WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Yup Date For Jessica + 1 Year Later To Rejection King

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<v Speaker 1>Brook's been trying to think of this quote to say

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<v Speaker 1>for about a minute.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, what is it There's no such thing as too

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<v Speaker 2>much of a good thing?

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<v Speaker 3>Or is there too much of a good thing?

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<v Speaker 2>I kind of think it's that one, but that would backfire.

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<v Speaker 1>And what you're trying to I thought, it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be really clever to open our back to back second

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<v Speaker 1>day after it is still yes, yeah, so let us

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<v Speaker 1>know a good quote for this.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're here, Yeah, here, we're here.

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<v Speaker 3>You tell us it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Saturday, It's Brook and jeff one morning, and let's do

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<v Speaker 4>a comment that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, psych Dale said, I found this from them

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok video and I had to find Brooke because I

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<v Speaker 1>loved her humor. I need to do this podcast so

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<v Speaker 1>much while I was pregnant that my baby when he

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<v Speaker 1>was born would actually know your.

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<v Speaker 3>Voice is That is so cute, Except.

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<v Speaker 1>Now the baby just had to hear that whole quote thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And how are we making even babies dumber?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry about that, but your back to back classics start

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<v Speaker 4>right now.

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<v Speaker 6>It's Brook and Jeffery and morning. And what if I

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<v Speaker 6>told you in the middle of a meetup between a

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<v Speaker 6>guy and a girl A mysterious note was left at

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<v Speaker 6>the table.

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<v Speaker 3>That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 6>Inside that note was one singular, handwritten word. I can't

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<v Speaker 6>say what it was yet, but I can tell you

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<v Speaker 6>it's different than the word that I usually leave in

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<v Speaker 6>my handwritten notes.

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<v Speaker 3>What is that word?

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<v Speaker 7>I don't want to know that word.

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<v Speaker 6>Splosh question mine.

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<v Speaker 7>I told you that could.

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<v Speaker 6>Be taken many different ways, but that is not the

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<v Speaker 6>word that was written in this note. You'll hear what

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<v Speaker 6>it was because it shocked the entire room. It's I'll

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<v Speaker 6>write it for you. It's coming up in your second

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<v Speaker 6>Date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 8>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 6>In the entertainment industry, it's all about good branding, Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>for sure. And that's why today we're turning our second

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<v Speaker 6>Date update into a second Date update, trying to get

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<v Speaker 6>a guy to say yep to a second meeting.

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<v Speaker 3>Branding.

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<v Speaker 6>It's called good branding. And I've already got our digital

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<v Speaker 6>team recutting all of the station promos. And by digital team,

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<v Speaker 6>I mean the one guy who still works here. So thanks, Seth.

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<v Speaker 6>But in the meantime, let's meet our hopeful yupper of

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<v Speaker 6>the day goes on Jessica welcome to the show. I

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<v Speaker 6>apologize for all the negativity in the room.

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<v Speaker 3>Not against you, just against Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 9>Just so you know, Hi, guys, thanks for having me.

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<v Speaker 7>Can we call her Yessica Jeffrey?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I kind of like that.

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely can If that's okay with you, Yessica for your update.

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<v Speaker 6>It's bad, it's going to be all stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you hung up yet?

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<v Speaker 9>I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, okay, I'm sorry to Let's just let's start with

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<v Speaker 6>an easy question. Who's the guy that you want us

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<v Speaker 6>to call today?

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<v Speaker 9>His name is Patrick.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay.

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<v Speaker 9>We met on a dating I'd never been on a

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<v Speaker 9>dating app, of course, but this is my first time.

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<v Speaker 4>That's your very first date from a dating app.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, and it was crazy because I was getting so

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<v Speaker 9>many like messages from people and.

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<v Speaker 10>It's like hundreds.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow. Was that overwhelming?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 9>Absolutely, I mean I definitely was trying to like weep

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<v Speaker 9>through all of that, and so when I saw this

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<v Speaker 9>guy Patrick message to me, it was like super normal.

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<v Speaker 9>Yesked me just was like, hey, how are you. Wasn't

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<v Speaker 9>anything about my physical appearance, so it wasn't creepy.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't like the others that are like fresh meat.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it does say, like new to the app.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so the algorithm really does that, Yeah, it really does.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, so you were attracted to his normalness Yeah definitely.

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<v Speaker 9>And we went to this restaurant that was really nice.

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<v Speaker 4>What were you feeling going into this because you ever

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<v Speaker 4>even been on a blind date before? I mean not that,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I know you can see people's pictures and

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<v Speaker 4>shouting them, but you don't really know what to expect, right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 9>I was absolutely nervous because I normally love to do

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<v Speaker 9>things with my dog. Happy happy ta f f y.

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<v Speaker 6>Which makes jose happy just thinking about. Okay, sorry, how

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<v Speaker 6>did we get onto her dog?

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<v Speaker 4>She normally goes places with her dogs. And I'm guessing

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<v Speaker 4>you didn't bring your dog to the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 9>So I didn't because they didn't allow like dogs at

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<v Speaker 9>the restaurant in the wood and patio seedings.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought you were going to put your dog inside

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<v Speaker 6>of like a sweater and like do the thing where

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<v Speaker 6>people stack on top of each other and then your

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<v Speaker 6>dog could sit in the restaurant like.

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<v Speaker 12>Eating parts of her steak through the buttons.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, and that would have been cute, but I guess

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<v Speaker 6>still distracting for the date.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that hard for you not to bring your dog.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I mean I love my dog, so I was

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<v Speaker 9>thinking about her a lot, and so on the date.

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<v Speaker 9>It was so fun that I kept like kind of

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<v Speaker 9>thinking about her. So I was like getting distracted during

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<v Speaker 9>the conversation. For example, I love to read and I

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<v Speaker 9>favorite series is Harry Potter, and he was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 9>reading the series again. So we were talking about it

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<v Speaker 9>and it was just so nice, but I kept thinking

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<v Speaker 9>about Pappy.

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<v Speaker 4>Did he notice that you were distracted and thinking about

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<v Speaker 4>your dog?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean, I think a little bit, because he had

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<v Speaker 9>to repeat the question a few times that he.

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<v Speaker 4>Had, so that's interesting. I wonder if he thought you

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<v Speaker 4>were distracted or just like airheady.

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<v Speaker 3>Excuse me, that's not a bad thing. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I does that insult you?

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<v Speaker 4>Just hadn't mean to insult you.

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<v Speaker 9>I don't think it was airheady. I think I was

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<v Speaker 9>just like kind of like floating. I was just a

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<v Speaker 9>little distracted.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I was balloon minded.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, this second date yupdate is definitely turning kind of dark.

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<v Speaker 6>Let's bring the yuppie mood back in. Okay, I did,

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<v Speaker 6>and I apologize that. See look at this, this is

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<v Speaker 6>what I'm talking about positive energy, and you're.

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<v Speaker 4>Just asking if he thought that maybe she was a

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<v Speaker 4>little spacey and not really because he didn't realize she

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<v Speaker 4>was thinking about her dog.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you talk about your dog a lot?

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<v Speaker 9>Like?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, did you bring it up at all?

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<v Speaker 9>I mean I talked about Hafy a little bit, but

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<v Speaker 9>I tried not to make it the whole conversation.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So just to recap, You're on your first time on

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<v Speaker 6>a date through a dating app. You're feeling a little

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<v Speaker 6>bit nervous, you keep thinking about your dog, talking about

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<v Speaker 6>Harry Potter a lot, missing some of his questions. So far,

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<v Speaker 6>it's going okay. How does the date end?

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<v Speaker 9>So at the end of the date, I once used

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<v Speaker 9>the restroom and he was like getting the check, and

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<v Speaker 9>when I came back from the restroom, he was gone.

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<v Speaker 9>And we left me a note saying sorry, no, that is.

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<v Speaker 2>A terrible first.

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<v Speaker 6>Let's give him a little bit of credit. Was there

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<v Speaker 6>at least a sad face at the end of I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 6>make it kind of cute?

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<v Speaker 3>There wasn't a hard I'm sorry. Why would you want

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<v Speaker 3>to get a hold of this guy again? He ditched

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<v Speaker 3>you at.

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<v Speaker 6>The end of the day.

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<v Speaker 9>Honestly, now I want to know why he ditched me

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<v Speaker 9>because everything seemed to be going great. And honestly, Lexus,

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<v Speaker 9>I really want your feedback on this because I feel

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<v Speaker 9>like you know men, and you know, like I feel

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<v Speaker 9>like you can really help you.

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<v Speaker 6>Think she knows men all men? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Does yeah? Yeah, Lexus, what do you have to say

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<v Speaker 6>about that?

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<v Speaker 4>Experts has such good boundaries?

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<v Speaker 9>So what do you think of Lexis? Why do you

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<v Speaker 9>think she left me?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? Share your wisdom, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I need a few minutes to think about it. I

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<v Speaker 2>got to do some study.

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<v Speaker 4>She's the one that all of her friends go to

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<v Speaker 4>for advice obviously.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, they're still waiting on that advice, some of them.

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<v Speaker 2>But scroll on TikTok a minut answers.

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<v Speaker 6>We're gonna hopefully get all of the answers for you.

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<v Speaker 6>When we come back, call Patrick and try to get

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<v Speaker 6>you your second date yupdate and have him say yup

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<v Speaker 6>to another meet up Yessica. It's right after this.

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<v Speaker 8>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.

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<v Speaker 6>If you're just joining us, We've been talking to a

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<v Speaker 6>young woman by the name of Jessica who recently dipped

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<v Speaker 6>her toe into the pool of dating apps, got hundreds

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<v Speaker 6>of messages from eager male suitors, and she chose one

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<v Speaker 6>who seemed to be the most normal.

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<v Speaker 3>God And if this is the most normal, then she's doomed.

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<v Speaker 3>Y app world.

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<v Speaker 2>It was such a terrible.

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<v Speaker 3>End to a date.

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<v Speaker 6>His name is Patrick, and it was a terrible end

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<v Speaker 6>because she got ditched by him at the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 12>He actually ditched came back to the table from a

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<v Speaker 12>to a note.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so rude, so rude.

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, But Brooke, can we at least say it's impressive

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<v Speaker 6>that he knows how to write something by hand? Can

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<v Speaker 6>we give him.

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<v Speaker 3>That it wasn't a full set?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Did it have any punctuations?

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<v Speaker 12>That's why he only wrote one work, because doesn't know

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<v Speaker 12>how to write a sentence.

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<v Speaker 6>That's possible. There's a few questions. Was there any punctuation

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<v Speaker 6>on it?

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<v Speaker 10>No?

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<v Speaker 6>No, man, I guess flop.

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<v Speaker 3>An exclamation mark would have made it feel worse.

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<v Speaker 6>But the good news is Jessica is gen Z and

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<v Speaker 6>she's looking towards a gen Z hero for answers here,

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<v Speaker 6>I think it's safe to say she wants you very

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<v Speaker 6>very involved in this call, Alexis as do.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm the hero we're talking about.

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<v Speaker 6>You're the gen z here we're talking about any more

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<v Speaker 6>thoughts now that you've had time to TikTok about why

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<v Speaker 6>this guy ditched on Jessica.

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<v Speaker 3>You really got nothing.

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<v Speaker 7>Let's play some more music, and there's just it.

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<v Speaker 2>Could be anything. It could be her zoning out, it

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<v Speaker 2>could be likes Harry Potter. Okay, there's the dating world.

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<v Speaker 2>Your first date probably isn't going to be good on

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<v Speaker 2>a dating app.

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<v Speaker 9>Okay, I just appreciate Alessis being open to her.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that I have a choice, but yes

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<v Speaker 2>I have.

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<v Speaker 6>Alexis is going to take a very active role in

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<v Speaker 6>getting answers out of this guy. Let's call him and

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<v Speaker 6>hopefully he picks up. But here we go. Hello, Hey

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<v Speaker 6>is this Patrick?

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<v Speaker 10>Missus Patrick?

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<v Speaker 6>Then thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're

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<v Speaker 6>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>What's up man, Good morning?

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<v Speaker 10>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Alexis, we have we have a bunch of questions

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<v Speaker 6>that we would like to ask you about a woman

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<v Speaker 6>that you went out with recently. Her name is Jessica.

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<v Speaker 5>What.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's part of a segment that we do called

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<v Speaker 6>a second Date Update. So Alexis take it from here.

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<v Speaker 1>You went out with somebody and you're super rude at

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<v Speaker 1>the end. Actually, like you need to explain yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, we're trying to get him to open up.

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<v Speaker 2>I would love to heart.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sure you have.

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<v Speaker 2>A great reason that I will totally side with you.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, did you hear that?

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<v Speaker 6>Patrick?

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<v Speaker 13>Do you know what she's talking about? I'm I'm like

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<v Speaker 13>totally confused.

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<v Speaker 10>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, maybe I'll explain it and then I'll talk about you.

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<v Speaker 6>So this girl, Jessica emailed us because she told us

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<v Speaker 6>about your date at the restaurant and she is very

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<v Speaker 6>confused why you ditched her halfway through with no explanation,

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<v Speaker 6>just left about that, said.

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<v Speaker 13>Sorry it was the end, but yeah, yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 13>at the end of the night and there was no hope,

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<v Speaker 13>so I just left to know.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I gotta say though, Man, that's pretty rude.

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<v Speaker 13>Well, she was being extremely rude. She was on her

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<v Speaker 13>phone the entire time, and then just a year to

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<v Speaker 13>the bathroom and.

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<v Speaker 3>Then what disappeared to the bathroom?

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, she disappeared to the bathroom for like thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 7>Whoa, wow, that's a long time.

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<v Speaker 13>I'm exaggerating a little bit. I mean, it was like

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<v Speaker 13>ten minutes, but it felt like thirty.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, now I'm starting to think it was two minutes

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<v Speaker 4>a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>But me, there's a line like you don't know.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, no, no. She was like she is obsessed with

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<v Speaker 13>her dog, and it was like she would rather have

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<v Speaker 13>been with her dog, and so I was like, you

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<v Speaker 13>know what, I'm just gonna leave so she can hang

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<v Speaker 13>out with her dog.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, wouldn't most people rather be with their own

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<v Speaker 2>pet in the first day.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, but her dog's not even there.

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<v Speaker 13>So like the whole night, she's like on her phone

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<v Speaker 13>and she was trying to like put it to the

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<v Speaker 13>side so I wouldn't notice. But she did it so

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<v Speaker 13>much within like the first five minutes of this meeting

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<v Speaker 13>that I asked her if she was all right, oh,

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<v Speaker 13>and she was like, Okay, here's the deal. I have

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<v Speaker 13>a dog, Cracker app and this is the first time

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<v Speaker 13>I've been away from Taffy or whatever the dog's made.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't that make you feel better though, because in that moment,

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<v Speaker 4>now she's being open with you, and she's feeling like

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<v Speaker 4>it's almost like an apology, like I am so sorry

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<v Speaker 4>that I was on my phone.

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<v Speaker 13>It's kind of cute, but she had it set for

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<v Speaker 13>this like bark alert, so when it would bark, her

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<v Speaker 13>phone would buzz.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 13>I was like, okay, well, maybe you should turn that

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<v Speaker 13>off during the dinner, And like a few minutes later,

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<v Speaker 13>she like pulled out her phone and she's like, oh

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<v Speaker 13>my god, look Tappy sniffing the room.

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<v Speaker 11>Bud.

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<v Speaker 10>That means she's.

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<v Speaker 13>Anxious, I mean anxious anxious.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, Oh, my friends had pet cameras

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<v Speaker 1>had to delete it because of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so sad all the time. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and it would always distract them, so they got

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<v Speaker 1>rid of their ass.

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<v Speaker 4>Obviously, your day is just having separation, exacting herself, you know.

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<v Speaker 7>And the dog seems like it's fine.

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<v Speaker 13>Well exactly, And then she goes to the bathroom and

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<v Speaker 13>she was gone for such a long time that I

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<v Speaker 13>actually thought she ditched me, oh.

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<v Speaker 3>To go check on her dog or something.

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<v Speaker 13>Well, I went back to the bathroom and this girl

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<v Speaker 13>came out and I was like, hey.

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<v Speaker 10>Have you seen this woman in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 13>She's about this high as this color hair. And she

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<v Speaker 13>was like, oh, yeah, she's in there facetiming her dog.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Oh, I get that baby. She had a dog,

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<v Speaker 3>the Cara you could talk to. There we go, so

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<v Speaker 3>you your little dog.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you for explaining what happened from your perspective. That

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<v Speaker 6>gives us a little bit more of a scope about

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<v Speaker 6>what was going on, at least from your side of it.

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<v Speaker 6>And now you probably need to hear Jessica's side of

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<v Speaker 6>it because she is on the other line listening right now.

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<v Speaker 6>And what does she want to do? Alexis I actually

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<v Speaker 6>know what.

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<v Speaker 2>She wants anymore? Get answers?

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<v Speaker 3>They usually want to.

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<v Speaker 6>Want to talk to each other.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I'll start there.

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<v Speaker 6>It's Jessica on the other line, if she's there, Jessica.

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<v Speaker 8>Hey, Patrick, Hey, what's up? Oh?

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<v Speaker 9>I know this is kind of weird, but like I

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<v Speaker 9>know all that stuff did happen, But is that really

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<v Speaker 9>a reason to like get you?

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, I mean I didn't know how long you were

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<v Speaker 13>going to be in the bathroom facetiming with Taffy, and

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<v Speaker 13>I was just like it was just frustrating, Like I

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<v Speaker 13>get it's hard to leave a pet at home, but like,

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<v Speaker 13>come on, it's not like the dog's in danger.

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<v Speaker 9>Well you could have like messaged me after Okay, that's fair.

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<v Speaker 13>I could have messaged you after, but I was just like,

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<v Speaker 13>I don't know, I was just so turned off. I

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<v Speaker 13>kind of just was like, forget about it.

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<v Speaker 7>It hurts.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, if I'm a guy and I'm on a

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<v Speaker 6>date and the girl is not paying attention to me

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<v Speaker 6>the entire time, I'm going to start to feel like

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<v Speaker 6>she doesn't really like me.

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<v Speaker 4>It wasn't the entire time, he said, there was twenty

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<v Speaker 4>minutes in between the phone and then her explaining, and

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<v Speaker 4>then she would like at least she tried to take

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<v Speaker 4>the FaceTime call away from the table. I don't know, like,

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<v Speaker 4>why didn't he bring it up. Why didn't you say, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>you're kind of hurting my feelings.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go back to your house and hang out your dog.

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<v Speaker 13>I just don't understand why why we can't just decide

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<v Speaker 13>to go on a date and be with the other

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<v Speaker 13>person instead of being on our phones and well.

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<v Speaker 6>My child, Well, yeah, you should ignore your children if

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<v Speaker 6>they're trying to interrupt you in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 6>hot date. That's really rude.

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<v Speaker 3>Brook does Oh, absolutely, I don't answer their call.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe if she gets a second child, then she'll care less.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I just think maybe next time. If you're that worried

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<v Speaker 4>about it, Jessica, you can just find.

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<v Speaker 3>A dog sitter.

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<v Speaker 4>But it still doesn't warrant him ditching you at the

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<v Speaker 4>end of the night.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm with you on that one.

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<v Speaker 9>I appreciate your opinion on that, Brook, but I really

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<v Speaker 9>like to hear what alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it did not warrant him to leave you

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<v Speaker 1>a note like that at the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 6>Finally, a thought that makes sense on this show. Thank you, Alexis,

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<v Speaker 6>You're welcome. Okay, So so wait, are we not.

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<v Speaker 7>Going to tell her but in the future, maybe pay

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<v Speaker 7>more attention.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she should bring the dog to a dog

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<v Speaker 2>friendly place.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, that could be a good day.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, that's always an option. And look, Patrick, if

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<v Speaker 6>you're willing to give her another chance, we would pay

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<v Speaker 6>for it.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it would be good to try her out

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<v Speaker 4>with the dog to see if she's as distracted if

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<v Speaker 4>the dog's with her.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, Alexis is going to tell you two reasons why

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<v Speaker 6>you should say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, Because Tavy's obviously cute.

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<v Speaker 6>I got it, that's obvious, though you owe her. Did

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<v Speaker 6>you say one? And then, b what's your second watch

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<v Speaker 6>out doing this?

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<v Speaker 13>Right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you can't say no that that logic.

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<v Speaker 11>I am.

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<v Speaker 13>I'm out, I'm out. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 10>I just.

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<v Speaker 13>Jessica is too high strung for me.

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<v Speaker 10>I just it's not going to work.

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<v Speaker 12>Oh man, oh my god, Patrick, thanks so much, like

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<v Speaker 12>for telling me the truth.

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<v Speaker 9>Now I know why. I mean, I can just get

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<v Speaker 9>back to the hundreds of other messages. I got.

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<v Speaker 13>A full bro, you got hundreds, Okay, I don't think

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<v Speaker 13>it's that much.

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<v Speaker 10>Wow.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey, if it's plenty of fish, it's definitely that much.

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<v Speaker 4>Said. She was in the bathroom for thirty minutes and

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<v Speaker 4>it turned out to be ten, So I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>we're judging your numbers.

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<v Speaker 10>That's actually fair.

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<v Speaker 8>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Can't believe we didn't get a yes for that. I

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<v Speaker 6>thought for sure they'd be able to figure out a

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<v Speaker 6>compromise between the two.

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<v Speaker 3>I honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, you know, I mean, I agree with him that

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<v Speaker 4>people should be able to just be on a date,

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<v Speaker 4>for sure, but like there was no middle ground for

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<v Speaker 4>either of them, right.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, she was a little bit stressed out being

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<v Speaker 6>away from her cat for the first time. That's under

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<v Speaker 6>sorry dog for the first time. That's totally understandable, and

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<v Speaker 6>it's also understandable that he wants to have a girl

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<v Speaker 6>pay attention day. But you know, in strange, confusing times

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<v Speaker 6>like this, I'm just so thankful that we have Alexis

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<v Speaker 6>to help us make sense of everything.

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<v Speaker 2>What would you guys do without me?

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<v Speaker 6>And that I know Alexis share your wisdom. Please? Why

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<v Speaker 6>is the dating world like this right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Because people are people and that's how deep.

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<v Speaker 3>She just peopled so hard.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I feel so much better now, thank you.

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<v Speaker 12>Instead of emailing us Abrik and Jefferys, just email Alexis second.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I email.

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<v Speaker 6>Whatever you gotta do, Gross, just reach out to the

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<v Speaker 6>show in whatever way, and Alexis can save you in

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<v Speaker 6>your dating.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have a success yet, but she will.

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<v Speaker 6>It's gonna happens.

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<v Speaker 7>They didn't say no.

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<v Speaker 6>Manifest that positivity and go check out all of our

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<v Speaker 6>podcasts wherever you get yours a broken Jeffrey Brook.

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<v Speaker 8>And Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>We all say things in life that we later regret,

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<v Speaker 6>Like three weeks ago when I complimented Brooke on her shirt.

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<v Speaker 6>She has worn it into work now every single day.

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<v Speaker 6>Since then, you don't like it, I'm saying I regret

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<v Speaker 6>saying it. And one of our listeners also wishes she

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<v Speaker 6>could take back what she said eleven months ago to

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<v Speaker 6>a guy she went out with. It took her almost

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<v Speaker 6>a full year to realize her giant mistake.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't wait till you apologize in a year.

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<v Speaker 6>We'll see if I come to that conclusion. We have

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<v Speaker 6>to decide is she worthy of another chance with this dude.

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<v Speaker 6>We'll find out what she said in your second date

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<v Speaker 6>update next.

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<v Speaker 8>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date updates.

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<v Speaker 6>In terms of the amount of time it takes between

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<v Speaker 6>the first date and the second date, what do you

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<v Speaker 6>think is optimal? Like three to four days, at least

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<v Speaker 6>a week.

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<v Speaker 7>You don't want to go back to back?

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe two weeks? Is that pushing it too long? I

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<v Speaker 6>think okay, Because for our listener last.

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<v Speaker 7>You're like out of town.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It's delicate though, because you don't want to lose the momentum.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the hard part.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, for our listener, Amanda, she's going on eleven months.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wait, I mean, do we need to tell her

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<v Speaker 4>to move on at this point?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>Hold on, because she says she has a good reason

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<v Speaker 6>for that. Okay, so let's talk to her. Amanda, thanks

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<v Speaker 6>for being on with us. Start at the very beginning here,

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<v Speaker 6>tell us who is this guy and how did you

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<v Speaker 6>meet him?

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<v Speaker 4>And how do you remember his name after eleven months?

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<v Speaker 5>Hello?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, he waited eleven months to get back together.

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<v Speaker 5>With Well, his name is Jordan, so you know, it

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<v Speaker 5>reminds me of basketball, so I cann't forget him.

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<v Speaker 4>Wown, this is nuts. Eleven months ago, you went on

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<v Speaker 4>a date with this guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I did.

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<v Speaker 6>And where did you meet him?

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<v Speaker 5>I met him on hinge okay, and she was very nice,

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<v Speaker 5>like our interactions were kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, are you sure you're remembering right since it was

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<v Speaker 4>so long.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, because usually I won't go on a date with

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<v Speaker 5>them unless they're funny.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, checks nice and kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 7>I know you find out he was funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I wouldn't match people whose prompts are all serious.

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<v Speaker 7>That's actually yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I don't want to be with someone who was.

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<v Speaker 6>Born Okay, what did you guys do for a date?

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<v Speaker 5>So what we ended up going on a car every

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<v Speaker 5>day and yeah that's my thing.

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<v Speaker 6>That's good.

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<v Speaker 7>Then that's good.

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<v Speaker 12>Because sometimes if I from a guy's perspective, if a

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<v Speaker 12>girl says coffee date, that means I want to be

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<v Speaker 12>very slow.

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<v Speaker 7>I just want a quick, fitt high and.

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<v Speaker 3>By I always feel like it.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure if you're hot from your picture or

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<v Speaker 4>let me see you in the daytime.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's the face time. But we've moved past that.

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<v Speaker 5>So okay. We met up, and I kept thinking, like, honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>like I don't know if this guy is in my league,

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<v Speaker 5>Like there was something.

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean, like in a good way or

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<v Speaker 4>a bad way?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, under your league.

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<v Speaker 5>So I know those sounds like maybe stupid, but I

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<v Speaker 5>just thought he get dressed better, like I didn't really

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<v Speaker 5>like his stal.

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<v Speaker 12>You know that's actually really I actually have friends, and

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<v Speaker 12>I'm sure I'm in the same boat where like you realize,

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<v Speaker 12>we don't really know how to dress.

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<v Speaker 4>Up than the way we always Here's the thing, clothes

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<v Speaker 4>are always fixable, that's.

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<v Speaker 5>True, I know. But I made a comment about the

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<v Speaker 5>crocs and I'm like, I don't know about that cross.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I don't think it's nuts to show up

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<v Speaker 4>to a coffee days.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's all the same.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just I'm a weirdo. But I guess I was

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<v Speaker 5>being judgmental because you know, he was so humble and nice.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, get out of your head, like it's the style.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, I can fix him, but I don't want

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<v Speaker 5>to come in like, hey we need new wardrobs.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, second or third date? So I mean, like the

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<v Speaker 6>bond that you had with him, like personality wise, did

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<v Speaker 6>you feel that?

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<v Speaker 5>So? I don't know. I just didn't feel like the spark,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, like the fireworks you know when you meet

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<v Speaker 5>someone you're like, oh.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you've been pining over this guy for the

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<v Speaker 4>last eleven months.

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<v Speaker 3>You didn't even like him the day you hung out

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<v Speaker 3>with him.

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<v Speaker 5>So here's here's like what happened. So basically, at the

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<v Speaker 5>end of the day, we gave each other a hug

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<v Speaker 5>and he was following up with me, texting me at

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<v Speaker 5>a whole bunch, and I just felt like I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>want to lead him on.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, that's that's actually really kind of you.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, what did you say before we start praising you

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<v Speaker 6>how kind you are?

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<v Speaker 5>I just said I didn't feel as smart, like we

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<v Speaker 5>can be friends, but like no romantic interests.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, and how do you take it?

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<v Speaker 5>I think this is why I can't get him out

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<v Speaker 5>of my head. I think because he just says, I

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<v Speaker 5>think that you're a great woman and whoever ends up

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<v Speaker 5>with you as a lucky man. And his response was

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<v Speaker 5>just so gracious that like almost made me cry, touched my.

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<v Speaker 4>Heart so that he was nice and not mean at

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<v Speaker 4>the end.

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<v Speaker 6>Being rejected specifically, that's got to be hard for a

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<v Speaker 6>guy to be like, Oh, you don't like me, but

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<v Speaker 6>you know what, I wish the best for you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's top three most common responses.

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<v Speaker 5>When I've done before with other guys, they just react

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<v Speaker 5>so like immature and they honestly like try to get

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<v Speaker 5>me harder, they start texting me more. It just makes

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<v Speaker 5>it weird and awkward.

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<v Speaker 6>Really try no, if it's me, I'm just giving your

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<v Speaker 6>number to one of those like scam call centers and

0:25:14.840 --> 0:25:16.000
<v Speaker 6>having them spam you.

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<v Speaker 7>I was more than crying about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm not going to try to fight for Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>well you reject me, then I'm going to get you

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<v Speaker 6>a million scam calls.

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<v Speaker 7>It looks like I got thirty percent off your internet.

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<v Speaker 11>Now.

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<v Speaker 3>She just said you were There was no spark it

0:25:28.640 --> 0:25:29.440
<v Speaker 3>wasn't even.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, excuse me, you don't have to double down. That hurts,

0:25:33.400 --> 0:25:35.600
<v Speaker 6>But it's nice that he was so gracious with you.

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<v Speaker 6>That's pretty cool.

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<v Speaker 3>And it should be expected. Honest.

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<v Speaker 6>So that happened. That happened eleven months ago, and now

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<v Speaker 6>you're reaching out to us, like, I don't understand what's changed.

0:25:45.920 --> 0:25:47.720
<v Speaker 5>I just can't get him out of my head. He's

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<v Speaker 5>like looking there like super glue. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like kind of awkward to like reach out. I'm

0:25:54.880 --> 0:25:57.520
<v Speaker 5>kind of shy now and I feel bad for rejecting him.

0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 5>So I really need some help because I feel like

0:26:00.760 --> 0:26:04.040
<v Speaker 5>I was kind of judgmental. That makes sense, and I'd

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<v Speaker 5>love to go out with him again.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, it is going to be hard to come

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<v Speaker 4>back from saying there's no spark, Yeah, right, Like it

0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:13.040
<v Speaker 4>means you're going to have to put in a little

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<v Speaker 4>extra work eleven months, Like do we know if you're single?

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<v Speaker 6>It's POSI, Well, we need to call him to find out.

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<v Speaker 6>This is definitely different than what we would normally do

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<v Speaker 6>in this segment.

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<v Speaker 7>But this person.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we'll call Jordan and be like Amanda has decided

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<v Speaker 6>to slum it and go down a level from where

0:26:30.240 --> 0:26:32.480
<v Speaker 6>she normally would date to go out with you one

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<v Speaker 6>more time.

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<v Speaker 2>Got rid of those crocs.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah yeah, we'll see what he has to say when

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<v Speaker 6>we do your second date update after this.

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<v Speaker 8>Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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<v Speaker 6>They say the best things in life take time. That's true,

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<v Speaker 6>like an aged bottle of wine, medium sized wheel of Europe.

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<v Speaker 6>He and she oh, Jeff putting together a dresser from

0:27:04.119 --> 0:27:09.720
<v Speaker 6>Ikea with just two of the legs missing.

0:27:09.800 --> 0:27:11.440
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, but I still have extra screws.

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<v Speaker 6>And of course finding the right person to date, not

0:27:16.760 --> 0:27:19.680
<v Speaker 6>just a good one, but the right person. And it's

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:22.919
<v Speaker 6>taken our listener, Amanda eleven months to come to the

0:27:23.000 --> 0:27:26.960
<v Speaker 6>realization that that guy could have been the one in

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 6>the coffee shop the day that she rejected him.

0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:33.720
<v Speaker 7>You know what else? They also say, jeff, timing is everything. Yes,

0:27:33.760 --> 0:27:35.760
<v Speaker 7>maybe they needed a little eleven month break.

0:27:36.160 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 6>So it's possible all the things could align. The timing

0:27:38.880 --> 0:27:41.880
<v Speaker 6>could be perfect today because she wants us to help

0:27:41.920 --> 0:27:44.000
<v Speaker 6>her get a second chance with Jordan.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I think it's sweet.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it shows that you have a lot of

0:27:47.359 --> 0:27:50.520
<v Speaker 4>growth from eleven months ago. You know, like months ago,

0:27:50.600 --> 0:27:53.360
<v Speaker 4>you were judging somebody's clothes, not you today.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, No, I'm not as superficial broke. You're right, but

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:00.399
<v Speaker 5>I need you to help me work my magic. Like

0:28:00.480 --> 0:28:03.919
<v Speaker 5>I'm in a vulnerable say, I'm lonely and I just

0:28:04.040 --> 0:28:07.880
<v Speaker 5>missed Jordan, and I just think that you guys can

0:28:07.920 --> 0:28:08.280
<v Speaker 5>help me.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, well, we're willing to do that. I'm just glad

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 6>that we're talking to you over the phone so that

0:28:13.119 --> 0:28:15.399
<v Speaker 6>you can't see what Brook's wearing and be able to

0:28:15.480 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 6>judge it like.

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:19.600
<v Speaker 12>You actually wearing crocodiles on her feet.

0:28:19.840 --> 0:28:22.480
<v Speaker 4>I will say, I love the houses like this is.

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<v Speaker 4>I've done better.

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<v Speaker 6>We've matured from that immature girl that she was eleven

0:28:30.440 --> 0:28:37.440
<v Speaker 6>months ago. She can't even see and she just.

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:40.200
<v Speaker 5>Knows I have zebra pants on.

0:28:40.440 --> 0:28:45.320
<v Speaker 7>So it's like you guys are like a zoo together. Wow, Joe,

0:28:45.360 --> 0:28:46.040
<v Speaker 7>exotic bro.

0:28:47.800 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 6>I love this bonding time that we're having. But we

0:28:50.440 --> 0:28:53.040
<v Speaker 6>got to call Jordan here and hopefully he picks up.

0:28:53.040 --> 0:29:05.880
<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna dial his number right now here we go, Hello, Hey,

0:29:05.960 --> 0:29:06.560
<v Speaker 6>is this Jordan?

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah?

0:29:11.120 --> 0:29:12.120
<v Speaker 6>Yes, you may ask.

0:29:14.560 --> 0:29:16.040
<v Speaker 3>It was such a dad joke.

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:19.200
<v Speaker 7>Ask you just.

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<v Speaker 6>Having normal conversation.

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:22.960
<v Speaker 7>He can ask you.

0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:29.120
<v Speaker 6>This is how Bros conversation. Yeah, okay, well, thank you

0:29:29.200 --> 0:29:34.200
<v Speaker 6>for politely asking that. To answer your well, if you're

0:29:34.200 --> 0:29:36.200
<v Speaker 6>still there to answer your question, we're a radio show

0:29:36.240 --> 0:29:37.320
<v Speaker 6>called Brook and Jeffrey.

0:29:37.040 --> 0:29:40.400
<v Speaker 4>In the Morning with high brow comedy.

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<v Speaker 10>Okay, and what is this in regards to?

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:48.040
<v Speaker 6>Oh, this is actually in regards to a woman who's

0:29:48.080 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 6>been trying to get a hold of you. Well, actually

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 6>she has been trying, yes she has.

0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 7>It's the usual.

0:29:54.320 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 6>Not sure if you'll remember this is a woman named Amanda.

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<v Speaker 11>Uh, you know there's a lot of Amanda's that's right.

0:30:02.960 --> 0:30:04.960
<v Speaker 6>Fair, Okay, Well, this this is a woman that you

0:30:05.000 --> 0:30:08.120
<v Speaker 6>went on a date with eleven months ago, like a.

0:30:08.120 --> 0:30:10.640
<v Speaker 10>Year ago, eleven months ago?

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<v Speaker 11>Copy date?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh, I'm probably get to bed.

0:30:17.520 --> 0:30:18.680
<v Speaker 10>Was it like a hinge date?

0:30:19.240 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 2>Yes?

0:30:19.560 --> 0:30:21.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh she did tell us that.

0:30:21.800 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 11>Okay, yeah, I think I yeah, I remember Amanda.

0:30:25.400 --> 0:30:29.200
<v Speaker 10>Yeah, we grabbed coffee right a long time ago.

0:30:29.360 --> 0:30:32.200
<v Speaker 6>That's right. What else do you remember from your time

0:30:32.240 --> 0:30:32.880
<v Speaker 6>with Amanda?

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:35.520
<v Speaker 3>It's probably wasn't much time since it was just coffee.

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:39.120
<v Speaker 10>But honestly, I just remember her ditching.

0:30:38.880 --> 0:30:42.760
<v Speaker 4>Be Yeah, what do you mean, like when she said

0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:43.800
<v Speaker 4>she didn't want to see you again?

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:45.640
<v Speaker 7>Oh that Yeah.

0:30:45.760 --> 0:30:49.040
<v Speaker 11>Yeah, Like, I mean I've been turned down before, so

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:51.120
<v Speaker 11>you know, I'm kind of used to it.

0:30:51.360 --> 0:30:54.280
<v Speaker 10>Oh buddy, Uh definitely was expecting this.

0:30:54.720 --> 0:30:55.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:30:55.360 --> 0:30:57.840
<v Speaker 6>Well, can I just tell you, Jordan's the thing that

0:30:58.040 --> 0:31:02.960
<v Speaker 6>really stood out to Amanda out you was how graciously

0:31:03.080 --> 0:31:10.840
<v Speaker 6>you handled her rejection over text. Okay, you said something

0:31:10.960 --> 0:31:13.840
<v Speaker 6>like you're an amazing woman. Whatever guy ends up with you,

0:31:14.360 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 6>he's going to be so lucky, and you like just

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:17.160
<v Speaker 6>wished her well.

0:31:18.200 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 10>Oh yeah, you know what, I think I wrote that

0:31:20.520 --> 0:31:21.880
<v Speaker 10>with Ai.

0:31:21.920 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 6>Actually, oh wow, it was a good it was good feedback.

0:31:27.200 --> 0:31:28.320
<v Speaker 2>That's a good idea to put that day.

0:31:28.360 --> 0:31:32.240
<v Speaker 6>I first I had quick on my feet still for Amanda,

0:31:32.440 --> 0:31:35.160
<v Speaker 6>it was a big moment, and you know how like

0:31:35.240 --> 0:31:38.640
<v Speaker 6>sometimes women aren't as emotionally mature as us men are.

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 6>The case, she has taken all this time and realized

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:47.080
<v Speaker 6>that it's possible she made a huge mistake in turning

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:48.840
<v Speaker 6>you away, which is kind of sweet.

0:31:50.120 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 1>Maybe she said that yeah, yeah, basically.

0:31:54.200 --> 0:31:57.720
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she actually has even said she's really been thinking about.

0:31:57.520 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 3>You a lot.

0:31:59.040 --> 0:31:59.280
<v Speaker 10>Wow.

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<v Speaker 11>I mean, honestly, I don't know what to say. This

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<v Speaker 11>is like the third time that's happened this year.

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<v Speaker 6>What what do you mean what's happened?

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<v Speaker 10>Yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 11>I again, I'm used to rejection, you know, so weirdly enough,

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<v Speaker 11>a lot of these girls they reject me, end up

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<v Speaker 11>call me back say like, hey, maybe we should get

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<v Speaker 11>another shot.

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<v Speaker 6>Woah, this isn't the first time.

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<v Speaker 3>No, are you complimented by it?

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<v Speaker 4>Or is it like almost kind of a backhanded compliment?

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<v Speaker 10>You know what I mean, I'm more surprised than anything.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, Like, how do you take that personally?

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<v Speaker 6>Or you Well, if you want to be the most surprised,

0:32:41.320 --> 0:32:44.480
<v Speaker 6>here's a shocker for you, because Amanda is on the

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<v Speaker 6>other line right now, listening to this entire conversation, hoping

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<v Speaker 6>to jump in and talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Amanda's surprise, surprise, it's to me. How are you.

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<v Speaker 6>Exciting?

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<v Speaker 10>I'm good. Good to hear from you again.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you're excited to hear from me.

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<v Speaker 10>Uh, I mean it's been a while, you know. Uh,

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<v Speaker 10>it's definitely a surprise, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel so awkward. I feel like I'm stuttering and

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<v Speaker 5>like I don't know. But yes, I'm very nervous to

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<v Speaker 5>do this, and I'm glad that AI was able to

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<v Speaker 5>help you out. But there's no AI. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, thinking about his words before speaking. So it's

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<v Speaker 5>not like me like I just kind of was impulsive

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<v Speaker 5>and was superficial. But I hope that we can maybe

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<v Speaker 5>see each other again.

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<v Speaker 10>I'm not sure that whoa why are you like asking

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<v Speaker 10>me out? Or is this is this? What this is?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I needed their help. Yeah, it might be

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<v Speaker 5>like a little crazy. It's been like almost a year, right,

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<v Speaker 5>and maybe you can have amnesia and dementia about what

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<v Speaker 5>happened in the past.

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<v Speaker 6>What a nice to want? So that was a lot, Jordan.

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<v Speaker 6>I know that she kind of dumped on you there,

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<v Speaker 6>But you have anything that you would like to say

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<v Speaker 6>back to Amanda or ask your AI what to say.

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<v Speaker 11>Back to be honest, A man, it's been a while

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<v Speaker 11>since I've seen you or seen your picture.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 11>One way that I really jogged my memory is, h

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<v Speaker 11>do you.

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<v Speaker 10>Still have that nice but what.

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<v Speaker 7>You didn't swap it out?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, so I was just telling them about these zebra

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<v Speaker 5>pants that I'm wearing, and I could potentially send you

0:34:44.600 --> 0:34:46.040
<v Speaker 5>a selfie if you's lying.

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<v Speaker 2>Work for do zebra pants make it look bigger?

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<v Speaker 6>It's like an optical illusion.

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<v Speaker 5>Ask you for a friend, you know, I messed up.

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<v Speaker 5>So I'm kind of like, you know, clean slate here,

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<v Speaker 5>I come right, Zebra.

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<v Speaker 3>The clean slate includes picks. So it's like you're a

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<v Speaker 3>winner right now, Jordan.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, Jordan, she's she's apologetic for how she treated you.

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<v Speaker 6>She's still got the same features and all the things

0:35:16.680 --> 0:35:18.520
<v Speaker 6>that you liked from the first time you met up.

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<v Speaker 6>So at this point, we'd like to offer to send

0:35:21.760 --> 0:35:24.160
<v Speaker 6>you and Amanda out on another date, and we would

0:35:24.200 --> 0:35:24.759
<v Speaker 6>pay for it.

0:35:24.800 --> 0:35:26.680
<v Speaker 4>At this point, I feel like we're interrupting a date

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<v Speaker 4>on the phone right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I know, Saucy, but Jordan, it's up to you.

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<v Speaker 11>I mean, if she's cooled me seeing the other two

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:37.960
<v Speaker 11>girls they rejected me and her being the third, I'm

0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:38.680
<v Speaker 11>open to that.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, the hair on the rejection, Amanda, Now the ball's

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<v Speaker 6>in your court.

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<v Speaker 5>Heavens, No, you know this was nice, But now I

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:50.520
<v Speaker 5>cannot handle that. I'm too jealous. No way, I want

0:35:50.560 --> 0:35:50.680
<v Speaker 5>you to.

0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:53.480
<v Speaker 4>Ma's going to be a little competition for you, you know.

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<v Speaker 10>See if you know a way?

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<v Speaker 5>Hoh say, I'm not that desperate?

0:35:57.360 --> 0:35:58.279
<v Speaker 6>Are you ditching him?

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<v Speaker 10>Now?

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<v Speaker 6>Twice in one year?

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<v Speaker 5>I was just hoping that we could be at just

0:36:02.080 --> 0:36:04.480
<v Speaker 5>one on one monogamous not you know, a trio.

0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:07.040
<v Speaker 6>Oh okay, we're missing it.

0:36:07.080 --> 0:36:09.480
<v Speaker 12>Well, hey, come up with a good AI goodbye to her,

0:36:09.480 --> 0:36:11.400
<v Speaker 12>and she'll probably call you and yes, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Know you'll have six leftovers.

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<v Speaker 11>I guess I'll type one up and i'll say it

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<v Speaker 11>to you later, Amanda.

0:36:20.800 --> 0:36:21.800
<v Speaker 6>Check your text message.

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<v Speaker 3>Day. My god, he's like the rejection king.

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<v Speaker 10>I hope you will have a nice life and a

0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:29.239
<v Speaker 10>nice day.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh your melting hearts right now.

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<v Speaker 7>Jordan's hang up so we can all call him back.

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<v Speaker 8>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>I think the lesson that we all learned from that

0:36:44.280 --> 0:36:47.280
<v Speaker 6>is you can let a nice butt in zebra print

0:36:47.360 --> 0:36:49.960
<v Speaker 6>walk away and still be gracious about it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's right. Yeah, it was a good lesson. It is

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:58.479
<v Speaker 4>shocking that she was so surprised. Yeah, I'm worried about

0:36:58.480 --> 0:37:00.000
<v Speaker 4>her choice and people to go out.

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<v Speaker 3>They're ye so rude.

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<v Speaker 6>It would yeah, totally, But it would be funny if

0:37:05.239 --> 0:37:07.279
<v Speaker 6>she does text him though, in like a couple of

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<v Speaker 6>weeks or a couple of minutes after that call ended,

0:37:10.480 --> 0:37:12.280
<v Speaker 6>just to like give him a third chance.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, she's going to go on one more date with

0:37:14.719 --> 0:37:17.600
<v Speaker 4>a guy that's a jerk. And then yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>But the way they were flirting on the phone for

0:37:19.840 --> 0:37:21.759
<v Speaker 6>a minute, I thought for sure they were going to

0:37:21.800 --> 0:37:22.239
<v Speaker 6>go out with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah. I thought it was a yes before we even ask.

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<v Speaker 4>I know, maybe we should have stayed out of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that's the problem.

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<v Speaker 6>It was yes, he just said to the team she

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<v Speaker 6>said no. But that's the thing about love. It's weird

0:37:36.280 --> 0:37:40.120
<v Speaker 6>and unpredictable sometimes. And you can find lots of weird

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