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Speaker 1: From Hollywood.

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Speaker 2: See you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 3: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 2: We come with things that we've got planned, and then

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Speaker 2: every now and then we're sort of putting a pin

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Speaker 2: in those things to handle whatever happens in the moment.

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Speaker 2: This is right now Claire reaching out to us and

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Speaker 2: basically saying hey hi, hikay hi and saying hey hi,

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Speaker 2: I basically, are you bombed at your maid of honor speech?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I feel terrible.

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Speaker 6: My maid of honor speech bombed. The wedding was this

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Speaker 6: past weekend, and she's my best friend from college and

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Speaker 6: we're super close and it was such a perfect wedding.

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Speaker 6: But I just bombed. I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 6: I made a joke about her being an ugly kid,

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Speaker 6: which is like a running joke.

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Speaker 5: Between us, but no one laughed.

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Speaker 6: Well really, yeah one of them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah those. First of all, I'm sorry it went that well.

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Speaker 2: I mean, there's two schools of thought here. One is

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Speaker 2: you're close enough to that person to have fun with

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Speaker 2: every component of that person, Like, for example, It'sistney Tanya.

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Speaker 2: We work together every day. We don't really get offended

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Speaker 2: by anything that we say to each other. It was

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Speaker 2: the same with me and Kelly RiPP but we didn't

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Speaker 2: have any because we were close. We could, you know,

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Speaker 2: as they say, whind each other up or have some fun.

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Speaker 2: But in this situation, it's almost like, because you're front

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Speaker 2: and center, because you're the maid of honor, you want

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Speaker 2: to limit the risks in that category that you take.

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Speaker 2: And it sounds like you went for it. And there's

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Speaker 2: nothing worse than that feeling. We've all been there of crickets.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like, I'm so scared if I ruined

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Speaker 5: her wedding.

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Speaker 6: And I know like I'm not the center of attention.

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Speaker 5: But I just it went on too long. It was

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Speaker 6: And they're leaving for their honeymoon tomorrow and she's not

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Speaker 6: answering any of my calls or my text.

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Speaker 3: You have to make it up to her about how

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Speaker 3: the rest of the wedding go, like did you guys

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Speaker 3: have fun afterwards?

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Speaker 1: Was there dancing and all that stuff?

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Speaker 5: She just avoided me all night after that speech, and

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Speaker 5: I need to help.

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Speaker 2: It's in your head, Claire, maybe a little this is

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Speaker 2: in your head, like she didn't avoid you. She's getting married,

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Speaker 2: she's celebrating, she's off to her honeymoon, she's not If

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Speaker 2: I get married, I'm not responding to tany and siciny

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Speaker 2: the day after.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I am all night the wedding night, she didn't

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Speaker 5: talk to me all night, like she's my best friend.

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Speaker 7: She's mad. You have to make it up to her.

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Speaker 2: But it's also a narrative you could be creating because

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Speaker 2: you feel bad about what you did.

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Speaker 7: What are you doing right now?

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Speaker 1: Make it up to her right now on the air.

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Speaker 5: How can I make it up to her?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 5: What can I do?

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Speaker 2: What's her name?

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Speaker 6: Audrey?

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Speaker 2: Audrey? What a beautiful name. What would you like to

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Speaker 2: say about Audrey as if you were giving a speech?

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Speaker 2: Make it quick though, remember short.

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Speaker 5: Audrey have known me for so long, And whatever I say,

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Speaker 5: please know that it's kind of stupid and it's not

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Speaker 8: And I love you.

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Speaker 2: Now. I'm gonna take this. We're gonna send it to you.

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Speaker 2: You can send it to her wherever she is and

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Speaker 2: have her listen to it in a PDF. Because your

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Speaker 2: heart's in the right place. I think everybody can sense

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Speaker 2: that a PDF.

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Speaker 1: We will send you the audio clan f m P.

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Speaker 2: Three whatever I can't. Yeah, well they will keep that

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Speaker 3: So they're gonna die because she's going on her honeymoon.

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Speaker 3: That's to waste the money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't don't do that. But your heart's in the

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Speaker 2: right place. We've all been there and bombed in a speech.

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Speaker 2: We know the feeling. And thank you for calling the

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Speaker 2: tune up.

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Speaker 1: I think this is cute that you called us.

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Speaker 2: We'll send you an app. Okay, m P three app

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Speaker 2: mark you know, an app and all boards, bulletin, all points, bulletin. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: let me grab Dylan real fast here. Dylan has an

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Speaker 2: issue at eight hundred five to one to two seven.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Dylan. How are you.

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Speaker 9: I'm doing well, sir.

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Speaker 2: How can we help you about your girl friend? What's

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Speaker 2: the issue? All right?

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Speaker 9: So me and my girlfriend moved in together, I want

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Speaker 9: to say two years of dating, we finally moved in together, Okay,

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Speaker 9: and she moved into my place with her dog, which

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Speaker 9: I know she had a dog all the time. That

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Speaker 9: wasn't a surprise to me, but I was always able

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Speaker 9: to leave and I didn't want to deal with it.

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Speaker 9: So when the dog recently got sick for some reason,

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Speaker 9: because I'm not used to having a house where I

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Speaker 9: need to keep everything clean, I leave stuff laying out.

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Speaker 9: There was a pill laying out, and the dog took

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Speaker 9: whole new store, running to the emergency room. She's fine,

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Speaker 9: just letting you guys know. But it cost two thousand

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Speaker 9: to pay for half of the bill. But it's her dog.

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Speaker 9: That's the only thing that's bothering me. It says. It

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Speaker 9: says it's our dogs. Now, that's what she keeps trying

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Speaker 9: to tell me. But I've had nothing to do with this.

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Speaker 9: We went out.

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Speaker 2: Medicine was it?

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Speaker 9: It was my medicine.

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Speaker 9: like that. I've left it sitting on the couch before

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Speaker 9: I knew it. It turned around she was using it as

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, it's a big bill. Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 2: big bill. I do understand the our concept when you're

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Speaker 2: with someone you care for a pet together. I get that.

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Speaker 2: At the same time, you're still with her.

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Speaker 9: Though, right, I am still with her. Yeah, But I'm

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Speaker 9: just caught on spending so much money when I'm just

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Speaker 9: getting used to moving in with her and her dog

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Speaker 9: is Well, I'm not a terrible pet owner. It's just

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Speaker 2: Well, that is an expensive vet bill. My suggestion would

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Speaker 2: and the relationship are in general. But it sounds like

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Speaker 2: you know we haven't done that. I agree, Well, there's

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Speaker 2: to happen, you need to be clear with how it's

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Speaker 2: going to be handled. But I'm sure anybody would want

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Speaker 2: to split that kind of a bill.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, that really has brought me a lot of perspectives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I haven't.

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Speaker 9: Want done that on the bill. But at the end

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Speaker 9: of the day, when it rains, it pours, or you

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Speaker 9: saved money for a rainy day. Okay, that's exactly what

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Speaker 9: I need right now.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, good luck having a conversation. But I

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Speaker 2: think I have some real clear conversations about expectations in

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Speaker 2: that relationship. Well, I get it, it's our pet. Let's

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Speaker 2: share this. It's out of nowhere. It's something that provides

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Speaker 2: us love and happiness makes sense.

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Speaker 1: And he should just be willing to split it. It

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Speaker 1: sounds like it was kind of his fault.

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Speaker 2: He made a lot of faces. I didn't hear anything

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Speaker 2: out of your mouth. You've had a lot of faces.

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Speaker 7: Because I don't know what you said that was so

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Speaker 7: that like really jolted him, but like you really gave

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Speaker 2: That he knows to get out of the room quick

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Speaker 2: while he doesn't even.

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Speaker 1: Know what it was. Like, Bye, okay, good.

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Speaker 2: Good bye, good one anytime. Okay, so get ready, tany

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Speaker 2: you're gonna do your sixty second exercise. Hey Grace from

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Speaker 2: Ralph's burbank. How are you hi?

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Speaker 5: How are you doing great?

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Speaker 2: It's Ryan Seacrest here.

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Speaker 10: Hi.

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Speaker 2: Hey, So Grace, do you call your story grocery store

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Speaker 2: or a grocery store?

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Speaker 10: It's a grocery store.

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Speaker 2: So it's a grocery store.

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Speaker 11: Yees, grocery store?

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Speaker 2: Think not a grocer restore?

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Speaker 7: No you heard her?

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Speaker 10: No?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, ye Grace?

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Speaker 2: Is it Grace or Grace? I go? Uh okay, all right, well,

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Speaker 2: thank you. It's a long story, but thank you for

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Speaker 2: clearing it up. All right, Ralph says the deals.

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Speaker 3: I honestly believe it is an east coast, west coast.

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Speaker 3: It has to be because MICHAELA is from Rhode Island

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Speaker 2: George's on this.

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Speaker 1: George's on the coast.

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Speaker 2: It has ocean shoreline on these cases. You were there, you.

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Speaker 1: Visited, Hello, Tanya.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so, oh my gosh, we have to keep you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's not through hour fight first of all. Second the coast. No,

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Speaker 2: all right, so here is your topic sixty seconds. You

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Speaker 2: can't use filler words. That's the game. No no, uh no,

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Speaker 2: like we all did it. Your turn before we go,

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Speaker 2: and then the weekend can start for us.

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Speaker 1: You can do this.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna pee my pants. Can you just give me

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Speaker 7: the word?

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Speaker 1: Tanya?

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Speaker 2: Weddings go.

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Speaker 7: Weddings are so much fun. I love weddings. My name

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Speaker 7: is Tanya, and I love weddings. I've been too many

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Speaker 7: of them. I hope to have one someday soon. They

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Speaker 7: are on my vision board. They've been on my vision

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Speaker 7: board actually for my twenty twenty three vision board. There's

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Speaker 7: a lot of wedding inspo. I have some butterflies and

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Speaker 7: some beautiful flowers, and I love hearing people say their

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Speaker 7: vows to each other and I feel like the oh, oh,

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Speaker 7: all right.

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Speaker 2: You gotta start over right. The next topic divorce, No,

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Speaker 2: you can't fight it. Oh.

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Speaker 7: So Ryan talks about divorce a lot and how it's

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Speaker 7: fifty new interruption, sir, thank you. This is my sixty seconds.

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Speaker 7: My name is Tanya. Hi. I love weddings, which is

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Speaker 7: the antithesis of divorce, which I hope, which I on

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Speaker 7: never doing in my life. And Ryan seems to think

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Speaker 7: that they are fifty percent of marriages and in divorce.

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Speaker 2: But I think that.

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Speaker 7: Stat is changing, continuously continues to change and go down.

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Speaker 7: So people are getting divorced less and less in life

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Speaker 7: because people are getting married and enjoying their partners and

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Speaker 7: really working hard, really working hard to have a beautiful marriage.

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Speaker 7: And marriage consists of communication between two people, and when

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Speaker 7: they're communicating in a lovely way and listening to each other,

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Speaker 7: there is synergy.

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Speaker 2: And it's the irony that divorce was the word that

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Speaker 2: took you the whole way through or.

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Speaker 7: A like I was sweating so much, I just couldn't

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Speaker 2: That's that's questionable for me. They say truck drivers too,

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Speaker 7: Yeah, never round. That's the bingo.

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Speaker 2: That's what that's what this is about. And chefs, long hours,

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Speaker 1: But you're married to a chef.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very romantic. It's kind of hot, all right.

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Speaker 2: Today's quote don't ever be ashamed of loving the strange

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 2: Haven't I seen somewhere that they say, if you beware

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Speaker 1: Jake, Yes, we did that as a hack.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Jane and m I mean it's very stereotypical. But

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Speaker 2: what happened? What was that look for?

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Speaker 7: I didn't see the names this whole time.

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Speaker 2: All right, So there's Jake, there's Justin, there's Jack, there's Taylor.

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Speaker 2: But Mikayla. I guess your question is why do they chatting?

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Speaker 2: Then vanish?

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Speaker 3: They'll ask me how I'm doing, Alison, you know, I'm

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Speaker 7: How how are you doing?

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Speaker 1: And then nothing? What am I doing? Well, let's go

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, who I'll be Who's gonna be Mikayla,

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Speaker 2: I'll be Jake, Mikaylain this one? All right, Who's how

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Speaker 2: did this thing start? Tell me explain this he liked

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Speaker 1: Start a chat with Jake. That's the operators, Tanya, start

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Speaker 1: the chat with Jake.

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Speaker 2: That's you, Jake, No, okay, Hey, how was your Monday? Ben?

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Speaker 3: Hey, Monday was good. I've been visiting my fam with week,

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Speaker 7: Impression?

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Speaker 2: All right, that was Jake. Here's let's try Taylor. Here's Taylor. Okay,

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Speaker 2: but like photo.

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Speaker 7: Start chat with Taylor.

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Speaker 2: Hello with five o's how are you? Hey?

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good, having a chill Monday. How's your day

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Speaker 2: Brilliant response, brilliant love it, having a chill day, not

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Speaker 2: too much, easy going, not to be interested. Perfect, He says,

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Speaker 2: that's good. It's been crazy moving my recording studios soon.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to wrap up everything.

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Speaker 1: Oh nice? Where are you moving your recording studio to blank?

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Speaker 7: Spanish?

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Speaker 2: I almost feel like Taylor, goodbye. That's like too much information, Taylor,

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Speaker 2: and I only all the stress if you tell me

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Speaker 7: Okay, start chat with Justin.

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's your top three favorite places you've traveled to?

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Speaker 1: This is tough.

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Speaker 3: London is one of my favorite places, so that number

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Speaker 3: one again type oh, Paris has recently earned a top spot,

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Speaker 3: and probably Italy, how about you?

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Speaker 2: I love London, studied abroad there, so it'll be special

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Speaker 2: to me. I have to go with Japan and Norway

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Speaker 3: And then this is where I think Kayla kind of

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Speaker 1: She does three bubbles, like three.

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Speaker 3: Different conversations in a row, and Dame, I studied abroad

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Speaker 2: Or a Polish that?

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Speaker 7: And then he leaves the chats over.

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Speaker 2: Why the three different individual bubbles of I.

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Speaker 1: Just felt like it was too long as one.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I just I mean, look, it's all

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Speaker 2: Just has to be the right person, not really the

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Speaker 7: You can't say the wrong thing to the right person.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 7: You can't. My first conversation, my first message on Hinge

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Speaker 3: True, that was all Kanya and I came in and

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Speaker 7: The message he sent me was like riddled with grammar

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Speaker 7: Like I missed the stuff and so it's like, you

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Speaker 1: These guys are just not it.

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Speaker 2: Don't don't lose sleep.

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Speaker 7: You did nothing wrong.

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Speaker 3: I thought maybe there was something with Justin because you

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Speaker 2: I thought, all right, huh, how is Paris? Where'd you

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Speaker 1: We went to a wedding in London and then we.

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Speaker 2: Just jumped on the train. Yep, your star went it's

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Speaker 2: get Justin here for a second date update. So Justin,

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Speaker 2: I want to drill down for a minute some peace

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Speaker 2: of mind. So you Sai, where you go out with

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Speaker 2: here too, exactly, but we're gonna go with justin right now.

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Speaker 2: So you met this girl in college, right yep, and

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Speaker 12: Yeah, acted one of three great dates, two hikes, a movie.

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Speaker 2: Three dates and a Houdini is strange. What was the

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Speaker 2: What were you doing? Yeah?

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Speaker 12: So that was the movie and we had a great time,

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Speaker 2: Hmmm. It is strange because you would think somebody have

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Speaker 12: Up, right, Yeah, we both went to cal State Long Beach. Uh,

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Speaker 12: I know I know someone on her floor. We hung

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Speaker 12: been a long time, I'm coming and we Actually the

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Speaker 12: so and I don't want to like overtext.

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Speaker 2: No, we want to find out on the air. Okay,

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Speaker 2: hold on one second, Justin, we're going to get into this.

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Speaker 2: He's got Monica's her name, he's got her number. To

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Speaker 1: The second date updates go either way.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes they find them romantic that they did this extra

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Speaker 2: So in other times it's the end.

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Speaker 7: I'd find it romantic.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't tany would know me.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, we'd like two out of three if their

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Speaker 2: to be listening to this. So Justin's on the phone

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Speaker 2: something that we would never do. Tanya do it. Sissy

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Speaker 2: and someone else was hosting, I don't know that i'd

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Speaker 2: want to know on the air why someone blew me off.

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Speaker 2: But Justin can't figure it out. Met this girl in college.

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Speaker 2: They go out a few times, go out three times. Actually,

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Speaker 2: he says two the dates were hikes, then the movie,

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Speaker 2: and so three total, and he's planning the fourth and

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Speaker 2: then come. I don't know where she blows him off,

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Speaker 2: but three dates is a lot and is so let's

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Speaker 2: find out from Monica, who's listening, what the deal is. Justin,

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Speaker 2: be very quiet. I'm gonna bring her up now. Okay,

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Speaker 2: here we go. That's good, we found her. Hey, Monica,

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Speaker 2: good morning. It's Ryan Seacrest. You're on KIDSFM with us.

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Speaker 2: Good morning. I said that, but good.

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Speaker 5: Morning, good morning.

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Speaker 2: I'm pumped to talk to you named Tanya here with me.

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Speaker 2: Yes hi, Hi, So pardon our intrusion, but we're talking

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Speaker 2: about a dude named Justin that you met, maybe in college,

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Speaker 2: and went out with them recently.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, what about him?

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Speaker 2: What do you think what about him? Do you like him?

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Speaker 4: Yes, truly, Like he's great. He is so cute and

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Speaker 4: but like you said, like we met each other in college.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy, what a small world.

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Speaker 2: So how have the dates been with him?

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Speaker 4: You know, we had a really great time, Like we

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Speaker 4: went on some hikes, we went to dinner, and it

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Speaker 4: was just I don't know, it was just it was

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Speaker 4: all really awesome, but.

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Speaker 10: I don't know, I just kind of moved on.

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Speaker 1: So oh, like moved on with someone else.

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Speaker 4: No, No, not really, It's just I I got a

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Speaker 1: And.

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Speaker 10: I don't know it's gonna work out.

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Speaker 2: Just give us a little specificity on the Okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, so we we went to go see this movie

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Speaker 4: and he paid for the ticket and which great, was

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's fine, Like I don't I don't mind

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Speaker 4: our first two hikes or sorry ever two dates were hikes,

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00:21:36,400 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 4: and then we went to wabble grill after one of

446
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:42,639
Speaker 4: the hikes, and then he then mowed me his half.

447
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 1: Wait, like I don't know he was a venma request.

448
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, well like like he didn't like. He then mode

449
00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 4: me like I paid.

450
00:21:54,560 --> 00:21:56,120
Speaker 1: For it, Well you paid for it, God it got

451
00:21:56,119 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: it okay.

452
00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 4: Yeah, which no big deal, but he m then he

453
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,680
Speaker 4: was like, well, you know, I got to say for

454
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:04,800
Speaker 4: half of this, and then.

455
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:07,080
Speaker 5: I don't know.

456
00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 4: It just seems kind of like one of these guys

457
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:13,360
Speaker 4: it's weird about money, and I don't know, Like.

458
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 2: So it's he's the premise here, like he asked you

459
00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 2: out he should handle it. Is that what we're going

460
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:19,520
Speaker 2: with here? Is that what we're saying.

461
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 13: I mean that.

462
00:22:21,040 --> 00:22:22,840
Speaker 5: Sounds awful, but yeah, like I.

463
00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 4: Just I kind of want to be I want to

464
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 4: be taken care of and I don't can't see anything

465
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 4: wrong with that.

466
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 2: Everything else though, outside of that, you liked about.

467
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 4: Him, Yeah, Like I really really like this guy.

468
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,640
Speaker 2: But if I were to, if I were to meet

469
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:42,520
Speaker 2: Justin and and dig down into this a little bit,

470
00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 2: what would you want me to ask him?

471
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:54,800
Speaker 4: If how he feels about taking care of the woman

472
00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:57,159
Speaker 4: in his life that's important to me?

473
00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 2: Let me bring Justin is listening right now. Oh my, Justin,

474
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,199
Speaker 2: that's going answer the question. That's how it's going. You

475
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 2: heard her, what do you think?

476
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 12: Okay, I mean she's not wrong. Like I dated a

477
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:15,439
Speaker 12: woman who really took advantage of my generosity, So I

478
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 12: mean I probably do overthink it a little.

479
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: I don't know.

480
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, that's so funny. I dated a guy

481
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 4: who never paid for anything.

482
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:25,159
Speaker 5: But this is.

483
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:30,000
Speaker 2: Really sotsd on. Both these issues are rooted issues. Okay,

484
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 2: we're making progress here in our therapy session. Why do

485
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 2: we collaborate so you're hyper sensitive justin to what you've

486
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,719
Speaker 2: been through, Monica, you're the same. Now that we've heard

487
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 2: each other's truths in this scenario, I think we can

488
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 2: bridge the gap justin, don't you.

489
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 11: Yeah?

490
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:49,639
Speaker 12: I mean, so here's the deal. Like, I would honestly

491
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:50,920
Speaker 12: love to take care of you.

492
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 2: This much.

493
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,200
Speaker 8: That's that's really awesome.

494
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,040
Speaker 4: Sorry, I've got to chugemile on my face right now.

495
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 3: Love so much.

496
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 12: I mean, I would, like, I'm actually I'm really generous,

497
00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 12: and I just didn't want you to think I was

498
00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:11,359
Speaker 12: showing off or being like a chauvener for by paying

499
00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 12: for everything.

500
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: So you guys, I.

501
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 9: Would love that.

502
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 10: Yeah, I would love that. I would love to go

503
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 10: out with you again.

504
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:27,119
Speaker 4: If you're asking, if you or maybe I'm asking, I'm.

505
00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:32,760
Speaker 2: I'm asking, can you? I want to hear more on

506
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 2: the air. We're all vested.

507
00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:38,240
Speaker 9: Now, Yeah, well you aren't.

508
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 2: We've got to. We've got a full investment in this relationship.

509
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 4: So justin, will you go out with me again?

510
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:47,680
Speaker 2: Oh? You're asking him?

511
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 1: I love this.

512
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 5: I don't know.

513
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,920
Speaker 2: It's who's who's paying for this date?

514
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 12: Not Oh I am. I am paying for this date

515
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 12: and it's going to be an awesome date and I'm

516
00:24:58,480 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 12: already planning it.

517
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,239
Speaker 2: There's been all this talk in the news about what

518
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 2: if we as a culture went to a four day

519
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 2: work week, would we be even more productive? I'm all

520
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 2: for it, right, so fine, the four day work week.

521
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,440
Speaker 2: Some companies are doing it, some California congress people have

522
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 2: proposed it. But the debate is what day would be

523
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 2: the best day off? Would it be the Friday before

524
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 2: the weekend, would it be the Monday after the Sunday?

525
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 2: Or would it be midweek? To break it up ciciny.

526
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: The mid week one kind of throws me off.

527
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 3: But actually I just started savellah on this preschool schedule,

528
00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 3: and I think it's going to be really good for her.

529
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,439
Speaker 3: She's doing Monday, Tuesday, Wednesdays off, Thursday, Friday.

530
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:41,000
Speaker 2: The midweek for me just adds another Sunday. So I say,

531
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:41,679
Speaker 2: no time.

532
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not too it for the working world. So

533
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,239
Speaker 3: let's say it's Friday. It's Friday for me, all right,

534
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 3: So it would be Friday not Monday.

535
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 2: But think about the relief in Sunday not being Sunday

536
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 2: and being a Monday off.

537
00:25:52,880 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 3: I can't get whenever we have a Monday off, that

538
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,639
Speaker 3: throws off my week because then I get back Tuesday

539
00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:59,399
Speaker 3: and I'm playing catch up from stuff that like I

540
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 3: should done Monday, and I don't like it.

541
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 1: Gig, because it gets me.

542
00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 7: You would get adjusted, I think you would. You would

543
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 7: front load.

544
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 2: And you would Tony, what would you do?

545
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 7: I would like Monday because to me, Monday's like my

546
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 7: most where I'm like my let's go baby. So I

547
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 7: feel like I would be very I would get a

548
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 7: lot done on Monday.

549
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? Be productive because of

550
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:20,880
Speaker 2: the super productive.

551
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 9: Yeah.

552
00:26:21,560 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 2: I go back and forth on this because I like

553
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 2: the idea of Sunday never feeling like a Sunday because

554
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 2: Mondays off and Monday then begins feel like Sunday, but

555
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:28,480
Speaker 2: Tuesday's already Wednesday.

556
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 3: I always gonna have that feeling. Whether it's Sunday or Monday,

557
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 3: you're gonna have that scary feeling.

558
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 2: Is the excitement of having the Friday off because it's

559
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 2: all ahead of you more appealing because then on Wednesday

560
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: it's Thursday and Thursday's Friday. I mean that to me

561
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 2: in my head is the way I think I would.

562
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 2: So I would vote after going back and forth on this,

563
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,880
Speaker 2: No Wednesdays, maybe Mondays, but I think for me.

564
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: Fridays Fridays for sure?

565
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:53,880
Speaker 2: Or what's your final systemy Fridays for sure?

566
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 7: What's your Friday final Monday?

567
00:26:55,920 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 2: Okay, well let's see what I heard decides.

568
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 3: Well, they did, and they're not going to but they

569
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 3: did a Reddit pull on this Friday did win by

570
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 3: forty seven percent.

571
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 2: It's a mentality.

572
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: It's a mentality on air, whether Ryan secret.

573
00:27:11,160 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 2: Emily's on the line, Good morning, Emily, how are you?

574
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 5: I'm good?

575
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 8: How are you?

576
00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 2: I'm super good? So your friend's ex husband posted with

577
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 2: a new girlfriend. What are you telling me?

578
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,760
Speaker 10: So basically, you know, they kind of divorced about like

579
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 10: three months ago, and you know, she doesn't have no

580
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 10: contact with him. She's unfollowed him on old social media. However,

581
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 10: like me and her friends have him on social media,

582
00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,479
Speaker 10: and we've seen like, you know, this post of his

583
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 10: new girlfriend, and we're kind of just like in a

584
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 10: predicament where like we don't know whether like to tell

585
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 10: her or not, or like if it's better for her

586
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 10: not to know, because it's just like if we don't

587
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,280
Speaker 10: tell her, are we bad friends? But then it's like

588
00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 10: if we do tell her, is that not a good

589
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 10: thing as well?

590
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 2: Well? I mean he's posting it up, so like why

591
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 2: is telling her an issue?

592
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 10: Because it's just like, you know, where is this I

593
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,640
Speaker 10: got out of sight, out of my things?

594
00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:04,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well that makes sense to me.

595
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 7: I think respect that if she unfollowed him and they

596
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 7: she went through all that, then I think respect that.

597
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to get involved?

598
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 11: No?

599
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, I just I don't know.

600
00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 10: I feel weird because you know the way that like

601
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 10: they left off, he ended, like you know, he's the

602
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 10: one who ended things and then out of know where,

603
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 10: like he just pops out with this new girlfriend. You know,

604
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 10: it's very fresh.

605
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, you know, how fresh was. I mean,

606
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,560
Speaker 2: that's the thing. But you're I think we're all on

607
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 2: the same page. You don't want to open the door

608
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 2: to bringing it insight in mind, out of sight, out

609
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 2: of mind is the way you get through stuff. And

610
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:39,600
Speaker 2: I subscribe to it, and I think that's what you

611
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 2: got to do. So turn your head, don't don't bring

612
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: it up. It's only going to create extra drama, tension, anxiety.

613
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 2: Why do it? It's not worth it, Emily, Okay, got it,

614
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 2: all right, all right.

615
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 9: Thank you.

616
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 2: Just appreciate the call.

617
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: Thank you.

618
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 2: You take care. I was just reading something the very interesting.

619
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 2: You know, who swears the most? Like which country swears

620
00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: the most?

621
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 1: Like in their own language?

622
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, in the US swears the most? Think about

623
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 2: what state? What state swears the most?

624
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 7: Oh, good one, that's a good guess.

625
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, the most foul mouth state. Can you believe it's Maryland?

626
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 3: It's over there, Maryland not expected East coast though.

627
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 2: Then Louisiana, then Georgia, Virginia, and Ohio. South Dakota swears

628
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: the least.

629
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: Where did California land on that list?

630
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 2: Somewhere in the middle. Okay, who swears the most? Here

631
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 2: between Systney Tanya myself.

632
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 1: I think equal. Tanya swears a lot.

633
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 2: Yes you do.

634
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 6: Why.

635
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 2: Like we we know you, we're with Yes, I do not.

636
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 7: I don't want to say I do not ever like

637
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 7: zero percent now, but i'd say on the grand scheme

638
00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:56,160
Speaker 7: of things, it's.

639
00:29:56,000 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: Like Louisiana, Yeah you are.

640
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 3: I'm going to record you during our pitch meeting and

641
00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 3: you'll see you don't.

642
00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: Even notice you do it.

643
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:04,640
Speaker 2: You know.

644
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 7: I don't like that. I don't like cursing.

645
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:09,720
Speaker 2: Well, then that's why we're here to put the back.

646
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 3: I used to curse a lot, but I feel like

647
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 3: I've really toned it back now that my kids are

648
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: able to repeat words and stuff.

649
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 2: I like to get it out in one session. Just curse, curse, curse,

650
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: you know, like eight o five before I go to sleep,

651
00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: Just get it all. So let's grab Liam here at

652
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,440
Speaker 2: one eight hundred five to two, one to two seven.

653
00:30:29,640 --> 00:30:35,440
Speaker 2: Liam calling in West Hollywood says his brother keeps hitting

654
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 2: on his friend. By the way, I was in West Hollywood.

655
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 2: I was going to get a smoothie the other day,

656
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 2: and you ever have it where your maps tells you

657
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: the place is down the street, But then when you

658
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 2: get there. You can't get there because you've got to

659
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 2: go into a parking deck to get to the place. Sure,

660
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: so I go into the parking deck to get to

661
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 2: the place to write the escalator up to get the smoothie.

662
00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 2: I have the worst luck with automated exiting tickets and

663
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 2: parking decks. Why I'm going to get the purse and

664
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 2: from the booth out to scan my ticket, and people

665
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,360
Speaker 2: are very upset with me. I'm not moving through the stall.

666
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 2: When you get stuck behind something, I am the one

667
00:31:09,960 --> 00:31:10,360
Speaker 2: in front.

668
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 5: I know.

669
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 3: I know.

670
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 2: It's not the worst because my QR code or whatever

671
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 2: it is, never works, my bar code and it never

672
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: can get that red little laser to read. It happens

673
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 2: here too. By the way, the studio shouldn't.

674
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 7: Pay for your ticket before you get in the car.

675
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 7: You could do that.

676
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: No, yes, well here we have at Okay.

677
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: No, I don't do that.

678
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 2: I mean because I can work pay, I can pay

679
00:31:32,960 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 2: the ticket before the smooth I had to get the

680
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 2: validation from the smoothie shop.

681
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 7: And then I'm sure there was a spot where you

682
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 7: could pay for the parking.

683
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 2: It wasn't.

684
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: There's no chance that he would even look around for

685
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: that don't.

686
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:45,880
Speaker 2: Just happened right down the street from Liam. That's what

687
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell you. Okay, Liam, Hi Liam, how

688
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 2: are you?

689
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 3: Hi?

690
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 9: I'm good?

691
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 8: How are you guys?

692
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:51,760
Speaker 12: Okay?

693
00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: Good? So we're fine. I think, I mean, we're a

694
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 2: little loose today, but we're fine. Can you tell us

695
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 2: about your brother and what happened?

696
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 8: Yeah? Yeah, So so my brother met one of my

697
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,920
Speaker 8: friends over the summer. They met just like one time,

698
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 8: and ever since then he's been like dming her and

699
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 8: flirting with her and like all.

700
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:13,600
Speaker 9: That type of stuff.

701
00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 8: And it doesn't bother her. But I don't think she's

702
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 8: into it either. And I have tried to talk to

703
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,040
Speaker 8: my brother and he just thinks that, you know, I

704
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 8: don't want like my brother dating my friend, which it's

705
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 8: not that, you know. I just feel like he's going

706
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 8: to something that isn't isn't going to happen.

707
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 2: So why doesn't she just be honest and say like, hey,

708
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 2: I'm not interested in some nice way?

709
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:36,320
Speaker 3: Right?

710
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 8: Oh, I guess she should do that. I guess I

711
00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 8: was trying to do that for her when I talk

712
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 8: to him.

713
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 2: But the thing is, I think it does look like

714
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: you're trying to get in the way, it's my opinion's

715
00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 2: gonna be much more effective if she's just upfront and honest.

716
00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 8: But it's my brother and it's my friend, but it's.

717
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 7: Not your relationship.

718
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not you doing the text back and forth.

719
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,840
Speaker 2: They are and she's kind of playing along. I feel

720
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 2: like if she's playing along, she's leading them all.

721
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 1: Well, she's telling you the truth because maybe she's not.

722
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,239
Speaker 2: Maybe she isn't it and she doesn't want to tell

723
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:10,120
Speaker 2: you that. Yeah.

724
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 8: With the home run, I guess I need to have

725
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 8: another conversation with her or she should tell him. It

726
00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 8: shouldn't be my responsibility.

727
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: That's what I think. But Liam, you sound happy about it,

728
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 2: You don't sound upset.

729
00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe just let it happen naturally.

730
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 8: I guess. I just I just don't want my brother

731
00:33:28,280 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 8: to like mess up my relationship.

732
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: There it is, you know, there it is. Liam. You're

733
00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: being a little selfish.

734
00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,000
Speaker 2: I'm the first time for everything. Liam, All right, Well

735
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 2: we you. I mean, that's what we think, and good luck.

736
00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 2: But I think they should work it out. And maybe

737
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 2: Sistney's right, maybe she is into him a little bit.

738
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: How are you with the parking decks there in West Hollywood.

739
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 8: With the parking Yeah, I had to get a permit

740
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 8: to park on the street in front of by the Way.

741
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 6: Yeah.

742
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 2: Read the sign. The permit signs are so confusing there.

743
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 1: I got a ticket the other day when I went

744
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: to go get my hair.

745
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 2: Done, parked on there for six hours. You told me

746
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:13,800
Speaker 2: everybody's gonna get a ticket.

747
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:15,280
Speaker 1: I was the over four and a half hours.

748
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:16,800
Speaker 2: I got a ticket for you being in your hair pleasure.

749
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: I read the sign.

750
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 7: Weird.

751
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,759
Speaker 2: I didn't read this sign. You can't. You can't say

752
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 2: to the officer. I thought I read the signs.

753
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 3: It was fine the timing wise, I just didn't have

754
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:27,520
Speaker 3: one of those permits.

755
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:28,319
Speaker 1: It threw me off.

756
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 2: Thank you for calling. We appreciate you listening to us.

757
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 2: I don't want to go to Rebecca. I I feel

758
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 2: something with this. She is dating a guy who didn't

759
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 2: tell her he had been engaged previously. She's asking is

760
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 2: that a big red flag? And if so, what does

761
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:43,800
Speaker 2: she do about it?

762
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 3: I want to know how long they've been dating, because

763
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 3: at what point did he finally tell her?

764
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:48,439
Speaker 2: Rebecca, are you there?

765
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 11: I am hi, Hi.

766
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 2: Thank you for bringing this issue up. We want to

767
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:56,759
Speaker 2: stop everything and get into it. With you? How did

768
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 2: you find out he was engaged before?

769
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 11: So I was doing like my you know, Instagram stalking,

770
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 11: and I went to like his tagged photos and I

771
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 11: saw a picture that he was tagged in from his

772
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:13,280
Speaker 11: engagement party. There was just one photo.

773
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 2: But and how long have you been dating him?

774
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,480
Speaker 11: We've gone on two dates and we're going on a

775
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 11: third this weekend.

776
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 2: Oh so do you think I'm just trying to play

777
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:24,239
Speaker 2: this out? Do you think it would have been up

778
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 2: to him to say on dates one or two? Hey?

779
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 2: You know, just have you talked about your dating histories? Like?

780
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,080
Speaker 2: Has that gotten into a lengthy conversation with the two

781
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 2: of you?

782
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 11: Not lengthy? And we talked about it a little bit,

783
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 11: But I feel like maybe that's something you bring up

784
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:39,839
Speaker 11: early on.

785
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,640
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't disagree, I'm just wondering, how do

786
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 2: you how do you bring that up on the first

787
00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 2: or second?

788
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 3: I think this is early on. Rebecca, you're saying that

789
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,920
Speaker 3: he has time to do it still, And it's like

790
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 3: that she that she found out on her own, but

791
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,800
Speaker 3: that was her own doing. She went in there digging.

792
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:00,840
Speaker 3: But I think you maybe you know who knows in

793
00:36:00,880 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 3: the third or fourth that he would have had the

794
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 3: chance to tell you, and it's probably not the greatest

795
00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 3: first thing to start the first day.

796
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,840
Speaker 2: Look, I agree with Litany. If you start dating someone

797
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 2: and they haven't told you about this, that might be concerning.

798
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 2: But when you're trying to make a good impression with

799
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 2: somebody new and you really want them to feel like

800
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 2: the focus, I don't think bringing it up in the

801
00:36:20,680 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 2: first three dates is the best idea. Tonny, what do

802
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 2: you think?

803
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean it is too early. I feel like

804
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 7: this is the stage where you're just getting to know

805
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,400
Speaker 7: each other, so I feel like he maybe was planning

806
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 7: on telling.

807
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:36,760
Speaker 3: You just here's.

808
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:40,359
Speaker 2: My advice, Rebecca, forget you know it, lay low, and

809
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 2: see if he brings it up at the right time.

810
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:48,040
Speaker 13: Because if you feel like Tanya, if you feel like

811
00:36:48,120 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 13: it's gone on for a little while where you guys

812
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 13: have covered a little bit of your history together, when

813
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 13: you've talked and he doesn't mention it, then I think

814
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 13: there's more reason to be concerned.

815
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 2: I would give it a little bit of breathing him

816
00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 2: right now.

817
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: Now you have to what are you gonna tell him?

818
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:03,759
Speaker 1: I was snooping through your.

819
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 11: Instagram exactly like I can't say.

820
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 2: That Yeah, put away the dust brush, all your detective tools,

821
00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,439
Speaker 2: put those away for a second, enjoy the moments, let

822
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 2: this unfold.

823
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 7: That's but this is going to be on the top

824
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 7: of her mind every minute that she's with them, and

825
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 7: she's going to be like trying to like lead him

826
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 7: to this answer, disciplined.

827
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: Just as long as he gets there.

828
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 7: Like she you know what you should ask him the

829
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 7: first minute you sit down is like, how serious have

830
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 7: your last relationships been?

831
00:37:29,760 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: Ok, But here's the thing. We'll be watched TV. We

832
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,399
Speaker 2: don't want spoilers, but when we date people, we look

833
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 2: for spoilers. True, let's not search for spoilers here. Good luck,

834
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 2: thanks for calling.

835
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 11: Sure, thanks.

836
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 2: Oh to give advice and not take it. It is

837
00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 2: a difficult job. Let's get to this story. I you know,

838
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:50,320
Speaker 2: this could be a new trend. I don't know what

839
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 2: you're thinking about if your parent, but parents are passing

840
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 2: out playdate business cards so their children can make friends.

841
00:37:56,480 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, it's picking up the steam on social and

842
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 3: kind of going viral. Parents are passing out these cards

843
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 3: so that their children can make friends. And it's they say,

844
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 3: it's so much easier. It's kind of cute. Maybe genius

845
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 3: especially if your kid is a little bit on the

846
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 3: more shy side, or or even if you're like an

847
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 3: introvert like parent that kind of has a hard time

848
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 3: making conversation and going up and meeting new parents and

849
00:38:18,960 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 3: things like that.

850
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,440
Speaker 1: It's like a car. It's almost it's essentially like a

851
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 1: business card.

852
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 3: It would have like your kid's name, maybe a photo

853
00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 3: of them, the parents contact information.

854
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,680
Speaker 1: They say like let's play or let's play with.

855
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 3: Sarah or whatever, and then your kids just have a

856
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,400
Speaker 3: stack of these schedules and then whenever they want to

857
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 3: whenever they want to play with the kid, they give

858
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,480
Speaker 3: their card to that person. And then when they go

859
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 3: home your you know, your kid gives you the card.

860
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 2: Here's what's cute. It says like, let's play. I'm Sarah,

861
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 2: my mom is toy, her number is Yeah. That's just

862
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 2: so cute.

863
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:52,839
Speaker 1: It is.

864
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,239
Speaker 2: I kind of I think it's great because I mean,

865
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 2: you've talked about this before. I don't quite understand it,

866
00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:01,319
Speaker 2: but you know, you are looking for commonalities when it

867
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 2: comes to your kids sometimes growing up and people that

868
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 2: they can pair with right and they can spend time.

869
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,440
Speaker 2: I know my sister, she's she's loving it when there

870
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 2: is a friend that Flora meets that Flora likes, and

871
00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 2: a mom that Meredith meets the Meredith.

872
00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:17,240
Speaker 1: That's like the Eureka MATCHI yeah.

873
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 2: It's like, wait, I can't believe I actually like the

874
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 2: mom and the kids like each other, right or not

875
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 2: this ever happened, but like or this scenario where the

876
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 2: kids hit it off but the moms don't necessarily yell.

877
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 7: I'm sure that happens all the time.

878
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: Right.

879
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 3: We have a mom's night out next week with all

880
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:31,760
Speaker 3: the moms.

881
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 2: Where you go? What do you do?

882
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: Do you know?

883
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 3: The place is TVD on the calendar, so I have

884
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 3: no idea. Probably like a local restaurant or bar, I'm assuming,

885
00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 3: and we're all just gonna have a wine night and

886
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 3: get to know each other a little bit time start.

887
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,280
Speaker 3: It starts at like six or seven I think probably

888
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 3: seven eight. I mean, look, it's not like you know,

889
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 3: I got it as a last seven PM, A couple

890
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:53,879
Speaker 3: of hours till nine.

891
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: You know, I'll hang it's fine.

892
00:39:56,080 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: But I was with friends the other night and it

893
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 2: was like nine oh three. They ordered dessert and I

894
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,439
Speaker 2: was like, okay, guys, how long nine to twenty six?

895
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Speaker 2: I finally had to say and I've gotten I mastered this.

896
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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to excuse me. I've got an early morning.

897
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Speaker 7: Yeah, nine twenty six is late because by the time

898
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Speaker 7: you get home, depending on where you.

899
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Speaker 2: Want to be there.

900
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,800
Speaker 7: Oh, she's done that, you're out to dinner.

901
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to excuse me. I'm going to.

902
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:25,520
Speaker 3: Bet literally what you said to us, the lesson that

903
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 3: we were here.

904
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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, because everybody want to have one more drink outside.

905
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,280
Speaker 2: I'm like, guys, we have to stop.

906
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Speaker 1: It was a nice night, I was.

907
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Speaker 2: I sent invitations with We'll start at seven, were wrapped

908
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:38,719
Speaker 2: by nine.

909
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Speaker 7: One of those dinners, so that it was just so funny.

910
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Speaker 2: Friends, family, and tubs. We are done today. Uh, let's

911
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,000
Speaker 2: get to what You've been very quiet over there, Engineer

912
00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 2: Jeffrey Tubbs. Well, I mean, if you need to need

913
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Speaker 2: me to say something, no, I don't am out. We're done.

914
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:03,319
Speaker 2: We're done for today, but maybe tomorrow. All right, mariw

915
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Speaker 2: we got a full show to sounds good. Anything else

916
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 2: not for now? All right, We're good for now.

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Speaker 1: I think of us spoke when spoken to type of situations.

918
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Speaker 2: Or when not having his runch depends if he's having

919
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Speaker 2: his omelet or not. Thanks for listening to On Air

920
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,600
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Speaker 2: talk to you again tomorrow.