1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: And I remember my coach is pulling me to the 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: side and saying to me, particularly D'Angelo fields, don't cheat 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: your opportunity. You have a responsibility beyond yourself. And this 4 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 1: is more than a game. This game can take your places. 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:18,560 Speaker 2: Right. 6 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: So football to me was from that moment on, was 7 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:25,160 Speaker 1: more than just a game. 8 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:26,640 Speaker 2: It's been life or death. 9 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 1: And I like the fact or I appreciate the fact 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: that I get to work for the business every day 11 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: that changed my life, and for the players every day 12 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:41,160 Speaker 1: that changed my life. 13 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,040 Speaker 3: What's up, everybody, I'll peanut to me and this is 14 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,159 Speaker 3: the NFL Player's Second Acts podcast, and with me, as 15 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 3: always is my trusty co host, Roman Harper. 16 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 4: That's it. That's all. I got nothing. 17 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 3: You're not gonna okay serious mode right now, So you're 18 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 3: you're right, yeah, go to our next all right, our 19 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 3: next guest. He played for the Steelers and the Cardinals. 20 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 3: He is now the executive director of the Trust Ladies 21 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 3: and Gentlemen's Mere Cop. 22 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 4: Welcome to the pop. 23 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 2: Yes, thanks for having. 24 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 4: Thanks for coming on. Appreciation you. 25 00:01:17,440 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 3: I mean you literally just arrived like you haven't even 26 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,000 Speaker 3: been in your room and you came right down. So man, 27 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 3: I thank you for coming here and just wanting to 28 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 3: get this thing right right to it. 29 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 2: We appreciate you, no, thank you, thank you for having. 30 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 4: Where was you where'd you come in from? 31 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 2: D C hometown? Now? 32 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,800 Speaker 5: When you say DC, like because like d C that 33 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 5: that's a lot is it Virginia? 34 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 2: Is it? Like? Yo? No? No, no, no, truly like 35 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:47,559 Speaker 2: in DC? So the indigenous folks, d C is d C. Okay, yeah, teach, 36 00:01:47,640 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 2: When I say d C, I mean the city of Washington. 37 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 6: Okay. 38 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 2: So but you may hear d m V. 39 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 6: Yeah that's yeah. 40 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: Where Ken, okay, brothers and now but you're in it. 41 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: But I'm okay, all right. I like that. 42 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 4: Ken. That's country talk right there. 43 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 6: That is kind of country talk. 44 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 4: No, ain't no kind of it is. 45 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 5: We can well, you know everybody got cousins, but we 46 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:12,360 Speaker 5: say but we say kim folk though, like it ain't 47 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 5: just you can say kim folk. 48 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 4: That's what that's. That's some country right there. 49 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 2: It might be country cousins. 50 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 6: There we go. I get it. 51 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 5: I respect it, Samir. Do you remember this past that 52 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 5: happened in training camp two thousand and four? I guess 53 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 5: it was a deep pass from Ben Roethlisberger It was 54 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 5: a write up, an article about it, and it said 55 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 5: that you caught it for a touchdown, and this was 56 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 5: the play that showed the news and possibly that team 57 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 5: that like man, I think Ben Ben, maybe Big Ben 58 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 5: may be our answer or the future. 59 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: I don't know if I can say I remember that 60 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: play vividly or specifically, but I remember many plays where 61 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: Ben did that. That training camp, yes, also rookie mini camp. 62 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 2: That mini camp. 63 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 6: So tell me, tell me a couple of them. 64 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 5: I want to hear, Like, at what point, because big 65 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 5: being going for coming from Miami of Ohio, everybody had questions, 66 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,160 Speaker 5: small school guy, but he had the body, he had 67 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:11,399 Speaker 5: the arm, and he literally made Miami Ohio good. So 68 00:03:11,840 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 5: what were some of the things that happened early on 69 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 5: in camp that you were. 70 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 1: Like, Yeah, I would say confidence, charisma, you know, and athletics. 71 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 2: We call it the it factor. 72 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: He walked with a city swag, so stepping on the field, 73 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: I think he brought up I think he raised the 74 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: level of the offense and the team, and then his 75 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: talent was apparent immediately. So he helped actually helped me 76 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: make a name for myself in short order, feeding me 77 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: plenty of boss that would eventually lead to me quickly 78 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 1: moving up the depth chart. So I would say it 79 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: was it was early, and it was often that he delivered. 80 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 5: Here's the question that we like to ask most of 81 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 5: our guests, but what was your welcome to the NFL moment? 82 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: My welcome to the NFL moment? 83 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: It was actually that that training camp Cheety who's now 84 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 1: a scout for the Pittsburgh Steelers. He was a corner 85 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: at the time. I beat him on the deep ball 86 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: and the ball was underthrown. But I was confident that 87 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: he was not going to get to this football. It 88 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: was no way he was behind me. I shielded him, 89 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: did all the technical savvy things. The brother went over me, 90 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 1: and I mean reached over me, picked the ball off. 91 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: I said, this is a different level of athletics out 92 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: you know, could never be comfortable. 93 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,359 Speaker 2: So I got too comfortable that play. But that was 94 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 2: my welcome to the NFL moment. 95 00:04:42,240 --> 00:04:45,360 Speaker 1: He was shorter than me. I mean by all measure. 96 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: He wasn't supposed to get to that ball. No way 97 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 1: he's supposed to get to that ball. And he got 98 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: to that ball. And to this day, I'm trying to 99 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 1: figure out this brother got some game his vert must 100 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,280 Speaker 1: have been forty six. Yeah, Brod must have been a 101 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: ten to four because he got up there. 102 00:05:00,640 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 2: So that was my welcome to the NFL moment. 103 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 3: So that two thousand and fourth season, you guys went 104 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 3: fifteen to one. You lost AFC title game to the Patriots. 105 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 3: But that year Ben Roethlisberger, he was Rookie of the Year, 106 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 3: Officers Rookie of the Year, Hines Ward, drowing better say 107 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 3: all made the Pro Bowl. Three defensive guys made the 108 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 3: Pro Bowl. Talk about how special that season was. 109 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 1: So for me that season in it relatively early for me. 110 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: I had actually broke my leg just before the season started, 111 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 1: but I stayed with the team. Yeah, that whole season 112 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: watching film, so I got to see all, yeah. 113 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:36,840 Speaker 2: All of the players. 114 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 1: Yeah that it would eventually lead to all of the 115 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: accolades that you just mentioned. What I recall from that 116 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: season was just being amazed by the collection of talent, 117 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: but more so how that collection of talent operated as 118 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: a family or team. And I think it really showed 119 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:01,160 Speaker 1: the leadership from the coaching staff standpoint front office, as 120 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: well as the players in the locker room. I mean 121 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,600 Speaker 1: when you walked in the locker room, it was no 122 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,920 Speaker 1: question that this was a veteran team. 123 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:09,320 Speaker 2: You would there to win, you would there to get 124 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 2: a job done. 125 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 1: So what you eventually saw in the field, I think 126 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: came through hours of bonding and hard work before they 127 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: got out there. 128 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 3: Talk about you alluded to it earlier when you when 129 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:25,280 Speaker 3: you answered the question, when you first started talking about 130 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 3: the question you got you got injury broke to let 131 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 3: how was it dealing with that injury and still being 132 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 3: with the team, But you're really not I don't want 133 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 3: to say a part of the team, but you're you're 134 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 3: not out there with your brothers and you're seeing they 135 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 3: have success, but you want to be out there knowing 136 00:06:43,320 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: that you contribute. 137 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 4: Like, how did you do with that? 138 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: Mentally? 139 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 6: That was? 140 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:47,799 Speaker 2: That was tough. 141 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 1: It's probably the one of the most difficult challenge of 142 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: challenges of my lifetime for sure. I think the team 143 00:06:56,760 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: first and foremost did their best to make me feel 144 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,040 Speaker 1: at home. The week after I broke my leg. No 145 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 1: mind you, I'm on a team with Hall of famers. 146 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 2: Man All pros, Pro Bowls. 147 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: Was just the minimum you can do on that team, right, 148 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: And the week out that broke my leg, they actually 149 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: hung a photo that I have in my home of 150 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: me on the wall and all the players laughed. They 151 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: was like, man, you break your leg and you know 152 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,160 Speaker 1: you get posted. 153 00:07:23,800 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 2: On the wall, you know. And then during the season. 154 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: They did like a local news segment like catch Up 155 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 1: with Zamir Cobb. Now they had won probably ten games 156 00:07:35,200 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: in row this time. I remember hy as Ward laughing 157 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 1: at me, like, man, we all here winning games and 158 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: they interviewing you. So you know, so I was in isolation. 159 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: The isolation was tough, but I think the team and 160 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: the players did their best to make me feel like 161 00:07:50,760 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: I was a partner. 162 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 2: Went a long way. You know. 163 00:07:52,800 --> 00:07:55,600 Speaker 5: It's so I tore my acl my rookie year, so 164 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 5: I get what you're saying. My team went to the 165 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 5: NFC Championship game that year, trying to stay engaged when 166 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 5: you know, you still got rookie duties, so there's still 167 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 5: certain things that have to be involved in you're trying 168 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 5: to stay engaged as much as you can. For me, 169 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 5: I thought the experience was so different because when they 170 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 5: have to like travel on road games, I don't do that, 171 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 5: so like I was just in the city, so I 172 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 5: kind of became like a normal person, you know. But 173 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 5: I don't have the same lifestyle as everybody else. What 174 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 5: was that lifestyle like in Pittsburgh for you, because Pittsburgh's 175 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 5: already a very unique city. I was in New Orleans, 176 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 5: but I always like to hear people's ir experience as well, 177 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 5: especially on a team that's doing well. 178 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I got married young. 179 00:08:38,080 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: So I was married as a after my second semester 180 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: of college. 181 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 6: Freshman year. 182 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, my freshman year. 183 00:08:44,840 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: My wife was actually still in high school, so she 184 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:52,040 Speaker 1: was in the twelfth grade. She graduates, I go watch 185 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:53,960 Speaker 1: her graduate, she rock across the stage. 186 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:56,440 Speaker 2: And then we had Temple University. So my wife and 187 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 2: I went. 188 00:08:56,840 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: To school together, study together, have our first child maybe 189 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: a year after marriage. So throughout college, I mean, you 190 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: know what the vision one sports is like, man, all 191 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: your time is accounted for. So I got very little 192 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: time with my family. Actually, so that year that I 193 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,680 Speaker 1: was injured, it was actually time for me to catch 194 00:09:18,760 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 1: up with my wife and kid after practice because I 195 00:09:22,200 --> 00:09:25,080 Speaker 1: would go to practice, I would watch film, but I 196 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: didn't have all of the other obligations as the rest 197 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: of the team. So I actually used that time to 198 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:30,960 Speaker 1: catch up with my family. 199 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,440 Speaker 6: For sure, you might be the youngest guy. 200 00:09:34,200 --> 00:09:36,040 Speaker 5: First of all, you are the youngest guy we've had 201 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 5: on here that was married that young. That is actually 202 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 5: an amazing stat. I didn't know that. Congratulations. I mean, 203 00:09:43,480 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 5: so when y'all are studying together, like who doing the homework? 204 00:09:47,040 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: We were you know, my wife was was a high 205 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: school athlete, so we would compete, okay, hey, because she 206 00:09:52,880 --> 00:09:55,520 Speaker 1: always everything's competitive yah yeah, yeah. She always hit me 207 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: with the you just here because you could catch you know, 208 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,200 Speaker 1: so I would try to show up. You know, I 209 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 1: got my keeping the classroom, you know. But I would 210 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:06,600 Speaker 1: be remiss if I didn't admit that I had a 211 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: you know, a good a good study party. 212 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 2: Definitely helpful brother. 213 00:10:16,559 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 6: Hey, stay strong. 214 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, two thousand and four, you had a Bill Coward 215 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 5: was your coach? What was he like for a coach? 216 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,320 Speaker 5: I actually got to talk to him. He did not 217 00:10:33,440 --> 00:10:34,080 Speaker 5: let me down. 218 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, tough but fair. Tough but fair man. I was. 219 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: I was an undrafted free agent. But you know Larry 220 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 1: Larry Fitzgerald and I were both first team All Big East. 221 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 2: I was honorable mention All American. 222 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: Unfortunately I don't get drafted, but I go into Pittsburgh 223 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:59,840 Speaker 1: as an undrafted free agent. Plexico holds out and uh many. 224 00:11:00,360 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: I think up to training camp that year, so I 225 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:07,080 Speaker 1: had a tremendous opportunity to get more reps. And by 226 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:09,599 Speaker 1: the second press preseason game, I was fourth on the 227 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: depth shot. So I say, Man, he honors results, no 228 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: matter how you get him, where you come from, he 229 00:11:16,600 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: honors results. I've seen fourth rounders get cut. I've seen 230 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 1: first rounders make their way to the bench. Yeah, at 231 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: the end of the day, as you mentioned, you're on 232 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 1: the team with all pros and Hall of Famous results 233 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 1: was the only thing that matter. So tough, but fet Man, 234 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,320 Speaker 1: he was a tough coach, but he was fair and 235 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:38,240 Speaker 1: I appreciated that. 236 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 3: I want to know a little bit more about, like 237 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 3: the transitioning and getting comfortable with your second act. When 238 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 3: did you know that you could have success after. 239 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 4: Football was done. 240 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: I was injure my sophomore year of college, and we 241 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: now know it as a sports hernia, and it's like 242 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: a routine surgery, right, But when I got it, it 243 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: wasn't aine surgery. 244 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:01,959 Speaker 2: I'd actually had. 245 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 1: It for maybe a year and a half, two years 246 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 1: before they actually could diagnose it, so I was misdiagnosed, 247 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 1: went in as a promising freshman, but due to injury, 248 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: that outlook at sort of dwindle. During that time, I 249 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:20,840 Speaker 1: ingratiated myself with like the world of scholarship and being 250 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: an actually student right, and my professor, doctor Mechannadora, actually 251 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: became one of my closest friends and mentor. And one 252 00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: day we were just talking and he said, man, one 253 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,960 Speaker 1: day you'll realize that you're more than just pigskin and air. 254 00:12:38,440 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 1: What a shallow man to be, right, And I took 255 00:12:41,760 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: that as a challenge. It was then where I started 256 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 1: to be more complex. I think, to appreciate deck sturdy, 257 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: you know, create multiple forms of myself. I interned my 258 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: sophomore in senior year, I'm literally the only Division one 259 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: athlete that I've knowed actually had a true internship. My 260 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: senior year of football, I worked sixteen hours a week. 261 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: And it wasn't like you go in and sign your 262 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,560 Speaker 1: name and they give you hours. 263 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 2: No. 264 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: I worked, and I worked at the U Study Center, 265 00:13:13,600 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 1: which was the detention center for the city of Philadelphia. 266 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 2: Did I did real work. 267 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,600 Speaker 4: I did the same thing I worked at the Cincter 268 00:13:21,720 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 4: in life. 269 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I did real work. 270 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:26,680 Speaker 1: So it was then I discovered that I could be 271 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: successful beyond the game. I just didn't expect to apply 272 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: it as soon. 273 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 5: As First of all, how did you get hooked up 274 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:37,559 Speaker 5: with that job? And maybe kind of tell me about 275 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:42,080 Speaker 5: your scheduling because you have this twenty hour you know, 276 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 5: you said in college you're athlete. Your day's booked up, done, 277 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 5: And so when did you find in time to go 278 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 5: to work? And what was your mentality because you also 279 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 5: had a wife and a family too, Like your mindset's 280 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 5: already completely different than every other teammate. 281 00:13:57,040 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 2: You have husd cent. 282 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: So just in terms of work, it was actually a 283 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 1: part of my major. 284 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:05,439 Speaker 6: What was your major? 285 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 1: Social work? So you have to have some field hours 286 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:13,960 Speaker 1: or hands on work. Well, we called it a practical 287 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: right where you practically apply to theories that you're learning 288 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: in the classroom. 289 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 2: No no, no, no, no, all good. 290 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: So my sophomore year, my coach actually wanted me to 291 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 1: change my major, and the dean of my of the 292 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: School of Social Work actually called my head coach and said, 293 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 1: most Temple students work or go to work and go 294 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: to school. What makes me any different? Either he continues 295 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:52,400 Speaker 1: as major or he's not playing football. So it actually 296 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: my school stood up to my coach the whole time. 297 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: I'm caught in the middle, but I appreciate it in 298 00:14:59,880 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: the lower Yeah, I appreciated lower. 299 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 2: So it was actually a part of my. 300 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: Academic requirements to achieve my degree that I work my 301 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: sophomore in senior year. 302 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, that didn't happen to a lot of SEC schools. 303 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 5: That Yeah, where the school can stand up to the coach. 304 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 3: I don't think it happens that any SEC school. I 305 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: put that out there on the record. 306 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 2: It does. 307 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 4: That doesn't happen at SEC. 308 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 3: You're here to play football second, and you're here for 309 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 3: an education first. 310 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, we used to get we used to get we 311 00:15:32,160 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 2: used to get that speech. 312 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 4: But that's high speech closed. 313 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 1: But when you're not winning, it's just words. You don't 314 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:42,520 Speaker 1: have that level of pool. Yeah with the university when. 315 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 4: The same speech. 316 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 5: But yeah, okay Alabama. So the football thing is kind 317 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 5: of doing what it's doing. You signed with the you 318 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,440 Speaker 5: wanted to keep playing, but you had injuries your first 319 00:15:55,480 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 5: couple of years. 320 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: So yes, So I ended up getting us going to 321 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:05,240 Speaker 1: a specialist doctor myriers just before my. 322 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 5: Crazy he was down the street, down the streets. 323 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: So I had hernia surgery and I was like, look, Doc, 324 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: this ain't doing nothing. 325 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 2: I still feel this pain. 326 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: So before my senior season, my training at the time, 327 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 1: Dwight Strandsbury said, we got we got one more option. 328 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 1: It's a specialist uh at Honeyman Hospital. Ironically, that's when 329 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: my son was My first son was, my first child 330 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: was born. 331 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 2: So I go, man. He examined me for like five minutes. 332 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 2: He was like exactly. Yeah. He was like saying, you 333 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 2: gotta have this surgery. So I haven't. 334 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: And within six weeks, Man, I feel like a chance. 335 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 5: Well you can get to max speed and not like 336 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 5: because it's just the governor. 337 00:16:59,080 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 6: What did it feel like? 338 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 5: It's hard to describe, like it doesn't hurt all the time, 339 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 5: but it's like you'll be running. 340 00:17:04,680 --> 00:17:06,600 Speaker 6: And all of a sudden you're about to limit. 341 00:17:06,920 --> 00:17:07,120 Speaker 2: Yeah. 342 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is just especially as a wild out when 343 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 1: you got stop and go. 344 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 6: Yeah. I couldn't imagine. 345 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 5: I also like laying in the bed like I'd be good, 346 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 5: I'd cough make that feel it, or like I roll 347 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,160 Speaker 5: over and you're like, oh what is that? 348 00:17:20,520 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: So So my junior year, I didn't practice the whole season. 349 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: I took vajos before games and that's how I made 350 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 1: it through my my junior year. Then I go into 351 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 1: my senior year, I have the surgery, and I'll tell you, 352 00:17:37,359 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: after the first seven days of training, cat my coaches 353 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,200 Speaker 1: shut me down. They said, if we want the DBS 354 00:17:44,240 --> 00:17:48,199 Speaker 1: to have any confidence during this season, man, you cannot practice. 355 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 2: So I knew I was back then. 356 00:17:51,000 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, And after the first six games my senior year, 357 00:17:54,680 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: Larry and I were actually neck and neck in every 358 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 1: national stat and every stat WI receiver stat nationally. So 359 00:18:02,520 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 1: it was pretty strong senior season. It was literally my 360 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: only healthy season. 361 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 6: It's banana. 362 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 5: And so you go to the league league a couple 363 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 5: of years, you've been signed at the Voodoo, I saw you. 364 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:20,240 Speaker 1: So I did three years in the league, uh, And 365 00:18:20,280 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: then everybody wanted to see if I could sort of 366 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:27,199 Speaker 1: recapture who I was before I broke my leg and 367 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: injured my knee. So I get to uh the Voodoo. 368 00:18:33,080 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 1: I must have had. 369 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,360 Speaker 2: Three or four good practices. 370 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: They think they got the next Cadillac that nobody's ever seen. 371 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,680 Speaker 1: Then I think I ended up starting to drain my 372 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 1: knee again because I started getting bone on bone. 373 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 2: It's funny. 374 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:54,679 Speaker 1: The broken leg definitely slowed me up, but I was 375 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: able to just regret get back from that. But the 376 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: bone on bone, it wasn't no, there's no really, they 377 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,639 Speaker 1: start draining. It was like every day they started draining 378 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 1: my knee and it was it was a wrap from. 379 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 4: That wrap from there. 380 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 5: So now you feel your's wrap. So then you reach 381 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 5: out to the trust or how does this hold? 382 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:15,119 Speaker 2: No, no, actually going back. 383 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 5: Because I want everybody else to hear how these things 384 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:18,680 Speaker 5: get started. 385 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: So that internship I told you about UH and having 386 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,240 Speaker 1: to go to class at Temple, you had to go 387 00:19:25,320 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: to every class bro they checked. I mean you had 388 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: a class checker and if you didn't show for that class, 389 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: you had that morning wake up. I'm smiling because like, 390 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 1: I went to class, So I realistic say I never 391 00:19:36,800 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 1: had a morning wake up. 392 00:19:38,680 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 2: I don't want to give myself too much credit. 393 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 1: I can't say I was that committed to class, but 394 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,240 Speaker 1: I was surely committed to not getting up before in 395 00:19:46,280 --> 00:19:48,720 Speaker 1: the morning and running wrong class right. 396 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 2: So it definitely served its purpose. 397 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:56,360 Speaker 1: Once I got injured, the two internships I had, they 398 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 1: actually reached out to me first and they were like, hey, 399 00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:02,159 Speaker 1: so you hurt, as soon as you need us, let 400 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: us know. And that segue into my first job I 401 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:11,040 Speaker 1: started as a case manager man in Philadelphia program called 402 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: Adolescence Violence Reduction, working with the one hundred youth in 403 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 1: Philadelphia that would more likely to kill or be killed. 404 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:22,359 Speaker 1: I've actually testified over one hundred and fifty times in 405 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 1: court on behalf of adolescence. Well, we called them youth offenders, right. 406 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 1: I've only had one kid held, had the lowest recidivism 407 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:37,919 Speaker 1: rate of any one with a case load. Quickly escalated 408 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 1: to upper management and I ended up managing two forty 409 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:46,280 Speaker 1: thousand square foot community centers in Philadelphia, one in North Philly, 410 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,960 Speaker 1: one in West Philly they called the Bottom. From there, 411 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 1: I transitioned back home to my hometown of DC, where 412 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 1: I was a director of a local nonprofit. I was 413 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: looking for support for a camp I was doing in 414 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: my neighborhood, Emry Heights Playground, and I noticed that the 415 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:10,679 Speaker 1: NFLPA was in DC. Didn't know that, so I reached 416 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: out to him, and they came with a bowload of 417 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:17,959 Speaker 1: equipment and volunteers and you know, helped me put on 418 00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 1: the first camp at my childhood playground. Yeah, and I 419 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: was actually living in the back, living in the neighborhood 420 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 1: at that time, so it kind of sort of resparkle 421 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 1: per my interests of getting back in sports, kept my 422 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:37,400 Speaker 1: out on the job openings of the PA. Saw they 423 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 1: were launching the Trust, looked at the PD or position description. 424 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 1: I mean it literally read like my experience. Yeah, it 425 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 1: was actually a step back from a title standpoint or 426 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 1: position standpoint, but I've always been mission driven up position driven, 427 00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,639 Speaker 1: and it was sort as a calling for me. 428 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,919 Speaker 4: What actually does the trust do? 429 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:05,320 Speaker 1: We provide an ecosystem of support, comprehensive system of support 430 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:09,120 Speaker 1: to help former players thrive post career, and. 431 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 3: We'll be right back and what are some of the 432 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 3: things in that ecosystem. 433 00:22:14,400 --> 00:22:17,320 Speaker 1: I'll start with one in which I think we should 434 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:20,159 Speaker 1: socialize and we should all do, is the brain and 435 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:28,560 Speaker 1: body assessment. Players have obtained to date over four thousand assessments. 436 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 1: So if you haven't done it, players, you're behind right, 437 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: So any player with two or more credited seasons, it's 438 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:40,199 Speaker 1: eligible or are eligible for the benefit. That benefit includes 439 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 1: your travel, your accommodations meals if needed. Your spouse can 440 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: travel with you as well, although she's not a part 441 00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 1: of the assessment. The assessment is over three days. I 442 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: mean it's gonna be the most extensive physical you ever 443 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,119 Speaker 1: have in your life, head to toe. You have that 444 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: once every five years for your lifetime. So the first 445 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: thing we need to be for our families in our 446 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 1: community is present, right. And what better way to be 447 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 1: president than to be healthy? 448 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:09,240 Speaker 2: Right? 449 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: So I think we start there. I think all of 450 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 1: us we need to start there. We need to socialize 451 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 1: that as you transition, of course, you're gonna wonder what's next. 452 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: It's a very complex scenario. You're gonna wonder what's next. 453 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: What's next is gonna be different for all of us. 454 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:31,399 Speaker 1: So we help with the resume, the cover letter, the 455 00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:36,200 Speaker 1: LinkedIn profile, the interview skills. You have a one on 456 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,720 Speaker 1: one coach to walk you or walk along with. 457 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 2: You in that process. You're never alone. 458 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 1: You're gonna have a skill assessment, a personality assessment, whether 459 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 1: you're pivoting in a career or you're entering a career. 460 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 1: Our educational advancement or our scholarship is twenty thousand dollars 461 00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: per calendar year for your lifetime. You don't come out 462 00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: of pocket. We pay the school, or the benefit pays 463 00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 1: the school directly. It's undergrad grad, PhD. Whatever it is 464 00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:11,959 Speaker 1: of your choosing To date, we're roughly eleven hundred completed 465 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 1: degree programs, and over fifty percent of those are graduate degrees. 466 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: Players can also take advantage of a certificate up to 467 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 1: five thousand a year for your lifetime. 468 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:25,520 Speaker 2: So those are three that I. 469 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,199 Speaker 1: Would definitely keep in mind if you're looking to have 470 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:29,160 Speaker 1: a good time with the. 471 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:32,200 Speaker 2: Family, like like I. You know I am, and. 472 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:36,240 Speaker 1: You got a big household like we do. You know, 473 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: my wife and I we have five kids. YMCA is 474 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:43,720 Speaker 1: good for everybody. We just added swim to the YMCA benefits. 475 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,120 Speaker 1: So brothers, if you don't know how to swim, learn 476 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 1: how to save yourself and save it life. We got 477 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 1: all right you could take it depending with you as well. 478 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 6: So it's a lot of things. I appreciate that. 479 00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:55,920 Speaker 2: Those are just a couple. 480 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 4: So I've done the braining, the bringing brain body. 481 00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:01,760 Speaker 3: I did mine in the Cleveland Cliny Okay, so yeah 482 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 3: I'm in Cleveland. 483 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, did in Cleveland. 484 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:08,520 Speaker 3: I did it like around COVID. So I think I'm 485 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 3: due in like twenty twenty six. Is when twenty five 486 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:15,879 Speaker 3: twenty I gotta check, But I'm I don't worry. We 487 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 3: know we'll call you before I think we keep, we keep, 488 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 3: I'm about doing. My five years is just about up. 489 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:26,200 Speaker 3: So I'm I think I'm ready for my next skin. 490 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,920 Speaker 2: Because you're a good example of what we all. 491 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 4: And it was cool for three days. 492 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,640 Speaker 3: I think I found out I have a sleep avenue, 493 00:25:33,920 --> 00:25:36,360 Speaker 3: but I don't sleep with the machine because it's it's 494 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:37,600 Speaker 3: very annoying and loud. 495 00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:41,160 Speaker 1: But so have you tried the pillar surgery? 496 00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 4: No, I don't. I don't think I'm gonna do any surgeries. 497 00:25:43,800 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 2: But so how are you treating your apney? Brother? If 498 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 2: you don't know me, ask you. Let's go there. 499 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 4: I'm sleeping. I'm sleeping good. 500 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,160 Speaker 2: You come over, you come. 501 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 4: I'm just saying we can you know I'm sleeping good. 502 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 4: I'm six and a half hours in, like I'm still. 503 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 2: Because we helped with the follow up. Now, yeah, brother, 504 00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 2: we got you. 505 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,520 Speaker 3: I feel So I tried it. I'm not gonna I 506 00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:07,959 Speaker 3: tried it and I woke up and it was like 507 00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,320 Speaker 3: a damn desert in my mouth, like it was just dry, 508 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:17,399 Speaker 3: and so it's it definitely takes some you some It 509 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 3: took me a minute to get used to it, and 510 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 3: I never got used to it. 511 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 4: So I just was like, I think I'm with you. 512 00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 2: I think I think I'm Yeah. 513 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:27,560 Speaker 1: I tried it in my and my kids said it 514 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: looked like I was going to the moon at night. Yeah, 515 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 1: so I couldn't I had, I wouldn't have had the surgery. 516 00:26:35,280 --> 00:26:37,919 Speaker 3: So they put Yeah, so that's the I don't know 517 00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 3: what what is this surgery? 518 00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 1: Hold talk just a pillar. I had a pillow put 519 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 1: in my throat. It's helped reduce my storing and I 520 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: can sleep and everybody that lives in my house now 521 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:52,200 Speaker 1: can sleep because I don't. 522 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:57,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, right, isn't there an app that you can track 523 00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:58,560 Speaker 4: it with an app? 524 00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,359 Speaker 3: There's something there's there's some type of a device that 525 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 3: it can connect to with an app and it will help. 526 00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 4: It helps with the Yeah. 527 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,479 Speaker 1: We'll talk a little bit about that treatment. 528 00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 4: My kids are just like that. 529 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 3: You you sound like you're gonna die, And I was like, 530 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 3: I've but I slept fine. 531 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,359 Speaker 4: I feel good, like I'm good. But yeah, well we'll 532 00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:19,439 Speaker 4: talk offline after this. 533 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,240 Speaker 3: But yeah, you got to do the brand and I'll 534 00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 3: be telling you to do this stuff, but you won't 535 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:24,800 Speaker 3: be trying to listen to your boy. 536 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, because I don't want them to tell me I 537 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,439 Speaker 5: can't have bacon no more. I'm sorry, I. 538 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,399 Speaker 2: Don't think that. You know, don't limit yourself over bacon. 539 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 2: I know. 540 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 6: I agree. 541 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,159 Speaker 5: As a matter of fact, the price of bacon is 542 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 5: going up so much. I stopped so I've gotten out 543 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:39,160 Speaker 5: of it. 544 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:41,879 Speaker 1: So just remember as the Arab benefits, so you're leaving 545 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 1: money on the table. 546 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 6: I agree. 547 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 5: This is something I talked to my wife about this 548 00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 5: morning that I'm this is two things. 549 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:49,199 Speaker 2: They committed to it. 550 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:51,520 Speaker 6: I'm gonna do it. Yes, I gotta continue to commit 551 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:51,880 Speaker 6: to it. 552 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,560 Speaker 5: What about all the answers that you felt that after 553 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:59,280 Speaker 5: you joined the trust that maybe got answered for yourself 554 00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 5: when you finally committed to it. 555 00:28:02,160 --> 00:28:03,640 Speaker 6: You're going into it. I think you said. 556 00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 5: The first two questions asked before making a career move 557 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 5: is number one, can I maximize impact? And number two? 558 00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 5: Can I amplify the mission? You already told me that 559 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,600 Speaker 5: you're a mission driven person. I wrote that down. I 560 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 5: actually love it. It's mission driven, not position driven. And 561 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 5: then if you can do that, if there's a third, 562 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 5: can I do those two in a deeper way that 563 00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:31,360 Speaker 5: I can already accomplish in my current role. So all 564 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 5: these questions, what did the Trust help you in answering 565 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 5: those questions, I. 566 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 1: Would say, you know, going a bed and waking up 567 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: with the weight of can we improve the lives of 568 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,800 Speaker 1: former players and their families? I think it's an honor 569 00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: and a half. It's a discussion that's normal, normal in 570 00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: my household. What can we do? What are we not doing? 571 00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: How could we look at our family as a reflection 572 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 1: of the other family to be productive? How could I 573 00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: look at myself introspectively, right, my strengths, my weaknesses, my toils, 574 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: my tears, you know, in a way that can be 575 00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:18,840 Speaker 1: reflected out on what we do. But greater than that, 576 00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:24,800 Speaker 1: as a program manager, I was able to serve over 577 00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: five hundred players in a role of program manager in 578 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 1: that sense, helping players figure out or empowering players to 579 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 1: figure out their what's next. And it's the collection of 580 00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 1: those experiences that I think has helped me amplify our mission. 581 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:50,680 Speaker 1: I think going into the trust, which I was created 582 00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: by players for players, in collaboration with various subject matter 583 00:29:56,480 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 1: experts as well as NFLPA staff, there was a core 584 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:05,120 Speaker 1: of services that remain our core today, but there were 585 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:09,960 Speaker 1: also gaps, and I think my past experience helped me 586 00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 1: and the others that I was working with at the 587 00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:16,680 Speaker 1: time see those gaps and feel them in a way 588 00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 1: that players could appreciate. We didn't start the trust with 589 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: the ability to go impatient, so we literally can go 590 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 1: from basic counseling to impatient services. Player pays no costs. 591 00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,160 Speaker 1: We didn't have that when we first started, right, So 592 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 1: when you talk about being mission driven, it's always the 593 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 1: what's next. It's always questioning what we do, turning over 594 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: what we do, how can we think differently about what 595 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: we do to make it better on behalf of players. 596 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 1: The YMCA didn't come with the trust. That was again 597 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: a gap that we saw that we were able to feel. 598 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 1: We didn't have the free agent program, which, if you 599 00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 1: don't know, every active player with two or more credited 600 00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 1: seasons who is not on the roster, we pay for 601 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:08,520 Speaker 1: them to train up to twelve months at Bambar Rito 602 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 1: Exos DSA and Atlanta Yo Murphy Sports in Tampa up 603 00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: to twelve months. 604 00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 2: We didn't have that. We saw a guy. 605 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: We know players want to get back in the game first, 606 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 1: so we start there. But that also creates a natural 607 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: road to the transition because, as you guys know, you've 608 00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: a power clean front squad, realize you're not getting a 609 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,479 Speaker 1: call and you move on to what's next. So we 610 00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: want to be right there when the player makes that decision. 611 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: So we talk about being mission driven, amplifying the mission. 612 00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 2: Those are some of the things that I've been able to. 613 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:45,000 Speaker 1: Do along with or create along with the team of 614 00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: the Trust that I think players are benefiting from today. 615 00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:49,959 Speaker 2: Now. 616 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 4: Fulfilling? 617 00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:52,320 Speaker 3: Is it to do that though, knowing that you came 618 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,920 Speaker 3: here or you're a former player, you step into you 619 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:59,160 Speaker 3: step into this position, and you've just filled all these gaps? 620 00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:00,080 Speaker 4: Fulfilling? 621 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 2: Is it? 622 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:04,080 Speaker 4: Do you ever just sometimes sit back as Blake hey Man, 623 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:05,280 Speaker 4: we we did that. 624 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:09,120 Speaker 3: We I know I'm not benefiting from some of these things, 625 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 3: but I made the game better for this next group 626 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 3: of guys. 627 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:20,040 Speaker 1: Like absolutely, there were seven of the There were seven 628 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,479 Speaker 1: of us when we first launt the Trust. Of the seven, 629 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: three remain myself, Andrew Zink, who's our director of Ops, 630 00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: and Danielle Foreman, who's our director of Service. Those two folks, 631 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 1: along with the folks who have served the organization in 632 00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 1: the past and continue to serve the organization today. Those 633 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:45,239 Speaker 1: folks are heroes and I'm just a part of a 634 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: team of heroes and our service team. 635 00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 2: I would go a step further. 636 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 1: I call them superheroes without capes because the things they 637 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: do on behalf of players, the unseen that they do 638 00:32:56,400 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 1: on behalf of players every day, you wouldn't believe how 639 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 1: it benefits us. Right, So it's fulfilling for me as 640 00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 1: an individual, but it's even more fulfilling knowing that I 641 00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: have a team of committed individuals that drive the train. 642 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:16,800 Speaker 2: For players every. 643 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,640 Speaker 4: Day and we'll be right back, all right. 644 00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 5: So you say it's only three of you guys that 645 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,720 Speaker 5: have been there since the beginning, and you happen to 646 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,520 Speaker 5: be one of those guys. At what point did you realize, like, 647 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 5: you know what, I think I'm not just a person here, 648 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 5: but I think I'm ready to move up and take 649 00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 5: on more. 650 00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 6: Of a leadership. Bro, what was it you are? 651 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 5: You're a manager, a program manager to player director, then 652 00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:44,120 Speaker 5: you went managing director, now the executive director. So like 653 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:46,640 Speaker 5: you know, I look, I'm not I haven't had a 654 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:49,479 Speaker 5: whole bunch of jobs where I know what those exact 655 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 5: terms mean. But sounds like you're moving up the last 656 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 5: When did that start to hit for you? 657 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 6: Like, man, this is. 658 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 5: What I think my calling is, and this is my mission, 659 00:33:58,040 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 5: I might as well be the best at it. 660 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: So I started as a program manager on the Trust side, 661 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:10,760 Speaker 1: But the Trust and the NFLPA are distinctly different organizations 662 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:16,520 Speaker 1: legally distinct organization. The Trust is a collectively bargain benefit 663 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:21,080 Speaker 1: and our board members are made up of equal NFL 664 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 1: trustees equal NFLPA trustees. 665 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 2: But we're located. 666 00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:31,200 Speaker 1: Within the nflpa's sort of infrastructure building per se or space. 667 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:37,640 Speaker 1: So naturally the work I'm doing on my floor is 668 00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:43,920 Speaker 1: reverberating throughout the building for lack of better terms, So 669 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 1: that gave me the opportunity to serve players in the 670 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,960 Speaker 1: role lists player director. So I was a program manager 671 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 1: for two and a half years. Then I go with 672 00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 1: Player Director on the NFLPA side for roughly five years 673 00:34:57,000 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 1: through the twenty twenty Collective Barney Agreement larger responsible for 674 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:07,520 Speaker 1: engaging in educating players writing them to bargain. Right after that, 675 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 1: I go back to the Trust as managing director for 676 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:14,319 Speaker 1: roughly three years, so I get to see sides of 677 00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 1: the business that I was familiar with but didn't have 678 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:19,960 Speaker 1: my hands in, such as our operations, how we pay 679 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,040 Speaker 1: our bills, how we pay the scholarship, how we pay 680 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 1: for medical costs. Took that collective experience and then became 681 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 1: executive director. The way I describe it is, I've always 682 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,400 Speaker 1: been on good teams. Good teams allow you to excel 683 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:40,560 Speaker 1: as an individual, no doubt, made multiple promos and all 684 00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 1: pro teams allowed me to escalate. And I'm still celebrating 685 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:45,200 Speaker 1: with my team. 686 00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:46,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I like that. I like that. 687 00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:48,880 Speaker 3: So this is a question we like to ask all 688 00:35:48,960 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 3: of our guests. You have had an amazing life, high school, college, 689 00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 3: you know, NFL, now post life, your transition to where 690 00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 3: you are right now, vinize the director, if you had 691 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:06,680 Speaker 3: four people to pick from that help you turn you 692 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:09,160 Speaker 3: into the menu are today right now, sitting right here 693 00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:09,920 Speaker 3: in this chair. 694 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,440 Speaker 4: Who would those four people be? And we're putting them 695 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 4: on your own personal amount rushmore. 696 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, one hundred percent. 697 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:21,760 Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna say in order, because if it's ordered, 698 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,240 Speaker 1: you know, wife is premium. 699 00:36:24,840 --> 00:36:28,360 Speaker 2: Order, Yeah, wife is premium. But my four is easy. 700 00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:31,680 Speaker 1: Uh you know, I call them my holy you know, 701 00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 1: my holy trinity, just to spind off, not to be 702 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:41,800 Speaker 1: disrespectful of any religious belief. Uh, my mother, my grandmother 703 00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 1: and my great aunt. Those are the folks that that 704 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 1: got me to my wife. And once I got to 705 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,200 Speaker 1: my wife, she took it over from there. 706 00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 3: Now, why all three, you know, mother and grandmother and 707 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,000 Speaker 3: your auntie, Ye, why. 708 00:36:55,840 --> 00:37:00,160 Speaker 1: Each as a team. They raised me and they raised us, 709 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:04,160 Speaker 1: meaning my siblings, my cousins, we were all. My cousins 710 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 1: are like my brothers and sisters. My extended family is 711 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,400 Speaker 1: like my nuclear family. Because they kept us all close. 712 00:37:13,520 --> 00:37:18,759 Speaker 1: Sunday dinners, Easter Sundays, Christmas dinners, all those times at 713 00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 1: the table, all those times enjoying those moments allowed us 714 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 1: to I think, have a heightened level of fondness for 715 00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,799 Speaker 1: each other. It's helped us as children, has helped us 716 00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:33,880 Speaker 1: as an adult, and I think they turned over a 717 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 1: good man to my spouse and we've been able to, 718 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: i think, carry on many of those traditions that she 719 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 1: came with from her family, but particularly as you asked me, 720 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:49,240 Speaker 1: that I came with from those three individuals. 721 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,000 Speaker 3: Hey, I appreciate you coming on the pot man. Thank 722 00:37:52,040 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 3: you for blessing us and giving us a little bit 723 00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:57,839 Speaker 3: more education and understanding of what the trust actually does 724 00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:02,399 Speaker 3: for former players. But I'm definitely looking to the thing. 725 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 3: We'll talk a little bit about it. We're gonna get 726 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,759 Speaker 3: room hooked up of just getting the brain and mindy skin. 727 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:09,080 Speaker 6: Can you can? You can do it in l A. 728 00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:10,160 Speaker 4: You don't it, don't have. 729 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 6: To do I love l A. 730 00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 4: Like, let's let's go to LA and we. 731 00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 2: Can get it done on the beach and your hotel 732 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 2: in l A is on the beach. 733 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:22,640 Speaker 6: There's't got nothing to do with you. 734 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,759 Speaker 5: This is this guy always trying to talk me into 735 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,160 Speaker 5: doing something, and I'm just like very hesitant. 736 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 6: You on the other end, number one, very mature. 737 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:35,080 Speaker 5: I can tell by your journey, your path, the way 738 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 5: you speak, how much your knowledge is and everything that 739 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 5: you spoke about. You don't talk unless you know what 740 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,000 Speaker 5: you're talking about. You can tell, uh, and so that 741 00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 5: means you you listen extremely well. But I do want 742 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:52,560 Speaker 5: to know one more thing, and maybe it's a little 743 00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:53,440 Speaker 5: bit of insight, and I. 744 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,919 Speaker 6: Want to know just a little bit more about who 745 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:55,239 Speaker 6: you are. 746 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:57,480 Speaker 5: And I'll probably pick up on it, but it's like, 747 00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,840 Speaker 5: at what point are like what about your football career 748 00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,560 Speaker 5: from whether you were playing from you were little high 749 00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:09,720 Speaker 5: school temple to where like that led you to this point? 750 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:11,960 Speaker 5: What did you learn or what all did you take 751 00:39:11,960 --> 00:39:15,040 Speaker 5: from football in your life that has helped you grow 752 00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 5: to exactly where you are, And it's just mature wealth 753 00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 5: of knowledge that's really leading a group and really serving 754 00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:23,240 Speaker 5: so many people. 755 00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:28,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I hate to get so serious on this one, 756 00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:30,320 Speaker 1: but no, don't. 757 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:30,799 Speaker 2: Turn Yeah, my. 758 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:37,120 Speaker 1: Little league coach di'angelo Phelds was the second round draft 759 00:39:37,120 --> 00:39:38,319 Speaker 1: pick and. 760 00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:40,120 Speaker 6: He grew so you saw NFL in front of you. 761 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 1: So he grew up about two blocks away from me 762 00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:50,120 Speaker 1: in my neighborhood. He's Jerry Porter's second round draft pick. 763 00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,200 Speaker 1: He grew up about a couple of blocks away from me, 764 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 1: Vernon Avante Davis. We also have a superstar agent who 765 00:39:57,160 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: would go unnamed. We all grew up on the same playground. 766 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:03,360 Speaker 1: It was a he's the ones that went to the league, 767 00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:08,840 Speaker 1: but particularly that a year nineteen ninety two ninety three, 768 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:13,000 Speaker 1: it was a very difficult year for my city DC. 769 00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 1: We were at the height of the crack epidemic. Violence 770 00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 1: was rampant, and I remember my coaches pulling me to 771 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 1: the side and saying to me, particularly D'Angelo Fields, don't 772 00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:35,000 Speaker 1: cheat your opportunity. You have a responsibility beyond yourself. And 773 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:37,359 Speaker 1: this is more than a game. This game can take 774 00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:41,319 Speaker 1: you places right in football, Although I enjoyed it, from 775 00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,480 Speaker 1: that moment on it took on a more serious form. 776 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,200 Speaker 1: You know, I saw it as my obligation to be 777 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,200 Speaker 1: the best I could be. I saw as my obligation 778 00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,200 Speaker 1: to be the best I can be and transform that 779 00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:57,080 Speaker 1: in a way that can support my family and my community. 780 00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:03,120 Speaker 1: So football, to me, he was from that moment on, 781 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,359 Speaker 1: it was more than just a game. It's been life 782 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,759 Speaker 1: or death, and I like the fact or I appreciate 783 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,680 Speaker 1: the fact that I get the work for the business 784 00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:15,239 Speaker 1: every day that changed my life, and for the players 785 00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:18,120 Speaker 1: every day that changed my life because it was the 786 00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 1: Lts of the world. 787 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,399 Speaker 2: It was the Jerry Rices. 788 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,080 Speaker 1: Of the world, the Montanas of the world that I 789 00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,600 Speaker 1: saw that allowed me to dream, to see what's next, 790 00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:29,719 Speaker 1: what I could accomplish, and what those accomplishments can do 791 00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:30,080 Speaker 1: for me. 792 00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 6: Excellent answer. 793 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,239 Speaker 2: That's why I love it. 794 00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 5: Thank you, and I appreciate it for you to continue 795 00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,960 Speaker 5: to serve and all that other stuff. I knew you 796 00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:41,360 Speaker 5: were gonna have some great words, and it's just really 797 00:41:41,360 --> 00:41:44,239 Speaker 5: cool because when you see greatness in front of you, 798 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:45,879 Speaker 5: and when they say something to. 799 00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:46,839 Speaker 6: You, you hold on to it. 800 00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 5: I bet that coach probably had no idea that that 801 00:41:50,160 --> 00:41:52,280 Speaker 5: was gonna stick with you, but it's a very vivid 802 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,319 Speaker 5: memory in your life. I can tell you remember, like 803 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,360 Speaker 5: bro it from there on, football was no longer just 804 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,279 Speaker 5: a game. Way of life is a way providing and 805 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,040 Speaker 5: you didn't even know what future we're going to have, 806 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,040 Speaker 5: but I needed this to to be a part of it, 807 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:09,520 Speaker 5: So I appreciate it. Man, thanks for everything that you're doing. 808 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,480 Speaker 5: Thank you, and man for all of our listeners and 809 00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 5: viewers out there wherever you pick up your podcast, whether 810 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:20,879 Speaker 5: it's Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio app Man, leave a like, subscribe comment, Man, 811 00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:23,239 Speaker 5: hit that follow button, and you can also check us 812 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,960 Speaker 5: out on more episodes on the NFL pages YouTube channel 813 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,440 Speaker 5: and Peanut Man get us out here and don't be weird. 814 00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,320 Speaker 4: Hey, pre chut, y'all tune it in. I'm Peanut Tubman. 815 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 3: This is my guy Roman Harper NASAMir and this is 816 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 3: the NFL Player's second act podcast. 817 00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:53,200 Speaker 4: We out