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Speaker 2: Greg is on the phone today for our first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Taylor. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if
Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Greg, how long has it
Speaker 2: been since you heard from Taylor.
Speaker 3: It's been over a week now, Okay.
Speaker 1: Have you been trying to get hold of her?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I sent her a couple of text messages. I
Speaker 3: even reached out this morning and I sent her a
Speaker 3: good morning text message with a picture of a sunrise
Speaker 3: and got nothing in return.
Speaker 2: Oh no, not even for a sunrise. O. Man, I
Speaker 2: sure want to call this person back, heart.
Speaker 3: I mean, I want to know what's going on.
Speaker 1: You know, sure, we'll tell us about the date. How
Speaker 1: did it go?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so we we went hiking, right. She picked out
Speaker 3: this really beautiful killer spot that had this really incredible view.
Speaker 3: It was really beautiful. It was a nice hike. We
Speaker 3: reached to the top and you know, we had been
Speaker 3: talking throughout the hike and I thought, Hey, this is
Speaker 3: a perfect moment for you know, a little nomass, right. So,
Speaker 3: you know, we get to the top, we're looking at
Speaker 3: the beautiful view, and I made a joke that, hey,
Speaker 3: if we fell off this mountain right now, at least
Speaker 3: we go out with a view. I was pretty fun
Speaker 3: and she laughed. But then things got kind of quiet
Speaker 3: after that. We did kiss after that though, when we
Speaker 3: were on top of the mountain, and so in my mind,
Speaker 3: I was like, all right, well, you know, at least
Speaker 3: it's still a win. It was a kind of a
Speaker 3: dark humor joke.
Speaker 4: But.
Speaker 3: You know, I thought, hey, it's still it's still a win.
Speaker 3: We kissed. The thing about her is that she's got
Speaker 3: this very like don't mess with me vibe, you know,
Speaker 3: and I dig that. I love a strong woman. It's
Speaker 3: really great for me. Again, the hiking was awesome, but
Speaker 3: then she, you know, she cracked a joke about how
Speaker 3: she doesn't kiss on first date, and I thought she
Speaker 3: was I thought she was kidding, But you know, we
Speaker 3: did kiss. She kind of laughed at my joke, and I,
Speaker 3: you know, I thought, hey, we do went on a
Speaker 3: really great hike. I thought it was a really good time. So, like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, like she just hasn't talked to me
Speaker 3: since then. I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 2: Well, when she got quiet after you made that joke,
Speaker 2: what do you think was going through her head?
Speaker 3: I don't want to like make assumptions, but you know
Speaker 3: I can assume. You know, it's a situation where it's like, hey,
Speaker 3: it's the first day. It's kind of a dark humor joke.
Speaker 3: Maybe she she's not super in a dark humor, or
Speaker 3: maybe she thought something differently. You know, For me, I
Speaker 3: was just like, look, this is a beautiful view. Like
Speaker 3: if we fell off right now, you know, at least
Speaker 3: we'd go out seeing a beautiful view. For me, it
Speaker 3: was just a silly, dumb dark joke.
Speaker 1: Wasn't to be.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's alone on a cliff with a guy that
Speaker 2: she first met.
Speaker 1: If I could see how maybe now, well I could
Speaker 1: see why she would kiss you too, Like, well, if
Speaker 1: that's going to happen, it's over.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like she kissed me, so you know, I thought,
Speaker 3: all right, it was a dark joke. She got kind
Speaker 3: of quiet, but we did kiss. So like in my book,
Speaker 3: that's a win.
Speaker 1: Okay, girls will kiss a guy out of just pure survival.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm hoping it wasn't out of fear and survival.
Speaker 3: I was hoping she was. I mean again, I thought
Speaker 3: we were digging each other. I thought it was something
Speaker 3: I don't know, we were flirting. It was a great
Speaker 3: height in my mind. I thought it was something good.
Speaker 3: But she hasn't talked to me since then, and so
Speaker 3: I'm now I'm wondering, like, was my joke too far?
Speaker 3: Did she take it too seriously? What did she kiss
Speaker 3: me at a survival? As you said? I hope?
Speaker 2: But was there anything else that you can think of
Speaker 2: that would be a reason for her to ghost you
Speaker 2: other than impending doom?
Speaker 3: I would? I guess may? I mean, I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 3: I mean I might have over shared a little bit
Speaker 3: too much.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 3: For a first date, I talked about this meme page
Speaker 3: that I run on the internet. It's it's a niche page.
Speaker 3: So I sent her one after the date, and in
Speaker 3: my opinion, my humble opinion, it was one of my best.
Speaker 3: She didn't react. He didn't say anything back. She didn't nothing. No,
Speaker 3: not even like a alike on the Apple, you know what
Speaker 3: I mean, Like how I message you can like it
Speaker 3: or heart It didn't do any of that either.
Speaker 1: Was it about dat again?
Speaker 3: It was just a meme about like cat.
Speaker 1: Is that the page you run? Is it all cat memes?
Speaker 3: No? No, no, no no no. It's a bunch of different
Speaker 3: memes and a bunch of different things. But that was
Speaker 3: just the joke that I happen to send her because again,
Speaker 3: we made a couple of cat jokes as we were
Speaker 3: walking up. I'm a dog person personally myself, so you know,
Speaker 3: she said that she likes dogs and she likes cats,
Speaker 3: so I figured, hey, this would be a kind of
Speaker 3: a funny meme to keep the jokes going.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, we'll see if we can figure it
Speaker 2: out for you. Then we'll play a song come Back,
Speaker 2: and then call her and see if she's tell us
Speaker 2: why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you another day
Speaker 2: if you still want one.
Speaker 3: Okay, I would love one, thank you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, plays song come Back Get your first Day
Speaker 2: follow up right after this, in the middle of today's
Speaker 2: first date follow up if you're just joining us, Greg
Speaker 2: is on the phone and Greg is getting ghosted by Taylor.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: another date. But first, Greg, why don't you kind of
Speaker 2: recap your date for us before we call her?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went hiking last week. It was a really
Speaker 3: great time. I made a joke about it. If we
Speaker 3: fell to our death, at least we'd have a great view.
Speaker 3: But you and so I thought it was really great.
Speaker 3: I send her a meme of a cat cat meme
Speaker 3: after our hike. She didn't react to it. I sent
Speaker 3: her a couple more messages, including one this morning, and
Speaker 3: she still has not said anything back to me or
Speaker 3: responded or anything has been she's.
Speaker 1: Ghosting as are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: I'm ready?
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, here we go.
Speaker 5: Him.
Speaker 1: I speak to Taylor please, Yeah Taylor, Hey Taylor? How
Speaker 1: are you? This is the Jubile Show. It's a radio show.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Hi am Nina.
Speaker 4: Hi, I am.
Speaker 1: Victoria and my name is Jubell. How are you?
Speaker 4: I'm okay? Is this a joke?
Speaker 6: Like?
Speaker 4: Why is the radio show calling me?
Speaker 1: It's not a joke. Have you ever listened to the
Speaker 1: show before?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay? Cool. Have you ever heard a first date follow
Speaker 1: up before?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Great, Well we got an email about you from somebody.
Speaker 2: The first they follow up was where if you go
Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and they ghost you, you
Speaker 2: can email us to get that person on the phone
Speaker 2: and find out why you're getting ghosted. So we got
Speaker 2: an email about you from somebody. Do you know who
Speaker 2: would email us?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's gotta be Greg, right.
Speaker 1: Yes it is Greg. You said that so confident? Why
Speaker 1: are you ghosting Greg?
Speaker 4: Honestly, he's a lot, like I'll give him this. He
Speaker 4: was funny at first, but then I don't know, it
Speaker 4: just felt.
Speaker 5: Like everything turned into a meme or some joke. He
Speaker 5: doesn't really know when to stop and turn it off, you.
Speaker 4: Know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just on all the time. Do you feel
Speaker 1: like that was nerves? It's like, really who he is?
Speaker 4: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I get the sense, like to an extent, that's who
Speaker 5: he is. And so like that's why it felt like
Speaker 5: a lot.
Speaker 4: Like if it came off as nerves, like it would
Speaker 4: be one thing, you know what I mean, But because
Speaker 4: it was, it was just constant, and I did get
Speaker 4: the sense it was his personality. It was a lot
Speaker 4: to take in. And I don't get me wrong, Like
Speaker 4: the hike was fun, but after the kiss, like he
Speaker 4: just tried to make it this.
Speaker 5: Whole comedy routine and I am truly all for humor,
Speaker 5: but it just didn't feel genuine, you know, like because
Speaker 5: it felt like he was on.
Speaker 1: What do you mean he made it feel like a
Speaker 1: comedy routine. Was it funny?
Speaker 5: Yeah, aspects of it were funny. It was like just
Speaker 5: kind of making cracks about everything, and like if there
Speaker 5: was a crack about like, you know, the view that
Speaker 5: we had was absolutely stunning, and he sort of like
Speaker 5: made a joke about like, you know, if we fell
Speaker 5: and this was how our lives ended essentially, like at
Speaker 5: least we'd have a good view for it.
Speaker 4: And that was a lot. And then and then it
Speaker 4: was just there was a.
Speaker 5: Lot a lot to talk about memes Like I can't
Speaker 5: really adequately express that.
Speaker 4: I don't think he Yeah, like kind of.
Speaker 5: Felt like he was obsessing over them, and I just
Speaker 5: don't think that's like a match for me.
Speaker 1: Like were they memes that he created himself or like
Speaker 1: regurgitating memes that he read?
Speaker 5: Like I think it was him too, because he would
Speaker 5: kind of like see something on the hike and trying
Speaker 5: to figure out what kind of meme it could make,
Speaker 5: Like we'd see like this stunning tree and it would
Speaker 5: be like, oh, well, what funny joke can I make
Speaker 5: with that? You know?
Speaker 4: It was just it was a lot instead.
Speaker 5: Of just kind of enjoying what was around us, it
Speaker 5: was like he was trying to figure out how he could,
Speaker 5: you know, get recognition somehow out of it.
Speaker 4: And then there was like this one point where we
Speaker 4: were trying to like take a left, but there are
Speaker 4: these two rocks that was sort of like.
Speaker 5: Locking that path, and he just sort of made a
Speaker 5: joke about how like, oh would it makes just such
Speaker 5: a great meme about you know, two rocks don't.
Speaker 4: Make a right you know that kind of thing.
Speaker 1: He's really trying that's funny.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and then he was just cracking up over it,
Speaker 5: and I just heard was sitting there kind of giving pity.
Speaker 4: Left because you know, what else are you supposed to do?
Speaker 1: So he really didn't talk about much. It was just
Speaker 1: like meme after.
Speaker 4: Meme pretty much. It was it was a lot.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, thank you for telling us why you're ghosting him.
Speaker 2: I appreciate that.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm sure Greg does too, because he's actually on the
Speaker 2: phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh gosh, he is, yes, okay, Greg, Oh boy, I mean.
Speaker 6: Come on, but you like that is a funny joke,
Speaker 6: Like objectively speaking like that is a hilarious king, that's
Speaker 6: a funny jokes.
Speaker 5: Greg is just like you're a stand up comedy, so
Speaker 5: that never ends, and so it just it gets to
Speaker 5: be a lot like I don't know when you're being
Speaker 5: real or if you're just stetting up for a punchline.
Speaker 3: Okay, well that's just me. I'm a funny Like, I'm
Speaker 3: a funny guy, right, and I thought we were having
Speaker 3: a good time, right, And also, just for the record
Speaker 3: for everyone listening, like my meme page is hilarious.
Speaker 4: Like and I don't doubt that the meme page is great.
Speaker 5: It's but like in real life, I don't need running
Speaker 5: commentary on everything around me twenty four to seven, Like,
Speaker 5: I want someone I can actually connect with. And when
Speaker 5: someone's just like making commentary, it sort of feels like
Speaker 5: they're in their own world but not really like present
Speaker 5: with me.
Speaker 3: Oh so you like boring dude. I make a lot
Speaker 3: of jokes. I people love my jokes. You just want
Speaker 3: to be with some boring guy that well it doesn't
Speaker 3: make comments about anything. Come on like that, I'm hilarious. Hey,
Speaker 3: I'm Steven, I do taxes. I wear a tweet jacket
Speaker 3: when I go to work, and I don't make about anything.
Speaker 4: No, I don't like boring guys. I don't want ton
Speaker 4: who's cracking jokes twenty for seven.
Speaker 5: I'm like, I ideally would like a happy medium somewhere
Speaker 5: in between.
Speaker 4: There would be great.
Speaker 1: Half boring, how funny?
Speaker 3: Well, I'm I'm all funny. I don't have a boring
Speaker 3: Our first date with us going hiking, Okay, Like, I'm
Speaker 3: not boring, and I'm not gonna sit there and just
Speaker 3: make half attempted jokes. I'm a funny guy. I like
Speaker 3: to make jokes. I might to last. We get one
Speaker 3: life and we should be laughing the entire time through
Speaker 3: it and not connecting with what. I don't even understand
Speaker 3: what like laughing is the best way to connect with people.
Speaker 3: So I don't know what You're even find your accountant
Speaker 3: or them.
Speaker 2: Well, Taylor, would you like to go on another day
Speaker 2: with Greg? Will pay for it.
Speaker 4: I appreciate the offer, but now, like, truly, Greg's a
Speaker 4: nice guy, but he's just not what I'm looking for.
Speaker 3: Well, you know that's that's fine by me. I after
Speaker 3: hearing why you're ghosting me, which, by the way, like
Speaker 3: ghosting somebody and not being honest with them. That's pretty
Speaker 3: kind of messed up on your end, and I find
Speaker 3: that pretty boring myself, like talk to people, all right,
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's fine that you don't want another date.
Speaker 3: I don't have time to talk about tax codes or
Speaker 3: about accounting, number learning nonsense. Hey can I do an
Speaker 3: impression real quick?
Speaker 1: For sure? Greg?
Speaker 3: Hey, I'm Taylor. I went on a date and I
Speaker 3: didn't laugh once. But you know what, I saved a
Speaker 3: bunch of money in my car Assurance
Speaker 1: Would first date ball