Speaker 1: Brook's been trying to think of this quote to say
Speaker 1: for about a minute.
Speaker 2: Now, what is it There's no such thing as too
Speaker 2: much of a good thing?
Speaker 3: Or is there too much of a good thing?
Speaker 2: I kind of think it's that one, but that would backfire.
Speaker 1: And what you're trying to I thought, it's going to
Speaker 1: be really clever to open our back to back second
Speaker 1: day after it is still yes, yeah, so let us
Speaker 1: know a good quote for this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're here, Yeah, here, we're here.
Speaker 3: You tell us it's.
Speaker 4: Saturday, It's Brook and jeff one morning, and let's do
Speaker 4: a comment that makes sense.
Speaker 1: Oh well, psych Dale said, I found this from them
Speaker 1: TikTok video and I had to find Brooke because I
Speaker 1: loved her humor. I need to do this podcast so
Speaker 1: much while I was pregnant that my baby when he
Speaker 1: was born would actually know your.
Speaker 3: Voice is That is so cute, Except.
Speaker 1: Now the baby just had to hear that whole quote thing.
Speaker 1: And how are we making even babies dumber?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Sorry about that, but your back to back classics start
Speaker 4: right now.
Speaker 6: It's Brook and Jeffery and morning. And what if I
Speaker 6: told you in the middle of a meetup between a
Speaker 6: guy and a girl A mysterious note was left at
Speaker 6: the table.
Speaker 3: That's exciting.
Speaker 6: Inside that note was one singular, handwritten word. I can't
Speaker 6: say what it was yet, but I can tell you
Speaker 6: it's different than the word that I usually leave in
Speaker 6: my handwritten notes.
Speaker 3: What is that word?
Speaker 7: I don't want to know that word.
Speaker 6: Splosh question mine.
Speaker 7: I told you that could.
Speaker 6: Be taken many different ways, but that is not the
Speaker 6: word that was written in this note. You'll hear what
Speaker 6: it was because it shocked the entire room. It's I'll
Speaker 6: write it for you. It's coming up in your second
Speaker 6: Date update right after this.
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 6: In the entertainment industry, it's all about good branding, Oh yeah,
Speaker 6: for sure. And that's why today we're turning our second
Speaker 6: Date update into a second Date update, trying to get
Speaker 6: a guy to say yep to a second meeting.
Speaker 3: Branding.
Speaker 6: It's called good branding. And I've already got our digital
Speaker 6: team recutting all of the station promos. And by digital team,
Speaker 6: I mean the one guy who still works here. So thanks, Seth.
Speaker 6: But in the meantime, let's meet our hopeful yupper of
Speaker 6: the day goes on Jessica welcome to the show. I
Speaker 6: apologize for all the negativity in the room.
Speaker 3: Not against you, just against Jeffrey.
Speaker 9: Just so you know, Hi, guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 7: Can we call her Yessica Jeffrey?
Speaker 3: Oh, I kind of like that.
Speaker 6: Absolutely can If that's okay with you, Yessica for your update.
Speaker 6: It's bad, it's going to be all stuff.
Speaker 3: Have you hung up yet?
Speaker 9: I'm sorry?
Speaker 6: Okay, okay, I'm sorry to Let's just let's start with
Speaker 6: an easy question. Who's the guy that you want us
Speaker 6: to call today?
Speaker 9: His name is Patrick.
Speaker 10: Okay.
Speaker 9: We met on a dating I'd never been on a
Speaker 9: dating app, of course, but this is my first time.
Speaker 4: That's your very first date from a dating app.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and it was crazy because I was getting so
Speaker 9: many like messages from people and.
Speaker 10: It's like hundreds.
Speaker 3: Wow. Was that overwhelming?
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 9: Absolutely, I mean I definitely was trying to like weep
Speaker 9: through all of that, and so when I saw this
Speaker 9: guy Patrick message to me, it was like super normal.
Speaker 9: Yesked me just was like, hey, how are you. Wasn't
Speaker 9: anything about my physical appearance, so it wasn't creepy.
Speaker 4: It wasn't like the others that are like fresh meat.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it does say, like new to the app.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so the algorithm really does that, Yeah, it really does.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Okay, so you were attracted to his normalness Yeah definitely.
Speaker 9: And we went to this restaurant that was really nice.
Speaker 4: What were you feeling going into this because you ever
Speaker 4: even been on a blind date before? I mean not that,
Speaker 4: I mean, I know you can see people's pictures and
Speaker 4: shouting them, but you don't really know what to expect, right, Yeah.
Speaker 9: I was absolutely nervous because I normally love to do
Speaker 9: things with my dog. Happy happy ta f f y.
Speaker 6: Which makes jose happy just thinking about. Okay, sorry, how
Speaker 6: did we get onto her dog?
Speaker 4: She normally goes places with her dogs. And I'm guessing
Speaker 4: you didn't bring your dog to the restaurant.
Speaker 9: So I didn't because they didn't allow like dogs at
Speaker 9: the restaurant in the wood and patio seedings.
Speaker 6: I thought you were going to put your dog inside
Speaker 6: of like a sweater and like do the thing where
Speaker 6: people stack on top of each other and then your
Speaker 6: dog could sit in the restaurant like.
Speaker 12: Eating parts of her steak through the buttons.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that would have been cute, but I guess
Speaker 6: still distracting for the date.
Speaker 3: Was that hard for you not to bring your dog.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean I love my dog, so I was
Speaker 9: thinking about her a lot, and so on the date.
Speaker 9: It was so fun that I kept like kind of
Speaker 9: thinking about her. So I was like getting distracted during
Speaker 9: the conversation. For example, I love to read and I
Speaker 9: favorite series is Harry Potter, and he was like, I'm
Speaker 9: reading the series again. So we were talking about it
Speaker 9: and it was just so nice, but I kept thinking
Speaker 9: about Pappy.
Speaker 4: Did he notice that you were distracted and thinking about
Speaker 4: your dog?
Speaker 9: I mean, I think a little bit, because he had
Speaker 9: to repeat the question a few times that he.
Speaker 4: Had, so that's interesting. I wonder if he thought you
Speaker 4: were distracted or just like airheady.
Speaker 3: Excuse me, that's not a bad thing. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I does that insult you?
Speaker 4: Just hadn't mean to insult you.
Speaker 9: I don't think it was airheady. I think I was
Speaker 9: just like kind of like floating. I was just a
Speaker 9: little distracted.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was balloon minded.
Speaker 6: Okay, this second date yupdate is definitely turning kind of dark.
Speaker 6: Let's bring the yuppie mood back in. Okay, I did,
Speaker 6: and I apologize that. See look at this, this is
Speaker 6: what I'm talking about positive energy, and you're.
Speaker 4: Just asking if he thought that maybe she was a
Speaker 4: little spacey and not really because he didn't realize she
Speaker 4: was thinking about her dog.
Speaker 2: Did you talk about your dog a lot?
Speaker 9: Like?
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, did you bring it up at all?
Speaker 9: I mean I talked about Hafy a little bit, but
Speaker 9: I tried not to make it the whole conversation.
Speaker 11: Yeah.
Speaker 10: Okay.
Speaker 6: So just to recap, You're on your first time on
Speaker 6: a date through a dating app. You're feeling a little
Speaker 6: bit nervous, you keep thinking about your dog, talking about
Speaker 6: Harry Potter a lot, missing some of his questions. So far,
Speaker 6: it's going okay. How does the date end?
Speaker 9: So at the end of the date, I once used
Speaker 9: the restroom and he was like getting the check, and
Speaker 9: when I came back from the restroom, he was gone.
Speaker 9: And we left me a note saying sorry, no, that is.
Speaker 2: A terrible first.
Speaker 6: Let's give him a little bit of credit. Was there
Speaker 6: at least a sad face at the end of I'm sorry,
Speaker 6: make it kind of cute?
Speaker 3: There wasn't a hard I'm sorry. Why would you want
Speaker 3: to get a hold of this guy again? He ditched
Speaker 3: you at.
Speaker 6: The end of the day.
Speaker 9: Honestly, now I want to know why he ditched me
Speaker 9: because everything seemed to be going great. And honestly, Lexus,
Speaker 9: I really want your feedback on this because I feel
Speaker 9: like you know men, and you know, like I feel
Speaker 9: like you can really help you.
Speaker 6: Think she knows men all men? Okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Does yeah? Yeah, Lexus, what do you have to say
Speaker 6: about that?
Speaker 4: Experts has such good boundaries?
Speaker 9: So what do you think of Lexis? Why do you
Speaker 9: think she left me?
Speaker 6: Yeah? Share your wisdom, you know.
Speaker 2: I need a few minutes to think about it. I
Speaker 2: got to do some study.
Speaker 4: She's the one that all of her friends go to
Speaker 4: for advice obviously.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're still waiting on that advice, some of them.
Speaker 2: But scroll on TikTok a minut answers.
Speaker 6: We're gonna hopefully get all of the answers for you.
Speaker 6: When we come back, call Patrick and try to get
Speaker 6: you your second date yupdate and have him say yup
Speaker 6: to another meet up Yessica. It's right after this.
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.
Speaker 6: If you're just joining us, We've been talking to a
Speaker 6: young woman by the name of Jessica who recently dipped
Speaker 6: her toe into the pool of dating apps, got hundreds
Speaker 6: of messages from eager male suitors, and she chose one
Speaker 6: who seemed to be the most normal.
Speaker 3: God And if this is the most normal, then she's doomed.
Speaker 3: Y app world.
Speaker 2: It was such a terrible.
Speaker 3: End to a date.
Speaker 6: His name is Patrick, and it was a terrible end
Speaker 6: because she got ditched by him at the restaurant.
Speaker 12: He actually ditched came back to the table from a
Speaker 12: to a note.
Speaker 3: It's so rude, so rude.
Speaker 6: Absolutely, But Brooke, can we at least say it's impressive
Speaker 6: that he knows how to write something by hand? Can
Speaker 6: we give him.
Speaker 3: That it wasn't a full set?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 3: Did it have any punctuations?
Speaker 12: That's why he only wrote one work, because doesn't know
Speaker 12: how to write a sentence.
Speaker 6: That's possible. There's a few questions. Was there any punctuation
Speaker 6: on it?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 6: No, man, I guess flop.
Speaker 3: An exclamation mark would have made it feel worse.
Speaker 6: But the good news is Jessica is gen Z and
Speaker 6: she's looking towards a gen Z hero for answers here,
Speaker 6: I think it's safe to say she wants you very
Speaker 6: very involved in this call, Alexis as do.
Speaker 2: I'm the hero we're talking about.
Speaker 6: You're the gen z here we're talking about any more
Speaker 6: thoughts now that you've had time to TikTok about why
Speaker 6: this guy ditched on Jessica.
Speaker 3: You really got nothing.
Speaker 7: Let's play some more music, and there's just it.
Speaker 2: Could be anything. It could be her zoning out, it
Speaker 2: could be likes Harry Potter. Okay, there's the dating world.
Speaker 2: Your first date probably isn't going to be good on
Speaker 2: a dating app.
Speaker 9: Okay, I just appreciate Alessis being open to her.
Speaker 2: I don't know that I have a choice, but yes
Speaker 2: I have.
Speaker 6: Alexis is going to take a very active role in
Speaker 6: getting answers out of this guy. Let's call him and
Speaker 6: hopefully he picks up. But here we go. Hello, Hey
Speaker 6: is this Patrick?
Speaker 10: Missus Patrick?
Speaker 6: Then thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're
Speaker 6: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: What's up man, Good morning?
Speaker 10: Uh?
Speaker 6: Okay, Alexis, we have we have a bunch of questions
Speaker 6: that we would like to ask you about a woman
Speaker 6: that you went out with recently. Her name is Jessica.
Speaker 5: What.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's part of a segment that we do called
Speaker 6: a second Date Update. So Alexis take it from here.
Speaker 1: You went out with somebody and you're super rude at
Speaker 1: the end. Actually, like you need to explain yourself.
Speaker 3: Okay, we're trying to get him to open up.
Speaker 2: I would love to heart.
Speaker 8: I'm sure you have.
Speaker 2: A great reason that I will totally side with you.
Speaker 3: Okay, did you hear that?
Speaker 6: Patrick?
Speaker 13: Do you know what she's talking about? I'm I'm like
Speaker 13: totally confused.
Speaker 10: What are you talking about?
Speaker 6: Okay, maybe I'll explain it and then I'll talk about you.
Speaker 6: So this girl, Jessica emailed us because she told us
Speaker 6: about your date at the restaurant and she is very
Speaker 6: confused why you ditched her halfway through with no explanation,
Speaker 6: just left about that, said.
Speaker 13: Sorry it was the end, but yeah, yeah, it was
Speaker 13: at the end of the night and there was no hope,
Speaker 13: so I just left to know.
Speaker 4: Oh no, I gotta say though, Man, that's pretty rude.
Speaker 13: Well, she was being extremely rude. She was on her
Speaker 13: phone the entire time, and then just a year to
Speaker 13: the bathroom and.
Speaker 3: Then what disappeared to the bathroom?
Speaker 13: Yeah, she disappeared to the bathroom for like thirty minutes.
Speaker 7: Whoa, wow, that's a long time.
Speaker 13: I'm exaggerating a little bit. I mean, it was like
Speaker 13: ten minutes, but it felt like thirty.
Speaker 4: Okay, now I'm starting to think it was two minutes
Speaker 4: a long time.
Speaker 3: But me, there's a line like you don't know.
Speaker 13: Yeah, no, no. She was like she is obsessed with
Speaker 13: her dog, and it was like she would rather have
Speaker 13: been with her dog, and so I was like, you
Speaker 13: know what, I'm just gonna leave so she can hang
Speaker 13: out with her dog.
Speaker 2: I mean, wouldn't most people rather be with their own
Speaker 2: pet in the first day.
Speaker 6: I mean, but her dog's not even there.
Speaker 13: So like the whole night, she's like on her phone
Speaker 13: and she was trying to like put it to the
Speaker 13: side so I wouldn't notice. But she did it so
Speaker 13: much within like the first five minutes of this meeting
Speaker 13: that I asked her if she was all right, oh,
Speaker 13: and she was like, Okay, here's the deal. I have
Speaker 13: a dog, Cracker app and this is the first time
Speaker 13: I've been away from Taffy or whatever the dog's made.
Speaker 4: Doesn't that make you feel better though, because in that moment,
Speaker 4: now she's being open with you, and she's feeling like
Speaker 4: it's almost like an apology, like I am so sorry
Speaker 4: that I was on my phone.
Speaker 13: It's kind of cute, but she had it set for
Speaker 13: this like bark alert, so when it would bark, her
Speaker 13: phone would buzz.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 13: I was like, okay, well, maybe you should turn that
Speaker 13: off during the dinner, And like a few minutes later,
Speaker 13: she like pulled out her phone and she's like, oh
Speaker 13: my god, look Tappy sniffing the room.
Speaker 11: Bud.
Speaker 10: That means she's.
Speaker 13: Anxious, I mean anxious anxious.
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, Oh, my friends had pet cameras
Speaker 1: had to delete it because of it.
Speaker 2: It was so sad all the time. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it would always distract them, so they got
Speaker 1: rid of their ass.
Speaker 4: Obviously, your day is just having separation, exacting herself, you know.
Speaker 7: And the dog seems like it's fine.
Speaker 13: Well exactly, And then she goes to the bathroom and
Speaker 13: she was gone for such a long time that I
Speaker 13: actually thought she ditched me, oh.
Speaker 3: To go check on her dog or something.
Speaker 13: Well, I went back to the bathroom and this girl
Speaker 13: came out and I was like, hey.
Speaker 10: Have you seen this woman in the bathroom.
Speaker 13: She's about this high as this color hair. And she
Speaker 13: was like, oh, yeah, she's in there facetiming her dog.
Speaker 3: Okay, Oh, I get that baby. She had a dog,
Speaker 3: the Cara you could talk to. There we go, so
Speaker 3: you your little dog.
Speaker 6: Thank you for explaining what happened from your perspective. That
Speaker 6: gives us a little bit more of a scope about
Speaker 6: what was going on, at least from your side of it.
Speaker 6: And now you probably need to hear Jessica's side of
Speaker 6: it because she is on the other line listening right now.
Speaker 6: And what does she want to do? Alexis I actually
Speaker 6: know what.
Speaker 2: She wants anymore? Get answers?
Speaker 3: They usually want to.
Speaker 6: Want to talk to each other.
Speaker 3: Yes, I'll start there.
Speaker 6: It's Jessica on the other line, if she's there, Jessica.
Speaker 8: Hey, Patrick, Hey, what's up? Oh?
Speaker 9: I know this is kind of weird, but like I
Speaker 9: know all that stuff did happen, But is that really
Speaker 9: a reason to like get you?
Speaker 13: Yeah, I mean I didn't know how long you were
Speaker 13: going to be in the bathroom facetiming with Taffy, and
Speaker 13: I was just like it was just frustrating, Like I
Speaker 13: get it's hard to leave a pet at home, but like,
Speaker 13: come on, it's not like the dog's in danger.
Speaker 9: Well you could have like messaged me after Okay, that's fair.
Speaker 13: I could have messaged you after, but I was just like,
Speaker 13: I don't know, I was just so turned off. I
Speaker 13: kind of just was like, forget about it.
Speaker 7: It hurts.
Speaker 6: I mean, if I'm a guy and I'm on a
Speaker 6: date and the girl is not paying attention to me
Speaker 6: the entire time, I'm going to start to feel like
Speaker 6: she doesn't really like me.
Speaker 4: It wasn't the entire time, he said, there was twenty
Speaker 4: minutes in between the phone and then her explaining, and
Speaker 4: then she would like at least she tried to take
Speaker 4: the FaceTime call away from the table. I don't know, like,
Speaker 4: why didn't he bring it up. Why didn't you say, hey,
Speaker 4: you're kind of hurting my feelings.
Speaker 2: Let's go back to your house and hang out your dog.
Speaker 13: I just don't understand why why we can't just decide
Speaker 13: to go on a date and be with the other
Speaker 13: person instead of being on our phones and well.
Speaker 6: My child, Well, yeah, you should ignore your children if
Speaker 6: they're trying to interrupt you in the middle of a
Speaker 6: hot date. That's really rude.
Speaker 3: Brook does Oh, absolutely, I don't answer their call.
Speaker 2: Maybe if she gets a second child, then she'll care less.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I just think maybe next time. If you're that worried
Speaker 4: about it, Jessica, you can just find.
Speaker 3: A dog sitter.
Speaker 4: But it still doesn't warrant him ditching you at the
Speaker 4: end of the night.
Speaker 3: I'm with you on that one.
Speaker 9: I appreciate your opinion on that, Brook, but I really
Speaker 9: like to hear what alexis.
Speaker 1: I think it did not warrant him to leave you
Speaker 1: a note like that at the end of the day.
Speaker 6: Finally, a thought that makes sense on this show. Thank you, Alexis,
Speaker 6: You're welcome. Okay, So so wait, are we not.
Speaker 7: Going to tell her but in the future, maybe pay
Speaker 7: more attention.
Speaker 2: I think she should bring the dog to a dog
Speaker 2: friendly place.
Speaker 7: Oh, that could be a good day.
Speaker 6: I mean, that's always an option. And look, Patrick, if
Speaker 6: you're willing to give her another chance, we would pay
Speaker 6: for it.
Speaker 4: I mean, it would be good to try her out
Speaker 4: with the dog to see if she's as distracted if
Speaker 4: the dog's with her.
Speaker 6: Yes, Alexis is going to tell you two reasons why
Speaker 6: you should say yes.
Speaker 1: Right now, Because Tavy's obviously cute.
Speaker 6: I got it, that's obvious, though you owe her. Did
Speaker 6: you say one? And then, b what's your second watch
Speaker 6: out doing this?
Speaker 13: Right now.
Speaker 6: I mean, you can't say no that that logic.
Speaker 11: I am.
Speaker 13: I'm out, I'm out. I'm sorry.
Speaker 10: I just.
Speaker 13: Jessica is too high strung for me.
Speaker 10: I just it's not going to work.
Speaker 12: Oh man, oh my god, Patrick, thanks so much, like
Speaker 12: for telling me the truth.
Speaker 9: Now I know why. I mean, I can just get
Speaker 9: back to the hundreds of other messages. I got.
Speaker 13: A full bro, you got hundreds, Okay, I don't think
Speaker 13: it's that much.
Speaker 10: Wow.
Speaker 7: Hey, if it's plenty of fish, it's definitely that much.
Speaker 4: Said. She was in the bathroom for thirty minutes and
Speaker 4: it turned out to be ten, So I don't think
Speaker 4: we're judging your numbers.
Speaker 10: That's actually fair.
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: Can't believe we didn't get a yes for that. I
Speaker 6: thought for sure they'd be able to figure out a
Speaker 6: compromise between the two.
Speaker 3: I honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal.
Speaker 4: Like, you know, I mean, I agree with him that
Speaker 4: people should be able to just be on a date,
Speaker 4: for sure, but like there was no middle ground for
Speaker 4: either of them, right.
Speaker 6: I mean, she was a little bit stressed out being
Speaker 6: away from her cat for the first time. That's under
Speaker 6: sorry dog for the first time. That's totally understandable, and
Speaker 6: it's also understandable that he wants to have a girl
Speaker 6: pay attention day. But you know, in strange, confusing times
Speaker 6: like this, I'm just so thankful that we have Alexis
Speaker 6: to help us make sense of everything.
Speaker 2: What would you guys do without me?
Speaker 6: And that I know Alexis share your wisdom. Please? Why
Speaker 6: is the dating world like this right now?
Speaker 2: Because people are people and that's how deep.
Speaker 3: She just peopled so hard.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel so much better now, thank you.
Speaker 12: Instead of emailing us Abrik and Jefferys, just email Alexis second.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I email.
Speaker 6: Whatever you gotta do, Gross, just reach out to the
Speaker 6: show in whatever way, and Alexis can save you in
Speaker 6: your dating.
Speaker 3: You don't have a success yet, but she will.
Speaker 6: It's gonna happens.
Speaker 7: They didn't say no.
Speaker 6: Manifest that positivity and go check out all of our
Speaker 6: podcasts wherever you get yours a broken Jeffrey Brook.
Speaker 8: And Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 6: We all say things in life that we later regret,
Speaker 6: Like three weeks ago when I complimented Brooke on her shirt.
Speaker 6: She has worn it into work now every single day.
Speaker 6: Since then, you don't like it, I'm saying I regret
Speaker 6: saying it. And one of our listeners also wishes she
Speaker 6: could take back what she said eleven months ago to
Speaker 6: a guy she went out with. It took her almost
Speaker 6: a full year to realize her giant mistake.
Speaker 4: I can't wait till you apologize in a year.
Speaker 6: We'll see if I come to that conclusion. We have
Speaker 6: to decide is she worthy of another chance with this dude.
Speaker 6: We'll find out what she said in your second date
Speaker 6: update next.
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Second Date updates.
Speaker 6: In terms of the amount of time it takes between
Speaker 6: the first date and the second date, what do you
Speaker 6: think is optimal? Like three to four days, at least
Speaker 6: a week.
Speaker 7: You don't want to go back to back?
Speaker 6: Maybe two weeks? Is that pushing it too long? I
Speaker 6: think okay, Because for our listener last.
Speaker 7: You're like out of town.
Speaker 8: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It's delicate though, because you don't want to lose the momentum.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the hard part.
Speaker 6: Well, for our listener, Amanda, she's going on eleven months.
Speaker 4: Oh wait, I mean, do we need to tell her
Speaker 4: to move on at this point?
Speaker 5: Well?
Speaker 6: Hold on, because she says she has a good reason
Speaker 6: for that. Okay, so let's talk to her. Amanda, thanks
Speaker 6: for being on with us. Start at the very beginning here,
Speaker 6: tell us who is this guy and how did you
Speaker 6: meet him?
Speaker 4: And how do you remember his name after eleven months?
Speaker 5: Hello?
Speaker 6: Yes, he waited eleven months to get back together.
Speaker 5: With Well, his name is Jordan, so you know, it
Speaker 5: reminds me of basketball, so I cann't forget him.
Speaker 4: Wown, this is nuts. Eleven months ago, you went on
Speaker 4: a date with this guy?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I did.
Speaker 6: And where did you meet him?
Speaker 5: I met him on hinge okay, and she was very nice,
Speaker 5: like our interactions were kind of funny.
Speaker 4: Actually, are you sure you're remembering right since it was
Speaker 4: so long.
Speaker 5: Yes, because usually I won't go on a date with
Speaker 5: them unless they're funny.
Speaker 6: Okay, checks nice and kind of funny.
Speaker 7: I know you find out he was funny.
Speaker 2: I mean, I wouldn't match people whose prompts are all serious.
Speaker 7: That's actually yeah.
Speaker 5: You know, I don't want to be with someone who was.
Speaker 6: Born Okay, what did you guys do for a date?
Speaker 5: So what we ended up going on a car every
Speaker 5: day and yeah that's my thing.
Speaker 6: That's good.
Speaker 7: Then that's good.
Speaker 12: Because sometimes if I from a guy's perspective, if a
Speaker 12: girl says coffee date, that means I want to be
Speaker 12: very slow.
Speaker 7: I just want a quick, fitt high and.
Speaker 3: By I always feel like it.
Speaker 4: I'm not sure if you're hot from your picture or
Speaker 4: let me see you in the daytime.
Speaker 5: Well that's the face time. But we've moved past that.
Speaker 5: So okay. We met up, and I kept thinking, like, honestly,
Speaker 5: like I don't know if this guy is in my league,
Speaker 5: Like there was something.
Speaker 4: What do you mean, like in a good way or
Speaker 4: a bad way?
Speaker 7: Yeah, under your league.
Speaker 5: So I know those sounds like maybe stupid, but I
Speaker 5: just thought he get dressed better, like I didn't really
Speaker 5: like his stal.
Speaker 12: You know that's actually really I actually have friends, and
Speaker 12: I'm sure I'm in the same boat where like you realize,
Speaker 12: we don't really know how to dress.
Speaker 4: Up than the way we always Here's the thing, clothes
Speaker 4: are always fixable, that's.
Speaker 5: True, I know. But I made a comment about the
Speaker 5: crocs and I'm like, I don't know about that cross.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't think it's nuts to show up
Speaker 4: to a coffee days.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all the same.
Speaker 5: It's just I'm a weirdo. But I guess I was
Speaker 5: being judgmental because you know, he was so humble and nice.
Speaker 5: I'm like, get out of your head, like it's the style.
Speaker 5: I'm like, I can fix him, but I don't want
Speaker 5: to come in like, hey we need new wardrobs.
Speaker 6: Yeah, second or third date? So I mean, like the
Speaker 6: bond that you had with him, like personality wise, did
Speaker 6: you feel that?
Speaker 5: So? I don't know. I just didn't feel like the spark,
Speaker 5: you know, like the fireworks you know when you meet
Speaker 5: someone you're like, oh.
Speaker 4: I thought you've been pining over this guy for the
Speaker 4: last eleven months.
Speaker 3: You didn't even like him the day you hung out
Speaker 3: with him.
Speaker 5: So here's here's like what happened. So basically, at the
Speaker 5: end of the day, we gave each other a hug
Speaker 5: and he was following up with me, texting me at
Speaker 5: a whole bunch, and I just felt like I didn't
Speaker 5: want to lead him on.
Speaker 7: Okay, that's that's actually really kind of you.
Speaker 5: Thank you.
Speaker 6: Well, what did you say before we start praising you
Speaker 6: how kind you are?
Speaker 5: I just said I didn't feel as smart, like we
Speaker 5: can be friends, but like no romantic interests.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, and how do you take it?
Speaker 5: I think this is why I can't get him out
Speaker 5: of my head. I think because he just says, I
Speaker 5: think that you're a great woman and whoever ends up
Speaker 5: with you as a lucky man. And his response was
Speaker 5: just so gracious that like almost made me cry, touched my.
Speaker 4: Heart so that he was nice and not mean at
Speaker 4: the end.
Speaker 6: Being rejected specifically, that's got to be hard for a
Speaker 6: guy to be like, Oh, you don't like me, but
Speaker 6: you know what, I wish the best for you.
Speaker 2: That's top three most common responses.
Speaker 5: When I've done before with other guys, they just react
Speaker 5: so like immature and they honestly like try to get
Speaker 5: me harder, they start texting me more. It just makes
Speaker 5: it weird and awkward.
Speaker 6: Really try no, if it's me, I'm just giving your
Speaker 6: number to one of those like scam call centers and
Speaker 6: having them spam you.
Speaker 7: I was more than crying about it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm not going to try to fight for Yeah,
Speaker 6: well you reject me, then I'm going to get you
Speaker 6: a million scam calls.
Speaker 7: It looks like I got thirty percent off your internet.
Speaker 11: Now.
Speaker 3: She just said you were There was no spark it
Speaker 3: wasn't even.
Speaker 6: Oh, excuse me, you don't have to double down. That hurts,
Speaker 6: But it's nice that he was so gracious with you.
Speaker 6: That's pretty cool.
Speaker 3: And it should be expected. Honest.
Speaker 6: So that happened. That happened eleven months ago, and now
Speaker 6: you're reaching out to us, like, I don't understand what's changed.
Speaker 5: I just can't get him out of my head. He's
Speaker 5: like looking there like super glue. So I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's like kind of awkward to like reach out. I'm
Speaker 5: kind of shy now and I feel bad for rejecting him.
Speaker 5: So I really need some help because I feel like
Speaker 5: I was kind of judgmental. That makes sense, and I'd
Speaker 5: love to go out with him again.
Speaker 4: I mean, it is going to be hard to come
Speaker 4: back from saying there's no spark, Yeah, right, Like it
Speaker 4: means you're going to have to put in a little
Speaker 4: extra work eleven months, Like do we know if you're single?
Speaker 6: It's POSI, Well, we need to call him to find out.
Speaker 6: This is definitely different than what we would normally do
Speaker 6: in this segment.
Speaker 7: But this person.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we'll call Jordan and be like Amanda has decided
Speaker 6: to slum it and go down a level from where
Speaker 6: she normally would date to go out with you one
Speaker 6: more time.
Speaker 2: Got rid of those crocs.
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, we'll see what he has to say when
Speaker 6: we do your second date update after this.
Speaker 8: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.
Speaker 6: They say the best things in life take time. That's true,
Speaker 6: like an aged bottle of wine, medium sized wheel of Europe.
Speaker 6: He and she oh, Jeff putting together a dresser from
Speaker 6: Ikea with just two of the legs missing.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I still have extra screws.
Speaker 6: And of course finding the right person to date, not
Speaker 6: just a good one, but the right person. And it's
Speaker 6: taken our listener, Amanda eleven months to come to the
Speaker 6: realization that that guy could have been the one in
Speaker 6: the coffee shop the day that she rejected him.
Speaker 7: You know what else? They also say, jeff, timing is everything. Yes,
Speaker 7: maybe they needed a little eleven month break.
Speaker 6: So it's possible all the things could align. The timing
Speaker 6: could be perfect today because she wants us to help
Speaker 6: her get a second chance with Jordan.
Speaker 3: You know, I think it's sweet.
Speaker 4: I think it shows that you have a lot of
Speaker 4: growth from eleven months ago. You know, like months ago,
Speaker 4: you were judging somebody's clothes, not you today.
Speaker 5: Right, No, I'm not as superficial broke. You're right, but
Speaker 5: I need you to help me work my magic. Like
Speaker 5: I'm in a vulnerable say, I'm lonely and I just
Speaker 5: missed Jordan, and I just think that you guys can
Speaker 5: help me.
Speaker 6: Okay, well, we're willing to do that. I'm just glad
Speaker 6: that we're talking to you over the phone so that
Speaker 6: you can't see what Brook's wearing and be able to
Speaker 6: judge it like.
Speaker 12: You actually wearing crocodiles on her feet.
Speaker 4: I will say, I love the houses like this is.
Speaker 4: I've done better.
Speaker 6: We've matured from that immature girl that she was eleven
Speaker 6: months ago. She can't even see and she just.
Speaker 5: Knows I have zebra pants on.
Speaker 7: So it's like you guys are like a zoo together. Wow, Joe,
Speaker 7: exotic bro.
Speaker 6: I love this bonding time that we're having. But we
Speaker 6: got to call Jordan here and hopefully he picks up.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna dial his number right now here we go, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 6: is this Jordan?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yes, you may ask.
Speaker 3: It was such a dad joke.
Speaker 7: Ask you just.
Speaker 6: Having normal conversation.
Speaker 7: He can ask you.
Speaker 6: This is how Bros conversation. Yeah, okay, well, thank you
Speaker 6: for politely asking that. To answer your well, if you're
Speaker 6: still there to answer your question, we're a radio show
Speaker 6: called Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 4: In the Morning with high brow comedy.
Speaker 10: Okay, and what is this in regards to?
Speaker 6: Oh, this is actually in regards to a woman who's
Speaker 6: been trying to get a hold of you. Well, actually
Speaker 6: she has been trying, yes she has.
Speaker 7: It's the usual.
Speaker 6: Not sure if you'll remember this is a woman named Amanda.
Speaker 11: Uh, you know there's a lot of Amanda's that's right.
Speaker 6: Fair, Okay, Well, this this is a woman that you
Speaker 6: went on a date with eleven months ago, like a.
Speaker 10: Year ago, eleven months ago?
Speaker 11: Copy date?
Speaker 6: Uh, I'm probably get to bed.
Speaker 10: Was it like a hinge date?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh she did tell us that.
Speaker 11: Okay, yeah, I think I yeah, I remember Amanda.
Speaker 10: Yeah, we grabbed coffee right a long time ago.
Speaker 6: That's right. What else do you remember from your time
Speaker 6: with Amanda?
Speaker 3: It's probably wasn't much time since it was just coffee.
Speaker 10: But honestly, I just remember her ditching.
Speaker 4: Be Yeah, what do you mean, like when she said
Speaker 4: she didn't want to see you again?
Speaker 7: Oh that Yeah.
Speaker 11: Yeah, Like, I mean I've been turned down before, so
Speaker 11: you know, I'm kind of used to it.
Speaker 10: Oh buddy, Uh definitely was expecting this.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Well, can I just tell you, Jordan's the thing that
Speaker 6: really stood out to Amanda out you was how graciously
Speaker 6: you handled her rejection over text. Okay, you said something
Speaker 6: like you're an amazing woman. Whatever guy ends up with you,
Speaker 6: he's going to be so lucky, and you like just
Speaker 6: wished her well.
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, you know what, I think I wrote that
Speaker 10: with Ai.
Speaker 6: Actually, oh wow, it was a good it was good feedback.
Speaker 2: That's a good idea to put that day.
Speaker 6: I first I had quick on my feet still for Amanda,
Speaker 6: it was a big moment, and you know how like
Speaker 6: sometimes women aren't as emotionally mature as us men are.
Speaker 6: The case, she has taken all this time and realized
Speaker 6: that it's possible she made a huge mistake in turning
Speaker 6: you away, which is kind of sweet.
Speaker 1: Maybe she said that yeah, yeah, basically.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she actually has even said she's really been thinking about.
Speaker 3: You a lot.
Speaker 10: Wow.
Speaker 11: I mean, honestly, I don't know what to say. This
Speaker 11: is like the third time that's happened this year.
Speaker 6: What what do you mean what's happened?
Speaker 10: Yeah, you know.
Speaker 11: I again, I'm used to rejection, you know, so weirdly enough,
Speaker 11: a lot of these girls they reject me, end up
Speaker 11: call me back say like, hey, maybe we should get
Speaker 11: another shot.
Speaker 6: Woah, this isn't the first time.
Speaker 3: No, are you complimented by it?
Speaker 4: Or is it like almost kind of a backhanded compliment?
Speaker 10: You know what I mean, I'm more surprised than anything.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Like, how do you take that personally?
Speaker 6: Or you Well, if you want to be the most surprised,
Speaker 6: here's a shocker for you, because Amanda is on the
Speaker 6: other line right now, listening to this entire conversation, hoping
Speaker 6: to jump in and talk to you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Amanda's surprise, surprise, it's to me. How are you.
Speaker 6: Exciting?
Speaker 10: I'm good. Good to hear from you again.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you're excited to hear from me.
Speaker 10: Uh, I mean it's been a while, you know. Uh,
Speaker 10: it's definitely a surprise, you know.
Speaker 5: I feel so awkward. I feel like I'm stuttering and
Speaker 5: like I don't know. But yes, I'm very nervous to
Speaker 5: do this, and I'm glad that AI was able to
Speaker 5: help you out. But there's no AI. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 5: you know, thinking about his words before speaking. So it's
Speaker 5: not like me like I just kind of was impulsive
Speaker 5: and was superficial. But I hope that we can maybe
Speaker 5: see each other again.
Speaker 10: I'm not sure that whoa why are you like asking
Speaker 10: me out? Or is this is this? What this is?
Speaker 5: I mean I needed their help. Yeah, it might be
Speaker 5: like a little crazy. It's been like almost a year, right,
Speaker 5: and maybe you can have amnesia and dementia about what
Speaker 5: happened in the past.
Speaker 6: What a nice to want? So that was a lot, Jordan.
Speaker 6: I know that she kind of dumped on you there,
Speaker 6: But you have anything that you would like to say
Speaker 6: back to Amanda or ask your AI what to say.
Speaker 11: Back to be honest, A man, it's been a while
Speaker 11: since I've seen you or seen your picture.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 11: One way that I really jogged my memory is, h
Speaker 11: do you.
Speaker 10: Still have that nice but what.
Speaker 7: You didn't swap it out?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 5: Well, so I was just telling them about these zebra
Speaker 5: pants that I'm wearing, and I could potentially send you
Speaker 5: a selfie if you's lying.
Speaker 2: Work for do zebra pants make it look bigger?
Speaker 6: It's like an optical illusion.
Speaker 5: Ask you for a friend, you know, I messed up.
Speaker 5: So I'm kind of like, you know, clean slate here,
Speaker 5: I come right, Zebra.
Speaker 3: The clean slate includes picks. So it's like you're a
Speaker 3: winner right now, Jordan.
Speaker 6: Yeah, Jordan, she's she's apologetic for how she treated you.
Speaker 6: She's still got the same features and all the things
Speaker 6: that you liked from the first time you met up.
Speaker 6: So at this point, we'd like to offer to send
Speaker 6: you and Amanda out on another date, and we would
Speaker 6: pay for it.
Speaker 4: At this point, I feel like we're interrupting a date
Speaker 4: on the phone right now.
Speaker 6: I know, Saucy, but Jordan, it's up to you.
Speaker 11: I mean, if she's cooled me seeing the other two
Speaker 11: girls they rejected me and her being the third, I'm
Speaker 11: open to that.
Speaker 6: Okay, the hair on the rejection, Amanda, Now the ball's
Speaker 6: in your court.
Speaker 5: Heavens, No, you know this was nice, But now I
Speaker 5: cannot handle that. I'm too jealous. No way, I want
Speaker 5: you to.
Speaker 4: Ma's going to be a little competition for you, you know.
Speaker 10: See if you know a way?
Speaker 5: Hoh say, I'm not that desperate?
Speaker 6: Are you ditching him?
Speaker 10: Now?
Speaker 6: Twice in one year?
Speaker 5: I was just hoping that we could be at just
Speaker 5: one on one monogamous not you know, a trio.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, we're missing it.
Speaker 12: Well, hey, come up with a good AI goodbye to her,
Speaker 12: and she'll probably call you and yes, I.
Speaker 3: Know you'll have six leftovers.
Speaker 11: I guess I'll type one up and i'll say it
Speaker 11: to you later, Amanda.
Speaker 6: Check your text message.
Speaker 3: Day. My god, he's like the rejection king.
Speaker 10: I hope you will have a nice life and a
Speaker 10: nice day.
Speaker 6: Oh your melting hearts right now.
Speaker 7: Jordan's hang up so we can all call him back.
Speaker 8: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: I think the lesson that we all learned from that
Speaker 6: is you can let a nice butt in zebra print
Speaker 6: walk away and still be gracious about it.
Speaker 4: That's right. Yeah, it was a good lesson. It is
Speaker 4: shocking that she was so surprised. Yeah, I'm worried about
Speaker 4: her choice and people to go out.
Speaker 3: They're ye so rude.
Speaker 6: It would yeah, totally, But it would be funny if
Speaker 6: she does text him though, in like a couple of
Speaker 6: weeks or a couple of minutes after that call ended,
Speaker 6: just to like give him a third chance.
Speaker 4: I mean, she's going to go on one more date with
Speaker 4: a guy that's a jerk. And then yeah yeah.
Speaker 6: But the way they were flirting on the phone for
Speaker 6: a minute, I thought for sure they were going to
Speaker 6: go out with it.
Speaker 4: Yeah. I thought it was a yes before we even ask.
Speaker 4: I know, maybe we should have stayed out of it.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's the problem.
Speaker 6: It was yes, he just said to the team she
Speaker 6: said no. But that's the thing about love. It's weird
Speaker 6: and unpredictable sometimes. And you can find lots of weird
Speaker 6: love by listening to our podcast on YouTube, on TikTok, Spotify.
Speaker 6: That's right, Yeah, all of our episodes a second Date
Speaker 6: update are there at Brook and Jeffrey, designed for your
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