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Speaker 1: Hello, my loves, and welcome back to the Give Them

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Speaker 1: Laala Podcast. I'm your host, Lala Kent. How we doing,

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Speaker 1: Jessica Kerr? We are so good, But more importantly, how

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Speaker 1: are you doing? My brain is a tad fried still.

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Speaker 1: I want to get into all of the things, but

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Speaker 1: before we start, I obviously want to take a moment

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Speaker 1: to talk about the six people who lost their lives

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Speaker 1: yesterday in the Covenant school shooting, three of which were

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Speaker 1: little kids, and the fact that this is still happening.

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Speaker 1: And I was talking to Sheena and now I'm a mom,

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Speaker 1: and I don't feel like you have to have a

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Speaker 1: kid to be devastated by something like this, obviously, but

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Speaker 1: you start thinking about I one day am going to

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Speaker 1: have to send Ocean to school? And the fact that

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Speaker 1: I don't feel comfortable and I don't think a lot

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Speaker 1: of parents feel comfortable sending their kids to school. After

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Speaker 1: Sandy Hook, it was like, this is you know what's

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Speaker 1: happening in churches, It's happening at schools. Nothing is off limits,

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Speaker 1: and I just find it important. I didn't post on

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Speaker 1: social media. I felt like a lot of people were

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Speaker 1: posting on social media. I didn't quite this sounds stupid.

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Speaker 1: I didn't quite know like even what to say. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like what is there to say? Like it shouldn't be happening,

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Speaker 1: but like what is the move that we make? How

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Speaker 1: do we fix it? How do we change it? Like?

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Speaker 1: When is enough enough?

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Speaker 2: You know? And at this point, it's it's it's so

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Speaker 2: disgusting that it sounds so cliche to say is enough

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Speaker 2: because it's been said so many times?

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Speaker 1: Right, Like what are we gonna do? Now? Are we

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Speaker 1: gonna do? Like we can all post on our social media?

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Speaker 1: And I think that's beautiful, and I it's the reason

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Speaker 1: why I love social media so much. But what are

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Speaker 1: we going to do? Action? But I don't even know

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Speaker 1: what to do. I know, like how do we contribute

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Speaker 2: I know it's it's I mean, it's there are there

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Speaker 2: are action pieces, and there are people, bless you all

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Speaker 2: speaking out about it. Here are the steps we take?

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Speaker 2: And and I you know, right now, I'm just reading

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Speaker 2: up every time something like this happens, which it's even

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Speaker 2: heart wrenching to say every time something like this happens

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Speaker 2: because it happens so many times. Every time something like

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Speaker 2: this happens, I look, I do the research I'm like,

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Speaker 2: what are people saying? What are action items? And it's

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Speaker 2: just heartbreaking that we're still here, We're still we're still

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Speaker 2: dealing with this, and it's innocent souls and children and

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Speaker 2: adults who went to school that day, not you know,

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Speaker 2: who knows what.

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Speaker 1: Was going to make a difference in these kids' lives,

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Speaker 1: like showing up thinking it's going to be a completely

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Speaker 1: normal day. This horrendous person who did this was a woman.

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Speaker 1: It's two percent of mass shooters across the country are women.

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Speaker 1: I read that she was a gamer, and this may

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Speaker 1: not be what anyone wants to hear. The gaming freaks

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Speaker 1: me out. I feel like it desensitizes people. And yes,

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Speaker 1: I think we absolutely need to pass gun laws, but

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Speaker 1: I think you have to have a mental evaluation to

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Speaker 1: purchase certain games. I've noticed a pattern of even when

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Speaker 1: also playing those games where you're shooting at people, and

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Speaker 1: I just don't think that it's a healthy thing to

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Speaker 1: just trying to wrap my head around it and see

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Speaker 1: how change can be made because we're really not safe anywhere. Nope.

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Speaker 2: I texted you know all of the families I used

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Speaker 2: today in Nashville. You know, I'm thinking about you today.

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Speaker 1: I love you. I hope you're safe.

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Speaker 2: The one thing I do have to say about that

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Speaker 3: I would go to that church parking lot before I

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Speaker 2: And I think it's because, and you know, if you

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Speaker 2: I guess peace, to think surely those angels were leading

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Speaker 2: So it's just, you know, in one of the women

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Speaker 2: no words. I wish I had the words, but I don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I don't either. So I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: take a moment to acknowledge that. And this podcast is

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Speaker 1: going to be interesting today. I still feel like my

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Speaker 1: brain is a little bit fried from Thursday's reunion. Last

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Speaker 2: It's like that's time though, crazy Bravo housewarming weekend for you. Yep,

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Speaker 2: obviously I want to know all about it. I want

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Speaker 2: to know what you can say about the reunion. I

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Speaker 2: I want to hear about the reunion.

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Speaker 2: About Palm Springs, which is a huge housewarming weekend.

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Speaker 1: That yes, the reunion was. It was all of the things.

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Speaker 1: And you know, I don't want to say I wasn't

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Speaker 1: directly affected by this. You've got Arianna who obviously was

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Speaker 1: certain things you experience in your life where yes, everything

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Speaker 1: And you know that doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad

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Speaker 1: I stomached them hardly even that, but it was and

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Speaker 1: we're all going to be doing podcasts about this, I'm sure,

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Speaker 1: and everyone's going to talk about their own personal experience

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Speaker 1: with the reunion. For me, I was triggered for many reasons.

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Speaker 1: Took me back to my own situation and how he

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Speaker 1: infidelity and the cheating and things like that. Can is

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me let me look. It reminded, you know,

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Speaker 1: Sandoval reminds me of him, and then you know, I

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Speaker 1: and it all came out in that moment. No one

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Speaker 1: Not that I was nervous. I only cried one time,

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Speaker 1: and you guys will see why, iride. But the rest

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Speaker 1: rest of my crew. What do they call a lion tribe?

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Speaker 2: Okay, like a lot of it.

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Speaker 1: Oh that sounds insane, but that's literal, Like that is

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Speaker 2: I mean I can picture it. So that's a great,

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Speaker 2: read this too. I've read a few things, and if

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Speaker 2: you could speak on them, great. Number One, I read

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Speaker 2: that you and James were like, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I read basically you and James were like the loudest,

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Speaker 1: That is true, Okay, that is true.

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Speaker 2: Number two, I read that Ariana was relatively calm for

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Speaker 1: You know, she was calm. She stayed seated the whole time,

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Speaker 1: but she was Samurai sorting these motherfuckers. Whether it's oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: Ariana that I recognize because she's obviously hurting, But when

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Speaker 1: bad side. There's something about a chick and we're not

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Speaker 1: calling them scorned, we're not calling them emotional. They're with

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Speaker 1: a fucking voice and now you're not safe. And I

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Speaker 1: loved her posts where she said what doesn't kill me?

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Speaker 1: Better run? Yes, be so good? Yes that was so good?

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Speaker 2: Did you because I've read mixed reports, did anyone or

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Speaker 1: Yes, that did happen. I was not about to get physical.

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Speaker 1: I'm not really a physical person. I mean I did

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Speaker 1: If they were, do you really think that they would

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00:25:56,600 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: have kept that a secret.

430
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, and the one person that would have no own

431
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,919
Speaker 2: that to be true is Raquel because she was best.

432
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: Friends with her, right, Like, yes, she's dumb as rocks.

433
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 1: She's dumb as dumb, like you're gonna see, you're going

434
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 1: to see on this reunion, and so many people are saying,

435
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 1: why is Raquel taking the brunt and Santaval's not getting

436
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 1: much heat. Santoval is getting a lot of heat. And again,

437
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: if Raquel weren't Arianna's best friend, I would say as well,

438
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 1: like hey, like we gotta shift here. The only person

439
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:31,360
Speaker 1: that can wreck a home is the person that has

440
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: the home right. But I can't wrap my mind. I'm

441
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: thinking of people, women who I'm extremely close to. I

442
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: cannot imagine banging their man and then like allowing my

443
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: friend to confide in me about her relationship while while

444
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm fucking the dude the whole time, Like you guys

445
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: are gonna see as this season goes on, and I'm

446
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: trying to like censor myself a bit. So if I'm

447
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:00,639
Speaker 1: getting jumbly or not making sense, just keep in mind.

448
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,719
Speaker 1: It's like my mind is working and actively saying, like

449
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: reel it in here, Okay, you can share that. No,

450
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: reel it in here, right, I don't want to get

451
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: in trouble. I've seen the whole season, and it is

452
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,679
Speaker 1: your jaw is going to be on the floor. Like

453
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 1: even Andy when he arrived, Katie and I saw him

454
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 1: as we were coming out of the bathroom and he

455
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: was like, I cannot believe the season, like he was gobsmacked.

456
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 2: Well, he talked about it on his stories, which I

457
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 2: was keeping up with, which funny side note, he was like,

458
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: I was on the plane, I was watching the entire

459
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 2: rest of the season of vander Pump and nobody around me.

460
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,199
Speaker 2: You bet your ass. If I was in coach, if

461
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,960
Speaker 2: I was in the last seat and I saw Andy

462
00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: get on the flight with that laptop and open it up,

463
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,920
Speaker 2: I'm have you ever seen Bridesmaids where she like puts

464
00:27:50,040 --> 00:27:52,320
Speaker 2: the sunglasses on and like disguises herself.

465
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:53,040
Speaker 1: Of course that's me.

466
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 2: I'm disguising myself to look like a stewardess. I Am

467
00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 2: just I'm gonna watch the rest of the season. I mean,

468
00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,919
Speaker 2: and I can't even wait. It's hard not to sneak

469
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 2: onto your laptop.

470
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, I tried to go back, so now the

471
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: link expires, so like, once we watch it, it's like you

472
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 1: saw it. Now it's going bye bye. So I wanted

473
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: to watch again last night. We haven't seen the final episode,

474
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: so anything that we filmed when cameras went back up,

475
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: I haven't seen that part. I've only seen the finale episode,

476
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 1: well what was supposed to be the finale episode. And

477
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: I said this on Jeff Lewis the other day. Had

478
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 1: this not happened, Raquel would have won the whole season. Really,

479
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: there are moments where you're watching her. Now you watch

480
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:45,479
Speaker 1: her and you're like, Wow, you're sick, You're fucking sick.

481
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: But if you go into a place where you can

482
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 1: forget that all of this happened, you would watch that

483
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: and be like, wow, my heart goes out to her.

484
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: She is finding herself, she has found her voice. Like

485
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: really you would you would be very torn, like did

486
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 1: she fuck up by kissing Schwartz? Was it dirty? Or

487
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 1: like is this just a girl who's like, you know

488
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,240
Speaker 1: what I'm fucking doing me? Man? Like I've been through

489
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff. I've had like a cookie cutter

490
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: life from the time I was a child, and now

491
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: I just want to like get out there and be

492
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 1: free and not worry about it. This is my group

493
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: of friends. I like them. I don't fuck with you guys.

494
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: Sorry if I made it seem like I did fuck

495
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:30,760
Speaker 1: with you guys. It's just beyond like. It's hard to

496
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 1: even talk about because I don't even know what to say.

497
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 2: That being said, do you look back at any of

498
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: the moments, let's take Scandval out of it. Do you

499
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 2: look back at any of the moments with Raquel if

500
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 2: Scandival never happened, and think, Eh, I should should I

501
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: could have EASEDEP or I should have been what like? How?

502
00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 2: Or are you like absolutely not I should? I was

503
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 2: exactly how I should have been. My responses, all of it.

504
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: So I don't know if this will make it into

505
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: the reunion. I'm gonna say it now because it's not

506
00:29:57,960 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 1: like that big of a deal. But there was a time,

507
00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: this was years ago, I was still drinking. We were

508
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: in Vegas with my mom, my dad, a few other people,

509
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: James and Raquel, and I remember sitting there and this

510
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:21,640
Speaker 1: was brought up season at Seven Seasons reunion, where James

511
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,720
Speaker 1: was obviously heavily drinking and called me the sea word.

512
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: My dad was so upset he left the table. But

513
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: when James, after everything had like blown up and James

514
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: and Raquel left the table, my mom said to me,

515
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: and this had to have been twenty seventeen, my mom

516
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 1: said to me, I do not like that Raquel. I

517
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: get a bad vibe from her. She moves like a snake.

518
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: I want you to be careful. And so my mom

519
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: basically co signed and my mom, I like her word

520
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: is like gold to me.

521
00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,120
Speaker 2: And your mom also loves everyone.

522
00:30:57,200 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: My mom loves everybody, everybody, So when she especially now,

523
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: when she tells me I don't get a good vibe,

524
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, er, I'm pumping the brakes, you're staying over there.

525
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: But she said that to me in twenty seventeen, and

526
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: I just it was almost like she just co signed on,

527
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: like the way Raquel triggered me so much. I just

528
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: didn't like her. And everyone was like she's so sweet,

529
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, something is off, Like she's fucking stupid,

530
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: but she's moving weird, right. I always felt it, So

531
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:30,640
Speaker 1: even if this didn't happen, like I still was like,

532
00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: I don't like you that much and I'm really fucking trying.

533
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,680
Speaker 1: Because we did have a moment of maybe like a

534
00:31:36,720 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: week or two where we really were getting along and

535
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:46,720
Speaker 1: and bonding over our traumas. And you know, people talk

536
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 1: about why I told her about James and I you

537
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: guys are gonna die at the reunion when she says

538
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: you're gonna die, Like I literally I look at James

539
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: and was like, skirt, hold up, she's fucking insane. Oh

540
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hear it. But the reason why

541
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: I told her and you guys don't see this. And

542
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: I even talk to one of our producers and I

543
00:32:09,400 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: just asked him because I love doing vander Pump Rules,

544
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: and there's things that are a part of my story

545
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: that are are big that I don't feel always makes

546
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 1: it onto camera, which is fine, like our editors do

547
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: a fantastic job of editing, but I just wanted to know, like,

548
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:34,400
Speaker 1: is my sobriety journey like not? Is it not something

549
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: that you guys are interested in? Do you feel like

550
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: it's too heavy? Is it boring? Because I feel like

551
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: I talk about it, but it's usually cut out. It

552
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: kind of ends with I'm sober, and that just means like, oh,

553
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 1: she's she doesn't drink anymore, and it's like, no, there's

554
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: a lot that goes into it. Yeah, like I'm in

555
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 1: a program. It's like, my the not picking up a

556
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 1: drink is like just the cherry on top of everything.

557
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: And I also brought up I was like, because you

558
00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:01,040
Speaker 1: have to remember, like I do inner, I do interviews

559
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 1: and there's a lot of things I say. And then

560
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:06,960
Speaker 1: I watched the episode and I'm like, wow, that is

561
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:11,200
Speaker 1: definitely different how I pictured it in my mind. And

562
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,560
Speaker 1: I also said, like, do you guys also like people

563
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: being on the fence of is she a mistress or

564
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: was she not a mistress? Because I'm like, I feel

565
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 1: like I've been very transparent and it's still when I

566
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:31,520
Speaker 1: watch it, it's like, I'm it's like they enjoy it

567
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 1: looking like was she or wasn't she? You know, it's

568
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:39,240
Speaker 1: like kind of a mind fuck. So I love the

569
00:33:39,280 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: way they edit. But because I have control over the podcast,

570
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 1: I will say that what didn't make it into these

571
00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: episodes is talking to Raquel. And this was off camera

572
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 1: as well as on camera. There were things that I

573
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: spoke about, you know, with her, off camera, and then

574
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: it may have come up while filming. But Raquel and

575
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,400
Speaker 1: I had many conversations, and I remember this one vividly,

576
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 1: and this entire scene got cut out. Maybe it just

577
00:34:09,480 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: wasn't that interesting, but I was telling her, you know,

578
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: I replay the way that I've treated you in my

579
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: mind a lot, and I have to let it go,

580
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 1: Like I I want to apologize to you for all

581
00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:27,920
Speaker 1: of my wrongdoings, and if you choose to take it

582
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: on like, that's on you. But it's basically step work, okay.

583
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 1: And I did this with her off camera as well

584
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 1: as on camera, and it never made it in the

585
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: whole reason why I told her about it, and we've

586
00:34:39,440 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: spoken about this before on the podcast, was because of

587
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: the friendship we were forming. I needed to come clean

588
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 1: with her, even though it was uncomfortable. Every single move

589
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 1: I make, and even if it doesn't make sense to you,

590
00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:55,280
Speaker 1: you're not my sponsor. You don't help keep me sober.

591
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: So like, I don't really give a fuck what you think.

592
00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,879
Speaker 1: You can try to sit here and pull out c situations.

593
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: And when you acted like this, well you did this

594
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: when you were sober. I don't give a fuck. Okay,

595
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: unless you're in the program practicing, you know how difficult

596
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:13,359
Speaker 1: it is. Your opinion and your thoughts, shove them up

597
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 1: your ass. I don't give a fuck what you think.

598
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 1: So those were the moments that Raquel and I had

599
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: off camera, was like, very much, my sobriety is dependent

600
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 1: on me not having to hold on to secrets, especially

601
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 1: if we're trying to move forward in a friendship, and

602
00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: I know these certain things. And by the way, she

603
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,200
Speaker 1: did not care, Jessica, she did not care. Did you

604
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,359
Speaker 1: talk of? Still brings it up at the reunion and

605
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: what she says, I was like, somebody give this bitch

606
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,720
Speaker 1: a Lobotomi, what the fuck is happening?

607
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 2: It's what else does she have?

608
00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:51,800
Speaker 1: What you give someone a lobotomy?

609
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: Right, someone gives someone a lobotomy?

610
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: Yes, And by the way, something yeah.

611
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 2: And by the way, infidelity is I know we're going back,

612
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:01,919
Speaker 2: but just so you guys now the action or state

613
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 2: of being unfaithful to a spouse or other sexual partner.

614
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 2: So you are using it right, Okay?

615
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: It says a surgical operation involving involving incision into the

616
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:16,280
Speaker 1: prefrontal lobe of the brain. So yes, she's crazy.

617
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 2: Well here's my question, did you guys discuss it was

618
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: the actual first time you told her, which I think

619
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 2: it was.

620
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:25,319
Speaker 1: It was on camera? Okay, and then we talked about

621
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: it one hundred and fifty one times since that moment

622
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 1: where it was no big deal, La, La, I appreciate it,

623
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: and I'm so proud of your sobriety, and you know what,

624
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm so grateful that you told me. It was like

625
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: somebody after Vegas, Somebody give this bitch seventeen caravans for

626
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: all her personalities. That's the only way we're getting her

627
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: back to La all Right, she's a lot of different

628
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: people in compacted into one tiny SpongeBob SquarePants looking bitch,

629
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: like for real, enough is enough.

630
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 2: Nuts, Funge Mob, don't be, don't break Funge Mob. Do

631
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 2: you think she's always been this way or do you

632
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: think she grew this way? Like ever since she came

633
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,720
Speaker 2: onto the scene, which was season four, right.

634
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,280
Speaker 1: I think she has a lot of self hate.

635
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 2: Do you think it grew that way because of like

636
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 2: La and like seeing yourself talked about. As soon as

637
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 2: you're on a reality show, you're you're consuming all of

638
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 2: this hatred about you. No matter what, you're gonna get hate.

639
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 2: Do you think she grew into that person or do

640
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: you think it's kind of always been there?

641
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: No, I think it's someone who craves other people's validation

642
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: and it comes in the form of men. And you're

643
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 1: gonna see throughout this season we've had these conversations. I

644
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:47,880
Speaker 1: pinned this girl. I knew it. And someone like Raquel

645
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: should never do reality TV. I mean as for her

646
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: own like mental wellbeing. You gotta step into reality TV,

647
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,880
Speaker 1: and yes you're gonna have insecurities, but you better know

648
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 1: how to put up the wall and get real unaffected

649
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: very quickly. It'll eat you alive. Like if if I

650
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: allowed myself to let the outside world know like Lauren

651
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,959
Speaker 1: from Utah, I would be in the fetal position, never

652
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 1: to return again. There's no fucking way, really, no way,

653
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 1: because even when I'm out like being vulnerable and like

654
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:27,279
Speaker 1: a normal being normal and not you know, with my

655
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:31,720
Speaker 1: shield on in my armor, I'm still very very guarded.

656
00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. I love Lauren from Utah, That's my girl. I

657
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 2: love Lala Kent too, though I love them both.

658
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: I love them both too because they're both who I am.

659
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 2: But no, that I mean, that's a great point. I mean,

660
00:38:46,600 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 2: you never really do. Did you ever feel like you

661
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: got close, close close with her?

662
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: No? And thank god, look at what she does to

663
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,319
Speaker 1: people who are close to her. I'm so glad I

664
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: was fucking vicious to her for so long because look

665
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: at what you do to the people you care about. Man,

666
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 1: you ain't getting close to me. I'm gonna let you

667
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: know you're dumb. I'm gonna let you know use a

668
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,919
Speaker 1: stupid bitch. I'm gonna let you know all this, say

669
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:11,919
Speaker 1: the fuck away from me. Yeah. I never.

670
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, even like when she came and did the bambe

671
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 2: eyed bitch photo shoot and then, oh my god, I

672
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 2: was talking about this to Kyle the other day when

673
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 2: she came to Ocean's first birthday Brittany and Jackson's mind.

674
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 1: You she was not invited. She was not invited.

675
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 2: She just came and like posted in front of all

676
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:32,319
Speaker 2: the things and posted for it. Hilarious. But I had never, like,

677
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: you know, her working with you or anything we ever

678
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:35,840
Speaker 2: scheduled with her and you.

679
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 1: I was never.

680
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 2: She just didn't really talk to me, and that's fine.

681
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 2: But she it was after the reunion, so it was

682
00:39:42,440 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 2: after her and James broke off their engagement, and I

683
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 2: remember she walked Kyle was like standing in the corner

684
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:50,800
Speaker 2: by himself at a table, and she walked up to

685
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 2: him and just started talking talking to him like, and

686
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 2: I was like, damn, this girl never talks to me

687
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 2: and she's talking his ear off.

688
00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 1: And I walked up him and I was like, how

689
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: is that?

690
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:03,920
Speaker 2: And he's like, she is a really nice girl.

691
00:40:03,960 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 1: And I'm like what wow. I have been around her

692
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:07,440
Speaker 1: like four times.

693
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 2: She's never talked to me and she just times your

694
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 2: ear off. And he was like, she is so nice.

695
00:40:11,400 --> 00:40:14,400
Speaker 2: And now he's like, oh god, oh man. She seemed

696
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:16,600
Speaker 2: like an angel, but obviously not.

697
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,840
Speaker 1: You know what, it all solidifies though, huh, because I

698
00:40:21,000 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: you're you watch and like you got Sandoval who's like,

699
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: she's so nice and like co signing on her super hard.

700
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 1: Granted they were fucking the whole time. Then you got

701
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,320
Speaker 1: Schwartz who's like, she's so deep and she's like really,

702
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: like so cool. I like her, and it's like, oh,

703
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 1: men really do like stupid chicks. They really love it.

704
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 1: You got a voice, you become terrifying to a man.

705
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: She's emotional, she's a bitch. No, you just don't like

706
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 1: the fact that I see you for who you are?

707
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 3: Yeah?

708
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:57,719
Speaker 2: Or does she also she may open up two men

709
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,280
Speaker 2: like you just said a few minutes ago. She's seeks

710
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,959
Speaker 2: validation from men. So maybe she does. She gets around

711
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 2: a man and she opens up and she has a

712
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,400
Speaker 2: and look, that's a good quality to open up, but

713
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 2: not if you're going to use it too.

714
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: But I also have like when some when a girl

715
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: says to me, like, I'm a guy's girl, like I

716
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: I bond with the boys. I'm like red flag, red

717
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,840
Speaker 1: flag everywhere. How do you not bond with a chick

718
00:41:22,239 --> 00:41:25,520
Speaker 1: and you're a chick? Yeah, something that's a red flag?

719
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: Julia Fox. She said, if you're a woman and all

720
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,520
Speaker 1: the men around you like you and get along with you,

721
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: something's wrong with you. Oh I like that, and I agree.

722
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: I fully agree.

723
00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 2: Oh that's a great point.

724
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:46,439
Speaker 1: Yes, Wow, it breaks me out, it really does. Let's

725
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:49,280
Speaker 1: talk about last week's episode just and I know everyone's

726
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: kind of Oh, by the way, I wanted to talk

727
00:41:51,200 --> 00:41:54,240
Speaker 1: about this real quick because we were playing Cards against

728
00:41:54,320 --> 00:42:02,800
Speaker 1: Humanity in Palm Spring, Okay, and Jamie, our amazing vegan

729
00:42:03,640 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 1: Jamie Lynn, who's best friends with Shena, could not stand

730
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 1: the game and she was like, I would I just

731
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:13,360
Speaker 1: want to ask, like, let's do one one round of

732
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: fuck Mary kill and her fuck Mary Kill? She said,

733
00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: she saw it on Instagram. Was Trader Joe's, Costco or Target?

734
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,920
Speaker 1: I need to know now what you chose, okay, and

735
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 1: why I chose to because someone's got to go. I

736
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 1: gotta kill somebody, so I guess I'll kill Trader Joe's,

737
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:38,360
Speaker 1: even though I love their cookie butter cookies. I would

738
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:45,720
Speaker 1: marry Costco because Costco she wife material Target. I'm fucking

739
00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: because that's like the mistress, Like I'm going to Target,

740
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 1: going to Target, and I'm making a hole.

741
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,920
Speaker 2: I could play that game for hours with things like that,

742
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:58,320
Speaker 2: with like stores or like food or like brands, like

743
00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:58,879
Speaker 2: I could do.

744
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,520
Speaker 1: Way more fun. By the way you put me in

745
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: best Buy or Target for twenty four hours, I'm blowing

746
00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: through all my money. You are, oh, blowing through all

747
00:43:07,760 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 1: my money? Best Why? Yeah, I had to go to

748
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 1: best Buy in Palm Springs to get TVs for the bedrooms.

749
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 2: Okay, but I read online that you bought the house furnished.

750
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 1: I did. I bought it furnished, but for some reason,

751
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: they didn't have any TVs. And by the way, the

752
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 1: people I bought it from, this was their fourth home.

753
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: Oh my, so they were rarely there. It was an

754
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 1: excellent condition I mean fantastic condition. I was shocked not

755
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 1: a mark on the wall.

756
00:43:34,360 --> 00:43:34,879
Speaker 3: I love it.

757
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: But they only had a TV in the front room,

758
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 1: which I guess is normal. Most people that you talk

759
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: to who are like super healthy and get rum sleep

760
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 1: every single night, they never have they never have TVs

761
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: in their bedrooms. But that don't work for me, like,

762
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,080
Speaker 1: I gotta have Seinfeld before I go to bed. They

763
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: did leave me all of their books, and I had

764
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:56,160
Speaker 1: a Heyday.

765
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 2: Books, yes, like fiction, nonfiction.

766
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 1: What are we talking about? A lot of murder mysteries fiction,

767
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 1: a lot of New York Times bestsellers. Amazing. Stosse's was

768
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: not a part of this collection, which was kind of

769
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: a bummer, But that's okay. So before I got the

770
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: TV's in, which I left on Monday, they hung a Monday,

771
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:17,320
Speaker 1: so I didn't even get to enjoy it. But I

772
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 1: did get them all set up so when I go

773
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: back this weekend, I can click it on watch my Steinfeld.

774
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:24,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, you put me in either of those doors,

775
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:27,560
Speaker 1: blowing through all the cash in the world, mine, yours,

776
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,440
Speaker 1: your mom's done?

777
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 2: Did Brock hang your TVs?

778
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 1: No?

779
00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 2: Oh, okay.

780
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: I hired a handyman. He was so sweet loved him.

781
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: I know, I know. By the way, Best Buy geek

782
00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 1: Squad wanted to charge seven hundred dollars to hang the TVs.

783
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: No geek Squad.

784
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 2: I'm a big task rabbit gal.

785
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: I think that rabbit.

786
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: Yeah that I sent your mom that website to use

787
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 2: in Palm Springs. I don't know if they have people

788
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 2: out there, but can.

789
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: I tell you what. The neighbor came over and brought

790
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 1: me a candle and was like, I wanted to welcome

791
00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 1: you to the neighborhood. I was like, come again, that

792
00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 1: guy's been a Yeah, I've been in I've been in

793
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: LA for ten years. Not once has anyone come over

794
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,319
Speaker 1: to like welcome me anywhere in Utah. All the time,

795
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 1: I just have to go with my mom, like the

796
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 1: neighbors moved in, We're gonna take them this, that and

797
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: the other. And I'm like a castle, a castlele fucking

798
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: castle role right. So God. Also, Leo's the funniest person

799
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 1: in the fucking world. The Gusbands, The Gusbands give me life.

800
00:45:24,640 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: They came with me this week and they're just so easy,

801
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 1: Like you say, I come to Palm Springs. By the way,

802
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna be running errands whole time. They're like, great, fabulous,

803
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 1: lets do it. Yeah, it's great, amazing, They're just like

804
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 1: five star. I know, I love my gaze more than

805
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:43,880
Speaker 1: anything in the world. But we were playing this game,

806
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,000
Speaker 1: the Flip game with the heads up or whatever, and

807
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 1: we were talking about lime Wire, and if anyone remembered

808
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:54,319
Speaker 1: limewirey do you remember yes? And Leo was like, oh,

809
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,240
Speaker 1: there was a time where my dad was like trying

810
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:58,840
Speaker 1: to get on his computer and you know, LimeWire fucks

811
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,160
Speaker 1: every computer up. And my dad was like, why is

812
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:03,760
Speaker 1: the internet so slow? Why is the dial tone ting forever?

813
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 1: And he was like I was sitting there going between

814
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: the gay porn and lime Wire, like you're fucked.

815
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 2: Wait that was Leo here, love Leo.

816
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: He's so funny. I hope he doesn't get mad at

817
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 1: me for saying that, but it was just hysterical. I

818
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: fucking love that.

819
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 2: Oh that's so fun. LimeWire was the shit all of

820
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 2: my But do you remember some of your songs? Like

821
00:46:24,400 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 2: most of my songs had like like dre beats, dot

822
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 2: com as never.

823
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,839
Speaker 1: Said they did, they all did. But there's so many

824
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:34,720
Speaker 1: songs that I had on my like old school iPod

825
00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 1: that I still remember that.

826
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 2: I can't get on an iTunes.

827
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: On iTunes weird like songs that people probably like mashed

828
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 1: together and said put it on LimeWire and I just

829
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: happened to find it SoundCloud or Spotify had but like

830
00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 1: if you put your headphones in, it only played through

831
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: one headphone, you know, or it was like one lyric

832
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 1: was on here and then like the chorus was in

833
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:56,319
Speaker 1: the other.

834
00:46:56,560 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 2: It's like, that's so funny. Speaking of remixes, that guy

835
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:01,800
Speaker 2: who remixed send it to Darryl?

836
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Send it to Darryl Boom?

837
00:47:05,760 --> 00:47:09,640
Speaker 2: It was epic, so good what was it, Zach Zach

838
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 2: something music?

839
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: I don't know. It was so good five star and

840
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: shout out to my send it to Darryl hoodies because

841
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: I I took I did the twenty percent down on

842
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:24,080
Speaker 1: my house, which I made back already with the freaking sweatshirt.

843
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: So I want to say thank you all to or

844
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:30,560
Speaker 1: for ordering the Senate to Daryl Hoodies. Also, the La

845
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: Times did an article on Darryl because of Send It

846
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:37,160
Speaker 1: to Darryl. Darryl that came out on Thursday, like the

847
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 1: morning of the reunion. Darryl's the shit. Daryl's the shit.

848
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 2: You You've got a badass team. Darryl's incredible.

849
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: I feel very protected, very happy. I feel after. I

850
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 1: have an interview tomorrow for vander Pump, But for me,

851
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 1: it's like seasons over time to hibernate until we god

852
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: willing get another season.

853
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:00,800
Speaker 2: I feel good about that other season.

854
00:48:00,920 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: Well, it's crazy to think that everyone else, like you guys,

855
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:08,320
Speaker 1: my friends, are only going to see episode eight tonight,

856
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,399
Speaker 1: and I feel like I've lived a million lifetimes since

857
00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:14,240
Speaker 1: episode seven.

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Speaker 2: The fact that the reunion is not going to air

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Speaker 2: for what seven weeks?

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Speaker 1: Eight weeks? Oh no, we're so episode it's seven. I

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Speaker 1: believe we have fourteen episodes, maybe fifteen plus the reunion.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we got a minute, we got a minute.

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Speaker 2: Woh, we'll be a live in a different life by then.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we'll be beheading each other for a whole

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Speaker 1: new set of things. Oh my god, by the time

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Speaker 1: we hopefully pitt cameras up again. I'm kind of remembering

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Speaker 1: what last week's episode was. I know Raquel called me

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Speaker 1: a mistress bimbo last week. Correct she shared it in

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Speaker 1: her six inch heels and wet seal, looking fucking bikini

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Speaker 1: and her precision eyeliner in the one hundred and nine

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Speaker 1: degree heat in Valley Village. I was like, what are

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Speaker 1: you doing. I'm the Mistress binbo in my neon flats

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Speaker 1: and a linen jumper. Come again, I know. And then

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Speaker 1: her standing there creeping into the car. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm done by what the fuck breathing over your shoulder?

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Speaker 1: I was like, what is she doing? If you guys

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Speaker 1: want to sit there and be like like Chihuahua followers,

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Speaker 1: what the fuck are you talking about? Get away from us?

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Speaker 1: You're stupid. Like all of her comebacks, I'm like, why

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Speaker 1: do you even try? And then her interview standing up

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Speaker 1: to Lalakhan, I was like, that's standing up to someone. Oh,

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Speaker 1: I know. So I hope that you guys enjoyed this episode.

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Speaker 1: I feel like, literally I blacked out during this episode.

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Speaker 1: Two This did I make any sense?

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Speaker 2: This podcast episode?

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Speaker 1: This podcast episode fantastic.

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Speaker 2: It was fantastic my mind, Like, I don't even know

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Speaker 2: you made all a sense of the world.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know how I'm gonna do Amazon Live

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Speaker 1: like not short circuit.

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Speaker 3: Oh my Amazon Alive.

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Speaker 1: I know you'll be great. You'll be great anyway, y'all.

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Speaker 1: I hope that you enjoy tonight's episode. I'm super excited.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go watch it at Sheena's house. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: have like a little get together play with the babes.

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Speaker 1: I love you all. Thanks you for listening to another

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Speaker 1: episode of the Give Them While a Podcast, Thank you

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Speaker 1: for dealing with my brain fog, and I will catch

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Speaker 1: you next week.