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Speaker 1: What's up and slip service. I'm Angela Yee, I'm Jiji.

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Speaker 2: Maguire, I'm Laura Mura, I'm Jordan Manuel.

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Speaker 3: And dovelin' wodfield.

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Speaker 4: Me.

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Speaker 1: This is not a time field us, y'all. Yes, well,

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Speaker 1: first of all, live with Field. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for joining. Honestly, this is very iconic for us to

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Speaker 1: have you here. So we're going to be respectful, but

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Speaker 1: we're still gonna get all in your business.

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Speaker 3: I know, I don't trust, very respectful. Trusted. We're gonna see,

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Speaker 3: she said.

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Speaker 1: I know where I'm at, but I know you can

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Speaker 1: handle it, you know, just from watching you on the screen.

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Speaker 1: One thing that we want to start with, and this

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Speaker 1: is a little icebreaker for us, just for us to

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Speaker 1: tell a little bit about ourselves, is a time that

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Speaker 1: we have brandied, okay, and so a situation in our life,

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Speaker 1: just like Brandy from a thin Line, where we've been brandying. Now, Jordan,

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Speaker 1: I know first, okay, No, I gotta think about that.

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Speaker 1: What about you, gg what's some crazy?

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Speaker 5: The first thing that comes to mind is when I

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Speaker 5: knocked the hookah over on the table and the coles

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Speaker 5: went flying onto people.

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Speaker 1: It was that for one of your parties.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, I feel like somebody like really upset you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, ask her about it.

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Speaker 3: You did it. I knocked it and I intentionally knocked

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Speaker 3: over the You intentionally did it.

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Speaker 5: I pushed it over and it was like a long

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Speaker 5: table full of people and the hookah was at the end,

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Speaker 5: and I like pushed it down the table like bowling,

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Speaker 5: like a bowling ball, just knocking everything over.

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Speaker 1: And I'm coulda set a fire. It could have hurt people.

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Speaker 5: It was very bad. So if you had it to

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Speaker 5: do over again, would you do I would not do

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Speaker 5: it again.

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Speaker 3: You would not do it. You know there are people

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Speaker 3: that did that. You would not do it again.

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Speaker 5: There are literally people that hate my stinking guts because

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Speaker 5: I did that. Oh really Yeah, somebody got burned and

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Speaker 5: she hates me forever. Oh I'm sorry you burned somebody that.

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Speaker 1: Oh they're finding out new things. That was yes, all right, okay, okay, Laura,

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Speaker 1: the time you've brandied, I keep the escalator. Come on,

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Speaker 1: wait what you're stolen?

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Speaker 2: Say?

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Speaker 1: Kept it? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Yep?

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Speaker 6: Right at the game on the spot he was at

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Speaker 6: with the other girl, whoa.

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Speaker 1: Some people may make you pay for that.

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Speaker 6: Oh he knew not to okay, like key, I ran

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Speaker 6: after and he knew it was He knew it.

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Speaker 1: Was me, okay, And what did he say after that?

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Speaker 2: Why would you do that? I told you I wasn't

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Speaker 2: with nobody else. I was like, yeah, whatever, just go

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Speaker 2: get it fixed.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he deserved it all right.

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Speaker 7: Mine still doesn't know that this happened.

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Speaker 1: But I guess.

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Speaker 7: I guess this is or doesn't know it was me,

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Speaker 7: So I don't know if I want to blow up

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Speaker 7: my spy.

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 7: Ever, there was an egging situation, the egging situation, same guy, okay,

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Speaker 7: but there was an egging moment with all the cars,

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Speaker 7: and unfortunately my homegirl, who also had an ex at

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Speaker 7: the same.

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Speaker 1: Party, got the blame of it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but they knew I was there, so you know,

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Speaker 7: I claim my business. But yeah, but the other one.

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Speaker 1: Is sorry, let me see what did I do? I've

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Speaker 1: done like little things one time. I'm definitely the type

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Speaker 1: of person. I found out my boyfriend was cheating on

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Speaker 1: me and I the girl he was cheating with was

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Speaker 1: engaged to somebody, and I sent all the the proof

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Speaker 1: to her, the proof to the fiance via Facebook. Sure,

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Speaker 1: that's just journalism. Yeah, that's journalism.

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Speaker 6: They did.

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Speaker 1: They actually did end up still getting married, but I'm

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Speaker 1: sure he probably felt away. Still, Yes, you know what

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Speaker 1: about you in real life?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, Well see that's the great thing about being

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Speaker 4: an access I can act out and not get put

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Speaker 1: But listen, that's not illegal. But is there a time

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Speaker 1: you have gone crazy in a relationship? I mean, you've

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Speaker 1: been in this business since a young, young, young age, yes,

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Speaker 1: and you've seen a lot.

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Speaker 4: And well, here's the thing I wouldn't say over. I'm

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Speaker 4: not a vindictive person. I'm just more I used to

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Speaker 4: be just more emotional. If it came up, it came

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Speaker 3: And so it wasn't just with a guy.

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Speaker 4: Usually I wouldn't make a guy feel that he was

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Speaker 4: important enough for me to like you really like that really,

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Speaker 4: But it's through a lot of psychologies, you know, working

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Speaker 4: through things, because all that comes from rage.

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Speaker 3: Because when we do stuff like that, it's not even.

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Speaker 4: That we're that mad, we're that hurt where that hurt

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Speaker 4: and the hurt turns to like the anger thing and

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Speaker 4: rage and then we have a tantrum.

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Speaker 3: Right, So I used to have tantrums. I mean, you know, okay,

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Speaker 3: I have turned over a few tables.

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Speaker 4: I mean no, but that happens to be really, you know,

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Speaker 4: easy because you don't even have to, like you just.

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Speaker 6: It wasn't a table, and it just yeah, look, I'm

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Speaker 6: not gonna feel a muscle trying to get.

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Speaker 3: Mad as some fuck. You know, you can just tip

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Speaker 3: it in. It's gone. So but that was really really a.

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Speaker 4: Lot younger, because I find that it takes more well

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Speaker 4: what do you all think? I feel like that kind

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Speaker 4: of rage and anger it takes more away from.

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Speaker 3: You than it gives to you. Yes, you know, it

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Speaker 3: might feel good in that moment.

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Speaker 5: In that moment, but the repercussings and consequences never feel good.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a younger.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was twenty one.

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Speaker 1: As you get older, you're not supposed to twenty Yeah she.

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Speaker 3: Was twenty one. Don't be scared of anybody who like

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Speaker 3: has an eye on her. Now she would I would never.

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Speaker 6: Do that now, Like, yeah, it was too many cameras.

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Speaker 6: I'll go home and cry, just cry about it everyone.

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Speaker 3: Might you know my phrase? No, next, just that part's

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Speaker 3: all move on?

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Speaker 5: Like why what our feelings get involved? Because you know,

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Speaker 5: you can't feel anger and rage without having having had

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Speaker 5: filt some type of love right, well exactly so, but

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Speaker 5: that's between love and hay is it was.

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Speaker 4: It's a saying for years and years and years and

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Speaker 4: years and years a song. It's a song and they

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Speaker 4: even made a song about it because it's passion. So

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Speaker 4: when you feel passionate about someone, it can't even be

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Speaker 3: Friend or a friend.

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Speaker 4: When you know you love it that that is the

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Speaker 4: person who can push you off the.

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Speaker 1: Most heart the word really really really, so it's passion,

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Speaker 4: So one first, I think we can celebrate that we're

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Speaker 4: deeply feeling people, and then I think it's like, okay,

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Speaker 4: what are you really going to do with.

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Speaker 3: This if it's not quite how you want it to be?

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Speaker 4: And how you know, how you're going to manage that

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Speaker 4: part because it's not so much the thing, but how

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Speaker 1: I feel like, and tell me, if you think this

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Speaker 1: is true, you feel like you've been destined for this

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Speaker 4: I think some people are lucky enough that you get

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Speaker 4: your purpose gets deposited in your spirit. And I just

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Speaker 4: kind of always knew because I was watching those movies

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Speaker 4: would make me cry.

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Speaker 3: They would make me laugh.

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Speaker 4: I could go through a whole range of life experience,

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Speaker 4: you know, and I just always knew that this is

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Speaker 3: But then I studied it, you know, at Howard and

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Speaker 3: then with other.

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Speaker 4: I know I do, but but you know, yeah, it's

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Speaker 4: a blessing when you kind of know what you want

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Speaker 4: to do early on.

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Speaker 1: Now this is a real uncensored because we've seen your

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Speaker 1: TV one uncensored. Yes, but this is a different type

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Speaker 3: Yes.

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Speaker 1: How is it in relationships turning on and off? You know,

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Speaker 1: the acting? Because sometimes people think that you could be

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Speaker 1: acting when you're in a relationship with them, and maybe

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Speaker 1: sometimes you kind of are like, how does that work

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Speaker 1: for you?

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Speaker 4: No, I wish that I could act in relationships. I

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Speaker 4: wish that I was that person, the contrivant, you know,

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Speaker 4: to be kind of to act out in a relationship

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not good at it.

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Speaker 4: If we hung out and we found out a few times, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I kind of like need the truth in my world,

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Speaker 4: and I think that's the kind of acting that I do.

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Speaker 4: I think it comes from an honest place. But I

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Speaker 4: you know, I don't know I should just before because

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Speaker 3: So people believe it, so you know, they believe it.

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Speaker 4: But the thing is is that the acting part right,

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Speaker 4: part of the work of acting, and it's not just

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Speaker 4: and there's a lot of perks that come along with it.

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Speaker 4: But I take it as a responsibility, like in a

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Speaker 4: seriously when you're presenting truths about people. Because if I'm representing,

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Speaker 4: us so, well, well that's a you know, that's something

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Speaker 4: we're to be taken seriously and we are to be

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Speaker 4: job to shed some light on it, you know, whether

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Speaker 4: truth of who we are, So I can't sell it

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Speaker 4: out just to be cute and kind of be acting,

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Speaker 4: you know.

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Speaker 1: Trust like you know in relationships. But I will say, well.

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Speaker 3: Back to that, no, people a lot of that meant.

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Speaker 3: But that would be an insecure.

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Speaker 2: Like is she like they'd be like, is she really

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Speaker 2: enjoying us?

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Speaker 4: Well, that's you don't know, if right, If you don't know,

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Speaker 4: if you're not more incommings screaming a little too, you're

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Speaker 4: not more in command of yourself. If you can't know

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Speaker 4: who you are and what you can do and what

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Speaker 4: you're capable of man how to do what you do,

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Speaker 4: then what can I do about that?

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Speaker 3: I can't, you know.

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Speaker 1: I have love limit Field for a long time now

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Speaker 1: playing Josephine Baker. Also, my grandmother's name is Josephine. Oh,

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Speaker 1: so I've always felt like that connection. So I love

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Speaker 4: And then when it gets down to I mean, okay,

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Speaker 1: So so that, yeah, people assume that you're rich too, always,

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Speaker 3: There are I do I do, you know, I love that.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Not a bad thing. Though it's not bad.

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Speaker 6: You have a rich look and yeah, like everything about

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Speaker 3: I guess so, but that's not how I see it.

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Speaker 4: I don't see well I do. Here's what I do know.

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Speaker 4: And I really don't need to give a lot of

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Speaker 4: might see me encouraging people to vote. You see me

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Speaker 4: Well, I think the people who loved me, the women

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Speaker 4: All those people there she helped to shape me because

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Speaker 4: And so the black world that I grew up in,

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Speaker 3: So that's baton rouge. That's where I was. But now

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Speaker 1: In New Orleans amazing. Grace getson shout out to you.

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Speaker 4: Yes, it was just at the Apollo Cafe last weekend,

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Speaker 1: Now she's a singer, she's amazing. I was embarrassed. Tell

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Speaker 4: What she said, so sweet, it's New Orleans.

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Speaker 3: It's New Orleans, right, you get drunk, drunk and eat.

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Speaker 1: That's it, so you said, but New Orleans.

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Speaker 3: Well New Orleans.

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Speaker 4: I have this real cultural connection with New Orleans because

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Speaker 4: cultural judgment. Like people's cultures are respected there. Okay, even

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Speaker 3: To the family.

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Speaker 1: You know what amazing place. It's very magical, Yes it is.

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Speaker 4: You know, I can't imagine not having it. It fuels

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Speaker 1: And exciting to have a daughter who is a musician also.

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Speaker 4: So talented, and I am so glad and so founded

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Speaker 3: It was very we.

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Speaker 1: See Grace.

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Speaker 4: Yes, well, I think she has some dates coming up

444
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 4: here in New York.

445
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 3: You know, we're gonna plan something.

446
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 1: I would love to.

447
00:22:58,480 --> 00:23:00,000
Speaker 3: Think it is so like not.

448
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 4: The sweet, how sweet and who she is no, she's

449
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 4: it's a whole.

450
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:06,439
Speaker 3: Difference to get it from her.

451
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: Mama.

452
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 4: Know, you got say you got to stand at the

453
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 4: center of yourself when you're doing your art.

454
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 3: I mean, like if you're not coming from.

455
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 4: Day and below the gun and below is where all

456
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 4: the power is, and you got to use that in

457
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 4: your art.

458
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: What was it like for you having a daughter while

459
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 1: you were in this business, like when you know, thinking

460
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,240
Speaker 1: about like when you were married and then finding out

461
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 1: that you were having a baby and then having a girl.

462
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: What was that like?

463
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:38,520
Speaker 4: First of all, when I found out I was having

464
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:39,800
Speaker 4: a girl, I cried.

465
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 3: Really I.

466
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:46,919
Speaker 4: Boo hooed so hard. You seem like I was having

467
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 4: my makeup.

468
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 3: I am a good mom, but.

469
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: That's a girl mom. I see you with a girl

470
00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:52,160
Speaker 1: and a girl.

471
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 3: Or a girl moa.

472
00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:57,360
Speaker 4: But a makeup artist is doing my makeup. And the doctor.

473
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 3: Said, when we have the results.

474
00:23:59,040 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 4: The doctor was say, okay, back then, that's what they

475
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 4: would they would tell you, this is you're having a girl.

476
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:11,360
Speaker 2: My god, I have to grow up.

477
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 4: It was bad because if it was a son of son,

478
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:20,240
Speaker 4: it's always gonna.

479
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:20,679
Speaker 3: You know what I mean.

480
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,399
Speaker 1: I thought it would be like that would be easy.

481
00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 4: I would have to, you know, and those little girls

482
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,000
Speaker 4: would be getting on his nerves, but Mama would always be.

483
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:31,439
Speaker 4: But before I really took it seriously, and I was

484
00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 4: in mourning for the first bit of time because I

485
00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 4: would have to be a better, stronger woman. And I

486
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,280
Speaker 4: just love being a little girl in a sandbox, acting

487
00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:45,120
Speaker 4: and telling stories and not having to, you.

488
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:45,719
Speaker 3: Know, grow up.

489
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,080
Speaker 5: Yes, I have a daughter, and you just I've never

490
00:24:49,119 --> 00:24:50,560
Speaker 5: thought about that. I mean, I heard it when I

491
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,879
Speaker 5: was seventeen, so I was still growing up as but

492
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 5: like that just gives me a whole different perspective of

493
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 5: like the dynamic of being a girl mom. But you do,

494
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 5: and then we're both like she's grown, we're both grown.

495
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 5: Now that she's grown.

496
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 6: It's just like, yeah, but even you did an amazing

497
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 6: job with your daughter.

498
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:08,360
Speaker 1: I think your daughter is amazing. I think you are amazed.

499
00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: Like I was thinking.

500
00:25:10,000 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 6: So, I have two boys, and I've always said I

501
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:14,360
Speaker 6: wanted a girl. But I'm like, God knows what he does,

502
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 6: and he does. Everything happens for a reason for purpose,

503
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 6: and God gives you what's for you and what he

504
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,919
Speaker 6: knows you can handle. Because baby girl at sixteen, me

505
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,119
Speaker 6: with no mother, no auntie, No, none of that, and

506
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 6: a girl that would have been and even my second child,

507
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:29,400
Speaker 6: I thought it was a girl in the style.

508
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 2: I was like, I get a guy.

509
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:30,880
Speaker 3: We ain't ready.

510
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 2: But now at forty, I'm like, I'm.

511
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 1: Ready for a girl.

512
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 2: Now, girl, I know what to tell you.

513
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 4: Yes, well you better hurry up, darling taking that baby.

514
00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 6: My friend is having a girl and I told her,

515
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 6: I said, don't worry, I'll be the pabby. It's not

516
00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 6: coming from this side. But I just feel like you

517
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 6: look so like you know what I say. I said,

518
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 6: God blessed me with youth because from the age of

519
00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 6: sixteen I had to be a full grown adult with

520
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 6: no adults support, like on my own figure it out.

521
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 2: So I dugged it out. I said, God, you're giving

522
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 2: me this.

523
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 6: You're gonna get me through this, And he's really repaying

524
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 6: me back with everything I ever wanted. You see everything

525
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 6: I ever wanted, like all the fear and all of that.

526
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:20,919
Speaker 6: Like I'm to a place now at forty where I'm like,

527
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 6: what are you scared for? Like you you you just

528
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 6: handled the toughest job that a female could be handled

529
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 6: at a young agen and it's a job right and

530
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 6: like you did it, and look where I'm at now.

531
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 6: I've never had to do anything that I regret. To

532
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:42,720
Speaker 6: make sure my sons were taken care of. Money financing crazy,

533
00:26:42,760 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 6: but I have ethical and just integrity and just a

534
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 6: good person. And my boys are everything I raised amazing.

535
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: I raised amazing.

536
00:26:55,520 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 6: They're sensitive, they're emotional, they're strong, they're protectors, all of that.

537
00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 6: I don't think at that age, with everything going on,

538
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 6: I would have been.

539
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: Able to give that to her. You gave it to

540
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: I gave different.

541
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,639
Speaker 6: So everybody gets because, like I said, her daughter, I

542
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 6: think her daughter is amazing, you know, thank you. And

543
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:16,879
Speaker 6: the way she's speaking about your daughter is amazing. So

544
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:19,360
Speaker 6: you got yes.

545
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,200
Speaker 1: Lay, you're also the only person in here who's ever

546
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: been married. Oh yeah, just one time?

547
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 3: By two times? Yes? What are you?

548
00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: That's not marriage now? Because I feel like people have

549
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,199
Speaker 1: changed as far as like, you know, the like for

550
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:35,399
Speaker 1: you when you first got married and the importance of marriage,

551
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:36,439
Speaker 1: what was that like?

552
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 3: Well, you know, I never really thought about marriage. The

553
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 3: first time I got married. It was to someone twenty

554
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 3: two years older than I was.

555
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 4: He was a director and ran the DC Black Repertory Company,

556
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:54,960
Speaker 4: taught he was my acting teacher.

557
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 3: We I was in Howard University.

558
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 4: My mother found out that I was spending more time

559
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 4: at his house than I spent in my dormitory. And

560
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 4: she called his house one morning, like at six am

561
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 4: in the morning, and I answered, I was like, and

562
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:18,000
Speaker 4: she said, I never as long as I lived and

563
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:23,719
Speaker 4: breathe thought that a Charla mine would be you know

564
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 4: those years and my mom was a Southern Belt but

565
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 4: could always use language like a sailor. And she let

566
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 4: go some expertives that were like and she was so upset.

567
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 4: I think she had a detective I think to know

568
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 4: where I was or something like that. And so that

569
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 4: we I loved Vantau Woodfield that's where Whitfield came from,

570
00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 4: and it was great.

571
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:49,400
Speaker 3: He looked just like my dad.

572
00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 4: Beware when somebody looks like your dad, or when you

573
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 4: find the traits or something that there was something but

574
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 4: and I knew that I wouldn't be But I basically

575
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 4: got married because we loved each other.

576
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 3: And he said, well, we'll just get married.

577
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:08,239
Speaker 4: I don't want, you know, to create this because my

578
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 4: mom was so upset.

579
00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 3: So that was why I'm married.

580
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: So listen, We're going to get this, yes right and

581
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: make it right for mama. Yes, And how long did

582
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: that marriage lands?

583
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 4: About five or six years because after I graduated from

584
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 4: I was still in college and he had an eight

585
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 4: year old son, and I was doing all that landswide

586
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 4: feel and after I graduated, I mean I wanted to

587
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 4: go to New York. He was running the National Endownment

588
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 4: for the Arts for giving money to you know, diverse

589
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 4: grants to people culture. So he was settling down and I.

590
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 3: Was just, oh my god, I gotta go.

591
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:52,080
Speaker 4: I gotta like so we kind of always knew, right,

592
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,680
Speaker 4: So that was the first time.

593
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 3: And I was too young to give any marriage.

594
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 1: What was so what was the proposal?

595
00:29:59,160 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 3: Like?

596
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 4: I was like, no, we'll just get married so that

597
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,920
Speaker 4: they don't want they want to He said, don't worry.

598
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 3: We really we really just.

599
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,080
Speaker 4: Really enjoyed each other's company. He was so kind, he

600
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 4: was so nurturing.

601
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: That's good.

602
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 4: But we did such great, you know work together, the

603
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 4: DC Black Repertory Company.

604
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,680
Speaker 3: So it was it was just a strange kindo. Huh,

605
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: it worked. It did work.

606
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 1: It at the time.

607
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 3: Yes, that was the first time.

608
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: So how hard was it for you to be like, Okay,

609
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:31,400
Speaker 1: this isn't working, Let's get a divorce. Was it just

610
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: a okay, we're cool, we agree.

611
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 3: It's kind of like we understood. He understood that I

612
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,640
Speaker 3: was just spreading my wings, right, and that he was

613
00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:42,200
Speaker 3: settling down because he was twenty two years older.

614
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:43,479
Speaker 1: And if he left you, he wanted you to go

615
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: and to do so.

616
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 4: It was like a very When I look back on it,

617
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 4: I think it was probably the most generous kind of

618
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 4: relationship I've ever experienced.

619
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 3: But I was too young to really appreciate. I just

620
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 3: knew I had to I had so much much to do.

621
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 1: And was he hype when he saw you? In like

622
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: the movie rolls, Oh yes, because it's like this.

623
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:10,200
Speaker 4: Is absolutely absolutely he was so so so you.

624
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 1: Can't go to New York and nothing.

625
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 4: New York for a woman in New York and went

626
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 4: to Australia and ended up in Los Angeles with For

627
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 4: Colored Girls?

628
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 1: Oh yes. And I just saw For Colored Girls on

629
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: Broadway when it was on bro I.

630
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 3: Didn't get to see it, but a lot of the it.

631
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: Came and went so fast. I was very upset about that.

632
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:30,480
Speaker 3: Could I enjoy it?

633
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: I did?

634
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 6: I say, Laura, you came first play? I took her

635
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 6: by first place, so thoroughly enjoyed. We cried the woods. Yes,

636
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 6: the woods was amazing. That were amazing, and the poetry

637
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 6: is so great. It's a story that lives for every cry.

638
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 6: Like I felt, every single was like are you crying?

639
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: It was an emotional day. But when I say that

640
00:31:57,400 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: list forever. A lot of what you've done has lived

641
00:31:59,560 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: for us.

642
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,440
Speaker 4: I always wanted to be involved with class, with something

643
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 4: that would stand the test of time and.

644
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 3: I and I'm very fortunate that there you know, a

645
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 3: few of them.

646
00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: Even think about ease by you.

647
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 6: Everybody on that everyone has gone on to journey Magan.

648
00:32:18,840 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 4: You know, Casey went on to direct Harriet and then

649
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 4: Whitney Houston and all that.

650
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 3: So everybody continued on like.

651
00:32:29,720 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 1: Who did you know that was going to be what

652
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: it was?

653
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 3: I felt like it was really special.

654
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:40,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I felt I was very excited to do

655
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 4: it because I was inspired by my aunt who was married.

656
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: To somebody that was philandering.

657
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:55,320
Speaker 4: Well you know, as I'm not I'm not going to

658
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 4: like go all into it, but my aunt, but but

659
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 4: but but a you know, an obgy and husband and

660
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 4: lots of things. But it was the way that people stay,

661
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 4: that women stay right and women didn't say. And it

662
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 4: was the period of time, you know, and I kept

663
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 4: asking Casey the director, please, she needs one scene where

664
00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 4: she just you know, flips and lays him thin. And

665
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 4: she said, no, no, don't. You'll thank me later when

666
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:32,560
Speaker 4: you see it. Your silence is more powerful. And I

667
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 4: really thought I was gonna have a stroke. It was

668
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 4: just so hard to you know, not, but she was right.

669
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: Think about the power in staying with somebody who was

670
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: doing what he was doing and being silent about it.

671
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: It's kind of like the movie Fences too, the play

672
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: Fences when he done had a whole baby by somebody

673
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 1: else and she was like taking care.

674
00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 4: Of But those were choices that you know, women make choices,

675
00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:01,280
Speaker 4: you know, and what are we to judge if it

676
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 4: works out, because I've actually seen some of those relationships

677
00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 4: that they work, they go and then they're happy that

678
00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 4: they're together, you know, own canes and stuff together. Still,

679
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 4: you know, well, girl, everybody can't.

680
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 3: Push the hoo could.

681
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:23,240
Speaker 6: Don't act like you ain't flip no.

682
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:28,400
Speaker 4: But some people choose, like I'd rather be here than there.

683
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 3: I'm going to make the choice to stick this out.

684
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 3: But you know what, I.

685
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,919
Speaker 1: Do think I think that in the time period too,

686
00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 1: as women are becoming independent with jobs making more than

687
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: our men two. At times we don't feel the necessity

688
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,799
Speaker 1: because sometimes survival wise, yes, you feel.

689
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 4: Like exactly exactly, well, there's that right, you have the

690
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 4: bank account, you have the job, you d have the

691
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 4: degree often or whatever. But some people still choose to

692
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 4: stay and work through it, and some people don't.

693
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: It's a choice. It's a choice because sometimes people act

694
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: like you know, and gave up. If you don't stay,

695
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 1: if you're like I.

696
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,720
Speaker 4: Know, that gott to be a personal choice.

697
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: And that's why I stay out of people's decisions. If

698
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: you ask me what I think, you know, I'm gonna

699
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 1: always be here.

700
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,359
Speaker 4: Almost any time I've ever waited on things like that,

701
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 4: I get myself in trouble.

702
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then they stay together, and then everybody looking

703
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: at you.

704
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 4: And I need to just even if you say, they

705
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,440
Speaker 4: don't go and then it ends up being horrible, you

706
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 4: know what I mean.

707
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 3: It's just I learned just to support.

708
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:41,839
Speaker 2: I hear you, I'm listening, but right right here, right yeah.

709
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,560
Speaker 4: I went to this place where I did all raw

710
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 4: food and detox and you know, colonics, and really it

711
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 4: was as spiritual as it was anything else. And they

712
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,399
Speaker 4: had classes as well, and this one class was called

713
00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 4: compassionate listening.

714
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 3: Like you just don't talk.

715
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 4: You had to hear somebody tell you whatever they wanted

716
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 4: to tell you.

717
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 3: That's hard.

718
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 1: We all went silent when you said that.

719
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 4: But the compassionate listening is listening from your heart but

720
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 4: not talking, not giving any advice, any opinion, nothing.

721
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 3: It was really hard.

722
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 4: It was for everyone but people, and you'd be surprised

723
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 4: at people.

724
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 3: Some people came up with their own answers.

725
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 4: They were so relieved just to get it out that

726
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 4: it didn't hurt us bad anymore, that they just to

727
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 4: have it out and to release compassionate listen. I had

728
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:49,040
Speaker 4: no idea that that was just in August September that

729
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,760
Speaker 4: I went into this, that I experienced.

730
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 1: That, okay, And when at Arizona, where was it?

731
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:58,760
Speaker 4: It's into Ricos in Puerto Rico.

732
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: I would love to do this than like me.

733
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 3: It's called it and Wigmore Institute, and.

734
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 1: That sounds fascinating and it's.

735
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 3: All green and nothing tastes good food medicine just.

736
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 2: That food is but raw food like but not raw meat.

737
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 3: No.

738
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:17,959
Speaker 6: No, yeah, how did you?

739
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:23,759
Speaker 4: But when I came back Grason, my relationship improved. Oh wow, okay,

740
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 4: it was good. But I and if I can maybe

741
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 4: even you remember that.

742
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I would love to do that.

743
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 2: Let's do that guys retreat.

744
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 3: Let's age fourteen days.

745
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:37,920
Speaker 1: That's a long time. I would love to be that

746
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: raw veggies, right, don't'm starving? The experience I think was

747
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: like that, don't care.

748
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 3: Well, I tell you I came back feeling.

749
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 1: Let's talk about this second marriage.

750
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 4: Okay, okay. So the second marriage was to Brian Gibson.

751
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 4: Always do work, by the way, because she works all

752
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 4: the time. So that's you're gonna meet some Well, look,

753
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:02,880
Speaker 4: I'm not on any boards and all that. You know

754
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 4: how people go dating they said, dating sites.

755
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:06,600
Speaker 3: I would be.

756
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 4: Mortified and honestly, but you know, I'm technically a little

757
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,280
Speaker 4: you know, weak, So you know all that like talking

758
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 4: online and all that.

759
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 3: I need to hear a voice. I need to you know,

760
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 3: that's true. So and he directed story. Could not stand him.

761
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 4: I could not stand him because it took six months

762
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 4: for them to decide who the right Josephine Baker would be,

763
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 4: and they passed on me the first time, and because

764
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 4: they were going to Irene Cara was going to be

765
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:41,319
Speaker 4: the young Josephine and Diane Carroll was going to be

766
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 4: the older Josephine, and it was going to be played

767
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 4: by two women. And then I don't know how, after

768
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:51,880
Speaker 4: months they decided that that wasn't and they asked me

769
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,479
Speaker 4: to come back in and do a full tilt screen test.

770
00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 3: That took six months, six hours.

771
00:38:58,239 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 1: I remember you said they had to meet you and

772
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: arrest first.

773
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 4: They had to meet me in a restaurant, because I said,

774
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,839
Speaker 4: I'm not going back in. I have to do this

775
00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 4: on my own terms. I'm not going into their office

776
00:39:09,000 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 4: and sit across and be judged upon. If they want

777
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 4: to meet me, we have to meet in a restaurant

778
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:15,920
Speaker 4: and the table has to be round.

779
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,399
Speaker 3: I can't do it. I cannot do it because I died.

780
00:39:19,760 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 4: I cried myself to sleep so many nights because I

781
00:39:22,200 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 4: believe that I was the right person for I was

782
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,439
Speaker 4: so so sad. And my agent went to bad for that,

783
00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 4: and Reuben Cannon, who was a casting director at the time,

784
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,919
Speaker 4: they worked it through and that's exactly what we did.

785
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 1: That's great that your agent went to bad for you,

786
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: because the agents would have been like, YO are you

787
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 1: bugging like you're crazy. That's good. You must have had

788
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:41,400
Speaker 1: a great agent.

789
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 3: Yes, And it was small.

790
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:47,080
Speaker 4: I was with Susan Smith and Peggy that she just said,

791
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 4: you're right because they saw all the pain I went through,

792
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 4: all the work I went through, you know, producing my

793
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 4: own screen test and all that. So I was the

794
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 4: one and when we did all the prep and then

795
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,399
Speaker 4: we went to Budapest is where we shot.

796
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 3: And we went Budapest for three months, and.

797
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 4: We just gained so much respect for each other, right,

798
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 4: because marriage is right. You want your husband to be

799
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 4: like your protector, right, and he wants you to like

800
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 4: help him realize his dreams. So as actress director, he

801
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 4: protected my performance and I was able to fulfill his

802
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 4: vision of Josephine, and we worked together as such a

803
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:31,080
Speaker 4: beautiful team, and so we fell in love doing that.

804
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 4: But except when you're acting, the director is protecting you

805
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,439
Speaker 4: as an actor, and when he says action, you talk,

806
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 4: and when he says cut, you shut up.

807
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 3: But that doesn't work.

808
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,879
Speaker 4: So once we left bat, we were out of this

809
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:55,360
Speaker 4: bubble of work of yes, of what we were creating,

810
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:59,359
Speaker 4: because it was just such respect and regard. And then

811
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 4: we both came from Oh my god. It was like

812
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 4: Adam and Eve after they bit from the apple. It's like,

813
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 4: oh my god, we feel naked now we don't have

814
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 4: the cover of like a goal. And we were both scared.

815
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 4: But within the first three months he was Buddhist and

816
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 4: he'd be doing that.

817
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:25,959
Speaker 3: Numb your leo is he's saying, and came down from

818
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:28,280
Speaker 3: the from his altar.

819
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 4: I was Christians, was freaking yeah, and he said, there's

820
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 4: a little spirit in the universe that wants to come

821
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:38,280
Speaker 4: in and we should let it.

822
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 3: Baby, I thought it was entrapman. I said, are you crazy?

823
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 4: This is my first big career opportunity and you want

824
00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 4: me to I said, absolutely not.

825
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 3: But that's not how God saw it. And it's so

826
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 3: so we left Budapest.

827
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 4: We got married three months slater I was pregnant. It

828
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 4: was like and then we had Grace and then it

829
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 4: was just all the things and all the fear and

830
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:08,640
Speaker 4: all the stuff.

831
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 3: So before Grace was one year old, we were separated.

832
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:14,240
Speaker 1: Okay, we both want Emmy's.

833
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,320
Speaker 3: We were a Hollywood power couple.

834
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 4: Everybody thought we were so great and so and we

835
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 4: just were too scared.

836
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: Right, Wow, listen, this is all before social media. Interesting

837
00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: because things play out so differently, Like I'm watching them listening,

838
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 1: I can't.

839
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 3: Wait for them.

840
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:40,640
Speaker 4: Then field ain't nobody playing me for a long ass

841
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 4: time hard You can forget that, and that's happening. My

842
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 4: story is the one folding. Guys, I still have so

843
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 4: much to do.

844
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 1: You've done so much that you yes, and the party like,

845
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,719
Speaker 1: what do you want to do something? Tell us? Tell

846
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 1: us manifestation.

847
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 4: I want to do a really hardcore thriller. Okay, not

848
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 4: a comedy.

849
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 3: Thriller, but a real thriller.

850
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,800
Speaker 1: I can definitely see you do that.

851
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 3: My favorite.

852
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: Would you want to be the killer or the killed

853
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 1: if you had a choice.

854
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 3: In the or the detective? Maybe both? Oh no, not

855
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 3: the detective. And I want to be in it. Yeah,

856
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:24,799
Speaker 3: I can for you in it.

857
00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 4: And I want to do some kind of sci fi

858
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 4: sci fi extra terrestial kind of okay, you know, intergalactic alien.

859
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 1: Can see it.

860
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 4: I can see it.

861
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 3: Yes, I would love that. I want to play them, Adam, Yes,

862
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 3: I love.

863
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 4: I because I think that there were certain times in

864
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 4: history when women didn't have any options. You couldn't go

865
00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 4: to school, you couldn't have a bank account, you couldn't vote,

866
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 4: you couldn't, you know, either to work.

867
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,720
Speaker 1: For somebody else that's why they stayed in their relationships.

868
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, or work for yourself. And one of the ways

869
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 3: you could work for yourself is that.

870
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 4: So I wanted how women use this sexual prowess is

871
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:13,720
Speaker 4: in exchange for their freedom, some kind of something interesting,

872
00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 4: a means of survival, right, because it wasn't always now

873
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,720
Speaker 4: where they're actually real hard choices.

874
00:44:20,080 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 3: So I want to play amandam. I can see I've passed.

875
00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 3: I passed the sex worker face. It would be I

876
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 3: don't know Land with Phild I think, well, I don't know.

877
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: The Magic City well, and I do want to say,

878
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,680
Speaker 1: because even your role on the Shy, you have that

879
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: type of power, you know, as like the dawn, the

880
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 1: you know, the boss take care of it.

881
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,200
Speaker 4: You know, sometimes people kind of fall into a place

882
00:44:55,280 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 4: of power. And so Alicia, you know, her brother was

883
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 4: the one, was really the one, and she was doing

884
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 4: all this, but he's gone.

885
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:09,759
Speaker 3: You know, and Rob is you know poor. Don't talk

886
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 3: about myself.

887
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 6: I need you to be a nice trying to be

888
00:45:13,800 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 6: a good boy. No, I love That's what I don't

889
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 6: want you're talking about it.

890
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,840
Speaker 3: I love him. Yeah, she just wants him.

891
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: To be and be strongest family. And it's one thing

892
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:27,080
Speaker 1: that a.

893
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 4: Parent never wants to think that they might leave this

894
00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:32,319
Speaker 4: earth and that shall not be strong enough to handle it.

895
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 1: In the process.

896
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 3: That's real.

897
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: You got him shot. That's freaking I was so mad.

898
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 3: I am so damn it. You know, I have to

899
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:47,239
Speaker 3: just be in it. I can't judge. But you know,

900
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 3: when she's over that bed, you know who she feels.

901
00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: You could see her it's it's about to go down.

902
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,520
Speaker 3: So that's what I'm saying. You fall into it because

903
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 3: he could have done three more days. Lord, three more days,

904
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 3: didn't do it, so that meant that put it back

905
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:04,000
Speaker 3: on her, yeah, to do.

906
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 4: So sometimes you fall into having to be and I'm

907
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 4: nervous you are and I can't wait.

908
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:14,560
Speaker 1: Well, you fell into it, but you were ready ready,

909
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: you know, And that's why you always gotta stay ready,

910
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: so you ain't got to get ready as they say, right, yes,

911
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 1: because it's kind of like you know, fate and destiny

912
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: is balls into your lap because it was meant to be.

913
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,920
Speaker 4: Yes, yes like that and things like that. I mean,

914
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 4: you know, Alicien them they kind of on the dark side.

915
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 3: But it all through life. Stay ready for the good,

916
00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 3: for the bad, for the gifts.

917
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 2: Well, I think Victor is going to do it or

918
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:43,880
Speaker 2: Alicia do.

919
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: What off with?

920
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 3: Oh goodness, you know you're just jumping.

921
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:52,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, trying to make some predictions, trying to figure it out,

922
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: you know the way they work over there.

923
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 3: You know, I don't even know the spread.

924
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,320
Speaker 1: Would y'all be sad to see do to go? Because

925
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 1: sometimes I'm not gonna be sad. Sometimes we like the

926
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 1: bad guy in the show, Well.

927
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm sad to see anybody go. But Douda

928
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 2: is a mother fudger.

929
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:10,760
Speaker 1: But it's all. It also makes it interesting.

930
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 6: It does because he does have a so every story

931
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 6: is a product of his life, but he has his

932
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 6: loyalty is to himself and what he wants. At the

933
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 6: end of the day, no matter what his feelings are

934
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 6: for anybody around him, he is focused on what it

935
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 6: is that he wants.

936
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 2: Anything that he can do to get to that, He's

937
00:47:32,760 --> 00:47:33,560
Speaker 2: gonna get to it.

938
00:47:34,040 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 6: But as people like that message, family and baby, whether

939
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 6: I or someone is gonna happen.

940
00:47:40,480 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 4: But she's not gonna give you this, you know, right,

941
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 4: You know you shoot all kinds of you don't know

942
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:54,160
Speaker 4: what's gonna make it. You don't know what, you know,

943
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,440
Speaker 4: we all gonna watch it together, but you know I'm

944
00:47:57,440 --> 00:47:59,799
Speaker 4: gonna be ready for whichever one, whatever it.

945
00:47:59,920 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: Is, whatever it is now, I told you about the

946
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:07,279
Speaker 1: Josephine Baker connection, but also Lady May right, May is

947
00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:11,120
Speaker 1: my meddle name, and May like that. Really yeah it is,

948
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 1: so I just you know, I just feel like this connection.

949
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,319
Speaker 3: But the few times that we've just hung in the world,

950
00:48:18,280 --> 00:48:19,240
Speaker 3: I feel a connection.

951
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, when I tell you, I was first of all,

952
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:23,960
Speaker 1: this is crazy to me, but I love it. So

953
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 1: tell Grace you know we're sisters now, just so she knows. Now,

954
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: I want to make sure you understand everybody who's in here.

955
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 1: So Ggi has a lot of amazing things happening, and

956
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: she is also narrating the Magic City documentary docuseries and

957
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: they got picked up by a major network by the way,

958
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: So she was in Atlanta.

959
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

960
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 1: So when you said you wanted to play a madam

961
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: if there's a Magic City movie, Pee Valley, one of

962
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: the main characters was based on Gigi.

963
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:58,399
Speaker 3: Really which you want?

964
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:06,040
Speaker 5: Mercedes really like her storyline is like very very like

965
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 5: eighty percent of my real life really you should write

966
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 5: the movie honestly, or like I sometimes feel like if

967
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 5: you want to.

968
00:49:13,760 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: Roll, you have to create it. You created and you

969
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:23,920
Speaker 1: said that, Okay, you have I can see it, like

970
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 1: you could even collaborate, have a writer, have writers, but

971
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: I could see you creating that because that would go.

972
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 3: I don't think.

973
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 4: I think I have to really contribute to the actual

974
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 4: story because I I really do understand what it should be.

975
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: And Jordan is the last ever Playmate cover Playboy Playmate

976
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 1: of the Year cover.

977
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, and only one of four black women.

978
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, and.

979
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: She's right now on Summer House Martha's Vineyard, which actually

980
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:01,880
Speaker 1: just it's like Josephine Baker in an episode.

981
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 3: Yeah really yeah, oh congratulations. Yeah, people, you're both telling stories,

982
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 3: yes as well.

983
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is, don't we think that you

984
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,359
Speaker 1: should create what it is that you want to see?

985
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,880
Speaker 1: Because I feel like, who wouldn't want to work with you?

986
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:20,400
Speaker 1: Who tells you no?

987
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 3: Well, I guess you have to ask to find out.

988
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: Nobody's telling you no. I'm just saying, and I would

989
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: love to see that.

990
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna that that is it is in my

991
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 3: soul so hard.

992
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 1: But when you do it, I'm right now.

993
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:36,440
Speaker 6: I'm following my dreams of being an actress that I've

994
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,120
Speaker 6: been wanting to do since I was younger, and I

995
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 6: just put it out there in the universe.

996
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,719
Speaker 1: So if you do that, please do think that.

997
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 8: I said, yeah, Friller, well yeah, we just manifested a whole.

998
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 3: Well, you know like that.

999
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,800
Speaker 4: It's been going on for decades and decades and decades

1000
00:51:03,840 --> 00:51:06,920
Speaker 4: and centuries. So before there was a poll, there was

1001
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 4: still because that's an art form. It no doubt that

1002
00:51:13,360 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 4: that's even different than what I'm talking about. The strength

1003
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 4: and power and all of that.

1004
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 5: But the mental because you have to deal with rejection,

1005
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 5: You have to deal with competition, You have to deal

1006
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:29,440
Speaker 5: with people frowning down upon you were talking to you,

1007
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 5: were disrespecting you. You know, you have to always keep

1008
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,080
Speaker 5: your head high and just stick to your goals. You

1009
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 5: also have to stay away from the bad influences that

1010
00:51:36,320 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 5: the club life can bring, like the drugs and the

1011
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,480
Speaker 5: pimps and all that stuff. So it's it's not as easy,

1012
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 5: and you have to act like people think that an

1013
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,320
Speaker 5: exiet entertainer is just getting on stage, shaking ass and

1014
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 5: going home counting a bunch of money and it's not

1015
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 5: right at all.

1016
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 3: You know.

1017
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,920
Speaker 4: One time, I think it was Magic City that I

1018
00:51:56,440 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 4: went to one m girl and it was like right

1019
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 4: after it was like, here's what happened. All of my

1020
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:10,000
Speaker 4: fin Line fans and ship they started buying me lap dances.

1021
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, you know than.

1022
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:14,440
Speaker 4: This is.

1023
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 3: I was like, I didn't know that that would be

1024
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 3: the impact, because you know, you go and in Atlanta,

1025
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:24,720
Speaker 3: it's like people going to hear jazz.

1026
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:30,319
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, it's so cred about that, RIGHTID It's very

1027
00:52:30,440 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 6: much the regular thing to do.

1028
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:34,879
Speaker 5: It's just it's the first time Angela came in Magan City.

1029
00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:36,439
Speaker 5: I was in the middle of doing the laft dance

1030
00:52:36,480 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 5: and when she walked in, I ran up and hugged her,

1031
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:40,440
Speaker 5: not thinking in my mind, and I'm completely naked, and

1032
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 5: she's like, here's what happened.

1033
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 4: So they all up on the wall and stuff and

1034
00:52:47,440 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 4: going because she was inching over. I mean, I got

1035
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 4: bought so many left and I was gifting them to people,

1036
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 4: right and so, and this girl looked down at me

1037
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 4: and she said.

1038
00:52:57,880 --> 00:53:06,200
Speaker 3: Oh, miss Whitfield. I said, girl, you working, don't stop now.

1039
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:12,400
Speaker 4: It was like, you know and so and then I

1040
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,960
Speaker 4: did talk to you know, and just hearing people's stories

1041
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,400
Speaker 4: because like with me, you know, some women felt compelled

1042
00:53:19,440 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 4: to tell me, well.

1043
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:21,399
Speaker 3: This is why I'm here.

1044
00:53:22,560 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 5: Story was what completely different, completely everybody's reason is their reason.

1045
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 5: Exact path that gets them through that door is a

1046
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:31,799
Speaker 5: different path.

1047
00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was just really interesting.

1048
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 4: So it's one of my fascinations how women have used

1049
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 4: the themselves as a powerbroker in some kind of way.

1050
00:53:43,600 --> 00:53:46,400
Speaker 4: I mean, I still think it's valid to look at

1051
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:50,560
Speaker 4: and talk about and tell stories about from different angles

1052
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,720
Speaker 4: and from different points in history.

1053
00:53:53,480 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 5: Well, the thing with the documentary is it's a three

1054
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:59,480
Speaker 5: part documentaries. It touches on the owner, who is a

1055
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 5: black man mad the city has been owned by the

1056
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,200
Speaker 5: same black man for going on forty years, to be

1057
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 5: forty years and twenty five. He did a nine year

1058
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 5: jail stint in the FES for drug conspiracy, still owns

1059
00:54:11,120 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 5: the club. Clearly he has a family. The whole Atlanta

1060
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:17,279
Speaker 5: hip hop and the whole. Like you know, a lot

1061
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:19,919
Speaker 5: of hip hop artists careers being started in the strip

1062
00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 5: club dances known as the unofficial A and RS. Then

1063
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:26,359
Speaker 5: you tie in the sports, the politics. There's so many

1064
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:30,720
Speaker 5: different celebrities, young and older, who speak into There's sixty

1065
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:35,919
Speaker 5: different people. Drake Jermaine Duprie are executive producers. Jamie Gertz,

1066
00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 5: who owns The Hawks, she's also an executive producer. And

1067
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 5: it's such a huge project. It's just I'm still just

1068
00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:45,920
Speaker 5: like amazed that it's even happening. Like, I know, I've

1069
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 5: done the work, I've seen the first episode. You know,

1070
00:54:49,280 --> 00:54:51,040
Speaker 5: I know that it's very much a real thing. I

1071
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:52,960
Speaker 5: know that we've been picked up by major network, But

1072
00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 5: until I actually sit in front of a TV and

1073
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:56,760
Speaker 5: watch it, I still can't.

1074
00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:59,360
Speaker 1: Everybody's tweeting about it. Yeah, I still can't.

1075
00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:02,720
Speaker 5: Even believe that it's you know, this summer. Like literally,

1076
00:55:02,760 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 5: the press conference is any day now.

1077
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 3: I am waiting on the.

1078
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 5: I am literally waiting on the car. I know that

1079
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 5: production the moment I see one of those numbers pop

1080
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:15,879
Speaker 5: up on my phone, I know that that very next

1081
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 5: phone call I get from them is going to be it.

1082
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, So I'm literally just waiting on the

1083
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 5: call so excited. I'm so just like because for so

1084
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:27,680
Speaker 5: long as an entertainer, and I was really young when

1085
00:55:27,719 --> 00:55:30,959
Speaker 5: I started, because I was the single parent, and you know, again,

1086
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 5: everybody has their own story. But for so long I

1087
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:36,359
Speaker 5: got frowned upon and from even for my own family

1088
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 5: members and people who just did not understand what it

1089
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 5: was that I was actually doing. They took what they

1090
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 5: thought I was doing and you know, dumped that on

1091
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 5: me as I was doing something terrible, and I really

1092
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 5: was doing something that was art. Strip is art, And

1093
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:52,759
Speaker 5: I was quoted by saying that at our premiere at

1094
00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,279
Speaker 5: south By Southwest by a variety dot com, thank you

1095
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 5: to them. And strip really is art. It's more than

1096
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 5: just taking your clothes off of money. It's so much

1097
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 5: more than that, and the artist is being celebrated. And

1098
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 5: I feel like it couldn't be a more better time,

1099
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 5: you know, with everything else that's happening within the space

1100
00:56:11,200 --> 00:56:15,720
Speaker 5: and within just like music and politics and everything all combined.

1101
00:56:16,200 --> 00:56:17,800
Speaker 5: Like if this was going to happen, this is the

1102
00:56:17,920 --> 00:56:19,400
Speaker 5: perfect time for it to happen. And I'm just so

1103
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 5: grateful to be a part.

1104
00:56:20,280 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 3: Of it and my group.

1105
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 5: Like I initially my phone call was just do an interview,

1106
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 5: and then the interview turned into narrating. The narrating turned

1107
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 5: into I have produced a credit.

1108
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Speaker 3: I said it on the pitch.

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00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 5: I was a part of the pitch so I set

1110
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 5: in on every single pitch.

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00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:39,840
Speaker 3: Than cheers.

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00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:43,200
Speaker 1: We love to see it and all that you say,

1113
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 1: it's trying to write your own Yes.

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00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 5: And you know, someone in the industry, in your industry

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00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:52,839
Speaker 5: who I enjoy very much is like a big sister

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00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 5: to me that I feel would be a great person

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00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 5: to maybe go uh work with in that space is

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00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:06,080
Speaker 5: Tasha Smith. Tasha, She's an amazing woman. She's an amazing director.

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00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 5: She has a dance background from way back in the

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Speaker 5: day as well, and I worked with her on a

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00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 5: project that never was released back in like twenty fifteen.

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00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 5: But she has that same like. She will always tell me, like, girl,

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Speaker 5: when it's time, I'm gonna write the movie about your life.

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00:57:19,120 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I really feel like that could be.

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00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 3: She's doing great work directed.

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00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, absolutely, I'm telling you, well, listen, I'm

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00:57:30,480 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: excited for everything that everybody here has going on, all

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00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: the manifestations that happened today. And you know what I

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00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you to, would you ever get married again?

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00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 3: If it was like a god thing, if it was

1131
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 3: you know, I don't feel a need to marry, but

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Speaker 3: if it happened and it was really really really.

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Speaker 4: Joyful and comfortable and all that, but I still don't

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00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 4: really see a need to marry.

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00:57:56,320 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 3: But you never know, say never, say never are you dating?

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00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 3: I want to do you have any idea?

1137
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 2: So I'm doing like the spade.

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00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: They didn't think.

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00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:07,640
Speaker 4: They are not.

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00:58:07,760 --> 00:58:11,240
Speaker 1: Okay into She's not even getting on.

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00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,120
Speaker 2: It's not on that app it's face to face.

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00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 1: Who you want?

1143
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:17,960
Speaker 4: All those people coming and sitting in the see being

1144
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 4: nervous and going just they would I know.

1145
00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 1: What miss Lambeckfield needs is to meet somebody in person,

1146
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 1: through somebody who she knows and respects. And she tried

1147
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: to folks, you know, and I kind of feel like

1148
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: I could see you with like a way way up

1149
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,800
Speaker 1: with Cupid, but like a handsome thirty five year old

1150
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 1: period giving you know.

1151
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:52,040
Speaker 3: I'm not really interested. Didn't pushing it, you know, like

1152
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:54,320
Speaker 3: I just look at the moat.

1153
00:58:54,360 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 4: You gotta look it down the yes and you know

1154
00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 4: where at the point we had to look for a

1155
00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 4: few they turned quickly.

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00:59:02,440 --> 00:59:11,760
Speaker 3: We have to I don't know, so put it out

1157
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 3: there in the universe. I mean, forty five would.

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00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:19,560
Speaker 1: Be okay, forty five fair enough, forty five nice? That's

1159
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: oh for you though, that's too o for you. I

1160
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: see thirty five.

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00:59:23,000 --> 00:59:28,760
Speaker 3: I just feel five year old man just to be

1162
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:33,080
Speaker 3: great energy, the right energy. I like you, right person.

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00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 1: I see somebody taking you on trips flying private.

1164
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 3: Are you all listening?

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00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:39,400
Speaker 5: Hello?

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00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 3: Is this thing on?

1167
00:59:41,080 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 1: I think.

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00:59:44,000 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 3: Tapping sound check sund checks.

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00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 5: You needs six more weeks in the South of France

1170
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 5: every summer.

1171
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 1: Well, missling with Phil. I am so excited. I cannot

1172
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,680
Speaker 1: wait to see like when we reconvene and maybe like

1173
00:59:57,800 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: a year and everything is in progress.

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01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:04,160
Speaker 3: My god, you mean to tell me I'm being held accountable.

1175
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:08,680
Speaker 1: Because accountable, Yes, we're making this movie. We're making don't

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01:00:08,720 --> 01:00:12,400
Speaker 1: figure it out, but it's such a pleasure to have you.

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01:00:12,800 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna get together and go see Grace Gibson. We're

1178
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,080
Speaker 1: gonna go see her do and that'll be a good time.

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01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna said, We're gonna sit some psachy. I'm not

1180
01:00:20,120 --> 01:00:23,000
Speaker 1: gonna act up this time. You're gonna be on shachi.

1181
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 1: And as soon as I find out, imagine.

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01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 3: She listens, she enjoyed the time with you.

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01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 1: Okay, good, We will definitely keep you.

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01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, I gotta have you as my special guest at

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01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 5: the premiere.

1186
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:40,920
Speaker 1: Yes, get her a leftance.

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01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 6: I gotta try this at Homemination was there and they

1188
01:00:53,160 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 6: were like, yeah, yo, see I don't trust it because

1189
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 6: they were like, look, we can to have a time.

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01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 6: I already know because that's how we get down ladies.

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01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:12,120
Speaker 3: Well, I've enjoyed it. Such interesting women, and I think

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01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:15,920
Speaker 3: we had a very serviceable conversation. I think so for

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01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 3: our listeners, I.

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01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 1: Feel like I want to go to Puerto Rica learn. Yeah,

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01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 1: definitely want to beautiful.

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01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,840
Speaker 3: So much of what we are is what we put

1197
01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 3: in in us, you know, and I.

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01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:31,080
Speaker 1: Know, I mean food.

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Speaker 3: You know what we eat.

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01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 1: We are okay, you know what I mean.

1201
01:01:36,720 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 3: And sometimes we just have to give up our systems

1202
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,400
Speaker 3: a break from.

1203
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 6: All of them, breaking down all of that processed food

1204
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 6: and all of that. So you're right about that, but

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Speaker 6: I'll tell you.

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01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 3: More about it off offline. Well I know, but I'm

1207
01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 3: not stopped. But I found the thing that worked.

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Speaker 1: Yea, all right, all right, Well you guys, it's lip service,

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01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: amazing day. I sheiate it. We appreciate you, we love you,

1210
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 1: we honor you, we charge listen to have you in

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01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: our presence.

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Speaker 4: Thank you