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Speaker 2: taking like a man. Niggas looking like Larry Hanks, flapping

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Speaker 2: is a strong word, but I feel like I recovered it.

439
00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:33,000
Speaker 3: By the end of the week. I was like, what

440
00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:34,320
Speaker 3: the fuck am I doing? This is stupid?

441
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 2: While am I talking to these people like let me

442
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,560
Speaker 2: get myself back together? But I was, you know, kind

443
00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 2: of like, uh, failing at what I was attempting to do,

444
00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:48,160
Speaker 2: which is to step away and detox instead of you know,

445
00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:49,199
Speaker 2: stepping back in it.

446
00:20:49,640 --> 00:20:52,160
Speaker 4: Uh Oka ahead, Oh I about to say and uh,

447
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,040
Speaker 4: because I know we kind of function very differently. I

448
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,439
Speaker 4: know you're a lot more just in the active in

449
00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,440
Speaker 4: general on social media.

450
00:20:59,520 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 7: Me.

451
00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 4: I have perents where I'm interactive online and like I

452
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,919
Speaker 4: said that, and I'm an impath too to an extent,

453
00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,400
Speaker 4: I think you a little bit more than me because

454
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:11,639
Speaker 4: I'm quick to be like the fuck you talking about?

455
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,719
Speaker 4: And do do do? Do do? Going about my business?

456
00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 4: Like you ain't even talking talk to me? But I

457
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,280
Speaker 4: think that's part of my personality and to me, words

458
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 4: mean things, so I don't want to the way I

459
00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,320
Speaker 4: internalize it and what you mean might not be the

460
00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,959
Speaker 4: same thing. So sometimes it's best not to engage because

461
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 4: the because and I understand social media, part of social

462
00:21:30,359 --> 00:21:32,959
Speaker 4: media is engaged meent. Don't get me wrong, but I

463
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:36,920
Speaker 4: feel as though some people don't know how to engage

464
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:41,440
Speaker 4: and how to properly engage, and the norms of if

465
00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:43,920
Speaker 4: you would have met me in real life don't apply online.

466
00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:47,200
Speaker 4: And because of that, I tap out a whole lot

467
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:48,760
Speaker 4: because I was like, oh, if you was in my face.

468
00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:50,119
Speaker 4: You wouldn't be yelling at me. If you was in

469
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:51,639
Speaker 4: my face, you wouldn't be screaming at me. If you

470
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:52,920
Speaker 4: was in my face, you'd be talking like you have

471
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:55,199
Speaker 4: some fucking common sense. So a lot of times for me,

472
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,000
Speaker 4: that's why on certain things I'll tap out.

473
00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, so let me finish off this on my bad.

474
00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 3: That was a big tangent. But let me get back.

475
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 2: It's like doing it, says yeah, like when y'all take

476
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 2: off for self care rest, it's like doing methadone knowing

477
00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 2: full well you are waiting for Frank Lucas to bring

478
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 2: the next shipment of the Blue Magic. Thank you, thank

479
00:22:13,240 --> 00:22:16,439
Speaker 2: you for the five star reviewban.

480
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,480
Speaker 3: Uh.

481
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 2: And we have comments on the website and like I said,

482
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,639
Speaker 2: we got nothing on Stitcher, So we got comments on

483
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:23,359
Speaker 2: the website.

484
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 3: We had our feedback.

485
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:30,480
Speaker 2: Episode, which was Neo Negro Spiritual and uh uh.

486
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 3: They told me to actually pronounce the name Ebe.

487
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: They said, hey, y'all, you said my screen name right

488
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 2: the last time, but you can just shorten it to

489
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 2: ebe abbe ebbe abb abby okay, ebbie okay, like ebany okay,

490
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:49,440
Speaker 2: got it, Ebbe. I know I'm absolutely in the minority here.

491
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,880
Speaker 2: But I grew up eating sugar grits for a few years.

492
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 2: That's why I don't blame sugar grits eat us.

493
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:57,639
Speaker 3: It's really gay parents, Like who introduced you to sugar grits?

494
00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,400
Speaker 3: Like you know what I'm saying.

495
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,919
Speaker 2: Uh, For a few years there, I didn't even know

496
00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:02,879
Speaker 2: save regrets were a thing. The other side of my

497
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 2: family was behind my back and screwed up their faces

498
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,440
Speaker 2: when I said I like, when I said I like

499
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 2: sugar in my grits.

500
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 4: They ain't tell you. They ain't tell you that. It

501
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 4: was like no, baby, no.

502
00:23:11,680 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 3: And I just knew right then and day that I

503
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:15,480
Speaker 3: was probably weird. Lol.

504
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: But even as a kid, I was very particular about it.

505
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 2: I didn't just lob some sugar in my grits. Ew

506
00:23:20,960 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 2: For why, I have always basically made them punkin spice

507
00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 2: when I make them at home.

508
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:27,359
Speaker 3: It's not punkin spice.

509
00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:30,360
Speaker 2: I always add, if not punkin spicce, I always add

510
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,960
Speaker 2: runner the meal, spices and flavor and stuff you use

511
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 2: when bacon, like vanilla beans. I might even pair with

512
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:41,639
Speaker 2: some kind of caramelized fruit as skipped directly adding sugar

513
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: in there. On a lazy day, I might just butter

514
00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,600
Speaker 2: and cinnamon and a little sugar, just enough to make

515
00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:48,080
Speaker 2: it sweet.

516
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 3: So while I'm pretty sure punkin spice grits are on.

517
00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 2: The mainstream thing or even a thing you can have

518
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: made for you at a restaurant, I've definitely always made them.

519
00:23:57,640 --> 00:24:01,560
Speaker 2: I eat both sweet and savory, so I'm grits for breakfast, lunch, dinner,

520
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 2: and dessert.

521
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 6: Lol.

522
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,879
Speaker 2: They're just a versatile thing and so easy of personalize.

523
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,600
Speaker 2: Obviously I didn't commonize food as a kid, but I

524
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,919
Speaker 2: definitely would go into the kitchen and look at the

525
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 2: spice rack and make up new combinations of stuff. I

526
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,720
Speaker 2: just ain't know it was called punkin spice until the

527
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 2: Starbus drink got popular and I had to look up

528
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 2: what the fuck that meant. Also, as a horror movie fan,

529
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 2: you are absolutely right. We were marathon all none Freddy

530
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 2: Kruger movies knowing good and damn well most of them

531
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 2: are not good.

532
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 3: Lol.

533
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 2: The original IT mini series over three hours long, and

534
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 2: I used to have to watch it on cable channels

535
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 2: with commercials, so you were literally sitting there all day

536
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,239
Speaker 2: if you got through it. Yeah, that makes a lot

537
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 2: of sense, Ebbie, And.

538
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,360
Speaker 3: You know to be frank Man.

539
00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:48,959
Speaker 2: I'm not even shitting on horror films being shitty films, Like,

540
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:50,959
Speaker 2: it's just not my genre.

541
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 3: I love a genre.

542
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: Of shitty, terrible, don't make sense films. A couple of

543
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 2: them actually impossible white Man, my favorite genre.

544
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 3: Friend films.

545
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 2: They're not good films normally, they make no fucking sense,

546
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: like the that's kind of the point. The less sense

547
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: they make, the funner, the the better they are. I

548
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,920
Speaker 2: don't want a movie where the realism of guy shooting

549
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 2: it out with twenty people means he's probably gonna get

550
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 2: killed within three seconds, Like no, give me the movie

551
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,240
Speaker 2: where John Wick has managed to go fucking six hundred

552
00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 2: and seventy eight undefeated killings in a row.

553
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 5: You know.

554
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 2: So, I think people feel attacked when you say you

555
00:25:29,240 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 2: don't like something they're into or that's not your thing,

556
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 2: But it's not a personal attack.

557
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:35,440
Speaker 3: And that's one of the reasons.

558
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 2: Like I love doing our movie review podcasts, and I

559
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 2: feel like, damn, I haven't been reviewing enough movies lately.

560
00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 3: We were gonna get back to the theater and all

561
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 3: this stuff.

562
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 2: But when I look up on a Thursday or Friday

563
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 2: and I see that they're films I'm not into. I

564
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,600
Speaker 2: don't want to go review those just to turn around

565
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 2: and shit on those films for people that are really

566
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 2: big fans that are listening to us, wanting to get

567
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,960
Speaker 2: our perspective, and then you just hear I don't even

568
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,160
Speaker 2: like hard I'm not had a no clown like who

569
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,399
Speaker 2: wants to like. I don't even like reviews that do

570
00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:06,159
Speaker 2: that shit where they keep reviewing shit they hate, like

571
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,119
Speaker 2: what's wrong with you? You know, like, move on to

572
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 2: some There's too much content out here now in the

573
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,480
Speaker 2: world to even keep up. Move on to that thing

574
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 2: you like, talk about that thing, you know. So yeah,

575
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,760
Speaker 2: so it's not a knock on people that like it.

576
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 2: I hope they enjoyed that three and a half hours

577
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,960
Speaker 2: in the theater and look forward to it the way

578
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:26,720
Speaker 2: I look forward to Endgame this year, Like this could

579
00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 2: be their hard end Game. That's cool. But yeah, horror

580
00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:32,199
Speaker 2: movies to me don't have to make sense, you know,

581
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 2: and my other favorite genre that that can be very shitty,

582
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 2: but I still love it. Matter of fact, I was

583
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 2: I watched two things within the last week that was

584
00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 2: based in this genre.

585
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 3: But it's basically white people fucking with shit.

586
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 2: Dang, I know, business fucking with you know now it

587
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 2: doesn't have to technically be white people, but the whole

588
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 2: like we're trying to recall it.

589
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 3: We're trying to colonize a planet.

590
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 2: Like all right, well, I guess you guys didn't know

591
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 2: that they have nocturnal spiders at Uh, wait till you

592
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 2: can go all day and just hang out on the

593
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 2: planet and get high on the planets like flowers and

594
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 2: all this shit, and then boom, spiders pop out the

595
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,600
Speaker 2: ground try to eat your ass. At didn't see that coming,

596
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: did you? You know that type of shit, but you

597
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 2: had to explore? Like my my favorite one, right, my

598
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 2: new my new fave is. I just watched this whole

599
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: series in like two days. It's on Netflix. It's called

600
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 2: Another Life and the Stars. My girl Katie Sackhoff, who

601
00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:33,639
Speaker 2: you guys may know a Starbuck from the uh what

602
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,080
Speaker 2: was his name? Battlestar Galactica. I think there should be

603
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 2: a sub genre MOVI. It's called Katie Sackoff and.

604
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 3: Doing space things, doing things. Uh. She's just one of

605
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:43,679
Speaker 3: my faves.

606
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 2: And I fucking love Another Life, Like it's so bad,

607
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 2: but it's so good because it's just people fucking with

608
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,840
Speaker 2: shit that you know you shouldn't fuck with, and every

609
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,600
Speaker 2: it's like they set up everything to go and you're

610
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:01,280
Speaker 2: just looking.

611
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 3: At it the whole time, like, wait a minute, So.

612
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 2: Y'all made the AI and the spaceship have emotions. Now

613
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 2: why would you do that? Why would you do something

614
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 2: like that? What emotions are the problem? That's what's wrong

615
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:14,520
Speaker 2: with people?

616
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 3: You know.

617
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,960
Speaker 2: Oh, every character on the ship is fucking each other. Now,

618
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:22,639
Speaker 2: how's that gonna work? You know, like oh, there's just

619
00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,679
Speaker 2: so many moments where you're like they're like, wow, we

620
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 2: found a planet with breathable air. Wow, it looks yeah,

621
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: we need to collect some resource from here. We can

622
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,120
Speaker 2: bring it back to the ship. Okay, cool, Hey let's

623
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:34,120
Speaker 2: take our helmets off.

624
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 3: Why why what if it's just I mean, what possibly

625
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:41,760
Speaker 3: good it could come of it?

626
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,640
Speaker 4: The thing is protecting me from the elements.

627
00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's one of my favorite genres.

628
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 2: And at the same time, I know it don't make sense,

629
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 2: Like how does that make sense?

630
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 3: We've seen astronauts.

631
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 2: Astronauts don't do wild shit in space like, oh man,

632
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 2: you know what I'm gonna try. Let's fucking like race

633
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 2: what I gen jets out here in spaces, just see.

634
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 3: How far we can get away from the moon.

635
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 2: You don't do shit like that because it'll make any

636
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 2: fucking sense, Like we can die. Space is trying to

637
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: kill us constantly.

638
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 4: Wild thing we heard about in space is the woman

639
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 4: that though her husband ex husband's money in space.

640
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, but in a real space crime, right.

641
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 2: But you don't see a lot of people like but

642
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 2: in these movies, Oh my god, they can't wait to

643
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 2: play with the fucking wildlife and shit, and it's like

644
00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: it's just so good.

645
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 3: It's so good anyway, so anyway, but on.

646
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,840
Speaker 4: This furrd creature, it's growling at me.

647
00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,360
Speaker 3: Like that fucking vagina snake and Prometheus.

648
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 2: So all of that to say, man like, look, I

649
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: hope y'all love it, you know, I hope people don't

650
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,880
Speaker 2: take it so personal that I'm not a fan of it.

651
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 3: And I got these jokes, but I'm.

652
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 2: Not a fan of it. And that's okay. Man, I

653
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: saw the first half. I can clearly see whatever happens,

654
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be down for three more hours of

655
00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 2: clown and that's cool. Like I'm not like some I

656
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 2: was like, I can't wait to see it. I already

657
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: got my ticket. I was like, I get it, y'all, Hey, congratulations,

658
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: I don't. I'm not scared of clowns, so it was

659
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 2: a waste of time on me anyway, Aman says, hey,

660
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,720
Speaker 2: y'all cue that memes of the old black woman looking disappointed,

661
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,720
Speaker 2: because that's my face every time my husband tries to

662
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 2: talk to me about some white podcasters who upset Hell,

663
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 2: I'm just like you.

664
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 3: Still listen to those white people talk about young justice.

665
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 3: Won't be me? Yeah, black people love you better than me,

666
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:31,560
Speaker 3: couldn't be me, better you than me? Stuff like that.

667
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 3: We love those, don't.

668
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 4: We come on, couldn't be me?

669
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 3: You a good one? That shit.

670
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 2: It definitely matters how any podcast homes their voice. You

671
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 2: and Karen are so authentic, and that's why your artist

672
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:43,920
Speaker 2: is so endeared to y'all. I love sharing the Black

673
00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 2: hout Tells with friends and family, and I really appreciate

674
00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 2: it when you share podcasts with us. The Last Podcast

675
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 2: on the Left is one of my new faces thanks

676
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 2: to y'all, among many others, and currently the only podcast

677
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: with white hosts I listen to right now. Yeah, I

678
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 2: love the Last Podcast on the Left Man. They do

679
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 2: really in depth, like detailed breakdowns of like just sick

680
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 2: and more of it like serial killer shit and colds

681
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 2: so educational. Yeah, jokes in the middle, and they're very

682
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 2: to me, they're very funny. Now I know what that

683
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,200
Speaker 2: means is that's gonna invite the people that don't think

684
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 2: they're funny or think their jokes go too far, to

685
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 2: like write in or to tell me how they're not funny.

686
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: I'm not speaking for you. I'm only speaking for me.

687
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: You don't have to like them. This is not the Hey,

688
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,160
Speaker 2: let's all have community and liking or disliking and discussing

689
00:31:30,200 --> 00:31:32,840
Speaker 2: the show. No, I'm just mentioning it that I enjoy it.

690
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,960
Speaker 2: If you find something there you enjoy it, I hope

691
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 2: you like it and share it and whatever. And I

692
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 2: know some people can't take it. And I think they're

693
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 2: three white dudes. So now I didn't hear anything like

694
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: the ones I listened to. I didn't hear anything like

695
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 2: super like racist or anything like that. But still they're

696
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 2: three white dudes. And sometimes that's just enough for people

697
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 2: to be like, I'm sick of white dudes.

698
00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,520
Speaker 3: Totally get it. You ain't gotta explain it to me.

699
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: But I think they're very fucking funny, and they cracked

700
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 2: me the fuck up in addition to just being extremely

701
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 2: in detailed and educational. And I like that they give

702
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: credit to where they get the information from, which is

703
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 2: a big thing going around in the what's that what

704
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 2: is it called that genre? Podcast here? About true crime? Yes,

705
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 2: the true crime podcast genre, Like there's a big kerfuffle

706
00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: right now about people like reading articles or taking other

707
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: people's research and kind of presenting it without credits. Yeah, yeah,

708
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:32,800
Speaker 2: you can say as there's I prefer to say without credit.

709
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 2: And because you know, it's not like I think you

710
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 2: went and discovered like who the fuck this woman was

711
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 2: in nineteen oh three, you clearly got it from somewhere.

712
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 2: But you know, they don't give a lot of credit.

713
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 2: So I shout out to shout out to the last

714
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 2: podcast and left they stay given credit and be like

715
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 2: you can read more about it here.

716
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, and the because I've heard about them and people

717
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 4: have talked about them. But the one I really sit

718
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,520
Speaker 4: down and listen with you on. We listened to for

719
00:32:58,560 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 4: a couple of days and I still haven't finished it.

720
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 4: I might go back and let's do It's to Bonnie

721
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,920
Speaker 4: and Clyde that trip right down. I was like, well,

722
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 4: god damn. Because you hear about Bonnie and Clyde and everybody,

723
00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 4: you know, jay Z and Beyonce doing videos, you know,

724
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 4: like that's like historical. But when you they actually talk

725
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 4: about Bonnie and Clyde, like the real people in their

726
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 4: gang and the shit that they went through and how

727
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,840
Speaker 4: many times they got sucked up and shot, You're like,

728
00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 4: holy shit. I didn't realize it was like this.

729
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, So yeah, I love that podcast. And don't you know,

730
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 2: I listen to a lot of stuff lately. You know,

731
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 2: I've been listened to this is one called The Secret

732
00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 2: Lives of Black Women.

733
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 3: That's kind of newish that I like.

734
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,400
Speaker 2: So, you know, I'm always constantly kind of digging into

735
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 2: some stuff and just seeing like okay, like what's this about,

736
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 2: you know, and then you know, go from there.

737
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 3: So I just check in with every once in a

738
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 3: while and all that stuff.

739
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm also attracted to like authentic hosts and stuff.

740
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:55,520
Speaker 3: I don't I.

741
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 2: Don't require that a host like lineup with my politics.

742
00:33:58,400 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 2: I don't require that we agree on everything, and I

743
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 2: think with so many choices you can operate that way.

744
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: But I feel like I feel like people are really

745
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 2: missing out on this whole. Like I think they're just

746
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 2: doing shit wrong, trying to turn everything into a streamline

747
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,880
Speaker 2: echo chamber of only their own opinion.

748
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 4: Right, And you don't gruss to me, you don't gruss person.

749
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not saying you gotta go out and listen

750
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 2: to some shit that just completely disrespects you. Where it's

751
00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 2: just like, you know, hey, you know what, I hate

752
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 2: niggers and all this, Like you don't gotta go do that.

753
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 3: But like people are really.

754
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:31,879
Speaker 2: On some on some some shit now where it's like

755
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: I used to listen to podcasts all thousand episodes and

756
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 2: then one day they said this and fuck them forever.

757
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 2: It's like, yo, what is wrong with you?

758
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:40,399
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

759
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 2: Like they didn't turn to a new person in one second.

760
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: Like so it's that kind of thing. I'm just I'm

761
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 2: not built that way. My husband used to question me

762
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 2: a lot why I would stop listening to certain black podcasts.

763
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 2: I'll just say, I realize its not for me, and

764
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 2: that's okay, absolutely.

765
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 4: Right, because everything ain't for you. And just because it's black,

766
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 4: it don't mean it's something that you can jib And

767
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 4: that's okay.

768
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 2: Exactly like I'm prone to do that where I'm like,

769
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,839
Speaker 2: all right, the stuff they talking about this ain't really

770
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 2: my bag, and I move on. It's most importantly I

771
00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 2: like I'm shallow as it might sound. Also, if you're

772
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 2: just not entertaining, I'm not doing it.

773
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I don't.

774
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 2: I don't listen to anything for charity, So I don't

775
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 2: give a fuck what you can. You can name your

776
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 2: podcast anything, you can have all the right check marks

777
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:28,479
Speaker 2: and balances and all that shit. Nobody listens to pot

778
00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 2: well not nobody. I don't listen to podcasts.

779
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 3: To do you the favor.

780
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 2: So if your shit is boring, I don't give a fuck.

781
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 2: You be my best friend, your ship, your podcast.

782
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 3: Born, good luck, good luck.

783
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: It's hard, like this shit harder than it look, man,

784
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,799
Speaker 2: come on, and all doks aide and and and it's

785
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:49,879
Speaker 2: things that people don't understand when it comes to podcasting.

786
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 4: Sometimes it ain't the fans, sometimes just you. If you

787
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 4: don't want to admit that. Sometimes just because you black,

788
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 4: don't mean that the black ones is going to automatically

789
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 4: navigate to you obligation of supporting you just because.

790
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 2: You black, or any or any group of anything you're

791
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 2: in correct. It doesn't matter what checkboxes you did. Your

792
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 2: ass need to be like you have some gift of gab.

793
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 3: A lot of motherfuckers ain't got it.

794
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 2: But yeah, but same thing, I stopped listening. I don't

795
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:18,600
Speaker 2: be angry with them or nothing. I just I just

796
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,760
Speaker 2: be like, I'm just like I don't listen to them.

797
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 4: Right, And that's okay because everybody has different tastes because

798
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:26,400
Speaker 4: you know, for some people that stay jam, I'm like,

799
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 4: I'm glad you found your jam and found your try baby.

800
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 2: And I would just say I realize not for me,

801
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 2: and that's okay. I don't go around bad math in

802
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 2: those podcasts. Everything is it for everyone, but when you

803
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 2: find a podcast that you click with, it's so special.

804
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 2: So thank y'all always for being yourselves and being awesome.

805
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 2: Love y'all A mine, and Phil G replied, I just

806
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 2: wanted to say I try Rvy's chicken sandwich for research.

807
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 2: Whoever says is better than almost any chicken sandwich is

808
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 2: a liar. The beat they beat McDonald's and that's about it. Yeah,

809
00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:58,880
Speaker 2: Like I said, I had that chicken Cordan blue from

810
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 2: Rvy's and it made me sick, and I was like,

811
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:02,799
Speaker 2: y'all didn't even cook this all the way through. And

812
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 2: that's the last chickens famiich I have from them niggas.

813
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 2: That was like nineteen ninety four. Okay, I said, you

814
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 2: ain't you ain't got to poison me, but once, oh,

815
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 2: you ain't gotta try to kill me, but once raw chicken,

816
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 2: my nigga, do you know what raw chicken can do

817
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: to you?

818
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 3: M M, Like, how did y'all all right?

819
00:37:19,160 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 2: The Poles? Have you ever dated someone whose family didn't

820
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 2: like you? Cause I think we were someone rolled in.

821
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 2: They were talking about their relationship that they're in and

822
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 2: how like their husband is white and he has a

823
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:34,960
Speaker 2: Trump supporting family and all the shit, and so, Karen,

824
00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 2: have you ever dated song in your family didn't like you?

825
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:41,320
Speaker 4: Did their family didn't like me? No? And I know me,

826
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 4: I wouldn't deal with that. We couldn't be together, that's

827
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 4: just me. Yeah, Like the fuck is this?

828
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 3: You know?

829
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,320
Speaker 4: I understand that I'm marrying you and it's us against

830
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,520
Speaker 4: the word, but my god, damn nigga, I need to

831
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 4: be able to come to a family function without a

832
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 4: fucking fistfight.

833
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 3: No, yeah, me neither. But we've been together forever. Have

834
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 3: you ever dated a song's family didn't like you?

835
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:00,479
Speaker 2: It's basically fifty fifty fifty two percent said no, forty

836
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 2: eight percent said yes. That is so many people like

837
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 2: one in two people wow, Like that is that's that

838
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 2: common that that half half of the people.

839
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 3: Are like, yup? Wow? I knew these motherfuckers ain't like me. Like.

840
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 2: I don't even know what to say to that, because

841
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:22,439
Speaker 2: on the one hand, I know people go like, you're

842
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 2: bringing your mate into this abusive situation. But it's like,

843
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 2: if you are in love with somebody, I don't know

844
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 2: what the fuck you're supposed to do. Hey, I love you,

845
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 2: don't let's never go see my family.

846
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:39,000
Speaker 3: Or hey, this is a crazy situation. Is my family?

847
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 2: I do want to introduce you to them this shit,

848
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 2: but just understand they fucked up. I don't know, and

849
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 2: I'm glad I don't have to find out. Brooklyn Shoe

850
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: Bay says I was married to someone whose family didn't.

851
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,600
Speaker 3: Like me l ol, So I guess the lol this

852
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:55,200
Speaker 3: was married. Yeah. Shady Dame says, my first husband family

853
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 3: didn't like me.

854
00:38:56,280 --> 00:38:58,319
Speaker 2: I didn't fall in line with their weird coach's way,

855
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 2: so I was just being I was seen as being

856
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 2: a weird way. We were together for twenty years. When

857
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 2: he passed away from complications due to leukemia. Oh sorry,

858
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 2: here that's the piece. A month or so after he

859
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:09,839
Speaker 2: passed away, his mother used her key to our home,

860
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 2: one that I was always against her having to break in.

861
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 2: It's still all of his pictures, belongings, and his urn what.

862
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,080
Speaker 2: I was obviously pissed and use that energy to take

863
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 2: our kids and move a hell away from his family.

864
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 2: Being married to a crazy ass family that hates you

865
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 2: was one thing. Was sticking around those fuckers for no reason.

866
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 3: Nope. Yeah, Now, motherfucker's trying to break it in your house? Dog?

867
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,360
Speaker 3: What is that? If you can't call me on the

868
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 3: phone and ask for this shit, then you can't have it.

869
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:34,719
Speaker 3: Mark B.

870
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 2: Says once I dated someone whose dad felt I stood

871
00:39:38,239 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 2: out in the photos.

872
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 3: If you get me, her.

873
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 2: Mom seemed to like me though, Damn Mark, he was

874
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:53,120
Speaker 2: some black dot com shit. Oh man, uh Day from Toronto,

875
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:56,800
Speaker 2: Canada says Hi, I like how you added Canada.

876
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:58,799
Speaker 3: I only know when Toronto. Hi.

877
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 2: In reverence to people wanting to get your opinions on

878
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 2: the issue of the day, I just want to say

879
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 2: One reason I listen to your podcast is sometimes I

880
00:40:06,600 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 2: would I sometimes will not invest time in a news

881
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 2: story and wait for your Courage and other podcasts I

882
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 2: listen to mainly for the viewpoint of others because I

883
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 2: find it I will gain perception that I have not

884
00:40:17,880 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 2: thought of, even if I agree or disagree.

885
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,439
Speaker 3: Ride a caro and to go work. Thanks Dave.

886
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I mean, like I said, it's uh, some days,

887
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: I feel it's just a matter of like balance, because

888
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,320
Speaker 2: I don't mind giving my opinion.

889
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 3: But there's this switch in people's heads and.

890
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: You can kind of see it or sense it where

891
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 2: they start thinking like de I'm gonna kill these niggas

892
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,439
Speaker 2: on my opinion, Like they need my opinion, like I'm

893
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 2: so important, they need to see what I think about everything.

894
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 2: And you see it, especially with social media giving us

895
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: so much of a guide into each other's lives. You

896
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,879
Speaker 2: see people that tweet all day like hot take, hot take,

897
00:40:56,880 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 2: hot take, hot take, And especially when you're giving these

898
00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 2: opinions in a world of people giving opinions, you want

899
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 2: your opinion to stand out. So now you're going a

900
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 2: little bit further than what the truth is. So maybe

901
00:41:07,800 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 2: the truth is you don't like jay Z and his

902
00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 2: check and what he's doing. But when you tell that truth,

903
00:41:13,520 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 2: you now have to call him a shucking and jib

904
00:41:15,360 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 2: in baboon coon blah blah blah, because you need your

905
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 2: opinion to stick out from the next guy who's just

906
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 2: gonna be like, I don't know, he's a coon. And

907
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 2: it's that part that I'm trying to avoid. And I'm

908
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:27,120
Speaker 2: you know, I have to be careful of the pitfalls

909
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:31,400
Speaker 2: on my own brain because everyone can get like everybody

910
00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 2: none of our brains. Is that fucking special day. Oh no,

911
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 2: the doper mean of people retweeting and interacting with me.

912
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 2: It doesn't work in my brain, Yes the fuck it does.

913
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 3: So you have to be careful.

914
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 2: Anyway, Episode nineteen forty nine, Chicken related Violence. We had

915
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 2: a couple a couple of comments far As says, man,

916
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:50,880
Speaker 2: what you said about black people being Republican if it

917
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:52,720
Speaker 2: weren't for racism and so trial.

918
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 3: Hell, we ain't even got to go back that far.

919
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 2: A lot of black people were fucking with Republicans during

920
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 2: the George W. Bush years, I remember, because that administration

921
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 2: was doing a whole lot of outreach to black churches

922
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:07,040
Speaker 2: on the basis of social conservatism, and the fact that

923
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 2: w was putting people like Powell and rights and positions

924
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 2: of power made some black people feel at ease. Now,

925
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 2: it was never a sizable portion, but it was enough

926
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 2: to defeat I mean to definitely let me know that

927
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 2: a lot of black people only fuck with black libertarians

928
00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 2: as it fits in their liberation. I'm sorry, as it

929
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 2: fits in their respective lens of respectability.

930
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:29,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, yep, yep, yep.

931
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,560
Speaker 2: It was a sad reminder that Chappelle's special response that

932
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 2: just was like, oh, yeah, I don't know, Like.

933
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:38,040
Speaker 3: This is the power of the internet.

934
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm getting in this very small bubble of very liberal,

935
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 2: woke black people, sometimes way more woke and liberal than

936
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:46,560
Speaker 2: I ever could be. And I'm like, oh, this is

937
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 2: how black people think. And then I'm like, wait, wait, nigga,

938
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 2: I'm black. I hang out with niggas every day all day.

939
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 2: We don't talk like this, and we don't even be

940
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,960
Speaker 2: talking about a lot of these topics. Something that was

941
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 2: eye opening for me that really helped refocus me a

942
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,239
Speaker 2: couple of weeks ago was the topics were like jay

943
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:07,319
Speaker 2: Z and Kaepernick.

944
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 3: It was.

945
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:15,399
Speaker 2: Jay Z and Kaepernick. It was Dave Chappelle, and there

946
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 2: was one more hot topic. I can't remember, maybe the

947
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 2: chicken sud or something. Maybe maybe I'm not saying it

948
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 2: was that one because I'm not sure, but like, I

949
00:43:25,280 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 2: went to the basketball court, you know, I hung out

950
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,000
Speaker 2: a few times all week.

951
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:32,760
Speaker 3: Nobody was talking about this shit.

952
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 4: M mcause people outside of that bubble called Twitter don't

953
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 4: give a fuck, and people that are constantly engaged online

954
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:43,960
Speaker 4: they failed to realize. You turn that motherfucking phone, the

955
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 4: motherfucking computer off, and you go talk to people that

956
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 4: are not attached to social media? Who is that? Why

957
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 4: the fuck you talking about them? Do you know them?

958
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 4: You gotta like like they'll start asking these questions that

959
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 4: make you think, oh, this shit ain't that important.

960
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:00,480
Speaker 2: Yes, sometimes I find myself in conversations, if I'm driving

961
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 2: a conversation, I'm actually the one almost giving the news, right,

962
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 2: So I'm like, oh, y'all ain't heard about this, And

963
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 2: it's like, Nah, they haven't, and they don't, or if

964
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,000
Speaker 2: they have heard, they just don't think it's as important

965
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 2: as I think, you know, And I'm like, why do

966
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:14,720
Speaker 2: I think this is so important?

967
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 3: Oh? Because I've just.

968
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 2: Been reading the same people being retweeted the same people

969
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,879
Speaker 2: giving the same opinions, the same thing trending and all

970
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 2: this stuff, Like it really says something about what's happening

971
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 2: that I'm more affected by the internet truth of it

972
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 2: than my life, my real life truth. You know, I

973
00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:37,480
Speaker 2: go to my parents' house, like we're watching stupid ass

974
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,920
Speaker 2: videos on YouTube. We're not, Yeah, we're not down there

975
00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 2: like debating fucking jay Z versus.

976
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 3: None of us cares, you know, because ultimately none.

977
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 2: Of us are gonna be saved by it, and so

978
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 2: we're not elevating it to that. I don't know anyone

979
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 2: who's boycotting the NFL, and I don't mean that in

980
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 2: a bad way, like, you know, I don't hang out

981
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,880
Speaker 2: with them type of Like no, just in general. The

982
00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:02,479
Speaker 2: people I know, they're like they might not even watch

983
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:06,239
Speaker 2: the NFL, but it's not a Kaepernick thing online. It's

984
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 2: totally based around that. So, you know, it just reminds

985
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:14,720
Speaker 2: me of that. And then I remember, like when Chick fil.

986
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 3: A had the they first got disposed a few years ago.

987
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 3: It's like.

988
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 2: Their owner gives money to these charities and blah blah

989
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 2: blah blah, ha hating organizations. They go overseas and just

990
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 2: that they Rekhavoc in Africa and shit, and uh, I

991
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,879
Speaker 2: remember seeing a bus load of black people with Chick

992
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 2: fil A like they went at a church win.

993
00:45:38,640 --> 00:45:39,720
Speaker 3: Got a bus.

994
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 4: A few years ago, right, yes.

995
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,400
Speaker 2: And I remember watching like seeing that now and I

996
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 2: just had the same feeling I have now about like Chappelle,

997
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 2: where I'm like, oh, that's right in my mind, I'm

998
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 2: thinking of my parents, I'm thinking of me, I'm thinking

999
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 2: of Karen, I'm thinking of our listeners. I'm thinking of

1000
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 2: the people I know on social media. But that's not

1001
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 2: all of blackness. Like you let online tell it, where

1002
00:46:04,840 --> 00:46:08,200
Speaker 2: all a bunch of like black socialists waiting for the

1003
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 2: revolution to strike. And then you look at like life,

1004
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 2: it's like, nah, most of us are just trying to

1005
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:17,279
Speaker 2: make it. Man, we ain't like so anyway, all of

1006
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 2: that stuff where I'm is what I was kind of

1007
00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:22,360
Speaker 2: feeling that week on the Chappelle special I watched, and

1008
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,760
Speaker 2: I can admit that dude can can just be funny

1009
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 2: based on his delivery alone. It's annoying to me because

1010
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,920
Speaker 2: he's known for being the genius and he's definitely earned

1011
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: that from previous work. But the cognitive dissonance was yikes

1012
00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 2: to me. The clip you played was one that struck

1013
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 2: stuck out to me the most. Yeah, and he had

1014
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: several like that. I thought the thing with abortion and

1015
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:43,239
Speaker 2: the met too movement was ridiculous.

1016
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 3: More than anything, I just wanted him to move the

1017
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 3: fuck on.

1018
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 2: I just wish he'd get this shit out of his system

1019
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 2: and get out the whole lane where he feels the

1020
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: need to comment on LGBTQ ish, especially through this bullshit

1021
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 2: lens of rebelliousness, like you can't be rebellious with the

1022
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 2: majority opinions exactly. That's what bothers me about all that

1023
00:47:01,680 --> 00:47:05,640
Speaker 2: stuff is comics try to rebrand a common opinion that

1024
00:47:06,680 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 2: the yeah, that the status quo is as revolutionary when

1025
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 2: it's not.

1026
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:12,239
Speaker 3: Like you guys won't believe this.

1027
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 2: I hate women like, uh, we will believe it because

1028
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:19,839
Speaker 2: everyone does. Felix says I didn't watch or know about

1029
00:47:19,920 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 2: Dave Chapelle till a few years ago, probably due to

1030
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 2: me being a toddler when he was at his height.

1031
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,759
Speaker 2: These recent specials are my introduction to him, and I

1032
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:30,800
Speaker 2: can one hundred percent see the pill of his comedy.

1033
00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 2: I'm definitely one of those people that was into it

1034
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 2: until he started the transphobic stuff and started to sound

1035
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,280
Speaker 2: like every hat comedian who's complained about people being sensitive

1036
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 2: if a joke bombs, it bombs, going on and on

1037
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 2: about it and turned it into a crusade like this

1038
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:47,720
Speaker 2: just makes me feel less inclined to watch his stuff,

1039
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 2: despite enjoying most of it. It's weird anyway, kind of

1040
00:47:51,160 --> 00:47:54,279
Speaker 2: weird hell to down in my opinion, I appreciate it

1041
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 2: both of your thoughts on this, though I'm still not

1042
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:58,799
Speaker 2: that familiar with him as a person, so getting some

1043
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 2: context on him was insightful. Yeah, And in all fairness,

1044
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: you know, Dave Chappelle's comedic voice is not one of

1045
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 2: given a lot of his personal business and stuff.

1046
00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 3: So you he wants to.

1047
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 2: Be the guy who just like shows up to make

1048
00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 2: the joke, and that's fine, you can be that guy.

1049
00:48:17,640 --> 00:48:20,280
Speaker 2: But then at the same time, when people are elevating

1050
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 2: it to genius level and using your jokes at social

1051
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 2: commentary for years and years on end, it's okay for

1052
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 2: people to have expectations that you're.

1053
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:30,120
Speaker 3: Gonna continue to be that good.

1054
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 2: And so for a lot of people that were like

1055
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 2: this wasn't as good as that, so you know, I'm

1056
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 2: not really okay, Like, I don't like the people that

1057
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:39,760
Speaker 2: are mad that folks watched it, or well.

1058
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 3: Then what are you watching for?

1059
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 2: Because they thought they don't know what they expect until

1060
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 2: you see it, and you thought maybe he would say

1061
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,560
Speaker 2: or do some things that you'd be like, Yo, I

1062
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 2: appreciate him explaining it this way.

1063
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:49,760
Speaker 3: That's funny.

1064
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 2: I'll remember that for the rest of my life. Come on, uh,

1065
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 2: the poet was, are you playing fantasy football this year?

1066
00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:58,360
Speaker 3: No? I never played fants football. I usually do, but

1067
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,280
Speaker 3: not this year. And yes, this is crazy.

1068
00:49:01,920 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 2: Seven seven percent of my audience never plays fants football,

1069
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,240
Speaker 2: So I can believe you said.

1070
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 4: We run in. Some of them are completely stopped, some

1071
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:13,440
Speaker 4: of them still like some still do.

1072
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 3: It usually, but not this year.

1073
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:18,600
Speaker 2: Ten percent at thirteen percent said yes, I'm in the

1074
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 2: thirteen percent. Guys playing with my college friends in the

1075
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 2: Negro league.

1076
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,359
Speaker 4: Yeah, they won't give up. We ask him every year,

1077
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:26,279
Speaker 4: they's like, nope, this the only time of the year

1078
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 4: we get to get together. We're doing this shit.

1079
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, I've kind of changed over

1080
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:31,719
Speaker 2: it because well, you used to have it, I'd be

1081
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:34,560
Speaker 2: fantasy football out. I used to be three, four, five leagues.

1082
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 2: D right, Well, you know we'd have something for the show.

1083
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 2: You know, people would like sending PayPal money because I

1084
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 2: only play for money. I can't pay for people that

1085
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 2: play for free.

1086
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,239
Speaker 3: Some weird though. I don't know what the fuck y'all doing, but.

1087
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:48,360
Speaker 2: You know, you put it in a little bit of

1088
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,759
Speaker 2: money and it had a winner gets this much money,

1089
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:54,360
Speaker 2: in second place, this and know all that stuff, and

1090
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 2: that was kind of it every year and it started

1091
00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 2: to be too much of a chore cause.

1092
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 4: Too much work. It was hard, too hard to keep

1093
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:01,320
Speaker 4: up with everybody.

1094
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you have to keep and you have to keep

1095
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 2: up with the money, but then also you have to

1096
00:50:04,680 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 2: keep up with your teams and who's on this team playing.

1097
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 4: This guy's rooting for somebody and booing him at the

1098
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 4: same time because he's doing something good, but he's affecting

1099
00:50:13,880 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 4: the other one. Yeah, it becomes a lot.

1100
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,319
Speaker 2: So for me personally, I was like, I can't do it.

1101
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: So now I'm only in one league and this was

1102
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 2: my college friends called the Negro League, and I won

1103
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:26,040
Speaker 2: that league last year.

1104
00:50:26,080 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 3: So I'm defending my championship.

1105
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 4: I came in second. I want to make that clip.

1106
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 3: Karen came in second. She's very happy for that.

1107
00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 2: You know me, I'm proud for number two. On the

1108
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 2: year where I come in second, I consider it a

1109
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,680
Speaker 2: lost year. But you know, good for you care. I'm

1110
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:41,759
Speaker 2: glad that you got something out of it. Hated to

1111
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:43,640
Speaker 2: put you in second place, but you know, it's what

1112
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:45,640
Speaker 2: happens when you go up against big Daddy.

1113
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 3: But yeah it was.

1114
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 4: You were not shame my number two.

1115
00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,880
Speaker 3: I'm not shaming it. I think it's cute. Okay.

1116
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 4: I mean, I've never won it, but you let me

1117
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 4: with it.

1118
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 3: You know.

1119
00:50:57,680 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 4: You know what, I take that back because you ball

1120
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 4: up the same thing. I forget what y'all will.

1121
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was.

1122
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:04,880
Speaker 4: I was showing my ass and I was like, I

1123
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:06,600
Speaker 4: probably be done forgot mm hmm.

1124
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 3: It's okay. You you you did it. Make daddy sandwich.

1125
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 3: You make Daddy of sandwich. Daddy wanted sandwich. Im gonna

1126
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 3: make Daddy a sandwich. Did you did good for that?

1127
00:51:15,920 --> 00:51:16,839
Speaker 3: For your skill level.

1128
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:18,840
Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's an honor to even be beaten

1129
00:51:18,880 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 2: by Meaty, to be honest, but yeah, it was. And

1130
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:24,719
Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna tell you all how hard it was.

1131
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,880
Speaker 2: Like Cam Newton was on my team last year. Anybody

1132
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 2: that remembers Cam Newton's season, that was my starting quarterback

1133
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 2: last year and I had to figure something out. Okay,

1134
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,280
Speaker 2: but your boy did it. Okay, he came through. Odell

1135
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:35,839
Speaker 2: beck Vir Jr.

1136
00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 3: Was on my team. Nigger Brokes ancle Ya.

1137
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, your boy still found a way to persevere. Okay,

1138
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 2: your boy came through on them. Let's not even go there,

1139
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 2: all right. The Panthers tight end was my tight end.

1140
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 2: He died halfway through the season.

1141
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:53,919
Speaker 3: I found a way because champions do that.

1142
00:51:55,239 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 2: So this year my team Dominus silk uh ha, I

1143
00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:04,960
Speaker 2: believe will continue to dominate. And that's why I can't

1144
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,840
Speaker 2: wait to beat my friends' asses all over again.

1145
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:08,640
Speaker 3: So we'll see.

1146
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:12,480
Speaker 4: We'll see how this year goes. My team, Meghan the

1147
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 4: Stallion knees. Well, we're gonna see if I need to

1148
00:52:15,600 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 4: get through it.

1149
00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 3: That's pretty resilient, uh own a powerhouse.

1150
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 2: Mark B says, do you think it's a maga dream

1151
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 2: country to buy sales strapping young bucks to work in

1152
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:26,040
Speaker 2: their home fields?

1153
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:28,960
Speaker 3: I kid too much in season work to track all

1154
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 3: of that Facebook of fantasy.

1155
00:52:31,719 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean listen when I this is why I

1156
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:35,479
Speaker 2: side with the owners when it came to Kaepernick Because

1157
00:52:35,480 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 2: I own a fantasy football team.

1158
00:52:36,719 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 3: Okay, and I'm telling.

1159
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 2: You right now, if one of my players on my

1160
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 2: fantasy team took a knee, I kick his black ass

1161
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 2: out the league, and I tell everybody else on the

1162
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 2: don't pick him up. He is now black balled as

1163
00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 2: league commissioner and owner.

1164
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,240
Speaker 3: He is blacklisted. He will not be playing. Okay.

1165
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 2: We do not do anything to piss off the police

1166
00:52:55,560 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 2: in our uh the Negro League. Okay, we are all league.

1167
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 2: We are all lives mat over here. Okay, we support

1168
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:07,360
Speaker 2: the police one hundred h Charles H. Baker says, I

1169
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 2: played fantasy football for a long time. I stopped watching

1170
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: so much football at playing. Stopped playing fantasy football because

1171
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 2: I really can't enjoy it anymore knowing the players are

1172
00:53:15,520 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 2: destroying their brains for our entertainment. I wonder how much

1173
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 2: damage I did to my own brain playing at high school.

1174
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a.

1175
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:24,440
Speaker 2: Good question, man, That was a lot of That was

1176
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:27,800
Speaker 2: a line for a few people, right, and that's understandable.

1177
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I won't lie, guys. I knew they were

1178
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 3: sucking their brains up a long time ago. I was.

1179
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 2: I'm surprised how it seems like it's become common knowledge

1180
00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 2: because I thought it was always common knowledge. But I

1181
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 2: thought I just thought people didn't care. I'm old enough

1182
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:51,720
Speaker 2: to remember, y'all remember ESPN's segment jacked up. Oh, Monday

1183
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 2: Night Football had to stop doing that. But yes, like

1184
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 2: like they they used to make a joke out of

1185
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 2: these niggasgatting concussions.

1186
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 4: You got jacked and I mean they would li get

1187
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:03,520
Speaker 4: up on the field.

1188
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 2: Like I had concussions, as I've had concussion as a kid,

1189
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 2: and it affected my brain forever. Like one of the

1190
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 2: things for me is I cannot I don't get thirsty.

1191
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 3: I drink.

1192
00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,279
Speaker 2: I have to remind myself, like, drink water, drink some water,

1193
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:20,879
Speaker 2: Like it doesn't matter what activity I'm doing, I don't

1194
00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 2: get thirsty. I have to be like, oh, yeah, that

1195
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 2: drinking water. Everyone is stopping basketball to go drink some water.

1196
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:28,600
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm gonna get in line to drink some

1197
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,319
Speaker 2: water with them, you know. And it just used it

1198
00:54:31,320 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 2: didn't be that way. And then I fucking got that concussion,

1199
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 2: and then for years I didn't even know what it was.

1200
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,920
Speaker 2: I thought I also got super sensitive the vitamin B.

1201
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 2: After that, I can't take a vitamin B like some

1202
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 2: people take vitamin B for energy. If I do, I

1203
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:49,719
Speaker 2: can over exert myself because I'm not drinking water and

1204
00:54:49,760 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 2: I'm over exerting myself playing activity and the next thing

1205
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 2: you know, I'm fucking having migraines and you know, dehydration

1206
00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,440
Speaker 2: and all this stuff. And so yeah, I if that

1207
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 2: happened to me from one concussion, I can remember. Maybe

1208
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 2: it was two, but definitely one for sure. Man, these

1209
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,840
Speaker 2: niggas was playing through concussions.

1210
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:11,680
Speaker 4: And it starts early for a lot of children, as

1211
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 4: early it's popthorn the football. They start tackling it.

1212
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 3: And I got mine at like fifteen fourteen.

1213
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 2: These so many people getting them in like thirty twenty five,

1214
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,520
Speaker 2: Like it ain't right, it's not okay, Like their brain's

1215
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:26,600
Speaker 2: gonna be fucked up, you know. So uh, And there's

1216
00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:28,680
Speaker 2: literally nothing you can do about it in that sport. Really,

1217
00:55:28,719 --> 00:55:31,359
Speaker 2: they can do all that targeting helmet things. Someone's gonna

1218
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 2: get a concussion because the NFL has grown men trying

1219
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 2: to hurt each other.

1220
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:37,880
Speaker 4: But yeah, not only concussions. You're talking about the breakdown

1221
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 4: of the body because you literally It's almost like you

1222
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 4: literally take muster trucks and you literally crash them into

1223
00:55:43,520 --> 00:55:44,720
Speaker 4: each other going full.

1224
00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:47,320
Speaker 3: Speed, right even just hitting the ground.

1225
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 4: Come on, in the ground, don't fucking give Come on,

1226
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:52,799
Speaker 4: I just wanted to do it too. I know I

1227
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 4: learned the hard way the ground. The ground is hard.

1228
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:57,840
Speaker 2: Oh you learned the hard way. Oh okay. I guess

1229
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,760
Speaker 2: none of us learning the ground. I guess it gives

1230
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:01,680
Speaker 2: for everybody else caring.

1231
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 4: Apparently it does my black ass. It don't this shit hurt.

1232
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:08,920
Speaker 3: I'm here to tell you as a person that has fallen.

1233
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:12,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know if any of y'all have done this,

1234
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 2: but let me give you a testimonial.

1235
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 4: It hurts, It does it. Don't move it, don't give it.

1236
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 2: But like I got your bitch, I know most of

1237
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 2: y'all would never fall in your lives.

1238
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 4: I hope you don't.

1239
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 2: But as some of us that have fallen, Okay, it's

1240
00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 2: only a few of us out here.

1241
00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 4: That bitch called the ground is unforgiving and nothing. Honey,

1242
00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 4: she's she's an.

1243
00:56:31,719 --> 00:56:34,279
Speaker 2: Ass this ground, about this ground. I don't know if

1244
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 2: y'all heard about it.

1245
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,279
Speaker 3: I don't know if you heard about her.

1246
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:38,240
Speaker 2: I don't know if y'all heard about the ground. Okay,

1247
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,640
Speaker 2: but she always does. She always gonna let you know.

1248
00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 2: You reach out and touch me, bitch, I'm gonna hit

1249
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 2: your back. It's not a game. Okay. The ground is

1250
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 2: out here waiting on you.

1251
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,640
Speaker 3: Just fall off this ship.

1252
00:56:50,719 --> 00:56:52,920
Speaker 4: The ground is hoping that you fill. They actually putsh

1253
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 4: it in your waist so y'all can meet each other.

1254
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 3: M thank you for this, for giving out that PSA. Nobody.

1255
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,759
Speaker 2: Uh should it be against the law or respond to

1256
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 2: a nine one call that way?

1257
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 4: Uh?

1258
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 2: We're talking about that woman that had the nine one

1259
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 2: call that was very unbothered and then the woman ended

1260
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 2: up dying. Yes, twenty three percent thinks it should be

1261
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 2: against the law to be that way.

1262
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 4: I agreed.

1263
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:16,720
Speaker 3: Twenty six percent say it's.

1264
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 2: Unsavory, but it shouldn't be illegal, and fifty one percent

1265
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 2: say not illegal, but she should be fired. I don't

1266
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 2: know where I fall. I feel so bad, man. This

1267
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 2: is like that time that girl and she did go

1268
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,640
Speaker 2: to jail. I think, but the girl who told the

1269
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 2: boy to kill the commit get back in the car,

1270
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 2: commit suicide. And I was like, I don't know what

1271
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 2: you do with that one, because she wasn't there, she

1272
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 2: didn't do it herself. But then she didn't talk him

1273
00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:52,080
Speaker 2: out of it, and she's encouraging him to.

1274
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:52,280
Speaker 3: Get back in the car.

1275
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 2: You know, that means likely he's gonna die, like you know,

1276
00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:58,720
Speaker 2: And I had to see that documentary before I was like,

1277
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 2: all right, I can see like more of a case

1278
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 2: for why her ass need to go to jail, But

1279
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 2: the just the debate of it, the theory of it,

1280
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:11,120
Speaker 2: I struggle with it, being like, yeah, you gotta go

1281
00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 2: to jail for that.

1282
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:15,840
Speaker 4: Now, for that I could understand. But she's also not

1283
00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:18,600
Speaker 4: a professional. My thing is this. This is a professional.

1284
00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 4: You call for help, right, you get paid to do this,

1285
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,439
Speaker 4: You deal with the general public. I know she didn't

1286
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 4: cuss the out call a bit, your whole none of

1287
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:29,440
Speaker 4: that shit. I mean, And I understand people who feel

1288
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 4: like she was an unquote unquote unprofessional, But at the

1289
00:58:32,680 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 4: same time, there has to be aligned where you're like, well, god, damn,

1290
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 4: your whole job is fucking customer service. If she was

1291
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 4: like a regular customer service operator, but I git, you gone,

1292
00:58:43,280 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 4: what's with and then people don't deal with life and

1293
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:46,960
Speaker 4: down what's between that and what she's doing?

1294
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:52,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you ain't wrong anyway. Uh, Memi says, man,

1295
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:54,000
Speaker 2: that is a nightmare. I hate to sound like a

1296
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 2: harlest person, but if she was nice on the phone,

1297
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:57,479
Speaker 2: that person still would have died.

1298
00:58:57,800 --> 00:58:59,959
Speaker 3: If job is not customer service as far as.

1299
00:59:00,480 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 2: It is to gather the information to give it to

1300
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 2: dispatch so the officers the first spats can quickly. That's

1301
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,760
Speaker 2: the crisis. I was wondering about her asking about the

1302
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 2: color of her car, Like, did someone respond as if

1303
00:59:10,720 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 2: they were going to get her? Would she have been

1304
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:15,680
Speaker 2: better off if they would, she would have gotten out

1305
00:59:15,720 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 2: of the car. It seemed like she that rude lady,

1306
00:59:18,960 --> 00:59:22,680
Speaker 2: had some sort of response for someone somewhere, as if

1307
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 2: they had eyes on the car. Yeah, I don't know,

1308
00:59:25,120 --> 00:59:26,920
Speaker 2: Marty said, what can I say? At least she's not

1309
00:59:26,960 --> 00:59:28,200
Speaker 2: a cop, even.

1310
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 3: She knew she didn't need to be there since that

1311
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 3: was her last day. Yes, that's the other part. That's

1312
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 3: her last day, so she can't.

1313
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 2: Be punished like she's not gonna get you know, it's

1314
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 2: not against the lows.

1315
00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 3: She ain't gonna lose her jobs.

1316
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and my thing is, I do understand what they

1317
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:44,800
Speaker 4: were saying. Women probably could have probably could have died anyway,

1318
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 4: it was understand it. But from my perspective, if this

1319
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 4: is my family member and I and they died, I'd

1320
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:53,120
Speaker 4: be like, bitch, why are you talking rude to my

1321
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 4: family member, like like, my loved one died and you're

1322
00:59:57,040 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 4: you were not there to actually help talk them through

1323
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 4: the situation and in a professional manner. That that's my thing.

1324
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:06,760
Speaker 4: And you know, maybe I'm the one that's crazy and

1325
01:00:06,800 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 4: too passionate about it, but I would be highly upset

1326
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:11,960
Speaker 4: if you talk to my femily member like this. No,

1327
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 4: I'm not blaming you for the death because that was

1328
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 4: beyond your control, but at least you could have done

1329
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:19,840
Speaker 4: something to help calm them down. That's your fucking job

1330
01:00:19,920 --> 01:00:24,320
Speaker 4: to help people call you screaming and hollering, getting stabbed, robbed,

1331
01:00:24,480 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 4: all types of shit, gunshot wounds in the background. This

1332
01:00:27,560 --> 01:00:29,440
Speaker 4: is not like, this is not your first time dealing

1333
01:00:29,440 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 4: with somebody in the panic.

1334
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,920
Speaker 2: All I can say is it feels like something should

1335
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,600
Speaker 2: be wrong, but I don't know, you know, like I

1336
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 2: admit I don't know about going to prison, but.

1337
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:42,600
Speaker 3: Right no, you just feel like what she did was wrong.

1338
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 4: And put like this, and I understand people to go well,

1339
01:00:44,840 --> 01:00:47,560
Speaker 4: she didn't deserve to be foed, okay, suspension of something,

1340
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 4: but her situation that was the last day, so she

1341
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:49,919
Speaker 4: didn't give a fuck.

1342
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it feels weird that, you know, when the dude

1343
01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:53,840
Speaker 2: came out, I was like, there was nothing wrong about

1344
01:00:53,840 --> 01:00:54,640
Speaker 2: to call it all.

1345
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:57,439
Speaker 4: And that, And I think that's when my outrage came

1346
01:00:58,200 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 4: from y'all saying your looking job is customer service. I

1347
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 4: do understand that, you know, she's not trying to the

1348
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 4: woman's not coming a byproduct, but you know what, she

1349
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 4: fucking pays taxes, So as far as I'm concerned, it's

1350
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 4: goddamn customer service.

1351
01:01:11,880 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1352
01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 2: Like I said, the next one was episode nineteen fifty one,

1353
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:19,400
Speaker 2: What is canceled anyway? Trede Wright sing I absolutely loved

1354
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 2: that Black women being Introverted in White Workspaces article and

1355
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:24,680
Speaker 2: definitely could relate as an introverted black man.

1356
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:26,520
Speaker 3: One of the main things I hate.

1357
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 2: As it relates to this type of situation is having

1358
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 2: to taper your own emotions as a black introvert in

1359
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:33,920
Speaker 2: a work environment while some other employees can do whatever.

1360
01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,360
Speaker 3: Sometimes I definitely feel.

1361
01:01:36,080 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 2: That forced talk about yourself or die, motherfucker vibe that

1362
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 2: we have to deal with sometimes in the work environment

1363
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 2: that's playing exhausting.

1364
01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:47,040
Speaker 3: When you go home from work, you just have to

1365
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:47,880
Speaker 3: crash and recharge.

1366
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 2: But I try to medicate, exercise, listen to music, listening

1367
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,440
Speaker 2: off podcast which is always a big help, or do

1368
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:57,040
Speaker 2: whatever to keep positive vibes going to keep the stress down.

1369
01:01:57,960 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1370
01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:03,560
Speaker 2: I think also as an introvert male is a little

1371
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:09,120
Speaker 2: different because I'm not expected to necessarily put people at ease,

1372
01:02:10,040 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 2: while they might, you know, have misgivings about the fact

1373
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:15,680
Speaker 2: I'm not talking, and they will infers some things about

1374
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:16,160
Speaker 2: me that are.

1375
01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 3: Less than stellar, if you know what I mean.

1376
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 2: But there's this other thing with black women's facials, like

1377
01:02:23,440 --> 01:02:25,640
Speaker 2: you need to come in here and almost like take

1378
01:02:25,720 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 2: care of my emotions, right, and you're not doing that,

1379
01:02:29,040 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 2: you know so, But absolutely I feel you as an

1380
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 2: introverted black dude, like that's definitely a thing that I

1381
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 2: just didn't understand that work.

1382
01:02:38,160 --> 01:02:38,480
Speaker 3: Karen.

1383
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 2: Thank you for saying that about black people not being

1384
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:45,880
Speaker 2: allowed to enjoy something. You gotta ask some folks some days. Man,

1385
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:48,760
Speaker 2: do y'all motherfucker's like anything shit, right?

1386
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 4: That's how it makes you feel.

1387
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 3: Lol.

1388
01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 2: Just want to send this message to the overly woke crowd.

1389
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:56,440
Speaker 2: I love appreciate y'all passion for your activism and your people,

1390
01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 2: but please learn to balance the shit out with some

1391
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:01,280
Speaker 2: joy in your lives anyway you can find it.

1392
01:03:02,000 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 4: I'm like, y'all gonna die of heart attacks and strokes

1393
01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 4: and blood pressure like literly being angry like that actually

1394
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 4: affects your body.

1395
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's interesting is I feel like sometimes I like

1396
01:03:11,840 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 2: everything and I don't know if it's just a thing

1397
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:16,480
Speaker 2: where if I put enough time into something, I will

1398
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:19,240
Speaker 2: find a way to like that shit. Like I'm not

1399
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 2: trying to be a person that wastes my time.

1400
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:23,320
Speaker 4: And you got that running joke about me, but that

1401
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:26,960
Speaker 4: is a true thing. It's things that I really now

1402
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,880
Speaker 4: that are things that I don't like. They do exist,

1403
01:03:30,000 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 4: but yeah, you know right, it's running joke. Roger last

1404
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 4: at me by how I like everything, but it's overall

1405
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:35,520
Speaker 4: the true statement.

1406
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 2: But I try to find some goodness in everything, saying

1407
01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 2: that I'm putting investing time into and if not, then

1408
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 2: I just stop investing time into it.

1409
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 3: But that was one of the things about that.

1410
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 2: But that's one of the things about social media is

1411
01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 2: that there's a lot of communities formed around dislike, and

1412
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:57,280
Speaker 2: there's a lot of pressure to be on the dislike

1413
01:03:57,360 --> 01:03:58,080
Speaker 2: side of things.

1414
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:04,280
Speaker 3: And with these woke niggas, they like woke shit until

1415
01:04:04,320 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 3: they get it right.

1416
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 2: That's when it's a trap to even start fucking with them,

1417
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 2: because eventually the shit is gonna do something or something

1418
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,560
Speaker 2: or they like it's gonna violate some weird fucking like

1419
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 2: one percent ass tenant that they hold an one percent.

1420
01:04:18,600 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 2: I don't mean one percent of richness. I just mean

1421
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:22,680
Speaker 2: like there's one percent of people on the earth that

1422
01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:25,560
Speaker 2: feel like, I won't watch this unless it has blanket

1423
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 2: it And it's like, well, okay, you get that thing.

1424
01:04:29,880 --> 01:04:32,800
Speaker 2: If it doesn't shot, if it doesn't check every last

1425
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:35,240
Speaker 2: one of your marks, you're gonna be like, fuck this thing.

1426
01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 2: And who wants to cater that art to that audience?

1427
01:04:38,600 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 2: You make it hard to be a black creator. You

1428
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:44,280
Speaker 2: make it harder than it already is as a black

1429
01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 2: creative in a lot of white running spaces. You make

1430
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 2: it worse.

1431
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, did you complain about how the shit got canceled?

1432
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 4: Because what number three of y'all watching it? It was

1433
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:53,920
Speaker 4: that worth the investment?

1434
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:56,920
Speaker 2: Like sometimes and you could tell man, like I'll and

1435
01:04:57,320 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 2: I try not to even talk bad about these things.

1436
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 2: But sometimes I'll watch something I won't name names, but

1437
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 2: and I'll be like, oh, this is just checking all

1438
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 2: the woke boxes. It's not like it's not actually whether

1439
01:05:08,720 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 2: or not it's delivering a plot. It's just like, we

1440
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 2: have to make the right things happen, because this is

1441
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 2: what Twitter or whatever gets mad at other shows about. So, hey,

1442
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 2: we got this character on here, and you know, they like,

1443
01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 2: we have to make them a certain type of way.

1444
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 2: We have to experience things a different type of you know,

1445
01:05:26,600 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 2: the storyline has to go this cliche instead of the

1446
01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 2: cliche of this, it has to go to complete opposite

1447
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 2: because we need people to check in. And it's like,

1448
01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:36,280
Speaker 2: well to meet us just pandering the other way, like

1449
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 2: just write your story, let people hate or dislike the

1450
01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:42,320
Speaker 2: characters made, people love the characters they love.

1451
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 3: We never know.

1452
01:05:43,600 --> 01:05:46,040
Speaker 2: And a lot of my favorite stuff is stuff that's

1453
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 2: quote unquote problematic, you know. And and my thing is

1454
01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 2: with the woke folks, they always say the same what

1455
01:05:52,920 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 2: do they always say? Everything is problematic? Well, everything's problematic.

1456
01:05:57,320 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 2: Why are you fucking mad all the time? If all

1457
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:02,440
Speaker 2: of it got a problem somewhere and calm the fuck down.

1458
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:04,080
Speaker 2: You don't gotta point them all out. Ain't gett no,

1459
01:06:04,360 --> 01:06:10,600
Speaker 2: you'll get no no, no, no extra credit. You know anyway, Uh,

1460
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 2: he says, uh and oh just f y people ain't

1461
01:06:16,720 --> 01:06:18,320
Speaker 2: gonna want to be around y'all.

1462
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 3: Asses.

1463
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:22,440
Speaker 2: You keep on Rod, that smell this, Oh yeah that

1464
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:25,040
Speaker 2: comes smell. This is too real, bro. Thanks again. Rod

1465
01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:28,040
Speaker 2: of Carre, Yeah, thank you. Yeah, even need you hit

1466
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 2: me up on Twitter was like that's what it is.

1467
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:32,280
Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, And I'm not for the record,

1468
01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 2: this is not me saying like, never share anything bad.

1469
01:06:35,200 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 3: No, I'm not saying that.

1470
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 2: But there's some people whose whole vibe is something bad happen.

1471
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 2: Come look at this, y'all, something bad happen. Come look

1472
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 2: at this, y'all bad. Come look at this, y'all. Somebody

1473
01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 2: tweeted some crazy limit he got three follows. I went

1474
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 2: and found THEI motherfucker, Come look at this, y'all.

1475
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:51,560
Speaker 3: Some people that's all they do.

1476
01:06:52,040 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 4: The timeline D see.

1477
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 3: I'm like, damn man.

1478
01:06:58,120 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 2: I was about to make an example, but probably would

1479
01:07:01,240 --> 01:07:03,520
Speaker 2: point out exactly what I'm talking about in this situation,

1480
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:05,640
Speaker 2: and I'm just gonna.

1481
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 3: Keep it to myself.

1482
01:07:06,240 --> 01:07:09,840
Speaker 2: But I saw something yesterday that was about a celebrity

1483
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 2: that was dating somebody that people didn't approve of, and

1484
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 2: I was like, have you turned your whole life into

1485
01:07:17,120 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 2: this celebrity dating this motherfucker?

1486
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:20,680
Speaker 4: That's crazy Some people do.

1487
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 3: You don't know them, they don't owe you shit.

1488
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 4: Like I said, the event happened, and they.

1489
01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:28,080
Speaker 3: Would like this is you should go?

1490
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:30,400
Speaker 2: You know what they doing? You know what that celebrity

1491
01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:34,320
Speaker 2: is doing on Friday night? Fucking that problematic nigga.

1492
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like out living life, not

1493
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 3: worried about this shit. Go live your life.

1494
01:07:40,200 --> 01:07:43,400
Speaker 2: Don't let it be based around these motherfuckers living in

1495
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 2: a in a box on your phone.

1496
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:47,200
Speaker 3: They're not. It's not it's not.

1497
01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 2: It shouldn't be able to get to you that much.

1498
01:07:49,880 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 2: It's just my opinion is it shouldn't get to you

1499
01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:58,960
Speaker 2: that much. Give a fuck anyway. Lastly, what this cancer?

1500
01:07:58,960 --> 01:08:00,640
Speaker 2: And by the way, I didn't say nothing to bother

1501
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 2: anybody with it because it don't mean that much to

1502
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 2: me either, Like fuck it. You want to be mad,

1503
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:06,800
Speaker 2: all they be mad, but I just don't want to

1504
01:08:06,840 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: protake in it. But it's but I think what it

1505
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:10,880
Speaker 2: is and shout out to DJ bet On mean he

1506
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 2: was on a fan bros. I was listening to this

1507
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:15,959
Speaker 2: for our NERD. Sorry about that I put dollar in jaruh.

1508
01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 2: And he's talked about how even he realized when he

1509
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:26,759
Speaker 2: changed up his Twitter style from like being like negative

1510
01:08:26,800 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 2: all the time and look at I'm reading people for

1511
01:08:29,000 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 2: filth and look at this. Look at what this person

1512
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:33,600
Speaker 2: wrote and what they said in this comic book. I

1513
01:08:33,600 --> 01:08:35,600
Speaker 2: hate this part thing. And he said he used to

1514
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:39,960
Speaker 2: get so many retweets and comments and replies, and he

1515
01:08:40,000 --> 01:08:42,160
Speaker 2: said when he switches to being like, I'm gonna stop

1516
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:45,360
Speaker 2: talking negative about these people because they're creators.

1517
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 3: They're trying to do their best for the most part.

1518
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't like it, but I don't have to

1519
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 2: harp on what I don't like, and I'm not showing

1520
01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 2: enough love to what I do like.

1521
01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:55,320
Speaker 3: And he was like, nobody want to hear that shit?

1522
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 3: Nope and a lot less response.

1523
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:00,680
Speaker 2: And I think that's that's a true for a lot

1524
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 2: of social media, and it should talk to us about

1525
01:09:02,920 --> 01:09:04,639
Speaker 2: what is social media doing to our.

1526
01:09:04,560 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 3: Brains right there?

1527
01:09:05,560 --> 01:09:08,320
Speaker 2: Because if you if the doper mean only heat you

1528
01:09:08,439 --> 01:09:12,960
Speaker 2: when you say things that are literally making you upset,

1529
01:09:13,640 --> 01:09:18,120
Speaker 2: seems like you're telling your brain, you're educating your brain.

1530
01:09:18,160 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 2: Whatever you want to say, You're conditioning your brain. That's

1531
01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:24,679
Speaker 2: what I want to say. You're conditioning your brain to say.

1532
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 2: I need to stay in a place of anger. I

1533
01:09:26,320 --> 01:09:27,800
Speaker 2: need to stay in a place of sadness. I need

1534
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:29,920
Speaker 2: to stay in a place of outrage, because that's the

1535
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 2: only time I'm getting fed. I'm only getting attention in

1536
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:37,240
Speaker 2: those places. What does canceled mean to you? They will

1537
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 2: no longer have a career death, This person will go

1538
01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 2: away for a bit, but they'll return eventually, or I'll

1539
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,800
Speaker 2: never hear from them or see the person again. Karen,

1540
01:09:46,840 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 2: what does canceled mean to you?

1541
01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:54,799
Speaker 4: Of those four, I think it means they'll go away,

1542
01:09:54,880 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 4: but they're return.

1543
01:09:56,479 --> 01:09:58,640
Speaker 2: Okay, that's forty eight percent of people agree with you,

1544
01:09:58,680 --> 01:09:59,840
Speaker 2: which is the highest result.

1545
01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 4: I think the conversation and me thinking about it some

1546
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:06,280
Speaker 4: more cast me to be they get get to that point, particular,

1547
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 4: when he says like a TV show, That's when it

1548
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 4: kind of it clicked to me because I was like,

1549
01:10:11,160 --> 01:10:13,559
Speaker 4: you let the motherfuckers tell it online. You counsel means

1550
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 4: you die, Like the fuck is this?

1551
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,320
Speaker 2: Well, it's just people say shit like and it's because

1552
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:21,439
Speaker 2: they participated in this harassment culture, which is what it

1553
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 2: really is.

1554
01:10:22,439 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 3: They participated in the online harassment.

1555
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 2: And then they go, well, the person didn't die and

1556
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 2: they didn't lose every single thing they ever had, so

1557
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:34,799
Speaker 2: it's not real, And I'm like, no, that's a lie.

1558
01:10:34,880 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 3: It is real because it.

1559
01:10:36,640 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 2: Can affect things, and I have seen it affect thing.

1560
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:41,679
Speaker 2: We've all seen it because you'll celebrate when it happens,

1561
01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 2: when someone loses a TV show, when someone loses a gig,

1562
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 2: when someone has to cancel events. I've seen you guys

1563
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:51,639
Speaker 2: celebrate it. So to say it's not real, it's your

1564
01:10:51,680 --> 01:10:53,600
Speaker 2: way of being like, I'm just a good person and

1565
01:10:53,640 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 2: I'm not harming anybody with this. No, it's absolutely real.

1566
01:10:57,560 --> 01:11:00,639
Speaker 2: People are harmed by it. That's the intent of the purpose.

1567
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:04,040
Speaker 2: So it's like saying a gun isn't real because when

1568
01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 2: I shot fifty cent he didn't die. Well, you're shot

1569
01:11:06,360 --> 01:11:08,040
Speaker 2: him nine times that you gotta put in the hospital

1570
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 2: and he still walks with a limp.

1571
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:11,280
Speaker 3: It is real.

1572
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 2: It just didn't You didn't kill him the way you

1573
01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 2: wanted to kill him. I've decided to coin it a

1574
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 2: different name now, and maybe this will help you know,

1575
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 2: at least people around me, uh, accurately depick what it's called.

1576
01:11:23,960 --> 01:11:24,680
Speaker 3: What it should be called.

1577
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:29,160
Speaker 2: It's not canceled culture. It should be called postpone culture. Yeah,

1578
01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:32,639
Speaker 2: because you really just postponing shit, like you're not you're

1579
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:38,280
Speaker 2: not getting Kevin Hard Yeah, yeah, yeah, he'll be back. Okay,

1580
01:11:38,439 --> 01:11:41,120
Speaker 2: it's like postpone culture is real. Then, Okay, you don't

1581
01:11:41,200 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 2: like cancel culture is not real? Cool, that's that makes

1582
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:47,600
Speaker 2: you feel bad. Postpone culture is real. Motherfuckers postponing the

1583
01:11:47,600 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 2: fuck out of some of these events because they're like,

1584
01:11:49,479 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 2: I don't know when they're gonna get off my ass,

1585
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,839
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna have to go away for a while, Okay,

1586
01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 2: And I think that's that's that's kind of the truth.

1587
01:11:57,439 --> 01:11:59,400
Speaker 2: And then also the reason they don't want to say

1588
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:01,040
Speaker 2: is real because they don't want to acknowledge the people

1589
01:12:01,040 --> 01:12:03,840
Speaker 2: they are doing it too. It's affecting them mentally and

1590
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:06,960
Speaker 2: uh and and all that other stuff.

1591
01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:10,160
Speaker 3: Right because they just like, no, no, no, they're so

1592
01:12:10,240 --> 01:12:11,320
Speaker 3: above me. They don't even care.

1593
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:15,200
Speaker 2: It's like, nah, they we've seen Nicki Minaj is retiring

1594
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:18,040
Speaker 2: this week. Yes, y'all, that shit does valid those people.

1595
01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:20,120
Speaker 2: You say it does it It clearly does.

1596
01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:22,240
Speaker 3: Anyway.

1597
01:12:22,920 --> 01:12:25,400
Speaker 2: Forty eight percent say they'll they'll go away for it

1598
01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:31,480
Speaker 2: be and come back, two percent say death, y'all are twisted, thirty.

1599
01:12:31,200 --> 01:12:33,400
Speaker 4: Three y'all want to drag it down the streets.

1600
01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:35,920
Speaker 2: Thirty three percent say they will no longer have a career,

1601
01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 2: and seventeen percent say I'll never hear or see from

1602
01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 2: these this person again, which adds to fifty percent. So basically,

1603
01:12:42,160 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 2: fifty percent of y'all think you'll the person will no

1604
01:12:44,960 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 2: longer have a career or you'll never hear see from

1605
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 2: this person again. Is the only thing that counts is canceled,

1606
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:50,800
Speaker 2: which is wild. And then they thought that in that

1607
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:53,719
Speaker 2: two percent to say death, woo, that's a lot.

1608
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:56,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, because you know what, that shit ain't the real life.

1609
01:12:56,800 --> 01:12:59,479
Speaker 4: Everybody don't fucked up. Everybody don't fucked up. Did something wrong?

1610
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 4: Did some disappointed everybody? You ain't go away, you ain't disappear,

1611
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:06,760
Speaker 4: you ain't die, You were allowed to come back. So

1612
01:13:07,280 --> 01:13:09,760
Speaker 4: the so, I guess, I guess that's why I see

1613
01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:13,040
Speaker 4: the hypocrisy in that, in my opinion, to be like, no, no, no,

1614
01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:15,640
Speaker 4: most people only say this because of the celebrity.

1615
01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:19,519
Speaker 2: Uh so Alicia says, I'm gonna go out on a

1616
01:13:19,560 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 2: limb here and say Nate Parker was media trained by

1617
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:22,760
Speaker 2: Matthew Knows.

1618
01:13:23,479 --> 01:13:26,640
Speaker 3: I don't what Matthew Knows be doing. I don't know

1619
01:13:26,720 --> 01:13:27,719
Speaker 3: enough about Matthew Knows.

1620
01:13:29,400 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 4: I just know he exists.

1621
01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 2: Michelle says, I think cancel should be a combination of

1622
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 2: going away for a while and not having a career,

1623
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 2: depending on the severity of the defense. If it's bad enough,

1624
01:13:37,600 --> 01:13:39,760
Speaker 2: then they should have to find a new career. So

1625
01:13:39,800 --> 01:13:41,559
Speaker 2: I'm not saying they can't make money. I just think

1626
01:13:41,560 --> 01:13:44,120
Speaker 2: they should have to make it another way. Yeah, And

1627
01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:47,160
Speaker 2: I mean that's the other that's the ugly part about

1628
01:13:47,200 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 2: talent and all this other shit. A lot of these motherfuckers,

1629
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:55,800
Speaker 2: as long as they can entertain people, they're not gonna

1630
01:13:55,840 --> 01:13:58,559
Speaker 2: go away like I mean, they're not gonna lose their

1631
01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:02,000
Speaker 2: career like that, which is crazy because we see, we

1632
01:14:02,080 --> 01:14:04,160
Speaker 2: know it can happen. You just need to piss the

1633
01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:07,880
Speaker 2: right people off. And the people we around ain't the

1634
01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:11,479
Speaker 2: right people. The right people ain't no power. Yeah, like

1635
01:14:11,640 --> 01:14:15,759
Speaker 2: NFL owners, right people, NFL fans, not the right people.

1636
01:14:16,800 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 2: Star Bar two thousand says, I think being canceled, for

1637
01:14:19,840 --> 01:14:21,960
Speaker 2: the most part, means the person brand should no longer

1638
01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 2: have a career.

1639
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:23,280
Speaker 3: But because of the.

1640
01:14:23,240 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 2: Internet culture, there are so many things that make cancelation temporary.

1641
01:14:26,240 --> 01:14:29,160
Speaker 2: Our attentions fans are much shorter. There's a new buzzworthy

1642
01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:32,599
Speaker 2: phenomenon happening every thirty seconds. There's no longer mysterious powers

1643
01:14:32,600 --> 01:14:35,240
Speaker 2: that be who determine who gets to be successful and

1644
01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:38,559
Speaker 2: who gets blackballed like in the nineties before the Internet. Yeah,

1645
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 2: that's why happening is blackballing so makes so much more

1646
01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 2: sense because it's only thirty people have to agree.

1647
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:47,479
Speaker 3: You see what I'm saying. But if I want a.

1648
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 2: Blackball Luis c k you know how mey comedy store like,

1649
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:58,200
Speaker 2: comedy club owners, streaming services, TV channels, executives, movie producers.

1650
01:14:58,520 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 3: Too many people have to agree.

1651
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:02,639
Speaker 4: And that's not that's impossible. It's not gonna happen, right,

1652
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:05,120
Speaker 4: That's why I was like, people talk about losing careers

1653
01:15:05,120 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 4: and stuff that's not going Yeah.

1654
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:08,879
Speaker 3: Blackball from a sport much easier.

1655
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:11,640
Speaker 2: And let's not forget that if you're super talented, a

1656
01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 2: possessed ability to make money for people, you can't possibly

1657
01:15:14,560 --> 01:15:18,160
Speaker 2: have the complexity to also to be also be a

1658
01:15:18,160 --> 01:15:23,120
Speaker 2: Hainus human being who deserves repercussions of your terrible actions. Yeah, yeah,

1659
01:15:23,120 --> 01:15:25,040
Speaker 2: there's a lot of people like I, but I like

1660
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:27,719
Speaker 2: here's music, so he couldn't possibly be a child rapist.

1661
01:15:28,280 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 2: All in all, I agree with Karen's sentiment that nobody

1662
01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:33,040
Speaker 2: gets canceled. Instead of calling and cancel culture, it should

1663
01:15:33,040 --> 01:15:36,559
Speaker 2: be more actively branded as rain check culture postpone. Okay,

1664
01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:40,200
Speaker 2: I'm going on postpone, but rain check culture that's also

1665
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:43,680
Speaker 2: right in the same vein. Okay, I'm not gonna try

1666
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:47,160
Speaker 2: to tell your market like Taco Tuesday, so feel free

1667
01:15:47,200 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 2: to use whachever you prefer. But yeah, that's a great

1668
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 2: name for it too.

1669
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:51,760
Speaker 3: It's just rain checks.

1670
01:15:52,439 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 2: And lastly, Tulip Piggybank nineteen fifty two was the episode

1671
01:15:57,360 --> 01:16:00,000
Speaker 2: had eight comments. Oh, y'all had lots to say about it.

1672
01:16:01,720 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 2: Let me scroll on down see what these comments are doing,

1673
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:07,240
Speaker 2: Jared says, Dang, y'all were able to fit in so

1674
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 2: much in this episode, especially like how much you two

1675
01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:12,080
Speaker 2: talked about talking about Hong Kong.

1676
01:16:11,920 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 3: And the protests happening here.

1677
01:16:13,439 --> 01:16:15,680
Speaker 2: I personally witnessed one of the early protests while on

1678
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 2: the date I was able to see up a closer

1679
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 2: personal how organized they are and most importantly, how much

1680
01:16:21,320 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 2: they care for each other.

1681
01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 3: There's very much a sense of community.

1682
01:16:24,360 --> 01:16:27,759
Speaker 2: People handing out water, masking hard hats if you need.

1683
01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 3: There are front liners who are.

1684
01:16:30,680 --> 01:16:33,400
Speaker 2: The ones who you've actually seen dealing with tear gas

1685
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:37,160
Speaker 2: and throwing petrol bombs. There are those in the middle

1686
01:16:37,240 --> 01:16:39,240
Speaker 2: and the back helping them bring supplies to the front

1687
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:41,720
Speaker 2: liners and helping get injured people out of harm's way.

1688
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:46,400
Speaker 2: Despite carry lambs with drawing the bill, carry lamb with

1689
01:16:46,520 --> 01:16:49,080
Speaker 2: drawing the bill, I don't see protesters losing the same

1690
01:16:49,240 --> 01:16:51,640
Speaker 2: energy they've had for months. If anything, I think this

1691
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 2: will make them even more defined it less likely to

1692
01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:55,960
Speaker 2: back down. I'm curious to see how Beijing responds to

1693
01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:58,120
Speaker 2: protests continued a result in clash with the police.

1694
01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:01,160
Speaker 3: Thanks for providing last year such an unser time. Thanks Jerse,

1695
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 3: thank you.

1696
01:17:02,240 --> 01:17:03,040
Speaker 4: You'd be saying over.

1697
01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:03,800
Speaker 3: The baby book.

1698
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:05,599
Speaker 2: When Shoe Bay says normally I don't give a fuck

1699
01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 2: about Azalia Banks or her angry toxic Twitter fingers, but

1700
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 2: her comments about lizz O, Little naz Ex and Cardi

1701
01:17:11,080 --> 01:17:13,960
Speaker 2: b boil my water. Can't black people just make music?

1702
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 2: That makes us dance and sing along.

1703
01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:17,120
Speaker 3: Who cares what white people think.

1704
01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:20,080
Speaker 2: Race is going to hate us even at I'm most respectable.

1705
01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 2: I even Michelle Obama. I just got into Lizzo and

1706
01:17:22,960 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 2: love her music. It makes me feel seen as a

1707
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:28,200
Speaker 2: big black sexual woman like Missi before her. Cardi B

1708
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:30,240
Speaker 2: and Meghan the Stallion made me feel good and they

1709
01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:33,400
Speaker 2: not hurt no one with their jams. So also, Harry

1710
01:17:33,400 --> 01:17:35,240
Speaker 2: Potter books are actually twenty years old.

1711
01:17:35,320 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 3: Loll.

1712
01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:38,680
Speaker 2: Sorry for being a well actually listener. Thanks for us,

1713
01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:41,160
Speaker 2: thanks for it's fling the Hong Kong protest. You really

1714
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:44,360
Speaker 2: informed me. Well, thank you, Brooklyn Shoe bab will appreciate

1715
01:17:44,400 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 2: you well. Actually is and all and yeah, I agree, man.

1716
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:51,360
Speaker 2: The only thing I really forgot to mention in that conversation,

1717
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 2: and it's on me because.

1718
01:17:54,479 --> 01:17:56,040
Speaker 3: I don't ever want to be by these people, but

1719
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 3: I kind of was.

1720
01:17:56,800 --> 01:17:59,360
Speaker 2: But I really just think something maybe I mentioned it,

1721
01:17:59,400 --> 01:18:02,439
Speaker 2: I didn't, I forgot whatever. I think something is wrong

1722
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:05,840
Speaker 2: with Isaiah Banks. I think she has real issues that

1723
01:18:05,920 --> 01:18:09,759
Speaker 2: are much bigger than music. And that's why she's always

1724
01:18:09,800 --> 01:18:13,600
Speaker 2: the common denominator in everything. Is this fury inside of

1725
01:18:13,640 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 2: her and this idea that everyone's getting over on her

1726
01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:19,400
Speaker 2: and all the shit. So I think she has some

1727
01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:22,720
Speaker 2: serious issues. I don't know what they are. I'm not

1728
01:18:22,760 --> 01:18:27,720
Speaker 2: her a fucking psychiatrist or whatever, but it's.

1729
01:18:27,280 --> 01:18:30,160
Speaker 3: Like she'd up to test too much things.

1730
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 2: Pretty smart says, I didn't spend twelve freezing winners in

1731
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:36,320
Speaker 2: Detroit for one of our most cherished musical contributions to

1732
01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 2: be gentrified by Trevor. Clearly he didn't either, because had he,

1733
01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:43,519
Speaker 2: he'd respect the sacred nature of the min Western blessing

1734
01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:45,280
Speaker 2: that is, it's so cold in the d.

1735
01:18:47,120 --> 01:18:48,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, he was saying, nigga too.

1736
01:18:49,640 --> 01:18:52,479
Speaker 2: HARMANI says, y'all sitting over that judging this pastor for

1737
01:18:52,560 --> 01:18:55,040
Speaker 2: band and Harry Potter, but can't tell the demon in

1738
01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:58,080
Speaker 2: your own home cast starts reading them books and all

1739
01:18:58,120 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 2: of a sudden she getting stopped by killer birds.

1740
01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 3: To coincidence, I think not.

1741
01:19:02,920 --> 01:19:06,639
Speaker 2: Has that Burggate Felix says, Karen's reaction to the Zellia

1742
01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:08,639
Speaker 2: Bak story was the same as mine. Honestly, the only

1743
01:19:08,680 --> 01:19:11,479
Speaker 2: time she ever really trans now is when she's shitting

1744
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:14,519
Speaker 2: on other people's success in really mean spirited ways. It's

1745
01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:17,439
Speaker 2: so sad seeing this is all she does now, especially

1746
01:19:17,479 --> 01:19:20,880
Speaker 2: after how much people rooted for her in the beginning. Yeah,

1747
01:19:21,080 --> 01:19:23,639
Speaker 2: that's why, that's what happens. I'm rooting for everybody black,

1748
01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:24,240
Speaker 2: and then you're like.

1749
01:19:24,200 --> 01:19:25,360
Speaker 3: Ooh, this motherfucker right here.

1750
01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:29,320
Speaker 2: Though, Trey says, thank you all for mentioning the Hong

1751
01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:32,200
Speaker 2: Kong protesters. They really are doing the damn thing over there.

1752
01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:34,720
Speaker 2: I hope American protesters learn from them. The way they

1753
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:37,640
Speaker 2: dispose the tear gas cans is amazing. They worked as

1754
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:40,639
Speaker 2: a team. That shit was beautiful. Laugh my ass off,

1755
01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:44,599
Speaker 2: little fucking hick Towns Careen Daisy Credit Union really needs

1756
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 2: to get some help, and Dwight from real housewife of

1757
01:19:48,479 --> 01:19:51,920
Speaker 2: Atlanta Voice, who is the person calling herself a music

1758
01:19:52,040 --> 01:19:55,880
Speaker 2: artist with no music. I hope, I hope she gets

1759
01:19:55,880 --> 01:19:58,280
Speaker 2: some therapy and meds and she needs them. That's all

1760
01:19:58,320 --> 01:20:00,960
Speaker 2: I got for Ezelia Karen. I'm so glad that you're

1761
01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:02,439
Speaker 2: gonna start reading Harry Potter books.

1762
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:04,360
Speaker 3: You will love them. Thanks again, you too, Trey.

1763
01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:08,439
Speaker 2: Oh Lakita says, a couple of years ago, I heard

1764
01:20:08,439 --> 01:20:10,360
Speaker 2: a few stories about Isaiah and I didn't know who

1765
01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:12,120
Speaker 2: she was, so I looked up her music before I

1766
01:20:12,160 --> 01:20:15,120
Speaker 2: actually dismissed her based on her Beyonce comments. Her music

1767
01:20:15,160 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 2: made me feel like she could probably use all that

1768
01:20:17,760 --> 01:20:20,679
Speaker 2: hating energy to make some better music. Although I've heard

1769
01:20:20,760 --> 01:20:23,559
Speaker 2: rumors that she's quite talented, you wouldn't know it with

1770
01:20:23,680 --> 01:20:24,560
Speaker 2: her only.

1771
01:20:24,320 --> 01:20:28,880
Speaker 3: Being mentioned when being of a garbage person. Yeah, I don't.

1772
01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 2: That's the other thing too, Like with some celebrities, it's

1773
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 2: like you could tell that trolling is part of getting

1774
01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:37,839
Speaker 2: people to their music or whatever.

1775
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:39,840
Speaker 3: She don't seem.

1776
01:20:39,760 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 2: Like that's like does a plan be like and this

1777
01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:44,040
Speaker 2: is how I get paid?

1778
01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 3: It just seemed like she really having some real issues.

1779
01:20:48,760 --> 01:20:51,639
Speaker 2: And Sidney says, so I fucked around and watched all

1780
01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:54,640
Speaker 2: eight episodes an Active Shooter. It's crazy how the sisitize

1781
01:20:54,760 --> 01:20:57,000
Speaker 2: and how and how cautious I've become over the years,

1782
01:20:57,000 --> 01:21:01,080
Speaker 2: lost the process. Sidney Queen of the Short comment, thank you. Yeah,

1783
01:21:01,160 --> 01:21:03,840
Speaker 2: and I agree with you on that little stuff I

1784
01:21:03,880 --> 01:21:05,840
Speaker 2: think about now. I'm like, I didn't think about this

1785
01:21:06,000 --> 01:21:09,320
Speaker 2: years before all these fucking mass shootings. But you know,

1786
01:21:09,400 --> 01:21:12,840
Speaker 2: every time I go to my niece's school, or every

1787
01:21:12,840 --> 01:21:15,920
Speaker 2: time I go in the movie theater, you know, and

1788
01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:18,400
Speaker 2: that's really how they win, you know, That's what those

1789
01:21:18,400 --> 01:21:22,479
Speaker 2: white supremacists wanted do you think praying can change the

1790
01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:23,479
Speaker 2: path of a hurricane?

1791
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:28,240
Speaker 3: No? Or yes? Because Mary Anne Williamson said it can can.

1792
01:21:29,000 --> 01:21:31,600
Speaker 4: Not No her positive thinking the way she know, not

1793
01:21:31,640 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 4: the way she defined it.

1794
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:35,519
Speaker 2: No, okay, but there is a version of praying that

1795
01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:37,640
Speaker 2: can change the path of hurricane.

1796
01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 3: You said, not the way she defined it.

1797
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:43,200
Speaker 2: So it makes it sound like there's another definition where

1798
01:21:43,200 --> 01:21:45,200
Speaker 2: you can pray and then the hurricane will go hit

1799
01:21:45,240 --> 01:21:46,680
Speaker 2: some people that you don't you don't want.

1800
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:50,120
Speaker 4: No, but then no, no, no, no, I feel like

1801
01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:53,680
Speaker 4: this if you're praying that somebody gets harmed to hurt no.

1802
01:21:53,280 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 2: No, I mean no, you're praying away from you. But

1803
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:56,879
Speaker 2: I mean it's still a fucking hurricane.

1804
01:21:57,160 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 4: Not a hurricane.

1805
01:21:58,080 --> 01:22:01,360
Speaker 2: It's going towards somebody else somewhere. So I mean, I'm

1806
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:04,400
Speaker 2: just saying that's it sounds like you believe that you can.

1807
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:06,479
Speaker 2: So it sounds like, yes.

1808
01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:08,280
Speaker 4: I mean you get I mean pray people safety and

1809
01:22:08,320 --> 01:22:10,280
Speaker 4: shit like that. I mean, I'm not talking about you

1810
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:12,599
Speaker 4: be praying people hurt, harm and danger. It's like, no,

1811
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:15,519
Speaker 4: gon't over that and hit them homosexuals. No, I don't

1812
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:16,280
Speaker 4: believe in that shit.

1813
01:22:16,400 --> 01:22:20,040
Speaker 2: No, Well, I personally, I do believe you can pray

1814
01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:22,200
Speaker 2: to change path or a hurricane because I prayed into

1815
01:22:22,200 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 2: my enemies, y'all. That's what I do. Now it hasn't

1816
01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:29,840
Speaker 2: been working, but I'm gonna keep trying, Okay. I'm just like,

1817
01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:32,839
Speaker 2: can it just only hit Trump, just only him.

1818
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:38,439
Speaker 4: Nobody else? Not just make its way right on down

1819
01:22:38,560 --> 01:22:40,040
Speaker 4: the road, miss everybody else?

1820
01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:40,599
Speaker 3: Please?

1821
01:22:40,680 --> 01:22:43,800
Speaker 2: Lord, please just hit the over office of the White House.

1822
01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:46,160
Speaker 3: And when he's in there by hisself. Lord, please, just

1823
01:22:46,240 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 3: Lord Jesus, time it just right, just uh right right.

1824
01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:54,479
Speaker 2: When they're deboarding hurricane u uh really de boarding Air

1825
01:22:54,520 --> 01:22:57,040
Speaker 2: Force one and everybody else has gotten off, but he

1826
01:22:57,080 --> 01:22:57,920
Speaker 2: wants to get off last.

1827
01:22:58,120 --> 01:22:59,960
Speaker 3: He wants to make an edge. Drince, Lord, please just

1828
01:23:00,080 --> 01:23:02,479
Speaker 3: let the hurricane take the plane and smash it into

1829
01:23:02,479 --> 01:23:04,880
Speaker 3: a tree. Lord, jeez, please run it away.

1830
01:23:05,320 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 2: In your name, I prayer just drowned just him, just

1831
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:10,240
Speaker 2: drown everybody else can live, or just.

1832
01:23:10,240 --> 01:23:12,240
Speaker 3: Drowned Donald Trump? All right?

1833
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:17,839
Speaker 2: Anyway, Ninety percent of the people say no, it cannot

1834
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:21,400
Speaker 2: change the path of the hurricane, and ten percent say.

1835
01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 3: Yes, so good. Yeah, here's my question.

1836
01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:29,240
Speaker 2: If y'all ten percent believe that I'm gonna have to

1837
01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:31,559
Speaker 2: blame y'all for all this deafinite destruction because it sounded

1838
01:23:31,600 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 2: like y'all didn't care enough.

1839
01:23:33,600 --> 01:23:34,960
Speaker 3: And Mary Anne Williamson was right.

1840
01:23:35,680 --> 01:23:37,720
Speaker 2: Phil g says, I was hoping and wishing for a

1841
01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 2: job that I didn't have me, that didn't have me

1842
01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:42,320
Speaker 2: coming into seven and that gave me a four day

1843
01:23:42,360 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 2: weekend for Labor Day.

1844
01:23:43,280 --> 01:23:44,839
Speaker 3: And I got laid off that Friday.

1845
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:48,040
Speaker 2: So maybe it does, but I vote no because I

1846
01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:49,920
Speaker 2: asked for another job before that happened.

1847
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:58,400
Speaker 3: So he got like half of the prayer answered. I mean, look, man,

1848
01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:01,080
Speaker 3: he look to hey.

1849
01:24:01,120 --> 01:24:03,080
Speaker 2: God was like, run me back, man, Let's go three

1850
01:24:03,120 --> 01:24:05,519
Speaker 2: out of four, okay, three out of five? All right,

1851
01:24:06,600 --> 01:24:10,439
Speaker 2: all right, we have some voicemails to get to, and

1852
01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 2: then we have the emails. The blackoutist at gmail dot

1853
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:17,800
Speaker 2: com is an email line, is an email address, and

1854
01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:22,719
Speaker 2: then the voicemail line is seven four five five seven

1855
01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:24,639
Speaker 2: zero one eighty six.

1856
01:24:25,400 --> 01:24:26,679
Speaker 1: Hey Rod, Hey Karen.

1857
01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:29,880
Speaker 7: My name is O'Neil from New Orleans, Louisiana.

1858
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:32,080
Speaker 8: I just wanted to give you guys a quick call.

1859
01:24:32,080 --> 01:24:34,840
Speaker 7: I'm a huge fan of the show. I was listening

1860
01:24:34,920 --> 01:24:37,640
Speaker 7: to the recent feedback episode and you know when you

1861
01:24:37,720 --> 01:24:40,840
Speaker 7: spoke about, you know, the audience not really hearing you

1862
01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:44,840
Speaker 7: about when you say you don't do cancel culture, you

1863
01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:47,840
Speaker 7: don't boycott, you know, and it's like you say these

1864
01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 7: things over and over again and we don't hear you.

1865
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 7: But you know, it definitely adds a different perspective when

1866
01:24:53,040 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 7: I listen to you guys, because it's so true and

1867
01:24:55,160 --> 01:24:59,280
Speaker 7: we should listen when you say those things. But also,

1868
01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:03,400
Speaker 7: and you said a word when you said that, you

1869
01:25:03,479 --> 01:25:06,840
Speaker 7: created this little conscience and in all of us, could

1870
01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:09,439
Speaker 7: you gotter when we're listening to something and we know

1871
01:25:09,520 --> 01:25:11,840
Speaker 7: that we shouldn't be doing her, we shouldn't joke about something.

1872
01:25:11,920 --> 01:25:15,320
Speaker 7: And for that man, thank you and making the world

1873
01:25:15,320 --> 01:25:15,840
Speaker 7: a better place.

1874
01:25:16,120 --> 01:25:16,679
Speaker 3: Love you guys.

1875
01:25:16,760 --> 01:25:17,040
Speaker 7: Bye.

1876
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:21,240
Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't know where I was going.

1877
01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:24,559
Speaker 2: I was like, because no long when people start saying

1878
01:25:24,560 --> 01:25:28,200
Speaker 2: something like that, and that's why your bitch ass need

1879
01:25:28,280 --> 01:25:29,240
Speaker 2: to be canceling people.

1880
01:25:29,320 --> 01:25:32,599
Speaker 3: You O punk ass nigga. You think you better than somebody,

1881
01:25:32,760 --> 01:25:34,559
Speaker 3: You think you better than me, Like I thought it

1882
01:25:34,600 --> 01:25:34,880
Speaker 3: was going.

1883
01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:38,479
Speaker 2: That was so sweet, but but but real talk though,

1884
01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:41,960
Speaker 2: I'm not just saying that for me. I listen to

1885
01:25:42,120 --> 01:25:44,840
Speaker 2: a lot of shows where the things they're talking about

1886
01:25:45,040 --> 01:25:48,960
Speaker 2: make me think about things differently, and if I can't

1887
01:25:49,920 --> 01:25:53,400
Speaker 2: parse that out, if I can't logically figure out like

1888
01:25:53,560 --> 01:25:54,880
Speaker 2: why am I feeling this way?

1889
01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:59,439
Speaker 3: Or or or more importantly, be accepting of the fact.

1890
01:25:59,240 --> 01:26:01,320
Speaker 2: That I feel the way I feel because I think

1891
01:26:01,360 --> 01:26:05,840
Speaker 2: what happens is in our rationalization, we start, we do things,

1892
01:26:05,840 --> 01:26:07,280
Speaker 2: and then we attack everyone else.

1893
01:26:07,920 --> 01:26:08,160
Speaker 3: Right.

1894
01:26:08,600 --> 01:26:13,400
Speaker 2: So it's like, for example, if I say you shouldn't

1895
01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 2: y'all listen to Eminem and Eminem be sending all these

1896
01:26:16,160 --> 01:26:19,640
Speaker 2: homophobic slurs and his music, and y'all just y'all do that,

1897
01:26:19,680 --> 01:26:25,000
Speaker 2: but y'all also think y'all cool with gay people, Well, okay.

1898
01:26:25,120 --> 01:26:29,240
Speaker 3: Then then if your point of view is I can't be.

1899
01:26:31,760 --> 01:26:36,400
Speaker 2: I can't be pro LGBTQ and also have enjoyed em

1900
01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:38,720
Speaker 2: and L's music at any point or still enjoy it

1901
01:26:38,800 --> 01:26:44,080
Speaker 2: or whatever, then in your mind, I'll never be pro LGBTQ.

1902
01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:48,120
Speaker 2: And I have to accept that your definition is your definition,

1903
01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:50,120
Speaker 2: and if that means I'm judged by it, then I'm

1904
01:26:50,160 --> 01:26:50,760
Speaker 2: judged by it.

1905
01:26:51,160 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 3: Now if I'm affected by.

1906
01:26:52,240 --> 01:26:53,840
Speaker 2: It to the point where I'm like, well, you know what,

1907
01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:57,679
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna listen to Eminem anymore because that person

1908
01:26:57,720 --> 01:26:59,680
Speaker 2: made me think about this, and I do enjoy this thing,

1909
01:26:59,680 --> 01:27:01,599
Speaker 2: and I and I feel bad for enjoying this thing

1910
01:27:01,640 --> 01:27:04,720
Speaker 2: and I shouldn't or or maybe I just no longer

1911
01:27:04,840 --> 01:27:06,960
Speaker 2: enjoy this thing anymore. Right, I listened to it, and

1912
01:27:06,960 --> 01:27:10,519
Speaker 2: I don't enjoy it anymore. Cool, you know, But what

1913
01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:13,559
Speaker 2: happens for most That's how I normally try to go

1914
01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:16,720
Speaker 2: through it, right, one of those two answers typically, And

1915
01:27:16,760 --> 01:27:19,080
Speaker 2: I also accept that I'm you know, not perfect.

1916
01:27:19,120 --> 01:27:23,439
Speaker 3: So so I'm a bit ignorant at times, you know

1917
01:27:23,479 --> 01:27:25,519
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So we all are.

1918
01:27:25,720 --> 01:27:28,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, So, so I understand I'm not gonna fit into

1919
01:27:28,479 --> 01:27:31,719
Speaker 2: these perfect righteous patterns every single time.

1920
01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:34,599
Speaker 3: But there's this other thing that happens with folks.

1921
01:27:34,600 --> 01:27:36,679
Speaker 2: Well, then they turn around and they attack the person

1922
01:27:36,760 --> 01:27:43,160
Speaker 2: that informed them of that hypocrisy. And that's the thing

1923
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:45,640
Speaker 2: that happens to me. Sometimes people will lash out at me.

1924
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:49,679
Speaker 2: I didn't say anything. I'm saying how I feel about

1925
01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:54,120
Speaker 2: the thing. How I feel doesn't determine what you do and.

1926
01:27:54,120 --> 01:27:56,479
Speaker 3: Don't do or how you should feel.

1927
01:27:56,479 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 2: Actually, right, Mike, this thing that we do is for us,

1928
01:28:02,000 --> 01:28:04,559
Speaker 2: and we let people into our line the thought all

1929
01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:08,160
Speaker 2: this stuff. But there are some people that really feel

1930
01:28:08,280 --> 01:28:13,280
Speaker 2: like we you disagreed or we or there's something I'm

1931
01:28:13,320 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 2: doing and now I'm thinking of you and I want

1932
01:28:15,080 --> 01:28:16,960
Speaker 2: to reach out to you. And if that is a

1933
01:28:17,040 --> 01:28:20,599
Speaker 2: thing that is happening to you, right like, you gotta

1934
01:28:20,640 --> 01:28:23,080
Speaker 2: come find me because I'm the one, because I don't

1935
01:28:23,200 --> 01:28:26,080
Speaker 2: enjoy it. You gotta come find me and be like, no,

1936
01:28:26,200 --> 01:28:29,400
Speaker 2: it do make sense. Come on, man, like that's you.

1937
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:31,080
Speaker 2: That's something that's out of you talking.

1938
01:28:31,160 --> 01:28:31,640
Speaker 3: That's not me.

1939
01:28:32,960 --> 01:28:35,160
Speaker 2: But if it's if it's one of the isms or

1940
01:28:35,160 --> 01:28:37,960
Speaker 2: the obia's or whatever, and it's if that's what it

1941
01:28:38,040 --> 01:28:40,080
Speaker 2: is and it's making you feel that way. Like, man,

1942
01:28:40,479 --> 01:28:43,679
Speaker 2: maybe I'm islamaphobic because Rod said some shit and it's

1943
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:44,200
Speaker 2: bothering me.

1944
01:28:44,920 --> 01:28:49,280
Speaker 3: Good good, and I will take let you be bothered.

1945
01:28:49,280 --> 01:28:53,240
Speaker 3: I'll take that. I don't care. Some people should be bothered.

1946
01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:55,200
Speaker 2: That's what's gonna have to happen for things to change.

1947
01:28:55,520 --> 01:28:57,439
Speaker 2: Some people are gonna have to feel a little bit bad.

1948
01:28:57,680 --> 01:29:00,240
Speaker 2: Some people are gonna have to think out there, well,

1949
01:29:00,240 --> 01:29:03,679
Speaker 2: I'm dead and gone. I hope people look back and think, yo, man,

1950
01:29:04,040 --> 01:29:05,800
Speaker 2: A lot of the shit he was bringing up, Man,

1951
01:29:05,960 --> 01:29:08,880
Speaker 2: it made sense or it challenged me in a way,

1952
01:29:09,520 --> 01:29:12,120
Speaker 2: to be a little bit empathetic or whatever. I know,

1953
01:29:12,200 --> 01:29:14,639
Speaker 2: I'm an EmPATH and I can't really turn this shit off,

1954
01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:18,519
Speaker 2: so it's not really u uh. I try my best

1955
01:29:18,520 --> 01:29:21,120
Speaker 2: to limit it, so I know sometimes it ain't always

1956
01:29:21,160 --> 01:29:21,960
Speaker 2: for the best either.

1957
01:29:22,720 --> 01:29:26,240
Speaker 3: But yeah, if if a little more empathy, a little more.

1958
01:29:26,160 --> 01:29:27,760
Speaker 2: Thoughtfulness is out in the world because of the black

1959
01:29:27,800 --> 01:29:30,720
Speaker 2: guy who tells, yeah, well, gladly take that.

1960
01:29:31,720 --> 01:29:32,760
Speaker 3: You know, so be mad.

1961
01:29:32,800 --> 01:29:35,120
Speaker 2: I don't you know, not you, but them dudes that

1962
01:29:35,240 --> 01:29:37,000
Speaker 2: hit me up like I knew you a well, at

1963
01:29:37,080 --> 01:29:39,000
Speaker 2: least you knew you was thinking about something bigger than

1964
01:29:39,040 --> 01:29:39,479
Speaker 2: Da Chapelle.

1965
01:29:39,560 --> 01:29:42,800
Speaker 1: For sake, Rody Karen, this is for the feedback show.

1966
01:29:42,840 --> 01:29:44,599
Speaker 1: It's what's Shawonda the doctor?

1967
01:29:44,600 --> 01:29:45,160
Speaker 8: How you doing?

1968
01:29:45,320 --> 01:29:45,760
Speaker 4: Oh shit?

1969
01:29:46,000 --> 01:29:49,440
Speaker 8: I am listening to what is canceled and the introvert

1970
01:29:49,960 --> 01:29:54,040
Speaker 8: conversation and it it's so interesting that you mentioned how

1971
01:29:54,080 --> 01:29:55,879
Speaker 8: they don't want you to talk too much.

1972
01:29:57,200 --> 01:29:59,799
Speaker 1: A few years ago, a colleague, a well meaning, quot.

1973
01:29:59,680 --> 01:30:03,200
Speaker 8: Unquote colleague told me that, you know, I'm very competent

1974
01:30:03,320 --> 01:30:05,600
Speaker 8: in my job and I don't smile enough and I

1975
01:30:05,640 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 8: need to speak up more. And people kept telling me

1976
01:30:08,360 --> 01:30:09,080
Speaker 8: to speak up more.

1977
01:30:09,120 --> 01:30:12,479
Speaker 1: And so I'm someone who will sit back and observe

1978
01:30:12,520 --> 01:30:15,360
Speaker 1: and observe and process, and then I'll speak when I

1979
01:30:15,400 --> 01:30:17,240
Speaker 1: feel that there's something to be said. Well, when I

1980
01:30:17,280 --> 01:30:18,160
Speaker 1: started doing.

1981
01:30:17,960 --> 01:30:22,640
Speaker 8: That, I look told by the VP of our organization

1982
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:24,640
Speaker 8: that I could not ask questions.

1983
01:30:25,120 --> 01:30:27,760
Speaker 3: And she told me that in a very public.

1984
01:30:27,439 --> 01:30:30,920
Speaker 8: Setting during a division meeting. And now that I don't speak.

1985
01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 1: Anymore, she's back to why you don't speak, And I'm like, gold, you.

1986
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:36,639
Speaker 3: Told me I couldn't anymore, so you're.

1987
01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:40,880
Speaker 8: Very much right about that. I'm not hyper critical, but

1988
01:30:41,040 --> 01:30:43,880
Speaker 8: if something doesn't make sense, I'll ask the question about it.

1989
01:30:44,080 --> 01:30:45,760
Speaker 8: But that's not what they want to hear. They want

1990
01:30:45,800 --> 01:30:48,320
Speaker 8: to hear the praise all the time. They want you

1991
01:30:48,360 --> 01:30:51,080
Speaker 8: to be the cheerleader, and that's just not me and

1992
01:30:51,120 --> 01:30:52,120
Speaker 8: that's not my job.

1993
01:30:51,960 --> 01:30:52,759
Speaker 1: To talk, captain.

1994
01:30:52,960 --> 01:30:58,240
Speaker 8: So definitely feeling you on that one. You guys, stay

1995
01:30:58,280 --> 01:30:59,960
Speaker 8: sweet and wonderful as all the way.

1996
01:31:01,479 --> 01:31:06,040
Speaker 4: Ah, thank you, Doc, thank you, and yes, yeah that

1997
01:31:06,200 --> 01:31:08,439
Speaker 4: right there, I'll make you want to cuss some motherfuck out,

1998
01:31:08,479 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 4: But bitch you that because what had happened is that

1999
01:31:12,280 --> 01:31:14,639
Speaker 4: whatever you said they didn't like. Whatever you said didn't

2000
01:31:14,640 --> 01:31:16,559
Speaker 4: make them feel good, whatever you said didn't get them

2001
01:31:16,560 --> 01:31:19,320
Speaker 4: praised whatever you said challenge or whatever you said may

2002
01:31:19,320 --> 01:31:21,080
Speaker 4: have embarrassed her, or she might not have had the

2003
01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:23,559
Speaker 4: answer to answer your question. And she didn't want to

2004
01:31:23,600 --> 01:31:25,320
Speaker 4: tell you that she was going to research because she

2005
01:31:25,320 --> 01:31:28,519
Speaker 4: probably wasn't, so instead, And my thing is that's something

2006
01:31:28,600 --> 01:31:31,080
Speaker 4: that if she felt that way, doing it in a

2007
01:31:31,120 --> 01:31:34,160
Speaker 4: big public format like that is not the proper way

2008
01:31:34,200 --> 01:31:37,040
Speaker 4: to do. She shouldn't have it at all being a professional.

2009
01:31:37,080 --> 01:31:39,439
Speaker 4: But if this was something she was gonna do, she

2010
01:31:39,479 --> 01:31:41,240
Speaker 4: should have put you to the side because it's one

2011
01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:43,920
Speaker 4: other thing. Well, bitch, you can't have it both ways either.

2012
01:31:44,360 --> 01:31:45,439
Speaker 4: I'm gonna talk wind.

2013
01:31:46,439 --> 01:31:49,679
Speaker 2: Yeah, I absolutely feel you on that, and I do

2014
01:31:50,160 --> 01:31:53,040
Speaker 2: that myself where you ain't got to hit me, but

2015
01:31:53,120 --> 01:31:57,000
Speaker 2: once so you tell me some shit like hey, we

2016
01:31:57,040 --> 01:32:00,960
Speaker 2: don't want you talking, all right, then cold they appreciate it.

2017
01:32:01,640 --> 01:32:03,439
Speaker 3: I won't be bringing up shit during meanings.

2018
01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:05,840
Speaker 2: But what happens is people say shit in the moment

2019
01:32:05,880 --> 01:32:09,760
Speaker 2: that they don't really mean, and they always come back

2020
01:32:09,760 --> 01:32:12,840
Speaker 2: to you later like, oh, yeah, so I noticed you

2021
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:15,559
Speaker 2: weren't talking. Bitch, you told me not to talk.

2022
01:32:16,840 --> 01:32:19,480
Speaker 3: I didn't walk into work like I ain't talking to nobody.

2023
01:32:19,840 --> 01:32:23,479
Speaker 2: You told me stay at my desk. You told me, like,

2024
01:32:23,600 --> 01:32:28,280
Speaker 2: these are things I remember like people. It's never a threat,

2025
01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:31,479
Speaker 2: but it is, but I do take it serious.

2026
01:32:31,520 --> 01:32:32,679
Speaker 3: It might come off as a warning.

2027
01:32:32,760 --> 01:32:37,280
Speaker 2: But when people say something to me sideways about something

2028
01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:40,360
Speaker 2: like something, why I feel like this is maybe that

2029
01:32:40,439 --> 01:32:44,000
Speaker 2: being a little overzealous. I'm still gonna take it into

2030
01:32:44,320 --> 01:32:47,960
Speaker 2: under advisement me do so even if I think you're wrong.

2031
01:32:48,240 --> 01:32:49,519
Speaker 3: But for the sake of the peace.

2032
01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:54,080
Speaker 2: You tell me something like, hey man, when you see me,

2033
01:32:54,120 --> 01:32:57,160
Speaker 2: don't talk to me no more. I will say, you

2034
01:32:57,200 --> 01:32:59,200
Speaker 2: don't have to worry about that ever. Again, that was

2035
01:32:59,240 --> 01:33:00,880
Speaker 2: a young man I play basketball with.

2036
01:33:01,840 --> 01:33:03,559
Speaker 3: Cool God. We got along just fine.

2037
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:05,200
Speaker 2: But there was a thing where he was having a

2038
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:08,880
Speaker 2: disagreement with someone and I was trying to tell him,

2039
01:33:08,920 --> 01:33:10,960
Speaker 2: as an older statesman, like, hey man, you know, this

2040
01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:12,719
Speaker 2: is the way you can handle this in the future

2041
01:33:12,920 --> 01:33:15,200
Speaker 2: where you don't even have to worry about this guy anymore.

2042
01:33:15,880 --> 01:33:18,960
Speaker 2: And he was still venting, and then he started turning

2043
01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:21,280
Speaker 2: on me, and then he was like, Man, don't talk

2044
01:33:21,280 --> 01:33:21,479
Speaker 2: to me.

2045
01:33:21,520 --> 01:33:23,240
Speaker 3: Don't talk to me, Man, don't talk to me no more.

2046
01:33:23,600 --> 01:33:29,080
Speaker 2: I said, you know what, Kendall, you don't ever have

2047
01:33:29,160 --> 01:33:29,880
Speaker 2: to worry about me.

2048
01:33:29,920 --> 01:33:30,679
Speaker 3: Talking to you again.

2049
01:33:30,920 --> 01:33:33,479
Speaker 2: Don't even worry about it, not mad at you at all,

2050
01:33:33,600 --> 01:33:36,680
Speaker 2: like totally like that the same way I gave you

2051
01:33:36,720 --> 01:33:39,400
Speaker 2: a solution and your problem and you was like, fuck

2052
01:33:39,439 --> 01:33:41,519
Speaker 2: that shit, I'm gonna give myself a solution to our

2053
01:33:41,600 --> 01:33:44,240
Speaker 2: problem and I'm not gonna say fuck my own device.

2054
01:33:44,800 --> 01:33:47,280
Speaker 3: And it was. He's a good kid man.

2055
01:33:47,360 --> 01:33:49,000
Speaker 2: So the next time I saw him, I think he

2056
01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:51,479
Speaker 2: really regretted and felt bad about how he was talking

2057
01:33:51,479 --> 01:33:54,320
Speaker 2: to me, and he apologized and we cool. Still like

2058
01:33:54,640 --> 01:33:56,320
Speaker 2: I told him, all right, cool, well, all right, I

2059
01:33:56,360 --> 01:33:58,640
Speaker 2: fuck with I'm not petty, like I'm not gonna be

2060
01:33:58,720 --> 01:33:59,880
Speaker 2: like I'm still not talking to you.

2061
01:34:00,120 --> 01:34:02,200
Speaker 3: I was like, all right, cool players, fuck up. Shit

2062
01:34:02,280 --> 01:34:03,080
Speaker 3: happens in the moment.

2063
01:34:03,520 --> 01:34:05,479
Speaker 2: Glad you calmed down, and he was like, and I

2064
01:34:05,479 --> 01:34:07,400
Speaker 2: took your advice and all that shit. I said, cool, bro,

2065
01:34:08,040 --> 01:34:09,320
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. All I want was the

2066
01:34:09,360 --> 01:34:11,479
Speaker 2: best for you. I'm not sitting out there trying to

2067
01:34:11,520 --> 01:34:14,600
Speaker 2: mock you or joke you, but that like, but I

2068
01:34:14,720 --> 01:34:16,600
Speaker 2: do take that shit when you talk to me, I

2069
01:34:16,640 --> 01:34:17,559
Speaker 2: take it serious.

2070
01:34:18,200 --> 01:34:20,720
Speaker 3: So yeah, that that's what happens at work too.

2071
01:34:21,400 --> 01:34:23,519
Speaker 2: All right, we're about to get to the break Okay,

2072
01:34:24,080 --> 01:34:25,439
Speaker 2: real quick, let me pause it.

2073
01:34:26,280 --> 01:34:26,840
Speaker 3: All right, ker.

2074
01:34:27,720 --> 01:34:29,400
Speaker 4: What I was gonna say is this, and I will

2075
01:34:29,439 --> 01:34:33,120
Speaker 4: continue to say this. Corporate America the way it's designed,

2076
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:36,639
Speaker 4: even higher education, it's never designed for any brown people,

2077
01:34:36,640 --> 01:34:39,840
Speaker 4: particularly black people in mind. So it's the predominant white space.

2078
01:34:39,880 --> 01:34:41,760
Speaker 4: And white people have their own language that they speak

2079
01:34:41,760 --> 01:34:43,600
Speaker 4: to each other that's unknown to niggas, just like we

2080
01:34:43,640 --> 01:34:46,040
Speaker 4: got our languages unknown to them. So when you walk

2081
01:34:46,040 --> 01:34:48,439
Speaker 4: into these spaces, they have a culture and a language

2082
01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:50,720
Speaker 4: and a way of communicating with each other that most

2083
01:34:50,760 --> 01:34:53,439
Speaker 4: of us are oblivious to. And unless you have had

2084
01:34:53,520 --> 01:34:56,400
Speaker 4: somebody to go down those channels, they can You don't

2085
01:34:56,400 --> 01:34:58,360
Speaker 4: know the cold worlds. You don't know the language because

2086
01:34:58,360 --> 01:35:00,519
Speaker 4: you know, we as black people in general, we'll just

2087
01:35:00,600 --> 01:35:02,880
Speaker 4: flat tell you how they how I feel like, I

2088
01:35:02,920 --> 01:35:04,519
Speaker 4: don't like this, nigga, I don't like that. Like we're

2089
01:35:04,640 --> 01:35:06,599
Speaker 4: very very you know, in our own culture, we're very

2090
01:35:06,640 --> 01:35:09,599
Speaker 4: straightforward with each other in most instances. With ship like that,

2091
01:35:09,960 --> 01:35:14,520
Speaker 4: they won't that, they'll say things, use covers, use cold languages,

2092
01:35:14,560 --> 01:35:17,160
Speaker 4: and looking that shit is fucking confusing. It's a lot

2093
01:35:17,200 --> 01:35:18,960
Speaker 4: of black people that have lost jobs. They have no

2094
01:35:19,040 --> 01:35:22,000
Speaker 4: fucking idea of why. Nobody set them down, nobody told

2095
01:35:22,000 --> 01:35:24,080
Speaker 4: them what they're wrong. You keep getting rolled up in

2096
01:35:24,160 --> 01:35:27,280
Speaker 4: human Resources and everybody's fucking you're fucking confused and you

2097
01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:31,920
Speaker 4: don't know why, and it's because they don't really in general,

2098
01:35:31,920 --> 01:35:34,360
Speaker 4: they don't really want us there. They don't really understand us.

2099
01:35:34,400 --> 01:35:36,559
Speaker 4: Nobody actually wants to teach us and train us through

2100
01:35:36,600 --> 01:35:40,200
Speaker 4: the culture. And once you get hip to the game,

2101
01:35:40,240 --> 01:35:42,160
Speaker 4: a lot of times they're afraid of you because guess what, bitch,

2102
01:35:42,160 --> 01:35:43,680
Speaker 4: I can go to human resources too, I know how

2103
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:45,479
Speaker 4: Like once you get hip to the game, oh, I

2104
01:35:45,520 --> 01:35:49,800
Speaker 4: know how how the how to navigate and operate the system.

2105
01:35:50,320 --> 01:35:55,920
Speaker 4: And so for me, uh piggybacking on what she said

2106
01:35:56,080 --> 01:35:58,680
Speaker 4: is for me, I got to the point where a

2107
01:35:58,680 --> 01:36:01,600
Speaker 4: lot of times I'm really good at but like this,

2108
01:36:01,720 --> 01:36:03,400
Speaker 4: I had to get better with my face because my

2109
01:36:03,479 --> 01:36:06,719
Speaker 4: face used to show exactly how I felt about things,

2110
01:36:06,800 --> 01:36:08,800
Speaker 4: but I had to learn how to make it like

2111
01:36:08,800 --> 01:36:11,240
Speaker 4: a blank face. And when people just say just the

2112
01:36:11,280 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 4: wildest shit that you know, we quote unquote were considered

2113
01:36:14,280 --> 01:36:17,519
Speaker 4: disrespectful and shit even they would consider disrespectful to each other.

2114
01:36:18,400 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 4: But because you're black, you can't respond the way that

2115
01:36:21,439 --> 01:36:23,479
Speaker 4: a white person, because you know, white people get catty

2116
01:36:23,560 --> 01:36:25,160
Speaker 4: with each other at work. Some shit that would be

2117
01:36:25,280 --> 01:36:28,799
Speaker 4: quote unquote completely unacceptable if you was to say anything,

2118
01:36:29,240 --> 01:36:31,960
Speaker 4: And so I had to learn how to get my

2119
01:36:31,960 --> 01:36:33,479
Speaker 4: face together. So, like you said, I've been in those

2120
01:36:33,479 --> 01:36:35,719
Speaker 4: situations where you know, they were like, don't say nothing.

2121
01:36:35,760 --> 01:36:37,360
Speaker 4: So then whenever like you got things, I have nothing

2122
01:36:37,400 --> 01:36:41,439
Speaker 4: to say, nothing, nothing, no comments, nothing, nothing, nothing, nothing

2123
01:36:41,479 --> 01:36:44,080
Speaker 4: nothing nothing. You want nothing, bitch, you got nothing. Like

2124
01:36:44,120 --> 01:36:46,519
Speaker 4: Rochester said, words mean things, And I take because I've

2125
01:36:46,520 --> 01:36:49,040
Speaker 4: been in corporate Mario long though I take things into advisement.

2126
01:36:49,320 --> 01:36:51,880
Speaker 4: They might forget, but I have it. You know they might.

2127
01:36:51,920 --> 01:36:53,800
Speaker 4: She might have even forgot that she told you that,

2128
01:36:54,120 --> 01:36:56,920
Speaker 4: but you remember. And so since you remember, you said,

2129
01:36:57,000 --> 01:36:59,120
Speaker 4: but like this, you can't set a standard and then

2130
01:36:59,200 --> 01:37:01,160
Speaker 4: be mad at me because I remember the sandors that

2131
01:37:01,240 --> 01:37:02,960
Speaker 4: you said. Because I'm not going through this fucking me

2132
01:37:03,040 --> 01:37:05,200
Speaker 4: because it's an emotional roller coaster for you. They don't

2133
01:37:05,240 --> 01:37:07,360
Speaker 4: understand that. Because I'm gonna get to speak it again,

2134
01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:08,960
Speaker 4: you're gonna remember, oh yeah, this is why I told

2135
01:37:08,960 --> 01:37:10,840
Speaker 4: you to shut the fuck up. And then you're gonna

2136
01:37:10,840 --> 01:37:12,519
Speaker 4: be like, don't talk no more. We're not gonna do this.

2137
01:37:12,600 --> 01:37:14,760
Speaker 4: You tell me this once once, it's like right, so

2138
01:37:14,840 --> 01:37:16,400
Speaker 4: you ain't got to hit me for once once It's

2139
01:37:16,400 --> 01:37:18,000
Speaker 4: all I need because I had to imagine like that

2140
01:37:18,040 --> 01:37:21,720
Speaker 4: at my old job. So once I understood that you

2141
01:37:21,960 --> 01:37:24,400
Speaker 4: asking me, but you already know the answer to it.

2142
01:37:24,720 --> 01:37:27,200
Speaker 4: So why you asking me if you already determine what

2143
01:37:27,240 --> 01:37:29,880
Speaker 4: you want to do? Fucking my opinion don't matter. And

2144
01:37:29,920 --> 01:37:32,679
Speaker 4: once I understood that, I'm like, whatever you want, whatever

2145
01:37:32,720 --> 01:37:34,840
Speaker 4: you want. That was the answer to everything, Whatever you want,

2146
01:37:34,960 --> 01:37:37,599
Speaker 4: And so you have to learn how to make it pick.

2147
01:37:37,680 --> 01:37:40,479
Speaker 4: But and it's very fucking frustrating because in general, a

2148
01:37:40,479 --> 01:37:42,080
Speaker 4: lot of white people never have to deal with that

2149
01:37:42,080 --> 01:37:45,200
Speaker 4: in the working environment, Like they never have to deal

2150
01:37:45,240 --> 01:37:49,400
Speaker 4: with these things, the these microaggressions. You know, because she

2151
01:37:49,520 --> 01:37:52,280
Speaker 4: felt comfortable doing that to you, but I asked you

2152
01:37:52,360 --> 01:37:54,400
Speaker 4: when she do that to another coworker, then she felt

2153
01:37:54,400 --> 01:37:56,879
Speaker 4: with book back at her. No, Well then that's the problem.

2154
01:37:58,080 --> 01:37:58,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think.

2155
01:37:58,920 --> 01:38:07,080
Speaker 2: Also they don't expect you to also take that advice

2156
01:38:07,680 --> 01:38:09,439
Speaker 2: like or that when they go, hey, I don't want

2157
01:38:09,439 --> 01:38:12,759
Speaker 2: you ask more questions. They expect you to also forget

2158
01:38:12,800 --> 01:38:16,760
Speaker 2: about the thing they did, despite not apologizing, despite you know,

2159
01:38:17,240 --> 01:38:19,640
Speaker 2: never having a moment where they actually sat down and

2160
01:38:19,680 --> 01:38:23,400
Speaker 2: said I was wrong for that, or you know, I

2161
01:38:23,400 --> 01:38:25,360
Speaker 2: didn't mean I don't I didn't actually mean that.

2162
01:38:25,520 --> 01:38:27,880
Speaker 3: Like nah, they just expect you to magically read that

2163
01:38:28,000 --> 01:38:30,800
Speaker 3: fucking mind. And two weeks from now, now you know.

2164
01:38:30,760 --> 01:38:33,479
Speaker 2: That it is okay to ask questions meeting, you know so,

2165
01:38:34,000 --> 01:38:36,240
Speaker 2: but shout out to the doctor for hold none of that,

2166
01:38:36,240 --> 01:38:38,759
Speaker 2: because I would too, for real, I don't play.

2167
01:38:38,520 --> 01:38:41,160
Speaker 4: That h for real, you to got the blank face no,

2168
01:38:41,880 --> 01:38:43,920
Speaker 4: and I like you said, you want to speaking no more.

2169
01:38:44,040 --> 01:38:45,880
Speaker 4: So I'm just you know, I'm just siding by and

2170
01:38:46,479 --> 01:38:48,680
Speaker 4: a fact, I'm just abiding by the standards that in

2171
01:38:48,720 --> 01:38:49,680
Speaker 4: the practices that you.

2172
01:38:49,680 --> 01:38:53,160
Speaker 3: Said right like this ain't like I'm not gonna like.

2173
01:38:53,200 --> 01:38:54,040
Speaker 3: And that's the other thing.

2174
01:38:54,360 --> 01:38:57,320
Speaker 2: When you're a black woman in these conversations, uh, you're

2175
01:38:57,360 --> 01:39:00,880
Speaker 2: also worried that you're going to fit that angry black

2176
01:39:00,920 --> 01:39:02,320
Speaker 2: woman stereotype.

2177
01:39:01,880 --> 01:39:03,080
Speaker 4: For saying anything.

2178
01:39:03,160 --> 01:39:05,920
Speaker 2: So now you don't want to be even though you're

2179
01:39:06,000 --> 01:39:10,360
Speaker 2: valid and it's perfectly reasonable to be angry. Now you

2180
01:39:10,439 --> 01:39:15,599
Speaker 2: don't want to say shit back to them because it's

2181
01:39:15,680 --> 01:39:19,880
Speaker 2: like if I fucking say some shit back to you,

2182
01:39:20,120 --> 01:39:22,519
Speaker 2: it's like I'm the asshole, and I'm now the angry

2183
01:39:22,560 --> 01:39:24,840
Speaker 2: black woman and You're gonna walk around the office. I

2184
01:39:24,880 --> 01:39:26,799
Speaker 2: told you that Leshana had an attitude.

2185
01:39:26,800 --> 01:39:28,160
Speaker 3: I told you whomen when.

2186
01:39:28,040 --> 01:39:30,160
Speaker 2: She asked that question, because, like I said, I got

2187
01:39:30,240 --> 01:39:32,559
Speaker 2: I had it on my permanent record for a fucking

2188
01:39:32,640 --> 01:39:36,439
Speaker 2: email for years. I worked there for like thirteen fifteen

2189
01:39:36,520 --> 01:39:38,360
Speaker 2: years on my permanent record.

2190
01:39:38,360 --> 01:39:40,599
Speaker 3: Dog Like, what kind of asshole would do that? Would

2191
01:39:40,720 --> 01:39:41,920
Speaker 3: never go back and take it off?

2192
01:39:42,240 --> 01:39:44,559
Speaker 2: Even after I proved myself ten years later, you didn't

2193
01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:46,800
Speaker 2: think that because it was an afterthought to you.

2194
01:39:46,800 --> 01:39:48,080
Speaker 3: You just wanted to reprimand me.

2195
01:39:48,439 --> 01:39:51,599
Speaker 2: And despite anything I said, you were gonna reprimand me

2196
01:39:52,120 --> 01:39:55,240
Speaker 2: and then essentially called me a liar by reprimanding me

2197
01:39:55,280 --> 01:39:57,559
Speaker 2: because I told you, no, that's not how a minute. Well,

2198
01:39:57,600 --> 01:40:01,479
Speaker 2: I'm still reprimanding you, Okay, all right? Anyway, emails the

2199
01:40:01,479 --> 01:40:03,360
Speaker 2: Blackouts is at gmail dot com. We got a few,

2200
01:40:03,680 --> 01:40:07,320
Speaker 2: Alicia says, sugar Grits lover. I am attempting to get

2201
01:40:07,360 --> 01:40:09,880
Speaker 2: you on the team. Look what I found, poking spice

2202
01:40:09,920 --> 01:40:13,080
Speaker 2: sugar grits re sp Yeah. See, I don't want to

2203
01:40:13,160 --> 01:40:15,720
Speaker 2: make it myself. If I will get some maybe if

2204
01:40:15,720 --> 01:40:19,479
Speaker 2: I see it on a menu somewhere. This is now work, okay,

2205
01:40:19,960 --> 01:40:21,639
Speaker 2: And if I'm gonna be making something at home, I'm

2206
01:40:21,640 --> 01:40:23,559
Speaker 2: gonna be making something I know I'm going to enjoy

2207
01:40:24,240 --> 01:40:25,200
Speaker 2: or that I really want.

2208
01:40:25,080 --> 01:40:26,639
Speaker 3: To experiment with. Like I made my.

2209
01:40:26,680 --> 01:40:31,519
Speaker 2: Parents some catfish stew yesterday and brought it down the house.

2210
01:40:31,880 --> 01:40:33,080
Speaker 4: Some of that catfish your daddy.

2211
01:40:33,720 --> 01:40:35,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I don't know if you guys know the

2212
01:40:35,720 --> 01:40:38,960
Speaker 3: story of the Have I talked about this? I don't

2213
01:40:39,000 --> 01:40:39,960
Speaker 3: think so.

2214
01:40:39,960 --> 01:40:45,439
Speaker 2: So I made some coconut curry chowder except I use

2215
01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:49,640
Speaker 2: no coconut chowder, except instead of conk.

2216
01:40:50,000 --> 01:40:53,719
Speaker 3: I used shrimp and scallops and it was good.

2217
01:40:54,320 --> 01:40:56,080
Speaker 2: I made it a few times. To me, this is

2218
01:40:56,120 --> 01:40:58,599
Speaker 2: my best batch, and so it was delicious.

2219
01:40:58,640 --> 01:41:01,120
Speaker 3: It's spicy. I used some my dad's peppers he gave

2220
01:41:01,200 --> 01:41:04,760
Speaker 3: me and and I put him in there. And my

2221
01:41:04,840 --> 01:41:07,400
Speaker 3: dad has a garden and he, you know, sends me pictures.

2222
01:41:08,080 --> 01:41:10,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's like retired now, which is such a

2223
01:41:10,720 --> 01:41:12,240
Speaker 2: great thing because you would.

2224
01:41:12,000 --> 01:41:14,439
Speaker 4: Ever thunk d because your daddy talking about a real

2225
01:41:14,439 --> 01:41:18,320
Speaker 4: workerholic dad niggas stay doing something right.

2226
01:41:18,439 --> 01:41:20,920
Speaker 2: And so now he's like fishing. He takes pictures of

2227
01:41:20,960 --> 01:41:24,000
Speaker 2: the fishy cot and stuff. He caught a twenty seven

2228
01:41:24,080 --> 01:41:27,040
Speaker 2: pound catfish and took a picture of and.

2229
01:41:26,920 --> 01:41:29,559
Speaker 3: Send it to me, And I was like, damn, when

2230
01:41:29,560 --> 01:41:31,880
Speaker 3: you're gonna fry him up? You know, you know from

2231
01:41:31,880 --> 01:41:32,240
Speaker 3: the South.

2232
01:41:32,880 --> 01:41:36,040
Speaker 2: So I'm like, we're gonna make some sandwiches out of

2233
01:41:36,040 --> 01:41:37,960
Speaker 2: his ass, but.

2234
01:41:38,320 --> 01:41:40,080
Speaker 4: I really want you to make daddy a sandwich, a

2235
01:41:40,120 --> 01:41:41,040
Speaker 4: lot of fish sandwiches.

2236
01:41:41,240 --> 01:41:45,040
Speaker 2: So I went down in his house because I send

2237
01:41:45,080 --> 01:41:47,160
Speaker 2: him pictures, He'll send me pictures and stuff he cooks,

2238
01:41:47,200 --> 01:41:50,439
Speaker 2: and stuff he gets from his garden, which is one

2239
01:41:50,479 --> 01:41:53,680
Speaker 2: of my favorite things. Like he made a melon, he

2240
01:41:53,760 --> 01:41:56,439
Speaker 2: got a had he grew a melon, his first melon

2241
01:41:56,479 --> 01:41:58,720
Speaker 2: the other day. So he sent me a picture of

2242
01:41:58,760 --> 01:42:00,760
Speaker 2: that and stuff, and so like, oh, let me send

2243
01:42:00,800 --> 01:42:05,160
Speaker 2: him a picture this coconut uh, this coconut chowder I made,

2244
01:42:05,640 --> 01:42:08,439
Speaker 2: and you know, the same videos I posted on my

2245
01:42:08,680 --> 01:42:11,160
Speaker 2: Instagram when I cook and stuff. And he was like, damn,

2246
01:42:11,439 --> 01:42:13,240
Speaker 2: Like you can look like they look good, you can

2247
01:42:13,240 --> 01:42:14,720
Speaker 2: give me some of them. So I was like, all right,

2248
01:42:15,080 --> 01:42:18,320
Speaker 2: So I brought him some and he loved it.

2249
01:42:18,320 --> 01:42:21,000
Speaker 3: It was it was funny. He ate he warned up

2250
01:42:21,400 --> 01:42:21,840
Speaker 3: ate a bowl.

2251
01:42:21,920 --> 01:42:25,840
Speaker 2: He was like, uh, I think he was like at

2252
01:42:25,880 --> 01:42:27,640
Speaker 2: the finished he said I think that might have been

2253
01:42:27,680 --> 01:42:29,240
Speaker 2: the best soup I ever had in my life.

2254
01:42:30,640 --> 01:42:33,479
Speaker 4: I was throwing down. It was absolutely delicious, y'all.

2255
01:42:33,560 --> 01:42:35,280
Speaker 3: That I was honored, you know what I'm saying, So.

2256
01:42:35,439 --> 01:42:37,479
Speaker 4: Taking a coming from him like a man did actually

2257
01:42:37,560 --> 01:42:38,120
Speaker 4: cook cooks.

2258
01:42:38,240 --> 01:42:41,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was honored, you know. And I was like, well,

2259
01:42:41,880 --> 01:42:44,040
Speaker 2: I'm glad you liked it or whatever. And he was like, oh,

2260
01:42:44,080 --> 01:42:45,880
Speaker 2: and I got some of that catfish that I took

2261
01:42:45,880 --> 01:42:48,960
Speaker 2: the picture of, and there was a catfish fillet and

2262
01:42:49,160 --> 01:42:53,519
Speaker 2: it was, uh the he had already cut it up,

2263
01:42:53,520 --> 01:42:56,679
Speaker 2: and then he's like slices, like these slices of catfish fil.

2264
01:42:56,560 --> 01:42:58,519
Speaker 4: At I showed it. I've seen him do that because

2265
01:42:58,680 --> 01:43:01,320
Speaker 4: the thing is he had actually like skin it and

2266
01:43:01,360 --> 01:43:03,240
Speaker 4: de bone and all that stuff, and he has like

2267
01:43:03,280 --> 01:43:05,559
Speaker 4: this brush that takes the scale off. It is actually

2268
01:43:05,560 --> 01:43:07,120
Speaker 4: a really interesting process.

2269
01:43:07,439 --> 01:43:07,679
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2270
01:43:07,760 --> 01:43:11,080
Speaker 2: So she so he you know, he was like he

2271
01:43:11,160 --> 01:43:12,599
Speaker 2: knows how to dress a fish is what they call

2272
01:43:12,640 --> 01:43:15,320
Speaker 2: it anyway. But I'm not talking about just dressing the fish.

2273
01:43:15,320 --> 01:43:17,320
Speaker 2: I'm talking about he took the catfish filets and he

2274
01:43:17,360 --> 01:43:19,000
Speaker 2: cut him up in the.

2275
01:43:18,520 --> 01:43:19,839
Speaker 3: Tiny, biite sized pieces.

2276
01:43:19,920 --> 01:43:23,240
Speaker 2: Okay, this is important because and then he froze them,

2277
01:43:23,479 --> 01:43:26,080
Speaker 2: and so he gave me like two bags of those,

2278
01:43:26,640 --> 01:43:29,679
Speaker 2: probably about a pound, you know, and maybe a little

2279
01:43:29,720 --> 01:43:31,840
Speaker 2: over a pound. And so I was like, you know,

2280
01:43:31,920 --> 01:43:36,479
Speaker 2: I'm gonna look up recipe and I'm gonna make something

2281
01:43:36,479 --> 01:43:36,640
Speaker 2: with this.

2282
01:43:36,880 --> 01:43:40,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, And even with that, your daddy was telling us

2283
01:43:40,840 --> 01:43:43,280
Speaker 4: what he did. He actually took the took the catfish.

2284
01:43:43,560 --> 01:43:47,040
Speaker 4: He soaked it in some vinegar and then turned around

2285
01:43:47,040 --> 01:43:49,280
Speaker 4: and soaked it in some lemon to take away a

2286
01:43:49,320 --> 01:43:52,320
Speaker 4: lot of the cause caush fit has some particular older

2287
01:43:52,479 --> 01:43:54,519
Speaker 4: older and a particular taste to a lot of people

2288
01:43:54,560 --> 01:43:56,400
Speaker 4: don't like catfish because of the you know, the way

2289
01:43:56,400 --> 01:43:58,680
Speaker 4: it tastes. And he was saying that you do that

2290
01:43:58,720 --> 01:44:01,639
Speaker 4: it takes a lot of the the taste out of catfish,

2291
01:44:01,680 --> 01:44:03,679
Speaker 4: you said, to make it taste closer to grouper.

2292
01:44:04,120 --> 01:44:07,040
Speaker 2: Right, And the recipe I had called for like tilapia

2293
01:44:07,240 --> 01:44:10,759
Speaker 2: grouper or like flounder cod something like that. So anyway,

2294
01:44:10,800 --> 01:44:13,800
Speaker 2: I use catfish instead, and uh, you know, remix it,

2295
01:44:13,880 --> 01:44:15,360
Speaker 2: you know how you do? Like I went to all

2296
01:44:15,400 --> 01:44:18,439
Speaker 2: recipees dot com, found the recipee out of stuff, right,

2297
01:44:18,560 --> 01:44:25,519
Speaker 2: So then I made catfish stew with it, and like

2298
01:44:25,640 --> 01:44:27,880
Speaker 2: this is a thing, Like I was thinking what am

2299
01:44:27,920 --> 01:44:29,560
Speaker 2: I gonna do with my Friday. I didn't want to

2300
01:44:29,600 --> 01:44:33,320
Speaker 2: go see it, as I've evident as I talked about earlier. Uh,

2301
01:44:33,360 --> 01:44:34,800
Speaker 2: And I said, well, if I almost pending three and

2302
01:44:34,800 --> 01:44:36,439
Speaker 2: a half I was doing something, maybe I can make

2303
01:44:36,479 --> 01:44:36,920
Speaker 2: some food.

2304
01:44:36,960 --> 01:44:38,400
Speaker 3: I went to the store, I got all my.

2305
01:44:38,439 --> 01:44:42,960
Speaker 2: Ingredients, hooked everything up, followed a lot of the instructions,

2306
01:44:43,040 --> 01:44:45,680
Speaker 2: added some stuff. I'm starting to get better at freestyling

2307
01:44:45,680 --> 01:44:48,320
Speaker 2: in the kitchen, which is something I really want to get.

2308
01:44:48,160 --> 01:44:49,840
Speaker 4: Good comfortable food.

2309
01:44:49,920 --> 01:44:52,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I made that instead, and I uh, I

2310
01:44:52,920 --> 01:44:55,280
Speaker 2: sent him a picture of that and or video of that,

2311
01:44:55,439 --> 01:44:58,439
Speaker 2: and he was like, okay, like hook me up or whatever.

2312
01:44:58,560 --> 01:45:02,200
Speaker 2: So I send it down that. I went down there

2313
01:45:02,200 --> 01:45:04,320
Speaker 2: and I shung out with them for hours of change

2314
01:45:04,360 --> 01:45:06,719
Speaker 2: and just talked with them. Talked to my niece Layla

2315
01:45:07,320 --> 01:45:07,760
Speaker 2: and my.

2316
01:45:07,680 --> 01:45:12,719
Speaker 3: Mom and we watched them. Yeah, we watched YouTube videos.

2317
01:45:12,800 --> 01:45:15,639
Speaker 3: Karen came and got off of work and came down

2318
01:45:15,680 --> 01:45:16,639
Speaker 3: there and watched some.

2319
01:45:16,680 --> 01:45:19,120
Speaker 2: YouTube videos and stuff too with us, and we had

2320
01:45:19,120 --> 01:45:21,080
Speaker 2: a good time. You know, I love talking to I

2321
01:45:21,120 --> 01:45:23,080
Speaker 2: talked to Laila about school and stuff. Talked to her

2322
01:45:23,040 --> 01:45:24,920
Speaker 2: about when I was in school and high school up

2323
01:45:25,200 --> 01:45:27,040
Speaker 2: and some of the things I was going through.

2324
01:45:27,240 --> 01:45:29,240
Speaker 3: I was like, because she looked tired.

2325
01:45:28,960 --> 01:45:30,920
Speaker 4: And I was like, you and you got to get up.

2326
01:45:31,160 --> 01:45:33,439
Speaker 4: You know. She used to getting up a little later.

2327
01:45:33,560 --> 01:45:35,840
Speaker 4: Now you know school started, like and the fucking job

2328
01:45:35,920 --> 01:45:37,559
Speaker 4: seven o five, you gotta be there early.

2329
01:45:38,200 --> 01:45:40,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, and so she looked tired, and uh, you know,

2330
01:45:40,960 --> 01:45:42,479
Speaker 2: I didn't say she looked tired, but I was just

2331
01:45:42,520 --> 01:45:45,720
Speaker 2: talking to her like, yeah, so I guess the uh like,

2332
01:45:45,960 --> 01:45:48,760
Speaker 2: has the newness of school high school baring off yet,

2333
01:45:48,760 --> 01:45:52,160
Speaker 2: because you know it's been about two weeks. She's like, yeah,

2334
01:45:52,400 --> 01:45:54,760
Speaker 2: it's it's it's already going off. I was like, yep,

2335
01:45:54,800 --> 01:45:57,479
Speaker 2: that's about right. And you know, this is not like

2336
01:45:57,520 --> 01:46:01,600
Speaker 2: my favorite age for Layla because this, to me, this

2337
01:46:01,680 --> 01:46:03,519
Speaker 2: when kids start being the coolest.

2338
01:46:03,600 --> 01:46:05,320
Speaker 3: Now a lot of people think this when kids are

2339
01:46:05,320 --> 01:46:05,679
Speaker 3: the worst.

2340
01:46:05,920 --> 01:46:07,680
Speaker 2: But keep in mind, I ain't gotta take care of

2341
01:46:07,680 --> 01:46:10,360
Speaker 2: these kids, so uh so.

2342
01:46:10,320 --> 01:46:12,439
Speaker 4: For me, we're not there for the day to day raising.

2343
01:46:12,640 --> 01:46:13,680
Speaker 3: That's sarcastic.

2344
01:46:14,000 --> 01:46:18,840
Speaker 2: She I mean, Layla's very funny, witty. Uh she can

2345
01:46:18,880 --> 01:46:21,640
Speaker 2: be silly and stuff, but she's kind of like she

2346
01:46:21,680 --> 01:46:23,640
Speaker 2: reminds her of Raven from Teen Titans, Like she's just

2347
01:46:23,680 --> 01:46:26,680
Speaker 2: over it and uh, and so you know, we're just

2348
01:46:26,720 --> 01:46:30,519
Speaker 2: kind of talking about high school and stuff and you know,

2349
01:46:30,760 --> 01:46:32,599
Speaker 2: and I'm making her laugh and all that, and then

2350
01:46:32,600 --> 01:46:35,040
Speaker 2: we watch videos and stuff. Anyway, all this is happening,

2351
01:46:35,520 --> 01:46:39,800
Speaker 2: and so I give my dad to soup, and uh,

2352
01:46:40,360 --> 01:46:42,240
Speaker 2: I get I get home, and I got a text

2353
01:46:42,280 --> 01:46:44,160
Speaker 2: last night and ate from my mom and said, hello,

2354
01:46:44,280 --> 01:46:48,720
Speaker 2: Chef Roderick two exclamation points. The soup is delicious. Thank

2355
01:46:48,760 --> 01:46:51,400
Speaker 2: you for your thoughtfulness and kindness. So my stuper's getting

2356
01:46:51,479 --> 01:46:52,160
Speaker 2: rave reviews.

2357
01:46:52,360 --> 01:46:55,200
Speaker 3: All of that is a long drawn out way.

2358
01:46:55,280 --> 01:46:58,120
Speaker 2: And wish to say, no, I will not be making

2359
01:46:58,160 --> 01:46:59,599
Speaker 2: pumpkin sized grits, you see.

2360
01:46:59,800 --> 01:47:02,200
Speaker 3: That's that's all I'm saying. Like I'd rather spend the

2361
01:47:02,240 --> 01:47:03,400
Speaker 3: time doing that, That's all.

2362
01:47:03,680 --> 01:47:05,880
Speaker 4: And I think it's a place here which I'm gonna

2363
01:47:05,880 --> 01:47:07,599
Speaker 4: get a chance and call to see if we can

2364
01:47:07,640 --> 01:47:09,800
Speaker 4: do like classes, follow us to do together. That would

2365
01:47:09,800 --> 01:47:10,160
Speaker 4: be fun.

2366
01:47:10,560 --> 01:47:15,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm I'm also I'm listening to your feedback

2367
01:47:15,520 --> 01:47:17,639
Speaker 2: show and I'm the one that said that went skining

2368
01:47:17,640 --> 01:47:18,200
Speaker 2: in Tennessee.

2369
01:47:18,200 --> 01:47:19,280
Speaker 3: It was the end of January.

2370
01:47:19,520 --> 01:47:21,479
Speaker 2: Tell Caren that place us as fake snow and I

2371
01:47:21,520 --> 01:47:24,040
Speaker 2: had on a coat and a ski suit, but I

2372
01:47:24,080 --> 01:47:26,120
Speaker 2: had to take it off because I was actually hot.

2373
01:47:26,400 --> 01:47:28,760
Speaker 2: No more, no more excuses waiting to hear about y'all

2374
01:47:29,200 --> 01:47:32,000
Speaker 2: ski trip. Uh now would be a good time to

2375
01:47:32,120 --> 01:47:34,840
Speaker 2: plan uh for early next year.

2376
01:47:35,160 --> 01:47:36,360
Speaker 3: So happy y'all are back.

2377
01:47:37,040 --> 01:47:39,200
Speaker 2: I almost became a member while y'all were gone, but

2378
01:47:39,280 --> 01:47:42,320
Speaker 2: my car got declimb Maybe next month. Much love, positive

2379
01:47:42,400 --> 01:47:45,439
Speaker 2: vies you too, Alicia, And I hope your car stuff

2380
01:47:45,600 --> 01:47:49,880
Speaker 2: get taken care of. Well, anybody's cars that that that

2381
01:47:50,080 --> 01:47:53,880
Speaker 2: car decline, that'll hit you right in the pocket.

2382
01:47:53,920 --> 01:47:54,120
Speaker 4: Man.

2383
01:47:54,280 --> 01:47:58,960
Speaker 2: So uh let's see Toy says, y'all all the best. Hey,

2384
01:47:59,040 --> 01:48:02,280
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen. I'm writing this because I think you

2385
01:48:02,280 --> 01:48:04,200
Speaker 2: two are the greatest people I have ever gotten to

2386
01:48:04,600 --> 01:48:06,599
Speaker 2: I have I haven't ever even gotten to meet yet.

2387
01:48:08,120 --> 01:48:11,559
Speaker 2: I had my domestic violence event August twenty four, twenty nineteen,

2388
01:48:11,800 --> 01:48:14,599
Speaker 2: and TBGWT were our biggest donors.

2389
01:48:15,280 --> 01:48:18,519
Speaker 3: Oh okay, so what happened?

2390
01:48:19,640 --> 01:48:21,360
Speaker 2: And I don't remember if Toy as a person who

2391
01:48:21,360 --> 01:48:24,000
Speaker 2: wrote in earlier talked about moving in Atlanta and all

2392
01:48:24,000 --> 01:48:24,360
Speaker 2: that stuff.

2393
01:48:24,400 --> 01:48:26,680
Speaker 7: But she.

2394
01:48:28,560 --> 01:48:30,360
Speaker 2: Was one of my Facebook friends and she was like,

2395
01:48:30,840 --> 01:48:34,479
Speaker 2: I'm having this event and you know, trying to drum

2396
01:48:34,560 --> 01:48:36,360
Speaker 2: up some stuff for it, and so at the time,

2397
01:48:37,160 --> 01:48:42,000
Speaker 2: it was like, I don't know, like maybe two hundred

2398
01:48:42,000 --> 01:48:43,160
Speaker 2: and fifty dollars they're trying to.

2399
01:48:43,200 --> 01:48:44,479
Speaker 3: Raise something like that.

2400
01:48:44,560 --> 01:48:47,000
Speaker 2: It was not to me, not a ton of money,

2401
01:48:47,000 --> 01:48:48,920
Speaker 2: but just depends it could be a lot.

2402
01:48:49,040 --> 01:48:50,400
Speaker 3: Yes, it can, you know what I'm saying. If you

2403
01:48:50,439 --> 01:48:51,840
Speaker 3: ain't got it, this a lot for sure.

2404
01:48:52,000 --> 01:48:55,320
Speaker 2: So it was like, we're gonna hold this event's for

2405
01:48:56,240 --> 01:48:59,960
Speaker 2: survivors of domestic violence, and you know, it's like gonna

2406
01:49:00,120 --> 01:49:02,880
Speaker 2: be you know, workshop, and we're gonna be like doing

2407
01:49:03,280 --> 01:49:05,439
Speaker 2: like a bunch of stuff they're playing on doing like

2408
01:49:05,520 --> 01:49:07,639
Speaker 2: you know, dream boarding and all this type of stuff.

2409
01:49:08,520 --> 01:49:14,519
Speaker 2: So obviously I support that. Karen supports that. So you know,

2410
01:49:16,040 --> 01:49:18,880
Speaker 2: just I don't remember if I shared it or not.

2411
01:49:20,040 --> 01:49:23,519
Speaker 2: Oh god, I didn't. Okay, Well, first of all, that's

2412
01:49:23,520 --> 01:49:25,920
Speaker 2: my bad. I wish I had shared it. That's I mean,

2413
01:49:27,360 --> 01:49:31,000
Speaker 2: I should have shared it because I'm you know, but

2414
01:49:31,880 --> 01:49:34,120
Speaker 2: at any rate, like kind of behind the scenes, I'm

2415
01:49:34,200 --> 01:49:35,160
Speaker 2: just was like, all.

2416
01:49:35,120 --> 01:49:37,719
Speaker 3: Right, well, who's two fifty from from us?

2417
01:49:37,840 --> 01:49:40,639
Speaker 2: You know, just if that'll put on the whole event

2418
01:49:40,800 --> 01:49:43,559
Speaker 2: like at least and if not, then at least you

2419
01:49:43,640 --> 01:49:44,880
Speaker 2: got your ground floor.

2420
01:49:44,960 --> 01:49:46,599
Speaker 3: Because a lot of times when you start an event

2421
01:49:46,680 --> 01:49:46,960
Speaker 3: like that.

2422
01:49:47,040 --> 01:49:48,600
Speaker 2: You know, you want to raise a certain amount, you

2423
01:49:48,640 --> 01:49:51,240
Speaker 2: start with a manageable thing, and you just hope that

2424
01:49:51,280 --> 01:49:53,320
Speaker 2: you can reach it, because sometimes people see those goals

2425
01:49:53,320 --> 01:49:55,800
Speaker 2: and it's like three thousand dollars nigga, no, but when

2426
01:49:55,800 --> 01:49:57,559
Speaker 2: they see like two hundred, it's like, oh, I could

2427
01:49:57,560 --> 01:49:59,680
Speaker 2: put ten on this, I'm a five on this, and

2428
01:49:59,760 --> 01:50:03,479
Speaker 2: so so I'm like, cool, there you go, that's the event.

2429
01:50:04,520 --> 01:50:06,519
Speaker 2: If nothing else, you know, you at least got your

2430
01:50:06,520 --> 01:50:08,920
Speaker 2: event going, and you got your budget for I don't know,

2431
01:50:09,000 --> 01:50:10,400
Speaker 2: snacks whatever, y'all got to.

2432
01:50:10,560 --> 01:50:13,479
Speaker 3: Supplies boom, and she was like, oh, thank you.

2433
01:50:13,520 --> 01:50:16,439
Speaker 2: I was like, no, no big deal, glad we can

2434
01:50:16,479 --> 01:50:19,360
Speaker 2: help and go up with the event, right and literally

2435
01:50:19,640 --> 01:50:22,080
Speaker 2: no offense I have forgot about it. It's like not

2436
01:50:22,160 --> 01:50:24,320
Speaker 2: that I forgot about it, and so I'm like like,

2437
01:50:24,479 --> 01:50:28,640
Speaker 2: fuck this event, but just literally yeah, it's now September

2438
01:50:29,000 --> 01:50:31,639
Speaker 2: and that we we gave that money and like probably

2439
01:50:31,720 --> 01:50:35,040
Speaker 2: joined but then I but then I think when I

2440
01:50:35,080 --> 01:50:37,080
Speaker 2: gave it didn't put me in a group of people

2441
01:50:37,080 --> 01:50:39,560
Speaker 2: where it updates you about the event, and so it

2442
01:50:39,640 --> 01:50:42,960
Speaker 2: was like, Okay, she moved up the level to five

2443
01:50:43,040 --> 01:50:44,639
Speaker 2: hundred or whatever, and it's like cool.

2444
01:50:44,680 --> 01:50:46,760
Speaker 3: She got that. You know, I'm like, oh, good mo.

2445
01:50:47,320 --> 01:50:51,240
Speaker 2: Like, look have a party comet, like I hope. I

2446
01:50:51,320 --> 01:50:53,760
Speaker 2: look up and I was like, oh, it's fan calm

2447
01:50:53,800 --> 01:50:56,280
Speaker 2: of money over here. So she was like, you know,

2448
01:50:56,360 --> 01:50:59,000
Speaker 2: I saw the event was getting fun there. I saw

2449
01:50:59,040 --> 01:51:01,479
Speaker 2: she had planned. She was up in like different, Oh,

2450
01:51:01,520 --> 01:51:03,160
Speaker 2: now we can do this lit, now we can.

2451
01:51:03,080 --> 01:51:08,840
Speaker 3: Do this level right, and so uh, you know, I.

2452
01:51:08,920 --> 01:51:12,200
Speaker 2: Really had just been like cool, I'm just glad it's

2453
01:51:12,200 --> 01:51:14,479
Speaker 2: happening and whatever. And she was like, you know, I'm

2454
01:51:14,479 --> 01:51:17,280
Speaker 2: gonna make sure y'all y'all could get like some signage

2455
01:51:17,360 --> 01:51:17,599
Speaker 2: or something.

2456
01:51:17,640 --> 01:51:20,600
Speaker 3: I was like, please don't do that. You don't you

2457
01:51:20,600 --> 01:51:21,479
Speaker 3: don't have to do that.

2458
01:51:21,600 --> 01:51:25,880
Speaker 2: It's not about the black guy who tips some divisss like.

2459
01:51:25,840 --> 01:51:26,479
Speaker 4: It's not that.

2460
01:51:26,560 --> 01:51:28,000
Speaker 3: It's straight up like, yeah.

2461
01:51:27,800 --> 01:51:31,920
Speaker 2: This is you know, I won't like, look, y'all black

2462
01:51:31,920 --> 01:51:33,960
Speaker 2: women have a good time period.

2463
01:51:34,040 --> 01:51:36,320
Speaker 3: That's it. That's the whole thing. So it was like

2464
01:51:36,400 --> 01:51:37,800
Speaker 3: and it was like something nice to do.

2465
01:51:37,880 --> 01:51:41,840
Speaker 2: And there's this thing where I really do believe in, like, uh,

2466
01:51:42,040 --> 01:51:43,800
Speaker 2: you need to put the energy out in the world

2467
01:51:43,880 --> 01:51:44,160
Speaker 2: that you.

2468
01:51:44,160 --> 01:51:45,799
Speaker 4: Would like to receive, agreed.

2469
01:51:46,280 --> 01:51:47,759
Speaker 3: And the stuff that you see.

2470
01:51:47,520 --> 01:51:50,080
Speaker 2: A vacuum up where you're like, man, it's nothing happening

2471
01:51:50,360 --> 01:51:53,000
Speaker 2: in this area, or it's not and to each day

2472
01:51:53,080 --> 01:51:57,280
Speaker 2: on like we all got limited resources, limited time, limited this,

2473
01:51:58,120 --> 01:51:59,800
Speaker 2: but if you can find a little bit of time,

2474
01:52:00,000 --> 01:52:01,680
Speaker 2: a little bit of something to be like, yo, this

2475
01:52:01,760 --> 01:52:04,000
Speaker 2: might brighten somebody else's day, it might make.

2476
01:52:03,840 --> 01:52:04,880
Speaker 3: Their whole day whatever.

2477
01:52:05,439 --> 01:52:07,920
Speaker 2: Try to put that energy out and then take it

2478
01:52:07,960 --> 01:52:10,080
Speaker 2: back in, you know, like it like it's almost that

2479
01:52:10,160 --> 01:52:11,320
Speaker 2: pay it forward mentality.

2480
01:52:11,520 --> 01:52:15,240
Speaker 3: And so for me, I was like cool, you know,

2481
01:52:15,400 --> 01:52:16,200
Speaker 3: like that's it.

2482
01:52:16,280 --> 01:52:19,080
Speaker 2: And then she wrote this email and I was like, oh,

2483
01:52:19,120 --> 01:52:21,160
Speaker 2: that's right. It went off and it was dope and

2484
01:52:21,200 --> 01:52:22,360
Speaker 2: shed they had a great.

2485
01:52:22,120 --> 01:52:24,160
Speaker 4: Time and so so happy for you baby.

2486
01:52:24,960 --> 01:52:26,479
Speaker 3: So all right, let me finish this email.

2487
01:52:26,760 --> 01:52:28,800
Speaker 2: I have my domestic violence event Algust twenty four to

2488
01:52:28,800 --> 01:52:31,519
Speaker 2: twenty nineteen, the black outils our biggest donors. I'm crying

2489
01:52:31,560 --> 01:52:34,360
Speaker 2: as all write this email because this event was so important.

2490
01:52:34,360 --> 01:52:37,439
Speaker 2: Not only was the event interactive and helping survivors of

2491
01:52:37,520 --> 01:52:40,360
Speaker 2: DV imagine a life pass abuse and trauma, it was

2492
01:52:40,400 --> 01:52:43,479
Speaker 2: awesome event catered to black women. In creating and slash

2493
01:52:43,640 --> 01:52:46,280
Speaker 2: organizing this event, I reached out to other established domestic

2494
01:52:46,320 --> 01:52:48,639
Speaker 2: violence organizations and I found that all of them are

2495
01:52:48,720 --> 01:52:52,160
Speaker 2: white women ran and white women's centered DV affects all

2496
01:52:52,240 --> 01:52:55,280
Speaker 2: women world wide, but politically, the women who get the

2497
01:52:55,280 --> 01:52:57,919
Speaker 2: most help are white women, especially in the United States.

2498
01:52:58,160 --> 01:52:59,600
Speaker 3: According to the CDC.

2499
01:52:59,360 --> 01:53:01,840
Speaker 2: Black women do the domestic violence at the highest rate

2500
01:53:01,880 --> 01:53:04,479
Speaker 2: compared to any other race in the United States. Yet

2501
01:53:04,520 --> 01:53:07,599
Speaker 2: we're constantly being turned away when we finally do reach

2502
01:53:07,600 --> 01:53:12,280
Speaker 2: out to help. And I was turned away, so like,

2503
01:53:12,560 --> 01:53:16,599
Speaker 2: this is what's crazy? This money that was just like,

2504
01:53:16,720 --> 01:53:18,000
Speaker 2: oh cool, Like we're.

2505
01:53:17,800 --> 01:53:18,400
Speaker 3: Trying to help.

2506
01:53:19,040 --> 01:53:21,559
Speaker 2: I didn't know it was gonna be a black woman's

2507
01:53:21,560 --> 01:53:24,360
Speaker 2: centric thing. I didn't know about all the fact that

2508
01:53:24,400 --> 01:53:27,240
Speaker 2: this the whole like kind of industry.

2509
01:53:27,320 --> 01:53:28,719
Speaker 3: It makes sense, but it's white.

2510
01:53:28,479 --> 01:53:31,519
Speaker 2: Women run that Black women are having a harder time

2511
01:53:31,600 --> 01:53:35,320
Speaker 2: finding help out there and stuff like that. And now

2512
01:53:35,479 --> 01:53:38,240
Speaker 2: Toy is feeling this vacuum because it's not us that

2513
01:53:38,439 --> 01:53:42,439
Speaker 2: doing this. She's feeling this vacuum and you're doing all

2514
01:53:42,479 --> 01:53:45,479
Speaker 2: that work. You see what I'm saying to us. It

2515
01:53:45,600 --> 01:53:47,360
Speaker 2: was a oh that was sweet. That was a nice

2516
01:53:47,400 --> 01:53:50,280
Speaker 2: thing we did. Then he turned around. It's like, oh,

2517
01:53:50,479 --> 01:53:53,479
Speaker 2: this would not have existed for these women if this

2518
01:53:53,520 --> 01:53:58,040
Speaker 2: hadn't happened for this reason, a few of my survivor

2519
01:53:58,120 --> 01:54:00,439
Speaker 2: sisters and I and atl are created in our own

2520
01:54:00,439 --> 01:54:01,680
Speaker 2: space and resources.

2521
01:54:01,320 --> 01:54:03,280
Speaker 3: For women of color. Look at that.

2522
01:54:04,320 --> 01:54:07,280
Speaker 2: We created a Facebook group of Survivors of Color sc

2523
01:54:08,040 --> 01:54:10,240
Speaker 2: and with the help of Black women therapists, we're creating

2524
01:54:10,240 --> 01:54:12,720
Speaker 2: a Black Women Center support group in Great Atlanta for

2525
01:54:12,880 --> 01:54:16,000
Speaker 2: SoC A Seed was playing with this event that you

2526
01:54:16,120 --> 01:54:18,880
Speaker 2: basically funded, and I look forward to watch the water

2527
01:54:18,960 --> 01:54:22,639
Speaker 2: in it at Saving the Lives of Black women. Side note,

2528
01:54:22,800 --> 01:54:24,799
Speaker 2: all of the guests knew you are our biggest supporters

2529
01:54:24,800 --> 01:54:29,559
Speaker 2: and they promised, Oh sorry, man.

2530
01:54:32,440 --> 01:54:35,040
Speaker 3: Oh man, it's just so good. You know.

2531
01:54:35,400 --> 01:54:39,160
Speaker 2: Anyway, all our guests knew you are biggest supporters, and

2532
01:54:39,200 --> 01:54:41,080
Speaker 2: they promised to listen to at least one episode to

2533
01:54:41,080 --> 01:54:42,000
Speaker 2: see if they liked it.

2534
01:54:42,200 --> 01:54:44,200
Speaker 3: New fans alert. Now you didn't need to do that part.

2535
01:54:44,320 --> 01:54:45,760
Speaker 3: We appreciate it, but.

2536
01:54:45,760 --> 01:54:50,680
Speaker 2: This was not like advertising. But we do appreciate I

2537
01:54:50,720 --> 01:54:55,959
Speaker 2: know your fans show. Thank you for so much for everything.

2538
01:54:56,000 --> 01:54:59,560
Speaker 2: And then she took pictures of some of their boards

2539
01:54:59,560 --> 01:55:02,360
Speaker 2: and stuff and uh them having fun and stuff.

2540
01:55:02,360 --> 01:55:06,160
Speaker 3: Man, it's just that's dope, and thank you toy. Uh,

2541
01:55:06,560 --> 01:55:10,680
Speaker 3: we appreciate it, appreciate the email and.

2542
01:55:10,600 --> 01:55:14,320
Speaker 2: Uh like I said, man, you just put try to

2543
01:55:14,320 --> 01:55:17,440
Speaker 2: put some good energy out there and just hope that

2544
01:55:17,840 --> 01:55:20,320
Speaker 2: it comes back to it comes back.

2545
01:55:20,160 --> 01:55:23,840
Speaker 3: To you, but goes out into the world. Man, because if.

2546
01:55:23,680 --> 01:55:26,960
Speaker 2: We don't do it for each other, ain't nobody gonna

2547
01:55:26,960 --> 01:55:31,800
Speaker 2: step in and do it. And also I cannot, like

2548
01:55:32,400 --> 01:55:35,880
Speaker 2: I can't believe that you took because that's to me,

2549
01:55:36,000 --> 01:55:38,440
Speaker 2: that's not all our money, like to do what you

2550
01:55:38,480 --> 01:55:40,280
Speaker 2: did with it. And then it'd be like, oh, you

2551
01:55:40,320 --> 01:55:43,280
Speaker 2: know what, look at this vacuum.

2552
01:55:43,600 --> 01:55:44,520
Speaker 3: We need to get.

2553
01:55:44,440 --> 01:55:49,280
Speaker 2: Let's holler us on therapist, let's hollers like, let's let's

2554
01:55:49,280 --> 01:55:52,200
Speaker 2: create a support group, like let's like who knows that

2555
01:55:52,280 --> 01:55:55,800
Speaker 2: this is gonna become But like we're super proud of you,

2556
01:55:56,080 --> 01:55:58,200
Speaker 2: and uh, that's that's a great investment.

2557
01:55:59,760 --> 01:56:01,120
Speaker 3: That's a better investment, like.

2558
01:56:01,080 --> 01:56:02,640
Speaker 2: We could there's nothing we could have done with that

2559
01:56:02,680 --> 01:56:06,600
Speaker 2: money that's a better investment than that. Oh so thank you, toy,

2560
01:56:07,400 --> 01:56:10,760
Speaker 2: and good luck to y'all, you know, and it look

2561
01:56:10,800 --> 01:56:12,520
Speaker 2: like y'all have fun in the pictures. I'll show caring

2562
01:56:12,520 --> 01:56:15,640
Speaker 2: the pictures privately later. Obviously you're not gonna show that

2563
01:56:15,680 --> 01:56:18,680
Speaker 2: to the to everybody. I don't know what people's situations is,

2564
01:56:18,800 --> 01:56:19,800
Speaker 2: but I'll.

2565
01:56:19,600 --> 01:56:24,760
Speaker 6: Show it to Karen later, all right, Melanie, She says,

2566
01:56:24,920 --> 01:56:30,800
Speaker 6: nineteen fifties, seventeen years high Rideingkaren, I'm heating you up

2567
01:56:30,840 --> 01:56:33,840
Speaker 6: on email because I just can't attach myself to the

2568
01:56:33,880 --> 01:56:36,720
Speaker 6: feeding frenzy and as an impath, I just can't get

2569
01:56:36,760 --> 01:56:39,720
Speaker 6: involved with the endless debate and throat cutting when it

2570
01:56:39,800 --> 01:56:42,040
Speaker 6: seems everyone is pretty much missing the point.

2571
01:56:42,800 --> 01:56:44,480
Speaker 3: As a society, we fucked up.

2572
01:56:44,360 --> 01:56:48,440
Speaker 2: In so many ways right Like MLK was big due

2573
01:56:48,480 --> 01:56:52,240
Speaker 2: to various reasons. One we had no TV. Two niggas

2574
01:56:52,400 --> 01:56:56,760
Speaker 2: was getting straight up brutalized. Today the line is so blended.

2575
01:56:57,120 --> 01:56:59,240
Speaker 2: We have TV, social media and all this stuff to

2576
01:56:59,240 --> 01:57:02,400
Speaker 2: distract us. We're not dying at an alarming rate anymore,

2577
01:57:02,440 --> 01:57:05,919
Speaker 2: which is great. We have no quote unquote leaders anymore

2578
01:57:05,960 --> 01:57:08,000
Speaker 2: because there's no real issue that all black people can

2579
01:57:08,080 --> 01:57:12,280
Speaker 2: unify behind. To make my points slash opinion, we fucked

2580
01:57:12,320 --> 01:57:15,320
Speaker 2: up when we started investing more to celebrities and entertainers

2581
01:57:16,000 --> 01:57:20,640
Speaker 2: rather than our own social health teachers, political policies, therapists, communities.

2582
01:57:21,040 --> 01:57:23,040
Speaker 2: We took a long turn, and I think that's why

2583
01:57:23,080 --> 01:57:25,480
Speaker 2: people are so upset, because, like Karen said, we pay

2584
01:57:25,480 --> 01:57:26,040
Speaker 2: our money.

2585
01:57:26,200 --> 01:57:26,840
Speaker 3: We don't have to.

2586
01:57:27,400 --> 01:57:32,560
Speaker 2: Sustain careers for abusers, pedophiles, biggest cheaters, misogynists, etc. All

2587
01:57:32,640 --> 01:57:34,800
Speaker 2: for a laugh for a fifteen minute sound by the

2588
01:57:34,880 --> 01:57:38,640
Speaker 2: fun Fun and laughs or not the issue? But what

2589
01:57:38,720 --> 01:57:42,040
Speaker 2: are we truly getting in return besides entertainment? If it

2590
01:57:42,040 --> 01:57:45,640
Speaker 2: weren't for black people, Like if it wasn't for black people,

2591
01:57:45,680 --> 01:57:47,320
Speaker 2: I know that's just a typo or whatever.

2592
01:57:47,520 --> 01:57:48,960
Speaker 3: It wasn't for black people, jay.

2593
01:57:48,960 --> 01:57:52,240
Speaker 2: Z would not have these opportunities, and now he has

2594
01:57:52,280 --> 01:57:54,600
Speaker 2: all the money to go and do for himself and

2595
01:57:54,640 --> 01:57:55,920
Speaker 2: not give anything in return.

2596
01:57:56,000 --> 01:57:58,920
Speaker 3: But what we paid for the music in the end,

2597
01:57:59,200 --> 01:57:59,840
Speaker 3: was it worth it?

2598
01:58:00,320 --> 01:58:02,280
Speaker 2: Because all they're doing is telling us an image is

2599
01:58:02,360 --> 01:58:05,000
Speaker 2: not real, and us as Black folks, we fall for

2600
01:58:05,080 --> 01:58:06,960
Speaker 2: it every time and wonder why we aren't growing as

2601
01:58:06,960 --> 01:58:08,320
Speaker 2: individuals and as a community.

2602
01:58:08,720 --> 01:58:11,720
Speaker 3: Well just Sharmon's thoughts. Thanks you as always, take care

2603
01:58:11,720 --> 01:58:15,000
Speaker 3: of you too, Happy anniversary, Thank you Melanie.

2604
01:58:15,360 --> 01:58:19,680
Speaker 2: I will add this though, Man, it works both ways

2605
01:58:19,680 --> 01:58:21,800
Speaker 2: on that celebrity shit. Don't put them on a pedestal,

2606
01:58:21,840 --> 01:58:23,200
Speaker 2: you never have to take them off. But at the

2607
01:58:23,200 --> 01:58:27,880
Speaker 2: same time, I also don't think like every celebrity is

2608
01:58:27,920 --> 01:58:33,800
Speaker 2: some like weird sociopath or hate like like conspiracy theories.

2609
01:58:33,960 --> 01:58:37,520
Speaker 2: Like my guess is with a person like jay Z,

2610
01:58:38,400 --> 01:58:41,840
Speaker 2: it is somewhere in the middle where he is the

2611
01:58:42,800 --> 01:58:45,160
Speaker 2: guy who's trying to make all this money and wants

2612
01:58:45,200 --> 01:58:48,280
Speaker 2: to be a billionaire and all that shit, absolutely and

2613
01:58:48,320 --> 01:58:52,440
Speaker 2: he is still a black man who is consciously conscious

2614
01:58:52,440 --> 01:58:55,080
Speaker 2: about race and wants to help in the ways that

2615
01:58:55,120 --> 01:58:56,040
Speaker 2: he thinks will help.

2616
01:58:56,680 --> 01:58:58,640
Speaker 3: What happens with a lot of black people is that

2617
01:58:58,960 --> 01:58:59,960
Speaker 3: and you did it in the email.

2618
01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:03,440
Speaker 2: We start thinking like we have this monolithic point of

2619
01:59:03,520 --> 01:59:06,080
Speaker 2: view or that one strategy is the only strategy that

2620
01:59:06,120 --> 01:59:09,400
Speaker 2: will work, and the truth of the matter is all

2621
01:59:09,440 --> 01:59:12,120
Speaker 2: of them can work a little bit, none of them

2622
01:59:12,160 --> 01:59:13,800
Speaker 2: can work all the time.

2623
01:59:14,160 --> 01:59:17,680
Speaker 3: That's it. What jay Z is doing right now.

2624
01:59:17,760 --> 01:59:25,000
Speaker 2: With political uh uh, political activist act of political activism,

2625
01:59:25,680 --> 01:59:27,000
Speaker 2: it's just.

2626
01:59:27,040 --> 01:59:29,280
Speaker 3: His Those are just the things he thinks will help.

2627
01:59:29,800 --> 01:59:32,240
Speaker 2: If we don't place this Martin Luther King image on

2628
01:59:32,320 --> 01:59:35,520
Speaker 2: him then, which is why I think I'm way more

2629
01:59:35,560 --> 01:59:38,040
Speaker 2: calm about the shit than most people, and I feel

2630
01:59:38,040 --> 01:59:40,320
Speaker 2: that way with all these activists. By the way, if

2631
01:59:40,320 --> 01:59:42,520
Speaker 2: you don't put that MLK he's speaking for all the

2632
01:59:42,560 --> 01:59:44,920
Speaker 2: people shit on him, then you you'll be fine.

2633
01:59:45,520 --> 01:59:47,200
Speaker 3: You don't. You don't even have to just you don't

2634
01:59:47,200 --> 01:59:47,560
Speaker 3: even have.

2635
01:59:47,520 --> 01:59:49,360
Speaker 2: To agree with him, and you can still be fine

2636
01:59:49,360 --> 01:59:51,560
Speaker 2: because he's just one nigga trying to do one thing

2637
01:59:51,960 --> 01:59:54,600
Speaker 2: that he thinks will help. And that's how I look

2638
01:59:54,640 --> 01:59:56,680
Speaker 2: at it, you know, because it works both ways. You

2639
01:59:56,720 --> 02:00:00,760
Speaker 2: can't like, you can't put it, you can't put it

2640
02:00:00,800 --> 02:00:04,240
Speaker 2: at like these celebrities are worthless and don't do anything,

2641
02:00:04,320 --> 02:00:07,560
Speaker 2: don't put money into their pockets. All of them aren't pedophiles,

2642
02:00:07,680 --> 02:00:10,320
Speaker 2: all of them aren't abusing people like that.

2643
02:00:10,480 --> 02:00:12,720
Speaker 3: It's not all a bad thing, you know.

2644
02:00:12,920 --> 02:00:15,160
Speaker 2: It's just to me, the idea of putting them on

2645
02:00:15,200 --> 02:00:17,280
Speaker 2: that platform and being like.

2646
02:00:17,280 --> 02:00:19,880
Speaker 3: This nigga is the next Malcolm X. That's when I

2647
02:00:19,920 --> 02:00:22,880
Speaker 3: started being like, no, no, no offense.

2648
02:00:22,920 --> 02:00:25,040
Speaker 2: But I don't think a football player is gonna be

2649
02:00:25,080 --> 02:00:28,400
Speaker 2: the next Malcolm X. Dog Like that's us that keeps

2650
02:00:28,440 --> 02:00:33,280
Speaker 2: doing that. You know, in general, with this hyperbolic worship

2651
02:00:33,520 --> 02:00:37,600
Speaker 2: or not even worship is hyperbolic like rhetoric around these people.

2652
02:00:38,480 --> 02:00:40,400
Speaker 3: They just a nigga trying to help.

2653
02:00:40,680 --> 02:00:44,440
Speaker 2: That's it, all of them, Yonce trying to help, Jay

2654
02:00:44,560 --> 02:00:46,600
Speaker 2: trying to help. They don't mean they about to like

2655
02:00:46,880 --> 02:00:50,960
Speaker 2: forfeit all they fucking value valuables and walk out into

2656
02:00:51,000 --> 02:00:52,640
Speaker 2: the desert and be like, everyone.

2657
02:00:52,320 --> 02:00:53,560
Speaker 3: Take my money and be rich.

2658
02:00:53,680 --> 02:00:55,920
Speaker 2: Like that's not how it's gonna happen. We have to

2659
02:00:55,960 --> 02:00:59,320
Speaker 2: have reasonable expectations around them. And I think that's what

2660
02:00:59,720 --> 02:01:04,520
Speaker 2: gets what gets lost. People act like jay Z doing

2661
02:01:04,560 --> 02:01:07,200
Speaker 2: that is stopping somebody else from doing the things they

2662
02:01:07,200 --> 02:01:07,760
Speaker 2: think can help.

2663
02:01:08,000 --> 02:01:10,040
Speaker 3: That's not true. You know.

2664
02:01:10,200 --> 02:01:13,320
Speaker 2: The biggest thing I saw this week was well on

2665
02:01:13,360 --> 02:01:16,000
Speaker 2: social media. No, I didn't see anyone talk about in

2666
02:01:16,080 --> 02:01:19,840
Speaker 2: real life, but one of the charities in Chicago that

2667
02:01:19,960 --> 02:01:22,880
Speaker 2: jay Z and the NFL are donating to two hundred

2668
02:01:22,920 --> 02:01:25,879
Speaker 2: thousand dollars is one where it's, uh, there's.

2669
02:01:25,720 --> 02:01:29,920
Speaker 3: A white woman who was cutting off.

2670
02:01:29,760 --> 02:01:34,840
Speaker 2: People's dreadlocks to help them like change their lives and

2671
02:01:34,960 --> 02:01:36,600
Speaker 2: you know, try to they want to get jobs and

2672
02:01:36,640 --> 02:01:38,720
Speaker 2: all this type of stuff. Right now, some of these

2673
02:01:38,760 --> 02:01:41,120
Speaker 2: tweets are like two three years ago whatever.

2674
02:01:41,400 --> 02:01:42,560
Speaker 3: They took pictures of it.

2675
02:01:44,400 --> 02:01:47,080
Speaker 2: The kids weren't like they didn't pick the kids up

2676
02:01:47,080 --> 02:01:49,240
Speaker 2: off the street and kidnapped them and sayd I'm cutting

2677
02:01:49,240 --> 02:01:52,520
Speaker 2: your hair off. It was symbolic of the kids where

2678
02:01:52,520 --> 02:01:54,400
Speaker 2: they wanted to cut their hair off and they wanted

2679
02:01:54,440 --> 02:01:57,280
Speaker 2: to be like, this is a symbol. This is symbolizes

2680
02:01:57,400 --> 02:02:00,000
Speaker 2: me like changing and getting away from the negative thing

2681
02:02:00,240 --> 02:02:03,560
Speaker 2: I was doing, whether it was gang activity whatever. Cool,

2682
02:02:03,880 --> 02:02:06,000
Speaker 2: all right, a lot of people are upset by that.

2683
02:02:06,440 --> 02:02:09,560
Speaker 2: The imagery is upsetting. So white woman with scissors and

2684
02:02:09,600 --> 02:02:12,840
Speaker 2: a black person's hair, I smiling, and shit doesn't matter

2685
02:02:13,080 --> 02:02:15,760
Speaker 2: whether she they wanted to do it or not. You

2686
02:02:15,800 --> 02:02:18,200
Speaker 2: showed me that picture out of context. I'm like, the

2687
02:02:18,240 --> 02:02:19,040
Speaker 2: fuck happened in here?

2688
02:02:19,440 --> 02:02:22,160
Speaker 3: Right? There's also the respectability politics of it.

2689
02:02:22,280 --> 02:02:26,200
Speaker 2: So what you're saying, I gotta cut my hair to

2690
02:02:26,240 --> 02:02:29,960
Speaker 2: get a job in cooporate America whatever, you can't have

2691
02:02:30,040 --> 02:02:31,080
Speaker 2: dreads and da da dah.

2692
02:02:32,200 --> 02:02:35,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that is what people are saying.

2693
02:02:35,600 --> 02:02:39,840
Speaker 2: Yes, that's what At my HBCU, every single person they

2694
02:02:39,880 --> 02:02:42,080
Speaker 2: brought in talked to us about career day that was black,

2695
02:02:43,120 --> 02:02:45,680
Speaker 2: was like, I'm gonna tell you this shit before these

2696
02:02:45,720 --> 02:02:48,280
Speaker 2: white people don't tell you and just don't hire your ass,

2697
02:02:48,280 --> 02:02:49,560
Speaker 2: which is how white people get down.

2698
02:02:50,440 --> 02:02:52,320
Speaker 3: You're gonna probably have to cut that shit off your hair.

2699
02:02:53,600 --> 02:02:55,720
Speaker 2: And there were some black dudes that got up and

2700
02:02:55,760 --> 02:02:58,040
Speaker 2: walked the fuck out of the fuck you there, nigga.

2701
02:02:58,280 --> 02:03:01,800
Speaker 3: They're like all right, cool, I'm a coon. You think I'm.

2702
02:03:01,400 --> 02:03:04,720
Speaker 2: Literally telling you this shit to save your like, to

2703
02:03:04,840 --> 02:03:08,680
Speaker 2: save your careers, because I'm telling you what will happen

2704
02:03:08,800 --> 02:03:10,960
Speaker 2: is you're gonna get the interview and they gonna go,

2705
02:03:11,120 --> 02:03:13,760
Speaker 2: we'll never hire that nigga, and you just walk out

2706
02:03:13,920 --> 02:03:18,560
Speaker 2: and that's it. And so that was a part of it. Kaepernick.

2707
02:03:19,120 --> 02:03:21,040
Speaker 2: One of the charities he gave to was called A

2708
02:03:21,120 --> 02:03:23,520
Speaker 2: Hundred Suits. Y'all can look it up yourself. What does

2709
02:03:23,560 --> 02:03:26,720
Speaker 2: a hundred Suits do? They try to help young people

2710
02:03:26,880 --> 02:03:31,400
Speaker 2: and paroles get suits so they can interview for jobs,

2711
02:03:31,440 --> 02:03:38,360
Speaker 2: and they also cut hair. Was everybody outraged or did

2712
02:03:38,360 --> 02:03:41,160
Speaker 2: we celebrate when Kaepernick did that? See he really putting

2713
02:03:41,200 --> 02:03:44,000
Speaker 2: his real money down and he donating suits they getting

2714
02:03:44,000 --> 02:03:47,760
Speaker 2: their hair cut, right, It was totally different. Now that

2715
02:03:47,880 --> 02:03:50,040
Speaker 2: was a black person cutting those people's hair. So maybe

2716
02:03:50,080 --> 02:03:52,879
Speaker 2: that's part of it. You know, we are more sensitive

2717
02:03:52,880 --> 02:03:55,040
Speaker 2: and understand our culture. We would never take a picture

2718
02:03:55,120 --> 02:03:57,880
Speaker 2: like chopping off some dress like like a dumb ass.

2719
02:03:58,840 --> 02:04:01,200
Speaker 2: The person that took the pictures, the charity per they

2720
02:04:01,240 --> 02:04:05,840
Speaker 2: already apologize the shit whatever. My whole point is that

2721
02:04:06,040 --> 02:04:09,960
Speaker 2: respectability is in both of those acts, all three of

2722
02:04:09,960 --> 02:04:12,280
Speaker 2: those acts, the guys who talk to us at school.

2723
02:04:12,920 --> 02:04:15,440
Speaker 2: It's in the woman cutting off the dreads, or even

2724
02:04:15,480 --> 02:04:18,320
Speaker 2: if those kids wanted it, the fact that they wanted it.

2725
02:04:18,160 --> 02:04:19,400
Speaker 3: Was kind of some respectability.

2726
02:04:19,440 --> 02:04:19,640
Speaker 4: Shit.

2727
02:04:19,680 --> 02:04:21,400
Speaker 2: I don't think I can be serious with my hair

2728
02:04:21,520 --> 02:04:24,720
Speaker 2: this way. And Kaebernick with the suits and that we

2729
02:04:24,720 --> 02:04:27,240
Speaker 2: gotta get certain haircuts so these guys can get interviews.

2730
02:04:27,760 --> 02:04:31,720
Speaker 2: All three have some are steeped in some type of respectability.

2731
02:04:32,760 --> 02:04:36,320
Speaker 2: All three of those, more than likely people feel differently about.

2732
02:04:37,320 --> 02:04:40,560
Speaker 2: They probably do not carry the same opinion on all

2733
02:04:40,600 --> 02:04:44,480
Speaker 2: three of those. So my thing is that's what jay

2734
02:04:44,560 --> 02:04:46,600
Speaker 2: Z thinks his path is. You look at jay Z's

2735
02:04:46,600 --> 02:04:50,640
Speaker 2: hair and you go, jay Z, your hair not like that. Now,

2736
02:04:50,720 --> 02:04:52,680
Speaker 2: of course, what people want to tell you is that's

2737
02:04:52,720 --> 02:04:57,280
Speaker 2: not the fucking goal of the.

2738
02:04:55,960 --> 02:04:57,040
Speaker 3: Charity that they gave it to.

2739
02:04:57,200 --> 02:04:59,640
Speaker 2: That's not the only thing they do is cut hair

2740
02:04:59,680 --> 02:05:03,360
Speaker 2: and like it don't matter. They found like some they

2741
02:05:03,400 --> 02:05:06,560
Speaker 2: found the whiteness in them. Okay, they used to be like,

2742
02:05:06,800 --> 02:05:10,800
Speaker 2: we don't disrespect the police, and uh, all lives matter,

2743
02:05:10,880 --> 02:05:13,240
Speaker 2: you know. So they found everything wrong with that charity,

2744
02:05:13,280 --> 02:05:14,240
Speaker 2: which is gonna happen.

2745
02:05:14,440 --> 02:05:17,760
Speaker 4: Like none of them perfect, Yeah, none of them are perfect.

2746
02:05:17,800 --> 02:05:20,800
Speaker 2: But just also when I say gonna happen, the NFL,

2747
02:05:20,800 --> 02:05:24,040
Speaker 2: ain't let they're not. They're still the NFL. They're not

2748
02:05:24,200 --> 02:05:27,600
Speaker 2: gonna only give to these like uber woke charities. They're

2749
02:05:27,600 --> 02:05:30,440
Speaker 2: gonna give to some charities that are like we kind

2750
02:05:30,440 --> 02:05:32,400
Speaker 2: of see both sides of the problem. That's where they're

2751
02:05:32,400 --> 02:05:34,880
Speaker 2: gonna go. And so my point is in to say

2752
02:05:34,880 --> 02:05:36,800
Speaker 2: you have to support that. My point is to be like,

2753
02:05:36,840 --> 02:05:40,880
Speaker 2: you don't have to support that, But that doesn't mean

2754
02:05:40,920 --> 02:05:44,040
Speaker 2: that we have to turn it into Coons versus Malcolm

2755
02:05:44,320 --> 02:05:48,080
Speaker 2: X and Martin Luther King versus so and so and W. B.

2756
02:05:48,200 --> 02:05:52,320
Speaker 2: Du Bois versus uh, you know, Booker t washing it

2757
02:05:52,360 --> 02:05:54,680
Speaker 2: and like, these are just black people trying to help.

2758
02:05:55,720 --> 02:05:56,880
Speaker 3: That's it. That's the list.

2759
02:05:56,920 --> 02:05:59,960
Speaker 2: They not like, we don't have to elevate it anymore

2760
02:06:00,320 --> 02:06:02,600
Speaker 2: that we don't have to take them down any harder

2761
02:06:02,600 --> 02:06:05,320
Speaker 2: than that. Some of these people, you're gonna roll your eyes,

2762
02:06:05,360 --> 02:06:07,040
Speaker 2: and by the way, some of the people you're gonna

2763
02:06:07,080 --> 02:06:08,800
Speaker 2: not roll your eyes some days and other days you're

2764
02:06:08,840 --> 02:06:11,040
Speaker 2: gonna be like, I don't like this shit. So I

2765
02:06:11,080 --> 02:06:13,400
Speaker 2: think that's the part that you know, I look at

2766
02:06:13,440 --> 02:06:17,240
Speaker 2: the you know, as far as investing in celarties. You know,

2767
02:06:17,520 --> 02:06:19,040
Speaker 2: if you've been listening to so long enough, you know

2768
02:06:19,120 --> 02:06:22,520
Speaker 2: my belief. I don't believe in that. I only believe

2769
02:06:23,000 --> 02:06:25,400
Speaker 2: if I give you fifteen dollars, you owe me a

2770
02:06:25,440 --> 02:06:28,760
Speaker 2: good album, or in attempt at a good album.

2771
02:06:29,000 --> 02:06:29,720
Speaker 3: You see what I'm saying.

2772
02:06:29,720 --> 02:06:32,880
Speaker 2: I've never believed this whole, Like, you owe it to

2773
02:06:32,920 --> 02:06:35,280
Speaker 2: me to not hit your wife. I what kind of

2774
02:06:35,280 --> 02:06:37,600
Speaker 2: control do I think I have because I spent ten dollars.

2775
02:06:37,600 --> 02:06:41,200
Speaker 2: That's not how that works. Like then it's my decision,

2776
02:06:41,400 --> 02:06:42,800
Speaker 2: Oh you hit your wife. I don't want to pay

2777
02:06:42,800 --> 02:06:45,320
Speaker 2: for this album no more, Like that's the only decision

2778
02:06:45,320 --> 02:06:47,000
Speaker 2: I get to make. I don't get to decide what

2779
02:06:47,040 --> 02:06:48,720
Speaker 2: the fuck you do and don't do it? Your life,

2780
02:06:49,440 --> 02:06:52,200
Speaker 2: who you marry? All this shit like people crazy.

2781
02:06:53,040 --> 02:06:55,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, they think they even have more control than they do.

2782
02:06:55,360 --> 02:06:56,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2783
02:06:56,640 --> 02:07:00,000
Speaker 2: But you know, I'm just saying this and like I said,

2784
02:07:00,280 --> 02:07:02,680
Speaker 2: and I'm not saying this the same.

2785
02:07:02,880 --> 02:07:05,120
Speaker 3: I'm saying the respectability is the same.

2786
02:07:05,440 --> 02:07:08,120
Speaker 2: It doesn't like we're gonna find the differences so we

2787
02:07:08,160 --> 02:07:10,040
Speaker 2: can be mad, because right now it's time to be

2788
02:07:10,040 --> 02:07:12,960
Speaker 2: mad at jay Z. But but but I didn't see

2789
02:07:13,120 --> 02:07:18,040
Speaker 2: one person bring up this some respectability shit, A.

2790
02:07:18,160 --> 02:07:21,400
Speaker 3: Hundred suits cutting your hair so you can get a job. Nigga,

2791
02:07:21,520 --> 02:07:24,640
Speaker 3: what you know? This ain't systemic oppression? Brother?

2792
02:07:25,080 --> 02:07:28,480
Speaker 2: What you're talking like? Not not one person. I noticed

2793
02:07:28,520 --> 02:07:30,680
Speaker 2: it immediately and when that's interesting, and it just.

2794
02:07:30,680 --> 02:07:31,240
Speaker 3: Kept moving on.

2795
02:07:31,320 --> 02:07:34,160
Speaker 2: Why cause I don't really give a fuck. Same thing

2796
02:07:34,200 --> 02:07:36,480
Speaker 2: about this jay Z thing. I have really I said

2797
02:07:36,480 --> 02:07:37,920
Speaker 2: what I had to say about it just now that

2798
02:07:38,000 --> 02:07:40,040
Speaker 2: because that's all I got to say is yeah, I

2799
02:07:40,080 --> 02:07:41,680
Speaker 2: wouldn't have done that, wouldn't have gave them people no

2800
02:07:41,720 --> 02:07:44,480
Speaker 2: money and h he gonna get fired for that, and

2801
02:07:44,640 --> 02:07:45,080
Speaker 2: that's it.

2802
02:07:45,760 --> 02:07:47,160
Speaker 3: Time to move on to the next charity.

2803
02:07:48,040 --> 02:07:50,320
Speaker 2: Uh, just get Also, I noticed nobody brought up the

2804
02:07:50,360 --> 02:07:52,480
Speaker 2: other charity, So I guess the other charity must be cool,

2805
02:07:54,120 --> 02:07:56,640
Speaker 2: because you know what I'm saying, because like they found

2806
02:07:56,680 --> 02:07:59,920
Speaker 2: the one that would be like the offensive one but Diamond.

2807
02:08:00,000 --> 02:08:01,800
Speaker 2: Remember they said it was two charities, So is the

2808
02:08:01,840 --> 02:08:05,800
Speaker 2: other charity straight or what? Because then it makes me think,

2809
02:08:05,880 --> 02:08:09,080
Speaker 2: what if is jay Z picking one and then the

2810
02:08:09,200 --> 02:08:10,120
Speaker 2: NFL picks one.

2811
02:08:11,320 --> 02:08:13,440
Speaker 3: I wonder if that's what's happening, and one day we'll

2812
02:08:13,440 --> 02:08:17,880
Speaker 3: see the details of this ship. So anyway, good luck, man,

2813
02:08:18,000 --> 02:08:20,120
Speaker 3: I hope we all get free. Guys. I hate I

2814
02:08:20,120 --> 02:08:20,919
Speaker 3: hate this bullshit.

2815
02:08:20,960 --> 02:08:23,560
Speaker 2: I don't right, regardless of I wish everybody could wear

2816
02:08:23,600 --> 02:08:25,120
Speaker 2: whatever the fu kind of hell they want.

2817
02:08:24,960 --> 02:08:28,160
Speaker 4: To work because it actually don't fucking matter to me.

2818
02:08:28,360 --> 02:08:33,520
Speaker 4: Don't matter, Red Sweed, I don't. Can you do your

2819
02:08:33,600 --> 02:08:36,200
Speaker 4: job competently? Yes? Okay?

2820
02:08:36,400 --> 02:08:38,680
Speaker 2: All this ship is just designed to try to trick

2821
02:08:38,760 --> 02:08:41,160
Speaker 2: white people into not being racist against us. It's just

2822
02:08:41,200 --> 02:08:45,840
Speaker 2: so fucked up, man, I hate this all right, moving on,

2823
02:08:46,000 --> 02:08:48,879
Speaker 2: Just give me my chicken tea, says Rod please.

2824
02:08:49,000 --> 02:08:54,520
Speaker 3: Oh ship, Well, no, I said your first name. I

2825
02:08:54,520 --> 02:08:58,440
Speaker 3: guess I shouldn't even read this, but it's really nice.

2826
02:08:58,560 --> 02:09:01,920
Speaker 3: I don't know. She's uh, you know what, I'm not

2827
02:09:01,960 --> 02:09:04,880
Speaker 3: gonna read this one. I'm sorry. I'll just I'll do

2828
02:09:04,960 --> 02:09:05,560
Speaker 3: another one.

2829
02:09:06,320 --> 02:09:09,840
Speaker 2: Uh uh, Sierra said, did you know Netflix is going

2830
02:09:09,920 --> 02:09:13,200
Speaker 2: to stop four seasons, meaning we have to wait a

2831
02:09:13,320 --> 02:09:16,880
Speaker 2: week for an episode. I'm canceling my membership as we speak,

2832
02:09:17,000 --> 02:09:18,040
Speaker 2: no more binge watching?

2833
02:09:18,040 --> 02:09:19,720
Speaker 3: What the fuck? Netflix? I wanted to wait?

2834
02:09:20,120 --> 02:09:21,960
Speaker 2: If I wanted to wait, I'll go back to cable

2835
02:09:22,040 --> 02:09:24,480
Speaker 2: and oh love you guys. Spread the word about this bullshit.

2836
02:09:24,960 --> 02:09:26,960
Speaker 2: First of all, did you really just use us for

2837
02:09:27,040 --> 02:09:31,160
Speaker 2: a P S A C. L. Second, all, you know

2838
02:09:31,200 --> 02:09:33,839
Speaker 2: what they're really doing. They're not They're not taking everything

2839
02:09:33,920 --> 02:09:35,200
Speaker 2: and but like we separating it out.

2840
02:09:35,320 --> 02:09:36,280
Speaker 4: No, they're not doing that.

2841
02:09:36,920 --> 02:09:40,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. Car's right. They're actually only doing it too.

2842
02:09:40,480 --> 02:09:42,520
Speaker 2: As of right now, they only announced two reality shows

2843
02:09:42,520 --> 02:09:43,440
Speaker 2: they plan on doing it too.

2844
02:09:43,520 --> 02:09:43,840
Speaker 4: Correct.

2845
02:09:43,880 --> 02:09:46,120
Speaker 2: They're not gonna do it to all the shows, just

2846
02:09:46,200 --> 02:09:49,200
Speaker 2: those two for right now. So unless it becomes all

2847
02:09:49,200 --> 02:09:50,600
Speaker 2: the shows, it'll be all right.

2848
02:09:50,920 --> 02:09:54,120
Speaker 4: Yeah. I think for a lot of people they heard it,

2849
02:09:54,240 --> 02:09:56,560
Speaker 4: didn't really read and just went to panic Bode like,

2850
02:09:56,560 --> 02:09:59,160
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, they changed everything, just like they panic

2851
02:09:59,240 --> 02:10:02,200
Speaker 4: every time they go up by two cent, like it

2852
02:10:02,240 --> 02:10:06,200
Speaker 4: really fucking matters. They know that most people, being like

2853
02:10:06,240 --> 02:10:08,720
Speaker 4: they got their own numbers, they know this. But you know,

2854
02:10:08,760 --> 02:10:11,040
Speaker 4: they're only probably gonna do this for certain shows. Most

2855
02:10:11,040 --> 02:10:14,960
Speaker 4: shows they will probably do this too because it I

2856
02:10:15,000 --> 02:10:17,080
Speaker 4: mean most shows, they probably continue to bench because they

2857
02:10:17,080 --> 02:10:20,040
Speaker 4: know most people want to watch it at their own paces.

2858
02:10:20,680 --> 02:10:22,800
Speaker 2: Alegra says, hey you too. Before I get it to it,

2859
02:10:22,840 --> 02:10:24,800
Speaker 2: I just want to make a quick recommendation. Hulu has

2860
02:10:24,840 --> 02:10:27,520
Speaker 2: thirty to forty five minute weekly news documentary show called

2861
02:10:27,520 --> 02:10:29,840
Speaker 2: The Weekly. It is a New York Times journalist and

2862
02:10:29,840 --> 02:10:33,160
Speaker 2: an affiliate journalist investigative. Various contemporary stories around it from

2863
02:10:33,200 --> 02:10:35,879
Speaker 2: around the world. It's really good in the formula. Sometimes

2864
02:10:35,920 --> 02:10:38,200
Speaker 2: the stories have crazy twist. If you have it checked

2865
02:10:38,200 --> 02:10:41,400
Speaker 2: it out already, I hope you do now. As for

2866
02:10:41,600 --> 02:10:44,040
Speaker 2: the article you read about black women as introverts, I

2867
02:10:44,160 --> 02:10:47,280
Speaker 2: super relate. It has gotten worse since I turned forty.

2868
02:10:47,680 --> 02:10:49,960
Speaker 2: I've always been a loner and often describe myself as

2869
02:10:50,000 --> 02:10:53,480
Speaker 2: an introvert mask as an extrovert. I'm personal or empathetic,

2870
02:10:53,560 --> 02:10:57,120
Speaker 2: but I definitely have to turn that on once I

2871
02:10:57,240 --> 02:11:01,520
Speaker 2: leave the house. My home is my sanctuary and where

2872
02:11:01,560 --> 02:11:04,040
Speaker 2: I need the peace and tranquility so that I can recharge.

2873
02:11:04,240 --> 02:11:05,400
Speaker 3: Same too.

2874
02:11:05,480 --> 02:11:07,640
Speaker 2: I love that you too have discussed this and also

2875
02:11:07,720 --> 02:11:10,120
Speaker 2: brought up the introverts are not socially awkward trolls. They

2876
02:11:10,160 --> 02:11:12,480
Speaker 2: just need a charger when dealing with the world, right,

2877
02:11:12,640 --> 02:11:14,000
Speaker 2: love Allegra, thank you.

2878
02:11:14,920 --> 02:11:15,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2879
02:11:15,200 --> 02:11:17,880
Speaker 2: And that's uh, that's the real Like I think people

2880
02:11:18,280 --> 02:11:19,240
Speaker 2: have turned it into this.

2881
02:11:19,320 --> 02:11:23,200
Speaker 3: It's like really weird, like I hate.

2882
02:11:22,720 --> 02:11:26,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm just oh, I'm crying the whole time.

2883
02:11:26,400 --> 02:11:28,920
Speaker 3: Like it's not that it's just hey, man, have a

2884
02:11:28,920 --> 02:11:29,320
Speaker 3: good time.

2885
02:11:29,440 --> 02:11:30,840
Speaker 2: Don't want to talk to you about the traffic, go

2886
02:11:30,920 --> 02:11:34,120
Speaker 2: the fucking weather, but I will talk to you about

2887
02:11:34,120 --> 02:11:36,040
Speaker 2: some other things that are a little more in depth.

2888
02:11:36,120 --> 02:11:39,160
Speaker 3: And also I'm gonna need a depth after this. It's

2889
02:11:39,200 --> 02:11:40,040
Speaker 3: a lot of people today.

2890
02:11:40,560 --> 02:11:44,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, did did a lot of people? And uh,

2891
02:11:44,280 --> 02:11:48,120
Speaker 4: I think for me and right, could we talked about

2892
02:11:48,240 --> 02:11:52,200
Speaker 4: extroverty introverse like in depth? And Roderick explained this to

2893
02:11:52,240 --> 02:11:57,520
Speaker 4: me and I had a better understand already. Most people

2894
02:11:57,640 --> 02:12:00,360
Speaker 4: that are extroverts don't really give a fuck about how

2895
02:12:00,400 --> 02:12:03,840
Speaker 4: introverts feel. And that's the problem. People don't communicate people

2896
02:12:03,840 --> 02:12:06,440
Speaker 4: that are extroverts. Assume that everybody else is extrovert and

2897
02:12:06,520 --> 02:12:09,000
Speaker 4: if you're not extroverts, something's wrong with you, and that's

2898
02:12:09,040 --> 02:12:12,000
Speaker 4: not true. A lot of people that are extroverts can

2899
02:12:12,040 --> 02:12:14,560
Speaker 4: be a fucking lot to even to other extroverts. They're

2900
02:12:14,640 --> 02:12:16,720
Speaker 4: just a lot, just a lot going on because they

2901
02:12:16,800 --> 02:12:18,000
Speaker 4: just want to go, want to do? When to go?

2902
02:12:18,080 --> 02:12:19,360
Speaker 4: Want to do? Want to do? When to do? When

2903
02:12:19,360 --> 02:12:22,720
Speaker 4: to go? People charge them and shit like that. And

2904
02:12:22,800 --> 02:12:26,400
Speaker 4: what you have to realize is that when people are introverts,

2905
02:12:26,520 --> 02:12:29,440
Speaker 4: they'll give you warnings and they'll let you know, but

2906
02:12:29,680 --> 02:12:31,840
Speaker 4: because a lot of extroverts take those things it's a

2907
02:12:31,840 --> 02:12:34,480
Speaker 4: personal slight against them. No I don't want to go.

2908
02:12:34,880 --> 02:12:37,280
Speaker 4: I'm good, No, I don't want to hang out. It's

2909
02:12:37,360 --> 02:12:39,480
Speaker 4: you know, people, Oh my god. They take it as

2910
02:12:39,520 --> 02:12:42,560
Speaker 4: a personal affront, and that's what the problem comes in.

2911
02:12:43,080 --> 02:12:46,320
Speaker 4: And then if you force an introvert to go do

2912
02:12:46,400 --> 02:12:48,600
Speaker 4: some shit they don't want to do, then you want

2913
02:12:48,640 --> 02:12:50,680
Speaker 4: to complain about how they're bumming you out and shit

2914
02:12:50,800 --> 02:12:53,120
Speaker 4: like that. They shouldn't have went. You know, they shouldn't

2915
02:12:53,120 --> 02:12:54,880
Speaker 4: have went, and they know they probably shouldn't have went,

2916
02:12:54,960 --> 02:12:56,920
Speaker 4: so it's sometimes it's best for them not to go.

2917
02:12:57,800 --> 02:13:03,000
Speaker 4: And then when people don't communicate, it becomes the introvert

2918
02:13:03,200 --> 02:13:05,520
Speaker 4: just cutting you off because you just don't get it.

2919
02:13:05,560 --> 02:13:07,160
Speaker 4: And do you butter, why are you disappeared? Because, bitch,

2920
02:13:07,160 --> 02:13:08,720
Speaker 4: you don't listen to me when I tell you I'm Todd.

2921
02:13:09,920 --> 02:13:11,440
Speaker 3: Anthony says, Hey, Rod and Karen.

2922
02:13:11,840 --> 02:13:14,280
Speaker 2: First things first, I want to congratulate you both for

2923
02:13:14,360 --> 02:13:17,880
Speaker 2: seventeen years of an incredible marriage, wishing you both many

2924
02:13:17,920 --> 02:13:19,880
Speaker 2: more years of love. I haven't found one yet, but

2925
02:13:19,960 --> 02:13:22,440
Speaker 2: listening to you both every week, I know I'm going

2926
02:13:22,480 --> 02:13:25,120
Speaker 2: to find her. I lack a pun for the transition,

2927
02:13:25,240 --> 02:13:27,480
Speaker 2: but I wanted to step back. I wanted to step

2928
02:13:27,480 --> 02:13:29,680
Speaker 2: back in the episode and comment on the Chappelle special.

2929
02:13:30,080 --> 02:13:31,840
Speaker 3: I liked it. I didn't think it was his best,

2930
02:13:31,840 --> 02:13:32,960
Speaker 3: but I got a few lasts.

2931
02:13:33,200 --> 02:13:36,520
Speaker 2: What really structed me after Rod pointed it out how

2932
02:13:36,560 --> 02:13:38,760
Speaker 2: much it was embraced by people who probably never listen

2933
02:13:38,800 --> 02:13:41,160
Speaker 2: to Chappelle in their life, corny ass motherfuckers who are

2934
02:13:41,160 --> 02:13:43,880
Speaker 2: all people are upset about this content. I'm going to

2935
02:13:43,920 --> 02:13:47,320
Speaker 2: start stroking the flames and praise genius to Dave even

2936
02:13:47,360 --> 02:13:50,160
Speaker 2: though they have never heard or watched the actual genius Dave.

2937
02:13:50,280 --> 02:13:52,760
Speaker 2: And in that sense, while I will still find things funny,

2938
02:13:52,760 --> 02:13:55,280
Speaker 2: it bothers me that a comic like Dave that has

2939
02:13:55,320 --> 02:13:58,720
Speaker 2: done so much thought provoking, thought provoking shit has fell

2940
02:13:58,760 --> 02:14:01,880
Speaker 2: into this spot and getting hoisted up by Griffiths, clowns

2941
02:14:01,880 --> 02:14:04,800
Speaker 2: and whack jaws. You have to wonder if Dave securing

2942
02:14:04,880 --> 02:14:08,160
Speaker 2: that missing Comedy Central bag that he walked from has

2943
02:14:08,240 --> 02:14:10,600
Speaker 2: made him do whatever to make it back. That's all

2944
02:14:10,600 --> 02:14:13,080
Speaker 2: I got. I don't think it's a money thing, and

2945
02:14:13,120 --> 02:14:15,240
Speaker 2: I'm to be frank. I think this is just what

2946
02:14:15,360 --> 02:14:18,840
Speaker 2: Dave thinks, this is who he is. I don't think

2947
02:14:18,840 --> 02:14:21,080
Speaker 2: it was subversive. I don't think there's an extra level

2948
02:14:21,120 --> 02:14:23,520
Speaker 2: to the comedy. I thought a lot of the points

2949
02:14:23,520 --> 02:14:26,560
Speaker 2: he was making were disingenuous, but very simple points that

2950
02:14:26,800 --> 02:14:30,080
Speaker 2: I've seen a lot of white male like regressive ass

2951
02:14:30,080 --> 02:14:30,840
Speaker 2: comedians make.

2952
02:14:31,200 --> 02:14:34,400
Speaker 3: I don't you know. For me personally, this special was

2953
02:14:34,600 --> 02:14:36,200
Speaker 3: probably his worst.

2954
02:14:37,320 --> 02:14:39,760
Speaker 2: And the people who think it was his best are

2955
02:14:39,840 --> 02:14:41,920
Speaker 2: mostly the kind of people that you expect to think

2956
02:14:41,920 --> 02:14:45,160
Speaker 2: it was his best because they were thinking about pissing

2957
02:14:45,200 --> 02:14:47,400
Speaker 2: people off on the Internet, not whether or not it

2958
02:14:47,560 --> 02:14:50,880
Speaker 2: was funny. Correct, And everybody I've heard that's really loved

2959
02:14:50,880 --> 02:14:54,680
Speaker 2: the special has really talked more about you know, he

2960
02:14:54,800 --> 02:14:56,640
Speaker 2: just you know, he just talking about to Jose So

2961
02:14:56,680 --> 02:14:57,800
Speaker 2: he's just trying to make people.

2962
02:14:58,040 --> 02:15:00,360
Speaker 3: You know, somebody need to tell these motherfucker.

2963
02:15:00,240 --> 02:15:02,280
Speaker 2: And I think there's a vein of that that has

2964
02:15:02,320 --> 02:15:05,960
Speaker 2: some truth in it, which is the quote unquote cancel culture.

2965
02:15:06,080 --> 02:15:07,320
Speaker 3: The postpone culture of the.

2966
02:15:07,280 --> 02:15:12,000
Speaker 2: Internet is, uh can be a very fucked up environment

2967
02:15:12,320 --> 02:15:16,040
Speaker 2: and the ship where we go find people's old tweets and.

2968
02:15:16,040 --> 02:15:17,840
Speaker 3: Shit, it doesn't it's really fucked up.

2969
02:15:18,680 --> 02:15:20,760
Speaker 2: You know, nobody wants to talk about it being fucked

2970
02:15:20,840 --> 02:15:23,240
Speaker 2: up because that would make you persona nine grid on

2971
02:15:23,320 --> 02:15:26,160
Speaker 2: the internet, but it is fucked up. That shit is

2972
02:15:26,200 --> 02:15:30,480
Speaker 2: not helpful and it makes people more Mostly it just

2973
02:15:30,520 --> 02:15:32,920
Speaker 2: makes people feel better than other folks.

2974
02:15:33,000 --> 02:15:35,040
Speaker 3: And Jay Chappelle wanted to rail against that.

2975
02:15:35,760 --> 02:15:37,760
Speaker 2: Cool I get that, but I think there's a way

2976
02:15:37,800 --> 02:15:40,160
Speaker 2: to do that without being like, hey, you know who

2977
02:15:40,160 --> 02:15:41,960
Speaker 2: the real problem is with all this shit is these

2978
02:15:42,000 --> 02:15:46,200
Speaker 2: trans people and he's gay people and women into me

2979
02:15:46,280 --> 02:15:46,800
Speaker 2: Too movement.

2980
02:15:46,840 --> 02:15:48,040
Speaker 3: I think there's a way to do it.

2981
02:15:48,080 --> 02:15:50,080
Speaker 2: And he didn't find it, so it wasn't as best

2982
02:15:50,080 --> 02:15:53,760
Speaker 2: to me. But yeah, I think the fact that it

2983
02:15:53,880 --> 02:15:57,560
Speaker 2: was hoisted up by a lot of bigots and trolls

2984
02:15:57,720 --> 02:16:01,080
Speaker 2: and you know, I'm sure the hotel crowd and all

2985
02:16:01,120 --> 02:16:03,880
Speaker 2: that stuff, I think even the people that found it

2986
02:16:03,920 --> 02:16:06,200
Speaker 2: funny and just like I don't give a fuck, you

2987
02:16:06,280 --> 02:16:08,200
Speaker 2: should be thinking about like, why did you find that

2988
02:16:09,280 --> 02:16:13,320
Speaker 2: so funny? And the thing that they find to be

2989
02:16:13,480 --> 02:16:17,960
Speaker 2: so righteous you found to be so hilarious. What is

2990
02:16:18,000 --> 02:16:20,320
Speaker 2: the similar vein in that? And if you can't examine that,

2991
02:16:20,440 --> 02:16:23,040
Speaker 2: then you know, what's the point of listening. What's the

2992
02:16:23,080 --> 02:16:25,360
Speaker 2: point of calling him a great thinker and thought provoking

2993
02:16:26,080 --> 02:16:28,200
Speaker 2: ps Rob in my best British accent.

2994
02:16:28,240 --> 02:16:30,720
Speaker 3: What happens if BO means Idris, and Idris asked both,

2995
02:16:30,920 --> 02:16:36,560
Speaker 3: do you want the smoke breath? Yo? You know no, No,

2996
02:16:36,959 --> 02:16:42,760
Speaker 3: I don't need to answer that. Again.

2997
02:16:42,840 --> 02:16:45,480
Speaker 2: Appreciate you both and always looking forward to hearing you

2998
02:16:45,560 --> 02:16:47,160
Speaker 2: asthny W and THEBK.

2999
02:16:47,600 --> 02:16:54,680
Speaker 3: Thank you. I fell into a trap. Nope, uh what happens?

3000
02:16:55,840 --> 02:16:57,359
Speaker 3: All right? Last one.

3001
02:16:58,680 --> 02:17:03,000
Speaker 2: And this from Jodi, who says Rod, I want to

3002
02:17:03,040 --> 02:17:06,240
Speaker 2: start and say that you do not have to read

3003
02:17:06,280 --> 02:17:08,360
Speaker 2: this on the ara has problematic language. I say this

3004
02:17:08,480 --> 02:17:11,520
Speaker 2: because I may be speaking as if I know your

3005
02:17:11,560 --> 02:17:12,520
Speaker 2: relationship when I do not.

3006
02:17:13,000 --> 02:17:14,959
Speaker 3: All right, well, we will see. I'm already reading it

3007
02:17:14,959 --> 02:17:16,959
Speaker 3: on that. Now I have to.

3008
02:17:16,920 --> 02:17:19,520
Speaker 2: Commend you and how on how you allow your Oh,

3009
02:17:19,560 --> 02:17:21,600
Speaker 2: so this is to me, okay, I have to commit

3010
02:17:21,720 --> 02:17:23,400
Speaker 2: I thought, it's like.

3011
02:17:23,520 --> 02:17:25,600
Speaker 3: Rod, she don't matter.

3012
02:17:26,000 --> 02:17:28,360
Speaker 2: I have to commend you on how you allow your

3013
02:17:28,360 --> 02:17:30,600
Speaker 2: wife to have a voice and how you respond to

3014
02:17:30,600 --> 02:17:33,720
Speaker 2: her when you disagree. See I said aloud, which may

3015
02:17:33,720 --> 02:17:37,879
Speaker 2: be problematic. Anyways, it is beautiful to me that you

3016
02:17:37,920 --> 02:17:40,640
Speaker 2: give an outlet to her voice. I think that this

3017
02:17:40,720 --> 02:17:43,800
Speaker 2: stands out to me because I've had men in my

3018
02:17:43,879 --> 02:17:46,120
Speaker 2: life have a problem with my feelings. And how I

3019
02:17:46,120 --> 02:17:49,400
Speaker 2: express myself. I admire Karen for her freedom and her

3020
02:17:49,440 --> 02:17:50,039
Speaker 2: I don't give.

3021
02:17:49,879 --> 02:17:50,760
Speaker 3: A fuck perspective.

3022
02:17:51,240 --> 02:17:54,000
Speaker 2: This is me flows all out of her, and I

3023
02:17:54,080 --> 02:17:56,080
Speaker 2: love it. I have to admit that, because of my

3024
02:17:56,160 --> 02:17:59,760
Speaker 2: past experiences, I'm waiting for the passive aggressive neglect through

3025
02:17:59,760 --> 02:18:03,120
Speaker 2: your life language to Karen, this is only because this

3026
02:18:03,200 --> 02:18:05,640
Speaker 2: is how I see men. And I'm surprised to hear

3027
02:18:05,760 --> 02:18:08,200
Speaker 2: that your response is not that, but you just give

3028
02:18:08,240 --> 02:18:11,560
Speaker 2: your opinion. Honestly, I responded the same way Karen did.

3029
02:18:11,640 --> 02:18:14,000
Speaker 2: I just want my chicken and leave me alone. I vote,

3030
02:18:14,000 --> 02:18:14,800
Speaker 2: I'm sick of this shit.

3031
02:18:15,000 --> 02:18:15,400
Speaker 3: Lol.

3032
02:18:16,120 --> 02:18:18,280
Speaker 2: You all have beautiful souls and I love your show.

3033
02:18:18,400 --> 02:18:20,320
Speaker 2: Now I will tune back into the show and here

3034
02:18:20,800 --> 02:18:24,400
Speaker 2: any other rants that I love all that ain't get me.

3035
02:18:24,560 --> 02:18:25,959
Speaker 3: I won't lie. That was a roller coaster.

3036
02:18:26,879 --> 02:18:30,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, that wasn't the most roller coaster. And the thing is,

3037
02:18:30,560 --> 02:18:33,760
Speaker 4: how can I say this the way you feel, baby,

3038
02:18:33,840 --> 02:18:36,800
Speaker 4: and you were honest. Other people feel the same way

3039
02:18:36,840 --> 02:18:42,640
Speaker 4: you do, but the way they express it is they go,

3040
02:18:43,440 --> 02:18:45,560
Speaker 4: I'm taking things that have happened to me in the

3041
02:18:45,640 --> 02:18:49,160
Speaker 4: past and I'm projecting them and I'm just gonna project them.

3042
02:18:49,200 --> 02:18:52,200
Speaker 4: And that's it. Like they don't really realize us what

3043
02:18:52,200 --> 02:18:57,879
Speaker 4: they're doing. They don't really realize that it's something within them,

3044
02:18:58,160 --> 02:19:02,400
Speaker 4: this this stroking, the fire flaming within them, and they

3045
02:19:02,600 --> 02:19:05,560
Speaker 4: projected onto us as a couple because, like you said, yes,

3046
02:19:05,800 --> 02:19:09,800
Speaker 4: I allow. It's a lot, you know, because you know,

3047
02:19:09,840 --> 02:19:12,240
Speaker 4: you go to the thing of ownership. My husband doesn't

3048
02:19:12,240 --> 02:19:14,640
Speaker 4: own me. He didn't quote unquote pay for me. These

3049
02:19:14,640 --> 02:19:16,760
Speaker 4: I don't think he paid for me. I might have

3050
02:19:16,800 --> 02:19:18,440
Speaker 4: a price tag around here somewhere. I don't know how

3051
02:19:18,520 --> 02:19:21,080
Speaker 4: much I'm worth, but for me.

3052
02:19:21,840 --> 02:19:25,480
Speaker 2: Uh, you you are you know you can't be valued.

3053
02:19:25,520 --> 02:19:27,920
Speaker 2: There's no number of price to put on you. You

3054
02:19:28,000 --> 02:19:31,680
Speaker 2: are worthless, okay, I mean priceless. I'm probably hold on.

3055
02:19:31,760 --> 02:19:34,600
Speaker 3: What's the difference? Oh lord? Oh no, I didn't allow

3056
02:19:34,640 --> 02:19:34,920
Speaker 3: to talk.

3057
02:19:36,000 --> 02:19:38,280
Speaker 4: You know, made you knownet made the problematic? Come out?

3058
02:19:38,280 --> 02:19:42,240
Speaker 4: Where's the notion? Somebody get this man some pumpkin spice

3059
02:19:42,320 --> 02:19:43,240
Speaker 4: lotion right now.

3060
02:19:43,440 --> 02:19:45,480
Speaker 2: It han't this is what you was afraid of. Now,

3061
02:19:45,520 --> 02:19:48,320
Speaker 2: stop talking, woman, it's time coming out. It's time for

3062
02:19:48,360 --> 02:19:51,039
Speaker 2: a man. Okay, brother, you're wrong, Okay, let me just

3063
02:19:51,040 --> 02:19:54,119
Speaker 2: start right here. Uh no, I'm sorry, go ahead.

3064
02:19:55,280 --> 02:19:56,599
Speaker 3: Trying to light attention.

3065
02:19:59,160 --> 02:20:03,400
Speaker 4: That's fa But no, no, no, Like I said, I completely understand.

3066
02:20:03,400 --> 02:20:05,199
Speaker 4: At least you were into acknowledge. A lot of people

3067
02:20:05,240 --> 02:20:08,000
Speaker 4: don't really acknowledge that they really feeling like that, and

3068
02:20:08,000 --> 02:20:09,240
Speaker 4: they're projecting, M.

3069
02:20:10,040 --> 02:20:12,320
Speaker 3: Make daddy of sand so you make daddy your sandwich.

3070
02:20:12,360 --> 02:20:15,200
Speaker 3: Daddy want a sandwich, I'm gonna make daddy sandwich. Not

3071
02:20:15,360 --> 02:20:16,199
Speaker 3: real talk, though.

3072
02:20:16,680 --> 02:20:20,840
Speaker 2: It's funny when we went to Seattle or Podcon and

3073
02:20:20,920 --> 02:20:23,680
Speaker 2: we was on panels with different podcasts and stuff, and

3074
02:20:23,680 --> 02:20:26,879
Speaker 2: one of them was on podcasting about tough topics or something,

3075
02:20:27,640 --> 02:20:31,240
Speaker 2: and it's so funny I was on that on that panel,

3076
02:20:31,280 --> 02:20:32,240
Speaker 2: I was the only dude.

3077
02:20:32,480 --> 02:20:33,520
Speaker 4: I believe it was.

3078
02:20:34,120 --> 02:20:36,800
Speaker 2: I think I was the only dude and so on

3079
02:20:36,920 --> 02:20:42,720
Speaker 2: that one Vie. What was funny was after we got

3080
02:20:42,760 --> 02:20:44,400
Speaker 2: done with the panel or whatever, you know, we had

3081
02:20:44,440 --> 02:20:47,440
Speaker 2: a great time or whatever, and then afterwards somebody I

3082
02:20:47,440 --> 02:20:50,840
Speaker 2: can't remember it, iden't remember, it's another podcaster, but they

3083
02:20:50,840 --> 02:20:54,520
Speaker 2: came over to me and was like, you know, what

3084
02:20:54,640 --> 02:20:59,280
Speaker 2: I noticed about you during the panel is that you

3085
02:20:59,320 --> 02:21:03,040
Speaker 2: weren't really taking over anybody and uh, you know, running

3086
02:21:03,080 --> 02:21:04,039
Speaker 2: over these women and stuff.

3087
02:21:04,040 --> 02:21:12,560
Speaker 3: And I was like, why would anyone both dudes do? Yeah?

3088
02:21:12,640 --> 02:21:15,560
Speaker 2: Men, have a completely different energy when talking normally, Like

3089
02:21:15,840 --> 02:21:18,320
Speaker 2: it's very like I'm gonna keep I'm talking the loudest,

3090
02:21:18,520 --> 02:21:20,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep talking as long as i can. Ain't

3091
02:21:20,600 --> 02:21:23,800
Speaker 2: about a conversation, Dad means I'm winning the conversation and

3092
02:21:23,800 --> 02:21:27,640
Speaker 2: you're losing the conversation. And when women are around, it

3093
02:21:27,680 --> 02:21:30,080
Speaker 2: is a very much like an allow you know. And

3094
02:21:30,120 --> 02:21:33,240
Speaker 2: I know she didn't mean that as an insult, but yet,

3095
02:21:33,360 --> 02:21:36,920
Speaker 2: but that that's probably the best word for a perfect example.

3096
02:21:36,959 --> 02:21:40,879
Speaker 2: When you watch those ESPN sports shows, it's always.

3097
02:21:40,520 --> 02:21:41,360
Speaker 3: Those like.

3098
02:21:44,480 --> 02:21:47,440
Speaker 2: Two it's two dudes and then like a woman facilitator

3099
02:21:47,560 --> 02:21:49,920
Speaker 2: who says, oh, what do you think about this?

3100
02:21:50,080 --> 02:21:52,560
Speaker 3: Max? And then Steven a what do you think?

3101
02:21:52,600 --> 02:21:55,000
Speaker 2: And then but for her, she don't get to say shit,

3102
02:21:55,720 --> 02:21:57,959
Speaker 2: Like they make a special allowance for her to have

3103
02:21:57,959 --> 02:22:01,240
Speaker 2: an opinion. Every once in a while, they'll even bring

3104
02:22:01,280 --> 02:22:03,360
Speaker 2: on other men other panelists to have it.

3105
02:22:03,440 --> 02:22:05,520
Speaker 3: But she don't get to have it. She not there

3106
02:22:05,520 --> 02:22:09,320
Speaker 3: for an opinion. She's there to facilitate from point to point.

3107
02:22:09,959 --> 02:22:14,119
Speaker 2: And so I do think that's alike, that's what happens

3108
02:22:14,120 --> 02:22:16,600
Speaker 2: when it feels like men are so the quote allowing

3109
02:22:16,640 --> 02:22:20,080
Speaker 2: women to have an opinion.

3110
02:22:20,040 --> 02:22:23,000
Speaker 4: Right, because like you saying, think about it, it was because

3111
02:22:23,080 --> 02:22:25,800
Speaker 4: one person will speak next person, like it literally went

3112
02:22:25,840 --> 02:22:28,360
Speaker 4: down the line, and if somebody did interrupt, it was,

3113
02:22:28,600 --> 02:22:30,200
Speaker 4: you know, you know what, I'll let you finish it,

3114
02:22:30,200 --> 02:22:31,640
Speaker 4: then I speak after you finish.

3115
02:22:31,760 --> 02:22:33,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, But and that panel was totally Then we were

3116
02:22:33,600 --> 02:22:35,960
Speaker 2: on a panel where it was almost all men and

3117
02:22:36,000 --> 02:22:38,200
Speaker 2: then Karen was like the only woman there.

3118
02:22:38,680 --> 02:22:41,160
Speaker 3: And so in that case, a lot of times if.

3119
02:22:41,040 --> 02:22:44,039
Speaker 2: I was speaking, what I do is because me and

3120
02:22:44,080 --> 02:22:46,599
Speaker 2: Karen do the show so much, I.

3121
02:22:46,480 --> 02:22:47,840
Speaker 3: Hand kind of like.

3122
02:22:49,480 --> 02:22:53,200
Speaker 2: Verbally hand the batond to Karen, which you u is

3123
02:22:53,320 --> 02:22:55,480
Speaker 2: kind of a trick we've learned over time where it's

3124
02:22:55,520 --> 02:22:56,960
Speaker 2: like I know Karen wants to get a point in

3125
02:22:57,480 --> 02:22:59,960
Speaker 2: and Karen is ultrapol like Karen will also do this

3126
02:23:00,080 --> 02:23:03,400
Speaker 2: thing where she is I don't know how, she's waiting

3127
02:23:03,440 --> 02:23:06,560
Speaker 2: for a beat to jump in like double dutch, and

3128
02:23:06,600 --> 02:23:07,480
Speaker 2: it's not how it works.

3129
02:23:07,600 --> 02:23:09,199
Speaker 3: You have to actually jump in, you can't.

3130
02:23:09,240 --> 02:23:10,360
Speaker 4: I've kind of learned that, but jam.

3131
02:23:10,560 --> 02:23:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like sometimes it happens on this show when we

3132
02:23:13,160 --> 02:23:17,360
Speaker 2: do interviews with guests and Karen's here, sometimes she's waiting

3133
02:23:17,360 --> 02:23:19,400
Speaker 2: for the perfect moment to ask a question as supposed

3134
02:23:19,400 --> 02:23:22,160
Speaker 2: to just jumping in and asking the question, and I'm

3135
02:23:22,160 --> 02:23:25,400
Speaker 2: like making eye contact, like clone, that's the question, you know,

3136
02:23:25,560 --> 02:23:27,560
Speaker 2: because I don't want to look like that's the other part.

3137
02:23:28,080 --> 02:23:30,119
Speaker 2: I don't want to look like I'm making her ask

3138
02:23:30,160 --> 02:23:32,080
Speaker 2: a question. If she doesn't, you know, maybe the person

3139
02:23:32,120 --> 02:23:34,840
Speaker 2: answered the question. Maybe she just making a face that

3140
02:23:34,920 --> 02:23:35,720
Speaker 2: she don't have a question.

3141
02:23:35,760 --> 02:23:36,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

3142
02:23:36,600 --> 02:23:38,520
Speaker 2: I'm not a mind reader, but I'm trying to be

3143
02:23:38,680 --> 02:23:41,520
Speaker 2: like here, like plea, you know this is your show

3144
02:23:41,560 --> 02:23:42,280
Speaker 2: to like get in.

3145
02:23:42,200 --> 02:23:44,879
Speaker 4: Here, because I am I'm following like the rhythm, and

3146
02:23:44,920 --> 02:23:47,080
Speaker 4: I'm like okay, but yeah, pretty soon I'm like, you

3147
02:23:47,120 --> 02:23:49,280
Speaker 4: know what, I'm just I'm just gonna rough shot the

3148
02:23:49,320 --> 02:23:50,000
Speaker 4: double dutch game.

3149
02:23:50,080 --> 02:23:53,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's better to jump in that way. Sometimes it's

3150
02:23:53,600 --> 02:23:56,160
Speaker 2: supposed to not have get a point, and to.

3151
02:23:56,120 --> 02:23:58,120
Speaker 4: An extent, for a lot of women, that's almost against

3152
02:23:58,120 --> 02:24:00,800
Speaker 4: your nature because men are taught that men aren't taught

3153
02:24:01,000 --> 02:24:03,920
Speaker 4: you'd be like fuck it, just dive in.

3154
02:24:04,280 --> 02:24:07,160
Speaker 2: Another thing Karen's been doing more lately I've noticed too,

3155
02:24:07,920 --> 02:24:10,880
Speaker 2: is like she'll cut me off to make a point sometimes,

3156
02:24:11,000 --> 02:24:12,400
Speaker 2: or cut me off in the middle of my point

3157
02:24:12,480 --> 02:24:16,840
Speaker 2: or whatever. I like that too, because to me no,

3158
02:24:17,040 --> 02:24:19,480
Speaker 2: But to me, it's better because I can get back

3159
02:24:19,480 --> 02:24:21,640
Speaker 2: to my point. Like every once in a while, I

3160
02:24:21,760 --> 02:24:24,279
Speaker 2: might lose it, but sometimes it's worth losing it because

3161
02:24:24,640 --> 02:24:27,640
Speaker 2: it's our it's our show. It's not my show, it's

3162
02:24:27,680 --> 02:24:30,400
Speaker 2: not the Rod Show. And carry takes to talk. Sometimes

3163
02:24:30,440 --> 02:24:33,840
Speaker 2: I'm already reading these articles. Sometimes in my own head,

3164
02:24:33,840 --> 02:24:35,760
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm talking too much. So it's good.

3165
02:24:35,800 --> 02:24:38,160
Speaker 2: I like that, you know, that's that's the energy and

3166
02:24:38,240 --> 02:24:38,920
Speaker 2: banch you need.

3167
02:24:39,040 --> 02:24:40,400
Speaker 3: Sometimes, Yeah, because I.

3168
02:24:40,480 --> 02:24:45,800
Speaker 4: And for me, I know that you could be just

3169
02:24:46,080 --> 02:24:48,120
Speaker 4: going and I want you to kind of, like you

3170
02:24:48,160 --> 02:24:49,640
Speaker 4: said the time and thing, I want to just kind

3171
02:24:49,640 --> 02:24:53,080
Speaker 4: of finish your thought. But sometimes you gotta be like,

3172
02:24:53,360 --> 02:24:54,880
Speaker 4: this is what I have to say. So I'm gonna

3173
02:24:54,879 --> 02:24:55,440
Speaker 4: say it right here.

3174
02:24:55,600 --> 02:24:58,440
Speaker 2: And the last thing I'll say is this, it's not

3175
02:24:59,440 --> 02:25:02,720
Speaker 2: about allowing Karen to have a different opinion or whatever.

3176
02:25:02,760 --> 02:25:05,760
Speaker 2: But I do understand and I take that. I'm not

3177
02:25:05,800 --> 02:25:08,080
Speaker 2: even saying that in the mean way because I have

3178
02:25:08,160 --> 02:25:11,360
Speaker 2: listened to podcasts where it felt like the dude allowed

3179
02:25:11,440 --> 02:25:16,560
Speaker 2: his wife to have even have a fucking opinion or partner, show, partner, girlfriend, whatever,

3180
02:25:16,800 --> 02:25:17,320
Speaker 2: co host.

3181
02:25:17,640 --> 02:25:19,160
Speaker 3: Well, hell, you know you can hear it.

3182
02:25:19,200 --> 02:25:20,800
Speaker 2: Where it's like if it's a man and a woman,

3183
02:25:22,040 --> 02:25:25,320
Speaker 2: fuck the breakfast club, It's like they're gonna let Angela

3184
02:25:25,400 --> 02:25:27,920
Speaker 2: ye say something or they just gonna mock her, even

3185
02:25:27,959 --> 02:25:30,080
Speaker 2: if she's the only one who researched the topic, like

3186
02:25:30,120 --> 02:25:32,480
Speaker 2: what's gonna happen? And after a while, it just becomes

3187
02:25:32,560 --> 02:25:35,120
Speaker 2: Angela Yee being in the room to be the woman

3188
02:25:35,160 --> 02:25:36,520
Speaker 2: in the room so they can be like, how can

3189
02:25:36,560 --> 02:25:37,680
Speaker 2: you say we was problematic?

3190
02:25:37,720 --> 02:25:41,280
Speaker 3: Angela was his? She didn't say shit right, So the

3191
02:25:41,400 --> 02:25:42,959
Speaker 3: thing I was gonna say, though, is.

3192
02:25:45,240 --> 02:25:49,240
Speaker 2: A lot of times I'm not looking to Karen to

3193
02:25:49,520 --> 02:25:53,640
Speaker 2: have a disagreement or to pick apart her point or

3194
02:25:53,680 --> 02:25:55,959
Speaker 2: to try to like dissect it into like this is

3195
02:25:55,959 --> 02:25:58,160
Speaker 2: what you're wrong, and this what I'm right. What I'm

3196
02:25:58,200 --> 02:26:01,520
Speaker 2: actually trying to do is and it just you know,

3197
02:26:01,680 --> 02:26:04,080
Speaker 2: years and years of being together and stuff and just

3198
02:26:04,120 --> 02:26:06,440
Speaker 2: the way my mind works, I'm trying to understand. So

3199
02:26:06,480 --> 02:26:09,160
Speaker 2: what y'all hear when I'm asking her questions, even if

3200
02:26:09,200 --> 02:26:12,240
Speaker 2: you hear her, get a little defensive, which happens to everybody.

3201
02:26:12,280 --> 02:26:14,640
Speaker 2: You get someone asks you a question, your first reflection

3202
02:26:14,760 --> 02:26:16,240
Speaker 2: like and what you wanted to do with this question?

3203
02:26:16,360 --> 02:26:16,560
Speaker 3: Right?

3204
02:26:17,120 --> 02:26:21,359
Speaker 2: But My goal is actually to understand, and if I understand,

3205
02:26:22,120 --> 02:26:23,200
Speaker 2: I'm good.

3206
02:26:23,440 --> 02:26:24,640
Speaker 3: I don't need to agree.

3207
02:26:24,720 --> 02:26:27,400
Speaker 2: I need to understand because if I can understand the logic,

3208
02:26:27,840 --> 02:26:30,000
Speaker 2: whether I agree or disagree, I see how you got

3209
02:26:30,000 --> 02:26:32,879
Speaker 2: to that point. And now you know, especially when you

3210
02:26:32,959 --> 02:26:36,360
Speaker 2: respect for man's opinion, it's like, oh, okay, this is

3211
02:26:36,360 --> 02:26:40,720
Speaker 2: another path of thinking about this. I didn't know that

3212
02:26:40,760 --> 02:26:43,000
Speaker 2: there was another way of thinking. I didn't realize this

3213
02:26:43,080 --> 02:26:45,280
Speaker 2: is what you were saying. So I'm just trying to

3214
02:26:45,360 --> 02:26:47,520
Speaker 2: understand as opposed to be like nigga, you're wrong, brother,

3215
02:26:47,520 --> 02:26:47,920
Speaker 2: you're wrong.

3216
02:26:48,080 --> 02:26:49,560
Speaker 3: You know a's opposed to brother, you're wrong.

3217
02:26:49,959 --> 02:26:51,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, And I think a lot of people come from

3218
02:26:51,720 --> 02:26:55,960
Speaker 4: that perspective. And for me, even if I get defensive

3219
02:26:56,000 --> 02:26:58,880
Speaker 4: a lot of times, I'm gonna say it because just

3220
02:26:58,920 --> 02:27:02,080
Speaker 4: the way your mind takes everybody's guilty this, you'll say things,

3221
02:27:02,320 --> 02:27:06,959
Speaker 4: but sometimes you have it critically thought the whole process through.

3222
02:27:07,320 --> 02:27:09,040
Speaker 4: And when you kind of have to think the whole

3223
02:27:09,040 --> 02:27:11,600
Speaker 4: process through, sometimes it's challenging because it causes you to

3224
02:27:11,640 --> 02:27:14,920
Speaker 4: actually analyze it, like really look at it and be like,

3225
02:27:15,080 --> 02:27:17,440
Speaker 4: why do I feel like this? Why am I saying this?

3226
02:27:17,560 --> 02:27:18,600
Speaker 4: Why am I responding this?

3227
02:27:18,640 --> 02:27:18,879
Speaker 3: Way.

3228
02:27:19,160 --> 02:27:21,320
Speaker 4: A prime example of that is when we talked about

3229
02:27:21,320 --> 02:27:25,120
Speaker 4: the period parties years ago and Roger Bell like, sure,

3230
02:27:25,120 --> 02:27:27,120
Speaker 4: what should have it? And I was like, the fuck that.

3231
02:27:28,160 --> 02:27:31,560
Speaker 4: And the more and more we talked about it, I

3232
02:27:31,600 --> 02:27:37,480
Speaker 4: had came to the conclusion, Oh, Karen, because of your personal, horrible,

3233
02:27:37,879 --> 02:27:41,680
Speaker 4: terrible experience as a child, you are projecting this in

3234
02:27:41,680 --> 02:27:45,000
Speaker 4: this situation when this situation has absolut the positivety nothing

3235
02:27:45,000 --> 02:27:48,160
Speaker 4: to do with you, And it's about being positive about

3236
02:27:48,440 --> 02:27:52,560
Speaker 4: a young woman going in going into womanhood. You know,

3237
02:27:53,600 --> 02:27:56,840
Speaker 4: come on now, let's lose those skills. But it took

3238
02:27:56,959 --> 02:27:59,120
Speaker 4: us going back and forth for me to realize that

3239
02:27:59,160 --> 02:28:01,800
Speaker 4: because I just knew that. I was just like, no,

3240
02:28:01,959 --> 02:28:03,600
Speaker 4: fuck that shit, I'm out. Yeah.

3241
02:28:03,600 --> 02:28:07,000
Speaker 2: And I'm also like my thing is to examine, Like,

3242
02:28:07,120 --> 02:28:08,600
Speaker 2: so then why are you shutting down?

3243
02:28:08,879 --> 02:28:10,040
Speaker 3: Why why is it? Fuck this?

3244
02:28:10,200 --> 02:28:13,600
Speaker 2: Why not consider it? Because maybe I will? Which is

3245
02:28:13,600 --> 02:28:16,000
Speaker 2: happening all the time too. Sometimes I'm asking you these

3246
02:28:16,080 --> 02:28:17,720
Speaker 2: questions and I'm like, oh, I see what you're saying,

3247
02:28:17,720 --> 02:28:19,200
Speaker 2: and yeah, yeah, fuck what I just said.

3248
02:28:19,240 --> 02:28:22,120
Speaker 3: That's right. I do with that, like you know, I

3249
02:28:22,160 --> 02:28:23,120
Speaker 3: do it with Justin TiO.

3250
02:28:23,120 --> 02:28:25,160
Speaker 2: If you listen to ballsy sports like it's not just

3251
02:28:25,520 --> 02:28:28,480
Speaker 2: only a thing I do with Karen, but my thing

3252
02:28:28,520 --> 02:28:30,880
Speaker 2: with most of the times men talking to women, there's

3253
02:28:31,040 --> 02:28:34,520
Speaker 2: very much I'm dictating your opinion in you, and if

3254
02:28:34,560 --> 02:28:37,440
Speaker 2: you say anything I disagree with, I'm going to mock you,

3255
02:28:37,480 --> 02:28:41,199
Speaker 2: call you stupid, silly, uh, you know, and.

3256
02:28:41,360 --> 02:28:43,760
Speaker 3: Just completely you know, oh you're you're crazy or whatever.

3257
02:28:43,879 --> 02:28:47,040
Speaker 2: And now you've now turned the show and it's just

3258
02:28:47,240 --> 02:28:48,840
Speaker 2: like and I hear it all the time.

3259
02:28:48,879 --> 02:28:51,600
Speaker 3: It's just like you versus.

3260
02:28:51,080 --> 02:28:54,360
Speaker 2: Her, and I hate that energy and I and also

3261
02:28:54,440 --> 02:28:56,879
Speaker 2: the other thing, man, I'm sorry that that's been your

3262
02:28:56,879 --> 02:29:01,080
Speaker 2: experience with men, agree and I but I and I

3263
02:29:01,120 --> 02:29:02,840
Speaker 2: believe it, by the way, and I don't think it

3264
02:29:02,879 --> 02:29:04,640
Speaker 2: and I don't think your experience with men is like

3265
02:29:04,680 --> 02:29:07,959
Speaker 2: an isolated one that oh, no woman's going through this.

3266
02:29:08,040 --> 02:29:10,080
Speaker 2: But you know, I think most of my friends that

3267
02:29:10,120 --> 02:29:13,320
Speaker 2: are women that I talk to have that experience with

3268
02:29:13,680 --> 02:29:16,800
Speaker 2: Like a lot of people think I'm quote unquote special

3269
02:29:16,920 --> 02:29:20,920
Speaker 2: for doing for treating them the way I would treat anyone.

3270
02:29:20,920 --> 02:29:23,360
Speaker 2: I respect it, right, But there's a lot of women

3271
02:29:23,360 --> 02:29:25,600
Speaker 2: that think I'm like, oh, you know, you're just different

3272
02:29:25,640 --> 02:29:28,959
Speaker 2: than these other dudes. I'm like, yeah, I mean, look

3273
02:29:29,120 --> 02:29:31,000
Speaker 2: I'll sum it up this way before you move on

3274
02:29:31,120 --> 02:29:33,640
Speaker 2: for you, cause it's the last email. Put it this way.

3275
02:29:34,920 --> 02:29:37,480
Speaker 2: The other day, I went to the store I was

3276
02:29:37,760 --> 02:29:40,400
Speaker 2: getting I was getting stuff with the fish stew and

3277
02:29:40,440 --> 02:29:41,440
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, you know what that was.

3278
02:29:41,480 --> 02:29:43,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get some flowers.

3279
02:29:43,400 --> 02:29:45,840
Speaker 2: To put in the house for caring, just to you know,

3280
02:29:45,959 --> 02:29:48,000
Speaker 2: put them in a vase, send them out somewhere. Let

3281
02:29:48,000 --> 02:29:51,320
Speaker 2: her know, like, hey, love you, think about you, and

3282
02:29:51,360 --> 02:29:53,440
Speaker 2: you know something beautiful for you when you get home.

3283
02:29:53,520 --> 02:29:57,520
Speaker 3: Right. Every time I do this, when I'm shopping alone

3284
02:29:57,600 --> 02:29:57,879
Speaker 3: and I.

3285
02:29:57,840 --> 02:30:00,959
Speaker 2: Get some flowers and I go to check back out,

3286
02:30:01,320 --> 02:30:04,840
Speaker 2: the person is always looking like, so what you do wrong?

3287
02:30:06,040 --> 02:30:06,920
Speaker 3: So what happened?

3288
02:30:08,040 --> 02:30:12,360
Speaker 2: And I'm like, the brand of men is it's so

3289
02:30:12,600 --> 02:30:15,560
Speaker 2: bad the stocks at the stocks at a low.

3290
02:30:15,800 --> 02:30:17,720
Speaker 4: You're only doing this because you fucked up.

3291
02:30:17,720 --> 02:30:18,680
Speaker 3: The stocks at a low.

3292
02:30:18,760 --> 02:30:22,240
Speaker 2: Okay, Like like I'm sure when women buy like night,

3293
02:30:22,320 --> 02:30:25,000
Speaker 2: like if you buy some cologne or something, they no

3294
02:30:25,040 --> 02:30:26,000
Speaker 2: one goes so.

3295
02:30:25,920 --> 02:30:27,760
Speaker 3: What you do, like what you do to them? Like

3296
02:30:27,800 --> 02:30:29,960
Speaker 3: what you what you done? Fucked up?

3297
02:30:30,040 --> 02:30:30,360
Speaker 4: Huh?

3298
02:30:30,440 --> 02:30:32,760
Speaker 3: Like no one says that you don't fucked up? Look

3299
02:30:33,040 --> 02:30:35,600
Speaker 3: so he didn't catch you cheating? Huh? Damn, get on

3300
02:30:35,680 --> 02:30:36,240
Speaker 3: some cologne.

3301
02:30:36,680 --> 02:30:38,920
Speaker 2: Oh you buy some tie or you want some ties

3302
02:30:38,959 --> 02:30:42,480
Speaker 2: to Oh, well, you're sucking his brother, like no one

3303
02:30:42,560 --> 02:30:47,480
Speaker 2: does that. That's just how bad. Yeah, that's the status

3304
02:30:47,560 --> 02:30:50,480
Speaker 2: quo for men. It's all fucked up. So anyway, man,

3305
02:30:51,120 --> 02:30:51,640
Speaker 2: thank you.

3306
02:30:51,560 --> 02:30:54,240
Speaker 3: For writing then, And uh, you know, I don't I'm

3307
02:30:54,280 --> 02:30:55,760
Speaker 3: not a soldia buy but I can't.

3308
02:30:56,400 --> 02:30:59,679
Speaker 2: Okay, no, no, no, no, baby, And I understand.

3309
02:30:59,240 --> 02:31:03,119
Speaker 3: The politically correct language. Was it what I got with you? Man?

3310
02:31:03,200 --> 02:31:05,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the same. Yeah, because a lot of people,

3311
02:31:05,200 --> 02:31:07,480
Speaker 4: a lot of men do feel like they're owning you,

3312
02:31:07,520 --> 02:31:09,640
Speaker 4: and that's that allowed stuff. That's why at first I

3313
02:31:09,680 --> 02:31:12,760
Speaker 4: started off with you know that that you know, that

3314
02:31:12,920 --> 02:31:15,920
Speaker 4: ownership type of thing. But Roger knows he doesn't own me.

3315
02:31:15,959 --> 02:31:17,760
Speaker 4: But a lot of men feel like their women are.

3316
02:31:17,840 --> 02:31:19,600
Speaker 4: They truly feel like they're women are property. Baby, So

3317
02:31:19,600 --> 02:31:21,720
Speaker 4: I completely understand what you said by that.

3318
02:31:21,879 --> 02:31:27,240
Speaker 2: And you look, you see like reality shows, podcast radio

3319
02:31:28,440 --> 02:31:31,240
Speaker 2: black women dealing with a lot. Yeah, like niggas were

3320
02:31:31,280 --> 02:31:34,359
Speaker 2: talking any kind of way to black women and expecting

3321
02:31:34,400 --> 02:31:36,360
Speaker 2: them to stay there and take it and to fucking

3322
02:31:37,440 --> 02:31:39,080
Speaker 2: support them, yep.

3323
02:31:39,480 --> 02:31:42,840
Speaker 4: Right, and when they don't, it becomes a goddamn problem

3324
02:31:42,840 --> 02:31:46,120
Speaker 4: when you I have had enough of you, black ass nigga.

3325
02:31:46,240 --> 02:31:49,680
Speaker 4: They act like something right, you write, something wrong with

3326
02:31:49,760 --> 02:31:51,640
Speaker 4: you for not no longer wanting to deal with the

3327
02:31:51,680 --> 02:31:54,200
Speaker 4: ABUSI and shit like that, Like I know it sounds strange,

3328
02:31:54,280 --> 02:31:57,240
Speaker 4: but it's not strange for me. But you know, I

3329
02:31:57,320 --> 02:31:59,760
Speaker 4: understand what she said aloud because I had to deal

3330
02:31:59,800 --> 02:32:02,440
Speaker 4: with that. Would like my hair because I don't care

3331
02:32:02,440 --> 02:32:04,959
Speaker 4: about hair. If it grows, I'm fine. And I've always

3332
02:32:04,959 --> 02:32:08,039
Speaker 4: been like this, even before I went natural. And Roger

3333
02:32:08,120 --> 02:32:12,120
Speaker 4: has been with me through sewings, we pony tail jet

3334
02:32:12,240 --> 02:32:16,800
Speaker 4: like like he has been through all my natural hair journeys.

3335
02:32:16,840 --> 02:32:21,440
Speaker 4: Just hair, And so Roger like, do you like it? Yes, okay,

3336
02:32:21,480 --> 02:32:24,240
Speaker 4: I'm cool. You won't get your hair bleached blonde? You

3337
02:32:24,400 --> 02:32:26,800
Speaker 4: like it? Yes, okay, I'm cool. And so when I

3338
02:32:26,840 --> 02:32:28,879
Speaker 4: would do things I cut my hair up, bleach my

3339
02:32:28,920 --> 02:32:31,039
Speaker 4: hair and shit like that, people will actually come and

3340
02:32:31,080 --> 02:32:33,640
Speaker 4: be like your husband, okay with this. Oh I looked

3341
02:32:33,640 --> 02:32:35,480
Speaker 4: at and they thought I was strange, but like, bit

3342
02:32:35,560 --> 02:32:37,160
Speaker 4: y'all get a fuck what he thinks.

3343
02:32:37,400 --> 02:32:37,680
Speaker 3: You know?

3344
02:32:37,840 --> 02:32:41,880
Speaker 4: Like, and I would get offended today that your opinion

3345
02:32:42,000 --> 02:32:44,720
Speaker 4: mattered on my goddamn hell I was, what the fuck

3346
02:32:44,840 --> 02:32:45,120
Speaker 4: is this?

3347
02:32:45,440 --> 02:32:45,680
Speaker 3: You know?

3348
02:32:45,920 --> 02:32:49,920
Speaker 4: And then I learned, Oh, so many women wish they

3349
02:32:49,959 --> 02:32:52,680
Speaker 4: could cut their hair or color their hair or do

3350
02:32:52,760 --> 02:32:56,000
Speaker 4: all these different things, but their husband is like, no,

3351
02:32:56,080 --> 02:32:57,840
Speaker 4: I like your hair long, and no, I like your

3352
02:32:57,840 --> 02:33:00,360
Speaker 4: hair like this. You know which which is? And if

3353
02:33:00,360 --> 02:33:02,560
Speaker 4: some women do that because they want to please their man,

3354
02:33:02,560 --> 02:33:04,440
Speaker 4: and I'm not saying you can't, but let.

3355
02:33:04,320 --> 02:33:05,080
Speaker 3: It truly be.

3356
02:33:05,800 --> 02:33:08,240
Speaker 4: I do this because this is who I am and

3357
02:33:08,280 --> 02:33:12,440
Speaker 4: how I feel, not because you know, it's an opinion

3358
02:33:12,520 --> 02:33:14,600
Speaker 4: of a man. Like my pussy not broke. So what

3359
02:33:14,600 --> 02:33:17,400
Speaker 4: the fuck the problem is? You know, Like I hate

3360
02:33:17,400 --> 02:33:18,920
Speaker 4: to be like that. At the end of the day,

3361
02:33:19,480 --> 02:33:22,760
Speaker 4: it's still functioning. So I don't care if my hair

3362
02:33:22,840 --> 02:33:26,360
Speaker 4: is blonde, bleached brown, I gotta weave or anything like that.

3363
02:33:26,959 --> 02:33:29,520
Speaker 4: Nobody gives a fuck. They just trying to control you.

3364
02:33:29,560 --> 02:33:30,720
Speaker 4: And it doesn't make sense to me.

3365
02:33:31,320 --> 02:33:32,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I don't.

3366
02:33:32,640 --> 02:33:35,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, whatever kind of deal you get into your signature

3367
02:33:35,920 --> 02:33:39,000
Speaker 2: other I'm not trying to knock it because I you know,

3368
02:33:39,120 --> 02:33:40,720
Speaker 2: like someone said in chat, there's people that are like

3369
02:33:40,760 --> 02:33:42,400
Speaker 2: that with their man's facial hair and stuff.

3370
02:33:42,840 --> 02:33:45,080
Speaker 3: The thing for me is when it comes with that power.

3371
02:33:44,959 --> 02:33:49,440
Speaker 2: Dynamic of I am with you, so I am the

3372
02:33:49,440 --> 02:33:53,840
Speaker 2: one your body is like beholden to, so I make

3373
02:33:53,879 --> 02:33:56,880
Speaker 2: the decisions for your body. Is that's where it gets weird.

3374
02:33:56,959 --> 02:34:00,160
Speaker 2: And hair is definitely one of those ones for lot

3375
02:34:00,160 --> 02:34:03,879
Speaker 2: of women. And you know, I still remember being like,

3376
02:34:03,879 --> 02:34:05,920
Speaker 2: like a few years ago, I was like, you know,

3377
02:34:06,000 --> 02:34:08,879
Speaker 2: if you want to go natural, because like Karen was

3378
02:34:09,040 --> 02:34:12,680
Speaker 2: like struggling with just health hair stuff, like just like

3379
02:34:12,959 --> 02:34:17,440
Speaker 2: you know, like it's breaking, it's breakage or you know,

3380
02:34:17,959 --> 02:34:19,480
Speaker 2: stuff like that. And I was like, you know, if

3381
02:34:19,520 --> 02:34:21,920
Speaker 2: you want to go natural, like I don't. You can

3382
02:34:21,920 --> 02:34:23,720
Speaker 2: cut your hair off. I don't give a fuck. I'm

3383
02:34:23,720 --> 02:34:26,480
Speaker 2: gonna be with you. Fine, I'm gonna be happy to

3384
02:34:26,480 --> 02:34:29,080
Speaker 2: be here no matter what. And uh, you know, I

3385
02:34:29,120 --> 02:34:33,080
Speaker 2: think your hair's done wonders since going natural anyway.

3386
02:34:32,959 --> 02:34:35,920
Speaker 4: To literally y'all, I'm not gonna lie. It's literally the

3387
02:34:36,000 --> 02:34:40,160
Speaker 4: longest it has ever been. It's been a h edges

3388
02:34:40,760 --> 02:34:43,560
Speaker 4: what my honey. My edges grew back for Beyonce to yank,

3389
02:34:43,640 --> 02:34:46,720
Speaker 4: But they grew back. They grew back. They break, and

3390
02:34:46,760 --> 02:34:48,760
Speaker 4: you know they were breaking real bad, you know, But

3391
02:34:48,920 --> 02:34:51,200
Speaker 4: I am so glad my hair is stuff. I can

3392
02:34:51,240 --> 02:34:52,959
Speaker 4: speak for me you know, I don't care if you

3393
02:34:53,000 --> 02:34:56,480
Speaker 4: do natural or not. But for me, my hair started thickening,

3394
02:34:56,879 --> 02:35:00,040
Speaker 4: my edges grew back because I used to have I

3395
02:35:00,040 --> 02:35:02,040
Speaker 4: don't know what they called it, where your hair would

3396
02:35:02,040 --> 02:35:04,040
Speaker 4: get to a certain point and then it would literally

3397
02:35:04,040 --> 02:35:07,280
Speaker 4: just stop growing, like like a growth point. And once

3398
02:35:07,280 --> 02:35:08,920
Speaker 4: it got to that point, no matter what I did,

3399
02:35:08,959 --> 02:35:11,280
Speaker 4: it wouldn't grow past that point. Anything passing up from

3400
02:35:11,320 --> 02:35:13,800
Speaker 4: a constantly break. But now I don't have that, like

3401
02:35:15,240 --> 02:35:17,240
Speaker 4: most of the most of my immediate family members, like

3402
02:35:17,240 --> 02:35:20,200
Speaker 4: the younger generation, my generation, my younger cousins and us,

3403
02:35:20,600 --> 02:35:22,800
Speaker 4: most of us are natural. A lot of my older

3404
02:35:22,840 --> 02:35:25,680
Speaker 4: aunts and stuff, they're not. So I had to take

3405
02:35:25,720 --> 02:35:28,440
Speaker 4: my hair one day and I strung it out and

3406
02:35:28,440 --> 02:35:30,640
Speaker 4: it literally touches my shoulders. Now my mom's like, oh,

3407
02:35:30,640 --> 02:35:32,200
Speaker 4: you got hair. I said, yeah, Mama, I said, it's

3408
02:35:32,280 --> 02:35:36,400
Speaker 4: just drawn in and spongy, you know. My mama. She's like,

3409
02:35:36,640 --> 02:35:38,640
Speaker 4: I don't think I could ever go natural. I was like,

3410
02:35:39,320 --> 02:35:42,000
Speaker 4: you could, I say, but do it when you really

3411
02:35:42,040 --> 02:35:43,720
Speaker 4: want to it if you really want to. If not,

3412
02:35:43,879 --> 02:35:45,959
Speaker 4: keep getting relaxed, like I just keep it read with, like,

3413
02:35:46,040 --> 02:35:49,080
Speaker 4: just keep getting relaxed. It has to be something that

3414
02:35:49,400 --> 02:35:52,840
Speaker 4: you actually want to do. And I think also for

3415
02:35:53,000 --> 02:35:57,200
Speaker 4: me when it comes to that that controlling ownership thing,

3416
02:35:57,480 --> 02:35:59,040
Speaker 4: like I said, do whatever black right, I said, do

3417
02:35:59,120 --> 02:36:01,480
Speaker 4: whatever works best for your marriage. If that's what you

3418
02:36:01,520 --> 02:36:04,200
Speaker 4: want to do as a woman, cool, But if it's not,

3419
02:36:04,360 --> 02:36:06,120
Speaker 4: and you actually won't want want to get a sult

3420
02:36:06,160 --> 02:36:08,760
Speaker 4: piple bob, get a salt piple bob and keep it trucking.

3421
02:36:08,840 --> 02:36:10,959
Speaker 4: But you know, for some men, they lose their minds

3422
02:36:11,000 --> 02:36:12,480
Speaker 4: because they're be like, oh my gosh, you got your

3423
02:36:12,480 --> 02:36:12,920
Speaker 4: hair gut.

3424
02:36:13,200 --> 02:36:15,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, only you know your man and what y'all agree to.

3425
02:36:15,400 --> 02:36:16,640
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna tell you y'all what to do.

3426
02:36:16,720 --> 02:36:17,840
Speaker 3: But you know, just.

3427
02:36:17,760 --> 02:36:20,720
Speaker 4: Saying I didn't put like this, I'm not really funny.

3428
02:36:20,760 --> 02:36:22,680
Speaker 4: I didn't realize I was allowed to have so much

3429
02:36:22,720 --> 02:36:24,720
Speaker 4: freedom in my marriage compared to other people.

3430
02:36:24,959 --> 02:36:27,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that whole allowance thing is just you know, hopefully

3431
02:36:27,879 --> 02:36:30,760
Speaker 2: you find somebody that you know, unless that's your thing.

3432
02:36:30,920 --> 02:36:32,920
Speaker 3: Like I said, I don't want to not get there's some.

3433
02:36:32,800 --> 02:36:36,720
Speaker 2: People that really get off on the ownership quote unquote

3434
02:36:36,760 --> 02:36:39,320
Speaker 2: of marriage. There are some people that like that's actually

3435
02:36:39,400 --> 02:36:42,800
Speaker 2: the draw to them. I'm not one of those people

3436
02:36:42,879 --> 02:36:46,800
Speaker 2: in that kind of way. But you know, there's some

3437
02:36:46,840 --> 02:36:49,039
Speaker 2: people that they like that shit, you know. And as

3438
02:36:49,040 --> 02:36:52,160
Speaker 2: far as our show and what we do all here,

3439
02:36:52,280 --> 02:36:54,560
Speaker 2: and y'all hear these insights into our relationship, y'all hear

3440
02:36:54,600 --> 02:36:57,720
Speaker 2: how we talk to each other and communicate. That's just

3441
02:36:57,760 --> 02:37:00,080
Speaker 2: what we do on or off the mic, and so

3442
02:37:00,280 --> 02:37:03,600
Speaker 2: you know the way that we talk, you know, about

3443
02:37:03,680 --> 02:37:09,600
Speaker 2: any topic, you know, caring disagreeing about her rating for

3444
02:37:09,680 --> 02:37:14,080
Speaker 2: the chicken chicken voting thing, Hey, that's her opinion. It's

3445
02:37:14,080 --> 02:37:16,160
Speaker 2: as valid as if anyone else walked in this room

3446
02:37:16,160 --> 02:37:19,280
Speaker 2: and gave their opinion. She is not like she's disrespectful

3447
02:37:19,440 --> 02:37:22,360
Speaker 2: to me or I'm disrespecting her, So you know, but

3448
02:37:22,400 --> 02:37:25,200
Speaker 2: I'm glad that people hear our relationship and find it

3449
02:37:25,240 --> 02:37:28,840
Speaker 2: to be healthy and then mirror it or want that

3450
02:37:28,879 --> 02:37:32,880
Speaker 2: in their own lives, life or whatever. And hopefully, man,

3451
02:37:33,000 --> 02:37:37,480
Speaker 2: I really do hope you meet some other men, whether whatever.

3452
02:37:37,760 --> 02:37:40,560
Speaker 2: Now I'm not even just saying like romantically whatever, just

3453
02:37:40,640 --> 02:37:42,760
Speaker 2: men in general in your life that had that kind

3454
02:37:42,800 --> 02:37:45,560
Speaker 2: of respect for you in general, because everybody deserves that

3455
02:37:45,640 --> 02:37:49,000
Speaker 2: level of respect. Right, you know, this idea we have

3456
02:37:49,080 --> 02:37:52,119
Speaker 2: to agree or whatever is bullshit anyway, just you supposed

3457
02:37:52,120 --> 02:37:53,720
Speaker 2: to disagree on some shit and that's all right.

3458
02:37:53,959 --> 02:37:56,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's funny because of the dynamic of the

3459
02:37:57,040 --> 02:38:00,520
Speaker 4: men and women type of relationship. You know, it's more

3460
02:38:00,600 --> 02:38:03,880
Speaker 4: of everybody looks at you and if you quote unquote

3461
02:38:03,879 --> 02:38:06,800
Speaker 4: disagree with me, but sometimes I disagree with you, and

3462
02:38:06,840 --> 02:38:08,880
Speaker 4: I can change your mind. Also, I remember a particular

3463
02:38:08,920 --> 02:38:10,920
Speaker 4: incident We'll think. We was doing bottles deep so real

3464
02:38:10,920 --> 02:38:13,280
Speaker 4: may regular your menu and Justin and we was talking

3465
02:38:13,320 --> 02:38:16,480
Speaker 4: about people getting assistance and them being able to, like

3466
02:38:16,720 --> 02:38:18,200
Speaker 4: I want to say, spend their money on like a

3467
02:38:18,240 --> 02:38:20,879
Speaker 4: lottery tickets or something like that. This was years ago,

3468
02:38:21,400 --> 02:38:24,200
Speaker 4: and I was adamantly against y'all because I was like,

3469
02:38:24,200 --> 02:38:25,560
Speaker 4: they should be able to spend their money or whatever

3470
02:38:25,560 --> 02:38:27,720
Speaker 4: the fun they want to spend their money on. And

3471
02:38:27,920 --> 02:38:30,440
Speaker 4: we talked for a while and after after you kind

3472
02:38:30,440 --> 02:38:32,920
Speaker 4: of kind of plucked at me long enough, You're like

3473
02:38:33,320 --> 02:38:35,280
Speaker 4: that makes sense, And you was like.

3474
02:38:35,280 --> 02:38:38,119
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because I'm asking to understand.

3475
02:38:38,120 --> 02:38:41,600
Speaker 2: I'm not asking to be like, no, nigga, you brother,

3476
02:38:41,640 --> 02:38:44,480
Speaker 2: you're wrong, Like whether you're wrong now, brother, let me

3477
02:38:44,520 --> 02:38:45,200
Speaker 2: stop you right there.

3478
02:38:45,240 --> 02:38:45,640
Speaker 3: You're wrong.

3479
02:38:45,680 --> 02:38:46,800
Speaker 4: Don't let me stop you right there.

3480
02:38:46,800 --> 02:38:47,039
Speaker 3: Brother.

3481
02:38:47,120 --> 02:38:48,080
Speaker 4: You know you're wrong too.

3482
02:38:48,120 --> 02:38:50,280
Speaker 3: Now you see you're wrong because I ain't a brother.

3483
02:38:51,000 --> 02:38:54,800
Speaker 2: Uh but no, I uh, I'm really asking because I

3484
02:38:54,840 --> 02:38:57,520
Speaker 2: want to know. And then yeah, sometimes you say stuff

3485
02:38:57,520 --> 02:39:00,000
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, oh, yeah, yeah I was told

3486
02:39:00,200 --> 02:39:02,520
Speaker 2: wrong about that. That happens with Justin too, as silly

3487
02:39:02,560 --> 02:39:05,440
Speaker 2: as Justin is, right, spend times where I'm just like what.

3488
02:39:05,440 --> 02:39:08,600
Speaker 3: The fuck, like like, are you joking? Are you for real?

3489
02:39:08,640 --> 02:39:10,600
Speaker 2: And I'm asking questions I find and he's like, no,

3490
02:39:10,680 --> 02:39:12,560
Speaker 2: I'm serious because of this, this and this, and I'm like,

3491
02:39:13,240 --> 02:39:15,280
Speaker 2: oh shit, yeah, I was not even thinking of it

3492
02:39:15,320 --> 02:39:15,640
Speaker 2: that way.

3493
02:39:15,720 --> 02:39:18,240
Speaker 3: So anyway, man, hopefully y'all bring that kind.

3494
02:39:18,080 --> 02:39:20,760
Speaker 2: Of energy into everything y'all do, and y'all had the

3495
02:39:20,800 --> 02:39:21,880
Speaker 2: same experiences in life.

3496
02:39:22,080 --> 02:39:23,160
Speaker 3: We'll be back tomorrow.

3497
02:39:23,240 --> 02:39:25,920
Speaker 2: This is a very long feedback show. We talked about

3498
02:39:25,920 --> 02:39:28,240
Speaker 2: a lot of tangents, so some of y'all would like it.

3499
02:39:28,320 --> 02:39:30,120
Speaker 2: Most of y'all will skipp it. Talk to y'all daily

3500
02:39:30,760 --> 02:39:31,280
Speaker 2: until then.

3501
02:39:31,360 --> 02:39:31,800
Speaker 3: I love you.

3502
02:39:31,879 --> 02:39:32,440
Speaker 4: I love you too.

3503
02:39:32,680 --> 02:39:33,200
Speaker 3: Yeah,