920
Speaker 1: Actually, she she.

1661
01:24:09,880 --> 01:24:17,479
Speaker 2: Knew about that beforehand. Anyway, she's awesome, she's great. I

1662
01:24:17,479 --> 01:24:19,320
Speaker 2: would like I would love to have her as a

1663
01:24:19,320 --> 01:24:27,000
Speaker 2: friend for sure. She's extremely loyal, very kind, and very

1664
01:24:27,040 --> 01:24:31,599
Speaker 2: hard working. It's just like like she's she's an amazing person.

1665
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:34,360
Speaker 2: I just there's just not like a like. I feel

1666
01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:37,200
Speaker 2: like there's more alignment on depth that I want.

1667
01:24:38,560 --> 01:24:40,360
Speaker 5: And I think spark too. I think you need a

1668
01:24:40,360 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 5: little bit more spark.

1669
01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:44,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, sounds at a little bit more spark. But she's amazing.

1670
01:24:44,560 --> 01:24:48,200
Speaker 2: She's amazing, and I obviously like, yeah, I don't think

1671
01:24:48,200 --> 01:24:50,799
Speaker 2: you can keep her as a friend. I think that's true.

1672
01:24:52,240 --> 01:25:00,920
Speaker 2: But yes, Sam is sandy a. Can we spin the

1673
01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:05,040
Speaker 2: wheel now? Yeah, let's do it? Yes, spinning? That were

1674
01:25:05,320 --> 01:25:06,120
Speaker 2: not wir.

1675
01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:18,080
Speaker 5: And oh, mystery penalty. I mean I can spend it again.

1676
01:25:18,120 --> 01:25:19,240
Speaker 5: I have a funner one on here.

1677
01:25:21,320 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 1: We laid it on it, we laid it on it.

1678
01:25:23,040 --> 01:25:25,320
Speaker 5: But I mean I can I can do a funner one. No,

1679
01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:29,240
Speaker 5: that's okay, we can we get what's that?

1680
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:31,960
Speaker 1: I'm down? I'm down for mystery penalty? Okay, okay.

1681
01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:38,440
Speaker 5: This one says apologize ologize.

1682
01:25:39,439 --> 01:25:42,400
Speaker 1: I am sorry? Are true?

1683
01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:44,479
Speaker 5: You have to you have to call someone in your

1684
01:25:44,479 --> 01:25:47,320
Speaker 5: phone and apologize to them.

1685
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 1: That's so funny all us. Yeah, but but we'll do

1686
01:25:51,840 --> 01:25:59,559
Speaker 1: the mystery penalty. Uh, I just call someone.

1687
01:25:59,640 --> 01:26:02,160
Speaker 5: We're doing the mystery I guess we're doing this mystery penalty.

1688
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:05,120
Speaker 5: We'll do apologize later. Oh and I already have someone

1689
01:26:05,120 --> 01:26:06,160
Speaker 5: you gotta apologize to.

1690
01:26:07,720 --> 01:26:11,719
Speaker 1: You're you choose? Yeah? What, Yeah, it's crazy.

1691
01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:15,720
Speaker 2: I already apologized or not apologize, but I already sent

1692
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:16,240
Speaker 2: her a message?

1693
01:26:16,640 --> 01:26:19,280
Speaker 1: Is too much I'm talking about. Riley is too much

1694
01:26:19,320 --> 01:26:20,040
Speaker 1: power over here.

1695
01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:23,080
Speaker 5: All right, I'll send in the check what I got.

1696
01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:31,840
Speaker 5: We'll be able to see it read donations, all right,

1697
01:26:32,120 --> 01:26:34,080
Speaker 5: bull cock like thanks to the one bucked up. Maybe

1698
01:26:34,160 --> 01:26:36,840
Speaker 5: y'all can say one more round now that it's not

1699
01:26:36,920 --> 01:26:37,240
Speaker 5: an hour.

1700
01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:39,840
Speaker 1: That's kind of fun. I like that Asian persuasion. Thanks

1701
01:26:39,840 --> 01:26:40,320
Speaker 1: for the two bucks.

1702
01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:43,400
Speaker 2: Diamonds are literally quarts with a good pr team, it's

1703
01:26:43,439 --> 01:26:47,439
Speaker 2: pretty funny. What diamonds are? Quarts like the rock, like

1704
01:26:47,479 --> 01:26:50,439
Speaker 2: the clear rock. Yeah, with a marketing team, because quarts

1705
01:26:50,439 --> 01:26:51,840
Speaker 2: and diamonds look the exact same.

1706
01:26:52,120 --> 01:26:55,960
Speaker 4: But diamonds, Oh well, courts look different than diamonds, right.

1707
01:26:56,200 --> 01:26:59,280
Speaker 2: Not if you cut it the same. Oh true, I

1708
01:26:59,320 --> 01:27:02,200
Speaker 2: thought they fog. I mean they can have clear quarts.

1709
01:27:02,400 --> 01:27:04,519
Speaker 2: Oh I didn't know that moon toxicity. Thanks of the

1710
01:27:04,560 --> 01:27:09,080
Speaker 2: one forty six op used communication. It's super Effective's super effective.

1711
01:27:09,320 --> 01:27:11,800
Speaker 2: Chris tinfoil hat. Yeah, we were seeing those come in

1712
01:27:12,080 --> 01:27:13,680
Speaker 2: twenty gifted membership.

1713
01:27:13,760 --> 01:27:18,040
Speaker 5: She got us to another thirday minute EO shut out.

1714
01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:21,400
Speaker 2: Chris tinfoil hat, Blue ALKI. Thanks for the five bucks.

1715
01:27:22,040 --> 01:27:23,840
Speaker 2: Matt Hatter Girl, thanks for the ten bucks. Yes, it

1716
01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:26,679
Speaker 2: is spending time with someone and doing fun, fun time

1717
01:27:27,000 --> 01:27:29,360
Speaker 2: with and then later saying I don't see us in

1718
01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:33,720
Speaker 2: a relationship does make the person feel that way. Yeah,

1719
01:27:33,800 --> 01:27:37,720
Speaker 2: and I mean like I was pretty I mean we

1720
01:27:38,160 --> 01:27:38,479
Speaker 2: you know we.

1721
01:27:39,560 --> 01:27:41,519
Speaker 1: I guess i'd like it. I guess depends on how

1722
01:27:41,520 --> 01:27:42,639
Speaker 1: you've used I guess it's fair.

1723
01:27:42,520 --> 01:27:45,880
Speaker 5: To say, Uh, you do kind of enter a gray

1724
01:27:46,000 --> 01:27:46,960
Speaker 5: zone you.

1725
01:27:46,880 --> 01:27:48,960
Speaker 2: Make if you have if you hook up with someone

1726
01:27:49,200 --> 01:27:54,559
Speaker 2: without loving them, you make it more complicated for sure. Right, Yeah,

1727
01:27:54,640 --> 01:28:01,360
Speaker 2: I think that's true. Jerome A, you thanks for the

1728
01:28:01,360 --> 01:28:04,960
Speaker 2: five buck tip. First, Ii'm tipping it's on the behalf

1729
01:28:05,000 --> 01:28:06,920
Speaker 2: of my wife Ella. It's her birthday today. We both

1730
01:28:06,960 --> 01:28:09,400
Speaker 2: on the show. She's actually the one who first got

1731
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:11,679
Speaker 2: me to watch you guys. Shout out Ella and Jerome

1732
01:28:11,880 --> 01:28:16,439
Speaker 2: let's freaking go or jaram a penicated munchkin. Thanks for

1733
01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:19,000
Speaker 2: the two bucks. Based on your initial conversation, you are not.

1734
01:28:19,840 --> 01:28:22,599
Speaker 2: I guess that's responding to am I the a hole

1735
01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:23,439
Speaker 2: a bell coughing?

1736
01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:23,840
Speaker 1: Sam.

1737
01:28:23,880 --> 01:28:27,000
Speaker 2: You can't just be over and over indulgent pull out

1738
01:28:27,040 --> 01:28:28,440
Speaker 2: and then say I'm being.

1739
01:28:28,240 --> 01:28:35,680
Speaker 4: My bro belle coning going today.

1740
01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:36,880
Speaker 1: Sam.

1741
01:28:36,960 --> 01:28:39,519
Speaker 2: You could just be an over indulgent pull out and

1742
01:28:39,560 --> 01:28:41,320
Speaker 2: then say I'm being my authentic self.

1743
01:28:41,320 --> 01:28:45,080
Speaker 1: That's so funny, Little ducker Root. Thanks for a walk off, Tipper.

1744
01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:46,040
Speaker 5: Don't helping.

1745
01:28:47,040 --> 01:28:49,760
Speaker 4: If they're having the wedding in the church, the mother

1746
01:28:49,800 --> 01:28:52,760
Speaker 4: in law might spontaneously combust walking in.

1747
01:28:52,840 --> 01:28:54,560
Speaker 1: That was me last story. I don't know if we

1748
01:28:54,600 --> 01:28:55,839
Speaker 1: had the mother l last story.

1749
01:28:56,040 --> 01:29:00,439
Speaker 4: Ambrose, Thanks for the five bucks. Aren't people aren't people

1750
01:29:00,520 --> 01:29:02,439
Speaker 4: please romantic when they date?

1751
01:29:02,840 --> 01:29:06,000
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Aren't people usually people usually romantic? Yeah?

1752
01:29:06,280 --> 01:29:06,960
Speaker 1: Ermatic when they date.

1753
01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:11,959
Speaker 4: He communicated and was upfront about his thoughts, splash feelings.

1754
01:29:12,080 --> 01:29:13,080
Speaker 1: This is true. I agree inm.

1755
01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:16,320
Speaker 4: Bros Asian persuasion. Thanks for the two bucks. Diamonds are

1756
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:18,920
Speaker 4: a type of quartz. I always thought they were the

1757
01:29:19,040 --> 01:29:20,960
Speaker 4: super foggy rocks.

1758
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:22,559
Speaker 1: Like it was just so foggy.

1759
01:29:22,600 --> 01:29:24,679
Speaker 2: Others make dimes a bunch of there's a bunch of

1760
01:29:24,720 --> 01:29:25,519
Speaker 2: different kinds of dimes.

1761
01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:30,040
Speaker 4: That makes sense. I remember now some uh tell us

1762
01:29:30,080 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 4: in the chat? Alright, Nope, you can't.

1763
01:29:32,760 --> 01:29:37,559
Speaker 5: Please don't please, don't don't tell her. These are honestly amazing.

1764
01:29:37,600 --> 01:29:41,519
Speaker 5: I cannot wait. All right, what are you doing next?

1765
01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:43,040
Speaker 5: What are you doing to read a story?

1766
01:29:43,240 --> 01:29:43,439
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1767
01:29:44,120 --> 01:29:50,439
Speaker 5: Iron, Yeah, Samson, Oh all right, that was close, Johan,

1768
01:29:51,520 --> 01:29:52,599
Speaker 5: that was really close.

1769
01:29:53,960 --> 01:29:55,960
Speaker 1: All right, I'm reading yep, all right?

1770
01:29:58,560 --> 01:30:01,640
Speaker 2: Am I the ale for telling my wife's fiance the

1771
01:30:01,760 --> 01:30:05,760
Speaker 2: truth about our divorce. And this comes from spar Commandroll

1772
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:09,120
Speaker 2: ninety and they say my thirty three male x y

1773
01:30:09,240 --> 01:30:12,360
Speaker 2: thirty female and I got divorced three years ago in college.

1774
01:30:12,400 --> 01:30:14,400
Speaker 2: We worked at the same restaurant. That's where we met.

1775
01:30:14,680 --> 01:30:16,880
Speaker 2: We're together for seven years and married for a little

1776
01:30:16,920 --> 01:30:22,960
Speaker 2: over three a half. We divorced because she cheated. You

1777
01:30:23,040 --> 01:30:26,320
Speaker 2: get one freebie, the same as Golden rules. I mean

1778
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:32,560
Speaker 2: they were together for seven years.

1779
01:30:33,400 --> 01:30:33,960
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1780
01:30:34,000 --> 01:30:36,720
Speaker 2: Two years into our marriage, I discovered she's having an

1781
01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:41,479
Speaker 2: affair with a former classmate. Rough I collect enough evidence

1782
01:30:41,520 --> 01:30:44,200
Speaker 2: and confront her. She confesses to everything. The affair was

1783
01:30:44,200 --> 01:30:48,000
Speaker 2: two months long. Ooh, this is a really that's multiple

1784
01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:48,799
Speaker 2: instances though.

1785
01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:51,439
Speaker 1: Out of the Golden rules. Sorry to my rules.

1786
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:54,120
Speaker 2: This was a really terrible time and it was really

1787
01:30:54,160 --> 01:30:56,040
Speaker 2: hard to work through with her. You can call me

1788
01:30:56,080 --> 01:30:58,840
Speaker 2: an idiot, but I am a forgiving person. I do

1789
01:30:58,960 --> 01:31:02,040
Speaker 2: believe in second Chane answers and that people can change.

1790
01:31:02,280 --> 01:31:04,679
Speaker 2: We agreed to reconcile. We did the work, we had

1791
01:31:04,720 --> 01:31:06,880
Speaker 2: the marriage counseling, we read some of the books. She

1792
01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:09,839
Speaker 2: went no contact with a classmate right away, open phone policy.

1793
01:31:09,880 --> 01:31:12,360
Speaker 2: We told our parents she was doing the right things

1794
01:31:12,400 --> 01:31:18,280
Speaker 2: and our relationship was recovering. Everything could be great, Everything's

1795
01:31:18,280 --> 01:31:20,400
Speaker 2: gonna go great, could be good, be good.

1796
01:31:20,520 --> 01:31:20,760
Speaker 3: Wow.

1797
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:25,800
Speaker 2: On Saturday morning, my wife texted me that the car

1798
01:31:25,880 --> 01:31:28,120
Speaker 2: was loaded and she was about to start making the

1799
01:31:28,200 --> 01:31:28,719
Speaker 2: drive home.

1800
01:31:29,439 --> 01:31:30,400
Speaker 1: About an hour.

1801
01:31:30,200 --> 01:31:32,120
Speaker 2: After that, I got a Facebook message from the friend

1802
01:31:32,600 --> 01:31:34,719
Speaker 2: who stated she wouldn't be able to live with herself

1803
01:31:34,800 --> 01:31:36,479
Speaker 2: if she just let this go, but informed me that

1804
01:31:36,520 --> 01:31:39,719
Speaker 2: my wife had gone out Friday night with some old

1805
01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:43,320
Speaker 2: friends from high school. The friend thought nothing of this

1806
01:31:43,479 --> 01:31:47,080
Speaker 2: until she discovered my wife left her phone behind and

1807
01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:51,320
Speaker 2: that she didn't come back until the following morning. I

1808
01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:53,280
Speaker 2: had got in a text that Friday night from my

1809
01:31:53,320 --> 01:31:55,479
Speaker 2: wife that she was going to bed early since the

1810
01:31:55,520 --> 01:31:57,920
Speaker 2: past few days had been emotionally draining.

1811
01:31:59,400 --> 01:32:03,080
Speaker 5: So there's not one hundred percent confirmation.

1812
01:32:03,280 --> 01:32:06,800
Speaker 1: There's yeah, maybe she was going out for a midnight snack,

1813
01:32:07,600 --> 01:32:11,240
Speaker 1: so she went out, left her phone, but for the

1814
01:32:11,280 --> 01:32:14,080
Speaker 1: whole night, for the whole night, she just needed to

1815
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:16,000
Speaker 1: go on a walk. Clear ahead. I'm mostly draining.

1816
01:32:15,760 --> 01:32:19,280
Speaker 4: Day seven seven hour nighttime walk. Sometimes I go on

1817
01:32:19,360 --> 01:32:24,200
Speaker 4: walks at night for seven hours. Yeah, sometimes I mean

1818
01:32:24,240 --> 01:32:27,680
Speaker 4: not seven hours, but sometimes I'd run on the roof

1819
01:32:27,720 --> 01:32:28,360
Speaker 4: for seven hours.

1820
01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:29,719
Speaker 1: That's true.

1821
01:32:31,360 --> 01:32:34,439
Speaker 2: Anyway, I confronted my life as soon as she got home.

1822
01:32:34,680 --> 01:32:36,640
Speaker 2: She was really hesitant to tell me anything. So I

1823
01:32:36,680 --> 01:32:38,639
Speaker 2: lied to her and told her if we were going

1824
01:32:38,680 --> 01:32:41,559
Speaker 2: to work through this, I needed to know everything, Like

1825
01:32:41,640 --> 01:32:46,559
Speaker 2: the last time? Is opda hole for telling a lie?

1826
01:32:46,960 --> 01:32:47,080
Speaker 3: Oh?

1827
01:32:47,200 --> 01:32:49,400
Speaker 1: Did I miss a paragraph?

1828
01:32:49,720 --> 01:32:49,760
Speaker 3: No?

1829
01:32:50,280 --> 01:32:50,840
Speaker 5: I don't think so.

1830
01:32:51,880 --> 01:32:53,080
Speaker 1: I don't think I missed a paragraph.

1831
01:32:53,240 --> 01:32:55,040
Speaker 5: On Saturday morning, my wife texted me that her car

1832
01:32:55,120 --> 01:32:55,519
Speaker 5: was loaded.

1833
01:32:56,080 --> 01:32:58,960
Speaker 2: Uh, maybe I did. One year into our reconciliation, her

1834
01:32:58,960 --> 01:33:01,200
Speaker 2: aunt dies. I'm very busy with work and can attend

1835
01:33:01,240 --> 01:33:03,519
Speaker 2: the services as they are on Thursday and Friday. Back

1836
01:33:03,560 --> 01:33:05,800
Speaker 2: in her hometown, five hours away, her parents and brother

1837
01:33:05,880 --> 01:33:07,880
Speaker 2: no longer lived there, so she stayed with a good

1838
01:33:07,880 --> 01:33:10,080
Speaker 2: friend from high school. I had met this friend a

1839
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:11,800
Speaker 2: few times and was comfortable with that that was a

1840
01:33:11,840 --> 01:33:15,720
Speaker 2: paragraph I missed. So basically, where OP was with all

1841
01:33:15,720 --> 01:33:17,920
Speaker 2: the high school friends was because the aunt died and

1842
01:33:17,960 --> 01:33:20,000
Speaker 2: he couldn't go. So he's staying with a high school friend. Anyway,

1843
01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:26,880
Speaker 2: going back to where I was, OPI said, I need

1844
01:33:26,880 --> 01:33:29,680
Speaker 2: to know everything, like the last time that got to her,

1845
01:33:29,840 --> 01:33:32,400
Speaker 2: that got her to confess that she had gone out

1846
01:33:32,600 --> 01:33:35,280
Speaker 2: and had got home with an old friend from high school.

1847
01:33:35,479 --> 01:33:38,040
Speaker 2: She said they didn't have spicy sleep, but did do

1848
01:33:38,120 --> 01:33:40,920
Speaker 2: quote unquote stuff that I won't go into detail about here.

1849
01:33:41,600 --> 01:33:44,360
Speaker 2: It didn't matter. Once I got the enough of the truth,

1850
01:33:44,479 --> 01:33:45,920
Speaker 2: I left for my parents' house.

1851
01:33:46,600 --> 01:33:47,000
Speaker 1: That week.

1852
01:33:47,040 --> 01:33:49,400
Speaker 2: My dad called my landlord and paid all the termination

1853
01:33:49,479 --> 01:33:51,680
Speaker 2: fees and got me out of release. We went and

1854
01:33:51,720 --> 01:33:53,840
Speaker 2: got my stuff while she was at work. My parents

1855
01:33:53,920 --> 01:33:56,160
Speaker 2: set me up with a friend and theirs that was

1856
01:33:56,160 --> 01:33:58,120
Speaker 2: a divorce a friend of theirs that was a divorce

1857
01:33:58,160 --> 01:34:00,840
Speaker 2: attorney and cut me a deal. Took about seven months

1858
01:34:00,840 --> 01:34:02,679
Speaker 2: for the divorce to go final.

1859
01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:04,599
Speaker 1: What do we think?

1860
01:34:06,920 --> 01:34:08,920
Speaker 2: Good move? There's more out of this story about good move.

1861
01:34:09,120 --> 01:34:12,360
Speaker 2: So basically, OP lied to get a confession. OPI lied

1862
01:34:12,400 --> 01:34:13,240
Speaker 2: to get a confession.

1863
01:34:14,360 --> 01:34:17,040
Speaker 1: Hmmm hmm.

1864
01:34:17,160 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 2: I want to know what all of y'all think. Is

1865
01:34:19,320 --> 01:34:21,560
Speaker 2: op lye to get this confession a whole move or

1866
01:34:21,600 --> 01:34:22,280
Speaker 2: not a whole move?

1867
01:34:22,680 --> 01:34:23,840
Speaker 1: Let us know, but so.

1868
01:34:23,840 --> 01:34:27,400
Speaker 4: Real quick, like if he had asked point blank, that's

1869
01:34:27,439 --> 01:34:30,400
Speaker 4: not an a hole move? Because you're you want to know,

1870
01:34:31,320 --> 01:34:32,040
Speaker 4: maybe it's I.

1871
01:34:32,040 --> 01:34:35,519
Speaker 2: Don't think it's I think it's like, yeah, justify the

1872
01:34:35,560 --> 01:34:36,719
Speaker 2: means a little bit here.

1873
01:34:36,760 --> 01:34:40,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, because like like like it's almost a little bit

1874
01:34:40,160 --> 01:34:44,040
Speaker 4: like like if somebody tips you off and they're like, hey, uh,

1875
01:34:44,160 --> 01:34:48,519
Speaker 4: your your wife has a lunch meeting with someone, you

1876
01:34:48,600 --> 01:34:50,080
Speaker 4: might want to go check it out, and then you

1877
01:34:50,120 --> 01:34:55,479
Speaker 4: go like check it out. That's not lying maybe, but

1878
01:34:55,640 --> 01:34:58,160
Speaker 4: like you know, that's kind of that's kind of similar.

1879
01:34:58,200 --> 01:35:00,880
Speaker 2: And I don't think that it's the dry uh dry

1880
01:35:00,880 --> 01:35:03,839
Speaker 2: snitching gye stitching gye stitching because you're going.

1881
01:35:03,600 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 5: And you're like sneaking around and you know, like spying

1882
01:35:06,400 --> 01:35:07,040
Speaker 5: on your partner.

1883
01:35:07,760 --> 01:35:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't think. I don't think that's

1884
01:35:10,280 --> 01:35:10,920
Speaker 1: much of an a whole.

1885
01:35:12,160 --> 01:35:18,519
Speaker 4: There was no like true harm of of that action itself,

1886
01:35:18,560 --> 01:35:21,519
Speaker 4: if that makes sense, Like the she had already cheated,

1887
01:35:22,040 --> 01:35:26,320
Speaker 4: so it's like that action didn't. It was just exposing

1888
01:35:26,360 --> 01:35:29,240
Speaker 4: the bad action that already happened, and there wasn't any

1889
01:35:29,280 --> 01:35:31,760
Speaker 4: other like op. If OPI had found it another way,

1890
01:35:31,760 --> 01:35:32,920
Speaker 4: he would have made the same decision.

1891
01:35:33,000 --> 01:35:35,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't think it's an a hoole move. Yeah,

1892
01:35:35,280 --> 01:35:35,599
Speaker 1: I agree.

1893
01:35:35,640 --> 01:35:37,120
Speaker 2: I don't know if oh he's even asking that, but

1894
01:35:37,160 --> 01:35:38,840
Speaker 2: I was like, I wanted to get it from you guys.

1895
01:35:39,000 --> 01:35:42,040
Speaker 2: Jeg's Cassandra says, not the a hole. It was already over,

1896
01:35:42,200 --> 01:35:44,479
Speaker 2: So just trying to get information is okay in this case. Yeah,

1897
01:35:44,479 --> 01:35:48,280
Speaker 2: I agree. I agree. Anyway, that was three years ago.

1898
01:35:49,120 --> 01:35:51,280
Speaker 2: I have an awesome girlfriend and I'm doing well. This

1899
01:35:51,320 --> 01:35:53,720
Speaker 2: past weekend, I got a Facebook message from a guy

1900
01:35:53,760 --> 01:35:58,120
Speaker 2: who is now engaged to my ex wife who he

1901
01:35:58,160 --> 01:36:00,519
Speaker 2: introduced himself and said he was probably being crazy, but

1902
01:36:00,560 --> 01:36:04,280
Speaker 2: he wanted to know why we had gotten divorced. He

1903
01:36:04,320 --> 01:36:06,280
Speaker 2: said he had broached the subject a few times and

1904
01:36:06,320 --> 01:36:08,920
Speaker 2: she always gets weird. She had told him we had

1905
01:36:08,920 --> 01:36:11,240
Speaker 2: divorced because we grew apart, but mostly she just the

1906
01:36:11,320 --> 01:36:13,479
Speaker 2: flex or is really big. I mean, it's true they

1907
01:36:13,479 --> 01:36:20,759
Speaker 2: did grow apart by her cheating place. A day later,

1908
01:36:21,439 --> 01:36:25,200
Speaker 2: Oh so I told him the truth and offered evidence

1909
01:36:25,240 --> 01:36:27,400
Speaker 2: if he would like. He declined and thank me for

1910
01:36:27,479 --> 01:36:30,840
Speaker 2: my time and story. A day later, I get a

1911
01:36:30,840 --> 01:36:33,839
Speaker 2: phone call from a local but unknown number. I answer

1912
01:36:34,479 --> 01:36:38,840
Speaker 2: and it's my ex wife. She is really upset and

1913
01:36:38,960 --> 01:36:41,519
Speaker 2: asking me why I am trying to ruin her future.

1914
01:36:41,520 --> 01:36:43,280
Speaker 2: I get her to calm down and talk. She says

1915
01:36:43,280 --> 01:36:46,080
Speaker 2: her fiance has asked for some space and is staying

1916
01:36:46,120 --> 01:36:48,880
Speaker 2: with his parents this week that he is saying he

1917
01:36:48,960 --> 01:36:52,360
Speaker 2: needs to reevaluate their relationship. She wants to know why

1918
01:36:52,400 --> 01:36:55,240
Speaker 2: I told him about their past and why I'm still

1919
01:36:55,640 --> 01:37:00,679
Speaker 2: punishing her. Honestly, it's like a less and you should

1920
01:37:00,680 --> 01:37:05,400
Speaker 2: probably just tell the worst truth yourself. Yeah, the worst truths. Yeah, yeah, justice,

1921
01:37:05,400 --> 01:37:08,880
Speaker 2: Forsol says. And she's still lying, my god, yep, yeah,

1922
01:37:08,920 --> 01:37:13,240
Speaker 2: agreed up. She tells me she's not the same person anymore.

1923
01:37:14,280 --> 01:37:17,200
Speaker 2: Maybe you shouldn't have lied. She has done all the work,

1924
01:37:17,600 --> 01:37:20,719
Speaker 2: doesn't sound like it, and it has been in therapy. Hire

1925
01:37:20,760 --> 01:37:24,280
Speaker 2: a better therapist. That she deserves another chance. And I'm

1926
01:37:24,280 --> 01:37:27,599
Speaker 2: being petty and hateful. There were a few generic insult's throne.

1927
01:37:27,720 --> 01:37:29,479
Speaker 2: I got a little pissed and told her if she

1928
01:37:29,560 --> 01:37:32,120
Speaker 2: really changed for the better, she would have been upfront

1929
01:37:32,160 --> 01:37:35,000
Speaker 2: with him about her slash hour past and owned up

1930
01:37:35,000 --> 01:37:37,840
Speaker 2: to the cheating in her prior marriage and then gone

1931
01:37:37,960 --> 01:37:40,360
Speaker 2: about showing her fiance that she was ready to be

1932
01:37:40,400 --> 01:37:45,799
Speaker 2: a worthy partner to him, unlike she was with me. Agreed, agreed,

1933
01:37:46,160 --> 01:37:47,840
Speaker 2: and said she tried to lie and hide the truth,

1934
01:37:47,880 --> 01:37:50,840
Speaker 2: and now it's blowing up in her face again. She

1935
01:37:50,920 --> 01:37:53,559
Speaker 2: said a few choice words and hung up. I haven't

1936
01:37:53,560 --> 01:37:56,160
Speaker 2: heard anything since I told my girlfriend and she reassured

1937
01:37:56,200 --> 01:37:58,360
Speaker 2: how I handled it. But I find myself feeling guilty.

1938
01:37:59,240 --> 01:38:01,960
Speaker 2: I still believe in second chances and that people can change.

1939
01:38:02,160 --> 01:38:04,360
Speaker 2: While I would have thought wrong lying to the guy,

1940
01:38:04,439 --> 01:38:06,320
Speaker 2: I wonder if I should have handled the whole thing

1941
01:38:06,360 --> 01:38:09,839
Speaker 2: differently or just not responded. If she is truly different

1942
01:38:10,200 --> 01:38:12,000
Speaker 2: and this is just a blip. I don't want to

1943
01:38:12,040 --> 01:38:14,240
Speaker 2: be the thing that prevents her from finding happiness, but

1944
01:38:14,360 --> 01:38:19,080
Speaker 2: also believe I'm not what's hurting her engagement. So am

1945
01:38:19,400 --> 01:38:21,439
Speaker 2: I the a hole here?

1946
01:38:22,000 --> 01:38:22,639
Speaker 1: John? What do you think?

1947
01:38:23,640 --> 01:38:23,720
Speaker 3: No?

1948
01:38:25,160 --> 01:38:29,120
Speaker 4: You literally somebody asked you a question and you told

1949
01:38:29,160 --> 01:38:32,799
Speaker 4: the truth. Yeah, and it was probably it was something

1950
01:38:32,880 --> 01:38:37,040
Speaker 4: that Op should have told her partner, because it's like

1951
01:38:37,600 --> 01:38:41,240
Speaker 4: you're literally just you're literally gonna have your entire relationship

1952
01:38:42,040 --> 01:38:45,240
Speaker 4: be like there's just like a taking time bomb of

1953
01:38:45,360 --> 01:38:47,360
Speaker 4: if he ever finds out, Like do you really want

1954
01:38:47,400 --> 01:38:48,480
Speaker 4: to live with that anxiety?

1955
01:38:48,560 --> 01:38:52,080
Speaker 1: Do you really want to you know, live knowing that

1956
01:38:52,120 --> 01:38:52,639
Speaker 1: there's like.

1957
01:38:52,640 --> 01:38:55,519
Speaker 4: A big part of you that you're being dishonest with

1958
01:38:55,560 --> 01:38:58,120
Speaker 4: your partner about agreed?

1959
01:38:58,160 --> 01:39:01,000
Speaker 2: I mean, like Amber Rose has a good point in

1960
01:39:01,040 --> 01:39:03,360
Speaker 2: her chat comment. He didn't seek the guy out. The

1961
01:39:03,360 --> 01:39:06,280
Speaker 2: guy seeked him out because he knew something was stinky.

1962
01:39:06,600 --> 01:39:11,479
Speaker 2: Her fiance wants space because she lied. I mean, I

1963
01:39:11,520 --> 01:39:13,519
Speaker 2: completely agree, Like, I think it would be a different story.

1964
01:39:13,520 --> 01:39:14,840
Speaker 2: I think, O, he would be the a hole if

1965
01:39:14,840 --> 01:39:17,920
Speaker 2: you went and like found this guy and like, do

1966
01:39:17,960 --> 01:39:20,280
Speaker 2: you know what why we broke up? That would be petty,

1967
01:39:20,320 --> 01:39:22,120
Speaker 2: that would be an a whole movie point. But that's

1968
01:39:22,120 --> 01:39:25,120
Speaker 2: not the case with what happened here. He the guy

1969
01:39:25,200 --> 01:39:28,880
Speaker 2: reached out and he was just honest, And if she

1970
01:39:28,960 --> 01:39:32,160
Speaker 2: had just told the truth, it actually probably wouldn't have

1971
01:39:32,200 --> 01:39:33,599
Speaker 2: been as much of a big deal because she would

1972
01:39:33,600 --> 01:39:35,440
Speaker 2: have been like, yes, I did this in the past,

1973
01:39:35,680 --> 01:39:37,400
Speaker 2: and I don't believe the whole ones a cheater always

1974
01:39:37,400 --> 01:39:40,000
Speaker 2: a cheater thing is like people can change, people get

1975
01:39:40,000 --> 01:39:44,640
Speaker 2: better on all that. So, like I think if it

1976
01:39:44,680 --> 01:39:46,679
Speaker 2: would it would have shown she had done the work,

1977
01:39:46,760 --> 01:39:49,560
Speaker 2: if she had confessed to it exactly.

1978
01:39:49,800 --> 01:39:53,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's yeah, that's like part of doing that's part

1979
01:39:53,720 --> 01:39:56,200
Speaker 4: of doing the work. Yeah, it seems like she's just

1980
01:39:56,240 --> 01:40:00,000
Speaker 4: like saying she's she's looking for another like get out

1981
01:40:00,120 --> 01:40:02,840
Speaker 4: of jail free card again, which is like have you

1982
01:40:02,880 --> 01:40:04,200
Speaker 4: not learned anything like.

1983
01:40:04,880 --> 01:40:09,040
Speaker 2: Obviously not obviously not obviously not. Well, maybe there will

1984
01:40:09,080 --> 01:40:13,760
Speaker 2: be an update that I don't know. I have to

1985
01:40:13,840 --> 01:40:16,960
Speaker 2: imagine that. Like this would be I don't know, question

1986
01:40:17,320 --> 01:40:21,360
Speaker 2: for all of you. Question for John, if you were

1987
01:40:21,479 --> 01:40:25,480
Speaker 2: the new husband of Op's ex wife, would.

1988
01:40:25,400 --> 01:40:26,960
Speaker 1: You break up?

1989
01:40:28,720 --> 01:40:28,880
Speaker 3: Oh?

1990
01:40:28,880 --> 01:40:31,920
Speaker 1: If I was, I think I want to know. For

1991
01:40:31,960 --> 01:40:32,880
Speaker 1: you guys, what do you break up too?

1992
01:40:32,960 --> 01:40:35,720
Speaker 4: I would go our usual route. First step is like

1993
01:40:37,680 --> 01:40:42,160
Speaker 4: sitting down hear heart talking, probably with the assistance of

1994
01:40:42,520 --> 01:40:45,439
Speaker 4: therapy counseling to like figure that out, because I'm like,

1995
01:40:46,960 --> 01:40:50,439
Speaker 4: that is a pretty big It's funny because I've never

1996
01:40:50,479 --> 01:40:54,520
Speaker 4: really considered, like I don't I've only been one serious relationship,

1997
01:40:54,600 --> 01:40:57,120
Speaker 4: and there's like not many like skeletons and like either

1998
01:40:57,160 --> 01:41:00,680
Speaker 4: of our closets, so there's like not but like do

1999
01:41:00,760 --> 01:41:01,920
Speaker 4: you have something like that?

2000
01:41:02,560 --> 01:41:05,240
Speaker 5: It is low key, like dang, when do I you

2001
01:41:05,240 --> 01:41:06,160
Speaker 5: should bring this up?

2002
01:41:06,200 --> 01:41:08,280
Speaker 1: One say something?

2003
01:41:08,400 --> 01:41:10,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think as soon as it gets kind

2004
01:41:10,560 --> 01:41:15,679
Speaker 2: of serious. Yeah, I think as soon as your boyfriend girlfriend. Honestly, yeah,

2005
01:41:15,760 --> 01:41:17,040
Speaker 2: if you have that kind of thing.

2006
01:41:16,920 --> 01:41:19,719
Speaker 4: You like find a way to yeah, because then because honestly,

2007
01:41:19,760 --> 01:41:24,559
Speaker 4: then at that point you're preventing you from wasting your

2008
01:41:24,600 --> 01:41:26,960
Speaker 4: own time. Yeah, because if that person is a deal

2009
01:41:27,000 --> 01:41:29,280
Speaker 4: breaker for someone, if it's a deal breaker, Yeah, because

2010
01:41:29,280 --> 01:41:29,760
Speaker 4: I think if.

2011
01:41:29,640 --> 01:41:30,880
Speaker 2: Someone came to me and it was like, hey, I

2012
01:41:30,920 --> 01:41:34,720
Speaker 2: cheated the past and I realized how like terrible it was,

2013
01:41:35,000 --> 01:41:37,240
Speaker 2: how broken it made me feel, how broken it made

2014
01:41:37,240 --> 01:41:39,200
Speaker 2: my partner feel, and I vowed never to do it again,

2015
01:41:39,800 --> 01:41:44,400
Speaker 2: I would see that admission as like, honestly a sign

2016
01:41:44,439 --> 01:41:46,880
Speaker 2: of growth. Yes, I think I don't. I don't think

2017
01:41:46,920 --> 01:41:48,760
Speaker 2: I would personally break up with someone who told me that.

2018
01:41:49,000 --> 01:41:51,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think, like you know, sometimes people go

2019
01:41:51,680 --> 01:41:54,880
Speaker 4: through things and it does make them more. Like you

2020
01:41:54,880 --> 01:41:57,479
Speaker 4: know a lot of people like go to therapy because

2021
01:41:57,520 --> 01:42:00,360
Speaker 4: they they mess up and do something wrong and then

2022
01:42:00,479 --> 01:42:04,160
Speaker 4: that leads them on a path of intentional self betterment

2023
01:42:04,240 --> 01:42:06,680
Speaker 4: that they were not on previously.

2024
01:42:07,040 --> 01:42:07,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2025
01:42:07,720 --> 01:42:10,000
Speaker 4: So yeah, there could be there can be self growth

2026
01:42:10,040 --> 01:42:12,719
Speaker 4: beyond even the thing that somebody does.

2027
01:42:13,080 --> 01:42:15,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could see So what prevorce or nah?

2028
01:42:18,720 --> 01:42:22,760
Speaker 4: I would say nah for me personally, Yeah at that point, Oh,

2029
01:42:22,840 --> 01:42:25,479
Speaker 4: like you would not prevorce? Not prevorce because I also

2030
01:42:25,520 --> 01:42:27,200
Speaker 4: don't know the I don't know the context.

2031
01:42:27,200 --> 01:42:31,439
Speaker 2: Also, Yeah, like I think I would. I think I

2032
01:42:31,479 --> 01:42:37,160
Speaker 2: would I would definitely like reevaluate the relationship for sure.

2033
01:42:38,960 --> 01:42:45,840
Speaker 2: Would I go all the way to prevorce? She didn't,

2034
01:42:46,120 --> 01:42:49,160
Speaker 2: Like I don't know if she lied necessarily, but she did.

2035
01:42:49,880 --> 01:42:54,600
Speaker 2: Yeah she lied by omission. Yeah, but I feel like

2036
01:42:54,640 --> 01:42:57,360
Speaker 2: that is like a there's like a that shows a

2037
01:42:57,360 --> 01:42:58,320
Speaker 2: little character faw.

2038
01:42:58,920 --> 01:43:02,360
Speaker 4: And I think from from what we saw in her

2039
01:43:02,439 --> 01:43:06,400
Speaker 4: response instead of like if there was any time to

2040
01:43:06,439 --> 01:43:09,000
Speaker 4: be like, man, I like really double messed up, and

2041
01:43:09,040 --> 01:43:12,920
Speaker 4: this is like something I.

2042
01:43:11,479 --> 01:43:14,240
Speaker 1: Should should know and need to like better myself with.

2043
01:43:14,400 --> 01:43:18,240
Speaker 2: I've actually been in this exact situation who I dated

2044
01:43:18,240 --> 01:43:22,720
Speaker 2: someone that cheated on me a bunch and then a

2045
01:43:22,720 --> 01:43:28,400
Speaker 2: couple of years later we reconnected and we started like

2046
01:43:28,720 --> 01:43:33,360
Speaker 2: dating again, and she I caught her in like this

2047
01:43:33,840 --> 01:43:37,880
Speaker 2: like weird, massive web of lies about something that did

2048
01:43:37,920 --> 01:43:41,120
Speaker 2: not matter at all. Like basically I suggested that she

2049
01:43:41,200 --> 01:43:43,639
Speaker 2: buy a dress. I've told you this, stary. Oh yeah yeah,

2050
01:43:43,640 --> 01:43:45,360
Speaker 2: I said that she buy a dress, and she like

2051
01:43:46,080 --> 01:43:47,800
Speaker 2: she was like, oh, I bought the dress. And then

2052
01:43:47,840 --> 01:43:49,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, did you get the dress? Like a

2053
01:43:49,000 --> 01:43:51,000
Speaker 2: week later, and she's like, oh, yeah, it's coming. And

2054
01:43:51,040 --> 01:43:52,800
Speaker 2: then I like a two weeks later, like has.

2055
01:43:52,680 --> 01:43:53,240
Speaker 1: The dress come?

2056
01:43:53,560 --> 01:43:56,760
Speaker 2: And she's like, oh, yeah, i'll send you the I'll

2057
01:43:56,760 --> 01:43:58,600
Speaker 2: send you the like I don't know, I'll send you

2058
01:43:58,600 --> 01:44:03,320
Speaker 2: what what I got. And she sends a photoshop document

2059
01:44:03,880 --> 01:44:06,400
Speaker 2: of her buying the dress that's so badly photoshoped and like,

2060
01:44:06,760 --> 01:44:09,400
Speaker 2: why are you lying about this? And I ended things

2061
01:44:09,479 --> 01:44:12,639
Speaker 2: right there, but the love of the game, Yeah, well related, dude,

2062
01:44:12,760 --> 01:44:15,640
Speaker 2: the love of the game exactly. But like that was

2063
01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:19,639
Speaker 2: a sign of someone who is like you're still a compulsion,

2064
01:44:19,680 --> 01:44:23,960
Speaker 2: like this is a compulsive liar and someone who hasn't grown.

2065
01:44:24,439 --> 01:44:25,560
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know if I don't think she

2066
01:44:25,640 --> 01:44:28,280
Speaker 2: cheated or anything, but like in that moment, but I'm like,

2067
01:44:28,400 --> 01:44:30,560
Speaker 2: the reason that we broke up the first time is

2068
01:44:30,600 --> 01:44:31,880
Speaker 2: still like a reason that's there.

2069
01:44:31,880 --> 01:44:32,760
Speaker 1: I feel lie about that.

2070
01:44:32,920 --> 01:44:34,600
Speaker 2: And she was like she was all upset or was like,

2071
01:44:34,600 --> 01:44:37,320
Speaker 2: you're breaking up with me over like not buying a

2072
01:44:37,400 --> 01:44:40,600
Speaker 2: dress from Like it's it is not no, it's not that,

2073
01:44:40,640 --> 01:44:42,400
Speaker 2: it's because you're compulsively lying.

2074
01:44:42,600 --> 01:44:46,519
Speaker 4: Yeah, that that reaction just even more like yeah, yeah,

2075
01:44:46,600 --> 01:44:49,800
Speaker 4: you like you're not understanding the the the gist of

2076
01:44:49,840 --> 01:44:51,600
Speaker 4: like if you're gonna lie about something like this, like

2077
01:44:51,640 --> 01:44:54,880
Speaker 4: something so innocuous, like what happens when something real has what.

2078
01:44:54,840 --> 01:44:57,599
Speaker 2: If there's what if there's actually something like like conse

2079
01:44:57,640 --> 01:45:00,160
Speaker 2: quenches actually something on the line.

2080
01:45:00,439 --> 01:45:03,479
Speaker 1: So yeah, I hope she's doing well down out to

2081
01:45:03,520 --> 01:45:04,880
Speaker 1: her wherever she's at.

2082
01:45:04,960 --> 01:45:08,000
Speaker 2: I think she's like writing for a small newspaper somewhere

2083
01:45:08,040 --> 01:45:12,599
Speaker 2: in like North Dakota. Let's go now, like living on

2084
01:45:12,600 --> 01:45:15,599
Speaker 2: a plane, goda. She always liked that, like the wild

2085
01:45:15,640 --> 01:45:18,840
Speaker 2: West to the frontiers. Then I got her such a

2086
01:45:18,880 --> 01:45:21,920
Speaker 2: good gifts too, that are such good gifts. Yeah, she

2087
01:45:22,040 --> 01:45:24,439
Speaker 2: was like a big frontiers person, and I got her

2088
01:45:24,520 --> 01:45:29,679
Speaker 2: a copy of a Frontiers Like she like old things

2089
01:45:29,720 --> 01:45:31,760
Speaker 2: and the Frontier, and so I got her like this

2090
01:45:32,320 --> 01:45:35,599
Speaker 2: like twenty five cent thing from like eighteen ninety two.

2091
01:45:35,680 --> 01:45:37,760
Speaker 2: It was like a twenty five cent like you buy

2092
01:45:37,760 --> 01:45:39,880
Speaker 2: it for twenty five cents, and it's like a magazine

2093
01:45:39,960 --> 01:45:42,880
Speaker 2: and it was about frontiers people and the copy was

2094
01:45:42,920 --> 01:45:46,120
Speaker 2: from the eighteen ninety two And I'm like, fucking fire gifts.

2095
01:45:46,200 --> 01:45:48,280
Speaker 1: That's pretty fired, dude. She got me a polar bear

2096
01:45:48,280 --> 01:45:52,000
Speaker 1: because she liked polar bears. Yeah, lame learned to love

2097
01:45:52,000 --> 01:45:55,759
Speaker 1: what I like. Anyway, that's the end of the story.

2098
01:45:56,080 --> 01:46:02,000
Speaker 5: Wait, go make me a sandwich. Me, yep, that's what

2099
01:46:03,120 --> 01:46:06,960
Speaker 5: you didn't do anything. I even tested it. I tested

2100
01:46:07,000 --> 01:46:09,080
Speaker 5: a few things this way. I have no idea what

2101
01:46:09,080 --> 01:46:11,000
Speaker 5: this is. Okay, we'll go make me a sandwich.

2102
01:46:11,200 --> 01:46:11,639
Speaker 1: I guess.

2103
01:46:12,840 --> 01:46:15,040
Speaker 5: Uh, you still have to make me a sandwich?

2104
01:46:15,280 --> 01:46:17,200
Speaker 1: Okay, but can I guess? And then? Sure? Go ahead?

2105
01:46:17,640 --> 01:46:20,720
Speaker 1: Is it talking about an X? Yes, let's freaking go.

2106
01:46:22,720 --> 01:46:30,160
Speaker 1: I will happily make all right, all right, let's read

2107
01:46:30,200 --> 01:46:33,040
Speaker 1: some donuts. I'm here while I make Riley a sandwich.

2108
01:46:33,080 --> 01:46:34,600
Speaker 1: There we go. What means a action break after that?

2109
01:46:34,640 --> 01:46:36,680
Speaker 1: Too cool? All right, boys and girls?

2110
01:46:37,200 --> 01:46:41,360
Speaker 4: Uh, Little Duckaroo, thank you for the one buck tip

2111
01:46:41,400 --> 01:46:43,600
Speaker 4: on the Dunnal link. If they're having the wedding in

2112
01:46:43,640 --> 01:46:47,040
Speaker 4: the church, the mother in law might spontaneously combust walking in.

2113
01:46:47,320 --> 01:46:49,080
Speaker 1: We saw this earlier. What is is this?

2114
01:46:49,240 --> 01:46:49,320
Speaker 3: Like?

2115
01:46:49,920 --> 01:46:51,439
Speaker 1: I'm confused? Do you know what this means?

2116
01:46:51,520 --> 01:46:51,840
Speaker 5: Riley?

2117
01:46:52,240 --> 01:46:54,360
Speaker 4: If they're having a if they're having a wedding in

2118
01:46:54,400 --> 01:46:57,439
Speaker 4: the church, the mother in law might spontaneously combust walking in.

2119
01:46:57,880 --> 01:47:00,280
Speaker 4: Is that from like the Is that from like the

2120
01:47:00,360 --> 01:47:04,240
Speaker 4: read the the Wichard McCall it stream. Maybe maybe I

2121
01:47:04,280 --> 01:47:06,200
Speaker 4: can't feel like we haven't read a little Little ducker.

2122
01:47:06,400 --> 01:47:06,680
Speaker 7: Let us go.

2123
01:47:07,760 --> 01:47:11,280
Speaker 4: That's the second comment we've gotten on confused but Tyraine. Uh,

2124
01:47:11,360 --> 01:47:13,080
Speaker 4: hopefully I've pronounced that right. Let me know if I didn't.

2125
01:47:13,320 --> 01:47:14,880
Speaker 4: Thanks to the five buck tip on the donal link.

2126
01:47:14,880 --> 01:47:17,120
Speaker 4: Thank you everyone for making me feel better by just

2127
01:47:17,280 --> 01:47:18,920
Speaker 4: listening to you.

2128
01:47:18,920 --> 01:47:21,519
Speaker 1: You are so freaking welcome and you're awesome and so

2129
01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:22,879
Speaker 1: glad you're in our community.

2130
01:47:23,360 --> 01:47:26,080
Speaker 4: Jesse, thanks for a two buck tip on the donal link.

2131
01:47:26,160 --> 01:47:28,280
Speaker 4: Gotta put my kid to bed, but I'll be back

2132
01:47:28,280 --> 01:47:31,880
Speaker 4: in the chat momentarily. In the meantime, here's to the

2133
01:47:31,880 --> 01:47:35,679
Speaker 4: gardening fund to get Riley some fancy or Bush's depens. Jesse,

2134
01:47:36,000 --> 01:47:39,960
Speaker 4: do not encourage him. I will literally, I will grip

2135
01:47:40,000 --> 01:47:43,200
Speaker 4: this man's wiener and put it back in his pants.

2136
01:47:43,200 --> 01:47:46,479
Speaker 1: Please do I will literally? No, No, you will enjoy it.

2137
01:47:46,560 --> 01:47:47,719
Speaker 5: Why can I like.

2138
01:47:49,439 --> 01:47:53,000
Speaker 1: In the yard in the bathroom. Yes, this is what

2139
01:47:53,040 --> 01:47:54,759
Speaker 1: we should. This is what Riley.

2140
01:47:54,800 --> 01:47:56,240
Speaker 4: If I went in your If I went in your

2141
01:47:56,280 --> 01:47:57,720
Speaker 4: room and I just peed on your bed, and you

2142
01:47:57,800 --> 01:48:01,120
Speaker 4: be like, bro, I just pee in your corner like

2143
01:48:01,240 --> 01:48:02,320
Speaker 4: you don't live out here?

2144
01:48:04,439 --> 01:48:06,200
Speaker 1: What the heck that is? No?

2145
01:48:05,840 --> 01:48:09,720
Speaker 4: No, oh, you have a you have a nice little

2146
01:48:09,720 --> 01:48:11,360
Speaker 4: spot where you like to lay on the grass and

2147
01:48:11,400 --> 01:48:13,200
Speaker 4: then sam like goes in peas there.

2148
01:48:13,439 --> 01:48:15,920
Speaker 5: I don't pee in the ground, pee like in the

2149
01:48:15,920 --> 01:48:18,840
Speaker 5: bush area down the tree. No, guy behind, look behind

2150
01:48:18,840 --> 01:48:22,160
Speaker 5: you right now, guys, look behind you right now. What

2151
01:48:22,160 --> 01:48:23,479
Speaker 5: do you see? What do you see on the ground

2152
01:48:23,680 --> 01:48:26,599
Speaker 5: right there? I see I do look down right there?

2153
01:48:26,840 --> 01:48:27,920
Speaker 5: What right there?

2154
01:48:28,320 --> 01:48:28,559
Speaker 1: Here?

2155
01:48:28,720 --> 01:48:28,960
Speaker 3: Down?

2156
01:48:29,080 --> 01:48:34,080
Speaker 1: Down? Down down? But what do you see that? That's

2157
01:48:34,360 --> 01:48:37,200
Speaker 1: that's enough to wrong. That's that's that's wrong too.

2158
01:48:37,600 --> 01:48:41,519
Speaker 5: It's it's chip chips, poopoos, he poops and peas are

2159
01:48:41,560 --> 01:48:43,519
Speaker 5: you're walking on rightly?

2160
01:48:43,680 --> 01:48:48,000
Speaker 1: He? He doesn't have a choice. Oh my god. Anyways,

2161
01:48:48,120 --> 01:48:49,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep let's let's gow on the dough. I'm

2162
01:48:49,920 --> 01:48:53,519
Speaker 1: gonna get a poll on this. Yes, yes, yes, let's

2163
01:48:53,520 --> 01:48:54,479
Speaker 1: get a freaking pool.

2164
01:48:54,680 --> 01:48:59,200
Speaker 5: This is America in my back in the backyard, yes

2165
01:48:59,320 --> 01:48:59,439
Speaker 5: or no?

2166
01:49:00,720 --> 01:49:03,679
Speaker 1: Can Riley p in the backyard? Yes or no? Oh

2167
01:49:03,720 --> 01:49:09,479
Speaker 1: my god, dude, I live here too. Okay, scroll up

2168
01:49:09,520 --> 01:49:15,080
Speaker 1: on the donuts? We could what if we move the

2169
01:49:15,120 --> 01:49:18,760
Speaker 1: cart where in front of the hot tube? Oh that's

2170
01:49:18,880 --> 01:49:22,400
Speaker 1: that's that's great, that's great. We'll work on scroll scroll

2171
01:49:22,479 --> 01:49:26,679
Speaker 1: upon the donuts for me. Here we go. What mad hatter, Matt,

2172
01:49:27,000 --> 01:49:28,559
Speaker 1: mad hatter, Mad Hatter.

2173
01:49:29,520 --> 01:49:33,160
Speaker 4: You are going absolutely great, craziest you've ever gone to stream.

2174
01:49:33,280 --> 01:49:35,960
Speaker 4: Mad Hatter Girl is like taking the crown round honestly,

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01:49:36,000 --> 01:49:38,040
Speaker 4: Mad Hatter Queen. Right now, Matt had her goal. By

2176
01:49:38,040 --> 01:49:39,920
Speaker 4: the way, let me put some respect on him. Ten

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01:49:40,760 --> 01:49:48,200
Speaker 4: gifted memberships. Let's go, ten more gifted memberships. Let's freaking go.

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01:49:49,240 --> 01:49:52,360
Speaker 4: Let's freaking go, guys. This is this is great?

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01:49:52,360 --> 01:49:53,240
Speaker 1: All right? Where is it?

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01:49:53,400 --> 01:49:53,639
Speaker 3: Yes?

2181
01:49:54,120 --> 01:49:57,200
Speaker 1: Yep, dude, guys. Stop, yeah there, you get that.

2182
01:49:57,840 --> 01:49:59,519
Speaker 5: One hundred and sixty six votes.

2183
01:50:00,080 --> 01:50:04,080
Speaker 1: This is ridiculous, sixty ridiculous.

2184
01:50:04,320 --> 01:50:06,479
Speaker 4: Okay, here's the deal. Here's the deal, y'all, here's the deal.

2185
01:50:06,840 --> 01:50:10,280
Speaker 4: This is a ship. If this was Riley's home in

2186
01:50:10,360 --> 01:50:14,479
Speaker 4: Riley's backyard. Once we all have our own okay houses,

2187
01:50:15,000 --> 01:50:17,280
Speaker 4: our own okay estates, and we all have our backyards,

2188
01:50:17,280 --> 01:50:18,200
Speaker 4: and everyone's like.

2189
01:50:18,600 --> 01:50:20,839
Speaker 1: Pee away, pee away.

2190
01:50:21,080 --> 01:50:26,719
Speaker 4: You share this backyard with your comrades in the like it's.

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01:50:26,760 --> 01:50:29,840
Speaker 5: Water I'm giving to the tree, and it's in no

2192
01:50:29,880 --> 01:50:31,640
Speaker 5: one's way. If I was like peeing in front of

2193
01:50:31,680 --> 01:50:33,960
Speaker 5: the like the stairs over here, I'm the a hole,

2194
01:50:34,120 --> 01:50:35,760
Speaker 5: but I'm doing it in a secluded area.

2195
01:50:35,960 --> 01:50:41,160
Speaker 4: You literally literally have the most dedicated, proper place ever,

2196
01:50:41,800 --> 01:50:43,840
Speaker 4: and you just choose, you just choose not to do it.

2197
01:50:43,960 --> 01:50:46,160
Speaker 5: Dude, I do have a little story real quick, but like,

2198
01:50:46,280 --> 01:50:47,439
Speaker 5: but what if I'm being in the corner?

2199
01:50:47,479 --> 01:50:51,880
Speaker 1: How many times do you go in that corner? Now?

2200
01:50:53,000 --> 01:50:55,479
Speaker 5: I dropped my girlfriend off and I had to use

2201
01:50:55,520 --> 01:51:05,479
Speaker 5: the bathroom and all, oh dang, mmmm, it's great.

2202
01:51:05,600 --> 01:51:13,599
Speaker 4: Oh guys stopping kirk, I'm not my girlfriend house. That's

2203
01:51:13,640 --> 01:51:16,080
Speaker 4: a good wheel spin talking through like eating peanut butter

2204
01:51:16,160 --> 01:51:16,439
Speaker 4: or something.

2205
01:51:16,640 --> 01:51:20,400
Speaker 1: I've heard another podcast'll be Bunny. Yeh yeah, yea, yeah,

2206
01:51:20,400 --> 01:51:21,080
Speaker 1: that's a really good.

2207
01:51:21,360 --> 01:51:27,640
Speaker 9: So my girlfriend's house, I dropped her off, and I

2208
01:51:27,800 --> 01:51:30,720
Speaker 9: like took two steps stop beat in her mom's rosebush

2209
01:51:30,840 --> 01:51:33,000
Speaker 9: and then went back home and she saw me do it,

2210
01:51:33,400 --> 01:51:34,360
Speaker 9: and I kind of feel bad.

2211
01:51:36,400 --> 01:51:39,600
Speaker 4: Guys, all right, all right, you know what. Here we go,

2212
01:51:39,680 --> 01:51:43,120
Speaker 4: Here we go, and Riley, you win this pole. We

2213
01:51:43,200 --> 01:51:44,040
Speaker 4: can end this poll.

2214
01:51:44,680 --> 01:51:48,400
Speaker 5: Is Riley the a hole for peeing in his girlfriend's

2215
01:51:48,439 --> 01:51:49,280
Speaker 5: mom's rosebush?

2216
01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:57,439
Speaker 1: I had to go go sleean side.

2217
01:51:58,680 --> 01:52:02,960
Speaker 4: We have also also, I do not, Yeah, Riley, see

2218
01:52:03,120 --> 01:52:06,240
Speaker 4: some of us have very small bladders, okay have yeah,

2219
01:52:06,360 --> 01:52:10,720
Speaker 4: Riley have abnormally small bladders, yeah, Riley, to which to

2220
01:52:10,880 --> 01:52:12,040
Speaker 4: which an emergency.

2221
01:52:12,120 --> 01:52:16,920
Speaker 1: Peace situation is a true emergency. I one time I

2222
01:52:17,000 --> 01:52:20,960
Speaker 1: didn't want to wake them up. What dude, there's no

2223
01:52:21,560 --> 01:52:25,000
Speaker 1: also like like just wait like a few minutes, okay,

2224
01:52:25,040 --> 01:52:28,519
Speaker 1: you know was closed, bare minimum bear bear bare minimums.

2225
01:52:29,000 --> 01:52:32,880
Speaker 1: Drive like one minute out so you're or like run

2226
01:52:33,320 --> 01:52:34,559
Speaker 1: to the next door neighbor's house.

2227
01:52:34,640 --> 01:52:36,840
Speaker 7: You just said that that she saw you do it,

2228
01:52:37,080 --> 01:52:38,559
Speaker 7: so clearly they weren't asleep.

2229
01:52:39,800 --> 01:52:42,320
Speaker 5: He just got back home. The parents didn't see me

2230
01:52:42,400 --> 01:52:42,560
Speaker 5: do it.

2231
01:52:43,720 --> 01:52:48,000
Speaker 4: You literally said they were just asleep. Literally, she was

2232
01:52:48,439 --> 01:52:53,240
Speaker 4: literally slies A hundred guys, what are you doing? This

2233
01:52:53,400 --> 01:52:56,160
Speaker 4: fool should be one hundred percent right now. Don't make

2234
01:52:56,240 --> 01:52:59,920
Speaker 4: me ashamed of you. Dude that those thirty six they're

2235
01:53:00,120 --> 01:53:03,880
Speaker 4: they're trying to thirty six percent. That's that's the other

2236
01:53:04,000 --> 01:53:07,000
Speaker 4: ten percent that's like that just wants to stir the pot.

2237
01:53:08,840 --> 01:53:10,719
Speaker 4: I respect pot prece blit.

2238
01:53:10,640 --> 01:53:11,320
Speaker 1: This pruce blood.

2239
01:53:11,360 --> 01:53:13,799
Speaker 4: I would say that is not dude. This is literally

2240
01:53:13,920 --> 01:53:17,640
Speaker 4: a clear majority, literally a clear majority right now. It

2241
01:53:17,640 --> 01:53:19,519
Speaker 4: would be the a whole president if this is the

2242
01:53:19,600 --> 01:53:21,760
Speaker 4: election right now. Oh my gosh, oh we got a

2243
01:53:21,800 --> 01:53:25,800
Speaker 4: few more dons, Mad hatter gal uh five bucks, Lord John.

2244
01:53:26,000 --> 01:53:29,320
Speaker 4: I like the title Lady of Madness, mad hatter. Gal

2245
01:53:29,479 --> 01:53:33,280
Speaker 4: gets what she wants, She gets her title. Uh, what

2246
01:53:33,479 --> 01:53:37,000
Speaker 4: was it again, Lady of madness, Lady of madness?

2247
01:53:37,120 --> 01:53:38,000
Speaker 1: That is what it now is.

2248
01:53:38,479 --> 01:53:43,320
Speaker 4: Uh, you don't have to change your username. But okay,

2249
01:53:43,400 --> 01:53:46,120
Speaker 4: buddy is so hot hot, like spicy.

2250
01:53:46,520 --> 01:53:51,679
Speaker 1: But you need some water. I'll go, I'll be back.

2251
01:53:51,760 --> 01:53:55,640
Speaker 1: I got some water. Yeah, I'll be back. Water. You

2252
01:53:55,680 --> 01:53:59,439
Speaker 1: could drink here, guys, Yeah you can, you can? You can.

2253
01:53:59,760 --> 01:54:01,639
Speaker 1: I'm I'm gonna go up in a second and maybe

2254
01:54:03,160 --> 01:54:08,000
Speaker 1: I'll grab some blank. I'm surprised, Sam, Sam is good choking. Yeah,

2255
01:54:08,080 --> 01:54:10,200
Speaker 1: Riley's dying curly shout.

2256
01:54:10,000 --> 01:54:14,400
Speaker 4: Out to Mary Frankenstein Steyn, Uh get Riley a Rosebush.

2257
01:54:15,000 --> 01:54:20,280
Speaker 1: Mary respectfully, absolutely not. We will literally not do that.

2258
01:54:20,600 --> 01:54:23,280
Speaker 1: Because he's amazing. He will use it. They'll use it.

2259
01:54:23,800 --> 01:54:26,280
Speaker 1: I tell him all the time we go outside just

2260
01:54:26,680 --> 01:54:28,960
Speaker 1: you will literally never use a human toilet again in

2261
01:54:29,720 --> 01:54:30,000
Speaker 1: our home.

2262
01:54:30,120 --> 01:54:31,720
Speaker 7: One time I was I like, took him on a

2263
01:54:31,800 --> 01:54:34,280
Speaker 7: walk and he was like, do you have like a

2264
01:54:34,320 --> 01:54:36,160
Speaker 7: little park I could go. I was like, why why

2265
01:54:36,240 --> 01:54:38,480
Speaker 7: don't you just wait? He was like, no, I need

2266
01:54:38,560 --> 01:54:38,960
Speaker 7: the park.

2267
01:54:39,640 --> 01:54:43,400
Speaker 4: He he literally abused. He makes people with small bladder

2268
01:54:43,480 --> 01:54:45,440
Speaker 4: it's it's the boy boy who cried wolf.

2269
01:54:45,560 --> 01:54:49,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, boy you Pete. I have to use the bathroom

2270
01:54:49,320 --> 01:54:51,960
Speaker 1: right now, but I'm sitting for a few more seconds.

2271
01:54:52,040 --> 01:54:53,840
Speaker 1: Right before this, I was sitting.

2272
01:54:53,600 --> 01:54:56,000
Speaker 4: For a few more seconds like they don't understand, they

2273
01:54:56,000 --> 01:54:57,400
Speaker 4: don't get they really don't forget it.

2274
01:54:57,800 --> 01:54:59,560
Speaker 1: But April, the master gets it.

2275
01:55:00,000 --> 01:55:02,040
Speaker 4: I will bring the two month membership my fiance piece

2276
01:55:02,080 --> 01:55:03,080
Speaker 4: behind our garage all the time.

2277
01:55:03,200 --> 01:55:06,240
Speaker 1: Lm al stop that stop stop it all right, ladies

2278
01:55:06,240 --> 01:55:07,919
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, why do you have a bathroom?

2279
01:55:08,000 --> 01:55:11,440
Speaker 4: If not for that exactly, I'm gonna go get Sophia

2280
01:55:11,480 --> 01:55:13,520
Speaker 4: a blanket and some other stuff for myself, so I'll

2281
01:55:13,560 --> 01:55:13,880
Speaker 4: be back to.

2282
01:55:15,760 --> 01:55:19,440
Speaker 5: Get sick sickle pop for Riley. B. C. John and

2283
01:55:19,520 --> 01:55:23,640
Speaker 5: Sam are enlisted about in titleists about bathroom being elitist.

2284
01:55:24,440 --> 01:55:25,120
Speaker 1: I can't even read.

2285
01:55:25,560 --> 01:55:27,200
Speaker 5: I'm from the country. I will be in the grass.

2286
01:55:28,000 --> 01:55:30,360
Speaker 5: That's how I was raised, and it just feels lost

2287
01:55:30,360 --> 01:55:33,000
Speaker 5: from the country. It just feels right to do it.

2288
01:55:33,880 --> 01:55:34,440
Speaker 1: That's what I.

2289
01:55:35,960 --> 01:55:39,120
Speaker 7: Don't trust men, because I never know if they're washing

2290
01:55:39,200 --> 01:55:39,680
Speaker 7: their hands.

2291
01:55:41,000 --> 01:55:41,560
Speaker 1: I have a thing.

2292
01:55:41,640 --> 01:55:43,960
Speaker 7: I need people to wash their hands, and it stresses

2293
01:55:44,000 --> 01:55:44,280
Speaker 7: me out.

2294
01:55:44,520 --> 01:55:45,800
Speaker 5: Who says I'm not washing my hands.

2295
01:55:45,800 --> 01:55:46,200
Speaker 1: I don't know.

2296
01:55:46,920 --> 01:55:49,400
Speaker 7: That's the thing. I never know when people are washing

2297
01:55:49,440 --> 01:55:54,000
Speaker 7: their hands or not, and it stresses me out. Which

2298
01:55:54,000 --> 01:55:57,920
Speaker 7: one did read Matt Hottery Also okay, Josephine Manila. But Quez,

2299
01:55:58,000 --> 01:55:58,800
Speaker 7: thank you for the six o.

2300
01:55:58,960 --> 01:56:04,720
Speaker 1: Three that's in the corner. Losing my religion.

2301
01:56:05,360 --> 01:56:08,640
Speaker 7: That's how it goes, right, let Riley p I disagree you.

2302
01:56:09,200 --> 01:56:12,160
Speaker 1: He can't pete. He can pay in the bathroom. I

2303
01:56:12,200 --> 01:56:12,600
Speaker 1: don't want to.

2304
01:56:12,640 --> 01:56:13,200
Speaker 3: I don't have to.

2305
01:56:13,760 --> 01:56:17,000
Speaker 1: My window is thank you.

2306
01:56:17,360 --> 01:56:19,880
Speaker 5: I know when you're sleep, so I just go when

2307
01:56:19,920 --> 01:56:21,800
Speaker 5: you're sleeping, that's concerning.

2308
01:56:22,000 --> 01:56:24,080
Speaker 1: You go to bed at like eight thirty. That is

2309
01:56:24,200 --> 01:56:26,240
Speaker 1: not true. When do you go to bed? Not true?

2310
01:56:26,320 --> 01:56:27,879
Speaker 1: I go to bed. I went to bed at eleven.

2311
01:56:28,000 --> 01:56:31,560
Speaker 1: That was early. No, that was early to No, you

2312
01:56:31,680 --> 01:56:33,480
Speaker 1: go to bed at like ten for real?

2313
01:56:33,880 --> 01:56:36,600
Speaker 7: No, I wish I went to bed at ten. I'm tired,

2314
01:56:38,160 --> 01:56:41,880
Speaker 7: but you know that's that. Do I need to read

2315
01:56:41,920 --> 01:56:43,360
Speaker 7: a story now or reading?

2316
01:56:44,000 --> 01:56:47,520
Speaker 1: What are we on? Four? Four four ninety four?

2317
01:56:47,640 --> 01:56:48,520
Speaker 5: Got five minutes left?

2318
01:56:48,520 --> 01:56:48,720
Speaker 1: Guys?

2319
01:56:48,800 --> 01:56:52,120
Speaker 5: Please please please like these stream like the stream like

2320
01:56:52,240 --> 01:56:53,000
Speaker 5: it like I just.

2321
01:56:53,040 --> 01:56:58,640
Speaker 7: Got here, guys, like Beme, I can't hold on for

2322
01:56:58,760 --> 01:57:02,760
Speaker 7: to ninety four read to the people Riley read.

2323
01:57:04,000 --> 01:57:06,840
Speaker 5: Oh the comments, Oh Austin Rickets Riley is doing right

2324
01:57:07,920 --> 01:57:12,000
Speaker 5: by those flowers. They were thirsty little flowers and he

2325
01:57:12,280 --> 01:57:12,880
Speaker 5: fed them.

2326
01:57:13,440 --> 01:57:13,840
Speaker 1: He did.

2327
01:57:13,960 --> 01:57:18,680
Speaker 5: Okay, quick story time. My friend friend's dad had a

2328
01:57:19,040 --> 01:57:24,280
Speaker 5: three tomato like plants, and every morning he would go

2329
01:57:24,400 --> 01:57:26,680
Speaker 5: out and pee on one tomato plant. And so at

2330
01:57:26,680 --> 01:57:28,360
Speaker 5: the end of the day, at the end of the season,

2331
01:57:28,720 --> 01:57:30,680
Speaker 5: he had three tomatoes and he placed them in front

2332
01:57:30,720 --> 01:57:32,920
Speaker 5: of his daughter, and his daughter ate all three and

2333
01:57:33,000 --> 01:57:35,160
Speaker 5: said which one was the best one? And she pointed

2334
01:57:35,200 --> 01:57:36,800
Speaker 5: the one in the middle, and he was like, yeah,

2335
01:57:36,840 --> 01:57:41,320
Speaker 5: that's the piss uh tomato. And it had the most nutrients.

2336
01:57:41,360 --> 01:57:42,600
Speaker 1: So I mean, never want to know one.

2337
01:57:43,520 --> 01:57:46,080
Speaker 7: Don't ever tell me if you peed on my tomatoes.

2338
01:57:46,880 --> 01:57:49,280
Speaker 5: Not on deal, but in the plant, like in the soil.

2339
01:57:50,240 --> 01:57:51,840
Speaker 5: It just like sucked it up.

2340
01:57:53,040 --> 01:57:53,880
Speaker 1: I've got it ready.

2341
01:57:53,960 --> 01:57:58,920
Speaker 7: It smells like fertilizer and gas and gas because you

2342
01:57:59,000 --> 01:58:01,480
Speaker 7: got a generator, a lovely combo. I got the gas

2343
01:58:01,560 --> 01:58:01,720
Speaker 7: for it.

2344
01:58:01,840 --> 01:58:05,680
Speaker 10: That's where I was. But uh, you said S four Right, Yep,

2345
01:58:06,440 --> 01:58:10,080
Speaker 10: let's get into this story enough this pea talk. Am

2346
01:58:10,160 --> 01:58:12,120
Speaker 10: I the a hole for telling my husband that he

2347
01:58:12,360 --> 01:58:17,840
Speaker 10: wasn't like my previous partners. I don't know, maybe so

2348
01:58:18,080 --> 01:58:21,200
Speaker 10: Senior Protections five two seven says my husband and I

2349
01:58:21,280 --> 01:58:24,160
Speaker 10: have been married for fifteen years and have two children together.

2350
01:58:24,320 --> 01:58:26,960
Speaker 10: He's a wonderful husband and a father, and I truly

2351
01:58:27,080 --> 01:58:29,680
Speaker 10: love him. We met when I was twenty one years old,

2352
01:58:29,720 --> 01:58:32,320
Speaker 10: towards the end of wild times in my life. I

2353
01:58:32,480 --> 01:58:34,480
Speaker 10: was partying a lot and sleeping with a lot of

2354
01:58:34,560 --> 01:58:38,800
Speaker 10: a holes and had decided that I deserved better. When

2355
01:58:38,840 --> 01:58:41,640
Speaker 10: I met my husband, good for you, girl. I knew

2356
01:58:41,640 --> 01:58:44,160
Speaker 10: I liked him from the start, and as our relationship progressed,

2357
01:58:44,240 --> 01:58:47,400
Speaker 10: I felt safe and loved and knew that my husband

2358
01:58:47,400 --> 01:58:50,920
Speaker 10: could give me the life that I wanted. So we

2359
01:58:51,000 --> 01:58:54,000
Speaker 10: got married and it's been a happy marriage. I'm attracted

2360
01:58:54,040 --> 01:58:56,520
Speaker 10: to my husband, always have been. I asked him out

2361
01:58:56,560 --> 01:58:56,880
Speaker 10: because I.

2362
01:58:56,880 --> 01:58:57,600
Speaker 1: Thought he was cute.

2363
01:58:57,920 --> 01:59:00,520
Speaker 7: But my husband is a different kind of man than

2364
01:59:00,560 --> 01:59:03,120
Speaker 7: I have been attracted to in the past. I was

2365
01:59:03,160 --> 01:59:05,960
Speaker 7: into big guys that worked with their hands, that were

2366
01:59:06,040 --> 01:59:09,680
Speaker 7: assertive and had a little edge to them. My husband

2367
01:59:10,440 --> 01:59:15,840
Speaker 7: isn't that. He's smart and kind and mild mannered. Now,

2368
01:59:16,400 --> 01:59:18,760
Speaker 7: I have a tendency to run pretty hot and often

2369
01:59:18,800 --> 01:59:21,320
Speaker 7: say things I don't mean it's a fault, and I

2370
01:59:21,440 --> 01:59:25,800
Speaker 7: admit that. Hello, hot over another thirty minutes.

2371
01:59:27,440 --> 01:59:29,400
Speaker 5: We got a don right here right there?

2372
01:59:29,800 --> 01:59:33,320
Speaker 7: Uh, dear Revetti, thank you for them one hundred dollars

2373
01:59:33,440 --> 01:59:37,120
Speaker 7: another only thirty more minutes pouting, I don't know how it.

2374
01:59:37,160 --> 01:59:40,440
Speaker 5: Works now it's just thirty minute increments rather than our increments.

2375
01:59:41,680 --> 01:59:44,720
Speaker 7: All right, but thank you for getting us to another thirty.

2376
01:59:44,880 --> 01:59:46,720
Speaker 5: Thank you adding that now, appreciate you.

2377
01:59:49,200 --> 01:59:51,360
Speaker 1: But buh So.

2378
01:59:51,600 --> 01:59:54,200
Speaker 7: Last week my husband and I were in bed and

2379
01:59:54,320 --> 01:59:56,640
Speaker 7: we were talking about things to try in the bedroom,

2380
01:59:56,720 --> 01:59:58,440
Speaker 7: and he asked if there was anything that I had

2381
01:59:58,480 --> 02:00:01,280
Speaker 7: done with anyone else that I like and would like

2382
02:00:01,360 --> 02:00:02,040
Speaker 7: to try with him.

2383
02:00:02,680 --> 02:00:06,560
Speaker 1: Ah, that's not a good I like that. You really

2384
02:00:06,640 --> 02:00:09,400
Speaker 1: set yourself up there for failure. Yeah, yeah, sure.

2385
02:00:09,440 --> 02:00:11,840
Speaker 7: I don't ask what other people are doing, just be like, hey,

2386
02:00:12,760 --> 02:00:14,200
Speaker 7: is there anything you want to try?

2387
02:00:14,360 --> 02:00:14,720
Speaker 1: Period?

2388
02:00:15,240 --> 02:00:15,440
Speaker 7: Yeah?

2389
02:00:15,560 --> 02:00:15,760
Speaker 3: Do that?

2390
02:00:15,920 --> 02:00:17,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a better I don't need to know if

2391
02:00:17,720 --> 02:00:18,600
Speaker 1: you've done it before.

2392
02:00:18,840 --> 02:00:20,040
Speaker 5: What did you like by other people?

2393
02:00:20,120 --> 02:00:22,480
Speaker 1: And what do they do? And how can I do? Yeah?

2394
02:00:22,680 --> 02:00:26,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, that's too specific. You're gonna hurt yourself. I laughed

2395
02:00:26,800 --> 02:00:31,080
Speaker 7: a bit and said there was plenty I liked, but honey,

2396
02:00:31,360 --> 02:00:32,080
Speaker 7: you aren't them?

2397
02:00:33,800 --> 02:00:34,000
Speaker 3: Mean?

2398
02:00:34,600 --> 02:00:38,520
Speaker 5: Oh but like honey, No, like honey, you aren't them.

2399
02:00:39,720 --> 02:00:41,240
Speaker 1: Or it could be honey, you aren't them.

2400
02:00:42,560 --> 02:00:45,280
Speaker 5: Either way, what do you think it is? Yeah, it's

2401
02:00:45,320 --> 02:00:47,000
Speaker 5: probably like like, honey.

2402
02:00:47,080 --> 02:00:47,840
Speaker 1: You aren't them.

2403
02:00:48,160 --> 02:00:50,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, not good.

2404
02:00:52,240 --> 02:00:54,440
Speaker 7: The second it came out of my mouth, I knew

2405
02:00:54,600 --> 02:00:56,360
Speaker 7: I'd messed up, but I couldn't take it back.

2406
02:00:57,080 --> 02:00:58,520
Speaker 1: He threw me off him.

2407
02:00:58,760 --> 02:01:01,040
Speaker 7: Oh, he threw me off him and went downstairs.

2408
02:01:01,200 --> 02:01:05,800
Speaker 1: Dude. Okay, that's mean. Dude, you could have just laughed

2409
02:01:05,840 --> 02:01:06,120
Speaker 1: it off.

2410
02:01:06,360 --> 02:01:10,960
Speaker 7: Nah, that's a mean comment. Yeah, that's a mean comment.

2411
02:01:11,040 --> 02:01:11,880
Speaker 7: It is a mean comment.

2412
02:01:11,920 --> 02:01:13,120
Speaker 1: But if I okay, I.

2413
02:01:13,120 --> 02:01:15,840
Speaker 7: Don't think she can just be like sometimes I say

2414
02:01:15,960 --> 02:01:17,200
Speaker 7: stuff and it's mean.

2415
02:01:17,520 --> 02:01:18,200
Speaker 1: It's a fault.

2416
02:01:18,400 --> 02:01:22,080
Speaker 7: I feel like you have to recognize that you're uh,

2417
02:01:22,200 --> 02:01:24,640
Speaker 7: you are mean sometimes and try and fix that.

2418
02:01:24,760 --> 02:01:26,360
Speaker 5: Okay, let me says. It depends on the tone.

2419
02:01:26,440 --> 02:01:31,160
Speaker 7: Okay, of course, of course it depends on the tone.

2420
02:01:31,680 --> 02:01:36,520
Speaker 7: But given his reaction, I'm guessing it wasn't a positive tone. Ah,

2421
02:01:37,040 --> 02:01:38,160
Speaker 7: that's that's what I'm going for.

2422
02:01:39,320 --> 02:01:41,720
Speaker 1: Um, I let him.

2423
02:01:41,920 --> 02:01:44,680
Speaker 7: Oh wait, he threw me off him and went downstairs.

2424
02:01:44,840 --> 02:01:46,840
Speaker 7: I ran after him, but he said if I didn't

2425
02:01:46,840 --> 02:01:50,360
Speaker 7: go back upstairs he was leaving the house. I let

2426
02:01:50,480 --> 02:01:52,600
Speaker 7: him have his space that night, then tried to talk

2427
02:01:52,640 --> 02:01:55,480
Speaker 7: to him in the morning. I told him how sorry

2428
02:01:55,560 --> 02:01:57,600
Speaker 7: I was. I didn't mean it the way that I sounded,

2429
02:01:58,080 --> 02:02:01,440
Speaker 7: but he wasn't interested in here. He told me that

2430
02:02:01,520 --> 02:02:04,040
Speaker 7: that will be the last time I disrespect him like that,

2431
02:02:04,960 --> 02:02:09,720
Speaker 7: the last times I okay, unless he's being a drama queen.

2432
02:02:10,120 --> 02:02:11,880
Speaker 7: I feel like she's said stuff.

2433
02:02:11,680 --> 02:02:12,240
Speaker 1: Like this before.

2434
02:02:14,280 --> 02:02:15,840
Speaker 5: I could see that there's a there's a world.

2435
02:02:16,160 --> 02:02:17,640
Speaker 7: I think there's two worlds right now, and I need

2436
02:02:17,720 --> 02:02:22,240
Speaker 7: more information. There's one world where he's, you know, a

2437
02:02:22,360 --> 02:02:25,480
Speaker 7: drama queen and you know he's taking everything too seriously,

2438
02:02:25,640 --> 02:02:29,640
Speaker 7: and there's another world where she's been mean to him constantly.

2439
02:02:31,080 --> 02:02:32,520
Speaker 1: And I need a little bit more information.

2440
02:02:34,680 --> 02:02:38,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, I yeah, I need more. I would like to

2441
02:02:38,880 --> 02:02:41,880
Speaker 5: see them in public and experience. I would like to

2442
02:02:41,960 --> 02:02:44,760
Speaker 5: sit at a restat beside of them and here a conversation. Yeah,

2443
02:02:44,840 --> 02:02:46,280
Speaker 5: you get more conversation in the relationship.

2444
02:02:46,320 --> 02:02:48,800
Speaker 7: Sweet cheek says, Nah, it doesn't matter the tone. This

2445
02:02:49,000 --> 02:02:51,680
Speaker 7: was death gonna hurt his pride no matter what. And

2446
02:02:52,080 --> 02:02:54,600
Speaker 7: little Treny what we says, Maybe it's just the last

2447
02:02:54,640 --> 02:02:59,480
Speaker 7: straw chronic disrespect. That's what That's what I think he's implying.

2448
02:02:59,560 --> 02:03:01,320
Speaker 7: So I think we need to read on to see

2449
02:03:01,400 --> 02:03:03,080
Speaker 7: if that is the case.

2450
02:03:03,200 --> 02:03:07,480
Speaker 1: Gotcha, b ba bah.

2451
02:03:07,680 --> 02:03:10,960
Speaker 7: I let him have a space that night, then, oh yeah,

2452
02:03:11,240 --> 02:03:13,120
Speaker 7: And he told me that will be the last time

2453
02:03:13,320 --> 02:03:17,160
Speaker 7: I disrespect him like that. I have made comments in

2454
02:03:17,280 --> 02:03:22,120
Speaker 7: the past, but nothing that direct. Ah, that's not looking

2455
02:03:22,160 --> 02:03:25,000
Speaker 7: good for you. It's not looking good. He told me

2456
02:03:25,080 --> 02:03:27,480
Speaker 7: that I emasculated him, and if I ever spoke to

2457
02:03:27,560 --> 02:03:30,480
Speaker 7: him like that again, we are over. He went to

2458
02:03:30,560 --> 02:03:33,240
Speaker 7: work after that, and I stood in the kitchen frozen.

2459
02:03:33,640 --> 02:03:36,240
Speaker 7: He'd never spoken to me like that before, and certainly

2460
02:03:36,360 --> 02:03:40,880
Speaker 7: never threatened to leave me again. We're still in those

2461
02:03:40,920 --> 02:03:43,400
Speaker 7: two worlds. But I think, I think if we're in

2462
02:03:43,480 --> 02:03:45,920
Speaker 7: the world where she's mean, it seems like she's been

2463
02:03:45,960 --> 02:03:48,160
Speaker 7: mean a lot and this is just the first time

2464
02:03:48,240 --> 02:03:51,120
Speaker 7: he stood up for himself. And she's like, wow, I

2465
02:03:51,240 --> 02:03:53,080
Speaker 7: just thought he would let me walk all over him.

2466
02:03:54,480 --> 02:03:56,640
Speaker 7: Katie Lynn says, I don't think he'd be saying last

2467
02:03:56,680 --> 02:03:59,880
Speaker 7: time with such conviction if it were the first.

2468
02:04:00,160 --> 02:04:00,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

2469
02:04:01,240 --> 02:04:03,200
Speaker 7: I think I have Emily, She says, I think op

2470
02:04:03,240 --> 02:04:06,200
Speaker 7: he has a habit of being rude. I think so too,

2471
02:04:06,520 --> 02:04:09,400
Speaker 7: just given by the fact that she said sometimes I

2472
02:04:09,800 --> 02:04:13,880
Speaker 7: say whatever I'm thinking. You know, you gotta check yourself.

2473
02:04:13,920 --> 02:04:14,120
Speaker 1: Girl.

2474
02:04:15,920 --> 02:04:18,280
Speaker 7: It's been a week since that happened, and he still

2475
02:04:18,480 --> 02:04:22,720
Speaker 7: isn't himself. I've tried talking, I've tried every nice gesture

2476
02:04:22,760 --> 02:04:24,920
Speaker 7: I could think of, and of course I try to

2477
02:04:25,000 --> 02:04:29,360
Speaker 7: initiate spicy sleep every day, but he's rejected me every

2478
02:04:29,440 --> 02:04:31,960
Speaker 7: time I heard him, and I don't know how to

2479
02:04:32,040 --> 02:04:34,040
Speaker 7: fix it. I honestly didn't mean it the way it

2480
02:04:34,120 --> 02:04:36,520
Speaker 7: came out. The men I used to sleep with were

2481
02:04:36,640 --> 02:04:38,800
Speaker 7: very aggressive, and in the moment I liked it, but

2482
02:04:38,960 --> 02:04:42,040
Speaker 7: not so much afterwards. I love sleeping with my husband.

2483
02:04:42,280 --> 02:04:46,520
Speaker 7: I love getting orgasms and don't feel like a piece

2484
02:04:46,560 --> 02:04:49,480
Speaker 7: of meat afterwards. I've said all that, but it hasn't

2485
02:04:49,520 --> 02:04:52,240
Speaker 7: seemed to make it better. Does anyone have any ideas

2486
02:04:52,360 --> 02:04:54,240
Speaker 7: would telling him that I'm very attracted to how he

2487
02:04:54,240 --> 02:04:57,480
Speaker 7: stood up for himself help or hurt. It's true, but

2488
02:04:57,560 --> 02:05:00,280
Speaker 7: I don't know if that will make things worse. And

2489
02:05:01,160 --> 02:05:07,280
Speaker 7: TLDR for anyone new or anyone who zoned out ope,

2490
02:05:08,600 --> 02:05:13,040
Speaker 7: emasculated her husband and said some mean stuff and now

2491
02:05:13,720 --> 02:05:16,640
Speaker 7: doesn't know how to fix it. And that's where we're

2492
02:05:16,680 --> 02:05:21,040
Speaker 7: at Cassa's quote blunt but actually mean, Yeah, where she

2493
02:05:21,200 --> 02:05:24,400
Speaker 7: thinks that she's just being blunt, but she's actually just

2494
02:05:24,520 --> 02:05:28,120
Speaker 7: being a mean person. Jan Digital says, but why even

2495
02:05:28,160 --> 02:05:30,400
Speaker 7: ask that way? He didn't have to include people in

2496
02:05:30,480 --> 02:05:35,240
Speaker 7: the past. Gabby B says, ohp is being stinky. Where

2497
02:05:35,360 --> 02:05:36,800
Speaker 7: are you at, though, Riley.

2498
02:05:37,360 --> 02:05:38,080
Speaker 1: What are your thoughts?

2499
02:05:38,120 --> 02:05:39,840
Speaker 7: Because I've got thoughts, but I want to know.

2500
02:05:39,920 --> 02:05:40,680
Speaker 1: What you think.

2501
02:05:41,400 --> 02:05:43,480
Speaker 5: I mean if this was my relationship, yeah, and I

2502
02:05:43,680 --> 02:05:47,680
Speaker 5: asked that. One I'm asking for it, And two if

2503
02:05:47,760 --> 02:05:49,600
Speaker 5: I got a comment like that, I'd probably like laugh

2504
02:05:49,680 --> 02:05:51,240
Speaker 5: it off and be like, what do you mean and

2505
02:05:51,320 --> 02:05:54,800
Speaker 5: then like, you know, just like yeah, I don't know,

2506
02:05:55,280 --> 02:05:58,200
Speaker 5: like a tickle's coming, I don't know, like that'll just

2507
02:05:58,360 --> 02:06:00,680
Speaker 5: like laugh it off. Really, I would have taken it

2508
02:06:00,920 --> 02:06:04,760
Speaker 5: as serious. But yeah, I could see how this hurts

2509
02:06:04,800 --> 02:06:09,600
Speaker 5: his pride. But yeah, if you if you get hit

2510
02:06:09,680 --> 02:06:14,000
Speaker 5: by something like that, my response would be like, don't like,

2511
02:06:14,120 --> 02:06:16,720
Speaker 5: if it's a hard thing, don't like your reaction shouldn't

2512
02:06:16,720 --> 02:06:16,920
Speaker 5: be that.

2513
02:06:18,400 --> 02:06:19,000
Speaker 1: I like that.

2514
02:06:19,480 --> 02:06:22,480
Speaker 7: The issue, though, from what I am reading into this,

2515
02:06:23,520 --> 02:06:27,080
Speaker 7: is that she's done this constantly and this is just

2516
02:06:27,160 --> 02:06:29,440
Speaker 7: the first time that he stood up for himself. Ah,

2517
02:06:30,160 --> 02:06:33,080
Speaker 7: that is what I'm reading into it. I could be

2518
02:06:33,160 --> 02:06:37,080
Speaker 7: totally wrong in the you know, but I think just

2519
02:06:37,200 --> 02:06:39,880
Speaker 7: because he said this is the last time I'm going

2520
02:06:39,920 --> 02:06:42,800
Speaker 7: to deal with it, it seems like this is an

2521
02:06:42,800 --> 02:06:43,560
Speaker 7: ongoing issue.

2522
02:06:44,320 --> 02:06:46,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, I would. I would hope he would have, like

2523
02:06:46,920 --> 02:06:48,400
Speaker 5: had more examples or if.

2524
02:06:48,640 --> 02:06:51,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, she's not gonna talk bad about herself.

2525
02:06:51,760 --> 02:06:54,360
Speaker 5: Oh heck no people. No, no, no, people never really

2526
02:06:54,440 --> 02:06:56,800
Speaker 5: do ye? Are they boyfriend girlfriend?

2527
02:06:58,040 --> 02:07:00,360
Speaker 7: I believe they're married. This is her husband.

2528
02:07:01,800 --> 02:07:02,880
Speaker 5: That's a tough one.

2529
02:07:03,200 --> 02:07:03,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2530
02:07:04,000 --> 02:07:06,960
Speaker 7: Miss j Bline says they need marriage counseling.

2531
02:07:07,200 --> 02:07:09,760
Speaker 5: I agree, Yeah, marriage counseling, not divorce.

2532
02:07:09,840 --> 02:07:10,920
Speaker 1: I would definitely say no.

2533
02:07:11,120 --> 02:07:13,200
Speaker 7: I think this is a marriage counseling thing and maybe

2534
02:07:13,240 --> 02:07:17,440
Speaker 7: a therapy thing for her too, if she's struggling with not.

2535
02:07:17,560 --> 02:07:18,800
Speaker 1: Being mean to people.

2536
02:07:20,520 --> 02:07:26,520
Speaker 7: Being Yeah, but there are some relevant comments, and that

2537
02:07:27,000 --> 02:07:30,400
Speaker 7: only relevant comments. There is no update, so let's see

2538
02:07:30,400 --> 02:07:34,280
Speaker 7: what these relevant comments have to say. Toxic WiFi says,

2539
02:07:34,440 --> 02:07:36,840
Speaker 7: but like why, it didn't even sound like the husband

2540
02:07:36,920 --> 02:07:39,840
Speaker 7: did anything to warrant making her mad. It doesn't sound

2541
02:07:39,880 --> 02:07:42,360
Speaker 7: like she said it with anger, just an overly cruel

2542
02:07:42,400 --> 02:07:46,000
Speaker 7: response to a question with a thousand better answers for what.

2543
02:07:46,760 --> 02:07:50,560
Speaker 7: Strangled Moonlight says, look like her personality is flippant.

2544
02:07:50,720 --> 02:07:51,480
Speaker 1: Jack A.

2545
02:07:53,080 --> 02:07:55,840
Speaker 7: Degum says, so many people think never learning how to

2546
02:07:55,880 --> 02:07:58,320
Speaker 7: think about your words like an adult is a personality trait.

2547
02:07:58,480 --> 02:07:59,960
Speaker 7: It just makes you obnoxiat.

2548
02:08:00,440 --> 02:08:04,200
Speaker 5: Okay, if my partner was the partner I have now

2549
02:08:04,360 --> 02:08:09,080
Speaker 5: and they said that and they had like communication issues

2550
02:08:09,320 --> 02:08:13,360
Speaker 5: or I could okay, I'm thinking of another person now,

2551
02:08:13,600 --> 02:08:16,000
Speaker 5: I could definitely see how this is a really bad

2552
02:08:16,160 --> 02:08:21,000
Speaker 5: Are you thinking of an ex of mine?

2553
02:08:21,160 --> 02:08:21,440
Speaker 1: Okay?

2554
02:08:21,520 --> 02:08:23,280
Speaker 5: Okay, Like if I would have asked that and she

2555
02:08:23,280 --> 02:08:25,480
Speaker 5: would have said it like that, I would have been like, probably,

2556
02:08:25,560 --> 02:08:26,160
Speaker 5: like that's it.

2557
02:08:26,600 --> 02:08:27,280
Speaker 1: We're done.

2558
02:08:27,760 --> 02:08:28,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, through.

2559
02:08:28,920 --> 02:08:30,840
Speaker 1: But the amazing person with you.

2560
02:08:31,120 --> 02:08:31,680
Speaker 3: Never do that.

2561
02:08:32,080 --> 02:08:32,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, never do that.

2562
02:08:34,600 --> 02:08:37,160
Speaker 7: A slightly Toe says it does seem that the husband

2563
02:08:37,240 --> 02:08:40,200
Speaker 7: is asking about her past a lot. I think I

2564
02:08:40,280 --> 02:08:43,720
Speaker 7: think he definitely set himself up. But I think that

2565
02:08:43,840 --> 02:08:46,480
Speaker 7: she's still mean. I think she's more the a hole.

2566
02:08:46,680 --> 02:08:51,360
Speaker 7: He might just be kind of silly for asking the question. Yeah,

2567
02:08:53,680 --> 02:08:56,080
Speaker 7: Blue Alkie says, was there getting to be any good

2568
02:08:56,120 --> 02:08:58,520
Speaker 7: outcome to that question? I agree, I think it's a

2569
02:08:58,640 --> 02:09:04,000
Speaker 7: bad question to ask. Dana Darkness says she's the a hole,

2570
02:09:04,080 --> 02:09:06,360
Speaker 7: but he could set himself up for comparison with her

2571
02:09:06,360 --> 02:09:10,040
Speaker 7: past export. Yeah, I agree. I think you should not

2572
02:09:10,120 --> 02:09:11,880
Speaker 7: have asked that question. But I think she's still the

2573
02:09:11,920 --> 02:09:14,120
Speaker 7: a hole. Do we have do we have a little pole?

2574
02:09:15,400 --> 02:09:19,160
Speaker 7: A little a hole poll? Maybe just a classic a

2575
02:09:19,320 --> 02:09:24,320
Speaker 7: whole pole. But let me read some of your uh,

2576
02:09:24,960 --> 02:09:27,640
Speaker 7: some of your donations while we're doing that.

2577
02:09:29,480 --> 02:09:30,240
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm good, thank you.

2578
02:09:30,880 --> 02:09:33,280
Speaker 7: Uh, Ziggy says, thank you for the ten buck tip,

2579
02:09:33,480 --> 02:09:37,120
Speaker 7: more time with my queen. MOI I'm sorry, I just

2580
02:09:37,200 --> 02:09:41,200
Speaker 7: got here. Uh and Tia every aready one hundred bucks?

2581
02:09:41,280 --> 02:09:41,560
Speaker 1: Thank you.

2582
02:09:42,120 --> 02:09:43,600
Speaker 7: Oh we already read that one, but thank you again,

2583
02:09:44,440 --> 02:09:49,160
Speaker 7: Love Bubbles, five buck tip, Thank you for that, even gang,

2584
02:09:49,400 --> 02:09:54,560
Speaker 7: let the games begin and read Rina Reclas, thank you

2585
02:09:54,640 --> 02:09:56,680
Speaker 7: for the four buck tip for Riley to get himself

2586
02:09:56,720 --> 02:09:57,440
Speaker 7: a small.

2587
02:09:57,320 --> 02:10:00,440
Speaker 1: Potted peaplant no play.

2588
02:10:00,560 --> 02:10:03,080
Speaker 7: The problem is that Sam's starring a little plant party

2589
02:10:03,120 --> 02:10:06,120
Speaker 7: next Thursday. I'm worried that now that you put that

2590
02:10:06,200 --> 02:10:07,000
Speaker 7: in Riley's.

2591
02:10:06,720 --> 02:10:10,320
Speaker 1: Mind, you just put it in you put that I

2592
02:10:11,160 --> 02:10:14,400
Speaker 1: that don't you even dare more ducks?

2593
02:10:14,440 --> 02:10:16,600
Speaker 7: Thank you for the twenty five buck tip and Lurking

2594
02:10:16,760 --> 02:10:19,120
Speaker 7: Puppy thank you for the ten bucks. Quick am I

2595
02:10:19,240 --> 02:10:21,840
Speaker 7: the a hole for telling my little sister who likes

2596
02:10:21,880 --> 02:10:23,960
Speaker 7: to bug me every day, to shut up because I

2597
02:10:24,000 --> 02:10:27,480
Speaker 7: want to hear the okay live BG dubs. She's thirteen

2598
02:10:27,520 --> 02:10:29,560
Speaker 7: years old and she knows not to bug me when

2599
02:10:29,600 --> 02:10:35,720
Speaker 7: you guys go live. If anyone, I mean anyone's interrupting

2600
02:10:36,280 --> 02:10:40,320
Speaker 7: your time with us, they're done.

2601
02:10:40,760 --> 02:10:41,640
Speaker 1: It's go time.

2602
02:10:41,880 --> 02:10:45,600
Speaker 7: It's gostlin, were tosslin?

2603
02:10:48,400 --> 02:10:51,200
Speaker 1: I did see one from Pigeon General, but I don't

2604
02:10:51,680 --> 02:10:55,360
Speaker 1: Is it there pretty ready? Wow? No, that was It

2605
02:10:55,440 --> 02:10:57,080
Speaker 1: was a new one, but I don't I don't see it.

2606
02:10:57,680 --> 02:11:00,960
Speaker 1: It sounds like censorship, so that way the army can't gain.

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02:11:01,520 --> 02:11:07,800
Speaker 7: I can't memory. It was something along the lines of, oh,

2608
02:11:07,880 --> 02:11:09,840
Speaker 7: there it is pite in General. Thank you for the

2609
02:11:09,840 --> 02:11:12,800
Speaker 7: five buck tip. Thirty minutes with the worm Queen is

2610
02:11:12,920 --> 02:11:16,560
Speaker 7: better than nothing, I guess, how dare you hello?

2611
02:11:16,960 --> 02:11:17,360
Speaker 1: Just kidding.

2612
02:11:17,480 --> 02:11:19,400
Speaker 7: It's always good to see the worm Queen, but my

2613
02:11:19,520 --> 02:11:21,360
Speaker 7: Pigeon Lord will always come first.

2614
02:11:21,680 --> 02:11:21,920
Speaker 1: Lord.

2615
02:11:22,160 --> 02:11:23,960
Speaker 7: I see how it is. I see how it is

2616
02:11:24,000 --> 02:11:26,160
Speaker 7: when we're on the battlefield. You better watch your back.

2617
02:11:28,360 --> 02:11:33,520
Speaker 7: Uh certifiable legion, certifiably gen nice. Thank you for the

2618
02:11:33,560 --> 02:11:37,640
Speaker 7: tcheo buck tip, crocheg and listening to watch listening and

2619
02:11:37,760 --> 02:11:41,040
Speaker 7: watching from Oklahoma. Love y'all, we love you too. You're

2620
02:11:41,840 --> 02:11:43,680
Speaker 7: love Bubbles. Thank you for the four buck tip, even

2621
02:11:43,760 --> 02:11:47,680
Speaker 7: Gang and Foxy Cat. Oh wait, there's so many beth

2622
02:11:47,800 --> 02:11:49,400
Speaker 7: Is on the move. Thank you for the ten buck tip.

2623
02:11:50,040 --> 02:11:51,760
Speaker 7: M oh keep the stream going. Thank you for the

2624
02:11:51,960 --> 02:11:55,320
Speaker 7: one buck tip. Foxy Cat, thanks for the two bucks.

2625
02:11:55,680 --> 02:11:57,120
Speaker 7: I need to know if all four of you can

2626
02:11:57,160 --> 02:11:58,880
Speaker 7: read cursive. I can read cursive.

2627
02:11:58,960 --> 02:12:02,240
Speaker 5: I can recursive as well, probably barely at this point.

2628
02:12:02,920 --> 02:12:04,440
Speaker 1: Oh, we didn't knock like that.

2629
02:12:04,560 --> 02:12:05,640
Speaker 7: Here's a letter and I read it.

2630
02:12:05,800 --> 02:12:08,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like, I have to tap out of

2631
02:12:08,400 --> 02:12:10,960
Speaker 1: this one. I hand it off. We have to try it.

2632
02:12:11,000 --> 02:12:12,040
Speaker 1: We have to try one more time.

2633
02:12:12,160 --> 02:12:12,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

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02:12:12,480 --> 02:12:16,200
Speaker 7: I don't think I can write cursive properly anymore because

2635
02:12:16,200 --> 02:12:17,800
Speaker 7: I haven't had to do that since.

2636
02:12:17,640 --> 02:12:20,200
Speaker 1: Like fourth grade. What is this cursive thing?

2637
02:12:20,440 --> 02:12:22,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know why. They were like, every fourth

2638
02:12:22,920 --> 02:12:25,520
Speaker 7: grader needs to know how to write cursive, but we

2639
02:12:25,640 --> 02:12:28,280
Speaker 7: never had to use it. I feel like I feel

2640
02:12:28,320 --> 02:12:29,400
Speaker 7: like like it's like Latin.

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02:12:29,440 --> 02:12:31,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, yo, if you're not good enough to like

2642
02:12:31,280 --> 02:12:33,360
Speaker 4: survive the times and survival the fittest.

2643
02:12:33,080 --> 02:12:34,760
Speaker 7: Out here yeah, and then I tried to make my

2644
02:12:34,880 --> 02:12:37,640
Speaker 7: cursive look nice, but it always looked like a fourth

2645
02:12:37,680 --> 02:12:40,200
Speaker 7: grader was writing it. Because I had friends who like

2646
02:12:40,440 --> 02:12:42,680
Speaker 7: have really cool cursive writing.

2647
02:12:42,760 --> 02:12:44,000
Speaker 1: I could never couldn't be me.

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02:12:44,320 --> 02:12:46,720
Speaker 7: Yeah, Cavin Drinks Coffee. Thank for the five buck tip.

2649
02:12:47,080 --> 02:12:49,360
Speaker 7: If it if it's less time, it should be less

2650
02:12:49,440 --> 02:12:52,680
Speaker 7: money for more time, unless it's lower than normal. Also, Hi,

2651
02:12:52,880 --> 02:12:54,960
Speaker 7: how is your guys day? My day is not so good.

2652
02:12:55,200 --> 02:12:58,760
Speaker 7: Oh sorry, it's the anniversary of my best friend. Unliving themselves.

2653
02:12:58,760 --> 02:13:00,600
Speaker 7: I'm taking it harder the normal.

2654
02:13:00,840 --> 02:13:01,720
Speaker 1: Not sure what to do.

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02:13:02,600 --> 02:13:05,400
Speaker 7: I am so sorry Catman, but everyone puts some hearts

2656
02:13:05,440 --> 02:13:05,840
Speaker 7: in the chat.

2657
02:13:06,000 --> 02:13:10,160
Speaker 5: Heart's the chat for Catman. Please and thank you more.

2658
02:13:10,080 --> 02:13:12,560
Speaker 7: Ducks, thank you for the twenty five buck tip. And

2659
02:13:13,840 --> 02:13:16,080
Speaker 7: Lurking Puppy, thank you for the ten bucks. I read

2660
02:13:16,120 --> 02:13:19,920
Speaker 7: that one, but thank you again. Catman drinks Coffee. Thank

2661
02:13:19,920 --> 02:13:21,840
Speaker 7: you for the five buck tip. Oh we read that one,

2662
02:13:21,880 --> 02:13:25,120
Speaker 7: but thank you again. And Mikayla, thank you for the

2663
02:13:25,200 --> 02:13:28,640
Speaker 7: five bucks. Knew Okop viewer in first time Live.

2664
02:13:28,880 --> 02:13:31,640
Speaker 1: Let's go. Love you guys, keep on, keep it on.

2665
02:13:33,120 --> 02:13:36,520
Speaker 7: Appreciate that I appreciate you. Yeah, but that was the

2666
02:13:36,640 --> 02:13:38,920
Speaker 7: end of my story. Would you like to read the

2667
02:13:39,000 --> 02:13:39,440
Speaker 7: next story?

2668
02:13:39,520 --> 02:13:42,000
Speaker 1: Nope, I'm not going to read a story. I'm just

2669
02:13:42,080 --> 02:13:47,840
Speaker 1: gonna sit here in my cozy, in my cozy, cozy cocoon. Guys, really,

2670
02:13:48,800 --> 02:13:49,440
Speaker 1: is this a blanket?

2671
02:13:49,480 --> 02:13:49,720
Speaker 3: Okay?

2672
02:13:50,840 --> 02:13:53,000
Speaker 1: How about here? I presume I don't know whose blanket

2673
02:13:53,000 --> 02:13:54,800
Speaker 1: it was. Was it on the couch? It was on

2674
02:13:54,880 --> 02:13:56,840
Speaker 1: the couch. It's not my blanket, right, I have a.

2675
02:13:56,840 --> 02:13:59,040
Speaker 5: Big gray one, but I think Riley is probably easy.

2676
02:14:00,080 --> 02:14:00,560
Speaker 1: We don't need it.

2677
02:14:04,200 --> 02:14:07,000
Speaker 4: Oh yellow wait, wait, the yellow, the yellow sheet I

2678
02:14:07,080 --> 02:14:09,120
Speaker 4: gave you, dude, that's the outside sheet.

2679
02:14:10,960 --> 02:14:16,120
Speaker 1: I mean that's okay, foxy cat, they give it the

2680
02:14:16,160 --> 02:14:16,560
Speaker 1: two bucks.

2681
02:14:16,600 --> 02:14:18,920
Speaker 7: I only write in cursive, lol. But I can accommodate,

2682
02:14:19,840 --> 02:14:22,240
Speaker 7: I I can. I will read it. I can read cursive.

2683
02:14:22,440 --> 02:14:24,360
Speaker 7: Can someone send us anomodate?

2684
02:14:24,600 --> 02:14:24,760
Speaker 5: Oh?

2685
02:14:25,600 --> 02:14:28,960
Speaker 4: Could someone send us a letter with like like easy

2686
02:14:29,080 --> 02:14:32,520
Speaker 4: medium hard mode on like how if you're if you're

2687
02:14:32,600 --> 02:14:33,720
Speaker 4: like that nice with the pen?

2688
02:14:33,960 --> 02:14:34,120
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2689
02:14:34,240 --> 02:14:38,880
Speaker 7: Like easy is you know, I don't know what's it called,

2690
02:14:39,320 --> 02:14:43,320
Speaker 7: just like regular like block letters? Yeah, and then hard

2691
02:14:43,360 --> 02:14:46,120
Speaker 7: mode is like Russian cursive. Have you seen Russian cursive?

2692
02:14:46,400 --> 02:14:50,120
Speaker 5: Russian cursive like cursive Russian but incursive.

2693
02:14:49,800 --> 02:14:52,720
Speaker 7: Or like Russian cursive is crazy, but we don't.

2694
02:14:52,920 --> 02:14:53,800
Speaker 1: We don't read Russian.

2695
02:14:54,120 --> 02:14:56,520
Speaker 7: I know, but like I'm saying, like Russian.

2696
02:14:56,280 --> 02:14:58,160
Speaker 1: Curs like Russian cursive said, I.

2697
02:14:58,200 --> 02:15:01,000
Speaker 7: Can't read Russian, nor can I read Rushan cursive. I'm

2698
02:15:01,000 --> 02:15:02,520
Speaker 7: showing you a picture while you find your.

2699
02:15:02,480 --> 02:15:04,920
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh yeah, do you know what episode we're on?

2700
02:15:05,360 --> 02:15:07,840
Speaker 7: We are on a new episode. We just read four

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02:15:07,960 --> 02:15:08,360
Speaker 7: ninety four.

2702
02:15:08,440 --> 02:15:12,760
Speaker 4: Oh my god, whoa guys, episode five hundred, let's freaking

2703
02:15:12,840 --> 02:15:16,320
Speaker 4: go episode five hund actually episode five hundred because we've

2704
02:15:16,480 --> 02:15:18,560
Speaker 4: restarted our naming system so many times.

2705
02:15:18,640 --> 02:15:26,240
Speaker 1: But still cursive. Look at that. That looks like the same.

2706
02:15:26,640 --> 02:15:30,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, how did they read it? How do they read it?

2707
02:15:30,200 --> 02:15:31,200
Speaker 1: Tell us that's possible.

2708
02:15:31,280 --> 02:15:34,280
Speaker 7: Any Russians in the chat, tell me how you read

2709
02:15:34,280 --> 02:15:34,879
Speaker 7: your cursive?

2710
02:15:35,480 --> 02:15:38,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? Rightley, are you you got you warm? I am?

2711
02:15:38,560 --> 02:15:38,640
Speaker 2: Now?

2712
02:15:38,720 --> 02:15:40,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? All right, that's good. That's good.

2713
02:15:40,280 --> 02:15:42,160
Speaker 7: All right, all right, let's get into it.

2714
02:15:42,320 --> 02:15:44,320
Speaker 3: Do this thing that day?

2715
02:15:45,120 --> 02:15:47,480
Speaker 5: So uh am an a hole for waking my boyfriend

2716
02:15:47,560 --> 02:15:49,200
Speaker 5: up every time he wakes me up.

2717
02:15:50,120 --> 02:15:51,080
Speaker 1: It's a problem out here.

2718
02:15:51,920 --> 02:15:54,480
Speaker 4: This comes from Pixie Scheme Girl, who says, my twenty

2719
02:15:54,560 --> 02:15:57,720
Speaker 4: five female boyfriend twenty seven male has always been a

2720
02:15:57,840 --> 02:15:58,600
Speaker 4: terrible sleeper.

2721
02:15:58,720 --> 02:16:01,920
Speaker 5: Also, it's an oak Kop submitted story way.

2722
02:16:03,280 --> 02:16:07,600
Speaker 4: Shout out to Pixie Scheme Girl for sending into our

2723
02:16:07,640 --> 02:16:09,840
Speaker 4: slushal Kope show. If you guys want your story red,

2724
02:16:10,200 --> 02:16:12,720
Speaker 4: send an our susial Kop show and then send it

2725
02:16:12,840 --> 02:16:17,480
Speaker 4: to our discord whoa, Yeah, where they go in the

2726
02:16:17,520 --> 02:16:20,920
Speaker 4: discord Riley, they go to the reddit.

2727
02:16:22,920 --> 02:16:23,560
Speaker 1: What do you call that?

2728
02:16:23,800 --> 02:16:24,160
Speaker 3: Channel?

2729
02:16:24,480 --> 02:16:24,800
Speaker 1: Channel?

2730
02:16:25,120 --> 02:16:28,040
Speaker 4: The go go to the reddit, Shandel. Anyways, let's got

2731
02:16:28,080 --> 02:16:31,000
Speaker 4: back into the story. By the way, this literally sounds

2732
02:16:31,720 --> 02:16:33,160
Speaker 4: completely targeted at me.

2733
02:16:34,040 --> 02:16:36,520
Speaker 1: Wait, no targeting.

2734
02:16:36,560 --> 02:16:41,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, because I'm a terrible sleeper. Oh and my girlfriend

2735
02:16:41,240 --> 02:16:44,200
Speaker 4: is known to take up large real estate on the

2736
02:16:44,280 --> 02:16:45,240
Speaker 4: bed and I'm just.

2737
02:16:46,160 --> 02:16:48,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, I have a friend who I slept over at

2738
02:16:48,640 --> 02:16:50,680
Speaker 7: her house and she had like during the night. I

2739
02:16:50,720 --> 02:16:53,120
Speaker 7: woke up and all of the covers were off me

2740
02:16:53,200 --> 02:16:56,560
Speaker 7: and I was like, damn, I'm cold, and I tried

2741
02:16:56,600 --> 02:16:58,200
Speaker 7: to pull them back, but I didn't want to wake

2742
02:16:58,200 --> 02:16:58,480
Speaker 7: her up.

2743
02:16:58,560 --> 02:17:01,880
Speaker 1: So you're just like, yeah, it didn't work.

2744
02:17:02,440 --> 02:17:06,880
Speaker 5: You just gotta fight for it. For they ca they

2745
02:17:07,000 --> 02:17:07,880
Speaker 5: just get closer to you.

2746
02:17:08,480 --> 02:17:11,360
Speaker 1: They just cuddle. Yeah, it does lead to cuddles.

2747
02:17:11,440 --> 02:17:13,240
Speaker 5: Does mad hatter again?

2748
02:17:13,440 --> 02:17:19,080
Speaker 1: Mad? My gosh, you're freaking mad with ten, Lord of

2749
02:17:19,560 --> 02:17:21,720
Speaker 1: of madness.

2750
02:17:21,720 --> 02:17:25,840
Speaker 4: Lord of madness, I keep forgetting the name that you've requested,

2751
02:17:26,280 --> 02:17:29,879
Speaker 4: Mad hatter Gal, But my god, you have just you're

2752
02:17:29,920 --> 02:17:31,160
Speaker 4: just putting numbers up your.

2753
02:17:31,200 --> 02:17:33,080
Speaker 1: You are just putting numbers up there.

2754
02:17:33,600 --> 02:17:35,960
Speaker 4: You're the true queen of the stream. Sorry, Sophia, but

2755
02:17:36,560 --> 02:17:39,480
Speaker 4: matd hatter Gal is She's kind of taken the crowd.

2756
02:17:39,720 --> 02:17:40,560
Speaker 3: I can't even lie to you.

2757
02:17:41,440 --> 02:17:46,199
Speaker 4: And Beck Lovell, thanks for the three Australian dollars.

2758
02:17:46,360 --> 02:17:50,680
Speaker 1: Question mark and the sticker. All right, let's get back

2759
02:17:50,680 --> 02:17:51,080
Speaker 1: to the story.

2760
02:17:51,160 --> 02:17:54,280
Speaker 4: So, my twenty five female boyfriend twenty seven male has

2761
02:17:54,360 --> 02:17:56,560
Speaker 4: always been a terrible sleeper. He has a hard time

2762
02:17:56,600 --> 02:17:58,840
Speaker 4: sleeping through the night, and when he does, he has

2763
02:17:58,920 --> 02:18:02,640
Speaker 4: something that I can only described as night terrors. He

2764
02:18:03,920 --> 02:18:07,000
Speaker 4: all caps, tosses and turns so much that he's whacked

2765
02:18:07,040 --> 02:18:08,920
Speaker 4: me in the face and given.

2766
02:18:08,760 --> 02:18:09,760
Speaker 1: Me a nosebleed.

2767
02:18:10,000 --> 02:18:10,960
Speaker 3: Damn yo.

2768
02:18:11,760 --> 02:18:14,480
Speaker 1: He sleep walks around the apartment, turning lights on and

2769
02:18:14,600 --> 02:18:17,560
Speaker 1: sometimes eating in his sleep. This no longer feels targeted

2770
02:18:17,560 --> 02:18:22,480
Speaker 1: towards me. You don't do that, no, you know, all right?

2771
02:18:22,520 --> 02:18:23,960
Speaker 1: I was, I was. I was trying to fill the

2772
02:18:23,959 --> 02:18:24,320
Speaker 1: sent off.

2773
02:18:24,520 --> 02:18:25,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I knew it.

2774
02:18:27,240 --> 02:18:30,120
Speaker 4: And the worst thing is he often screams in his sleep,

2775
02:18:30,560 --> 02:18:32,960
Speaker 4: waking me up and making me think he's being intact

2776
02:18:33,040 --> 02:18:35,480
Speaker 4: or something. It's terrible that I think is.

2777
02:18:35,520 --> 02:18:38,440
Speaker 7: A doctor visit. I think at that point it's a

2778
02:18:38,520 --> 02:18:39,080
Speaker 7: doctor visit.

2779
02:18:39,720 --> 02:18:40,720
Speaker 1: Great points. Yeah.

2780
02:18:41,080 --> 02:18:44,640
Speaker 4: The issue is he doesn't believe he does this record

2781
02:18:44,959 --> 02:18:50,000
Speaker 4: easy easy, He's asleep through it and thinks I'm overreacting.

2782
02:18:50,320 --> 02:18:52,800
Speaker 4: I've tried videotaping him to show him, but he just

2783
02:18:53,000 --> 02:18:56,240
Speaker 4: laughs it off. But how do you laugh off video evidence?

2784
02:18:56,280 --> 02:18:56,440
Speaker 3: Sir?

2785
02:18:57,320 --> 02:18:58,240
Speaker 1: I've asked makes sense.

2786
02:18:58,520 --> 02:19:01,360
Speaker 4: I've asked him them to go see a doctor about it,

2787
02:19:02,240 --> 02:19:04,600
Speaker 4: if there's anything he can do about it. To be honest,

2788
02:19:04,680 --> 02:19:06,400
Speaker 4: I don't really know what could be done, but I

2789
02:19:06,480 --> 02:19:09,440
Speaker 4: feel like it couldn't hurt. But he doesn't think it's

2790
02:19:09,480 --> 02:19:12,640
Speaker 4: serious enough of a thing to seek medical attention.

2791
02:19:13,360 --> 02:19:16,160
Speaker 1: That that's that's annoying. Yeah, why not?

2792
02:19:16,320 --> 02:19:20,280
Speaker 7: Are you actively disrupting your partner's sleep? I think that's

2793
02:19:20,320 --> 02:19:22,119
Speaker 7: a and dying Riley's dying.

2794
02:19:22,360 --> 02:19:25,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Buddy, Riley's.

2795
02:19:25,640 --> 02:19:30,640
Speaker 7: Actively disrupting his stream by dying, do you.

2796
02:19:32,280 --> 02:19:39,280
Speaker 1: Okay? And terrible look pale? Maybe to do or something

2797
02:19:40,920 --> 02:19:43,520
Speaker 1: day and you're getting more and more pale.

2798
02:19:43,800 --> 02:19:44,879
Speaker 5: Oh, my gosh, I'm dying.

2799
02:19:45,120 --> 02:19:49,240
Speaker 1: Also, dude, you were ready fifty bucks? Get her done?

2800
02:19:49,520 --> 02:19:51,920
Speaker 1: And does that? What does that? Does that do? What

2801
02:19:52,000 --> 02:19:52,520
Speaker 1: I think it does?

2802
02:19:52,680 --> 02:19:54,240
Speaker 3: Yeah? It does? Yeah?

2803
02:19:54,600 --> 02:20:00,480
Speaker 4: More round of stories and minutes of thirty and reading

2804
02:20:00,600 --> 02:20:03,480
Speaker 4: and commentary and don't know readings.

2805
02:20:03,800 --> 02:20:06,520
Speaker 7: I also have an okay story time after this story

2806
02:20:06,640 --> 02:20:07,039
Speaker 7: is complete.

2807
02:20:07,080 --> 02:20:08,800
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh about the comedy show.

2808
02:20:09,240 --> 02:20:12,240
Speaker 7: No, but that is a good story. But that's not

2809
02:20:12,360 --> 02:20:12,760
Speaker 7: this story.

2810
02:20:13,040 --> 02:20:15,520
Speaker 1: Okay, great, Well, I'm excited. Let's keep it going. Yeah,

2811
02:20:15,600 --> 02:20:19,120
Speaker 1: let's keep it rolling. So here's why I guess I

2812
02:20:19,320 --> 02:20:20,240
Speaker 1: might be the a hole.

2813
02:20:20,879 --> 02:20:23,280
Speaker 4: Every time he gets on and starts turning on the lights,

2814
02:20:24,040 --> 02:20:26,680
Speaker 4: I wait for him to settle back in and turn

2815
02:20:26,800 --> 02:20:30,440
Speaker 4: them on and off until he wakes up. Every time

2816
02:20:30,600 --> 02:20:33,360
Speaker 4: he wakes up by screaming, I wait for him to

2817
02:20:33,400 --> 02:20:36,600
Speaker 4: calm down, Then I, in response, begin screaming my head

2818
02:20:36,640 --> 02:20:37,840
Speaker 4: off until he wakes up.

2819
02:20:38,640 --> 02:20:39,680
Speaker 1: Oh.

2820
02:20:40,800 --> 02:20:43,119
Speaker 4: It's been going on for about a week, and he's

2821
02:20:43,160 --> 02:20:46,000
Speaker 4: really upset because he says I'm ruining his good night's sleep.

2822
02:20:46,320 --> 02:20:48,360
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to make him see how horrible and

2823
02:20:48,440 --> 02:20:52,199
Speaker 4: disruptive the whole thing is. But I'm so sleep deprived

2824
02:20:52,320 --> 02:20:54,879
Speaker 4: and just really need him to take my concerns seriously,

2825
02:20:55,480 --> 02:20:57,480
Speaker 4: and I truly have no idea how else to make

2826
02:20:57,560 --> 02:21:01,800
Speaker 4: him acknowledge this issue. Am I also, does anyone have

2827
02:21:01,879 --> 02:21:06,080
Speaker 4: any recommendations because the ibags are real and they ain't designer.

2828
02:21:06,840 --> 02:21:09,520
Speaker 1: Okay, that's funny. I don't think this is the best solution.

2829
02:21:10,280 --> 02:21:12,920
Speaker 7: However, I think severely sleep deprived.

2830
02:21:13,200 --> 02:21:15,640
Speaker 1: Yes, I think that might be contributing to this.

2831
02:21:16,280 --> 02:21:16,400
Speaker 6: Oh.

2832
02:21:16,520 --> 02:21:20,840
Speaker 4: True, her decision made a deteriorated Also, there's a quick edit.

2833
02:21:21,000 --> 02:21:22,320
Speaker 4: Oh oh, there's a edit end and update.

2834
02:21:22,480 --> 02:21:23,440
Speaker 1: Yea quick edit.

2835
02:21:23,640 --> 02:21:26,400
Speaker 4: The sleep terror, screaming thrashing your set have been going

2836
02:21:26,480 --> 02:21:29,280
Speaker 4: on for over a year. I started being petty about

2837
02:21:29,280 --> 02:21:31,080
Speaker 4: a week ago. And yes, I know it's petty, but

2838
02:21:31,120 --> 02:21:33,080
Speaker 4: I'm at the end of my rope after not sleeping

2839
02:21:33,360 --> 02:21:37,680
Speaker 4: for more than two hours consecutively in almost thirteen months.

2840
02:21:37,760 --> 02:21:38,920
Speaker 1: I think I would do this in that wee.

2841
02:21:39,160 --> 02:21:39,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2842
02:21:40,360 --> 02:21:43,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think I think is severely sleep deprived.

2843
02:21:43,640 --> 02:21:43,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2844
02:21:44,520 --> 02:21:47,440
Speaker 4: Only adding this because some commenters seem unclear and wanted

2845
02:21:47,440 --> 02:21:48,240
Speaker 4: to add context.

2846
02:21:48,480 --> 02:21:50,800
Speaker 1: Yes, I know it's petty. I'm just at my wits

2847
02:21:50,920 --> 02:21:52,120
Speaker 1: end and I don't know what to do.

2848
02:21:52,520 --> 02:21:55,040
Speaker 4: Also, we have a studio apartment, so at the current moment,

2849
02:21:55,160 --> 02:21:58,280
Speaker 4: sleeping in a separate room is not an option. There

2850
02:21:58,400 --> 02:22:01,960
Speaker 4: is an update, We're gonna eat it. But uh, let's

2851
02:22:02,040 --> 02:22:05,400
Speaker 4: let's break it down a little further. So breaking down so, yeah,

2852
02:22:05,520 --> 02:22:08,480
Speaker 4: real quick, is the boyfriend the a whole?

2853
02:22:09,640 --> 02:22:09,760
Speaker 3: Uh?

2854
02:22:10,080 --> 02:22:12,480
Speaker 1: Yeah? For not for not seeking out?

2855
02:22:14,280 --> 02:22:16,920
Speaker 7: Yeah, for not addressing the problem that is clearly affecting

2856
02:22:17,280 --> 02:22:17,800
Speaker 7: his partner.

2857
02:22:17,959 --> 02:22:22,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree? Is oh Pete the a hole?

2858
02:22:23,680 --> 02:22:31,000
Speaker 7: I am hesitant to say a hole because I think

2859
02:22:31,080 --> 02:22:34,120
Speaker 7: there I think OP is severely sleep derived, and I

2860
02:22:34,200 --> 02:22:38,280
Speaker 7: think that this is not the correct solution. But I

2861
02:22:38,400 --> 02:22:41,160
Speaker 7: think that it's hard to think of correct solutions when

2862
02:22:41,200 --> 02:22:41,920
Speaker 7: you're that tired.

2863
02:22:42,120 --> 02:22:48,320
Speaker 4: Honestly, I think, like, like, uh, even this sleep deprivation aside,

2864
02:22:48,360 --> 02:22:53,039
Speaker 4: which is like very real, I would I would maybe

2865
02:22:53,120 --> 02:22:55,680
Speaker 4: say to this person, like I literally don't even know,

2866
02:22:56,080 --> 02:23:00,280
Speaker 4: like you're my partner, like you should like things that

2867
02:23:00,280 --> 02:23:03,120
Speaker 4: are important to the other should be important to the

2868
02:23:03,800 --> 02:23:05,760
Speaker 4: important to one should be important to the other partner

2869
02:23:06,040 --> 02:23:08,680
Speaker 4: because they're important to Yeah, the.

2870
02:23:09,080 --> 02:23:10,320
Speaker 1: Main that's what I think.

2871
02:23:10,360 --> 02:23:12,120
Speaker 7: I think that the boyfriend is the main ale.

2872
02:23:12,720 --> 02:23:12,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2873
02:23:12,959 --> 02:23:15,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't think OP is necessarily an a hole. Yeah,

2874
02:23:15,920 --> 02:23:18,000
Speaker 7: because I get pretty grumpy when I don't sleep.

2875
02:23:18,080 --> 02:23:23,640
Speaker 4: And honestly, maybe Opie says, and I was like, yeah, yeah,

2876
02:23:24,120 --> 02:23:24,480
Speaker 4: I need.

2877
02:23:26,040 --> 02:23:31,560
Speaker 1: I agree. This whole morning, I didn't.

2878
02:23:31,320 --> 02:23:35,880
Speaker 7: Do anything this morning. I got a good amount of

2879
02:23:35,920 --> 02:23:36,520
Speaker 7: sleep this morning.

2880
02:23:36,640 --> 02:23:37,000
Speaker 1: Shots.

2881
02:23:38,120 --> 02:23:41,720
Speaker 4: But I think if if op was like, hey, honestly,

2882
02:23:42,200 --> 02:23:44,080
Speaker 4: I'm literally just gonna start doing what you do in

2883
02:23:44,120 --> 02:23:46,440
Speaker 4: your sleep so you see how severe it is, not

2884
02:23:46,600 --> 02:23:47,560
Speaker 4: the ale yeah exactly.

2885
02:23:47,600 --> 02:23:49,039
Speaker 1: I think if there was a prep.

2886
02:23:49,240 --> 02:23:52,360
Speaker 4: Straight up, like a warning, yeah, and and even now like, okay,

2887
02:23:52,400 --> 02:23:54,600
Speaker 4: maybe I should have warned you, but now you know

2888
02:23:55,400 --> 02:23:57,560
Speaker 4: and like you say, it's not serious, but like you're

2889
02:23:57,560 --> 02:24:00,240
Speaker 4: annoyed when I literally do the exact same thing, and

2890
02:24:00,320 --> 02:24:03,680
Speaker 4: I totally know it's you can't help it naturally in

2891
02:24:03,800 --> 02:24:04,600
Speaker 4: your current state.

2892
02:24:04,879 --> 02:24:07,960
Speaker 1: But let's do something, yeah, like like let's let's try

2893
02:24:08,160 --> 02:24:10,840
Speaker 1: like something, yeah, something Yeah.

2894
02:24:11,000 --> 02:24:14,640
Speaker 7: I think an alternative thing would be if she said, hey,

2895
02:24:15,320 --> 02:24:18,400
Speaker 7: I'm I'm gonna stay somewhere else until you sort this out.

2896
02:24:19,040 --> 02:24:21,080
Speaker 7: If that is an option. Sometimes people don't have that,

2897
02:24:21,320 --> 02:24:23,960
Speaker 7: you know, a bit like person available to sleep with

2898
02:24:24,160 --> 02:24:26,560
Speaker 7: or a friend available. But if you had that option

2899
02:24:26,640 --> 02:24:28,560
Speaker 7: where you could sleep somewhere else for like a night

2900
02:24:28,640 --> 02:24:33,119
Speaker 7: or two, that might be a yeah, just be like, hey,

2901
02:24:33,280 --> 02:24:34,320
Speaker 7: until you sort this out.

2902
02:24:35,120 --> 02:24:36,400
Speaker 1: I will not supero. Yeah, op Be.

2903
02:24:36,440 --> 02:24:38,840
Speaker 4: Said that they're in a studio, so sleeping in another

2904
02:24:38,959 --> 02:24:42,320
Speaker 4: room isn't an option. But maybe maybe like literally calling

2905
02:24:42,400 --> 02:24:45,840
Speaker 4: up your your homegirl and like I just need one.

2906
02:24:46,200 --> 02:24:49,560
Speaker 7: Night and then maybe I'll have like a good brain

2907
02:24:49,640 --> 02:24:50,960
Speaker 7: faculty to sort this out.

2908
02:24:51,120 --> 02:24:54,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, bro, getting getting a full night sleep after sleeping

2909
02:24:54,879 --> 02:24:58,440
Speaker 4: two hours or getting that disrupted would probably feel so good.

2910
02:24:58,680 --> 02:25:03,320
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, are you eating John Vanola?

2911
02:25:04,040 --> 02:25:05,000
Speaker 5: What are you eating right now?

2912
02:25:05,280 --> 02:25:05,680
Speaker 1: Vanola?

2913
02:25:06,080 --> 02:25:08,360
Speaker 4: The worst thing you could possibly eat while talking in

2914
02:25:08,400 --> 02:25:10,360
Speaker 4: a mic on a podcast. That's what I thought, But

2915
02:25:10,440 --> 02:25:12,199
Speaker 4: I chewed it and I put Guys.

2916
02:25:12,120 --> 02:25:14,320
Speaker 1: Did you hear me chewing? I didn't even hear it?

2917
02:25:15,360 --> 02:25:17,119
Speaker 1: Did you hear me chewing? I put? I put the mic?

2918
02:25:17,160 --> 02:25:17,480
Speaker 1: I did this.

2919
02:25:20,240 --> 02:25:22,480
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, don't lead by example because some people

2920
02:25:22,800 --> 02:25:24,080
Speaker 5: like to chew on stream.

2921
02:25:24,400 --> 02:25:28,120
Speaker 1: Whoa, I'm hungry boy. Wow, I finished my teaka masala.

2922
02:25:28,200 --> 02:25:31,520
Speaker 1: Now I don't know what to do ye anyways, WiFi,

2923
02:25:32,040 --> 02:25:36,039
Speaker 1: let's get back into the update. Oh yeah, also, I'm

2924
02:25:36,080 --> 02:25:37,800
Speaker 1: just on my I give up on the wi fi

2925
02:25:38,320 --> 02:25:39,480
Speaker 1: when you get an extended.

2926
02:25:39,160 --> 02:25:42,280
Speaker 4: Anyways, Hi everyone, it's me again, the girl who was

2927
02:25:42,320 --> 02:25:45,360
Speaker 4: waking her boyfriend not by screaming because he won't go

2928
02:25:45,400 --> 02:25:45,879
Speaker 4: to a doctor.

2929
02:25:45,920 --> 02:25:49,480
Speaker 1: First night tars, but with an update, I am not

2930
02:25:49,560 --> 02:25:50,199
Speaker 1: like I was before.

2931
02:25:50,520 --> 02:25:52,320
Speaker 4: In my last post, I told you all about my

2932
02:25:52,400 --> 02:25:55,160
Speaker 4: boyfriend of six years living together for three has been

2933
02:25:55,240 --> 02:25:57,880
Speaker 4: having night terrors, sleepwalking and screaming in a sleep for

2934
02:25:57,959 --> 02:26:01,400
Speaker 4: the past thirteen months. Also super quick, Like I feel

2935
02:26:01,440 --> 02:26:03,840
Speaker 4: like he maybe has some like unaddressed like traumas that.

2936
02:26:04,040 --> 02:26:07,240
Speaker 7: Like it could be sometimes it is like a PTSD thing.

2937
02:26:07,360 --> 02:26:08,280
Speaker 1: Yeah like that.

2938
02:26:08,400 --> 02:26:10,840
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh man, I want you to get some

2939
02:26:11,000 --> 02:26:12,320
Speaker 5: help and some some support.

2940
02:26:13,640 --> 02:26:15,720
Speaker 4: But back to the story, despite trying to find a solution,

2941
02:26:15,959 --> 02:26:18,080
Speaker 4: nothing would work and he refused to see a doctor

2942
02:26:18,080 --> 02:26:20,720
Speaker 4: about it. He also told me I was overreacting and

2943
02:26:20,879 --> 02:26:23,360
Speaker 4: that someone screaming in their sleep isn't that bad?

2944
02:26:24,680 --> 02:26:29,480
Speaker 1: Terrifying what you're talking about. Our neighbors are gonna hate

2945
02:26:29,560 --> 02:26:35,840
Speaker 1: us a big deal. Yeah, fight me, Come on, come

2946
02:26:35,920 --> 02:26:36,440
Speaker 1: on the show.

2947
02:26:39,000 --> 02:26:41,280
Speaker 7: The police just comes in and goes, sorry, we've been

2948
02:26:41,280 --> 02:26:42,480
Speaker 7: getting noise complaints.

2949
02:26:43,480 --> 02:26:45,720
Speaker 4: Like sorry, we have the greatest show on earth and

2950
02:26:45,800 --> 02:26:48,000
Speaker 4: we have to like do dope stuff.

2951
02:26:48,160 --> 02:26:49,039
Speaker 1: Your neighbors keep.

2952
02:26:48,920 --> 02:26:50,879
Speaker 7: Saying you're talking about relationships.

2953
02:26:51,160 --> 02:26:54,080
Speaker 4: Uh, you know, Officer, I have committed a crime of

2954
02:26:54,200 --> 02:26:55,640
Speaker 4: helping create the greatest show on Earth.

2955
02:26:55,879 --> 02:26:59,039
Speaker 1: And he's like, oh watch, lock me away, lock me up,

2956
02:26:59,200 --> 02:27:03,640
Speaker 1: lock me freaking way, bro, okay, anyway, shoot be doob dooo.

2957
02:27:05,080 --> 02:27:05,200
Speaker 3: Uh.

2958
02:27:05,520 --> 02:27:07,880
Speaker 4: He was less than appreciative, and I came here for help.

2959
02:27:08,360 --> 02:27:10,760
Speaker 4: The night before I left, I sat my boyfriend down

2960
02:27:10,800 --> 02:27:12,840
Speaker 4: and told him that I couldn't continue in the same

2961
02:27:12,959 --> 02:27:15,440
Speaker 4: manner that we had been. I need to sleep. I

2962
02:27:15,640 --> 02:27:18,800
Speaker 4: don't want to resent him. I'm sure he doesn't want

2963
02:27:18,879 --> 02:27:21,280
Speaker 4: to be woken up by me anymore, and I didn't

2964
02:27:21,280 --> 02:27:23,879
Speaker 4: want to have this conversation anymore. Thirteen months too long.

2965
02:27:26,240 --> 02:27:27,720
Speaker 4: I told him I was at the end of my

2966
02:27:27,840 --> 02:27:29,680
Speaker 4: rope and he was either going to take it seriously

2967
02:27:29,920 --> 02:27:31,800
Speaker 4: or one of us was moving out.

2968
02:27:32,080 --> 02:27:32,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2969
02:27:32,800 --> 02:27:34,560
Speaker 7: I think that's a good I think that would be

2970
02:27:34,720 --> 02:27:35,400
Speaker 7: my original.

2971
02:27:39,480 --> 02:27:40,760
Speaker 1: I was racked the next line.

2972
02:27:41,520 --> 02:27:44,920
Speaker 4: I tried to sleep in the bath of that now bro,

2973
02:27:46,640 --> 02:27:48,840
Speaker 4: but he wouldn't let me, and instead he slept on

2974
02:27:48,879 --> 02:27:49,160
Speaker 4: the couch.

2975
02:27:49,240 --> 02:27:51,480
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, now, wait, but they live.

2976
02:27:51,360 --> 02:27:54,840
Speaker 7: In a studio apartment. Yeah, he's probably still waking.

2977
02:27:55,240 --> 02:27:57,920
Speaker 1: They're still like five feet away. He can't physically hit

2978
02:28:00,160 --> 02:28:04,199
Speaker 1: that's true. It's probably better than the alternative. He did

2979
02:28:04,400 --> 02:28:04,800
Speaker 1: wake me.

2980
02:28:04,920 --> 02:28:07,560
Speaker 4: Up, but you'll be happy to know I just got

2981
02:28:07,640 --> 02:28:09,160
Speaker 4: up and went for a walk, and when I came

2982
02:28:09,240 --> 02:28:10,440
Speaker 4: back he seems settled down.

2983
02:28:11,840 --> 02:28:12,120
Speaker 1: Whatever.

2984
02:28:12,320 --> 02:28:14,959
Speaker 4: Anyways, I went for a workship for this past weekend,

2985
02:28:15,120 --> 02:28:18,440
Speaker 4: and for the first time in a long time, I

2986
02:28:18,560 --> 02:28:22,880
Speaker 4: got a really freakin good night's restler. Yes, I ended

2987
02:28:22,920 --> 02:28:25,080
Speaker 4: up extending my trip a day to enjoy myself and

2988
02:28:25,240 --> 02:28:25,840
Speaker 4: just relax.

2989
02:28:26,000 --> 02:28:27,400
Speaker 1: Girl, You've deserve.

2990
02:28:29,440 --> 02:28:32,000
Speaker 4: Even because even though some of you think I'm the

2991
02:28:32,080 --> 02:28:34,280
Speaker 4: a hole, I just really needed it after all the

2992
02:28:34,360 --> 02:28:35,720
Speaker 4: stress this has been causing me.

2993
02:28:36,360 --> 02:28:39,240
Speaker 5: Well, I got back and we were able to have

2994
02:28:39,360 --> 02:28:40,880
Speaker 5: a conversation more in depth about it.

2995
02:28:41,360 --> 02:28:44,160
Speaker 4: While I was gone, he had an episode I'm not

2996
02:28:44,320 --> 02:28:46,640
Speaker 4: sure if the episode is the right word, and he

2997
02:28:46,760 --> 02:28:47,280
Speaker 4: woke up.

2998
02:28:47,440 --> 02:28:50,760
Speaker 1: In the morning in the lobby of our building.

2999
02:28:52,440 --> 02:28:55,320
Speaker 4: He's he had never slept walked out of our apartment

3000
02:28:55,600 --> 02:28:58,760
Speaker 4: out of our apartment before, and it really freaked him out,

3001
02:28:59,040 --> 02:29:03,240
Speaker 4: but also woke him up to the severity, unintended maybe

3002
02:29:03,600 --> 02:29:06,920
Speaker 4: of the situation and made him realize that I wasn't overreacting.

3003
02:29:07,160 --> 02:29:09,920
Speaker 4: I showed him all of your comments, mostly the supportive ones,

3004
02:29:10,160 --> 02:29:11,760
Speaker 4: but we had a good laugh at some of the others.

3005
02:29:12,160 --> 02:29:14,040
Speaker 4: I had the chance to tell him how deeply this

3006
02:29:14,200 --> 02:29:16,840
Speaker 4: was affecting me, that I was constantly worried about him,

3007
02:29:16,920 --> 02:29:19,560
Speaker 4: that it was impacting my ability to function due to

3008
02:29:19,680 --> 02:29:22,600
Speaker 4: lack of sleep, that was affecting my productivity throughout the day,

3009
02:29:22,959 --> 02:29:25,279
Speaker 4: that thinking about it was a constant factor of stress

3010
02:29:25,320 --> 02:29:29,360
Speaker 4: in my life. You got going on, Here we go, dude,

3011
02:29:29,440 --> 02:29:31,200
Speaker 4: kick it up, Kick it up. Best socks I've ever

3012
02:29:31,240 --> 02:29:31,760
Speaker 4: seen you wear.

3013
02:29:32,200 --> 02:29:35,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, get up, gick get up. Oh and get up, dude,

3014
02:29:35,040 --> 02:29:38,800
Speaker 1: look it the way up. There we go. Sam's going

3015
02:29:38,840 --> 02:29:42,280
Speaker 1: to break our producer. Oh my god, boom, there we go.

3016
02:29:42,520 --> 02:29:44,760
Speaker 1: I like that. We did a little old foot five lists,

3017
02:29:44,959 --> 02:29:46,760
Speaker 1: so SOT game is on top today.

3018
02:29:46,760 --> 02:29:50,080
Speaker 4: But yeah, I think this is a great way to

3019
02:29:50,240 --> 02:29:52,560
Speaker 4: go after the lawyer because at that point it's almost

3020
02:29:52,560 --> 02:29:53,119
Speaker 4: self protection.

3021
02:29:53,240 --> 02:29:53,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, in a way.

3022
02:29:53,720 --> 02:29:57,240
Speaker 2: And also you've wasted Opie's time and energy, and again,

3023
02:29:57,720 --> 02:30:00,880
Speaker 2: don't forget about the emotional damage. Come on, but let's

3024
02:30:00,920 --> 02:30:04,920
Speaker 2: get into some comments from uh Opie. So, without sounding mean,

3025
02:30:05,080 --> 02:30:08,160
Speaker 2: she sounds very unwell. She genuinely thought that this was

3026
02:30:08,320 --> 02:30:12,440
Speaker 2: the best method to handle the situation. Unfortunately, in the end,

3027
02:30:12,520 --> 02:30:15,320
Speaker 2: she screwed herself over the suit has been dismissed, and

3028
02:30:15,440 --> 02:30:18,439
Speaker 2: now she'll most likely be reported to the former employer

3029
02:30:18,879 --> 02:30:23,880
Speaker 2: for stealing private records. Plus, my uncle has no responsibility

3030
02:30:23,920 --> 02:30:26,200
Speaker 2: for this kid. He doesn't even have a relationship with

3031
02:30:26,440 --> 02:30:32,879
Speaker 2: his son nowadays since he's incarcerated for life. Oh, her

3032
02:30:32,959 --> 02:30:35,400
Speaker 2: best option at this point is to pursue praternity with

3033
02:30:35,520 --> 02:30:39,920
Speaker 2: a violent, convicted felon that isn't even allowed around children.

3034
02:30:40,440 --> 02:30:42,640
Speaker 2: I feel for her, but I hope she gets any

3035
02:30:42,680 --> 02:30:45,920
Speaker 2: help she needs and things get better for her and

3036
02:30:46,040 --> 02:30:48,920
Speaker 2: her kid. And then another comment on hoping the woman

3037
02:30:48,959 --> 02:30:50,800
Speaker 2: gets help from what I found out today, she has

3038
02:30:50,879 --> 02:30:54,360
Speaker 2: plenty of family and was with someone up until right

3039
02:30:54,440 --> 02:30:57,480
Speaker 2: before she lost her job. Recently, the other dude has

3040
02:30:57,520 --> 02:31:00,080
Speaker 2: helped raise a kid and still plans to be in

3041
02:31:00,120 --> 02:31:03,760
Speaker 2: the kids' lives, but he has no legal responsibilities. She

3042
02:31:03,879 --> 02:31:06,280
Speaker 2: got desperate and decided this was the best method. It's

3043
02:31:06,320 --> 02:31:08,200
Speaker 2: just kind of a mess of a situation and comes

3044
02:31:08,280 --> 02:31:11,880
Speaker 2: down to her needing help that even finances can't provide.

3045
02:31:12,400 --> 02:31:16,199
Speaker 2: There's also the issue of legal repercussions since she openly

3046
02:31:16,320 --> 02:31:20,040
Speaker 2: admitted to stealing private documents and providing her attorney with

3047
02:31:20,200 --> 02:31:25,000
Speaker 2: them on false pretenses, and also lawyer fees.

3048
02:31:25,400 --> 02:31:25,520
Speaker 1: Oh.

3049
02:31:25,920 --> 02:31:28,240
Speaker 2: I mean, it's like she's not like she probably was

3050
02:31:28,320 --> 02:31:31,440
Speaker 2: expecting maybe to like get something out of winning, because

3051
02:31:31,640 --> 02:31:35,320
Speaker 2: I know sometimes these lawyers do things on like they

3052
02:31:35,360 --> 02:31:36,600
Speaker 2: don't charge until.

3053
02:31:37,040 --> 02:31:39,320
Speaker 1: Like the case is one or whatever or lost or

3054
02:31:39,400 --> 02:31:41,680
Speaker 1: no yeah or lost yet. But hopefully it's one of

3055
02:31:41,720 --> 02:31:44,240
Speaker 1: those situations that it's like on contingency.

3056
02:31:44,840 --> 02:31:48,040
Speaker 4: You know, would really funny is if the lawyer was like, no,

3057
02:31:48,280 --> 02:31:50,320
Speaker 4: we're only going to do it if you lose, it'll

3058
02:31:50,360 --> 02:31:53,120
Speaker 4: be free, you know, so like I only if you

3059
02:31:53,160 --> 02:31:54,039
Speaker 4: went there.

3060
02:31:53,760 --> 02:31:56,320
Speaker 2: Like god, yeah, it's like, why did I waste all

3061
02:31:56,360 --> 02:31:58,600
Speaker 2: this time? Which is like a lot of lawyers work

3062
02:31:58,640 --> 02:32:01,160
Speaker 2: on contingency. Are Gahbors that we met the other day.

3063
02:32:01,240 --> 02:32:04,200
Speaker 2: They are in personal injury lawyers that work in contingency,

3064
02:32:04,280 --> 02:32:07,959
Speaker 2: so they only make money if you win. Exactly, so exactly,

3065
02:32:08,320 --> 02:32:11,440
Speaker 2: let's hope that she isn't financially ruined, or maybe maybe

3066
02:32:11,520 --> 02:32:13,280
Speaker 2: let's hope that she is. Maybe she needs to learn

3067
02:32:13,280 --> 02:32:15,320
Speaker 2: her lesson. I don't know, do you want her to

3068
02:32:15,360 --> 02:32:19,240
Speaker 2: be financially ruined? Put your answers in the comments below.

3069
02:32:19,120 --> 02:32:21,800
Speaker 1: Let us know. I'm personally I do it was this

3070
02:32:22,000 --> 02:32:24,360
Speaker 1: was wild, but I feel for the mother just trying

3071
02:32:24,360 --> 02:32:26,000
Speaker 1: to get some for a kid, but totally.

3072
02:32:26,120 --> 02:32:27,720
Speaker 2: I mean, like she's got to do what a mother's

3073
02:32:27,760 --> 02:32:30,680
Speaker 2: got to do, but it sounds like she maybe isn't

3074
02:32:30,720 --> 02:32:32,800
Speaker 2: being the best parent right now.

3075
02:32:33,160 --> 02:32:36,280
Speaker 1: It's very I'm very curious to hear what y'all have

3076
02:32:36,320 --> 02:32:37,480
Speaker 1: to say on this one. Yeah, for sure.

3077
02:32:37,680 --> 02:32:40,440
Speaker 2: And on that note of bad parents, I need to

3078
02:32:40,480 --> 02:32:43,320
Speaker 2: show you, guys a video that I saw of the

3079
02:32:43,720 --> 02:32:48,240
Speaker 2: worst parenting ever a parent basically raising little douches. If

3080
02:32:48,280 --> 02:32:53,680
Speaker 2: you look up worse parents Reddit vaping. Oh, is this

3081
02:32:53,920 --> 02:32:56,680
Speaker 2: what I think it's going to be? That is what

3082
02:32:57,160 --> 02:32:58,280
Speaker 2: I'm afraid of.

3083
02:32:58,920 --> 02:33:03,640
Speaker 1: This one and the word freaching one. Nah, let's watch it.

3084
02:33:04,080 --> 02:33:08,160
Speaker 1: A kid with a basketball just oh my god, Oh

3085
02:33:08,360 --> 02:33:14,840
Speaker 1: my god, that is awful. Literally put the child in

3086
02:33:15,000 --> 02:33:16,279
Speaker 1: complete blackface.

3087
02:33:16,560 --> 02:33:21,360
Speaker 4: Oh my god, and the kid like what this is

3088
02:33:21,440 --> 02:33:24,480
Speaker 4: the like the kid can't do anything? Or the kid's

3089
02:33:24,480 --> 02:33:24,760
Speaker 4: a kid?

3090
02:33:24,840 --> 02:33:30,280
Speaker 1: You know what is wrong with those parents? Jesus Christ? Oh,

3091
02:33:30,360 --> 02:33:31,840
Speaker 1: here we go. I found it.

3092
02:33:32,480 --> 02:33:35,359
Speaker 2: Okay, So I saw this video of just like horrible,

3093
02:33:35,480 --> 02:33:38,360
Speaker 2: horrible parents, and I wanted to show you guys and

3094
02:33:39,400 --> 02:33:46,560
Speaker 2: get your reactions. Here we go, uh to, Oh my gosh,

3095
02:33:47,080 --> 02:33:49,560
Speaker 2: do you look at the little chains on those. So

3096
02:33:49,720 --> 02:33:51,959
Speaker 2: there's like two kids, like I mean three and four

3097
02:33:52,959 --> 02:33:55,800
Speaker 2: Faye frosted tips and vaping frosted tips.

3098
02:33:56,920 --> 02:34:01,280
Speaker 4: One kid has a goal chain, a gold chain, a

3099
02:34:01,720 --> 02:34:04,080
Speaker 4: tank like a Jersey Shore tank top like a Jersey

3100
02:34:04,120 --> 02:34:06,640
Speaker 4: Shore fit basically like the Guido chain.

3101
02:34:06,879 --> 02:34:10,119
Speaker 1: And it looks like they have like faked hands. Dude,

3102
02:34:10,840 --> 02:34:11,440
Speaker 1: so bad.

3103
02:34:12,160 --> 02:34:15,120
Speaker 5: A nicotine addiction that like the age of insane.

3104
02:34:15,160 --> 02:34:16,959
Speaker 2: Have you ever seen that video of like the baby

3105
02:34:17,200 --> 02:34:21,160
Speaker 2: that's just like chain smoking cigarettes? No, look up, Riley,

3106
02:34:21,200 --> 02:34:23,000
Speaker 2: look up baby chain smoking cigarette.

3107
02:34:23,720 --> 02:34:26,280
Speaker 1: We're getting all of the terrible parenting videos in today,

3108
02:34:26,360 --> 02:34:28,680
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. It's like it's like this and he's

3109
02:34:28,760 --> 02:34:31,560
Speaker 1: like super fat. Yeah, Indonesian.

3110
02:35:00,080 --> 02:36:57,760
Speaker 3: As I don't want to drink it back.

3111
02:36:57,959 --> 02:37:01,280
Speaker 5: Hey, welcome back everyone, Sorry, and uh cut out?

3112
02:37:01,360 --> 02:37:02,120
Speaker 1: Can you guys hear us?

3113
02:37:03,320 --> 02:37:05,840
Speaker 5: Also, would you guys think of the of the the

3114
02:37:05,959 --> 02:37:07,320
Speaker 5: thing I did that today?

3115
02:37:08,000 --> 02:37:10,840
Speaker 4: If if we ever go out again, which which we've

3116
02:37:10,920 --> 02:37:13,800
Speaker 4: done in the studio a few times, we will literally

3117
02:37:14,800 --> 02:37:16,840
Speaker 4: you won't have to like go hunting for like the

3118
02:37:16,920 --> 02:37:22,720
Speaker 4: next stream. You can enjoy our ghosts past selves, the

3119
02:37:22,840 --> 02:37:26,640
Speaker 4: ghosts of our people's passing, of our sins.

3120
02:37:27,280 --> 02:37:34,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, yourself dude, my ghost is Gucci. What have you done, Sophia, Yeah, yeah,

3121
02:37:34,520 --> 02:37:35,200
Speaker 5: I can tell.

3122
02:37:35,320 --> 02:37:37,160
Speaker 1: Do you have anything do you want to confess? I

3123
02:37:37,280 --> 02:37:43,600
Speaker 1: have some bones in my closet. That's terrifying. Anyhow, Where

3124
02:37:43,640 --> 02:37:45,840
Speaker 1: were you? Where is it? Well?

3125
02:37:45,879 --> 02:37:49,480
Speaker 4: I got yeah, where as well? I got I got

3126
02:37:49,560 --> 02:37:58,360
Speaker 4: it well, I got well. Well, I got back and

3127
02:37:58,480 --> 02:38:00,520
Speaker 4: we were able to have a conversation more in depth

3128
02:38:00,520 --> 02:38:02,920
Speaker 4: about it. While I was gone, he had an episode

3129
02:38:02,959 --> 02:38:04,680
Speaker 4: I'm not sure if episode is the right word, and

3130
02:38:04,720 --> 02:38:06,760
Speaker 4: he woke up in the morning in the lobby of

3131
02:38:06,840 --> 02:38:09,080
Speaker 4: our building. He had never slept walked out of our

3132
02:38:09,080 --> 02:38:11,000
Speaker 4: apartment before, and it really freaked him out. But it

3133
02:38:11,080 --> 02:38:13,279
Speaker 4: also woke him up to the severity of the situation

3134
02:38:13,720 --> 02:38:16,520
Speaker 4: and made him realize that I wasn't overreacting. I showed

3135
02:38:16,560 --> 02:38:18,640
Speaker 4: him all of your comments, mostly the supportive ones, and

3136
02:38:18,720 --> 02:38:20,880
Speaker 4: we had a good laugh at some of the others.

3137
02:38:21,200 --> 02:38:22,760
Speaker 4: I had a chance to tell him how deeply this

3138
02:38:22,920 --> 02:38:25,360
Speaker 4: was affecting me, that I was constantly worried about him,

3139
02:38:26,160 --> 02:38:29,200
Speaker 4: that that was impacting my ability to function due to

3140
02:38:29,320 --> 02:38:31,840
Speaker 4: lack of sleep, that I was affecting my productivity throughout

3141
02:38:31,879 --> 02:38:34,720
Speaker 4: the day, that thinking about it was a constant factor

3142
02:38:34,760 --> 02:38:36,720
Speaker 4: of stress in my life that for a while I

3143
02:38:36,840 --> 02:38:39,320
Speaker 4: was afraid to fall asleep next to him because I

3144
02:38:39,440 --> 02:38:42,560
Speaker 4: was scared of being hurt. He broke down and started

3145
02:38:42,600 --> 02:38:44,840
Speaker 4: crying and told me what it was really about.

3146
02:38:45,959 --> 02:38:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, I don't know, I'm yeah, I I feel

3147
02:38:51,560 --> 02:38:52,360
Speaker 1: like he should have seen this.

3148
02:38:53,400 --> 02:38:55,000
Speaker 7: I should have Yeah, I think you should have said that,

3149
02:38:55,080 --> 02:38:57,040
Speaker 7: brought this up before, ye earlier.

3150
02:38:57,320 --> 02:39:00,360
Speaker 4: But oh, he goes hon to say someone said this,

3151
02:39:00,680 --> 02:39:03,879
Speaker 4: They were right. He knows how severe of an issue

3152
02:39:03,920 --> 02:39:05,800
Speaker 4: it is, but he's scared of going to the gut

3153
02:39:05,879 --> 02:39:08,680
Speaker 4: doctor and confronting it because he's scared of what they're

3154
02:39:08,720 --> 02:39:11,880
Speaker 4: going to say. Leap issues run in his family, but

3155
02:39:12,000 --> 02:39:16,160
Speaker 4: they've always been attached to severe diagnoses. His grandfather had

3156
02:39:16,240 --> 02:39:19,520
Speaker 4: them before he was diagnosed with schizophrenia. His father had

3157
02:39:19,600 --> 02:39:22,000
Speaker 4: them before he found out about the brain tumor that

3158
02:39:22,160 --> 02:39:26,600
Speaker 4: unfortunately had him pass away when my boyfriend was sixteen,

3159
02:39:27,120 --> 02:39:29,640
Speaker 4: And he knows they can be a sign of Alzheimer's,

3160
02:39:29,680 --> 02:39:32,320
Speaker 4: which is something a lot of people in his maternal

3161
02:39:32,400 --> 02:39:33,640
Speaker 4: family have developed.

3162
02:39:33,920 --> 02:39:37,760
Speaker 1: Oh that's that is a lot to do. I can

3163
02:39:37,879 --> 02:39:39,240
Speaker 1: definitely understand why to be so.

3164
02:39:39,760 --> 02:39:43,360
Speaker 5: Very scary potendo to the doctor, very scary very scary.

3165
02:39:45,120 --> 02:39:47,119
Speaker 4: He's been scared of going to the doctor and finding

3166
02:39:47,160 --> 02:39:49,840
Speaker 4: out it is possibly a sign of something worse, which

3167
02:39:49,920 --> 02:39:52,400
Speaker 4: I understand, but is all the more reason to get

3168
02:39:52,440 --> 02:39:54,080
Speaker 4: it checked out, so if that is the case, we

3169
02:39:54,120 --> 02:39:57,320
Speaker 4: can hopefully capture it early. He also gave me position.

3170
02:39:57,440 --> 02:39:59,960
Speaker 4: He also gave me permission to post this before anyone

3171
02:40:00,040 --> 02:40:02,280
Speaker 4: and says anything about that. We both cried and he

3172
02:40:02,360 --> 02:40:05,080
Speaker 4: apologized for brushing my feelings off, but I made it

3173
02:40:05,240 --> 02:40:07,000
Speaker 4: very clear to him that I had no interest in

3174
02:40:07,080 --> 02:40:10,640
Speaker 4: being in a relationship where my concerns aren't legitimized. True,

3175
02:40:11,240 --> 02:40:13,360
Speaker 4: he promised me that he wouldn't let it happen again.

3176
02:40:13,640 --> 02:40:16,000
Speaker 4: I've known this man for twenty years.

3177
02:40:16,360 --> 02:40:19,440
Speaker 7: Wow, this is and this is the first time that op,

3178
02:40:19,480 --> 02:40:20,320
Speaker 7: he's hearing about us.

3179
02:40:21,480 --> 02:40:32,160
Speaker 1: Uh oh no, no, no, so oh u I yeah, ah, Now, well.

3180
02:40:34,720 --> 02:40:38,160
Speaker 4: Maybe not because the way she was describing I think

3181
02:40:38,240 --> 02:40:40,800
Speaker 4: I think she just found out about the link to

3182
02:40:41,600 --> 02:40:46,040
Speaker 4: the sleep issues and the diagnoses, and maybe oh he

3183
02:40:46,200 --> 02:40:47,039
Speaker 4: wasn't putting it together.

3184
02:40:47,640 --> 02:40:52,119
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that he definitely, Like totally, I totally

3185
02:40:52,200 --> 02:40:54,120
Speaker 7: get that this is a scary thing to deal with,

3186
02:40:55,640 --> 02:40:59,600
Speaker 7: but I think that telling your partners about medical issues

3187
02:40:59,600 --> 02:41:02,240
Speaker 7: in medical history is really important.

3188
02:41:02,480 --> 02:41:04,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's it's.

3189
02:41:07,000 --> 02:41:10,680
Speaker 4: It's also like it's it's affecting op not just in

3190
02:41:10,760 --> 02:41:14,480
Speaker 4: a way of like their partner potentially having something terrible

3191
02:41:14,520 --> 02:41:17,879
Speaker 4: happen to them health wise, but also care.

3192
02:41:17,920 --> 02:41:20,080
Speaker 7: Future, like if he needs to care for them in

3193
02:41:20,120 --> 02:41:23,640
Speaker 7: the future, if they need to get help for something.

3194
02:41:24,040 --> 02:41:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3195
02:41:25,000 --> 02:41:27,160
Speaker 7: I think it's very important to catch that early on.

3196
02:41:27,680 --> 02:41:31,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I I I can understand, and I think I

3197
02:41:31,240 --> 02:41:34,120
Speaker 4: think Opie's boyfriend at this point is like realizing that

3198
02:41:34,240 --> 02:41:37,720
Speaker 4: it was irrational to Oh to behave that way.

3199
02:41:38,000 --> 02:41:40,680
Speaker 7: It's simply a fear. It's, of course, like a fear response.

3200
02:41:40,840 --> 02:41:41,640
Speaker 1: I understand.

3201
02:41:41,640 --> 02:41:44,640
Speaker 4: I understand being being very afraid of It's ultimately better

3202
02:41:45,000 --> 02:41:47,760
Speaker 4: for op Yeah to tackle and.

3203
02:41:47,920 --> 02:41:52,640
Speaker 1: Like everyone around well, uh, but by.

3204
02:41:54,520 --> 02:41:56,440
Speaker 4: He's been my best friend for most of my life

3205
02:41:56,520 --> 02:41:58,560
Speaker 4: and my partner for most of my adult life, and

3206
02:41:58,879 --> 02:41:59,760
Speaker 4: I believe him.

3207
02:42:00,320 --> 02:42:02,240
Speaker 1: So we put a plan in place. He agreed to

3208
02:42:02,280 --> 02:42:05,080
Speaker 1: go see a doctor. Ah, thank god.

3209
02:42:05,440 --> 02:42:07,120
Speaker 4: It seems like a small step, but for me it

3210
02:42:07,240 --> 02:42:09,600
Speaker 4: feels like a light in the dark. He has an

3211
02:42:09,640 --> 02:42:12,160
Speaker 4: appointment with a general practitioner coming up, and I gave

3212
02:42:12,240 --> 02:42:15,720
Speaker 4: him all of your input about participating in sleep studies,

3213
02:42:16,120 --> 02:42:19,760
Speaker 4: sleep studies slash seapaps, et cetera, et cetera. I think

3214
02:42:20,040 --> 02:42:22,840
Speaker 4: seapap is like a breathing machine. Some people use sleep

3215
02:42:23,400 --> 02:42:26,800
Speaker 4: and he's going to discuss them with him. We also

3216
02:42:26,920 --> 02:42:29,640
Speaker 4: put a call into my neurologist. I have severe ADHD

3217
02:42:29,800 --> 02:42:35,760
Speaker 4: and receive transcranial magnetic stimulation for WHOA, I've not heard that.

3218
02:42:35,879 --> 02:42:39,039
Speaker 4: I've literally never heard of that in my entire life. Wow,

3219
02:42:39,520 --> 02:42:41,440
Speaker 4: But that's a story for another time. And have an

3220
02:42:41,440 --> 02:42:44,560
Speaker 4: appointment about a month from now that we may or

3221
02:42:44,680 --> 02:42:48,000
Speaker 4: may not keep, depending on what the general practitioner says.

3222
02:42:48,680 --> 02:42:51,600
Speaker 4: We're also going to add a magnesium supplement and sherry

3223
02:42:51,680 --> 02:42:55,119
Speaker 4: juice to his vitamin routine. Cut out I'll call altogether, adjustice,

3224
02:42:55,120 --> 02:42:57,879
Speaker 4: sleep routine, be in bed earlier, not the same bed,

3225
02:42:58,040 --> 02:43:03,480
Speaker 4: hold your horses okay, and dramatically lower the temperature in

3226
02:43:03,560 --> 02:43:04,119
Speaker 4: the room.

3227
02:43:04,040 --> 02:43:07,120
Speaker 1: Per all of your suggestions. I feel like it's a

3228
02:43:07,160 --> 02:43:10,040
Speaker 1: good We're we're these are actionable steps.

3229
02:43:10,080 --> 02:43:12,520
Speaker 4: They are actionable steps. These are these are these are

3230
02:43:12,560 --> 02:43:16,320
Speaker 4: deliverables being delivered. We're both we're both fortunate enough to

3231
02:43:16,360 --> 02:43:18,520
Speaker 4: have jobs that allow us to work remote. So we

3232
02:43:18,600 --> 02:43:21,080
Speaker 4: decided that we would go and stay at his parents'

3233
02:43:21,120 --> 02:43:23,480
Speaker 4: house for a few hours outside of the city for

3234
02:43:23,560 --> 02:43:26,880
Speaker 4: a while. They're both out of the country for the

3235
02:43:26,920 --> 02:43:29,560
Speaker 4: next few months on a post retirement trip, and we're

3236
02:43:29,640 --> 02:43:32,959
Speaker 4: kind enough to offer this solution for now at least

3237
02:43:33,040 --> 02:43:36,440
Speaker 4: there can be at least that at least there we

3238
02:43:36,520 --> 02:43:38,560
Speaker 4: can sleep in separate rooms, get out of New York

3239
02:43:38,600 --> 02:43:40,960
Speaker 4: City for a bit, and be close to the beach

3240
02:43:41,080 --> 02:43:43,400
Speaker 4: for the summer, which like sounds like a win.

3241
02:43:43,520 --> 02:43:44,879
Speaker 1: That sounds great all around.

3242
02:43:45,920 --> 02:43:49,320
Speaker 4: We're hoping to We're hoping we can sublet our apartment

3243
02:43:49,440 --> 02:43:51,840
Speaker 4: and put a call in our into our landlord about it,

3244
02:43:52,240 --> 02:43:54,600
Speaker 4: but that is probably not going to get approved.

3245
02:43:54,920 --> 02:43:55,960
Speaker 1: You can't win with them all.

3246
02:43:56,120 --> 02:43:58,880
Speaker 4: I guess he's packing to go as I write this,

3247
02:43:59,080 --> 02:44:01,119
Speaker 4: and I'm gonna be there in a few days after

3248
02:44:01,240 --> 02:44:04,360
Speaker 4: I finished tying up some sense. It might be annoying,

3249
02:44:04,920 --> 02:44:08,080
Speaker 4: It might be annoying commuting for doctor's appointments, but we'll

3250
02:44:08,120 --> 02:44:11,039
Speaker 4: figure it out. I guess this is all to say

3251
02:44:11,120 --> 02:44:13,560
Speaker 4: for now. We haven't figured out exactly what's going on

3252
02:44:13,680 --> 02:44:16,600
Speaker 4: with him. He hasn't experienced any severe mental trauma, so

3253
02:44:16,680 --> 02:44:19,840
Speaker 4: it's unlikely it's PTSD, but who knows. He's been in

3254
02:44:19,920 --> 02:44:22,600
Speaker 4: therapy for a few months and luckily can do telehealth

3255
02:44:22,720 --> 02:44:25,800
Speaker 4: visits remotely, so he's going to continue doing that. But

3256
02:44:26,440 --> 02:44:28,600
Speaker 4: I feel like there are good steps moving forward and

3257
02:44:28,680 --> 02:44:30,879
Speaker 4: I feel very optimistic, happy.

3258
02:44:30,720 --> 02:44:33,640
Speaker 1: And at peace with it for now. Yeah, this is

3259
02:44:33,800 --> 02:44:34,200
Speaker 1: very good.

3260
02:44:34,680 --> 02:44:37,320
Speaker 4: Thank you for your concern that I'm an abusive relationship,

3261
02:44:37,400 --> 02:44:40,320
Speaker 4: but respectfully, I am not. I am proud of him

3262
02:44:40,640 --> 02:44:42,760
Speaker 4: for being ready to deal with us, even if it

3263
02:44:42,800 --> 02:44:45,680
Speaker 4: took him a while. Sorry for the megapost. Also, for

3264
02:44:45,840 --> 02:44:48,920
Speaker 4: the record, I do regret screaming to give him a

3265
02:44:48,959 --> 02:44:51,200
Speaker 4: taste of his own medicine, or to get revenge on

3266
02:44:51,280 --> 02:44:55,120
Speaker 4: him or whatever you s Yeah, right, me too, But

3267
02:44:55,280 --> 02:44:57,160
Speaker 4: he actually kind of thinks it was a funny way

3268
02:44:57,200 --> 02:44:59,880
Speaker 4: to deal with it now that I'm not doing it anymore.

3269
02:45:00,480 --> 02:45:01,840
Speaker 1: Definitely hated it in the moment.

3270
02:45:02,840 --> 02:45:05,520
Speaker 4: Maybe that just makes us a twisted couple, or maybe

3271
02:45:05,879 --> 02:45:08,920
Speaker 4: that just makes us two very sleep deprived.

3272
02:45:08,640 --> 02:45:10,039
Speaker 1: People, I think.

3273
02:45:10,160 --> 02:45:10,200
Speaker 3: So.

3274
02:45:11,040 --> 02:45:14,720
Speaker 7: I'm glad that it seems it seems like a hopeful ending.

3275
02:45:15,520 --> 02:45:20,199
Speaker 1: It does seem like a a hopeful ending. We didn't

3276
02:45:20,240 --> 02:45:22,400
Speaker 1: we didn't see what the We all know what the

3277
02:45:22,480 --> 02:45:23,000
Speaker 1: test said.

3278
02:45:23,320 --> 02:45:27,920
Speaker 7: Yes, but I'm glad that they are taking the steps. Yes,

3279
02:45:28,080 --> 02:45:31,480
Speaker 7: to get him help and to you know, listen to

3280
02:45:31,560 --> 02:45:31,920
Speaker 7: each other.

3281
02:45:32,160 --> 02:45:35,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, hopefully they can. They can just stop it if

3282
02:45:35,320 --> 02:45:39,879
Speaker 4: I mean there's something going on with the with the sleep.

3283
02:45:40,320 --> 02:45:45,760
Speaker 1: Yeah. But you know what, Sophia, I have a story,

3284
02:45:46,640 --> 02:45:48,360
Speaker 1: you do, I've got a story.

3285
02:45:48,520 --> 02:45:53,400
Speaker 7: Share it to it about night terrors. Ooh, I'm setting

3286
02:45:53,440 --> 02:45:58,760
Speaker 7: the scene. I'm in Poland nineteen ninety three, no this year, okay,

3287
02:45:59,640 --> 02:46:01,600
Speaker 7: and I'm in a hostel that kind of looks like

3288
02:46:01,680 --> 02:46:05,920
Speaker 7: little orphanage ye yeah, yeahah. And I'm on the top

3289
02:46:06,000 --> 02:46:09,560
Speaker 7: bunk and I'm chatting with my friends that I traveled with.

3290
02:46:09,760 --> 02:46:12,680
Speaker 7: And then this new girl and this man runs into

3291
02:46:12,760 --> 02:46:16,000
Speaker 7: our room and he goes, please, and he's from Poland.

3292
02:46:16,040 --> 02:46:19,080
Speaker 7: He goes, please, please, does anyone have a charger? We

3293
02:46:19,160 --> 02:46:22,680
Speaker 7: go for what phone? He goes, I need a charger?

3294
02:46:22,720 --> 02:46:24,000
Speaker 7: And we're like, what phone do you have? And he's like,

3295
02:46:24,040 --> 02:46:25,840
Speaker 7: I need a charger and he keeps repeating it and

3296
02:46:25,920 --> 02:46:27,480
Speaker 7: we're like, what do you have? He's like, I have

3297
02:46:27,560 --> 02:46:29,480
Speaker 7: an Android and we're like we all have my phones.

3298
02:46:29,520 --> 02:46:31,480
Speaker 7: We don't have an Android charger. He's like, I need

3299
02:46:31,560 --> 02:46:33,760
Speaker 7: a charger or I need one, and we're like god.

3300
02:46:34,120 --> 02:46:35,640
Speaker 7: And so then the girl that we're talking to is like,

3301
02:46:35,720 --> 02:46:37,720
Speaker 7: I've got an Android charger, and he's like thank.

3302
02:46:37,560 --> 02:46:38,120
Speaker 1: You, thank you.

3303
02:46:38,440 --> 02:46:40,120
Speaker 7: He's like, I'll bring this back. I'm right next door.

3304
02:46:40,120 --> 02:46:44,360
Speaker 7: I'm from poland We're like okay, and so he takes

3305
02:46:44,400 --> 02:46:46,200
Speaker 7: the charger, he runs out, and I'm like that was weird.

3306
02:46:47,240 --> 02:46:49,720
Speaker 7: And then that night we went and got some food.

3307
02:46:49,840 --> 02:46:52,560
Speaker 7: I got some pirogi for the first time, delicious little

3308
02:46:52,600 --> 02:46:56,360
Speaker 7: potato pancake, and then I take some home and I

3309
02:46:56,400 --> 02:46:58,320
Speaker 7: put in the fridge and it has my name on

3310
02:46:58,440 --> 02:47:01,320
Speaker 7: it and it's underneath my friend's food. So it's like

3311
02:47:01,440 --> 02:47:06,440
Speaker 7: three down. Next day, I go downstairs. I'm like, you

3312
02:47:06,480 --> 02:47:08,720
Speaker 7: know what, I'm gonna have my my leftovers for dinner

3313
02:47:09,080 --> 02:47:12,160
Speaker 7: or for breakfast. So I go downstairs. I remove my

3314
02:47:12,400 --> 02:47:17,080
Speaker 7: my thing and I open it up. Parogis are gone. Well, no,

3315
02:47:17,320 --> 02:47:18,920
Speaker 7: the potato pancake is still there.

3316
02:47:19,600 --> 02:47:20,760
Speaker 1: I'm just like, very good.

3317
02:47:20,800 --> 02:47:22,280
Speaker 7: I don't know why they left that, but yeah, so

3318
02:47:22,560 --> 02:47:25,320
Speaker 7: all my parogis are gone. I'm like, what the heck?

3319
02:47:26,000 --> 02:47:29,640
Speaker 7: And I'm like looking around and I'm peoed. Yeah, I

3320
02:47:29,800 --> 02:47:31,800
Speaker 7: put I write on the box, I say, whoever stole

3321
02:47:31,840 --> 02:47:35,160
Speaker 7: my perogies, you suck, and I put it back, yeah,

3322
02:47:35,240 --> 02:47:36,000
Speaker 7: and this is true.

3323
02:47:36,080 --> 02:47:36,600
Speaker 1: I did do that.

3324
02:47:39,200 --> 02:47:39,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

3325
02:47:41,200 --> 02:47:45,160
Speaker 7: And then later that evening we come back and we're

3326
02:47:45,240 --> 02:47:47,920
Speaker 7: in like the common room area and this guy is like,

3327
02:47:49,520 --> 02:47:51,880
Speaker 7: someone stole my pizza and we're like what the what

3328
02:47:52,400 --> 02:47:54,320
Speaker 7: and he's like, yeah, I had a whole frozen pizza.

3329
02:47:54,640 --> 02:47:57,800
Speaker 7: Someone stole it. And we're like that's weird. And then

3330
02:47:57,840 --> 02:47:59,880
Speaker 7: someone goes, someone stole my cheese.

3331
02:48:00,640 --> 02:48:01,000
Speaker 3: We're like what.

3332
02:48:01,400 --> 02:48:03,880
Speaker 7: And then someone goes, someone stole my apple pie, and

3333
02:48:03,959 --> 02:48:05,880
Speaker 7: a bunch of people are like, someone stole this this

3334
02:48:06,040 --> 02:48:09,200
Speaker 7: I'm like, is this guy having a picnic? And then

3335
02:48:09,480 --> 02:48:11,879
Speaker 7: we're talking. We're like who could have stolen our stuff?

3336
02:48:12,520 --> 02:48:15,800
Speaker 7: And this other guy goes, well, someone last night was

3337
02:48:15,959 --> 02:48:19,080
Speaker 7: just kicked out. We're like what why and he's like, well,

3338
02:48:19,120 --> 02:48:22,280
Speaker 7: they were having night terrors. We're like that's strange, and

3339
02:48:22,360 --> 02:48:24,280
Speaker 7: he was like maybe it was that guy, because you know,

3340
02:48:24,320 --> 02:48:25,840
Speaker 7: he could have taken all this food when he was

3341
02:48:25,920 --> 02:48:28,880
Speaker 7: kicked out. I'm like wow, and we're like who was it?

3342
02:48:29,040 --> 02:48:30,640
Speaker 7: Like who is someone in your room? He's like, yeah,

3343
02:48:30,720 --> 02:48:33,360
Speaker 7: someone in my room. He was having these crazy night terras.

3344
02:48:33,440 --> 02:48:35,720
Speaker 7: Everyone woke up and like we went downstairs and had

3345
02:48:35,760 --> 02:48:39,080
Speaker 7: to tell the front desk about it and he was like, yeah,

3346
02:48:39,120 --> 02:48:42,879
Speaker 7: it was this Polish guy. And we're like, we met

3347
02:48:42,920 --> 02:48:45,880
Speaker 7: a Polish guy last night, and we're like, yeah, he

3348
02:48:46,000 --> 02:48:49,400
Speaker 7: was asking about a charger and he said, that's crazy.

3349
02:48:49,480 --> 02:48:52,000
Speaker 7: He was asking me about a charger and he said

3350
02:48:52,040 --> 02:48:58,880
Speaker 7: he needed to watch corn And that's my story about

3351
02:48:58,959 --> 02:48:59,400
Speaker 7: night teres.

3352
02:49:00,080 --> 02:49:06,040
Speaker 1: Yeh, that's that's crazy. That's insane. Yeah, wow, I know

3353
02:49:06,240 --> 02:49:06,880
Speaker 1: it was crazy.

3354
02:49:07,040 --> 02:49:10,040
Speaker 7: That was That was one of our crazier hostels. There's

3355
02:49:10,040 --> 02:49:13,199
Speaker 7: also a guy who's like snoring so loud in that hostel.

3356
02:49:13,480 --> 02:49:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's you got it. You got it.

3357
02:49:15,640 --> 02:49:18,520
Speaker 5: You gotta be so ear plugged up and yeah in

3358
02:49:18,560 --> 02:49:19,400
Speaker 5: the hostel. Yeah.

3359
02:49:19,600 --> 02:49:21,720
Speaker 7: Karen Trubisky, thank you for the five bucks. I already

3360
02:49:21,720 --> 02:49:25,640
Speaker 7: read that one, but uh, thank you again, Bunny Cakes,

3361
02:49:25,680 --> 02:49:28,560
Speaker 7: thank you for celebrating one month of membership. Cursive comes

3362
02:49:28,720 --> 02:49:30,760
Speaker 7: from back when we dipped quills and ink. It was

3363
02:49:30,800 --> 02:49:32,840
Speaker 7: meant to keep the ink from dripping from a pen

3364
02:49:32,920 --> 02:49:36,440
Speaker 7: to paper. That's so interesting. I didn't know that then

3365
02:49:36,520 --> 02:49:38,760
Speaker 7: we just kept doing it. Also, I don't know if

3366
02:49:38,800 --> 02:49:41,320
Speaker 7: they got it wasn't my charger, it was this other girls.

3367
02:49:41,680 --> 02:49:43,720
Speaker 7: I don't know if they got the charger back because

3368
02:49:43,760 --> 02:49:46,800
Speaker 7: she left. I don't know if she ever caught that

3369
02:49:46,959 --> 02:49:52,280
Speaker 7: charger back crue. I feel like she probably didn't. Jess,

3370
02:49:52,320 --> 02:49:54,000
Speaker 7: thank you for the five bucks. Can't give much, but

3371
02:49:54,080 --> 02:49:56,280
Speaker 7: I have to help extend the stream. Love you, guys,

3372
02:49:56,760 --> 02:50:00,800
Speaker 7: We love you a Christie's thank you for the twenty

3373
02:50:00,840 --> 02:50:01,440
Speaker 7: five buck tip.

3374
02:50:01,840 --> 02:50:02,440
Speaker 1: Love you, guys.

3375
02:50:02,520 --> 02:50:04,840
Speaker 7: Apparently I fell asleep listening to John and Sam and

3376
02:50:04,959 --> 02:50:05,959
Speaker 7: woke up to Sophia.

3377
02:50:06,320 --> 02:50:08,640
Speaker 1: I just appeared, Sam transformed.

3378
02:50:08,760 --> 02:50:11,879
Speaker 7: Yeah, Heidi Browning think for the one buck tip. It's

3379
02:50:11,959 --> 02:50:16,080
Speaker 7: time to sleep in separate rooms. Yeah, And Dia Revetti,

3380
02:50:16,240 --> 02:50:18,080
Speaker 7: thank you for that fifty bucks.

3381
02:50:18,360 --> 02:50:18,920
Speaker 1: Gater no.

3382
02:50:23,280 --> 02:50:26,080
Speaker 7: Gas station Showdonay, thank you for the ten buck tip.

3383
02:50:27,080 --> 02:50:29,960
Speaker 7: Let's go longer. I love listening to you guys. We

3384
02:50:30,320 --> 02:50:32,360
Speaker 7: love listening to it too.

3385
02:50:32,720 --> 02:50:34,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, Sophia loves listening to yourself.

3386
02:50:34,920 --> 02:50:35,120
Speaker 1: Guys.

3387
02:50:35,200 --> 02:50:37,560
Speaker 4: Literally when the stream ends, She's just like, I just

3388
02:50:37,680 --> 02:50:40,039
Speaker 4: need to keep reading stories and listening to my own comments.

3389
02:50:40,240 --> 02:50:44,400
Speaker 5: I just watching YouTube videos. What, Yeah, you go back

3390
02:50:44,440 --> 02:50:46,640
Speaker 5: and watch our YouTube videos and all of our funny moments.

3391
02:50:46,959 --> 02:50:49,440
Speaker 1: That's not true. You guys don't do that. Oh I

3392
02:50:49,720 --> 02:50:51,280
Speaker 1: look at the comments. You don't do that.

3393
02:50:52,560 --> 02:50:54,640
Speaker 5: No, I go back and I'll watch some funny moments,

3394
02:50:54,720 --> 02:50:57,000
Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, that was funny, like whenever you guys

3395
02:50:57,040 --> 02:50:58,680
Speaker 5: were teaching me how to like not cuddle.

3396
02:51:00,000 --> 02:51:04,560
Speaker 1: S is addicted to knocking my water overs like ah ah,

3397
02:51:05,640 --> 02:51:06,920
Speaker 1: stop pines rating.

3398
02:51:07,560 --> 02:51:11,200
Speaker 6: It literally blends into the grass, and that is the

3399
02:51:11,360 --> 02:51:17,440
Speaker 6: most like. That is the most like blendy grass, blendy grass,

3400
02:51:17,640 --> 02:51:21,680
Speaker 6: the grass thing. But okay, mad hatter gout ten buck tip,

3401
02:51:22,080 --> 02:51:24,880
Speaker 6: let's freaking go. Decided to go back to the decided

3402
02:51:24,879 --> 02:51:27,119
Speaker 6: to give back to the community. Also, I have good

3403
02:51:27,200 --> 02:51:28,080
Speaker 6: news about my dog.

3404
02:51:28,600 --> 02:51:33,200
Speaker 4: However, puppers, uh, puppers need to be on kiddies kidney

3405
02:51:33,240 --> 02:51:37,480
Speaker 4: supplements due to abnormal kidneys. And it's Lady of Madness,

3406
02:51:37,600 --> 02:51:41,040
Speaker 4: Lady of Madness, Lady of mad Lady of Madness, Mad Hatter,

3407
02:51:41,120 --> 02:51:43,040
Speaker 4: galp Lady of Madness, mad Hatter goal, Let's freaking go,

3408
02:51:43,520 --> 02:51:45,480
Speaker 4: Little duck a ruse to the one buck tip.

3409
02:51:46,200 --> 02:51:46,520
Speaker 3: I went.

3410
02:51:46,800 --> 02:51:50,400
Speaker 1: I went to have a conversation. Can I have some water?

3411
02:51:50,480 --> 02:51:56,320
Speaker 1: SIM have some water too, have some more water. I'm

3412
02:51:56,360 --> 02:51:56,800
Speaker 1: just kidding.

3413
02:51:57,480 --> 02:51:59,320
Speaker 4: I went to have a convention with my I went

3414
02:51:59,360 --> 02:52:01,280
Speaker 4: to a convention was my friends and we had to

3415
02:52:01,320 --> 02:52:03,480
Speaker 4: share beds. In the middle of the night, I started

3416
02:52:03,520 --> 02:52:05,920
Speaker 4: to take up the bed and my bestie put her

3417
02:52:06,080 --> 02:52:08,520
Speaker 4: cold feet on my back to keep me.

3418
02:52:08,640 --> 02:52:10,840
Speaker 1: On my side of the bed. She said, I didn't

3419
02:52:10,920 --> 02:52:14,200
Speaker 1: move for the rest of the night. Sometimes sometimes you just.

3420
02:52:16,840 --> 02:52:18,280
Speaker 7: When I was in fifth grade, we went on this

3421
02:52:19,480 --> 02:52:21,400
Speaker 7: boat trip where you would like stay on a boat

3422
02:52:21,440 --> 02:52:23,720
Speaker 7: and pretend that you're in olden times.

3423
02:52:23,680 --> 02:52:25,720
Speaker 1: On a boat. Yeah. Pretty, it was pretty sick.

3424
02:52:25,720 --> 02:52:27,880
Speaker 7: I was in the galley crew, but everyone else had

3425
02:52:27,959 --> 02:52:30,440
Speaker 7: to do these night shifts and for two hours they

3426
02:52:30,480 --> 02:52:32,280
Speaker 7: had to fifth graders had to stand on the top

3427
02:52:32,280 --> 02:52:34,600
Speaker 7: of the or like stand on the deck of the

3428
02:52:34,640 --> 02:52:36,720
Speaker 7: ship and just look out for.

3429
02:52:36,800 --> 02:52:40,000
Speaker 1: Two hours, and they weren't allowed to talk or anything.

3430
02:52:40,040 --> 02:52:41,440
Speaker 7: But the point of the story is that I was

3431
02:52:41,720 --> 02:52:44,080
Speaker 7: I was sleeping in the in the you know bed,

3432
02:52:45,040 --> 02:52:48,080
Speaker 7: thank you uh, and my friend we had to like

3433
02:52:48,200 --> 02:52:50,880
Speaker 7: stack sleep because there weren't enough beds. So I was

3434
02:52:50,879 --> 02:52:54,400
Speaker 7: sleeping with my friend and h and she kept moving

3435
02:52:54,480 --> 02:52:57,120
Speaker 7: in her sleep, and so I kept kicking her and

3436
02:52:57,280 --> 02:52:57,760
Speaker 7: she woke up.

3437
02:52:57,800 --> 02:52:59,400
Speaker 1: She was like, you kept kicking. I was like you

3438
02:52:59,440 --> 02:53:03,720
Speaker 1: were mooing. Yeah, that's good story, dude. Sophia is full

3439
02:53:03,760 --> 02:53:05,720
Speaker 1: of okay, story times. I have stories.

3440
02:53:06,480 --> 02:53:10,680
Speaker 4: I have so many stories, and said arm shout out

3441
02:53:10,720 --> 02:53:13,720
Speaker 4: to Beck Lavelle for the five twenty eight tip. Watch

3442
02:53:13,800 --> 02:53:15,880
Speaker 4: you guys when going to bed, always a good listen.

3443
02:53:17,080 --> 02:53:19,640
Speaker 1: I love that imagining.

3444
02:53:19,640 --> 02:53:19,920
Speaker 3: It is.

3445
02:53:22,840 --> 02:53:24,000
Speaker 7: A little French bull dog.

3446
02:53:25,600 --> 02:53:28,680
Speaker 4: Bunny cake section of five bucks. I'm a violent sleeper

3447
02:53:28,959 --> 02:53:32,320
Speaker 4: and have night tares. It sucks for my partner. Part

3448
02:53:32,360 --> 02:53:36,560
Speaker 4: of it's due to me being on uh. Part of

3449
02:53:36,640 --> 02:53:42,040
Speaker 4: it is due to one of my meds. A weighted

3450
02:53:42,120 --> 02:53:45,520
Speaker 4: blanket helps a lot. Oh, there you go, Desiree, thanks

3451
02:53:45,600 --> 02:53:47,840
Speaker 4: for a five bucks tip. My person can be a

3452
02:53:47,959 --> 02:53:50,600
Speaker 4: fitful sleeper when he wakes me up too many times.

3453
02:53:51,160 --> 02:53:54,840
Speaker 4: I can also get a little aggressive. Ope, not the

3454
02:53:54,959 --> 02:54:00,280
Speaker 4: a hole bell Conkling says you ate a You ate

3455
02:54:00,320 --> 02:54:03,959
Speaker 4: a sandwich on a stream. John can have granola. Also

3456
02:54:04,160 --> 02:54:08,280
Speaker 4: the roses piss on the old lady's hobby. Even the

3457
02:54:08,440 --> 02:54:11,640
Speaker 4: driveway would have been better. At least it's already dirty

3458
02:54:11,760 --> 02:54:15,200
Speaker 4: and no one is touching it with their hands calling

3459
02:54:15,720 --> 02:54:18,120
Speaker 4: Riley setting shots.

3460
02:54:18,280 --> 02:54:20,560
Speaker 1: But that's that.

3461
02:54:23,160 --> 02:54:24,720
Speaker 5: I ate the sandwich over here.

3462
02:54:26,240 --> 02:54:28,720
Speaker 7: Actually, I think you ate it while you were speaking.

3463
02:54:29,920 --> 02:54:31,039
Speaker 1: Because it was hot and.

3464
02:54:31,400 --> 02:54:33,960
Speaker 5: She's not old lady and no one else was watching.

3465
02:54:34,520 --> 02:54:38,680
Speaker 1: No, you will never be excused for that. Never excuse dude.

3466
02:54:38,760 --> 02:54:44,880
Speaker 4: If if my daughter's boyfriend, if I saw him pissing

3467
02:54:45,920 --> 02:54:50,600
Speaker 4: in the rose bushes of my house, I would be like, boy,

3468
02:54:50,720 --> 02:54:51,800
Speaker 4: keep pants down.

3469
02:54:52,360 --> 02:55:00,720
Speaker 1: Spank those cheeks. Not today, you would say that your thoughts.

3470
02:55:03,080 --> 02:55:07,440
Speaker 5: You should check yourself, You should check yourself.

3471
02:55:10,480 --> 02:55:13,600
Speaker 1: So crazy skeletons at one buck tip.

3472
02:55:14,480 --> 02:55:17,000
Speaker 7: I didn't hear Johnny and anything, but I did hear

3473
02:55:17,160 --> 02:55:20,520
Speaker 7: Riley Take talking with a mouthful of his sandwich early.

3474
02:55:20,560 --> 02:55:22,560
Speaker 1: Because it was hot and I was dying.

3475
02:55:25,360 --> 02:55:27,800
Speaker 7: Playful Pell, thank you for the five buck tip, Take tipped.

3476
02:55:27,920 --> 02:55:31,280
Speaker 7: Oh sorry, playoff Pelt. Thank you for the five buck tip,

3477
02:55:31,440 --> 02:55:34,120
Speaker 7: take tip two dollars earlier, had to one up him.

3478
02:55:35,840 --> 02:55:37,360
Speaker 5: Yeah that's play Yeah, that's our boy.

3479
02:55:39,520 --> 02:55:41,480
Speaker 1: I won't docs you don't worry. Oh I am.

3480
02:55:41,920 --> 02:55:46,480
Speaker 5: My brother and his friend Peyton, uh came over for

3481
02:55:46,600 --> 02:55:49,160
Speaker 5: the weekend and uh yeah it was a great time.

3482
02:55:49,440 --> 02:55:50,200
Speaker 1: We went.

3483
02:55:50,600 --> 02:55:53,520
Speaker 5: That's okay story Tom after the donuts in Casia.

3484
02:55:53,680 --> 02:55:56,080
Speaker 7: Thank you for the ten bucks. First time catching your

3485
02:55:56,120 --> 02:55:59,600
Speaker 7: new format live. I love it lovely for some we

3486
02:55:59,640 --> 02:56:01,480
Speaker 7: did it forget for Sophie, Thank you for the two bucks.

3487
02:56:01,560 --> 02:56:04,800
Speaker 7: I love Sam's fit today, go off king. He just

3488
02:56:04,879 --> 02:56:07,720
Speaker 7: got Yeah, he got this new fit from the thrift store.

3489
02:56:09,240 --> 02:56:11,879
Speaker 7: MJ Grow, thank you for the twenty bucks. Just got

3490
02:56:11,920 --> 02:56:15,840
Speaker 7: home from dinner with my boyfriends. Fun moybean.

3491
02:56:18,720 --> 02:56:23,320
Speaker 1: Da, I'm doing great. Thank you, I'm doing when.

3492
02:56:26,120 --> 02:56:28,119
Speaker 4: Thanks Sine for the five bucks tip on the donal

3493
02:56:28,160 --> 02:56:30,480
Speaker 4: link and MJ Grow for the twenty bucks. I knew

3494
02:56:30,520 --> 02:56:33,160
Speaker 4: a guy that peed on a banana plant and when

3495
02:56:33,760 --> 02:56:35,080
Speaker 4: a banana finally.

3496
02:56:34,800 --> 02:56:38,720
Speaker 1: Grew, his family made him eat. It is amazing. We

3497
02:56:38,760 --> 02:56:41,640
Speaker 1: should make Riley eat the dirt that he peed on there.

3498
02:56:41,760 --> 02:56:44,760
Speaker 7: I don't think that would actually affect the banana. We

3499
02:56:44,920 --> 02:56:47,360
Speaker 7: use fertilizer, that's true.

3500
02:56:48,680 --> 02:56:51,000
Speaker 1: Oh man, Riley, you're ready, You're ready to have your

3501
02:56:51,080 --> 02:56:58,320
Speaker 1: mouth fulling you pause, pause, man dirt. Oh sure sure,

3502
02:57:01,200 --> 02:57:03,880
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I think that is finally. That's it.

3503
02:57:04,000 --> 02:57:09,240
Speaker 1: That's it, catching up. I am going to grab mister Samuel.

3504
02:57:09,840 --> 02:57:12,280
Speaker 4: Samuel if you want to read some of the comments

3505
02:57:12,320 --> 02:57:13,840
Speaker 4: from our beautiful listeners, and there he.

3506
02:57:13,920 --> 02:57:16,720
Speaker 1: Is, Oh do we need any more items?

3507
02:57:19,000 --> 02:57:20,480
Speaker 7: I'm just thinking about that. Have you guys seen that

3508
02:57:20,600 --> 02:57:24,080
Speaker 7: video where they're like you stopped on my or you

3509
02:57:24,360 --> 02:57:28,720
Speaker 7: ruined my but Junias and then she's like they're marry

3510
02:57:28,800 --> 02:57:33,200
Speaker 7: Golds and he's like, I may not know my flowers,

3511
02:57:33,280 --> 02:57:35,280
Speaker 7: but I know a bee when I see one.

3512
02:57:36,600 --> 02:57:39,960
Speaker 1: Have you guys seen that? Know if I have? But

3513
02:57:40,160 --> 02:57:43,560
Speaker 1: that's also that that seems like your content. Yeah, it

3514
02:57:43,680 --> 02:57:46,320
Speaker 1: was great, it's pretty good. It's from this old old show.

3515
02:57:47,040 --> 02:57:54,200
Speaker 7: What's what's what? We're outside? It doesn't make any sense.

3516
02:57:55,760 --> 02:57:57,000
Speaker 7: I'm complaining.

3517
02:58:03,000 --> 02:58:05,520
Speaker 1: Also where I lived. The father of the child has

3518
02:58:05,600 --> 02:58:09,160
Speaker 1: no legal rights to the children. I mean, missing an action,

3519
02:58:09,400 --> 02:58:14,560
Speaker 1: That's exactly what it means old military uh phrase, do

3520
02:58:14,600 --> 02:58:17,199
Speaker 1: you know what means? Kissing an action?

3521
02:58:17,800 --> 02:58:17,959
Speaker 3: Oh?

3522
02:58:18,200 --> 02:58:24,160
Speaker 1: God, about other circumstances, but killing an action, killed an action,

3523
02:58:24,520 --> 02:58:25,640
Speaker 1: killed an action ago.

3524
02:58:26,200 --> 02:58:29,400
Speaker 4: Unless he is awarded rights by a judge or you

3525
02:58:29,520 --> 02:58:32,200
Speaker 4: were married, he's not going to get custody of the children.

3526
02:58:32,240 --> 02:58:34,880
Speaker 4: It looks like I think in most cases this law

3527
02:58:35,000 --> 02:58:38,800
Speaker 4: is completely unfair. But in mind, it protected my children

3528
02:58:38,920 --> 02:58:42,240
Speaker 4: from him picking them up while on a bender and mad.

3529
02:58:42,080 --> 02:58:45,119
Speaker 1: At me and taking off with them. Yeah, so agreed,

3530
02:58:45,240 --> 02:58:45,920
Speaker 1: kidnapping them.

3531
02:58:46,000 --> 02:58:49,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, he's like it's bad to flat out be like, hey,

3532
02:58:49,360 --> 02:58:52,760
Speaker 4: the father has no rights whatsoever. But in my particular case,

3533
02:58:52,840 --> 02:58:55,920
Speaker 4: it actually worked out for the battery. I mean together

3534
02:58:56,120 --> 02:59:01,039
Speaker 4: he and his wife have guess how many knee kids

3535
02:59:01,240 --> 02:59:04,960
Speaker 4: children guess how many children? Wait, more than one, there's

3536
02:59:05,000 --> 02:59:06,640
Speaker 4: more than one, and you got to guess how many

3537
02:59:06,720 --> 02:59:09,320
Speaker 4: they have. I'm gonna guess he has at least the

3538
02:59:09,400 --> 02:59:12,400
Speaker 4: same amount or more than his practice family. So I'm

3539
02:59:12,400 --> 02:59:14,000
Speaker 4: gonna say, like four.

3540
02:59:14,280 --> 02:59:17,840
Speaker 1: A good and logical guess. Together, he and his wife

3541
02:59:17,959 --> 02:59:20,920
Speaker 1: have seven children.

3542
02:59:21,800 --> 02:59:27,160
Speaker 2: Bo seven man's seed is strong because like, they only

3543
02:59:27,200 --> 02:59:30,360
Speaker 2: hooked up once and then that was the third kid.

3544
02:59:30,680 --> 02:59:34,160
Speaker 4: Yes, and shoo, shooter, shoot, there is some more context here,

3545
02:59:34,200 --> 02:59:36,920
Speaker 4: So let's get to that. To this seven my three,

3546
02:59:37,240 --> 02:59:40,800
Speaker 4: So they're counting the children. This is not purely ones that.

3547
02:59:40,840 --> 02:59:43,600
Speaker 1: They Okay, so it's seven total.

3548
02:59:44,040 --> 02:59:45,800
Speaker 4: I didn't know that until I read that next part.

3549
02:59:46,120 --> 02:59:48,320
Speaker 4: So my three the one that you know, op and

3550
02:59:48,400 --> 02:59:50,920
Speaker 4: the and the x shaw together. She has two that

3551
02:59:51,120 --> 02:59:55,119
Speaker 4: she does not see or pay for either, So confirmed

3552
02:59:55,160 --> 02:59:56,880
Speaker 4: she is a red flag. She had two kids in

3553
02:59:56,920 --> 02:59:59,840
Speaker 4: a previous relationship that she doesn't give an f about.

3554
03:00:00,200 --> 03:00:02,279
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, first starter family.

3555
03:00:02,120 --> 03:00:04,840
Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, So that's five so far. And he

3556
03:00:05,040 --> 03:00:09,320
Speaker 1: has one that was legally adopted away, so no longer

3557
03:00:09,440 --> 03:00:13,720
Speaker 1: his he never gave an adopted kid away. Oh my god, dude,

3558
03:00:13,760 --> 03:00:15,240
Speaker 1: this is this is crazy.

3559
03:00:15,600 --> 03:00:19,120
Speaker 2: Oh see, that's bad because he already had a practice

3560
03:00:19,160 --> 03:00:21,240
Speaker 2: family like that, you can't have a second practice.

3561
03:00:21,120 --> 03:00:24,879
Speaker 1: Sam's Like, that's where it goes. He crossed the lot.

3562
03:00:26,120 --> 03:00:29,760
Speaker 1: This is not one of Sam's marriage relationship rules, except

3563
03:00:29,800 --> 03:00:33,000
Speaker 1: it is one of Sam's trademark relationships. Yeah, what would

3564
03:00:33,000 --> 03:00:36,000
Speaker 1: be the rule? You get one practice family. Yeah, you

3565
03:00:36,080 --> 03:00:39,760
Speaker 1: get one practice fan every ten years. Commenter, you know

3566
03:00:39,800 --> 03:00:40,080
Speaker 1: what to do.

3567
03:00:40,440 --> 03:00:43,680
Speaker 2: Actually, I think I need to get one practice family period,

3568
03:00:44,440 --> 03:00:46,840
Speaker 2: one practice family. One practice is a practice family period

3569
03:00:47,160 --> 03:00:50,080
Speaker 2: for your whole life, right, Yeah, one practice family. And

3570
03:00:50,600 --> 03:00:52,920
Speaker 2: he violated it because he had a second practice family

3571
03:00:53,000 --> 03:00:55,960
Speaker 2: by getting it like this adopting this kid exactly so

3572
03:00:56,720 --> 03:00:59,360
Speaker 2: because of that, and only that, he is the ale

3573
03:00:59,480 --> 03:01:00,080
Speaker 2: Sam's out.

3574
03:01:01,879 --> 03:01:04,920
Speaker 4: That I am about. With the adopted child, he never

3575
03:01:05,080 --> 03:01:07,480
Speaker 4: showed up for the court and they stripped him of.

3576
03:01:07,560 --> 03:01:09,680
Speaker 1: His legal rights. Thank god. This man is not need

3577
03:01:09,800 --> 03:01:12,680
Speaker 1: more kids truly, and he's having another one. It's crazy.

3578
03:01:12,800 --> 03:01:13,000
Speaker 1: I know.

3579
03:01:13,280 --> 03:01:16,720
Speaker 4: I will update when I have something else worth adding here. Again,

3580
03:01:16,920 --> 03:01:19,240
Speaker 4: thank you to all of you who were so supportive.

3581
03:01:19,640 --> 03:01:21,920
Speaker 4: This has been a struggle for me for years because

3582
03:01:21,959 --> 03:01:24,600
Speaker 4: I never wanted to make it hard for him to survive.

3583
03:01:25,080 --> 03:01:27,920
Speaker 1: But you are all right. He has never taken any

3584
03:01:28,040 --> 03:01:31,400
Speaker 1: responsibility and he is more than stable now, so it's

3585
03:01:31,640 --> 03:01:35,160
Speaker 1: only fair to me and my children. Thank you so much.

3586
03:01:35,720 --> 03:01:40,279
Speaker 4: We have another update coming up, but we have to pause, pause,

3587
03:01:40,680 --> 03:01:43,680
Speaker 4: and break it down. Let's break it down. What do

3588
03:01:43,760 --> 03:01:45,160
Speaker 4: we think is that the real question?

3589
03:01:45,520 --> 03:01:48,199
Speaker 1: The real question? What is the real question? We already

3590
03:01:48,240 --> 03:01:50,800
Speaker 1: we already determined that Opie is not the ahole four

3591
03:01:50,920 --> 03:01:55,119
Speaker 1: pursuing it? How should be not? How should Opie now

3592
03:01:55,640 --> 03:01:56,800
Speaker 1: pursue it? Actually?

3593
03:01:57,000 --> 03:02:00,480
Speaker 2: I put it into action for sure, get child support

3594
03:02:00,680 --> 03:02:04,520
Speaker 2: for like going forward for sure, and I think she

3595
03:02:04,560 --> 03:02:06,960
Speaker 2: should go back as far as possible. I mean, like,

3596
03:02:07,600 --> 03:02:12,600
Speaker 2: this guy obviously has the money to help in some way,

3597
03:02:13,320 --> 03:02:17,080
Speaker 2: and so does his partner. They have a house, they

3598
03:02:17,120 --> 03:02:20,760
Speaker 2: could I mean, like, let's say you can't pay all

3599
03:02:20,840 --> 03:02:23,880
Speaker 2: of it right away, he can take out money against

3600
03:02:23,920 --> 03:02:27,160
Speaker 2: the house and pay it too. So I think there

3601
03:02:27,480 --> 03:02:30,400
Speaker 2: is very little reasons that he shouldn't be able to pay.

3602
03:02:30,879 --> 03:02:35,080
Speaker 4: What is the number again, with three children up to

3603
03:02:35,200 --> 03:02:38,879
Speaker 4: fifteen years for the oldest of back pay that.

3604
03:02:39,120 --> 03:02:41,640
Speaker 1: He should pay. Well, it would be fifteen years, right,

3605
03:02:41,879 --> 03:02:45,280
Speaker 1: fifteen years what children average? So oh yeah, like to

3606
03:02:45,400 --> 03:02:48,120
Speaker 1: calculate that. So but we learned them.

3607
03:03:55,680 --> 03:03:56,800
Speaker 7: Oh my God, I'm back.

3608
03:03:56,959 --> 03:03:57,080
Speaker 3: Yo.

3609
03:03:57,680 --> 03:03:59,320
Speaker 7: Hello, no one heard my story.

3610
03:04:00,800 --> 03:04:03,879
Speaker 1: I honestly didn't hear the beginning of your story again.

3611
03:04:04,240 --> 03:04:06,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I'm telling it again. I'm sorry if you

3612
03:04:07,480 --> 03:04:12,119
Speaker 7: I don't know. I saw it on Twitch. So Sunday

3613
03:04:12,320 --> 03:04:13,560
Speaker 7: after Mother's.

3614
03:04:13,280 --> 03:04:17,400
Speaker 2: Day, Sunday after Day, I'm very excited about this because

3615
03:04:17,400 --> 03:04:19,080
Speaker 2: this is the first time I'm hearing the story.

3616
03:04:19,560 --> 03:04:22,360
Speaker 7: Sunday after Mother's Day, my friend texts me and says, hey,

3617
03:04:22,640 --> 03:04:25,880
Speaker 7: do you want to come to a comedy show? And

3618
03:04:25,920 --> 03:04:28,840
Speaker 7: I was like, yes, I do, And so I drive

3619
03:04:28,959 --> 03:04:30,920
Speaker 7: down and we go to this comedy show for this

3620
03:04:31,000 --> 03:04:33,600
Speaker 7: guy named Brent Something again I do not remember his

3621
03:04:33,720 --> 03:04:38,640
Speaker 7: last name. Brent Something at Hollywood Improv. Because Netflix is

3622
03:04:38,680 --> 03:04:41,320
Speaker 7: a joke is having if you're in LA, Netflix is

3623
03:04:41,360 --> 03:04:44,240
Speaker 7: a joke, is having a whole kind of festival of

3624
03:04:44,800 --> 03:04:47,359
Speaker 7: comics around LA doing.

3625
03:04:47,200 --> 03:04:50,520
Speaker 1: Shows, which I saw him anaj Yeah, John.

3626
03:04:50,400 --> 03:04:54,720
Speaker 7: Laney was doing it, Taylor Thompson, big Mouth, a bunch

3627
03:04:54,800 --> 03:04:58,600
Speaker 7: of comics are doing stuff. So we went to this

3628
03:04:58,680 --> 03:05:01,800
Speaker 7: one and we got there and great, super funny guy

3629
03:05:03,200 --> 03:05:06,879
Speaker 7: and it finishes. And then next door to the place

3630
03:05:06,920 --> 03:05:13,080
Speaker 7: that we saw was also having another comedian going, and

3631
03:05:13,560 --> 03:05:15,720
Speaker 7: so we went next door and there's a bar in

3632
03:05:15,800 --> 03:05:17,640
Speaker 7: the front, and so we're like, oh, are we allowed

3633
03:05:17,680 --> 03:05:19,440
Speaker 7: to go into the bar if we didn't buy tickets

3634
03:05:19,480 --> 03:05:19,920
Speaker 7: for this show?

3635
03:05:19,920 --> 03:05:20,600
Speaker 1: And they're like yeah.

3636
03:05:20,920 --> 03:05:23,440
Speaker 7: We go inside and my friend's like, I wonder where

3637
03:05:23,560 --> 03:05:26,320
Speaker 7: the stage is here, and this guy pops up behind

3638
03:05:26,440 --> 03:05:28,880
Speaker 7: us and he's like, I can take you to the stage.

3639
03:05:29,120 --> 03:05:29,480
Speaker 1: We're like what.

3640
03:05:30,440 --> 03:05:33,039
Speaker 7: So he pulls this over and he's like, yeay, let

3641
03:05:33,080 --> 03:05:34,760
Speaker 7: me go check if there are any seats and we

3642
03:05:34,879 --> 03:05:38,320
Speaker 7: have not paid for this show at all at all,

3643
03:05:39,640 --> 03:05:41,600
Speaker 7: And so he goes inside and he checks. He comes

3644
03:05:41,640 --> 03:05:43,920
Speaker 7: back out, he's like, sorry, there's no seats, but let's

3645
03:05:44,240 --> 03:05:46,080
Speaker 7: but I'll take you up through the green room and

3646
03:05:46,160 --> 03:05:50,480
Speaker 7: you can watch from like above, And so he takes us.

3647
03:05:50,560 --> 03:05:53,039
Speaker 7: There's this guy guarding the stairs and he's like, yeah,

3648
03:05:53,080 --> 03:05:57,240
Speaker 7: they're with me. He takes this up to the green Yeah,

3649
03:05:57,600 --> 03:05:59,120
Speaker 7: And he takes us up to the green room and

3650
03:05:59,200 --> 03:06:02,720
Speaker 7: we watch from the top of these stairs and the

3651
03:06:02,800 --> 03:06:04,879
Speaker 7: guy is also great. I don't know his name because

3652
03:06:05,200 --> 03:06:07,520
Speaker 7: we weren't there for the beginning, but he's super funny.

3653
03:06:08,280 --> 03:06:11,039
Speaker 7: And then after that, like towards the end of that show,

3654
03:06:11,240 --> 03:06:12,920
Speaker 7: the guy, the same guy comes up to us and

3655
03:06:13,000 --> 03:06:15,640
Speaker 7: he's like, hey, there's an after party at this place

3656
03:06:15,680 --> 03:06:17,560
Speaker 7: called the Comedy Store if you want to come, come

3657
03:06:17,640 --> 03:06:18,160
Speaker 7: after the show.

3658
03:06:18,280 --> 03:06:22,640
Speaker 1: And we're like sure, and so special access, sofia just

3659
03:06:22,720 --> 03:06:26,240
Speaker 1: getting all accents, all the access, and so then we leave.

3660
03:06:27,959 --> 03:06:31,360
Speaker 7: And as we're leaving the show, we see the first

3661
03:06:31,400 --> 03:06:36,400
Speaker 7: comedian that my friend had like intended to see, and

3662
03:06:36,560 --> 03:06:38,680
Speaker 7: so she was like, I really want to talk to him,

3663
03:06:38,720 --> 03:06:39,360
Speaker 7: and I'm like do it.

3664
03:06:39,879 --> 03:06:40,640
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't know.

3665
03:06:40,640 --> 03:06:42,000
Speaker 7: I don't want to bug him because he's talking to

3666
03:06:42,080 --> 03:06:43,920
Speaker 7: someone else. And I was like, no, let's go talk

3667
03:06:43,959 --> 03:06:45,960
Speaker 7: to him. Then we go up to him and he

3668
03:06:46,120 --> 03:06:48,400
Speaker 7: was super nice and we talked to him for ten

3669
03:06:48,520 --> 03:06:51,360
Speaker 7: minutes and he was basically giving us a whole other

3670
03:06:51,480 --> 03:06:54,480
Speaker 7: comedy special yeah, like all of his bits, like he

3671
03:06:54,600 --> 03:06:56,520
Speaker 7: was doing all these bits and stuff and he's like, yeah,

3672
03:06:56,560 --> 03:06:58,320
Speaker 7: let me tell you this story about my buddy and I.

3673
03:06:58,959 --> 03:07:00,920
Speaker 7: And he was super funny just to talk to him.

3674
03:07:01,800 --> 03:07:03,840
Speaker 7: And so then that finishes up and we're like, okay,

3675
03:07:03,879 --> 03:07:06,040
Speaker 7: let's head to the Comedy Store. So we head to

3676
03:07:06,120 --> 03:07:08,840
Speaker 7: the Comedy Store. We could not find parking. It's on

3677
03:07:09,000 --> 03:07:11,600
Speaker 7: like I think it's on Sunset Boulevard. There's no parking.

3678
03:07:11,720 --> 03:07:15,360
Speaker 7: We're going back and forth for like fifteen minutes. Yeah,

3679
03:07:15,959 --> 03:07:19,240
Speaker 7: and finally we find a spot and we walked to

3680
03:07:19,320 --> 03:07:21,800
Speaker 7: the place and it's pretty busy. I think it was

3681
03:07:21,840 --> 03:07:26,120
Speaker 7: a bunch of amateur comedians who were kind of who

3682
03:07:26,160 --> 03:07:31,080
Speaker 7: were kind of not fighting the they were trying to

3683
03:07:31,200 --> 03:07:34,600
Speaker 7: get no, they were trying to get a spot on stage.

3684
03:07:34,720 --> 03:07:36,400
Speaker 7: So if he won this contest, it was kind of

3685
03:07:36,400 --> 03:07:39,120
Speaker 7: a contest, I suppose. And so we're like, oh, we should,

3686
03:07:39,600 --> 03:07:41,240
Speaker 7: you know, find people to talk to. And so we're

3687
03:07:41,320 --> 03:07:43,640
Speaker 7: like trying to find people we want to talk to,

3688
03:07:43,800 --> 03:07:45,760
Speaker 7: and then we see this line up against the wall

3689
03:07:46,440 --> 03:07:49,080
Speaker 7: and we turned to the guy next to us and

3690
03:07:49,120 --> 03:07:51,240
Speaker 7: we're like, what are people lined up for something? And

3691
03:07:51,320 --> 03:07:54,880
Speaker 7: he's like no, and then he proceeds to start flirting

3692
03:07:54,920 --> 03:07:57,560
Speaker 7: with my friend and it was so annoying because he

3693
03:07:57,640 --> 03:08:00,360
Speaker 7: completely ignored me, and so I was just like said,

3694
03:08:00,400 --> 03:08:04,920
Speaker 7: I didn't want he wasn't I didn't care that he was, Like,

3695
03:08:04,920 --> 03:08:06,400
Speaker 7: I didn't want him to flirt with me because I

3696
03:08:06,480 --> 03:08:08,760
Speaker 7: wasn't attracted to him, but I also didn't want to

3697
03:08:08,800 --> 03:08:11,039
Speaker 7: be ignored. So I was just kind of standing there.

3698
03:08:12,120 --> 03:08:13,080
Speaker 7: It was so awkward and.

3699
03:08:13,760 --> 03:08:17,640
Speaker 2: Say, if you're ever ignored when someone else is flirting

3700
03:08:17,680 --> 03:08:20,000
Speaker 2: with the person, just say I'm here.

3701
03:08:20,520 --> 03:08:23,959
Speaker 1: I works every time.

3702
03:08:24,640 --> 03:08:25,080
Speaker 5: It was like.

3703
03:08:26,920 --> 03:08:27,680
Speaker 1: She was talking to me at all.

3704
03:08:27,680 --> 03:08:29,840
Speaker 7: They're talking about comedians, and I didn't know enough to

3705
03:08:29,879 --> 03:08:31,760
Speaker 7: contribute to the conversation, so I was just like, but

3706
03:08:32,000 --> 03:08:35,080
Speaker 7: just say I want Well, then my friend eventually she

3707
03:08:35,320 --> 03:08:38,160
Speaker 7: turned to me and she was like trying to include me,

3708
03:08:38,280 --> 03:08:40,480
Speaker 7: but he was also trying to include me, and so

3709
03:08:40,600 --> 03:08:40,800
Speaker 7: it was.

3710
03:08:40,800 --> 03:08:42,160
Speaker 1: Like a back and forth. She'd be like, Hey, what

3711
03:08:42,240 --> 03:08:45,199
Speaker 1: do you think of this? And then he'd be like yeah.

3712
03:08:45,600 --> 03:08:47,840
Speaker 7: And then finally he's like, I have to go check

3713
03:08:47,879 --> 03:08:50,000
Speaker 7: my place, but you know, if you're still here, i'd

3714
03:08:50,040 --> 03:08:52,120
Speaker 7: love to keep talking. And I was like, yeah, I

3715
03:08:52,160 --> 03:09:02,560
Speaker 7: actually have to go, and then oh, Brett Moran, I

3716
03:09:02,800 --> 03:09:06,240
Speaker 7: think so. And then so finally we leave, and on

3717
03:09:06,320 --> 03:09:08,080
Speaker 7: the way out, I was wearing this new top that

3718
03:09:08,160 --> 03:09:11,400
Speaker 7: my mom made me that day, and this guy stops

3719
03:09:11,520 --> 03:09:12,920
Speaker 7: me and I'm like, I need to go to bed.

3720
03:09:12,959 --> 03:09:15,879
Speaker 7: It's one o'clock this time at this point. Wow, yeah,

3721
03:09:15,879 --> 03:09:18,400
Speaker 7: I know, I'm so tired. And so this guy stops

3722
03:09:18,440 --> 03:09:21,280
Speaker 7: He's like, oh, your outfit super cool, and I was

3723
03:09:21,400 --> 03:09:25,039
Speaker 7: like thank you. And then his friend started talking to us,

3724
03:09:25,120 --> 03:09:27,520
Speaker 7: and I'm like, I just want to go, and he's like, yeah,

3725
03:09:27,520 --> 03:09:29,160
Speaker 7: I just want to say, like, can I get your Instagram?

3726
03:09:29,200 --> 03:09:30,440
Speaker 7: And I don't know how to tell people know, so

3727
03:09:30,480 --> 03:09:32,840
Speaker 7: I was like sure. He's like, you're gonna like follow

3728
03:09:32,879 --> 03:09:33,360
Speaker 7: me back, and.

3729
03:09:33,360 --> 03:09:36,280
Speaker 1: I was like, that's sure, you're gonna follow me back.

3730
03:09:36,480 --> 03:09:37,560
Speaker 1: I have not followed them back.

3731
03:09:37,600 --> 03:09:37,760
Speaker 3: Good.

3732
03:09:38,280 --> 03:09:40,040
Speaker 7: And then his friend was like, oh, do you like,

3733
03:09:40,120 --> 03:09:42,199
Speaker 7: are you a comic, because I guess everyone there was comics.

3734
03:09:42,240 --> 03:09:43,680
Speaker 7: And I was like no, I do kind of like

3735
03:09:43,800 --> 03:09:47,360
Speaker 7: improv though, and and he was like, I do improv.

3736
03:09:47,440 --> 03:09:49,039
Speaker 7: We should do improv together sometime.

3737
03:09:49,120 --> 03:09:50,440
Speaker 1: And I was like sure.

3738
03:09:50,959 --> 03:09:53,200
Speaker 7: And then finally they released us and I go to

3739
03:09:53,280 --> 03:09:54,360
Speaker 7: bed and that was my night.

3740
03:09:55,000 --> 03:09:56,120
Speaker 1: Sounds like a riveting night.

3741
03:09:56,280 --> 03:09:59,000
Speaker 7: Thank you for listening to my story, and thank you

3742
03:09:59,120 --> 03:10:00,959
Speaker 7: to the Twitch people listening to it twice.

3743
03:10:00,879 --> 03:10:03,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, listening to it twice. Well, what do you think

3744
03:10:03,200 --> 03:10:05,560
Speaker 2: about Sophia's story? Should she had given the random man

3745
03:10:05,720 --> 03:10:07,439
Speaker 2: her Instagram?

3746
03:10:07,959 --> 03:10:11,280
Speaker 1: Or no, I did, I just didn't fallow. Should she have?

3747
03:10:11,560 --> 03:10:11,720
Speaker 3: Yeah?

3748
03:10:11,800 --> 03:10:16,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, let us know in the chat. But before

3749
03:10:16,320 --> 03:10:18,160
Speaker 2: we get into this next door, we got another thirty

3750
03:10:18,240 --> 03:10:23,040
Speaker 2: minutes because oh Martin donated twenty dollars on the tip link.

3751
03:10:23,440 --> 03:10:23,920
Speaker 1: One done.

3752
03:10:24,000 --> 03:10:27,440
Speaker 2: Millennial donated forty seven seventy six on the tip link.

3753
03:10:27,440 --> 03:10:29,000
Speaker 2: I can't sleep in the same bed as other people

3754
03:10:29,040 --> 03:10:31,960
Speaker 2: because my mom and sister would refuse to share with

3755
03:10:32,160 --> 03:10:35,039
Speaker 2: me since I was a fitful sleeper. But I wasn't

3756
03:10:35,120 --> 03:10:37,680
Speaker 2: allowed to share with my brothers or dad since I

3757
03:10:37,879 --> 03:10:40,840
Speaker 2: was a girl in say Sheia donated five bucks. Wait

3758
03:10:40,920 --> 03:10:44,440
Speaker 2: to tell the story. There's a thirty second delay. Hopefully

3759
03:10:44,480 --> 03:10:47,560
Speaker 2: the delay is good, Sarah the three horn. Thanks for

3760
03:10:47,600 --> 03:10:51,080
Speaker 2: the one buck and then finally the donation that went

3761
03:10:51,120 --> 03:10:56,000
Speaker 2: over the edge to add more time. Another round. Nice

3762
03:10:56,360 --> 03:11:00,560
Speaker 2: MJ Grow with fifty dollars. Okay, I need you guys

3763
03:11:00,600 --> 03:11:04,119
Speaker 2: to help me finish my workouts. Work hard, MJ Grow.

3764
03:11:04,320 --> 03:11:08,920
Speaker 2: Do those crunches or whatever you're doing an Asian persuasion.

3765
03:11:08,959 --> 03:11:11,080
Speaker 2: Thanks for the five bucks. I have a freckle where

3766
03:11:11,120 --> 03:11:14,160
Speaker 2: a watch would be, and I always say half past freckle.

3767
03:11:14,959 --> 03:11:15,760
Speaker 1: That's really cute.

3768
03:11:15,840 --> 03:11:18,080
Speaker 2: I like that, you know what I'll say, Like, I

3769
03:11:18,320 --> 03:11:22,920
Speaker 2: like when we spend that because we just earned a

3770
03:11:22,920 --> 03:11:23,879
Speaker 2: wheel spin we did.

3771
03:11:24,040 --> 03:11:27,120
Speaker 5: Here we go, Well, this lady looks so much better

3772
03:11:27,160 --> 03:11:29,640
Speaker 5: on me. I don't like the outside lighting.

3773
03:11:30,240 --> 03:11:33,520
Speaker 1: Look at look at me. I look pale. All right,

3774
03:11:33,600 --> 03:11:34,360
Speaker 1: you're cute. Here we go.

3775
03:11:39,840 --> 03:11:48,040
Speaker 5: Apology all right, so one of you or both of

3776
03:11:48,120 --> 03:11:52,280
Speaker 5: you are going to have to call someone and apologize.

3777
03:11:52,360 --> 03:11:54,800
Speaker 5: But this is how you apologize. You say I am sorry,

3778
03:11:55,600 --> 03:11:59,200
Speaker 5: and they ask what it is for. You don't answer.

3779
03:11:59,280 --> 03:12:01,600
Speaker 5: You just say for the thing, I'm really sorry, and

3780
03:12:01,840 --> 03:12:04,039
Speaker 5: they have to say I have to guess what you're

3781
03:12:04,080 --> 03:12:07,200
Speaker 5: sorry for. Sam, you do it, and Sam you could.

3782
03:12:07,640 --> 03:12:09,800
Speaker 5: You can choose anyone you want. I was gonna be

3783
03:12:09,840 --> 03:12:11,520
Speaker 5: mean and choose it for you, but you could choose

3784
03:12:11,560 --> 03:12:12,080
Speaker 5: anyone you want.

3785
03:12:12,160 --> 03:12:12,440
Speaker 3: I don't.

3786
03:12:13,480 --> 03:12:16,120
Speaker 1: I don't even have my phone on you don't have

3787
03:12:16,160 --> 03:12:16,720
Speaker 1: your phone on you?

3788
03:12:16,959 --> 03:12:17,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

3789
03:12:17,240 --> 03:12:19,800
Speaker 1: I I need it? All right? Help me, Sophia.

3790
03:12:19,840 --> 03:12:20,600
Speaker 5: Do you have your phone on you?

3791
03:12:21,160 --> 03:12:21,680
Speaker 1: Yes? You do?

3792
03:12:22,320 --> 03:12:23,199
Speaker 5: You just read a story.

3793
03:12:23,320 --> 03:12:23,920
Speaker 1: Who you gonna call?

3794
03:12:24,080 --> 03:12:24,600
Speaker 5: Call Steph?

3795
03:12:24,760 --> 03:12:25,200
Speaker 3: No? What?

3796
03:12:26,080 --> 03:12:26,840
Speaker 1: Call uh?

3797
03:12:27,440 --> 03:12:28,160
Speaker 7: Doctor?

3798
03:12:28,959 --> 03:12:29,520
Speaker 1: Sorry? Sorry?

3799
03:12:29,920 --> 03:12:30,040
Speaker 3: Uh?

3800
03:12:30,560 --> 03:12:32,680
Speaker 5: Call called the person we went to the rent fair with.

3801
03:12:33,480 --> 03:12:34,440
Speaker 5: You could call you know who?

3802
03:12:34,480 --> 03:12:36,680
Speaker 1: You can call two?

3803
03:12:38,800 --> 03:12:38,920
Speaker 3: Uh?

3804
03:12:39,080 --> 03:12:41,600
Speaker 5: The person that we went to the rent fair with?

3805
03:12:42,600 --> 03:12:44,000
Speaker 5: Why and tell them?

3806
03:12:44,040 --> 03:12:45,960
Speaker 1: Sorry? No, just do it?

3807
03:12:46,080 --> 03:12:47,320
Speaker 5: Just see what do what they do?

3808
03:12:48,080 --> 03:12:49,720
Speaker 1: Sam's gonna do it? Why are you not gonna do this?

3809
03:12:49,879 --> 03:12:53,440
Speaker 7: Because I don't want to? But Sam does really wants

3810
03:12:53,480 --> 03:12:53,959
Speaker 7: to all.

3811
03:12:53,959 --> 03:12:57,920
Speaker 5: Right, here we go, Here we go, Sam, Sam's got

3812
03:12:57,959 --> 03:13:02,680
Speaker 5: his phone. Who uh, I'm excited to see where this goes.

3813
03:13:02,720 --> 03:13:04,920
Speaker 2: Can I tell them that they are on okay? O

3814
03:13:05,040 --> 03:13:07,640
Speaker 2: P because I feel like if I don't say anything.

3815
03:13:08,000 --> 03:13:10,480
Speaker 5: Just be like, hey, I'm sorry and see what they

3816
03:13:10,560 --> 03:13:11,440
Speaker 5: think that you're sorry for.

3817
03:13:11,600 --> 03:13:13,720
Speaker 1: Put them on speaker. Then don't put them on speaker.

3818
03:13:13,879 --> 03:13:15,560
Speaker 5: You can put them on you can put them put

3819
03:13:15,600 --> 03:13:16,120
Speaker 5: them on speaker.

3820
03:13:16,200 --> 03:13:18,000
Speaker 1: Wait, but then they should know that, they should know.

3821
03:13:18,560 --> 03:13:23,040
Speaker 1: I should like, hey, I'm OK. By the way, I'm sorry. Hey,

3822
03:13:23,080 --> 03:13:27,800
Speaker 1: I'm on a okay, you're OK.

3823
03:13:27,920 --> 03:13:30,000
Speaker 5: And then put it put it really close to the microphone.

3824
03:13:37,680 --> 03:13:39,920
Speaker 1: Hey, you're on ok op and I'm sorry.

3825
03:13:41,040 --> 03:13:45,240
Speaker 3: No way, what's.

3826
03:13:46,840 --> 03:13:56,000
Speaker 1: Sad? I've never been proud of you. I'm sorry for

3827
03:13:56,080 --> 03:14:05,320
Speaker 1: disappointing you. It's a good soad you gotta stick back, Riley?

3828
03:14:05,400 --> 03:14:05,840
Speaker 1: Is this good?

3829
03:14:07,360 --> 03:14:10,440
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Cam, I had to apologize to you for

3830
03:14:10,600 --> 03:14:12,040
Speaker 2: no reason other than that.

3831
03:14:12,320 --> 03:14:15,240
Speaker 4: And I wait, it would be super funny if you

3832
03:14:15,360 --> 03:14:17,400
Speaker 4: apologize and you said you're not on.

3833
03:14:23,640 --> 03:14:23,960
Speaker 3: I love you.

3834
03:14:24,400 --> 03:14:30,480
Speaker 8: So all right, next we do this, I'm gonna pick

3835
03:14:30,520 --> 03:14:34,720
Speaker 8: the person for you. This that was Cam and he

3836
03:14:34,879 --> 03:14:36,280
Speaker 8: he was on an episode of ok OP.

3837
03:14:36,800 --> 03:14:40,600
Speaker 1: Yeah you should also we promote him.

3838
03:14:40,920 --> 03:14:42,720
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, if you want to listen to his music.

3839
03:14:43,400 --> 03:14:46,720
Speaker 2: He has great music. It's Camro on Spotify.

3840
03:14:46,879 --> 03:14:49,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, r a O. Yeah he is. He is awesome.

3841
03:14:49,680 --> 03:14:52,240
Speaker 2: We're doxing him, but we're doing him for but for

3842
03:14:52,360 --> 03:14:54,240
Speaker 2: a good cause. He's incredible.

3843
03:14:54,400 --> 03:14:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3844
03:14:56,120 --> 03:15:00,040
Speaker 2: I did not fail the assignment. I literally called what

3845
03:15:00,080 --> 03:15:02,760
Speaker 2: are you talking about? Susan Martin? Thanks for the one

3846
03:15:02,800 --> 03:15:05,000
Speaker 2: eighty five. Please like the stream, which is a reminder.

3847
03:15:05,600 --> 03:15:07,360
Speaker 1: Like the stream, like the stream if you.

3848
03:15:09,080 --> 03:15:10,920
Speaker 7: Got some fun content from liking the stream.

3849
03:15:12,760 --> 03:15:17,680
Speaker 2: But shall we get to this next story? Yes we should,

3850
03:15:19,240 --> 03:15:22,039
Speaker 2: but tear that star. If I don't say you're on Okayop,

3851
03:15:22,240 --> 03:15:22,880
Speaker 2: that would be mean.

3852
03:15:23,120 --> 03:15:23,760
Speaker 1: That would be mean.

3853
03:15:25,280 --> 03:15:25,760
Speaker 5: Is that legal?

3854
03:15:25,840 --> 03:15:25,960
Speaker 3: Here?

3855
03:15:26,000 --> 03:15:27,879
Speaker 5: You can like record people without them knowing.

3856
03:15:28,400 --> 03:15:31,960
Speaker 1: It's like kind of legal. But is it nice? But

3857
03:15:32,200 --> 03:15:34,920
Speaker 1: is it legal? I think it's legal, but I don't

3858
03:15:34,920 --> 03:15:38,560
Speaker 1: think it's nice. What story are we on? It's my story? Okay,

3859
03:15:38,680 --> 03:15:41,880
Speaker 1: it's mine. Okay, you know what it is. Yeah, I

3860
03:15:42,000 --> 03:15:46,720
Speaker 1: do the lights. I got you, I got you. We're

3861
03:15:46,720 --> 03:15:52,440
Speaker 1: gonna be chilly, man, freaking chili. I gotta fix a few.

3862
03:15:54,640 --> 03:15:57,640
Speaker 7: Daniel Papercreane says you did fail, actually because Riley said,

3863
03:15:57,680 --> 03:15:59,800
Speaker 7: you're supposed to make them guess as to why you're

3864
03:15:59,840 --> 03:16:00,520
Speaker 7: up apologizing.

3865
03:16:00,560 --> 03:16:04,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so true. You would even call what you call.

3866
03:16:05,680 --> 03:16:08,960
Speaker 5: Because I don't like to do fun stuff.

3867
03:16:09,200 --> 03:16:13,360
Speaker 1: Refused. Uh, but are you ready for this next story?

3868
03:16:13,560 --> 03:16:16,800
Speaker 1: Frank Donner, My dad says, next story? Please?

3869
03:16:19,360 --> 03:16:19,600
Speaker 3: Dad?

3870
03:16:22,400 --> 03:16:25,120
Speaker 1: I just saw that. I didn't see that. We're getting

3871
03:16:25,160 --> 03:16:29,360
Speaker 1: to it forgetting Yeah, come on, who story is it?

3872
03:16:29,959 --> 03:16:32,959
Speaker 7: It's a sure two?

3873
03:16:33,320 --> 03:16:41,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? No, I'm reading who's reading me? Oh? You ready? Yeah?

3874
03:16:41,320 --> 03:16:41,640
Speaker 1: All right?

3875
03:16:42,160 --> 03:16:44,760
Speaker 7: Am I the a hole for rethinking our wedding after

3876
03:16:44,920 --> 03:16:50,120
Speaker 7: finding out my fiance settled for me? So thrower A

3877
03:16:50,320 --> 03:16:56,520
Speaker 7: six six three six says, hold on, My fiance is

3878
03:16:56,680 --> 03:16:59,760
Speaker 7: way out of my league. She's a legit ten from

3879
03:17:00,000 --> 03:17:02,600
Speaker 7: Boks to personality just beyond what I ever thought I

3880
03:17:02,720 --> 03:17:05,960
Speaker 7: was capable of convincing to date me, never mind marry me.

3881
03:17:06,879 --> 03:17:09,680
Speaker 7: The ready why, the reason why has always been in

3882
03:17:09,720 --> 03:17:12,600
Speaker 7: the back of my mind, and unfortunately last week I

3883
03:17:12,720 --> 03:17:15,800
Speaker 7: got the answer. I overheard a question a conversation she

3884
03:17:15,879 --> 03:17:18,200
Speaker 7: had with her sister about me. I had just come home,

3885
03:17:18,800 --> 03:17:21,360
Speaker 7: and I guess she didn't hear me come In the

3886
03:17:21,440 --> 03:17:24,640
Speaker 7: conversation was long, but she basically confirmed that she's marrying

3887
03:17:24,720 --> 03:17:28,120
Speaker 7: me because I'm your typical nice guy you settled down with.

3888
03:17:28,640 --> 03:17:29,039
Speaker 1: She said.

3889
03:17:29,080 --> 03:17:31,160
Speaker 7: I adore her, and it's best to be with someone

3890
03:17:31,200 --> 03:17:34,120
Speaker 7: that puts you on a pedestal. She's basically confirmed that

3891
03:17:34,200 --> 03:17:38,560
Speaker 7: she had much much more wild, spicy sleep with other

3892
03:17:38,640 --> 03:17:41,040
Speaker 7: guys she dated. But she's had her fun and I

3893
03:17:41,200 --> 03:17:42,720
Speaker 7: was just fine in that area.

3894
03:17:44,040 --> 03:17:47,279
Speaker 1: That's so sad. That's so sad.

3895
03:17:48,000 --> 03:17:52,640
Speaker 7: There's a movie about this. It either has Adam Sandler

3896
03:17:53,959 --> 03:17:58,360
Speaker 7: or it has Paul Rudd, I can't remember, but he

3897
03:17:58,600 --> 03:18:00,440
Speaker 7: basically finds out that his wife's settled for.

3898
03:18:02,040 --> 03:18:05,840
Speaker 1: Which is never a good vibe. That's so sad. No,

3899
03:18:06,000 --> 03:18:07,280
Speaker 1: I don't think it's day. No.

3900
03:18:07,480 --> 03:18:09,840
Speaker 7: There's another movie, but I don't know what it's called.

3901
03:18:10,440 --> 03:18:12,800
Speaker 7: So later that night I tell her that I overheard

3902
03:18:12,840 --> 03:18:15,280
Speaker 7: her and I said that I was concerned that she

3903
03:18:15,480 --> 03:18:18,360
Speaker 7: was settling for me, and she didn't totally dismiss it.

3904
03:18:18,720 --> 03:18:20,680
Speaker 7: She said she loved me, of course, and knew she

3905
03:18:20,840 --> 03:18:25,600
Speaker 7: wanted to marry me. Sorry, Symmons knocked over the light.

3906
03:18:25,879 --> 03:18:30,720
Speaker 7: I got scared. She said she loved me, of course,

3907
03:18:30,840 --> 03:18:33,160
Speaker 7: and she knew she wanted to marry me early on

3908
03:18:33,280 --> 03:18:36,119
Speaker 7: because I was the type of guy you marry. Now

3909
03:18:36,200 --> 03:18:39,040
Speaker 7: I didn't take this well. I don't want to be

3910
03:18:39,120 --> 03:18:41,320
Speaker 7: someone that you settle for. I want to marry someone

3911
03:18:41,400 --> 03:18:44,000
Speaker 7: that is as crazy about me as I am about her.

3912
03:18:44,560 --> 03:18:46,680
Speaker 7: So I tell her that, and also that she's too

3913
03:18:46,720 --> 03:18:49,080
Speaker 7: good to settle. She should have person that she is

3914
03:18:49,200 --> 03:18:52,040
Speaker 7: crazy about, and that puts her on a pedestal. So

3915
03:18:53,040 --> 03:18:54,959
Speaker 7: I tell her to take some time to think about

3916
03:18:55,040 --> 03:18:57,480
Speaker 7: if I am ready, if I am really what she wants,

3917
03:18:57,959 --> 03:19:01,680
Speaker 7: and she breaks down in tears. She apologizes for saying

3918
03:19:01,760 --> 03:19:04,600
Speaker 7: that to her sister, that she didn't mean it, and

3919
03:19:04,680 --> 03:19:09,160
Speaker 7: she went on for a while. I eventually caved and apologized.

3920
03:19:09,440 --> 03:19:12,880
Speaker 7: We hugged and eventually slept together, which was actually the

3921
03:19:12,959 --> 03:19:16,800
Speaker 7: best ever. And for the past week she's basically been

3922
03:19:16,879 --> 03:19:20,160
Speaker 7: all over me. I love this girl, but how is

3923
03:19:20,200 --> 03:19:21,960
Speaker 7: she going to feel about me in ten years if

3924
03:19:22,000 --> 03:19:23,760
Speaker 7: she's not head over heels for me?

3925
03:19:23,879 --> 03:19:24,039
Speaker 3: Now?

3926
03:19:24,680 --> 03:19:27,240
Speaker 7: Am I making too much out of this? How should

3927
03:19:27,240 --> 03:19:29,959
Speaker 7: I handle this going forward? And there is a little

3928
03:19:29,959 --> 03:19:32,360
Speaker 7: baby edit and an update. I'll read the edit first,

3929
03:19:32,400 --> 03:19:34,920
Speaker 7: though I do want to add that she's never said

3930
03:19:35,040 --> 03:19:37,920
Speaker 7: she settled. That she never said she settled for me.

3931
03:19:38,160 --> 03:19:42,160
Speaker 7: That's something I inferred. Oh, she used settled down, which

3932
03:19:42,200 --> 03:19:44,520
Speaker 7: is different. She's only twenty seven, and like I said,

3933
03:19:44,600 --> 03:19:47,040
Speaker 7: she's at ten and could get someone else at any time.

3934
03:19:47,760 --> 03:19:50,520
Speaker 7: And there is an update, So she did it say

3935
03:19:50,840 --> 03:19:56,520
Speaker 7: she did settle specifically say settled for She just said

3936
03:19:56,520 --> 03:19:59,840
Speaker 7: I settled down, So it seems like she's not necessarily

3937
03:20:00,000 --> 03:20:02,640
Speaker 7: saying I settled for him, but like, oh, I had

3938
03:20:02,680 --> 03:20:04,879
Speaker 7: some crazy times and now I'm ready to settle down

3939
03:20:04,920 --> 03:20:05,640
Speaker 7: with someone calmer.

3940
03:20:05,720 --> 03:20:09,440
Speaker 5: Because if she said I settled for you, then it's like,

3941
03:20:09,920 --> 03:20:11,560
Speaker 5: in a way I would say, like she doesn't really

3942
03:20:11,640 --> 03:20:16,800
Speaker 5: respect you or thinks like she could do better. Yeah,

3943
03:20:17,400 --> 03:20:19,680
Speaker 5: but if settled down, I mean people, Yeah, people settled

3944
03:20:19,680 --> 03:20:20,480
Speaker 5: down for the right person.

3945
03:20:20,640 --> 03:20:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3946
03:20:20,920 --> 03:20:22,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't think.

3947
03:20:23,000 --> 03:20:25,240
Speaker 7: I think maybe he's reading a little bit too much

3948
03:20:25,280 --> 03:20:29,080
Speaker 7: into it. Yeah, if she didn't say the words I

3949
03:20:29,640 --> 03:20:34,320
Speaker 7: settled for him, I don't know. But there is an update.

3950
03:20:35,480 --> 03:20:38,840
Speaker 7: Should we get into it? Oh yeah, thanks for all

3951
03:20:38,920 --> 03:20:41,720
Speaker 7: the comments on my original post. There were way more

3952
03:20:41,800 --> 03:20:43,840
Speaker 7: than I expected to get, so I figured I would

3953
03:20:43,879 --> 03:20:46,800
Speaker 7: give an update. My fiance got out her old phone

3954
03:20:46,879 --> 03:20:48,680
Speaker 7: last night, which is the one she had when we

3955
03:20:48,760 --> 03:20:50,959
Speaker 7: first started dating, and showed me the text she sent

3956
03:20:51,000 --> 03:20:53,720
Speaker 7: to her sister and her friends about me. They made

3957
03:20:53,800 --> 03:20:56,800
Speaker 7: me feel a lot better. After our first date, she

3958
03:20:56,920 --> 03:21:00,120
Speaker 7: texted her sister, I'm going to marry this one one.

3959
03:21:01,320 --> 03:21:02,080
Speaker 1: That's so sweet.

3960
03:21:02,720 --> 03:21:05,480
Speaker 7: There were a lot more, including some NSFW ones to

3961
03:21:05,560 --> 03:21:08,480
Speaker 7: her friends about the first time we slept together. Those

3962
03:21:08,600 --> 03:21:12,880
Speaker 7: were more relief that it was good. There were no

3963
03:21:13,000 --> 03:21:15,879
Speaker 7: over the top praise, but she was complimentary, So I guess.

3964
03:21:15,800 --> 03:21:18,600
Speaker 1: I will take it. I guess that's sweet.

3965
03:21:19,360 --> 03:21:21,160
Speaker 7: There were a lot more texts on the phone she

3966
03:21:21,280 --> 03:21:23,000
Speaker 7: had it for a few years before she met me,

3967
03:21:23,080 --> 03:21:25,360
Speaker 7: and there were plenty of texts about other guys as well.

3968
03:21:25,760 --> 03:21:27,959
Speaker 7: I read those two and didn't see much gushing about

3969
03:21:28,040 --> 03:21:31,320
Speaker 7: any of them. Most of her wild times happened in college.

3970
03:21:31,360 --> 03:21:34,000
Speaker 7: I guess I know she loves me and has from

3971
03:21:34,080 --> 03:21:37,000
Speaker 7: the start, So for me, I think that's enough.

3972
03:21:38,000 --> 03:21:39,879
Speaker 1: That's good. Okay, that's a sweet ending.

3973
03:21:40,840 --> 03:21:44,920
Speaker 7: Of like misinterpreted what she was saying, yeah, and then yeah,

3974
03:21:45,480 --> 03:21:46,240
Speaker 7: and then it was okay.

3975
03:21:46,879 --> 03:21:47,000
Speaker 1: Uh.

3976
03:21:47,120 --> 03:21:49,560
Speaker 5: Going back to the sharing the NSW stuff, do you

3977
03:21:49,600 --> 03:21:54,040
Speaker 5: have girlfriends that share that kind of stuff with you? Like,

3978
03:21:54,120 --> 03:21:55,320
Speaker 5: do you have girlfriends that share like?

3979
03:21:55,400 --> 03:21:55,920
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

3980
03:21:56,000 --> 03:21:58,040
Speaker 5: So then he did this and then this happened, and

3981
03:21:58,080 --> 03:22:01,520
Speaker 5: then that, Yeah, how do you feel about that?

3982
03:22:02,480 --> 03:22:07,320
Speaker 7: They don't usually go super specific, okay, okay, and it's

3983
03:22:07,440 --> 03:22:11,119
Speaker 7: usually not a longtime partner that they're talking about. It's

3984
03:22:11,200 --> 03:22:13,600
Speaker 7: like a new person, like a what like if they

3985
03:22:13,680 --> 03:22:15,080
Speaker 7: have like a new person they're saying.

3986
03:22:15,240 --> 03:22:18,800
Speaker 5: Oh, gotcha, gouty yeah, yeah, okay.

3987
03:22:19,080 --> 03:22:19,280
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3988
03:22:19,320 --> 03:22:22,200
Speaker 5: I'm always like, I know that some girls do that,

3989
03:22:22,240 --> 03:22:24,400
Speaker 5: and I'm like, what's like, I don't know the line,

3990
03:22:24,440 --> 03:22:27,320
Speaker 5: because like, whatever guys do it, it feels like locker

3991
03:22:27,440 --> 03:22:28,440
Speaker 5: room talk, so I never.

3992
03:22:28,440 --> 03:22:29,960
Speaker 1: Like, really do it.

3993
03:22:31,680 --> 03:22:37,840
Speaker 7: It's usually the way it's talked about. I don't it's

3994
03:22:37,920 --> 03:22:40,560
Speaker 7: usually not that super super specific. I don't know how

3995
03:22:40,600 --> 03:22:41,240
Speaker 7: to explain it.

3996
03:22:42,480 --> 03:22:45,119
Speaker 5: I don't really want to give you an example.

3997
03:22:45,879 --> 03:22:49,720
Speaker 1: No, I think there is a line.

3998
03:22:49,959 --> 03:22:52,800
Speaker 7: You just have to be respectful, I suppose okay. And also,

3999
03:22:53,040 --> 03:22:54,840
Speaker 7: again they're not talking about their longtime partners.

4000
03:22:55,480 --> 03:22:58,760
Speaker 5: Gotcha okay, so it's just like the new flings. Yeah okay,

4001
03:23:00,120 --> 03:23:00,680
Speaker 5: yeah yeah.

4002
03:23:00,760 --> 03:23:03,959
Speaker 7: Amber Ro says ns f w's girl Chat.

4003
03:23:04,080 --> 03:23:04,320
Speaker 3: Lol.

4004
03:23:04,440 --> 03:23:06,120
Speaker 7: It's not a conversation you have all the time, but

4005
03:23:06,200 --> 03:23:13,440
Speaker 7: it does come up occasionally, okay. Yeah, And Dutchess Casana

4006
03:23:13,480 --> 03:23:15,160
Speaker 7: says I Shoure that kind of stuff with my BFF,

4007
03:23:15,360 --> 03:23:17,400
Speaker 7: but only that one person from my friend group. Yeah,

4008
03:23:17,440 --> 03:23:19,480
Speaker 7: it's not like I'm not talking about not all of

4009
03:23:19,560 --> 03:23:20,480
Speaker 7: my friends talking about it.

4010
03:23:21,959 --> 03:23:24,959
Speaker 1: This is you know, some people.

4011
03:23:25,440 --> 03:23:28,440
Speaker 7: But let's read some of these donations before we get

4012
03:23:28,480 --> 03:23:31,720
Speaker 7: into the next story because Sam gone, so I have

4013
03:23:31,800 --> 03:23:34,360
Speaker 7: to read it again. Uh, Samantha, thank you for the

4014
03:23:34,480 --> 03:23:36,200
Speaker 7: five gifted membership, so.

4015
03:23:36,240 --> 03:23:36,880
Speaker 1: You appreciate you.

4016
03:23:37,959 --> 03:23:40,280
Speaker 7: And Nix, thank you for the five bucks. Fyi, Kelly

4017
03:23:40,400 --> 03:23:43,120
Speaker 7: is a two part consent date, so you have to

4018
03:23:43,240 --> 03:23:47,800
Speaker 7: have four in form. Okay, I just I just wanted

4019
03:23:47,840 --> 03:23:51,040
Speaker 7: to be nice, so I wouldn't have done it even

4020
03:23:51,080 --> 03:23:51,920
Speaker 7: if it was legal.

4021
03:23:54,320 --> 03:23:56,440
Speaker 1: And those are all the donations. We appreciate you.

4022
03:23:57,080 --> 03:23:57,200
Speaker 3: Ice.

4023
03:23:59,040 --> 03:24:00,520
Speaker 7: Uh wait, can you scrow a because I want to

4024
03:24:00,560 --> 03:24:03,160
Speaker 7: read if there were any from the from that last story.

4025
03:24:04,360 --> 03:24:07,560
Speaker 1: But bab Bob bob uh.

4026
03:24:07,760 --> 03:24:10,879
Speaker 7: Dutchess Colana says, yeah, settle down is completely different from

4027
03:24:11,000 --> 03:24:13,880
Speaker 7: settling Yeah, and Sam Hyatt says, op he is the

4028
03:24:14,000 --> 03:24:16,760
Speaker 7: whole for lying and leading us on. Yeah, they really

4029
03:24:17,480 --> 03:24:26,720
Speaker 7: really switched up on that. But pointed Astrologia twenty four says,

4030
03:24:27,000 --> 03:24:29,160
Speaker 7: is the other guy or are the other guys?

4031
03:24:29,280 --> 03:24:29,720
Speaker 1: F boys?

4032
03:24:29,800 --> 03:24:32,120
Speaker 7: And OPI is the husband material. I think that's what

4033
03:24:32,360 --> 03:24:35,280
Speaker 7: oh the wife was saying or the yance was saying,

4034
03:24:36,000 --> 03:24:39,360
Speaker 7: And Duchess Colana says that was Adam Sandler's real life wife.

4035
03:24:39,840 --> 03:24:43,800
Speaker 7: Loll wait was the movie with Adam Sandler? Yeah, okay,

4036
03:24:44,360 --> 03:24:48,840
Speaker 7: I was right, Courtney Ge. We swope a little bit,

4037
03:24:49,160 --> 03:24:55,039
Speaker 7: Courtney G. What does Courtney Ge say? Uh wait, there

4038
03:24:55,080 --> 03:24:57,200
Speaker 7: we go. I can't speak for all fms, but it's

4039
03:24:57,200 --> 03:24:59,200
Speaker 7: a lot of how they make us feel in the moment,

4040
03:24:59,440 --> 03:25:04,160
Speaker 7: very smutty romance feel to the convo. Yeah, yeah, that

4041
03:25:04,320 --> 03:25:06,320
Speaker 7: would be. Yeah, it's like, oh my god, and then

4042
03:25:06,400 --> 03:25:08,320
Speaker 7: this happened and it was lovely, or like this happened

4043
03:25:08,320 --> 03:25:15,240
Speaker 7: and it would it sucked. That's usually the combos. Samantha says, poppin'

4044
03:25:15,280 --> 03:25:16,880
Speaker 7: to add to the warm army. But I'll listen to

4045
03:25:16,959 --> 03:25:19,760
Speaker 7: the stream in the morning. My daughter day is tomorrow,

4046
03:25:20,040 --> 03:25:23,160
Speaker 7: and I got to work in the damn rain tomorrow.

4047
03:25:23,320 --> 03:25:23,520
Speaker 1: Ooh.

4048
03:25:23,800 --> 03:25:26,240
Speaker 7: I live in North Carolina. So good night everyone, Good night.

4049
03:25:27,400 --> 03:25:29,880
Speaker 7: Are you ready for the next story though, Yeah, let's

4050
03:25:29,920 --> 03:25:32,600
Speaker 7: get on to it. Am I the a hole for

4051
03:25:32,720 --> 03:25:35,800
Speaker 7: taking credit for dinner after the praise was given to

4052
03:25:36,000 --> 03:25:39,960
Speaker 7: my wife. I think it just depends on who made

4053
03:25:39,959 --> 03:25:45,760
Speaker 7: the dinner so thro a tasteless host says I could

4054
03:25:45,840 --> 03:25:48,480
Speaker 7: not cook for the life of me before I met

4055
03:25:48,560 --> 03:25:51,440
Speaker 7: my wife. Not that I was incompetent, just a very

4056
03:25:51,520 --> 03:25:56,840
Speaker 7: boring cook. Grilled cheese, boiled dogs like hot dogs, ramen

4057
03:25:56,959 --> 03:25:59,240
Speaker 7: with maybe an egg or slice of cheese for excitement,

4058
03:26:00,640 --> 03:26:03,720
Speaker 7: bland oven baked chicken, or pork chops that were never juicy.

4059
03:26:04,280 --> 03:26:09,960
Speaker 7: That all sounds pretty sad. We hosted our first year

4060
03:26:10,000 --> 03:26:12,800
Speaker 7: of dating. She painstakingly took her time in the kitchen

4061
03:26:12,879 --> 03:26:15,119
Speaker 7: to help me learn what spices stewed at each other,

4062
03:26:15,760 --> 03:26:18,600
Speaker 7: or what different chemical reactions go on with marinades or

4063
03:26:18,800 --> 03:26:21,680
Speaker 7: roasting and so on. That's so sweet of her. I've

4064
03:26:21,760 --> 03:26:24,720
Speaker 7: since actually come to love cooking and experimenting and learning

4065
03:26:24,760 --> 03:26:25,800
Speaker 7: new recipes on my own.

4066
03:26:26,320 --> 03:26:26,800
Speaker 1: It helps.

4067
03:26:26,840 --> 03:26:29,000
Speaker 7: I enjoyed trying new stuff, but I was afraid to

4068
03:26:29,080 --> 03:26:32,520
Speaker 7: do it without her encouragement and support. That's really cool

4069
03:26:32,560 --> 03:26:34,320
Speaker 7: of her. She didn't have to do that, and it's

4070
03:26:34,360 --> 03:26:37,360
Speaker 7: really cool that she took the time and you learned.

4071
03:26:37,840 --> 03:26:38,280
Speaker 1: I love that.

4072
03:26:40,600 --> 03:26:43,840
Speaker 7: We hosted a party mostly family, maybe hers more than mine,

4073
03:26:44,120 --> 03:26:47,840
Speaker 7: and I cooked everything. I was so proud of myself,

4074
03:26:48,000 --> 03:26:50,680
Speaker 7: maybe stupidly if We're handling a twenty plus dinner party,

4075
03:26:50,720 --> 03:26:54,240
Speaker 7: from invites to grocery shopping to cooking to handling set

4076
03:26:54,320 --> 03:26:56,520
Speaker 7: up and breaking down and all. WHOA, that's a lot.

4077
03:26:57,000 --> 03:26:59,280
Speaker 7: I've helped with cooking and preparation for other parties over

4078
03:26:59,360 --> 03:27:02,880
Speaker 7: four years, but never souped the nuts. My father in

4079
03:27:03,000 --> 03:27:05,720
Speaker 7: law thanked her for the meal. Thanked her for the meal.

4080
03:27:06,920 --> 03:27:10,480
Speaker 7: Oh okay, so before we go on, I'm seeing the issuer.

4081
03:27:10,800 --> 03:27:14,280
Speaker 7: Ohp he did everything for this party, cooked everything. And

4082
03:27:14,400 --> 03:27:17,960
Speaker 7: then the dad thanked Opie's wife.

4083
03:27:19,760 --> 03:27:20,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

4084
03:27:20,160 --> 03:27:22,360
Speaker 7: I would be like if I did all that work,

4085
03:27:22,360 --> 03:27:23,680
Speaker 7: I'd be like, whoa, Actually it was.

4086
03:27:23,920 --> 03:27:24,320
Speaker 3: It was me.

4087
03:27:26,280 --> 03:27:33,240
Speaker 1: Does he know though? What that Opie? I didn't presumably know? Okay,

4088
03:27:33,360 --> 03:27:34,000
Speaker 1: but let's read on.

4089
03:27:35,480 --> 03:27:39,520
Speaker 7: I can only attribute this to my ego. But I said, well,

4090
03:27:39,640 --> 03:27:42,840
Speaker 7: you can thank her for teaching me to cook. I

4091
03:27:42,879 --> 03:27:46,360
Speaker 7: don't think that's toopid. Yeah, still I feel like that.

4092
03:27:46,440 --> 03:27:49,040
Speaker 7: I feel like she should have said something. I think

4093
03:27:49,080 --> 03:27:51,040
Speaker 7: the wife should have piped up and said, hey, you

4094
03:27:51,080 --> 03:27:55,080
Speaker 7: actually should thank my husband. He kind of got red

4095
03:27:55,120 --> 03:27:57,480
Speaker 7: in the face, then said she did a great job

4096
03:27:57,560 --> 03:28:00,640
Speaker 7: teaching me, and that was that. As I was cleaning up,

4097
03:28:00,720 --> 03:28:02,800
Speaker 7: she asked me why I felt the need to brag

4098
03:28:02,959 --> 03:28:05,840
Speaker 7: by putting her down. I don't I don't know if

4099
03:28:05,879 --> 03:28:08,120
Speaker 7: that was a put down. I said that wasn't what

4100
03:28:08,200 --> 03:28:09,680
Speaker 7: I meant to do, but she said that was what

4101
03:28:09,879 --> 03:28:13,560
Speaker 7: I did regardless of intent. I apologize, but it just

4102
03:28:13,640 --> 03:28:16,160
Speaker 7: wasn't enough. I also asked if this was something I

4103
03:28:16,240 --> 03:28:19,240
Speaker 7: did often made her feel overlooked, but she said that

4104
03:28:19,320 --> 03:28:21,440
Speaker 7: a party with her family wasn't the place for me

4105
03:28:21,560 --> 03:28:25,560
Speaker 7: to start bragging. There are some element comments.

4106
03:28:26,600 --> 03:28:31,840
Speaker 1: I don't know if this is a brag.

4107
03:28:32,600 --> 03:28:37,760
Speaker 7: No, I think I I think Opie's wife should have

4108
03:28:37,840 --> 03:28:40,880
Speaker 7: been the first to say, hey, oh, p cook this.

4109
03:28:41,520 --> 03:28:45,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I think I think if it is Opie's wife,

4110
03:28:45,560 --> 03:28:47,240
Speaker 5: the one that usually cooks, that's a question.

4111
03:28:47,440 --> 03:28:52,360
Speaker 7: I would so Opie's wife usually cooks, and so I

4112
03:28:52,440 --> 03:28:55,560
Speaker 7: think it was just an innocent mistake. And then Opie

4113
03:28:55,680 --> 03:28:58,279
Speaker 7: taught her op I mean sorry, Opie's wife taught Opie

4114
03:28:58,360 --> 03:29:01,440
Speaker 7: how to cook. And then OPI made this whole meal,

4115
03:29:01,520 --> 03:29:02,520
Speaker 7: set up this whole party.

4116
03:29:03,200 --> 03:29:03,320
Speaker 3: Uh.

4117
03:29:03,440 --> 03:29:05,760
Speaker 7: And then the father gave the credit to the wife,

4118
03:29:06,920 --> 03:29:09,040
Speaker 7: and so OPI was like, actually she taught me at

4119
03:29:09,080 --> 03:29:12,119
Speaker 7: a cook, but this was all me. I don't think

4120
03:29:12,160 --> 03:29:15,600
Speaker 7: that's bragging. I think it's kind of a whole life move.

4121
03:29:16,640 --> 03:29:19,520
Speaker 5: Everyone's pride is very high and their egos very high.

4122
03:29:19,879 --> 03:29:22,879
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, like the Opie, the wife, the dad.

4123
03:29:23,840 --> 03:29:24,240
Speaker 3: I don't know.

4124
03:29:24,560 --> 03:29:26,320
Speaker 7: I would be a little bit annoyed if I did

4125
03:29:26,360 --> 03:29:29,200
Speaker 7: all that work and no one gave me credit. It

4126
03:29:29,400 --> 03:29:31,920
Speaker 7: actively gave someone else credit and that person didn't stand

4127
03:29:32,000 --> 03:29:32,280
Speaker 7: up for me.

4128
03:29:33,240 --> 03:29:34,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

4129
03:29:34,600 --> 03:29:36,960
Speaker 7: I don't think I would be like annoyed at the

4130
03:29:37,000 --> 03:29:39,480
Speaker 7: father for the initial reaction. I'd be like, actually, I

4131
03:29:39,640 --> 03:29:42,200
Speaker 7: made it tonight, she took she too, she taught me

4132
03:29:42,240 --> 03:29:46,200
Speaker 7: how to cook, and I'm super grateful. But yeah, I

4133
03:29:46,240 --> 03:29:49,920
Speaker 7: don't think he's necessarily bragging. I think, but you think

4134
03:29:50,000 --> 03:29:52,920
Speaker 7: everyone's a little bit Yeah, I would say so that

4135
03:29:53,360 --> 03:29:55,440
Speaker 7: either okay, so Riley's one.

4136
03:29:55,440 --> 03:29:56,560
Speaker 5: Dad because he doesn't know.

4137
03:29:57,520 --> 03:29:57,640
Speaker 1: Uh.

4138
03:29:58,040 --> 03:30:00,160
Speaker 7: I think so Riley thinks everyone says. I think just

4139
03:30:00,240 --> 03:30:00,840
Speaker 7: the wife sucks.

4140
03:30:01,840 --> 03:30:04,520
Speaker 5: I think the husband would have like kind of took

4141
03:30:04,600 --> 03:30:06,120
Speaker 5: it because she's the one that usually does it.

4142
03:30:06,200 --> 03:30:08,360
Speaker 7: Or like be like, but he stepped up. He's like

4143
03:30:08,400 --> 03:30:11,080
Speaker 7: I learned, and you know, normally i'd be like, you know,

4144
03:30:12,040 --> 03:30:15,080
Speaker 7: thank you, thank you, my wife, but today I did it.

4145
03:30:15,800 --> 03:30:18,560
Speaker 1: I don't not how don't know okay, okay, Riley, Right.

4146
03:30:19,080 --> 03:30:22,840
Speaker 7: Imagine normally I cook, you know, in the house, I'll

4147
03:30:22,879 --> 03:30:23,680
Speaker 7: bake blah blah blah.

4148
03:30:24,200 --> 03:30:28,240
Speaker 1: You make the best meal. I making your I don't

4149
03:30:28,240 --> 03:30:30,920
Speaker 1: know what do you want to make? Anything? I will say.

4150
03:30:35,920 --> 03:30:37,240
Speaker 5: No spaghetti, spaghapaghetti?

4151
03:30:37,480 --> 03:30:41,080
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, we can dream, okay, whatever. It's the best

4152
03:30:41,120 --> 03:30:46,199
Speaker 7: spaghetti that you, like, you have ever made? Okay, everyone,

4153
03:30:46,280 --> 03:30:48,960
Speaker 7: he said, They're like, this is incredible. This is the

4154
03:30:49,000 --> 03:30:51,080
Speaker 7: best spaghetti I've ever you What have you done to

4155
03:30:51,120 --> 03:30:53,880
Speaker 7: the spaghetti? It's incredible? And then they go, thank you

4156
03:30:54,000 --> 03:30:55,600
Speaker 7: Sophia for making this spaghetti.

4157
03:30:55,920 --> 03:30:59,280
Speaker 5: But the spaghetti has meat in it.

4158
03:30:59,400 --> 03:31:05,160
Speaker 1: No, no, you know cook made it?

4159
03:31:06,520 --> 03:31:08,680
Speaker 5: Well, it has meet in it. So that's where it comes.

4160
03:31:08,840 --> 03:31:11,080
Speaker 1: You know, they wouldn't know. They wouldn't know. They thank me.

4161
03:31:11,720 --> 03:31:14,480
Speaker 1: What do you do? I don't say anything. I'd probably

4162
03:31:14,520 --> 03:31:19,840
Speaker 1: go along with it, like no, I would not dot

4163
03:31:19,920 --> 03:31:22,360
Speaker 1: you in front of everyone be like hey I made this.

4164
03:31:22,600 --> 03:31:26,720
Speaker 1: No way you'd be like, actually, I made it. Thank you.

4165
03:31:26,800 --> 03:31:32,480
Speaker 7: I'm so glad you enjoyed it. Alan Foster says, to

4166
03:31:32,600 --> 03:31:32,920
Speaker 7: thank you for.

4167
03:31:32,879 --> 03:31:33,360
Speaker 1: The two bucks.

4168
03:31:33,480 --> 03:31:35,560
Speaker 7: Riley is theale. We're not letting people take bride.

4169
03:31:36,160 --> 03:31:39,879
Speaker 1: Let's take everyone. I don't think, I think, I don't think.

4170
03:31:40,120 --> 03:31:44,000
Speaker 7: I don't think said anything to outrageous. He just said

4171
03:31:44,400 --> 03:31:46,280
Speaker 7: you can, like she taught me how to cook, but

4172
03:31:46,400 --> 03:31:48,879
Speaker 7: I cooked tonight. I don't think that's he's still giving creditor,

4173
03:31:49,879 --> 03:31:52,440
Speaker 7: little duck Rue, thank you for celebrating one month of membership.

4174
03:31:52,680 --> 03:31:56,080
Speaker 7: Loved all the Okay Opio fam and all the little sillies,

4175
03:31:56,200 --> 03:32:00,800
Speaker 7: Oh Hail the Queen, Thank you, and Gabby B. Thank

4176
03:32:00,840 --> 03:32:03,480
Speaker 7: you for celebrating your one month of membership. One month member,

4177
03:32:03,680 --> 03:32:05,680
Speaker 7: Love you all and you guys help me feel happy.

4178
03:32:06,520 --> 03:32:09,840
Speaker 7: Oh go on, Well, let's get on to this relevant

4179
03:32:09,879 --> 03:32:15,440
Speaker 7: These relevant comments and an update. Alien life form sixty six'

4180
03:32:15,480 --> 03:32:17,680
Speaker 7: six says you didn't put her down though you gave

4181
03:32:17,760 --> 03:32:19,920
Speaker 7: her proper credit for teaching you. She was the a

4182
03:32:20,040 --> 03:32:22,920
Speaker 7: hole for stealing credit. She should have corrected your father

4183
03:32:23,000 --> 03:32:25,640
Speaker 7: in law. I wonder if she's envious or threatened by

4184
03:32:25,680 --> 03:32:29,800
Speaker 7: your newfound skills, not the a hole, and op responds

4185
03:32:29,840 --> 03:32:32,360
Speaker 7: to that with I doubt. I doubt she's envious. She's

4186
03:32:32,400 --> 03:32:34,920
Speaker 7: a master in the kitchen and she really excels when baking.

4187
03:32:35,600 --> 03:32:38,520
Speaker 7: But her cooking is phenomenal. People often compliment her for

4188
03:32:38,640 --> 03:32:42,040
Speaker 7: how well she cooked. In hindsight, maybe she's also upset

4189
03:32:42,120 --> 03:32:45,560
Speaker 7: my food, which still is nowhere near hers in quality,

4190
03:32:45,879 --> 03:32:49,280
Speaker 7: was mistaken for hers. I don't know if she was upset.

4191
03:32:49,280 --> 03:32:51,920
Speaker 7: I feel like she would have said, that's not my food.

4192
03:32:53,320 --> 03:32:54,000
Speaker 7: I didn't make that.

4193
03:32:54,800 --> 03:32:56,080
Speaker 1: I could do so much better than that.

4194
03:32:58,720 --> 03:33:00,800
Speaker 7: And then update, can you just go up a little bit?

4195
03:33:02,400 --> 03:33:05,720
Speaker 7: Aaron A says, picture Sophia taking credit for producing when

4196
03:33:05,800 --> 03:33:06,960
Speaker 7: Riley is the one doing it.

4197
03:33:11,440 --> 03:33:14,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes I produce sometimes I don't know.

4198
03:33:17,600 --> 03:33:17,840
Speaker 3: Riley.

4199
03:33:18,000 --> 03:33:19,600
Speaker 1: Take pride in your work.

4200
03:33:19,760 --> 03:33:24,120
Speaker 5: Take pride in my work. I mean, like, oh, it

4201
03:33:24,240 --> 03:33:27,520
Speaker 5: was so melt, something was like super passionate about well.

4202
03:33:27,560 --> 03:33:28,920
Speaker 5: I guess I am super passioned by this.

4203
03:33:29,440 --> 03:33:32,520
Speaker 7: Okay, you're she passive. Take pride, take pride, don't lever.

4204
03:33:32,720 --> 03:33:35,240
Speaker 7: Don't ever let me walk over and steal your credit.

4205
03:33:36,680 --> 03:33:39,000
Speaker 5: All right, I will never I will never do that again.

4206
03:33:39,040 --> 03:33:40,760
Speaker 5: I will never let you steal my credit.

4207
03:33:40,760 --> 03:33:42,040
Speaker 7: Never, never again.

4208
03:33:43,000 --> 03:33:44,240
Speaker 1: But let's get into this update.

4209
03:33:44,959 --> 03:33:48,440
Speaker 7: I think I misusing the term, but missing reasons comes

4210
03:33:48,480 --> 03:33:50,600
Speaker 7: to mind. She was stressed by work due to a

4211
03:33:50,600 --> 03:33:52,640
Speaker 7: sudden project that she wanted to be well rested for

4212
03:33:52,800 --> 03:33:55,560
Speaker 7: to tackle a dinner party with plenty of people isn't

4213
03:33:55,600 --> 03:33:58,120
Speaker 7: going to help that the party was planned before the

4214
03:33:58,160 --> 03:34:00,960
Speaker 7: project was dumped on her. She also apologized for her

4215
03:34:01,040 --> 03:34:04,280
Speaker 7: reaction okay, and admitted that it was out of line

4216
03:34:04,320 --> 03:34:06,200
Speaker 7: for her to say that, and reassured me that I

4217
03:34:06,240 --> 03:34:09,840
Speaker 7: did a great job, especially for my first party and

4218
03:34:10,120 --> 03:34:12,960
Speaker 7: for such a size that night was out of character

4219
03:34:13,040 --> 03:34:15,360
Speaker 7: for her, which is why I was concerned I screwed up.

4220
03:34:15,959 --> 03:34:18,160
Speaker 7: She was frustrated by the conversation she was having with

4221
03:34:18,240 --> 03:34:21,200
Speaker 7: her aunt because she was hinting around for babies. She

4222
03:34:21,280 --> 03:34:23,800
Speaker 7: didn't hear her dad at first because she was focused elsewhere,

4223
03:34:23,879 --> 03:34:26,160
Speaker 7: and then her mind got caught up and she felt ashamed,

4224
03:34:26,560 --> 03:34:28,480
Speaker 7: like others were judging her for not being the one

4225
03:34:28,560 --> 03:34:31,720
Speaker 7: to cook, and according to what she's mentioned, he probably

4226
03:34:31,879 --> 03:34:34,320
Speaker 7: instilled that in her, and she felt at the time

4227
03:34:34,480 --> 03:34:37,879
Speaker 7: like I was too quick to correct him. I tried

4228
03:34:37,959 --> 03:34:40,000
Speaker 7: to apologize for that, but she said it was fine.

4229
03:34:40,320 --> 03:34:43,520
Speaker 7: She was just more sensitive because of her embarrassment. I

4230
03:34:43,640 --> 03:34:46,080
Speaker 7: asked if there was anything specific I could change in

4231
03:34:46,160 --> 03:34:48,720
Speaker 7: how I show my appreciation that could help her feel

4232
03:34:48,800 --> 03:34:53,640
Speaker 7: fulfilled and validated. Opie sounds great. Opie sounds like even

4233
03:34:53,680 --> 03:34:55,400
Speaker 7: in the first bit, he was like, is there any

4234
03:34:55,600 --> 03:34:58,400
Speaker 7: other time where I've made you feel that I'm taking

4235
03:34:58,480 --> 03:35:01,400
Speaker 7: credit for things. I think, oh Pee, I think oh

4236
03:35:01,440 --> 03:35:04,320
Speaker 7: Pie's a nice guy, and I think that it's good

4237
03:35:04,360 --> 03:35:08,800
Speaker 7: that uh Opie's wife is owning up to it. I

4238
03:35:09,000 --> 03:35:11,520
Speaker 7: verbally show my gratitude and clean up the kitchen after

4239
03:35:11,600 --> 03:35:13,760
Speaker 7: she cooks is a thank you. But she clearly isn't

4240
03:35:13,800 --> 03:35:16,840
Speaker 7: feeling appreciated, and that means there needs to be adjustment.

4241
03:35:17,959 --> 03:35:19,560
Speaker 7: Ophis okay?

4242
03:35:19,640 --> 03:35:23,680
Speaker 1: Green flags? Green flags? Do you not agree really with?

4243
03:35:24,560 --> 03:35:28,160
Speaker 7: I think there are green flags in these in these adjustments. Yeah, yeah,

4244
03:35:28,320 --> 03:35:31,039
Speaker 7: I think they're green place be taking the right steps. Yeah,

4245
03:35:32,280 --> 03:35:34,720
Speaker 7: I think I think I don't even necessarily think that.

4246
03:35:35,000 --> 03:35:37,119
Speaker 7: I don't think he did anything wrong in the first place,

4247
03:35:37,560 --> 03:35:40,760
Speaker 7: but I think it's always a good idea to even

4248
03:35:40,879 --> 03:35:43,000
Speaker 7: find ways to show appreciation with for your partner.

4249
03:35:43,200 --> 03:35:43,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

4250
03:35:43,600 --> 03:35:46,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, even if, like the wife thought he did something wrong,

4251
03:35:46,520 --> 03:35:48,560
Speaker 5: he's taking the right steps and like you know, making

4252
03:35:48,640 --> 03:35:49,000
Speaker 5: up for that.

4253
03:35:49,280 --> 03:35:51,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going to.

4254
03:35:51,879 --> 03:35:55,800
Speaker 7: Keep talking about how we both handle gratitude and appreciation

4255
03:35:56,000 --> 03:35:58,200
Speaker 7: for each other to make sure we both feel fulfilled,

4256
03:35:58,560 --> 03:36:00,920
Speaker 7: and how I can support her best in the week's upcoming.

4257
03:36:01,080 --> 03:36:03,600
Speaker 7: Because this project she had dumped on her is a

4258
03:36:03,640 --> 03:36:06,360
Speaker 7: big one that will mean a lot of extra hours

4259
03:36:06,400 --> 03:36:09,400
Speaker 7: for her. The crows are calling out to us, and

4260
03:36:09,480 --> 03:36:12,280
Speaker 7: there are some relevant comments to finish off the story.

4261
03:36:13,560 --> 03:36:18,280
Speaker 7: Food Baby Baby says, I appreciate this update out of curiosity.

4262
03:36:18,360 --> 03:36:20,160
Speaker 7: What did she do for this event? I couldn't tell

4263
03:36:20,200 --> 03:36:22,840
Speaker 7: from the last post. I saw you shopped and cooked,

4264
03:36:22,920 --> 03:36:24,959
Speaker 7: But as someone who has hosted a lot of personally,

4265
03:36:25,080 --> 03:36:28,320
Speaker 7: and a lot personally and professionally, I know there is

4266
03:36:28,360 --> 03:36:30,840
Speaker 7: a ton more that goes into it. Who did the following?

4267
03:36:31,160 --> 03:36:34,800
Speaker 7: Lean the house for guests, coordinated invites, responses, sending info,

4268
03:36:35,200 --> 03:36:39,560
Speaker 7: set up the tables, decor drinks, purchasing, set up, making, hosting, greeting, serving.

4269
03:36:40,600 --> 03:36:43,640
Speaker 7: Opie responds. I cleaned the house and set up tables,

4270
03:36:43,720 --> 03:36:47,199
Speaker 7: coordinated invites and RSVPs, and went shopping for drinks and food.

4271
03:36:47,640 --> 03:36:52,560
Speaker 7: There weren't many drinks. There weren't many mixed drinks, mostly water, soda, wine,

4272
03:36:52,600 --> 03:36:54,440
Speaker 7: and beer, so not much that needed more than a

4273
03:36:54,480 --> 03:36:57,160
Speaker 7: glass in the bottle opener. We both greeted just by

4274
03:36:57,240 --> 03:36:58,840
Speaker 7: nature of who had been close to the door, but

4275
03:36:59,000 --> 03:37:02,000
Speaker 7: it was informal in how everyone came in. I put

4276
03:37:02,040 --> 03:37:04,720
Speaker 7: out the food, but that's typical. She mostly helped entertain

4277
03:37:04,840 --> 03:37:09,000
Speaker 7: by talking with the guests, and that is the end

4278
03:37:09,080 --> 03:37:13,800
Speaker 7: of the story. Wow, I wow, it just got so

4279
03:37:13,920 --> 03:37:14,360
Speaker 7: much darker.

4280
03:37:15,640 --> 03:37:18,160
Speaker 1: I feel sorry.

4281
03:37:18,320 --> 03:37:20,160
Speaker 7: You'll let up now, I know, I feel so Yeah.

4282
03:37:20,160 --> 03:37:21,800
Speaker 7: I was gonna say, I feel like I'm in better

4283
03:37:21,879 --> 03:37:22,640
Speaker 7: lighting now, I'm.

4284
03:37:22,480 --> 03:37:24,840
Speaker 5: Gonna I'm gonna turn turn the generator down.

4285
03:37:25,000 --> 03:37:25,800
Speaker 1: I think I can do that.

4286
03:37:26,400 --> 03:37:28,080
Speaker 5: Seeve it affects the stream, let's see.

4287
03:37:30,000 --> 03:37:31,640
Speaker 7: I think that was a good end to the story.

4288
03:37:31,640 --> 03:37:35,000
Speaker 7: I feel like they sorted it out. I think I

4289
03:37:35,080 --> 03:37:39,160
Speaker 7: think the other commenter was saying was kind of pointing

4290
03:37:39,200 --> 03:37:41,240
Speaker 7: out that maybe the wife didn't do too much to

4291
03:37:41,400 --> 03:37:41,840
Speaker 7: help out.

4292
03:37:42,720 --> 03:37:45,840
Speaker 1: However, I think there's a possibility.

4293
03:37:45,320 --> 03:37:46,120
Speaker 3: That this is a.

4294
03:37:48,560 --> 03:37:49,320
Speaker 1: That this is a.

4295
03:37:51,600 --> 03:37:54,560
Speaker 7: I lost my place? Is someone okay? I hope everyone

4296
03:37:54,680 --> 03:37:59,320
Speaker 7: is okay in the chat? Yeah, I hope everyone's sorting

4297
03:37:59,360 --> 03:37:59,640
Speaker 7: that out.

4298
03:38:00,440 --> 03:38:01,760
Speaker 1: Uh, but what was I saying?

4299
03:38:02,240 --> 03:38:04,080
Speaker 7: I don't know, I don't know. I got distracted. I

4300
03:38:04,160 --> 03:38:07,720
Speaker 7: hope everyone's okay. But that's the end of that story.

4301
03:38:08,760 --> 03:38:08,880
Speaker 1: Uh.

4302
03:38:09,520 --> 03:38:11,600
Speaker 7: Dear dress Statham says, I used to get annoyed at

4303
03:38:11,640 --> 03:38:12,680
Speaker 7: my husband saying thank you?

4304
03:38:12,840 --> 03:38:15,960
Speaker 1: Can you scroll up a little bit? Thank you?

4305
03:38:16,120 --> 03:38:18,480
Speaker 7: After every meal? Until I found out tons of women

4306
03:38:18,680 --> 03:38:21,080
Speaker 7: never get a nank you he doesn't clean up, but

4307
03:38:21,320 --> 03:38:24,600
Speaker 7: he's disabled so he can't lift water filled dish. Okay,

4308
03:38:24,760 --> 03:38:28,840
Speaker 7: so yeah, there's some accentuating circumstances. I get that can

4309
03:38:28,920 --> 03:38:34,600
Speaker 7: scroll down. Thank you, and Lady Chaos, thank you for

4310
03:38:34,640 --> 03:38:36,039
Speaker 7: the TILDR which you can also.

4311
03:38:35,920 --> 03:38:37,680
Speaker 1: Find right here.

4312
03:38:41,160 --> 03:38:45,720
Speaker 7: And we are still some some measure likes away the

4313
03:38:46,560 --> 03:38:49,480
Speaker 7: next lego. Thank you, Pixel Punkett, thank you for the

4314
03:38:49,560 --> 03:38:53,040
Speaker 7: three point eleven toop Opie does seem really sweet and

4315
03:38:53,240 --> 03:38:56,280
Speaker 7: is a person who does need to feel appreciated when

4316
03:38:56,520 --> 03:38:59,280
Speaker 7: he's trying to approve, which is never wrong. I think

4317
03:38:59,360 --> 03:39:02,800
Speaker 7: she's used to him appreciating her. It's because it's become

4318
03:39:02,959 --> 03:39:07,840
Speaker 7: white noise. Now, yeah, I think that could be the reason.

4319
03:39:08,560 --> 03:39:11,880
Speaker 7: But let's get ready, let's move on this next story.

4320
03:39:13,400 --> 03:39:17,760
Speaker 1: One. Oh oh, I don't have it, pulled it up

4321
03:39:17,840 --> 03:39:26,400
Speaker 1: one second? Four? Thank you? All right?

4322
03:39:26,720 --> 03:39:28,760
Speaker 7: Oh, this was my Mother's Day episode that I made.

4323
03:39:28,959 --> 03:39:29,480
Speaker 1: Oh nice.

4324
03:39:29,680 --> 03:39:31,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, so these are a lot of mother day Mother's

4325
03:39:31,760 --> 03:39:34,600
Speaker 7: Day story for all you mothers out there.

4326
03:39:36,360 --> 03:39:40,320
Speaker 1: All right? You ready? Oh did I just read that one? Yeah?

4327
03:39:41,000 --> 03:39:43,160
Speaker 7: Am iv a hole for getting upset at my sister

4328
03:39:43,320 --> 03:39:47,920
Speaker 7: for using my money without paying me back. I would

4329
03:39:47,959 --> 03:39:51,160
Speaker 7: be pretty upset about that too. Yeah, so the Whiz

4330
03:39:51,320 --> 03:39:54,440
Speaker 7: four five seven says, I'm almost in tears as I'm

4331
03:39:54,440 --> 03:39:59,000
Speaker 7: writing this because I'm so infuriated. My sister thirty four,

4332
03:39:59,200 --> 03:40:02,199
Speaker 7: works full time but has always been irresponsible about money.

4333
03:40:03,760 --> 03:40:05,760
Speaker 7: She has a lot of credit card debt, and there

4334
03:40:05,840 --> 03:40:07,760
Speaker 7: has been several times throughout the year that she has

4335
03:40:07,840 --> 03:40:11,960
Speaker 7: either asked me to borrow money or gone into debt. Yeah,

4336
03:40:12,480 --> 03:40:14,760
Speaker 7: my mom passed away three years ago and Mother's Day

4337
03:40:14,840 --> 03:40:17,560
Speaker 7: is a very difficult holiday. My dad is elderly, and

4338
03:40:17,640 --> 03:40:19,680
Speaker 7: the last year I was living with him, helping him

4339
03:40:19,680 --> 03:40:22,600
Speaker 7: full time because he has health issues and otherwise would

4340
03:40:22,640 --> 03:40:25,120
Speaker 7: have to get a caregiver. Prior to that, I had

4341
03:40:25,160 --> 03:40:27,400
Speaker 7: given up my apartment and my job to move in

4342
03:40:27,520 --> 03:40:30,640
Speaker 7: with him as a temporary thing to help out. My

4343
03:40:30,760 --> 03:40:33,360
Speaker 7: dad paid me each month to help him, but nowhere

4344
03:40:33,480 --> 03:40:35,360
Speaker 7: near the amount of money that it would be to

4345
03:40:35,520 --> 03:40:38,840
Speaker 7: hire a professional caregiver. However, he wanted me to be

4346
03:40:38,879 --> 03:40:41,400
Speaker 7: able to get my independence back and be able to

4347
03:40:41,440 --> 03:40:44,560
Speaker 7: get a job again outside of him, so he helped

4348
03:40:44,600 --> 03:40:47,760
Speaker 7: me financially with getting an apartment last month. Because I've

4349
03:40:47,760 --> 03:40:51,200
Speaker 7: been helping him, which I much appreciated, I still am

4350
03:40:51,280 --> 03:40:53,400
Speaker 7: going over there and helping him several times a week

4351
03:40:53,440 --> 03:40:56,720
Speaker 7: with all of his meal prep, medical appointments, etc. Because

4352
03:40:56,760 --> 03:41:00,800
Speaker 7: I'm searching now though, Oh, because I've sarching now though.

4353
03:41:01,080 --> 03:41:03,440
Speaker 7: When I do get a job, obviously things will shift

4354
03:41:03,520 --> 03:41:06,120
Speaker 7: and he will need to get someone coming in to help.

4355
03:41:07,000 --> 03:41:09,280
Speaker 7: Because Mother's Day is a difficult day after the loss

4356
03:41:09,320 --> 03:41:11,560
Speaker 7: of my mom, My sister has suggested that just the

4357
03:41:11,640 --> 03:41:14,080
Speaker 7: two of us go out today to brunch in a movie.

4358
03:41:14,480 --> 03:41:16,920
Speaker 7: She had found a restaurant and pre booked the movie tickets,

4359
03:41:17,000 --> 03:41:19,720
Speaker 7: which I paid her for. When we were at lunch,

4360
03:41:19,840 --> 03:41:21,840
Speaker 7: I asked the waiter to put it on seperate checks.

4361
03:41:22,160 --> 03:41:24,480
Speaker 7: He ended up putting some of her items on mine

4362
03:41:24,520 --> 03:41:26,600
Speaker 7: because I think he was just confused on how to

4363
03:41:26,680 --> 03:41:29,039
Speaker 7: do it. And I said that's fine and just told

4364
03:41:29,080 --> 03:41:31,760
Speaker 7: her to send me through cash app like Venmo the money.

4365
03:41:32,800 --> 03:41:35,000
Speaker 7: She kind of brushed it off and just told me

4366
03:41:35,160 --> 03:41:38,440
Speaker 7: she can't right now. I said, I'm confused. I said,

4367
03:41:38,480 --> 03:41:41,320
Speaker 7: I'm confused. If he had put the items on your check,

4368
03:41:41,400 --> 03:41:43,199
Speaker 7: you would have been paying for it. And she said,

4369
03:41:43,680 --> 03:41:45,360
Speaker 7: I asked Dad, if I can use his car and

4370
03:41:45,440 --> 03:41:48,520
Speaker 7: pay him back, I can't pay you right now. I

4371
03:41:48,640 --> 03:41:51,920
Speaker 7: was getting increasingly annoyed about this because she knows I'm

4372
03:41:51,959 --> 03:41:54,680
Speaker 7: living on a certain budget per month and a pretty

4373
03:41:54,760 --> 03:41:57,280
Speaker 7: low budget that my dad pays me in term for

4374
03:41:57,480 --> 03:42:00,640
Speaker 7: helping him full time. She then proceeds to tell me

4375
03:42:00,720 --> 03:42:03,760
Speaker 7: that it's not my money anyway. She said, Dad's paying

4376
03:42:03,840 --> 03:42:07,200
Speaker 7: for your whole life. It's not your money. Ooh yeah,

4377
03:42:07,240 --> 03:42:10,000
Speaker 7: but she's helping him. She's doing a lot of work

4378
03:42:10,040 --> 03:42:14,480
Speaker 7: for him. I was sickened by this comment because I

4379
03:42:14,680 --> 03:42:17,960
Speaker 7: help him full time and get payment in return. I

4380
03:42:18,080 --> 03:42:20,480
Speaker 7: don't ask her for any help and she only helps

4381
03:42:20,560 --> 03:42:23,400
Speaker 7: him once in a while. She also has taken money

4382
03:42:23,480 --> 03:42:28,080
Speaker 7: in previous months out of my dad's account. Oh yeah,

4383
03:42:28,160 --> 03:42:30,040
Speaker 7: this is She's clearly the ahle.

4384
03:42:30,160 --> 03:42:31,400
Speaker 1: She's clearly the a hole.

4385
03:42:33,480 --> 03:42:35,800
Speaker 7: There's a mutual account that's supposed to be used when

4386
03:42:35,840 --> 03:42:39,200
Speaker 7: we buy items for him. She's stealing from their dad's

4387
03:42:39,840 --> 03:42:43,800
Speaker 7: like medical fund, and has said it was by accident

4388
03:42:43,879 --> 03:42:45,760
Speaker 7: and told them that she would pay him back and

4389
03:42:45,920 --> 03:42:52,280
Speaker 7: steal hasn't several Timesikes, because she was going after me

4390
03:42:52,360 --> 03:42:54,520
Speaker 7: in terms of saying that it's not my money anyway,

4391
03:42:54,920 --> 03:42:59,119
Speaker 7: I said, at least I don't steal from him. Dot's fired.

4392
03:42:59,560 --> 03:42:59,800
Speaker 1: Wow.

4393
03:43:00,560 --> 03:43:02,760
Speaker 7: I clarified that there was a charge last month for

4394
03:43:02,959 --> 03:43:07,560
Speaker 7: three hundred dollars that clearly he knows was taken from him.

4395
03:43:07,760 --> 03:43:13,880
Speaker 7: Three hundred dollars. This sister sucks. This sister is the worst.

4396
03:43:15,120 --> 03:43:17,720
Speaker 7: She started to get rude and responded and said that

4397
03:43:17,840 --> 03:43:20,440
Speaker 7: it was by accident and she didn't steal it. We

4398
03:43:20,560 --> 03:43:22,960
Speaker 7: left the restaurant and she didn't say a word to me.

4399
03:43:23,440 --> 03:43:27,840
Speaker 7: She headed Oops, I lost my place. She headed towards

4400
03:43:27,879 --> 03:43:30,520
Speaker 7: the car instead of the movie theater. I told her,

4401
03:43:30,600 --> 03:43:33,520
Speaker 7: if we are not going to the movie, I expect

4402
03:43:33,640 --> 03:43:35,080
Speaker 7: my money back since I.

4403
03:43:35,160 --> 03:43:36,120
Speaker 1: Already paid her for it.

4404
03:43:36,400 --> 03:43:36,800
Speaker 3: Oh wow.

4405
03:43:37,800 --> 03:43:39,520
Speaker 7: She ignored me and didn't say a word.

4406
03:43:39,720 --> 03:43:40,040
Speaker 1: Why did not?

4407
03:43:40,440 --> 03:43:41,800
Speaker 7: Oh p he should have just gone to that movie.

4408
03:43:43,360 --> 03:43:45,640
Speaker 7: We got back and she drops me off at my car.

4409
03:43:46,080 --> 03:43:48,119
Speaker 7: I told her that I expected to be paid back

4410
03:43:48,200 --> 03:43:50,760
Speaker 7: and I'm not going to forget about it. She ignored

4411
03:43:50,800 --> 03:43:55,640
Speaker 7: me and didn't say anything. I'm beyond upset right now already.

4412
03:43:55,760 --> 03:43:58,120
Speaker 7: It's a difficult day with the loss of my mom,

4413
03:43:58,680 --> 03:44:01,600
Speaker 7: but the fact that I basically fronted money for her,

4414
03:44:01,760 --> 03:44:03,760
Speaker 7: and I feel as though she had no intention to

4415
03:44:03,800 --> 03:44:07,120
Speaker 7: pay me back, and she dismissed me that it's dismissed

4416
03:44:07,160 --> 03:44:11,920
Speaker 7: that it's even my money in the first place is infuriating. Wow,

4417
03:44:12,040 --> 03:44:16,119
Speaker 7: Gabby B says stinky sister and Kristin foyle Hatty gifted

4418
03:44:16,280 --> 03:44:17,520
Speaker 7: membership members?

4419
03:44:17,560 --> 03:44:18,600
Speaker 5: Have you given today?

4420
03:44:18,920 --> 03:44:20,760
Speaker 1: So many members? Oh?

4421
03:44:20,800 --> 03:44:29,359
Speaker 7: My gosh, a crazy amount of members that's a gonerships.

4422
03:44:29,400 --> 03:44:34,200
Speaker 7: That's another thirty minutes. Wow, you guys are Christian foyle

4423
03:44:34,240 --> 03:44:39,480
Speaker 7: hat Thank you so much. You are amazing. But let's

4424
03:44:39,800 --> 03:44:43,760
Speaker 7: continue with the story and about this horrible sister. Uh,

4425
03:44:44,040 --> 03:44:46,280
Speaker 7: my dad has enabled her a lot, and I have

4426
03:44:46,440 --> 03:44:48,920
Speaker 7: tried to warn him that this can if this continues

4427
03:44:48,959 --> 03:44:52,520
Speaker 7: to happen. Oh, that this continues to happen and it's enabling.

4428
03:44:52,920 --> 03:44:55,560
Speaker 7: He's worried about getting on the out with her, so

4429
03:44:55,680 --> 03:44:57,560
Speaker 7: he gives her money when she needs it and doesn't

4430
03:44:57,640 --> 03:45:00,760
Speaker 7: ask questions. However, with me, if she had asked me

4431
03:45:00,840 --> 03:45:03,320
Speaker 7: in advance and said that she doesn't have money to

4432
03:45:03,400 --> 03:45:05,360
Speaker 7: go out today, but if I could pay for it

4433
03:45:05,440 --> 03:45:07,640
Speaker 7: and she paid me back, I would have said yes.

4434
03:45:08,120 --> 03:45:11,760
Speaker 7: It's more the assumptions that's getting me. And there are

4435
03:45:12,080 --> 03:45:16,080
Speaker 7: two relevant comments to finish this story out fast. AD

4436
03:45:16,200 --> 03:45:18,440
Speaker 7: seven two of three says, tell your dad to close

4437
03:45:18,520 --> 03:45:20,440
Speaker 7: the card and that he can send money if y'all

4438
03:45:20,440 --> 03:45:22,520
Speaker 7: are going to buy him something? Does she buy him

4439
03:45:22,520 --> 03:45:25,400
Speaker 7: stuff regularly? Does she actually need a card to buy

4440
03:45:25,480 --> 03:45:28,600
Speaker 7: him stuff? And I think you should set boundaries with

4441
03:45:28,760 --> 03:45:33,760
Speaker 7: her more. And then he responds, I've tried to tell

4442
03:45:33,840 --> 03:45:36,000
Speaker 7: him he should close the account, and what's happening? And

4443
03:45:36,160 --> 03:45:38,000
Speaker 7: he says he doesn't want to rock the boat with her,

4444
03:45:38,160 --> 03:45:40,520
Speaker 7: so he doesn't want to even though he knows that

4445
03:45:40,640 --> 03:45:42,840
Speaker 7: she's taking money out of it, out of it, but

4446
03:45:42,959 --> 03:45:45,320
Speaker 7: I don't think he knows the extent. Always thank you

4447
03:45:45,600 --> 03:45:46,359
Speaker 7: for the advice.

4448
03:45:47,280 --> 03:45:49,040
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't.

4449
03:45:49,120 --> 03:45:51,840
Speaker 7: I feel like he's not really rocking the boat if

4450
03:45:51,879 --> 03:45:53,400
Speaker 7: he just cuts her off from the money.

4451
03:45:54,680 --> 03:45:56,640
Speaker 1: What is she doing to help him? Yeah?

4452
03:45:58,120 --> 03:46:01,080
Speaker 5: Fuck, it's something that's like need to do, but it's

4453
03:46:01,120 --> 03:46:04,160
Speaker 5: still it still sucks to have to do that, yea

4454
03:46:04,320 --> 03:46:05,000
Speaker 5: to your kid.

4455
03:46:04,920 --> 03:46:06,480
Speaker 1: You know, mm hmm.

4456
03:46:07,360 --> 03:46:10,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's a hard conversation to have, but I think it.

4457
03:46:10,400 --> 03:46:12,160
Speaker 7: I think he needs to have it because she can't

4458
03:46:12,200 --> 03:46:13,680
Speaker 7: expect to rely on him.

4459
03:46:14,840 --> 03:46:17,120
Speaker 1: No, not not like that, absolutely not no.

4460
03:46:17,320 --> 03:46:22,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, but oh, I was trying to find if there

4461
03:46:22,800 --> 03:46:27,000
Speaker 7: were any comments on on the story. Duchess Cassanda says,

4462
03:46:27,040 --> 03:46:31,199
Speaker 7: do you guys need Massie spray the little mosquito spray.

4463
03:46:31,959 --> 03:46:33,560
Speaker 5: Probably they're pretty bad back here.

4464
03:46:33,760 --> 03:46:35,959
Speaker 1: I don't I'm I'm okay.

4465
03:46:36,959 --> 03:46:39,560
Speaker 5: You're good, You're good. I haven't got I'm pretty.

4466
03:46:39,360 --> 03:46:41,680
Speaker 1: Covered up right now. So that's yeah.

4467
03:46:43,320 --> 03:46:46,360
Speaker 7: But that was the end of that story. So let's

4468
03:46:46,360 --> 03:46:48,840
Speaker 7: get into this next story. They're all kind of short

4469
03:46:48,959 --> 03:46:52,640
Speaker 7: Mother's Day stories, by the way, you moms, to you

4470
03:46:52,800 --> 03:46:58,400
Speaker 7: moms out there who are appreciated, but maybe maybe you

4471
03:46:58,520 --> 03:47:01,080
Speaker 7: have some stories about how you were appreciated on your

4472
03:47:01,080 --> 03:47:05,280
Speaker 7: special day. But let's get into it. Am I the

4473
03:47:05,360 --> 03:47:07,640
Speaker 7: a hole for blowing up on my husband after you

4474
03:47:07,760 --> 03:47:10,040
Speaker 7: said you aren't my mother? So I don't have to

4475
03:47:10,120 --> 03:47:14,640
Speaker 7: celebrate you on Mother's Day? What messed up? Messed up?

4476
03:47:15,560 --> 03:47:17,880
Speaker 1: So tangerine rule this?

4477
03:47:18,200 --> 03:47:18,720
Speaker 9: You have a rule?

4478
03:47:19,000 --> 03:47:19,800
Speaker 1: Yep, what's your rule?

4479
03:47:19,879 --> 03:47:23,840
Speaker 5: I saw this online? If you're I saw it was

4480
03:47:23,920 --> 03:47:25,320
Speaker 5: like a mom and it was like, if my titties

4481
03:47:25,360 --> 03:47:26,119
Speaker 5: have been in your mouth?

4482
03:47:26,360 --> 03:47:30,160
Speaker 1: I saw that too. I read to say that you say.

4483
03:47:30,040 --> 03:47:33,560
Speaker 5: That if my been in your mouth, you think, happy mother,

4484
03:47:33,720 --> 03:47:34,680
Speaker 5: thank you on Mother's Day.

4485
03:47:35,320 --> 03:47:37,480
Speaker 7: I saw that one. It's everywhere.

4486
03:47:37,520 --> 03:47:38,039
Speaker 5: Pretty clever.

4487
03:47:38,080 --> 03:47:41,480
Speaker 1: It's pretty cleo, pretty clever. Yeah, so.

4488
03:47:43,200 --> 03:47:47,080
Speaker 5: Do with that as you will. Everyone go go out

4489
03:47:47,200 --> 03:47:50,640
Speaker 5: and spread that news. Tell people have mothers say that.

4490
03:47:50,680 --> 03:47:52,959
Speaker 5: You may have not told someone happy mother? Yeah?

4491
03:47:53,240 --> 03:47:57,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, uh so.

4492
03:47:57,560 --> 03:48:01,840
Speaker 7: Tangerine past seventy four to sixteen says, background been married

4493
03:48:01,840 --> 03:48:04,720
Speaker 7: to my husband for two and a half years. I

4494
03:48:04,840 --> 03:48:08,000
Speaker 7: have three children and three step children. Not only is

4495
03:48:08,080 --> 03:48:11,279
Speaker 7: it Mother's Day, but also my mother's birthday. His mother's

4496
03:48:11,320 --> 03:48:14,280
Speaker 7: birthday was last week. I thought of the present, bought it,

4497
03:48:14,480 --> 03:48:17,080
Speaker 7: planned a dinner for her, ordered and bought the cake

4498
03:48:17,480 --> 03:48:19,760
Speaker 7: she wanted to celebrate with her ninety eight year old mother.

4499
03:48:19,840 --> 03:48:20,080
Speaker 1: Today.

4500
03:48:20,760 --> 03:48:22,600
Speaker 7: I did the same thing for my mother today.

4501
03:48:23,400 --> 03:48:23,520
Speaker 3: Uh.

4502
03:48:23,920 --> 03:48:26,560
Speaker 7: He vacuumed before my parents came over. He grilled the

4503
03:48:26,600 --> 03:48:29,000
Speaker 7: steaks and salmon, helped clean up after dinner.

4504
03:48:29,480 --> 03:48:30,640
Speaker 3: That is it.

4505
03:48:31,920 --> 03:48:34,760
Speaker 7: I show up for all of my step kids' performances, games,

4506
03:48:34,800 --> 03:48:37,800
Speaker 7: school events. I plan their birthday parties and buy all

4507
03:48:37,840 --> 03:48:41,080
Speaker 7: their presents. Same with Christmas. I remind him of all

4508
03:48:41,200 --> 03:48:43,959
Speaker 7: these events. He rarely even knows what I get them.

4509
03:48:44,200 --> 03:48:45,520
Speaker 1: Oh messed up.

4510
03:48:46,080 --> 03:48:49,920
Speaker 7: I do the same on any important holidays for him. Birthday, Anniversary,

4511
03:48:50,120 --> 03:48:56,119
Speaker 7: Valentine's Father's Day, and Christmas. Hardly anything happened for me today.

4512
03:48:56,800 --> 03:48:59,160
Speaker 7: Two of my kids. How many kids you have said

4513
03:48:59,200 --> 03:49:02,720
Speaker 7: happy Birthday? Happy Mother's Day. My eleven year old daughter

4514
03:49:02,840 --> 03:49:04,640
Speaker 7: also said it and gave me a very cute jar

4515
03:49:04,720 --> 03:49:06,080
Speaker 7: of all the things she loves about me.

4516
03:49:06,240 --> 03:49:06,600
Speaker 1: That's all.

4517
03:49:07,560 --> 03:49:09,680
Speaker 7: My sixteen year old son told me the present he

4518
03:49:09,760 --> 03:49:12,720
Speaker 7: bought me doesn't come until tomorrow. My thirteen year old

4519
03:49:12,760 --> 03:49:15,000
Speaker 7: daughter told me that she asked my husband by text

4520
03:49:15,080 --> 03:49:17,800
Speaker 7: to help her with several things, and he never responded.

4521
03:49:18,080 --> 03:49:19,440
Speaker 1: Oh messed up.

4522
03:49:19,600 --> 03:49:21,480
Speaker 7: I think when you have children that are under the

4523
03:49:21,560 --> 03:49:24,360
Speaker 7: age of eighteen, you especially need to be involved. I mean,

4524
03:49:24,400 --> 03:49:27,680
Speaker 7: I think you should be involved regardless whether it's Father's

4525
03:49:27,760 --> 03:49:30,720
Speaker 7: Day or Brother's Day, but I think especially if you

4526
03:49:30,760 --> 03:49:32,240
Speaker 7: have young children, you should be helping out.

4527
03:49:32,440 --> 03:49:33,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, thank.

4528
03:49:35,200 --> 03:49:35,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

4529
03:49:35,520 --> 03:49:35,760
Speaker 1: Come on.

4530
03:49:38,600 --> 03:49:40,480
Speaker 7: When she asked me what I wanted, I told her

4531
03:49:40,600 --> 03:49:43,680
Speaker 7: updated pictures from my office, knowing it wouldn't be expensive

4532
03:49:43,760 --> 03:49:46,320
Speaker 7: to just print some of our photos of favorite photos,

4533
03:49:46,360 --> 03:49:49,720
Speaker 7: and it would mean a lot to me. I was disappointed.

4534
03:49:50,320 --> 03:49:52,320
Speaker 7: I was disappointed that all I asked of my eighteen

4535
03:49:52,400 --> 03:49:54,160
Speaker 7: year old son was to take a new picture with

4536
03:49:54,240 --> 03:49:57,240
Speaker 7: me and he couldn't be bothered. I was disappointed that

4537
03:49:57,320 --> 03:49:59,200
Speaker 7: my husband told me that you are not my mother,

4538
03:49:59,600 --> 03:50:01,560
Speaker 7: and I did do anything for my kid's mother, so

4539
03:50:01,720 --> 03:50:05,720
Speaker 7: why would I do something for you. I'm hurt, and

4540
03:50:05,840 --> 03:50:09,000
Speaker 7: I feel bad for feeling hurt. I feel selfish. He

4541
03:50:09,120 --> 03:50:11,640
Speaker 7: did help with dinner, but all I would have liked

4542
03:50:11,800 --> 03:50:14,160
Speaker 7: would be a happy Mother's Day from him and maybe

4543
03:50:14,200 --> 03:50:18,280
Speaker 7: a card that is barr is on the floor, bar

4544
03:50:18,480 --> 03:50:21,000
Speaker 7: is on the floor. He is, he is the worst

4545
03:50:21,200 --> 03:50:24,320
Speaker 7: he should be. He should be worshiping you. Yeah, dude,

4546
03:50:24,360 --> 03:50:26,600
Speaker 7: to be on his hands and knees.

4547
03:50:26,760 --> 03:50:29,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, you carried all these kids, like, come on, come on.

4548
03:50:29,880 --> 03:50:31,960
Speaker 5: He should be very grateful, so grateful.

4549
03:50:32,880 --> 03:50:35,360
Speaker 7: Bonus points if he could understand that helping the thirteen

4550
03:50:35,440 --> 03:50:37,480
Speaker 7: year old prince some pictures would mean a lot to

4551
03:50:37,560 --> 03:50:39,880
Speaker 7: her and to me, that would have made me feel

4552
03:50:40,000 --> 03:50:44,480
Speaker 7: valued and special. I don't need the spa day, breakfast

4553
03:50:44,520 --> 03:50:47,000
Speaker 7: in bed, being celebrated every moment like my brother does

4554
03:50:47,040 --> 03:50:47,680
Speaker 7: for his wife.

4555
03:50:49,360 --> 03:50:49,560
Speaker 3: Ah.

4556
03:50:49,680 --> 03:50:53,360
Speaker 7: The brother doing it for his wife ah, And I'm

4557
03:50:53,440 --> 03:50:57,480
Speaker 7: so happy for that he does that. That isn't my

4558
03:50:57,600 --> 03:51:00,600
Speaker 7: husband's personality and I would never expect that. But is

4559
03:51:01,840 --> 03:51:03,880
Speaker 7: But is it too a holy to just want a

4560
03:51:03,920 --> 03:51:06,800
Speaker 7: little understanding and appreciation for all the things I do

4561
03:51:06,960 --> 03:51:10,160
Speaker 7: for all our kids, even if it is a commercial holiday.

4562
03:51:10,480 --> 03:51:12,160
Speaker 7: He says that I mean and an a hole for

4563
03:51:12,280 --> 03:51:15,200
Speaker 7: being upset. I didn't yell and scream, just cried and

4564
03:51:15,280 --> 03:51:17,760
Speaker 7: didn't want him to cuddle me to ease his own anxiety.

4565
03:51:18,240 --> 03:51:19,840
Speaker 7: And there are too relevant comments.

4566
03:51:19,880 --> 03:51:20,280
Speaker 3: What the no?

4567
03:51:20,400 --> 03:51:23,240
Speaker 5: No, No, he's upset to you because he's reflecting how

4568
03:51:23,320 --> 03:51:26,160
Speaker 5: mud of a husband he is onto you, and he's

4569
03:51:26,160 --> 03:51:26,680
Speaker 5: looking at that.

4570
03:51:26,920 --> 03:51:29,160
Speaker 7: He's upset that he feels bad because he made a

4571
03:51:29,200 --> 03:51:31,880
Speaker 7: mistake and he wants you to absolve him of his mistakes,

4572
03:51:32,160 --> 03:51:34,520
Speaker 7: but he does not deserve that. He needs to do better?

4573
03:51:34,800 --> 03:51:37,560
Speaker 1: What the heck that? This makes no sense? Yeah at all?

4574
03:51:37,840 --> 03:51:38,520
Speaker 3: I'm on.

4575
03:51:39,840 --> 03:51:41,000
Speaker 1: Can you scroll up? Everyone?

4576
03:51:41,080 --> 03:51:44,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, Dutchess Cassana says this guy Pixel Punkin said, thank

4577
03:51:44,800 --> 03:51:47,120
Speaker 7: you for the five buck tip. Already, hobby is an

4578
03:51:47,160 --> 03:51:50,080
Speaker 7: a hole. Mother's Day is to appreciate the mom's in

4579
03:51:50,200 --> 03:51:51,760
Speaker 7: your life, not just your mom.

4580
03:51:51,880 --> 03:51:53,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, facts. Yeah.

4581
03:51:53,960 --> 03:51:55,520
Speaker 7: Jill Bean the Turtle says, I can see why the

4582
03:51:55,600 --> 03:51:56,880
Speaker 7: husband was divorced the first time.

4583
03:51:57,480 --> 03:51:58,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you.

4584
03:51:59,600 --> 03:52:01,640
Speaker 7: Need to be nice to your moms on Mother's Day.

4585
03:52:01,920 --> 03:52:04,640
Speaker 7: Appreciate your moms and appreciate all the moms, not just

4586
03:52:04,840 --> 03:52:10,320
Speaker 7: your mom, any moms in your life. Appreciate them. But

4587
03:52:10,360 --> 03:52:14,240
Speaker 7: there are two relevant comments. Let's get into them garlic, cheese, bread.

4588
03:52:14,320 --> 03:52:17,560
Speaker 7: Says you can kindly repay the favor on Father's Day

4589
03:52:17,640 --> 03:52:20,000
Speaker 7: by not doing an effing thing for him and remind

4590
03:52:20,080 --> 03:52:22,960
Speaker 7: me he's not your father, so there's nothing to celebrate.

4591
03:52:23,960 --> 03:52:24,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, do it?

4592
03:52:24,840 --> 03:52:25,080
Speaker 3: Do it?

4593
03:52:25,720 --> 03:52:25,960
Speaker 1: Still?

4594
03:52:26,000 --> 03:52:29,600
Speaker 7: Storm says this one Opie should take that day for

4595
03:52:29,640 --> 03:52:31,760
Speaker 7: herself on Father's Day and her husband can spend the

4596
03:52:31,800 --> 03:52:35,000
Speaker 7: day with the kids. Seriously, Opi is crazy if she

4597
03:52:35,080 --> 03:52:37,240
Speaker 7: does a thing for the ahle on Father's Day.

4598
03:52:37,520 --> 03:52:40,280
Speaker 1: Whoa you know who's doing nothing for us?

4599
03:52:40,680 --> 03:52:44,760
Speaker 7: Kristen, thank you for the two hundred and nine dollars tip.

4600
03:52:45,000 --> 03:52:49,160
Speaker 1: Wow, my god, it cold out. Oh my god, I'm chilly.

4601
03:52:49,280 --> 03:52:52,680
Speaker 5: I'm gonna put some pants on. Oh well that's not

4602
03:52:52,800 --> 03:52:53,360
Speaker 5: thirty minutes.

4603
03:52:53,440 --> 03:52:57,000
Speaker 1: That's another thirty minutes. Still need a little bit more,

4604
03:52:57,040 --> 03:52:57,520
Speaker 1: so you're good.

4605
03:53:00,240 --> 03:53:03,520
Speaker 7: Oh we still need a little bit more. But yeah,

4606
03:53:03,600 --> 03:53:07,080
Speaker 7: thank you so much. I love you guys. Continue your success.

4607
03:53:07,160 --> 03:53:08,320
Speaker 7: You guys are moving mountains.

4608
03:53:08,520 --> 03:53:08,880
Speaker 3: Thank you.

4609
03:53:09,480 --> 03:53:12,360
Speaker 7: And this is this another Kirsten or is this Kirsten

4610
03:53:12,440 --> 03:53:12,920
Speaker 7: who we met?

4611
03:53:13,800 --> 03:53:16,480
Speaker 1: Let us know? Either way, Thank you so much.

4612
03:53:16,560 --> 03:53:18,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, are you? Do we meet you at the fashion show?

4613
03:53:18,920 --> 03:53:19,320
Speaker 1: Let us know?

4614
03:53:19,920 --> 03:53:21,560
Speaker 7: But if not, I would love to meet you because

4615
03:53:21,600 --> 03:53:22,720
Speaker 7: you seem like a lovely person.

4616
03:53:23,080 --> 03:53:23,960
Speaker 1: Another fashion show.

4617
03:53:24,680 --> 03:53:30,400
Speaker 7: Find another fashion show, but that is again the end.

4618
03:53:30,440 --> 03:53:30,880
Speaker 1: Bad story.