WEBVTT - If They Don't Post You... Are You Even Dating? 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:03.400 From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:07.640 On air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.840 --> 0:00:14.320 Oh it is kiss FM. So by definition a situationship 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:19.279 is what? What is a situationship? Because got some situationships 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:22.480 circulating here around the show. What is it? 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:26.120 I would say, it's kind of the situation that Sophia 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:27.960 is in a little bit. You're in a situationship. 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:30.520 You're hanging out with somebody, but you put rules on it. 0:00:30.520 --> 0:00:34.000 Right, Yeah, exactly, it's a what what is it? 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.240 It's what? What is it? What are we? It's also 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:38.519 it's like, hey, nobody's asking any questions, so let's just 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:39.720 keep situation shipping. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:40.640 Now. 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:42.599 Jordan in the back room, who comes to us from 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:46.080 Burbank High, Jordan, what's the issue with your friend? 0:00:46.680 --> 0:00:51.000 My friend's in the situationship and she is wondering about 0:00:51.040 --> 0:00:55.320 location sharing and whether she should share her location with 0:00:55.520 --> 0:00:56.920 the guy that she's been talking to. 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:59.080 For a few months and then would both share each 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:03.120 other's locations in theory, yes, and yeah, bad news. 0:01:03.640 --> 0:01:07.040 The It's confusing because as for me personally, I'm okay 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:10.959 with dropping my location for any friend if they're asking 0:01:11.000 --> 0:01:14.479 for it. But when you're in a situationship. Is it 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:17.520 weird to ask for that person's location because now you 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:19.440 guys have a thing going on, even though you're just 0:01:19.480 --> 0:01:21.120 asking for their safety. 0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:22.880 Yeah, but are you asking for their safety or you're 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:26.240 also asking to know where they are? Because the situationship 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:30.280 can be anxiety ridden. I think that is dangerous to 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:34.039 have locations in a situationship because technically that person can 0:01:34.080 --> 0:01:36.280 be at someone else's place, but if you see them there, 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:39.520 that's gonna make you crazy. It's gonna make you crazy. 0:01:39.959 --> 0:01:42.800 And this is the problem with situationships. They're as good 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:47.520 as they are bad. It's you're actually in a situationship. 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:48.920 Did you ask for a location? 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:51.320 Well, I kind of was in the same situation as 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:55.040 Jordan's friend where the night that skeletor came to pick 0:01:55.200 --> 0:01:56.640 me and my friends up from that party when my 0:01:56.680 --> 0:01:59.000 friend threw up in his car, I sent him my 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:02.200 location and I kind of did it indefinitely as like 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:05.200 an insinuation, like hey, like send me years back, like 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:09.080 this is us, Like you're not saying it and he 0:02:09.200 --> 0:02:09.920 never sent it to me. 0:02:10.320 --> 0:02:11.160 He never sent it to me. 0:02:11.400 --> 0:02:13.760 Yeah, this is the this is the gray area. Gray 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.880 is not good. So I think it look the safety 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:20.000 component is a great thing, but when you're in a situationship, 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:23.040 all of these can be very, very confusing and frustrating. 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:26.960 But now, do we just not care about their safety 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:29.680 even though we have everyone else's location. 0:02:30.080 --> 0:02:32.240 No, you care, But they need to step up and 0:02:32.280 --> 0:02:34.800 make a decision about their relationship. I think, say, with 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:37.640 you and skeletor so. I don't mean to dovetail this 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:39.400 back into your situation, but I'm going to keep hearing 0:02:39.400 --> 0:02:43.520 about this drama in your life if you don't make it, 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:45.399 I think you've got to be decisive to say, dude, 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:47.600 it's been a long time, either we in or out, 0:02:47.760 --> 0:02:52.200 and happy birthday. She's not going out with him tonight 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:54.600 on her birthday? FYI? 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:56.639 She did last night into the midnight hour. 0:02:56.840 --> 0:03:02.040 Yeah, but that that was exactly exactly my point. Because 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:04.640 he's in a situation. He doesn't get the prime time show. 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:07.679 No he doesn't. He gets he gets prime access. He 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:11.240 gets like this seven o'clock version, you get prime time tonight. 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:16.920 All right, So Ruby, let's take it to the streets 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:18.800 right now, Let's go to the back room. Let's go 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:21.640 there is what is the issue? You saw a post 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:25.560 I put up on Instagram you know my chuldery chip idea. 0:03:25.600 --> 0:03:27.560 It's not my idea to trend. He cut open a 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:30.640 bag of chips. I wanted plain kettle chips so that 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:33.480 you consult them sort of unsulted, and plane not all 0:03:33.480 --> 0:03:35.960 the seasoning on them, right, so you can add things, 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:39.160 add me things to the top of your bed of chips. 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:41.360 What's the controversial issue, Ruby. 0:03:41.280 --> 0:03:43.880 It's not controversial. It's a little bit of like a proposal. 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:47.640 I would say, I run from proposals. 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.440 I saw a lot of people were like, no, don't 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:53.520 do the fish, like, don't do sardines, like they're grossed out. 0:03:53.840 --> 0:03:55.440 So I have a tip for people who are not 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:58.240 into tin fish. I feel like you could do potato 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:00.200 chips and preshudo and pepper chips. 0:04:00.680 --> 0:04:03.280 Of course, anything with salt. Look, I just decided to 0:04:03.320 --> 0:04:05.960 put canned fish on my potato chips because you needed 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:09.480 a salty item. The idea is that you take the 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:12.880 canvas of potato chips, you slice open the bag. 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:17.600 Yeah, that was intense. I slice like that. 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:21.520 You open it up like a cadaver. If you're dissecting 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:26.200 a frog right out of my mouth. Look, and you 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:28.880 dissect it and you put all whatever you want on 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:31.480 the top, and I think photo would work great. Yes, 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:35.080 I am a If there were a convention or a 0:04:35.120 --> 0:04:39.920 summit for enthusiasts of canned fish, I would go. I 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:43.920 loved canned oysters, I liked canned sardines, I liked can 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:46.760 I like canfish, So that's what I put on there. 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:49.720 And pimentos pimentos for some color. I grew up in 0:04:49.800 --> 0:04:52.400 the South where we had pimento cheese, but pimentos, you know, 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:55.120 from inside the olive. But thank you for me for 0:04:55.160 --> 0:04:58.919 following me on Instagram. So nice would you put on 0:04:58.960 --> 0:04:59.320 your chip? 0:04:59.400 --> 0:05:03.279 Siciny, I wouldn't be that creative. 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.160 You get cool ranch already ranched and cool. 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:08.040 No, yeah, you know what I mean. Like maybe I 0:05:08.040 --> 0:05:10.000 would try to purshiot a thing. So I'm not a 0:05:10.040 --> 0:05:12.560 sardine girl. I don't even know if I would try 0:05:12.560 --> 0:05:14.080 it at it like being like polite. 0:05:14.600 --> 0:05:18.200 Now coming up here these scams. This is scam alert. 0:05:18.600 --> 0:05:22.200 When you put your phone down in a restaurant, be careful. 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:25.520 I always usually I have one eye on the phone 0:05:25.640 --> 0:05:27.679 or I'm thinking about the phone when I put it down. 0:05:28.040 --> 0:05:31.039 But this is a scam that's going around. Don't get 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:32.400 caught up in it. I'll tell you what it is 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:34.640 in just a secondary It's kiss if em ron kiss 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:37.720 good morning. I forgot to tell you guys that last night, 0:05:37.720 --> 0:05:38.839 I don't know what I was thinking. I last I 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:40.760 had a man I was hungry before I went to sleep. 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:44.919 I made a sillium husk a cow chocolate protein shake, 0:05:45.240 --> 0:05:49.040 and then I took my magnesium on top of it. Oh, yes, 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:52.960 exactly what you mean. Exactly that was the only thing 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:55.520 worse than having sardines on your breath is silium husk 0:05:56.240 --> 0:06:00.360 and magnesium inside of you. Now, when we get to 0:06:00.440 --> 0:06:05.880 this scam alert, You've brought these up before a syste 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:07.600 Every now and then you see something and I feel 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.359 guilty not telling you because yeah, I saw this. 0:06:09.600 --> 0:06:10.640 I saw this one too. 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:15.560 If you at a restaurant, here's the scam. People who 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:17.279 are eating alone or not eating alone. That's cont happen 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:19.560 to you. It could happen at a coffee shop, at 0:06:19.600 --> 0:06:23.960 a restaurant outdoors, especially so someone basically walks by your 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:27.520 table and drops some money on the ground. Think about this. 0:06:27.560 --> 0:06:30.120 Your phone's on the table, They drop some money on 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:33.960 the ground as if it were an accident. You are 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:36.800 a good person, You're a good human. You do good 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:39.560 things for people and you pay it forward. So you 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:42.560 reach over and you pick up the money, and someone 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:46.159 else in the restaurant it's organized crime to other person 0:06:46.160 --> 0:06:47.800 in the restaurant while you're picking up the money for 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:51.119 what you think is you know, Tubbs's girlfriend is running 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:51.880 off with your phone. 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:53.720 Yeah, Like, you pick up the money and you're like, hey, 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:55.640 excuse me, you drop this, And as you're doing and 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:58.440 their phone's gone, someone else behind you comes and grabs 0:06:58.440 --> 0:06:58.960 the phone. 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:03.520 It's the art of distress. I'm always weary, weary or weary? 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.960 Am I weird? Here wary? Where? Am I very weary? Weary? 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:07.440 Weary? 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:09.840 But I weary about being wary? 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:11.680 Sometimes you worry about weary? 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:15.880 Am I leary or larry? I'm leary about weary and wary? 0:07:15.960 --> 0:07:18.760 But anyway, and I'm wearing a tank top tomorrow because 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:23.680 it's gonna be hot. But be aware when someone takes 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:26.160 your attention and distracts you. I hate to be cynical, 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.560 but it could be the art of distraction. Somebody's doing 0:07:29.560 --> 0:07:32.120 something behind your back, grabbing your watch, grabbing your phone, 0:07:32.160 --> 0:07:34.800 grabbing your purse. I don't want to think like that, 0:07:35.560 --> 0:07:39.840 but you gotta have to. Yeah, two point seven Kiss FM. 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:44.200 All right, guys, let's go you into it? Are you 0:07:44.240 --> 0:07:47.960 into today? How can we help, like Thursday, get into 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:51.280 today into it? Kiss FM. We're here to try to 0:07:51.320 --> 0:07:53.640 help motivate you to get going and get I don't 0:07:53.680 --> 0:07:55.560 say get through it, but Conna, yeah, I get through it. 0:07:55.880 --> 0:08:00.120 So here's the thing. People say to me, what's your hobby? 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:02.720 And I gotta be honest. I make stuff up sometimes 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:06.360 because I don't know that I really have hobbies. Did 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:09.080 That's the point I try something that I it's like 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:11.680 I watched two episodes and then I move on. It's 0:08:11.720 --> 0:08:13.600 like I try stuff, I'm not good at it. I'm 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:17.520 done with it. So this thing here, I feel like 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:22.720 I tried this with an X of mine some dance 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:25.000 classes or something. So here's the thing. They say that 0:08:25.040 --> 0:08:25.800 this hobby. 0:08:29.120 --> 0:08:32.240 Here, it was more dancy. 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:33.839 You were more dancy when you were with. 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:38.400 Her, because she said, no, it wasn't even the dancer. 0:08:38.520 --> 0:08:40.880 That's not who it was. Yeah, anyway, can I please 0:08:40.920 --> 0:08:45.280 get to sure hobbies can be good for your brain. 0:08:45.920 --> 0:08:48.360 This one is great for your brain to stay younger 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:50.199 than your actual age. And that is doing the tango 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:52.280 is anybody here know how to do the tank? 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:56.400 I do not. I feel like I could fake it. Well, 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:57.000 I could try. 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:01.560 People who took tango as a hobby have brains that 0:09:01.600 --> 0:09:04.080 are seven years younger than their biological age. 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:06.640 Right up, my alley, do that good for you? 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:08.880 And would you please dancing with the stars cast this 0:09:08.960 --> 0:09:12.600 need some point. I'm so ready, She's been ready for 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:15.600 ten years. All right, Now here's the quote today. We 0:09:15.600 --> 0:09:17.400 do quote every day. This is the point where we 0:09:17.400 --> 0:09:20.160 do it. Do not wait for the perfect time in 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:25.640 place to enter. You are already on stage. Do you 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:26.400 even know what it means? 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.880 Yeah? Okay, tell me there's no perfect time. You just 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:30.760 have to do it now. 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:37.640 Yeah, girl, all right, thank you. 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Incident at 0:10:06.080 --> 0:10:10.360 a Huntington Beach business led to brief evacuations after a 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:14.640 chemical reaction inside a fifty five gallon drum, but no 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:18.640 injuries were reported, and Long Beach is launching its first 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:23.600 independent Film Festival this August, featuring movies, filmmakers, and special 0:10:23.679 --> 0:10:24.720 industry events. 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:28.000 Vin imagine going to get your bagel, Imagine going to 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:31.520 get your pastry. Imagine going to the farmer's market. Why 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:33.720 can't the DJ be playing there to make it festive 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:40.000 and fun? I mean, honestly, I almost always associate DJs 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:44.400 and a DJ with nighttime club party, like after hours. 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:45.600 Right, that's changing. 0:10:46.840 --> 0:10:51.560 So laundromats, bakeries, coffee shops are going Why do we 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:54.240 have to have such a hard, rigid rule. Let's start 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:57.000 spinning and playing music and creating this atmosphere. And that's 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.440 what's going on. This is they're called what bakery raves? 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.320 Yeah, bakery raise the one that's at the bakery instead 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:05.079 of cocktails. Everyone's just kind of like holding a pastry juice, 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:08.520 Like you're not drinking, you're sober, you just enjoying a 0:11:08.679 --> 0:11:13.880 cool DJ vibes all of that. There's one in Sherman Oaks, 0:11:14.080 --> 0:11:17.760 the Red Window. They do this all the time, amazing 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:21.000 coffee and they have a full DJ setup and just 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.640 it'll be a random Tuesday afternoon and they'll just be 0:11:23.720 --> 0:11:26.560 bumping music. I'm like driving down in term Pool hard. 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:27.720 It's amazing. 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:32.240 I don't know that I've ever had coffee to a 0:11:32.320 --> 0:11:33.120 DJ never. 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:34.280 It's really fun. 0:11:35.559 --> 0:11:40.040 I've never done laundry to blasting DJ music either, but 0:11:40.120 --> 0:11:41.679 how much more fun would that be? They'd go to 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:44.959 the laundry mat and then be entertained the entire time. 0:11:45.520 --> 0:11:48.360 But it's like this unwritten rule that you never would 0:11:48.400 --> 0:11:51.640 have somebody spinning in the daylight or not I mean 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:53.839 pool party, but like, yeah, while you're getting your chores 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:56.440 done exactly, or why are you having your breakfast and your. 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.239 Coffee exactly exactly? 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:03.960 All for a bakery rave, let's go, let's go, all right, 0:12:04.720 --> 0:12:06.520 I could be DJ, could be guys, I could tide 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:07.000 hustle this. 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:09.680 I have not learned your DJ sets collected. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:11.360 I mean it could be for a bakery rave. It 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:15.080 could be where I start. I'm not going to start 0:12:15.080 --> 0:12:22.719 at tow Noma. Should we just talk about what you 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.240 want to get rid of in your life now before 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:26.760 you go to bed. I mean, it's not the mass tape, 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:28.560 it's not the duct tape. It's not all the tapes. 0:12:29.400 --> 0:12:32.319 You think you're watching too much TV before bedtime. 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.040 No, it's not even then watching too much. I'm addicted 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:38.160 to television. I think I I like went to the 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:40.080 end of television in the last month. 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:43.360 What's the problem with being addicted is a big word, 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:45.840 But what's the problem with being an enthusiast of TV? 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:48.920 I don't like the control it has over me, Like 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:51.120 I'm constantly I need to have shows in the queue, 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:54.040 Like I'm watching three shows currently, and I have shows 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:56.080 in the queue that I'm like waiting to get to. 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.280 And this is normal. It's like everyone watches TV like 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:01.720 this exactly. This is not normal for me. 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:03.880 I used to just watch something a little bit light 0:13:03.920 --> 0:13:15.640 to get myself sleep, but now it's like all I 0:13:15.679 --> 0:13:17.120 want to do when I get home, I just want 0:13:17.120 --> 0:13:18.760 to like I want to get in bed. I want 0:13:18.760 --> 0:13:20.120 to like get dinner in bed. 0:13:21.400 --> 0:13:24.240 Problem. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:26.560 Problem. Actually, after a long day of work, I can't 0:13:26.600 --> 0:13:29.559 wait to eat in my living room. Whatever going to 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.600 eat out of a container, put my feet on the 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:36.360 coffee table and watch what Now my problem, Tanya is 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:39.319 not care if I'm watching a bunch of stuff. I 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:42.000 just have a real hard time when I look at 0:13:42.000 --> 0:13:44.800 the clock and know I've gotta stop the I don't 0:13:44.840 --> 0:13:48.440 know what it is. I cannot stop an episode to 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:51.600 shut it down, to start my procedure to get ready 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:54.240 for bed so hard. So I have that. 0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:55.280 Down like I can. 0:13:55.360 --> 0:13:57.480 I can lights out, clock it out like I can 0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:58.120 put it down. 0:13:58.200 --> 0:13:58.960 What's the problem. 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:02.480 It's a pro If you have the ability to lights out, 0:14:02.600 --> 0:14:06.160 you certainly have the ability certainly stop watching. 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:08.440 You need some sort of hobby. 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:11.520 I need something. Oh my gosh, kind have a hobby 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:14.720 at eight thirty at night. Nobody has hobbies at that 0:14:14.840 --> 0:14:15.760 time on a Tuesday. 0:14:16.080 --> 0:14:18.880 No, that's what I organize your medicine cabinet and call 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:19.320 her a night. 0:14:19.640 --> 0:14:23.160 Yeah, I think this is not an issue. I think 0:14:23.200 --> 0:14:24.960 it's a blessing. There's so much good programming. 0:14:25.400 --> 0:14:28.120 Really, I'm so happy to hear this because I really 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:28.920 felt like I. 0:14:28.920 --> 0:14:31.240 Had Oh yeah, I mean, and you know, I'm in 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:38.320 the not torture you, not torture me mode, don't torture 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:40.120 yourself mode. You don't try to say like, you know, 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:44.080 like be nicer to you one or two point seven 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:49.440 Kiss FM, It's time for Ryan's roses. Now, Samantha is 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:53.080 on the line in Pasadena and she's reached out for 0:14:53.120 --> 0:14:55.960 some help from us. She found some flirty emails between 0:14:56.000 --> 0:14:59.880 her husband and one of his coworkers, and she addressed these. Samantha, 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.160 what happened when you addressed these flirty emails? 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:06.360 So I never go through my husband's phone or email, 0:15:06.520 --> 0:15:10.960 but I needed our Southwest confirmation number. So while I 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:14.840 was in there, I noticed this long email chain with 0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:18.800 a woman that he works with named Taylor, and the 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:24.000 tone just immediately felt off. It was super flirty, super personal, 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:29.240 and that was the big red flag. At one point 0:15:29.480 --> 0:15:33.000 she mentioned getting a Brazilian wax, and he had a 0:15:33.080 --> 0:15:36.480 million disgusting questions about her Brazilian wax. 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:41.320 It's inappropriate, I do no matter what right. 0:15:41.840 --> 0:15:47.440 That was super super personal details. And then what really 0:15:47.440 --> 0:15:50.280 bugged me is though about the whole chain, was when 0:15:50.320 --> 0:15:55.200 she referenced last weekend quote unquote, and he replied, remember 0:15:55.560 --> 0:15:59.440 we're not talking about last weekend. That was the exact weekend. 0:15:59.480 --> 0:16:02.640 He told me he had to work NonStop because of 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:08.200 a crisis at the office, so very well. 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:10.440 Could not have been a crisis, isn't it still? If 0:16:10.520 --> 0:16:12.120 possible it was a crisis. 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:17.800 I guess possible, but paired with this Brazilian wax information. 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.680 On it and this is all in email. 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:21.760 All in an email. 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:24.640 Yes, And when you addressed it, he downplayed it, and 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:26.000 then he deleted the emails. 0:16:26.920 --> 0:16:30.880 He deleted the emails. Yeah. So later that night, I 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:34.880 just brought it up casually, and I asked I brought 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:37.960 Taylor up casually. I asked if she was married, and 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.760 he said yes, and then he asked me why, and 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:44.080 I said, no reason, and then I walked away. So 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:46.840 I'll admit I wanted to see. I wanted to see 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:50.880 if it rattled him, and it did. So the next day, 0:16:50.960 --> 0:16:53.760 every single email was deleted between them. 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:57.240 Got it. There's a there's a lot going wrong already. 0:16:57.280 --> 0:17:00.400 It's like, how deep has it gone to call her 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:04.639 husband next? We're in the middle of Ryan's roses right now, Samantha. 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:09.080 I mean, look, her husband is involved in a way 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:13.000 that's inappropriate with his coworker named Taylor, and she found 0:17:13.040 --> 0:17:16.320 these thirty emails. He was asking or talking about a 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:20.080 Brazilian bikini wax and then there was a reference to 0:17:20.359 --> 0:17:23.040 last weekend and him saying, don't talk about we don't 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:26.520 talk about last weekend. This was all via email. Taylor 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:28.840 is her name? It is a coworker. I mean, Samantha. 0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:33.240 You already know he's acting inappropriately with another woman and 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:36.560 at work. The question is how far did it go? 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:40.320 What's he referring to about last weekend? Is Taylor? The 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.399 other woman is coworker married. 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:47.480 She is married and if this goes the way I 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:49.640 expect her husband will be my next call. 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:52.520 That's what you'll do. All right, We are going to 0:17:52.520 --> 0:17:54.960 make the call right now. I need you to say, Ryan, 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:57.480 you have my permission to call, and then whatever his 0:17:57.600 --> 0:17:59.440 name is on Kiss FM. 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:03.040 Brian, you have my permission to call. 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:06.960 On m all right, We're going to do that right 0:18:06.960 --> 0:18:09.600 now and be very quiet. Let's see what we can 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:12.119 find out. Good luck to you, Samantha. 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:13.119 Thank you. 0:18:24.760 --> 0:18:25.080 Hello. 0:18:25.800 --> 0:18:30.040 Hi? Is this Brian, yeah speaking Hi. 0:18:30.119 --> 0:18:32.840 My name is Yvonne. I'm calling from Pedals of Pasadena. 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:33.800 How are you doing this morning? 0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:38.800 Oh? I mean I was really hoping you're someone else. 0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:43.280 Oh, I'm sorry. We are new to the area. We're 0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:46.600 on Colorado and deliver locally and surrounding areas. And the 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:48.840 reason I am calling is because we're doing a free promotion. 0:18:48.880 --> 0:18:51.000 It's a dozen red roses that you can send anybody 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:51.480 that you like. 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:56.080 So, what is this like a free book kid for 0:18:56.160 --> 0:18:58.760 like a month or two and then like the fees 0:18:58.840 --> 0:18:59.159 kick in. 0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:03.000 No, it is a one time free arrangement that you 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:05.280 can send to anybody that you'd like. I would just 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:07.679 need the name and we can write a note have 0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:10.359 those out by lunchtime today if that's convenient for you, 0:19:10.440 --> 0:19:13.080 or we can pick a different day after that. That's it. 0:19:13.160 --> 0:19:15.280 If you want to come back and become a customer, 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:17.680 that would be amazing. We're just doing this to get 0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:20.199 the word out. There's no credit card fee, there's no 0:19:20.480 --> 0:19:23.840 like sign up membership or anything like that. It's just 0:19:23.840 --> 0:19:27.400 a promotion that we do about once a month, all. 0:19:27.359 --> 0:19:30.240 Right, So it's kind of like a word am mouthing. 0:19:30.600 --> 0:19:32.160 Yeah, I don't need any cash from you. I don't 0:19:32.480 --> 0:19:34.959 like I said, they are absolutely free. And whoever you 0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:37.840 send these flowers to, hopefully they like the arrangements. Hopefully 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:39.680 you like the arrangements and you all come back as 0:19:39.680 --> 0:19:44.320 customers one day. 0:19:42.880 --> 0:19:44.640 And you could just send them in my office. That'd 0:19:44.680 --> 0:19:45.200 be fine. 0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:48.679 Okay, we can start with the note. What's the name 0:19:48.720 --> 0:19:49.160 of the person? 0:19:53.359 --> 0:19:55.679 I might not be there, so maybe just send it 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:57.119 to the brokeraage because I'm going to be in and 0:19:57.119 --> 0:19:59.000 out all day. But Chelsea should be at the desk 0:19:59.040 --> 0:19:59.920 and shall take delivery. 0:20:00.680 --> 0:20:02.520 Okay, do you want to put anything on the card 0:20:02.600 --> 0:20:03.160 for Chelsea? 0:20:05.359 --> 0:20:09.080 No, it's not going to Chelsea. Chelsea's just the receptionist, 0:20:09.720 --> 0:20:11.639 you know. Just leave it blank. It's good to have 0:20:11.680 --> 0:20:13.480 flexibility in these situations. 0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:16.199 Brian, your voice is being broadcast on the radio, and 0:20:16.240 --> 0:20:18.840 I want to just jump in on that for a second. 0:20:19.920 --> 0:20:23.160 Why do you need flexibility on where to send romantic roses? 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:25.000 My name is Ryan. Your voice is being broadcast in 0:20:25.000 --> 0:20:26.880