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Speaker 1: Now you can say that conversation with him. You know,

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Speaker 1: Strawberrett Hey, good morning, STI one and only caller for real.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. What's up crew? That damn Junior? Morning up?

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Speaker 1: My mentor? What's having? Brother? And that food nephew? Tommy? Yah,

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Speaker 1: She has a word for us this morning, Yes she does.

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Speaker 1: Brandy's gonna tell us about her brand new book. It's

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Speaker 1: Before we left, Steve asked us what was on our

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Speaker 1: Taking up you coming up at the stop at the hour,

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Speaker 1: I special guest Steve's daughter, our friend, our girl, Brandy Harvey.

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Speaker 1: entitled Listen to This You All or Breakthrough Soul Separately.

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Speaker 1: Breakthrough Soul Separately. It's a guide for anyone who needs

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Speaker 1: say you did found You founded your active wellness brand

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Speaker 1: body and spirit. So what was your inspiration for starting

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Speaker 1: your wellness brand to begin with? You know, mom, my

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Speaker 1: journey beyond and beyond is where a power lies, is

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Speaker 1: where the infinite is. And so what we can tappen

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Speaker 1: to that mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually we could eat well.

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Speaker 1: We can live well and we can be well in

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Speaker 1: the world. M No, seriously that that's good, and it

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Speaker 1: really is. And you wrote a book. You wrote your

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Speaker 1: new book. Your dad just talked about it. He gave

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Speaker 1: us the title Breakthrough Sold Separately. It serves as a

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Speaker 1: guide to help us to stop dreaming of the life

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Speaker 1: to our full potential. So tell us more about the book.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait, you know, I'm so excited about this book.

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Speaker 1: And really the title of this book was confirmed when

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Speaker 1: I spoke at the Vault Empowerment Conference in Los Angeles.

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Speaker 1: I have done this message Breakthrough Sold Separately, And I

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Speaker 1: think so often we think that the breakthrough is included

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Speaker 1: in our lives, but it is the thing we have

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Speaker 1: to work for. We are going to have to eventually

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Speaker 1: get out of the boat of mediocrity and walk on

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Speaker 1: water in our lives. Absolutely, walk on water. Wow. How

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Speaker 1: proud are you right now, Steve Harvey? How broad are

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Speaker 1: you right now? Listened over the years to a lot

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Speaker 1: of things I've saying, but she's put her own twist

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Speaker 1: on it. Obviously, like the title of the book Breakthrough

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Speaker 1: Soul Separately, because you know, that's that's all that captures

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Speaker 1: that old saying that the dream is absolutely free. The

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Speaker 1: hustle is sold separately, right, so I think that ties

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Speaker 1: into the breakthrough is soul separately. I think that's a

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Speaker 1: smart title. Steve, this is great. You should really be proud.

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Speaker 1: We're going to continue with more from your daughter Brandy

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Speaker 1: at twenty minutes after the hour. But right now, let's

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Speaker 1: get a quick check on today's headlines. What you got, bakies, gentlemen,

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Speaker 1: miss a and trip. Thank you everybody, This is a

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Speaker 1: trip with the news. Well. Dallas police claim they've solved

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Speaker 1: the murder of the key witness in the Amber Geiger case,

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Speaker 1: be the best witness in the promised investigation into law

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Speaker 1: enforcement's actions a night that Geiger murdered that Amber Geiger

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Speaker 1: murdered Botham Jean. He was found shot and killed in

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Speaker 1: the parking lot outside his new apartment complex, only ten

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Speaker 1: days after he testified in that trial. Dallas Assistant Chief

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Speaker 1: of Every Moore says they have three suspects. We have

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Speaker 1: identified three suspects and the Joshua Brown murder. All three

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Speaker 1: suspects came from the Alexandria, Louisiana to purchase drugs from

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Speaker 1: Joshua Brown. Thaddeus Green shot Joshua Brown two times. There's

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Speaker 1: been speculation and rumors claiming that mister Brown's death was

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Speaker 1: related to the Amber Geiger trial and somehow the Dallas

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Speaker 1: Police Department was responsible. That is simply not true. Well,

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Speaker 1: some members of the community are still doubtful about that, though,

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Speaker 1: insisting the cops have planted drugs and set people up

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Speaker 1: to be killed before one suspects and custody while the

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Speaker 1: other two were still being sought. A West Palm Beast

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Speaker 1: judge who thought it was appropriate the sentence a gainfully

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Speaker 1: change of mind. However, there was a national outcry over

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Speaker 1: that decision. Most lawyers pointed out that when something like

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Speaker 1: John Costa Nakis called himself teaching twenty one year old

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Speaker 1: DeAndre some Ofville a lesson by giving him a quote

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Speaker 1: taste of jail. Congresswoman Ilhan Omar not the only legislator

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Speaker 1: to see Costa Nakis's action as one of the ways

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Speaker 1: the criminal justice system tries to give young black men

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Speaker 1: records as soon as possible. In the wake of intense

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Speaker 1: national criticism, cost Nakis now says he'll have some Ofville's

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Speaker 1: sentence vacated. Before this, some Ofville had no record. The

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Speaker 1: Trump Whitehouse says it's refusing to cooperate with the quote

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Speaker 1: baseless on constitutional congressional impeachment and curee. That's a quote

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Speaker 1: from the letter. Yesterday, the State Department said that US

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Speaker 1: Ambassador to the European Union, Gordon Sandal, would not be

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Speaker 1: allowed to testify, even though Solomon, who was a big

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Speaker 1: Trump's political supporter, had flown here from Europe to testify,

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Speaker 1: and Elliot Ingle, chairman of the House Foreign Affairs Committee,

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Speaker 1: tells NPR, that's the wrong attitude. Obstruction of Congress was

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Speaker 1: not use it or anything else. We would rather find

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Speaker 1: out the truth, and we demand that they not stop

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Speaker 1: people from coming to or to testify. We're not accepting

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Speaker 1: what this administration has done, and if anyone fails to

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Speaker 1: cooperate with this inquiry, will consider it obstruction and we'll

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Speaker 1: presume they have something to hide and we'll move on

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Speaker 1: from there. The sentence for these these they sentence for

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Speaker 1: Disease Control says more than a thousand cases of vaporing

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Speaker 1: related illnesses have now taken pack. Today is moldy Cheese Day.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Now back to more Steve with Steve's daughter

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Speaker 1: Brandy twenty after the hour on the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show. Well, our special guest today is

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Speaker 1: Steve's daughter, Brandy Harvey, and we're talking to Brandy about

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Speaker 1: our brand new book. It's called Breakthrough, sold separately. We'll

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Speaker 1: also talk about some interesting father daughter stuff. So Brandy,

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Speaker 1: let's get back to it now. Tell us a little

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Speaker 1: bit more, you know, thank you. It really is not

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Speaker 1: just about you know, there are so many ways that

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Speaker 1: we can have breakthroughs in our lives, you know, and

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Speaker 1: they come from really first taking one hundred percent responsibility

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Speaker 1: for your life, you know, losing the victims story, the

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Speaker 1: woe is me, they did it to me story, you know,

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Speaker 1: and taking control of your life. And that's the mental control,

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Speaker 1: and we all have that ability to find that power

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Speaker 1: within us. But it's gonna take some faith, it's gonna

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Speaker 1: take some water walking in our lives. Girls. That's so wonderful.

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Speaker 1: I am so proud because what really makes me proud

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Speaker 1: is not just that this is just a body of

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Speaker 1: work that I've I've really spent you know, so many years,

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Speaker 1: you know, and my wellness Journey says I was nineteen

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Speaker 1: years old, you know, enhancing my wellness journey. But you know,

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Speaker 1: I took the healing journey. And I think that when

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Speaker 1: you began to uncover and heal your life so from

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Speaker 1: the inside out, that it's not just about how you

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Speaker 1: show up, you know, physically, but how do you show

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Speaker 1: up and be well in the world. You show up

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Speaker 1: as a light in the world. And I had to

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Speaker 1: go do some real healing. I committed to therapy. You know.

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Speaker 1: I made these very like really acute changes to my life,

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Speaker 1: you know, so I could dig up the roots, uncover

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Speaker 1: the problem, and I show up that's the highest version

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Speaker 1: of myself, you know, I really just wanted to show up.

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Speaker 1: That's the best version of me. And this book is

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Speaker 1: a how too, because it's how I did it. But

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Speaker 1: it's not to say that your journey is gonna look

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Speaker 1: like mine. It's supposed to be accustomed to your life

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Speaker 1: because everybody's boat is different. But when you, you know,

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Speaker 1: get out of the boat, God is there to meet

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Speaker 1: you on the water, you know, for your destiny to

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Speaker 1: propel you to the next level. And I'm so thankful

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Speaker 1: that my dad, you know, gave me the push. You know,

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Speaker 1: he let me go. He let me go as the

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Speaker 1: executive director of his foundation. But he knew that there

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Speaker 1: was something that I was supposed to do. I thank god. Yea,

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Speaker 1: if her damn brother make one moment stakes, I ain't

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Speaker 1: got no problem the surprises. I ain't fired time ass.

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Speaker 1: I cut my own daughter loose. But it was because

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Speaker 1: Brandy had other things in her And what I had

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Speaker 1: to let Brandy go and discover was what it was

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Speaker 1: to beat like you know, Marjorie says this all the time,

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Speaker 1: and I had to understand it. All of our children

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Speaker 1: wings work, They all all your kids wings work, but

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Speaker 1: you got to let them get out the nest to see. Okay, wait,

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Speaker 1: let's keep this breakthrough conversation going at thirty four after

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Speaker 1: the hour, Okay, we'll have more with Steve's daughter, Brandy

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Speaker 1: Harvey right after this. This is good. You're listening, all right,

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Speaker 1: Proud Papa, Steve, your oldest daughter, Brandy Harvey is our

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Speaker 1: special guest. We've been talking to Brandy about her brand

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Speaker 1: new book, Breakthrough, sold separately, and you guys were talking

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Speaker 1: about your father and daughter Breakthrough. So come on, Steve, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So Brandon, let's get back to this part right here.

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Speaker 1: Releasing her allowed her to become what she is to day.

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Speaker 1: She didn't need to be the head of the foundation.

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Speaker 1: She needed to be the head of her life, of

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Speaker 1: her part of a big part of Brandy's breakthrough, And

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Speaker 1: what can help a lot of people in this book

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Speaker 1: is you got to quit being the victims. And we

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Speaker 1: had a moment in my office one day where she

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Speaker 1: was sitting up there and was the victim and I

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Speaker 1: was just sitting there looking because I didn't raise them

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Speaker 1: to be victims. No, No, I raised them to be champions, leaders, absolutely, entrepreneurs,

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Speaker 1: feel as people you know, you know, And that's what

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Speaker 1: I did. And August twenty three, twenty seventeen, I was

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Speaker 1: I would let go from the found But August twenty third,

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Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, I sent this book off to the publisher

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Speaker 1: and so there is nothing but God in this story.

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Speaker 1: You know, nothing God two years to the day. And

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Speaker 1: so I'm so grateful because my dad's pushed propelled me

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Speaker 1: into my destiny. And so to even see here now,

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Speaker 1: to hold this conversation, I feel extremely honored. But I

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Speaker 1: know that there's a supernatural divine power that is working

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Speaker 1: in my life, and that everybody has that power within

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Speaker 1: them to transform their lives from the inside out. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you know, we as parents sometimes because we love

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Speaker 1: our children so much, we do have a tendency if

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Speaker 1: we don't let them go or in your case, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you know, release them as you say, fire them, or

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Speaker 1: whatever you want to call it, we will have a

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Speaker 1: tendency to enable our children and they will become dependent

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Speaker 1: upon us and resentful in all of that. So in

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Speaker 1: this instance it worked. Sometimes firing is good, you know.

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Speaker 1: And like you say, you can go on and reach

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Speaker 1: your destiny. And Brandy, You've always been deep and we

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Speaker 1: love you. I love the relationship you have with your dad.

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Speaker 1: She's such a great speaker, Brandy. You know, I've always

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Speaker 1: told you that I have always pulled Brandy. I want

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Speaker 1: Brandy to run for office. Where is this girl there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of girl. Your dad says the same thing, Brandy,

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Speaker 1: your dad says, great, we're gonna hold up. She a

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Speaker 1: great speaker. Yes, you haven't heard her spend No, you

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Speaker 1: have here. You think she did it from like this,

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Speaker 1: like like like this a new sprout. We're just letting

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Speaker 1: her have her shine, see shine. Nothing in this. You know,

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Speaker 1: he's a band one so much. I've learned so much

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Speaker 1: by watching my dad, you know, being such a peakt

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Speaker 1: of light in the community. But also you know, you

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Speaker 1: are signing an example of success. And so I've had

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Speaker 1: the blueprint in front of me. And so with this book,

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Speaker 1: you know, of the breakthrough. It really speaks to my

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Speaker 1: own personal breakthrough of how I had to get out

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Speaker 1: of the boat of mediocrity and walk on water. And

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Speaker 1: we all have that christlike potential. And I'm so excited

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Speaker 1: because the book is available today on Amazon. You can

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Speaker 1: once plick this book to your how I love it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that. I'm gonna do it right now too.

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Speaker 1: The book is called This by Brandy Harvey Steve's Baby

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Speaker 1: Girl Breakthrough sold separately. Okay, that is the name of

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Speaker 1: the book. You cannot and we can get the book Queret.

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Speaker 1: Let me get everybody to get this book with. The

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Speaker 1: book is on Amazon. The books on Amazon, It's on

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Speaker 1: Kindle or on paperback, or the book is available on

631
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Speaker 1: Amazon right now. Listen up, everybody. If you need a breakthrough,

632
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:56,879
Speaker 1: if you've been struggling to find your breakthrough, the braver

633
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,919
Speaker 1: of the book is a breakthrough soul separate. Now listen, y'all,

634
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Speaker 1: go to Amazon and get it, get it on Kindle.

635
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: Give it to somebody that you think might need to

636
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: break through. Give it to yourself. Give it to somebody

637
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: that that you want to leave your house staying there

638
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: too long. Maybe they need a damn breakthrough. Maybe you

639
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:21,320
Speaker 1: got somebody in the cubicle next to you that you

640
00:44:21,520 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 1: really want to just go get another job. Get the

641
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: book for them. You know what this book is for everybody?

642
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: I will go down because all right, thank you, Brandy. Wow,

643
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: that was great. Coming up next, Nephew Tommy with today's

644
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 1: prank phone call. Hello. Coming up right after this, you're

645
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Speaker 1: listening to show. Coming up at the top of the hour,

646
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,239
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for

647
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 1: today's subject, I'm too sexy to have male friends. Yeah. Wait,

648
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: till you hear this letter. Okay, right now, the nephew

649
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 1: in the building with today's praying phone call. What do

650
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 1: you have for us today? Now? Yo? Drug? Husband? Yeah? Yeah,

651
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 1: yo drug us. That's ready here it is, come on,

652
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: can't down? Hello? You got a hold on a minute. Okay,

653
00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: all right, I got your phone. I'll give your wife

654
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: a call. Hello. Hello, all right, right now, you're inebriated, sir, okay,

655
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: right now, to be taking you in, but I'm not

656
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: gonna do that. Man. You let me. If I'm able

657
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: to come and pick you off, I'll let her come

658
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,760
Speaker 1: get you. All right. All Brian is gonna Officer Brian's

659
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: gonna put you in his squad car. I'm gonna call

660
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 1: your wife. I've got the phone dialing now, all right, okay, hello, Hello?

661
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: Who is he? Hello? Whom whom I fushing with? Please?

662
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: Who is it? This is Officer Daniels out to Daniel,

663
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: U is Kyle from This is my husband? Now? But

664
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,759
Speaker 1: who is it? Who is outfer Dane? I am Officer Daniels. Man,

665
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,359
Speaker 1: here is your husband's actually been pulled over and he's

666
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: been uh actually he's in another officer's car. He's he's

667
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: a little bit of kneebriated here, and we're trying to

668
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: see about getting him picked up. I'm trying my best

669
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 1: not to take him in today, so I'm trying to

670
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: be a good Samaritan. I'm trying to get someone to

671
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: come and pick him up. Hold On, hold on, hold on, Becker, Becker,

672
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 1: you got my husband? Uh? What I got here on

673
00:46:22,680 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 1: the driver's license is Kenny Kenny, and he's with you now.

674
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: He's actually an Officer Brian's squad car right now. So

675
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 1: he was actually uh bobbing and weaving out on the

676
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,720
Speaker 1: road and we pulled him over. He's not creating any problems.

677
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:39,640
Speaker 1: The young lady wasn't creating any problems. So what we're trying,

678
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:41,839
Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is get somebody to come

679
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 1: and pick him up. You'll have my husband because my

680
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,240
Speaker 1: husbands and worked, so he can't be in the Officer

681
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 1: Brian in your car. It did you say, Jim again,

682
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:53,200
Speaker 1: did you say somebody is with Kenny? There is? There

683
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: was a young lady in the car. Man. We're actually

684
00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: letting her go because she's not inebriated from the look though.

685
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: As somebody she's a somebody to pick her up now, man, No, no,

686
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: I can't believe it. Kenny, and I know that dirty

687
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: song gotten a back in my car. That's my car.

688
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:14,439
Speaker 1: And you said that he had timid officer timidus look

689
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,120
Speaker 1: at that at tell what she looked like. If that'd

690
00:47:17,200 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: not be that, that'd not be the one. I think

691
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 1: you have no idea. I know about it in my

692
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:30,200
Speaker 1: cause he's supposed to be working. I'm so sorry, Jack.

693
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: Jasmine okay, you're Jasmine? Okay, no, just there, we'll talk

694
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 1: to your moment. Yea, her name is Jasper. I'm not

695
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: sure who keep keep keep it, yeah, holding that time

696
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: I get there. I'm on my way. I'm on my

697
00:47:48,120 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: way right now. Hey, Bridget, I want you to watch

698
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 1: these children from the time I get back. I'm going

699
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 1: to see if I can give me a ride up

700
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,680
Speaker 1: to the truck stop and I'll be back in a minute. Okay, man, listen,

701
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't stay here too my longer. I can.

702
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: I can say maybe another fifteen twenty minute. Somebody come

703
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 1: to get the car, and but I gotta keep moving here.

704
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,640
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to do it for another because here

705
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm all my way. I'm all my way. I'm all

706
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: my way. I got my purse in my hand. I'm

707
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 1: all my way to that fuck stop, please don't take

708
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: that nowhere because I got something for his And when

709
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 1: I get there, I hope like hell, And ain't they

710
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 1: they's been calling me to with me all through the night.

711
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 1: Leave for the attack. Get them because I got some

712
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:32,359
Speaker 1: things that I need to take care of. This thing.

713
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 1: Don't move the squad car to I get there. I'm

714
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:38,719
Speaker 1: all wait right now, right now, I be there in

715
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,360
Speaker 1: a minute. I well, that took my time picked up

716
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 1: the to date, we don't had arguments over this. It's

717
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: better not do that. It's better not, I bet you

718
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 1: if better not be here, it's better not be here.

719
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm all my way. I'll be there in a minute.

720
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: I be there. Keep that I get them. Okay, regard

721
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 1: that was Kenny, Let me was not? She can hear

722
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 1: me better? Man, there was another gentleman that was in

723
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:06,239
Speaker 1: the back seat of the car that was riding with

724
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: Kenny and the young lady. I don't give a I

725
00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: know other riding with Kenny. Just make sure he's there

726
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 1: when I get there. Okay, okay, Now do you know

727
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 1: who this other gentleman? Do you know, uh, nephew Tommy,

728
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: Oh I know, nephew Tommy. Nephew Tommy sent for you.

729
00:49:29,719 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve waved morning, your baby,

730
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:38,839
Speaker 1: your usban. Kenny got me to Frank fall call you man,

731
00:49:40,640 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: got you've got you at Kennedy just happened to Kenny.

732
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy happen to go down to bank Head in

733
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 1: two eighty five. When he gets home, he's still on.

734
00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you are my Now I'm gonna check.

735
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 1: What are you at time? Oh man, he told me.

736
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: He said, man, my wife, don't play, he said, my

737
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: man to pray my wife. You aren't say I'm doing time.

738
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm doing. I'm doing what Karia though he didn't work,

739
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: saying work work here in your car at work? He worked?

740
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: He din a bet Worth. Hey, baby, tell me this.

741
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: What's the baddest radio show in the land Steve Holland shows.

742
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 1: I don't know? How was that right there? How was

743
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:43,000
Speaker 1: that right here? Did I put some stupid I don't know?

744
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: Did I sprankle some stupid junior? Don't say nothing? All right?

745
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 1: Let me I gotta make sure I put my stupid.

746
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: I wanted, you know, I gotta do that. Let me

747
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:03,680
Speaker 1: let me make this announcement, Jackson, Mississippi. I'm supposed to

748
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:07,400
Speaker 1: be there this weekend. The club is not opening this weekend.

749
00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 1: I was the grand opening this weekend, because that's how

750
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,800
Speaker 1: you grand open. You grand open with somebody like me.

751
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 1: All right, all right, that's how you open. But you

752
00:51:15,480 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: stay tuned. I keep you posted on when the show

753
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 1: will happen. But it's not happening this weekend. They're working

754
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: on some things. But nevertheless, the Nephew is still coming.

755
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: As soon as I let you know, I will be there.

756
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,200
Speaker 1: I guess where I am gonna be ask me, ask me,

757
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: well a, Mississippi. October eighteenth and nineteenth. I'm in Chicago,

758
00:51:39,200 --> 00:51:43,120
Speaker 1: Illinois at the Airy Crown. That's two nights, the eighteenth

759
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 1: and nineteenth, along with me one of the craziest ones

760
00:51:46,680 --> 00:51:52,080
Speaker 1: in common Laville Crawford, Corey Holcom, Tony Roberts, DC, Young

761
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: Fly Country Wayne, and it is hosted by yours truly

762
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,160
Speaker 1: nephew Tommy. That's two nights at the Airy Crown, the

763
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 1: eighteenth and nineteenth of October Friday Insideaday. Tickets are on

764
00:52:01,960 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 1: sale right now. You can go to all ticket Master outlets,

765
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 1: so you can go to the every Crown box office

766
00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: and get you some tickets. Once again, that is a

767
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 1: lineup right there, Laville Crawford, Corey Holk, the Tony Robbers,

768
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 1: did see Young Fly Country, Wayne and Yours truly the

769
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,239
Speaker 1: Nephew holding it Down hosting the Whole Show eighteenth and

770
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:24,160
Speaker 1: nineteenth tickets on sale read now, no, surely I have

771
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:26,879
Speaker 1: no camp tickets? Thank you? Okay, well then I won't

772
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:35,040
Speaker 1: be there, stay right down, thank you? Answer was I will?

773
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 1: That is settled. Next and I want you to pay

774
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 1: your sick ticket and come see me and support me. Okay?

775
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:46,680
Speaker 1: Is it going to charity? The money this show? Okay?

776
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 1: Not this show right here? Okay? See if it was

777
00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 1: going to charity, Okay, that's when you absolutely that's for charity.

778
00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 1: And how much do you give to charity? How abounds?

779
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 1: That's where we're going. I thought at some point we

780
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 1: were friend. That's why I'm not buying the tickets you.

781
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: I'm looking at you and holler that people. No, I know,

782
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:17,759
Speaker 1: I know your cuss when you get made a lot.

783
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: People don't know that. God, Oh say you don't say it.

784
00:53:20,840 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 1: I don't, Shirley, See why are you looking at the ground.

785
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: I'm not Look okay, look me in my eyes and

786
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 1: say I don't curse when I get made. No one

787
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,840
Speaker 1: on the radio can see me, do it? Look at

788
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 1: you in your eyes. We gotta go, we gotta I

789
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: know they comment all the time on my I g

790
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: all right. Coming up at the top of the hour,

791
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:43,720
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for today,

792
00:53:43,920 --> 00:53:46,359
Speaker 1: and we'll get right into it. The subject is I'm

793
00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 1: too sexy to have male friends. Right after this, you're

794
00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 1: listening to show all right time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

795
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting,

796
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: and more. Please please, please, baby, please submit your Strawberry

797
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 1: letter to Steve Harvey FM. Okay and click submit Strawberry Letter.

798
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter live on the air,

799
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:13,600
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now.

800
00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:17,040
Speaker 1: We're baby, Baby, buggle up, but hold on tight. We

801
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,840
Speaker 1: got it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

802
00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,640
Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject I'm too sexy to have male friends.

803
00:54:23,760 --> 00:54:26,799
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I have a problem with how men

804
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 1: see me. I was married for twenty five years and

805
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: I got divorced three years ago and decided to move

806
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:35,839
Speaker 1: to another state for a clean slate. I'm not looking

807
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 1: for a serious relationship right now. I want to enjoy

808
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:43,919
Speaker 1: being single awhile, but I would like male companionship occasionally.

809
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:47,799
Speaker 1: So here's my problem. I look younger than I am,

810
00:54:48,080 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: and apparently I uz sexiness. No matter how I'm dressed

811
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: or if I have a makeup or not. When I

812
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 1: meet a man, all he does is compliment me on

813
00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:02,480
Speaker 1: how I look, how sexy I am. I'm an all

814
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: natural woman, from my hair, to my breasts and to

815
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: my behind. Every man I meet in person or online

816
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 1: is only interested in seeing me naked. There is always

817
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,160
Speaker 1: an innuendo about my body, or my lips or the

818
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:19,480
Speaker 1: way I walk. I feel like a fantasy more so

819
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: than a woman. Men don't take me seriously, and I'm

820
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 1: not used to this treatment. When I was married, men

821
00:55:25,640 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: seem more interested in what I had to say to me.

822
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 1: I am average looking and I have a few flaws,

823
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:35,600
Speaker 1: but I am funny, smart and loyal. Everyone who knows

824
00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: me knows that I'm not a wild woman that seeks

825
00:55:38,080 --> 00:55:41,160
Speaker 1: attention from men. I don't know how I can turn

826
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,799
Speaker 1: this sexy vibe off, but trying to find companionship has

827
00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: been a disappointment. How do people not start out as

828
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: friends anymore? What can I do to get a man

829
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:53,440
Speaker 1: to see pass my sexiness and pay attention to the

830
00:55:53,719 --> 00:56:00,520
Speaker 1: entire package? Wow? What a problem to have, a problem

831
00:56:00,600 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 1: to have all sexy and stuff. I mean, well, you

832
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 1: know men are visual, yes they are. But um, the

833
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:09,920
Speaker 1: stuff you describe in the letter, all this sexual stuff,

834
00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:14,080
Speaker 1: these these things they're they're pointing your way. I think

835
00:56:14,120 --> 00:56:19,040
Speaker 1: it's uncalled for. Okay, it sounds like you're an attractive woman,

836
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:23,440
Speaker 1: you're sexy, you're well put together. Um, you're confident, but

837
00:56:23,560 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 1: you just keep running into some real losers. I guess

838
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: at this point people that you're not interested in uh,

839
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:31,920
Speaker 1: and what you want is a nice gentleman to take

840
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: you out to dinner, just to you know, maybe go

841
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:37,840
Speaker 1: to the movies and stuff like that. So, UM, I

842
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: just think you need to change your game up, you know, online,

843
00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:45,160
Speaker 1: maybe go to UM because you say, these guys online

844
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: only want to see you naked, and the guys you

845
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:50,600
Speaker 1: meet only want to see you naked. I'm not one

846
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: to um to blame the woman for what she has

847
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,919
Speaker 1: on or anything like that. But you did mention your

848
00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:00,719
Speaker 1: your bud and your breasts and and and all of that.

849
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:03,799
Speaker 1: So what are you wearing. I'm not blaming you. I'm

850
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:06,439
Speaker 1: just trying to figure out, you know, what are you wearing?

851
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:09,240
Speaker 1: Are you wearing? What are you what are you wearing?

852
00:57:09,480 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: I just want to know. But anyway, you can be sexy,

853
00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 1: you can be attractive, you can be all those things.

854
00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:20,240
Speaker 1: I just think this caliber of men that you're attracting,

855
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:25,400
Speaker 1: you probably need to go to other places. Go to

856
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 1: places where you can meet different types of men. That's

857
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If you have girlfriends, check out your girlfriends,

858
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: see where they're going to meet a different class of men.

859
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: I think that's what the issue is here, especially this

860
00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 1: online dating site you're on. So talk to your friends,

861
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: your female friends, things like that, and even your male friends,

862
00:57:45,880 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: because you want to meet some classier guys, more gentlemen.

863
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: So you need to get in a group that where

864
00:57:52,920 --> 00:58:05,000
Speaker 1: gentlemen are basically Steve Well, you know, this letter is

865
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:07,360
Speaker 1: a bit confusing because I agree with a lot of

866
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 1: what you were saying, Shirley, but we don't want to

867
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:14,200
Speaker 1: read this letter. I'm too sexy to have male friends.

868
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: Now this woman has a problem with how men see her.

869
00:58:20,440 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 1: She told us that she was married for twenty five years,

870
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:25,720
Speaker 1: divorce three years ago, decided to move to another state

871
00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: for a clean slate. When you get a divorce and

872
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 1: move out to state for a clean slate, it's because

873
00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:36,680
Speaker 1: everybody knew y'all was married. Everybody knew him or something.

874
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,919
Speaker 1: Y'all was popular. People don't get a divorce and move

875
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 1: out of state normally. So I'm assuming you were in

876
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 1: the spotlight or something to that effect, and you maybe

877
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 1: the word got out about the divorce. Maybe that was

878
00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:52,200
Speaker 1: some embarrassing things and you just wanted to startle, which

879
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:54,640
Speaker 1: is a good move. Now, I'm not looking for a

880
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:57,560
Speaker 1: serious relationship right now, so I want to enjoy being

881
00:58:57,640 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: single for a while. This is the key in the

882
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 1: whole letter. You're not looking for a serious relationship and

883
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 1: you want to enjoy being single. Well, if you're not

884
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: looking for a serious relationship, how can you attract a

885
00:59:13,320 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: serious relationship? And if you want to enjoy being single,

886
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:20,200
Speaker 1: welcome to the single world, because this is what it

887
00:59:20,440 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 1: is now. But here's my problem. I look younger than

888
00:59:24,760 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: I am, and apparently I ooze sexiness no matter how

889
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:33,120
Speaker 1: I'm dressed or no matter how I'm dressed, or have

890
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 1: makeup on or not. When I meet a man, all

891
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:38,480
Speaker 1: he does is compliment me on how sexy I am.

892
00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm an all natural woman, from my hat to my

893
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: breast to my bead. She said, I ooze sexiness. Yeah

894
00:59:47,800 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 1: she did, she did. Yeah, you can't turn off six Hell,

895
00:59:53,360 --> 01:00:02,600
Speaker 1: I can't. Come on. I've been struggling with this problem girl,

896
01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: But that's where you are. What did he say? Nothing?

897
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,320
Speaker 1: Go ahead? Go ahead? No, she said, you can't turn

898
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:18,440
Speaker 1: it off. He said me either with confidence, But he

899
01:00:18,560 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 1: didn't mean it. No, he didn't mean that. It just

900
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: came out. I'm so I just needed that's what you said?

901
01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 1: He No way in hell he could have meant that. Yeah,

902
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:31,400
Speaker 1: we'll be back with what the rest I think. All right,

903
01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: we're gonna have part two of Steve's response coming up

904
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:37,520
Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hour. Subject of this very

905
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:42,360
Speaker 1: confusing letter is called I'm too sexy to have male friends.

906
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening to,

907
01:00:49,200 --> 01:00:51,919
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

908
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: The subject I'm too sexy to have male friends? Well

909
01:00:55,760 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 1: as far as we got was this woman been married

910
01:00:58,040 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 1: twenty five years, got a devote and she just got

911
01:01:00,360 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: a problem with how me and Sea. She moved to

912
01:01:03,640 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: another state. She's not looking for a serious relationship right now,

913
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:12,000
Speaker 1: and I want to be enjoyed being single for a while. Well,

914
01:01:12,080 --> 01:01:16,720
Speaker 1: this whole letter does just that. Doug, You're not You

915
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: don't want a serious relationship now, and you want to

916
01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:29,720
Speaker 1: enjoy being single, Well, this whole letter is giving you that. See, ma'am,

917
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 1: you can't. You can't won one thing then when you

918
01:01:32,520 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 1: get it, then don't want it. So here's the problem.

919
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 1: I look younger than I am apparently who's sex And

920
01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 1: it's no matter how I'm dressed or if I have

921
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 1: on makeup or not. When I meet a man, all

922
01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: he does is compliment me on how I look and

923
01:01:45,200 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 1: how sexy I am. I'm an all natural woman. From

924
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 1: my hat to my breast to my behind. Every man

925
01:01:50,680 --> 01:01:53,360
Speaker 1: I meet in person or online is only interested in

926
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 1: seeing me naked. Let's stop right there. Every man you

927
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:01,880
Speaker 1: meet online or in person is only interested in seeing

928
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 1: you naked. Now, I'm like Sherley, what do you have on? Now?

929
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 1: Listen to me. It don't take much I'll give it

930
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 1: to you. Look, men, we can be also ignorant at times.

931
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,440
Speaker 1: I got it. So I'm not blaming you for what

932
01:02:16,640 --> 01:02:23,440
Speaker 1: you wear, but you're drawing, you're attracting the same comments

933
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 1: over and over and over. If you're attracting the same

934
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 1: comments all the time, I want to see you naked.

935
01:02:32,680 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: You know then what you what you got on? That's

936
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 1: damn near got your naked. See something that's happening, man,

937
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:42,720
Speaker 1: And I don't know what it is, but I want

938
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 1: you to think about this. Then you say, as every

939
01:02:45,240 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 1: man I meet online, there's always an inny window about

940
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: my body or my lips or the way I walk. Now,

941
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: if you online and somebody got something to say about

942
01:02:58,960 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 1: your body or the way you walk, it's cost that's

943
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 1: what you posted. Now. I'm sorry, man, but that's just

944
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:12,440
Speaker 1: all to it. Now, I feel I feel like a

945
01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:19,680
Speaker 1: fantasy more than a woman. What Wow, Wow, that's that's

946
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 1: a pretty cool problem to have. Yeah, I say, men

947
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: don't take me seriously, and I'm not used to this treatment.

948
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:30,000
Speaker 1: When I was married, men seem more interested in what

949
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 1: I had to say because they knew they couldn't get

950
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 1: to you. To me, I'm average looking, Okay, stop that.

951
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 1: That's the way to try to bag it down a

952
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 1: little bit. But if you was average looking, you begetting

953
01:03:39,520 --> 01:03:45,120
Speaker 1: average ass request And I have a flute, few flaws. Man,

954
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:48,479
Speaker 1: we don't see him. But I'm funny, smart and loyal.

955
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 1: Everyone who knows me knows that I'm not a wild woman.

956
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 1: That's probably true. That seeks attention from me, and I

957
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 1: don't know how I can turn this sexy vibe all

958
01:03:57,080 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 1: but now, see, listen to me. You don't see the

959
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 1: attention to men, but you keep getting it. Now, if

960
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:06,320
Speaker 1: you online and they only want to see your neck

961
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: and they're always complimenting the way you walk, I want

962
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 1: to see your neck and all this here, right here,

963
01:04:10,800 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 1: right here, somebody is attracting the same thing because you're

964
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: exuding the same thing. See this sexiness that just uses

965
01:04:20,680 --> 01:04:29,560
Speaker 1: out you, that loses at you use it out of me.

966
01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 1: You know, honey draw flies, But then so do sugar

967
01:04:35,320 --> 01:04:39,360
Speaker 1: honey iced tea. Now you got to make up your mind,

968
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 1: because you could do something about this. But if you're

969
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: saying you're not interested in a serious relationship, then guess

970
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 1: what nobody's gonna treat you seriously. If you say you

971
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 1: just want to enjoy the single life. This is what

972
01:04:56,200 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 1: single life is now. They're hitting on people. They hooking

973
01:04:58,440 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: up on apps, they hook it up on line. See

974
01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:05,320
Speaker 1: you've requested this in your letter. I don't wan't no

975
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:08,760
Speaker 1: serious relationship. Antybody trying to get you one. They just

976
01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 1: want to see you naked. You just said you ain't

977
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 1: want no serious relationship. See, words are very powerful. I

978
01:05:14,080 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: think people lose the sight of how powerful words are.

979
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 1: Stop saying things, and then when it comes back to you,

980
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:26,040
Speaker 1: you're mad because you got it. I'm not looking for

981
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 1: a serious relationship. Ain't nobody offering none. I just want

982
01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 1: to enjoy the single life. This is what they're doing now.

983
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 1: They're hooking up on tender, they they sex online apples.

984
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 1: That's what you ask for. How can I turn this

985
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 1: sexy vibe off? Why don't you change your request? Why

986
01:05:46,040 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 1: don't you change your ambition now? If you don't want

987
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:53,080
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship right now, I can understand that,

988
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: then don't get in relationship situation. You're sitting down a

989
01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 1: cross dinner from a man. He's gonna have, so he's

990
01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 1: gonna want some kind of relationship now. So if you're

991
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 1: tired of being married, and tired of twenty five Just

992
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 1: go do you for a while? But you didn't invite

993
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 1: it all these men in because you want to have

994
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:12,320
Speaker 1: some fun and all this If it's twenty five years later,

995
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:16,560
Speaker 1: baby champ, fund and change. What can I do to

996
01:06:16,640 --> 01:06:18,880
Speaker 1: get a man to see past my sexiness and pay

997
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: attention to the entire package? Tell these men that they

998
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: can only get they that you're only interested in a package.

999
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 1: Quit going on these meaningless says dates meaningly, meaningly meaningless

1000
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: meaningless dates is going to result in meaningless results. Yeah,

1001
01:06:41,520 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: I don't know how else is said to you, sir?

1002
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we get it. Poster comments on Today's

1003
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM and on Instagram and Facebook.

1004
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 1: Don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on

1005
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 1: demand coming up at forty six. After the hour, we'll

1006
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:58,720
Speaker 1: talk about some of the highlights from last night's b

1007
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 1: ET Hip Awards. Right after this, you're listening to the

1008
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:08,320
Speaker 1: show and trending hip hop news. Last night was the

1009
01:07:08,400 --> 01:07:11,720
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen b ET Hip Hop Awards. It was hosted

1010
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:19,720
Speaker 1: by the one and only Little Duvalvo I know. Performances

1011
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:23,480
Speaker 1: included Little Duval Chance, the Rapper, The Baby, Little Baby,

1012
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 1: Little John, Megan Dust Stallion, Offset Anderson, pok Rick, Ross

1013
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:33,240
Speaker 1: t Payne, Little John. It was a music celebration including

1014
01:07:33,360 --> 01:07:36,640
Speaker 1: some really fly fashion. Shout out to Little Kim the

1015
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: Queen Bee. Yes she Rocket Park. Yes, I mean, how

1016
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:44,520
Speaker 1: can you not. She definitely is a Queen Bee. Rock

1017
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:48,520
Speaker 1: day pink Gucci outfit by Dapper Dan on the red carpet.

1018
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:51,920
Speaker 1: Little Kim also took home the I Am hip Hop Award.

1019
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 1: Also shout out to be Et for their first ever

1020
01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:59,880
Speaker 1: comedy Cipher to bridging comedy and hip hop featuring Chico Bean,

1021
01:08:00,120 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 1: Carlos Miller, Afion Crockett and Little Dude Duval. That that

1022
01:08:04,360 --> 01:08:08,120
Speaker 1: was funny. That was funny. That was funny. Yeah, yeah,

1023
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 1: I like that. I like that school though. Yeah, I

1024
01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:14,280
Speaker 1: mean hip hop they got a lot in common now

1025
01:08:14,560 --> 01:08:17,640
Speaker 1: these days. Yeah they do. And congratulations once again to

1026
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:20,599
Speaker 1: Queen b I mean, who's more deserving than Little Kim

1027
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 1: when you talk about I Am hip Hop and the

1028
01:08:23,400 --> 01:08:26,759
Speaker 1: Hip Hop Awards, So congratulations to her. And she rocked

1029
01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:31,600
Speaker 1: that stage too, yes she did. I love him and

1030
01:08:31,960 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 1: Little ceas reunion with him, yes, yes, yeah it was

1031
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:42,520
Speaker 1: really good. Yeah, it really really was. And and congratulations

1032
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:45,439
Speaker 1: to little Duval too. He did an outstanding job. I'm

1033
01:08:45,479 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 1: happy for Yeah, I really am. Yeah. He said he's

1034
01:08:49,160 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: always going to be living his best life. It's cool, dude, man, right, yes, yes, yeah,

1035
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,599
Speaker 1: it was cute. Tiana Taylor Shirley, her hair cold, Yeah,

1036
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:09,320
Speaker 1: short haircut. It was good dress too, and she's got

1037
01:09:09,400 --> 01:09:14,120
Speaker 1: the bang in his body. I mean okay, yeah, man,

1038
01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:22,839
Speaker 1: go ahead when you want the papers, papers draw this weekend, Monday, Monday,

1039
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 1: So it's safe to say though. Kim was rocking the

1040
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:29,759
Speaker 1: Gucci outfit and the big old Gucci bell, and Tiana

1041
01:09:29,800 --> 01:09:36,759
Speaker 1: was we're good. Yeah, he did her outfit. He dressed

1042
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:39,360
Speaker 1: Doctor Dan is a legend. If he thought with it,

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01:09:39,479 --> 01:09:45,120
Speaker 1: we got to all get in line. My sneaks is clean.

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01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 1: I just didn't know I could put them on again.

1045
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:52,639
Speaker 1: My st been riddy. I had missed some cold outfit.

1046
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 1: I didn't wear my leader. So he's cool with it.

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01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:01,720
Speaker 1: We're cool with it, right, yeah, all right, listen, coming

1048
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, the judge and

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01:10:03,400 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 1: the Amber Geiger murder trial defends hugging her at the sentencing.

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01:10:07,360 --> 01:10:09,680
Speaker 1: We'll talk about it at the top of the hour, right,

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01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:17,559
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to District Judge Tammy Kemp, who

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01:10:17,680 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: was a sister who presided over the Ambergeiger trial. She's

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01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:24,559
Speaker 1: come at her fire for the compassion that she showed

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01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:28,760
Speaker 1: last week to Ambergeiger. Of course, Ambergeiger was convicted of

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01:10:28,840 --> 01:10:32,800
Speaker 1: murdering both of both of John. During Geiger's sentencing, the

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01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:36,719
Speaker 1: victim's brother, Brent John, also wished her well and hugged

1057
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: her talking about Amberg Geiger. Both Judge Kemp and Brent

1058
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:44,559
Speaker 1: John's actions have angered some in the African American community.

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01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:48,280
Speaker 1: Judge Kemp said that Ambergeiger asked her twice for a hug.

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01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 1: She hesitated the first time. Judge Kemp told NBC News,

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01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:55,519
Speaker 1: I could not refuse that woman a hug. Take a listen.

1062
01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 1: I'm trying to look at the person beyond the act.

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01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:02,880
Speaker 1: This morning, District Judge Tammy Kemp speaking publicly for the

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01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: first time, sharing how the Amber Geiger murder trial changed

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01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:13,360
Speaker 1: her and her courtroom forever. Yes, moments like when Brandt

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01:11:13,439 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 1: John asked the judge if he could hug the woman

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01:11:15,520 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 1: who killed his brother, not surprising an emotional hug, leading

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01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 1: to another from the judge yourself, I just said to her,

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01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:28,360
Speaker 1: Miss Geiger, mister mister John has forgiven you. Please forgive

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01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:33,600
Speaker 1: yourself so that you can live a purposeful life. And

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01:11:35,000 --> 01:11:37,559
Speaker 1: she said, do you think my life can still have purpose?

1072
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:40,439
Speaker 1: And I said, I know it can. We the jury.

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01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:43,200
Speaker 1: After a jury convicted Geiger of murder and sentence her

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01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,759
Speaker 1: to ten years, Kemp stepped away and returned with a Bible,

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01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:49,960
Speaker 1: handing it to Geiger, who asked for a hug before

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01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 1: going to prison. Your job is to do justice, to love, mercy,

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01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:59,759
Speaker 1: and walk humbly. So how can you not hug this lady?

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01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 1: So we hugged. I felt somebody who was incredibly fragile. Wow, yeah, yeah, See,

1079
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:19,600
Speaker 1: you know it's things like this. Uh, we are in

1080
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:26,360
Speaker 1: such a world of hate now that any acts of

1081
01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: compassion and love it's almost startling. Because we've accepted hate

1082
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:39,440
Speaker 1: and and and boycotting and lawsuits and and and dislikes

1083
01:12:39,520 --> 01:12:42,600
Speaker 1: and all this, we've accepted it as the norm. We

1084
01:12:42,760 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 1: accepted from the White House now that that's the norm.

1085
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:51,559
Speaker 1: So when you see in any act of compassion, any

1086
01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:58,520
Speaker 1: act of love, any act of forgiveness, what we're we're appalled.

1087
01:12:59,200 --> 01:13:02,679
Speaker 1: How dare you that that's what the world we've come

1088
01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 1: to man, do you do you realize that we're in

1089
01:13:06,240 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 1: a world now where any act of love, forgiveness or

1090
01:13:09,760 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 1: kindness it we are apart. The world is appalled at that.

1091
01:13:14,760 --> 01:13:20,840
Speaker 1: When it used to be we were appalled at evil

1092
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:25,519
Speaker 1: doing Now do good, and not only do we get

1093
01:13:25,560 --> 01:13:29,640
Speaker 1: appalled at it, you get hated for doing it. This

1094
01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:32,880
Speaker 1: is a different day we're living in, man. That's that's

1095
01:13:32,920 --> 01:13:35,840
Speaker 1: what I gather from this. That's what I see when

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01:13:35,880 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 1: I see this, man. I mean, because man, they can't

1097
01:13:38,400 --> 01:13:41,559
Speaker 1: wait till lace to judge both of them's brother. I mean,

1098
01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: they're talking to this boy like he ain't lost his brother. R.

1099
01:13:45,320 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: You don't know how he feels. You have no idea.

1100
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:57,320
Speaker 1: That's hard, man. Yeah, we definitely as I saw that

1101
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:00,439
Speaker 1: that interview too as well. And a judge was saying

1102
01:14:00,520 --> 01:14:04,320
Speaker 1: she thought the embrace was okay because the trial was

1103
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:07,280
Speaker 1: over as well. You know she didn't do it during

1104
01:14:07,320 --> 01:14:10,200
Speaker 1: the proceedings. Oh that's right. You know she's been sentenced.

1105
01:14:10,920 --> 01:14:12,519
Speaker 1: You know this ain't no. I'm gonna hug you and

1106
01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:14,360
Speaker 1: then now let me get you a light a sentence.

1107
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 1: The sentence was passed down by the Jewelry. Yeah, there's

1108
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,599
Speaker 1: nothing you can do. What did the judge do wrong?

1109
01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 1: And the judge gave her a Bible so you can

1110
01:14:24,479 --> 01:14:26,960
Speaker 1: have a purposeful life, She said, do you think my

1111
01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:31,679
Speaker 1: life can steal? Have purpose? This woman just killed somebody? Man,

1112
01:14:31,840 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 1: don't you know the hell this woman? Fitney catch. She's

1113
01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: going to prison as a police officer. You can't have

1114
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:45,760
Speaker 1: a worse state going to prison as a police officer. Man, yeah,

1115
01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 1: disc man please, wow? Yeah. All right, Well we're on

1116
01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:53,799
Speaker 1: the switch gears here coming up, more music, more trending

1117
01:14:53,880 --> 01:14:56,000
Speaker 1: topics on the Steve Harvery Morning Show. We'll be back

1118
01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:58,920
Speaker 1: in twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this. You're

1119
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 1: listening Steve Morning Show. All right, guys, some trending comedy news.

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01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:09,679
Speaker 1: All you comedians we love comedian and black and star

1121
01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:15,760
Speaker 1: Deon Cole love me. Well he's not man, No, he's

1122
01:15:15,800 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 1: so funny at the gas station last week, did you really? Yeah,

1123
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,240
Speaker 1: he's back with the brand new comedy stand up special.

1124
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: It is on Netflix. It's called Coal Hearted. It's funny.

1125
01:15:29,479 --> 01:15:31,280
Speaker 1: I saw the advertisement of it. Yeah, I saw the

1126
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:36,880
Speaker 1: advertisement of He's just a kid from the Chicago. I've

1127
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:39,599
Speaker 1: been knowing him. I've been knowing him a long time.

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01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:43,519
Speaker 1: He's really man, one of the really, really good comedic

1129
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:47,920
Speaker 1: minds in the business. Man. He puts some unique spins

1130
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:50,479
Speaker 1: on his work. Man, I think y'all should check out

1131
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:54,800
Speaker 1: this Netforce. I've seen it. I plan to watch it.

1132
01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 1: I haven't seen it yet. I've seen it. It's really

1133
01:15:58,040 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 1: really funny. Man. You have it on the plane Netflix

1134
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 1: on his phone phone on. Oh, we got to catch yours.

1135
01:16:06,720 --> 01:16:10,200
Speaker 1: You can download on your iPad. Huh, you can download

1136
01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 1: on your iPad. You know that. No, you don't know that.

1137
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:17,599
Speaker 1: I didn't know. I said all these private jet plays.

1138
01:16:17,640 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: You ain't watching nothing I got. I got a lot

1139
01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:26,760
Speaker 1: of movies downloaded on my iPad. I just watched the

1140
01:16:26,840 --> 01:16:33,960
Speaker 1: Book of Eli again. I mean it was stated all right.

1141
01:16:34,000 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 1: Look anyway, congratulations to Dian Cole. We love you, din Cole.

1142
01:16:39,280 --> 01:16:42,200
Speaker 1: Uh Cole hearted Marva. Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up

1143
01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:45,880
Speaker 1: at thirty three after the hour. Right after this, you're

1144
01:16:45,960 --> 01:16:53,080
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. I guess that's our Q. Yeah.

1145
01:16:55,200 --> 01:17:16,479
Speaker 1: Oh move for Jesus, Jane Moon. No, Jesus, ain't it good? No? Jesus.

1146
01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:25,760
Speaker 1: Good morning everyone going, Hey Carlly, hey, sister Oldale, how

1147
01:17:25,760 --> 01:17:30,200
Speaker 1: are you doing? Brutal for brutal, for brutal for hey, junior, morning,

1148
01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:32,360
Speaker 1: sister old Dale's good to hear from you this morning.

1149
01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:36,400
Speaker 1: Did you did you jest your voice? No, ma'am, Oh,

1150
01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:41,880
Speaker 1: daddy's dudy pops he in it out. It's like it's

1151
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:48,839
Speaker 1: gotta shout in it. Hi boy, yes, ma'am so odal?

1152
01:17:48,960 --> 01:17:52,200
Speaker 1: How you good? You back to being respectful. That's mighty

1153
01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 1: kind of you. Thank you. Hello, Shirley, Well, hello, and welcome, welcome, welcome, sister,

1154
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 1: oh dell, where girl? Are good to be here? O? God,

1155
01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:09,599
Speaker 1: it's good. She ain't man, you just ran right through

1156
01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:16,719
Speaker 1: meet you. You know what. We were just talking and normally,

1157
01:18:17,080 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 1: you know, we don't ask people, uh and I don't

1158
01:18:21,120 --> 01:18:25,200
Speaker 1: want to be disrespectful, like of age, what their dreams are?

1159
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. We usually reserve that for

1160
01:18:29,160 --> 01:18:33,719
Speaker 1: younger people who have the majority of their life ahead

1161
01:18:33,720 --> 01:18:35,720
Speaker 1: of them. But we wanted to take the time, since

1162
01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:39,479
Speaker 1: you're here, to ask you because, um, surely you still

1163
01:18:39,520 --> 01:18:42,479
Speaker 1: have some dreams. Well, I'll see, when people get around

1164
01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 1: my age, they don't call them dreams anymore. They call

1165
01:18:45,560 --> 01:18:51,720
Speaker 1: them bucket list. Oh yeah, all right, good bye. See

1166
01:18:51,760 --> 01:18:55,040
Speaker 1: that's the difference what you want to hear them do.

1167
01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:01,919
Speaker 1: That's what at this age you need to start scratching

1168
01:19:01,960 --> 01:19:06,800
Speaker 1: stuff off. You ain't that kind of build that tell

1169
01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 1: us yeah all your building us it done. Yeah, you

1170
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 1: didn't need to get some money out of the bank

1171
01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:16,479
Speaker 1: and gone and going over there and see it all right,

1172
01:19:16,520 --> 01:19:20,639
Speaker 1: So what's on your bucket list? Sister Adell? Thinking about

1173
01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:32,000
Speaker 1: man Lebron James. Now James though, you're just thinking, yeah,

1174
01:19:32,160 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 1: Old Dale James. You know they said it to be

1175
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:41,000
Speaker 1: easy if I married that wide receiver from the Browns,

1176
01:19:41,160 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 1: Old b j. Because then my name is already old

1177
01:19:45,320 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: and then his name junior, Olddell Beckham Junior, and c

1178
01:19:51,160 --> 01:19:56,960
Speaker 1: be just Old Dale. Coming up our last break of

1179
01:19:57,120 --> 01:20:00,160
Speaker 1: the day, and of course some closing remarks from the

1180
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:03,200
Speaker 1: one and only, our fearless leader. He's so smart, we

1181
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:07,200
Speaker 1: love him, Steve Harvey right after this, you're listening to

1182
01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:14,360
Speaker 1: show all right, it's been a good hump day. Huh yeah, yeah,

1183
01:20:14,720 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 1: I think so right, Dirt, Yeah, that's what I was

1184
01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:26,000
Speaker 1: waiting for, a Steve, that's what dirty Where Well, we're

1185
01:20:26,040 --> 01:20:30,280
Speaker 1: on our way to Canco yeah yeah, yeah, And so

1186
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:37,280
Speaker 1: going back to Indian Indiana. Here Coon yeah, yeah, thank you.

1187
01:20:37,560 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 1: I appreciate I need this, man, I see you down there.

1188
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:44,880
Speaker 1: Let's get on out of here so we can get going.

1189
01:20:47,640 --> 01:20:55,320
Speaker 1: Get these steaks going, all right, Steve, Yeah, you know

1190
01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 1: I kind of mentioned it earlier, but you know, just

1191
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:10,000
Speaker 1: as a closer remark, I want to say this, And

1192
01:21:10,200 --> 01:21:11,840
Speaker 1: you know, I've been thinking about this, both of them,

1193
01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 1: John thing for so long, the reaction of social media

1194
01:21:16,640 --> 01:21:20,679
Speaker 1: to this young boy who offer gave this police officer

1195
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 1: for killing his brother and then ask for a hug.

1196
01:21:23,640 --> 01:21:26,080
Speaker 1: And I've read a lot of the things and watched

1197
01:21:26,120 --> 01:21:30,040
Speaker 1: the comments about the judge coming off to stand and

1198
01:21:30,479 --> 01:21:38,960
Speaker 1: hugging this police officer who killed this young man, and everybody,

1199
01:21:39,520 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 1: I mean, man, everybody's upset about this, and it seems

1200
01:21:44,560 --> 01:21:48,400
Speaker 1: like but you know, I just wanted to say this,

1201
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:51,920
Speaker 1: and let me tell you something, Man, if you want

1202
01:21:51,920 --> 01:21:55,760
Speaker 1: to be upset about it, I understand. If you're a

1203
01:21:55,840 --> 01:22:00,120
Speaker 1: person who couldn't hug somebody who killed your brother, I

1204
01:22:00,360 --> 01:22:03,800
Speaker 1: understand I do, because I don't. I don't even know

1205
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:08,200
Speaker 1: that I would have that in me. I know at

1206
01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:11,800
Speaker 1: that particular moment I probably wouldn't, but the fact that

1207
01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:14,080
Speaker 1: I didn't have it in me don't mean that that

1208
01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 1: young man can't have it in him. And as we

1209
01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:19,439
Speaker 1: were talking the other day, and I kept listening to

1210
01:22:19,479 --> 01:22:21,760
Speaker 1: a lot of men say you're a better man than me.

1211
01:22:22,680 --> 01:22:24,519
Speaker 1: And the dude that said it was forty eight and

1212
01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:26,559
Speaker 1: wanted to do said it was thirty, and another dude

1213
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:28,760
Speaker 1: said it was fifty. And I'm sitting up here at

1214
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:31,920
Speaker 1: sixty two and I'm listening to everybody talk about, well,

1215
01:22:31,960 --> 01:22:34,160
Speaker 1: he's a better man than me. And that made me

1216
01:22:34,240 --> 01:22:41,280
Speaker 1: start to think, Wow, at eighteen, he's already a better

1217
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:46,840
Speaker 1: man than us. Man, what have we been doing wrong?

1218
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:51,080
Speaker 1: And I just started thinking about that. But the outcry

1219
01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 1: of hatred and the social media that's going towards this judge,

1220
01:22:56,640 --> 01:22:59,720
Speaker 1: it just caused me to think about this thing again. Man,

1221
01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 1: our world is so filled with hatred. Now. This is

1222
01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 1: probably the most hateful this world has ever been. I know,

1223
01:23:09,640 --> 01:23:12,120
Speaker 1: it's the most one of the most hateful times I've

1224
01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 1: lived in, even though at times for blacks weren't great.

1225
01:23:15,520 --> 01:23:18,960
Speaker 1: When I was a kid, I was sheltered from it

1226
01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:21,679
Speaker 1: to a degree. You know, I saw it on TV.

1227
01:23:21,840 --> 01:23:24,439
Speaker 1: I knew my parents were sitting in at lunch counters

1228
01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:27,880
Speaker 1: and my brothers was nationalists and panthers, and you know,

1229
01:23:28,000 --> 01:23:30,760
Speaker 1: I was feeling some kind of way, especially when they

1230
01:23:30,880 --> 01:23:34,840
Speaker 1: killed doctor King, and I started feeling a disappointment and

1231
01:23:34,920 --> 01:23:37,519
Speaker 1: a dislike for people who didn't like us, and where

1232
01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:42,599
Speaker 1: everybody went through that. But this is the most hateful, outward,

1233
01:23:42,720 --> 01:23:46,800
Speaker 1: hateful time and for us as black people, we've seen

1234
01:23:46,920 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 1: many of these years. I don't know which is worse,

1235
01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:52,360
Speaker 1: you know, because slavery was definitely one of the greatest

1236
01:23:52,400 --> 01:23:57,479
Speaker 1: atrocities ever perpetrated against a human group of people. Ever,

1237
01:23:57,880 --> 01:24:01,240
Speaker 1: that's not to knock any other trocity because the Holocaust

1238
01:24:01,680 --> 01:24:05,920
Speaker 1: was certainly right there, and I'm pretty sure the Asian

1239
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:09,920
Speaker 1: Americans feel the same way about being in the encamped

1240
01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:13,160
Speaker 1: in prisons also doing the war. So I'm not comparing it.

1241
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:17,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying slavery was vicious. Now we live in

1242
01:24:17,400 --> 01:24:21,080
Speaker 1: a very hateful time today, and it's so hateful that

1243
01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:26,719
Speaker 1: and we've accepted the hatred as normal to the point

1244
01:24:26,880 --> 01:24:31,919
Speaker 1: everybody where if anybody does anything kind, if somebody hugs somebody,

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Speaker 1: if somebody forgives somebody, if somebody gives somebody a Bible,

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Speaker 1: if somebody tells them they love them, guess what that's

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Speaker 1: not the norm anymore, and it's actually frowned upon. You

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Speaker 1: actually get hated on for doing something that's an act

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Speaker 1: of love. Now, what this young man did. It shocked

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Speaker 1: the courtroom. There were people crying in that court. The

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Speaker 1: judge was crying. He was crying. She was. But man,

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Speaker 1: he forgave her. Whether he forgave her at the trial,

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Speaker 1: if he gave her ten years later, he did it

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Speaker 1: that day. He was a better man than most of us.

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Speaker 1: We all keep saying that. So let's give him credit

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Speaker 1: for being a better man. What's the hate for? What's

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Speaker 1: the hate of the judge? For the sentence had already

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Speaker 1: been passed down. The jury came back and gave her

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Speaker 1: the years. The judge stepped out the thing hooked and

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Speaker 1: gave her a Bible and told her that she has

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Speaker 1: a chance to make something out of her life. That

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Speaker 1: woman said, you still think I could make something out

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Speaker 1: of my life? Do you know that this woman is

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Speaker 1: going to prison as a police officer. You know what's

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Speaker 1: fitting to happen to this girl. It ain't no way

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Speaker 1: around that. That's the rules of prison. This girl friend

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Speaker 1: to pay. And the fact that you don't know what's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen, and you want her to pay with more

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Speaker 1: years and all that. It ain't really up to us

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Speaker 1: all the time, y'all. We have got to start treating

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Speaker 1: we have got to stop treating acts of kindness, love,

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Speaker 1: and forgiveness like it'sn't like it's something evil, like it's

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Speaker 1: something wrong, the very thing we should be applauding. It's

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Speaker 1: the thing that we've now grown to hate kindness, love,

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Speaker 1: and forgiveness. It's supposed to be the other way around.

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Speaker 1: It really is. Just think about that, y'all, because I've

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Speaker 1: been forced to think about it since I said he's

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Speaker 1: a better man than me, And how he got to

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Speaker 1: be a better man than me at eighteen and I'm

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Speaker 1: sixty two kind of threw me a little bit. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna just be real with you. Those are my closing remarks. Yep,

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Speaker 1: drop it, baby dropping like yeah say that. Yeah, y'all

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Speaker 1: have a good kids. Think I'm not. Yeah, see all

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Speaker 1: your golf scores when you get back. You understand me, sir.

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Speaker 1: We gotta man put put ease. Everybody hit the balls.

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