WEBVTT - The Vet Bill 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:01.440 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.600 --> 0:00:03.320 See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:07.640 Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:12.399 We come with things that we've got planned, and then 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:14.440 every now and then we're sort of putting a pin 0:00:14.520 --> 0:00:17.120 in those things to handle whatever happens in the moment. 0:00:17.160 --> 0:00:20.800 This is right now Claire reaching out to us and 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:28.000 basically saying hey hi, hikay hi and saying hey hi, 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:31.760 I basically, are you bombed at your maid of honor speech? 0:00:33.320 --> 0:00:33.680 Yeah? 0:00:34.040 --> 0:00:35.120 I feel terrible. 0:00:36.159 --> 0:00:39.680 My maid of honor speech bombed. The wedding was this 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:42.839 past weekend, and she's my best friend from college and 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:46.159 we're super close and it was such a perfect wedding. 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:51.280 But I just bombed. I don't know what to say. 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:55.200 I made a joke about her being an ugly kid, 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:57.840 which is like a running joke. 0:00:57.760 --> 0:00:59.480 Between us, but no one laughed. 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:02.520 Well really, yeah one of them. 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:07.479 Yeah those. First of all, I'm sorry it went that well. 0:01:07.520 --> 0:01:10.360 I mean, there's two schools of thought here. One is 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:14.240 you're close enough to that person to have fun with 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:17.479 every component of that person, Like, for example, It'sistney Tanya. 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:19.959 We work together every day. We don't really get offended 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.440 by anything that we say to each other. It was 0:01:21.440 --> 0:01:22.840 the same with me and Kelly RiPP but we didn't 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:25.840 have any because we were close. We could, you know, 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:28.680 as they say, whind each other up or have some fun. 0:01:29.880 --> 0:01:34.360 But in this situation, it's almost like, because you're front 0:01:34.360 --> 0:01:36.880 and center, because you're the maid of honor, you want 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.520 to limit the risks in that category that you take. 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:41.880 And it sounds like you went for it. And there's 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:45.240 nothing worse than that feeling. We've all been there of crickets. 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:49.400 I just feel like, I'm so scared if I ruined 0:01:49.440 --> 0:01:49.960 her wedding. 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:52.920 And I know like I'm not the center of attention. 0:01:52.720 --> 0:01:55.080 But I just it went on too long. It was 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:55.720 just bad. 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:58.360 And they're leaving for their honeymoon tomorrow and she's not 0:01:58.480 --> 0:02:00.600 answering any of my calls or my text. 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:02.360 You have to make it up to her about how 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:04.520 the rest of the wedding go, like did you guys 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:05.520 have fun afterwards? 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:07.080 Was there dancing and all that stuff? 0:02:07.800 --> 0:02:10.760 She just avoided me all night after that speech, and 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:12.840 I need to help. 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:15.080 It's in your head, Claire, maybe a little this is 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:17.360 in your head, like she didn't avoid you. She's getting married, 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.960 she's celebrating, she's off to her honeymoon, she's not If 0:02:20.000 --> 0:02:22.320 I get married, I'm not responding to tany and siciny 0:02:22.360 --> 0:02:22.960 the day after. 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:27.280 Yeah, I am all night the wedding night, she didn't 0:02:27.280 --> 0:02:29.480 talk to me all night, like she's my best friend. 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:31.480 She's mad. You have to make it up to her. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:33.560 But it's also a narrative you could be creating because 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:34.839 you feel bad about what you did. 0:02:35.200 --> 0:02:36.280 What are you doing right now? 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:38.240 Make it up to her right now on the air. 0:02:38.400 --> 0:02:39.639 How can I make it up to her? 0:02:39.680 --> 0:02:39.760 Like? 0:02:39.800 --> 0:02:40.440 What can I do? 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:41.280 What's her name? 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:43.480 Audrey? 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:48.440 Audrey? What a beautiful name. What would you like to 0:02:48.480 --> 0:02:51.080 say about Audrey as if you were giving a speech? 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:53.240 Make it quick though, remember short. 0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:58.079 Audrey have known me for so long, And whatever I say, 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:00.320 please know that it's kind of stupid and it's not 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:00.960 that serious. 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:01.799 And I love you. 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:04.760 Now. I'm gonna take this. We're gonna send it to you. 0:03:04.880 --> 0:03:07.360 You can send it to her wherever she is and 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:10.560 have her listen to it in a PDF. Because your 0:03:10.560 --> 0:03:12.400 heart's in the right place. I think everybody can sense 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:13.880 that a PDF. 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:16.360 We will send you the audio clan f m P. 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:24.520 Three whatever I can't. Yeah, well they will keep that 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:25.040 as a difference. 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:26.840 So they're gonna die because she's going on her honeymoon. 0:03:26.840 --> 0:03:27.480 That's to waste the money. 0:03:27.520 --> 0:03:29.360 Yeah, don't don't do that. But your heart's in the 0:03:29.400 --> 0:03:31.760 right place. We've all been there and bombed in a speech. 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:33.760 We know the feeling. And thank you for calling the 0:03:33.840 --> 0:03:34.240 tune up. 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:36.160 I think this is cute that you called us. 0:03:36.280 --> 0:03:40.880 We'll send you an app. Okay, m P three app 0:03:41.880 --> 0:03:50.080 mark you know, an app and all boards, bulletin, all points, bulletin. Yeah, 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:52.600 let me grab Dylan real fast here. Dylan has an 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:54.280 issue at eight hundred five to one to two seven. 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:55.600 Good morning, Dylan. How are you. 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:57.800 I'm doing well, sir. 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:00.560 How can we help you about your girl friend? What's 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.800 the issue? All right? 0:04:02.960 --> 0:04:08.480 So me and my girlfriend moved in together, I want 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:14.680 to say two years of dating, we finally moved in together, Okay, 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:19.200 and she moved into my place with her dog, which 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.159 I know she had a dog all the time. That 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:26.320 wasn't a surprise to me, but I was always able 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:27.880 to leave and I didn't want to deal with it. 0:04:28.440 --> 0:04:31.120 So when the dog recently got sick for some reason, 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:34.800 because I'm not used to having a house where I 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:37.760 need to keep everything clean, I leave stuff laying out. 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:41.040 There was a pill laying out, and the dog took 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:45.560 and ate the medication. So this takes us to a 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:49.120 whole new store, running to the emergency room. She's fine, 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:52.760 just letting you guys know. But it cost two thousand 0:04:53.320 --> 0:04:58.039 dollars to get her stomach pumped, and she expects me 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:02.839 to pay for half of the bill. But it's her dog. 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:06.640 That's the only thing that's bothering me. It says. It 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:09.400 says it's our dogs. Now, that's what she keeps trying 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:12.320 to tell me. But I've had nothing to do with this. 0:05:12.400 --> 0:05:13.159 We went out. 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:15.840 Medicine was it? 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:17.040 It was my medicine. 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:18.279 Okay, why was it out? 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:22.440 It was literally, I think, like an addol or something 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:26.159 like that. I've left it sitting on the couch before 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.080 I knew it. It turned around she was using it as 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:30.360 a chew toy, the medicine bottle. 0:05:31.920 --> 0:05:34.400 I mean, look, it's a big bill. Yeah, it's a 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:38.120 big bill. I do understand the our concept when you're 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:42.520 with someone you care for a pet together. I get that. 0:05:42.960 --> 0:05:45.840 At the same time, you're still with her. 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:50.440 Though, right, I am still with her. Yeah, But I'm 0:05:50.520 --> 0:05:55.720 just caught on spending so much money when I'm just 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:59.680 getting used to moving in with her and her dog 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.839 is Well, I'm not a terrible pet owner. It's just 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:08.120 this caught me by surprise. This being this much cost 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:09.120 them that much. 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:14.400 Well, that is an expensive vet bill. My suggestion would 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:16.600 be to have a real conversation about what the expectations 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:19.280 and the relationship are in general. But it sounds like 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.440 you know we haven't done that. I agree, Well, there's 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:24.039 some things that need to be cleaned up. If you 0:06:24.160 --> 0:06:27.000 feel like this kind of thing is going to continue 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:29.280 to happen, you need to be clear with how it's 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:32.360 going to be handled. But I'm sure anybody would want 0:06:32.360 --> 0:06:33.440 to split that kind of a bill. 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:40.080 Yeah, that really has brought me a lot of perspectives. 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:41.760 Yeah, I think I haven't. 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:43.240 Want done that on the bill. But at the end 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:46.440 of the day, when it rains, it pours, or you 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:50.080 saved money for a rainy day. Okay, that's exactly what 0:06:50.120 --> 0:06:50.960 I need right now. 0:06:51.279 --> 0:06:53.280 All right, Well, good luck having a conversation. But I 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:56.200 think I have some real clear conversations about expectations in 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.479 that relationship. Well, I get it, it's our pet. Let's 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:02.480 share this. It's out of nowhere. It's something that provides 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:05.360 us love and happiness makes sense. 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:07.359 And he should just be willing to split it. It 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:08.800 sounds like it was kind of his fault. 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:10.600 He made a lot of faces. I didn't hear anything 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:12.840 out of your mouth. You've had a lot of faces. 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:14.840 Because I don't know what you said that was so 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.480 that like really jolted him, but like you really gave 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:19.240 him this like light bulb moment. 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:20.960 That he knows to get out of the room quick 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:22.760 while he doesn't even. 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:25.760 Know what it was. Like, Bye, okay, good. 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:30.280 Good bye, good one anytime. Okay, so get ready, tany 0:07:30.280 --> 0:07:32.560 you're gonna do your sixty second exercise. Hey Grace from 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:34.920 Ralph's burbank. How are you hi? 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:36.640 How are you doing great? 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:38.239 It's Ryan Seacrest here. 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:39.080 Hi. 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:42.840 Hey, So Grace, do you call your story grocery store 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:44.040 or a grocery store? 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:45.960 It's a grocery store. 0:07:47.040 --> 0:07:48.600 So it's a grocery store. 0:07:49.240 --> 0:07:50.240 Yees, grocery store? 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:52.840 Think not a grocer restore? 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:53.600 No you heard her? 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:53.920 No? 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:56.480 No, no, no, no, ye Grace? 0:07:56.840 --> 0:08:04.240 Is it Grace or Grace? I go? Uh okay, all right, well, 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:06.360 thank you. It's a long story, but thank you for 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:08.360 clearing it up. All right, Ralph says the deals. 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:10.520 I honestly believe it is an east coast, west coast. 0:08:10.520 --> 0:08:13.840 It has to be because MICHAELA is from Rhode Island 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:18.360 and you're from kind of east coasty east coast. 0:08:20.400 --> 0:08:21.040 George's on this. 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:22.160 George's on the coast. 0:08:22.160 --> 0:08:27.040 It has ocean shoreline on these cases. You were there, you. 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.520 Visited, Hello, Tanya. 0:08:29.800 --> 0:08:35.840 Okay, so, oh my gosh, we have to keep you. Yeah, 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:40.880 it's not through hour fight first of all. Second the coast. No, 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:44.080 all right, so here is your topic sixty seconds. You 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:48.320 can't use filler words. That's the game. No no, uh no, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:51.040 like we all did it. Your turn before we go, 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:52.480 and then the weekend can start for us. 0:08:52.520 --> 0:08:53.120 You can do this. 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:55.280 I'm gonna pee my pants. Can you just give me 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:55.680 the word? 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:57.080 Tanya? 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:58.080 Weddings go. 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:03.520 Weddings are so much fun. I love weddings. My name 0:09:03.600 --> 0:09:06.880 is Tanya, and I love weddings. I've been too many 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:10.720 of them. I hope to have one someday soon. They 0:09:10.840 --> 0:09:13.600 are on my vision board. They've been on my vision 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:15.920 board actually for my twenty twenty three vision board. There's 0:09:15.960 --> 0:09:18.760 a lot of wedding inspo. I have some butterflies and 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:24.760 some beautiful flowers, and I love hearing people say their 0:09:24.800 --> 0:09:29.520 vows to each other and I feel like the oh, oh, 0:09:33.800 --> 0:09:34.240 all right. 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:39.439 You gotta start over right. The next topic divorce, No, 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:42.520 you can't fight it. Oh. 0:09:42.960 --> 0:09:46.280 So Ryan talks about divorce a lot and how it's 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:50.720 fifty new interruption, sir, thank you. This is my sixty seconds. 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:55.760 My name is Tanya. Hi. I love weddings, which is 0:09:55.800 --> 0:10:00.360 the antithesis of divorce, which I hope, which I on 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:03.640 never doing in my life. And Ryan seems to think 0:10:03.640 --> 0:10:07.480 that they are fifty percent of marriages and in divorce. 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:07.680 But I think that. 0:10:09.200 --> 0:10:13.680 Stat is changing, continuously continues to change and go down. 0:10:13.800 --> 0:10:16.720 So people are getting divorced less and less in life 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:21.520 because people are getting married and enjoying their partners and 0:10:22.160 --> 0:10:27.640 really working hard, really working hard to have a beautiful marriage. 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:32.439 And marriage consists of communication between two people, and when 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:35.680 they're communicating in a lovely way and listening to each other, 0:10:36.080 --> 0:10:37.040 there is synergy. 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:43.280 And it's the irony that divorce was the word that 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:44.560 took you the whole way through or. 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:48.040 A like I was sweating so much, I just couldn't 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:48.439 do it. 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:52.600 All. Right, here we go. So if you're single and 0:10:52.640 --> 0:10:55.320 you're going. I'm single, but it's something else not My 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:59.040 fault might be your job. These are three jobs that 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.520 they say people think would not be fun to date. 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:05.600 They think a vote of date. Yeah, these are unfund 0:11:05.840 --> 0:11:09.840 people based on their job, they say in this little research, 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:12.920 a flight attendant or a pilot. That seems strange because 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:15.160 flight attends are always nice, but they're. 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:20.079 Always gone focus, They're always gone. Oh god, it's likely. 0:11:21.160 --> 0:11:23.160 Because pilots are disciplined and you know, they got to 0:11:23.160 --> 0:11:25.960 be focused, and flight attendants are personable and free flights. 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:29.320 That's that's questionable for me. They say truck drivers too, 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:30.160 because they're never around. 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:32.679 Yeah, never round. That's the bingo. 0:11:32.960 --> 0:11:36.440 That's what that's what this is about. And chefs, long hours, 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:39.600 weekends and holidays, those are the most Yeah. 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.280 But you're married to a chef. 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:47.280 Yeah, that's very romantic. It's kind of hot, all right. 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:50.720 Today's quote don't ever be ashamed of loving the strange 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:53.360 things that make your weird little heart happy. 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:54.760 I love that. 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:01.840 Haven't I seen somewhere that they say, if you beware 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:03.160 of anybody's name that starts with the. 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:05.040 Jake, Yes, we did that as a hack. 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:08.520 Yeah, Jane and m I mean it's very stereotypical. But 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.440 the reason I bring that up is Mikayla from the 0:12:10.440 --> 0:12:12.680 back room, who's going to come on here now, is 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:15.920 one of the few staff members that is still single, 0:12:16.200 --> 0:12:18.600 has not found the love that Tanya has found to 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:23.840 brag about, and we're very excited for that coming up. Tony, 0:12:23.920 --> 0:12:25.120 what happened? What was that look for? 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:27.520 Because I just noticed three of these guys' names start 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:27.920 with the Jake. 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:28.640 We just said. 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:34.160 I didn't see the names this whole time. 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:37.480 All right, So there's Jake, there's Justin, there's Jack, there's Taylor. 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:41.319 But Mikayla. I guess your question is why do they chatting? 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:42.119 Then vanish? 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:43.480 Yeah, they'll ask me a question. 0:12:43.880 --> 0:12:46.000 I mean it's the beginning of a conversation, so it's 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:48.160 kind of like an easy answer. 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:49.959 They'll ask me how I'm doing, Alison, you know, I'm 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:51.160 doing good, had a great weekend. 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:52.200 How how are you doing? 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.960 And then nothing? What am I doing? Well, let's go 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:55.960 through these in dissect. 0:12:56.000 --> 0:12:58.920 Okay, all right, who I'll be Who's gonna be Mikayla, 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:02.240 I'll be Jake, Mikaylain this one? All right, Who's how 0:13:02.240 --> 0:13:04.520 did this thing start? Tell me explain this he liked 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:07.360 her photo? Okay, so I liked your photo. 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:13.040 Start a chat with Jake. That's the operators, Tanya, start 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:13.840 the chat with Jake. 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:22.000 That's you, Jake, No, okay, Hey, how was your Monday? Ben? 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:26.920 Hey, Monday was good. I've been visiting my fam with week, 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.640 so it's been nice. How's your week going? 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:37.120 Impression? 0:13:39.040 --> 0:13:42.080 All right, that was Jake. Here's let's try Taylor. Here's Taylor. Okay, 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:43.400 but like photo. 0:13:43.679 --> 0:13:44.760 Start chat with Taylor. 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:49.439 Hello with five o's how are you? Hey? 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:52.520 I'm doing good, having a chill Monday. How's your day 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:53.000 going so far? 0:13:53.360 --> 0:13:56.000 Brilliant response, brilliant love it, having a chill day, not 0:13:56.080 --> 0:13:59.199 too much, easy going, not to be interested. Perfect, He says, 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:04.560 that's good. It's been crazy moving my recording studios soon. 0:14:04.679 --> 0:14:06.800 I'm trying to wrap up everything. 0:14:07.080 --> 0:14:12.120 Oh nice? Where are you moving your recording studio to blank? 0:14:12.320 --> 0:14:13.080 Spanish? 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:16.800 I almost feel like Taylor, goodbye. That's like too much information, Taylor, 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:18.199 and I only all the stress if you tell me 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:22.760 your life is too crazy. Next, let's start Justin. Here's Justin. 0:14:22.920 --> 0:14:24.440 Okay, start chat with Justin. 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:29.160 Hey, what's your top three favorite places you've traveled to? 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:29.760 Oh? 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:31.000 This is tough. 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:35.360 London is one of my favorite places, so that number 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:39.480 one again type oh, Paris has recently earned a top spot, 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:41.440 and probably Italy, how about you? 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:45.080 I love London, studied abroad there, so it'll be special 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:48.920 to me. I have to go with Japan and Norway 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:49.360 for me. 0:14:49.960 --> 0:14:52.120 And then this is where I think Kayla kind of 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:52.760 loses him. 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:55.000 She does three bubbles, like three. 0:14:54.840 --> 0:14:59.880 Different conversations in a row, and Dame, I studied abroad 0:15:00.080 --> 0:15:02.520 in London and go back there every year. That was 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.240 the first one. And I've been to Tokyo and thought 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:07.280 it was one of the coolest places I've ever been to. 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:10.720 But we'll never go in the summer again. Way too hot, 0:15:10.880 --> 0:15:14.400 loll And then here's another one. Never been to Norway 0:15:14.560 --> 0:15:16.080 but would love to. How's that? 0:15:17.080 --> 0:15:18.000 Or a Polish that? 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.400 And then he leaves the chats over. 0:15:20.480 --> 0:15:23.240 Why the three different individual bubbles of I. 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:26.120 Just felt like it was too long as one. 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:31.480 I don't know, I just I mean, look, it's all 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:34.600 to all these guys. Their loss. But any conversation I'm 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:38.120 realizing that starts, just starts in general, can go the 0:15:38.120 --> 0:15:40.080 wrong way. I mean, what is the right way to do? It? 0:15:40.120 --> 0:15:42.440 Just has to be the right person, not really the 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:43.040 right chat. 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:46.480 You can't say the wrong thing to the right person. 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:48.760 That's true. 0:15:48.880 --> 0:15:52.280 You can't. My first conversation, my first message on Hinge 0:15:52.280 --> 0:15:56.480 from Robbie was like riddled with misspellings and wrote it no. 0:15:57.000 --> 0:15:59.200 True, that was all Kanya and I came in and 0:15:59.240 --> 0:16:00.400 fixed it. 0:16:00.840 --> 0:16:03.320 The message he sent me was like riddled with grammar 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:06.120 and like it was like how are you this weekend? 0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:07.840 Like I missed the stuff and so it's like, you 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:09.960 can't say the wrong thing to the right person. 0:16:10.000 --> 0:16:11.400 These guys are just not it. 0:16:11.480 --> 0:16:12.440 Don't don't lose sleep. 0:16:12.800 --> 0:16:13.760 You did nothing wrong. 0:16:13.920 --> 0:16:15.800 I thought maybe there was something with Justin because you 0:16:15.840 --> 0:16:17.160 guys both studied abroad in London. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:21.000 I thought, all right, huh, how is Paris? Where'd you 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.040 go to Paris? Last year? 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:25.440 We went to a wedding in London and then we. 0:16:25.480 --> 0:16:29.240 Just jumped on the train. Yep, your star went it's 0:16:29.280 --> 0:16:32.600 in underwater train. In case anybody, I just wondering, let's 0:16:32.600 --> 0:16:36.280 get Justin here for a second date update. So Justin, 0:16:36.320 --> 0:16:39.600 I want to drill down for a minute some peace 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:41.120 of mind. So you Sai, where you go out with 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:42.680 somebody and they blow you off and you can't figure 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:45.360 out why Mediana actually could use a second date update 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:49.480 here too, exactly, but we're gonna go with justin right now. 0:16:49.560 --> 0:16:53.640 So you met this girl in college, right yep, and 0:16:53.680 --> 0:16:57.680 then you went on three great dates since give me 0:16:57.720 --> 0:16:59.600 the time spin here. You met, you didn't go out, 0:16:59.640 --> 0:17:01.040 and then you reconnect. 0:17:01.840 --> 0:17:05.719 Yeah, acted one of three great dates, two hikes, a movie. 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:08.720 You know, I was deep into planning date four, and 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:12.280 then she suddenly stopped responding to my text. 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:19.120 Three dates and a Houdini is strange. What was the 0:17:19.160 --> 0:17:21.720 third date? And give me the last few minutes of 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:23.520 the third date? What was the vibe? What was it? 0:17:23.640 --> 0:17:26.520 What were you doing? Yeah? 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.560 So that was the movie and we had a great time, 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:33.560 like good vibes all around, and it seemed like, you know, 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:38.080 there wasn't anything mysterious. She seemed to be happy, and uh, 0:17:38.240 --> 0:17:40.879 you know, left it at that. But I was totally blindsided. 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:42.560 I thought date four was the sure thing. 0:17:43.600 --> 0:17:46.480 Hmmm. It is strange because you would think somebody have 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:50.000 the courtesy, especially knowing her for that long exactly to 0:17:50.080 --> 0:17:51.320 give you heads. 0:17:51.119 --> 0:17:55.239 Up, right, Yeah, we both went to cal State Long Beach. Uh, 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:57.840 I know I know someone on her floor. We hung 0:17:57.880 --> 0:17:59.359 out in the group a few times, like this has 0:17:59.400 --> 0:18:03.199 been a long time, I'm coming and we Actually the 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:06.080 whole reason why we reconnected was I was in security 0:18:06.160 --> 0:18:09.720 at LAX and she looked really familiar, and I could 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:11.720 tell she thought the same about me. So we started 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:15.480 talking and figured out how we knew each other. Exchange 0:18:15.560 --> 0:18:19.360 numbers went out three times, progressing beautifully. Now she's not responding, 0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:22.119 so and I don't want to like overtext. 0:18:22.520 --> 0:18:24.520 No, we want to find out on the air. Okay, 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:27.000 hold on one second, Justin, we're going to get into this. 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:30.680 He's got Monica's her name, he's got her number. To 0:18:30.720 --> 0:18:31.200 the back room. 0:18:31.320 --> 0:18:33.040 The second date updates go either way. 0:18:33.160 --> 0:18:36.919 Sometimes they find them romantic that they did this extra 0:18:37.000 --> 0:18:38.440 gesture to try to get them back. 0:18:38.480 --> 0:18:39.840 So in other times it's the end. 0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:41.400 I'd find it romantic. 0:18:41.960 --> 0:18:42.919 I don't. 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:44.800 I wouldn't tany would know me. 0:18:45.760 --> 0:18:46.920 One out of three not bad. 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:49.200 Okay, well, we'd like two out of three if their 0:18:49.240 --> 0:18:51.280 listeners considered like, we'd like two out of three listeners 0:18:51.320 --> 0:18:53.480 to be listening to this. So Justin's on the phone 0:18:53.480 --> 0:18:55.359 in Long Beach. Listen to this. We are in the 0:18:55.359 --> 0:18:58.119 middle of a second date update right now. This is 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:00.600 something that we would never do. Tanya do it. Sissy 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:02.639 and I would never do this, but Tanya would, and 0:19:02.680 --> 0:19:04.960 so we're doing it. You know, if we were listening 0:19:05.000 --> 0:19:06.800