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Speaker 1: All right, So this is from Facebook from Dre. Dre writes,

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Speaker 1: I have a family friend who'd hit hard times. However,

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Speaker 1: this family friend also has a reputation for lying and

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Speaker 1: not paying people back. Now he's trying to guild me

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Speaker 1: and my entire family talking about I'm turning my back

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Speaker 1: on him.

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Speaker 2: Well that's where I am right now, and I'm in

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Speaker 2: the position to help.

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Speaker 1: But I know darn well I will never see the

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Speaker 1: money back since no one else can really help or

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Speaker 1: is willing to. I'm like Tupac, all eyes on me, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna change my mind.

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Speaker 2: So, am I wrong?

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Speaker 3: No? No, m see.

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Speaker 4: See, you can't create a track record and then try

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Speaker 4: to get off your track in front of somebody you'd

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Speaker 4: ran around.

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Speaker 3: On all this time. It's just not how it works. Hey, man.

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Speaker 4: When you create a reputation, then you're gonna have to

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have to let you make a You gotta

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Speaker 4: lay in it. Dog, I'm sorry you don't pay people back?

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Speaker 4: Now you backing me talking about y'all turning your back? Yeah, okay, cool,

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Speaker 4: But here's the deal with me. If you did not

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Speaker 4: have my number, what would you do?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? See, now gonna get to doing that.

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Speaker 4: Because you already know I got it, So you don't

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Speaker 4: save all that with me. I tell people all the time.

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Speaker 4: First of all, hey man, let me holler at you now. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna wait seventy two hours before.

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Speaker 3: I would turn that bone car. Don't text me or nothing.

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Speaker 3: Hey man, Hey man, when you get free, moment called me. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm not free for seventy two hours. I'm busy. Hey man,

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Speaker 3: I got an emergency. This is what I got.

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Speaker 4: I got a text from a dude, I have an emergency.

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Speaker 4: He texted, I have an emergency. Who the hell got

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Speaker 4: an emergency?

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Speaker 3: And texted? Boy stopped.

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Speaker 4: I waited my seventy two hours and called him back

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Speaker 4: because all emergencies passed in seventy two hours.

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Speaker 3: Trust me when I tell you that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you said you're into crisis management anyway, you know

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Speaker 1: that his dang Jarvis?

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Speaker 2: No, no, you know why you asked? Why you asked?

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Speaker 2: Junior sound like somebody I might know.

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Speaker 3: Everybody.

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Speaker 2: No, no, it's not Alvin. No, no, I was gonna

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Speaker 2: ask you. But he feels guilty, So how does he

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Speaker 2: deal with that guilt?

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Speaker 4: Feeling guilt is the most useless emotion that we have

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Speaker 4: as human beings.

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Speaker 2: Yeahs, no purpose.

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Speaker 3: What's the purpose of guilt?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Stop?

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Speaker 4: Why why you got to feel guilt that he's not

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Speaker 4: your child?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's your friend, a family friend.

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Speaker 4: He's not your child, y'all. Ain't took no vioals. He's

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Speaker 4: not your wife. No, he a family friend that ain't

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Speaker 4: been much of.

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Speaker 2: A friend, right, All right, you all have a.

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Speaker 4: One sided friendship. Now I'm gonna let you go over

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Speaker 4: there and stay on your side for a while.

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Speaker 1: All right, Let's see if we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Nicole on Steve HARVFM. She says, my

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Speaker 1: husband and I went out of town to have Thanksgiving

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Speaker 1: with his family. He started drinking with his brother at noon,

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Speaker 1: and by the time dinner was served, they were both

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Speaker 1: drunk as heck. He embarrassed himself in front of his

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Speaker 1: whole family, and I was left to take care of

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Speaker 1: him and then drive us home afterwards. We're supposed to

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Speaker 1: go again at Christmas, and I told him I'm not

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Speaker 1: going now. He thinks I'm being unreasonable and is mad

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Speaker 1: at me. I haven't done anything wrong and I shouldn't

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Speaker 1: be made to feel bad after what he put.

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Speaker 2: Me through Steve. Back me up? Am I wrong? Am

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Speaker 2: I overreacting?

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Speaker 3: Best office is a good excuse me. The best defense

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Speaker 3: is a good offense.

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Speaker 4: Uh so now he defensive about what he did, and

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Speaker 4: so now he done took the offense. Nah, he mad

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Speaker 4: at you for his ass getting drunk and you not

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Speaker 4: understep man. Please, bye, ladies, stop letting these men out

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Speaker 4: mad you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, do what you do, do your job.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, man, we cannot out mad Marjorie.

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Speaker 3: I don't give a damn.

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Speaker 4: How I try, baby, baby, how you gonna do that?

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Speaker 3: Wait?

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Speaker 2: Mi, Steve, alright, we gotta run.

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Speaker 1: Steve coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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