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Speaker 1: You got to get away from poor people so you

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Speaker 2: They say you are the product of the five people

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Speaker 1: And if I hang out with you, what can you

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Speaker 1: give me? Nothing? Love? Gross, support, ick, invest in me more.

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Speaker 1: I need to grow my wealth right family. My family

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Speaker 1: our last remaining parent. We were both devastated, but regardless,

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Speaker 1: all the logistics needed to be worked out. Our parents

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Speaker 1: It's yeah. It was the pressure maybe you know my

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Speaker 1: is where the problem starts. I am gay. I don't

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Speaker 1: We'll see why. I don't think that's fine, but I

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Speaker 1: kids under eleven. My sister said, since it's highly unlikely

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Speaker 1: me my children, for the children. Why does she need

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Speaker 1: why does she need that much? Anyway? Five hundred grand

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Speaker 1: That yeah, so like the adults, right, the adults, there's

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Speaker 1: How am I supposed to? Uh? How is my kids

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Speaker 1: Let's see what yearly to your year? All right? They

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Speaker 1: pull up? Pull up yearly tuition? So a million one

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Speaker 1: point is your eight million? So far USC sixty one grand?

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Speaker 2: That's ridiculous. Nop does not need to give anything to

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Speaker 1: Instead, oh boy, instead of using her own money to

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Speaker 2: We'll take it up with them then yeah, yeah, get

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Speaker 2: It's like, is is whatever money they're asking for worth

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Speaker 1: What's the literally what's the dollar value? What is the number?

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Speaker 2: what kind of family member is going to cut you

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Speaker 1: Keep money that your parents wanted you to have. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: But I think it's up to you, Op, you're not

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Speaker 2: I don't know what would you do an OP situation?

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Speaker 2: Would you go no contact? Would you stop talking to

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Speaker 1: Sure? Would you just put your fit firmly down let

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Speaker 1: us know, and I'd also love any crazy siblings stories.

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Speaker 1: gonna get into the next one. Am I the asshole

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you heard it, You're the asshole? Story done,

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Speaker 2: just right into it. I twenty four, got pregnant while

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Speaker 1: That means impregnant? Yeah, impregnation city, yep, impregnation nation, impregnation.

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Speaker 2: I met an older guy, nothing gross. I was nineteen,

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Speaker 2: he was twenty three. We had fun. I was working

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Speaker 2: to love him. They had provided gifts for his birthday

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Speaker 1: Interesting. That's that's an interesting plot twist. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 2: Three months ago, my son's father passed away. Oh my gosh, no,

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Speaker 2: this sucks. He got drunk at his bachelor party, tripped

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Speaker 1: So why are you laughing? Goodness?

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Speaker 2: the sidewalk.

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Speaker 1: It's so lame, and here we are riding around scooters

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Speaker 2: My son and I attended the funeral. We spent a

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Speaker 2: They approached me with an offer. They had no other

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Speaker 2: we had lots of time to provide them legitimate kids.

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Speaker 2: They did not say this, I'm just assuming so they

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Speaker 2: never thought about my son's name. They said, if I

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Speaker 2: their primary heir. It's like they would make that son

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Speaker 1: WHOA, this could be big.

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Speaker 2: I think this is dumb. He is their only grandchild

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Speaker 2: and they would deny him an inheritance because of his

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Speaker 2: with him as a beneficiary, no kidding, So the k

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Speaker 1: Right, and I guess Wow, he as well.

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Speaker 2: Damn I said, would it be nice for my kid

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Do I want him to have the surname of a

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: I've been talking to my family about it, and a

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Speaker 2: but young enough not to be tied professionally to his

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Speaker 2: last name. So is OP the a hole for doing

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: I have some thoughts. I want to know what all

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Speaker 1: This is a really like hairline splitter because basically your

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Speaker 2: So, I think the the I mean it is, I

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Speaker 1: So oh, that was the stipulation, like once you're sixteen

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Speaker 2: It's like, hey, wait for him to be sixteen and

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Speaker 2: But the thing is if the parents die before that time,

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Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit of an asshole move

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Speaker 2: I think it's an asshole move for the parents to

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Speaker 1: One hundred percent. Yeah, the grandparents are the assholes here, right.

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Speaker 2: But I also think it's an asshole move on a

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Speaker 2: because like that's it's like crazy money that would, like

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's I don't Yeah, you're right. I think you're right. Like,

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Speaker 1: it's just the the amount that it could change and

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Speaker 1: the rewards? The cost is like nothing, it's a name.

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Speaker 1: It's it's not much. I like I now think about

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Speaker 1: just like twenty grand or something. I'm like, okay, whatever, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but if it's generational wealth, I totally think that it

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Speaker 1: I think you're right. I mean, ultimately, you know, you're right.

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Speaker 1: Anything can happen. It's not the worst setup ever, because

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Speaker 2: I mean, like how old is the kid right now?

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Speaker 1: That's another ten years. The parents could die in ten.

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Speaker 2: Years, dude, that's true. Like no, I hope not, but

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Speaker 2: My parents are just we're getting around sixty. My dad

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Speaker 1: Sixty ishty nine something like that. Anyway, I could do

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Speaker 2: But like, yeah, I think like kind of any whole move,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. And the thing is like you

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Speaker 2: Again, Like I think the main thing it's worth it true?

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Speaker 1: Is it like uh Barsendorf or something like that? Is

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Speaker 2: Like like sorry to all the doorful puke like.

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Speaker 1: Some like I feel like you're just hating all these

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