1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:12,920 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all back a suit, looking back to back down, 3 00:00:13,280 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: giving them like theming bus things and it's not good. Steele, 4 00:00:38,560 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: I don't join Jo. You gotta use that turn hur 5 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: you gotta turn to turn them out. Got the turnout 6 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:58,760 Speaker 1: to turn turn the water the water. Come come on 7 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: your back, huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You 8 00:02:04,880 --> 00:02:08,520 Speaker 1: are listening to the voice, Oh, come on, dig me now, 9 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey Man got a radio show, 10 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:18,160 Speaker 1: Boil boiled boy. I can't even tell you, man Um. 11 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: I've been doing some thinking and and one of the 12 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 1: things that I wanted to mention today to you as 13 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: one of the principles of success being grateful at all times. 14 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 1: It's difficult to do. Being grateful at all times. It's 15 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:45,919 Speaker 1: very difficult to do. I find that to be true 16 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 1: with myself. Now there are others that might be able 17 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:52,400 Speaker 1: to do it, but just just from talking and listening 18 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 1: and and and living and learning, being grateful at all 19 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: times is difficult to do. But it's necessary because it's 20 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: it's such an act of faith in knowing that no 21 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: matter what's going on, it's going to be all right, 22 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 1: And it's hard to see that when things are not 23 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: going in your favor, when things have turned so dramatically 24 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 1: the other way, and it seems as though you're the 25 00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: only one in the situation where you're involved with other people, 26 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 1: or someone got an accusation against you falsely, or somebody 27 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: trying to do something to you unjustifiably, whatever the case 28 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 1: may be. When it's happening to you, it does appear 29 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: to you that, oh, my goodness, man, this is horribly 30 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: one sided. So it is difficult. It's hard to do 31 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: to be grateful at all times, but it's so necessary, 32 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: and I just I just want to point out a 33 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: couple of things to you. First of all, the difficulty 34 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: in being grateful in hard times is that number one, 35 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: the present circumstances. Oftentimes it's just so pressing and so 36 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: overwhelming that a lot of your energy is devoted to 37 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 1: trying to come up with the solution for that, or 38 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: trying to muster the strength to whether the storm, or 39 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: trying to just brace yourself to try to get through it, 40 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: and in doing that, you don't It's hard to be grateful. 41 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 1: It's hard to be grateful in pain and I know 42 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: it is. But here is the trick for me. This 43 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 1: is what I've had to learn how to do, and 44 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: I guess it takes practice to get here. It's not 45 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: nothing you can just start doing right away. You got 46 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,280 Speaker 1: to practice it in small increments to really get it. 47 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: What I've always had to say to myself and what 48 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 1: I've learned to say to myself is this is happening 49 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: to me because God is working me through something. This 50 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: is happening to me because there's some form of tests 51 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: that I have to pass in order to graduate to 52 00:05:09,440 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: the next grade that in order to be allowed to 53 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: move to the next level. This is happening to me 54 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 1: because there's something I need to purge my life, of 55 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 1: my body, of my spirit, of something's purging in me. 56 00:05:26,240 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 1: And when you purge something, it's it's painful. You know, 57 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: It's like a person getting off drugs. The withdrawal is agonizing. 58 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 1: I've been told and every documentary I've ever watched it 59 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: it's an agonizing process to go cold turkey, to withdraw, 60 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: to pull away after you've been doing something so long. 61 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 1: And so I know that this process is tough when 62 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 1: you're going through some pain, but when you're purging your system, 63 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:02,560 Speaker 1: when you're when you're having to pass a test, when 64 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 1: you're about to make when you're being made ready for 65 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 1: the next level. That moment right in there, in realizing 66 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,240 Speaker 1: that that's what's happening, that's where you find the gratitude. 67 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: That's where I found the gratitude. I hope I'm explaining 68 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 1: this correctly. I'm gonna keep trying until I get it. 69 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: But that's where you find the gratitude. The second part 70 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:31,280 Speaker 1: of it is is that God has never left me 71 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 1: in all the things I've done, in all the mistakes 72 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:40,200 Speaker 1: I've made, all the lies I've told, all the situations 73 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: I've gotten myself into from being greedy and wanting too 74 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: much for me at the expense sometimes of other people, 75 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: not doing it deliberately or in a vindictive way, because 76 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: I've never had that spirit. I'm not a vindictive or 77 00:07:00,279 --> 00:07:04,799 Speaker 1: a mean person, but sometimes in my life, in wanting 78 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: to do what I wanted to do, I didn't totally 79 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: weigh out the cause and effect of the other person. 80 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 1: I mean, can't just be real with you with that. 81 00:07:14,880 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 1: I mean, how many times we hadn't all done that? Look, 82 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: it doesn't don't make you a bad person. You know, 83 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 1: good people do bad things all the time. I just 84 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 1: happened to have come to the realization that unknowingly and 85 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:35,840 Speaker 1: and not and not with malice intent towards a person. 86 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: I've heard people looking at something I wanted to do 87 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: without really looking at what the cause and effect would 88 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: be on the other person. So in doing some of 89 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: these things, I've created situations for myself. But God, through 90 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 1: his grace and mercy, has allowed me to even get 91 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: beyond that. So what I'm saying that God has never 92 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: left me in spite of myself. He's always gotten me through. 93 00:08:04,960 --> 00:08:08,280 Speaker 1: So that's the other part of it too. See that 94 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,560 Speaker 1: no matter what you're going through, you've got to understand 95 00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: that God has always gotten you through it, now, hasn't it. 96 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: Now that may not be the way you want it 97 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: or the way you liked, but guess what, you can't 98 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: do wrong and not pay for that. Now that that's 99 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 1: not how this works, That's never going to be the case. 100 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: But the great thing about God is he fires warning 101 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: shots at us all the time. He gives us an 102 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: opportunity to stop. You know, he don't fully punish us 103 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:37,079 Speaker 1: right away every time we do something wrong. Now, does 104 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 1: it you know eventually you're going to get caught doing 105 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,679 Speaker 1: whatever it is you're doing. You do understand that, don't you. 106 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: But the first time, that close call, that was a 107 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: warning shot for you to stop. Look, I know you're 108 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: not perfect. I know we all sent us down here, 109 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 1: so I know you're gonna make mistakes. One time, I 110 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: know you was looking at her when you wasn't supposed to. 111 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: I know you said something to him when you wasn't 112 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 1: opposed to. I know you got with her when you 113 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: know you wasn't supposed to. And I know you got 114 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: with him when you know you wasn't supposed to. So 115 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:08,679 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna fire 116 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,680 Speaker 1: warning shot and maybe you'll slow your role this time. 117 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: But we keep on though, see see see that's what happens. 118 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 1: See we just keep on and then the next thing, 119 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: you know, we get caught. Now, old Lord, have mercy, 120 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,200 Speaker 1: I won't out of this. Yeah. Well see you didn't 121 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:27,200 Speaker 1: dug this hole pretty deep, and he gonna get you out. 122 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: But there's some things that's got to go down now 123 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: because you didn't pay attention to the warning shot. See, 124 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: had you stopped the first time, you felt bad about 125 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: it and said you wasn't gonna do it no more. 126 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: The situation wouldn't be as critical. But because we don't stop, 127 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 1: and we go again. But God always for gives, He 128 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: always allows us to get back up again. He always 129 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:55,559 Speaker 1: gives us mercy. He always gives us his grace. He 130 00:09:55,800 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: always does that. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, 131 00:10:04,600 --> 00:10:07,599 Speaker 1: people from all around the world. You are listening to 132 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: the baddest morning show in the land, The Steve Harvey 133 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Yeah, today's show is dedicated to those of 134 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: us who are tall. You lead, carl O, how you 135 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 1: doing this morning? I am doing fantastic. Thank you for 136 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 1: the show dedication. Stick. How you feeling, I'm feeling damn 137 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: good good, I'm good, good, good God. Surelli, you would 138 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: be considered tall and the girl family, how you doing? Yes, Steve, 139 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,839 Speaker 1: good morning to you. How you put you amongst the 140 00:10:45,920 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: tall Okay, I'll take it in my mind. I'm so 141 00:10:50,240 --> 00:11:02,120 Speaker 1: very tall, Sullie. Good good to have y'all. Y'all. Well yeah, Junior, Junior, 142 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:18,599 Speaker 1: Well he's taller than you know. Why are we dedicating 143 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 1: this is the day to talk talk because it's al Yeah, 144 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:27,520 Speaker 1: you got you got a fool day. Remember yeah, the 145 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 1: day day you had a stupid day. You had a 146 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 1: short day. Not a lot of days. Donut make your 147 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 1: day everything, cubicle worker day. We got a lot of days, 148 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 1: and today you got another one coming up to go 149 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: one day. This we're gonna dedicate to show the people 150 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 1: that buy a lot of you stuff. That's the way 151 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 1: you start to show. Steve. Yeah, get a good morning. 152 00:11:54,080 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: Then well he was getting to y'all what I want 153 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:03,839 Speaker 1: to Julian morning. Huh A little short, a little bit. 154 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 1: I see, that's how they street the speak short. Watch this. 155 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 1: Tommy was up? Man? What up? Very short response again, 156 00:12:12,720 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: very short, very short. You know there's a debates debate. 157 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:23,839 Speaker 1: Tommy is you doing? Man? Oh? So he is, Tam. 158 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 1: I've been trying to tell you guys, wait a minute, morning, everybody, 159 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 1: take it up. I'm tall, people, baby, you're valibated what 160 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:45,839 Speaker 1: I is. But you made it. It's good to be 161 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:51,559 Speaker 1: the house of the Lord today. Hate it you? I 162 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: got tall? What's up? Tommy? T I pulled someone off 163 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 1: the top of his head the other day and say, 164 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 1: your boy, he didn't even know you got something right here? Man, 165 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 1: don't get that. See that's what friends are for. Hey, 166 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: I'm just helping me with what's wrong. Nephew. It's always 167 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 1: Hight on this show. It's always about Hight who talk 168 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: who ain't talk? It's why can't it be bouy intelligence 169 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: because you ain't? Okay, let's do that one there? Well, 170 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 1: damn you out again? Yes yourself? Okay, then stupid? How 171 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 1: can't we can't have something we already did that? You 172 00:13:37,280 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 1: had a whole We'll be back. We got thank something 173 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 1: thirty something funny. You're listening, Steve Harvey. Morning Show time 174 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: Now for ask the clo. This one, Steve is from Shirley. Oh, 175 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 1: we will thank you for telling me that. Well, well, 176 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: well we'll get a fourth one. Why do you have 177 00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: to say that on the air? I have one? I 178 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: have one? Okay, you want to start? You got a 179 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: fourth one? Day? You go, Steve? No, No, I don't 180 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: want to start. What he is? Go ahead? All right, 181 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: come on, clo, you're ready. Here we go. This one's 182 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 1: from Maury and Fort Lauderdale. I'm twenty eight and I 183 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 1: moved in with my mom three years ago to help 184 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 1: her through a financial crisis. She got back on track 185 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 1: a year ago. She got back on track, and a 186 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: year ago she reunited with an old flame and quickly 187 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: fell in love with him. Their relationship is progressed, and 188 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: she told me they're ready to move in together and 189 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: her house is more suitable, so I'll have to move 190 00:14:38,760 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 1: out within three months. I've been helping her pay the 191 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 1: mortgage and other bills, so I haven't been saving any money. 192 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: I am so hurt by this. Should I tell her 193 00:14:47,360 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 1: how I feel or just move out? Well, you should 194 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 1: tell her how you feel, but then you got to 195 00:14:53,840 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: get out. Oh that's all. You could tell her how 196 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 1: you feel. But as your mama's house, you guys to 197 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 1: go and here comes this mate, and you know that's 198 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 1: that's that's a little trifling. But you know, you know, 199 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: you know what your mama doing it all. But I 200 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:14,600 Speaker 1: don't think she really realizes the sacrifice you made for her, 201 00:15:14,880 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: So you may have to bring it to her attention. Okay, 202 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: I like that advice, Cello. Moving on Chicken, Montgomery says, 203 00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: my husband is a long hauler, and when he's gone, 204 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: I had another life that he knew nothing about. I 205 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:31,119 Speaker 1: like to go out, smoke cigarettes and drink hard alcohol 206 00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:35,720 Speaker 1: and entertain men. What I'm a waitress, and I mean, 207 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:38,960 Speaker 1: and I meet most of my gentlemen there. I recently 208 00:15:39,040 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 1: found out that my husband is cheating on me. So 209 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 1: now whenever he's home, I started showing him my other 210 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: side and I have left to go on dates while 211 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 1: he's home, he doesn't say a word. Does this mean 212 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 1: he doesn't love me anymore? Is there any way to 213 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:55,840 Speaker 1: fix this? No? No, I ain't no fix for this. 214 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:59,240 Speaker 1: He cool with you going out, you found out he 215 00:15:59,400 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: was cheating, You stayed. He found out you cheating, He stayed. 216 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: You know, y'all marriage been over? And how old are you? Anyway? 217 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:13,800 Speaker 1: What is hard? Likal? Hard alcohol? Christians? You know anybody 218 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:17,480 Speaker 1: that's say I've been smoking cigarettes and drinking hard? What? 219 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: What were you? What were you? Amish and entertaining man? 220 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 1: We could be some brown looker. It could be smoking, 221 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: drinking hard, lookal and entertaining me. Damn, aam you didn't 222 00:16:36,280 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: went from the Sunday school teacher to you just out there? 223 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: She had a whole nother life, she said, he didn't 224 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:46,200 Speaker 1: know anything about she hain't got an hold the walls. Huh? 225 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 1: But average yeah? Yeah, caverns, yeah, all right. Bria in 226 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:59,680 Speaker 1: Paradise Island, Bahamas says she's going to turn twenty soon 227 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: and she's in a relationship with a twenty six year 228 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:05,080 Speaker 1: old man. My parents are old fashioned and told him 229 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: he's too old to be dating me. They have forbid 230 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 1: me to see him, so I have to sneak to 231 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 1: spend quality time with him. He has asked me to 232 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: marry him, and my dad won't allow it. He says 233 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 1: that he loves me enough to wait for me to 234 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: turn twenty one, but I'm scared of losing him. My 235 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 1: parents don't understand. He's a really good guy. Other women 236 00:17:24,760 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 1: are interested in him, So what should I do? Wow, 237 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: she's twenty nineteen. Actually well, I mean, I mean, you're 238 00:17:31,680 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: gonna keep saying it. It's what you're gonna do. You've 239 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 1: already made that decision. Yeah, I mean, that's what she's doing. 240 00:17:40,680 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 1: She sneaks to see him. She's claimed that he's a 241 00:17:43,640 --> 00:17:47,680 Speaker 1: really good guy. He said he's gonna wait for you know. 242 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: She say other women are interested. You know they're the 243 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 1: Bahamas over on Paradise Island. That ain't a lot. What 244 00:17:57,640 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 1: is the Bahamas twenty one miles long? I don't know, 245 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:06,480 Speaker 1: but I love it there. Yeah, I mean love it's 246 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:11,880 Speaker 1: easy to bust him. That's for damn show. I can't drive, 247 00:18:12,080 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: he can't run off. All you gotta do it keep 248 00:18:13,840 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 1: going in the circle. Eventually you're gonna get You're gonna catch. 249 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: Just wait for him to come back around. And this 250 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 1: is that age when kids don't listen. This is that age, 251 00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 1: Oh wow, especially if the parents. Yeah, am I preaching 252 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: to the choir right now? Listen? Yeah? All right, jay, 253 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:40,959 Speaker 1: here it is. You gotta give up one thing, mister hiving, cussin, 254 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: smoking cigarettes, the other things. No, no, you gotta give 255 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: up one thing, cussin, smoking cigars or sports? Which one 256 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:58,360 Speaker 1: you get rid of? For good? No more for good. 257 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 1: He's not gonna handle this question. We all face struggling 258 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 1: a zoo frozen. I not even say sports. I don't 259 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:14,200 Speaker 1: know if you can have I'm not giving up oars? 260 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:18,920 Speaker 1: Can I give up sports? To give up one? One? One? 261 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:25,560 Speaker 1: Yall love cigars and you love stop cussing? You got 262 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 1: up one? Man? Has I'm gonna work through stuff? No, No, 263 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: I cussin helps me work through things, you know, stressing? Okay, girl, 264 00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,680 Speaker 1: I wouldn't know what to do, man, if you told 265 00:19:39,720 --> 00:19:42,399 Speaker 1: me I couldn't cuss no more. I'm tell you right now, man, 266 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,159 Speaker 1: you be really threw me into something. You got to 267 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: come get the damn cigars because you show ain't finning 268 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 1: get your cussin. Okay, give you cigars, man. Yeah, I'd 269 00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 1: have to give up cigars and that and that's a hall. 270 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,240 Speaker 1: Well would you because of that, you can't have a cigar? 271 00:19:59,440 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: Would you be cousin that? I sure, hey, dog, for sure. 272 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:06,920 Speaker 1: I wouldn't even know what to do with our sports. 273 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 1: Okay you spoken cigars watching sports, but you can't cut us? 274 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: How that sound? What? He just ship the dump? What 275 00:20:25,400 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 1: am I? What the heck? Snick mom Rich watching all right? 276 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:37,239 Speaker 1: Thank you, Filo and Jay for that final one. All right, 277 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 1: coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 278 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 279 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:46,479 Speaker 1: Right now. It is time for the nephew to run 280 00:20:46,560 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: that prank back. What you got for us? Neph the 281 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: plumba cat dog. Let's go baby to plumba Hello. Yeah, 282 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:58,680 Speaker 1: I'm trying to retail y'all. Mister missus, how you doing 283 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,199 Speaker 1: you you're the person that does the plumbing work, am 284 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 1: I right? Yeah? Yeah? Nah? My wife got some work 285 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 1: done for you. You come by the house, now, do 286 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,399 Speaker 1: you know, I know you probably got quite a bit 287 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:13,360 Speaker 1: of work. No, well, I do so many throughout the day. 288 00:21:13,440 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: So I have it on my receiver. I can look 289 00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: at over Hill about three days ago. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 290 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 1: I can recall was a lady there. Yeah, it was 291 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:30,080 Speaker 1: a tarlet was backed up and was overflowing. And yeah, yeah, yeah, 292 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,880 Speaker 1: I can recall that. Now. Something's wrong with the sinking 293 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 1: now too, and that that had a leak in the 294 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: back of it. Yeah, I had a leak in the back. 295 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:39,360 Speaker 1: And uh, and I've done that. I fixed that there 296 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 1: for you. And uh, I took that toilet that I 297 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,760 Speaker 1: had around the bottom of your base, the tilet base there. 298 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: I had to take that up and retape it because 299 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 1: that tape head came came loose. It was kind of old. 300 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,200 Speaker 1: And I, you know, I went through that and done 301 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,719 Speaker 1: all that and saved it up and sealed it up 302 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,119 Speaker 1: and and I rebased that seal back there on your 303 00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: in the tarlet, and and your sink had a little 304 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: leaked back in the back. I fixed that because you know, 305 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:06,439 Speaker 1: that was really easy. Now, So well see that something 306 00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: went wrong with the tarlet, did you did you put 307 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:14,840 Speaker 1: another pipe or something. Did you rewrite a pipe or anything? No? No, 308 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 1: like I said, all I did. I took the base 309 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 1: of it off there, and I taped it up where 310 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 1: that old tape there, and then I'll put me some 311 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 1: cement which was with uh with my pipe there, and 312 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: and I sealed it all up, and I checked it 313 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:30,200 Speaker 1: out and let it drive and see if it leaked, 314 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,560 Speaker 1: and it didn't leak. And I put your base back 315 00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 1: on and you know, and then then then you had 316 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:38,240 Speaker 1: a little leak there in your seat and that was 317 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:41,200 Speaker 1: on the top of the your nozzle there, and I 318 00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: fixed that. I'm gonna tell you because I I'm gonna 319 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 1: be honest with you and tell you I'm not happy 320 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,520 Speaker 1: with what I got. You're not happy with it? No, Now, 321 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 1: let me tell you what's happening. Now. Say somebody in 322 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,360 Speaker 1: the bathroom and they flushed that tarlet right right when 323 00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: they flushed that tarlet, come out the sink, and the kid, Oh, 324 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 1: tim me that, tim me that. Say that what you 325 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: did again? I said, when they flushed the tarlet in 326 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 1: the bathroom, right, come out to shank in the kitchen. 327 00:23:12,240 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 1: It come out in the kitchen like that. I don't 328 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 1: know what how you routed something like? You didn't you 329 00:23:15,960 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 1: didn't miss routed or something. No, I didn't. I didn't 330 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,160 Speaker 1: route anything. All I did was fixed up. I put 331 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,560 Speaker 1: the tape on there so I fixed the leak. That 332 00:23:23,760 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 1: was you know you it's a base of your tarlet. 333 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: I didn't reroute anything. I don't. I don't. I don't understand. 334 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: How can you you reroute a pipe? I don't. That's 335 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 1: to throw into your kitchen and shoot, we'll shoot crapped 336 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: out of your kitchen like that. I don't know what 337 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 1: what what you did when you was up onder that 338 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 1: how you rerouted something? But that's what happened. And it's got, 339 00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,719 Speaker 1: it's got. It's going from the from that bathroom when 340 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: you flushed that tarlet. It come out in my sink 341 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,600 Speaker 1: in my kitchen. Now what's bad about it? This morning, 342 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,399 Speaker 1: I'm in there cooking and what your name again? My 343 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,080 Speaker 1: name is? They called me this? Okay? And crap is 344 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,720 Speaker 1: coming out of your your plumbing, in your in my 345 00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,440 Speaker 1: in my kitchen. Now. This morning I set out some 346 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 1: red beans and rice to cook, and I put my 347 00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: beans on not not I've been cooking. I've been cooking. 348 00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 1: Listen to me I've been cooking all though. I'm trying 349 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,480 Speaker 1: to be professional about this because you know, I guarantee 350 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 1: of work. I've been doing this over twenty years, and 351 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,480 Speaker 1: one thing I do, I guaranteem of work. And I'm 352 00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,240 Speaker 1: real proud about the things that you know I do. 353 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: But what what did you have anybody else over there 354 00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 1: working on your pipe? Ain't nobody you in your kitchen? 355 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: You know what I did with your bathroom? You is 356 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: the bathroom. Don't have anything to do with your kitchen. 357 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 1: That's flow a pipe, have anything to do with one 358 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 1: o the others didn't explain that coming through my sink 359 00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 1: and my kitchen. I can't explain it coming from you 360 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 1: your sink. I can only explain that's getting the toilet 361 00:24:49,760 --> 00:24:53,080 Speaker 1: in your sink. I have no idea. I'm listen because 362 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 1: this thing got me wrapped up. Listen, not what it is. 363 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:57,520 Speaker 1: It Well, you got me kind of wrapped up here 364 00:24:57,520 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 1: because you know, like I said, I do this here 365 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 1: and i've not for twenty years. And that's the first 366 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,119 Speaker 1: time I've ever heard anything like that. Ben't happen it, 367 00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 1: I ain't never seen it. Well, I'm gonna tell you 368 00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 1: it's just disgusting to be cooked the cook red beans 369 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,720 Speaker 1: all day and now I find out that it's sitting 370 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 1: in some dirty water like that. You didn't smell of 371 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: water when you was in the in your seat because 372 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: I didn't had a lout smell. I didn't smell nothing. 373 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:22,399 Speaker 1: That it's more earlier at this moment. I washed my 374 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: hand now and I didn't I washed my hair in there. 375 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: That's just what it smelled like a baggy. I'm just, 376 00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: I just, I just refused to believe that the work 377 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,879 Speaker 1: I did on your toilet and there taking some stuff 378 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:38,320 Speaker 1: up and seeming some stuff up and on your seat 379 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:41,879 Speaker 1: and anything to do with scrap being shout out to 380 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 1: them kitchen seat. Well, I tell you what what I 381 00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: need to do is for you to get your back 382 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 1: over here and fix it, because this here ain't a 383 00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 1: good job, and I don't recommend nobody using you. Well, 384 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 1: first of all, why I'm trying to be professional about 385 00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 1: it and you cussing me, and that ain't gonna getting 386 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: nothing done. Once come out pike, it was no longer professional. 387 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: Other you had somebody else over there doing something in 388 00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 1: your scene. I ain't had nobody. Do you have a 389 00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:11,920 Speaker 1: guys just falling over look at it ain't Hun, the 390 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,280 Speaker 1: whalers and croup coming out of my God, dude, get 391 00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,720 Speaker 1: your back over and you fix what you bols to 392 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: fix and fay it right then. I'm not paying another 393 00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 1: damn dying for it. Ain't I trying to be professional 394 00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:27,200 Speaker 1: about it. I'm listening to what you gotta say. I 395 00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:30,200 Speaker 1: shout Hun a long time ago, but I'm guer team 396 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 1: of work, and I'm trying to, you know, deal with 397 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:35,200 Speaker 1: my customers. When I left her, I told her the 398 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:38,159 Speaker 1: pressure to it to it. She ran the faster in 399 00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,119 Speaker 1: the bathroom. We ain't no problems like you had. Somebody 400 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,560 Speaker 1: else over now they're doing whatever nort I don't. I 401 00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:46,680 Speaker 1: damn sure, I don't know. Do you know? I ain't 402 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,720 Speaker 1: none of my buds, I ain't some of them red 403 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 1: beans and nothing what bothered me? Now? I feel sick 404 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 1: to my stomach. I'm feeling that manad Beans and whatever 405 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 1: you know down It's like you you you crazy ill. 406 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 1: I'm make your dick something me red Beans. If you 407 00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:06,040 Speaker 1: don't come victied pipe, you can go ahead. I'm trying 408 00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: to be professional. I told you I'm doing my job. 409 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 1: I did it the best I know I could. And 410 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 1: when I got when I left that one nothing weaking one, Pike. 411 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 1: Don't you get over fixte Pike? That what you you 412 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 1: your kiss? Because I know well I did. I'll stand 413 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: the job over there. You ain't done nothing. If I 414 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,600 Speaker 1: got damn me in the right stick them. Okay, you 415 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 1: and your pipes, and I don't give a damn I 416 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: know what's coming on. King really means the right. I 417 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 1: ain't done nothing over there in your damn kitchen to 418 00:27:38,680 --> 00:27:40,680 Speaker 1: have you that I'm sit with me. I got one 419 00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 1: more thing I want to say to you. If you're listening, 420 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: I'm listening to you. This is Nephew timing from the 421 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Marty Show. You just got played by your boy. 422 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:57,600 Speaker 1: I more of this crazy ignorant show Steve Harvey Morning 423 00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:04,800 Speaker 1: Show right after this. You're listening, all right, the guys 424 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 1: are here with uh what is this shake? Explain this 425 00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 1: next one? Okay, Like you said, we've all heard what 426 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: black people saying. Oh yeah, we've pretty much heard stuff 427 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,440 Speaker 1: that white people have said. But these are some of them. 428 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:18,800 Speaker 1: This is a list of some of the things that 429 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: definitely white people will say. In the movie is everybody 430 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 1: can take one and then you gotta do it in 431 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:31,040 Speaker 1: your white boy white guy boys. Okay, okay, all right, 432 00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:36,920 Speaker 1: it's not a problem. Jam here, I love it boy. 433 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,560 Speaker 1: Here ping guy, Hey, here we go. First one pers 434 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: Can you guys please sit down? Please? Oh my god, 435 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: please sit down, please, Father of God. I got one 436 00:28:52,120 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: for you, Jesus Christ returning to watch the movie. Hey, 437 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:09,480 Speaker 1: p are you gonna talk on the phone the entire time? Time? Julie? Yeah, 438 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:11,640 Speaker 1: I heard white people say in the movie, can't you 439 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:17,160 Speaker 1: chew the popcorn any louder? Can you shooting any out? 440 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:23,000 Speaker 1: I got one. You know, the person in the screen 441 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,520 Speaker 1: can't really hear you. You know that, right, he can't. 442 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:34,760 Speaker 1: He can't hear it out about talking talking screen? Come on, 443 00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: excuse me, sir. You do know that filming this is 444 00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 1: a federal you got to do with you mind your 445 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 1: damn you ain't got nothing to do with this. Dog. 446 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 1: I'm just shocking. If you watch it the end of 447 00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: the film, it clearly states, yeah, some federal just punishable. 448 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, guy, Oh, excuse me, excuse me, excuse me. 449 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: Do you mind stepping outside to talk to Pookie? Did 450 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:16,200 Speaker 1: you talk to Pookie outside? Could you do that? Thank you? Jay? 451 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,960 Speaker 1: You come in late the movie Late they love to 452 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,200 Speaker 1: tell you. Hey, you know the movie starts at seven 453 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: thirty thirty, seven thirty, about seven thirty two, seven thirty. 454 00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,880 Speaker 1: These are things white people say in the movie. How 455 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: hard is seven thirty? Hey? Hey, guys, you know the 456 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,960 Speaker 1: movie doesn't need a narrator. You know that, right, we're 457 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: following it along. We understand what's happening. Okay, all right, 458 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 1: we got that. We know what's happening. We don't need 459 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:52,800 Speaker 1: a narrator. Bout about that. No, No, I didn't even 460 00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:58,479 Speaker 1: know they were selling chicken. Just get chicken out. Why 461 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: did you get the chicken? This is christ Hey, hey, hey, listen, 462 00:31:15,040 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 1: everyone knows the popcorn's expensive, all right, got it? Talk 463 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: about it? I got the same popcorn doctor's bucket to half. 464 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: That's nice. You brought your baby to an R rated mud. Yes, 465 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: we know parents and principles here like that one. How 466 00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: about everybody? How about everybody? We just put our phones 467 00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: on silent? How about that? That's a good idea. We 468 00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 1: all put our phones on silent. How about that? Excuse me? 469 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 1: All of you all related? Everywhere? Jesus is so mining. 470 00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:22,920 Speaker 1: You got one seat, our shirt, our shirt. I've got 471 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:27,040 Speaker 1: it right here a shirt. He's in my seat. Yeah yeah, 472 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: oh boy sitting there with his propah yeah yeah, man, hey, hey, 473 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:42,560 Speaker 1: he better going on. I got one. I got one. 474 00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 1: It is a real good one that we want to 475 00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:46,000 Speaker 1: send this. No one is supposed to be coming in 476 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:51,600 Speaker 1: that exit door. I hope you know that. That's that's 477 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,960 Speaker 1: that's exit. Okay, They're not supposed to be coming in 478 00:32:55,120 --> 00:33:05,440 Speaker 1: that door, correct, People Just keep coming. I'll tell you 479 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: one day, just didn't the movie. One time you've been 480 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,560 Speaker 1: talking too much, you'll turn around and say, God, I 481 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: wish you was a black guy in the movie. Guy, 482 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: it's always the first one. God all is talking the movie. 483 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,600 Speaker 1: You got one. I know, you know you should have 484 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: taken an NC if you're gonna have to go to 485 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:40,440 Speaker 1: the bathroom wrapping, excuse me, that's what you should have taken. 486 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: Don't make me pee in your popcorn. Really, I got one. 487 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 1: You know some of us haven't seen the movie. Yeah, 488 00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: I'm saying, I'm I'm just saying. That's why we're here. 489 00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,960 Speaker 1: These are things white people say in the movie. Some 490 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: white people of heydu hey, hey for crying out loud 491 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:34,480 Speaker 1: enough with the warning don't go in there. Don't right 492 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,920 Speaker 1: behind you. I may chase us. We have totally different 493 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:45,399 Speaker 1: movie going. Yeah, I smell weed. Okay, we'll be back. 494 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: You're listening, mon show, Come on, Steve J. Anthony Brown 495 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 1: is here to murder another hit. Yes you are here. 496 00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 1: Don't be alongued. I was doing something and we're doing something. 497 00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 1: It's called your show, your racio. Guess what do Hey, 498 00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 1: everybody's Halloween kids a Halloween? Did it for you on 499 00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:26,320 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show to check it out? O 500 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 1: damn miss Halloween. Now I've got the bosom candy kids 501 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 1: holding out their hands. I think that big one was twining. 502 00:35:53,440 --> 00:36:01,840 Speaker 1: Three room folks holding babies. They come from my Lowver 503 00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:09,560 Speaker 1: interrupted me while I'm watching TVV. How many don't trouble? 504 00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:18,520 Speaker 1: Will live? See? Babe? Too many babies? Too many? Bay, damn, 505 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:25,399 Speaker 1: I hate Halloween. Too many baby, too many babe, too 506 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:33,879 Speaker 1: many babes, all age, Larry baby pressing, screaming, noiing lin 507 00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:37,879 Speaker 1: nice ride? Why God trigger feating as a child thing 508 00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 1: such a scary face. Hey, you can back. I'll be 509 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: set that money the brother the spot, y'all. But I 510 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 1: don't want to brag to many maid. Too many babies, 511 00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:56,880 Speaker 1: too many, baby, Damn, I hate Halloween too many, baby, 512 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:17,279 Speaker 1: June many babe, Damn I hat Halloween. Baby. That's right there. 513 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: I'm playing at my wife's Halloween carnival in the backyard. Yeah, 514 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:33,200 Speaker 1: she's throwing fall the grand kids. Baby, Damn Halloween. I'm 515 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,880 Speaker 1: gonna play that in your backyard, speakers, it will be 516 00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,879 Speaker 1: in my neighborhood. It probably will be ten thousand kids 517 00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:42,799 Speaker 1: that come over to mine, too easy, ten thousand kids. 518 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 1: A lot of kids, did she I'm gonna dressing right up. 519 00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 1: All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve 520 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:54,000 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey 521 00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:57,680 Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right, here we go. It is time 522 00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:01,359 Speaker 1: for Junior's truth be told. Yeah, Shirley, you know um 523 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:05,760 Speaker 1: um in the same vein of Halloween, in the same 524 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:09,560 Speaker 1: vein when you trick of treating. Yea, we should be 525 00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: able to recognize what you are when you come to 526 00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 1: the dough. Your costume. We need to know off the bat. Okay, 527 00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,720 Speaker 1: if you a ghost, you a ghost. If you are gobling, 528 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 1: you a guy. Yeah, don't come to my dough with 529 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,800 Speaker 1: the black costume that I don't really recognize all the 530 00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,800 Speaker 1: hood I feels like you got twenty five dollars and 531 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 1: thirty three cents? What is you? I'm a food stamp. 532 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,400 Speaker 1: You ain't coming to my dough rest like this. You 533 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 1: know I don't need a costume come to the dough 534 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,600 Speaker 1: you child support papers. I don't. I don't really want 535 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:52,080 Speaker 1: to kill to that. I'm not giving that. You're not 536 00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 1: coming over here? Is that? What is you? A box fan? 537 00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,680 Speaker 1: You can't be a box fan coming to me. You 538 00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,560 Speaker 1: got one blade, you spend it. I'm not fit to 539 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:06,719 Speaker 1: be given to that. Yeah, I'm judging the cos still. 540 00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:10,520 Speaker 1: I won't scare your stuff dracking. You know, you know ghosts, 541 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,560 Speaker 1: you know God? You know you can't be all this 542 00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 1: other stuff nobody to do? You know what I'm saying. 543 00:39:15,680 --> 00:39:19,560 Speaker 1: You want a zombie? Yeah? You know you forty five? 544 00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: You buy yourself? What are you? A baby daddy? You 545 00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 1: ain't be a dad. And my damn dope, I'm not 546 00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,600 Speaker 1: fitna had as my dough I just want to let 547 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:32,839 Speaker 1: y'all know you come over here. I'm turning my light 548 00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:36,680 Speaker 1: out on. You're not getting no candid. You know what 549 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:45,279 Speaker 1: I'm no, you can't be over flish slish my fliga bull. 550 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 1: Now you come to the door and it's twelve of y'all, 551 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 1: just one a dolt and twelve kids. And I ask 552 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:52,080 Speaker 1: you what you is. You can't say I'm a baby mama, 553 00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,960 Speaker 1: like you can't be up and my dought. All the 554 00:39:56,080 --> 00:40:00,160 Speaker 1: kids different heights, different ages, and what is your I'm 555 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,120 Speaker 1: a baby mama? Well, why why would you want to business? 556 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 1: Ohood hood? Costumes? Different? Junior? Yeah? I know. You come 557 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,759 Speaker 1: up to the dough. You got fall all over you. 558 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:17,200 Speaker 1: Who are you ultra man? I'm a soul. Your mama's school. 559 00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 1: Oh you got some styrofarm already? Why are you aways 560 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,360 Speaker 1: and some allument over you? Then you can be a 561 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: to go plate. You know. I don't want the costume 562 00:40:30,600 --> 00:40:34,040 Speaker 1: and my dough. That's just the truth. I just got you. 563 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 1: You got duct tape wrapped around your shoes. You come 564 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:43,440 Speaker 1: up to just tell me you home. I can just 565 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:46,040 Speaker 1: put a whole bunch of white lotion on me, Junior 566 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:52,680 Speaker 1: and say I'm a perm when I'm I'm a Perm's crazy. 567 00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:57,320 Speaker 1: I just that's all I'm saying. We don't want to 568 00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:02,080 Speaker 1: see that this year. You want some effort, Yeah, yeah, 569 00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 1: I want some scary You can't walk up to the 570 00:41:04,320 --> 00:41:06,840 Speaker 1: doing you got six little girls with you and them 571 00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:08,799 Speaker 1: that don't talk about what is you? I'm a pimp. 572 00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:19,000 Speaker 1: Costumes too much, that's that's hood stuff. That little boy 573 00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:21,880 Speaker 1: long round t shirt on, he talking about he ups 574 00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:26,239 Speaker 1: all you got y'all coming to brown dude, y'all coming 575 00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:28,319 Speaker 1: to it. You come to the door. You're brown man. 576 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,320 Speaker 1: You got your child. They both got two card boy boxes. 577 00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:38,479 Speaker 1: What do y'all? We TV sitts take take your grown dass? 578 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,480 Speaker 1: So how about doing right here? If I put on 579 00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:45,440 Speaker 1: a long white gown, dingy and and I'm a I'm 580 00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:53,960 Speaker 1: a chitling, I'm man gowhere, or you just walk up 581 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: to the doing you got your pajamas on? What are you? 582 00:41:56,280 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 1: Little girl? I'm a praise damn you. Wow, I didn't 583 00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: step the costumes up. Yeah, don't be lazy on the costumes. Yeah, 584 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: creative in yourself. It's not on the door. You're just 585 00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:17,920 Speaker 1: not gonna do a little fat one. Not on the dough. 586 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,239 Speaker 1: And he ain't got no costume on? Who is you? 587 00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm mean I'm hungry, Okay, Junior bared the shirt, raggedy head, 588 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,879 Speaker 1: grease all over my face. I'm a shade tree mechanic, dude, 589 00:42:31,920 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 1: that works. No, no food, no, no, I'm letting it 590 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 1: down on the corner. You know what I'm saying. No 591 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:44,319 Speaker 1: you can't. Paul Jay Tree mechanic's name and Lenny. That's 592 00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:49,640 Speaker 1: all I'm saying. Yeah, okay, Happy Halloween. Yeah you're listening. 593 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 1: Show coming up in the top of the hour. Writ 594 00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:58,080 Speaker 1: about four minutes after my Strubberry letter for today subject 595 00:42:58,640 --> 00:43:02,520 Speaker 1: I've been a whole full for eighteen years. Right now 596 00:43:02,719 --> 00:43:05,520 Speaker 1: the nephew is here with today's playing phone call. What 597 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:10,600 Speaker 1: you got enough? If I was a script, because my 598 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:32,799 Speaker 1: name would be Thunderball. That's the name called Thunderbolts. Thunderball stay, 599 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:53,160 Speaker 1: bring thunder Boat out play Jammy. Your name is Weather Kevin. 600 00:43:54,920 --> 00:44:06,399 Speaker 1: I want to be just partning cloud man, drizzle its 601 00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:14,760 Speaker 1: stunned the boat. Let me stop together for spring shower. 602 00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:23,200 Speaker 1: You know what, but run the prank together for Wendy 603 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:44,479 Speaker 1: and overcast. You don't need some diabetic medicine disloyal to Hello, 604 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,600 Speaker 1: hey man, let me not here. Who's called hey stun 605 00:44:48,719 --> 00:44:51,239 Speaker 1: the boat from the club man? What time she get 606 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:55,239 Speaker 1: in the boat? Hello? Yeah, yeah, it tuned the boat man. 607 00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,279 Speaker 1: What time she get in? What you mean? What time 608 00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,040 Speaker 1: you get in? U? Ain't in here now, but you 609 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,680 Speaker 1: know what I mean? I was what you need? Hey, Uh, 610 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,920 Speaker 1: I'm I'm trying to actually get an address and stuff. Man, 611 00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,279 Speaker 1: she got me dancing this weekend on Saturday night, and 612 00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:12,520 Speaker 1: I want to see it. Make sure I got the 613 00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:14,839 Speaker 1: address and everything. Everything still home. You know I don't 614 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 1: already gave much. You got you dancing? Say what? No? 615 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 1: What you mean she got you dancing? She asked me 616 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,960 Speaker 1: to do some mail dancing on Saturday night. So I 617 00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:25,359 Speaker 1: went on and took off at the club, and uh, 618 00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,359 Speaker 1: you know she don't already got my my gull ain't 619 00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,239 Speaker 1: she ain't had you do no mail dancing? My girl? 620 00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:32,120 Speaker 1: She nah? I guess he goes and he goes to 621 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:37,799 Speaker 1: school at night on weekend, so you know naching. Okay, okay, okay, 622 00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:42,680 Speaker 1: who I naint David David fiance? What? Yeah, that's my gal? 623 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:47,919 Speaker 1: Hold hold on, squeaker to getting married, squeaky squeaky Wait 624 00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:54,280 Speaker 1: wait wait okay, I'm David right, Okay, that's that's that's squeak. 625 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,520 Speaker 1: Squeaker to getting me on my gal. You said you 626 00:45:56,600 --> 00:46:00,080 Speaker 1: were dancing. I dance that man is I'm Thunderbolt? But 627 00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,200 Speaker 1: how do you know my girl. She come to the 628 00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 1: club on Serdays. She asked me about doing some dancing 629 00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:06,640 Speaker 1: for this coming say this, so she already gave me 630 00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:09,400 Speaker 1: half the money. She comes to the club on Saturdays. Now, 631 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 1: my girl she goes schools on Serurdays. Man, you know, no, wan, 632 00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:16,800 Speaker 1: listen further all. I'm blown away by you trying to 633 00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:19,799 Speaker 1: tell me Squeaking married that you got me really tell 634 00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:21,960 Speaker 1: up with stuff I don't know. No, No, Squeaky, that's 635 00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,400 Speaker 1: what we call her at the club, man, I man, 636 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 1: look at I'm not gonna get into all of that. 637 00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,160 Speaker 1: What I'm really calling about this she got me working 638 00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 1: this weekend doing some dancing, and I'm trying to just 639 00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 1: make sure that we are for this week because I 640 00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:34,879 Speaker 1: didn't gave my spot up at the club. You're trying 641 00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:37,080 Speaker 1: to tell me my girl hanging out of him buck 642 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:41,080 Speaker 1: making club dance man. Squeak had been coming up in them, 643 00:46:41,120 --> 00:46:43,200 Speaker 1: man for the last buckle Wheki's he been there long enough? 644 00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:46,439 Speaker 1: He nickname, No, I don't know, squeaking for five years. 645 00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:48,640 Speaker 1: Squeak had been coming. Man, this this thunderboat. Me and 646 00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:53,080 Speaker 1: Squeaker go way back. No, man, well we're gonna handle 647 00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,279 Speaker 1: it when she get in here and you can, you know, 648 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:56,840 Speaker 1: handle to yours? Who have you got to handle it? 649 00:46:56,960 --> 00:46:58,879 Speaker 1: Talk to whoever you got to to get your little 650 00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,719 Speaker 1: money or whatever. I know not I can't get I 651 00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 1: don't wait a man, man, that that's not he are 652 00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,880 Speaker 1: you that you're listening? Man, I can't get my slot 653 00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 1: back at the club. The squeaker got to give me 654 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,120 Speaker 1: the remaining balance, man, even if she ain't gonna do, 655 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:13,960 Speaker 1: I need my other wind in balance. I can't to 656 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 1: give you the raining balance of nothing. Hey man, I 657 00:47:16,160 --> 00:47:18,360 Speaker 1: need to ring money money that that she gave you. 658 00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,480 Speaker 1: What's you say anything? You can just count that out. 659 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: She's going to give you thing. Hey man, I'm underboat 660 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 1: gonna get his money. Man, I need my one fit 661 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:28,640 Speaker 1: thunder boats gonna get it. Well, then that's what you 662 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:30,319 Speaker 1: got to do. And that's what you got to do. Man, 663 00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:33,359 Speaker 1: I tell you what's a thunderboat. But then they're getting 664 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,000 Speaker 1: no can talking about calling you squeaky and all this 665 00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,680 Speaker 1: sole ain't I ain't working for to give money a 666 00:47:38,760 --> 00:47:42,000 Speaker 1: waying to some under boat lighting or whatever. Hey man, 667 00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:45,160 Speaker 1: look man, it's thunderboat. It ain't lightning. It's thunderboat lightning. 668 00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 1: To work on Wednesday night, this thunderboat. I don't know 669 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:50,000 Speaker 1: who you didn't talk to already about that, but you 670 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:51,839 Speaker 1: need to haul that them. But don't be calling here 671 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 1: asking my girl to give you some money. Ain't giving 672 00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 1: you because she don't make nothing. I'm coming over there 673 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: now and get my money from Squeaky. Ain't I ain't 674 00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:05,239 Speaker 1: hear it. Don't make nothing. Squeaky ain't all the money 675 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 1: around here, So you ain't gonna get nothing from over unifiling, 676 00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 1: So you can wipe that your mind. I'm coming over 677 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,239 Speaker 1: there to get my money from Squeaky today. You're coming 678 00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:15,560 Speaker 1: over here. I'm coming over there to get my money 679 00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 1: from Squeaky. Don't I ain't got trying to play. I 680 00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:20,839 Speaker 1: don't lost my slot at the club. See what you get. 681 00:48:20,880 --> 00:48:24,360 Speaker 1: See if you get some money, get your league stunded 682 00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:25,920 Speaker 1: coming over there to get the rest of his bunny 683 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:27,759 Speaker 1: you've been. I bring them over here because you come 684 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:30,200 Speaker 1: about what. I tell you what bring them going over here? 685 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,160 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna show you lighting it. I ain't know 686 00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 1: you got some money all ready for you. She's runing 687 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:36,400 Speaker 1: here give you money, and the way I'm stuggling, I 688 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 1: tell you what you've bring your over you won't do 689 00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,280 Speaker 1: and watch what go down. Hey man, all I'm saying 690 00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:44,160 Speaker 1: is I'm gonna come over there and wait outside out 691 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,880 Speaker 1: so Squeaky to get there to get the rest of 692 00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:48,160 Speaker 1: my money. That's what I'm saying to you. You're gonna 693 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 1: come up and said outside what I'm gonna come over 694 00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:52,440 Speaker 1: there and wait outside for Squeaky to get there so 695 00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,560 Speaker 1: I could get the rest of my money over here 696 00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:56,880 Speaker 1: and said outside money house. That's what I'm been to 697 00:48:56,960 --> 00:48:58,200 Speaker 1: do it. That's what it takes for me to get 698 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,400 Speaker 1: my money from Squeaky. I tell you what, you go 699 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:01,880 Speaker 1: over here there and sit outside of my house and 700 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,279 Speaker 1: we get you sill. You blow the hor one. That's 701 00:49:04,320 --> 00:49:05,839 Speaker 1: what you do, You blow the horn. So come out 702 00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:07,799 Speaker 1: there and meet you and let you know what's going down. 703 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,080 Speaker 1: The brush them and we love. She can see you 704 00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,719 Speaker 1: all laid out like I'm come on over and get 705 00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 1: your money. I'm gonna get my money or squeen you 706 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:17,560 Speaker 1: on me on hundred and fifty dollars and I'm been 707 00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,400 Speaker 1: to come get I don't give what she told you 708 00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,040 Speaker 1: about understand about us? Mom? Is she giving you? You 709 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 1: gotta be happy with that? You want to come over 710 00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,480 Speaker 1: here talking about you want some old money. Here hunt 711 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:30,799 Speaker 1: somebody old thunderboat one hundred and fifty dollars, and Thunderboat 712 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,600 Speaker 1: gonna get his money. But I try to go and 713 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:36,520 Speaker 1: dance at the club on this weekend, so here you 714 00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 1: will not be dancing at the talking about sitting out front. Mom, 715 00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:42,279 Speaker 1: Squeaky gonna give me my one thing. You ain't even 716 00:49:42,320 --> 00:49:44,560 Speaker 1: got nothing to do with this, no way. This transaction 717 00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 1: is between me and Squeaky. It ain't got nothing to 718 00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 1: do with you, no way. Hey, her name is, then 719 00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:52,359 Speaker 1: it's got everything to do with me. You come talking 720 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 1: about chilling you some money, and let's bring you come 721 00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,279 Speaker 1: over here. I got your money, come get you, and 722 00:49:58,400 --> 00:49:59,799 Speaker 1: I got your money right here. I'm gonna be sitting 723 00:49:59,840 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 1: out waiting on you. Squeaky, the one asked for me 724 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,319 Speaker 1: to dance Saturday night. Squeak, Yeah, I told a three 725 00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:08,399 Speaker 1: hundred dollars plus kills. Now I ain't gonna getting no kills, 726 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,239 Speaker 1: But I'll tell you where I am gonna get my 727 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,440 Speaker 1: three hundred dollars. Do I got one fifty and I'm 728 00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,520 Speaker 1: gonna get the other one fifty one. Squeaky, get out. 729 00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 1: You ain't getting it from me. You gonna get your 730 00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 1: busson from me. I got one more thing I need 731 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,520 Speaker 1: to say to you. What you're listening to me? Man, 732 00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,200 Speaker 1: I'm listen. I can hear you. But this is Matthew 733 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:26,520 Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got 734 00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 1: cranked by your homeboard. Who This is Matthew Timmy man 735 00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,240 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked 736 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:44,319 Speaker 1: by your homeboy. God, you quiz to play too much? Man, 737 00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:49,319 Speaker 1: y'all had hot round this. I'm putting on boots. Man. 738 00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:53,480 Speaker 1: I got year. I'm gonna golden squabble. I got pikes 739 00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:57,799 Speaker 1: and bad. I didn't fight a whipple man. Yea, man, 740 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 1: y'all bro I'd be glad with somebody frank Yo Tommy, 741 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:05,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get that. Y'all got me? Y'all got me? Hey, man, 742 00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:07,560 Speaker 1: I got one more thing I gotta ask you, man, 743 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the 744 00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:16,040 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvey Morning Show. 745 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:25,000 Speaker 1: That is tun the Boat, Baby, cutting the boat. I'm 746 00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:30,960 Speaker 1: doing comedy, Okay and Johnson Jale and Jacksonville, Florida, November 747 00:51:31,000 --> 00:51:33,839 Speaker 1: twelfth and thirteenth. That's Friday and Saturday. Tickets on sale 748 00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:36,520 Speaker 1: right now. Now here we go, here, go to Big News. 749 00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:41,440 Speaker 1: That's Tommy got for you. Right here. Chicago, Illinois, Washington DC, Atlanta, Georgia. 750 00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:44,040 Speaker 1: This is the New Year's Eve Comedy laugh Best. That 751 00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 1: is Eddie Griffith. That is such to the entertainer DL Hughley. 752 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:53,040 Speaker 1: Earthquake hosted by George Truly. Chicago is December thirty if Washington, 753 00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:56,480 Speaker 1: DC is the first of January. Atlanta is the second 754 00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:01,120 Speaker 1: of January. Tickets are on sale right all right, nephew, 755 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:04,560 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up next, it's the Strawberry Letters subject 756 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:08,600 Speaker 1: I've been a whole fool for eighteen years. You're listening 757 00:52:08,880 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show right now. It is 758 00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:17,800 Speaker 1: time for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 759 00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:21,000 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey 760 00:52:21,120 --> 00:52:26,959 Speaker 1: FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. Bug, Hold 761 00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:28,640 Speaker 1: on tight, we got it for you. Here it is. 762 00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:32,560 Speaker 1: It's a Strawberry letter. Subject, I've been a whole fool 763 00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:36,480 Speaker 1: for eighteen years. Here's Stephen Shirley. There is so much 764 00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,800 Speaker 1: going on in my home. I've been with my husband 765 00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:43,280 Speaker 1: for eighteen years and we've been married for four years. 766 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:46,040 Speaker 1: I have three children from a previous marriage and we 767 00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:49,000 Speaker 1: have a daughter together. My husband does not like my 768 00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: children and he talks about them constantly. My kids don't 769 00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,759 Speaker 1: like him either, and after we got married, they moved 770 00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 1: out of the house. The daughter that I have with 771 00:52:58,440 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 1: him was thirteen years old when we got married, and 772 00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:03,480 Speaker 1: she told me that I should not marry her daddy. 773 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,399 Speaker 1: I questioned her, but she would not tell me why. 774 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:09,200 Speaker 1: When my husband is at home, he stays in our 775 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:14,200 Speaker 1: bedroom with the door closed and the TV is always 776 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:17,319 Speaker 1: on blast. When he's not in the bedroom or at work, 777 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:21,239 Speaker 1: he spends time at his mama's house. Recently, our daughter 778 00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: came to me and finally told me why I should 779 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:27,239 Speaker 1: not have married her dad. She said that he has 780 00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:30,959 Speaker 1: a long time girlfriend in Florida. She's met the woman 781 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,720 Speaker 1: at my husband's mother's house years ago. The girlfriend spends 782 00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 1: time at my mother in law's house when she's in town. 783 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,920 Speaker 1: My husband talks to our daughter about his mistress, and 784 00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:44,360 Speaker 1: he never expected her to say anything to me. My 785 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,600 Speaker 1: other children know too, so I look like a fool. 786 00:53:48,040 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 1: He has made all of our lives miserable for his 787 00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:55,000 Speaker 1: own selfish gains. My daughter has no respect for her dad, 788 00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:58,239 Speaker 1: and I had to tell her that all men are 789 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,440 Speaker 1: not dogs. My husband is that he's asked God for 790 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:05,160 Speaker 1: forgiveness for all his wrongdoings, but he is not going 791 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:11,840 Speaker 1: to stop seeing this woman. So now, okay, said my 792 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:15,120 Speaker 1: husband said that he's asked God for forgiveness for all 793 00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:18,960 Speaker 1: his wrongdoings, but he's not going to stop seeing this woman. 794 00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:22,239 Speaker 1: So now I'm on a mission to leave him and 795 00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 1: make him pay emotionally and financially for everything he has 796 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:30,120 Speaker 1: put me through. How do I heal from this? Well, 797 00:54:30,160 --> 00:54:36,040 Speaker 1: that's a good start, making him pay, especially financially, emotionally financially, however, 798 00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:38,400 Speaker 1: you can make him pay, make him pay. But how 799 00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 1: do you heal from this? You ask I have one 800 00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:44,480 Speaker 1: word from you for you, and that's forgiveness. He's asking 801 00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:47,520 Speaker 1: God for forgiveness, Yeah, forgiveness. He's got to forgive him. 802 00:54:47,760 --> 00:54:50,640 Speaker 1: He's asking God for forgiveness, but he hasn't asked you 803 00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:57,200 Speaker 1: for forgiveness. Okay, what a horrible situation this is. You know, 804 00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:01,920 Speaker 1: just so much going on. His mother is disrespectful by 805 00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:04,719 Speaker 1: letting the woman come to her house and hang out 806 00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,440 Speaker 1: with her, and it's just wrong for him to put 807 00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:10,120 Speaker 1: your daughter, your young daughter, in the middle of all 808 00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,760 Speaker 1: of this. I mean, how is she supposed to process 809 00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:17,000 Speaker 1: all this grown folks, mess your marriage, your dad seeing 810 00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:20,120 Speaker 1: this other woman, him telling her about this other woman, 811 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:22,520 Speaker 1: all of this. I mean, she's too young to process 812 00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,239 Speaker 1: all of this. Not good for your daughter. I mean, 813 00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,080 Speaker 1: it is going to tain her view of men. And 814 00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:30,719 Speaker 1: I you know, it's good that you told her all 815 00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:35,040 Speaker 1: men aren't dogs. Okay, you're right about the fact that 816 00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:39,120 Speaker 1: he's selfish, that he only cares about himself, not to 817 00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:43,279 Speaker 1: mention that he's inconsiderate and he's just playing stupid. I mean, 818 00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:47,120 Speaker 1: so if he if he says he's not going to 819 00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,840 Speaker 1: stop seeing this woman, then you have to go on 820 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,719 Speaker 1: with your life. Okay, I have to tell you that 821 00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:54,720 Speaker 1: you have to go on. But to get it started 822 00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:56,640 Speaker 1: and heal from all of this, you gotta do something 823 00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:59,799 Speaker 1: for yourself. You gotta forgive him. That's the starting point 824 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,120 Speaker 1: to get you to start living your own life. You 825 00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:04,160 Speaker 1: gotta do it. I'm sorry, I mean, you know, I 826 00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:06,120 Speaker 1: know you're hurt and all of that, but go ahead, 827 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:09,600 Speaker 1: forgive him. Don't give him any more of your precious time. 828 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:13,440 Speaker 1: Eighteen years is more than enough. Then and only then 829 00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:16,560 Speaker 1: after you forgive him, can you really really truly move 830 00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:21,840 Speaker 1: on with your life? Steve, forgive forgive him? That's what 831 00:56:21,960 --> 00:56:25,200 Speaker 1: I say. Okay, well, the subject is called I've been 832 00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,120 Speaker 1: a whole fool for eighteen years. Let me just say, 833 00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:31,920 Speaker 1: after reading this letter, I think you have done an 834 00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:35,840 Speaker 1: excellent job of being a whole fool. And throughout the 835 00:56:36,000 --> 00:56:39,640 Speaker 1: letter you have really shown me that you are a 836 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:43,560 Speaker 1: whole fool. See, if you're gonna do something, don't half 837 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,640 Speaker 1: do it. What is a half a fool? You might 838 00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,399 Speaker 1: as well do it like you did all the way 839 00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,360 Speaker 1: through this letter, be a whole fool. So let's just 840 00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,920 Speaker 1: start right there. You've been with your husband eighteen years. 841 00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:58,960 Speaker 1: We've been married for folk. You got three kids from 842 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:03,080 Speaker 1: a previous man. Y'all got one daughter together. Your husband 843 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:06,520 Speaker 1: don't like your kids, he talks about them, and your 844 00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:09,920 Speaker 1: kids don't like him either. Damn man, don't nobody like 845 00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:13,200 Speaker 1: nobody in this house. My kids don't like him me. 846 00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:15,719 Speaker 1: Then after we got married, they moved out of the 847 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:19,920 Speaker 1: house where they go. You've been married four years, but 848 00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,800 Speaker 1: you've been with him for eighteen. I don't know how 849 00:57:23,040 --> 00:57:26,920 Speaker 1: your kids was. Damn, I don't they grown. They're gonna anyway, 850 00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,680 Speaker 1: they're out the house. The daughter that you got with 851 00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:33,680 Speaker 1: him is thirteen. Then when y'all got man, she told 852 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:37,680 Speaker 1: you you shouldn't marn her daddy. Damn. Okay, now, let 853 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:41,280 Speaker 1: me get this right. All your kids didn't like him. 854 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:46,440 Speaker 1: All your kids moved out. Then the one baby y'all 855 00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:51,560 Speaker 1: had together thirteen years old. By the time y'all got mad, 856 00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:55,919 Speaker 1: she told me you shouldn't marry her daddy. Now you're 857 00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:59,600 Speaker 1: a nice lady, because everybody like you and one what's 858 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,680 Speaker 1: the best for you? Everybody hates his food, you questioned her, 859 00:58:02,920 --> 00:58:05,600 Speaker 1: but she wouldn't tell you why when your husband at 860 00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:07,600 Speaker 1: home here in the bedroom with the dog clothes and 861 00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:11,280 Speaker 1: the TV on blast here and that talking here and 862 00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:13,720 Speaker 1: that talker, I have to agree with that. When he's 863 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,360 Speaker 1: not in the bedroom or at work, he spend time 864 00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,920 Speaker 1: at his mama's house. Where we found out why he 865 00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:21,200 Speaker 1: be at his mama's house in a damn show. Ain't 866 00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 1: cause it, mama. Then your daughter came to you finally 867 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,920 Speaker 1: told you that you shouldn't have married her daddy because 868 00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:32,320 Speaker 1: he got a long time girlfriend in Florida, and she 869 00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:35,440 Speaker 1: hadn't met a woman at your mama in law's house. 870 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:38,360 Speaker 1: The girlfriend spend time at the mother in law's house 871 00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,440 Speaker 1: when she in town. She come to town a lot, 872 00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:43,840 Speaker 1: but you say your husband always over there. I think 873 00:58:43,920 --> 00:58:47,280 Speaker 1: she from Florida originally, but I think she'd moved up 874 00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:49,400 Speaker 1: here and she come over to mama's house all the time. 875 00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:51,680 Speaker 1: Because you say he always at his mama's house. I'm 876 00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:53,440 Speaker 1: gonna tell you the rest of it when we come back, 877 00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,160 Speaker 1: and you ain't gonna like it. Well, see, we'll get 878 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:58,480 Speaker 1: to part two of your response coming up at twenty 879 00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:02,120 Speaker 1: three after there when we come back a subject, I've 880 00:59:02,120 --> 00:59:07,560 Speaker 1: been a whole fool for eighteen years. You're listening show, 881 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Let's recap today's strawberry letter. I've been 882 00:59:10,800 --> 00:59:15,400 Speaker 1: a whole fool for eighteen years. Lady been married, been 883 00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:18,320 Speaker 1: with this man eighteen years married, foldy got She had 884 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,200 Speaker 1: three kids from previous marriage, though none of the kids 885 00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:25,160 Speaker 1: like to do. They had one child together when they 886 00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,920 Speaker 1: got married. All the kids moved out. The thirteen year 887 00:59:27,960 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 1: old that you all got together. Your daughter finally told 888 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:36,320 Speaker 1: you you shouldn't marry my daddy. But ain't this day, kid? 889 00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:40,440 Speaker 1: But then she says to her mother, you shouldn't marry 890 00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:43,840 Speaker 1: my daddy. She questioned about it. She never told him. 891 00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:48,040 Speaker 1: Then she finally told him. He got a girlfriend that 892 00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,360 Speaker 1: be at her grandmama's house, which is her mother in 893 00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:55,919 Speaker 1: law's house, the baby's grandmother. Now he has been discussing 894 00:59:56,600 --> 01:00:04,600 Speaker 1: the mistress with his daughter. Who do that? Who do that? Man? Dog? 895 01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,960 Speaker 1: I ain't never heard of that one right there unless 896 01:00:08,000 --> 01:00:10,440 Speaker 1: he was planning on leaving you was trying to get 897 01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:18,440 Speaker 1: the girl to side up with him. Now, he said, 898 01:00:18,960 --> 01:00:25,040 Speaker 1: after all this, he has asked God to forgive him, 899 01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:34,520 Speaker 1: but he man, but this one right here for men, 900 01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:38,480 Speaker 1: this did you tell this to your wife? I have 901 01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:43,320 Speaker 1: asked God to forgive me, but I'm not gonna stop 902 01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:46,640 Speaker 1: seeing her. Okay, So let me ask something, dog, what 903 01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:51,720 Speaker 1: did you ask God to forgive you? Because this don't 904 01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:55,240 Speaker 1: make no damn sense. Don't do if he asked God 905 01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:58,960 Speaker 1: to forgive but then you tell your wife but I'm 906 01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:03,120 Speaker 1: not gonna stop seeing her? What did you ask God 907 01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:07,880 Speaker 1: to forgive you? Fall? And then no way in this, Lanna, 908 01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:11,920 Speaker 1: does he ask you to forgive him? Because he can't 909 01:01:11,920 --> 01:01:14,400 Speaker 1: ask you to forgive him because he'd told you before, 910 01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:16,720 Speaker 1: whether you forgive me or not, I'm gonna not so 911 01:01:16,840 --> 01:01:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna not to stop seeing her now. Shelanan told 912 01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:26,200 Speaker 1: you that is best for you to forgive him. You know, 913 01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:30,480 Speaker 1: I understand where you're coming from, Shelly, but this is fresh. 914 01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:35,560 Speaker 1: It's just happened. You gonna eventually have to forgive him 915 01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:39,919 Speaker 1: and move on for your own benefit, like Sherley said, 916 01:01:40,120 --> 01:01:43,800 Speaker 1: But not right now. Yeah, we got we got some 917 01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,000 Speaker 1: stuff we got to do. See, I don't know why. 918 01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:49,160 Speaker 1: Sheley tried to throw this Christianity out there first, like 919 01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:50,880 Speaker 1: she ain't gonna kick and bus out of all his 920 01:01:51,040 --> 01:01:53,920 Speaker 1: car winners and put him on face to put him 921 01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,760 Speaker 1: on she tried to act like she ain't fini to 922 01:01:56,800 --> 01:02:01,000 Speaker 1: do this right here allegedly my ass. Now you're gonna 923 01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:06,000 Speaker 1: make him pay. He's asked God to forgive it, just 924 01:02:06,120 --> 01:02:09,320 Speaker 1: a line. I can't get paid. I'm gonna ask God 925 01:02:09,440 --> 01:02:13,200 Speaker 1: to forgive me. But I'm not gonna stop seeing. I'm 926 01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:16,760 Speaker 1: gonna keep on doing this. Wow, this woman right him. 927 01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:19,960 Speaker 1: You're in a position of a man who don't care 928 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:25,360 Speaker 1: nothing about you. Oh no, you've never been in the 929 01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:31,080 Speaker 1: marriage this This man got busted cheating and instead of 930 01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:34,520 Speaker 1: asking you for forgiveness, let's work it out. I'm sorry, 931 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:38,160 Speaker 1: he tells you. I don't ask God to forgive me, 932 01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:41,880 Speaker 1: but I'm not fitting to stop seeing You're not fine, 933 01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 1: syn man, man, let me tell you something. I mean, dog, 934 01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:51,960 Speaker 1: that's illogical. I don't care who you are. It ain't 935 01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:55,120 Speaker 1: a man in here really can hit himself saying that now. 936 01:02:56,840 --> 01:03:01,160 Speaker 1: So lady, then you said you first before you leave him. 937 01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:05,360 Speaker 1: So now I'm on a mission to leave him and 938 01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:09,840 Speaker 1: make him pay emotionally and financially. Well, you can definitely 939 01:03:09,840 --> 01:03:13,960 Speaker 1: get him financially, not emotional part. I need the ladiest 940 01:03:14,040 --> 01:03:15,920 Speaker 1: to tell me what they what is? What are they 941 01:03:15,960 --> 01:03:19,200 Speaker 1: gonna do to him to make him pay emotion Shirley 942 01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:22,440 Speaker 1: and Carler. I just want Shirley and Carlin talk about. 943 01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:25,600 Speaker 1: I don't want to hear from nobody else. What are 944 01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:29,160 Speaker 1: they gonna do to this man to make him emotionally pay. 945 01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:32,600 Speaker 1: Let's get into the mind of women. Hell have no 946 01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,000 Speaker 1: fearing like a woman's scoring. So some man hadn't done 947 01:03:36,080 --> 01:03:38,440 Speaker 1: this to you? Fleep with one eye open, that's all 948 01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 1: I gotta say. Oh, don't close both of your eyes 949 01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:44,960 Speaker 1: at night. Well, I'm you want what I would, Yeah, 950 01:03:45,120 --> 01:03:47,640 Speaker 1: come over here, and I'm going to Florida. Is that 951 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:54,120 Speaker 1: what a woman is? I'm going down to Florida and 952 01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,360 Speaker 1: me and her, we're gonna have a conversation. Then we're 953 01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:59,920 Speaker 1: gonna talk to him. Just go jim mamah. Yeah, she's 954 01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:03,880 Speaker 1: right there. But you see, you gotta get him emotionally 955 01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:06,520 Speaker 1: because he said he's not gonna stop seeing her. So 956 01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:10,160 Speaker 1: now you got to really go in so correct. I mean, 957 01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:14,960 Speaker 1: if you're gonna do something to her down there, you're 958 01:04:15,000 --> 01:04:17,280 Speaker 1: concerned about that. I mean, I'm just trying to figure 959 01:04:17,280 --> 01:04:20,360 Speaker 1: out when they do get back together, she gonna look different. 960 01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:30,000 Speaker 1: Well I might start cooking. Yeah, wow, yeah, she said, 961 01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:35,120 Speaker 1: she said, she said, didn't you tell her that? You go, 962 01:04:35,920 --> 01:04:39,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop seeing me? But she just shut both 963 01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:45,160 Speaker 1: my eyes and now I can't see you. This is 964 01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:49,000 Speaker 1: this is ugly man. This is ugly. This man cares 965 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:53,880 Speaker 1: nothing about you. Now her. Now, your daughter has no 966 01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:57,680 Speaker 1: respect for her dad. He's the most selfish person I've 967 01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:01,400 Speaker 1: ever seen. And and you're trying to tell your daughter 968 01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:05,120 Speaker 1: to all me and ain't dogs. My husband says that 969 01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,640 Speaker 1: he's asked God for forgiveness for all he's wrong doing 970 01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:10,600 Speaker 1: what he ain't gonna stop seeing it didn't get it 971 01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:14,200 Speaker 1: at your man. All right, guys, we gotta get out 972 01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:16,720 Speaker 1: of here. You can post your thoughts on Today's Strawberry Letter. 973 01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:19,240 Speaker 1: It's Steve Harvey f M. And check out our Strawberry 974 01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:24,360 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. Okay, our Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 975 01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:28,760 Speaker 1: You can hear today's letter. You're listening to Steven show. 976 01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:32,280 Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, your boy Janson he Brown is 977 01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:34,280 Speaker 1: here and I don't know if you knew this, but 978 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:37,320 Speaker 1: he has another new book out and this one's called 979 01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:41,120 Speaker 1: Signs that tell you were about to get dumped? He 980 01:05:41,480 --> 01:05:45,640 Speaker 1: come on, Steve, how many books have you written, Steve? Three? 981 01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:52,360 Speaker 1: You've already called me. No, I'm I'm with you and 982 01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:56,160 Speaker 1: write books. So this new book it's called Signs You 983 01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,560 Speaker 1: might be about to get dumped. Chapter one. This is 984 01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:02,360 Speaker 1: a great chapter. She says she's going on a girl trip, 985 01:06:02,800 --> 01:06:06,040 Speaker 1: but she ain't packing number Victorian secrets and condoms. You 986 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:09,000 Speaker 1: know she ain't. You know you need to look into that. Okay, 987 01:06:11,080 --> 01:06:15,600 Speaker 1: she told you, she told you she needs to stay 988 01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:18,640 Speaker 1: late with the kids and work with them. But their 989 01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:30,080 Speaker 1: homework at Starbucks? Whatever signed you about to get dumb. 990 01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:34,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, clear you over to the house, now, y'all chilling. 991 01:06:35,000 --> 01:06:38,600 Speaker 1: You find a man's jacket at the house. It's eight 992 01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:43,200 Speaker 1: sizes too big, but she says it's for you. Yea whatever, 993 01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 1: that a b. That's a big dude and coming about 994 01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:52,280 Speaker 1: to get dumped. You're about to get dumb. She ain't 995 01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:57,240 Speaker 1: even gets cooking ribbed chicken, taking me for her mama. 996 01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:00,880 Speaker 1: Now you know, damn well her mama is a telling cop. 997 01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:06,840 Speaker 1: What's up with that? Know that? Come on, try to 998 01:07:06,920 --> 01:07:12,439 Speaker 1: bring me lucy stupid written on my faith. You're about 999 01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:18,160 Speaker 1: to get dumb. This is she telling you. She said, baby, 1000 01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be coming to a baby shower. But it 1001 01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:25,000 Speaker 1: started at eleven o'clock at night. And uh, they asked 1002 01:07:25,080 --> 01:07:28,120 Speaker 1: us all to wear sequence dresses. So but I'll be 1003 01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:31,520 Speaker 1: I'll be back. So all right, it started eleven night. 1004 01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:39,440 Speaker 1: Do I look like a food to you? Look at me? 1005 01:07:39,640 --> 01:07:45,760 Speaker 1: Take due? I look stupid. Yeah, she's been out all 1006 01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:48,360 Speaker 1: day long. It's eleven o'clock and no here she come, 1007 01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:51,960 Speaker 1: trapes in and lemm leven thirty round quarter sitting there wait, 1008 01:07:52,360 --> 01:07:55,960 Speaker 1: traped in in right, and she smelled like old spice 1009 01:07:56,560 --> 01:08:15,200 Speaker 1: man even thank you right, Chap nine, I'm writing, I'm right. Yeah. 1010 01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:18,120 Speaker 1: All of a sudden, y'all getting busy, right, and you 1011 01:08:18,200 --> 01:08:20,559 Speaker 1: see about four or five freak moves you ain't ever 1012 01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:31,080 Speaker 1: seen before. We whoa, whoa? You even doing that? All right? Jay? 1013 01:08:31,160 --> 01:08:34,760 Speaker 1: We can't wait to get it coming up more of 1014 01:08:34,840 --> 01:08:38,120 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening 1015 01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:43,599 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, just being scared 1016 01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:46,719 Speaker 1: make you want to get busy, you know, get busy. 1017 01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:50,559 Speaker 1: You know what that means. Study says, yes, if someone 1018 01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:54,120 Speaker 1: is yelling boo makes you want to hook up with 1019 01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:58,360 Speaker 1: your boo, you're not alone. Experts say shriek inducing horror 1020 01:08:58,439 --> 01:09:04,320 Speaker 1: film scenes can make you feel horney. According to Leah Homegren, 1021 01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:08,400 Speaker 1: Manhattan based intimacy and relationship coach, it's a matter of 1022 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:11,080 Speaker 1: simple human instinct to want to be close to another 1023 01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:16,439 Speaker 1: person when you're scared. This phenomenon is from prehistoric times 1024 01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:20,400 Speaker 1: when we needed to bond, especially in dangerous situations and 1025 01:09:20,560 --> 01:09:29,559 Speaker 1: increase the chances for survival. So, guys, Junior, Steve, what movie? 1026 01:09:29,680 --> 01:09:34,439 Speaker 1: What horror movie scared you so much that you wanted to, 1027 01:09:34,880 --> 01:09:39,439 Speaker 1: you know, not the boots? Get busy? Yeah, whatever, Nightmare 1028 01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:41,240 Speaker 1: on Elm Street for me because I had to say, whoa, 1029 01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:51,200 Speaker 1: just keep going boot, Yeah, you watched all of it 1030 01:09:51,320 --> 01:09:53,880 Speaker 1: one time. Sure, you watch it from one to ten 1031 01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:59,720 Speaker 1: just to stay up. That would do it for me. 1032 01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:05,840 Speaker 1: That's kind of weird, I know it is. I mean, 1033 01:10:06,000 --> 01:10:09,120 Speaker 1: I see people together to a movie and you guys, 1034 01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:11,760 Speaker 1: you know you're scared, so you're you're cuddled up in 1035 01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 1: the movie and everything. But after the movie it's over. Right. Yeah, 1036 01:10:17,120 --> 01:10:18,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now. You don't do that 1037 01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:23,040 Speaker 1: for me. Yeah? What a matter of fact, I don't. 1038 01:10:23,320 --> 01:10:25,120 Speaker 1: I don't really I don't. First of all, I don't 1039 01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:27,360 Speaker 1: go to scared movie, so I don't know what the 1040 01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:29,479 Speaker 1: hell they do land scared movie I went to with 1041 01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:34,920 Speaker 1: the axs, and that did not induce the excess. How 1042 01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:39,800 Speaker 1: about sixteen? Now that's when you and your guys. Now, 1043 01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:41,760 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what do make me want to get busy? 1044 01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:44,519 Speaker 1: Like if I'm getting cold, if it get cold outside, 1045 01:10:45,000 --> 01:10:47,720 Speaker 1: I want to do something. If I got the flu, 1046 01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:55,160 Speaker 1: I want to do something. It's dark outside, I want 1047 01:10:55,200 --> 01:10:59,160 Speaker 1: to do something. Every everything other than a scary movie 1048 01:10:59,200 --> 01:11:03,840 Speaker 1: sounds I wake up early in the morning, yeah time, yeah, yeah, right, 1049 01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:06,120 Speaker 1: But Can we back up to the flu. Can we 1050 01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:08,840 Speaker 1: back up to that? Yeah? If I got the flu energy, 1051 01:11:09,400 --> 01:11:11,479 Speaker 1: I don't need that energy. I just want to feel better. 1052 01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:15,200 Speaker 1: If I'm doing something, I forget I got the flu. Yeah, 1053 01:11:16,040 --> 01:11:18,160 Speaker 1: and then give it to give it to your wife. 1054 01:11:18,520 --> 01:11:20,320 Speaker 1: Well you probably got it anyway. You know, we're in 1055 01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:22,519 Speaker 1: they're laying around like we'll do something like it far, 1056 01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:25,040 Speaker 1: Like if I got a fever. Yeah, I want to 1057 01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:28,799 Speaker 1: do something then too, I promise. Then I can always 1058 01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:32,840 Speaker 1: say this is gonna be hot. You ain't got to 1059 01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,439 Speaker 1: be come. I ain't got to lie, girl, you better 1060 01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:37,960 Speaker 1: come on this thing to be hot. And it is 1061 01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:40,880 Speaker 1: just you know, you know, just like that, you know, 1062 01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:43,640 Speaker 1: so you gotta know. You gotta know what it is 1063 01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:45,400 Speaker 1: that turn you on. You know, like if I make 1064 01:11:45,439 --> 01:11:47,479 Speaker 1: a left turn and I should have made a right turn, 1065 01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:57,080 Speaker 1: I want to do something. Don't take it much? Yeah, 1066 01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:07,960 Speaker 1: right o old you know. Yeah, you know I love 1067 01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:10,880 Speaker 1: how you give us insight into men's thinking. Yeah, you know, 1068 01:12:11,040 --> 01:12:13,240 Speaker 1: like if you like, if I'm standing there talking to you, 1069 01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:15,920 Speaker 1: and you know how you just blow sometimes because you're 1070 01:12:15,960 --> 01:12:19,400 Speaker 1: from a solid bloom, but you blow your head a 1071 01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:28,280 Speaker 1: little bit up now, Yeah, that'll get you done too. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1072 01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:31,200 Speaker 1: I don't really take much, is what you're saying. That's 1073 01:12:31,240 --> 01:12:34,759 Speaker 1: exactly right, Junior. Like if you outside and you playing 1074 01:12:34,840 --> 01:12:38,040 Speaker 1: sports or something like volleyball and a mosquito bite you 1075 01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:43,360 Speaker 1: on your ass and you slap the mosquito, that'll probably Yeah, 1076 01:12:46,200 --> 01:12:49,320 Speaker 1: I know you. I know you were smacking that for me. 1077 01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:53,920 Speaker 1: I know that. I'm just telling you how me and 1078 01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:57,200 Speaker 1: are I don't take much. If I have a six 1079 01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:04,679 Speaker 1: crisis and y'all call me, I'll probably go one somebody 1080 01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:10,360 Speaker 1: to care about me. Oh good, all right, thank you guys. 1081 01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:13,880 Speaker 1: Coming up? More music, more fun, hardy ignorance. I know 1082 01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:20,639 Speaker 1: how you doing today, sweetie. That's it. That's sweetie. More 1083 01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:23,080 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. 1084 01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:29,680 Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Well, it's starting to look a 1085 01:13:29,760 --> 01:13:33,160 Speaker 1: lot like COVID is putting a damper on a second 1086 01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:37,120 Speaker 1: straight Thanksgiving. In a new survey, fifty seven percent of 1087 01:13:37,280 --> 01:13:40,959 Speaker 1: people so that they're planning some kind of virtual holiday 1088 01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:44,720 Speaker 1: that includes a video call, and fifty five percent of 1089 01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:48,400 Speaker 1: people say they'll hit up multiple small gatherings rather than 1090 01:13:48,520 --> 01:13:53,679 Speaker 1: one huge party like Thanksgiving normally is. But friends Giving 1091 01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,799 Speaker 1: is looking even more popular than ever among young people. 1092 01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:01,519 Speaker 1: Almost three fits of millennials and gin zeers plan to 1093 01:14:01,600 --> 01:14:07,080 Speaker 1: attend to holiday gathering with friends. Generation Z. Yeah, so 1094 01:14:07,439 --> 01:14:09,960 Speaker 1: you have you guys thought about Thanksgiving yet? I know 1095 01:14:10,040 --> 01:14:11,960 Speaker 1: it's kind of early, but it is next month, and 1096 01:14:12,040 --> 01:14:17,000 Speaker 1: you know how quickly the holidays get come upon us. 1097 01:14:17,200 --> 01:14:20,479 Speaker 1: They really come quickly. Man. Yeah, you have a big 1098 01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:24,280 Speaker 1: family too. Well, my big family got other families now, 1099 01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:28,519 Speaker 1: so yeah, you know, but you know what I mean. 1100 01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:30,760 Speaker 1: You know my kids are grown now, so we kind 1101 01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:33,200 Speaker 1: of kind of freed up. But you know, I don't 1102 01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:34,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what we're gonna be doing, if we 1103 01:14:34,800 --> 01:14:40,400 Speaker 1: traveling or something. M M, what about your nephew. I'm 1104 01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:46,040 Speaker 1: testing the ass at the dough. Well, I'm going up gathering. 1105 01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:49,240 Speaker 1: I'm going up in your nose on the door. To 1106 01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:53,280 Speaker 1: get out of my nose. I'm sorry doing If you don't, 1107 01:14:53,479 --> 01:14:55,519 Speaker 1: don't look, if you don't, if you want to eat, 1108 01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:57,439 Speaker 1: you got to bring your nose. I'm just telling you 1109 01:15:01,040 --> 01:15:04,200 Speaker 1: right there, I'm testing the turkey too. I'm testing anything. 1110 01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:08,960 Speaker 1: Coming up mar of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at 1111 01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:13,000 Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after. Right after this, you're listening Steve 1112 01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:16,040 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning show. Come on, Steve j. Anthony Brown is 1113 01:15:16,080 --> 01:15:22,920 Speaker 1: here to murder another hit. Ladies and gentlemen, don't delay. 1114 01:15:23,240 --> 01:15:28,080 Speaker 1: Yes you are here. Don't be alarmed. I was doing 1115 01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:32,920 Speaker 1: something and we're doing something. It's called your show, your radio. 1116 01:15:34,439 --> 01:15:39,520 Speaker 1: Guess what do it? Hi? Everybody's Halloween. Here's a Halloween 1117 01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:43,200 Speaker 1: diddy for you on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Check 1118 01:15:43,240 --> 01:16:09,120 Speaker 1: it out. O damn mis high loween. Now I've got 1119 01:16:09,200 --> 01:16:17,360 Speaker 1: the bosom candy kids holding out their hands. I think 1120 01:16:17,439 --> 01:16:24,360 Speaker 1: that big one was twin man. Three room folks holding babies. 1121 01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:32,519 Speaker 1: They come from My lover interrupted me while I'm watching TV. 1122 01:16:34,479 --> 01:16:42,360 Speaker 1: How many Donald trouble will alive? See babe many babies, 1123 01:16:43,240 --> 01:16:50,280 Speaker 1: Tony baby him? I hate Halloween, Tony baby tune, many 1124 01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:59,960 Speaker 1: baby tune, any babes, all age glarade, baby dressing, scream, 1125 01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:04,720 Speaker 1: annoyingly nice ride, Why God trigger treating as a child 1126 01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:09,200 Speaker 1: thing such a scary face you can. I'll be saying 1127 01:17:09,280 --> 01:17:13,040 Speaker 1: that money the brown the spot, y'all, But I don't 1128 01:17:13,080 --> 01:17:21,800 Speaker 1: want to brag. Too minute baby, damn. I hat Halloween 1129 01:17:23,760 --> 01:17:35,000 Speaker 1: baby June minute baby too many damn. I hate Halloween 1130 01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:48,839 Speaker 1: too and baby, I'm a playing at my wife's Halloween 1131 01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:52,280 Speaker 1: carnival in the backyard. Yeah this shit throwing call the 1132 01:17:52,400 --> 01:18:01,280 Speaker 1: grand key to min baby damn I Halloween. I'm gonna 1133 01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:05,120 Speaker 1: play that in your backyard speakers. It will be in 1134 01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:08,040 Speaker 1: my neighborhood. It probably will be ten thousand kids that 1135 01:18:08,160 --> 01:18:13,840 Speaker 1: come over. Ten thousand, thousand, ten easy, ten thousand kids. 1136 01:18:14,080 --> 01:18:16,160 Speaker 1: A lot of kids this year. I'm an dressing up 1137 01:18:18,439 --> 01:18:21,679 Speaker 1: all right, coming up, it's Steve Harvey and his closing remarks. 1138 01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:23,920 Speaker 1: You don't want to miss it. At forty nine after 1139 01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:29,840 Speaker 1: the hours. You're listening, all right, Steve, Here we are 1140 01:18:29,960 --> 01:18:33,639 Speaker 1: our last break of the day on this Tuesday. It's 1141 01:18:33,680 --> 01:18:37,120 Speaker 1: been a good day. Yeah, really really good. Yeah, good day. 1142 01:18:37,479 --> 01:18:39,720 Speaker 1: So time for you now to let us go home 1143 01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:44,960 Speaker 1: finish your day. I want to talk to everybody about, oh, 1144 01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:49,679 Speaker 1: your relationship with God. You know what, man, Oh, listen 1145 01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:52,240 Speaker 1: to me, only real, just as a real dude talking 1146 01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:56,960 Speaker 1: to you. It's the most important relationship you can form, 1147 01:18:57,720 --> 01:19:00,560 Speaker 1: because a deal about a relationship with God. Here's the 1148 01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:04,360 Speaker 1: truth of the matter. He is the one entity that's 1149 01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:09,200 Speaker 1: for real and forever. Now you may find your soul 1150 01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:13,240 Speaker 1: mate and you all made stay married until you die 1151 01:19:13,680 --> 01:19:17,439 Speaker 1: and death. That's cool. Some people think they find them 1152 01:19:17,439 --> 01:19:20,080 Speaker 1: and something happens and they don't last till they die 1153 01:19:21,280 --> 01:19:25,240 Speaker 1: of divorces fifty percent high. Most people don't honor the 1154 01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:28,400 Speaker 1: commitments that they say it through or alter to death 1155 01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:31,280 Speaker 1: through his part Richard for poor better sickness and health 1156 01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:35,799 Speaker 1: and all of that, they just don't. God does every 1157 01:19:36,439 --> 01:19:41,160 Speaker 1: single thing he says he's gonna do, He do it. 1158 01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:45,599 Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is this relationship that you can 1159 01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:48,639 Speaker 1: have with God that you don't have to tell anybody 1160 01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:55,120 Speaker 1: else about, will be the most solid relationship you'll ever form. 1161 01:19:56,479 --> 01:20:00,120 Speaker 1: My relationship is God is better than my relationship with 1162 01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,600 Speaker 1: my best friend who happens to be my wife. But 1163 01:20:03,840 --> 01:20:08,559 Speaker 1: guess what I can tell God anything. I might as 1164 01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:12,960 Speaker 1: well tell him he already know. The other thing about 1165 01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:17,160 Speaker 1: him is when my wife ain't around, God can help me. 1166 01:20:19,120 --> 01:20:21,800 Speaker 1: Here's another thing. When you're best friend or the person 1167 01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:23,600 Speaker 1: you think is the coolest in the world don't have 1168 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:26,880 Speaker 1: an answer for you, God has an answer. So what 1169 01:20:27,000 --> 01:20:30,320 Speaker 1: I'm telling you is one real. This relationship that you 1170 01:20:30,479 --> 01:20:34,439 Speaker 1: fam with God, it'll be the most important relationship you 1171 01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 1: can Now here's the deal. You do not have to 1172 01:20:38,439 --> 01:20:42,000 Speaker 1: go to church to have the relationship. You can start 1173 01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:45,400 Speaker 1: the relationship now now as church good of course it is, 1174 01:20:45,800 --> 01:20:48,840 Speaker 1: especially if you find a good church Bible base. The 1175 01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:51,400 Speaker 1: man up there really love God and can give you 1176 01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:54,559 Speaker 1: some real leadership from scriptures. They can teach you stuff 1177 01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:57,920 Speaker 1: to have Bible study. They got prayer classes, they got everything. 1178 01:20:58,280 --> 01:21:01,280 Speaker 1: You know, they got people that can help you. That's 1179 01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:03,799 Speaker 1: why I'm not knocking that at all. It's very, very important. 1180 01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:07,280 Speaker 1: But here's the deal. You could start a relationship with 1181 01:21:07,439 --> 01:21:11,320 Speaker 1: God right where you are. And I strongly suggest if 1182 01:21:11,360 --> 01:21:14,400 Speaker 1: you haven't found a church that you can find God 1183 01:21:14,479 --> 01:21:20,559 Speaker 1: without a church, you can. He's available. God is out here, 1184 01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:24,120 Speaker 1: He's everywhere. He's in everything. He's in nature, he's in sky, 1185 01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:27,720 Speaker 1: he's in water, he's the creative everything. His presence is real. 1186 01:21:28,040 --> 01:21:31,000 Speaker 1: But here's what you got to do to form relationship 1187 01:21:31,040 --> 01:21:34,920 Speaker 1: with God. I want you to stop allowing people to 1188 01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:39,519 Speaker 1: tell you what God think. Be aware of this. You 1189 01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:43,120 Speaker 1: know God thinks that you don't. Nobody know what God think. 1190 01:21:44,160 --> 01:21:47,960 Speaker 1: This is the first sign that you're talking to somebody 1191 01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:51,320 Speaker 1: who tells you what God think. I can assure you 1192 01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:56,080 Speaker 1: they don't know what he thinks. They don't know who 1193 01:21:56,200 --> 01:21:59,840 Speaker 1: knows what God thinks nobody who knows how he works, 1194 01:22:00,280 --> 01:22:04,800 Speaker 1: Nobody who knows exactly what or how he'll do it, Nobody, 1195 01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:08,559 Speaker 1: Because his ways it's so far above and far away 1196 01:22:08,640 --> 01:22:12,439 Speaker 1: from ours, it's unexplainable at time. That's why when something 1197 01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:15,960 Speaker 1: happens in your life that's unexplainable, when something happens in 1198 01:22:16,120 --> 01:22:21,400 Speaker 1: my life that's unexplainable, that's positive. It's always him because 1199 01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:26,400 Speaker 1: he's unexplainable. Stop allowing people to tell you what God 1200 01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:30,760 Speaker 1: think about you, what God think about your actions, what 1201 01:22:30,960 --> 01:22:34,240 Speaker 1: God think about your ways. Stop allowing them to tell 1202 01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:37,880 Speaker 1: you what God thinks about your path. Stop allowing people 1203 01:22:37,920 --> 01:22:43,479 Speaker 1: to tell you what God thinks about your choices, because 1204 01:22:43,600 --> 01:22:48,719 Speaker 1: guess what they don't know. Form a relationship with God. 1205 01:22:49,800 --> 01:22:54,719 Speaker 1: He'll walk with you, He'll be available to you, he'll 1206 01:22:54,800 --> 01:22:59,720 Speaker 1: share things with you, he'll give you answers. He'll fix it. 1207 01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:03,720 Speaker 1: Ay you, God can do all of this. Man. And look, 1208 01:23:03,800 --> 01:23:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you as a real dude. I ain't 1209 01:23:06,000 --> 01:23:08,559 Speaker 1: faking the funk with you. I'm just telling you, as 1210 01:23:08,600 --> 01:23:12,280 Speaker 1: a real, imperfect dude, what God can do for you. 1211 01:23:13,280 --> 01:23:16,760 Speaker 1: You need a relationship with God. He is really real. 1212 01:23:17,160 --> 01:23:20,120 Speaker 1: Stop thinking that God has abandoned you. Listen to me. 1213 01:23:20,560 --> 01:23:23,759 Speaker 1: I don't abandon you. If you look at it real close, 1214 01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:28,280 Speaker 1: if you really observe your life, you've turned away from God. 1215 01:23:28,880 --> 01:23:31,639 Speaker 1: If you don't feel God is because you ain't turned 1216 01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:35,040 Speaker 1: on him and called on him. You cannot call on 1217 01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:38,800 Speaker 1: him and he don't show up. He would love to 1218 01:23:38,920 --> 01:23:41,599 Speaker 1: be that for you, but if you never call on him. 1219 01:23:42,120 --> 01:23:45,160 Speaker 1: He is a God that gives us the power of choice. 1220 01:23:45,479 --> 01:23:48,479 Speaker 1: If you choose not to call on him, he does 1221 01:23:48,600 --> 01:23:52,439 Speaker 1: not barge in. God is powerful. Now. God can make 1222 01:23:52,560 --> 01:23:55,519 Speaker 1: us do anything. But he created us in his image 1223 01:23:55,560 --> 01:23:58,320 Speaker 1: with the power of choice. And he will not take 1224 01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:01,519 Speaker 1: that choice from you because he said he would give 1225 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:04,200 Speaker 1: you that. He said he'd give it to you, so 1226 01:24:04,280 --> 01:24:07,320 Speaker 1: that's what he do. So he's giving you the power 1227 01:24:07,320 --> 01:24:10,639 Speaker 1: of choice. You can decide to have a relationship with him, 1228 01:24:10,920 --> 01:24:13,720 Speaker 1: or you can decide not to have the relationship with him. 1229 01:24:13,960 --> 01:24:17,200 Speaker 1: I strongly suggest that you form this relationship, Steve, Who 1230 01:24:17,320 --> 01:24:20,960 Speaker 1: I do that. Go to a quiet place, in your car, 1231 01:24:21,360 --> 01:24:25,680 Speaker 1: in your bathroom, in your backyard, on your porch somewhere, 1232 01:24:26,320 --> 01:24:30,040 Speaker 1: and say God, I need you, I need you, and 1233 01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:32,960 Speaker 1: just keep whispering his name. Say it out loud. If 1234 01:24:33,000 --> 01:24:36,880 Speaker 1: you can. He comes right away. He comes right away, 1235 01:24:36,920 --> 01:24:38,880 Speaker 1: and then tell him what you want, tell him what's wrong. 1236 01:24:39,840 --> 01:24:41,760 Speaker 1: Pray ain't hard, man. You ain't really got to be 1237 01:24:41,880 --> 01:24:44,360 Speaker 1: on your knees to say a prayer. You could be driving. 1238 01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:48,120 Speaker 1: Form relationship with God. Man. It's really really cool, I'm 1239 01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:50,200 Speaker 1: telling you. And it starts with a simple Hey God, 1240 01:24:50,280 --> 01:24:54,840 Speaker 1: I need you. Starts right there. I'm tired, I can't 1241 01:24:54,880 --> 01:24:57,240 Speaker 1: thank a nothing else. I've done the best I can 1242 01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:00,240 Speaker 1: and I'm out of answers. I need you come to me. 1243 01:25:00,600 --> 01:25:02,640 Speaker 1: Show me how to get to you. That's all you 1244 01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:05,400 Speaker 1: got to do. It's real sick. Just give it a try. 1245 01:25:05,720 --> 01:25:10,280 Speaker 1: Those are my closer remaw. That's it for all Steve 1246 01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:14,000 Speaker 1: Harvey contests. No purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must 1247 01:25:14,080 --> 01:25:17,120 Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless 1248 01:25:17,280 --> 01:25:21,080 Speaker 1: otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM 1249 01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:24,760 Speaker 1: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.