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Speaker 1: Thank you, nef you subject. I can't see past his shortcomings.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I met a man online back in October.

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Speaker 1: He's moved to my city and he got a job transfer.

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Speaker 1: My mother lives with me and I had five year

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Speaker 1: old twins, so he got his own apartment. We spend

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Speaker 1: all of our time there because my house is hectic

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Speaker 1: at times. My mom is a great cook and she

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Speaker 1: sold hot lunches for years from the house. My boyfriend

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Speaker 1: has only been to my house once and my mom

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Speaker 1: said he was acting bougie and he kept looking around

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Speaker 1: my kitchen and on the floor like the house was

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Speaker 1: not clean. I didn't get that from him at hall.

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Speaker 1: He has made a comment or two about things I

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Speaker 1: could improve, but that's only after I told him I

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Speaker 1: wanted to upgrade a few things around the house. When

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Speaker 1: we're at his place, it's like a different world. It's

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Speaker 1: less chaotic, and he makes sure it's clean at all times.

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Speaker 2: The only problem.

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Speaker 1: Is that I hate the way he kisses, and he

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Speaker 1: is smaller than I expected him to be. I don't

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Speaker 1: think I can look past his shortcomings. I can pretty

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Speaker 1: much guarantee that he'll never cheat on me, because no

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Speaker 1: other woman would want that. I was talking to my

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Speaker 1: mom and my aunt about my boyfriend's shortcomings, and my

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Speaker 1: mom agreed that it's hard to be with someone that

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Speaker 1: doesn't satisfy you sexually. My aunt jumped into the conversation

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Speaker 1: and she told me that I have a lot of

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Speaker 1: nerve to judge that man when I'm in a nasty

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Speaker 1: home with twins that I can't say, that can't say

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Speaker 1: they're ABC's and they're five years old. We all laughed.

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Speaker 1: Then I realized that he might be judging me too.

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Speaker 1: Is that why he won't come over to my house?

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Speaker 1: And he said that he's not ready to commit. Should

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Speaker 1: I tell him what I hate about him and then

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Speaker 1: ask him what he hates about me? Or would that

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Speaker 1: mess things up? Mess what things up? That's my question.

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Speaker 1: Didn't you just say you don't like the way he

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Speaker 1: kisses and you can't get past his shortcomings? That is

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Speaker 1: major in any relationship. The only way you can mess

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Speaker 1: things up is if you really want this guy. So

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Speaker 1: which one is it? And let me say this. If

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Speaker 1: your house is nasty and messy and all that, no,

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Speaker 1: he's not coming over there. He's already been over there

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Speaker 1: and he saw what he needed to see. You say

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Speaker 1: your house is hectic at times, that's how you put it.

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Speaker 1: Please do not confuse hectic with nasty, because no one

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Speaker 1: likes a nasty house, especially.

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Speaker 2: A man.

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Speaker 1: And no one likes a nasty house except the people

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Speaker 1: that are nasty. Okay, I'm just going to say it

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Speaker 1: like that. You say no other woman would want him

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Speaker 1: because he's small, but you on him, whether you admit

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Speaker 1: it or not.

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Speaker 2: I think this is what I think.

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Speaker 1: I think you need to talk to your aunt because

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Speaker 1: she evidently knows and feels a certain way about all

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Speaker 1: of this.

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Speaker 2: Your kids included, what does she say?

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Speaker 1: They're five years old and they can't say they're ABC's

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Speaker 1: so again, before you start blaming or shaming him for

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Speaker 1: his so called shortcomings. You need to get yourself together

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Speaker 1: and clean up your house because, in spite of all

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Speaker 1: your protests and criticism about him, you like this guy Steve.

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Speaker 4: Who Lord, I don't know how much trouble I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: get in for this letter.

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Speaker 2: A lot.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure I don't know.

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Speaker 4: How to do this letter without.

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Speaker 3: So you know what, I tell you what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 3: I'ma just go and do the letter.

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Speaker 4: Yeah my way, anything that y'all find unacceptable in a

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Speaker 4: pro wrong terminology.

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Speaker 3: I'm asking for your forgiveness.

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Speaker 4: In the words of most women, I would rather ask

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Speaker 4: for your forgiveness than.

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Speaker 3: For your permission.

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Speaker 4: So here we go. I met a man online. He

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Speaker 4: moved your city. They moved down there. Now you live

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Speaker 4: with your mama and you got five year old twins.

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Speaker 4: So he got his own apartment. Y'all spend all your

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Speaker 4: time at his apartment because your house is hectic at

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Speaker 4: all times. Now here what she tried to fix up?

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Speaker 4: Fix up the hectic. My mom's a great cook and

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Speaker 4: she has sold hot lunches for years from the house.

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Speaker 4: See right here. What you're trying to tell us is

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Speaker 4: that this kitchen you Finnah describe us has been more

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Speaker 4: like a fast food restaurant.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that that's what you're trying to set us up for.

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Speaker 4: Because your mama, your mama, she's sold hot lunches for

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Speaker 4: years from the house.

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Speaker 3: She don't do it no more.

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Speaker 4: My boyfriend has been to my house once, and your

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Speaker 4: mama said he was acting all bullshy because he kept

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Speaker 4: looking around my kitchen and on the floor like the

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Speaker 4: house wasn't clean, you know, damn well in they ain't

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Speaker 4: no man over your house looking round at nothing. We

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Speaker 4: looking around and observing what is all this? We see?

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Speaker 3: Why is this pot in the middle of this floor?

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Speaker 4: Hein't nobody waped this spaghetti sauce off the backsplash of

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Speaker 4: this stove, And ain't no spaghetti on the stove. But

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Speaker 4: ain't nobody done the dishes in here? What is all

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Speaker 4: the tars in his damn flow with this food on it?

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Speaker 4: Who ain't in that baby chair and didn't wipe it off?

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Speaker 4: That's what your boyfriend is in that door because it's hectic. Now,

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Speaker 4: she said, I didn't get that from him at all.

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Speaker 4: Now he made a comment or two about things I

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Speaker 4: can improve. Hell yeah, he and that trying to tell

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Speaker 4: you something. But that's only after I told him I

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Speaker 4: wanted to upgrade a few things around the house. Maybe

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Speaker 4: so far the house you describing right here, and take

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Speaker 4: moading a couple of them. I think your mama dashed,

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Speaker 4: That's what I think. I thank your mama dashed. I

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Speaker 4: thank your mama been in there instill act. She turning

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Speaker 4: out the kids' meals like she turned out them hot lunches.

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Speaker 4: She sold faulty meals. When I come back, we're gonna

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Speaker 4: get into the part that could land me in the

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Speaker 4: most trouble.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Steve pray my stre Yes, we'll have part two

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Speaker 1: of your response coming up at twenty three minutes after

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Speaker 1: the hour Today's Strawberry Letters, subject I can't see past

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Speaker 1: his shortcomings.

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Speaker 2: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's go, Come on, Shirley, what you got.

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Speaker 2: the answer.

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Speaker 1: Now, all right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is I can't see past his shortcoming.

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Speaker 4: Now, the reason that Tyler this letter exists, y'all, is

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Speaker 4: because she got a couple of problems with this man.

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Speaker 3: But before we get to the problem with demand.

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Speaker 4: She just described the page full of problems herself. The

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Speaker 4: man transferred minimum line, transferred to her city, but he

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Speaker 4: got an apartment. They spend all their time over the

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Speaker 4: apartment because of how she lived in her mama lived.

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Speaker 3: Are we gonna find.

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Speaker 4: Out a little bit later on that she got to

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Speaker 4: eat twins how full of people. And the man only

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Speaker 4: been over there one time and he was looking around

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Speaker 4: like all on the floor, like something's wrong. Now, Mama

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Speaker 4: think he bougy because he like a clean house. Why

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Speaker 4: is it that you got to be bugy because you

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Speaker 4: like a clean house. But anyway, now, she also set

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Speaker 4: it up with her mama used to sell hot lunches. Well,

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Speaker 4: two things about this statement. She used to sell hot lunches. Obviously,

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Speaker 4: don't nobody want him? No, damn mom, because not only

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Speaker 4: is your mama nasty, your mama can't cook.

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Speaker 3: You say she a great cook, but she.

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Speaker 4: Outed a hot lunch selling vezins. Now, your boyfriend had

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Speaker 4: been over there. He don't like it, and he made

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Speaker 4: a couple of comments about some things you are to

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Speaker 4: improve because you told him you want to upgrade something.

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Speaker 3: Around the house.

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Speaker 4: Now, she said, when we're at his place, it's a

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Speaker 4: whole different world. It's less chaotic cause ain't nobody over there,

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Speaker 4: and he makes sure it's clean at all times. Tada,

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Speaker 4: most people like a clean house.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, that ain't a magic trick.

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Speaker 4: The only problem is I hate the way he kisses,

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Speaker 4: and he's smaller than I expected him to be. Well,

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Speaker 4: now here we go. That explains the really clean house.

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Speaker 4: You can't be small to have nasty his house too.

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Speaker 4: You're not gonna get nobody. You at least got to

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Speaker 4: get him over to the house and make him feel

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Speaker 4: comfortable because everything else and to go downhill that it is.

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Speaker 4: And you don't like the way he kissed, Well, kissing

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Speaker 4: ain't his problem. See what he can't do is put

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Speaker 4: a whole lot of tongue in your mouth. You see

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Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Because he got another problem. See he's small,

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Speaker 4: So what he can't do is put a lot of

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Speaker 4: tongue in your mouth. Really, because now their compaisons, it's

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Speaker 4: just too much.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: And I can't look past his shortcomings because I can

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Speaker 4: pretty much guarantee he'll never cheat on me because no

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Speaker 4: other woman would won't that. I was talking to my

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Speaker 4: mom and my aunt about my boyfriend's shortcomings, and my

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Speaker 4: mom agreed that it's hard to be with somebody that

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Speaker 4: don't satisfy you such Okay, I understand that, but now

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Speaker 4: let's take it to the next level. My aunt jumped

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Speaker 4: into the conversation, told me, you got a lot of

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Speaker 4: nerve judging that man. When I'm in a nasty home,

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Speaker 4: your aunt, know that your mama nasty. Your aunt know

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Speaker 4: just like the boyfriend who was accused of being bullshy

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Speaker 4: from looking around the house. Know the stuff always be

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Speaker 4: on the floor, and here go the part you at

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Speaker 4: home with twins that can't say the ABC's and they

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Speaker 4: fired and higg problem in the whole letter. You got

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Speaker 4: these little dumb ass kids sitting up in this house

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Speaker 4: five years old. They little dumb ass can't say the

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Speaker 4: ABC's because y'all got them in there on the house

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Speaker 4: on a cleaning committee. Now what you need They need

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Speaker 4: to learn how to do something cause I know, good hell,

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Speaker 4: where five you supposed to be able to say a

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Speaker 4: b ced? I know you spost to be aby, I

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Speaker 4: had twins. I've been fired and even my dumb ass

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Speaker 4: could say ABC and study while I was saying to

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Speaker 4: ABC took me forever. Now you got these your little

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Speaker 4: dumb ass kids sitting up in your house. Now your

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Speaker 4: house nasty. Your babies is done. You're sitting up in there.

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Speaker 4: Your mama trifle, she done got put out there hot

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Speaker 4: lunch selling and business.

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Speaker 3: They up all night, them.

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Speaker 4: Kids is hungry because the kids don't like That's why

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Speaker 4: your kids are stupid, because they don't like their lunches.

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Speaker 3: These kids are struggling enough at the school.

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Speaker 4: How many problems do we have in schools across the

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Speaker 4: country because the kids are going to school are trying

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Speaker 4: to learn, and they hungry. That's why we have these

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Speaker 4: school lunch programs. Your kids need to be on a

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Speaker 4: school lunch program because they can't eat their grandmama's food.

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Speaker 4: They kids are stupid. I don't think y'all gonna stay together.

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Speaker 4: And then you're talking about you don't like the way

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Speaker 4: he kiss. I done told you this man he got

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Speaker 4: another problem because he's small, so he can't put.

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Speaker 3: A whole lot of tongue in your mouth.

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Speaker 2: He can't do it. When you said that the first time, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: But I want people to understand because he can't do that,

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Speaker 4: because he can't have you messed up expecting some most

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Speaker 4: stuff because it ain't fitna happen.

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Speaker 2: He just didn't hit.

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Speaker 4: Now, Now, you didn't know nothing when his friends was

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Speaker 4: calling him, you know, hot to Molly.

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Speaker 3: You ain't hear it. You ain't hear what friends called ticktak.

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Speaker 4: This friend, this is his friends because you know, black

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Speaker 4: dudes give you nickname that's appropriate, you know, Vianna.

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Speaker 3: You know, just little little stuff like that.

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