1 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 3 00:00:07,680 --> 00:00:09,640 Speaker 1: A lot of times when we're helping out couples in 4 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 1: this segment, Yeah, they usually come to us around like 5 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: the six month mark in their relationship, maybe like a 6 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: year or two, and they've hit a speed bump. But 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: not today. One of our listeners says he's sending up 8 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: smoke signals after date number three. He's already worried already. Okay, 9 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: sign not necessarily the best, but we do need to 10 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:33,600 Speaker 1: step in and try and help him out today. So 11 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 1: let's talk to Greg. Greg. Welcome to the show man. 12 00:00:36,080 --> 00:00:36,600 Speaker 1: How you doing? 13 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:38,280 Speaker 3: What's going on everyone? 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 4: Date three? 15 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 5: Man? 16 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a lot. 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 6: She's sketched, bro, Why don't you just drop it? 18 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 4: Yeah that's my question, Jose Like, why even bother? 19 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 3: I've actually been thinking about that. 20 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 4: But that's on the line right now. 21 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: Okay, So no pressure on us here, obviously. What this 22 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: girl's name? 23 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 3: Her name is Gianna, it's a fun name. 24 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 4: Where'd you meet her online? 25 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: Okay? And so what's the issue? I mean, three dates 26 00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: to already have a problem and you reach out to 27 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 1: a radio show about it. It can't be good. 28 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 3: I'm just in a weird situation right now, I don't 29 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:17,840 Speaker 3: know what to do. 30 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:21,559 Speaker 5: Okay, A weird situation, Okay, I love weird situations. 31 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:24,600 Speaker 4: That means it's going to be dramatic. 32 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: There's a lot of weird stuff. Yeah, what's happening? 33 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 3: So, you know, like I said, we met online, we 34 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 3: went on a few dates, but out of nowhere, she 35 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: just says, hey, like I have a really big surprise 36 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 3: for you. 37 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 5: And okay, wait before you go further, when did she 38 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 5: say that? 39 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 4: Like via text? In person? 40 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 3: This is via text? 41 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 2: Okay? 42 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: And what day of the week was It was a 43 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: Monday Wednesday. 44 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: You know. 45 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 4: It's like she says a surprise date like do you know? 46 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 3: No, Like during an actor noon, She's like, hey, I 47 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 3: have a big surprise for you I've been working on after. 48 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: Just three dates. 49 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 6: That's adorable. 50 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 7: She's handmaking something fund someone new does anything by hand 51 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 7: for you. 52 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 6: It's so nice. 53 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 3: I have no idea. 54 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 4: What is Why are you scared? Why do you sound 55 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 4: scared of a surprise? 56 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 6: You're just not like surprises. 57 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 3: I was actually thinking about ghosting her pretty soon, but 58 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 3: she gives me like a big gift, like a big surprise. 59 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 3: Now I'm going to feel bad I won't be able 60 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 3: to do that. I'm going to feel bad. 61 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 1: Why love that little parting gift for your time? 62 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's so funny you assume big. 63 00:02:38,440 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 4: It could be so tiny. 64 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 6: That's actually so big. She makes a good point. It 65 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 6: could just be like. 66 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 4: Like free tickets or something. 67 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: I found your real father. 68 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 6: And that's what we have. 69 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: On the other line, do. 70 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 4: You feel like you're being guilted into staying with her? 71 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 3: I'm just playing this south my mind. And let's just say, 72 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 3: if it is something big, I can't get rid of 73 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: her like I'm just I'm now going to be obligated. 74 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's stuck. 75 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 4: But what if Okay, okay, it's okay. 76 00:03:11,639 --> 00:03:11,799 Speaker 3: Good. 77 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 5: Look, isn't it like what happened to people just being 78 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:16,720 Speaker 5: direct with each other and saying, after you find out 79 00:03:16,720 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 5: this surprize, I'm sorry, I can't accept this. 80 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not where I'm at in the relationship. 81 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: We all wish we could move back to the nineteen sixties. 82 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: I think that's not how the world works anymore. 83 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 6: No, but it's true. 84 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 7: You can say, hey, look, I love the surprises too, 85 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 7: and I love presence. Why don't we save them and 86 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 7: we'll both give each other surprises down the road. 87 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 3: This girl is so amped about giving me this gift 88 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 3: right now, Like, I don't know if I can dial 89 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 3: it back even if I tried. 90 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:42,600 Speaker 6: I know I'm a gift giver. 91 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 4: I want to know what it is. So I'm excited too, So. 92 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: IM Okay, so you're not you're not saying that you're 93 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 1: definitely gonna end it with Gianna. You just don't want 94 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 1: to be guilted into staying longer than you're ready to 95 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: commit to exactly. Okay, what are we doing? 96 00:03:58,120 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 6: Are we asking her what the gift is? And then 97 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 6: we hang up if it's not good enough. 98 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 4: Like that, and it sounds like he's more scared if 99 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 4: it's too good. 100 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: Oh, what advice specifically are you looking for? 101 00:04:10,040 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 3: Listen, I just want to know what it is, like 102 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: if it's a big surprise. Yeah okay, yeah, I just 103 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 3: wouldn't know because if it's a big gift, And that 104 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 3: just kind of puts my mind in the friends that 105 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 3: was like, Okay, this is gonna at least be like 106 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,160 Speaker 3: none of three months. 107 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 6: A car, dude, then. 108 00:04:27,320 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: You're keeping it. 109 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:31,760 Speaker 4: He has a boy. 110 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 3: No one should be giving anyone's big gifts after. 111 00:04:35,560 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 6: Three d Yeah, I mean unless you're both on the 112 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 6: same page. 113 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,880 Speaker 5: About it, But rather, would you rather it's like a car, 114 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:42,479 Speaker 5: like a song she made for you know. 115 00:04:43,160 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: We don't know if it's big. We don't know if 116 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: it's just a keychain that she had like personalized to 117 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,839 Speaker 1: have his name on it, So it could be anything. 118 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,799 Speaker 5: If it's a small gift, like Jeff is suggesting, would 119 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 5: you continue to date her? 120 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 4: Or are you gonna want to end things? 121 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 3: I op it's just a crappy surprise. That way, I 122 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 3: could just ditch her. 123 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 4: You're so sad. 124 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: A relationship lies in the balance right now, we're gonna 125 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 1: find out he's. 126 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 6: Doing all the talking. 127 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:14,920 Speaker 5: By the way, right, I reeling it's better for her 128 00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 5: if you just ditch her, Like no. 129 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:19,200 Speaker 6: Because what if he ditches? He has like a monkey, 130 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 6: a live monkey you bought him. 131 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 132 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 3: I don't think it's sad because I keep getting textas 133 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 3: says she's working on it, right, it's a project. Yeah, 134 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,120 Speaker 3: I think she's putting time with this. 135 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 4: Your own song. 136 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:35,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be terrible. Let's let's come back. 137 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:37,599 Speaker 6: That would be let's make her sing it. 138 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: We're going to come back. We'll give you a little 139 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:41,839 Speaker 1: bit of advice on what we think you should do 140 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 1: before we let you call your not even girlfriend, you 141 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: fling Gianna. You find out what surprise she has planned 142 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: coming up when we do your awkward Tuesday phone call 143 00:05:52,839 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 1: right after this. It's awkward. 144 00:05:56,000 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 4: It's Tuesday. 145 00:05:57,680 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 2: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 146 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: Everybody loves the person who blows the big surprise, and 147 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: today that's all of them. We're helping out one of 148 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: our listeners, Greg, who's been out on three dates with 149 00:06:14,640 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: a girl named Gianna, wasn't really feeling it with her. 150 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: In fact, kind of planned on ghosting, to be honest, 151 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: until she told him that she has been planning a 152 00:06:23,800 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: big surprise just for him. 153 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 154 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: Greg's worried if it's really cool that he's not going 155 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: to be able to. 156 00:06:30,360 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 5: Ghost because he's he's a good guy who he. 157 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:39,200 Speaker 1: Doesn't want to get roped into a relationship for months 158 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: and months. Nobody needs that, right. 159 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 6: Alexis right? 160 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: Good? So Greg is about to call her, but wants 161 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: our advice first on how to get Gianna to just 162 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 1: open up and tell him what the big surprise is 163 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: so he can just know. Jose, please share your wisdom 164 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: with Greg. What should he do here? 165 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 3: Thank you? 166 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 6: Jeffrey Wisdom. Well, you gotta tell her. 167 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 7: I know we've been in a few dates, but I 168 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 7: should share something with you. Surprises give me anxiety, and 169 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 7: so all I would like is just a hint because 170 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 7: I don't want to ruin the surprise, but I do 171 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 7: like to ease some of my anxiety. 172 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 4: Is a hinting and tell them enough the anxiety detailed. 173 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 4: That's what your therapist calls. 174 00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:25,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Greg, can you can you say that you actually 175 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: have anxiety? 176 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 3: I have anxiety that I haven't broken up with her yet. 177 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 2: Oh? 178 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 4: I mean, I do feel like anyone who calls us 179 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 4: is anxious. 180 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 1: Channel that maybe into this phone call, Brooke, What do 181 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: you think? 182 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 4: I hate ruining surprises. I love surprises. 183 00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:42,320 Speaker 1: Unless it's your husband surprising you with a barbershop quartet 184 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 1: in the studio. 185 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:45,680 Speaker 6: You did not like that I did it. 186 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: So that's your advice. 187 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 4: I don't know. 188 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 5: I guess like, if worse comes to worse, you just 189 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 5: lie and say that you already found out. 190 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 4: Maybe she'll just tell you, oh, you know about Blaine. 191 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: Oh that's not bad advice. What do you think, Greg? 192 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm better off of cleaning anxiety card on this one. Okay, 193 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 3: I can use the other one if I get desperate enough. 194 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:07,559 Speaker 4: Nickel. 195 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 5: For every time a man told me that, let's. 196 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: Figure out, right, is always the men's desperate option. 197 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 5: I think, okay, figure it out? 198 00:08:20,080 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 3: All right? 199 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: Well, Greg, not sure if that was uplifting or not, 200 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,760 Speaker 1: but we're gonna dial Gianna for you and let you 201 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: make this call. Hopefully you'll be able to figure out 202 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: what surprise she's been planning for you. 203 00:08:30,760 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 4: Really excited. 204 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: It's not for you. The surprise isn't for you. All right, 205 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 1: We got you, man, I'm dialing her number right now 206 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 1: here we go. 207 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 2: All right, Hello, Gianna Craig. 208 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 3: Hey, what's what's that? 209 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 8: You just cause them a different number. I'm just wondering 210 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 8: where you're calling from. 211 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 3: How are you? I'm well, I'm doing well. Listen, there's 212 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 3: something I wanted to talk to you about, you know, 213 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: the surprise that you you had mentioned. I've been giving 214 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 3: it a lot of thought and I'm so appreciative that 215 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 3: you you put something together. But I got it. 216 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're going to love it. You're going to love it, right, 217 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 2: So listen. 218 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,719 Speaker 3: I know we've only been going out for you know, 219 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 3: a couple of times in a few weeks. There's something 220 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 3: I haven't told you that I think I need to share. 221 00:09:31,520 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 9: Okay, listening. 222 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I suffer from severe anxiety and surprises. That 223 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 3: surprises are like one of one of the triggers for that. 224 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, yeah, oh my god. 225 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 3: Unfortunately, I don't know if I can handle it. I'm good. 226 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 9: Oh my god. No, like I had no clue. 227 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. Sometimes they give me medicine for it too. 228 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 8: Only for surprises, the anxiety, or is it like just 229 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 8: for anything, you know, the surprises. 230 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 3: Are like the big trigger. 231 00:10:12,000 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 8: Yeah, oh gosh, oh my god, this is like a trigger. 232 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 9: Oh yeah, I mean what do you mean? Like, I 233 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 9: don't know what to do. I don't know. I've never 234 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:20,600 Speaker 9: been in a situation. I'm sorry, Greg. 235 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you could just kind of tell me a 236 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,679 Speaker 3: little bit about it, what it is or hand, that 237 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 3: would really really help. 238 00:10:29,520 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 9: Oh well, you know, I really can't say. I really 239 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 9: want to, but is it really. 240 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 2: Going to help you? 241 00:10:36,000 --> 00:10:36,199 Speaker 9: Are you? 242 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 3: Yeah? Absolutely? It gets really bad by anxiety. 243 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 2: Are you triggering now? 244 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:47,839 Speaker 3: I'm kind of short of breath and just. 245 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:52,839 Speaker 9: No, no, no, sit down, just are you sitting down? 246 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 9: Sit down here? 247 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:54,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 248 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:57,160 Speaker 9: Oh good, Okay, are you ready for this? 249 00:10:57,240 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 8: Because I'm going to tell you part of it. 250 00:10:59,200 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 9: Are you ready? 251 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 3: I'm ready? 252 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 9: All right, so. 253 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 2: You're gonna love it. 254 00:11:06,800 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 8: I booked you at Dennis appointment. 255 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. 256 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 8: Remember you tell me you haven't been in a long time, 257 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 8: so I booked it for you. 258 00:11:21,040 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 3: Wow, I know. 259 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 8: Okay, I'll tell you a little bit more. I also 260 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 8: I also got you a dermatologist because I wanted to 261 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 8: do like everything at one time, like the mouth and 262 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 8: old face. 263 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 9: Everything facial just because you did all that. 264 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm actually trying to get you an appointment for 265 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:45,000 Speaker 8: TSA pre check too. 266 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 2: Yep. 267 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,439 Speaker 6: Also made you a tax appointment for next year. 268 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,840 Speaker 4: I actually thought it was an insult until we got 269 00:11:57,880 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 4: to the TSA pre check. 270 00:11:59,120 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 8: Same same, Wait, wait, what is happening? 271 00:12:02,400 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 3: Who are these people? 272 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: Wait? These people are an entire radio show called Brook 273 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. 274 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 7: We're his surprise therapist there for support surprises. 275 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 9: Are you kidding me? 276 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 8: Yeah? 277 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 6: I am? 278 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 2: What is going on? Greg? 279 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 9: What is going on? 280 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 3: Yeah? So these people are really smart and they kind of. 281 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 7: Okay, hold on, let him cook. 282 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:33,720 Speaker 3: They kind of helped me with like tough decisions. Yeah. 283 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,360 Speaker 3: I kind of brought them into kind of help me out. 284 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 8: So were you lying about the anxiety for surprises or something. 285 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 8: Why why why do they need to help you out? 286 00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 3: No, No, I wasn't lying. I get super nervous about 287 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 3: stuff like this. 288 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 9: So do you like the surprise? 289 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 3: You know what? 290 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 9: I like it? 291 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 3: Actually, no one's ever done anything like that for me before. 292 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 7: It was. 293 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,400 Speaker 8: Well, yeah, you seem like more the creative type, right, 294 00:13:02,440 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 8: and I'm definitely like more buttoned up. So I thought 295 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 8: I would come in help you get a little structure, 296 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 8: do some things that I heard you talking about, and 297 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 8: give you an act of service. 298 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,079 Speaker 6: Wow, like riving a bit like practical. 299 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,600 Speaker 1: I mean, Greg, that's probably not what you were expecting 300 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: at all. That is actually kind of a big surprise 301 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: that she cares enough about you to like set up 302 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: all this important stuff in your life. I don't know 303 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: how how do you feel about it? 304 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 6: We having to make their own appointments? 305 00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 3: No, listen, here's the honest truth. I'm kind of into it. 306 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 3: I think that's amazing and it's. 307 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 1: It takes a lot off of his plate now that 308 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: he doesn't have to do it himself. 309 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 9: So listen. 310 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 8: I'm big o love languages, and I heard that your 311 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 8: love language was like acts of service and support, And 312 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 8: we had that conversation at our second date. So I'm 313 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 8: booking you appointments all over the city. You know, I'm 314 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 8: doing this for you, baby, like all over the city. 315 00:13:53,160 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: Maybe people in relationships should be doing more of these 316 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,319 Speaker 1: things for each other. 317 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 4: You know. I mean, that's sweet that that's your active service. 318 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 4: But I feel like you're really encroaching on like mom territors. 319 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 1: Okay, don't he love language is roadkill. 320 00:14:10,960 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 4: She doesn't just be careful. 321 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,000 Speaker 8: Here's the thing is, it's not really like Mom, because 322 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 8: I'm not paying. I just wanted to book the appointment. 323 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:23,440 Speaker 8: It's like he paid for dinner. He booked the dinner 324 00:14:23,520 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 8: gate So I thought I booked some things that I noticed. 325 00:14:27,880 --> 00:14:30,040 Speaker 1: I mean, to me, it sounds like Brook has a 326 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 1: problem with other people doing things the way that they want. 327 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 6: To do him Greg. 328 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: Greg seems to like it. Greg is on board with this. 329 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 3: I'm on board. 330 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 2: What do you mean? 331 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: No, he's saying he likes it. 332 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 4: I know, But I'm just saying for her, it's a 333 00:14:41,640 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 4: slippery slope, that's all I'm saying. 334 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 5: Well, if you book a cup two appointments one day, 335 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 5: two years down the road, you're doing all his laundry, washing, 336 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:51,200 Speaker 5: his dishes, picking up his dirty towel. 337 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:53,560 Speaker 1: Okay, this is the Brooks story of what happened in. 338 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 4: That is not what I'm saying a word. 339 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 8: I definitely want things to be romantic between us, right, 340 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 8: so of course. 341 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, so maybe you should book a couple's massage for 342 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: the two of you. 343 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 4: That is the booking that I'm talking about. 344 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 3: Okay, massages give me anxiety. 345 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 4: I don't think he is. 346 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 6: I don't know what he's doing anymore. 347 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 4: Well, I don't think he's truthful about anxiety. 348 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: I'm just happy that we actually made this call and 349 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 1: the two of you have worked it out and you're 350 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: on the same page that the surprise is a good thing. 351 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 3: You're going to see each other again, right I hope. 352 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 3: So yeah, most definitely. 353 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,400 Speaker 4: In the lobby of the dentistage. 354 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's brooking Jeffrey in the morning.