Speaker 1: From Hollywood.
Speaker 2: See you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 3: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 2: We come with things that we've got planned, and then
Speaker 2: every now and then we're sort of putting a pin
Speaker 2: in those things to handle whatever happens in the moment.
Speaker 2: This is right now Claire reaching out to us and
Speaker 2: basically saying hey hi, hikay hi and saying hey hi,
Speaker 2: I basically, are you bombed at your maid of honor speech?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I feel terrible.
Speaker 6: My maid of honor speech bombed. The wedding was this
Speaker 6: past weekend, and she's my best friend from college and
Speaker 6: we're super close and it was such a perfect wedding.
Speaker 6: But I just bombed. I don't know what to say.
Speaker 6: I made a joke about her being an ugly kid,
Speaker 6: which is like a running joke.
Speaker 5: Between us, but no one laughed.
Speaker 6: Well really, yeah one of them.
Speaker 2: Yeah those. First of all, I'm sorry it went that well.
Speaker 2: I mean, there's two schools of thought here. One is
Speaker 2: you're close enough to that person to have fun with
Speaker 2: every component of that person, Like, for example, It'sistney Tanya.
Speaker 2: We work together every day. We don't really get offended
Speaker 2: by anything that we say to each other. It was
Speaker 2: the same with me and Kelly RiPP but we didn't
Speaker 2: have any because we were close. We could, you know,
Speaker 2: as they say, whind each other up or have some fun.
Speaker 2: But in this situation, it's almost like, because you're front
Speaker 2: and center, because you're the maid of honor, you want
Speaker 2: to limit the risks in that category that you take.
Speaker 2: And it sounds like you went for it. And there's
Speaker 2: nothing worse than that feeling. We've all been there of crickets.
Speaker 5: I just feel like, I'm so scared if I ruined
Speaker 5: her wedding.
Speaker 6: And I know like I'm not the center of attention.
Speaker 5: But I just it went on too long. It was
Speaker 5: just bad.
Speaker 6: And they're leaving for their honeymoon tomorrow and she's not
Speaker 6: answering any of my calls or my text.
Speaker 3: You have to make it up to her about how
Speaker 3: the rest of the wedding go, like did you guys
Speaker 3: have fun afterwards?
Speaker 1: Was there dancing and all that stuff?
Speaker 5: She just avoided me all night after that speech, and
Speaker 5: I need to help.
Speaker 2: It's in your head, Claire, maybe a little this is
Speaker 2: in your head, like she didn't avoid you. She's getting married,
Speaker 2: she's celebrating, she's off to her honeymoon, she's not If
Speaker 2: I get married, I'm not responding to tany and siciny
Speaker 2: the day after.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I am all night the wedding night, she didn't
Speaker 5: talk to me all night, like she's my best friend.
Speaker 7: She's mad. You have to make it up to her.
Speaker 2: But it's also a narrative you could be creating because
Speaker 2: you feel bad about what you did.
Speaker 7: What are you doing right now?
Speaker 1: Make it up to her right now on the air.
Speaker 5: How can I make it up to her?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 5: What can I do?
Speaker 2: What's her name?
Speaker 6: Audrey?
Speaker 2: Audrey? What a beautiful name. What would you like to
Speaker 2: say about Audrey as if you were giving a speech?
Speaker 2: Make it quick though, remember short.
Speaker 5: Audrey have known me for so long, And whatever I say,
Speaker 5: please know that it's kind of stupid and it's not
Speaker 5: that serious.
Speaker 8: And I love you.
Speaker 2: Now. I'm gonna take this. We're gonna send it to you.
Speaker 2: You can send it to her wherever she is and
Speaker 2: have her listen to it in a PDF. Because your
Speaker 2: heart's in the right place. I think everybody can sense
Speaker 2: that a PDF.
Speaker 1: We will send you the audio clan f m P.
Speaker 2: Three whatever I can't. Yeah, well they will keep that
Speaker 2: as a difference.
Speaker 3: So they're gonna die because she's going on her honeymoon.
Speaker 3: That's to waste the money.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't don't do that. But your heart's in the
Speaker 2: right place. We've all been there and bombed in a speech.
Speaker 2: We know the feeling. And thank you for calling the
Speaker 2: tune up.
Speaker 1: I think this is cute that you called us.
Speaker 2: We'll send you an app. Okay, m P three app
Speaker 2: mark you know, an app and all boards, bulletin, all points, bulletin. Yeah,
Speaker 2: let me grab Dylan real fast here. Dylan has an
Speaker 2: issue at eight hundred five to one to two seven.
Speaker 2: Good morning, Dylan. How are you.
Speaker 9: I'm doing well, sir.
Speaker 2: How can we help you about your girl friend? What's
Speaker 2: the issue? All right?
Speaker 9: So me and my girlfriend moved in together, I want
Speaker 9: to say two years of dating, we finally moved in together, Okay,
Speaker 9: and she moved into my place with her dog, which
Speaker 9: I know she had a dog all the time. That
Speaker 9: wasn't a surprise to me, but I was always able
Speaker 9: to leave and I didn't want to deal with it.
Speaker 9: So when the dog recently got sick for some reason,
Speaker 9: because I'm not used to having a house where I
Speaker 9: need to keep everything clean, I leave stuff laying out.
Speaker 9: There was a pill laying out, and the dog took
Speaker 9: and ate the medication. So this takes us to a
Speaker 9: whole new store, running to the emergency room. She's fine,
Speaker 9: just letting you guys know. But it cost two thousand
Speaker 9: dollars to get her stomach pumped, and she expects me
Speaker 9: to pay for half of the bill. But it's her dog.
Speaker 9: That's the only thing that's bothering me. It says. It
Speaker 9: says it's our dogs. Now, that's what she keeps trying
Speaker 9: to tell me. But I've had nothing to do with this.
Speaker 9: We went out.
Speaker 2: Medicine was it?
Speaker 9: It was my medicine.
Speaker 1: Okay, why was it out?
Speaker 9: It was literally, I think, like an addol or something
Speaker 9: like that. I've left it sitting on the couch before
Speaker 9: I knew it. It turned around she was using it as
Speaker 9: a chew toy, the medicine bottle.
Speaker 2: I mean, look, it's a big bill. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 2: big bill. I do understand the our concept when you're
Speaker 2: with someone you care for a pet together. I get that.
Speaker 2: At the same time, you're still with her.
Speaker 9: Though, right, I am still with her. Yeah, But I'm
Speaker 9: just caught on spending so much money when I'm just
Speaker 9: getting used to moving in with her and her dog
Speaker 9: is Well, I'm not a terrible pet owner. It's just
Speaker 9: this caught me by surprise. This being this much cost
Speaker 9: them that much.
Speaker 2: Well, that is an expensive vet bill. My suggestion would
Speaker 2: be to have a real conversation about what the expectations
Speaker 2: and the relationship are in general. But it sounds like
Speaker 2: you know we haven't done that. I agree, Well, there's
Speaker 2: some things that need to be cleaned up. If you
Speaker 2: feel like this kind of thing is going to continue
Speaker 2: to happen, you need to be clear with how it's
Speaker 2: going to be handled. But I'm sure anybody would want
Speaker 2: to split that kind of a bill.
Speaker 9: Yeah, that really has brought me a lot of perspectives.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I haven't.
Speaker 9: Want done that on the bill. But at the end
Speaker 9: of the day, when it rains, it pours, or you
Speaker 9: saved money for a rainy day. Okay, that's exactly what
Speaker 9: I need right now.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, good luck having a conversation. But I
Speaker 2: think I have some real clear conversations about expectations in
Speaker 2: that relationship. Well, I get it, it's our pet. Let's
Speaker 2: share this. It's out of nowhere. It's something that provides
Speaker 2: us love and happiness makes sense.
Speaker 1: And he should just be willing to split it. It
Speaker 1: sounds like it was kind of his fault.
Speaker 2: He made a lot of faces. I didn't hear anything
Speaker 2: out of your mouth. You've had a lot of faces.
Speaker 7: Because I don't know what you said that was so
Speaker 7: that like really jolted him, but like you really gave
Speaker 7: him this like light bulb moment.
Speaker 2: That he knows to get out of the room quick
Speaker 2: while he doesn't even.
Speaker 1: Know what it was. Like, Bye, okay, good.
Speaker 2: Good bye, good one anytime. Okay, so get ready, tany
Speaker 2: you're gonna do your sixty second exercise. Hey Grace from
Speaker 2: Ralph's burbank. How are you hi?
Speaker 5: How are you doing great?
Speaker 2: It's Ryan Seacrest here.
Speaker 10: Hi.
Speaker 2: Hey, So Grace, do you call your story grocery store
Speaker 2: or a grocery store?
Speaker 10: It's a grocery store.
Speaker 2: So it's a grocery store.
Speaker 11: Yees, grocery store?
Speaker 2: Think not a grocer restore?
Speaker 7: No you heard her?
Speaker 10: No?
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, ye Grace?
Speaker 2: Is it Grace or Grace? I go? Uh okay, all right, well,
Speaker 2: thank you. It's a long story, but thank you for
Speaker 2: clearing it up. All right, Ralph says the deals.
Speaker 3: I honestly believe it is an east coast, west coast.
Speaker 3: It has to be because MICHAELA is from Rhode Island
Speaker 3: and you're from kind of east coasty east coast.
Speaker 2: George's on this.
Speaker 1: George's on the coast.
Speaker 2: It has ocean shoreline on these cases. You were there, you.
Speaker 1: Visited, Hello, Tanya.
Speaker 2: Okay, so, oh my gosh, we have to keep you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's not through hour fight first of all. Second the coast. No,
Speaker 2: all right, so here is your topic sixty seconds. You
Speaker 2: can't use filler words. That's the game. No no, uh no,
Speaker 2: like we all did it. Your turn before we go,
Speaker 2: and then the weekend can start for us.
Speaker 1: You can do this.
Speaker 7: I'm gonna pee my pants. Can you just give me
Speaker 7: the word?
Speaker 1: Tanya?
Speaker 2: Weddings go.
Speaker 7: Weddings are so much fun. I love weddings. My name
Speaker 7: is Tanya, and I love weddings. I've been too many
Speaker 7: of them. I hope to have one someday soon. They
Speaker 7: are on my vision board. They've been on my vision
Speaker 7: board actually for my twenty twenty three vision board. There's
Speaker 7: a lot of wedding inspo. I have some butterflies and
Speaker 7: some beautiful flowers, and I love hearing people say their
Speaker 7: vows to each other and I feel like the oh, oh,
Speaker 7: all right.
Speaker 2: You gotta start over right. The next topic divorce, No,
Speaker 2: you can't fight it. Oh.
Speaker 7: So Ryan talks about divorce a lot and how it's
Speaker 7: fifty new interruption, sir, thank you. This is my sixty seconds.
Speaker 7: My name is Tanya. Hi. I love weddings, which is
Speaker 7: the antithesis of divorce, which I hope, which I on
Speaker 7: never doing in my life. And Ryan seems to think
Speaker 7: that they are fifty percent of marriages and in divorce.
Speaker 2: But I think that.
Speaker 7: Stat is changing, continuously continues to change and go down.
Speaker 7: So people are getting divorced less and less in life
Speaker 7: because people are getting married and enjoying their partners and
Speaker 7: really working hard, really working hard to have a beautiful marriage.
Speaker 7: And marriage consists of communication between two people, and when
Speaker 7: they're communicating in a lovely way and listening to each other,
Speaker 7: there is synergy.
Speaker 2: And it's the irony that divorce was the word that
Speaker 2: took you the whole way through or.
Speaker 7: A like I was sweating so much, I just couldn't
Speaker 7: do it.
Speaker 2: All. Right, here we go. So if you're single and
Speaker 2: you're going. I'm single, but it's something else not My
Speaker 2: fault might be your job. These are three jobs that
Speaker 2: they say people think would not be fun to date.
Speaker 2: They think a vote of date. Yeah, these are unfund
Speaker 2: people based on their job, they say in this little research,
Speaker 2: a flight attendant or a pilot. That seems strange because
Speaker 2: flight attends are always nice, but they're.
Speaker 7: Always gone focus, They're always gone. Oh god, it's likely.
Speaker 2: Because pilots are disciplined and you know, they got to
Speaker 2: be focused, and flight attendants are personable and free flights.
Speaker 2: That's that's questionable for me. They say truck drivers too,
Speaker 2: because they're never around.
Speaker 7: Yeah, never round. That's the bingo.
Speaker 2: That's what that's what this is about. And chefs, long hours,
Speaker 2: weekends and holidays, those are the most Yeah.
Speaker 1: But you're married to a chef.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very romantic. It's kind of hot, all right.
Speaker 2: Today's quote don't ever be ashamed of loving the strange
Speaker 2: things that make your weird little heart happy.
Speaker 1: I love that.
Speaker 2: Haven't I seen somewhere that they say, if you beware
Speaker 2: of anybody's name that starts with the.
Speaker 1: Jake, Yes, we did that as a hack.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Jane and m I mean it's very stereotypical. But
Speaker 2: the reason I bring that up is Mikayla from the
Speaker 2: back room, who's going to come on here now, is
Speaker 2: one of the few staff members that is still single,
Speaker 2: has not found the love that Tanya has found to
Speaker 2: brag about, and we're very excited for that coming up. Tony,
Speaker 2: what happened? What was that look for?
Speaker 7: Because I just noticed three of these guys' names start
Speaker 7: with the Jake.
Speaker 1: We just said.
Speaker 7: I didn't see the names this whole time.
Speaker 2: All right, So there's Jake, there's Justin, there's Jack, there's Taylor.
Speaker 2: But Mikayla. I guess your question is why do they chatting?
Speaker 2: Then vanish?
Speaker 1: Yeah, they'll ask me a question.
Speaker 11: I mean it's the beginning of a conversation, so it's
Speaker 11: kind of like an easy answer.
Speaker 3: They'll ask me how I'm doing, Alison, you know, I'm
Speaker 3: doing good, had a great weekend.
Speaker 7: How how are you doing?
Speaker 1: And then nothing? What am I doing? Well, let's go
Speaker 1: through these in dissect.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, who I'll be Who's gonna be Mikayla,
Speaker 2: I'll be Jake, Mikaylain this one? All right, Who's how
Speaker 2: did this thing start? Tell me explain this he liked
Speaker 2: her photo? Okay, so I liked your photo.
Speaker 1: Start a chat with Jake. That's the operators, Tanya, start
Speaker 1: the chat with Jake.
Speaker 2: That's you, Jake, No, okay, Hey, how was your Monday? Ben?
Speaker 3: Hey, Monday was good. I've been visiting my fam with week,
Speaker 3: so it's been nice. How's your week going?
Speaker 7: Impression?
Speaker 2: All right, that was Jake. Here's let's try Taylor. Here's Taylor. Okay,
Speaker 2: but like photo.
Speaker 7: Start chat with Taylor.
Speaker 2: Hello with five o's how are you? Hey?
Speaker 3: I'm doing good, having a chill Monday. How's your day
Speaker 3: going so far?
Speaker 2: Brilliant response, brilliant love it, having a chill day, not
Speaker 2: too much, easy going, not to be interested. Perfect, He says,
Speaker 2: that's good. It's been crazy moving my recording studios soon.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to wrap up everything.
Speaker 1: Oh nice? Where are you moving your recording studio to blank?
Speaker 7: Spanish?
Speaker 2: I almost feel like Taylor, goodbye. That's like too much information, Taylor,
Speaker 2: and I only all the stress if you tell me
Speaker 2: your life is too crazy. Next, let's start Justin. Here's Justin.
Speaker 7: Okay, start chat with Justin.
Speaker 2: Hey, what's your top three favorite places you've traveled to?
Speaker 10: Oh?
Speaker 1: This is tough.
Speaker 3: London is one of my favorite places, so that number
Speaker 3: one again type oh, Paris has recently earned a top spot,
Speaker 3: and probably Italy, how about you?
Speaker 2: I love London, studied abroad there, so it'll be special
Speaker 2: to me. I have to go with Japan and Norway
Speaker 2: for me.
Speaker 3: And then this is where I think Kayla kind of
Speaker 3: loses him.
Speaker 1: She does three bubbles, like three.
Speaker 3: Different conversations in a row, and Dame, I studied abroad
Speaker 3: in London and go back there every year. That was
Speaker 3: the first one. And I've been to Tokyo and thought
Speaker 3: it was one of the coolest places I've ever been to.
Speaker 1: But we'll never go in the summer again. Way too hot,
Speaker 1: loll And then here's another one. Never been to Norway
Speaker 1: but would love to. How's that?
Speaker 2: Or a Polish that?
Speaker 7: And then he leaves the chats over.
Speaker 2: Why the three different individual bubbles of I.
Speaker 1: Just felt like it was too long as one.
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I mean, look, it's all
Speaker 2: to all these guys. Their loss. But any conversation I'm
Speaker 2: realizing that starts, just starts in general, can go the
Speaker 2: wrong way. I mean, what is the right way to do? It?
Speaker 2: Just has to be the right person, not really the
Speaker 2: right chat.
Speaker 7: You can't say the wrong thing to the right person.
Speaker 1: That's true.
Speaker 7: You can't. My first conversation, my first message on Hinge
Speaker 7: from Robbie was like riddled with misspellings and wrote it no.
Speaker 3: True, that was all Kanya and I came in and
Speaker 3: fixed it.
Speaker 7: The message he sent me was like riddled with grammar
Speaker 7: and like it was like how are you this weekend?
Speaker 7: Like I missed the stuff and so it's like, you
Speaker 7: can't say the wrong thing to the right person.
Speaker 1: These guys are just not it.
Speaker 2: Don't don't lose sleep.
Speaker 7: You did nothing wrong.
Speaker 3: I thought maybe there was something with Justin because you
Speaker 3: guys both studied abroad in London.
Speaker 2: I thought, all right, huh, how is Paris? Where'd you
Speaker 2: go to Paris? Last year?
Speaker 1: We went to a wedding in London and then we.
Speaker 2: Just jumped on the train. Yep, your star went it's
Speaker 2: in underwater train. In case anybody, I just wondering, let's
Speaker 2: get Justin here for a second date update. So Justin,
Speaker 2: I want to drill down for a minute some peace
Speaker 2: of mind. So you Sai, where you go out with
Speaker 2: somebody and they blow you off and you can't figure
Speaker 2: out why Mediana actually could use a second date update
Speaker 2: here too, exactly, but we're gonna go with justin right now.
Speaker 2: So you met this girl in college, right yep, and
Speaker 2: then you went on three great dates since give me
Speaker 2: the time spin here. You met, you didn't go out,
Speaker 2: and then you reconnect.
Speaker 12: Yeah, acted one of three great dates, two hikes, a movie.
Speaker 12: You know, I was deep into planning date four, and
Speaker 12: then she suddenly stopped responding to my text.
Speaker 2: Three dates and a Houdini is strange. What was the
Speaker 2: third date? And give me the last few minutes of
Speaker 2: the third date? What was the vibe? What was it?
Speaker 2: What were you doing? Yeah?
Speaker 12: So that was the movie and we had a great time,
Speaker 12: like good vibes all around, and it seemed like, you know,
Speaker 12: there wasn't anything mysterious. She seemed to be happy, and uh,
Speaker 12: you know, left it at that. But I was totally blindsided.
Speaker 12: I thought date four was the sure thing.
Speaker 2: Hmmm. It is strange because you would think somebody have
Speaker 2: the courtesy, especially knowing her for that long exactly to
Speaker 2: give you heads.
Speaker 12: Up, right, Yeah, we both went to cal State Long Beach. Uh,
Speaker 12: I know I know someone on her floor. We hung
Speaker 12: out in the group a few times, like this has
Speaker 12: been a long time, I'm coming and we Actually the
Speaker 12: whole reason why we reconnected was I was in security
Speaker 12: at LAX and she looked really familiar, and I could
Speaker 12: tell she thought the same about me. So we started
Speaker 12: talking and figured out how we knew each other. Exchange
Speaker 12: numbers went out three times, progressing beautifully. Now she's not responding,
Speaker 12: so and I don't want to like overtext.
Speaker 2: No, we want to find out on the air. Okay,
Speaker 2: hold on one second, Justin, we're going to get into this.
Speaker 2: He's got Monica's her name, he's got her number. To
Speaker 2: the back room.
Speaker 1: The second date updates go either way.
Speaker 3: Sometimes they find them romantic that they did this extra
Speaker 3: gesture to try to get them back.
Speaker 2: So in other times it's the end.
Speaker 7: I'd find it romantic.
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't tany would know me.
Speaker 7: One out of three not bad.
Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'd like two out of three if their
Speaker 2: listeners considered like, we'd like two out of three listeners
Speaker 2: to be listening to this. So Justin's on the phone
Speaker 2: in Long Beach. Listen to this. We are in the
Speaker 2: middle of a second date update right now. This is
Speaker 2: something that we would never do. Tanya do it. Sissy
Speaker 2: and I would never do this, but Tanya would, and
Speaker 2: so we're doing it. You know, if we were listening
Speaker 2: and someone else was hosting, I don't know that i'd
Speaker 2: want to know on the air why someone blew me off.
Speaker 2: But Justin can't figure it out. Met this girl in college.
Speaker 2: They go out a few times, go out three times. Actually,
Speaker 2: he says two the dates were hikes, then the movie,
Speaker 2: and so three total, and he's planning the fourth and
Speaker 2: then come. I don't know where she blows him off,
Speaker 2: but three dates is a lot and is so let's
Speaker 2: find out from Monica, who's listening, what the deal is. Justin,
Speaker 2: be very quiet. I'm gonna bring her up now. Okay,
Speaker 2: here we go. That's good, we found her. Hey, Monica,
Speaker 2: good morning. It's Ryan Seacrest. You're on KIDSFM with us.
Speaker 2: Good morning. I said that, but good.
Speaker 5: Morning, good morning.
Speaker 2: I'm pumped to talk to you named Tanya here with me.
Speaker 2: Yes hi, Hi, So pardon our intrusion, but we're talking
Speaker 2: about a dude named Justin that you met, maybe in college,
Speaker 2: and went out with them recently.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, what about him?
Speaker 2: What do you think what about him? Do you like him?
Speaker 4: Yes, truly, Like he's great. He is so cute and
Speaker 4: but like you said, like we met each other in college.
Speaker 4: That's crazy, what a small world.
Speaker 2: So how have the dates been with him?
Speaker 4: You know, we had a really great time, Like we
Speaker 4: we first went to we went on a movie, we
Speaker 4: went on some hikes, we went to dinner, and it
Speaker 4: was just I don't know, it was just it was
Speaker 4: all really awesome, but.
Speaker 10: I don't know, I just kind of moved on.
Speaker 1: So oh, like moved on with someone else.
Speaker 4: No, No, not really, It's just I I got a
Speaker 4: vibe from him.
Speaker 1: And.
Speaker 10: I don't know it's gonna work out.
Speaker 2: Just give us a little specificity on the Okay.
Speaker 4: Well, so we we went to go see this movie
Speaker 4: right that we saw Immaculate and fyi's super creepy but whatever,
Speaker 4: and he paid for the ticket and which great, was
Speaker 4: really nice, and then he was like, it would be
Speaker 4: nice if you helped for the snacks, So you know,
Speaker 4: I mean, that's fine, Like I don't I don't mind
Speaker 4: to do that. But then it got me thinking. So
Speaker 4: our first two hikes or sorry ever two dates were hikes,
Speaker 4: and then we went to wabble grill after one of
Speaker 4: the hikes, and then he then mowed me his half.
Speaker 1: Wait, like I don't know he was a venma request.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well like like he didn't like. He then mode
Speaker 4: me like I paid.
Speaker 1: For it, Well you paid for it, God it got
Speaker 1: it okay.
Speaker 4: Yeah, which no big deal, but he m then he
Speaker 4: was like, well, you know, I got to say for
Speaker 4: half of this, and then.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: It just seems kind of like one of these guys
Speaker 4: it's weird about money, and I don't know, Like.
Speaker 2: So it's he's the premise here, like he asked you
Speaker 2: out he should handle it. Is that what we're going
Speaker 2: with here? Is that what we're saying.
Speaker 13: I mean that.
Speaker 5: Sounds awful, but yeah, like I.
Speaker 4: Just I kind of want to be I want to
Speaker 4: be taken care of and I don't can't see anything
Speaker 4: wrong with that.
Speaker 2: Everything else though, outside of that, you liked about.
Speaker 4: Him, Yeah, Like I really really like this guy.
Speaker 2: But if I were to, if I were to meet
Speaker 2: Justin and and dig down into this a little bit,
Speaker 2: what would you want me to ask him?
Speaker 4: If how he feels about taking care of the woman
Speaker 4: in his life that's important to me?
Speaker 2: Let me bring Justin is listening right now. Oh my, Justin,
Speaker 2: that's going answer the question. That's how it's going. You
Speaker 2: heard her, what do you think?
Speaker 12: Okay, I mean she's not wrong. Like I dated a
Speaker 12: woman who really took advantage of my generosity, So I
Speaker 12: mean I probably do overthink it a little.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that's so funny. I dated a guy
Speaker 4: who never paid for anything.
Speaker 5: But this is.
Speaker 2: Really sotsd on. Both these issues are rooted issues. Okay,
Speaker 2: we're making progress here in our therapy session. Why do
Speaker 2: we collaborate so you're hyper sensitive justin to what you've
Speaker 2: been through, Monica, you're the same. Now that we've heard
Speaker 2: each other's truths in this scenario, I think we can
Speaker 2: bridge the gap justin, don't you.
Speaker 11: Yeah?
Speaker 12: I mean, so here's the deal. Like, I would honestly
Speaker 12: love to take care of you.
Speaker 2: This much.
Speaker 8: That's that's really awesome.
Speaker 4: Sorry, I've got to chugemile on my face right now.
Speaker 3: Love so much.
Speaker 12: I mean, I would, like, I'm actually I'm really generous,
Speaker 12: and I just didn't want you to think I was
Speaker 12: showing off or being like a chauvener for by paying
Speaker 12: for everything.
Speaker 1: So you guys, I.
Speaker 9: Would love that.
Speaker 10: Yeah, I would love that. I would love to go
Speaker 10: out with you again.
Speaker 4: If you're asking, if you or maybe I'm asking, I'm.
Speaker 2: I'm asking, can you? I want to hear more on
Speaker 2: the air. We're all vested.
Speaker 9: Now, Yeah, well you aren't.
Speaker 2: We've got to. We've got a full investment in this relationship.
Speaker 4: So justin, will you go out with me again?
Speaker 2: Oh? You're asking him?
Speaker 1: I love this.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's who's who's paying for this date?
Speaker 12: Not Oh I am. I am paying for this date
Speaker 12: and it's going to be an awesome date and I'm
Speaker 12: already planning it.
Speaker 2: There's been all this talk in the news about what
Speaker 2: if we as a culture went to a four day
Speaker 2: work week, would we be even more productive? I'm all
Speaker 2: for it, right, so fine, the four day work week.
Speaker 2: Some companies are doing it, some California congress people have
Speaker 2: proposed it. But the debate is what day would be
Speaker 2: the best day off? Would it be the Friday before
Speaker 2: the weekend, would it be the Monday after the Sunday?
Speaker 2: Or would it be midweek? To break it up ciciny.
Speaker 1: The mid week one kind of throws me off.
Speaker 3: But actually I just started savellah on this preschool schedule,
Speaker 3: and I think it's going to be really good for her.
Speaker 3: She's doing Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays off, Thursday, Friday.
Speaker 2: The midweek for me just adds another Sunday. So I say,
Speaker 2: no time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not too it for the working world. So
Speaker 3: let's say it's Friday. It's Friday for me, all right,
Speaker 3: So it would be Friday not Monday.
Speaker 2: But think about the relief in Sunday not being Sunday
Speaker 2: and being a Monday off.
Speaker 3: I can't get whenever we have a Monday off, that
Speaker 3: throws off my week because then I get back Tuesday
Speaker 3: and I'm playing catch up from stuff that like I
Speaker 3: should done Monday, and I don't like it.
Speaker 1: Gig, because it gets me.
Speaker 7: You would get adjusted, I think you would. You would
Speaker 7: front load.
Speaker 2: And you would Tony, what would you do?
Speaker 7: I would like Monday because to me, Monday's like my
Speaker 7: most where I'm like my let's go baby. So I
Speaker 7: feel like I would be very I would get a
Speaker 7: lot done on Monday.
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Be productive because of
Speaker 2: the super productive.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I go back and forth on this because I like
Speaker 2: the idea of Sunday never feeling like a Sunday because
Speaker 2: Mondays off and Monday then begins feel like Sunday, but
Speaker 2: Tuesday's already Wednesday.
Speaker 3: I always gonna have that feeling. Whether it's Sunday or Monday,
Speaker 3: you're gonna have that scary feeling.
Speaker 2: Is the excitement of having the Friday off because it's
Speaker 2: all ahead of you more appealing because then on Wednesday
Speaker 2: it's Thursday and Thursday's Friday. I mean that to me
Speaker 2: in my head is the way I think I would.
Speaker 2: So I would vote after going back and forth on this,
Speaker 2: No Wednesdays, maybe Mondays, but I think for me.
Speaker 1: Fridays Fridays for sure?
Speaker 2: Or what's your final systemy Fridays for sure?
Speaker 7: What's your Friday final Monday?
Speaker 2: Okay, well let's see what I heard decides.
Speaker 3: Well, they did, and they're not going to but they
Speaker 3: did a Reddit pull on this Friday did win by
Speaker 3: forty seven percent.
Speaker 2: It's a mentality.
Speaker 1: It's a mentality on air, whether Ryan secret.
Speaker 2: Emily's on the line, Good morning, Emily, how are you?
Speaker 5: I'm good?
Speaker 8: How are you?
Speaker 2: I'm super good? So your friend's ex husband posted with
Speaker 2: a new girlfriend. What are you telling me?
Speaker 10: So basically, you know, they kind of divorced about like
Speaker 10: three months ago, and you know, she doesn't have no
Speaker 10: contact with him. She's unfollowed him on old social media. However,
Speaker 10: like me and her friends have him on social media,
Speaker 10: and we've seen like, you know, this post of his
Speaker 10: new girlfriend, and we're kind of just like in a
Speaker 10: predicament where like we don't know whether like to tell
Speaker 10: her or not, or like if it's better for her
Speaker 10: not to know, because it's just like if we don't
Speaker 10: tell her, are we bad friends? But then it's like
Speaker 10: if we do tell her, is that not a good
Speaker 10: thing as well?
Speaker 2: Well? I mean he's posting it up, so like why
Speaker 2: is telling her an issue?
Speaker 10: Because it's just like, you know, where is this I
Speaker 10: got out of sight, out of my things?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well that makes sense to me.
Speaker 7: I think respect that if she unfollowed him and they
Speaker 7: she went through all that, then I think respect that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to get involved?
Speaker 11: No?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just I don't know.
Speaker 10: I feel weird because you know the way that like
Speaker 10: they left off, he ended, like you know, he's the
Speaker 10: one who ended things and then out of know where,
Speaker 10: like he just pops out with this new girlfriend. You know,
Speaker 10: it's very fresh.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you know, how fresh was. I mean,
Speaker 2: that's the thing. But you're I think we're all on
Speaker 2: the same page. You don't want to open the door
Speaker 2: to bringing it insight in mind, out of sight, out
Speaker 2: of mind is the way you get through stuff. And
Speaker 2: I subscribe to it, and I think that's what you
Speaker 2: got to do. So turn your head, don't don't bring
Speaker 2: it up. It's only going to create extra drama, tension, anxiety.
Speaker 2: Why do it? It's not worth it, Emily, Okay, got it,
Speaker 2: all right, all right.
Speaker 9: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Just appreciate the call.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: You take care. I was just reading something the very interesting.
Speaker 2: You know, who swears the most? Like which country swears
Speaker 2: the most?
Speaker 1: Like in their own language?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, in the US swears the most? Think about
Speaker 2: what state? What state swears the most?
Speaker 7: Oh, good one, that's a good guess.
Speaker 2: Yeah, the most foul mouth state. Can you believe it's Maryland?
Speaker 3: It's over there, Maryland not expected East coast though.
Speaker 2: Then Louisiana, then Georgia, Virginia, and Ohio. South Dakota swears
Speaker 2: the least.
Speaker 1: Where did California land on that list?
Speaker 2: Somewhere in the middle. Okay, who swears the most? Here
Speaker 2: between Systney Tanya myself.
Speaker 1: I think equal. Tanya swears a lot.
Speaker 2: Yes you do.
Speaker 6: Why.
Speaker 2: Like we we know you, we're with Yes, I do not.
Speaker 7: I don't want to say I do not ever like
Speaker 7: zero percent now, but i'd say on the grand scheme
Speaker 7: of things, it's.
Speaker 1: Like Louisiana, Yeah you are.
Speaker 3: I'm going to record you during our pitch meeting and
Speaker 3: you'll see you don't.
Speaker 1: Even notice you do it.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 7: I don't like that. I don't like cursing.
Speaker 2: Well, then that's why we're here to put the back.
Speaker 3: I used to curse a lot, but I feel like
Speaker 3: I've really toned it back now that my kids are
Speaker 3: able to repeat words and stuff.
Speaker 2: I like to get it out in one session. Just curse, curse, curse,
Speaker 2: you know, like eight o five before I go to sleep,
Speaker 2: Just get it all. So let's grab Liam here at
Speaker 2: one eight hundred five to two, one to two seven.
Speaker 2: Liam calling in West Hollywood says his brother keeps hitting
Speaker 2: on his friend. By the way, I was in West Hollywood.
Speaker 2: I was going to get a smoothie the other day,
Speaker 2: and you ever have it where your maps tells you
Speaker 2: the place is down the street, But then when you
Speaker 2: get there. You can't get there because you've got to
Speaker 2: go into a parking deck to get to the place. Sure,
Speaker 2: so I go into the parking deck to get to
Speaker 2: the place to write the escalator up to get the smoothie.
Speaker 2: I have the worst luck with automated exiting tickets and
Speaker 2: parking decks. Why I'm going to get the purse and
Speaker 2: from the booth out to scan my ticket, and people
Speaker 2: are very upset with me. I'm not moving through the stall.
Speaker 2: When you get stuck behind something, I am the one
Speaker 2: in front.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 3: I know.
Speaker 2: It's not the worst because my QR code or whatever
Speaker 2: it is, never works, my bar code and it never
Speaker 2: can get that red little laser to read. It happens
Speaker 2: here too. By the way, the studio shouldn't.
Speaker 7: Pay for your ticket before you get in the car.
Speaker 7: You could do that.
Speaker 2: No, yes, well here we have at Okay.
Speaker 1: No, I don't do that.
Speaker 2: I mean because I can work pay, I can pay
Speaker 2: the ticket before the smooth I had to get the
Speaker 2: validation from the smoothie shop.
Speaker 7: And then I'm sure there was a spot where you
Speaker 7: could pay for the parking.
Speaker 2: It wasn't.
Speaker 1: There's no chance that he would even look around for
Speaker 1: that don't.
Speaker 2: Just happened right down the street from Liam. That's what
Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell you. Okay, Liam, Hi Liam, how
Speaker 2: are you?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 9: I'm good?
Speaker 8: How are you guys?
Speaker 12: Okay?
Speaker 2: Good? So we're fine. I think, I mean, we're a
Speaker 2: little loose today, but we're fine. Can you tell us
Speaker 2: about your brother and what happened?
Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, So so my brother met one of my
Speaker 8: friends over the summer. They met just like one time,
Speaker 8: and ever since then he's been like dming her and
Speaker 8: flirting with her and like all.
Speaker 9: That type of stuff.
Speaker 8: And it doesn't bother her. But I don't think she's
Speaker 8: into it either. And I have tried to talk to
Speaker 8: my brother and he just thinks that, you know, I
Speaker 8: don't want like my brother dating my friend, which it's
Speaker 8: not that, you know. I just feel like he's going
Speaker 8: to something that isn't isn't going to happen.
Speaker 2: So why doesn't she just be honest and say like, hey,
Speaker 2: I'm not interested in some nice way?
Speaker 3: Right?
Speaker 8: Oh, I guess she should do that. I guess I
Speaker 8: was trying to do that for her when I talk
Speaker 8: to him.
Speaker 2: But the thing is, I think it does look like
Speaker 2: you're trying to get in the way, it's my opinion's
Speaker 2: gonna be much more effective if she's just upfront and honest.
Speaker 8: But it's my brother and it's my friend, but it's.
Speaker 7: Not your relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not you doing the text back and forth.
Speaker 2: They are and she's kind of playing along. I feel
Speaker 2: like if she's playing along, she's leading them all.
Speaker 1: Well, she's telling you the truth because maybe she's not.
Speaker 2: Maybe she isn't it and she doesn't want to tell
Speaker 2: you that. Yeah.
Speaker 8: With the home run, I guess I need to have
Speaker 8: another conversation with her or she should tell him. It
Speaker 8: shouldn't be my responsibility.
Speaker 2: That's what I think. But Liam, you sound happy about it,
Speaker 2: You don't sound upset.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe just let it happen naturally.
Speaker 8: I guess. I just I just don't want my brother
Speaker 8: to like mess up my relationship.
Speaker 1: There it is, you know, there it is. Liam. You're
Speaker 1: being a little selfish.
Speaker 2: I'm the first time for everything. Liam, All right, Well
Speaker 2: we you. I mean, that's what we think, and good luck.
Speaker 2: But I think they should work it out. And maybe
Speaker 2: Sistney's right, maybe she is into him a little bit.
Speaker 2: How are you with the parking decks there in West Hollywood.
Speaker 8: With the parking Yeah, I had to get a permit
Speaker 8: to park on the street in front of by the Way.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Read the sign. The permit signs are so confusing there.
Speaker 1: I got a ticket the other day when I went
Speaker 1: to go get my hair.
Speaker 2: Done, parked on there for six hours. You told me
Speaker 2: everybody's gonna get a ticket.
Speaker 1: I was the over four and a half hours.
Speaker 2: I got a ticket for you being in your hair pleasure.
Speaker 1: I read the sign.
Speaker 7: Weird.
Speaker 2: I didn't read this sign. You can't. You can't say
Speaker 2: to the officer. I thought I read the signs.
Speaker 3: It was fine the timing wise, I just didn't have
Speaker 3: one of those permits.
Speaker 1: It threw me off.
Speaker 2: Thank you for calling. We appreciate you listening to us.
Speaker 2: I don't want to go to Rebecca. I I feel
Speaker 2: something with this. She is dating a guy who didn't
Speaker 2: tell her he had been engaged previously. She's asking is
Speaker 2: that a big red flag? And if so, what does
Speaker 2: she do about it?
Speaker 3: I want to know how long they've been dating, because
Speaker 3: at what point did he finally tell her?
Speaker 2: Rebecca, are you there?
Speaker 11: I am hi, Hi.
Speaker 2: Thank you for bringing this issue up. We want to
Speaker 2: stop everything and get into it. With you? How did
Speaker 2: you find out he was engaged before?
Speaker 11: So I was doing like my you know, Instagram stalking,
Speaker 11: and I went to like his tagged photos and I
Speaker 11: saw a picture that he was tagged in from his
Speaker 11: engagement party. There was just one photo.
Speaker 2: But and how long have you been dating him?
Speaker 11: We've gone on two dates and we're going on a
Speaker 11: third this weekend.
Speaker 2: Oh so do you think I'm just trying to play
Speaker 2: this out? Do you think it would have been up
Speaker 2: to him to say on dates one or two? Hey?
Speaker 2: You know, just have you talked about your dating histories? Like?
Speaker 2: Has that gotten into a lengthy conversation with the two
Speaker 2: of you?
Speaker 11: Not lengthy? And we talked about it a little bit,
Speaker 11: But I feel like maybe that's something you bring up
Speaker 11: early on.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't disagree, I'm just wondering, how do
Speaker 2: you how do you bring that up on the first
Speaker 2: or second?
Speaker 3: I think this is early on. Rebecca, you're saying that
Speaker 3: he has time to do it still, And it's like
Speaker 3: that she that she found out on her own, but
Speaker 3: that was her own doing. She went in there digging.
Speaker 3: But I think you maybe you know who knows in
Speaker 3: the third or fourth that he would have had the
Speaker 3: chance to tell you, and it's probably not the greatest
Speaker 3: first thing to start the first day.
Speaker 2: Look, I agree with Litany. If you start dating someone
Speaker 2: and they haven't told you about this, that might be concerning.
Speaker 2: But when you're trying to make a good impression with
Speaker 2: somebody new and you really want them to feel like
Speaker 2: the focus, I don't think bringing it up in the
Speaker 2: first three dates is the best idea. Tonny, what do
Speaker 2: you think?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean it is too early. I feel like
Speaker 7: this is the stage where you're just getting to know
Speaker 7: each other, so I feel like he maybe was planning
Speaker 7: on telling.
Speaker 3: You just here's.
Speaker 2: My advice, Rebecca, forget you know it, lay low, and
Speaker 2: see if he brings it up at the right time.
Speaker 13: Because if you feel like Tanya, if you feel like
Speaker 13: it's gone on for a little while where you guys
Speaker 13: have covered a little bit of your history together, when
Speaker 13: you've talked and he doesn't mention it, then I think
Speaker 13: there's more reason to be concerned.
Speaker 2: I would give it a little bit of breathing him
Speaker 2: right now.
Speaker 1: Now you have to what are you gonna tell him?
Speaker 1: I was snooping through your.
Speaker 11: Instagram exactly like I can't say.
Speaker 2: That Yeah, put away the dust brush, all your detective tools,
Speaker 2: put those away for a second, enjoy the moments, let
Speaker 2: this unfold.
Speaker 7: That's but this is going to be on the top
Speaker 7: of her mind every minute that she's with them, and
Speaker 7: she's going to be like trying to like lead him
Speaker 7: to this answer, disciplined.
Speaker 1: Just as long as he gets there.
Speaker 7: Like she you know what you should ask him the
Speaker 7: first minute you sit down is like, how serious have
Speaker 7: your last relationships been?
Speaker 2: Ok, But here's the thing. We'll be watched TV. We
Speaker 2: don't want spoilers, but when we date people, we look
Speaker 2: for spoilers. True, let's not search for spoilers here. Good luck,
Speaker 2: thanks for calling.
Speaker 11: Sure, thanks.
Speaker 2: Oh to give advice and not take it. It is
Speaker 2: a difficult job. Let's get to this story. I you know,
Speaker 2: this could be a new trend. I don't know what
Speaker 2: you're thinking about if your parent, but parents are passing
Speaker 2: out playdate business cards so their children can make friends.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, it's picking up the steam on social and
Speaker 3: kind of going viral. Parents are passing out these cards
Speaker 3: so that their children can make friends. And it's they say,
Speaker 3: it's so much easier. It's kind of cute. Maybe genius
Speaker 3: especially if your kid is a little bit on the
Speaker 3: more shy side, or or even if you're like an
Speaker 3: introvert like parent that kind of has a hard time
Speaker 3: making conversation and going up and meeting new parents and
Speaker 3: things like that.
Speaker 1: It's like a car. It's almost it's essentially like a
Speaker 1: business card.
Speaker 3: It would have like your kid's name, maybe a photo
Speaker 3: of them, the parents contact information.
Speaker 1: They say like let's play or let's play with.
Speaker 3: Sarah or whatever, and then your kids just have a
Speaker 3: stack of these schedules and then whenever they want to
Speaker 3: whenever they want to play with the kid, they give
Speaker 3: their card to that person. And then when they go
Speaker 3: home your you know, your kid gives you the card.
Speaker 2: Here's what's cute. It says like, let's play. I'm Sarah,
Speaker 2: my mom is toy, her number is Yeah. That's just
Speaker 2: so cute.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 2: I kind of I think it's great because I mean,
Speaker 2: you've talked about this before. I don't quite understand it,
Speaker 2: but you know, you are looking for commonalities when it
Speaker 2: comes to your kids sometimes growing up and people that
Speaker 2: they can pair with right and they can spend time.
Speaker 2: I know my sister, she's she's loving it when there
Speaker 2: is a friend that Flora meets that Flora likes, and
Speaker 2: a mom that Meredith meets the Meredith.
Speaker 1: That's like the Eureka MATCHI yeah.
Speaker 2: It's like, wait, I can't believe I actually like the
Speaker 2: mom and the kids like each other, right or not
Speaker 2: this ever happened, but like or this scenario where the
Speaker 2: kids hit it off but the moms don't necessarily yell.
Speaker 7: I'm sure that happens all the time.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 3: We have a mom's night out next week with all
Speaker 3: the moms.
Speaker 2: Where you go? What do you do?
Speaker 1: Do you know?
Speaker 3: The place is TVD on the calendar, so I have
Speaker 3: no idea. Probably like a local restaurant or bar, I'm assuming,
Speaker 3: and we're all just gonna have a wine night and
Speaker 3: get to know each other a little bit time start.
Speaker 3: It starts at like six or seven I think probably
Speaker 3: seven eight. I mean, look, it's not like you know,
Speaker 3: I got it as a last seven PM, A couple
Speaker 3: of hours till nine.
Speaker 1: You know, I'll hang it's fine.
Speaker 2: But I was with friends the other night and it
Speaker 2: was like nine oh three. They ordered dessert and I
Speaker 2: was like, okay, guys, how long nine to twenty six?
Speaker 2: I finally had to say and I've gotten I mastered this.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to excuse me. I've got an early morning.
Speaker 7: Yeah, nine twenty six is late because by the time
Speaker 7: you get home, depending on where you.
Speaker 2: Want to be there.
Speaker 7: Oh, she's done that, you're out to dinner.
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to excuse me. I'm going to.
Speaker 3: Bet literally what you said to us, the lesson that
Speaker 3: we were here.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because everybody want to have one more drink outside.
Speaker 2: I'm like, guys, we have to stop.
Speaker 1: It was a nice night, I was.
Speaker 2: I sent invitations with We'll start at seven, were wrapped
Speaker 2: by nine.
Speaker 7: One of those dinners, so that it was just so funny.
Speaker 2: Friends, family, and tubs. We are done today. Uh, let's
Speaker 2: get to what You've been very quiet over there, Engineer
Speaker 2: Jeffrey Tubbs. Well, I mean, if you need to need
Speaker 2: me to say something, no, I don't am out. We're done.
Speaker 2: We're done for today, but maybe tomorrow. All right, mariw
Speaker 2: we got a full show to sounds good. Anything else
Speaker 2: not for now? All right, We're good for now.
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