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Speaker 1: guess you were a good parent. I won't be specific here,

429
00:19:07,280 --> 00:19:11,480
Speaker 1: but if your kids believed, or if you believe as

430
00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:15,520
Speaker 1: a kid, that's certain things that aren't real were real.

431
00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,040
Speaker 1: Are you picking up what I'm putting down? Oh? Yes,

432
00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,760
Speaker 1: If you believe there's certain things that are not actually

433
00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:23,679
Speaker 1: real or real, that means that you were raised by

434
00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 1: good parents, because it means that the parents were able

435
00:19:26,880 --> 00:19:30,560
Speaker 1: to keep their kids' sense of wonder alive. Yes, I

436
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 1: agree with that, so why don't it isn't even a lie.

437
00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:35,719
Speaker 1: Like I know they say white lie, but is even

438
00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:37,480
Speaker 1: is not even a lie if you tell your kids

439
00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:39,280
Speaker 1: that certain things are real when they're not, when you're

440
00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:41,879
Speaker 1: just trying to get them to be excited about you know,

441
00:19:42,320 --> 00:19:45,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, holidays and that kind of thing doesn't hurt.

442
00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:47,720
Speaker 10: Anybody, no, And it's like given that magic, you know,

443
00:19:47,920 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 10: like that holiday magic for kids, because once you grow up, buddy,

444
00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:50,680
Speaker 10: it's over.

445
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:51,840
Speaker 1: Yeah it's not.

446
00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:55,600
Speaker 3: It's not magical magical. It's always a miserable kid that

447
00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:56,880
Speaker 3: ruins it for the happy kids.

448
00:19:56,960 --> 00:20:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, I remember the kids that went aroundrunning aroun

449
00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:03,119
Speaker 1: telling everybody about this and that. And I'm being careful

450
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:10,639
Speaker 1: because about this, I mean yeah, just like just like

451
00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,840
Speaker 1: Kler's being careful with the words she's using this early

452
00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:15,600
Speaker 1: in the Entertainer Report, I'm being early about the things

453
00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:18,639
Speaker 1: that I threw it for anybody, your lies and if

454
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 1: you believed, if your parents told you them and you

455
00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,960
Speaker 1: believe them, then your parents did a good job. You're

456
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 1: the smartest kid in school. My parents never told me that,

457
00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:28,200
Speaker 1: and they never that would have been a lie. So

458
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:30,920
Speaker 1: that's nice. And they didn't tell me that. If you

459
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:33,520
Speaker 1: work hard, all of your dreams will come true. That's

460
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:38,320
Speaker 1: the one. The one I'm my mom my dreams.

461
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:40,920
Speaker 4: Like, I get it.

462
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:41,800
Speaker 1: I get it.

463
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:44,639
Speaker 10: You should always work hard and like do your best.

464
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 10: But I don't think it always pays off in that way,

465
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:49,400
Speaker 10: you know what I mean? That makes sense because like life,

466
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,440
Speaker 10: and that's not like anyone's fault, it's just how life works.

467
00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:54,080
Speaker 1: I would argue that you have no shot at anything

468
00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,439
Speaker 1: if you don't you know, have a dream and then

469
00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 1: work really hard and trying to inspire the dream. So

470
00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,040
Speaker 1: it's possible, well that it won't come true. But I mean,

471
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:03,680
Speaker 1: I guess as a parent, that's I would tell my

472
00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:07,400
Speaker 1: kid too, because if I'm like, nah, it ain't happening, well,

473
00:21:07,440 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 1: then you know, then what's the point of even attempting it?

474
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 1: So I guess I don't have I mean, what do

475
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:15,880
Speaker 1: you what are you supposed to say? I guess there's

476
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:17,879
Speaker 1: I mean, no, you're not gonna go to the NBA.

477
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,400
Speaker 1: I remember I thought I was going to the NBA

478
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 1: when I was in like middle school, even though I

479
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 1: was absolutely completely and totally uncoordinated and average like two

480
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,359
Speaker 1: points a game in my basketball game. But I remember,

481
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,159
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm going I'm going to the NBA, and

482
00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,440
Speaker 1: my parents gonna be like, you were absolutely not going

483
00:21:33,480 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 1: to the NBA, So like do your homework because you're

484
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 1: not getting bailed out. So I guess there's there's realism.

485
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:42,640
Speaker 1: But then like not crushing a kid's dream, I guess,

486
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 1: so there's more here. You know your art is good.

487
00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:51,159
Speaker 1: I you know you're good at singing at the recitals

488
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 1: when you really weren't. Now how do you do that

489
00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: as a parent? Do you think?

490
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:55,479
Speaker 11: Now?

491
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Speaker 1: I mean, the only one who's a parent is Paulina

492
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 1: and and Gigi's just not one. But how do you that?

493
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 1: Like if your kid is terrible at something like really

494
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 1: bad and really there's not a whole lot of hope,

495
00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:07,199
Speaker 1: and I don't know how you know that. Like if

496
00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 1: your kid's a bad singer at like ten but wants

497
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:12,800
Speaker 1: to be a professional singer, can you tell your kid like, eh,

498
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,439
Speaker 1: maybe we should try something else. Or do you let

499
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Speaker 1: them do it and keep telling them that they're good

500
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Speaker 1: at it even when they're not because they might get

501
00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 1: good at it, or do you like steer them towards

502
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Speaker 1: something else, Like if they're terrible at soccer but they

503
00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:28,399
Speaker 1: think they're going to be the next Yeah, David Beckham

504
00:22:28,480 --> 00:22:32,800
Speaker 1: or whatever. Then do you say, like, yeah, at what

505
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 1: point do you tell them like I don't think so. Yeah,

506
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm all for like rerouting.

507
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Speaker 10: Obviously Ggi's only one, but I think about this all

508
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 10: the time because I'm like, well, if she sucks at this, like.

509
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 1: I don't want to encourage her.

510
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Speaker 10: And I'm all for like a the Lulu mindset because

511
00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 10: sometimes I feel like that works out for people. But

512
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Speaker 10: I also don't want her to like walk around thinking

513
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 10: she's that girl and she's.

514
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Speaker 5: Not, you know what I mean.

515
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 10: No, like in the sense of like, oh I can sing,

516
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,520
Speaker 10: listen to me sing, guys, and everybody makes fun of her,

517
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,920
Speaker 10: Like then I'm being a bad parent, right, Like I'm

518
00:22:58,960 --> 00:22:59,560
Speaker 10: not doing.

519
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Speaker 3: Her any good with that in my.

520
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: Opinion, So I feel like re routing. Maybe it's like

521
00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:05,920
Speaker 1: lean into her strengths whatever those are.

522
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:06,119
Speaker 7: Going to be.

523
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 10: My kid of kind of has attitude already. She's only one,

524
00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:13,440
Speaker 10: so she might fight me. Imagine I birth myself. I

525
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:14,119
Speaker 10: birth myself.

526
00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, my sister and said to a lot of people,

527
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry, Hobby, I love you deeply, Paulina, but

528
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 1: two of you, oh, I say, with my brother in law.

529
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: I love my sister, but three of them, Oh my god.

530
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 1: I can only hope that name is like a complete

531
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 1: and little opposite, like a pothead. And honestly, because Paulie

532
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 1: is going to be a princess, a man is kind

533
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,159
Speaker 1: of a princess. I think, you know, Alla needs the

534
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: other end of the spectrum. Like so I'm going to

535
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 1: listen to death metal with and smoke a joint as

536
00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:53,639
Speaker 1: early as possible. I don't know if it's nice thing

537
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:58,359
Speaker 1: to say, Hey, Jessica, good morning, Jessica, how are you him?

538
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: Good morning? May Okay, so let's get to the realize, Like, okay,

539
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,720
Speaker 1: so your parents told you, oh, you're gonna be great

540
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: in life, and you believed it. Well, that's a good

541
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: thing if you're a parent, even convince your kids of

542
00:24:08,560 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: that now. But there were a whole series of lives

543
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: that we were told growing up. There were simply a

544
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 1: matter of convenience. For example, Jessica, my parents.

545
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 12: Told me that if we turned on the lights in

546
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 12: the backseat of the car that we would go to jail.

547
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:26,919
Speaker 1: The immediately saying yes, yes, I would the same thing. Now,

548
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: we weren't told we when you were jail Jessica, But

549
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 1: we were told that it was against the law. It's

550
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 1: something about it. I don't know why if you turn

551
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 1: the dome lights on in the car while you were

552
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: driving at night, that that was against the law. I

553
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: honestly believed you weren't allowed to do that until not

554
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:41,080
Speaker 1: that long ago.

555
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,919
Speaker 2: It made me wonder why they existed. If it's against

556
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 2: the law, why do they exist?

557
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree. Now, if you ever tried

558
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,600
Speaker 1: to drive with the dome lights on at night, it

559
00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 1: does change the visibility a little bit. But like, it's

560
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: not against the law. But I think it was mainly

561
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 1: because as a kid, when you figured out that light

562
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 1: was there, you were just turning it on and and

563
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: it was probably really annoying. So that was the reason why.

564
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:05,400
Speaker 1: But it turns out, Jessica, you won't go to jail

565
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:05,639
Speaker 1: for that.

566
00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, well now I know.

567
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: Now I have my own kids that sent me to jail. Yale,

568
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 1: you tell them the same thing, I assume ye. So yeah, Jessica,

569
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,920
Speaker 1: thank you, thanks for listening. Have a great day. Good

570
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:25,800
Speaker 1: glad you call? Uh heina call, good morning, Hi, good morning,

571
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: good how are you guys?

572
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: Now?

573
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: Is this your parents lied to you about this?

574
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 13: Yeah. So my parents lied to me for years to

575
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,920
Speaker 13: tell me that I was allergic to dogs and cats

576
00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 13: because they did not want the responsibility of taking care

577
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 13: of them. And as I got older in grammar school

578
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 13: and was around like friends' houses and animals, and I

579
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 13: was like, something seems a little suspicious.

580
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: And then I got a dog in my twenties and

581
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 1: found out I wasn't allergic. So yeah, I had to

582
00:25:54,760 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 1: call them out. Yeah, they told you had a health condition. Yeah,

583
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 1: I guess.

584
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 13: Now I have a dog who's thirteen and my mom's

585
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 13: obsessed with him, so it's kind of it's kind of funny.

586
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,199
Speaker 1: Take the dog over there, just rub it all over

587
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: your face and be like, hey, look see. Oh yeah,

588
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: I still call her out all the time. Thank you, Nicole,

589
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,760
Speaker 1: have a good day you too. I remember a lot

590
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:23,320
Speaker 1: of years ago I had a friend speaking of the

591
00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: pet thing and the lies you tell your kids. They

592
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: got like a fish at a pet store or whatever,

593
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: or I don't even think it was a fancy fish.

594
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: It was just a fish. Maybe it was a carnival

595
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 1: or something. I don't know. It was a little tank,

596
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 1: and I don't think there was a lot of investment

597
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 1: made in preserving the fish, Like I don't think they

598
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: went and got their proper tank and the aeration, and

599
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: I think it was kind of just like, okay, look

600
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: it was in a bowl. It died and the kid

601
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: and their kid was young, and so they went to

602
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 1: the store and they got another fish that looked just

603
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: like it and dump that in there. Because they just

604
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,760
Speaker 1: weren't They weren't in the mood, nor were they ready

605
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 1: to have to explain to their child what what happened

606
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: and that you know, fish go to heaven. Sometimes they

607
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: just wanted the mood to have to do this, so

608
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: they just kept replacing the fish until finally the kid

609
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,920
Speaker 1: was no longer interested in the fish, and then the

610
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:09,600
Speaker 1: fish is kind of I don't know, was given away

611
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: or something, but I remember I was like, no, you

612
00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 1: can't use this as a teachable moment like it you know,

613
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: we're gonna lie. I mean, how long are we gonna

614
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 1: keep this this not fish alive, not the same fish

615
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: alive before we actually may like seventeen eighteen twenty, I mean,

616
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 1: how long you have to be before we actually explained like, yeah, fish,

617
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: I'll live forever. And it's sad, but you know, this

618
00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: is life. And this is what happens. I don't know

619
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: when you teach your kid about that. That's a good question.

620
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,920
Speaker 4: I wouldn't just replace that fish because it was kind

621
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:39,840
Speaker 4: of traumatizing once you figure out what happens after the

622
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 4: fish died.

623
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 3: I will never forget that watching this Spin Spin and

624
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 3: on the TOL.

625
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 1: Yeah. I never had to take a disposal of the

626
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 1: dead animals. That was my dad's job. Poor guy. That

627
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:55,000
Speaker 1: is that. That continues to be his job. He has

628
00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:56,960
Speaker 1: to do all the all the hard stuff in the family.

629
00:27:57,000 --> 00:28:01,159
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it. I refuse. Hey, Samantha, fine, this

630
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: is a good one. So this is uh, you lie

631
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 1: to your kid about this?

632
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:08,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, so I lie to her saying that Chuck E

633
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:10,159
Speaker 5: Cheese has to invite us.

634
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 8: We can't just go whatever. We heard that.

635
00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: No, I've heard that. I've heard that. Don't think you

636
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: can pull up on a Chuck E Cheese and walk in.

637
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,080
Speaker 1: Absolutely not. That's not how it works. You got to

638
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: know somebody. You got to talk to mister Chucky Cheese man,

639
00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: and then he's got to be like, all right, Samantha's

640
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:29,040
Speaker 1: kids can come this week, but not all the time.

641
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 10: Yep, I tell her.

642
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 1: Oh, he called me. He said, we can come this weekend.

643
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: He's amazing. That is a that's a really good one.

644
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: Thank you, Samantha. Have a good day.

645
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 12: Thank you too.

646
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: I love this. I can't he said, we can go

647
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: this week but you better be a good girl, because

648
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: you know, right, he gets to decide. He's standing, good morning,

649
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 1: good morning.

650
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: Hi.

651
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: Okay, So this is a lie? That is it what

652
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: you were told or what you tell your kids that

653
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: I was told my whole life by my parents and

654
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: my grandpa.

655
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 12: So my grandpa came here.

656
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 14: From Croatia when he was twenty years old.

657
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 1: And every time when you're learning, like when you're in

658
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: second grade, learning.

659
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 11: About immigrants, and you know, Alice, I would everyone would

660
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 11: tell me and my family, oh, Papa swam here from Croatia,

661
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 11: that's how he got here.

662
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 12: So why would I ever think.

663
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 14: That my strong Croatian grandfather whatever lie to me. So

664
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 14: it wasn't until I was twenty years old that I

665
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 14: was swimming in the Adriatic Sea with my cousins and.

666
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: I thought, hmmm, I think Papa actually swam And no

667
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: one knew that I was still believing. Yeah, no one

668
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:43,760
Speaker 1: knew I was still believing this tale. Yeah, wow, yeah,

669
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: no he yeah, he insacted not swim from Croatia, but

670
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:50,400
Speaker 1: that would have been quite a seat exactly. He still

671
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 1: calls himself the Adriatic Sea champ. So there you go.

672
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: Let him have it. Have a good morning, Yeah, you

673
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 1: doo appreciate you. Hey's Steve. Cool, Good morning, Steve. You

674
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: a lot of your kids about this. What is it?

675
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 8: Boh? We used to tell them that if they pulled

676
00:30:09,240 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 8: us a lot, a dot would trap on their tongue.

677
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 8: But oh, you adults could see it. Oh well, they

678
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 8: couldn't lie at each other, but that way we could

679
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 8: catch them when.

680
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: There are I see yeah, rise in the back of

681
00:30:20,240 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 1: the head. I'm trying to think of some of the

682
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: other ones ahead to do with lies. Yeah, right, but

683
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: your parents had lie detect their ability. Yeah, well do

684
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: you think they still lie to you or no? Oh yeah,

685
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 1: definitely they didn't believe you. Thank you, Steve. Have a

686
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: good day. Okay, wait a minute, when Nicole Heinikole, good morning, Hello,

687
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,600
Speaker 1: good morning? Uh what does your parents tell you? This

688
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: is a lie? Your parents told you? Yeah?

689
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,720
Speaker 8: So, was ever like you need of that going on

690
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 8: or anything?

691
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 3: And the weather it was like really bad or was raining.

692
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,960
Speaker 14: Like it always forecasted, like rain on my birthdays.

693
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 8: My dad would always say, Oh.

694
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: They don't worry about it.

695
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 8: I called the weather man, like the weather's gonna be perfect.

696
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 8: And I seriously thought.

697
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 5: That the weatherman could control the weather when I was

698
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 5: younger and so sweet. But lo and behold, my dad

699
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 5: just kind of looked at the forecast and like he

700
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 5: knew it was going to be funny later. Yeah, he

701
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 5: didn't call the weather man. He didn't call Chucky Chees.

702
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 5: He didn't call anybody, did he. No, I don't think so.

703
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: I don't think he did. Nicole, Thank you, have a

704
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: good day.

705
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 9: Thank you too.

706
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: Here's some of the other, like more classic ones that

707
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: I think we were probably all told at one point

708
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: or another, as kids reading in the dark will ruin

709
00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,240
Speaker 1: your eyes. Not true. According to eye doctors at Harvard.

710
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,920
Speaker 1: It might cause a headache because it causes strain, but

711
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: I guess it does not actually damage your eyesight, which

712
00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,239
Speaker 1: I can tell you I was today years old when

713
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,320
Speaker 1: I learned that, because I read in dim light all

714
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 1: the time, and I'm convinced that that's why my eyesight's

715
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: going if it is, and and I just now learned

716
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: that's not true. Wow, knuckle cracking leads to arthritis, It

717
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: does not. Apparently, swallowing gums takes seven years to digest.

718
00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:01,440
Speaker 1: Apparently it does not. In fact, your parents just didn't

719
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: want you to chew that chocolate milk come or just

720
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: swallow it. Rather, chocolate milk comes from brown cows. Never

721
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: believe that cross eyes crossed eyes will get stuck that way.

722
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: They won't. In case you're wondering, swim too soon after

723
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 1: eating and you'll cramp up and drown. The drown part,

724
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 1: no one ever told me that. They did say you

725
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 1: have to wait ninety minutes after chowing down or something

726
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,400
Speaker 1: might happen. But according to the American Academy of Pediatrics

727
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: the American Red Cross, that is not true. If you

728
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: finish swallowing at least before jumping in, then you'll be okay.

729
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: The hour weight was just made up completely. Watermelons will

730
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: grow in your stomach if you swallow the seeds. Not true.

731
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:46,959
Speaker 1: Sitting too close to the TV will cause eye damage

732
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: not true. Apparently, touch a toad you'll get warts. Not true.

733
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of some I'm skipping over some

734
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 1: of these. I don't it's too early for this, keep

735
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: your eyes open when sneezing and they'll fall out. It's terrifying.

736
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,240
Speaker 1: What parent was teaching their kid that? That is terrifying.

737
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: Oh the family pen's living happily on a farm. Upstir yea. Yeah,

738
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: that one goes back to the uh. Sometimes it's just easier.

739
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 1: I guess drinking coffee will start your growth. It won't

740
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: the toy the candy story is closed. Eating Carris will

741
00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 1: let you see in the dark. Really. Oh and here's

742
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 1: the most classic one. And I grew up in Arizona

743
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: where everybody had a pool. If you pee in the pool,

744
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: the water will turn blue. The water will turn red.

745
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: There's some kind of a chemical in there that will

746
00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: make it so people can tell if you pee in

747
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 1: the pool or not. That is not true. In fact, Okay, Caitlyn,

748
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: it is true.

749
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 3: Hey, wake up.

750
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: You can learn Chinese in less than thirty minutes. Apparently me.

751
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: The Fresh Show is on Paulina on our sheet for

752
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: the day that we all contribute our ideas to what

753
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 1: is your latest impulse purchase line? Is a woman power

754
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,960
Speaker 1: suit for no reason? A woman power suit a latest

755
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: supposed to just a power suit could be for a man?

756
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: It could be for a woman you win for this

757
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: specifically female woman in power suit? Why do we have

758
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: a power suit?

759
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 10: Well, you know, it is Women's History Months. So I

760
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 10: was like, let me treat myself real quick to something new,

761
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:30,200
Speaker 10: because I'm trying to like change my wardrobe around.

762
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: By that, I mean, I don't really know. I'm still like,

763
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 1: you know, a power suit to work.

764
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 10: I might, you know, make your sense about how you

765
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 10: show up in life, right like, we're gonna turn our

766
00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 10: attitude around today for Jason, We're gonna have a great

767
00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,280
Speaker 10: day and I might be lost.

768
00:34:44,320 --> 00:34:48,399
Speaker 1: A new sponsor of this day? Is bb a new

769
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: bibet or whatever it's called. Is that a new sponsor

770
00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 1: of this show? And hey, it's white House, black Market

771
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 1: or whatever that place is called.

772
00:34:57,400 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 10: I mean, honestly, like if I could be for real

773
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:01,800
Speaker 10: to I bought that because you guys know that I

774
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 10: love Adrian Bylone.

775
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 1: I love her line Lovoot's vote.

776
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 10: I can't pronounce it, and she for some reason it's

777
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,919
Speaker 10: powers And I was like, you know what, I'm gonna

778
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 10: support my girl this month for Women's History Month. And

779
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 10: I bought it's burgundy. Though it is burgundy, I don't

780
00:35:16,160 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 10: know burgundy. Okay, so you're in a new dressing era

781
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 10: kind of I'm a year postpartum, so I'm trying to like, see,

782
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 10: you know, what's what's my style?

783
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 3: Wherever am I now? As a mom?

784
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 1: A hot mom? Right, hot moms? Check in, tap in

785
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: love that. I feel like this is when I was,

786
00:35:32,080 --> 00:35:34,760
Speaker 1: like when I was eight years old and I carried

787
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 1: a briefcase. I have a palm pilot with no Internet

788
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: that I asked for for Christmas? Like, what was I

789
00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: doing on my palm pilot? You were ahead of time?

790
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: Are keeping track of your contact?

791
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:53,439
Speaker 2: Yeah?

792
00:35:56,080 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. I have a really busy schedule. Yeah,

793
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: this is what this is what this sounds like. So

794
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,720
Speaker 1: if you would, you know, maybe sometime next week or whatever,

795
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: if you'd wear your your woman power suit to work,

796
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 1: we would.

797
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:08,800
Speaker 8: All love it.

798
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:11,360
Speaker 10: I absolutely will when you see me walking around with

799
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,879
Speaker 10: Fred's old briefcase a and my burgundy power suit.

800
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: Just mind your Christmas guess. It's for these people are

801
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:22,879
Speaker 1: to take you seriously. Don't get Jason's got a hat

802
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: on a suit around. We all make one professional human.

803
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 1: You've ever been left waiting by the phone, It's the

804
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: Fred Show. Hey angela, good morning, welcome to the show.

805
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: How are you?

806
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 12: Oh hey, I'm gay thing.

807
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? We're doing okay, it's waiting by

808
00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: the phone. So what we're trying to figure out is

809
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,320
Speaker 1: why you may have been ghosted by this guy that

810
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 1: you met on Hinge. So tell us about Christian that's

811
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:59,880
Speaker 1: his name. You met on Hinge and then what happened.

812
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 9: Yeah, my friends and I are calling him Christian Gray

813
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 9: by the way, you know, like because he's being so

814
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:14,239
Speaker 9: like hardcore about this really weird. Yeah, like you know,

815
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 9: the fifty Shades is great guy, Christian Gray. Anyway, Okay,

816
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,800
Speaker 9: so we met on Hinge and we went out twice,

817
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 9: and during our second date, we were like having a

818
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 9: really good time. We were even planning our third date.

819
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,320
Speaker 9: But then he just never called, and it was it

820
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 9: was just really bizarre because we had such a good time,

821
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 9: you know, and then just nothing. So I'm very confused,

822
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:42,319
Speaker 9: very weird.

823
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: So, I mean, we don't often hear about a third

824
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 1: date ghosting. I mean we have, but usually it's you know,

825
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 1: you go out one time and then someone does some

826
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: weird and then you never hear from him again. But

827
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 1: in this case, you guys, I mean, thanks are sort

828
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: of progressing to the point where you're gonna go out

829
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: three times. That's getting I don't know, semi serious. I

830
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: mean it means you really like somebody, I guess, so

831
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: you would expect to hear from them again. You didn't

832
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,440
Speaker 1: hear from him again, and it's bugging you and you

833
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:09,640
Speaker 1: want to know why. Yeah, totally. Yeah. Well, let's call

834
00:38:09,680 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: this guy just a second. We'll see if we can

835
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: get Christian on the phone, and you'll be on the

836
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:14,920
Speaker 1: phone too. We'll ask some questions at some point. You're

837
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: welcome to jump in after we get you some info.

838
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,240
Speaker 1: And the hope here is always that we can straighten

839
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 1: things out and then set you guys up on another

840
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 1: date and pay for that. Sound good, Yeah, that's great.

841
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by

842
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning,

843
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone.

844
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: Hey Angela, all right, welcome back. Let's call Christian just

845
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 1: to recap you guys met on the dating app Hinge

846
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: and you went out twice. On the second date. You

847
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: were even planning the third date. So we're looking into

848
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: the future here, except after the second date you never

849
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:49,840
Speaker 1: heard from this man again. He never called you, he

850
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,160
Speaker 1: never texted, he has it responded to you. He's ghosting

851
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 1: and you want to know why.

852
00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:55,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, it's really weird.

853
00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 9: I would love some clarity.

854
00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 1: Okay, well let's call him right now. Good luck, Angela,

855
00:39:00,520 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 1: thank you.

856
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 2: Hello.

857
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 1: Hi is this Christian? Oh yeah, this is see Hey Christian,

858
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

859
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: Fred Show, the morning radio show. The whole crew is here,

860
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,360
Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

861
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

862
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: to continue. Is it okay if we chat for just

863
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: a couple of seconds, you can hang up anytime of course. Cool? Yeah, Well,

864
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you very much. We're calling on behalf

865
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 1: of a woman who reached out to us. Her name

866
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: is Angela. Says that you guys met on the dating

867
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: app Hinge and he went out a couple of times.

868
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 1: Do you recall this woman?

869
00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, I know her.

870
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: Well, okay, so it was okay. She told us that

871
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 1: you guys had met and went out twice, and we're

872
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:51,400
Speaker 1: talking about a third date and then you disappeared? Is

873
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: that true? I mean, what are you avoiding her? What happened?

874
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 1: What's your side of the story.

875
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 8: Yep, basically what happened when it went really well?

876
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:00,440
Speaker 2: I I.

877
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 8: Kind of, you know, like from the get knew that

878
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 8: there was something there, something special, and you know, after

879
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 8: a couple of dates, I said, well, you know, I

880
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 8: don't need to look any further. I think I found

881
00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:15,040
Speaker 8: a good one. So basically after that second date, you know,

882
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 8: we had a little chat and I said, hey, guess

883
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 8: what you know you mean something, So I'm deleting all

884
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,799
Speaker 8: my apps and i'd like you to do the same,

885
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 8: you know, okay, And then at that point she said no,

886
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 8: and I was like, well what does that mean? Then, Like,

887
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 8: so this isn't working because it seems like we're really

888
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 8: hitting it off and we're having a good time. So

889
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 8: either you like me or you don't. And she was like, oh,

890
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 8: I don't feel comfortable leaving all my apps. You know,

891
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 8: it's just two dates. And I'm like, uh, just two

892
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 8: really great dates, So to leave the apps if you

893
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 8: like me, And then you know, she just really hurt me.

894
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 8: So I was just like, Okay, well I don't need

895
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,959
Speaker 8: to reach out to her anymore. Her intentions clear.

896
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 15: Oh this may.

897
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: Surprise people, but I don't really have a problem with

898
00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: what you were attempting to do. I realize that you're

899
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: going to get some resistance from some people, but like,

900
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: if you like, let me bring I forgot to mention

901
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: the angelis here. I want to bring Angela in so

902
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 1: she can tell her side of the story. Here, Angela Christian.

903
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: You guys know each other? Is I always forget that

904
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 1: the other person's here on absent minded? But is it

905
00:41:15,640 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: true that you liked him enough for another day but

906
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,360
Speaker 1: you were not yet ready to delete the app? Is

907
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 1: that because you still wanted to keep your options open

908
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: or was that more? Was that more that you wanted

909
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:27,160
Speaker 1: him to think that.

910
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:31,719
Speaker 9: I just didn't want to shut the door on any

911
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 9: other possibilities just because it's only been two days. I'm

912
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 9: not saying I don't like him. I do, but I

913
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 9: just think it's a little fast, you know, like we're

914
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 9: not even exclusive yet, and I just I couldn't make

915
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 9: that commitment yet.

916
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,160
Speaker 1: Huh. Okay, Well, I don't know about you guys who

917
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 1: have been on the apps before. I know, Kaylin, you

918
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 1: know you've gone on and off or whatever, But like

919
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,480
Speaker 1: it's not easy to get to the point where you're

920
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 1: going on a third date with somebody. And it's also

921
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: not necessarily just because someone's hot and you manage with

922
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 1: them and you go out on one day with them,

923
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: or that you chat with them, it doesn't mean that

924
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 1: you're gonna have in person chemistry. In fact, it almost

925
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: there's no guarantee of that. So I feel like when

926
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:21,080
Speaker 1: all those things come together, it's like, I don't know,

927
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:23,800
Speaker 1: why not just see where this goes? As opposed to

928
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 1: me continuing to invest in you knowing that you're also

929
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 1: going out with that, you're also actively searching for other people.

930
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I can see where Christian's coming from here.

931
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 1: He's like, I like you a lot, I don't want

932
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: to play this game anymore. And then you just said,

933
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: well no, I mean, so what is it about him

934
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: that you can't pause the apps for a week or

935
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: two just to see where things go?

936
00:42:42,920 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 8: I hear?

937
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 15: Is that?

938
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: Honestly?

939
00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 9: I think I'm any of them being honest. I'm just

940
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 9: a little afraid of commitment right now, Like I'm just

941
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 9: not entirely sure I want to be with one person.

942
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: How would you react to Kailin if a guy, after

943
00:42:58,320 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 1: two admittedly great dates and you're talking about a third

944
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:03,239
Speaker 1: was like hey, can we can we jump off these

945
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: apps for a minute see where this goes. How would

946
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 1: you react to that?

947
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 11: If I'm being honest, I would think it's a little soon,

948
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 11: and I would be a little bit nervous.

949
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: Not saying this about you, but I would be a

950
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:14,720
Speaker 1: little bit nervous.

951
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 9: I can.

952
00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:17,879
Speaker 1: I mean, that's just my honest answer. I'm sorry, dude,

953
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's a little fast for me. I mean, Christian,

954
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: I guess for me, and maybe you're of the same mindset.

955
00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 1: But I've been on these things for a long time

956
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: and I know what I'm guilty of. I'm guilty of.

957
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: I mean, the apps are designed this way. It's like

958
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:32,040
Speaker 1: you meet someone who's great, but yet you're you're drawn

959
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:34,000
Speaker 1: when you're on them, You're in your mind, You're like,

960
00:43:34,080 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna keep checking them because what if somebody

961
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: better comes along? And I think before long you're only

962
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: focused on what's new as opposed to what's there, and

963
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: so I feel like it's just you're just continually drawn

964
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,919
Speaker 1: back to it. And I guess it's hard to feel

965
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,480
Speaker 1: like someone's investing in you when you know that they're

966
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,839
Speaker 1: also checking that thing a couple times a day to see,

967
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: But that's dating. Who's next? You know, it's just dating.

968
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 1: It's a form of dating, right, that's till I'm at

969
00:43:59,640 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: my hosban.

970
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 10: But I didn't want that, you know, to get off

971
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 10: the apps until I knew we were like official.

972
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I look, I see both sides, and

973
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: I've done it both ways. But I also think, I

974
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: don't know. How hard is it to say? I don't know.

975
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: But by the way, another thing that is positive that's

976
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:16,840
Speaker 1: come out of this is that I don't know that Christian,

977
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: did you realize that she didn't want to be in

978
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 1: an exclusive relationship because I don't know that that was implied.

979
00:44:24,040 --> 00:44:26,880
Speaker 8: No, she didn't make that at all. I mean, if

980
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 8: you want to be you know, I want to be monogamous.

981
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 8: So that's something I guess we didn't get to cover

982
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:32,399
Speaker 8: in the first two days.

983
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,200
Speaker 1: See, so you're dating with intention to be monogamous. She's

984
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 1: dating with intention to keep her options open. There's nothing

985
00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: wrong with either one of those things. But that is

986
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 1: not you guys are not on the same page about that. Like,

987
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: there are plenty of people in the dating apps that

988
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:45,440
Speaker 1: want to keep They just want to see what's out

989
00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:47,759
Speaker 1: there and and then there are people like you that

990
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 1: like they want to be in a relationship, and I

991
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: think it sounds like you two are not aligned on

992
00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 1: that and that was going to be a problem anyway.

993
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: So I guess I don't have a problem with the

994
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 1: conversation because I mean the ghosting maybe, but the conversation, like,

995
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, he wants one thing, you want someone else,

996
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: So it's probably not going to be a match anyway.

997
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean I think I purpose who is created, right,

998
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 8: It's like you download the app, find a person, she

999
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 8: can delete the app.

1000
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I guess if you if you

1001
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: really like somebody, it's like I'd love to get I'd

1002
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,000
Speaker 1: love to like focus on this and not necessarily have

1003
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 1: to deal with the riff raft. But hey, look, you

1004
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 1: guys are very clearly looking for different things, and so

1005
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 1: I guess it's not a match. I'll ask, but Christian,

1006
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 1: would you would you give her another shot? Would you

1007
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: go out with her again?

1008
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 8: I mean, I think the writings on the walls they

1009
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 8: say it's it's just not a fit, Like I want

1010
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:40,360
Speaker 8: someone who wants to fully commit and try and you know,

1011
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 8: be vulnerable, and if you got one fit out the

1012
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 8: door the whole time. Then you're not doing that.

1013
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,800
Speaker 1: So no, but look, I mean she did, in fairness,

1014
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 1: even though she wants to quote unquote keep her options open,

1015
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 1: she did wonder about you enough to call us and

1016
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,399
Speaker 1: do all this. So I mean she obviously likes you. Yeah,

1017
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: and you never know what happens on the line. That's

1018
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,320
Speaker 1: why I think it's a little too early to call it.

1019
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 3: But hey, what do I know?

1020
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, but no, that's.

1021
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 3: Okay, staying your ground stand on business. That's right, business,

1022
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 3: that's right.

1023
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,359
Speaker 1: Key, I mean, what about it? Have you ever been

1024
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: on the dating ams? Kiky No, no, no. If you're

1025
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 1: looking to be intentional and be with one person, then

1026
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 1: that's your prerogative. She he is, and she's looking right

1027
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: now to sort of maybe not yet make that distermination

1028
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 1: also her prerogative. Neither one of them are wrong. They're

1029
00:46:26,960 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: just looking for two different things. And look, if I

1030
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: want a girlfriend and I meet somebody who's amazing and

1031
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 1: stands out well above all the rest, that I might

1032
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: put more emphasis on trying to make that work. If

1033
00:46:39,200 --> 00:46:41,399
Speaker 1: if I'm looking for a relationship, and if she is too,

1034
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: then she might be open to that. But yet, they're

1035
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:45,200
Speaker 1: not looking at the same thing.

1036
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,440
Speaker 11: So so how I would say that Fred though, is Hey,

1037
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 11: just so you know, you could do whatever you want.

1038
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 11: I'm really into you, and I'm going to delete my

1039
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,800
Speaker 11: app and then you let them respond and it's not

1040
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:56,399
Speaker 11: like controlling, you know what I mean.

1041
00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: No, I think that makes a lot of sense. I

1042
00:46:58,440 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: think that makes a lot of sense. But but I

1043
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,720
Speaker 1: can see the insecurity of knowing that you've got somebody

1044
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: great and they're like, no, I want to keep going

1045
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: on other dates. It's like, well that doesn't Yeah, we're

1046
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,200
Speaker 1: not building anything then, but that she doesn't want to,

1047
00:47:10,480 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 1: so it's all good. So nobody is really on the wrong,

1048
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:14,080
Speaker 1: but it's not going to work out. Guys, thank you

1049
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:15,640
Speaker 1: so much for your time. Best of lucks at both

1050
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 1: of you appreciate it. It is The Fred Show. Good morning,

1051
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 1: thanks for having us on the radio, on the iHeart

1052
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 1: app live and anytime search for The Fred Show on demand. So,

1053
00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 1: how dysfunctional is your family? And well that should be

1054
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: the topic. We'll leave it there and call now. How

1055
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: dysfunctional is your family? Eight five five three five call

1056
00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: now and we'll be talking about this for three hours. No,

1057
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 1: how does functional does your family have to be for

1058
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,760
Speaker 1: this to make headlines, and how weird are the holidays

1059
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:43,160
Speaker 1: going to be?

1060
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 8: So?

1061
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: A guy says that he is suing his brother in

1062
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 1: law after a prank in which super glue was poured

1063
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: into his belly button while he slept. Oh I don't know.

1064
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:58,920
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you're right over there.

1065
00:47:59,000 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 2: Can I hear this?

1066
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,000
Speaker 1: And I know that's kala? So okay.

1067
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 11: It's just like, pranks are so silly until they go

1068
00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 11: wrong and then you tell someone like that's how I

1069
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 11: lost my belly button.

1070
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's a fine line. I

1071
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,279
Speaker 1: just like, what what must be happening, you know, at

1072
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:17,920
Speaker 1: the function where you're like, oh, he's asleep. Oh I

1073
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 1: know what to do? Thay gorilla glue out?

1074
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 14: You know?

1075
00:48:22,760 --> 00:48:25,320
Speaker 1: But this is the headline. Man suing his brother in

1076
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: law after he filled his belly button with super Oh man,

1077
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:36,480
Speaker 1: yeah so. In a viral post that was shared to Reddit,

1078
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: the guy writes that his wife and her family are

1079
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 1: furious after after it's just a ridiculous story. After he

1080
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 1: took his brother in law to small claims court, but

1081
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: feels that he had no choice. He writes, my brother

1082
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: in law, who was completely sober thought it would be

1083
00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 1: hilarious to fill my belly button with super glue. At

1084
00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:59,480
Speaker 1: some point I must have touched it, because when I

1085
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: woke up, I had glue partially dried in my belly

1086
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,680
Speaker 1: button and on my finger. We tried to remove it,

1087
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: but it was stuck. The glue had adhered to my skin,

1088
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: and when we attempted to peel it off, it caused

1089
00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 1: tearing around the edges.

1090
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 12: Well.

1091
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: The guy explained that his insurance policy comes with one

1092
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 1: thousand dollars copay for emergency room visits. He went to

1093
00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 1: the eeer anyway, and he couldn't remove the glue on

1094
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:23,759
Speaker 1: his own, so that's I guess he had to go there.

1095
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,280
Speaker 1: They used to solve him in an ointment to remove

1096
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: the glue, and after everything, the medical bill was twenty

1097
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,200
Speaker 1: two hundred dollars. He then asked his brother in law

1098
00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,840
Speaker 1: to cover the cost, but that guy refused. The husband

1099
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 1: writes that his wife is upset her family thinks that

1100
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: he overreacted. No, I mean, here's the thing. If you're

1101
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: gonna prank somebody, I mean, come on, I don't think.

1102
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: I don't think this guy's overreacting at all. If you're

1103
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 1: gonna prank somebody and you don't think it out and

1104
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: that or if the prank goes wrong and there's a

1105
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: twenty two hundred dollars bill as a result of the prank,

1106
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,040
Speaker 1: you gotta pay. You did the prank, you gotta pay

1107
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: the price. Like this dude was his sleep. He know what,

1108
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:06,120
Speaker 1: He didn't ask for his belly button to get filled up. Whoa,

1109
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: you just took it somewhere else. But that's that's you. Hey,

1110
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just telling you the headline. I am

1111
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 1: reporting the news. I am a journalist. This man is

1112
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: suing his brother in law after he filled his belly

1113
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,759
Speaker 1: button with super glue. Don't you agree? Though there's no

1114
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 1: there's no question here, like if you if you do

1115
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:32,759
Speaker 1: the prank and there is you know damage. I don't

1116
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 1: know if you dye somebody's hair and they can't die

1117
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:36,880
Speaker 1: it back or they want to die back and then

1118
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 1: they got to go to the salon, or you know,

1119
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 1: just you know, an every day prank likes only someone's

1120
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: belly button that was super glue and they gotta go

1121
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 1: to the hospital. You gotta pay for that, right, Yes,

1122
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 1: that's official pranking rules. Yeah, Like I don't know why

1123
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: this is on him. This man was just sleep but

1124
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 1: he didn't ask for you know, filled up belly button.

1125
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: It's like so embarrassing to go to the.

1126
00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,640
Speaker 11: Er too, like when they ask you what's wrong and

1127
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 11: if it's not quote unquote normal, like that's embarrassing.

1128
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 1: Like my brother in law glued my belly button and

1129
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 1: I need you guys to get it out.

1130
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,919
Speaker 3: I would foul charges, like straight to jail.

1131
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing you have to see when you

1132
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 1: go to the yard and they go, so what happened here?

1133
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,839
Speaker 1: You know like that, so what happened here? And then

1134
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: it's like you got to explain. I told the story before,

1135
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: but I have a friend who is a physician and

1136
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: during medical training he had a rotation in the emergency room.

1137
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 1: I guess all doctors do. And he told me the

1138
00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 1: story because the story was more about empathy than it

1139
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: was about what happened. But he was like a dude

1140
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 1: came in. I feel like every yard doctor has the

1141
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 1: same story, which just makes me wonder, like have we

1142
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,360
Speaker 1: not sent the memo out about not doing this? But

1143
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: apparently a dude had a glass coke bottle in his

1144
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 1: rectum and that right, right, that's what I'm saying and

1145
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,200
Speaker 1: so and so they needed to know how it got there,

1146
00:51:56,280 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 1: because I guess how it got there might be helpful

1147
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,840
Speaker 1: into how to get it out. And I think we

1148
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: all know how it got there. But the dude was

1149
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: swearing up and down that he slipped and fell on

1150
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: it and then it lodged its way all the way,

1151
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:12,719
Speaker 1: and so he was this my doctor friends telling me,

1152
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:14,880
Speaker 1: he's like, I was mad at this guy because it's like,

1153
00:52:14,960 --> 00:52:18,120
Speaker 1: stop lying to me about how this happened. Like, I

1154
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 1: need to know how you got it up there, what

1155
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 1: you use, what you did, because then I'm going to

1156
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,560
Speaker 1: use a similar method, hopefully to reverse it, because if

1157
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 1: this thing breaks in there when we're taking it out,

1158
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: then we have this serious pelvic surgery. Now now we

1159
00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: got to go through the stomach and we got it.

1160
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:35,480
Speaker 1: It's a whole big thing, and we don't want to

1161
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: have to do all that. So just tell me what

1162
00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 1: what were you doing and what you know, what are

1163
00:52:39,640 --> 00:52:41,880
Speaker 1: you on and like what really happened here? And the

1164
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: guy just insisted I slipped and fell on this thing

1165
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: and it went there. And so as an er doctor,

1166
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 1: I just can't imagine the things that you must hear.

1167
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 1: But if you guys, I'm sure not quite that. But

1168
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:54,919
Speaker 1: if you guys ever had a brank go wrong.

1169
00:52:56,480 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 11: Yeah, I broke my toe because actually my friend ended

1170
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:01,920
Speaker 11: up marrying the dude who did it, which is hysterical.

1171
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 1: But in college, they put a box like.

1172
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 11: In the middle of the street with a cinderblock in

1173
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,719
Speaker 11: it on Saint Pati's Day, knowing that like drunk people

1174
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 11: would kick it. I was the drunk person who tried

1175
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 11: to kick the box out of the street and I

1176
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 11: broke my toe.

1177
00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:15,359
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1178
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:15,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1179
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they thought it was hilarious and your parents

1180
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,279
Speaker 1: probably had to pay the medical bill on that. Yeah.

1181
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 11: I mean I was on my dad's insurance at the

1182
00:53:23,280 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 11: time because it was college. But yeah, like going into

1183
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 11: the er, it's embarrassing. And then I was wearing a

1184
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,720
Speaker 11: boot in college from a prank.

1185
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 1: Because that's the thing is it looks How did this happen?

1186
00:53:32,760 --> 00:53:32,880
Speaker 15: Right?

1187
00:53:33,000 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 1: You got to explain. Well, like I remember I went

1188
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:39,879
Speaker 1: to the ear as a kid. I we weren't tall enough.

1189
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,759
Speaker 1: We put the basketball rim at my friend's house down

1190
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:44,480
Speaker 1: as low as it could go, which I think was

1191
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,399
Speaker 1: like seven feet or eight feet. I can't seven feet maybe,

1192
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 1: but we weren't tall enough to dunk that at that

1193
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:53,480
Speaker 1: height at that point. So we had the brilliant idea

1194
00:53:53,560 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: of jumping off of a bucket to then dunk the ball. Like, okay,

1195
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 1: this is great. So it's concrete and cabala hoop. How

1196
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:02,920
Speaker 1: are we going to get up there? I know, we'll

1197
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,800
Speaker 1: jump off a little bucket, So obviously you know what

1198
00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 1: happens next. The bucket, you know, falls over when I'm

1199
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:10,759
Speaker 1: jumping and I land and I won't get into it,

1200
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: but let's just say my fingernail was involved. No, it

1201
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:16,280
Speaker 1: was graphic and it was painful and it was terrible.

1202
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:18,279
Speaker 1: And then I have to run home and I'm like

1203
00:54:18,320 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: ten years old. I have to tell my parents what

1204
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:23,080
Speaker 1: I did, and it's like, you're an idiot, and then

1205
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 1: like I don't even know what to do with this.

1206
00:54:24,760 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 1: So we go to the yar and then I have

1207
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 1: to tell this guy. You know, my parents are like, well,

1208
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: how'd you do that? And it's always the dumbest thing,

1209
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: you know, or like the dude who shreds his hand

1210
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: cutting an avocado, you know, because he does the knife

1211
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: thing or whatever. You know, how you can do that

1212
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: where you can slice the avocado, like in the in

1213
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: the whatever it is right, and people cut their they

1214
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 1: like sever tendons this way on their hand doing that,

1215
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: and then you got to like imagine having to go

1216
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: to the r and be like, yeah, I need hand

1217
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: surgery because I, you know, was trying to make a

1218
00:54:55,160 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 1: smoothie right or something. You know, you just feel stupid.

1219
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, I think, yeah, that's prank rules. I would say,

1220
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 1: is you gotta if you are guilty of if you

1221
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 1: are the super glue filler up, or then you got

1222
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: to pay the price? Oh I agree, Okay, good, we're

1223
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:14,919
Speaker 1: all on the same page about this. I just wanted

1224
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 1: someone to text if someone oh god, if someone dies

1225
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:21,440
Speaker 1: in a prank, theydn't have to go to jail. I mean,

1226
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 1: I guess that's that's true, right, even if it's a prank. Yes,

1227
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 1: if somebody gets that seriously hurt, you gotta go to jail.

1228
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: So I don't this is mess up. This didn't ask

1229
00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 1: for that, No, no, did you guys ever took the prank.

1230
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: It was like a thing in my in college my

1231
00:55:34,120 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: freshman year in the dorm is like when people were

1232
00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:38,600
Speaker 1: asleep if their leg was kind of because we had

1233
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 1: bunk beds and we would we would raise or actually

1234
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: I guess they were like normal beds. One was on

1235
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 1: each side of the room, because you know, college dorm

1236
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 1: rooms are like rectangular for the most part, at least

1237
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: ours was. They were long and rectangular. So in order

1238
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: to save space, you could raise the beds and like

1239
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:55,719
Speaker 1: basically put you know, they come in and they would

1240
00:55:55,719 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 1: put like another set of legs on it, so it

1241
00:55:58,520 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: was twice as high, so you could put like your

1242
00:56:00,480 --> 00:56:02,600
Speaker 1: desk underneath it. Essentially it made it a bunk bed,

1243
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 1: except with no lower bed. So like if you're a

1244
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: lot of guys would sleep and like their foot would

1245
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:09,840
Speaker 1: hang out or their leg would kind of hang, you know,

1246
00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: because out of the sheet or whatever or the comforter,

1247
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: and and so that it became this thing for a

1248
00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: few weeks where dudes would take a sharpie and they

1249
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:18,879
Speaker 1: would draw on your leg if it was exposed while

1250
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:21,720
Speaker 1: you were asleep, and you wouldn't necessarily know this happened.

1251
00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: So if it was like on the back of your leg,

1252
00:56:24,000 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 1: you'd walk around with like whatever they drew on it,

1253
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: and you were wearing shorts, everybody would see it. Come on,

1254
00:56:30,120 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: I walked around an entire day with a gigantic dog

1255
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: along my cap. I knew exactly what they do on

1256
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:39,280
Speaker 1: your life, right, and I didn't know. I walked around

1257
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: a whole day like this because I don't know. I

1258
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: don't look. I don't look at the backup what is

1259
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: it my shin or whatever. I don't look at that

1260
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:47,839
Speaker 1: to see if anybody drew on it. So I walked

1261
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: around this all day. I should have sued. I should

1262
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: have sued no for twenty two hundred bucks.

1263
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 8: That's right.

1264
00:56:54,600 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: You guys never had these kind of McLean did you

1265
00:56:56,640 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: guys ever had these kind of college shenanigans? Nook and

1266
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: bring me at home.

1267
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 4: My brother used to do a lot of pranks, but

1268
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 4: it was just like he was just mischievous. He was

1269
00:57:06,080 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 4: just doing dumb stuff like he would take a can

1270
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,400
Speaker 4: of oil sheine or like hairspray and make a fire

1271
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:14,359
Speaker 4: torch just like run walk past you and just light

1272
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 4: this big fire and then like laugh and run off.

1273
00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 4: He used to pop out of closets and like scare everybody,

1274
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,200
Speaker 4: like it was just good. Yeah, So those kind of pranks,

1275
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 4: but nothing that would have ended in jail because get it, Yeah,

1276
00:57:25,840 --> 00:57:27,320
Speaker 4: why do people bring people?

1277
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 8: Oh?

1278
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,240
Speaker 1: I still prank my boyfriend all the time.

1279
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 11: So he was in our bedroom the other night and

1280
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 11: he was like half asleep, and I snuck out on

1281
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 11: the balcony through the other door, and I just like

1282
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 11: pounded really fast and scared him. I jump out and

1283
00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 11: scare him when he comes home. It's funny, I know,

1284
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 11: but it's fun.

1285
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: I think he went to pick up your dry cleaning

1286
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 1: and then here you are, just jumping out. I think

1287
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 1: was packing your bags and doing your laundry.

1288
00:57:57,920 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, I'm so mad at him.

1289
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: He's banned from doing my laundry. Oh no, can stop

1290
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:04,200
Speaker 1: doing your girls laundry?

1291
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 8: Please?

1292
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 1: I agree with that. It's really upsetting. Okay, well, I've

1293
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: never done my girlfriend's laundry. I don't have one. But

1294
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:10,800
Speaker 1: if I have, maybe that's part of the reason I've

1295
00:58:10,800 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 1: never done it because I don't have one. But if

1296
00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: I did have one, I'm not doing the laundry. Underwear,

1297
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: please one. I don't want to see what I don't.

1298
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: I don't need to know, like you don't need to

1299
00:58:19,360 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 1: be looking at my underwear, and I don't need to

1300
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 1: be looking at yours. But the other thing, more importantly,

1301
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know why you're so passionate

1302
00:58:26,440 --> 00:58:28,760
Speaker 1: about that. But I'm really passionate about this. But the

1303
00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 1: second thing is I'd be afraid to mess something up,

1304
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: like like what if what if I, like wash your

1305
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: braw and I'm not supposed to, Or what if I

1306
00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:38,400
Speaker 1: wash your underwearing correctly and then I write and then

1307
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 1: I dry it correct and those little chony is worth

1308
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 1: twenty five dollars and I messed up a bunch of them.

1309
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 1: Because my all of our stuff, you know, and Jason

1310
00:58:44,560 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 1: can attest to this, all of our stuff is just

1311
00:58:46,680 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 1: literally you can just put it all in, all of

1312
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:54,720
Speaker 1: it at one time. Yeah, A small colors, all fabrics cold.

1313
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 6: I separate the bottoms from the tops. That's separated, ye

1314
00:58:58,640 --> 00:58:58,840
Speaker 6: I do?

1315
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:02,120
Speaker 1: What does that happen? I'm I don't know, but why

1316
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 1: do you do that? I don't know because I can't

1317
00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 1: put the bottoms in with the tops and it's too much.

1318
00:59:06,560 --> 00:59:08,160
Speaker 1: So I'm like, okay, how do I separate this?

1319
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 6: In my head, the bottom's going once and the top's

1320
00:59:12,000 --> 00:59:13,480
Speaker 6: going on and then the whites.

1321
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:15,160
Speaker 3: What the hell?

1322
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: I don't even do that, you guys, I know this

1323
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 1: is going to make a lot of people shiver. I

1324
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 1: don't even separate the white. Oh my god, I'm going well,

1325
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 1: sometimes it depends, but but like every day just sort

1326
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:31,120
Speaker 1: of whatever. Nah, everything goes in on cold and most

1327
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: things get dried, and I know that bothers a lot

1328
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:36,080
Speaker 1: of people. Yeah, I dry everything and every single thing. Yeah,

1329
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,040
Speaker 1: where am I gonna hang clothes you for? So you

1330
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:45,560
Speaker 1: have a house, a home where I haven't gonna clothes line. Well, now,

1331
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,360
Speaker 1: as we learned, Mike the mechanic has a home, and

1332
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 1: Jason will not be able to live it happens to Mike,

1333
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 1: So he should get used to efficiency because that's probably

1334
00:59:55,400 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 1: what he's going to need, you know exactly. Wait. Wait,

1335
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: I'm just missing the guy who breaks every voice of

1336
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: men song down. And yeah, hey baby, I'm sorry. Please

1337
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 1: forgive me for all the wrong if done. And then

1338
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 1: you gotta go.

1339
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 3: Please forgive me, Please forgive him.

1340
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:23,960
Speaker 1: Come back home. I love you. I didn't mean to

1341
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: get with her, baby. I didn't know she was an

1342
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:27,520
Speaker 1: Instagram model.

1343
01:00:27,600 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't know she was.

1344
01:00:30,520 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 1: Fred's show. Is I tell you about my server? And

1345
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:36,200
Speaker 1: I hopped on I think it was Saturday morning at

1346
01:00:36,920 --> 01:00:39,120
Speaker 1: four am. At at three am, I don't even know

1347
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 1: what I was doing out a three am. Yeah, wait, wait,

1348
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:44,120
Speaker 1: I need the story of what you would do, the

1349
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 1: story telling. Let's go. Well, I was, I was, I

1350
01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:50,640
Speaker 1: was back home in Arizona, and I was Trevor and

1351
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: Chris the Animal, you know, the three of us stay together,

1352
01:00:54,840 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 1: the Crazy we call you, the little little Asian man,

1353
01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:00,080
Speaker 1: the Crazy, and whichever's been on the show before. And

1354
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 1: we went out for whatever reason, like old times, and

1355
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:04,960
Speaker 1: went to a bunch of places, and then we and

1356
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 1: my friend Trevor's not drinking, so he was driving, and

1357
01:01:07,520 --> 01:01:08,920
Speaker 1: so we were out late and then we go to

1358
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm hungry. So we go to I Hoop

1359
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: at like three in the morning, and our our server,

1360
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 1: very nice woman, says that she just arrived from another

1361
01:01:15,360 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 1: state where she just got out of prison, basically, And

1362
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 1: of course I had to ask because I may have

1363
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,560
Speaker 1: been inebriated, and I mean, how come on, somebody says you,

1364
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: I just got out of prison. I mean, you gotta

1365
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:28,320
Speaker 1: ask the question. And apparently I don't know, just you

1366
01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 1: talking about Kim Kardashian in prison reform, I guess just

1367
01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: made me think of this. But she she she admitted

1368
01:01:34,440 --> 01:01:36,720
Speaker 1: that she was on a work release program where she

1369
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:40,439
Speaker 1: would go to prison at night or jail and leave

1370
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 1: and then go to work and then go back to

1371
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 1: jail at night. And she said she wanted to bring

1372
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 1: some drugs in for her friends one night. You know,

1373
01:01:47,120 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: she just wanted her friends to have some drugs and wow,

1374
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 1: And so she snuck drugs back into jail. I think

1375
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 1: she was on a drug charge as it is. Stop.

1376
01:01:56,600 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: So she she went for work release, came back with

1377
01:01:59,280 --> 01:02:02,600
Speaker 1: some party fame, they found them, and she didn't leave

1378
01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:05,240
Speaker 1: for four years after that. So you know, yeah, that's

1379
01:02:05,280 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: a sulony right to bring that into a prison. Oh yeah,

1380
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:11,680
Speaker 1: you know you're not supposed to do that, right, Yeah,

1381
01:02:12,200 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: And she already had a drug charge that was probably

1382
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:17,160
Speaker 1: not good. So so we did call Kim Kardashian and

1383
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:20,800
Speaker 1: see if she can investigate this. You know, this is

1384
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 1: concerning to me. She was a good That's what I

1385
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: said to him. That's exactly what we said to her,

1386
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:29,600
Speaker 1: were like, you know what, you are an excellent friend.

1387
01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: You know, you know somebody you were thinking of other

1388
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: people there anyway, and that what a sacrifice your life

1389
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 1: trying to give your girls the party we were into

1390
01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:42,520
Speaker 1: a little party night. You know, I love that Wet'll

1391
01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:49,439
Speaker 1: sleepover order a fresh show. It's Kiki's Court, Judge. Kiki

1392
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 1: is here, the honorable judge. Kiki. All rise, judge, if

1393
01:02:52,680 --> 01:02:53,240
Speaker 1: you would.

1394
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:56,080
Speaker 3: All right, let's step into the courtroom. It says Heiki Key.

1395
01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 4: One of my best friends is getting married soon, but

1396
01:02:59,120 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 4: I won't be in attendance. When my friend got engaged,

1397
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 4: I was so happy for her. We celebrated her engagement

1398
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,720
Speaker 4: and she mentioned something to me about being in her

1399
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 4: bridal party, and we were both so excited. After all,

1400
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,040
Speaker 4: she was the maid of honor in my wedding. But

1401
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 4: fast forward months later, I see photos from her bachelorette

1402
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 4: vacation on social media.

1403
01:03:20,720 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 3: That is how I learned that I am not in

1404
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 3: her wedding.

1405
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:26,160
Speaker 4: The sad part is that I think the only reason

1406
01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 4: she didn't include me is because her fiance and I

1407
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 4: had a heated exchange on Facebook over politics.

1408
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 1: Well that might be one reason. Yeah, I could have

1409
01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,040
Speaker 1: something to do with it. I've noticed that people are

1410
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,480
Speaker 1: for sneaky about that these days, I don't see that happens.

1411
01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,200
Speaker 1: I have said, it's so surprising that somebody would have

1412
01:03:47,240 --> 01:03:50,200
Speaker 1: a differing political opinion and then eliminate you from their lives.

1413
01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1414
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, she says, she did send me an invitation to

1415
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 4: the wedding, and I've decided to decline the invite.

1416
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:01,439
Speaker 1: What do you think should I still attend? So she's

1417
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: mad because she's not in the wedding party.

1418
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 3: Yes, but.

1419
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 1: She was invited to the wedding.

1420
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,760
Speaker 4: She was invited to the wedding. Now keep in mind,

1421
01:04:11,000 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 4: this girl was her maid of honor in her wedding,

1422
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:16,919
Speaker 4: So you stood beside me as my maid of honor,

1423
01:04:17,000 --> 01:04:19,400
Speaker 4: but you don't even think to include me in your

1424
01:04:19,440 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 4: wedding party at all.

1425
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,440
Speaker 1: I feel like the only way that works is if

1426
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: you have a complete and total falling out. I don't

1427
01:04:26,160 --> 01:04:28,920
Speaker 1: think you can demote a former maid of honor. I

1428
01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:30,320
Speaker 1: don't know that. I don't know that they have to

1429
01:04:30,360 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 1: be the maid of honor, right, But if someone is

1430
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,760
Speaker 1: significant enough in your life judge Kiki, to be your

1431
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 1: maid of honor, then wouldn't you think that they would

1432
01:04:39,280 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: include you in their day as well.

1433
01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:44,240
Speaker 4: I mean it's nice to think, you know, we all

1434
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 4: can think and assume, but it's really up to the

1435
01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 4: bride and if you don't make the cut, I think,

1436
01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 4: as my friend, you know, if you're having issues with

1437
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 4: my fiance There's a lot that goes into planning a

1438
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 4: wedding and being a part of the bridal party. There's rehearsals,

1439
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,840
Speaker 4: there's dinners, there's that idle showers, all these things. And

1440
01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:03,760
Speaker 4: if I've decided, you know what, it's best for my

1441
01:05:03,880 --> 01:05:05,920
Speaker 4: mental health that you are not a part of those

1442
01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 4: things because you can't get along with my fiance, I

1443
01:05:08,280 --> 01:05:12,120
Speaker 4: feel like that's my prerogative right. But as my friend,

1444
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,960
Speaker 4: I don't think you shouldn't go to her wedding. You

1445
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, Like, you still be there and

1446
01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:19,920
Speaker 4: show up to support your friend. You go, you say, hey,

1447
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,160
Speaker 4: you know you were my maid of honor. I thought

1448
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 4: we were tighter than this. I thought we were closer

1449
01:05:24,440 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 4: than what you know this shows. But I'm still here

1450
01:05:27,120 --> 01:05:28,840
Speaker 4: on your day to support you because at the end

1451
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:30,960
Speaker 4: of the day, it's not about me, it's about you.

1452
01:05:31,400 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 4: So you did what you felt was right, and I

1453
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 4: mean cause, yeah, it feels bad to see your friends

1454
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 4: on you know, vacation without you and.

1455
01:05:38,600 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 3: You're like, oh my god, that was my maid of honor.

1456
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 3: She didn't even include me.

1457
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 4: You can feel all the things, but at the end

1458
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 4: of the day, the bride still has the right to

1459
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:48,400
Speaker 4: make the decision that she made in my opinion.

1460
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 11: Yeah, and like unless, I mean, there's people whose weddings

1461
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 11: that I was in that I wouldn't necessarily have in

1462
01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 11: mind if I were to get married today. And I

1463
01:05:55,320 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 11: also think, like, you know, if you want the friendship

1464
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:00,680
Speaker 11: to end, then you can skip about on the wedding.

1465
01:06:01,080 --> 01:06:02,960
Speaker 1: But if you are not okay with.

1466
01:06:02,960 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 11: The friendship ending, then you need to go to the

1467
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 11: wedding and you need to swallow it and just keep

1468
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 11: it moving.

1469
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1470
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:10,960
Speaker 1: By the way, Kaylen's still looking for this woman with

1471
01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: the Venmo request. You guys she paid me. Oh nice,

1472
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 1: you finally got your sixty five dollars. I had to

1473
01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 1: go to.

1474
01:06:18,920 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 11: Someone else to ask for help, who then made a

1475
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:23,400
Speaker 11: group chat who then she didn't answer for days, But

1476
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 11: we finally.

1477
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:26,640
Speaker 1: Got our sixs. So maybe this woman is being done

1478
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 1: a favor by not having to go to all this.

1479
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 1: I don't know how you. I feel like you got

1480
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:35,720
Speaker 1: to find a place you're made of honor, of caliber,

1481
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:39,400
Speaker 1: but yet you're not even in a wedding party for

1482
01:06:39,520 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 1: the other person. I don't I don't know. I mean,

1483
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:45,840
Speaker 1: it feels like quite the demotion. Yeah, I don't eat

1484
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: five five. You guys are the jury. I mean, how

1485
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,120
Speaker 1: would you feel about that? How would you feel if

1486
01:06:51,440 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 1: you made someone you're made of honor or you're your

1487
01:06:55,040 --> 01:06:59,160
Speaker 1: best man, and then that person turns around and gets

1488
01:06:59,200 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 1: married however long later, and you're not even included in

1489
01:07:02,040 --> 01:07:04,080
Speaker 1: the wedding party. You don't get to go to the

1490
01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:06,920
Speaker 1: bachelorette party, the bachelor party. This is your group of

1491
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 1: friends too, you don't even get to be there. Like,

1492
01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:14,160
Speaker 1: that's like I got invited to a bachelor party. It's

1493
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,280
Speaker 1: the famous Key West bachelor party. A bunch of great

1494
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:19,680
Speaker 1: guys in Key West. No idea, no idea why they

1495
01:07:19,720 --> 01:07:21,400
Speaker 1: shows that place? I have no I mean, I was

1496
01:07:21,480 --> 01:07:23,959
Speaker 1: so disappointed. I'm like, finally we have grown up money

1497
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:26,280
Speaker 1: and we don't have to go to like South Padre Island.

1498
01:07:26,480 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: Yeah right, we can go to like Prague or somebody

1499
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 1: like some someplace insane like us, a bunch of doctors

1500
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 1: and lawyers and then imediate radio personality. I'm like, we

1501
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,440
Speaker 1: got grown up money, we can go do grown up

1502
01:07:36,520 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: stuff now. Oh no, we went to Key West, but

1503
01:07:39,240 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't in the wedding, but I was included because

1504
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: I think the guy was like well, you're our buddy too,

1505
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 1: but like I didn't know, I was kind of the

1506
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:51,200
Speaker 1: adopted member of the friend group, so I didn't deserve

1507
01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 1: to be in the wedding, and I wasn't upset about that,

1508
01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 1: but I thought it was cool that he invited me

1509
01:07:55,160 --> 01:07:57,600
Speaker 1: to the bachelor party anyway, because I think he wanted

1510
01:07:57,600 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 1: to avoid what this woman's going through, which is basically

1511
01:08:01,280 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 1: everybody got invited to the bachelor party who was going

1512
01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:05,959
Speaker 1: to be in the wedding because he'd known them since

1513
01:08:06,000 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: they were kids. And then I wouldn't have gotten to

1514
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:11,040
Speaker 1: go because there wasn't in the wedding, but it still

1515
01:08:11,040 --> 01:08:13,080
Speaker 1: would have been fun for me to have been included, right,

1516
01:08:13,120 --> 01:08:15,240
Speaker 1: So he did that for me. So I don't know

1517
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 1: if it's different with girls, Like would you be would

1518
01:08:18,680 --> 01:08:20,439
Speaker 1: you be upset as a girl? Would you feel slighted

1519
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:22,240
Speaker 1: if it was, Hey, look you're not gonna be in

1520
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:24,200
Speaker 1: the wedding, but you can't come to the bachelorette party.

1521
01:08:24,280 --> 01:08:26,519
Speaker 4: Oh no, See, now that's where I would be upset

1522
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:29,280
Speaker 4: because don't ask me to pay money to come to

1523
01:08:29,400 --> 01:08:32,880
Speaker 4: your trip and come, you know, pay on your bachelorette festivities.

1524
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 3: And I'm not a part of the writer party. That's

1525
01:08:35,200 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 3: an absolute no for me.

1526
01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:38,519
Speaker 4: But when it comes down to the wedding, I feel

1527
01:08:38,560 --> 01:08:40,680
Speaker 4: like we've all had friends who have had partners that

1528
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:42,840
Speaker 4: we weren't totally head over heels for. We didn't think

1529
01:08:42,880 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 4: they were a good person, we didn't like the guy, whatever,

1530
01:08:45,320 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 4: But you still stay loyal to your friend because at

1531
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 4: some point he's going to show his true colors to her,

1532
01:08:50,880 --> 01:08:52,439
Speaker 4: and you know you still want to be there for

1533
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:54,360
Speaker 4: her when that all hits the fan, Because I would

1534
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:55,920
Speaker 4: go to the wedding. You know, when they say does

1535
01:08:55,960 --> 01:08:59,799
Speaker 4: anybody object? I would call real loud, you know, anybody

1536
01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 4: object to this union?

1537
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:01,679
Speaker 2: Yes?

1538
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 3: I do, you know, but I would still be there

1539
01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 3: for my friend.

1540
01:09:05,080 --> 01:09:07,920
Speaker 4: I just think we can't just assume that people are

1541
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:10,759
Speaker 4: going to hold us at the same type of standard

1542
01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,200
Speaker 4: we hold them in our lives all the time.

1543
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: I've said this before, Kiki. I at this point in

1544
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 1: my life, I feel like I would need to just

1545
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:21,920
Speaker 1: elope if I ever got married, like call my parents

1546
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:24,240
Speaker 1: and call her parents or whatever and be like, okay,

1547
01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: because the list of people that I'm going to offend

1548
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:33,120
Speaker 1: at this point after having been alive this long invite

1549
01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:36,200
Speaker 1: or I don't put in the wedding party or I

1550
01:09:36,960 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 1: I mean I've stood in multiple I've stood in more

1551
01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:42,200
Speaker 1: than one wedding for the same human being at this point. Really,

1552
01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:45,360
Speaker 1: I've stood in weddings. I mean, one guy's dead. Oh

1553
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: I'm what yeah, right, shout out to Stuart Man. But

1554
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:52,600
Speaker 1: I'm just saying like I've been No, he was a

1555
01:09:52,600 --> 01:09:55,360
Speaker 1: great guy. I'm just saying I've been around long enough

1556
01:09:55,400 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 1: at this point in my you know, early mid forties

1557
01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:01,000
Speaker 1: or whatever, that I there's way that I could get

1558
01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:04,200
Speaker 1: everybody in my wedding party who is important to me.

1559
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:07,920
Speaker 1: So I feel like, rather I feel like I as

1560
01:10:07,960 --> 01:10:10,840
Speaker 1: a guy without a girlfriend, I think about things like, Wow,

1561
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:13,160
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do at my non wedding, But it's

1562
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:15,240
Speaker 1: like I feel like I would have to do something

1563
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:18,880
Speaker 1: quick and dirty because I wouldn't mean to not include anyone.

1564
01:10:19,240 --> 01:10:21,519
Speaker 1: But I think I could really hurt some people's feelings

1565
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 1: if I didn't include them in a wedding or in

1566
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:26,240
Speaker 1: a bridal party. And I wouldn't want to do that. Yeah,

1567
01:10:26,280 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: I can't picture you either way.

1568
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:30,040
Speaker 10: Like having a whole circus wedding, I really don't with

1569
01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 10: like caters and this and that and the tucks, fittings

1570
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:35,800
Speaker 10: and like having a whole you know, bachelor whatever part.

1571
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:38,080
Speaker 1: I can't picture that. I picture because you're so low key.

1572
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 10: Too that I feel like you would just be like, hey,

1573
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:41,120
Speaker 10: we're doing this next Saturday.

1574
01:10:41,160 --> 01:10:42,840
Speaker 1: You guys want to come, Like That's how I see it.

1575
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: And because Pauline, it would be you guys, it would

1576
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:49,200
Speaker 1: be my parents, my sister, my brother in law, probably

1577
01:10:49,240 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: my nieces. And then you know, I've got a couple

1578
01:10:52,040 --> 01:10:54,560
Speaker 1: really close, like super close friends. And then outside of that,

1579
01:10:54,760 --> 01:10:56,960
Speaker 1: I have a lot of friends, a lot of friends,

1580
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 1: but they're not I don't know, I don't I mean,

1581
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 1: I'm either gonna have to invite a thousand people or nobody.

1582
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:04,439
Speaker 1: And I don't mean that as like a humble brag,

1583
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:06,240
Speaker 1: but it's it. If I think you get to a

1584
01:11:06,280 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 1: certain point in your life where I've got a lot

1585
01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:10,760
Speaker 1: of different work people that I value. I've got a

1586
01:11:10,800 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: lot of different friends I value. I've got friends in like,

1587
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:16,360
Speaker 1: you know, to Paulina's point, I've got friends in different categories,

1588
01:11:16,760 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 1: and I think there'll be a lot of people who

1589
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:21,200
Speaker 1: would be upset, and not because I'm popular, but because

1590
01:11:21,439 --> 01:11:22,559
Speaker 1: you know, you get to a certain point in your

1591
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 1: life where you just you've been exposed to a lot

1592
01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 1: of different people who mean something to you, and and

1593
01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:29,759
Speaker 1: this is the kind of messy stuff that happens. Hey, Marissa,

1594
01:11:30,200 --> 01:11:31,680
Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the show. How are you.

1595
01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 8: Thank you, I'm good.

1596
01:11:33,520 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 11: I love you.

1597
01:11:33,920 --> 01:11:36,519
Speaker 1: Guys, thank you, We love you too. So Kiki's Court,

1598
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 1: basically it's it's a woman who was is getting married

1599
01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:42,599
Speaker 1: and and how do I explain this best?

1600
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,559
Speaker 4: She's left out of the bridal party by her best

1601
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:49,799
Speaker 4: friend because she doesn't like her husband, and this woman.

1602
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,880
Speaker 1: Was also her maid of honor, So like there's kind

1603
01:11:51,920 --> 01:11:54,440
Speaker 1: of like you would think there would be a reciprocation

1604
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 1: thing going on here.

1605
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:59,559
Speaker 12: So I'm currently in the process of planning my wedding

1606
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:02,320
Speaker 12: as well, and one of the things that I think

1607
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 12: is most important is it's your wedding and you have

1608
01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 12: to do what's best for you. So I agree with

1609
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:08,880
Speaker 12: what Key said, Like if that's what.

1610
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:10,479
Speaker 14: She decided, that's what she decided.

1611
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 12: But she needs to have a conversation with this girl,

1612
01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 12: Like you just don't go silent and go ghost. If

1613
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:20,640
Speaker 12: she was her your maid of honor or whatever that

1614
01:12:20,760 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 12: relationship was, Like something had to have happened whether it

1615
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:27,040
Speaker 12: was the issue on politics or not, but regardless, give

1616
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 12: her the courtesy to call her and say, hey, here's

1617
01:12:30,040 --> 01:12:32,960
Speaker 12: where we're at. I don't want you to be upset XYZ,

1618
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:35,880
Speaker 12: and then go from there instead of just not saying

1619
01:12:35,960 --> 01:12:38,479
Speaker 12: anything and just sending out an invite and she finds

1620
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:41,400
Speaker 12: out through social media that she wasn't invited or a

1621
01:12:41,479 --> 01:12:42,160
Speaker 12: part of the wedding.

1622
01:12:42,280 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a good point because if we're best friends,

1623
01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:46,160
Speaker 4: that's the least you can do is explain, is tell

1624
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:47,760
Speaker 4: me why I'm not included.

1625
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 12: Exactly right, And then coming down to the girl, if

1626
01:12:51,040 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 12: she should or should not go to the wedding. I

1627
01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:55,720
Speaker 12: think she should go regardless, like she might have some

1628
01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:59,000
Speaker 12: tip of feeling on it. But again, that's when she

1629
01:12:59,240 --> 01:13:01,720
Speaker 12: can have that common versation. She attends the wedding, and

1630
01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:04,920
Speaker 12: then after the fact, she could then call that woman

1631
01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:07,719
Speaker 12: and say, hey, I attended your wedding, but I feel

1632
01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:09,679
Speaker 12: some type of way on the fact that I wasn't

1633
01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:11,880
Speaker 12: included in the first place, but I still wanted to

1634
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:14,680
Speaker 12: be there for you and just revolve it through communication

1635
01:13:15,080 --> 01:13:15,280
Speaker 12: and I.

1636
01:13:15,360 --> 01:13:20,719
Speaker 1: Well, therefore you at the divorce, Oh well right, maybe

1637
01:13:20,960 --> 01:13:25,200
Speaker 1: is it Marisa or Marissa did I say, right, Marissa, Marissa, so,

1638
01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:28,880
Speaker 1: and let me ask this, because you're planning your wedding now,

1639
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:32,680
Speaker 1: Like I could come up with as many people as

1640
01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 1: you want to stand up there, but don't you want

1641
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 1: the numbers to be even? And like, let's say that

1642
01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:39,800
Speaker 1: I only wanted to include Let's say I only had

1643
01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:41,720
Speaker 1: two or three friends that I thought were close enough

1644
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:44,479
Speaker 1: to stand up there. And so then would you then

1645
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 1: go and have seven if you had seven, or would

1646
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:49,720
Speaker 1: you then narrow it down to three too, so that

1647
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:51,640
Speaker 1: it were even on both sides? And that way, I

1648
01:13:51,680 --> 01:13:54,240
Speaker 1: mean that would make it really difficult. But at least

1649
01:13:54,320 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 1: then you could say, well, he picked three, I picked three.

1650
01:13:57,360 --> 01:14:00,519
Speaker 1: So I had to draw the line somewhere, I guess, I.

1651
01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:02,120
Speaker 12: Mean at the end of the day, Like it really

1652
01:14:02,280 --> 01:14:05,600
Speaker 12: just depends on the person, Like how I was. I

1653
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:07,560
Speaker 12: always thought I would be the person where I was

1654
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:10,040
Speaker 12: like I need to have even numbers. But then when

1655
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 12: it came down to it, like I had five really

1656
01:14:13,520 --> 01:14:16,000
Speaker 12: good friends who I was gonna have stand up and

1657
01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 12: I had a falling out with one of them, so

1658
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 12: it was about to be like four for me and

1659
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 12: five for my fiance. And I sat there and I

1660
01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,759
Speaker 12: was like, I'm not just going to fill a position

1661
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:29,519
Speaker 12: when they don't hold the same weight of relationship as

1662
01:14:29,600 --> 01:14:31,800
Speaker 12: the other four who I am having stand up is.

1663
01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:34,960
Speaker 12: So I think it just really depends on what your

1664
01:14:35,040 --> 01:14:37,599
Speaker 12: feeling is on it, and I don't think you need

1665
01:14:37,680 --> 01:14:41,160
Speaker 12: a reason besides the fact of here's what it is,

1666
01:14:41,360 --> 01:14:43,840
Speaker 12: here's where our relationship stands. It's not that I don't

1667
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:45,400
Speaker 12: love you, it's not that I don't care about you,

1668
01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 12: but I felt X y Z, and this is why

1669
01:14:48,439 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 12: I'm going to move forward with not having you. But again,

1670
01:14:51,000 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 12: that comes down to the communication that the bride should

1671
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:58,120
Speaker 12: have called her quote unquote best friend to tell her that. Yeah,

1672
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:00,360
Speaker 12: so the fact that you didn't, I think there's something

1673
01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 12: that had to have happened because you don't just randomly

1674
01:15:03,680 --> 01:15:04,719
Speaker 12: not include your best friend.

1675
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:07,280
Speaker 1: Right this this is friendship ending stuff right here. But

1676
01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:08,800
Speaker 1: thank you, Marissa, have a good day.

1677
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:10,080
Speaker 8: Thanks you too.

1678
01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:12,519
Speaker 1: Yeah. I agree with whoever said that it is. This

1679
01:15:12,680 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 1: is the kind of stuff where if you don't handle

1680
01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:18,200
Speaker 1: it right, you wind up without a friend forever. But

1681
01:15:18,280 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 1: then at the same time, you got to show some grit.

1682
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:25,720
Speaker 1: It's tricky. Hey, Raquel, Yeah, sorry, how are you doing? Hey,

1683
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:27,920
Speaker 1: Raquel welcome. What do you think he Key scored.

1684
01:15:29,240 --> 01:15:31,719
Speaker 14: She should not attend the wedding. I think the point

1685
01:15:32,000 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 14: is that she was not told by the bride that

1686
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 14: she was not going to be included in the wedding,

1687
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 14: and she found out via social mediation of the situation. Yes,

1688
01:15:45,640 --> 01:15:49,439
Speaker 14: that's so, there's no conversation. You find out via photo.

1689
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:52,040
Speaker 14: So then you expect me to go to the wedding. No,

1690
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 14: I don't think she should have to go to the

1691
01:15:54,040 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 14: wedding at all, and she shouldn't send a gift either.

1692
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:01,679
Speaker 1: Business girl, Okay, yeah, I mean I think there could

1693
01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:03,600
Speaker 1: have been a world where you had the conversation. She

1694
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: didn't find out the way she found out. You weren't

1695
01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:08,040
Speaker 1: sneaky about it, and and maybe there would be some

1696
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:12,439
Speaker 1: understanding and maybe some hurt feelings. But okay, but this way,

1697
01:16:12,600 --> 01:16:14,600
Speaker 1: it's like you're trying to pull one over on me.

1698
01:16:14,720 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 1: Knna correct.

1699
01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:18,880
Speaker 14: So had you had the conversation and said, hey.

1700
01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:22,360
Speaker 3: You know, Brad, my fiance does not want you in the.

1701
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:26,559
Speaker 14: Wedding because of whatever the political fight was, I'm sorry

1702
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:29,640
Speaker 14: I have to ascend the invitation to include you in

1703
01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:30,880
Speaker 14: the wedding, but I still want.

1704
01:16:30,760 --> 01:16:32,719
Speaker 2: You to come then you go to the wedding.

1705
01:16:33,120 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 14: But the lack of conversation for someone who's allegedly a

1706
01:16:37,120 --> 01:16:40,439
Speaker 14: best friend, No, I'm sorry you won't go to the wedding.

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01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:43,320
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. Brad and his damn tesla driving

1708
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:48,000
Speaker 1: around it's always cause a problem, aime A, Right, thank you,

1709
01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:52,880
Speaker 1: bye bye. Don't don't at me. I just picked a

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01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:55,200
Speaker 1: random thing that people are mad about, So don't don't

1711
01:16:55,240 --> 01:16:58,040
Speaker 1: at me on that. Hi, Sarah, how you doing? Good morning?

1712
01:16:58,920 --> 01:16:59,439
Speaker 5: Good morning?

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01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:01,680
Speaker 1: Hey Kiki's court? What say you?

1714
01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:06,640
Speaker 8: I definitely think that that has become a one way friendship.

1715
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:09,599
Speaker 8: That girl is not her front no more.

1716
01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:12,400
Speaker 1: She didn't even have the decency to talk to her

1717
01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: about it.

1718
01:17:13,439 --> 01:17:16,080
Speaker 8: And me personally, if it was me, if that person

1719
01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:17,000
Speaker 8: was that important to me.

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01:17:17,080 --> 01:17:19,560
Speaker 7: I'd be telling my fiance, Yeah, she's gonna be in

1721
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:21,360
Speaker 7: my wedding and you're just gonna have to deal with it.

1722
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:22,880
Speaker 8: If she's that good of a friend.

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01:17:23,960 --> 01:17:26,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is a wild thing. Is for a fight

1724
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:31,960
Speaker 1: between them to trump no pun intended, but to certain

1725
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 1: I don't know who's on what side, but you know

1726
01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:38,160
Speaker 1: that's that's pretty wild to say that a fight that

1727
01:17:38,240 --> 01:17:41,400
Speaker 1: you had with this significant other of mine that that's

1728
01:17:41,479 --> 01:17:43,120
Speaker 1: the reason that you can't be in my wedding and

1729
01:17:43,160 --> 01:17:45,920
Speaker 1: we're going to end a lifelong friendship over that, Like

1730
01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:49,560
Speaker 1: that's that's crazy a little bit. Well, it's definitely I

1731
01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:54,200
Speaker 1: think that the girl should not go because me, I'm Patty.

1732
01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to hold it in.

1733
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,240
Speaker 8: I'd probably mess up her weddings with my comments.

1734
01:17:57,320 --> 01:17:59,600
Speaker 1: So yeah, there was a way to handle it, and

1735
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:01,920
Speaker 1: the way this is, this wasn't it. Thank you Sarah.

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01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 1: You have a great day, guys, you too. And Lee

1737
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 1: says that she her best friend did the same thing,

1738
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 1: but she did go to the wedding. Hold on, let's

1739
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,760
Speaker 1: hear the story quickly and then we'll do the entertainment report. Hey, Lee,

1740
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 1: what happened? Good morning?

1741
01:18:13,560 --> 01:18:16,320
Speaker 15: Hey, good morning guys. I'm one of the thirteen.

1742
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:18,640
Speaker 1: Thank you, love you for that.

1743
01:18:20,280 --> 01:18:23,599
Speaker 15: So yeah, I actually found out that my friend cut

1744
01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:27,559
Speaker 15: out my picture and asked everybody else and I wasn't

1745
01:18:27,640 --> 01:18:29,200
Speaker 15: asked because I couldn't afford it.

1746
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:33,679
Speaker 1: Oh my god, wow, that's awful.

1747
01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:36,320
Speaker 15: Is she thought that I couldn't afford it to be her,

1748
01:18:36,960 --> 01:18:40,000
Speaker 15: you know, in the wedding group, So she decided that

1749
01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:43,720
Speaker 15: financially it would be safe not to ask me to

1750
01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:46,800
Speaker 15: be in her party. And I found out because I

1751
01:18:46,880 --> 01:18:50,920
Speaker 15: did confront her and she did cry. I cried, and

1752
01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 15: you know what, we're so best friends.

1753
01:18:53,360 --> 01:18:55,960
Speaker 1: That is what it is, man, I'm saying, you know,

1754
01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:59,000
Speaker 1: you you would think that in that situation, and I've

1755
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:01,720
Speaker 1: heard of this happening like low key. They just kind

1756
01:19:01,760 --> 01:19:04,519
Speaker 1: of build it into the budget of the wedding like yeah, look,

1757
01:19:04,840 --> 01:19:08,439
Speaker 1: you know, uh, like Lee's got to be there, so

1758
01:19:08,640 --> 01:19:11,400
Speaker 1: we'll make it work. And then, because you know, people

1759
01:19:11,439 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 1: go through hard times and whatever and whatever.

1760
01:19:13,880 --> 01:19:14,920
Speaker 2: It was who I was dating.

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01:19:15,280 --> 01:19:16,880
Speaker 15: It was who I was dating at the time, to

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01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:17,360
Speaker 15: be honest.

1763
01:19:20,800 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he sucked me dry.

1764
01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:27,519
Speaker 1: So he's gone. Alright, I'm sorry to hear that, but

1765
01:19:27,640 --> 01:19:32,040
Speaker 1: I'm glad things. You guys are still friends, right, yes, yes, absolutely, well,

1766
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:33,120
Speaker 1: good have a good daily.

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01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:34,680
Speaker 14: Yeah you guys as well.

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01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:36,679
Speaker 1: I love you guys, take care, love you too. Yeah.

1769
01:19:36,720 --> 01:19:39,120
Speaker 1: We had a buddy, a college buddy, uh, and he

1770
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:42,920
Speaker 1: was in dental school and didn't have any money, and

1771
01:19:43,360 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 1: so it was like literally had he was scraping by

1772
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:48,599
Speaker 1: just to get through dental school. And our other buddy

1773
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:51,760
Speaker 1: got married and so it was like, look, he's not

1774
01:19:51,840 --> 01:19:54,360
Speaker 1: going to be able to go because he didn't have

1775
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,000
Speaker 1: any money. And then it was a destination wedding. I

1776
01:19:57,040 --> 01:19:59,760
Speaker 1: think it was Kankun. It was expensive, and you know,

1777
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:01,840
Speaker 1: AND's been through this one hundred times. At least it

1778
01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:04,880
Speaker 1: was Cancun and that you know, uh sal Polo, Brazil

1779
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:08,920
Speaker 1: or wherever they help you to get. But anyway, so

1780
01:20:09,040 --> 01:20:11,320
Speaker 1: they they worked it in so that they paid for him,

1781
01:20:11,439 --> 01:20:13,560
Speaker 1: and he was super grateful, and you know, because he

1782
01:20:13,600 --> 01:20:15,800
Speaker 1: wanted to be there and he really couldn't afford it.

1783
01:20:16,200 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 1: So we all show up to this thing and we

1784
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:20,040
Speaker 1: all meet the lobby, check in, and we're all having

1785
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,280
Speaker 1: a nice time. And this this guy who who who

1786
01:20:24,439 --> 01:20:27,400
Speaker 1: my friend paid for, was like, this place is so nice,

1787
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 1: and we're like, yes, I guess it's pretty nice. He's like,

1788
01:20:30,040 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 1: I've never stayed in a hotel room like this before

1789
01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 1: in my life, like it is. It is fantastic. I

1790
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 1: have my own pool, like you guys have your own pool.

1791
01:20:37,479 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: And my buddy looks at him and goes, dude, you're

1792
01:20:39,520 --> 01:20:43,280
Speaker 1: in the presidential suite. That's our room. He said it

1793
01:20:43,439 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 1: wasn't available. Get the hell out, like your stuff, get

1794
01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 1: out of He's like, there's a dining room in it.

1795
01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:53,519
Speaker 1: There's a butler. My buddy's like that thinks fifteen hundred

1796
01:20:53,560 --> 01:20:56,760
Speaker 1: bucks a night, that's mine. Get out. But if you

1797
01:20:56,840 --> 01:20:59,320
Speaker 1: hadn't sent a mething, you would have had this palace

1798
01:20:59,320 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: all week and it would have amazing. Fread's fun fact.

1799
01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:14,720
Speaker 3: Fred learn so much.

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01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:20,280
Speaker 1: Guys. Did you know that sweat itself does not smell bad?

1801
01:21:21,560 --> 01:21:27,160
Speaker 1: Sweat itself, the actual little beads, that's not what smells bad. Boh,

1802
01:21:28,040 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 1: I'm not even brow bro hidrosis amidrosis, I'm a physician. Obviously,

1803
01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:39,760
Speaker 1: he's actually caused by bacteria breaking down the protein in

1804
01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:45,719
Speaker 1: sweat and turning it into certain unpleasant acids. You can shower,

1805
01:21:45,920 --> 01:21:48,479
Speaker 1: but it's not the sweat itself. It's the sweat eating

1806
01:21:48,560 --> 01:21:53,439
Speaker 1: the skins bacteria that makes you smell bad. Okay, you

1807
01:21:53,479 --> 01:22:00,639
Speaker 1: didn't know, well, I you sweat never mind right, More

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Speaker 1: Fresh show next