1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Hey guys, all the politic in world out there and 2 00:00:03,200 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: our listeners. We have a great episode coming up here 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 1: with Chelsea Handler. Want to let everybody know that we 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 1: recorded this a while back before the fires. Our thoughts 5 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 1: and our prayers and our minds and our hearts and 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: our souls are with everyone in Altadena and the Palisades 7 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,279 Speaker 1: and everyone in LA This episode we recorded a while back. 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 1: That is inspiring, fun and a great episode with the 9 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: iconic Chelsea Handler. 10 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 2: Man, what's handed? Man? 11 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 3: You got Marshaw, Besma Lynch, Doug Hendrickson. 12 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:37,559 Speaker 4: And Gavin Newsome and you're listening to politics you know 13 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 4: to be you known to be? 14 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 5: Rashan was up late last. 15 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 4: Night, Jesus, between the two of you, couple hours sleep? 16 00:00:53,560 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 4: Where the hell were you last night? 17 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: What do you mean? 18 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 4: It was up late last night. 19 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 2: In an unfamiliar place home? 20 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 4: Oh so then wonder you didn't sleep? 21 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 5: He doesn't sleep. Marshawn's got a sleeping problem like I do. 22 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure out there's an unfamiliar place like 23 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 3: I ain't you know what I mean? 24 00:01:12,440 --> 00:01:13,959 Speaker 2: This is brand new to me. 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 4: You know you're not You don't have to take any 26 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 4: of those you take sleeping pills or anything. What do 27 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 4: you do? 28 00:01:19,480 --> 00:01:22,280 Speaker 2: No, No, I don't go down like that. 29 00:01:23,920 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 4: Doug does. Doug. Doug was addicted to some of that. 30 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 2: Sh bud or something not be good. 31 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: But you know, I've realized all these billionaires, these guys 32 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 1: take like all this they do like I, all this 33 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: weird stuff. They take IV's, peptides, ozone, all this. 34 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 4: So you were promote, you sent me all that stuff 35 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 4: yesterday I was wondering without any context. 36 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 1: I drink, I smoke, I don't take vitamins. I might 37 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: have three years left. Having said that, I'm in a 38 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: pretty good shape. These these guys are taking. There's the 39 00:01:52,800 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: same Marshaun these guys are taking. 40 00:01:54,200 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 5: It's like these ivs where it. 41 00:01:57,160 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: Go it take it every You take it three days 42 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: a week, and it makes you feel like you have 43 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: like the stomach flu, and I guess it's the worst 44 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: forty five minutes of your life. But once it's done, 45 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 1: you feel like a million bucks. And I'm like, no, 46 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: I'm good. It's like these I can't. 47 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 5: I don't know what. 48 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,760 Speaker 1: It's some kind of cocktail of vitamins and stuff, but 49 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: it's an IV and you take it like two or 50 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: three days a week and for forty five minutes, you 51 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 1: feel like you have the flu or stomach flick awful. 52 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 4: Like He's like hemo, man, that doesn't sound like anything healthy. 53 00:02:29,840 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 2: It don't sound like something. 54 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 1: It's almost like you can't. You got to like pull 55 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: the iv out. But once you're done, apparently you feel 56 00:02:38,160 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: like a million bucks. 57 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 4: Marshawn. You ever been tempted to do that ayahuasca stuff 58 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 4: and go to some tent somewhere in the moondocks? 59 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 3: And hell no, mate, But I'll tell you this, your boy, Hey, Rob, 60 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 3: we just did the twentieth like reunion thing for coach 61 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 3: Tefferd back at cal and uh he came. He was 62 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 3: asking him about Yeah, I mean him getting high off 63 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 3: that shit. I mean, it's the best feeling the ever Like, nah, 64 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 3: fuck what you're doing? I don't think I want no 65 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 3: parts of that ship. 66 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 4: Did you talk to him about being in what he 67 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 4: went for like twenty four hours or three days in 68 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 4: the dark or something? What the hell was that? 69 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 2: Oh? 70 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 3: Man, I don't look when you I guess when you 71 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 3: out there to define yourself, it ain't no limits to 72 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:23,399 Speaker 3: the things you'll do. 73 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:25,920 Speaker 5: I gotta be honest. 74 00:03:26,400 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: I might be really Uh, I might be very hollow, 75 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 1: but I've never really wanted to go find myself yet. 76 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 5: Is that a bad thing? 77 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: It's kind of bad. You gotta get the you gotta 78 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 4: get the better help app Brother, better help. 79 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 5: Seriously, have you ever listened of a class for help? 80 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,040 Speaker 4: Marshawn? Literally, this is a cry for help. This guy's been, 81 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 4: he's been vulnerable right now. 82 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 2: Very fresh. You need the better help app Man. 83 00:03:56,000 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 5: I might need the better help out. But I don't know. 84 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 5: Is this is this bad of me that I haven't. 85 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: Won to like go away for two weeks and just 86 00:04:01,680 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 1: on my own and search for whatever is out there. 87 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 5: I don't know. 88 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: Maybe fuck, maybe I'm shallow, Maybe I'm I don't know 89 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 1: what my I haveate problem. 90 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 5: I have a serious problem. 91 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 2: No, I have a serious problem. You can't sleep, can't sleep. 92 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 2: You need to find yourself definitely, or you haven't been. 93 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 2: You haven't even looked for yourself. 94 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 4: No, man, I think you get into that midlife crisis. 95 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 2: I think that's white people see white people. 96 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 4: Jesus, Doug, what do you think of that? I don't 97 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 4: know if it's white people ship, I. 98 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 3: Mean, looks will be getting into some wild ship, man, 99 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:35,599 Speaker 3: like the hell is you want to go swim in 100 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 3: the ocean with hell like. 101 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 4: LSD or acid or something. What about ecstasy? You ever 102 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 4: tried ecstasy any of that stuff. 103 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:43,479 Speaker 5: I've done a lot of ecstasy. 104 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 2: Yes, you got you have. 105 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,200 Speaker 1: I've done ecstasy, shrooms, I've done all that stuff. Yes, 106 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: controls too, rooms is good. It's it's it's it's from 107 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: the planet, from the ground. 108 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 2: It's from the earth. Put that here for me, a you. 109 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 5: But I gotta I gotta be honest, and I might 110 00:04:58,560 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 5: I might be wrong. 111 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: I think how for this self help stuff, people just 112 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: say they're doing all the stuff, but no one's really 113 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: doing it. 114 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 4: What like cold plunges you were about to buy a 115 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 4: cold plunge. 116 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 5: Thee I'm talking about all the other stuff. I don't know. 117 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if people are really doing this stuff. 118 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,360 Speaker 1: But it's like everybody wants to talk like they're doing 119 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: all these crazy, these these cutting edge things. 120 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,080 Speaker 4: Don't you have but you guys must have no no bs. 121 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:23,599 Speaker 4: You don't you have a morning routine? Everyone's got a 122 00:05:23,640 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 4: morning routine. It's like, is there five things you do 123 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 4: every single morning when you wake up every morning? 124 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 2: Get ready a blunt for breakfast? 125 00:05:31,520 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 5: Come on, no, there's really not Gavin. 126 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 4: I think you have no morning routine. No, no, not 127 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 4: a damn thing. Marshaan, you have no mourning routine. 128 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 2: Come on, orange juice and a blunt for breakfast. 129 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 4: How about during the season, did you have a morning 130 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 4: routine during the. 131 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 2: Season juice and a blunt for breakfast? 132 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 5: Well, Gavin, give me your more. What do you mean 133 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 5: your morning routine? 134 00:05:52,680 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: Every morning I wake up your face cream, you got your. 135 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 4: No, not even close. Thank you for that? Really, really 136 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 4: you gonna you get a first thing every morning, lemon water. 137 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:07,760 Speaker 4: Then I do a series of sit ups and push ups, 138 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:11,720 Speaker 4: then cold plunge. Then I got this stretching thing that 139 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,159 Speaker 4: I do a little whim hop breathing, and then I 140 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 4: make my way Jesus to the cell phone. 141 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 2: What is wind hop breathing? 142 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 4: Fully in, fully out, go with the forces of the breath. 143 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 2: So don't do that. 144 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, no, just like thirty breasts and then you 145 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 4: hold breath hold and your breath and by the way, 146 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 4: Doug has seen the breath hold three and a half 147 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 4: four minutes, No problem, no problem, That's what I'm talking about. 148 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 4: And that centers you, bro, That gets you ready for 149 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 4: the day and A great way to start the morning 150 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 4: is with that. I mean, come on, nothing better than 151 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 4: two big glasses of lemon water, just saying. 152 00:06:51,400 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: But Gavin, here's what I understand. I'll call you sometimes 153 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: at ten thirty you're angry and yelling at people. 154 00:06:56,480 --> 00:07:00,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean sometimes it doesn't work. Some types of 155 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 4: breathing doesn't work. Imagine if I didn't breathe, man, even 156 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 4: ten times worse. But I mean, like into this wim 157 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 4: Hoff stuff. 158 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: I really am. 159 00:07:07,760 --> 00:07:10,120 Speaker 4: I got into this. Here's the wim Hoff app I'm 160 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 4: like all over it, bro. 161 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 5: Mar Shaun Govin is an easy say. 162 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 1: You know, you know that nice game back in the 163 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: day that the cups where you did figure out would be. 164 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, I got Gav. Is easy to fool, man. We 165 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 5: get gathered on something simple. 166 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 2: Man, what's that the three card up? 167 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:30,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, three card monume whatever it is. 168 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 4: No, man, I don't fall prey to that stuff. 169 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:37,240 Speaker 3: This is scientific to blab to black always to read it, 170 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:39,559 Speaker 3: always read Hey guys. 171 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 4: By the way, I will say, this cold plunch thing 172 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 4: is kind of waning on me a little bit. It 173 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 4: ain't ever gotten easier. I have no idea if it's 174 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,760 Speaker 4: ever helped. I'm over it. A little bit. 175 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 2: That cold plunge is that's a that's a different beast. 176 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 2: I don't know. You say, you get up and do 177 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: that in the morning. 178 00:07:56,840 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 4: I was doing it. I was doing it like six 179 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 4: days a week, then three days a week. Five Now 180 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 4: I'm like back to a couple, and I like, there's 181 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 4: it's misery. 182 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 2: Misery, But how do you feel though? 183 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 4: I feel like I literally, if there was ever a 184 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 4: video of me coming out, I was like, I'm totally 185 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 4: naked and I come out and it's pouring rain out 186 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 4: and I just walk around my head my hands like this, Ah, 187 00:08:21,680 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 4: I'm completely red, fantastic, completely red, completely red, and like, 188 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 4: I'm not kidding. You can't get out of it without 189 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 4: just feeling like a million dollars. That's why you do. 190 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 2: Shit, I will say, though, when you get out of it, 191 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 2: though you do. 192 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 3: I mean the few times that I have done it, 193 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 3: you do feel like you feel like a million bucks, 194 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 3: for sure. But it's just that you got to have 195 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 3: a different type of mindset to do that, and we 196 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 3: used to have. I usually have teammates that are getting 197 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 3: there the neck down, yeah, and they're just chilling. 198 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 4: How long wou with being there for five minutes, ten 199 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,359 Speaker 4: minutes talking to him full. 200 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:05,079 Speaker 2: Cors Hey here, what's up man? That was going on 201 00:09:05,280 --> 00:09:08,839 Speaker 2: the bro you see he hey, can you. 202 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: Get get get another bag axen and throw that bag 203 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 3: axen here from me? 204 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: Like, man, what the fuck? Like bulls ship? What was it? 205 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 4: What did you after every game? What did you get 206 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 4: a massage or something? What was how'd you relax? 207 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 208 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 3: My my my? My therapy was was massage? The hum 209 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 3: I don't know the human that human touch was was different. 210 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 3: I had a h I had a rotation of my suits. Dad, 211 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:36,480 Speaker 3: uh to give me right? 212 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:38,880 Speaker 5: Yes, by the way, yes, yes you did more? 213 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: Sean No, get the fuck out of here for ye No, that. 214 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:42,680 Speaker 4: Wasn't even right, bro. 215 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:44,959 Speaker 2: Ghet the fuck out of here, my boy. 216 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:49,599 Speaker 1: Marshawn's vices were massages and some Hennessy and then he 217 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: smoked a little at night and he gets some sleep 218 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: after he was drug tested. 219 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 2: After he was drug tested. 220 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 4: By the way, do you have to pay for It's 221 00:10:00,200 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 4: a dumb question, totally stupid questions. 222 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 5: Isn't Masha's watching you pay for massuse? 223 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:07,959 Speaker 4: Or does a team provide that full time? Or do 224 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:08,760 Speaker 4: you have to pay extra? 225 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 2: So how it worked? 226 00:10:09,960 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 3: Was h you know, during the season they would have 227 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 3: the massous come up to the facilities and you could 228 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 3: schedule time slot for like thirty minutes. But yeah, I 229 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 3: mean that was more so like specific, uh specific work 230 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 3: like maybe I'm you know, I'm dealing with you know. 231 00:10:24,679 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: A quad or something. 232 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:30,840 Speaker 3: Because really realistically, like I mean, considering after a game, 233 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 3: they I think one of the trainers was like, man Monsham, 234 00:10:34,640 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 3: going through a game is like equivalent to seven car 235 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 3: accidents total. So I was like, God, damn, that's that's 236 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 3: that's a lot of goddamn car accidents. 237 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. 238 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 3: And you you you get that in what three hours 239 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 3: at the uh of the day, So I mean, you 240 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 3: know that that was real important. So when you talk 241 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:01,160 Speaker 3: about you know, morning root teens and this nine and third, 242 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:05,079 Speaker 3: But my routine was more so like during the week, Yeah, 243 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 3: I mean Monday through Sunday, and the whole purpose of 244 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 3: my routine was to get me from Sunday to Sunday. 245 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 2: It we got pretty deep. 246 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: She's a TV host, a comedian, a best selling author. 247 00:11:29,559 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 5: I got to read more because I haven't read her books. 248 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: I apologize seven seven books, a kick ass podcast. 249 00:11:35,880 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 6: Someone's smoking a blunt on here. I love this. Thank you, 250 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 6: thank you for having me. 251 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,600 Speaker 2: You got your hopes. So, Mama, it's just it's just 252 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 2: a it's just a sig right now. 253 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 7: Oh I see, I see, Okay, copy that. Well we 254 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 7: are in the state of California. At least you guys 255 00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 7: are so Hi. 256 00:11:51,480 --> 00:11:54,079 Speaker 4: Guys, hey, guys. Well, where the hell are you? Are 257 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 4: you in an undisclosed location Utah or something. 258 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 6: I've been Whistler, Canada. 259 00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 4: Ooh ooh interesting skiing. What are you doing? 260 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 6: That's my ski spot. 261 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 7: I come up here for the winters and I'm I'm 262 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 7: Canadian during the winters and maybe permanently we'll see I'm 263 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 7: here in my winter wonderland. 264 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:15,640 Speaker 4: Winter wonderland. Well, it's good to be with you. And 265 00:12:15,679 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 4: by the way, no bs, you literally are about to 266 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 4: come out with a seventh damn book, which is ridiculous 267 00:12:21,760 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 4: in just a couple of months. And by the way, 268 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:26,040 Speaker 4: you and Chelsea does beg the quy are you writing 269 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 4: all these books yourself or you've got co writers? Tell 270 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 4: the truth. 271 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 7: I write all of my books and all of my 272 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:35,359 Speaker 7: material by myself. 273 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 4: Literally, I mean, you're not, And how do you have 274 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:43,120 Speaker 4: material for six seven books? My god? Most people get 275 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 4: one or two in a lifetime. And these are, by 276 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 4: the way, for everyone listening. These are all damn best sellers, 277 00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:50,160 Speaker 4: every rite, almost every single one of these books. 278 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 6: Yes, they are all in New York Times best selling books. 279 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 3: I have. 280 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 7: Well, I have a lot of free time because I'm 281 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 7: not a mother and I don't have a husband, so 282 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 7: I get to trapes around the whole world old and 283 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 7: have lots of different experiences to talk about in my 284 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:06,400 Speaker 7: stand up and write about in my books. 285 00:13:06,760 --> 00:13:07,920 Speaker 6: And yeah, my stories. 286 00:13:08,040 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 7: Just right when I think I'm out of material, some 287 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:14,440 Speaker 7: new wave of stories happens and then I'm like, oh, 288 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:16,080 Speaker 7: I've got to write this down or I've got to 289 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 7: talk about this. But yeah, there's no shortage of material. Also, 290 00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 7: my material comes from me, like it's all my experience 291 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,319 Speaker 7: and my stories. So when you are willing to kind 292 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 7: of dish about your personal experiences, whether they're humiliating or not, 293 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:33,880 Speaker 7: you're not short. 294 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:34,599 Speaker 6: On material, you know. 295 00:13:34,720 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: Well, Chelsea, by the way, since I am married, in 296 00:13:38,280 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 1: three kids and my wife's a massive fanny as, you 297 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: can borrow my wife and my kids anytime. 298 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 5: How about that? 299 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, But Chelsea little I got to be 300 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 1: honest I'm not trying. I'm not trying to fanboy you, 301 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,440 Speaker 1: a girl you, but I'm a huge fan of yours. 302 00:13:52,480 --> 00:13:55,719 Speaker 1: I've loved your work forever, literally all the stuff back 303 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:58,720 Speaker 1: in the day to now. I love what you're all about, 304 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:00,959 Speaker 1: your coolest shit, and I know we'd have a good 305 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 1: time hanging out, and so I'm looking forward to coming 306 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 1: to Vegas for one of your shows. But I love 307 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: what you've done and who you are, So I'm very, 308 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:09,079 Speaker 1: very excited you're on the show today. 309 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 6: Oh well, thank you very much, thanks for having me. 310 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 1: Guys, the governor wants to jump right into the books. 311 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: We don't we need to jump right in yet, Gas. 312 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 4: No, I care about the books. I mean, I just 313 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 4: I'm impressed by the way you're previewing this damn book. 314 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 4: And you talked about sexting with a governor, which then 315 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:27,320 Speaker 4: begs the damn question, Chelsea, which governor were you sexting? 316 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 6: His name is Andrew Cuomo and he is no longer 317 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 6: a governor. 318 00:14:32,440 --> 00:14:34,560 Speaker 7: I was, how listen, guys, I was hot on the 319 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 7: scene with Andrew Cuomo because, like many women, I was. 320 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 7: We were dehydrated for real leadership during the COVID pandemic, 321 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 7: and he got on television every morning fighting us with 322 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:49,040 Speaker 7: old school masculinity and which I have. 323 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 6: It was a turn on. 324 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 7: I liked being yelled at an angry Italian meatball submarine sandwich, 325 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 7: and I started to develop strong feelings for him along 326 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 7: with a lot of my friends. 327 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 6: Everyone was God, Andrew Cuomo is sexy the way he's 328 00:15:04,240 --> 00:15:05,040 Speaker 6: yelling at all of. 329 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 2: Us what to do. 330 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 7: And then I was like, oh, I have an advantage. 331 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 7: You know, I'm a person, like a notable person. I'm famous. 332 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:13,840 Speaker 6: So I went on the view. 333 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 7: I asked my PR people to put me on the view, 334 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 7: my PR team and I was on with Whoopee and 335 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 7: Joy Behar and they were asking me about my COVID 336 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 7: experience and I said, you know, I told them about it. 337 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 7: And then at the very last minute, I said, I 338 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 7: just would like to go on the record and say 339 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 7: that I would like to be penetrated by the Governor 340 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 7: of New York. 341 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 6: And then I waited, and it took about three days 342 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 6: for me to receive a phone call from him. 343 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 4: Three days Yes, and what was it called? Just politely 344 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:47,840 Speaker 4: saying I'm honored. What did he say? Literally? What was 345 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 4: I mean? We say, hey, Chelsea it's Governor Cuomo. 346 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 2: Yeah. 347 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 6: Basically he left me a message, a voicemail, and he 348 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 6: was like and. 349 00:15:55,800 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 7: He's like, hello, miss Handler, this is at you Omo. 350 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 6: And I heard from a little birdie in a tree 351 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:05,560 Speaker 6: that someone has a crush on me. 352 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 7: And then it went from there, and then we talked, 353 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 7: and then we made plans. We texted a bunch, and 354 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 7: then I was going to the East Coast for like 355 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 7: a few months because of during COVID. 356 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 6: My family and I were going to rent a house 357 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 6: in Maine, and I was planning on having a very 358 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 6: hot dinner date with him. But then he ghosted me. 359 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 4: Wow. 360 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: That begs the question, Chelsea. If Gavin wasn't married during COVID, 361 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: would you have texted him first? 362 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 4: No, No, she's over me. She moved past me years ago, Doug. 363 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 6: If Gavin were single, I would be hitting on him 364 00:16:33,800 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 6: as well. 365 00:16:34,680 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 5: Okay, all right, I love the transfer, Chelsea. 366 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:40,120 Speaker 6: But we haven't got I'm respectful of this situation. 367 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 4: I appreciate that, Chelsea, and by the way, so is 368 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 4: the family. But let me ask you this. You said, 369 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 4: you said, you said, I mean what. I can't believe 370 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 4: I'm even following off when this question, what do you. 371 00:16:50,680 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 4: I mean, when you say sexting, what the hell does 372 00:16:53,000 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 4: that even mean? Is that what RFK was just doing? 373 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:56,360 Speaker 5: Junior texting? 374 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 3: No? 375 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 7: No, I wasn't sexting with him. I don't think I've 376 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 7: ever sexted with anyone. I mean, that's a little lame 377 00:17:01,440 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 7: in my opinion. No, we were saying like we were 378 00:17:03,920 --> 00:17:06,439 Speaker 7: just like flirting. It wasn't like we were, you know, 379 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 7: doing anything. 380 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 6: Torrid or lurid. 381 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 7: So we we just talked back and forth and I 382 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:15,719 Speaker 7: was going to go there for dinner. I was like, Oh, 383 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 7: I want to come over and have a nice COVID 384 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,959 Speaker 7: friendly outdoor dinner date at the governor's mansion. 385 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:24,280 Speaker 6: And he was like, yeah, I'd like that. Let's plan that. 386 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 6: And then I was like, Okay, should I quarantine? What 387 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 6: do I do? He's like quarantine Schmarantine. He's like, don't 388 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 6: worry about it. I was like, oh, interesting twist. But 389 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 6: nothing ever came to fruition, so thankfully because he got 390 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:37,920 Speaker 6: canceled about six months later. 391 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:40,160 Speaker 5: Well, Chelsea has an NFL agent. 392 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: It's evolved over the years of the social media now 393 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:46,639 Speaker 1: and nowadays these girls will just send naked pictures to 394 00:17:46,840 --> 00:17:49,120 Speaker 1: players DM them and then these guys will fly them 395 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 1: in sight unseen and sometimes it ends well, sometimes it doesn't. 396 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:56,240 Speaker 5: Cat Fish fly, yes, absolutely. 397 00:17:55,640 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 4: At fish at its finest, What the hell is that? 398 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 1: Even it's by the way, No, it's a big it's 399 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 1: a big ring. There's girls out there at Chelsea that 400 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 1: are pros and they they will trap these guys fast 401 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:07,879 Speaker 1: extortion stuff like you wouldn't. 402 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 5: It's a whole it's a whole. Another. By the way, 403 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:11,880 Speaker 5: I could give you some good bits for material. 404 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:13,920 Speaker 1: You do some great shows just based on that stuff. 405 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:15,160 Speaker 1: So we'll talk offline. 406 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:18,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, well, anyone and that is famous or a public 407 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 7: person really shouldn't be flying anyone in that they met 408 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:27,400 Speaker 7: on a DM on Instagram. So that's that's like pretty basic. 409 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 7: And these guys should know that by now, and you 410 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 7: should actually let them know if they don't know already. 411 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 7: I did send one photo to Andrew Cuomo that was questionable, 412 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 7: actually thinking me to tell this only because the ship 413 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 7: had sailed, I understood it wasn't happening. Like, and I 414 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 7: came downstairs talking to my brothers and sisters. I'm like, 415 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 7: I think I'm getting ghosted by the governor, and my 416 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 7: sister's like, I told you nobody. No governor that's yelling 417 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,199 Speaker 7: at half the country to stay six feet apart is 418 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 7: going to be able to connoiter with you in his backyard. 419 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 6: What are you talking about? You're like one of the 420 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 6: loudest people in the world. 421 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 7: And so then I sent this picture of me on 422 00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:05,159 Speaker 7: a vest, but I had a face mask on, I 423 00:19:05,200 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 7: had like a helmet on, I had a bikini, and 424 00:19:08,080 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 7: I sent it to him because I thought the thought 425 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:14,080 Speaker 7: of me somehow, like a picture of me like that 426 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:19,959 Speaker 7: getting like to his phone and accidentally transmitting through his 427 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:23,439 Speaker 7: iPad or through the computer during one of his early 428 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:27,680 Speaker 7: morning COVID briefings to see gave. 429 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:30,199 Speaker 6: Me excitement, you know, Like that made me. 430 00:19:30,760 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 7: I was like, what if the whole world gets to 431 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 7: see that I'm texting with him? 432 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 6: But that didn't happen either, So you know, a girl 433 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:38,720 Speaker 6: can still dream. 434 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:40,680 Speaker 5: Well, Chelsea, we love the weed, you know. 435 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:42,679 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know, but we had Woody 436 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 1: Harrelson on a while ago, and me and Marshawn were 437 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: the committee to get the woods in West Hollywood up 438 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:53,880 Speaker 1: and running, and so we were on the committee for that. 439 00:19:53,920 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: So we appreciate your, uh, your partaking in this stuff. 440 00:19:58,320 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: Like me and Marshawn do often. 441 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 4: Elsea. I think that's kind of how we connected many 442 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 4: moons ago when I was legalizing marijuana and California and 443 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 4: you politely had me on your show and tried to 444 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 4: cross pollinate me with some interesting abusers, not just users 445 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:16,760 Speaker 4: of the product. 446 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 6: That's funny. I do remember that, Gavin. That is, we 447 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 6: did connect on that. 448 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 7: And also I would also like to note that Andrew 449 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 7: Cuomo many of our conversation consisted of many of our 450 00:20:26,200 --> 00:20:31,040 Speaker 7: conversations consisted of me beseeching him to legalize marijuana, and 451 00:20:31,080 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 7: he did in the state of New York shortly after 452 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 7: he met me. So I would like to also take 453 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 7: credit for that. 454 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 4: You got to take credit for that. And by the way, 455 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 4: you're a Jersey goal right and you grew up there. 456 00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, Marshawn loves Jersey. Marshawan, where's your spot in Jersey? Like, 457 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:46,400 Speaker 1: I know you go to two spots out there. 458 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 2: He's Orange. Oh yeah, we. 459 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 7: Used to buy weed from me Storage any Storage Growth, Yeah, 460 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 7: that was the spot East Storage. 461 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 4: What the hell? By the way, what the hell is 462 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 4: the East Orange at a store? Is it is? The hell? 463 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 4: Is this? Forgive me? New Jersey I don't know. 464 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:04,560 Speaker 5: I just don't know. 465 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 2: Oh shit. 466 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,959 Speaker 5: East Orange is near Clinton, New Jersey. Govin. It's a 467 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 5: little suburb there. 468 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,680 Speaker 6: It's not far from Livingston, New Jersey, where I grew 469 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 6: up there. 470 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,199 Speaker 5: Yes, you're right there, you go Govin. 471 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 1: It's not Mont Claire, Jersey, gad and where you've probably 472 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: been in some fundraiser back in the day. 473 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,159 Speaker 5: It's a little more hard at than that. 474 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:23,359 Speaker 4: Thank you, guys, and thank you. I'm going to hang 475 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 4: out in Orange next that's my definitely my next stop. 476 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 4: But not for the reasons you guys used to hang 477 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:30,879 Speaker 4: out there. By the way, Chelsea, what you grew up 478 00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 4: with a huge family, right you got You talked about 479 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 4: your sister a second ago, but you got you got 480 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 4: a ton of brothers and sisters, right Yeah. 481 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,000 Speaker 7: I'm the youngest of six kids, so I was pretty 482 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 7: pissed when I was born. I was like, who are 483 00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 7: all these other people? Like I thought I was gonna 484 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,480 Speaker 7: I came up from the hospital. I was psyched to 485 00:21:45,480 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 7: get the party started, and then I saw all of 486 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,639 Speaker 7: these other people taking up my parents' time. 487 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:53,199 Speaker 6: I was like, wait, what's our financial situation? Like I 488 00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:54,680 Speaker 6: couldn't understand. 489 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:57,640 Speaker 7: The planning or the lack thereof of having that many 490 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,919 Speaker 7: children and not being like find actually set. 491 00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,440 Speaker 6: So I grew up pretty quickly. 492 00:22:03,480 --> 00:22:05,679 Speaker 7: I was like I had I had a big personality 493 00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 7: at a very young age because I just was not 494 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 7: I wasn't buying into what they were selling. I'm like, 495 00:22:10,720 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 7: somebody needs to organize this family, and that somebody's going 496 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 7: to be me. So I was the boss from a 497 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 7: very young age. And now my brothers and sisters knew that, no, 498 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 7: that I was. 499 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:19,960 Speaker 6: I was right all along. 500 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 4: And Chelsea, you you also just a little bourb in 501 00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 4: your book, you were kind of preview and you weren't kidding. 502 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:28,199 Speaker 4: At ten years old, you had a lemonade stand, and 503 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 4: so talk about being a boss. You started spiking the 504 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 4: lemonade because you got a few extra bucks and put 505 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 4: what vodka in the damn lemonade? Is that what most 506 00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 4: is that what other ten year olds were doing? 507 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 7: Or this was That's why I started doing it because 508 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,439 Speaker 7: I realized that there was a piece of the market 509 00:22:43,520 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 7: was missing and that I could make a bigger profit 510 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:49,440 Speaker 7: margin if I sold alcohol to children and their parents. 511 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 7: So it wasn't only vodka. I decided to start a 512 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 7: hard lemonade stand. I did the lemonade stand for two days, 513 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,560 Speaker 7: and I made like fifteen dollars in two days. 514 00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 6: I'm like, this isn't going to cut it. 515 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 7: So then I was like, Okay, let's get some gin, 516 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,480 Speaker 7: whiskey and tequila and we'll have a hard lemonade stand. 517 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 4: I got. 518 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 7: I hired another bar back who was ten years old, 519 00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:10,160 Speaker 7: and the bar bank and I taught Nelson right away. 520 00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 6: I'm like, do you know how to make a whiskey soda? 521 00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:13,880 Speaker 7: And then we sat on the and then the first 522 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,399 Speaker 7: week of our lemonade stand we made three hundred and 523 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 7: fifty nine dollars or something rageous. 524 00:23:19,600 --> 00:23:21,359 Speaker 5: And your parents did not know you were doing this 525 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:22,920 Speaker 5: with devodka and tequila. 526 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,199 Speaker 6: Who knows what my parents knew and did. Then they 527 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:26,000 Speaker 6: weren't my problem. 528 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 7: I never took my parents seriously like they and they 529 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:31,359 Speaker 7: when you're the youngest of six kids, they're not taking 530 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:32,480 Speaker 7: you very seriously either. 531 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:34,160 Speaker 6: They're just happy that you're out of the house. 532 00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,720 Speaker 7: And yeah, no one was kind of like, you know, 533 00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:39,240 Speaker 7: giving me rules to follow. 534 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 6: Growing up. I was on my own and I understood 535 00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:42,480 Speaker 6: that very early on. 536 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 7: So yeah, I made out like a bandit, and I 537 00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:46,360 Speaker 7: was a business woman from ten years later. 538 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 4: It was a true story that you you were kind 539 00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 4: of outed on all this when you were in the 540 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,760 Speaker 4: first class cabin and all the rest of the family 541 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,040 Speaker 4: was in coach when you upgraded using the money. 542 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 7: Well, I actually started a babysitting ring after my baby, 543 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 7: after my lemonade, Stan and I lied and called all 544 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 7: the hotels on Martha's Vineyard. That's where we had a 545 00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,959 Speaker 7: summer house, which makes it sound like we were really wealthy. 546 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:09,480 Speaker 6: We weren't. 547 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 7: I don't know how my dad got that house. He 548 00:24:11,640 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 7: was a used car dealer, so he had that house. 549 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 6: And I called. 550 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 7: Every hotel on Martha's Vineyard in Edgar Town and I 551 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 7: was introduced myself. 552 00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 6: I'm like, my name is Chelsea Handler. I'm a very 553 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 6: experienced fifteen year old babysitter. Because I always looked older, 554 00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:26,640 Speaker 6: so I said, I. 555 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:28,399 Speaker 7: Was fifteen when I was ten, and I spent that 556 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,880 Speaker 7: summer babysitting fourteen year old boy. 557 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 4: Ten years old with the lemonade stand. Uh So, I mean, 558 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 4: so that does beg the question. I mean, the origin 559 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 4: story of the why you're in the racket you're in 560 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 4: and why you're You've got to you know your your 561 00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 4: Chelsea's at Chelsea in your Vegas and you're working on 562 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 4: your seventh book and have had one hundred and fifty 563 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 4: Netflix scale. I mean, you must like your It sounds 564 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:55,160 Speaker 4: like your investor in Netflix. You have more damn Netflix documentaries. 565 00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 4: But is that I mean, was this the comedy came 566 00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,320 Speaker 4: then early as well, or did the comedy come later 567 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 4: when the identity started to show up and you start 568 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 4: of continued to sort of mark to the beat of 569 00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:06,119 Speaker 4: your own drum. 570 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 7: I mean, I think when you have, you know, a 571 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 7: big family, it leans towards comedy. I mean you kind 572 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 7: of have to laugh at the disorganization and the I mean, 573 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 7: you have a big family, Gavin, Yours is a little 574 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:23,400 Speaker 7: probably more regulated. Your children are probably on much more 575 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,120 Speaker 7: of a tighter schedule than any of us. 576 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 5: No, they're a bunch of They're chaos, just chaotic over there. 577 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:30,320 Speaker 4: Well, I'm going to check the damn lemonade stand after 578 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 4: this conversation. I'm not even kidding. I don't trust my living. Yes, 579 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,240 Speaker 4: this is then again, I'm impressed and inspired at the 580 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 4: same time. It's confusing. 581 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:40,919 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it was a funny. 582 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:44,000 Speaker 7: We are all funny, and we all have We're very sarcastic, 583 00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:48,439 Speaker 7: and uh yeah, I guess it just was. You know, 584 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 7: I got a lot of attention as the youngest, but 585 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 7: I needed to I got it for the wrong reasons. 586 00:25:54,119 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 7: I didn't like it because I was cute and I 587 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 7: was blonde, and I liked getting attention for being precocious. 588 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,199 Speaker 7: I didn't like getting attention for my looks. So I 589 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 7: was always trying to outweigh the attention that came to 590 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 7: me naturally with like earned attention, you know. And then 591 00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 7: I decided, like when I got to school, I'm like, 592 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:10,439 Speaker 7: I'm going to be the funny one. 593 00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:11,840 Speaker 6: I'm going to say the funny thing. 594 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 7: And then it became I was just so outspoken that 595 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,439 Speaker 7: people would be laughing at it, whether it was funny 596 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,879 Speaker 7: or not, because I had such a personality on me 597 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:24,120 Speaker 7: at a young age, and I guess it veered into 598 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 7: comedy once I had to kind of hone it into 599 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,280 Speaker 7: something more than just being you know, obnomgo. 600 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 4: You remember your first time when you just were all 601 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:37,400 Speaker 4: of a sudden, just this light maybe literally figuratively, where 602 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 4: you were like, this is what I want to do. 603 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 4: Were you on stage? Was it in school and everyone's 604 00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 4: laughing and you did a formal routine or was there 605 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:47,480 Speaker 4: a moment where you said this is you know where 606 00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 4: you knew this would potentially be a pathway. 607 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, I actually got a DUI when I was twenty 608 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 7: one years old in California. 609 00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 4: Marshad's laughing for a reason. That's we'll talk about that 610 00:26:58,760 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 4: in a moment. 611 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:00,960 Speaker 6: Did you read and they get a DUI? 612 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 2: Not recently, it was a long time ago. 613 00:27:06,800 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 6: Okay, well copy that now. The good news is it 614 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,200 Speaker 6: was my first one and last one, so I learned 615 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 6: my lesson. But they send you to. 616 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:17,600 Speaker 7: DUI school when you get a DUI and you have 617 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,200 Speaker 7: to go to these classes Marshawn. 618 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 6: If you haven't been already, get ready and you have 619 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:23,000 Speaker 6: to go to. 620 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,160 Speaker 7: These classes where they basically tell you how to get 621 00:27:26,200 --> 00:27:29,639 Speaker 7: out of your next UI. They're like, never admit to 622 00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,280 Speaker 7: having more than or no when you get pulled over. 623 00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 6: This is how the class started. It was so ridiculous. 624 00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 6: They never admit to having anything to drink when you 625 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,000 Speaker 6: get pulled over by a police officer. 626 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,520 Speaker 7: The minute you admit it, then they drag you out 627 00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:43,720 Speaker 7: of the car and they can give you a field 628 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 7: sobriety chest. So basically every night of this class was 629 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,879 Speaker 7: the instructor giving us all the like the information so 630 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,639 Speaker 7: that he would, you know, to arm us with the 631 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 7: information so that he would never have to see us again. 632 00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 6: And then everyone had to get up and tell their 633 00:27:57,480 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 6: dui story. 634 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:01,400 Speaker 7: And I was, you know, the idea of public speaking 635 00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 7: made me shiver. I couldn't even imagine getting up in 636 00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 7: front of that class. 637 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 6: So week I would just kind of like Bob and 638 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,360 Speaker 6: weave to a different part. 639 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 7: Of the seating area so that he couldn't like spot me. 640 00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:15,159 Speaker 6: And I was like, I'll wur my way out of this. 641 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,439 Speaker 7: I'm going to get through this class without talking to 642 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:21,120 Speaker 7: this class and publicly speaking. And on the very last class, 643 00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:23,359 Speaker 7: like he had my number, He's like, where's Chelsea Handler? 644 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:23,720 Speaker 6: Did it A? 645 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 7: I was twenty two or twenty one, And I got 646 00:28:28,160 --> 00:28:30,960 Speaker 7: up and I told my dui story, which was ridiculous. 647 00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 7: I had driven past my house. I called the Kopp 648 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,639 Speaker 7: a racist. We were both white. I mean, it was 649 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:37,879 Speaker 7: just went on and on and on. I got stuck 650 00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 7: in sybil Brand Women's Prison because their computer system went down. 651 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 7: So even though my aunt and uncle had bailed me out, 652 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 7: I was still in there for three days. Because you 653 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 7: couldn't get out of the system until you were put 654 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 7: in the system. I mean in this room with like 655 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 7: five hundred women and they were trading salami sandwiches for tampons. 656 00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 6: And I was like, oh my god, what have I 657 00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 6: and my life is over? 658 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 7: And then finally I got out and and I went 659 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,120 Speaker 7: to that class, and I got up and I told 660 00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 7: my story. I told all of it and everyone was 661 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:14,000 Speaker 7: dying and they're laughing, and and finally, and I couldn't get. 662 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 6: Off the stage. I was so scared to publicly speak. 663 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 7: And then it turned into this like really fun vibe 664 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 7: and fun time and I was loving myself. And at 665 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 7: the end, the teacher came up and was like, okay, 666 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 7: this isn't a stand up comedy class, Like you need 667 00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 7: to get off the stage. 668 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 2: Now. 669 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 7: You're enjoying this a little too much. And all the 670 00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 7: people in the class, well not all of them, but 671 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 7: enough of them said you should be you should do 672 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 7: stand up like you have. 673 00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:41,760 Speaker 6: You are a great storyteller. 674 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 7: And I was like, oh, maybe I should do stand 675 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 7: up and so I did. 676 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,000 Speaker 6: I did it. Like the next week, I went to 677 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 6: the Laugh Factor. 678 00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 7: I waited in line the Laugh Factory on sunset boulevard 679 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 7: and I waited in line for like, no, no, I 680 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 7: got a note and I took it and and yeah. 681 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:01,960 Speaker 7: So it's like, you know, one of the worst decisions 682 00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 7: I ever made turned into one of the best decisions 683 00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:05,160 Speaker 7: I've ever made. 684 00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 1: And were you That sounds like Marshaun, That sounds like 685 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: my taking ambient before I went home driving and got 686 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: pulled over by twelve cops Chelsea. 687 00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 3: Uh. 688 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 1: And luckily I talked my way out of that. But 689 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 1: that was not very smart. That was my one almost 690 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,040 Speaker 1: duy moment where it could have been pretty bad. 691 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:22,440 Speaker 6: Did you talk your way out of so? 692 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 4: Super Bowl week is like, no, no, Doug got to 693 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,920 Speaker 4: answer the question, brother, She asked you a simple question. 694 00:30:28,960 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 4: How the hell did you talk your way out of that? 695 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 5: Did I call you gavi it? 696 00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: No? 697 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,080 Speaker 5: I didn't. I'm kidding. 698 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:40,040 Speaker 4: No, you did not call me. That doesn't work. Nice 699 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 4: try buddy. 700 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 5: No. 701 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: So this was the stupidest thing. So it's super Bowl week. 702 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 1: It's Monday. So super Bowl for seven days is debauchery. 703 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 1: It's twenty hours a. 704 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 5: Day, you're partying, you're out. It's crazy. It's not so Monday. 705 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:55,280 Speaker 1: When the super Bowl was in California, a couple year, 706 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 1: like sixty seven years ago. It's I decided, Okay, I'm 707 00:30:58,120 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 1: gonna take one night off at Chill. 708 00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,320 Speaker 5: I had to be up at six in the morning. 709 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 5: I'm going home around one in the morning. 710 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: So I take like a half an ambient on the 711 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,400 Speaker 1: way home, I'm like fifteen minutes from the city and 712 00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 1: I'm thinking, okay, I'm gonna take fifteen minute drive. 713 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,280 Speaker 5: I'm gonna ambazon kicking at thirty. 714 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home, have my frosted flakes or some cereal, 715 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,719 Speaker 1: go to bed, get five hours and call it at night. 716 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: So I get in the car and I'm going over 717 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: the bridge to my house in Marine, and all of 718 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,920 Speaker 1: a sudden, I'm like seeing UFOs coming at me. 719 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 5: I'm going, what the fuck is going on? 720 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,640 Speaker 1: And so I get through the Robin Williams Tunnel with 721 00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,400 Speaker 1: the tunnel connecting in Marine and next you know, I 722 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,880 Speaker 1: see lights behind me and I'm like going, dude, what 723 00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:37,200 Speaker 1: is up? 724 00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 5: What is going on? 725 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: So I got two hands in a wheel, I'm kind 726 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,720 Speaker 1: of navigating. So now I hear like sirens pull over 727 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,800 Speaker 1: the car, So I pull over. 728 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,600 Speaker 5: The next exit I get off. There's literally twelve cop 729 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:48,480 Speaker 5: cars that pull me over. 730 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 1: They surround, They don't know what's going on, and they say, 731 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:51,840 Speaker 1: what have you been drinking? 732 00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,720 Speaker 5: I said nothing, what you been smoking? Nothing? What you 733 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:55,120 Speaker 5: been doing? 734 00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 1: I said, look, I took like a quarter ambion. I'm 735 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: heading home. And they said, well, do you realize you're 736 00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,920 Speaker 1: going ten miles an hour in the freeway going laying 737 00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: the lane the lane, And they all surrounded my car. 738 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 1: Didn't know what's going on, and so truthfully, I don't 739 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 1: know how I talk my way out of it, but 740 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,760 Speaker 1: they end up driving me home, left my car there 741 00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 1: and I got off, thank god. But it was it 742 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 1: was a pretty funny story, but it could have ended 743 00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 1: pretty badly, but thank god I got out of it. 744 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 7: No ambient and like and Xanax and any of those 745 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 7: sleeping pills that you want to take. 746 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 6: The rule of thumb is you have to be where 747 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 6: you're going. 748 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 7: Like when you take a Xanax before a plane takes 749 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 7: off and then fall asleep and wake up and realize 750 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,240 Speaker 7: that you've been on the runway for four hours and 751 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 7: the plane has never taken off. 752 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,320 Speaker 6: That's a mistake. You have to until you. 753 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 7: Are in where you are going, Like you have to 754 00:32:41,160 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 7: wait until you are mid air and then you are 755 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 7: free to take your xanax or your sleeping pill. Same 756 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 7: with driving, you have to wait until you get to 757 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:48,040 Speaker 7: your destination. 758 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 2: You sound like you got the blueprint for day. 759 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I've done this before, obviously. I once had 760 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 7: a friend who woke up, went out. She said she 761 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 7: had taken an ambient. Is the worst, by the way, 762 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 7: and I'm a pharmacologist in my opinion, but my friend 763 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 7: once took an ambi and she said she woke up, 764 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,200 Speaker 7: went to her car. I found an empty pot of 765 00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:11,400 Speaker 7: spaghetti in the passenger seat. Like, so she had made spaghetti. 766 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 7: She has no idea how she went driving, and she 767 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 7: has no idea who ate the spaghetti. I was like, 768 00:33:17,640 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 7: it's pretty impressive that you could make spaghetti under that 769 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:20,960 Speaker 7: kind of influence. 770 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 2: But I know. 771 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 3: He probably was sleep walking the whole time you were 772 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 3: talking Tilly Dale to five. 773 00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 7: Oh, it's impressive you got out of it. I mean 774 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 7: sometimes cops are cool like that and understand that. It's like, 775 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 7: you know, you're not a problem, you just made a 776 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:39,000 Speaker 7: stupid mistake. 777 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 5: Well, Chelsea's speaking of food. One night, I was I 778 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 5: think Marshaun was with me. 779 00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: We were getting high with Snoop and I got back 780 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,719 Speaker 1: to my hotel and I was so high. I literally 781 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 1: was walking up and down the hallways and eating like 782 00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 1: waffles off the plates of other people's room service cards 783 00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:07,880 Speaker 1: because I didn't. 784 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,239 Speaker 5: Know where I was, what was going on. I think 785 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:12,440 Speaker 5: it lasts like three days. 786 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 7: You'd come to, like the offices of any talk show 787 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,719 Speaker 7: that I ever hosted, the smell of marijuana did not 788 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 7: leave the building. 789 00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 6: For the next two and a half weeks. I have 790 00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 6: the best weed. 791 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 2: That's a pretty good experience. 792 00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:30,319 Speaker 7: Then, yeah, always I love marijuana, so there's nothing that's 793 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 7: going to knock me down. I feel like if I 794 00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 7: don't have something in my system, if I'm dead sober, 795 00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 7: it's almost like I have too much of an advantage, 796 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,120 Speaker 7: do you know what I mean? I have to have 797 00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:42,439 Speaker 7: a little something to subdue my personality. 798 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:45,160 Speaker 1: Well, Chelsea, we're just talking about that before you got 799 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,800 Speaker 1: on about all these people now, like all these billionaire 800 00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 1: guys talking to all this self help stuff and like 801 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,080 Speaker 1: taking IDs, zone and peptides and all this stuff, and 802 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:55,640 Speaker 1: they said, what do you do? 803 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:57,720 Speaker 5: I said, truthfully, I don't do anything. 804 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:01,040 Speaker 1: I've I don't I smoked some weed, I drink I 805 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 1: don't sleep, I don't take vitamins. I do work out occasionally, 806 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,799 Speaker 1: so I don't know. Maybe I got something wrong with me. 807 00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, but like all these guys seem to 808 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:10,239 Speaker 1: have the keys the kingdom here. 809 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,439 Speaker 5: But maybe I'm gonna live longer. 810 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 4: I tell you you on any routine and all that stuff, 811 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,640 Speaker 4: are you like big into peptides? I do. 812 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,439 Speaker 7: I take a lot of stuff. I take a lot 813 00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:21,600 Speaker 7: of anti aging stuff I take. I mean, I'm microdose 814 00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 7: what anything anybody has in Canada? Everything is legal. So 815 00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 7: they have great microdose mushrooms. They have great LSD. Like 816 00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:30,560 Speaker 7: I ski on LSD. 817 00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 6: You take a tiny hit and you're just. 818 00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:33,080 Speaker 2: Old, hold on what you mean? 819 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 7: You skials LSD and then I've run out the door 820 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,840 Speaker 7: and go ski like that heightens the whole day. You 821 00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 7: appreciate nature, You look at the trees more. And same 822 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,919 Speaker 7: with mushrooms. They have MDMA here. 823 00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 6: That's legal. 824 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,280 Speaker 7: Everything's legal in Canada, so everybody should think about heading north. 825 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 2: You can get highs. 826 00:35:56,400 --> 00:35:57,399 Speaker 6: I don't get high as fuck. 827 00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 7: No no, no, she answers of other ski So I'm 828 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 7: not irresponsible, but I like to enhance my experience. 829 00:36:04,280 --> 00:36:06,239 Speaker 6: I'm a very also very good. 830 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 7: Skier, So I know what I'm doing, so I try 831 00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 7: and you know, stay with my group and do my thing. 832 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:15,400 Speaker 7: But yeah, I love all of that stuff. I like microdosing, 833 00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:17,680 Speaker 7: I like macro dosing. I like anything. 834 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 5: What about dyah washing. 835 00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 7: I've done, That's that's what That's a special on Netflix too. 836 00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 6: Chelsea does drugs. 837 00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 7: But I have to say, you know, I talk so 838 00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 7: openly about drugs and drug use because I think there 839 00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:39,839 Speaker 7: are ways to use drugs in very responsible ways. I mean, 840 00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 7: like we just discussed. This is my seventh book. I'm 841 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,560 Speaker 7: about to release my fifth stand up special. You know, 842 00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 7: like I'm a productive human being. I'm like, I'm contributing 843 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 7: to society. You don't have to be a derelic because 844 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,960 Speaker 7: you like drugs. You can't become a drug addict, but 845 00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 7: you can definitely have fun with drugs and alcohol and 846 00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 7: still remain very responsible. 847 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:02,520 Speaker 4: Did you ever all these years have you did you 848 00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 4: ever have any problems? Did you ever feel like you 849 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:06,880 Speaker 4: were crossing that line where you were it was a 850 00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 4: little too much? Was it affecting your work? Did you 851 00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 4: ever have a moment We're like damn, yeah, in. 852 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:14,560 Speaker 7: Moments where I'm like, oh, I get better dial it in, 853 00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:16,720 Speaker 7: you know, like I'm getting a little too loosey goosey, 854 00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:18,560 Speaker 7: or I'm having too much fun, or I was partying 855 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 7: a little bit too much, you know, And that's when 856 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,240 Speaker 7: you when you're really tired and you're working really hard, 857 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 7: and then you add partying on top of it. 858 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,760 Speaker 6: That's not a great combination for me anyway. 859 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,840 Speaker 7: So I've always had to kind of, you know, like 860 00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,480 Speaker 7: take those moments in and understand, Hey, I don't want 861 00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 7: to ever have to give anything. 862 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 6: Up, So I'd rather get control of. 863 00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:41,040 Speaker 7: The situation now and be a little bit more tempered 864 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:45,080 Speaker 7: with my use. But yeah, as it stands now, everything's 865 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:46,000 Speaker 7: going swimmingly. 866 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,399 Speaker 1: Hey, Chelsea, take me through your mental health stuff. Because 867 00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:51,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know, but Marshaun famously in 868 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,480 Speaker 1: his last press conference in his last game said take 869 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 1: care of your mentals, take care of your chicken, and 870 00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:59,399 Speaker 1: that became kind of a huge thing in sports today 871 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: in terms of that. You've been big on mental health too, 872 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,399 Speaker 1: in regards your podcast and everything else. Take me through 873 00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,040 Speaker 1: your mental health Either did you have struggles with it 874 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:10,120 Speaker 1: or you just like giving out advice and help people out. 875 00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:14,040 Speaker 6: No, I haven't had any like mental health struggles. 876 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 7: I went to therapy in a big way when I 877 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:20,680 Speaker 7: was forty because it was right after the twenty sixteen 878 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,919 Speaker 7: election and I couldn't believe it, and I. 879 00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 6: Just I was I had a Netflix. 880 00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:29,399 Speaker 7: Show, I was doing a talk show, my second one, 881 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:33,319 Speaker 7: and I was just not feeling right, you know, And 882 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 7: so I went to therapy for the first time in 883 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:37,080 Speaker 7: a long time. Like I had so much anger that 884 00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,040 Speaker 7: it wasn't it wasn't normal. It was like it was 885 00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,080 Speaker 7: something else. It wasn't I couldn't just be met at 886 00:38:42,080 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 7: Donald Trump and his veneered family, you know, like I 887 00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:48,000 Speaker 7: had there was a bigger issue that I had to unpack. 888 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 7: And my brother died when I was nine years old, 889 00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,680 Speaker 7: and I had never really kind of spoken about that 890 00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:53,760 Speaker 7: to anyone. 891 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,359 Speaker 6: So that's what that was. 892 00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:57,600 Speaker 7: And you know, when you don't deal with something when 893 00:38:57,640 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 7: it happens, it's delayed grief, and it builds up up 894 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,680 Speaker 7: and builds up and builds up, and then it hits. 895 00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 7: Whatever your trauma is will come and find you when 896 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,439 Speaker 7: it's you know, when it stops working for you. Because 897 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,840 Speaker 7: in many ways, my trauma was working for me because 898 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:13,799 Speaker 7: I was so outspoken and I was so kind of like, 899 00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,240 Speaker 7: you know, determined, and I didn't have time for feelings 900 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:19,400 Speaker 7: because I was just on a path of success and 901 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 7: I wanted to succeed and I loved what I was doing. 902 00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 7: And then it started to not work for me, and 903 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 7: I started to get really angry, and you know, and 904 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,000 Speaker 7: unpacking that was kind of how my podcast, which is 905 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,920 Speaker 7: called Dear Chelsea, where real people call in for advice, 906 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,719 Speaker 7: because a I just think that's the best way to 907 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 7: get advice is to get someone's opinion who's not involved 908 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 7: in your family, your relationship, or any of the stuff 909 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,600 Speaker 7: that you're upset about. You need an objective point of view. 910 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,840 Speaker 7: And I'm a truth teller, so I always want the 911 00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 7: best for everyone, and I want to tell people the truth, 912 00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,040 Speaker 7: even if it's hard to hear. You know, a lot 913 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:54,560 Speaker 7: of people aren't that interested in hearing the truth. 914 00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:56,920 Speaker 6: But my podcast was born out of that. 915 00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:59,880 Speaker 7: I just had such a great experience going to their 916 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 7: therapy and learning about self awareness, learning about how I'm perceived, 917 00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,680 Speaker 7: and learning what my triggers are and my shortcomings and 918 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,520 Speaker 7: kind of readjusting my. 919 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:13,600 Speaker 6: Personality, you know what, I mean to be a lot 920 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,480 Speaker 6: more loving. 921 00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 7: And kind and sensitive to other people rather than just 922 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,000 Speaker 7: like bull dozing my. 923 00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:22,479 Speaker 6: Way and being like this is who I am. 924 00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,279 Speaker 7: It was like, no, actually, why don't you listen and 925 00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:27,520 Speaker 7: talk and find out what everyone else is like? 926 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:28,839 Speaker 6: It's not all about you. 927 00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:32,080 Speaker 7: You don't have the responsibility that you have to entertain 928 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 7: everyone all the time. 929 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:34,799 Speaker 6: And then when I. 930 00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 7: Got out of therapy, I was like, Okay, this is great. 931 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,799 Speaker 7: I have all of this information and knowledge and I 932 00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 7: wanted to share it with everybody. 933 00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:43,480 Speaker 6: So I was like, what's the best way to do that. 934 00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:45,879 Speaker 7: I was like, oh, I'll do an advice podcast, because 935 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:47,319 Speaker 7: they kept asking me to do a podcast and I 936 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:47,839 Speaker 7: was like, I don't. 937 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 6: I have nothing new to say. 938 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 7: And then I was like, oh, this is new, Like 939 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:52,960 Speaker 7: I'll do I'll talk to real life people who will 940 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,479 Speaker 7: call in like a dear Abby. So that's been really 941 00:40:55,480 --> 00:40:57,880 Speaker 7: fun and it's been a huge success, so I'm psyched 942 00:40:57,920 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 7: about that. 943 00:40:58,360 --> 00:40:59,959 Speaker 6: It's like, I think we're in our fifth season. 944 00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 4: And Chelsea, did you I mean you when you say 945 00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:07,439 Speaker 4: you stop therapy, literally there's no refreshers. You don't check 946 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 4: back in every couple of months, I mean you. I 947 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,880 Speaker 4: mean you literally you sought something, you found it, and 948 00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 4: now you're good. 949 00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 6: No, I do have refreshers, like when I'm here in Whistler. 950 00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:21,400 Speaker 7: I just talked to my therapist yesterday. When I have downtime, 951 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,920 Speaker 7: I take advantage of it and I find therapy like 952 00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:26,879 Speaker 7: I just never wanted to be one of those people 953 00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,879 Speaker 7: who was in therapy interminably, you know, like if you're 954 00:41:29,880 --> 00:41:32,759 Speaker 7: going to therapy for sixteen years, I'm sorry, but I 955 00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 7: don't think that's working. Like you, you should be able 956 00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,800 Speaker 7: to go for the big problems and the big issues, 957 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:39,919 Speaker 7: and then you should be able to go incrementally when 958 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:41,960 Speaker 7: something pops up and you're having a hard time with it. 959 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,360 Speaker 6: In my personal view, that's how I feel. 960 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 7: But I think the funny thing, and Marshaun tell me 961 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,279 Speaker 7: if you guys agree with this too, is like you 962 00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,200 Speaker 7: go to therapy, and I went pretty heavily for like 963 00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 7: two years, and I learned all this stuff right, And 964 00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:00,480 Speaker 7: you have. 965 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 6: To like take all that information and like absorb it 966 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 6: right like you're learning. You're learning. 967 00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,640 Speaker 7: It's like going to school, and then there's summer break, 968 00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 7: and the summer break is the time where you kind 969 00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,440 Speaker 7: of observe everything you learned in third grade. You're like, oh, okay, 970 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:15,400 Speaker 7: I know all this information, and now it kind of 971 00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:18,280 Speaker 7: lives with you. But then the third step of therapy 972 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,000 Speaker 7: is you have to apply all of the stuff you 973 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:25,640 Speaker 7: learned into your life while while keeping the good parts 974 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:29,080 Speaker 7: of your personality the same. So it's quite an adjustment 975 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:31,760 Speaker 7: to make because initially when I came in a therapy, 976 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,719 Speaker 7: I just was all of a sudden, very quiet. I 977 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,520 Speaker 7: go to dinner parties and people are like, why aren't 978 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 7: you fucking talking? And I'd be like, oh, I've just 979 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 7: you know, my therapist told me that I don't have 980 00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,680 Speaker 7: to be the you know, center of the of the party, 981 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:45,280 Speaker 7: and I don't have my responsibility to entertain everyone. And 982 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,960 Speaker 7: my friends would be like, you're fucking boring, Like where's 983 00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:49,680 Speaker 7: the old Chelsea? 984 00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,680 Speaker 6: We want her back? And I'm like, no, no, no, no, 985 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:54,640 Speaker 6: she's gone. I'm like, there's a new version of it. 986 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 6: I don't know where. 987 00:42:57,400 --> 00:43:00,319 Speaker 7: And I kept auditioning like newer versions of my self 988 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:03,560 Speaker 7: to see what clicked, and then finally it all does click. 989 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 6: But it's quite an arduous process. 990 00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,160 Speaker 4: I love that Mark Shaun, you have any I mean, 991 00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:11,480 Speaker 4: you know you've been out there preaching, but are you practicing? Brother? 992 00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:12,319 Speaker 2: Oh man. 993 00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 3: It's just it's just went like with the with the 994 00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:17,000 Speaker 3: new information that you get, now, you just got to 995 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 3: be held accountable to it. And I mean, you know, 996 00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,520 Speaker 3: I think, you know, just giving you an example of it, 997 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,360 Speaker 3: like you know, you got all this information and then 998 00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:26,759 Speaker 3: you actually applied it. 999 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 2: And I believe that that's how. 1000 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:31,400 Speaker 3: I mean you got to the point that that you 1001 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 3: got to where you say, yeah, work, then you found 1002 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:34,800 Speaker 3: the best version of yourself. 1003 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:37,000 Speaker 2: So I do believe it worked. 1004 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 3: But I mean, you know, and in terms of the 1005 00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 3: mental health, uh situation, just like I was having a 1006 00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 3: lot of teammates who I mean we uh, you know, 1007 00:43:48,040 --> 00:43:49,239 Speaker 3: like we want to the. 1008 00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:51,480 Speaker 2: Super Bowl together, and I mean they got. 1009 00:43:51,400 --> 00:43:54,279 Speaker 3: To a dark place and some of the things that 1010 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,000 Speaker 3: they were saying to me, you know it kind of 1011 00:43:56,520 --> 00:43:58,880 Speaker 3: it kind of fucked me up a little bit. And uh, 1012 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,000 Speaker 3: just just just reminding them, like, you know, things to 1013 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:08,400 Speaker 3: be thankful for. And yeah, I mean in reality, what 1014 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,839 Speaker 3: it did for them was I mean, it brought them 1015 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 3: out of a dark place and that was able to 1016 00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,080 Speaker 3: re emerriage am out of you know what I mean. 1017 00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:18,160 Speaker 2: That dark cloud that there was under. So I mean 1018 00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:20,160 Speaker 2: I do agree with that. 1019 00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,719 Speaker 3: But it's always like that with new information, now you 1020 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:25,520 Speaker 3: got to be accountable to it, and then you got 1021 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 3: to learn how to i mean process and filter through 1022 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:30,480 Speaker 3: it to make it i mean the best version for yourself. 1023 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, And like the gratitude piece of it is so important, right, 1024 00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 7: And it sounds corny in the beginning. Wh if you 1025 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 7: hear it and you're not practicing gratitude or you don't 1026 00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:42,200 Speaker 7: have a gratitude journal or whatever you know people do. 1027 00:44:42,840 --> 00:44:44,440 Speaker 6: I'm one of the people who do it. 1028 00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,880 Speaker 7: Like, if I'm especially in a dark mood or a 1029 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 7: dark period of time or a stressful period of time, 1030 00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:50,920 Speaker 7: that is the first thing I do when I wake 1031 00:44:51,000 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 7: up is write down fifteen things I'm grateful for, because like, 1032 00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:57,200 Speaker 7: in order to be happy, you have to be you 1033 00:44:57,320 --> 00:44:59,400 Speaker 7: have to have gratitude and you have to be grateful. 1034 00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,240 Speaker 6: Like those two things are linked together. 1035 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,719 Speaker 7: And it's so easy to focus on the negative things 1036 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,640 Speaker 7: that are happening. It's so easy to get wrapped up 1037 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,799 Speaker 7: in the news and focus on that and think the 1038 00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,160 Speaker 7: world's coming to an end. But it's so much more 1039 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,279 Speaker 7: rewarding to actually look at all of the things in 1040 00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,480 Speaker 7: your life that are going well, look at all the 1041 00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:18,759 Speaker 7: people that you love, look at all the impact that 1042 00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 7: you've had, and want to keep that fire burning, you know, 1043 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 7: and choose light instead of dark, especially like you know, 1044 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:29,960 Speaker 7: finding optimism in the dark. 1045 00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 1: Well, Chelsea, I'm curious in terms of your call in 1046 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,520 Speaker 1: how many of them are younger people, teenagers and whatnot, 1047 00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,279 Speaker 1: because they're dealing with all the you know, all the 1048 00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:51,800 Speaker 1: social media stuff and they're you know, they see stuff, 1049 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,480 Speaker 1: they all think life's great and all these stuff, and 1050 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,000 Speaker 1: that fucks a lot of these kids up these days, 1051 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:58,960 Speaker 1: you know, in terms of what they're looking at and 1052 00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,880 Speaker 1: like oh, this is great and everyone's going to beach. 1053 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:02,719 Speaker 5: Somewhere and you know, in a yacht and it's like, 1054 00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,799 Speaker 5: come on, dude, scheme you. 1055 00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:05,120 Speaker 2: Know what I mean. 1056 00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,839 Speaker 7: Yes, exactly, Sorry, guys, I just had to disrobe. It's 1057 00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:09,600 Speaker 7: very hot in here. My fire is burning, so my 1058 00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:10,880 Speaker 7: cheeks are getting very rosy. 1059 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,399 Speaker 5: Keep it coming, Chelsea, keep it coming. 1060 00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:13,600 Speaker 6: I'm coming on to Marshall. 1061 00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 7: And actually, yeah, no, we don't get a lot of teenagers, 1062 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:18,600 Speaker 7: but we get a lot of young people. 1063 00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,879 Speaker 6: We get a lot of young people, you know. 1064 00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:25,279 Speaker 7: Young adults and who are really dealing with you know, 1065 00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:29,440 Speaker 7: being trans or being gay and their family's reaction to 1066 00:46:29,560 --> 00:46:32,400 Speaker 7: coming out. You know, a lot of the LGBTQ community 1067 00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 7: and a lot of eating disorders, a lot of young 1068 00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:41,839 Speaker 7: girls who are really insecure and need a boost of 1069 00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 7: confidence and need like an injection of confidence. 1070 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,799 Speaker 6: And you know, my audience is primarily women and. 1071 00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:51,799 Speaker 7: Gay men, so I try to really inject confidence into 1072 00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:53,320 Speaker 7: every young person that I can. 1073 00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 4: Have you found, Chelsea over the last I mean what 1074 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,640 Speaker 4: you started this podcast? What in twenty twenty one? 1075 00:46:58,800 --> 00:46:59,840 Speaker 2: Right? Yes? 1076 00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:02,719 Speaker 4: So has there been Have you seen a trend over 1077 00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,439 Speaker 4: the last number of years in terms of that subject matter? 1078 00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:09,160 Speaker 4: Have you seen things sort of shift with the I mean, 1079 00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 4: because the last these are a hell of a few 1080 00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:14,400 Speaker 4: years to have a podcast, right, with all the social 1081 00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 4: unrest and COVID and all the anxieties, and you mentioned 1082 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:20,520 Speaker 4: all the elections new elections. I mean, has there been 1083 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,600 Speaker 4: Are you finding sort of similar themes over the course 1084 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:24,399 Speaker 4: last five years? 1085 00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:29,520 Speaker 7: Limtly themes, but like a lot of political discontent within families, like. 1086 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:31,400 Speaker 6: A lot of people who don't know how to deal. 1087 00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:34,319 Speaker 7: With their families, you know, who are on the opposite 1088 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 7: side of things, And that's a big, big theme, Like 1089 00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 7: you know, how do I have how do I celebrate 1090 00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,880 Speaker 7: Christmas with my parents when they voted for Donald Trump 1091 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 7: and I'm a lesbian. Stuff like that is pretty prevalent. 1092 00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:51,080 Speaker 7: But yeah, I mean it has been a crazy you. 1093 00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 6: Know, that's what's amazing. 1094 00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 7: Like I remember thinking the world was over when Trump 1095 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,720 Speaker 7: was elected in twenty sixteen, and here we are now 1096 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,439 Speaker 7: again and it's happening again, and it's like, I don't 1097 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,680 Speaker 7: feel the same way I felt, like, yes, I hate this, 1098 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,760 Speaker 7: it totally sucks. But I don't think the world is over. 1099 00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,439 Speaker 7: I think the world is too big to be over 1100 00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:14,000 Speaker 7: anytime soon. I think there's too many things that. 1101 00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:14,920 Speaker 6: Are working well. 1102 00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 7: You know, while there are things that aren't going well, 1103 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,839 Speaker 7: there are many things that are and it's our job 1104 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 7: to highlight those things and really stay focused and positive 1105 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,799 Speaker 7: for the people that can't really bring themselves to do that. 1106 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,319 Speaker 4: You know, I love it. I mean, it's the only 1107 00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 4: attitude to have right now. And it's the resilient mindset. 1108 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,759 Speaker 4: By the way, speaking of mindset just generally and sort 1109 00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:39,640 Speaker 4: of end of a year, turning the page forget elections. 1110 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,400 Speaker 4: But at the end of the year, beginning of a 1111 00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 4: new year, are you a new Year's resolution person? 1112 00:48:44,440 --> 00:48:44,800 Speaker 2: Do you? 1113 00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,840 Speaker 4: I mean you talk about morning journals on gratitude. Do 1114 00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:49,960 Speaker 4: you lay out or have you done that over your career? 1115 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 4: Set specific goals. Are you one of those goal oriented people? 1116 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,480 Speaker 4: What do you tend to do in terms of just 1117 00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:58,640 Speaker 4: setting out as a plan for your own life. 1118 00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,319 Speaker 6: I don't really give a shit about New Year's resolutions. 1119 00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,200 Speaker 7: I mean, I just find all of that to be 1120 00:49:03,280 --> 00:49:05,920 Speaker 7: so silly, Like, if that works for you, do it. 1121 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,719 Speaker 7: But for me, it's not like one day I'm going 1122 00:49:08,760 --> 00:49:09,800 Speaker 7: to become a different person. 1123 00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:10,600 Speaker 6: Every day. 1124 00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:17,239 Speaker 7: It is intentionally meant for me to act and in 1125 00:49:17,280 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 7: my best interest, in everyone's best interest, you know, to 1126 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:22,040 Speaker 7: be a good person, to be loving, to be generous, 1127 00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:26,359 Speaker 7: to be kind, to really see people you know, and 1128 00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:29,000 Speaker 7: because there's so many people who feel unseen, and I 1129 00:49:29,080 --> 00:49:31,960 Speaker 7: find that to be the most heartbreaking thing about our society. 1130 00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,840 Speaker 6: So many kids and so many young adults. 1131 00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,280 Speaker 7: That just they feel invisible, they don't feel like anyone's 1132 00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 7: out for them. So I like to focus my energy 1133 00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,920 Speaker 7: on that and a lot of other people. But I 1134 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 7: find that, you know, things work differently for different people, obviously, 1135 00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,000 Speaker 7: like New Year's resolutions. Know, like I wouldn't even know 1136 00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:55,200 Speaker 7: what my New Year's resolution would be, but I don't 1137 00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,120 Speaker 7: feel the need to even have one you know what 1138 00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:59,239 Speaker 7: I mean, because I'm always getting better. I'm going to 1139 00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:03,279 Speaker 7: be fifty this year, like my level of joyfulness is 1140 00:50:03,360 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 7: here when it. 1141 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:04,879 Speaker 6: Used to be here. 1142 00:50:05,239 --> 00:50:08,320 Speaker 5: Where's the party, Chelsea? Are we invited at her book party? 1143 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:09,560 Speaker 4: I'll have what she's having. 1144 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 6: It's going to be in Spain. It's going to be 1145 00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:12,080 Speaker 6: in New York. 1146 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:15,080 Speaker 7: This book comes out on my fiftieth birthday, so I'll 1147 00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 7: be having a book party. 1148 00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:17,839 Speaker 6: In New York. There will be one in La. I'm 1149 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:19,839 Speaker 6: going to go for it, and this whole year, I'm 1150 00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:22,319 Speaker 6: just going to crush it because I'm people to know 1151 00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:25,120 Speaker 6: how joyful iterations and. 1152 00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,719 Speaker 7: To be crushing it in this way, you know, like 1153 00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 7: I feel and look better than I have in my 1154 00:50:31,480 --> 00:50:34,600 Speaker 7: entire life. So I want to reclaim that number because 1155 00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:36,640 Speaker 7: obviously it doesn't mean what it used to when my 1156 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 7: parents were fifty. 1157 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:38,799 Speaker 6: They could have wrapped it up. You know. 1158 00:50:39,400 --> 00:50:42,239 Speaker 7: I'm getting started in my second act, so I'm pretty 1159 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:43,200 Speaker 7: pumped up about it. 1160 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,080 Speaker 5: Did you imagine I love that Chelsea was. 1161 00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 2: Your ten year old self. 1162 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,680 Speaker 4: Did your ten year old self ever see you where 1163 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:52,440 Speaker 4: you are at fifty? I mean at forty? I imagine 1164 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,279 Speaker 4: you didn't see where you were at fifty when you were. 1165 00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:56,880 Speaker 7: Struggling, my ten year old self would be really psyched. 1166 00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 7: In the book, I write a letter to myself as 1167 00:50:59,120 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 7: a young girl, saying, like what I dream that I 1168 00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,840 Speaker 7: would become as a woman Like that I would be bold, 1169 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:08,120 Speaker 7: that I would be confident, that I would travel the world, 1170 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:11,120 Speaker 7: that I would never get married, that I'd have tons of. 1171 00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 6: Lovers all over the world. All of those things are true. 1172 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:18,000 Speaker 7: Like I have lived this life that has exceeded any 1173 00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:19,280 Speaker 7: of my expectations. 1174 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,560 Speaker 6: I have so much fun. I get to come up 1175 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:23,920 Speaker 6: to my house and whistler for four months during winter. 1176 00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,360 Speaker 6: I bought a house in Spain. I learned Spanish. I 1177 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:28,880 Speaker 6: learned how to ski like a pro. 1178 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,920 Speaker 7: Like anything I've set my mind to, I've accomplished, and 1179 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:37,319 Speaker 7: I want everyone to know, like things get better when 1180 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 7: you start caring less about everything else. Right, Everyone says, oh, fifty, 1181 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:43,920 Speaker 7: you feel so much more confident, blah blah blah. But 1182 00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:47,560 Speaker 7: it's more than that. It's like, I don't date losers anymore. 1183 00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:50,640 Speaker 7: I don't have time for any of that. I only 1184 00:51:50,719 --> 00:51:52,880 Speaker 7: date men who are going to enhance my life and 1185 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,239 Speaker 7: be an additive. I only do things that are going 1186 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:58,520 Speaker 7: to bring me joy and create joy for others like 1187 00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,319 Speaker 7: you become selfish, but in the best way, because when 1188 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 7: you're having a good time, especially someone who's on stage 1189 00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 7: performing in front of people all the time, if I'm 1190 00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,799 Speaker 7: in a good mood, then it's so much easier to 1191 00:52:10,880 --> 00:52:12,080 Speaker 7: spread that joyfulness. 1192 00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:12,279 Speaker 6: You know. 1193 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,640 Speaker 5: I freaking love you. You are a mar Sean. 1194 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,840 Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, we got to take a 1195 00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:19,800 Speaker 1: little boondog out of Spain, Marshan. 1196 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,319 Speaker 5: I mean, Chelsea, I. 1197 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:23,000 Speaker 4: Thought it was you're going up to Canada and now 1198 00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:23,880 Speaker 4: you're off to Spain. 1199 00:52:24,239 --> 00:52:26,160 Speaker 5: Well, my wife's from Canada. 1200 00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,560 Speaker 6: The LSD is legal in Spain as well. 1201 00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:34,240 Speaker 4: Just let you guys, unbelievable, d U I s LSD. 1202 00:52:34,960 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 4: You know the hell? Is this a bit? 1203 00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:38,760 Speaker 5: Chelsea? I want to ask you a question, Chelsea. 1204 00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 1: I am a father of two rockstar girl athletes and 1205 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,800 Speaker 1: a son too. But I got two great volleyball players. 1206 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,680 Speaker 1: I got one plane in college and I got another 1207 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,360 Speaker 1: one in high school. That's a great beach and indoor player. 1208 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:53,400 Speaker 1: So you got you love women's sports. His big advocate. 1209 00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:55,800 Speaker 1: Don't you own a volleyball league or an investor? 1210 00:52:56,080 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 2: I own one? 1211 00:52:57,000 --> 00:53:00,359 Speaker 7: Yeah, No, I'm an investor. I invested in love volley ball. 1212 00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,120 Speaker 7: That's going to be huge though, So I'm psyched. You 1213 00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 7: said your daughter plays volleyball. 1214 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:06,919 Speaker 1: One of my well, my oldest daughter plays at cal 1215 00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,240 Speaker 1: Poly indoor, and then I got my freshman who's a 1216 00:53:10,280 --> 00:53:12,520 Speaker 1: badass beach and indoor player as well. So I'm a 1217 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:15,959 Speaker 1: volleyball dad through and in fact more uncle more Shaan 1218 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:17,160 Speaker 1: has been in many of the games. 1219 00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:23,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, cute, most definitely definite and support. 1220 00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:27,320 Speaker 7: I mean it is growing so fast, female volleying, women's 1221 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,399 Speaker 7: volleyball is the fastest growing sport right now. 1222 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 1: Oh it's a it's a it's a funny sport. They 1223 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,040 Speaker 1: are athletes. It's credible athleticism by the way it is. 1224 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 1: In fact, beach volleyball is the fastest growing college sport, 1225 00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 1: and indoor volleyballs you know from obviously college level and 1226 00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 1: pro level is taken off like nuts. And it's fun, dude, 1227 00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 1: It's a fun sport, man. 1228 00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:47,520 Speaker 5: I love it. 1229 00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:50,920 Speaker 4: Well, it's fun to see the girls, especially girls volleyball 1230 00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:54,440 Speaker 4: just well guys, but the energy in the camaraderie just 1231 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:56,840 Speaker 4: you know, even if you miss a shot, everybody is 1232 00:53:56,880 --> 00:53:59,640 Speaker 4: like all huddled up, and you know, my kids are 1233 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,319 Speaker 4: just getting into a Doug's by the way, Doug Doug, 1234 00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:04,960 Speaker 4: you may be he's short selling that you've got. He's 1235 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 4: got potentially two Olympic athletes. It's ridiculous. He's his own agent. 1236 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:14,239 Speaker 4: He's already got an NF nil deal. Crazy is that 1237 00:54:14,360 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 4: men's volleyball? 1238 00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:16,440 Speaker 6: I don't think I've ever seen that. 1239 00:54:16,840 --> 00:54:18,359 Speaker 4: It's a good point. It's a good point. 1240 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 5: No, No, there is there no men's Olympic volleyball. 1241 00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,520 Speaker 1: And obviously high school in LA is very big for men, 1242 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:26,399 Speaker 1: and then college is like twenty schools that are really 1243 00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,239 Speaker 1: good and like Long Beach State, UCLA, Ohio State or 1244 00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:32,880 Speaker 1: Epic and obviously the Olympics, and then Beach volleyball the 1245 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:34,200 Speaker 1: guys are good too. 1246 00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:35,960 Speaker 5: So it's it's fun, it's a great sport. 1247 00:54:36,000 --> 00:54:39,600 Speaker 4: I love it so by the way, so speaking of Epic, 1248 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:42,080 Speaker 4: just because I got it, sort of build on this, Chelsea. 1249 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:46,120 Speaker 4: I mean, I love New Year's Resolutions aside, but it's 1250 00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:49,680 Speaker 4: it's not patronizing to say, because you kind of implied 1251 00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:53,719 Speaker 4: it yourself. How you feel is your rolling into fifty 1252 00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:58,040 Speaker 4: years old and feeling like you've you've accomplished so much 1253 00:54:58,840 --> 00:55:01,680 Speaker 4: and you've had per and meeting I think behind it 1254 00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,920 Speaker 4: because you consistently and I think that's one of the 1255 00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,840 Speaker 4: things that I really identify with you. You don't just entertain, 1256 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,720 Speaker 4: You're not just funny, but you educate. And there's always 1257 00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,680 Speaker 4: been sort of a sober relationship to guests you've had 1258 00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:16,960 Speaker 4: on all your shows and your documentaries talking about substance 1259 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,720 Speaker 4: of issues and meaningful issues. Obviously a podcast that lends 1260 00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:24,080 Speaker 4: so much to so many, but it's you know, are 1261 00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,640 Speaker 4: the things left and the agenda? I mean, do you 1262 00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,520 Speaker 4: have a goal that you haven't achieved? Do you have 1263 00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:33,280 Speaker 4: a mindset around goal setting? Is there another Netflix series 1264 00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:36,880 Speaker 4: that you that's on the horizon that you've always wanted? 1265 00:55:37,160 --> 00:55:39,279 Speaker 4: Are the things you feel like? You know you're not 1266 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,279 Speaker 4: there yet, but you know one day you're going to 1267 00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,319 Speaker 4: get you know, Mission Impossible six A co star. I mean, 1268 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:48,040 Speaker 4: what what what what's out there that you haven't attained 1269 00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:49,880 Speaker 4: or what are you looking forward to most in the 1270 00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:50,920 Speaker 4: next decade. 1271 00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:54,319 Speaker 7: I mean, I'm mostly I don't have plans. I don't 1272 00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:56,920 Speaker 7: make like five year plans. I don't think like you know, 1273 00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,759 Speaker 7: I don't like being told what to do by a 1274 00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,160 Speaker 7: lot of people. So that's why I kind of do 1275 00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:02,839 Speaker 7: my own thing. 1276 00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:03,160 Speaker 3: A lot. 1277 00:56:03,239 --> 00:56:05,919 Speaker 7: I do my stand up, I release a special every tour. 1278 00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,960 Speaker 7: I write my own books, and I do my podcast 1279 00:56:09,440 --> 00:56:11,879 Speaker 7: and when I had my shows, you know, I've been 1280 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:14,759 Speaker 7: given a lot of license in my creative endeavors. And 1281 00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:17,600 Speaker 7: now when I'm fifty, I'm like, Okay, I'm ready to 1282 00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 7: try some new stuff, Like I'm ready to do some 1283 00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:22,400 Speaker 7: more acting. I'm ready to do some more like stuff 1284 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:27,480 Speaker 7: that I haven't been known for, but only with myself 1285 00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,839 Speaker 7: in charge, you know what I mean. I'm not I'm 1286 00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,640 Speaker 7: not interested in like I have to have a voice 1287 00:56:33,640 --> 00:56:35,520 Speaker 7: in everything I do. I have to be have a 1288 00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:39,719 Speaker 7: hand in writing everything I do. I'm not really for 1289 00:56:39,800 --> 00:56:41,359 Speaker 7: sale or for hire. 1290 00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:42,920 Speaker 6: In that way that is traditional. 1291 00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:46,040 Speaker 7: It's just doesn't It doesn't serve me well when I 1292 00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:49,520 Speaker 7: have any man or woman telling me what to do. 1293 00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:51,800 Speaker 7: Although I would take it more easily from a woman, 1294 00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,440 Speaker 7: but I just don't. I don't need it, do you 1295 00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:57,239 Speaker 7: know what I mean? Everything's fine for me financially. It's 1296 00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,279 Speaker 7: not like I have to work. I only want to 1297 00:56:59,320 --> 00:57:02,040 Speaker 7: do things that are going to spread joy and laughter 1298 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 7: and sunshine. That is all I'm interested in doing, and 1299 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:09,520 Speaker 7: my pursuit for that, whether it's career or personal. 1300 00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:12,279 Speaker 6: I feel like those two things are just so you know, 1301 00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:14,360 Speaker 6: dovetailed in my life. 1302 00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:17,560 Speaker 7: Like I work really hard and then I vacation really hard. 1303 00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:22,160 Speaker 7: And I take having fun very seriously, like I think 1304 00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:24,440 Speaker 7: part of my profession is being fun. 1305 00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,480 Speaker 6: Like I feel like it is professional to be fun. 1306 00:57:27,600 --> 00:57:28,160 Speaker 6: You know what I mean? 1307 00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:30,560 Speaker 1: Oh, you and Marshawn are twins, and Marshaw says, but 1308 00:57:30,560 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 1: it's not a hell yet. It's a hell fucking no, marsh. 1309 00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:36,920 Speaker 6: I feel totally totally. 1310 00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 7: It's like I don't want to have long conversations about 1311 00:57:39,360 --> 00:57:41,040 Speaker 7: doing anything or committing to anything. 1312 00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 6: I know instinctively what's what's going to work for me 1313 00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:44,040 Speaker 6: and what's not. 1314 00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,400 Speaker 7: Although I did just get an opportunity which I can't 1315 00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,760 Speaker 7: talk about that really has me excited. 1316 00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,040 Speaker 6: My agents just brought me something and they're like, this is. 1317 00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:53,280 Speaker 7: A really good use of your time. And I was like, 1318 00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:54,960 Speaker 7: oh my god, how long would this take? And they're 1319 00:57:54,960 --> 00:57:57,160 Speaker 7: like four weeks and I'm like, okay, so I can't 1320 00:57:57,160 --> 00:57:59,760 Speaker 7: take But it's again, it's something I haven't done yet. 1321 00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:00,560 Speaker 6: Because I'm fifty. 1322 00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,440 Speaker 7: It's like I've got all the things I want. I 1323 00:58:02,520 --> 00:58:04,720 Speaker 7: managed to not get married, not to have any children, 1324 00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 7: so that's a home run. 1325 00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:08,240 Speaker 6: Okay, I'm both ry your. 1326 00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:09,960 Speaker 4: What is your opposition of marriage? 1327 00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:11,800 Speaker 6: By the way, just don't want to be tethered to 1328 00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:12,600 Speaker 6: any one person. 1329 00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:16,600 Speaker 7: I don't want to have to consult with anyone about anything. 1330 00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:18,600 Speaker 7: You know, if I want to get up and go 1331 00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:21,080 Speaker 7: to Abu Dhabi one morning, I don't want to do that. 1332 00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:22,960 Speaker 6: But if I do, I don't want to talk to 1333 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:24,600 Speaker 6: anyone about it. I just want to go. 1334 00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:27,280 Speaker 7: I don't want to have anyone telling me what their 1335 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,280 Speaker 7: opinions of my behavior is or if I should be 1336 00:58:30,280 --> 00:58:31,200 Speaker 7: away for this long. 1337 00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:35,520 Speaker 6: I'm just fiercely independent and and I love that. 1338 00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,760 Speaker 7: So now I'm going to flex some muscles that I 1339 00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:42,000 Speaker 7: probably haven't flexed yet since you know, I've had such 1340 00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:44,480 Speaker 7: a good time here on earth and in my life, 1341 00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:46,880 Speaker 7: and now I'm mature and responsible. So I think this 1342 00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,800 Speaker 7: year I will take on some things I haven't done before. 1343 00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,080 Speaker 7: I want to challenge myself a little bit more. 1344 00:58:53,240 --> 00:58:55,440 Speaker 4: Marshawn, you're shaking your head. 1345 00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:58,640 Speaker 2: I'm just saying that's be I like that. 1346 00:58:59,000 --> 00:59:00,880 Speaker 1: By the way, Marshaan is I'm not married, doesn't have 1347 00:59:00,960 --> 00:59:02,520 Speaker 1: kids either. He doesn't want you to be telling any 1348 00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:03,160 Speaker 1: what to do either. 1349 00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,600 Speaker 4: That's why I said, he's shaking his head, Doug, and 1350 00:59:05,680 --> 00:59:07,760 Speaker 4: you and I are shaking our heads, maybe in a 1351 00:59:07,800 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 4: different direction. 1352 00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 2: We have a very different bath. 1353 00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:13,520 Speaker 1: Well, thankfully, Chelsea, thankfully I have a wife. Was cool 1354 00:59:13,520 --> 00:59:16,600 Speaker 1: as shit, and she let me do what I need 1355 00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,520 Speaker 1: to do, which is pretty damn nice. So I but 1356 00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:21,160 Speaker 1: by the way, I'm with you, I never had a 1357 00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:24,040 Speaker 1: girlfriend in my entire life until I met my wife 1358 00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:27,040 Speaker 1: because I was said, why would someone buy somebody present 1359 00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:30,320 Speaker 1: or want to call somebody if they're not going to 1360 00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,200 Speaker 1: marry them. That's the girl. I'm not going to fuck around, 1361 00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,000 Speaker 1: cheat and all that. So like, I never never had 1362 00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:36,480 Speaker 1: a girlfriend ever until I met my wife. And then 1363 00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:38,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god. Then I met her and 1364 00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:40,640 Speaker 1: I'll make us over and we've been married happily for 1365 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:43,040 Speaker 1: twenty four years. But I never had that. I was 1366 00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,760 Speaker 1: you for my entire life until I was thirty one, 1367 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:47,560 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm not I'm not. 1368 00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:49,240 Speaker 5: Gonna do no one could tell me what to do. 1369 00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:50,600 Speaker 5: Fuck that, I'm doing my own thing. 1370 00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:52,360 Speaker 1: And then I met her, I'm like, Okay, I got 1371 00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 1: I can have the best of both worlds, right, Marshawn. 1372 00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:58,560 Speaker 6: That's great, And also listen, no offense to anyone who 1373 00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:01,000 Speaker 6: wants children or wants to be married. Go for it, 1374 01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,280 Speaker 6: Go get a baby if you want one. I just 1375 01:00:03,440 --> 01:00:04,400 Speaker 6: know that's not for me. 1376 01:00:04,600 --> 01:00:07,320 Speaker 7: And I think it's also really important for people to 1377 01:00:07,400 --> 01:00:09,800 Speaker 7: know when they're not cut out for parenting, because you're 1378 01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:13,040 Speaker 7: doing the world a favor by not becoming a parent, 1379 01:00:13,120 --> 01:00:17,640 Speaker 7: you know, and also freeze you up to be generous 1380 01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:19,760 Speaker 7: to a whole slew of children in your life. I 1381 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,720 Speaker 7: have nine nieces and nephews. I have tons of kids 1382 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:24,840 Speaker 7: in my life. I wouldn't have all those kids in 1383 01:00:24,840 --> 01:00:26,680 Speaker 7: my life if I had become a parent, I wouldn't 1384 01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:27,600 Speaker 7: have had the bandwidth. 1385 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,439 Speaker 1: Hey, Chelsea, give me give me two comedians you would 1386 01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:31,160 Speaker 1: pay to see. 1387 01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,160 Speaker 5: Give me two that you like. 1388 01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:35,400 Speaker 1: I have to go and maybe maybe you've already seen it, 1389 01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:37,520 Speaker 1: but that are out there right now, young old whatever 1390 01:00:37,880 --> 01:00:39,920 Speaker 1: that you would go line up to go see tomorrow. 1391 01:00:40,680 --> 01:00:41,080 Speaker 2: H Yah. 1392 01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,560 Speaker 6: Monika Saunders, she's hilarious. 1393 01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:45,840 Speaker 7: She opens for me on the road sometimes and she's 1394 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:47,479 Speaker 7: one of the funniest people I've ever met. 1395 01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:51,120 Speaker 6: And rosebud Baker, Okay. 1396 01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:54,240 Speaker 4: All right, what makes what makes them so good? What's 1397 01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:55,160 Speaker 4: unique about them? 1398 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,560 Speaker 7: Well, Yamnica's funny because she just gets up and yells 1399 01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:02,280 Speaker 7: at white people for just being white and why why 1400 01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:06,040 Speaker 7: like she she and it's not it, and it's it's 1401 01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:12,480 Speaker 7: very thoughtful and educated, and it's like I'm always trying 1402 01:01:12,520 --> 01:01:15,520 Speaker 7: to like show my audience the whole world, you know, 1403 01:01:15,680 --> 01:01:19,480 Speaker 7: not just like what being a white, middle aged blonde 1404 01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:19,960 Speaker 7: woman is. 1405 01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:22,560 Speaker 6: Like I want a full spectrum of experience. 1406 01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:26,480 Speaker 7: And she's somebody we couldn't have come from more opposite 1407 01:01:26,520 --> 01:01:30,360 Speaker 7: backgrounds or have different it have had different experiences, but 1408 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:33,160 Speaker 7: she is someone who really lays it out in such 1409 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:39,040 Speaker 7: a great entertaining way for people, just so that white 1410 01:01:39,040 --> 01:01:41,080 Speaker 7: people can kind of take a look at themselves and 1411 01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:44,360 Speaker 7: look at their part, especially white women, you know, look 1412 01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:47,120 Speaker 7: at their part in what happened in this election, look 1413 01:01:47,160 --> 01:01:48,400 Speaker 7: at their part in society. 1414 01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:50,280 Speaker 6: Look how just clueless we can be. 1415 01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:53,320 Speaker 7: And she does it in a hilarious way, like it's 1416 01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:57,600 Speaker 7: an indictment on white people, and I love it. Mnika 1417 01:01:57,720 --> 01:02:01,240 Speaker 7: Saunders Instagram. I mean, you'll get a flavor of what 1418 01:02:01,280 --> 01:02:05,280 Speaker 7: I'm talking about. And rosebud Baker is a writer on SNL, 1419 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:08,480 Speaker 7: but she's a great stand up and she's really sharp, 1420 01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:11,800 Speaker 7: really funny, her grandfather was James Baker. 1421 01:02:11,800 --> 01:02:16,000 Speaker 6: Actually, and and you know what's so funny. I was 1422 01:02:16,040 --> 01:02:16,720 Speaker 6: at George W. 1423 01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:19,439 Speaker 7: Bush's compound in Kenny Bunkport a couple of summers ago, 1424 01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:21,240 Speaker 7: and he was like George W. 1425 01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:21,840 Speaker 6: Bush. 1426 01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:23,760 Speaker 7: I was also on three edibles when I met him. 1427 01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,640 Speaker 7: F y had to be to go over to that house, 1428 01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:27,240 Speaker 7: you know what I mean. 1429 01:02:29,360 --> 01:02:31,120 Speaker 6: And he goes, I think you and I have someone 1430 01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:31,680 Speaker 6: in common. 1431 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,080 Speaker 7: And I was like, first of all, I said, I 1432 01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:35,720 Speaker 7: don't think we have anybody in common. 1433 01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:37,480 Speaker 6: He goes, oh, we do, we do. 1434 01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:38,000 Speaker 4: He's like. 1435 01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,840 Speaker 6: A guy from my I think he was the Secretary 1436 01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:42,880 Speaker 6: of State, James Baker. 1437 01:02:43,360 --> 01:02:45,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, he was everything. He was well, he was Gore 1438 01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:47,440 Speaker 4: in the Supreme Court. I mean, he was the guy 1439 01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:49,720 Speaker 4: who was the lead counsel for at least the point 1440 01:02:49,760 --> 01:02:51,800 Speaker 4: person and Bush b Gore. 1441 01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 6: Oh right, right, right, right, right, Okay, there we go. 1442 01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:58,160 Speaker 4: No, man, he's a legend. He's one of the greats. 1443 01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,600 Speaker 4: And forget being partisan, and he's he was a next 1444 01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:10,960 Speaker 4: level quality old school Republican, unbelievably powerful, unbelievably eloquent in 1445 01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,800 Speaker 4: terms of how he used and exercises power. I'm being 1446 01:03:13,880 --> 01:03:16,880 Speaker 4: generous disagree with him on nine out of ten damn issues. 1447 01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:19,480 Speaker 4: But he was a force to be reckoned with. 1448 01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:23,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, so this is his granddaughter. And George W. Bush 1449 01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:24,840 Speaker 6: was the first person who said, he goes, we you 1450 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:25,920 Speaker 6: and I have someone in common. 1451 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:28,520 Speaker 7: There's a new girl coming out and she's a lot 1452 01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,480 Speaker 7: like you, and she's got a foul mouth and she's 1453 01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:33,040 Speaker 7: got a lot of strong opinions. 1454 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:35,120 Speaker 6: And he's like, and her name is rosebud Baker, and 1455 01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,000 Speaker 6: I was like, you know, rosebud Baker. 1456 01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:38,840 Speaker 7: I had just signed a deal with rosebud Baker to 1457 01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:41,040 Speaker 7: develop a TV show for her a few years ago. 1458 01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:43,720 Speaker 6: So that was really funny. We actually did have someone 1459 01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:44,200 Speaker 6: in common. 1460 01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:46,760 Speaker 7: And then he went on to show me his personal 1461 01:03:46,840 --> 01:03:48,840 Speaker 7: painting collection of his personal painting. 1462 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:52,880 Speaker 4: That's right, Hey, it is great to catch up with you. 1463 01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:55,560 Speaker 4: Thank you for taking the time to join us, and 1464 01:03:55,920 --> 01:03:58,200 Speaker 4: thank you for taking the time to write what will 1465 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:01,560 Speaker 4: be your seventh best book. I'll have what She's Having, 1466 01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:07,000 Speaker 4: which is out on what It's out February twenty fifth. Yep, 1467 01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:10,200 Speaker 4: and it's available. You go on what, you can go 1468 01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,200 Speaker 4: on everything right now. Pre order the book. 1469 01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:16,240 Speaker 2: Yes, happy early birthday, Thank you buddy. 1470 01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:18,480 Speaker 6: I had a pleasure speaking with you. Three gentlemen. 1471 01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:29,480 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you, Chelsea