1 00:00:02,840 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: All right, it's way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee, 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: and Jasmine from the Jasmine brand dot Com is here, 3 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: and Deborah Roberts is here with me, or should I 4 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,039 Speaker 1: say New York Times bestselling author? 5 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: Thank you? 6 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 1: Deborah Roberts is here, but you also know her as 7 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: being the ABC News senior National Affairs correspondent. Okay, and 8 00:00:22,440 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: thank you and welcome for coming to the show. 9 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:26,280 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me. I'm so thrilled too. 10 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: I said that wrong. Welcome and thank you for coming 11 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: to the show. Okay, I must be nervous. 12 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:31,639 Speaker 3: We understood it. I didn't. 13 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: I was like, did I say that wrong? 14 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:34,200 Speaker 3: I didn't even notice. 15 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: But lessons learned and cherish the teacher who changed my life. 16 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 1: You have put together this anthology. Is that what you 17 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:41,959 Speaker 1: would call it? 18 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 3: I guess you could call it collection anthology? Yeah? 19 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,840 Speaker 1: Yes, of different people talking about how teachers have affected 20 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: their lives. And I love that you did this. 21 00:00:51,280 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 4: Oh. 22 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 2: You and I talked about this last year when I 23 00:00:53,640 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: was still putting it together, and you liked the idea 24 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: at that point. 25 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: Yes, we were actually at the gala for Iberry Lions 26 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:05,160 Speaker 1: Gala for the New York Public library. And at that time, 27 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: I remember you were even hesitant about coming out right 28 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: because your husband, I worker. 29 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 2: Was ill. And he was like, go, yes exactly. I 30 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 2: was trying to remember that you're absolutely right. That was 31 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 2: the first event that I stepped out into having gone 32 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 2: through this this major illness with all. 33 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: Right, and I see he's back walking again. 34 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 2: Yes, he's walking. We had to get him up just going. 35 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 2: He was limping. 36 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: He got the knee replaced. Now he's walking better. 37 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 2: So now we hope he has parts of just been 38 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 2: changed out and we got a new model. 39 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:34,120 Speaker 3: He's ready to go. 40 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: Okay, a couple. 41 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 3: Of interior points, but other than that, he's good. 42 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 1: But that's good because I was like, she wasn't sure. 43 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: She was like, I don't want to leave, but he 44 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 1: was like, no, please go outside. So that's amazing. 45 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 3: Hovering is what he was saying. Let me have a moment. 46 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: And Deba, you're such an outdoors person too. 47 00:01:59,400 --> 00:01:59,840 Speaker 2: I am. 48 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I love jogging. 49 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm a big health enthusiast, fitness enthusiast, so 50 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: I love being outdoors and I. 51 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:07,320 Speaker 3: Just love nature. 52 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 2: I'm one of the few people when I'm out in 53 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 2: Central Park jogging who doesn't have earbuds in. 54 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 3: You want to hear. I want to hear. I want 55 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 3: to hear the birds. 56 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 2: I want to hear the horns talking. I want to 57 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: hear people talking, dogs barking. I want to hear the world. So, yes, 58 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:21,639 Speaker 2: I am an outdoor person. 59 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: It's hard for me to run with out headphones on too, 60 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 1: so that's interesting. If my batteries die, I'm like, I 61 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: can't do this, it's over. I'm going back in. I've 62 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 1: heard that's part of the workout is the music, the playlist. 63 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 4: But apparently for you, the sound. 64 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:36,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, my husband says that gets him through at the playlist, 65 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: that gets him through the exercise. 66 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 3: But for me, you know what, I think. I meditate, 67 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:43,280 Speaker 3: I pray, I work out. 68 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: Scripts in my head. I do all kinds of things 69 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 2: when I'm out running. 70 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: Now, let's get into some of your history, because we 71 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 1: learned a bit about you. And you know what's interesting 72 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 1: because even in the beginning of the book you talk 73 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: about being in fourth grade and schools, we don't even 74 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: realize that schools have not been desegregated for. 75 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 3: That long, certainly in the South, right, not that long. 76 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,359 Speaker 1: So in the fourth grade, that's that was. 77 00:03:07,320 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 2: When we desegregated schools. So I was in small town Georgia, Perry, Georgia, 78 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 2: and that was one of the cities that was among 79 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 2: a number in the South that had just fought and 80 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 2: fought and fought integration. So many other schools across the 81 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:22,840 Speaker 2: country had integrated, but ours had fought, you know, the Georgia, 82 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: the state of Georgia had fought, and so eventually the 83 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 2: edict came down, you know, brown versus the Board of 84 00:03:29,400 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 2: Education had already passed anyway, So we desegregated schools and 85 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 2: in the middle of the school year, in fourth grade, 86 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 2: for me, that was it. We're integrating, and I changed schools. 87 00:03:40,120 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: And as I said, it was like going to the 88 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 2: moon for some of us kids. We're all looking at 89 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 2: each other, white kids, black kids, trying to figure each 90 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 2: other out. 91 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 3: It was really fascinating. 92 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: It's funny that people will act like racism it's over, 93 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: it doesn't exist. We can move on, it doesn't matter. 94 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: But even if you think about it, it wasn't that 95 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: that long ago. 96 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 3: It wasn't that long ago. 97 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: And I mean it's still going on. 98 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 3: But yeah, yeah, we were still separate. 99 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 2: But I have to tell you, I really took to 100 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 2: a new environment, a new experience, new people, new friends. 101 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 3: You know. 102 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: Of course it was jarring for a lot of us, 103 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 2: but I just sort of took to and maybe that 104 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 2: was just sort of my persona. I wanted to discover 105 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 2: something new. The world was new, and sadly, we also 106 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 2: discovered the resources were greater, and we had not had 107 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 2: great resources in our segregated schools, so we suddenly had 108 00:04:31,040 --> 00:04:32,480 Speaker 2: better resources. 109 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 3: Too in these other schools. So it was it was 110 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 3: a whole new world in a way. 111 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: So let's talk about these teachers, because I feel like 112 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: when I was in elementary school, I remember going to 113 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: kindergarten for the first time. I have an older brother 114 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,520 Speaker 1: and he's a year older, and I wanted to go 115 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: to school so bad, right because every day he was 116 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: going to school and coming home and I'm like, I 117 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:53,839 Speaker 1: would cry, like I want to go to school. I 118 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: want to go to school too. And so my birthdays 119 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 1: in January. So I actually started kindergarten in fourth grade. 120 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,480 Speaker 1: I mean when I years. I don't know why I'm 121 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: messing everything up today, but I started kindergarten when I 122 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 1: was four yees. 123 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, otherwise you got to wait another arrest. 124 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, you wait another year, And so I went to school. 125 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: And the first day I went to school and came 126 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: back and I was crying and saying I didn't want 127 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,880 Speaker 1: to go to school anymore. What was bothering you about? 128 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 4: You know? 129 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 1: My teacher? And oddly enough I know her son now, right, 130 00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 1: he's in the music business. My kindergarten teacher. She wasn't 131 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 1: very nice. Yeah like that. When we were young, she 132 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: was very strict, and we used to have to raise 133 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 1: our hands to go to the bathroom, and sometimes she 134 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: would say, no, that is crazy. And I definitely paid 135 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: my pants a couple of times, and my mom would 136 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: have to come to school with my pants like folded 137 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:43,560 Speaker 1: up and change my. 138 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 3: When you were young too, you were four. 139 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm you scared to ask. 140 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you probably also thought it was just this 141 00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 2: magical thing, go to school. 142 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 3: It sounds so great. 143 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:54,160 Speaker 2: And then you got there and you realized there were 144 00:05:54,240 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 2: rules and yeah, restrictions, and there was learning going on. 145 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:00,600 Speaker 1: Yeah it was. And then but I do you remember 146 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: the teachers that they stand up the most of me 147 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: are the ones that were amazing, and then the ones 148 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: that weren't, you know. But I also know, like you said, 149 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: teachers do have it really rough as well, and they 150 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: have to always be on. Think about it. You can't 151 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,599 Speaker 1: go to school and not be on as a teacher 152 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,720 Speaker 1: in front of the classroom. The students are relying on 153 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: you. You have to have that energy. You have to always 154 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 1: be paying attention, like you can't really have an off day. 155 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,159 Speaker 4: And it's so many personalities in your class too. It's 156 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 4: just not that you have like five students. You have 157 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 4: like thirty students, and. 158 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 3: That's a lot. That's a lot. 159 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:33,520 Speaker 2: But you you hit on a good point that I 160 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,679 Speaker 2: found when I was talking to people about the book. 161 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: Not every teacher is warm. 162 00:06:37,839 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: And fuzzy and cozy, And that is not what the 163 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 2: descriptions were from people whom. 164 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 3: I talked to, right. 165 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 2: They weren't all saying, oh, I had the warmest, kindest 166 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 2: teacher ever. Some of them talked about tough experiences. Her 167 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 2: teacher was very tough. In fact, did something which today 168 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 2: most of us would probably consider maybe a little cruel 169 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 2: when Melody missed a spelling word on a test and 170 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 2: if everybody got it correctly and they had one hundred percent, 171 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 2: they would get. 172 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 3: Two Girl Scout cookies. 173 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: And she was so excited and she missed a word, 174 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 2: and she really misheard the words, so she put it 175 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 2: in past tense instead of present tense, so she essentially 176 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 2: had the word spelled right, but she just had the 177 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 2: wrong tense and she missed it. And when the teacher 178 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 2: said to her, it said to the class, well, you know, 179 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: I don't want everybody to suffer because Melody missed it. 180 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 3: And Melody thought, oh good, yes, she's going to make 181 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 3: an exception. 182 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: And she said, so, Melody, why don't you leave the 183 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 2: room and we will have our cookies and you will not. 184 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 2: And she walked out, and she said she remembered looking 185 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 2: in the window seeing the other kids having their cookies. Today, 186 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 2: people would see that as cruel worthy of the teacher 187 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 2: being expelled from school or kicked out suspended, But Melody 188 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 2: said that that was a lesson that taught her grit 189 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:57,520 Speaker 2: and determination and tenacity, and that she thinks the teacher 190 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 2: did it to her because she thought she could handle it. 191 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:03,560 Speaker 2: She wanted Melody to rise to the excellence, to the top, 192 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 2: and that was what that lesson was about. So it's 193 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,920 Speaker 2: it wasn't always about, you know, warm kind lessons. But 194 00:08:10,000 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 2: Melody thinks that she has become the woman that she is, 195 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: that is Titan, partly because she had some tough lessons 196 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 2: in life. 197 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: And Al Roker also said something similar, right, because he 198 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: did say that he thinks that today's kids everybody's in winter, 199 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 1: which is great. 200 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: He said, yes, yes, but he doesn't want kids to 201 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 2: be coddled. Let's not coddle kids. And his teacher, missus Fryar, 202 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 2: was a little tough like that too, called him fat 203 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 2: head and boras and I was like, wink, and. 204 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 4: I don't need a wink after that. 205 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 3: And that's exactly right. 206 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: And I said to Al, I don't see that as 207 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,080 Speaker 2: an uplifting story, and Ali said, you know. But she 208 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: did it in a way that was sort of fun. 209 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 2: It was almost like with a little bit of a 210 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: wink and a nod. And she knew our parents, and 211 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 2: she was this really great educator, and she had a 212 00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:56,080 Speaker 2: Southern drawl. 213 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 3: She came from the South. 214 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: She was joshing me, but she was also at the 215 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:01,960 Speaker 2: core of it, trying to make sure that we knew 216 00:09:02,000 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 2: that the world was not going to be easy and 217 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 2: and and kind to us always. So I thought, okay, 218 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 2: it was a little hazy. Yeah, But all said other 219 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,839 Speaker 2: kids had stories about mssus Fryer and they all laughed 220 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: and they thought it was sort of fine, but she. 221 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:18,439 Speaker 1: Managed to hand. I guess you had to be there. 222 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 3: You had to be there. 223 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 1: You had to be there, That's exactly. But that is 224 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: interesting because I do feel like today there's a lot 225 00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 1: more sensitivity than there used to be. 226 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:31,080 Speaker 2: You know. 227 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: I remember my sixth grade teacher. I was in this 228 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: program in elementary school, right Prep for Prep, and they 229 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: were saying, kids in fines sixth grade. We had to 230 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: go to school in the summer and Wednesdays and Saturdays, 231 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: but you had to be gifted to get into this program. 232 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: It was all this testing, it was free, and I 233 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,480 Speaker 1: remember she one day yelled at me because I was 234 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: really big on passing notes in class. Remember that, I 235 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: was did you or did you just pass them as 236 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: soon as the teacher had it back to and you'd 237 00:09:56,320 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: be like to the person and I still had some 238 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 1: my notes and yeah from elementary because I really was 239 00:10:04,200 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: big on that. Hilarious, and so I remember one day 240 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: she got in my face and yelled at me, and 241 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: she was like, you think you're so special, you think 242 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: you're so smart, and she was like yelling in my face. Yeah, 243 00:10:16,040 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 1: but I thought it, you know, the way that I 244 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:19,480 Speaker 1: was as a kid too, something like that, It's just 245 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: going to make me be more rebellious. So I was 246 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: just sitting there with my arm yeah, when my arms folded. 247 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 1: But you know, that always stuck with me because then 248 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,320 Speaker 1: you also feel like, see, you know, things did work 249 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: out for me. But I do remember certain things like 250 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: my second grade teacher. She owned an Italian restaurant and 251 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: she took us all there ones her husband did or something, 252 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 1: and that was like a big eat. I don't know, 253 00:10:44,559 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: jazz Man's in second grade, Miss Colaro, she owned Colaro's. 254 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 1: They had Colaro's restaurant. 255 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 3: But what a memory. 256 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 2: But what about the other one, the one who yelled 257 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 2: at you at the end. Do you think that you 258 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,960 Speaker 2: took a lesson from that that was useful? 259 00:10:57,160 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 1: I couldn't stand her, but I don't know. Here's the 260 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: other thing that she did. And I talked about this 261 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 1: one day too. She we only had gim once a week, 262 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 1: and so what she would do is she would write 263 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:09,960 Speaker 1: the word Jim on the board and if we were 264 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: like anytime we talked to much, she would cross a 265 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: letter off, so me three letters, so imagine all week long, 266 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: we have to try to not mess up, so we 267 00:11:18,080 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: would never have jim oh No, So she was always 268 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,680 Speaker 1: ryinga She was not a nice teacher, I will say 269 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: that much. And so I don't know what that really 270 00:11:29,360 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 1: did for me. I think some people, as teachers, I 271 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 1: don't know if I would feel like that. It didn't 272 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: break me down in any way, but I also didn't 273 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,280 Speaker 1: feel like I respected her. I guess as a teacher, 274 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:44,360 Speaker 1: that's the right word. 275 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 2: Well, a lot of these lessons are not necessarily by 276 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 2: design on the. 277 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 3: Part of the teachers. 278 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 2: I mean, I think in some cases teachers missus Hardy, 279 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 2: my teacher encouraged me. She, you know, said that you're 280 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:57,199 Speaker 2: smart and how you're going to go, You're going to 281 00:11:57,280 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 2: do well in life. But some of them were just teaching. 282 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 2: Maybe your teachers had had enough, maybe they were just 283 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:03,719 Speaker 2: frustrated or whatever, but. 284 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,360 Speaker 3: It was what you took from it. 285 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:08,600 Speaker 2: Tanya Lewis Lee talked about having one teacher who was 286 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: so encouraging when they lived in New Jersey. Happened to 287 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 2: be a black teacher who just filled her with such 288 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 2: confidence and she had such a great foundation. But then 289 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 2: when her family moved to the Midwest. She had another 290 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 2: teacher who was really really mean to her, but she 291 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 2: was able to sustain her confidence based on what she 292 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:27,200 Speaker 2: had already been taught. 293 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 3: But she said that she learned lessons about the world 294 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 3: being not such a nice place. 295 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:32,600 Speaker 1: That is an emperor, and. 296 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 2: So it wasn't necessarily the teacher probably trying to impart that, 297 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 2: but Tanya took something away from that and that actually 298 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 2: made her who she is. So hopefully, most teachers, you know, 299 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 2: have the good intentions they they and I think most 300 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 2: of them tried to do well by their students, but 301 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 2: there are some cases where they haven't. But some kids 302 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 2: have turned those into lessons later in life that did 303 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:55,720 Speaker 2: give them. 304 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: I've had some great, great teachers that I will say that. 305 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: I remember my biology so I went to poly Prep, 306 00:13:01,720 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 1: right of private school in Brooklyn, predominantly white, and she 307 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 1: was a black biol. I didn't even like biology, but 308 00:13:08,200 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: I liked her. And when it's time for me to 309 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:14,400 Speaker 1: apply for colleges, she was really helpful with that. You know, 310 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: I got into Wesleyan, but she wanted me to go 311 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 1: to Syracuse and so I, you know, applied there. She 312 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: made She really helped me throughout that whole process, and 313 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 1: she was very invested in like where I was going 314 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: to go to college. But that was nice even though, 315 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:30,200 Speaker 1: and I'll never forget that. In my basketball coach Coach 316 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:34,679 Speaker 1: Henderson name, Yeah, I remember that that I really really 317 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: liked a lot, and then I remember the ones that 318 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: I didn't really like. Those are the but and then 319 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 1: there's some that were like, Okay, they were cool. 320 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 2: Sort of like you know, middling. You know, you know, 321 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:43,719 Speaker 2: you barely remember them, but you know. 322 00:13:43,760 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 4: That's like people too, Like usually people that you kind 323 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 4: of don't have extreme like yeah, I love the people 324 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:50,719 Speaker 4: in the middle you kind of don't really remember. 325 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: But you know, it can dictate what you do for 326 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:55,360 Speaker 1: a living because, like you said, Missus Hardy told you 327 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 1: she thought that you were super smart and that really 328 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:00,720 Speaker 1: encouraged you as far as writing too. 329 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,280 Speaker 2: And grammar and all of those things that would lead 330 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 2: to public speaking. Missus Hardy was very much about diction 331 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 2: and speaking properly, and in her class, she was that 332 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 2: consummate English teacher, dressed impeccably in a dress in pantyhose, 333 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,760 Speaker 2: little heels, hair was just so, nails were painted red, 334 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 2: and she demanded, you know, excellence in English and I 335 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:22,640 Speaker 2: think that's one of the reasons today I correct my 336 00:14:22,760 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 2: children when they do all the time. 337 00:14:25,640 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: With these kids with these phones texting, write words out exact, 338 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 1: decipher what it means. They don't do long division. 339 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 3: No, no, they definitely don't do that. 340 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 2: But Leela will text me and then if she misspells 341 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 2: something or maybe she has the tense wrong, she will 342 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 2: correct it right Away's mom, I meant to say, such as, 343 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 2: that's funny, and it's funny because she knows. 344 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 1: To be like ma'am. Because that matters with dating too. 345 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: I feel like too. I mean, you haven't dated in 346 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: a long time. 347 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:53,680 Speaker 3: Yes, it's been a while. 348 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: But when it comes to dating and guys, I pay 349 00:14:57,120 --> 00:15:01,080 Speaker 1: attention to how men text you and how they communicate 350 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: with you, because you want them to make the effort 351 00:15:02,920 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: to spell things right, write out the words exactly. 352 00:15:06,080 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 2: I hate when people write your yo you are instead 353 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: of wyou apostrophe are. 354 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:14,200 Speaker 3: It drives me nuts a text message, in a text. 355 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 2: Message, I hate that. Now sometimes the phone does autocorrection. 356 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 2: I will give them the benefit of the down. Somebody 357 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 2: says your special you are special. 358 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 3: It makes me nuts. That's missus hardy. 359 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate when I write where are you going, 360 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: and it changes to where you hoeing? 361 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 3: Like that I haven't gotten that. 362 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 4: I'm trying to curse, and it keeps correcting. 363 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 3: I'm trying to do this. 364 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: But you know What's one really actually made me tear 365 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:43,600 Speaker 1: up one of the stories in here because you have 366 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: you know, a lot of different really notable people from 367 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 1: all different walks of life talking about their experiences with 368 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:54,120 Speaker 1: their teachers. Rosie Perez, Yes, when I tell you, when 369 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:57,760 Speaker 1: you read her story about her teacher who he didn't 370 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: even know he affected her the way that he did, 371 00:16:00,560 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: it's gonna make you be like, yes, you know that. 372 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 2: Was almost in tears when Rosie told me the story, 373 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 2: and you know she what I loved about this, I 374 00:16:06,960 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 2: have to tell you too. It was just a it 375 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 2: was just a joyous experience in a way. I mean 376 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 2: people talk about a labor of love. It really was 377 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 2: because every time I sat down to talk to somebody, 378 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 2: I would come away with something from their story. And 379 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: Rosie was so intentional in telling the story. And I 380 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 2: had heard before that she grew up in foster care, 381 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: had a chaotic background, you know, growing up, But when 382 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 2: she talked about the details of being this very insecure, 383 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 2: shy little girl who had a speech impediment and you know, 384 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 2: her English was not that great, and this teacher saw 385 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:41,040 Speaker 2: something in her just that she needed kindness and encouragement, 386 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 2: and how he encouraged her to do things like dance 387 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 2: when they had a little dance contest, or to play 388 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 2: softball and raise her hand in class and told her 389 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 2: you are smart. 390 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:52,840 Speaker 3: She said, I'm not smart. Yes, you are smart, and 391 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 3: that just. 392 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 2: A fire was sort of lit in her that she 393 00:16:56,280 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 2: actually began to believe in herself because this teacher gave her, 394 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 2: in a way permission to believe in herself when she 395 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,840 Speaker 2: didn't think she could and should. And I just love 396 00:17:05,920 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 2: that story. 397 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 1: That is amazing. She reconnected with him too. 398 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 2: Yes, after she did do the right thing, he called 399 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 2: her up and she was just so touched. 400 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 4: What I like about this also is when I'm reading 401 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 4: the stories, I can read it in their voice. So 402 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 4: when I'm like reading Shirley Rapp. 403 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:20,920 Speaker 1: Right, I hear her, I hear her. 404 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 4: You know, I'm hearing those voices also, hear Michelle will 405 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 4: I to hear Michelle William saying it like I was 406 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 4: like reading it in their voices. 407 00:17:27,800 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 3: And you know, and you know, Cheryl is so expressive 408 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 3: in her face. 409 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:32,959 Speaker 1: I was like, she could tell a story about like 410 00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 1: where's the bathroom. 411 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 2: And she turns it into something that's just trauma, the drama, 412 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 2: the drama. And when Cheryl I zumed. I recorded a 413 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:43,600 Speaker 2: lot of the all of these for the most part, 414 00:17:43,920 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 2: and Cheryl lee when she called me on a I'm 415 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 2: guessing it was a week day, but they were on 416 00:17:50,280 --> 00:17:54,080 Speaker 2: a break from shooting Abbot Elementary that morning and it 417 00:17:54,240 --> 00:17:56,680 Speaker 2: was eight in the morning her time, eleven hour time, 418 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,679 Speaker 2: and Cheryl had on like a sleep bonnet and she 419 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:04,199 Speaker 2: was eating of something eggs and drinking coffee, and she 420 00:18:04,480 --> 00:18:07,639 Speaker 2: was expressive in telling me about her parents, and I 421 00:18:07,800 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 2: just chuckled. 422 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 3: I thought, this is Cheryl. He he sus vented Cheryl. 423 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: And it's perfect. She's, you know, a teacher on Abbed Elementary. 424 00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: Her parents were both teacher, Yes, yes, man. And I 425 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 1: also was just thinking about like the role that parents 426 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: play as far as how they communicate with your teachers, 427 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 1: you know, to because all that kind of has to 428 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,720 Speaker 1: work together together. Like where do you think you would 429 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: be if it wasn't for having good teachers in life? 430 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 1: Because a lot of times if kids don't have those 431 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: teachers who actually take the extra care and the time 432 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:40,280 Speaker 1: to sit with them, to make them feel special, to 433 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:43,320 Speaker 1: even say things like you are very smart. You know, 434 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,520 Speaker 1: we don't know where we might be, like a Misty Copeland. 435 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,880 Speaker 1: Misty Copeland tells her story. 436 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 2: Oh, she talks about miss Canteen, who not only encouraged 437 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,640 Speaker 2: I know, not necessarily, but some of them I've gone 438 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 2: over again. But some of them I just remember the 439 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:01,239 Speaker 2: names and just this or were like my babies. I mean, 440 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,800 Speaker 2: I just got to know them so intimately. But when 441 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 2: she talked about missus Canteen buying her ballet shoes and 442 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:10,400 Speaker 2: financially helping her a little at ballet, Misty also had 443 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:14,679 Speaker 2: a very chaotic, precarious home situation. And this teacher, Misty 444 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,240 Speaker 2: was dancing at like twelve or thirteen years old. Many 445 00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 2: kids are in ballet at age three five, she was dancing, 446 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 2: and they were. 447 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:25,440 Speaker 1: Mad that she was just walking on like you're the captain, and. 448 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, but she was good and she was very 449 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 3: shy and quiet. People didn't know it. 450 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 2: In fact, I think she said her sister was even shocked, 451 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 2: like NIC's Misty because they called her mouth. She was 452 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 2: so quiet, but that was where she found her her 453 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 2: voice in dance, and missus Canteen encouraged that and they're 454 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:41,720 Speaker 2: still friends to this day. 455 00:19:41,920 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 1: That's so amazing. One thing I like about this too 456 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: is I told you this when we were at the 457 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 1: library Lions galap But I wanted to be a teacher 458 00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:51,719 Speaker 1: at one point in my life. When I was in college, 459 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:54,840 Speaker 1: I did urban education semester and so I was teaching 460 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 1: in Washington Heights and it was what I kind of 461 00:19:58,440 --> 00:20:01,520 Speaker 1: wanted to do because I think being able to affect 462 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 1: lives in that way is so important. The job that 463 00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:07,520 Speaker 1: teachers have is one of the most important jobs because 464 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,959 Speaker 1: these kids today have so much to deal with. I 465 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,160 Speaker 1: remember going to talk at this school, a charter school, 466 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:15,560 Speaker 1: and they had to deal with social media and them 467 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: explaining to me, like why when one person writes this, 468 00:20:19,280 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: and I have to stick up for my friends so 469 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:22,919 Speaker 1: I can't not get on there and defend this, and 470 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: then it turns into this whole big thing and then 471 00:20:25,080 --> 00:20:27,120 Speaker 1: it goes to school like we didn't have to grow 472 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:30,520 Speaker 1: up thinking about those things at all. And you got 473 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 1: so tough. 474 00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 2: If you got left out of the party, you found 475 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 2: out Monday, maybe somebody called you on Sunday, but you 476 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:36,359 Speaker 2: found out Monday. 477 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: That just sucks. 478 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 2: And now it's in the moment, right, you know, they're 479 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:42,520 Speaker 2: out there having a party and having fun or going 480 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 2: to whatever, and you're left out. So there are so 481 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,680 Speaker 2: many more things that teachers have to deal with gun violence. 482 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 3: Yes, you know. 483 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 2: State legislatures that are now like dictating how they can 484 00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:53,879 Speaker 2: what you can teach. 485 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:57,639 Speaker 3: So they're up against a lot more today than they 486 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 3: were I think when we were. 487 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:01,400 Speaker 4: Growing sure, and they're not compa like they should be either, 488 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 4: right at all? 489 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: Right, do you remember since you brought what you can 490 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 1: teach in school? Right? Do you remember learning about like 491 00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: Juneteenth or I never learned about that, growl. I think 492 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:16,359 Speaker 1: I learned about that watching like Blackish and Blackish. 493 00:21:16,440 --> 00:21:17,760 Speaker 3: Yes, I think for a lot of people. 494 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 4: I think when I left moved to DC, I heard 495 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 4: about it and I was like an adult at that 496 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:22,480 Speaker 4: point when I but. 497 00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 2: Not in school, right, right, we definitely didn't have the 498 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 2: black history you know text and me remember one week 499 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:32,199 Speaker 2: out of the year you would have these autobiographies that 500 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 2: you talk about. But yes, but even more so though, Angela, 501 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,199 Speaker 2: I don't even think it's just that it's you know, books, 502 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 2: books were allowed and so forth, and we didn't think 503 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 2: about that. The library was one of my favorite places. 504 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:46,520 Speaker 2: I talk about my librarian in there, and partly because 505 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,560 Speaker 2: I liked her so much. So it wasn't that I 506 00:21:48,600 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 2: was seeking out all these books that would be controversial 507 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 2: and so forth, which is so ironic now when we're 508 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,959 Speaker 2: talking about books that Huldren should not be allowed amongst 509 00:21:57,000 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 2: our kids. That's really more just about the freedom. But 510 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 2: for me, it was really more about what those teachers 511 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,679 Speaker 2: in the librarian, all those educators represented. It was what 512 00:22:05,760 --> 00:22:07,960 Speaker 2: they represented and how they encouraged you. 513 00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: And even not just the staff, like everything that goes 514 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:12,920 Speaker 1: into going to school, the bus driver you know when 515 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:18,440 Speaker 1: you get to school, the custodian, the guidance counselor the pribyteria. Yeah, 516 00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 1: people who work in the cafeteria literally to the crossing guards. 517 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:23,960 Speaker 3: Yeah you got something. 518 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: You love to see the crossing guard every day, like hi, 519 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 1: you've running across the street. 520 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 2: No, it was a magical time I think for a 521 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 2: lot of us, which is not to sugarcoated and say 522 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 2: that everybody had great teachers and everybody had great experiences. 523 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,359 Speaker 2: But I tell you Almost any time I mentioned a 524 00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 2: teacher to somebody, somebody lights up and says, oh, mister 525 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,920 Speaker 2: so and so, and sometimes it might even be a 526 00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:49,879 Speaker 2: difficult time. A friend of mine, who is a doctor 527 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 2: here in New York City said, missus so and so 528 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 2: in the Bronx saved my life. I wasn't able to read. 529 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 2: I was having all kinds of problems. She could see that, 530 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 2: and she held me after school to make sure she 531 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:03,159 Speaker 2: tutored me. And that wasn't even what she was supposed 532 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:05,199 Speaker 2: to do. I can't remember what the subject was, but 533 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,840 Speaker 2: she made sure that he would be up to level 534 00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,200 Speaker 2: and could read and could do what he needed to do. 535 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 2: And he's you know this really really well regarded doctor 536 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 2: here in New York right now. 537 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 4: When I was in elementary school, my mom was an 538 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 4: abusive relationship. It is somehow it came out at school, 539 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 4: like I think I was drawing crazy stuff or whatever, 540 00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:25,480 Speaker 4: and so my teacher talked to the principal and like 541 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 4: every day they would check on me, like you're okay, 542 00:23:27,320 --> 00:23:29,159 Speaker 4: were you by yourself last night? Did you eat like 543 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,840 Speaker 4: they would and they never they never like call child 544 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:33,639 Speaker 4: protective services. 545 00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 3: But they really like took care of you. So care 546 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,040 Speaker 3: of me, like just like that entire year. 547 00:23:37,560 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 4: And I always remember like that principle and that teacher, 548 00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,239 Speaker 4: you know, because you just never know what students are 549 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 4: going through at home, and you know they're really important 550 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 4: in terms of like they shape us and help us. 551 00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 3: That's true. 552 00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 2: They gave me goosebumps just now because Lucy Lou had 553 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 2: a similar story too, about a teacher who just saw 554 00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 2: that she needed some kindness, she needed some help, some 555 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 2: extra tutoring, and he kept her after school to do it. 556 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 2: She had, you know, Chinese immigrant parents who didn't speak English. 557 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 2: You know, she was having difficulty and this teacher just 558 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,640 Speaker 2: showed her kindness and that made all the difference. 559 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,439 Speaker 1: And that was part of what made me feel like 560 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,159 Speaker 1: and I always bem like, man, maybe I would have 561 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,080 Speaker 1: been a teacher that could have been really amazing. I 562 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 1: remember this. One of the students showed me her diary 563 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: because you know, I guess she felt like she could 564 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,920 Speaker 1: share it with me, and it was things in there 565 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 1: that I was like, Okay, you are in the seventh 566 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,879 Speaker 1: grade and you should not be doing things like this. 567 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: And I really didn't know how, you know, she wanted 568 00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,199 Speaker 1: it to be confidential and I really didn't know, Like, 569 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: how do you handle something like that when it comes 570 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: to what these young girls are going through and having 571 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 1: to deal with. 572 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's tough. It's a very tough job. But the 573 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,040 Speaker 2: teachers who do it love it. The teachers who really 574 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 2: you know, just go in there every day knowing that 575 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 2: they're sometimes dealing with difficulty, love it. They spend their 576 00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:55,359 Speaker 2: own money. Three quarters of teachers have second jobs. Spend 577 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: their own money to sort of help kids or to 578 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,199 Speaker 2: either buy supplies, which is one of the reasons as 579 00:25:00,240 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 2: part of the proceeds are going to donors choose. Donors choose, 580 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:08,439 Speaker 2: which is basically a way of funding resources for teachers. 581 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 2: If they need a new whiteboard, if they need a 582 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 2: new iPad. You can actually choose ways to donate to 583 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 2: help teachers. 584 00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 1: And that's amazing, and you're right a lot of times 585 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: teachers also I saw in Spike Leester he was talking 586 00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,879 Speaker 1: about at Morehouse, his professor would come in on days 587 00:25:21,880 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 1: off to help him work on this documentary that he 588 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 1: was doing because he was just filming things, and he 589 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:29,000 Speaker 1: was like, why don't you do a documentary? And just 590 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:31,640 Speaker 1: things like that is amazing and maybe at the time 591 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:33,200 Speaker 1: you're not even thinking, wow, he has a day off. 592 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,239 Speaker 1: He's just coming in. You don't appreciate it, but in 593 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: retrospect you're like, wow, he's get out. 594 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 2: Of his time exactly, And that's what That's the beauty 595 00:25:40,280 --> 00:25:42,760 Speaker 2: of teachers. They are not getting paid for as much 596 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,040 Speaker 2: as they're doing, but they are changing lives. 597 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 1: Now, speaking of getting paid for things, did you take 598 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,679 Speaker 1: care of this refrigerator situation? 599 00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 3: Gosh, I'm like, we're still in the throws. 600 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 2: Our refrigerator broke down last week in our house up state, 601 00:25:56,680 --> 00:26:00,159 Speaker 2: New York, and just in time for the Memorial Day holiday. 602 00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:02,040 Speaker 3: We're working on it right now. 603 00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,879 Speaker 2: I was on the phone with the guy yesterday because 604 00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 2: all the goop and the pots and everything melted onto 605 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,400 Speaker 2: the floor. So now the floorboards have to come up 606 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 2: and then. 607 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 1: Get the things that happen. 608 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,520 Speaker 3: That's a homeowner whole thing, exactly. 609 00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 1: I like that you share so much of your own 610 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,640 Speaker 1: personal life on social media. I think you're really great 611 00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: at doing that because it's very relatable for people who 612 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 1: are like, oh my god, that was real life. 613 00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:25,160 Speaker 3: Yes, that was real life. 614 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:28,119 Speaker 2: And I try not to always just have sparkly beautiful, 615 00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:28,439 Speaker 2: you know. 616 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:29,640 Speaker 3: Angela and I were at this event. 617 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,240 Speaker 2: We both look so pretty, but the next day anything 618 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 2: could be happening. Yes, no makeup on in the park, 619 00:26:35,080 --> 00:26:37,479 Speaker 2: you know whatever. I try to give a little bit 620 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:38,119 Speaker 2: of realism. 621 00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 1: How much does the news affect you when you're not 622 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:42,679 Speaker 1: at work, because there are a lot of stories that 623 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:44,800 Speaker 1: are really tough to report. A lot of things can 624 00:26:44,840 --> 00:26:48,800 Speaker 1: happen that are disappointing when it comes to you know, 625 00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:51,439 Speaker 1: everything that's going on in Congress and all the battles 626 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,119 Speaker 1: that are happening there right now. 627 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:57,320 Speaker 2: Tragedies, gunfire, yea gun. I was doing an interview yesterday 628 00:26:57,560 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 2: for twenty twenty about a family, a woman who was 629 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 2: out and killed by her boyfriend and had a six 630 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 2: year old daughter in the family. Was talking about the 631 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:07,919 Speaker 2: heartbreak of the whole thing. It's it's very hard, and 632 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,159 Speaker 2: you know, you do enough enough of these stories, and 633 00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,160 Speaker 2: it's hard for me. I'm a mom, I'm a wife, 634 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 2: I'm a sister, I'm a daughter. It's hard not to 635 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:17,800 Speaker 2: carry some of this with you. And you go home 636 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,080 Speaker 2: and you think about these people that you just sat 637 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:22,720 Speaker 2: down with and took a part of their lives into 638 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,560 Speaker 2: your life, and yeah, I mean. 639 00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 3: Like anybody else, and it's very hard. 640 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,040 Speaker 2: It's hard to watch this and it's hard to filter 641 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 2: it out and report on it and not be affected 642 00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 2: by it. That's why I like running in the park. Yeah, 643 00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 2: nothing in my ears, so I could just clear my mom. 644 00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,120 Speaker 1: Like, I don't want to hand none of this stuff. 645 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: I just want some mee terre yes, birds talk to 646 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,359 Speaker 1: me the birds yea. On vacation, are you able to 647 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 1: turn it off? Are you still checking up on everything? 648 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 1: I you know what? 649 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 2: I take magazines, That's that's my kind of mind. Candy 650 00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 2: on the plane. When I get there, I take Vogue 651 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,040 Speaker 2: and I take all the fun magazines. But I also 652 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,640 Speaker 2: like to take a good book too. I check the headlines. 653 00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 2: I know what's going on. I'm like, you know, that's right, 654 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 2: But I don't want all the details. I don't want 655 00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 2: all the details because I need a moment to just decompress. 656 00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:06,200 Speaker 1: Now, are you about to be a grandmother? 657 00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:09,960 Speaker 3: I'm about to be a d d GG something I 658 00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 3: don't know. I don't know a grandmother. But I'm not 659 00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 3: calling myself back. What are you thinking about? What I 660 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 3: do not know? 661 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:20,040 Speaker 2: But Courtney, me, my stepdaughter is pregnant and you in 662 00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 2: a couple of months and she says, well, you have 663 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,199 Speaker 2: to figure out what the baby's gonna call you. 664 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 3: I said, the baby won't be talking for a couple 665 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:25,240 Speaker 3: of years. 666 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 4: We have. 667 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:27,440 Speaker 3: Time. 668 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,720 Speaker 2: So yeah, I'm about to be yes a grandmother figure, 669 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,960 Speaker 2: but we will not be calling me ground. Oh my god, 670 00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 2: it feels weird, right dd gg something like that is cute. 671 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 3: Yes, we'll come up with something. 672 00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 4: Come pick me up? Gg? 673 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 1: Can you pick me up? 674 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,920 Speaker 4: Got? They go keep saying their whole life though. 675 00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 1: Exactly when you found out about the New York Times. 676 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 3: You really want to hear this story. 677 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 2: So Al was having his knee replacement surgery and he, uh, 678 00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 2: you know, he was ready to be picked up. I 679 00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,040 Speaker 2: was waiting on that Wednesday to find out what. I 680 00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 2: didn't know when we would find out. So I go 681 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 2: to pick Al up. It's four o'clock because it's sort 682 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 2: of late. Biden is in town. The traffic is snarled. 683 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to him, and his painkillers are 684 00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 2: wearing off by the time I get to him. 685 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 3: So I get him in the car. 686 00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 4: She can set a scene like I feel like I'm there. 687 00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 3: So I get there. 688 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 2: He gets in the cars leg you know, of course, 689 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 2: it's stiff, and he's trying to get in. 690 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:25,280 Speaker 3: He's wincing in pain. 691 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,360 Speaker 2: We have all this traffic, we're hitting bumps along the way, 692 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:31,840 Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, I get an email that says, congratulations, 693 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 2: you made the New York Times. 694 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,280 Speaker 3: Best I know and alics, what what? 695 00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 1: What? What? 696 00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 3: I made the New York Times bestseller listed? He said, congratulations. 697 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: It's not about me right now, this is about you. 698 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:45,240 Speaker 2: So I helped. 699 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 3: Alo the into the house as. 700 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,800 Speaker 2: I was trying to think about the excitement of the 701 00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 2: New York Times bestseller list. 702 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:53,280 Speaker 3: It was a memorable moment. 703 00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 1: Trust me, We'll never forget it. 704 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:56,200 Speaker 3: We will never forget that. 705 00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,120 Speaker 1: Well, thank you so much. I'm so happy that you 706 00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: came in joining us and actually shared this. I think 707 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: teachers would really appreciate this, because I also feel like 708 00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 1: teachers do not get the love and adoration and credit 709 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: that they should get. 710 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,080 Speaker 2: I agree with you, this is and the money that 711 00:30:10,080 --> 00:30:11,760 Speaker 2: they should get, and the money. This is a love 712 00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 2: letter to teachers, and it's a reminder about all the 713 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 2: things that they do, and I hope it opens a 714 00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,040 Speaker 2: conversation about the importance of what they do. 715 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 1: Yes, well, very inspiring. Thank you so much. You're very inspiring. 716 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 2: You are very inspiring. Thank you so much, and it's 717 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 2: always fun to be with you. 718 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: Yay, thank you, Deva, Robberts we're gonna hit the town again. 719 00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 3: Well,