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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO, our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, ready CLO. Yes, okay, now these

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Speaker 1: people you don't know, These are not your relatives.

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Speaker 2: Okay, just win, no problem, okay.

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Speaker 1: Adrian Adrian and Orland Park says, I'm fifty eight and

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Speaker 1: newly single. I had a friend come stay with me

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Speaker 1: and we ran into my ex husband. She said he

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Speaker 1: was still looking good and asked if he was off limits.

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Speaker 1: I told her to go for it, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: mean it. Is it normal for a friend to ask that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but see once y'all get a certain age though,

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Speaker 3: you know, pickets is slim, so you know it ain't

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Speaker 3: normal for nobody to ask that. But times have changed.

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Speaker 3: Oh so you all thought about it? Well, I don't

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Speaker 3: y'all don't handle my coach no whey and me and

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Speaker 3: don't hand noney either no more because of the Internet.

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Speaker 3: So I've just but that this generation different, we living

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Speaker 3: at different times.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Now that's the truth.

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Speaker 3: Because if you wrote a book about relationships now, all

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Speaker 3: you'd have to do is just, uh, just tell people

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Speaker 3: different creative ways to leave somebody, because that's all they doing.

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Speaker 2: Ain't nobody staying together.

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Speaker 1: So it's different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very different.

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Speaker 3: So no, I mean your it's Normally I would say

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Speaker 3: it's different and it's odd and unacceptable, and you said

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Speaker 3: go for it, but you didn't mean it. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 3: just different now, man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she gonna go for it though, she asked.

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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, she's definitely going for it. Yeah, yeah, she

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Speaker 1: wants this. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh they down at the tavern Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Not at the tavern. Yeah, I haven't heard that word

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Speaker 1: in years, Okay if they have though, Moving on, moving

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Speaker 1: on to Rico.

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Speaker 2: Some Yeah, going to Baies this Saturday.

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Speaker 1: That's the tavern.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Rico Clo in Minneapolis. Rico writes, as

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Speaker 1: a gift, my coworker gave me a half full bottle

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Speaker 1: of cologne after we slept together. I took the bottle

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Speaker 1: to the store to tell them it must have been

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Speaker 1: a mistake. They said that some of the Colonne testers

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Speaker 1: were stolen recently, and they took my bottle and kept it.

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Speaker 1: Should I ask my co worker if she stole my gift, what.

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Speaker 3: Well, you got a bottle that's half fool you already know, hmm.

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Speaker 3: That And then as somebody says, somebody stole all our testers,

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Speaker 3: and then they kept your bottle. I let this go, though, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we can't fight for everything.

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Speaker 1: Uh uh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let this go.

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Speaker 1: And why did he take it back? He was trying

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Speaker 1: to exchange it for a new bottle.

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Speaker 2: Oh you know, she wrapped it up and everything.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 3: And he figured, oh wow, this a half a bottle.

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Speaker 3: She didn't know, so she he took it back down there.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you one thing though. When he opened that box,

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Speaker 3: because he a man, he ain't pay no attention. But

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Speaker 3: it didn't have that clear, tight cellophane paper on it.

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Speaker 2: No more.

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Speaker 3: You just went from Christmas paper to the box of colone.

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Speaker 3: You didn't have to get your fingernails under that tip

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Speaker 3: and try to uh uh. I promise you that wasn't

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Speaker 3: on there.

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Speaker 2: It was a tester.

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Speaker 1: It was a tester.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I got me. I had noticed that because

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Speaker 2: I paid.

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Speaker 1: Did you notice everything? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Shana and Irving, Shana writes, my fiance

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Speaker 1: took a week off from work last month, and I

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Speaker 1: just found out he normally dresses casually for work, so

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Speaker 1: I assumed he was going to work when he left home.

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Speaker 1: His daughter is the one that snitched on him. Why

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Speaker 1: didn't he tell me he was off?

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Speaker 2: Because he didn't want to spend his off time with you.

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Speaker 3: Obviously he wanted to be off, h off, work off

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Speaker 3: for you, Wow, off of your mind, off his time.

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Speaker 3: And he left out that house every day like he

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Speaker 3: was going somewhere. Hey, that man probably just went out

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Speaker 3: somewhere and sat down and win.

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Speaker 1: Because this is her fiance, Celo. They're getting married.

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Speaker 2: Okay, they I gonna make it. Yeah, he tired of

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Speaker 2: you already.

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Speaker 1: Already lying to you. Wow. All right, this is the

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Speaker 1: last one. This is from Eric in Memphis. Eric writes,

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend's parents got her a new puppy for Christmas.

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Speaker 1: Her old dog died in twenty twenty four, and I

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Speaker 1: have been talking about getting another dog when the time

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Speaker 1: is right. Her parents said they decided it was perfect timing.

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Speaker 1: I'm planning to propose on her birthday this year. Will

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Speaker 1: her parents be a problem in our marriage? Good question?

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Speaker 3: Well, brouh, y'all not, Mary, you ain't proposed. They bought

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Speaker 3: their daughter dog. Obviously they know the daughter missed a

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Speaker 3: dog and they bought the dog. Are the parents gonna

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Speaker 3: be a problem? I don't they bought a dog.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he thinks they're interfering because.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, he said he was gonna buy her dog

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Speaker 3: at what we thought was the appropriate time.

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Speaker 2: What do you tell that to her mom and daddy?

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Speaker 1: Obviously not.

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Speaker 2: So they bought the dog. Hey, dog, listen to me.

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Speaker 2: Obviously you got.

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Speaker 3: Some control stuff going on if you wanted to have

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Speaker 3: control of that, and you didn't. It's a dog.

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Speaker 1: So what is what are you saying? You think they're

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Speaker 1: gonna make it when they get married?

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Speaker 2: Are they gonna I don't know about this married, but

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Speaker 2: that dog don't have.

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Speaker 1: To don't go there.

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Speaker 2: Huh that's where you go? Have you lost your mind? Puppy?

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Speaker 3: He will be playing a puppy. I'm just saying, as

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Speaker 3: a puppy, you got to whoo Ralphie rapie. I don't

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Speaker 3: think he's gonna be able to find his way back home.

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Speaker 3: I've never heard a puppy find their way back home.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 3: I can get up there and be a nice, nice,

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Speaker 3: nice little mountain family, mountain lion family, adopt him or something,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 2: I see them videos all the time.

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Speaker 1: What video? What are you talking about? Don't ask nothing else?

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Speaker 2: This morning, nothing showed apt just some white people.

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Speaker 1: They're a talking, you're listening hard morning show