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Speaker 1: but everyone keeps telling me I will die alone if

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Speaker 1: I do. So what is the best course of action? Also, Sophia,

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Speaker 1: how's everything looking?

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Speaker 2: Everything's looking juicy, beautiful, gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: This comes from throw our way, broken woman. That's not good?

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Speaker 1: Who says, oh, all right, we got it one ooh

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Speaker 1: and Kat with the five buck donation. I'm late to

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Speaker 1: the party. I knew the other hour. Oh my goodness, gracious.

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Speaker 3: This one's not coming through in the.

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Speaker 1: Who Ravenstone twenty one, I'm so sorry it wasn't coming through.

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Speaker 1: Oh lot, guys, have we done it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: We had another hour, but Ravenstone, so I don't miss this.

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Speaker 1: It didn't come through, but I'm reading it right now.

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Speaker 1: Ravenstone twenty one for the fifty dollar donation. Absolutely beautiful

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Speaker 1: with the Sheba dog icon thing. Tia Ravetti once again.

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Speaker 1: Fifty dollar donation, ladies and gentlemen, Absolutely crazy. Uh, Foxy

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Speaker 1: Cat for the two bucks one more hour. We've hit it,

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Speaker 1: Foxy Cat, We've absolutely hit it. M Cat for the

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Speaker 1: five buck tip. I'm late to the party. I need

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Speaker 1: another hour. You get what you can? Asking you mother

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Speaker 1: freakin receive ladies and gentlemen one hundred bucks on the

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Speaker 1: dono link from sweep Tato. Mama just got home from work.

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Speaker 1: I want one more hour. He he, you got it,

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Speaker 1: you got it, and parallel bya ten bucks on the

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Speaker 1: dono tip one more hour, guys. Sofia has already updated

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Speaker 1: the donation. Bar W's in the chat for Sophia producing

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Speaker 1: the living heck out of the stream, the living heck

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Speaker 1: out of the stream. That's right, I am, that is right?

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Speaker 1: Did you just give us another minute? I don't even

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Speaker 1: think I cursed. H Colina, I.

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Speaker 3: Don't even think I cursed.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't even think I toys twice.

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Speaker 3: Gwys I updated the time and don't worry about it.

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Speaker 4: I oh say it. Oh we updated a tyma. I

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Speaker 4: didn't quaist. What are you talking about? What are you

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Speaker 4: talking about? I read bail up a bias one more hour?

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Speaker 3: You did, okay, one more hour?

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Speaker 2: I read that.

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Speaker 1: I read that already, but I didn't read broke akaa

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Speaker 1: cosmic with the twenty five downar donation for the fame.

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Speaker 1: I want another on top of this hour.

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Speaker 2: Let go.

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Speaker 1: And the idy Lopez for a ten buck tep on

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Speaker 1: the no wink. Hello. I want to send you guys

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Speaker 1: some homemade jams. Do you have any allergies? I should

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Speaker 1: didn't know about.

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Speaker 3: What is this voice?

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Speaker 2: What is this voice?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'm just taking your leading in provident and trying to.

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Speaker 1: Do promisation, I said, Christopher walking sound a little bit,

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Speaker 1: Christopher wat I walked into the store and bought some

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Speaker 1: jam that I'm not allergic to. Do you have any allergies, Sophia?

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Speaker 3: No, oh that's good, but I would Sam? Do you

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Speaker 3: have any allergies?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Oh, no allergies for Sammy by, but I would like

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Speaker 1: some strawberry or BlackBerry jam, A blueberry maybe? Uh? Okay,

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Speaker 1: the adventure begins, Thanks for the two fifty one tip.

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Speaker 1: Can can say stinky equals Sam equals?

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Speaker 2: Is it? Rock? Is Sam?

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Speaker 1: Stonehenge? I don't know. Can't do you understand that? Can

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Speaker 1: say stinky equals is that like the stone island head?

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Speaker 1: What the adventure begins?

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Speaker 2: Don't know?

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Speaker 1: Can say stinky equals Easter island head? That's what I

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Speaker 1: meant to say, right.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Mom, let's trying to tell me something.

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Speaker 1: But listen to Hamma, don't listen to me snaps anything

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Speaker 1: I say, don't even listen. All we got more donations.

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Speaker 1: Moxie for the one sixty four, uh, Sin Hazel for

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Speaker 1: the ten bucks. Oh we're just it's just coming to day.

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Speaker 1: Angry Cheese it, Oh my gosh, with a five bucks

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Speaker 1: step baby Cheese it is out. Been missing the streams,

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Speaker 1: be good, been missing the streams, but my semester is

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Speaker 1: almost over. Begging. Being a STEM student and a mom

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Speaker 1: is rough. You guys to make me smile. Angry Cheese

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Speaker 1: it you make us freaking smile. If you guys don't know,

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Speaker 1: Angry Cheese it literally gave birth on stream. I literally

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Speaker 1: don't know what you guys are doing on on stream,

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Speaker 1: but you're not delivering a baby. I can tell you

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Speaker 3: I can do one thing for sure.

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Speaker 1: Angry Cheese it is the ultimate goat. So yeah, we hit,

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Speaker 1: We hit. Adventure begins in Moxie and Sin Hazel shout

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Speaker 1: out again to you all, and of course, Angry Cheese It.

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Speaker 1: Logan Bad Wolf seventy to fifty. Message me on Discord.

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Speaker 1: If you can't receive gifts, is that a Discord gift

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Speaker 1: or a donation? Please let us know. Logan Bad Wolf

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure what gifts you're talking to. Uh fibud

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Speaker 1: full Le's books for the two for donation. Hey, this

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Speaker 3: Okay you do am, can you do a Jeff Goldbloom

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Speaker 3: give me one he goes? Uh he goes life, Uh

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Speaker 3: finds away life, Uh finds away. It was still Christopher walking.

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Speaker 1: I've got it in my head he's walked right in

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Speaker 1: my heart and essay blow for the one buck tip,

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Speaker 1: thank you very much for that. Heck yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: that's all the freaking donus. Oh, Christie Steele, I donated,

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Speaker 1: but it's not showing up. Christy, I am so sorry.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for the donation. Don't know why

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Speaker 1: sometimes s A and blow. Sam is not going to

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Speaker 1: twice the amount of salmon. Right before the stream started.

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Speaker 1: Sophia saw me scarfing it down like like a madman.

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Speaker 1: I am perfectly fine right now, so I can promise you,

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Speaker 1: nay guarantee you, that Sam is going to be perfectly fine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, completely alive right now.

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Speaker 1: I am so alive. I have so much energy for

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Speaker 1: you all. Speaking of having energy for you all, I

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Speaker 1: think I need to do what the people came to see.

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Speaker 1: Oh you, they came to see a freaking story. Whoa,

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Speaker 1: let's freaking get into it. Four forty eight s two yeaes, sir,

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Speaker 1: People want to divorce my husband? Husband, yup, let's do it.

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Speaker 1: I want to divorce my husband, but everyone keeps telling

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Speaker 1: from me. I think you that Sam? What do you think? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Typical Sam?

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Speaker 3: My God? Take Sam?

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Speaker 1: That was that was disgusting?

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Speaker 3: Oh stop Sam.

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Speaker 1: Sam, Sam called down here, Sam, this is too much.

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Speaker 1: Leave leave Sam, stam's the door. Stop stop yelling profanities

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Speaker 1: at me. You're gonna add time? Okay, damn. Anyways, I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna ignore Sam right now. He's just being completely beligerent.

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Speaker 1: I thirty seven female caught my husband forty male cheating

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Speaker 2: You have it on Sam?

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, Wow sent me a disrespect.

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Speaker 3: It was actually that time an accident.

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Speaker 1: That was an accident. But guess what a hilarious and

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Speaker 1: entertaining accident. That was great, Sophia. Even when Sophia makes

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Speaker 1: a mistake, it's still world class. Content is comedy, Come on,

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Speaker 1: Sofia killing it. We have three kids, twelve male, nine female,

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Speaker 1: and together for twenty ouch vote. Recently, I found out

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Speaker 1: and separated from my husband. I served him divorce papers

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Speaker 1: because cheating has always been a deal breaker for me.

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Speaker 1: My husband has begged a lot, but I still didn't budge.

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Speaker 1: It's been one and a half months since I served

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Speaker 1: him the divorce I've had people try to convince me

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Speaker 1: to stay. I have heard numerous advice, but most common

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Speaker 1: were Number one, all men cheat lies.

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Speaker 3: That's not true. False.

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Speaker 1: If I leave my husband and find a new man,

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Speaker 1: the chances that he will cheat on me is still high.

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Speaker 1: Better to stay with him. Number two, I will be

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Speaker 1: I thought it was the last one. There's more reason

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Speaker 1: number three. I should just let him cheat because at

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Speaker 3: Who are you talking to?

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Speaker 1: Who are literally these literal maniacs that you are in

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Speaker 1: correspondence with my God? Number four, Think about your kids?

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Speaker 1: How will it affect them? Divorce is always harsh on kids.

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Speaker 1: You know what's harsh on kids not standing up for

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Speaker 1: in yourself and building yourself back up. Literally Boom Number five,

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Speaker 1: I am taking their father away from them. These are

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Speaker 1: literally all false, all these being all these I avoided.

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Speaker 1: You should literally serve a thousand.

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Speaker 3: Divorces to all of your friends.

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Speaker 1: To all of your friends, divorce, divorce, divorce, divorce. But

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Speaker 1: Reason she was single till I was eighteen was because

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Speaker 1: and being like, it is unfortunate that I wasn't able to,

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Speaker 1: I think you know your husband cheated on you. You

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Speaker 2: Fair.

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Speaker 1: I get it being unfortunate that there wasn't a father

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Speaker 1: figure being able to be introduced, but I don't think

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Speaker 1: you should beat yourself up for it. And I don't

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Speaker 1: think that means that Op should go back with her husband. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's what I say. That's what I say. But I

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Speaker 1: also say, SV, thanks for the five buck tip, first

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Speaker 1: time tip. Let's freaking go.

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Speaker 2: SV.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, Sophia, love you worm queen. There you go,

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Speaker 1: all the love for the warm queen baby Godzilla with

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Speaker 2: Hey fa, can you pin the tip link in.

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Speaker 1: The comments, drop it into the chat and then click

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Speaker 2: Luies, gentlemen.

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Speaker 2: H It was? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Gaslighting? Vintage John Barbie artist says, this is this is

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Speaker 1: current day. John Tracy Eisen says, John forty's isn't senior citizen? Wow,

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Speaker 1: That's rude. A FO I did it, but I don't

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Speaker 1: What we could do a poll on is yeah, yeah

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Speaker 3: Did I stay?

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Speaker 1: You guys will have the power to tell us in

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Speaker 1: the meantime. Constance Elisa, thanks for the ten buck tip.

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Speaker 1: much love of you. Constans chut Ian Blue for the

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Speaker 1: no less super quick uh side note. I was once

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Speaker 1: Their names were Johannes and Luke Bone Steel. That's freaking

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Speaker 1: They were literally a friend to it. They they they

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Speaker 3: Wait, the Boys Kissing Forever was just.

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Speaker 2: Them because they would go and they'd be like, hi, Frank.

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Speaker 1: It was cute.

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Speaker 3: Yes you know what else?

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Speaker 1: I love what Wait?

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Speaker 3: There was one here this one.

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Speaker 1: RBRT thanks for the nineteen Mexican pesos, Red down Arrow

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Speaker 1: and Foxy Freaking Cat. By the way, Uh, just so

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Speaker 1: But Foxy Cat, thanks for the five bucks. I need

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Speaker 2: Dark blue, dark sophia. What do you got?

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Speaker 1: Oh, but just just tell them, Yeah, if we can't

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Speaker 1: Sam, hazel.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's got like pleasing.

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Speaker 1: Sylvia this freaking story. Oh what does a pole say?

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Speaker 1: Did anyone vote for?

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Speaker 3: One person? Voted for?

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Speaker 1: Is holding it down? Yeah, being straight contrario out here.

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Speaker 1: But let's get into this update. The guy update. Hello everyone, Okay,

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Speaker 1: just wanted to give a quick update. Recently, I had

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Speaker 1: so I wasn't available to answer the personal messages and comments.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't allowed screen time for forty eight to seventy

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Speaker 1: What if I got lasik and I did the stream

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Speaker 3: It interesting? How would you read the stories? You'd have

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Speaker 1: Just react or I would memorize them. Actually, that's you

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Speaker 1: know what. That's that's for quitters, actual commit I should

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Speaker 3: And then yeah, what do you think, Sam?

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Speaker 2: Wow? I mean elasak has kind of can be dangerous sometimes, right, we.

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Speaker 1: Have a confession to make. Yeah, we would cut to

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: They make great content, though, but they don't know what

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Speaker 1: it was only me and Sophia. No, yeah, oh jeez,

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Speaker 1: I just had to I just had to tell.

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Speaker 2: You I was saying it that no one else could hear.

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Speaker 2: Everything is true, everything is true. I'm glad they cut

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Speaker 2: my mic really saved me for real, cut them off

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Speaker 2: the store.

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Speaker 3: Rumors are true.

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Speaker 2: The rumors are true, and I love them.

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Speaker 3: Ooh and you know who I love One Done Millennial.

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Speaker 3: If I can like the stream from China, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: where it's illegal, you have no excuse.

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Speaker 2: Not like like like one Done mal nilaws like the

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Speaker 1: One Millennial is our sleeper, our sleeper agent, our sleeper cell. Guys,

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Speaker 1: let me ask you a very quick question. Is it

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: No, I'll answer for you unless exactly you know what.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't care where you are. If you're in China,

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Speaker 2: you could you could do illegal things even if it's

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Speaker 1: One Done Millennial is a revolutionary.

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Speaker 2: Revolutionary you know what? I know what what do you know?

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Speaker 3: You have thirty seven likes until in the.

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Speaker 2: Wheels thirty seven legs. If that is it motivation, I

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Speaker 2: don't know what is help us, help you?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we want to give you a wheel spin, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we could do it, but I also want to give

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Speaker 2: Me give me, don't give it, don't get it. I

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Speaker 1: Basically, Opie's husband of twenty years cheated twenty years, yes,

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Speaker 2: Who are these people?

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Speaker 1: It's crazy?

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Speaker 2: Wait is it his family that's saying it?

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Speaker 1: It's or I've had I've had people try to convince

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Speaker 2: In It's like because it's like his friends and it's

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Speaker 1: Could be, but we could we could assume maybe mostly

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's big drama prom eception, but even bigger drama.

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Speaker 1: OPI has not yet made a statement on that.

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Speaker 2: But that's completely different. You can you can divorce and

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Speaker 1: This is true and this is why we uh. There

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Speaker 1: Yes, So we're getting back into it. We're gonna see

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Speaker 1: if Op stays or if she goes. OP just got lasick.

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Speaker 1: But thanks to all of you who opened my eyes.

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Speaker 1: Now that hey, now that was witty. I was having

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Speaker 1: the right thing.

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00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,040
Speaker 2: But the comments from people cleared it.

442
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: So where are we? That is the discussion I had

443
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 1: with my soon to be X, meaning meaning the X

444
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: is soon to be soon an XX and not as

445
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 1: soon to be good each husband good? Okay, Yeah, my

446
00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: soon to be X came to see me during my operation.

447
00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 1: Sounds like not great timing. Yes, seems like a terrible

448
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: time to chat, Like yeah, booo, so I want to stay, babe.

449
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,479
Speaker 2: Bababe, I want to talk to you, but full at first? Uh,

450
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 2: can I put this wool over your eyes?

451
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: Looked me in the eye when I talked to you, Babe.

452
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 1: I never asked him, but he still came. He took

453
00:24:30,240 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: me home after my operation. I guess maybe that was

454
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 1: lightly useful since I wasn't allowed to put pressure or

455
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 1: dust in my eyes. It made the majority of my

456
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 1: chores very difficult. But he did all my chores, starting

457
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 1: from dusting, cooking, and laundry. Wow, okay, are they still

458
00:24:47,040 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: living together? I would assume so okay, because they haven't

459
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,879
Speaker 1: like officially officially separated yet yet either. Right, he was

460
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 1: with me reminding me to take my eye drops.

461
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 2: It felt good. For once, I thin thought I got

462
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 2: my husband back, But.

463
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: Not about this whole lot. He never did anything like

464
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:11,280
Speaker 1: this unless I ask him to. He never did my

465
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:13,879
Speaker 1: portion of the chores, even when I was sick with

466
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: the flu. He is only doing this to be on

467
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: my good side. I don't want someone who only acts

468
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 1: nice only to gain something. Plus the messages he shared

469
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,919
Speaker 1: with as a fair partner still on.

470
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 2: Yeah. Also, I think we've talked about this on the

471
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:35,359
Speaker 2: show before. But you shouldn't judge someone by their grand gestures.

472
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 2: You should judge them by their day to day actions. Right.

473
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 2: It's true, because anyone can buy a bouquet of roses

474
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 2: or do the laundry once, yep, But can you do

475
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 2: the laundry every day? Can you do the laundry every day?

476
00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: Or do you just do. Are you just gonna do it?

477
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 2: You know, because you want it? Yeah? Like, I think

478
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 2: a good relationship is is measured in the small moments,

479
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:57,879
Speaker 2: not the grand gestures.

480
00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 1: That is correct, ladies and gentlemen. Back to the story. Uh,

481
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: I don't think doing two days worth of chorge will

482
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,159
Speaker 1: make me forget the humiliation me and my kids went

483
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:12,400
Speaker 1: through because of them. What did Sam just say? What

484
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 1: did he just say?

485
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 2: Was I spitting facts? Oh?

486
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:19,640
Speaker 1: Dropping straight gems?

487
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,920
Speaker 2: Was I dropping steamy dookies?

488
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 1: Let us know in that gold Let us know in

489
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,160
Speaker 1: the chats if Sam's dropping steamy golden duchies.

490
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, finally, Yeah, Sam's golden sninky dookies.

491
00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 1: It's possible to do that.

492
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 2: Wow, Sam, Sam's good takes for Sando. Let's freaking go.

493
00:26:39,880 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 2: Sam is spewing those facts. I like. I like being

494
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,640
Speaker 2: known for bad takes because then.

495
00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 1: Is so low and you're jumping over it, like you

496
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: saying bolts right now, absolutely crushing it. Wait, SAMs, Yeah, Sam,

497
00:26:56,400 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: steamy golden doukies. Absolutely, you're welcome. So I said him down.

498
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,160
Speaker 1: It's easier to talk to him wearing glasses. I told

499
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,320
Speaker 1: him I am still going through with the divorce. Good

500
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 1: I am not going to take his kids away from him.

501
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: He is still their dad. I can never live under

502
00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: the same roof. Even if I take his advice and

503
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,160
Speaker 1: go to counseling together, I would still never be able

504
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 1: to let go of the fact that he cheated. Our

505
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: kids don't deserve parents who resent each other. A men, sister, Amen,

506
00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 1: It's better we part ways and continue as co parents.

507
00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: I did suggest counseling as a family, so that way

508
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,439
Speaker 1: we can be the best co parents. Brilliant, But as

509
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: far as being married, that is out of the question.

510
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 1: He can resent me all he wants, but he still

511
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: has to be there for the kids. He agreed, although

512
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: I can see the sadness in his eyes. He said

513
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: sorry for everything that he has done. He opened up

514
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 1: about his affair, that that he just thought it would be.

515
00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:56,199
Speaker 2: Great, interesting, very complex explanation.

516
00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I want it.

517
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 2: Open up with you about the affair. She was hot.

518
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: I thought it'd be awesome, and it was. I was

519
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: trying to tap that out. Didn't get me. You can't

520
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: catch me. I'm on fire because we got so stuck

521
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: in our mundane lives. The affair.

522
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

523
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: Kind of like Fabio in a romance novel. But he

524
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: didn't realize what he was losing. He blocked his affair

525
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: partner and ended his relationship with her. He acknowledged it.

526
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 1: Now now they're just seeing each other inside. We're not

527
00:28:32,040 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: in a full blown relationship. It's just uh, you know.

528
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't worry about that. Yeah, don't worry. Hey,

529
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 2: don't look over there, look look at me, look at

530
00:28:40,880 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 2: me through your your lasick dies. I am the captain now, yeah,

531
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: and you were and you are the only boat that

532
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 2: I want to Yeah, you're only a boat that I

533
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: want to read to shoot. Yeah.

534
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. But he acknowledges that he not only destroyed his

535
00:28:57,600 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: marriage but also ruined his career. Here he is also

536
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:02,600
Speaker 1: stooped so low.

537
00:29:02,920 --> 00:29:04,080
Speaker 2: How did he ruin his career?

538
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe everyone found out and that's like stained.

539
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 2: Maybe he's like a marriage counselor, bro dude, all right, question,

540
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 2: would you get marriage advice from a marriage counselor that

541
00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: is divorced? Mmm?

542
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 1: Mmmm, it's interesting, would you poll? I was po that pole.

543
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 2: Desra Harris is a little too late, too little, too late,

544
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,760
Speaker 2: a little too oh Seana Morris is maybe he cheated

545
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 2: with a coworker, and they found out Katie Kate. Maybe

546
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 2: the affair partner was a coworker. Y'all are so smart? Guys?

547
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 2: How are you so smart? Where are you getting this from?

548
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 2: Whose brain cells are you stealing? Take this? Take take this?

549
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:57,320
Speaker 1: Because you are predicting things.

550
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: Yeah what John said, You're addicting things, so you deserve

551
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:02,720
Speaker 2: the silver hats. That's right.

552
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: He said. He will also never date again, never in

553
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: his whole life. He will die alone.

554
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 2: I told him not to make promises.

555
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: He can't keep drop the mic or drop my phone

556
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: and break it on my water bottle? Remember, or did

557
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 1: you do?

558
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: Another problem someone? Oh? Wait, no, one.

559
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: Another problem we are facing now is our kids. My

560
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: oldest son knows what's happening, and apparently the rumors has

561
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,239
Speaker 1: reached his school. Oh wait wait wait wait wait wait

562
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: wait oh, let me remind myself, Sophia, Yes, did.

563
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 3: He cheet with someone at the school.

564
00:30:46,440 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 1: He's the teacher.

565
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 2: Wait was it the son's teacher?

566
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 1: I think, yeah.

567
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 3: Keep sounds teacher.

568
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: My daughter's cheating with my daughter's teacher. I literally forgot

569
00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: about that. I literally completely forgot. That is like insane.

570
00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:02,719
Speaker 2: Dang.

571
00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: I wonder if the teacher Oh wait, I think that's

572
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: something that she did report to the school. Yeah, something

573
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: did happen. I remember that.

574
00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 2: Now apparently the.

575
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 1: Rumors has reached the school. Oh no, oh god. The

576
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:19,720
Speaker 1: teacher taught. The teacher taught my middle child, so she

577
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: also knows my son is not talking to his dad.

578
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 1: He refused to eat the meal he cooked and has

579
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: been living on peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.

580
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 2: Dude, honestly, pretty fire. Respect I respect that like a lot.

581
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: My mama. Nah, food strike, food strike, hugger strike.

582
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: But you know what, we're not striking. What spinning the wheel?

583
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: Because I think we hit a thousand likes? Whoa probably

584
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:50,840
Speaker 1: is it true?

585
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 2: And also, Spicy Kookie, thanks for the five buck tip.

586
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 2: Leave him. If you stay, you will show your kids

587
00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 2: to not value themselves. I say it from experience. Talk

588
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 2: that talk, that talk, and.

589
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: Send Hazel for the five buck tip. Divorce, co parent counseling,

590
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: individual counseling children counseling, but staying teaches the kids to

591
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 1: stay in bad situations in my opinion.

592
00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 2: Send Cazel and Spicy Cookie Like it's almost like they

593
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 2: have a little connection, like they're just dropping. It's like

594
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 2: a hive mind. It's like there's universal truth in this

595
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 2: in this stream. Truly. We got one more in there,

596
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 2: one more with a twenty five dollars tip. Whoa and

597
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: Sophia is going to scroll off topic, But where do

598
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 2: you guys get those blankets on the chairs? Another famous podcaster,

599
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 2: No Free Sponsors Law has it all the time, and

600
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 2: I've been looking for it like a nut from my room.

601
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: I know exactly what you're talking about, is it? No?

602
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 2: Is it the big Dog? Two two two number two

603
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 2: number two? Uh? I?

604
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: These are not available for purchase.

605
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,440
Speaker 2: They're not. They were given to us, we can say

606
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 2: from who we are from Spotify. Yeah, spot Spotify gave

607
00:33:03,280 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 2: us these blankets. And that's why the person you're talking

608
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: about it was very nice to us.

609
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: Actually they are good.

610
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: They're good. They're good to us. There's a movie we're

611
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,400
Speaker 2: going to or something.

612
00:33:11,640 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, all of us. I don't know.

613
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 2: I think they only invited John and I. Do you

614
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 2: want to go? You can come? I could ask, we

615
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,120
Speaker 2: can ask, I can ask. I did ask if I

616
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 2: could be a plus one. But I was gonna bring

617
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 2: my date because it's like a it's like a.

618
00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,080
Speaker 3: Not the people that you work with. Whoa now the

619
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 3: people who function the stream.

620
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: Not the people that you literally grew up with.

621
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 3: Literally literally Wow, that's okay. I don't want to go whatever,

622
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 3: but you know what I do want what you'd have

623
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 3: finished this little part of the story so that we

624
00:33:57,920 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 3: can spin.

625
00:33:58,360 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 2: The wheyeut.

626
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: Get into it, my Fia.

627
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 2: I will ask for you if you really want to go.

628
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 3: What is this movie? I don't even know.

629
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:14,080
Speaker 2: It's a it's a super steamy rom com sEH with

630
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:15,720
Speaker 2: Anne Hathaway anyone?

631
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:22,359
Speaker 5: I do be fine, all right, I'll ask Okay, all right,

632
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 5: let's ask for Let's ask for all the.

633
00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? If I want to invite

634
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 2: my date poll to date.

635
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 3: Or Sofia, But that's for this one.

636
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: Oh what was that poll again?

637
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,440
Speaker 3: Marriage counselor is divorced for no.

638
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:48,319
Speaker 2: Way big just like cover Sam's face out?

639
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: Dare you?

640
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 3: You just happen to be in the way of the poll.

641
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 3: You could do better, but I want you to do

642
00:34:58,960 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 3: better and read this.

643
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: Sorry, you're right, you're right. Uh. My other kids followed

644
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: his lead, eating the PB and J's as a as

645
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 1: a she did that earlier when when you were in

646
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:15,399
Speaker 1: the chair. It was hilarious. I even caught him crying. Uh,

647
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: he refuses to talk. He refuses to talk to my

648
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:20,879
Speaker 1: soon to be X and it hurts him. I even

649
00:35:20,920 --> 00:35:25,719
Speaker 1: caught him crying one to two times. That breaks my

650
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 1: soul into a million piece A million, A million, a million.

651
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 2: Was like to better sim You're definitely the.

652
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,279
Speaker 1: Really slid on that one, really really? Yeah?

653
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 2: I get all the flag, but John just slides.

654
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 1: I love that. I love it. I can understand what

655
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 1: my kids are going through. I don't want them to

656
00:35:54,320 --> 00:35:57,080
Speaker 1: hate their dad. He is a crappy husband, but a

657
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: great dad.

658
00:35:58,719 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 2: Is that true?

659
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: Somebody comments I don't know what to do with them.

660
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Speaker 1: If you have suggestions, please let me know. Also, I

661
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 1: cannot reply to all the comments because of only them

662
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Speaker 1: out only allowed thirty minutes of screen time every two

663
00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: hours because they just fried her eyeballs. But I will

664
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Speaker 1: read the comments once I am fully recovered. And ladies

665
00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, we have a few quick relevant comments.

666
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:22,879
Speaker 2: Close us out.

667
00:36:23,040 --> 00:36:27,479
Speaker 1: Let's do that. Me Me and Me says, I think

668
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 1: your ex gave up his great dad's status when not.

669
00:36:30,480 --> 00:36:33,320
Speaker 2: Only did he cheat, but cheated with your child's teacher.

670
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,960
Speaker 1: That does not help your child. The last time I

671
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 1: checked the parenting book, Opie says, I know that I

672
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: think this wouldn't have gotten this far if it wasn't

673
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Speaker 1: a teacher. I don't know what he was thinking or

674
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 1: what the stupid affair partner was thinking. Jeopardize, jeopardizing her

675
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: career like that for real?

676
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 2: Uh?

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00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:57,320
Speaker 1: Last friend sixty three fifty says, why do you think

678
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: it would have gotten this far if she wasn't a teacher?

679
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm so confused on that, Opie says. Because of the

680
00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: news of my husband's affairs spread like wildfire. Wildfire. I mean,

681
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 1: other parents came to know, and they are complaining about

682
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,920
Speaker 1: this teacher because they're also afraid their husbands were involved.

683
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: My goodness, one of the reasons why the teacher got

684
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: fired is because of the backlash the teacher taught my daughter.

685
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,720
Speaker 1: My son's peers also had siblings taught by the same teacher,

686
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,240
Speaker 1: so they also got to know about about the affair.

687
00:37:27,440 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: It was a whole lot of drama, and yeah, rumors

688
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:32,600
Speaker 1: spread like wildfire.

689
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: How you doing, Sam, dude, I'm getting e viscerted. Oh

690
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 2: oh no, Sofia needs to go. She wants she's part

691
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:49,840
Speaker 2: of the team. Date isn't okay?

692
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:56,840
Speaker 3: Op So true. But that's the end of that story,

693
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 3: is it not? Is that's the end? What are your

694
00:37:59,200 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 3: thoughts on it?

695
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 1: My thoughts?

696
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 3: What do you think about it?

697
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: I think that you think uh that Ope, it wasn't. Basically,

698
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,439
Speaker 1: OPI did make the decision to to stay separated, which

699
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:17,240
Speaker 1: was good, and it seems like, oh people see uh

700
00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: the part about seeking counseling as a family and co parents,

701
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 1: but not to get back together brilliant. I think Opie

702
00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 1: did all the right moves and the husband does not

703
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 1: deserve a shot boom. Yeah, like Royally ch did on

704
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: the son's teacher, which like caused it is true that

705
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 1: it did cause way more damage than like a random

706
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: person like it. It probably wouldn't have gotten out to

707
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:47,840
Speaker 1: the school, but now literally everyone in the school.

708
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's gonna be tough for the kids. Dude, Yeah,

709
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 2: that's gonna be tough kids, right. I don't think op

710
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 2: did anything wrong.

711
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: I agree, Well, I agree, but.

712
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 2: You know who el didn't do anything wrong. Spiffy, Oh

713
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:07,399
Speaker 2: my god, stabby Debby made it back home. I've posed

714
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 2: in the discord under discussions about drama going out on

715
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:12,040
Speaker 2: work right now, but would love to talk about it

716
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 2: with y'all if you're interested by work. Crew went from

717
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 2: five to six people to two this week.

718
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: Oh no, that is a big reduction. Deduction. Oh man,

719
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: my goodness.

720
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: And then worm Medea Aoki thanks to the tip. Better

721
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:32,320
Speaker 2: take Fia, gotcha worm queen, you got my back.

722
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: We take up that.

723
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:38,520
Speaker 3: I don't know what you're talking about. I've never been

724
00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 3: to any event whoa, not a single.

725
00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: One, especially not one where you got like free fancy

726
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:50,239
Speaker 1: pizzas in your aura picture taken and met cool creators

727
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: and hung out and I'm ringing a bell. Really, it's

728
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: not ringing any bells.

729
00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 5: I'm not curious crazy your.

730
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm taking to things, taking I literally will

731
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 3: throw whole parties because so Fi wants what can I can?

732
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 1: I can I ask a question?

733
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:11,600
Speaker 2: Though?

734
00:40:11,640 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 3: What the question?

735
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:13,359
Speaker 1: Are there hot men there?

736
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 2: Dang, they're probably probably will be bang hot successful men.

737
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,760
Speaker 2: That's true body man.

738
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 3: Body Spotify.

739
00:40:27,280 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 2: But yeah, we're Minniaoki, better take Fia, got you warm, Queen.

740
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 2: I'll work on it. I'll send an email.

741
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:37,360
Speaker 1: God, I'm just hopping on this train for Sam.

742
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 2: And Chris tinfoil hat. Thanks for the fifty dollars tip.

743
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 2: I wonder what this tip comment will be related to

744
00:40:44,520 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 2: could it be Sam, you better take Sophia or we're

745
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,839
Speaker 2: gonna be mad. She does so much and she's your

746
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: damn sister. Yo.

747
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: Facts, The people want what they want? Do you know

748
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,720
Speaker 3: what I want? What I want to give the people

749
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 3: what they really want?

750
00:41:03,400 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 2: Oh? What is that?

751
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 3: Oh? Real space?

752
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: Yo? That will okay?

753
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 3: Sam?

754
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 2: Questions questions today? Why is the Sam question? At this moment?

755
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 2: I have a question everyone in the chat right now,

756
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,959
Speaker 2: Brittany Icu and a ten dollars tip FIA's event fun?

757
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:31,880
Speaker 2: Take her?

758
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 3: All right? Here?

759
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 2: A question? Can I do a plus two? And then

760
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 2: John does a? We both do plus two's?

761
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we should both ask for plus two's.

762
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 2: Is that okay?

763
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Yo, I'm sorry.

764
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 2: I boxed it. And Sam, take your sister Sophia plus

765
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:55,840
Speaker 2: me to the movies seven dollars siy t is two dollars.

766
00:41:55,880 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 2: It's not like Sam as a girlfriend to take. How

767
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 2: am I supposed to get a girlfriend if I can't

768
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 2: take her to things? How I supposed to do this?

769
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:10,919
Speaker 2: Do you want me to be happy? No?

770
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,959
Speaker 3: No, no, we like her? We like her.

771
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 2: We do like her? All right?

772
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,640
Speaker 3: Ready? Sam, I'm ready?

773
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:22,840
Speaker 2: Did you read this one Oh love Bubbles. Where's Riley's invite?

774
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 2: Ten dollars tip work? I haven't responded.

775
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,800
Speaker 1: I haven't even looked at the email yet. Fully, I

776
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: don't even I don't even know. I literally don't even

777
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: know what movie it is.

778
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 2: Oh, hathway a videographic. It's okay, Sam, And we know

779
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 2: you're a good guy. I know, sure, sure, Nate McKay,

780
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 2: thanks for the three sixty five. This is giving Golden

781
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: Child energy. I'm on Sam's side because someone needs.

782
00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 1: To have true Sam is drowning out here.

783
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:53,439
Speaker 2: Please are right? How are you almost? At another hour?

784
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,440
Speaker 1: We did get some hundreds and some fifties.

785
00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 2: Wait what Yeah, we got a bunch of hundreds, but

786
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 2: another hour where fifty?

787
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 1: No?

788
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:08,640
Speaker 3: Way, twenty five? We were at eighteen hundred like a

789
00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: couple of minutes ago.

790
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 2: What yeah, broke where?

791
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: I don't know, Keep going keep going down, keep going on?

792
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 2: Where is this coming from?

793
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 3: I don't know.

794
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: We're gonna be streaming forever.

795
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 3: Oh that's too far.

796
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: There's one hundred. No, no, no, that he's not one hundred.

797
00:43:25,719 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 2: But was that not to get over from the last one? Oh,

798
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 2: you're right, you're right, you're right. That was all for

799
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 2: that that doesn't make sense.

800
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 1: Oh, we should, we should, we should hit up. Mo.

801
00:43:36,200 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna we're gonna fact check this.

802
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna have fact check it.

803
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 2: Ala says, suck it, Sam. Friday night, I did have.

804
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:51,680
Speaker 2: I had things planned. Oh man, Barbie Archie.

805
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 1: We have a meeting right now that we can at

806
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: make or in four minutes or maybe I just take

807
00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: that really quick, oh for it from Wacho. I'll come

808
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,400
Speaker 1: back right after, yes, sir, or do you want to

809
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:02,680
Speaker 1: take that?

810
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:08,080
Speaker 3: Okay, answer questions before you go, sor ry questions.

811
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:09,520
Speaker 1: Let's close it out strong.

812
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 3: Oh no, hold on, I'm going to put this on

813
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 3: the other screen.

814
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:17,319
Speaker 2: Mo, Mo, no Friday plans for you.

815
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, let's see what a nine of the ten

816
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 3: digits your phone number at any order? What you can

817
00:44:37,040 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 3: also pick any of these if.

818
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 2: You got to do it.

819
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 3: Okay?

820
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:39,879
Speaker 2: Yeah.

821
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,759
Speaker 3: How do your parents feel about how much of your

822
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 3: personal life you share on the podcast?

823
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 2: I don't think they care, Actually, I don't think. Well,

824
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 2: so my mom is very used to me sharing way

825
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 2: too much about my life with her, and so.

826
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:58,280
Speaker 1: Hearing it with a thousand people, I think.

827
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,760
Speaker 2: Like I think I am, I'm i think I'm pretty

828
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:07,719
Speaker 2: consistent everywhere. I would say, I would agree, like, I

829
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 2: don't think I'm any different in real life than I

830
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 2: am on stream.

831
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 3: What do you say that, Sophia, I would say so,

832
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,320
Speaker 3: I would say, you're the same.

833
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I think it's like my parents are like that.

834
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,240
Speaker 2: That's kind of just sam the tracks tracks.

835
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: Baby.

836
00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

837
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 2: These are some spicy questions.

838
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 3: I know, man, what is your favorite movie from the nineties?

839
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 3: The nineties?

840
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: Kid nineties? Favorite movie? The first one that I came

841
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 2: to mind is The Matrix. But I don't know if

842
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 2: that's my favorite favorite.

843
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:47,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god, wait, we're over. What just happened?

844
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: It's pot we.

845
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,359
Speaker 1: Did get a a Peso's donation some more.

846
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, maybe that must it up.

847
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 2: It's awesome. Well you can. You should be able to

848
00:45:58,040 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 2: most checking.

849
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 3: Right says it's fine.

850
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:04,520
Speaker 2: Most says it's it's that's right, that's right. We are

851
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 2: you sure?

852
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 3: They wants to know if you're sure, Most.

853
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 2: Let us know. Sure, that's crazy.

854
00:46:12,800 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 3: We're talking it. But in the meantime, who's your celebrity?

855
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 2: Wait?

856
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:18,280
Speaker 3: What? What? What movie did you say?

857
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 2: I said The Matrix? But I don't think that's actually true.

858
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 2: I'm just as I can't.

859
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,280
Speaker 3: You just can't think of a nineties movie. Uh. And last,

860
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 3: but not least, who is your celebrity crush as a child.

861
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 2: As a child, I never like had I can't remember

862
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 2: having celebrity crushes. I don't. I'm trying to think. I

863
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:45,919
Speaker 2: was never like a person that had like a thing

864
00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 2: on the wall or like yeah I never did that,

865
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 2: or like uh or like like I was never like

866
00:46:51,239 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 2: into Justin Bieber or like like or like any.

867
00:46:56,840 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, Yeah I was not. I was not

868
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,040
Speaker 1: a poster is that a poster person?

869
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 2: I don't even like like like there's like people that

870
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,719
Speaker 2: like follow ig models or like hot celebrities or whatever,

871
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 2: like I don't really do that.

872
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: I don't know.

873
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:12,520
Speaker 2: I don't know if I have one.

874
00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 1: Maranda Cosgrove like some Marianda Cosgroves. I correct a little later.

875
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: I didn't watch any TV growing up though, that's true. Yeah,

876
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. And we have been adding gifted memberships.

877
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 2: I have a hour to cancel sands plans.

878
00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:30,960
Speaker 1: So they all count.

879
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 2: Why do I I do have to take a quick

880
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 2: meeting and to do with a K. But but I

881
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:37,919
Speaker 2: will be back.

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Speaker 3: You're in our Queen wants to know. Did you ever

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Speaker 3: have an emo hair phase?

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Speaker 2: I did? Face? Yeah, I had. I did have I

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Speaker 2: had to like justin Bieber hair for a while.

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Speaker 3: You know that's not an emo face. You just had

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Speaker 3: justin Bieber hair. It's like you had like the long

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Speaker 3: like shoot, you had like the sweep. You could probably

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Speaker 3: do it right now. Sam, it's your hair is not

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Speaker 3: long enough. But like yeah, if he's like yeah, baby.

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Speaker 1: Baby baby, nice job.

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Speaker 2: Get okay. Well, I'm going to go take this meeting

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Speaker 2: and I'll be back very soon.

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Speaker 1: Audio smooth show And I'm gonna text my girlfriend and

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Speaker 1: let her know where are we at? Oh, we need

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Speaker 1: to get some food, Sam. Maybe you could pick up

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Speaker 1: a little snacky porse, have you or actually hold on,

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, read those racious mindy wild It's okay,

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Speaker 1: Sam with the ten buck donations here anymore. He's not here,

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Speaker 1: so he will never hear that. Thanks for the five

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Speaker 1: barck tip. Oh the DoD I like pray for me.

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Speaker 1: I hope that my husband doesn't have the stomach bug

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Speaker 1: that's been going around. I don't want to it's sick

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Speaker 1: because we have no backup at work and it's hard

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Speaker 1: to get someone to come and help our office. Samantha, E.

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Speaker 1: We hope your husband is okay. Keep us updated, baby

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Speaker 1: g one buck tip, I Sam, I want to go too.

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Speaker 1: We'll put in the ask purple hair fox for the

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Speaker 1: one buck tip. Let's get that hour going one hundred

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Speaker 1: great because we're in people suggesting Sam was broke af

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Speaker 1: in another stream for his dating prefaces.

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Speaker 2: For oh, that was when.

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Speaker 1: One of the stories the op was like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to date people who do walks or coffee because

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Speaker 1: they might be poor and steal from me. Remember that

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Speaker 1: that was fun an xoxo. God, we're getting lots of

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Speaker 1: donations in Sam, do you like horses? We'll never know.

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Speaker 1: And Spiffy too? Is that Spiffy Tiffy's second account?

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Speaker 2: I think I think it might be Siffy because.

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Speaker 1: I remember seeing that. But Spiby Tiffy literally created a

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Speaker 1: whole other account for that.

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Speaker 3: And you're an icon for that, absolute icon for.

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Speaker 1: The ten gifted donations memberships. I'm sorry, absolutely incredible. My

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Speaker 1: mind is blown. We are on debt to you ten

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Speaker 1: buck tip from Mandy Wilder on the donal link. Thank

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Speaker 1: you fifty dollars on the donation link from Nicks no

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Speaker 1: plans another hour. Our plans are here, I guess and

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Speaker 1: worm made in Aoki for the five to eleven. Fia

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Speaker 1: doesn't have a date with her? Why are your relationship

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Speaker 1: needs more important than hers? These are the questions we

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Speaker 1: need to be asking. Yep, and hey, Sophia, what whoa?

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Speaker 1: There's a delivery knock knock. It's the Milkman, Lord Milky

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Speaker 1: Giant's milk. With the five gifted donations, you know it

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Speaker 1: would be amazing. Is an animation with like the kool

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Speaker 1: Aid Man, but it's a jug of milk, and it's

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Speaker 1: like the Milkman.

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Speaker 3: Busting down the door exactly.

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Speaker 2: The Milkman.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, twenty bucks from Royoko. Oh one, Sam, just

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Speaker 1: stay one of us, guys. It's it's we gotta we

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Speaker 1: gotta talk with people. You guys have kept us much

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Speaker 1: longer than we planned and anticipated for. So uh we

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Speaker 1: got out in two hours on Tuesday or something like. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we did start a little later this time, though.

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Speaker 3: That was significantly and so they're punishing.

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Speaker 1: Us that they are punishing us an XRXL for the

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Speaker 1: one buck tip, thank you? Who do we got? Next

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Speaker 1: step there. Uh, Mindy Wilder, I gave ten in super

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Speaker 1: chat and ten on okop show tips. Mindy Wilder, I

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Speaker 1: am so sorry if we missed the ten on the

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Speaker 1: tip link. That is absolutely freaking incredible and shout out

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Speaker 1: to you, Mindy Wilder. Sorry everyone for the donuts that

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Speaker 1: are breaking. We're gonna look more if you.

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Speaker 3: Have donated and you we haven't called you out. Put

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Speaker 3: that in the.

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Speaker 1: Chat, literally spam us until we read it.

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Speaker 2: So sorry.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it glitches and doesn't show up. Ten bucks from

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Speaker 1: Slowly Tovez, John still Owes the Queen Fries.

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Speaker 2: I don't know when I feel like you.

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Speaker 1: You oh oh oh oh, you know what they might

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Speaker 1: be referring to. There was a stream where I ordered

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Speaker 1: fries on delivery and I don't know if you got

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Speaker 1: it until after the show.

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Speaker 3: I didn't get until after stream.

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Speaker 2: That's what.

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Speaker 3: I did get my fries. The fries were delivered, the

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Speaker 3: fries were gone. They were post.

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Speaker 1: Stream FRIESE shouts purple hair Fox with one buck tip.

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Speaker 1: If you could live any fictional universe, what universe would

972
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Speaker 1: you live in? Harry Potter?

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Speaker 3: I think I think I would also go Harry Potter,

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Speaker 3: But like now you know like I wouldn't want to

975
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Speaker 3: do like Voltemore times.

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Speaker 1: Listen up, you gotta you gotta no, no, no, no no,

977
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Speaker 1: you got everyone was in danger, they needed your help, right,

978
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,400
Speaker 1: but where were you abandoning them and going to the

979
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: other universe timeline?

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00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 3: So right, Well, technically, if you think about it, I

982
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Speaker 3: would just be going to like my current timeline, I

983
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Speaker 3: would just be going to the.

984
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Speaker 1: World you gotta hop into.

985
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Speaker 3: I have to go back to the nineties.

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Speaker 2: Year one yep.

987
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Speaker 3: Okay, we have to be an eleven year old.

988
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Speaker 1: Yes, yes you do, or you know what? You know what,

989
00:53:31,960 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: I'll give you seventh year.

990
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, So i'm I'm it's the start.

991
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Speaker 1: Of your seventh year. You're seventeen and Baltimore is literally killing.

992
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 2: Everyone whoa.

993
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 1: And guess what you have to do?

994
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 2: Guess what you have to do.

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Speaker 1: Sofia, you got to stand the freak up. Whow avotic cadavre.

996
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: You gotta be casting them cursing spell if you you

997
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying.

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00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 3: Put into Harry Potter yep. Seventh year yep, like Baltimore

999
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,839
Speaker 3: at his height, What are you doing? What's your first move?

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Speaker 1: I want the smoke. I'm like Yo, Baltimore. Let's go

1001
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:06,279
Speaker 1: mano mano like Baltimore all the mart I'm ready to

1002
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Speaker 1: call him. Yeah, yeah, I'm ready to die for the cause.

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm I go to America.

1004
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Speaker 2: You go to.

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Speaker 5: Wow, No deser, I'd probably, I don't know, I'd go

1006
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Speaker 5: find Harry.

1007
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Speaker 1: And help him out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

1009
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Speaker 1: Well, shout out to Ian Blue for the one buck

1010
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:31,719
Speaker 1: tip and Mac for celebrating his one month membership. Were

1011
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: in America, you wouldn't go to Hogwarts.

1012
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,439
Speaker 3: You'd be Ilver Morning. Yeah, that's what I was saying.

1013
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 3: I'd be in America and I'd be in the now.

1014
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 3: I'd be in twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Oh, ilver Morning is the So I.

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Speaker 3: Would have to like go all the way over to Scotland.

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00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, you would be transfer. Did let

1018
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 1: me ask you this?

1019
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1020
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Speaker 1: Did Harry get the option of choosing his timeline?

1021
00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 2: No?

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00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 3: No, right, you're right. He was just he's just born

1023
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Speaker 3: into it.

1024
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:03,279
Speaker 1: He didn't choose the wand life. The wand life shows him.

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Speaker 3: Oh, hold on, daddy, Jesse, you would if you went

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00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,960
Speaker 3: back to Harry Potter world, you would be trying to

1027
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Speaker 3: date Snape Snape. I will not take Snape Apologist in

1028
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Speaker 3: this chat.

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00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:20,879
Speaker 1: No wait wait wait, wait, wait wait wait wait?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, Foxy cuts Snape. Nah nah, you rock

1031
00:55:28,239 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 3: with Snape. Oh yeah, he's a literal wizard like I

1032
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 3: won't say it because I don't think we're supposed to

1033
00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:38,280
Speaker 3: say it. But then you know, like the wizard guy,

1034
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 3: bad guy mm hmm, Germany that type, that's what he is,

1035
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 3: but in wizard form.

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00:55:46,719 --> 00:55:47,080
Speaker 2: Hmmm.

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Speaker 1: I do.

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00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 3: He bullied little kids, like everyone likes to say. I'm

1039
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:59,240
Speaker 3: going on a rant, a short rant. Everyone likes to say. Oh,

1040
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 3: Snape got bullied by James. James was sixteen years old

1041
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 3: or fifteen years old. State was an adult. State was

1042
00:56:07,520 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 3: an adult. He was bullying little kids as an adult,

1043
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:15,360
Speaker 3: And the only reason that he cared for Harry is

1044
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 3: because he was in love with his childhood best friend

1045
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 3: who didn't love him back. That's what and that's on

1046
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 3: that's on snap page.

1047
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:28,520
Speaker 1: I hear you, I hear you. I am preserving my

1048
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,960
Speaker 1: childhood opinions.

1049
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,360
Speaker 3: You can you can't. I think it's a it's a

1050
00:56:34,400 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 3: millennial opinion to have the love Snape.

1051
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 2: And I'll say it, Wow, guys, I.

1052
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,040
Speaker 3: Love you, guys. I love you guys. I love all

1053
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 3: of my millennials. But I'm not a Snap fan, and

1054
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 3: I understand that he was a double agent. I know it.

1055
00:56:50,040 --> 00:56:51,200
Speaker 3: I know it.

1056
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,520
Speaker 1: Doesn't mean to go on the line.

1057
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 3: I doesn't mean he's life. Believe that because he literally,

1058
00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 3: he literally didn't care that James died, and he only

1059
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 3: put his life on the line after Lily died.

1060
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: And that's yeah, I.

1061
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 3: Don't know about that. I don't know about that. But

1062
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 3: let's get into this story.

1063
00:57:12,719 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 1: Who also, how do you feel about opening?

1064
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 3: I feel good about it.

1065
00:57:17,880 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, he freaking two ladies and gentlemen, we're about to

1066
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: get into it. It's a little toasty in here and

1067
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 1: I'm reading.

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Speaker 2: Four eight s three.

1069
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Speaker 3: Let's do well you're doing that. I'm just gonna out

1070
00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 3: out these donations that we just go. Let's purple hair, Fox,

1071
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 3: thank you for the one buck tip. I didn't see

1072
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Speaker 3: that one coming. I thought I was going to get

1073
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 3: D and D from FIA I have, I have, I

1074
00:57:46,800 --> 00:57:50,760
Speaker 3: contained well, Daddy Jesse, thank you the five bucks. If

1075
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,200
Speaker 3: I was in the Harry Potter world always said that one. Uh.

1076
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,320
Speaker 3: Foxy Cat also said that one. Thank you again and

1077
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 3: and xoxo, thank you for the ten bucks. I love

1078
00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 3: listening to your show well I do my farm chores.

1079
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 3: Arm you make the hard work go by fast. So

1080
00:58:06,080 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 3: thank you.

1081
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:09,040
Speaker 1: That's fire and a ten pictures of your farm in the.

1082
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 3: Disco picture is and what we want to know. Thank

1083
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,440
Speaker 3: you Videographo for the five bucks. I'm not an apologist.

1084
00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 3: I just I take snape one hundred percent then break up.

1085
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:25,040
Speaker 3: Probably Yeah, he's dogski. Thank you for the two bucks.

1086
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 3: Shape is Snape is bad, Alan Rickman, that's I can

1087
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,600
Speaker 3: get on that train. Alan Rickman is whole, Alan Rickman.

1088
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 3: Snape fire fire, Snape is a character.

1089
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: No, but he did it. He played it so well,

1090
00:58:40,560 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 1: so well. He can't put you over the line. He

1091
00:58:44,800 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 1: literally crushed it. Well.

1092
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 3: No, I can separate them. I can separate I cant

1093
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:58,360
Speaker 3: foods that I make. I made fried rice. All right,

1094
00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:01,720
Speaker 3: let's get back into this new story.

1095
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

1096
00:59:03,040 --> 00:59:05,400
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for divorcing my wife over

1097
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Speaker 1: getting a massage? What kind of massage? This comes from

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Speaker 1: adventurous clock sixty two seventy five, who says, my soon

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00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 1: to be ex wife and I are both in our

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Speaker 1: late thirties. We've been together for twelve years, married for ten.

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00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,880
Speaker 1: We are in a dead bedroom. It was totally dead

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00:59:23,920 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 1: for six months before I filed for divorce. It was

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00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: on life support. Slash ice you in the comments, Yeah,

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00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: that's right. I said that. For five to six years

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00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 1: before that boom, we wanted to be younger parents and

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00:59:39,080 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: both wanted two kids. We conceived our daughter almost immediately

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00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: after getting married. When she was six months old, we

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00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 1: started trying to have our second child, talking back to back,

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00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 1: it never happened. After three years, we started seeing fertility

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00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: specialists and found out that we both have pretty serious

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00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: reproductive issues. The doctor told us our daughter was nothing

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00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: short of a miracle and said it was against all

1113
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 1: odds that we not only conceived, but carried to term.

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01:00:05,120 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: It was after this that the spicy sleep life began

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01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: to seriously decline. Initially, I thought it was just the

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01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: pain of finding out and knowing we wouldn't be able

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01:00:15,320 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: to afford the fertility options, and figured it would.

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01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:22,800
Speaker 2: Get better over time. It never did. It only got worse.

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01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:26,880
Speaker 1: Five years ago, I would say we had sex fifteen

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Speaker 1: to twenty times a year. In twenty twenty three we

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01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:33,080
Speaker 1: had sex three count them three times.

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Speaker 2: Auchi auchi wahwaps.

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Speaker 1: I have tried everything to improve this spicing things up, talking, suggesting, counseling. Ooh, counseling,

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01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 1: talking by making Sophia laugh with a face full of

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01:00:48,040 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: bride rice. And it's silly. We both work and work

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01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: basically the same hours. I'm telling this because the usual

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01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: stuff I read on Reddit about how the wife does

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01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: it all is not even close so true, is it?

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Speaker 3: Op?

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01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. Over time, I have

1131
01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: grown more and more resentful. The thing that makes me

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01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 1: the most resentful is she knows I have a high

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01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: libido and just doesn't care. I, on the other hand,

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01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 1: know she loves to be rubbed on, slash massaged, and

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01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 1: never took that from her. I probably rub on her

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01:01:23,080 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 1: three hundred and twenty five times a year. Bro, Bro

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01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 1: is rubbing daily.

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01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:33,400
Speaker 3: Dang there, not exactly daily. He should be rubbing daily.

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01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:39,120
Speaker 1: Right, bro is missing forty some odd chances. Yeah, that's

1140
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: that's big. That's tough. Almost every night, O wil rub her, calves,

1141
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:49,600
Speaker 1: her shins, her ankles, her fate four to five nights

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01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,520
Speaker 1: a month. I will do a bit. I will go

1143
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 1: big and do neck back and crack neck, shoulder back,

1144
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: but hamstrings, quads, shins, calves, ankles, and feed I'd rain

1145
01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:07,920
Speaker 1: out of breath reading that I noticed that doing the

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01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 1: big massages was the best way to get sex, say

1147
01:02:12,080 --> 01:02:14,200
Speaker 1: as she was more like me to allow me to

1148
01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: do the four play things I know work on her

1149
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 1: I had done, I had if I had already done

1150
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 1: this prep I did them more.

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01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 2: Uh.

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01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: I did them more often a few years ago, but

1153
01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 1: now not as much. The success rate was never that great,

1154
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 1: maybe twenty percent of the time, but in the last

1155
01:02:30,600 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 1: two years we were definitely in the sink. When we

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01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: hit four months with absolutely not sex, I decided I

1157
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 1: wasn't rubbin hunter ever again. No rubs for you, lady.

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01:02:44,320 --> 01:02:45,960
Speaker 2: But do do do? Do it?

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01:02:46,040 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 1: Only took three days for her to notice, and she

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01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:50,760
Speaker 1: asked me to do it. I told her no, and

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01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 1: I got angry. I said, why should I when you

1162
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 1: don't give an f about what I want? Obviously not

1163
01:02:58,840 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 1: my finest moment, I would agree, and a huge argument followed.

1164
01:03:02,760 --> 01:03:05,080
Speaker 1: Things got ice cold at home, but I wasn't giving in.

1165
01:03:05,160 --> 01:03:08,920
Speaker 1: I was tired of it all. A few weeks ago, Samuh,

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01:03:09,240 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: A few weeks ago, she told me, fine, I will

1167
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 1: just start seeing a professional messuse. I said, then I

1168
01:03:16,440 --> 01:03:23,520
Speaker 1: will start seeing sex workers. Beer my God joins this

1169
01:03:23,600 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 1: is he's getting crazy. She said that was cheating. I said, fine,

1170
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 1: I won't, but you will not get a massage from

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01:03:31,880 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 1: every from anyone else that is also cheating. OHPI, he's

1172
01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:40,440
Speaker 1: going a little crazier. She said that I was being ridiculous.

1173
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: I said, I said no, it's being touched in an

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01:03:46,800 --> 01:03:47,880
Speaker 1: intimate way by another.

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Speaker 2: Stop. Uh.

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01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 1: If I can't have that, neither can you. And I

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01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 1: swear to effing God if you do, I will fire

1178
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:58,720
Speaker 1: file to divorce that day, op op op op. The

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01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 1: following weekend, she to get her nails done. I said

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01:04:02,960 --> 01:04:05,120
Speaker 1: how long it takes for I said how long it

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01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: takes for her to get her nails done? She came

1182
01:04:07,280 --> 01:04:10,200
Speaker 1: back almost an hour and a half later than I expected.

1183
01:04:10,760 --> 01:04:14,400
Speaker 1: She didn't say anything, just acted normal. I got on

1184
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:17,760
Speaker 1: her credit card app on my phone, and sure enough

1185
01:04:17,840 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 1: there was a ninety five dollars to the gosh dang

1186
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:24,439
Speaker 1: massage person in the same strip mall as the nail place.

1187
01:04:26,200 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 1: The smoking gun. Well, I lost it, and when I

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01:04:30,040 --> 01:04:32,480
Speaker 1: did so did she. I think we both let out

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01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: years of frustration on each other. True to my word,

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01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:41,160
Speaker 1: I called a divorce lawyer on Monday. The only part

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01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 1: that upset me was my lay. That upset me was

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01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 1: my lawyer said, based on these circumstances, I couldn't fidelity,

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01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:56,000
Speaker 1: op OPI. The only part that upset me was my

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01:04:56,120 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 1: lawyer said, based on these circumstances, I couldn't list infidelity

1195
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:01,680
Speaker 1: as re for the divorce and had to go with

1196
01:05:02,000 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: irreconcilable differences. Oh pee, oh pee, buddy, pow powe, we're

1197
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,520
Speaker 1: gonna talk about this. We're gonna talk about this in

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01:05:10,560 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 1: a second. You're make me hungry over there. Anyways, she

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01:05:13,960 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: has been telling people that we are divorcing because she

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01:05:16,680 --> 01:05:22,240
Speaker 1: got a massage. I mean that is that not exactly

1201
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: what happens? There is some truth to this. Since then,

1202
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 1: I have made a number of fa and I've had

1203
01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 1: a number of family members slash friends call me and

1204
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 1: say I'm an a hole. Some of them, even when

1205
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 1: I tell them my reasons, still think I'm an a

1206
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:37,480
Speaker 1: hole and think that my reasons.

1207
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 2: Aren't good enough.

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01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:40,960
Speaker 1: Personally, I think getting a massage when told not to

1209
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 1: is plenty of reasoning. Haul down, buddy, So am I

1210
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 1: the a hole here? Personal note? I reread this and

1211
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:50,320
Speaker 1: I know it comes off angry, but I am angry,

1212
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: angry at myself for wasting so many years. There we go. Uh,

1213
01:05:54,040 --> 01:05:57,360
Speaker 1: but I'm also angry because this was just the ultimate

1214
01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 1: f you. She just went and did it anyways and

1215
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 1: did even try to hide it. I mean she did

1216
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: op Opie literally went to the same place next to

1217
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 1: a nail salon and used her credit card, which I

1218
01:06:09,320 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 1: pay like I wasn't going to see the chart?

1219
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 2: All right? Yikes, all right.

1220
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, let's talk about that. Can we get

1221
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,800
Speaker 1: a ale hole or nah?

1222
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1223
01:06:23,600 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: I want to see uh what the people are saying

1224
01:06:25,560 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: speaking of which little uh uh Peeney Webb says it

1225
01:06:31,040 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 1: wasn't actually about in the massage.

1226
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:33,320
Speaker 2: Let's be real.

1227
01:06:36,400 --> 01:06:39,640
Speaker 1: John John's break time love bubbles no breaks for me,

1228
01:06:40,200 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: no breaks, no breaks allowed. So uh forgetful Sophie.

1229
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:46,640
Speaker 2: So he paid for it?

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01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 1: Divorce? Wait? Was that I missed that? I actually it

1231
01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,040
Speaker 1: went out of my view. So he paid for it

1232
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:55,280
Speaker 1: from uh oh yeah, so he paid for it. Divorce

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01:06:57,120 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 1: A hole, says Tory Nicole. A lot of people are

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01:06:59,720 --> 01:07:02,400
Speaker 1: saying a hole in the comments, and we're getting up

1235
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 1: to pull in the sex all right. Caro says he

1236
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: threatened to go to sex workers. Massage is for stress

1237
01:07:07,360 --> 01:07:12,120
Speaker 1: relief and wellness. Stop sexualizing massage therapy. We already get

1238
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:15,479
Speaker 1: so harassed. Caro dropping some freaking facts.

1239
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, that's the thing. I've someone earlier said specific

1240
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:22,280
Speaker 3: they were like, they were like, he sees it as

1241
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 3: sexual because that's how he, you know, use it and

1242
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 3: gets intimacy or like is intimate with his way.

1243
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:31,360
Speaker 1: Oh right, right, right, right right, But it's not.

1244
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 3: It's like a massage is is you shouldn't it shouldn't

1245
01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:38,080
Speaker 3: be seen as a sexual thing. If you're going to

1246
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 3: a professional that that would be bad.

1247
01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:44,480
Speaker 1: But like it's literally I get that it can be

1248
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 1: floor play, but it's not the deed itself, ladies and gentlemen.

1249
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:49,160
Speaker 2: It is it is.

1250
01:07:49,520 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 3: And she's going to a literal professional.

1251
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,960
Speaker 1: Messuse a professional, a professional.

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01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then he compares it to sex workers, like

1253
01:07:57,400 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 3: going him going to a sex worker?

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01:07:59,200 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, so, uh, Producer Sophia, that's me. Do you think

1255
01:08:06,360 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 1: the op was the a hole?

1256
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:12,920
Speaker 3: Yes? The thing is that, like it seems like the

1257
01:08:13,280 --> 01:08:17,040
Speaker 3: original issue that he was bringing up was a lack

1258
01:08:17,040 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 3: of intibacy, which if that was the issue, if he

1259
01:08:20,240 --> 01:08:22,679
Speaker 3: had brought that up and had communicated to his wife

1260
01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:24,680
Speaker 3: I would have been like, yeah, that's fair, but no,

1261
01:08:24,920 --> 01:08:27,440
Speaker 3: his issue was her going to get a massage.

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01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 1: Like I forget who said it in the comments said

1263
01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 1: this is the tip of the iceberg. Yeah, he's just

1264
01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 1: taking this and just going insane with this one. He

1265
01:08:41,280 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 1: took this one little thing and used it to go

1266
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:44,880
Speaker 1: insane and like cross a bunch of lines, which I

1267
01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:50,719
Speaker 1: believe made him the a hole. And it is tricky

1268
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:53,599
Speaker 1: with the intimacy thing because it's like I very much

1269
01:08:53,640 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 1: think you can reciprocate to your partner or like oh sorry,

1270
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:59,720
Speaker 1: communicate to your partner and be like hey, I want

1271
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,880
Speaker 1: this and obviously try to come to the table and

1272
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:05,360
Speaker 1: try to figure something out, but ultimately, if your partner

1273
01:09:05,520 --> 01:09:08,160
Speaker 1: isn't about it, it kind of just is a it

1274
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:10,639
Speaker 1: is what it is type scenario, like you can't force

1275
01:09:10,680 --> 01:09:12,000
Speaker 1: your partner to be in.

1276
01:09:12,040 --> 01:09:14,760
Speaker 3: Intact with you. The thing is like if he had

1277
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:17,120
Speaker 3: if he had been like, you know, I'm not getting

1278
01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:19,200
Speaker 3: what I need out of this and then left it

1279
01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 3: at that and like was like we either need to

1280
01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:23,440
Speaker 3: go to counseling or I need to leave the marriage.

1281
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 1: I would be like, yeah, he's understandable.

1282
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:28,400
Speaker 3: His reasoning was just so messed up.

1283
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, op could have been in the right if OPI

1284
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 1: was like, hey, I sat down, I communicated over this

1285
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: period of time, we went to counseling, tried to do it,

1286
01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:41,160
Speaker 1: and it's like, hey, this is something that I want

1287
01:09:41,240 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 1: in our marriage that we used to have but don't

1288
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:48,599
Speaker 1: have now and has changed. Yeah, Bear, you know that's

1289
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:50,080
Speaker 1: a it's a mismatch.

1290
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:55,000
Speaker 3: Also the fact that he tried to divorce for infidelity specifically.

1291
01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 1: Bro Yeah, he was being so petty. He like Opie said,

1292
01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:01,599
Speaker 1: I'm angry at myself for years of wasted time or whatever.

1293
01:10:01,840 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: That's what it is. Op actually needs to understand that

1294
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:11,880
Speaker 1: he could have left years ago when the because it

1295
01:10:12,120 --> 01:10:14,240
Speaker 1: has been a long time that it's been decreasing from

1296
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:16,840
Speaker 1: my memory of the story. So it's like, if you

1297
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 1: had left earlier or you know, I don't know, done

1298
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 1: done something a little different, it could have changed. But

1299
01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:28,680
Speaker 1: Samantha says, with the five book tip on the Dono link,

1300
01:10:29,560 --> 01:10:31,040
Speaker 1: have to go take care of Hobby and my daughter

1301
01:10:31,080 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 1: and stepdaughter. I'll listen tomorrow when I get back from

1302
01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 1: work to deliver the mail. Make it a long stream

1303
01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:39,400
Speaker 1: so I can listen when I get off I works.

1304
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:43,120
Speaker 1: I work seven hours a day, six days a week

1305
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:46,080
Speaker 1: and only have Sundays off. Samantha E is always putting

1306
01:10:46,120 --> 01:10:49,040
Speaker 1: in that work. We will do our best to get

1307
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:53,120
Speaker 1: the okay gang to make the stream go long. But

1308
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 1: also we need we need breaks, do sometimes too. We

1309
01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:58,640
Speaker 1: will get there. Except for me.

1310
01:10:58,760 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 2: No breaks for me.

1311
01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:01,320
Speaker 3: We need weeks two sometimes too.

1312
01:11:01,640 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 1: No only for Sophia, not for me. No, Foxy Cat,

1313
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: thanks for the two buck tip. I am talking Alan

1314
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:09,680
Speaker 1: Rickman's stape. I think we read that shout out to you.

1315
01:11:09,800 --> 01:11:12,200
Speaker 1: Fox Cat back for the one buck tip. When Riley

1316
01:11:12,360 --> 01:11:14,479
Speaker 1: is back and everyone is on the stream, you all

1317
01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 1: need to take a Hogwarts uh and uh Liver Mourni

1318
01:11:19,760 --> 01:11:23,320
Speaker 1: Ilver Ilver Mournie house test on stream.

1319
01:11:23,680 --> 01:11:26,280
Speaker 3: I do know my I mean I do know both

1320
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:26,639
Speaker 3: of those.

1321
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 2: But I go to your house, bro.

1322
01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 3: Actually I can't remember Amil Morny, but my my hog. Actually, no,

1323
01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:34,280
Speaker 3: you have to guess, all of you guys have to

1324
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:35,160
Speaker 3: guess what it is.

1325
01:11:35,400 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 2: Give me. Actually, Also, what's the results of this poll?

1326
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 3: A ho But it was fifty three votes a whole

1327
01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 3: and twenty nine votes not the ale though it was.

1328
01:11:44,280 --> 01:11:46,960
Speaker 1: We got some OP defenders, Yeah, we got some OP defenders.

1329
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:49,560
Speaker 1: Put in the chat what house you think Sophia is

1330
01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 1: in in Hogwarts? I don't.

1331
01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:54,160
Speaker 2: I've never heard of Iller Morny olver Morny.

1332
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,720
Speaker 3: I I don't. I would have. I probably have to

1333
01:11:56,800 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 3: retake that quiz because I don't remember what I'm meant.

1334
01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:01,879
Speaker 1: I remember actually what I'm in dropping in the comments,

1335
01:12:02,240 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 1: we got Hufflepuff, we got raven Claw, Hufflepuff or raven

1336
01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:11,720
Speaker 1: Claw Slytherin. Ooh, Lytherin. I think Hufflepuff. I'm gonna say,

1337
01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:12,840
Speaker 1: but what do you say?

1338
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:13,719
Speaker 2: Hmmm?

1339
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:17,640
Speaker 1: I should pick one? I'm split between two? What between two?

1340
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:19,439
Speaker 2: Oh? Gee?

1341
01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 1: Now I'm split between three. It's definitely not Slytherin. Literally that,

1342
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:23,080
Speaker 1: there's no way.

1343
01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 2: M mmm.

1344
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 3: Thank you think on that. I'm gonna read the rest

1345
01:12:31,320 --> 01:12:33,840
Speaker 3: of the donations. Purple Air Fox, thanks for the one

1346
01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:38,679
Speaker 3: buck tip Opie is controlling a whole oops or Opie's

1347
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:41,320
Speaker 3: wife needs a divorce and to run for the hill.

1348
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 3: Thank you for the five buck tip. Belma Williams, thank

1349
01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 3: you for the twenty backs for the girl La La Flame. No,

1350
01:12:48,800 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 3: I am on Opie's side. It's not the massage. It's

1351
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:53,400
Speaker 3: that she'd rather get a massage than have sex with

1352
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:56,600
Speaker 3: that a boundary. She wants rubs, he wants sex. He

1353
01:12:56,680 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 3: went outside instead of giving him any. I will say,

1354
01:13:00,920 --> 01:13:03,639
Speaker 3: I think getting massage and having sex are like vastly

1355
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 3: different things, which doesn't which doesn't negate that he desires intimacy.

1356
01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 3: I think that's still an issue that like is valid.

1357
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:15,719
Speaker 3: I think it's just like to equate getting massage to eating.

1358
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:19,200
Speaker 1: It's not like one person takes the kids, one person

1359
01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:21,400
Speaker 1: does the laundry or something like that. Yeah, it's it.

1360
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:25,160
Speaker 3: And lastly, but not listen, thank you Foxy Cat for

1361
01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:29,280
Speaker 3: the five bucks. The issue I have as a retired LMT,

1362
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 3: the word mecuse has a sexual connotation. Massage therapy is help,

1363
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 3: but seeing a mascuse is sexual. Okay, I just use

1364
01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 3: the word messuse. I don't know if they actually.

1365
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,080
Speaker 1: Use that because that's the word, and it's license with

1366
01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 1: massage therapist.

1367
01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:46,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, license missage. Right, And before we get into this

1368
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 3: next story, which is for you that you know, oh,

1369
01:13:50,800 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 3: I need to keep oop keep okay. I had to

1370
01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:58,960
Speaker 3: start the which is four forty three s one. Uh

1371
01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 3: everyone one said raven Claw was right.

1372
01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:06,759
Speaker 1: Dang it. I didn't get to guess Yeah.

1373
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 3: Oh shoot, you didn't guess what were you gonna say?

1374
01:14:10,960 --> 01:14:15,160
Speaker 1: I was split between. I was initially thinking raven Claw or.

1375
01:14:16,640 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 2: Hufflepuff.

1376
01:14:17,680 --> 01:14:19,559
Speaker 1: I mean, I've never forgotten.

1377
01:14:19,640 --> 01:14:23,800
Speaker 3: I've taken many quizzes. I've always been I've always gotten

1378
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,160
Speaker 3: like straight raven Claw. But the ones that like are

1379
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:28,679
Speaker 3: sometimes you know, like they'll do like a ratio or whatever.

1380
01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:31,519
Speaker 3: I'll get raven Claw, and then the next one.

1381
01:14:31,439 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 1: Is, I'm sorry, I it was raven dog, raven raven do.

1382
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 2: I get dog?

1383
01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 1: It was raven Claw at Gryffindor. But so many people

1384
01:14:42,120 --> 01:14:44,880
Speaker 1: commenting hufflepuff did throw you off? Did throw me off

1385
01:14:44,880 --> 01:14:46,519
Speaker 1: a little bit, But that was my that was my instinct.

1386
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:49,479
Speaker 3: I'm surprised what I've I've been getting a lot of

1387
01:14:49,560 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 3: Hufflepuffs in the chat, and I I love a hufflepuff.

1388
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,160
Speaker 3: I don't personally identify as a.

1389
01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:59,800
Speaker 1: Hufflepuff, respect how Sophia identifies as Joman. Now now identify me.

1390
01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:02,760
Speaker 3: Are a hufflepuff?

1391
01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:03,600
Speaker 1: Me?

1392
01:15:03,960 --> 01:15:04,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1393
01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:08,040
Speaker 1: All right, easy, easy, easy?

1394
01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 2: Damn all right? Are great?

1395
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:10,719
Speaker 1: That's true?

1396
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 3: Can someone copy Shelby's comments? I don't know where they are?

1397
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:21,280
Speaker 3: And Greg race before John starts the story, think for

1398
01:15:21,320 --> 01:15:24,479
Speaker 3: the three buck Tip just started watching soon behind. But

1399
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:26,320
Speaker 3: if the music is just an overlay. You could release

1400
01:15:26,360 --> 01:15:28,800
Speaker 3: the no music version on YouTube and with music version

1401
01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 3: on Patreon or vice. Thank you for the.

1402
01:15:32,720 --> 01:15:35,400
Speaker 1: Do you not like the music on the videos like

1403
01:15:35,560 --> 01:15:41,640
Speaker 1: the oh wow, everyone's saying hufflepuff Yeah, no, easy.

1404
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:46,400
Speaker 3: Easy Yeah, Sam's definitely a gryffindor that one's also easy.

1405
01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:51,439
Speaker 1: John is whatever house is old is Aaron Aaron? Hey,

1406
01:15:53,040 --> 01:15:55,280
Speaker 1: guess what Bunny Cakes is right?

1407
01:15:55,320 --> 01:16:00,640
Speaker 2: Because I'm really yeah, take that.

1408
01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:03,080
Speaker 1: Your freaking wrong people, You.

1409
01:16:03,240 --> 01:16:04,719
Speaker 3: Freaking wrong people.

1410
01:16:05,160 --> 01:16:08,000
Speaker 1: But Kurby Girlala Flame isn't wrong with the five buck tip.

1411
01:16:08,040 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 1: Opie said not to massage because his only bargaining chip

1412
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 1: is only bargaining ship, not because it's sectual though, because.

1413
01:16:16,280 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's also a good point, because that's what

1414
01:16:20,439 --> 01:16:22,640
Speaker 3: he said. That was the only way to incite like

1415
01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:23,760
Speaker 3: spicy sleep time.

1416
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:27,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I think Opie just went way too

1417
01:16:27,960 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 1: long where he could have I think could have initiated

1418
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:34,519
Speaker 1: divorce and that would have been the ahole. I think,

1419
01:16:35,240 --> 01:16:38,040
Speaker 1: I think yeah, and saved himself a few years of time.

1420
01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:39,760
Speaker 1: And MINDI Walker is a five buck tip. My son

1421
01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:42,599
Speaker 1: is a huffle piff puff shot out to your son,

1422
01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 1: but also I'm a griffin puff that's funny. Shout out

1423
01:16:47,920 --> 01:16:53,160
Speaker 1: to this next story. Let's get into it. Boo boo,

1424
01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 1: boo boo boo. I'm loving it. What's the next story? Again?

1425
01:16:56,760 --> 01:16:57,640
Speaker 1: Told me for.

1426
01:16:59,400 --> 01:17:03,120
Speaker 3: Or forty three S one.

1427
01:17:03,640 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 1: Full forty three S one four forty three A four

1428
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:13,240
Speaker 1: forty three S one, Let's get into it. Would I

1429
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: be the ahole for cutting off the friend who introduced us?

1430
01:17:17,760 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 1: Would I be the ahole for cutting off the friend

1431
01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:23,120
Speaker 1: who introduced us because my partner wants me to, which

1432
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:26,680
Speaker 1: earlier I read as would I be the ahle for

1433
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 1: cutting off the friend who introduced us because my partner

1434
01:17:29,080 --> 01:17:29,519
Speaker 1: wants me to.

1435
01:17:31,880 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 3: John texted me and then told me Verson twice. He

1436
01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:37,439
Speaker 3: was like, Sophia, I really need you to finish that

1437
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 3: like title, the title's cut off.

1438
01:17:40,120 --> 01:17:40,840
Speaker 2: It's not done.

1439
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 3: It's a full sentence.

1440
01:17:42,280 --> 01:17:43,200
Speaker 2: It's not done.

1441
01:17:43,400 --> 01:17:48,080
Speaker 1: I swear well. This username who reflects me confused. All

1442
01:17:48,160 --> 01:17:54,040
Speaker 1: to ninety three says my twenty seven male girlfriend Ava,

1443
01:17:54,160 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 1: twenty five female of nearly six years and I were

1444
01:17:57,040 --> 01:18:00,120
Speaker 1: talking about the prospect of getting engaged recently when you

1445
01:18:00,160 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 1: brought up that it was her expectation that once I proposed,

1446
01:18:03,520 --> 01:18:07,439
Speaker 1: I also cut contact with Leah twenty seven female one

1447
01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,679
Speaker 1: of my closest friends, as well as being the person

1448
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 1: who introduced us. Both names are made up by the

1449
01:18:14,240 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 1: way we're cutting her off?

1450
01:18:16,479 --> 01:18:20,639
Speaker 2: Do we cut her off? Sophia who.

1451
01:18:22,240 --> 01:18:26,080
Speaker 1: So basically the person who introduced oh oh, the friend

1452
01:18:26,520 --> 01:18:31,920
Speaker 1: to the partner, his fiance, his his potential fiance is like,

1453
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 1: get her out of here.

1454
01:18:35,479 --> 01:18:36,960
Speaker 3: I think that's a little fishy.

1455
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:39,800
Speaker 1: A little fishy, little fish The backstory, Lee and I

1456
01:18:39,960 --> 01:18:42,360
Speaker 1: went to the same middle school slash high school, became

1457
01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 1: friends along the way, and I've and had become quite

1458
01:18:47,040 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 1: close by graduation. We didn't go to the same college,

1459
01:18:49,560 --> 01:18:50,880
Speaker 1: but we were still in the same area, so we

1460
01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:53,799
Speaker 1: stayed in touch, though we saw each other less frequently.

1461
01:18:53,960 --> 01:18:56,760
Speaker 1: A couple of years in, she told me I absolutely

1462
01:18:56,920 --> 01:18:59,400
Speaker 1: had to meet this girl because she knew I'd like her.

1463
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:02,880
Speaker 1: She dragged us both both Eva and I were still

1464
01:19:02,960 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 1: introverts and to Leah's social butterfly persona to a small

1465
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:10,160
Speaker 1: get together, introduced us, did some wing manning, and made

1466
01:19:10,200 --> 01:19:13,200
Speaker 1: herself scarce for the rest of the evening. Now that

1467
01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:13,760
Speaker 1: is a friend.

1468
01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:16,200
Speaker 3: That's a wingman, right, that's a wingman.

1469
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:16,160
Speaker 2: Right the.

1470
01:19:18,000 --> 01:19:22,240
Speaker 1: Right Our Spoilerarroler Leo was right, and I did like

1471
01:19:22,360 --> 01:19:25,679
Speaker 1: Eva a lot from the get go. We shared interests, hobbies,

1472
01:19:25,760 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: a sense of humor, and we clicked from the first evening.

1473
01:19:29,439 --> 01:19:31,680
Speaker 1: Leah made sure to give me every chance not to

1474
01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:34,799
Speaker 1: fumble this by setting up our first date shortly thereafter,

1475
01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:38,760
Speaker 1: and I, thankfully surprisingly didn't fumble it. Bro Leah is

1476
01:19:38,840 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 1: the goat great. This is even more that his Beyonce

1477
01:19:43,680 --> 01:19:47,840
Speaker 1: to be is whack. What the heck? She literally did

1478
01:19:47,920 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 1: you the biggest solid of all time?

1479
01:19:49,479 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 3: Bro Uh.

1480
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 1: Soon enough, Eva and I were officially together and in love,

1481
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:56,320
Speaker 1: moved in together once I got a job, and it

1482
01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:59,839
Speaker 1: felt like a foregone conclusion that eventually we'd get engaged,

1483
01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:04,479
Speaker 1: married and all that stuff. Eva's demand came completely out

1484
01:20:04,520 --> 01:20:07,880
Speaker 1: of left field to me, as she never raised concerns

1485
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,320
Speaker 1: about my friendship with Leah until now, and as far

1486
01:20:10,400 --> 01:20:13,160
Speaker 1: as I could tell, and as far as I could tell,

1487
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:15,679
Speaker 1: counted Leah as a friend of hers as well. Over

1488
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:18,280
Speaker 1: the course of this relationship, the majority of in person

1489
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:22,560
Speaker 1: interactions with Leah also involved also involved Eva and we,

1490
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:26,760
Speaker 1: and we each met with her individually outside of that.

1491
01:20:27,560 --> 01:20:30,160
Speaker 1: To be clear, I'm not denying that I am closer

1492
01:20:30,880 --> 01:20:33,479
Speaker 1: to Leah than Eva is just saying that they're not

1493
01:20:33,560 --> 01:20:38,719
Speaker 1: complete strangers without me equation. A key issue Eva raised

1494
01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:41,559
Speaker 1: is that I did once have a crush on Leah.

1495
01:20:41,960 --> 01:20:44,920
Speaker 1: Once refers to when I was fifteen and had just

1496
01:20:45,040 --> 01:20:47,320
Speaker 1: gotten to know her, and is something Eva and I

1497
01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:49,719
Speaker 1: discussed within our first month of dating.

1498
01:20:49,800 --> 01:20:50,640
Speaker 2: When she asked me.

1499
01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 1: If there had ever been anything between us, I didn't

1500
01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 1: hide anything from her. Told her there was a one

1501
01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 1: sided crush at the very beginning and that had been

1502
01:21:00,400 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 1: history for a while and that nothing ever happened. She

1503
01:21:04,920 --> 01:21:06,880
Speaker 1: was fine with that then, and this is the first

1504
01:21:06,960 --> 01:21:14,640
Speaker 1: time she's brought it up hence, so Feeah, Yes, is

1505
01:21:14,680 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 1: that an issue? Is it an issue?

1506
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:17,760
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1507
01:21:18,160 --> 01:21:21,560
Speaker 1: That uh the crush? Yeah, Oh, he did have a

1508
01:21:21,600 --> 01:21:24,360
Speaker 1: crush on Leah back in fifteen for context, Now he's

1509
01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:24,840
Speaker 1: twenty seven.

1510
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:29,160
Speaker 3: I think that's a little bit while to hold someone

1511
01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 3: accountable for a crush they had when that person was fifteen.

1512
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:36,760
Speaker 1: Years old, but it was unrequited love.

1513
01:21:37,080 --> 01:21:41,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she's even even No, I think that's

1514
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:44,000
Speaker 3: even like they didn't date. He had a crush when

1515
01:21:44,040 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 3: he was fifteen, and then Leah proceeded to like set

1516
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:51,639
Speaker 3: them up. Yeah, I think that's going a little too far.

1517
01:21:51,960 --> 01:21:57,400
Speaker 1: I agree her, I agree, or Leah off? Wait, cut

1518
01:21:57,479 --> 01:21:57,840
Speaker 1: Lee off?

1519
01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:00,479
Speaker 3: No, poor, don't cut her off. Don't It would be

1520
01:22:00,800 --> 01:22:02,000
Speaker 3: crazy to cut her off?

1521
01:22:02,479 --> 01:22:02,960
Speaker 2: That's true.

1522
01:22:03,040 --> 01:22:07,360
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Wait a minute, back to reality. I

1523
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:10,080
Speaker 1: love it when you accidentally press the buttons. It's my favorite.

1524
01:22:14,280 --> 01:22:18,120
Speaker 2: One. Oh my god.

1525
01:22:22,080 --> 01:22:25,400
Speaker 1: However, now she says that if she and I are

1526
01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 1: to tie the knot, she does not want someone in

1527
01:22:28,160 --> 01:22:31,360
Speaker 1: our lives who I once had a romantic interest in.

1528
01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:35,679
Speaker 2: Get out of here, get out of my life.

1529
01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:39,439
Speaker 1: She added that she hadn't liked my getting involved in

1530
01:22:39,560 --> 01:22:42,720
Speaker 1: Leah's last yearous relationship by telling her to dish the guy,

1531
01:22:42,920 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 1: which I did because she's my friend, and that dude

1532
01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:49,879
Speaker 1: was an a hole, and that while she didn't respect

1533
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:53,040
Speaker 1: that anything, and that while she didn't respect that anything

1534
01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:56,080
Speaker 1: happened between me and Leah at the stage, she didn't

1535
01:22:56,160 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 1: want to take the chance, especially as Leah now has

1536
01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:03,760
Speaker 1: a pronounced interest in finding someone is settled down with.

1537
01:23:05,360 --> 01:23:08,080
Speaker 1: Eva told me there's no hurry, and that this wasn't

1538
01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:11,519
Speaker 1: an ultimatum and didn't want to argue about it, but

1539
01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 1: that I should wrap my head around the idea of

1540
01:23:15,120 --> 01:23:18,320
Speaker 1: proposing to her, which we weren't talking about as a

1541
01:23:18,400 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: tomorrow thing, but also not something too far in the future.

1542
01:23:22,960 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 1: I haven't really talked to Leah or anyone really about this.

1543
01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:28,440
Speaker 1: I was still hoping this was something that can be diffused,

1544
01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:32,679
Speaker 1: and bringing her into now seems counterproductive in that regard,

1545
01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:39,080
Speaker 1: both because I could get her pissed at Eva and

1546
01:23:39,479 --> 01:23:44,080
Speaker 1: Eva pissed at I agree. I think bringing Leah into

1547
01:23:44,120 --> 01:23:51,240
Speaker 1: the equation would just further complicate the map. I'm really conflicted.

1548
01:23:52,080 --> 01:23:54,479
Speaker 1: On one hand, Leah is an important friend to me,

1549
01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:56,479
Speaker 1: one who's done a lot for me over the years,

1550
01:23:56,680 --> 01:23:59,000
Speaker 1: brought me out of my shell when I was an awkwardine.

1551
01:24:00,080 --> 01:24:03,439
Speaker 1: On the other hand, by far, what I'm most thankful

1552
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:07,040
Speaker 1: for is that she introduced me to Eva. Introduced Eva

1553
01:24:07,120 --> 01:24:09,639
Speaker 1: to me, so throwing that away is really a non starter.

1554
01:24:10,320 --> 01:24:13,559
Speaker 1: But back to the one hand, I don't really feel

1555
01:24:13,640 --> 01:24:16,439
Speaker 1: like Eva is making much of a case eat here.

1556
01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:20,959
Speaker 1: I'd even be willing to concede that the near forgotten

1557
01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:24,280
Speaker 1: and short lived crushed could be still a valid argument,

1558
01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:27,880
Speaker 1: but not when it was a non issue for six years.

1559
01:24:28,000 --> 01:24:31,599
Speaker 1: That's actually a great point, Like, hey, yeah, why couldn't

1560
01:24:31,640 --> 01:24:36,240
Speaker 1: you have like fair, Why couldn't you have brought it

1561
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:39,400
Speaker 1: up or maybe continued it as something that bothered you

1562
01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:43,439
Speaker 1: anytime throughout the six years, because it ended within a month.

1563
01:24:43,560 --> 01:24:44,800
Speaker 1: The discussion ended after a month.

1564
01:24:44,880 --> 01:24:47,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it seems like there's like a level of insecurity

1565
01:24:47,040 --> 01:24:50,240
Speaker 3: going into this marriage on the wife of the fiance's part.

1566
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:53,880
Speaker 2: What are we doing here? Is my question.

1567
01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:57,360
Speaker 1: I don't know how I'm supposed to approach this, but

1568
01:24:57,720 --> 01:25:03,120
Speaker 1: we might get some insights these relevant comments op a

1569
01:25:03,200 --> 01:25:06,839
Speaker 1: small clarification based on something I've seen in a few comments.

1570
01:25:07,320 --> 01:25:09,080
Speaker 1: When I say I don't know how to approach this,

1571
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 1: I don't mean I don't know whether or not I'll

1572
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:15,599
Speaker 1: cut Leah out of my life. As as things are,

1573
01:25:15,800 --> 01:25:18,439
Speaker 1: and far from the reasons Eva has given me, I

1574
01:25:18,560 --> 01:25:24,680
Speaker 1: don't consider cutting Leah out to be an option. What

1575
01:25:24,800 --> 01:25:26,639
Speaker 1: I mean is that I'm not sure how to approach

1576
01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 1: this with Eva to diffuse the situation and not lose

1577
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:35,000
Speaker 1: her if it can't at all waited relevant comments every guard.

1578
01:25:35,240 --> 01:25:37,320
Speaker 1: If you wanted to get with Leah, you could have

1579
01:25:37,439 --> 01:25:41,880
Speaker 1: tried something again far before meeting Eva. It is a

1580
01:25:41,960 --> 01:25:44,080
Speaker 1: little weird to me that you both have been together

1581
01:25:44,160 --> 01:25:46,240
Speaker 1: for six years and Eva would drop this kind of

1582
01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 1: bomb on you to cut out an approton friendship from

1583
01:25:49,280 --> 01:25:49,759
Speaker 1: your life.

1584
01:25:50,960 --> 01:25:51,439
Speaker 2: This is true.

1585
01:25:51,760 --> 01:25:56,800
Speaker 1: I get some, I get some, will get on the whole.

1586
01:25:57,120 --> 01:25:59,799
Speaker 1: Guys and girls can't be friends, and that once married,

1587
01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:03,000
Speaker 1: some see it appropriate to cut off communication with friends

1588
01:26:03,040 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 1: of the opposite sex. That's me too, super whack. I

1589
01:26:08,280 --> 01:26:10,519
Speaker 1: think this is just a bis attempt to admit that

1590
01:26:10,680 --> 01:26:16,040
Speaker 1: people like that don't trust their partner. He said, he

1591
01:26:16,120 --> 01:26:19,240
Speaker 1: doesn't give She doesn't want to give you an ultimatum. Ultimatum,

1592
01:26:19,520 --> 01:26:21,599
Speaker 1: so tell her I love you, but I'm not going

1593
01:26:21,680 --> 01:26:24,879
Speaker 1: to cut out important people for my life as grounds

1594
01:26:24,920 --> 01:26:25,719
Speaker 1: for a proposal.

1595
01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:26,960
Speaker 2: True.

1596
01:26:27,680 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 1: Don't even go the route of asking her to cut

1597
01:26:30,280 --> 01:26:32,680
Speaker 1: her male friends out. Yeah, why why would you go

1598
01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:33,120
Speaker 1: that route?

1599
01:26:33,120 --> 01:26:33,320
Speaker 2: Maybe?

1600
01:26:33,360 --> 01:26:36,719
Speaker 1: Some other people commented that Philly as for a silly

1601
01:26:36,840 --> 01:26:39,800
Speaker 1: crush back when you were fifteen. This is just part

1602
01:26:39,880 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 1: of her trusting you to not screw her over. After all,

1603
01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:47,439
Speaker 1: what else is love then that?

1604
01:26:48,680 --> 01:26:49,040
Speaker 2: Lol?

1605
01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:53,120
Speaker 1: Opie respond to this, saying, she said she doesn't want

1606
01:26:53,160 --> 01:26:55,120
Speaker 1: to give an ultimatum, So tell her I love you,

1607
01:26:55,360 --> 01:26:57,760
Speaker 1: but I'm not going to cut out important people from

1608
01:26:57,800 --> 01:27:00,840
Speaker 1: my life as gounds of proposal. OPI responds, I guess

1609
01:27:00,880 --> 01:27:03,160
Speaker 1: that's all I can really do. Yeah, just not sure

1610
01:27:03,280 --> 01:27:05,680
Speaker 1: what the next step is if that doesn't work out.

1611
01:27:05,800 --> 01:27:08,479
Speaker 1: That is true. Clever Duck twenty twenty two says, I

1612
01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:11,439
Speaker 1: wonder if she knows something about Leah regarding you, or

1613
01:27:11,439 --> 01:27:14,880
Speaker 1: if Liah said something I e. You're so lucky or

1614
01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:21,040
Speaker 1: I'm so sad I missed my shot hell. Opie responds,

1615
01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:25,160
Speaker 1: I did ask her if anything had triggered the stance

1616
01:27:25,200 --> 01:27:27,680
Speaker 1: from her and specifically mentioned if it was something I

1617
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:32,640
Speaker 1: or Leah did or said, and it was. And it

1618
01:27:32,920 --> 01:27:35,640
Speaker 1: was in that context that she brought up my intervening

1619
01:27:35,720 --> 01:27:38,280
Speaker 1: in Leah's relationship, which was a year and change ago,

1620
01:27:38,720 --> 01:27:41,559
Speaker 1: But she didn't point to anything Leah said her did

1621
01:27:42,040 --> 01:27:47,519
Speaker 1: so Opie or sorry, Eva did give a reason why,

1622
01:27:47,720 --> 01:27:51,240
Speaker 1: and that was OPI gotten involved in helping Leah end

1623
01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:57,840
Speaker 1: her relationship. Shaw Vaute says, yes, if this is out

1624
01:27:57,840 --> 01:27:59,880
Speaker 1: of character for your girlfriend, I'm thinking there must be

1625
01:28:00,000 --> 01:28:03,160
Speaker 1: some sort of catalyst. Is your friend now single after

1626
01:28:03,240 --> 01:28:05,679
Speaker 1: having been in a relationship for most of your.

1627
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:08,080
Speaker 2: Friendship?

1628
01:28:08,280 --> 01:28:12,599
Speaker 1: Slash you and your girlfriend's relationship, Opi. Leah has been

1629
01:28:12,680 --> 01:28:15,880
Speaker 1: single longer than usual since her last breakup bit more

1630
01:28:15,920 --> 01:28:18,760
Speaker 1: than a year, but it's not the first time she's

1631
01:28:18,800 --> 01:28:22,240
Speaker 1: been single for an extended period of time since I've

1632
01:28:22,280 --> 01:28:24,479
Speaker 1: been friends with her, or since I got with Eva.

1633
01:28:25,080 --> 01:28:29,160
Speaker 1: She was single when she introduced us to Opie on

1634
01:28:29,320 --> 01:28:32,120
Speaker 1: how much he was helping Leah dealing with her breakup

1635
01:28:32,240 --> 01:28:38,280
Speaker 1: and if that affected Eva. Op Honestly, I'm pretty dang

1636
01:28:38,360 --> 01:28:40,000
Speaker 1: I was pretty dang involved in the breakup.

1637
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:41,640
Speaker 2: I was.

1638
01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:45,120
Speaker 1: I was in there like swimwear. It really hasn't been

1639
01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:47,479
Speaker 1: a habit of mine to chime in negatively on her

1640
01:28:47,560 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 1: choice of partners, and I even get along quite well

1641
01:28:49,880 --> 01:28:51,639
Speaker 1: with most of the ones I've met. But this dude

1642
01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:54,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't stand from day one. I held my tongue

1643
01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:56,519
Speaker 1: about it for several months, but at some point I

1644
01:28:56,680 --> 01:29:00,759
Speaker 1: was fed up making with him, make it Leah miserable,

1645
01:29:00,840 --> 01:29:04,160
Speaker 1: emotionally abusing her, gaslighting her. I was pretty sure he

1646
01:29:04,320 --> 01:29:06,519
Speaker 1: was cheating based on the stuff that she told me,

1647
01:29:06,960 --> 01:29:10,360
Speaker 1: so I intervened. I dropped by her place and told

1648
01:29:10,360 --> 01:29:12,200
Speaker 1: her everything I thought of the guy and that she

1649
01:29:12,240 --> 01:29:14,600
Speaker 1: should break up with him because she deserves better. I

1650
01:29:14,800 --> 01:29:17,040
Speaker 1: actively talked her into it, and she ended things with

1651
01:29:17,160 --> 01:29:20,240
Speaker 1: him less than a week later. Note Eva knew I

1652
01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:22,479
Speaker 1: would be doing this and agreed with my opinion of

1653
01:29:22,560 --> 01:29:25,400
Speaker 1: the guy, but it was my call, and my call

1654
01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:27,800
Speaker 1: only to actually step in. Leah was a bit of

1655
01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:30,040
Speaker 1: a mess in the aftermath, but we didn't really see

1656
01:29:30,080 --> 01:29:31,800
Speaker 1: each other one on one much at that time. We

1657
01:29:31,880 --> 01:29:33,759
Speaker 1: talked on the phone maybe a bit more than usual,

1658
01:29:33,840 --> 01:29:35,880
Speaker 1: and Eva and I hung out with her a few

1659
01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:39,000
Speaker 1: more times, but I wasn't her whole support system or anything.

1660
01:29:41,520 --> 01:29:47,880
Speaker 1: So bless your sweet soul, Thank you. We have a

1661
01:29:47,960 --> 01:29:48,800
Speaker 1: big question.

1662
01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:51,320
Speaker 2: What is it?

1663
01:29:51,439 --> 01:29:54,479
Speaker 1: And I'm really curious to hear everyone in the comments

1664
01:29:54,560 --> 01:29:59,560
Speaker 1: takes and we can spin up a poll. How do

1665
01:29:59,640 --> 01:30:06,200
Speaker 1: we say, like, basically, uh, reject the proposal or like?

1666
01:30:08,000 --> 01:30:15,519
Speaker 1: Or maybe maybe uh uh take ultimatum or nah? So basically,

1667
01:30:16,160 --> 01:30:21,000
Speaker 1: should Ope take the ultimatum and cut out Leah or nah?

1668
01:30:22,000 --> 01:30:26,200
Speaker 1: Say Hey, I don't want to do this and but

1669
01:30:26,320 --> 01:30:28,000
Speaker 1: of course I still want to get I don't want

1670
01:30:28,000 --> 01:30:30,599
Speaker 1: to be married, but take the ultimatum or Now we're

1671
01:30:30,600 --> 01:30:36,240
Speaker 1: gonna be throwing up a poll. But star Fang says,

1672
01:30:36,280 --> 01:30:38,640
Speaker 1: so Ope helped her out of an abusive relationship, and

1673
01:30:38,720 --> 01:30:41,479
Speaker 1: his girlfriend would rather her stay and be abused uh

1674
01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:44,639
Speaker 1: than have OP be a good friend. When you put

1675
01:30:44,680 --> 01:30:50,000
Speaker 1: it like that, Star Fangs sounds pretty crazy. Artemis Elrick says, Uh,

1676
01:30:50,120 --> 01:30:52,120
Speaker 1: that's just what friends do. They look out for their

1677
01:30:52,200 --> 01:30:54,800
Speaker 1: friends and they don't let them hurt by crappy people.

1678
01:30:55,200 --> 01:30:57,599
Speaker 1: OPI was literally just being a good friend to Leah.

1679
01:30:58,680 --> 01:31:00,720
Speaker 1: That's that's a great point. And we also have some

1680
01:31:01,080 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 1: comments comment or some donations commenting thanks covy girl, all

1681
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:05,720
Speaker 1: playing for.

1682
01:31:05,720 --> 01:31:06,240
Speaker 2: The five bucks.

1683
01:31:06,320 --> 01:31:09,200
Speaker 1: Maybe Eva is picking Uh is picking up on Leah

1684
01:31:09,280 --> 01:31:12,599
Speaker 1: having secret feelings and if it got revealed to Op,

1685
01:31:12,840 --> 01:31:15,719
Speaker 1: his old feelings would come back if he had a chance.

1686
01:31:15,800 --> 01:31:18,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know that we could rule out

1687
01:31:18,920 --> 01:31:27,800
Speaker 1: Leah seeing him. I could see a world where the

1688
01:31:30,479 --> 01:31:33,080
Speaker 1: after Op kind of coming in and helping her see

1689
01:31:33,120 --> 01:31:37,519
Speaker 1: the light. She rose feelings for Op, like, wow, he

1690
01:31:37,720 --> 01:31:40,360
Speaker 1: really cared about me and he stepped in when it's

1691
01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:42,560
Speaker 1: it's a hard thing to do to step in and

1692
01:31:42,640 --> 01:31:45,519
Speaker 1: tell your friend, like, you know, leave this guy, you

1693
01:31:45,600 --> 01:31:48,640
Speaker 1: know that, all all that stuff. I won't say it's

1694
01:31:48,680 --> 01:31:50,840
Speaker 1: a hard thing to do, but not a you know,

1695
01:31:51,880 --> 01:31:54,599
Speaker 1: it cannot be the easiest thing. Sometimes it was good.

1696
01:31:54,720 --> 01:31:57,640
Speaker 1: It was a good thing that OPI did that, and

1697
01:31:59,040 --> 01:32:01,200
Speaker 1: I could see a world we have literally zero proof

1698
01:32:01,240 --> 01:32:04,080
Speaker 1: so far, none, no proof, And Leah was the one

1699
01:32:04,160 --> 01:32:06,720
Speaker 1: that literally set them up together. So I very much

1700
01:32:06,840 --> 01:32:09,800
Speaker 1: believe from all of that context that Leah is very

1701
01:32:09,960 --> 01:32:14,080
Speaker 1: pro him being with Eva, considering she literally like did

1702
01:32:14,160 --> 01:32:17,360
Speaker 1: the most to make sure that happened. Yeah, and we're

1703
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:21,840
Speaker 1: literally getting one hundred percent, Nah, one hundred don't right?

1704
01:32:22,479 --> 01:32:24,439
Speaker 1: Eighteen votes, Na, eighteen votes.

1705
01:32:24,520 --> 01:32:24,680
Speaker 4: Nah.

1706
01:32:24,960 --> 01:32:27,720
Speaker 1: Let's see if you have any I actually love I

1707
01:32:27,800 --> 01:32:29,400
Speaker 1: love it when there's one one.

1708
01:32:29,760 --> 01:32:32,280
Speaker 3: Sidney without Kinney's coming and clutch with Sydney.

1709
01:32:33,400 --> 01:32:36,720
Speaker 1: Sydney takes the ultimatum, Sydney, did you do that just

1710
01:32:36,760 --> 01:32:39,120
Speaker 1: to be a contrarian, just for kicks and giggles?

1711
01:32:39,320 --> 01:32:41,080
Speaker 2: Let me know? Oh?

1712
01:32:41,160 --> 01:32:44,240
Speaker 1: Did I read all the other I think I did.

1713
01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:47,439
Speaker 1: Shout out to you all Asian presasion Mindy Walker, we

1714
01:32:47,520 --> 01:32:52,160
Speaker 1: appreciate you. Yeah, we pretty much got everyone, but all

1715
01:32:52,160 --> 01:32:53,479
Speaker 1: we got no, No, we got it, we got we

1716
01:32:53,600 --> 01:32:54,280
Speaker 1: got a few.

1717
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:57,320
Speaker 2: Stragglers saying take the ultimatum. I mean.

1718
01:32:59,439 --> 01:33:04,960
Speaker 1: It is really tough and like, hey, I want you

1719
01:33:05,080 --> 01:33:08,599
Speaker 1: to stop. It's it makes total sense when someone's like, hey,

1720
01:33:08,680 --> 01:33:12,519
Speaker 1: stop seeing someone because of a legitimate reason. Right. If

1721
01:33:12,560 --> 01:33:14,479
Speaker 1: that's the case, absolutely, do.

1722
01:33:14,479 --> 01:33:16,880
Speaker 3: You think that you can vamp for a little bit

1723
01:33:16,920 --> 01:33:17,799
Speaker 3: while I go to the bathroom.

1724
01:33:17,840 --> 01:33:20,720
Speaker 1: Oh I can sow vamp. I can freaking vamp like

1725
01:33:20,760 --> 01:33:25,360
Speaker 1: a champ baby. Oh so Chinese bonds. Mar says that

1726
01:33:25,400 --> 01:33:27,840
Speaker 1: they've been in friends for a decade. That is enough

1727
01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:30,680
Speaker 1: time for something to have happened on their side. This

1728
01:33:30,760 --> 01:33:34,240
Speaker 1: shouldn't have even been a second thought. Shouldn't have even

1729
01:33:34,360 --> 01:33:38,120
Speaker 1: been a second thought. Mindy Wilder, Oh wait, I lost it.

1730
01:33:38,520 --> 01:33:42,080
Speaker 1: They've been basically saying guys and girls can't be friends. Yes,

1731
01:33:42,200 --> 01:33:45,800
Speaker 1: Mindy Wilder, I believe that is that is kind of true.

1732
01:33:45,880 --> 01:33:48,720
Speaker 1: A dash of Starta says Sam's good takes, Bro. Sam

1733
01:33:48,840 --> 01:33:52,479
Speaker 1: didn't even hear an He's dropping the takes. Mackie says, chaos,

1734
01:33:53,080 --> 01:33:53,920
Speaker 1: absolutely chaos.

1735
01:33:54,560 --> 01:33:54,800
Speaker 2: Mac.

1736
01:33:55,040 --> 01:34:01,400
Speaker 1: What if Eva did something? And and and Leah knows, Wow,

1737
01:34:01,640 --> 01:34:06,000
Speaker 1: that is a great here, that is a great conspiracy theory.

1738
01:34:06,560 --> 01:34:09,200
Speaker 1: Eva is like, hey, you got to cut her out.

1739
01:34:09,240 --> 01:34:10,720
Speaker 1: But here, here's what I would say back to that.

1740
01:34:10,840 --> 01:34:12,040
Speaker 1: Here's what I would say back to it. Keeps the

1741
01:34:12,040 --> 01:34:15,120
Speaker 1: comments coming, keeps the comments coming. Oh a dash of stars,

1742
01:34:15,560 --> 01:34:20,320
Speaker 1: Come on, now, it's your boy John, not freakin' Sam Bro.

1743
01:34:20,640 --> 01:34:25,880
Speaker 1: What are we talking about? Lost my train of thought?

1744
01:34:26,720 --> 01:34:27,200
Speaker 2: I lost it.

1745
01:34:27,280 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 1: That's gone. Oh uh, if Eva did something like Eva

1746
01:34:31,240 --> 01:34:35,479
Speaker 1: cheated or something. When OPI goes to Leah and he's like, hey,

1747
01:34:35,520 --> 01:34:38,479
Speaker 1: I gotta cut you out. I feel like Leah or

1748
01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:39,840
Speaker 1: like something. OPI would say.

1749
01:34:39,920 --> 01:34:42,439
Speaker 2: Leo would probably pick up on that, and then Leo

1750
01:34:42,479 --> 01:34:42,960
Speaker 2: would be like.

1751
01:34:43,080 --> 01:34:45,519
Speaker 1: You know the real reason why because she's cheating on

1752
01:34:45,600 --> 01:34:49,720
Speaker 1: you and I feel like I mean, maybe if I

1753
01:34:49,840 --> 01:34:51,880
Speaker 1: feel like Eva, I would guess it would be a

1754
01:34:51,920 --> 01:34:56,479
Speaker 1: pretty dumb move to uh, thank you, I do gotta

1755
01:34:56,520 --> 01:34:58,320
Speaker 1: glow the sun is setting. It would be a pretty

1756
01:34:58,439 --> 01:35:04,200
Speaker 1: dumb move you do that, I would say it would

1757
01:35:04,200 --> 01:35:07,360
Speaker 1: be a pretty dumb move. Danielle paper Green says, John,

1758
01:35:07,479 --> 01:35:09,200
Speaker 1: can you freestyle rat for us?

1759
01:35:09,320 --> 01:35:09,679
Speaker 2: Please?

1760
01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's get it part of drum at the end,

1761
01:35:16,720 --> 01:35:20,880
Speaker 1: freestyle at the same time. So I'm gonna go acapella. Okay,

1762
01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:23,400
Speaker 1: fam y'all we're here the jam. Yeah, it's your man

1763
01:35:23,520 --> 01:35:25,559
Speaker 1: John on the mic, and we get in this lit

1764
01:35:25,760 --> 01:35:30,519
Speaker 1: It's gonna be fantastic and amazing. Yeah, we're glazing all

1765
01:35:30,640 --> 01:35:33,479
Speaker 1: the comments. Yeah, we're all in. Yeah, we're going all in.

1766
01:35:33,720 --> 01:35:33,960
Speaker 2: Y'all.

1767
01:35:34,040 --> 01:35:36,640
Speaker 1: Don't know what I'm talking about now, y'all. Don't know

1768
01:35:36,800 --> 01:35:39,040
Speaker 1: how y'all I get down, but I get down on

1769
01:35:39,200 --> 01:35:42,439
Speaker 1: these freestyles. I could go for one thousand miles, three

1770
01:35:42,520 --> 01:35:45,920
Speaker 1: thousand miles, ten thousand miles. I'll never stop. I see

1771
01:35:46,000 --> 01:35:48,240
Speaker 1: the smiles, I see this, I see the w's in

1772
01:35:48,280 --> 01:35:51,599
Speaker 1: the comments for your boy that's rhymen like comment hey,

1773
01:35:51,840 --> 01:35:54,320
Speaker 1: and we're getting that ramen. I'm the top end. And

1774
01:35:54,400 --> 01:35:56,880
Speaker 1: it's like, that's why I keep climbing. YA had a

1775
01:35:56,920 --> 01:35:58,960
Speaker 1: lot of can't stop. Yeah, your boy won't stop. Yeah,

1776
01:35:58,960 --> 01:36:00,840
Speaker 1: I can't get I keep get mad and you keep

1777
01:36:00,880 --> 01:36:02,840
Speaker 1: getting sad. I keep getting got it because I see

1778
01:36:02,880 --> 01:36:05,000
Speaker 1: the dono's coming in. I don't know what y'all thought

1779
01:36:05,120 --> 01:36:08,160
Speaker 1: this was, but but I'm back to the program. Yeah,

1780
01:36:08,240 --> 01:36:11,040
Speaker 1: we're back end. I'm really gonna show man. I'm gonna

1781
01:36:11,040 --> 01:36:12,439
Speaker 1: show you what it out. I'm gonna show you what

1782
01:36:12,520 --> 01:36:15,559
Speaker 1: it is, and I'm show you right now. Not the best,

1783
01:36:15,640 --> 01:36:17,840
Speaker 1: but just some fun. Just we're just having fun. We're

1784
01:36:17,880 --> 01:36:19,400
Speaker 1: just having I can't I can't freestyle by the way

1785
01:36:19,439 --> 01:36:20,360
Speaker 1: I write, but I don't. I don't.

1786
01:36:20,360 --> 01:36:21,400
Speaker 2: I don't freestyle very well.

1787
01:36:22,160 --> 01:36:24,240
Speaker 1: I gotta share my music. Eventually, it's coming. It's coming.

1788
01:36:25,479 --> 01:36:27,280
Speaker 1: Thanks guys for the w's in the chat. That was

1789
01:36:27,479 --> 01:36:29,639
Speaker 1: not not the greatest, but it was fun. It was fun.

1790
01:36:29,720 --> 01:36:32,000
Speaker 1: Shout shout out to uh Daniel Papercrane for ask for

1791
01:36:32,080 --> 01:36:34,599
Speaker 1: the freestyle. That's fun. I should really practice on here

1792
01:36:34,640 --> 01:36:37,080
Speaker 1: because you guys will be kind to me. Although I'll

1793
01:36:37,120 --> 01:36:39,280
Speaker 1: have a lot of clips with me. Uh not, not

1794
01:36:39,840 --> 01:36:42,120
Speaker 1: not doing well. We're just having fun. We're just having fun.

1795
01:36:42,320 --> 01:36:43,760
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not the greatest in the world at

1796
01:36:43,800 --> 01:36:51,920
Speaker 1: all at all. All right, but guys, kids, sites Patria Beal,

1797
01:36:52,000 --> 01:36:54,280
Speaker 1: let's freaking go Oh, that's so funny.

1798
01:36:54,360 --> 01:36:55,760
Speaker 2: Kids, c interest That's that's great.

1799
01:36:55,960 --> 01:36:56,400
Speaker 3: I like that.

1800
01:36:56,760 --> 01:37:01,080
Speaker 1: I like that two buck tip from Marcilla von Begs

1801
01:37:01,120 --> 01:37:03,920
Speaker 1: for a two buck tip. Girlfriend is insecure. Ultimatums are

1802
01:37:03,960 --> 01:37:05,600
Speaker 1: not okay, yeah, I.

1803
01:37:08,080 --> 01:37:10,280
Speaker 2: I so to be clear.

1804
01:37:10,840 --> 01:37:15,400
Speaker 1: Eva was like, hey, this isn't an ultimatum, but when

1805
01:37:15,560 --> 01:37:19,040
Speaker 1: we like officially get engaged and like, you know, get

1806
01:37:19,160 --> 01:37:21,800
Speaker 1: we're committed to being married, I don't want you to

1807
01:37:21,880 --> 01:37:24,640
Speaker 1: be friends with Eva anymore. She did say, it's not

1808
01:37:24,720 --> 01:37:33,240
Speaker 1: an ultimatum, but I think that I don't know, really looks.

1809
01:37:33,080 --> 01:37:33,599
Speaker 2: Like a chip.

1810
01:37:33,960 --> 01:37:36,120
Speaker 1: I'm bro I I vamped. We did a freestyle.

1811
01:37:36,280 --> 01:37:36,800
Speaker 2: It was great.

1812
01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:38,719
Speaker 1: We had we had such a fun time. We should

1813
01:37:38,720 --> 01:37:40,920
Speaker 1: add that to the wheel by the way am vamp

1814
01:37:41,720 --> 01:37:46,840
Speaker 1: bamp live. Um, Sophia, let me ask you this. Yeah,

1815
01:37:46,840 --> 01:37:49,680
Speaker 1: I'm back, We're getting right back into it. Do you

1816
01:37:50,000 --> 01:37:54,679
Speaker 1: think that her saying it's not an ultimatum, like obviously,

1817
01:37:55,560 --> 01:37:57,880
Speaker 1: I mean, you shouldn't ask for this should begin with.

1818
01:37:58,040 --> 01:38:01,280
Speaker 1: But if you're want to ask for something like this,

1819
01:38:01,840 --> 01:38:05,360
Speaker 1: it's obviously good to say this isn't an ultimatum. But

1820
01:38:05,840 --> 01:38:08,160
Speaker 1: is that also kind of like it's not an ultimatum,

1821
01:38:08,160 --> 01:38:09,280
Speaker 1: but it is, you know, you know what I'm trying

1822
01:38:09,320 --> 01:38:11,840
Speaker 1: to say, Like she's saying that, but in reality, she's

1823
01:38:11,960 --> 01:38:14,040
Speaker 1: not feeling that.

1824
01:38:14,560 --> 01:38:17,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't really if you're yeah, I've like why

1825
01:38:17,760 --> 01:38:19,519
Speaker 3: else would Well?

1826
01:38:20,080 --> 01:38:23,160
Speaker 1: I guess you could say, I guess you could just

1827
01:38:23,200 --> 01:38:25,960
Speaker 1: go a little bit further and be like, hey, this

1828
01:38:26,160 --> 01:38:29,439
Speaker 1: isn't an ultimatum. It's totally like, I want you to

1829
01:38:29,479 --> 01:38:32,240
Speaker 1: feel very comfortable saying no to this, but this is

1830
01:38:32,280 --> 01:38:34,120
Speaker 1: something that would make me comfortable. But if you don't

1831
01:38:34,160 --> 01:38:36,280
Speaker 1: want to do this, I so understand. I so respect

1832
01:38:36,439 --> 01:38:39,840
Speaker 1: yeah that and will be totally no worries. I think

1833
01:38:39,920 --> 01:38:42,559
Speaker 1: maybe she could have gone a little further in helping

1834
01:38:42,640 --> 01:38:46,240
Speaker 1: ope feel comfortable and that this wasn't an ultimatum. But

1835
01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:48,599
Speaker 1: actually I have an ultimatum right now, Sophia. If Sam

1836
01:38:48,640 --> 01:38:49,639
Speaker 1: doesn't come back, I'm leaving.

1837
01:38:51,320 --> 01:38:51,960
Speaker 3: Sorry, I I.

1838
01:38:54,520 --> 01:38:58,080
Speaker 1: Wow, wow, you know what my ultimatum is meant. I'm

1839
01:38:58,080 --> 01:38:59,840
Speaker 1: staying put. I'm staying put.

1840
01:39:00,320 --> 01:39:05,360
Speaker 2: Dank you, Thank goodness, gracious damn Are you ready for tildr?

1841
01:39:07,360 --> 01:39:11,599
Speaker 1: Yes, it's been quite a day. It's been quite a day, Dannie.

1842
01:39:11,640 --> 01:39:13,680
Speaker 2: All paper cranes as Sam is back from telling the

1843
01:39:13,760 --> 01:39:15,880
Speaker 2: Fling that she can't come, and so he is going

1844
01:39:15,960 --> 01:39:18,320
Speaker 2: to the movie and and said, I don't know why

1845
01:39:18,400 --> 01:39:20,439
Speaker 2: you're saying this person is a fling. This is the

1846
01:39:20,479 --> 01:39:23,680
Speaker 2: person that I've I have most talked about. That is

1847
01:39:23,720 --> 01:39:24,840
Speaker 2: true in the last year.

1848
01:39:25,400 --> 01:39:25,880
Speaker 1: That's true.

1849
01:39:26,120 --> 01:39:30,040
Speaker 2: Who knows. Maybe it's more serious than you guys think. Huh.

1850
01:39:31,000 --> 01:39:31,880
Speaker 1: Think I ever think of that?

1851
01:39:32,479 --> 01:39:33,160
Speaker 2: I ever think of that?

1852
01:39:33,560 --> 01:39:35,559
Speaker 1: You ever thought about that? Ladies and gentlemen.

1853
01:39:35,920 --> 01:39:39,080
Speaker 2: I heard John freestyling though we should add it to

1854
01:39:39,160 --> 01:39:41,519
Speaker 2: the wheel. I literally text I heard you, and I

1855
01:39:41,600 --> 01:39:45,040
Speaker 2: texted Riley yeah, and I'm like, you're putting on a beat.

1856
01:39:45,520 --> 01:39:45,960
Speaker 1: It was good.

1857
01:39:46,080 --> 01:39:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need to go a beat freestyle aving. We

1858
01:39:48,439 --> 01:39:51,040
Speaker 2: got to get some super super royalty free beats. Though

1859
01:39:51,120 --> 01:39:54,680
Speaker 2: he raise a con saying Sam looking sickly.

1860
01:39:56,000 --> 01:39:56,320
Speaker 1: Rude.

1861
01:39:57,160 --> 01:40:02,479
Speaker 2: Guys, guys, what's cool? Battle and mass make it official.

1862
01:40:02,560 --> 01:40:07,519
Speaker 2: I'm I'm like chill and it's not what she is

1863
01:40:07,680 --> 01:40:14,320
Speaker 2: my age. M Oh what Sam's getting mad that no

1864
01:40:14,400 --> 01:40:17,479
Speaker 2: one believes. Yeah I am. We had a very we

1865
01:40:17,560 --> 01:40:18,720
Speaker 2: had a twenty hour date.

1866
01:40:19,600 --> 01:40:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah all right.

1867
01:40:20,240 --> 01:40:22,840
Speaker 3: You know what I'm getting mad is that we're not

1868
01:40:22,880 --> 01:40:23,960
Speaker 3: reading this update.

1869
01:40:24,120 --> 01:40:26,920
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Update. Okay, let's let's.

1870
01:40:28,400 --> 01:40:32,000
Speaker 1: Let's Sam. Let me give you this deal there. Yeah,

1871
01:40:32,320 --> 01:40:37,200
Speaker 1: lots and the new thing, yes, if you want that.

1872
01:40:38,479 --> 01:40:44,960
Speaker 2: Wait really quick. In the discord we are doing, can

1873
01:40:45,040 --> 01:40:48,240
Speaker 2: you write a list of items and an item that

1874
01:40:48,400 --> 01:40:54,080
Speaker 2: can be drawn that you think is relevant to OKOP

1875
01:40:54,479 --> 01:40:58,560
Speaker 2: as a show. Yes, So, like, for example, like a

1876
01:40:58,640 --> 01:41:04,080
Speaker 2: pregnancy test or like an inheritance money bag or a

1877
01:41:04,280 --> 01:41:06,000
Speaker 2: baby worm or.

1878
01:41:06,000 --> 01:41:08,280
Speaker 1: A worm that's a that's a that's an obvious one.

1879
01:41:08,479 --> 01:41:11,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, stuff like that. If you could put those in

1880
01:41:12,040 --> 01:41:15,600
Speaker 2: the what where? What channel should it be in? But

1881
01:41:15,720 --> 01:41:18,439
Speaker 2: it put me in the same channel, in the same channel, Yeah,

1882
01:41:18,600 --> 01:41:22,880
Speaker 2: put it in, Sam put yeah, Paul, but I have

1883
01:41:22,920 --> 01:41:28,320
Speaker 2: a tldr F you. So basically, uh Op is about

1884
01:41:28,320 --> 01:41:32,120
Speaker 2: to propose to his lady and this amazing friend Leah

1885
01:41:33,080 --> 01:41:33,519
Speaker 2: crushed it.

1886
01:41:34,080 --> 01:41:36,320
Speaker 1: She introduced them, she helped them set up the first date,

1887
01:41:36,400 --> 01:41:40,280
Speaker 1: literally orchestrated everything to help them like become a couple. Now,

1888
01:41:41,200 --> 01:41:44,040
Speaker 1: his potential fiance is like, you got to cut that

1889
01:41:44,080 --> 01:41:48,240
Speaker 1: girl out of your life as soon as we are engaged. Gone, gone, gone,

1890
01:41:48,640 --> 01:41:52,760
Speaker 1: get her out here. It wasn't an ultimatum, but she

1891
01:41:52,920 --> 01:41:57,880
Speaker 1: was like, I want her out of here. And that's

1892
01:41:57,880 --> 01:42:00,679
Speaker 1: where we're at right now. So op Op is basically saying,

1893
01:42:01,120 --> 01:42:03,080
Speaker 1: what do I do because I don't want to cut

1894
01:42:03,200 --> 01:42:06,960
Speaker 1: Lee out like the friend, like that is not an

1895
01:42:07,000 --> 01:42:07,800
Speaker 1: option that I want to.

1896
01:42:07,800 --> 01:42:10,200
Speaker 2: Do or is on the table really, but all they

1897
01:42:10,280 --> 01:42:11,600
Speaker 2: want to stay with this person, But.

1898
01:42:11,680 --> 01:42:13,360
Speaker 1: Of course they want to stay with their partner, right

1899
01:42:13,479 --> 01:42:14,679
Speaker 1: they want to propose?

1900
01:42:15,120 --> 01:42:17,439
Speaker 2: Or do they? Or do they?

1901
01:42:17,640 --> 01:42:19,639
Speaker 1: That is the question that we are about to answer.

1902
01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:23,600
Speaker 2: Is this a little bit as stinky behavior to have

1903
01:42:23,800 --> 01:42:30,000
Speaker 2: someone just cut off their friend? Also, have we done

1904
01:42:30,000 --> 01:42:30,720
Speaker 2: a calling yet?

1905
01:42:30,960 --> 01:42:31,120
Speaker 3: Yes?

1906
01:42:31,680 --> 01:42:32,400
Speaker 2: Oh and I missed it?

1907
01:42:32,640 --> 01:42:37,360
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, we probably cousin Winners, Oh yeah, they crushed it.

1908
01:42:37,800 --> 01:42:42,000
Speaker 2: I miss brother cousin. I know, I know, I know,

1909
01:42:42,800 --> 01:42:44,240
Speaker 2: I am so is it good?

1910
01:42:44,800 --> 01:42:47,160
Speaker 1: It was pretty good? Also, Winners was like maybe the

1911
01:42:47,280 --> 01:42:48,880
Speaker 1: best most concise.

1912
01:42:48,600 --> 01:42:54,000
Speaker 2: Like, ah, you're kidding me. Not only did I miss

1913
01:42:54,000 --> 01:42:56,840
Speaker 2: a good story, but a concise, to the point story.

1914
01:42:57,280 --> 01:42:58,400
Speaker 1: It was to the freaking point.

1915
01:42:58,760 --> 01:43:05,120
Speaker 2: Aha, I am so bummed. There it is. I am

1916
01:43:05,280 --> 01:43:07,240
Speaker 2: so bummed. I am sorry I missed that.

1917
01:43:08,720 --> 01:43:11,280
Speaker 1: Well, Sam, I got something that you definitely won't miss

1918
01:43:12,760 --> 01:43:17,880
Speaker 1: what days up day? So this weekend, after getting all

1919
01:43:17,920 --> 01:43:20,040
Speaker 1: of my thoughts in order, I let even know we

1920
01:43:20,280 --> 01:43:23,720
Speaker 1: needed to talk about what it was about about, like

1921
01:43:23,880 --> 01:43:25,680
Speaker 1: what was the impetus for all this stuff? Which, by

1922
01:43:25,720 --> 01:43:28,600
Speaker 1: the way, additional context. They talked about this in the

1923
01:43:28,640 --> 01:43:30,600
Speaker 1: first month of them dating, because Op did have a

1924
01:43:30,640 --> 01:43:33,280
Speaker 1: crush on her when she was fifteen this friend, Yes,

1925
01:43:33,600 --> 01:43:35,200
Speaker 1: but they talked about it and put it to bed

1926
01:43:35,360 --> 01:43:37,640
Speaker 1: at the first month. Now we're six years into the relationship.

1927
01:43:38,560 --> 01:43:40,880
Speaker 1: First time it's been brought up since the first month. Okay,

1928
01:43:41,680 --> 01:43:43,280
Speaker 1: I let even know that we need to talk about

1929
01:43:43,560 --> 01:43:46,920
Speaker 1: about what it was about. She initially pushed back, reiterating

1930
01:43:46,960 --> 01:43:49,360
Speaker 1: that she didn't want to argue, but I insisted, and

1931
01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:52,040
Speaker 1: I told her I shouldn't need to be in an

1932
01:43:52,240 --> 01:43:53,639
Speaker 1: argument and we should.

1933
01:43:53,439 --> 01:43:54,479
Speaker 2: Be able to just discuss this.

1934
01:43:54,960 --> 01:43:59,000
Speaker 1: I proceeded by telling her that if telling her that

1935
01:43:59,160 --> 01:44:00,880
Speaker 1: she is the one I love and want to be with,

1936
01:44:01,400 --> 01:44:04,200
Speaker 1: that Leah is still just a friend, albeit an important one,

1937
01:44:04,439 --> 01:44:06,280
Speaker 1: but that I would not be cutting her out of

1938
01:44:06,320 --> 01:44:08,960
Speaker 1: my life, as that was an unreasonable request to make

1939
01:44:09,160 --> 01:44:12,240
Speaker 1: in the absence of inappropriate behavior from either of us.

1940
01:44:12,720 --> 01:44:16,120
Speaker 1: I told her that this stance was final, and added

1941
01:44:16,160 --> 01:44:18,280
Speaker 1: that I hoped we'd be able to communicate and get

1942
01:44:18,320 --> 01:44:20,240
Speaker 1: to the bottom of where all the stemmed from.

1943
01:44:20,280 --> 01:44:21,439
Speaker 2: And move forward together.

1944
01:44:22,720 --> 01:44:28,160
Speaker 1: She was not happy about this, but she didn't shut

1945
01:44:28,200 --> 01:44:31,240
Speaker 1: down the discussion either, and we had a long talk afterwards.

1946
01:44:32,160 --> 01:44:36,680
Speaker 1: Among other things, she again conceded that Leah hadn't done

1947
01:44:36,840 --> 01:44:39,439
Speaker 1: or said anything to cause issues between Eva and I,

1948
01:44:40,040 --> 01:44:43,040
Speaker 1: and that she did actually know that the twelve years

1949
01:44:43,080 --> 01:44:46,320
Speaker 1: old crush was not really relevant, nor was it a

1950
01:44:46,360 --> 01:44:49,120
Speaker 1: big deal, and she was kind of grasping at straws

1951
01:44:49,320 --> 01:44:53,960
Speaker 1: bringing it up. As it turns out, a bigger factor

1952
01:44:54,040 --> 01:44:58,240
Speaker 1: for her was my involvement in Leah's breakup last year

1953
01:44:58,840 --> 01:45:02,600
Speaker 1: and a perceived in a perceived change in that aftermath.

1954
01:45:03,560 --> 01:45:06,280
Speaker 1: She told me that she didn't disagree the guy was

1955
01:45:06,479 --> 01:45:09,120
Speaker 1: an a hole or even that someone needed to convince

1956
01:45:09,240 --> 01:45:11,559
Speaker 1: Lea to break it off, but that she hadn't been

1957
01:45:11,680 --> 01:45:15,439
Speaker 1: comfortable about the way I'd gone about it. I talked

1958
01:45:15,479 --> 01:45:17,600
Speaker 1: about it in a comment on the original post, but

1959
01:45:17,760 --> 01:45:20,839
Speaker 1: basically I just up and decided to do it myself.

1960
01:45:20,920 --> 01:45:23,719
Speaker 1: At some point I went to Leah's place and convinced

1961
01:45:23,760 --> 01:45:26,439
Speaker 1: her that she deserved better. At the time, I told

1962
01:45:26,560 --> 01:45:29,160
Speaker 1: Eva I'd be doing it, but didn't consult with her

1963
01:45:29,280 --> 01:45:34,200
Speaker 1: about how or anything like that. So real quick, actually,

1964
01:45:34,240 --> 01:45:38,080
Speaker 1: everyone in the chat and Big Sammy, so basically what

1965
01:45:38,200 --> 01:45:41,640
Speaker 1: Opie was saying, Leah, the friend in question to be

1966
01:45:41,720 --> 01:45:46,320
Speaker 1: cut out, was dating this a whole guy. OPI eventually

1967
01:45:46,360 --> 01:45:49,559
Speaker 1: stepped in and like literally like went to her place

1968
01:45:49,600 --> 01:45:52,000
Speaker 1: and was like, you, this guy's terrible for you. He's

1969
01:45:52,040 --> 01:45:54,240
Speaker 1: like emotionally abusive, all of this stuff. You need to

1970
01:45:54,320 --> 01:45:56,400
Speaker 1: leave him. And then she left him within the week

1971
01:45:56,520 --> 01:45:56,880
Speaker 1: after that.

1972
01:45:57,200 --> 01:45:57,400
Speaker 2: Wow.

1973
01:45:58,439 --> 01:46:06,240
Speaker 1: But m hm, is it fair that Eva was like, Yeah,

1974
01:46:06,280 --> 01:46:08,080
Speaker 1: you told me you were gonna intervene, but you like

1975
01:46:08,200 --> 01:46:11,360
Speaker 1: went over to the house and like it was like

1976
01:46:11,560 --> 01:46:13,760
Speaker 1: a lot of involvement. I didn't really know how it

1977
01:46:13,920 --> 01:46:17,120
Speaker 1: was going to go down. Is that kind of fair

1978
01:46:17,240 --> 01:46:29,200
Speaker 1: for Eva to feel some type of way about that? Hmm, thinking.

1979
01:46:30,479 --> 01:46:35,640
Speaker 2: Wondering, I think I need more context. Oh so.

1980
01:46:39,880 --> 01:46:42,720
Speaker 1: Basically, maybe Eva, like the ex mac Mac has been

1981
01:46:42,760 --> 01:46:46,479
Speaker 1: throwing conspiracy theories. So uh so again.

1982
01:46:46,360 --> 01:46:48,160
Speaker 2: Covenant and had it been a male friend, wouldn't have

1983
01:46:48,240 --> 01:46:52,760
Speaker 2: been an issue to me. A friend is a friend, right,

1984
01:46:52,880 --> 01:46:54,880
Speaker 2: that's what the who's whos that? The commented that.

1985
01:46:56,880 --> 01:47:00,960
Speaker 1: Lena Covenant Lena, Yeah, so basically again for context, so

1986
01:47:02,720 --> 01:47:08,040
Speaker 1: there's three people, Opie, Opie's potential, Opie's girlfriend, and then

1987
01:47:08,400 --> 01:47:11,599
Speaker 1: Leah the friend, and so Leah helped introduce them, set

1988
01:47:11,640 --> 01:47:16,200
Speaker 1: them all up, and when Leah was in a really

1989
01:47:16,240 --> 01:47:19,680
Speaker 1: bad relationship, Opie like drove to her house, was like,

1990
01:47:19,880 --> 01:47:20,960
Speaker 1: you need to dump this guy.

1991
01:47:21,120 --> 01:47:22,120
Speaker 2: He's terrible for you.

1992
01:47:24,439 --> 01:47:29,880
Speaker 1: He did tell Eva, but didn't tell her obviously the

1993
01:47:29,920 --> 01:47:32,519
Speaker 1: specifics of hey, here's when I'm going over. Sorry you

1994
01:47:32,600 --> 01:47:35,000
Speaker 1: were saying you need more podcast. He did tell and

1995
01:47:35,040 --> 01:47:38,480
Speaker 1: his girlfriend. He told his girlfriend, I'm going to intervene.

1996
01:47:38,640 --> 01:47:44,960
Speaker 2: In the the his his friend Lina's Lia's Leah's relationship, yes,

1997
01:47:45,280 --> 01:47:49,479
Speaker 2: because it was bad, but he didn't like Eva's already

1998
01:47:49,600 --> 01:47:50,679
Speaker 2: jealous of Leah.

1999
01:47:51,320 --> 01:47:56,240
Speaker 1: I think this maybe spurred the jealousy or like the yeah,

2000
01:47:56,640 --> 01:47:59,880
Speaker 1: like the the the jealousy because he like went over

2001
01:48:00,040 --> 01:48:03,800
Speaker 1: to her house, he was like pretty he he was like.

2002
01:48:03,960 --> 01:48:07,160
Speaker 2: Hands on and orchestrating a breakup.

2003
01:48:07,240 --> 01:48:09,200
Speaker 1: He's like, I am going to be the one that

2004
01:48:09,280 --> 01:48:12,559
Speaker 1: steps up and make sure she gets out of this relationship. Right,

2005
01:48:13,760 --> 01:48:17,200
Speaker 1: So is it right for maybe Eva to feel a

2006
01:48:17,320 --> 01:48:21,200
Speaker 1: bit of a way to feel feel you know.

2007
01:48:21,520 --> 01:48:23,920
Speaker 2: A little bit. But but but didn't hope he give

2008
01:48:24,880 --> 01:48:27,400
Speaker 2: all the context, not all the context. He was a

2009
01:48:27,439 --> 01:48:28,080
Speaker 2: context that was.

2010
01:48:28,479 --> 01:48:31,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to intervene. He didn't tell like when he

2011
01:48:31,400 --> 01:48:33,680
Speaker 1: drove off and went to her house and like the

2012
01:48:33,800 --> 01:48:37,280
Speaker 1: further like phone calls and like other like kind of

2013
01:48:37,360 --> 01:48:38,200
Speaker 1: staying on top of it.

2014
01:48:38,439 --> 01:48:41,880
Speaker 2: And he didn't say that. He didn't say he was

2015
01:48:41,920 --> 01:48:43,439
Speaker 2: going over to her house. I believe not.

2016
01:48:43,800 --> 01:48:46,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, what is it is?

2017
01:48:46,280 --> 01:48:46,320
Speaker 4: It?

2018
01:48:47,120 --> 01:48:49,439
Speaker 2: Was there a precedent for him going over to her house?

2019
01:48:50,120 --> 01:48:51,080
Speaker 2: Is that something that he would do?

2020
01:48:51,640 --> 01:48:54,000
Speaker 1: No, because they would the three of them would hang

2021
01:48:54,040 --> 01:48:56,800
Speaker 1: out together. They would hang out independently, but not like

2022
01:48:57,040 --> 01:48:59,479
Speaker 1: going directly like going out to eat and stuff.

2023
01:48:59,479 --> 01:49:02,000
Speaker 2: I would have say them, so they wouldn't. They wouldn't

2024
01:49:02,000 --> 01:49:04,760
Speaker 2: spend time one on one. They would stip they would,

2025
01:49:04,920 --> 01:49:05,519
Speaker 2: they would.

2026
01:49:05,439 --> 01:49:08,360
Speaker 1: But I'm not into not each other, well reading the context,

2027
01:49:08,520 --> 01:49:09,880
Speaker 1: not like alone at there.

2028
01:49:10,080 --> 01:49:13,439
Speaker 2: They wouldn't spend they wouldn't spend one on one time

2029
01:49:13,640 --> 01:49:16,880
Speaker 2: alone in their houses, yes, I believe, but they would

2030
01:49:16,920 --> 01:49:20,719
Speaker 2: spend one on time alone. Yeah hmmm.

2031
01:49:22,840 --> 01:49:25,479
Speaker 1: I could see her feeling a bit of a way

2032
01:49:26,360 --> 01:49:31,960
Speaker 1: in the moment, but she took that and gave him

2033
01:49:31,960 --> 01:49:35,040
Speaker 1: the ultimatum to cut her off completely.

2034
01:49:36,040 --> 01:49:40,559
Speaker 2: That feels a little harsh, especially based on the context

2035
01:49:40,680 --> 01:49:43,800
Speaker 2: that I have been giving a given so far. It

2036
01:49:44,000 --> 01:49:49,800
Speaker 2: seems like there was already a precedent of them hanging

2037
01:49:49,880 --> 01:49:52,960
Speaker 2: out and like if I had and I think a

2038
01:49:53,040 --> 01:49:56,320
Speaker 2: really good way to look at this is like, if

2039
01:49:57,120 --> 01:50:01,280
Speaker 2: this is a guy, does this situation change?

2040
01:50:02,439 --> 01:50:02,639
Speaker 1: Yes?

2041
01:50:03,040 --> 01:50:07,320
Speaker 2: Right, Yes, there hasn't been There hasn't been any flirting. No,

2042
01:50:07,600 --> 01:50:09,960
Speaker 2: there hasn't been any touching or like like it's like

2043
01:50:10,080 --> 01:50:14,559
Speaker 2: some kind of action that Opie has done to make

2044
01:50:15,600 --> 01:50:19,320
Speaker 2: uh uh his girlfriend uncomfortable from any from it. It's

2045
01:50:19,400 --> 01:50:23,720
Speaker 2: literally just that they're in friendship. Okay, so make the

2046
01:50:24,520 --> 01:50:27,320
Speaker 2: make his friend a man it Would it be bad

2047
01:50:27,479 --> 01:50:29,160
Speaker 2: for you if if one of your friends was in

2048
01:50:29,160 --> 01:50:32,280
Speaker 2: a really bad relationship and needed you to come over

2049
01:50:32,439 --> 01:50:34,840
Speaker 2: and like talk it through, would you do it?

2050
01:50:34,960 --> 01:50:39,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? And not bad at all, not bad at all, beautifully.

2051
01:50:38,720 --> 01:50:45,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, not bad at all, yeah, so I think it's fine. Yeah.

2052
01:50:46,120 --> 01:50:49,200
Speaker 1: The only thing that I could say is maybe, like, hey,

2053
01:50:49,320 --> 01:50:52,519
Speaker 1: maybe just like tell me if you're going over there

2054
01:50:52,680 --> 01:50:55,320
Speaker 1: to her place and being alone with her, just so

2055
01:50:55,439 --> 01:50:55,640
Speaker 1: I know.

2056
01:50:55,800 --> 01:50:58,360
Speaker 2: But you know, A dash and Start says genders are

2057
01:50:58,400 --> 01:51:02,439
Speaker 2: relevant in friendship unless you make it weird. I think

2058
01:51:03,320 --> 01:51:09,479
Speaker 2: unless there is a probable cause of someone acting on attraction,

2059
01:51:10,240 --> 01:51:12,760
Speaker 2: that's when it's like, maybe there needs to be some

2060
01:51:12,880 --> 01:51:16,479
Speaker 2: barriers put up. Yeah, but in the case where it's

2061
01:51:16,640 --> 01:51:20,839
Speaker 2: a friend that preceded the relationship, one of like Op's

2062
01:51:20,880 --> 01:51:25,320
Speaker 2: best friends, right, Like, I think I would go over

2063
01:51:25,400 --> 01:51:27,559
Speaker 2: to one of my best friends places at night if

2064
01:51:27,600 --> 01:51:29,240
Speaker 2: they needed it in a heartbeat. So I don't think

2065
01:51:29,240 --> 01:51:32,400
Speaker 2: it's I think it's this is more inspired by jealousy

2066
01:51:32,520 --> 01:51:36,840
Speaker 2: than any than than safety of the relationship.

2067
01:51:36,520 --> 01:51:38,680
Speaker 1: And crazy that she took it to the level of

2068
01:51:38,760 --> 01:51:42,280
Speaker 1: being like now she literally said this isn't an ultimatum.

2069
01:51:42,400 --> 01:51:45,439
Speaker 2: But like, wait, Lily ex Pillay says she has cause

2070
01:51:45,479 --> 01:51:47,160
Speaker 2: because she hates her. Is that true?

2071
01:51:51,479 --> 01:51:54,840
Speaker 1: She has caused cause she's also friends with Leah, like

2072
01:51:54,960 --> 01:51:57,439
Speaker 1: they hang out now, Op is a better friend with

2073
01:51:57,520 --> 01:51:58,840
Speaker 1: Leah than than Eva is.

2074
01:51:59,000 --> 01:52:05,680
Speaker 2: But hmm, eladies and gentlemen, this snaga is far from over.

2075
01:52:05,920 --> 01:52:06,200
Speaker 2: Kind of.

2076
01:52:07,840 --> 01:52:10,400
Speaker 1: So she went on to say that she had the

2077
01:52:10,520 --> 01:52:13,560
Speaker 1: sinking feeling that I was not just a friend in

2078
01:52:13,640 --> 01:52:17,040
Speaker 1: Leah's eyes anymore since then, she mentioned Leah had been

2079
01:52:17,120 --> 01:52:20,040
Speaker 1: single ever since, not dating much yet had voiced a

2080
01:52:20,120 --> 01:52:23,280
Speaker 1: desire to settle down soon, and that I was the

2081
01:52:23,400 --> 01:52:28,920
Speaker 1: guy closest to her. What, yeah, I'm reading that. Let

2082
01:52:28,960 --> 01:52:34,400
Speaker 1: me read that change she mentioned. She mentioned Leah had

2083
01:52:34,439 --> 01:52:38,840
Speaker 1: been single ever since, not dating much, yet, Leah had

2084
01:52:38,960 --> 01:52:41,439
Speaker 1: voiced a desire to settle down soon, and that I

2085
01:52:41,760 --> 01:52:45,280
Speaker 1: was the guy closest to her. She admitted these things

2086
01:52:45,520 --> 01:52:49,200
Speaker 1: weren't in and of themselves evidence of anything, but that

2087
01:52:49,320 --> 01:52:52,519
Speaker 1: she couldn't shake the feeling.

2088
01:52:53,600 --> 01:52:59,440
Speaker 2: Ah, So Leah like Sopie.

2089
01:53:02,320 --> 01:53:05,759
Speaker 1: Seems I don't know, it was that in the same breath.

2090
01:53:06,200 --> 01:53:12,120
Speaker 1: That seems I because they'll be because because I could

2091
01:53:12,120 --> 01:53:15,360
Speaker 1: see her saying that in a long conversation, like.

2092
01:53:15,520 --> 01:53:19,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, probably wasn't in the same sentence, but like I think.

2093
01:53:20,160 --> 01:53:23,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he's my closest guy friend. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

2094
01:53:24,240 --> 01:53:25,519
Speaker 1: yeah yeah yeah slightly.

2095
01:53:25,600 --> 01:53:30,439
Speaker 2: Tovez Eva thinks Leah likes op It's but it sounds

2096
01:53:30,520 --> 01:53:35,679
Speaker 2: like Leah is admitting that she likes op that's her closest.

2097
01:53:36,000 --> 01:53:38,559
Speaker 3: That's not what she said. No, No, it's saying. Eva

2098
01:53:38,680 --> 01:53:43,040
Speaker 3: mentioned Leah had been single ever since, not dating much yet,

2099
01:53:43,479 --> 01:53:46,080
Speaker 3: and had voice to desire to settle down soon, and

2100
01:53:46,160 --> 01:53:49,360
Speaker 3: then Ava said, so, yeah, you're the guy closest to her.

2101
01:53:50,560 --> 01:53:56,200
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, oh okay, sorry, it wasn't It wasn't

2102
01:53:56,400 --> 01:54:01,240
Speaker 2: like Leah being like, I've been single, I want to

2103
01:54:01,280 --> 01:54:06,639
Speaker 2: settle down. You know who I'm closest through your boo. Okay, okay.

2104
01:54:06,760 --> 01:54:09,040
Speaker 2: So this is this is the girlfriend saying.

2105
01:54:08,800 --> 01:54:12,080
Speaker 1: All right, this is Eva connecting dots that are not connected.

2106
01:54:12,120 --> 01:54:14,200
Speaker 2: Dude, punctuation is so important.

2107
01:54:14,240 --> 01:54:16,040
Speaker 1: It is so it is so key. Shout out to

2108
01:54:16,120 --> 01:54:17,640
Speaker 1: Sophia's and.

2109
01:54:17,760 --> 01:54:22,360
Speaker 2: Also shout out to the chat for keeping us honest.

2110
01:54:22,479 --> 01:54:24,160
Speaker 3: I am reading comprehension skills.

2111
01:54:24,400 --> 01:54:28,160
Speaker 2: Let's go. Sophia reads that's right, which means she's gonna

2112
01:54:28,200 --> 01:54:30,439
Speaker 2: live longer because she reads fantasy.

2113
01:54:31,160 --> 01:54:32,560
Speaker 3: No, that's not what I said.

2114
01:54:32,760 --> 01:54:33,400
Speaker 2: That's what you said.

2115
01:54:33,480 --> 01:54:35,800
Speaker 3: I said that people who according to a.

2116
01:54:35,880 --> 01:54:37,720
Speaker 2: Study, you said, people who read.

2117
01:54:37,640 --> 01:54:40,400
Speaker 3: Fantasy tend to be more empathetic.

2118
01:54:40,120 --> 01:54:40,800
Speaker 2: And live longer.

2119
01:54:40,880 --> 01:54:41,360
Speaker 1: So you lie.

2120
01:54:41,400 --> 01:54:42,600
Speaker 3: I don't know about live longer.

2121
01:54:42,640 --> 01:54:44,440
Speaker 2: Said live. Did you listen to the whole TikTok? You

2122
01:54:44,480 --> 01:54:47,200
Speaker 2: sent me? Oh they live longer?

2123
01:54:47,640 --> 01:54:51,040
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, we live longer too, good news.

2124
01:54:52,840 --> 01:54:56,840
Speaker 1: Sophia's were even claw vibes. Yeah, she mentioned Leah had

2125
01:54:56,880 --> 01:55:01,640
Speaker 1: been single ever since, not doing much U and then yeah,

2126
01:55:01,680 --> 01:55:03,640
Speaker 1: so going back a little bit, she admitted that these

2127
01:55:03,720 --> 01:55:06,880
Speaker 1: things weren't in and of themselves evidence of anything, but

2128
01:55:07,000 --> 01:55:09,280
Speaker 1: she couldn't shake the feeling. So again, Eva's just kind

2129
01:55:09,320 --> 01:55:14,080
Speaker 1: of like connecting dots that need like a good amount

2130
01:55:14,120 --> 01:55:14,720
Speaker 1: of stretching.

2131
01:55:15,160 --> 01:55:17,160
Speaker 2: This feels like a stretch. Yeah, it feels like a stretch.

2132
01:55:17,240 --> 01:55:19,040
Speaker 1: I told her that I didn't think that was the case,

2133
01:55:19,080 --> 01:55:21,080
Speaker 1: and that Leah had always been and continued to be

2134
01:55:21,120 --> 01:55:23,720
Speaker 1: supportive of our relationship and that maybe talking to her

2135
01:55:23,760 --> 01:55:26,880
Speaker 1: about it could help. We put that We put that

2136
01:55:26,960 --> 01:55:28,960
Speaker 1: thought aside for the time being, and I brought up

2137
01:55:29,000 --> 01:55:32,000
Speaker 1: that her request suggested that she didn't really trust me,

2138
01:55:32,480 --> 01:55:36,200
Speaker 1: and that was a big issue. Eva didn't really know

2139
01:55:36,480 --> 01:55:39,240
Speaker 1: what to say to that, aside from reiterating that she

2140
01:55:39,400 --> 01:55:42,600
Speaker 1: wasn't accusing me of having done anything or having any

2141
01:55:42,680 --> 01:55:45,480
Speaker 1: intention to, that this was about Leah and that if

2142
01:55:45,520 --> 01:55:48,960
Speaker 1: she was right about her seeing me differently now, our

2143
01:55:49,080 --> 01:55:53,680
Speaker 1: proximity would be a problem, whether anything happened or not. Right,

2144
01:55:57,000 --> 01:55:59,520
Speaker 1: She really reiterated that she wasn't accusing me of anything

2145
01:55:59,680 --> 01:56:02,560
Speaker 1: or having done anything or having any intention to that

2146
01:56:02,680 --> 01:56:05,360
Speaker 1: this was about Leah, and that if she was right

2147
01:56:05,480 --> 01:56:08,120
Speaker 1: about her seeing me differently now, our proximity would be

2148
01:56:08,200 --> 01:56:10,280
Speaker 1: a problem, whether anything happened or on. Right.

2149
01:56:10,360 --> 01:56:13,080
Speaker 2: So, what she's saying is, she's like, if I'm right

2150
01:56:13,200 --> 01:56:15,680
Speaker 2: that she likes you, you guys being so close as

2151
01:56:15,720 --> 01:56:16,120
Speaker 2: an issue.

2152
01:56:16,280 --> 01:56:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the sky could be purple. Y.

2153
01:56:19,600 --> 01:56:21,760
Speaker 2: It's like, if I'm right about the sky being purple,

2154
01:56:21,840 --> 01:56:24,440
Speaker 2: maybe we shouldn't go outside. The sky is at purple,

2155
01:56:24,440 --> 01:56:27,839
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go outside. We don't know it does sometimes

2156
01:56:27,920 --> 01:56:28,360
Speaker 2: be purple.

2157
01:56:28,400 --> 01:56:32,960
Speaker 1: Though you're actually correct, You're correct, sir. I told her

2158
01:56:33,040 --> 01:56:35,160
Speaker 1: that I agreed with that last point on principle, but

2159
01:56:35,520 --> 01:56:41,480
Speaker 1: that it all hanged on basic on a basically unsubstantiated if. Lastly,

2160
01:56:41,680 --> 01:56:43,840
Speaker 1: I asked Eva how all of us had affected her

2161
01:56:43,880 --> 01:56:47,280
Speaker 1: own friendship with Leah, because I hadn't noticed major changes there.

2162
01:56:47,560 --> 01:56:51,000
Speaker 1: She said she doesn't harbor animosity towards Leah because of

2163
01:56:51,120 --> 01:56:54,720
Speaker 1: the lack of tangible reasons too, but that her suspicion

2164
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Speaker 1: has indeed meant that there have been definite cooling in

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01:56:59,320 --> 01:57:02,440
Speaker 1: their relationship from her side, and described her interactions with

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01:57:02,560 --> 01:57:05,400
Speaker 1: Leah as cordial and not much more for the past.

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01:57:05,520 --> 01:57:08,160
Speaker 1: While I told her that I wasn't going to demand

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01:57:08,280 --> 01:57:11,440
Speaker 1: that they be friends, of course, but reiterated that discussing

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01:57:11,520 --> 01:57:15,120
Speaker 1: things with Leah might help. I brought up couple yea,

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01:57:15,240 --> 01:57:21,080
Speaker 1: what communication can help a situation? No, don't talk, shut up,

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01:57:22,080 --> 01:57:23,800
Speaker 1: shut up, and don't say anything.

2172
01:57:23,840 --> 01:57:24,560
Speaker 2: I don't say anything.

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01:57:25,080 --> 01:57:27,560
Speaker 1: I brought up couples therapy at various points throughout the discussion.

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Speaker 1: Eva was initially apprehensive about the idea, but I insisted

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01:57:31,160 --> 01:57:33,640
Speaker 1: that it wasn't a matter of doubting my relationship with her,

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01:57:34,080 --> 01:57:37,000
Speaker 1: but one of getting qualified counseling to help us through

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01:57:37,080 --> 01:57:40,200
Speaker 1: this stronger than before. Wow, what a way of saying it.

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01:57:41,200 --> 01:57:44,920
Speaker 1: We have started looking into it and this will make

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01:57:44,920 --> 01:57:47,520
Speaker 1: it on the agenda once we find someone suitable. End

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01:57:47,560 --> 01:57:49,920
Speaker 1: of the day, Eva abandoned the idea of forcing me

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01:57:50,040 --> 01:57:51,920
Speaker 1: to cut Leah out of my life at this stage,

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01:57:52,280 --> 01:57:56,080
Speaker 1: but we have things to sort through still. I'm glad

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01:57:56,120 --> 01:57:58,400
Speaker 1: I was able to actually discuss it with her this time,

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01:57:58,560 --> 01:58:01,040
Speaker 1: and hopefully counseling will the help we need.

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01:58:01,480 --> 01:58:04,520
Speaker 2: That's awesome. I mean like it seems like OP is

2186
01:58:04,640 --> 01:58:08,360
Speaker 2: like this is an issue, you're being jealous YEP, but

2187
01:58:08,960 --> 01:58:11,040
Speaker 2: I wanna solve it with you.

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01:58:11,520 --> 01:58:13,280
Speaker 1: Dock eight ou. Let's talk it out. Let's dock it out.

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01:58:13,320 --> 01:58:16,080
Speaker 1: Let's dock it out one hundred percent ps. I'd like

2190
01:58:16,200 --> 01:58:17,920
Speaker 1: to thank the people who through advice my way on

2191
01:58:18,000 --> 01:58:20,480
Speaker 1: the original submission. I don't know that there will be

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01:58:20,520 --> 01:58:22,600
Speaker 1: another update, but I owed you this one at least.

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01:58:22,680 --> 01:58:25,120
Speaker 1: Sorry if it's a bit word salad left out a

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01:58:25,200 --> 01:58:27,800
Speaker 1: bunch of stuff. But if you have specific questions, I

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01:58:27,880 --> 01:58:31,520
Speaker 1: will try to answer. And uh, one person maybe did

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01:58:31,560 --> 01:58:33,640
Speaker 1: have such questions. Because there's one final relevant comment to

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01:58:33,680 --> 01:58:37,120
Speaker 1: cloth without red Us author says, women's intuition is usually right.

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01:58:37,400 --> 01:58:40,360
Speaker 1: Eva seems like a reasonable person. I suggest you talk

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01:58:40,400 --> 01:58:43,400
Speaker 1: to Leah instead of convincing Eva that she is imagining things.

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01:58:43,720 --> 01:58:47,520
Speaker 1: I'm positive you'll find out that Leo wants more than

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01:58:47,560 --> 01:58:50,240
Speaker 1: friendship with you. Oh, red us author is on Eva's side.

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01:58:51,440 --> 01:58:53,320
Speaker 2: Oh that I don't know about that.

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01:58:53,720 --> 01:58:56,080
Speaker 1: I do not think it's like red Us author is

2204
01:58:56,080 --> 01:58:58,400
Speaker 1: saying it like it's a sure thing. Yeah, it's just

2205
01:58:58,560 --> 01:59:04,640
Speaker 1: not yeah, any look, anything is possible, but read anything possible,

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01:59:04,720 --> 01:59:07,400
Speaker 1: anything can up, But I don't know. At the end

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01:59:07,400 --> 01:59:09,680
Speaker 1: of the day, Eva is not comfortable with your closeness

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01:59:09,720 --> 01:59:12,240
Speaker 1: with Leah. Why is it difficult for you to acknowledge

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01:59:12,280 --> 01:59:15,960
Speaker 1: that and go low contact with Lea Because it's a presendent.

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01:59:16,120 --> 01:59:18,760
Speaker 3: That shouldn't be Like, you shouldn't be setting that precedent.

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01:59:19,200 --> 01:59:21,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think if you said precedent that you're like

2212
01:59:22,400 --> 01:59:27,720
Speaker 2: especially good friends, that your partner can control your good friends,

2213
01:59:27,920 --> 01:59:33,080
Speaker 2: I think it allows you to be pigeonholed into spaces

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01:59:33,280 --> 01:59:36,840
Speaker 2: where you don't feel yourself and you don't feel like

2215
01:59:36,880 --> 01:59:39,200
Speaker 2: you have control of your life, and you don't feel

2216
01:59:39,920 --> 01:59:42,200
Speaker 2: that you have ownership of your life, and that leads

2217
01:59:42,240 --> 01:59:47,080
Speaker 2: to like sadness, either like known sadness that you can

2218
01:59:47,280 --> 01:59:50,560
Speaker 2: point and identify, or like underlying sadness and you're like,

2219
01:59:50,600 --> 01:59:52,600
Speaker 2: why why do I feel this way? Right? And I

2220
01:59:52,680 --> 01:59:58,920
Speaker 2: think like that that's super important for I think op

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01:59:59,360 --> 02:00:01,160
Speaker 2: and this com to recognize.

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02:00:02,680 --> 02:00:08,920
Speaker 1: Bars bores Opie response if Eva. If Eva ever does

2223
02:00:09,040 --> 02:00:11,280
Speaker 1: go through with talking to Lee about it, it still

2224
02:00:11,400 --> 02:00:17,200
Speaker 1: doesn't uh lay her concerns. I can't read. I'm sorry, guys,

2225
02:00:18,600 --> 02:00:21,960
Speaker 1: is that. Do you know what that means? Like, uh, yeah, yeah,

2226
02:00:22,360 --> 02:00:24,840
Speaker 1: I talked to Leah myself and make my mind up

2227
02:00:24,880 --> 02:00:27,200
Speaker 1: as to whether there's anything to it. At this stage,

2228
02:00:27,240 --> 02:00:29,560
Speaker 1: I don't have any releason. I don't have any reason

2229
02:00:29,640 --> 02:00:32,200
Speaker 1: to believe, so I am not opposed to reframing my

2230
02:00:32,280 --> 02:00:34,800
Speaker 1: friendship with Leah if there are specific aspects of it

2231
02:00:34,880 --> 02:00:37,480
Speaker 1: which Eva is uncomfortable with, But so far she has

2232
02:00:37,560 --> 02:00:40,440
Speaker 1: only asked me to cut Leah out entirely, which I

2233
02:00:40,520 --> 02:00:43,360
Speaker 1: am unwilling to do. I'd assume that would come up

2234
02:00:43,400 --> 02:00:47,720
Speaker 1: in counseling. If it is about certain aspects. That is

2235
02:00:47,800 --> 02:00:51,240
Speaker 1: certainly the end of this freaking story. Yeah, Amaya disapproves,

2236
02:00:51,360 --> 02:00:55,240
Speaker 1: great username. It's a classic manipulator tactic to isolate someone

2237
02:00:55,280 --> 02:00:59,480
Speaker 1: from important people, close friends, and families specifically absolutely yeah.

2238
02:00:59,520 --> 02:01:01,800
Speaker 1: And then low and bad Wolf says, and you suddenly

2239
02:01:02,000 --> 02:01:07,440
Speaker 1: only have your partner and no friends. True, yeah, picking

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Speaker 1: out all the ops which are actually friends that want

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Speaker 1: to support you.

2242
02:01:10,360 --> 02:01:14,440
Speaker 2: But you know who aren't our ops? Pooh, these people

2243
02:01:14,520 --> 02:01:23,440
Speaker 2: who donated to the stream. Marcia von Wermer says, girlfriend

2244
02:01:23,520 --> 02:01:28,480
Speaker 2: is insecure. Ultimatums are not okay, no, no, thanks to

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Speaker 2: the two dollars, super Chat April La Master, thanks for

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02:01:30,920 --> 02:01:33,640
Speaker 2: five bucks. Josie, thanks for the five bucks. Got a

2247
02:01:33,720 --> 02:01:38,280
Speaker 2: tip for John's freestyle skills. I am sad I missed it. Witnars,

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02:01:38,320 --> 02:01:40,120
Speaker 2: thanks for the one dollar. Sam My half brother was

2249
02:01:40,200 --> 02:01:42,760
Speaker 2: raised by my mom's aunt. Mom and half brother at

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02:01:42,840 --> 02:01:46,600
Speaker 2: sixteen gave him to her aunt to raise. I was

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02:01:46,680 --> 02:01:50,240
Speaker 2: bummed to have missed you. I was bummed to miss you.

2252
02:01:51,040 --> 02:01:52,800
Speaker 2: And then Curby Girl all the Flame thanks to the

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02:01:52,920 --> 02:01:57,600
Speaker 2: five gifted memberships man members growing all.

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02:01:57,480 --> 02:01:59,960
Speaker 1: The time, members are membership donations are going crazy today

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Speaker 1: and I love it.

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02:02:00,920 --> 02:02:02,880
Speaker 2: I love it, I love it. And then Patria B.

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02:02:03,320 --> 02:02:05,920
Speaker 2: Thanks for the three fifty seven tip. Stupid idea, but

2258
02:02:06,080 --> 02:02:09,760
Speaker 2: here my out. Would a relationship test be appropriate here?

2259
02:02:09,920 --> 02:02:13,520
Speaker 2: What does that mean in context of see other people?

2260
02:02:13,840 --> 02:02:15,600
Speaker 2: Or oh go ahead?

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02:02:15,920 --> 02:02:18,000
Speaker 3: Or are you saying as like you know, check a

2262
02:02:18,080 --> 02:02:21,800
Speaker 3: phone or something like I was thinking like sorry now

2263
02:02:22,640 --> 02:02:28,400
Speaker 3: oh the Ava texts Leah from her phone. Yes, yes,

2264
02:02:29,000 --> 02:02:31,280
Speaker 3: I don't approve of testing relationships.

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02:02:31,480 --> 02:02:36,120
Speaker 2: I saw the saddest YouTube. Wait, can I just can

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02:02:36,200 --> 02:02:37,920
Speaker 2: I just show this ways to me? Do you know

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Speaker 2: how to share?

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Speaker 3: Nope?

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02:02:40,640 --> 02:02:44,960
Speaker 2: Okay, I saw I saw the saddest TikTok. But I

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02:02:45,120 --> 02:02:48,920
Speaker 2: think this is what uh I think this is what

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Speaker 2: Patria is suggesting.

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Speaker 3: Right now on boat Uh uh uh yeah yeah, good,

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02:03:06,200 --> 02:03:11,280
Speaker 3: good good, All right. Sam's showing us a video here.

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02:03:11,360 --> 02:03:13,760
Speaker 3: Let me yeah yeah, let me scream that bad boy?

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02:03:30,960 --> 02:03:34,360
Speaker 3: Oh oh oh wait, what.

2276
02:03:35,000 --> 02:03:37,720
Speaker 2: That looks like a like that was a skit. I

2277
02:03:37,720 --> 02:03:39,160
Speaker 2: don't think that's a full on.

2278
02:03:41,000 --> 02:03:42,480
Speaker 3: First acting I've ever seen.

2279
02:03:42,840 --> 02:03:44,080
Speaker 2: I thought it was real.

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02:03:45,040 --> 02:03:50,920
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Sampo looks like a ski that's a hell

2281
02:03:51,040 --> 02:03:52,160
Speaker 3: yeah are you?

2282
02:03:52,320 --> 02:03:54,040
Speaker 1: Are you literally joking with me right now?

2283
02:03:54,120 --> 02:03:57,280
Speaker 2: I'm not joking that A trillion.

2284
02:03:58,920 --> 02:03:59,120
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2285
02:03:59,320 --> 02:04:03,000
Speaker 2: Anyway, I felt bad for him, But anyway, like whatever, whatever,

2286
02:04:03,080 --> 02:04:07,280
Speaker 2: if it's a skin or not. Still maybe it's like

2287
02:04:07,360 --> 02:04:09,160
Speaker 2: that's what they're saying you should do. It's like like

2288
02:04:09,320 --> 02:04:13,960
Speaker 2: tell tell Ope to go to the friend and be like, hey,

2289
02:04:14,080 --> 02:04:16,920
Speaker 2: I just wanted to say, for the past a couple

2290
02:04:16,960 --> 02:04:21,560
Speaker 2: of weeks, I have been like feeling these feelings for you.

2291
02:04:21,800 --> 02:04:24,880
Speaker 2: And then she's like, I've been feeling these feelings for

2292
02:04:24,920 --> 02:04:28,480
Speaker 2: the past six years. And then he goes, ha, what

2293
02:04:28,600 --> 02:04:32,280
Speaker 2: are you doing? It was a prank? And then pranked

2294
02:04:32,280 --> 02:04:37,000
Speaker 2: and then damn divorce, divorce, divorced. No, I do not

2295
02:04:37,080 --> 02:04:38,560
Speaker 2: think you should relationship.

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02:04:38,120 --> 02:04:40,520
Speaker 1: Test, but I think you can sit down, like if

2297
02:04:40,600 --> 02:04:43,720
Speaker 1: EVA sat down and it was like, maybe I'm crazy here,

2298
02:04:43,800 --> 02:04:46,000
Speaker 1: but honestly, I just wanted to get something off my chest.

2299
02:04:47,080 --> 02:04:49,920
Speaker 1: I could be totally imagining things, you know, I don't

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02:04:49,920 --> 02:04:51,920
Speaker 1: know something like that, right, I don't know? Or is

2301
02:04:52,000 --> 02:04:52,400
Speaker 1: that too much?

2302
02:04:52,440 --> 02:04:58,840
Speaker 2: I mean I feel like it should come from Opie's wife. Yeah, yeah,

2303
02:04:59,160 --> 02:05:00,240
Speaker 2: I agree, I agree.

2304
02:05:00,040 --> 02:05:06,920
Speaker 1: EBA shout out Purple Hat Fox with one buck tip

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Speaker 1: on the Dona link.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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02:05:08,200 --> 02:05:11,800
Speaker 1: Hey there, remember my childhood friend tried to steal my husband? Yeah?

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02:05:11,840 --> 02:05:14,640
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even ask my husband stop talking to any

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02:05:14,680 --> 02:05:15,160
Speaker 1: of his friends.

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02:05:15,480 --> 02:05:15,800
Speaker 2: I guess.

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02:05:15,880 --> 02:05:18,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did a was that a call in with

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02:05:18,080 --> 02:05:18,800
Speaker 1: Purple Hair Fox?

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02:05:20,440 --> 02:05:25,080
Speaker 2: See there you go, Purple Hair Fox Captain Girdl Bobcornerve,

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02:05:25,360 --> 02:05:31,000
Speaker 2: I popped for you. Think you we got maybe one

2315
02:05:31,080 --> 02:05:34,760
Speaker 2: more short story, maybe one more story before the stream

2316
02:05:35,680 --> 02:05:38,560
Speaker 2: you can read the Is it crazy to believe that

2317
02:05:38,720 --> 02:05:42,120
Speaker 2: someone could have prank someone else with saying I like

2318
02:05:42,200 --> 02:05:43,920
Speaker 2: you for a long time? Is that so crazy?

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02:05:44,000 --> 02:05:46,480
Speaker 1: It's nice? And there is a I've seen a YouTuber

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02:05:46,560 --> 02:05:50,880
Speaker 1: who his whole content format is like planting someone. Yeah,

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02:05:51,040 --> 02:05:52,560
Speaker 1: but he does like a whole long from YouTube video.

2322
02:05:53,560 --> 02:05:55,840
Speaker 2: I think you think it's not good acting.

2323
02:05:56,000 --> 02:05:56,960
Speaker 1: No, I think it's bad acting.

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02:05:57,200 --> 02:05:58,400
Speaker 3: I agree bad acting.

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Speaker 1: What I've your song?

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02:06:00,800 --> 02:06:07,240
Speaker 2: No, I can't Bobby talking about bad.

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Speaker 1: T Tak Casting University, s two, four forty three as

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Speaker 1: you would never, by the way.

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Speaker 3: I would would crush that on freaking you. You'd be

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Speaker 3: bawling your eyes out.

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Speaker 2: All right, four forty three S two? Am I the

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Speaker 2: a hole for not giving my boyfriend a free pass

2333
02:06:27,480 --> 02:06:31,280
Speaker 2: after I slept with his friend? Wow?

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Speaker 3: Who are you pointing at.

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02:06:34,520 --> 02:06:34,920
Speaker 2: Sophia?

2336
02:06:35,160 --> 02:06:37,400
Speaker 1: It was on me again? It was on me for

2337
02:06:37,480 --> 02:06:38,440
Speaker 1: the start reading again?

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Speaker 3: Who are you?

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02:06:40,920 --> 02:06:47,360
Speaker 2: I'm pointing at you, Sophia, Sophia? Am I the a

2340
02:06:47,560 --> 02:06:50,160
Speaker 2: hole for not giving my boyfriend a free pass after

2341
02:06:50,320 --> 02:06:53,760
Speaker 2: I slept with his friend. This comes from Teeth Tree

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02:06:53,880 --> 02:06:57,360
Speaker 2: Boil and it says my boyfriend Ryan twenty five male,

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02:06:57,400 --> 02:06:59,280
Speaker 2: and I twenty four female, have been dating for a

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02:06:59,360 --> 02:07:02,400
Speaker 2: bit under two years. Recently we've been getting a little

2345
02:07:02,440 --> 02:07:05,960
Speaker 2: bit more experimental in the bedroom. Oh, I pitched the

2346
02:07:06,040 --> 02:07:09,200
Speaker 2: idea of a threesome with another woman I'm by, and

2347
02:07:09,280 --> 02:07:13,840
Speaker 2: suggested his friend Jesse twenty five female, who is also by.

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Speaker 2: I had met Jesse quite a few times, and she

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Speaker 2: is very good friends with Ryan and they've known each

2350
02:07:18,400 --> 02:07:21,800
Speaker 2: other for a long time. It can only go smoothie right.

2351
02:07:22,320 --> 02:07:24,640
Speaker 2: He was up front with me when we met that

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02:07:24,760 --> 02:07:26,800
Speaker 2: they dated for a few weeks, like seven years ago,

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02:07:26,920 --> 02:07:31,200
Speaker 2: before amicably splitting up due to lifestyle differences. Jesse is

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Speaker 2: a party girl, anti religious, child free, and Ryan said

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Speaker 2: there are too many differences between them and they haven't

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02:07:36,480 --> 02:07:40,520
Speaker 2: messed around since, but stayed friends. Well, Jesse and I

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02:07:40,640 --> 02:07:42,440
Speaker 2: have hung out a few times, just the two of us,

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02:07:42,960 --> 02:07:44,400
Speaker 2: but I see you in the chat. You see where

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Speaker 2: this is going. Oh God, and I consider her my

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Speaker 2: friend now too. Well. One day, when she was over,

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02:07:51,920 --> 02:07:56,480
Speaker 2: Ryan pitched the idea to Jesse. Jesse seemed a bit

2362
02:07:56,560 --> 02:08:03,600
Speaker 2: shocked but agreed. Well, we got down the business and

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02:08:03,920 --> 02:08:06,320
Speaker 2: it was nice.

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02:08:07,240 --> 02:08:07,280
Speaker 3: No.

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02:08:08,560 --> 02:08:13,360
Speaker 2: I thought we all had fun, right, No hurt feelings, No, perfectly,

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02:08:13,680 --> 02:08:17,680
Speaker 2: there's never would you know someone for a really long time,

2367
02:08:17,720 --> 02:08:21,800
Speaker 2: there's never collateral, no, especially when you're dating someone. No,

2368
02:08:23,640 --> 02:08:25,080
Speaker 2: nothing but good times.

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Speaker 1: No.

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02:08:26,200 --> 02:08:28,840
Speaker 2: I thought we all had fun. We've done it a

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02:08:28,920 --> 02:08:30,920
Speaker 2: few times, and I thought everyone is on the same

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02:08:30,960 --> 02:08:32,760
Speaker 2: page and it's not weird. A few times okay, this

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02:08:32,880 --> 02:08:37,040
Speaker 2: is a regular thing. Well, now it is. The Other day,

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02:08:37,120 --> 02:08:39,480
Speaker 2: Jesse stayed over and slept in our bed with us.

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02:08:39,800 --> 02:08:42,880
Speaker 2: Ryan went to work early, and it was just Jesse

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02:08:43,120 --> 02:08:47,520
Speaker 2: and I. I woke up to her trying to initiate

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02:08:48,720 --> 02:08:54,760
Speaker 2: sleepy spicy sleep with me. Oh politely. Well I was interested,

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02:08:54,800 --> 02:08:58,040
Speaker 2: I declined, saying y Ryan wasn't there and he wouldn't

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02:08:58,040 --> 02:09:02,040
Speaker 2: be okay with just us messing around. She then showed

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02:09:02,080 --> 02:09:06,640
Speaker 2: me she had texted Ryan earlier, specifically asking permission to

2381
02:09:06,680 --> 02:09:12,040
Speaker 2: sleep with me without him. He responded, that's fine as

2382
02:09:12,240 --> 02:09:14,960
Speaker 2: long as I get a free pass too.

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02:09:17,880 --> 02:09:19,680
Speaker 1: But I'm slightly confused.

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02:09:19,720 --> 02:09:22,200
Speaker 2: Can you like you can hook up with her as

2385
02:09:22,240 --> 02:09:24,360
Speaker 2: long as I can also hook up with her alone?

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02:09:26,400 --> 02:09:26,520
Speaker 4: Oh?

2387
02:09:26,560 --> 02:09:29,880
Speaker 1: Oh, that's what the partner His partners said it.

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02:09:30,200 --> 02:09:31,839
Speaker 2: I thought for a second and came to the conclusion

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02:09:31,880 --> 02:09:34,160
Speaker 2: that the idea of him and Jesse together didn't upset me,

2390
02:09:34,320 --> 02:09:36,280
Speaker 2: as I trusted both of them, so I was okay

2391
02:09:36,320 --> 02:09:38,280
Speaker 2: with him sleeping with her as long as he told

2392
02:09:38,320 --> 02:09:40,240
Speaker 2: me about it. We really should have talked about the

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02:09:40,480 --> 02:09:45,480
Speaker 2: whole thing in more detail, because this is where it

2394
02:09:45,520 --> 02:09:46,120
Speaker 2: all went wrong.

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02:09:46,240 --> 02:09:46,920
Speaker 1: Oh, I see you.

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02:09:47,640 --> 02:09:52,400
Speaker 2: Jesse and I did sleep together without Ryan. Yep, it

2397
02:09:52,520 --> 02:09:54,360
Speaker 2: was fine and all, but when he got home later,

2398
02:09:54,520 --> 02:09:57,880
Speaker 2: Jesse asked him when he wanted his free pass. He said,

2399
02:09:58,720 --> 02:10:01,560
Speaker 2: not sure yet, try to talk to this girl at work.

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02:10:01,960 --> 02:10:08,360
Speaker 2: I want to use it on. So he wants a

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02:10:08,400 --> 02:10:10,680
Speaker 2: free pass with someone.

2402
02:10:10,440 --> 02:10:12,400
Speaker 1: Else, with anybody.

2403
02:10:13,440 --> 02:10:16,440
Speaker 2: Both Jesse and I were confused, as we thought he

2404
02:10:16,560 --> 02:10:20,040
Speaker 2: meant a free pass with Jesse, but apparently he meant

2405
02:10:20,080 --> 02:10:23,520
Speaker 2: to free pass with anyone, which I was not okay with.

2406
02:10:24,000 --> 02:10:26,240
Speaker 2: I knew and trusted Jesse, which is why I agreed

2407
02:10:26,320 --> 02:10:28,400
Speaker 2: to it. I told him this and he said it

2408
02:10:28,520 --> 02:10:31,760
Speaker 2: wasn't fair that I can sleep with whoever but he can't.

2409
02:10:32,200 --> 02:10:35,480
Speaker 2: I told him, it's not whoever, it's this one person

2410
02:10:35,600 --> 02:10:38,800
Speaker 2: we both trust. Jesse then left us to resolve the argument.

2411
02:10:39,160 --> 02:10:42,080
Speaker 2: Ryan said, the threesomes with Jesse is mostly for me

2412
02:10:42,520 --> 02:10:45,400
Speaker 2: and he isn't at all attracted to her, so he

2413
02:10:45,520 --> 02:10:48,560
Speaker 2: wants someone different. I kind of feel like I got trapped,

2414
02:10:48,640 --> 02:10:51,800
Speaker 2: so I told him no. Now he's not speaking to

2415
02:10:51,920 --> 02:10:54,240
Speaker 2: me and I can't tell if I'm the a hole.

2416
02:10:54,880 --> 02:11:00,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I did sleep with his friends, so is

2417
02:11:01,080 --> 02:11:03,080
Speaker 2: OP the a hole or not?

2418
02:11:03,600 --> 02:11:04,680
Speaker 1: This is not what I expected.

2419
02:11:05,320 --> 02:11:07,560
Speaker 2: What I expected I did not see this coming, And

2420
02:11:08,280 --> 02:11:08,919
Speaker 2: was Jesse.

2421
02:11:08,840 --> 02:11:10,800
Speaker 1: Not in the room when he said that? And I

2422
02:11:10,880 --> 02:11:13,400
Speaker 1: was like, I am not because I thought Jesse was

2423
02:11:13,520 --> 02:11:15,040
Speaker 1: like in the room when he came home.

2424
02:11:15,120 --> 02:11:17,640
Speaker 2: I could be right. I think she left. And then

2425
02:11:18,160 --> 02:11:19,120
Speaker 2: he was like, I'm not attracted.

2426
02:11:19,200 --> 02:11:22,200
Speaker 1: I was like, that's crazy. He's like her, I ain't

2427
02:11:22,240 --> 02:11:23,000
Speaker 1: attracted to her.

2428
02:11:23,520 --> 02:11:25,920
Speaker 2: But I didn't like when I when I first heard that,

2429
02:11:26,120 --> 02:11:28,240
Speaker 2: I totally thought they were both talking about Jesse.

2430
02:11:28,600 --> 02:11:32,120
Speaker 1: Same same, totally same. Maybe he's like he was being

2431
02:11:32,160 --> 02:11:35,560
Speaker 1: a sly sly dog and he's like, I can get away. Well,

2432
02:11:35,600 --> 02:11:38,000
Speaker 1: actually no, he he said it, so he actually wasn't

2433
02:11:38,040 --> 02:11:40,720
Speaker 1: trying to hide it. I think it was like, as

2434
02:11:40,760 --> 02:11:43,000
Speaker 1: long as I get a free pot. He legitimately I

2435
02:11:43,080 --> 02:11:46,080
Speaker 1: think he legitimately thought. But I agree reading that initially,

2436
02:11:46,200 --> 02:11:47,040
Speaker 1: I thought that was fine.

2437
02:11:47,760 --> 02:11:48,200
Speaker 2: Like I thought.

2438
02:11:48,240 --> 02:11:51,280
Speaker 1: I thought he was like, oh I want Jesse, same same, same,

2439
02:11:51,320 --> 02:11:51,680
Speaker 1: same thing.

2440
02:11:54,800 --> 02:11:57,320
Speaker 2: What do we do here? Well, I think everyone's an idiot.

2441
02:11:58,400 --> 02:12:01,840
Speaker 2: You should be talking about this in more detail before

2442
02:12:01,920 --> 02:12:05,000
Speaker 2: you skip a step and like hook up with someone

2443
02:12:05,080 --> 02:12:07,320
Speaker 2: else alone. It shouldn't just be a text conversation back

2444
02:12:07,360 --> 02:12:09,840
Speaker 2: and forth, like, hey, mind if I hook up with Jesse, Yeah,

2445
02:12:09,840 --> 02:12:11,320
Speaker 2: it's long, I get it from fast and then you

2446
02:12:11,440 --> 02:12:13,480
Speaker 2: do it because there's just gonna be hurt feelings. So

2447
02:12:13,640 --> 02:12:16,120
Speaker 2: I think everyone's a little bit of the asshole here

2448
02:12:16,480 --> 02:12:23,520
Speaker 2: because one op is an a hole for not talking

2449
02:12:24,240 --> 02:12:28,800
Speaker 2: and fully like chatting it out with her partner. And

2450
02:12:29,800 --> 02:12:34,040
Speaker 2: I think the boyfriend is an a hole for the

2451
02:12:34,120 --> 02:12:38,120
Speaker 2: same reason because he didn't communicate at all too. He's

2452
02:12:38,120 --> 02:12:39,280
Speaker 2: just like, as long as I get a free pass.

2453
02:12:39,320 --> 02:12:44,000
Speaker 2: Like there was no communication there because they both wanted

2454
02:12:44,080 --> 02:12:47,520
Speaker 2: what they wanted. They were just like, Ope wanted to

2455
02:12:47,720 --> 02:12:51,640
Speaker 2: hook up with Jesse and the boyfriend wanted to hook

2456
02:12:51,720 --> 02:12:54,280
Speaker 2: up with this coworker, and they just like both were like,

2457
02:12:54,720 --> 02:12:56,480
Speaker 2: that's what I want. I'm not going to talk about it.

2458
02:12:56,840 --> 02:13:00,600
Speaker 2: And now we're getting to this misunderstanding floor the coal

2459
02:13:00,920 --> 02:13:04,680
Speaker 2: everyone's the a hole here except Jesse. That's true.

2460
02:13:04,680 --> 02:13:07,640
Speaker 1: I don't think Jesse, which is crazy because it's usually

2461
02:13:08,520 --> 02:13:10,960
Speaker 1: something nefarious or something goes wrong with the third person.

2462
02:13:11,000 --> 02:13:14,840
Speaker 2: But Jesse is completely innocent. Yeah, completely innocent, Yeah, I think.

2463
02:13:15,880 --> 02:13:21,560
Speaker 2: But you know who's also innocent? Well, Lippy Witch, thanks

2464
02:13:21,600 --> 02:13:24,400
Speaker 2: for the five bucks question. Is asking someone you've known

2465
02:13:25,000 --> 02:13:31,320
Speaker 2: for twenty years? Is it too forward to just say Hey,

2466
02:13:31,400 --> 02:13:34,560
Speaker 2: I want to f and being serious about it after

2467
02:13:34,680 --> 02:13:37,720
Speaker 2: knowing them for twenty years and not e fing. Go

2468
02:13:37,920 --> 02:13:40,000
Speaker 2: for it. I mean, the only you can know if

2469
02:13:40,000 --> 02:13:44,760
Speaker 2: it's okay true. Yeah, so your shot, bro, Yeah you know,

2470
02:13:45,440 --> 02:13:49,760
Speaker 2: life is life is short. Life is too short not

2471
02:13:49,920 --> 02:13:53,200
Speaker 2: to f your friends. There you go.

2472
02:13:53,840 --> 02:13:57,800
Speaker 1: He is like, what Sam's golden rule? But yeah, none.

2473
02:13:58,760 --> 02:14:03,080
Speaker 2: Here we girls a ten dollars tip. Relationship tests don't work.

2474
02:14:03,160 --> 02:14:05,160
Speaker 2: I tested my hobby when we were dating fourteen years

2475
02:14:05,160 --> 02:14:09,440
Speaker 2: ago and he failed miserably. Yikes. It said he wasn't

2476
02:14:09,520 --> 02:14:14,560
Speaker 2: serious about me long term. It was obviously wrong. And came, Kalani,

2477
02:14:14,800 --> 02:14:17,480
Speaker 2: thanks for the two bucks. He sucks. She should leave

2478
02:14:17,560 --> 02:14:20,000
Speaker 2: him for Jesse. I think they equally suck.

2479
02:14:21,240 --> 02:14:23,800
Speaker 3: But that is.

2480
02:14:25,440 --> 02:14:27,560
Speaker 2: The end of the street. It is at the end

2481
02:14:27,560 --> 02:14:29,400
Speaker 2: of the street. A long time.

2482
02:14:29,520 --> 02:14:31,920
Speaker 1: This wasn't we were We weren't ready for this.

2483
02:14:32,520 --> 02:14:33,240
Speaker 2: We were ready.

2484
02:14:33,680 --> 02:14:35,320
Speaker 3: I did it.

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02:14:38,400 --> 02:14:46,080
Speaker 2: Bravo, bravo, and as your reward, you get one plus

2486
02:14:46,360 --> 02:14:53,120
Speaker 2: one tickets to the next Spotify of it. What here

2487
02:14:53,200 --> 02:14:53,360
Speaker 2: we go?

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02:14:53,560 --> 02:14:57,560
Speaker 1: I see, guys, he did it. He made it happen anyway.

2489
02:14:58,120 --> 02:14:59,640
Speaker 2: We could just got the email. I said I was

2490
02:14:59,640 --> 02:15:01,240
Speaker 2: going to talk to everyone about it. We just got

2491
02:15:01,280 --> 02:15:01,800
Speaker 2: it yesterday.

2492
02:15:02,360 --> 02:15:04,960
Speaker 1: I hadn't even read it. Yeah, I barely read the

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02:15:05,000 --> 02:15:05,879
Speaker 1: subject line.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, great job to Sophia. W's in the chat for

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Speaker 2: Sophia for being an excellent producer.

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