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Speaker 1: I just rage quit my job of five years. Now.

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Speaker 2: The company's failing and begging me to come back. I

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Speaker 2: said no and twisted the knife.

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Speaker 1: Am I the asshole? You know? We love sticking it

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Speaker 1: to the man.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we love like at two brutang stabbing, Caesar

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Speaker 2: and the back kind of deals.

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Speaker 3: You know, taking those big corporate daddies and just bending

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Speaker 3: them over and just spanking them into submission.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, slicing them up like a Caesar salad, you know,

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Speaker 2: no delicious, saving all the having all the senators come

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Speaker 2: together and giving them, giving them a little.

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Speaker 4: Poke in the back.

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Speaker 1: That's right, what they care.

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Speaker 2: Oh so I'm a bit of backstory. I have worked

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Speaker 2: at this very small, less than fifty people company for

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Speaker 2: about five years. I was brought on as an assistant,

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Speaker 2: and within three years I worked my way up to

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Speaker 2: one of the heads of the departments.

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Speaker 1: Oh, big, big head honcho over here.

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Speaker 4: Haunch'll I get it. You're a big deal. You an't

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Speaker 4: gotta it all. Gottap prove it us. You know where

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Speaker 4: are the common man?

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Speaker 1: That's right?

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Speaker 2: My job, Oh my god, oh my god, You're gonna

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Speaker 2: love this job. My job is.

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Speaker 1: A niche within a niche.

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Speaker 2: So I was able to train myself in a very

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Speaker 2: industry specific knowledge niche industry, industry. Bro there's all and

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Speaker 2: when everyone, when anyone explains their job on Reddit, they're

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Speaker 2: super vague and they just say niche industry.

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Speaker 3: Like you, why not just say, like, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: like food or like retail or like find it, Like yeah,

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Speaker 3: no one's gonna find something. Give something.

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess maybe it's more niche than finance.

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Speaker 3: Oh maybe what on a spoon collecting? I don't know,

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Speaker 3: Just say just say spoon collecting.

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Speaker 2: Come on, say something, say an expert, Yeah, expert in spooning.

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Speaker 1: Yea.

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Speaker 2: My company has its problems. Many of the higher ups

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Speaker 2: are toxic, resort to bullying, and overall can be dicks.

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Speaker 1: Ooh, but I.

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Speaker 2: Put up with it because I was learning very valuable

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Speaker 2: skills and I truly am passionate about what I do

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Speaker 2: in the industry niche industry.

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Speaker 1: I have so much insert passion.

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Speaker 2: Here in niche industry with a pandemic struck. My work

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Speaker 2: refused to let people work from home, which isn't that

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Speaker 2: like like, wasn't it like like mandated?

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Speaker 1: Basically?

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, like I imagine if they you know,

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Speaker 3: like sued them.

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Speaker 1: Or whatever, like they they might be able to win,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, one person walked out and I was so scared

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Speaker 2: I started to have a panic attack. I live with

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Speaker 2: someone who was high risk, so I was terrified I

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Speaker 2: was going to give it to them. So, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: can't believe this is putting op through this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I had to threaten to quit before they let me

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Speaker 2: work from home. They finally relented, and guess what, my

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Speaker 2: productivity skyrocketed. I increased our winning rate by twenty three

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Speaker 2: percent since the beginning of twenty twenty alone. It has

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Speaker 2: been better for my mental health to be away from

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Speaker 2: the bullies and I can focus easier. It also improved

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Speaker 2: my health. I lost thirty pounds without even trying. My

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Speaker 2: carpal tunnel practically disappeared. So it sounds like literally everything

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Speaker 2: is better because they.

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Speaker 4: Work from home.

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Speaker 1: Opie's life is just like dramatically changed.

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Speaker 3: Also, I love how like OPI lost a lot of

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Speaker 3: weight when like literally everyone else like par fifteen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exact quarantine fifty like getting caked, getting caked, just

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Speaker 2: like taking cake from the fridge, shoving it into your

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Speaker 4: It's like, does everyone listener?

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Speaker 2: Last week I was offered a job for a similar

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Speaker 2: role in a bigger competing company. They were offering me

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Speaker 2: a twenty three thousand dollars a year increase in salary

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Speaker 2: and a fully remote position, and I was.

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Speaker 1: On the fence.

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Speaker 4: Why are you on the fence? Ope?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 2: Because despite more money, it was hard to let go

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Speaker 2: of a place that I've spent so much time and

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Speaker 2: so much professional development on Now. I also was worried

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Speaker 2: about several of my coworkers.

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Speaker 4: The ones who aren't bullying.

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Speaker 2: I mean, but that twenty three k Like you can

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Speaker 2: still be friends with these people outside work?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like I truly think so many people get.

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Speaker 3: It's like the sunk cost fallacy kind of a thing.

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Speaker 4: Like yeah, yeah, just.

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Speaker 3: Go there, Like it's so much better to cut and

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Speaker 3: go to greener pastures like everything.

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Speaker 2: Girl, yeah, or man, we don't know a niche gender,

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Speaker 2: niche niche gender? They they will you use they?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 2: On Monday morning, I go to one of my higher

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Speaker 2: ups with my dilemma. She was so supportive, immediately congratulating

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Speaker 2: me and said, I'm going to talk to the CEO tomorrow,

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Speaker 2: I'll tell him your situation, so he has the opportunity

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Speaker 2: to counter offer you, which is great.

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Speaker 4: That's okay, that's super good.

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Speaker 1: So what do you want?

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Speaker 2: I told her it wasn't really the money. It was

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Speaker 2: also the remote work policy. So op, he wants that

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Speaker 2: young remote work work from a beach and BOLLI, you know,

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Speaker 2: sitting drinking margot Rita's type it on the laptop the life,

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Speaker 2: you know.

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Speaker 1: The life of luxury life.

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Speaker 2: Said, Hey, I get a call from the higher up

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Speaker 2: and this is how our conversation went.

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Speaker 1: Her.

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Speaker 2: The CEO is willing to raise your salary, but first

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Speaker 2: he wants to negotiate you coming back into the office. Hey,

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Speaker 2: what doesn't he realize this other position is fully remote? Her? Yes,

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Speaker 2: but he says, the company has been generous with working

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Speaker 2: with you on being remote, and now you really need

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Speaker 2: a doctor's note to remain such. Why are people so

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Speaker 2: dumb generous? There was a global pandemic. It wasn't some

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Speaker 2: sort of favor to me. It was what the company

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Speaker 2: had to do because of the VID. I'm glad they

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Speaker 2: finally did it, but I had to beg because I

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Speaker 2: you know by by creation.

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Speaker 4: Her.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but some people remained in office this whole time. Me,

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Speaker 1: that's not my freak of problem.

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Speaker 2: They were not taking it seriously and there were no

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Speaker 2: rules implemented by the company regarding masks, social distancing, et cetera.

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Speaker 2: Them staying in the office made me realize I had

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Speaker 2: That's why he says it's generous he has let you

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Speaker 4: Me.

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Speaker 2: I also prove it. I am more effective in a

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Speaker 2: remote position. It has been a net positive for the

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Speaker 4: Her, I understood me.

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Speaker 2: I don't care if you give me a salary increase.

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Speaker 2: This is about r esb CD respect, baby h. I

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Speaker 2: was on the fence about this new position, but now

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Speaker 2: I see that I have to take it. Consider this

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Speaker 2: my official notice. I quit. I just signed the contract

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Speaker 2: with a new company. Thanks for making it easy on

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Speaker 2: me old company. And there is an update, John, there's

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Speaker 2: an update. There's an update. But I want I want

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Speaker 2: to get your feel Do you think OP should quit

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Speaker 2: and what do you think is like the minimum necessary

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Speaker 2: for OP to quit in this in this.

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Speaker 3: Case, Yeah, and like super quick too, Like these companies

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Speaker 3: that are like so obsessed with a stupid like they're

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Speaker 3: literally willing to like you know, lose more money or whatever,

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Speaker 3: spend more money on the salary than something that like,

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Speaker 3: you know, let's let's say Ope's correct has proven more

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Speaker 4: Like it's twenty more productive.

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Speaker 3: Like come on, like it's so dumb, but I think that, man,

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Speaker 3: I mean, for OP, I would honestly probably say not

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Speaker 3: just full time remote, but like definitely beat the twenty

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Speaker 3: gone through a lot of like headache. So that's another

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Speaker 3: thing Pstra way of like do I want to kind

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Speaker 3: in the past.

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Speaker 1: I need to be paid more to deal with that.

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Speaker 2: I totally agree, Oh, he should definitely get more. And

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Speaker 2: I'm also curious, like who was working for someone who

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Speaker 2: was just like the biggest donkey dick during COVID, Like

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Speaker 2: I want to hear your your horror stories and if

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Speaker 2: you've ever leveraged a new offer against your old company

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Speaker 2: I would love to hear your like your job, your

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Speaker 2: job hopping stories, love to do with us?

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Speaker 1: Yes, please, but John, there is an update. Let's get

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Speaker 2: So I got another phone call the next day from

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Speaker 2: I reiterated that I told you the first time I quit,

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Speaker 2: I can't leave them high and dry. I hung up again,

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Speaker 2: But it's so I did. Ultimately to finish out the

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Speaker 2: They kept assigning me new projects that I couldn't possibly finish,

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Speaker 2: it's my last day. I am leaving. My computer is

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Speaker 2: the execs got teary.

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Speaker 1: And kept wailing about but who is going to do

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Speaker 2: I shrugged and said, you guys had two weeks to

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Speaker 1: Flip at it on them. Yo.

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Speaker 2: The CEO ran out of the back door as soon

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Speaker 2: as he heard me come in through through the front door,

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Speaker 2: so you wouldn't have to say goodbye, loll. He continued

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Speaker 2: texting me to do work throughout the day, so I

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Speaker 2: ended up blocking his number. Wow, and about the new job.

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Speaker 2: I started the new job and it's been a dream.

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Speaker 1: Hey.

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Speaker 2: The pay and benefits are so much better. There isn't

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Speaker 2: a bullying problem here, and it's almost like the blinders

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Speaker 2: everyone here has been nothing but kind and supportive and understanding.

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Speaker 2: Of course, there's always room for improvement, but it's like

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Speaker 2: a phone call from my old company. Here are some

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Speaker 4: What has happened?

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Speaker 2: None of this paperwork is getting done and no one

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Speaker 1: Come on? Will I come back if they hire me

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: Will I come back if they hire me an assistant

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Speaker 2: Now my old position has been split into two positions

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Speaker 2: We hired someone for one of the positions, but they

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Speaker 2: Loull good for them. They sent me a contract to

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Speaker 4: I already have a job.

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Speaker 2: Now my old position has been split into three different

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: My old position has split into four positions. That's right,

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Speaker 2: Will I come back if they literally offer me double

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Speaker 2: I got to tell them straight up, there are some

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Speaker 1: Sorry, but f you.

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Speaker 2: Moral of the story never accept the counter and don't

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Speaker 3: Wow. Oh, such a satisfying ending. Man, I know Opie

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Speaker 3: really stuck it to them, really did, and man like

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Speaker 3: Opie was working quadruple overtime doing four jobs.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy.

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Speaker 2: If you have to fire, if you have to hire

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Speaker 2: mean it sounds like like op is being way underpaid.

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Speaker 1: Exactly what idiots? They fumbled the bag?

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Speaker 2: It sounds like op was literally the whole company, like

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Speaker 3: Over something as dumb as like them wanting people in person,

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Speaker 3: Oh I hate that.

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Speaker 4: Hate it, hate it.

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Speaker 2: But I would love to hear about your stories of

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Speaker 2: just terrible workplace situations or job hopping. If you have any,

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Speaker 2: In fact, we love hearing all your comments.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Sam, I think I'm gonna read some from

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Speaker 2: Let's hear them.

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Speaker 3: These are from the video my disabled wife inherited one

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Speaker 3: First comment from public subscriber Mary and Bathy. What a jerk,

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Speaker 3: he doesn't deserve her, gotta say I agree. Next from

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Speaker 1: Hilarious take.

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Speaker 3: And finally, public subscriber Rastafar eleven hundred new car, new

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Speaker 1: He's buggin'.

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Speaker 3: I think you're right, Rastafar eleven hundred and I think

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Speaker 1: So please do that below and we just might read

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Speaker 3: My husband refuses to do any chores because that's a

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Speaker 3: woman's job.

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Speaker 1: Now, I don't know if I want to keep our baby.

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Speaker 2: I love like that husband's logic where it's like I

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Speaker 2: only do the fun parts of parenting. You do diapers,

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Speaker 2: you clean the house, You make the food.

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Speaker 1: How how's how am I supposed to put dishes away?

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Speaker 1: When my big old package of meat just getting in

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Speaker 1: the way.

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Speaker 5: My sausage can't possibly fit in the dish washer. I've

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Speaker 5: got a broom size handle between my legs. Shot it

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Speaker 3: Here we are, So me twenty six female and my

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Speaker 3: this story.

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Speaker 2: Fuck you, Jake, Yeah, change that a to one. Oh,

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Speaker 2: because that's what you are, big fat joke.

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Speaker 1: God.

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Speaker 3: Now we've been together for five years and married for

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Speaker 3: three So long, too long, way too long? Their hash

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Speaker 3: have been a red fight earlier.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, come on, how do you not recognize the misogyny?

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Speaker 2: Like one year in, Yeah, he's got to be able

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Speaker 2: like Philosopher like Andrew T.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's like the modern day Socrates. Baby.

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Speaker 3: Now, we've both recently started trying for a baby. I

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Speaker 3: for a baby with some sluicy Yeah, my husband has

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Speaker 3: been trying for a baby with anyone.

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Speaker 1: That, any Susan or Anne that walked his path.

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Speaker 3: So we've been recently been trying for a baby as

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Speaker 3: we both felt like that was the next step in

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Speaker 1: And three weeks ago I got a positive test back.

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Speaker 4: Let's go, it's eight.

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Speaker 1: It's what this man Samuel. Now, we were really really happy.

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Speaker 3: We told our families and now my mom and mother

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Speaker 3: in law want to throw a big baby shower for us, and.

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Speaker 1: It was just super good news all around.

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Speaker 2: All right, really quick question, Yes, were there ever baby

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Speaker 1: You could argue that the baptism is a shower or

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Speaker 2: That's where that's where baby shower comes from, the sprinkling of.

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Speaker 3: The Oh, we found it, You're welcome. I was holding

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Speaker 3: out knowledge for three thousand years.

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Speaker 1: Shit dog.

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Speaker 3: So two nights ago, me and Jake were getting ready

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Speaker 3: What do you mean go to the house. Where are

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Speaker 3: they now? They're at their home. So he told her

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Speaker 4: That she turned them all on? Is it her fault?

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Speaker 3: It's it's interesting that he's telling her that instead of

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Speaker 2: Off, like like not, what if we both did it?

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Speaker 4: It would be crazy?

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Speaker 1: The quality is too shocking.

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Speaker 4: Whoa.

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Speaker 1: Now, he can be a bit lazy at times.

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Speaker 4: It's that's like an understatement of.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it has become a nightly routine for me

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Speaker 2: So okay, so it is his fault.

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Speaker 1: He's over here just flipping on lights all night, all

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Speaker 3: And then but now pregnant wife used to walk through

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Speaker 2: Lights I'm trying to get the night night sleep sleep.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm I'm just carrying our child.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't feeling very well, and I asked if he

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Speaker 3: literally just standing by the door, you know, very opportune

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Speaker 2: I feel like like and also, Babe, you got to

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Speaker 1: Where's Where's my Where's my nighttime?

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Speaker 2: Pebia jays, But honestly, even with like within the realm

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Speaker 2: of misogyny, I feel like electricity is a man's job.

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Speaker 2: He got zeus with the lightning bult like he could

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Speaker 2: be many zeus with his little little flicky switch exactly.

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Speaker 1: Now. I was a little hurt, but I didn't want

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Speaker 4: Damn.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is very sad.

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Speaker 4: It'll be a great marriage.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then when I come back, Jake goes on this

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Speaker 3: very long and completely unprovoked rant about things like just

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Speaker 1: Anything's gonna change, babe, and you're.

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Speaker 3: Still expected to cook, You're still expected to clean and

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Speaker 1: Because how can you expect to be a good mother

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Speaker 1: if you can't handle just a little work.

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Speaker 4: Yo, Like the light switch thing? You know, bad enough?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man rants and just like cements that he's a

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Speaker 1: Literally out of nowhere, from a light switch.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we went from a light switch to like, you

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Speaker 2: Like because while she was going to turn off all

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Speaker 2: the light switches and they're at home, he was on

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Speaker 1: Exactly, Bro, he was. He was getting gold nuggets of wood.

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Speaker 2: He's getting He's like in the war room with all

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Speaker 2: the other badass alphas.

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Speaker 3: Now, he wasn't yelling or anything. He was talking to

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Speaker 1: Damn. That's even worse.

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Speaker 3: Like they're just like you're just human garbage, Like I'm

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Speaker 3: just scraping you off my shoe.

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Speaker 2: Make my mac rob right now, right now.

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Speaker 1: If I have to tell you one more time, it's

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Speaker 1: macadamia nut butter and not this BS peanut butter. We're done.

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Speaker 1: It's I'm an alpha you're a meat sack. Now.

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Speaker 3: I was shocked because I had never heard him say

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 3: The rant went on for about thirty minutes. Thirty minutes.

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Speaker 3: Good God, this is big Andrew ta energy over here.

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Speaker 2: This man all right, this man might not have a

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Speaker 2: future with this marriage, but he has a future in

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Speaker 2: Alpha Male podcast. If you get rant on the fly

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Speaker 2: thirty minutes while talking down to women, you got an

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Speaker 2: audience takes it, takes it, takes skill it saying stupid

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Speaker 2: shit even with context. Yo, dang.

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Speaker 1: A true king, a true king has emerged.

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Speaker 2: Hey, hey, where your crown? Well, that's all right, my king,

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Speaker 2: my liege.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Now, he was going on and on before I interjected

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Speaker 3: and asked, well, what do you plan on doing to

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Speaker 3: saying he works his butt off at his job to

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00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,800
Speaker 3: provide for me and what is going to be our

452
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:46,919
Speaker 3: future children. I have something funny to add to this

453
00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:48,639
Speaker 3: at the at the end, I'm gonna I'm gonna save it.

454
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 3: I'm gonna save it for the end. Is she working

455
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 3: to for context?

456
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:52,680
Speaker 1: I don't work.

457
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 3: At the moment, my job was not paying enough to

458
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 3: justify me going to it. So now I am a

459
00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:01,520
Speaker 3: full time college student. So she's basically like she's probably

460
00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 3: doing that to like get a higher paying job. Like, okay,

461
00:22:03,800 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 3: I'm getting paid low. Let me like up my skills

462
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 3: and then get like higher pay afterwards.

463
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,119
Speaker 2: Like even if you are working, like I feel like

464
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 2: it still makes sense to help around the house. Yeah,

465
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,040
Speaker 2: you know, yeah, Like it's just like it's like a

466
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 2: nice balance. Like if I go over to a friend's

467
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 2: house or something, like they might cook and I might clean. Right,

468
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 2: It's like it's just like even though it's like I

469
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:26,199
Speaker 2: feel like it.

470
00:22:26,440 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 1: Just it just feels it just doesn't feel right.

471
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like this what but I think what what

472
00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 2: this this dude is his thing is like this woman

473
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 2: is now my slave, Like I think that's all.

474
00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,440
Speaker 3: Now that she's with my child, now I can just

475
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 3: order her to do anything.

476
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

477
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,119
Speaker 3: He ended by saying that it doesn't matter how I

478
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 3: feel physically or mentally, it's a mother's job to push through.

479
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 3: And if he helped and babied me, I would never

480
00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:58,120
Speaker 3: be a good mother.

481
00:22:58,280 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 1: Who's baby and.

482
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 2: Who actually right actually asking a herd a baby, He's.

483
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,960
Speaker 1: The one getting warm milk and tucked in before.

484
00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 2: That, like, literally, she's about to have a baby, but

485
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 2: now there's already another baby on the way and it's

486
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:15,560
Speaker 2: her husband acting like a shit.

487
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 3: I wonder if we can flip the narrative, like, oh,

488
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 3: are you too weak to flip a white a little

489
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 3: white switch?

490
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. You can't pick up a brud because you're

491
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:30,800
Speaker 1: too You can't. You can't bear to lift the dust

492
00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 1: bin to pour it into trash.

493
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,520
Speaker 4: This guy crill.

494
00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:39,240
Speaker 3: I got extremely upset and started yelling, and I said,

495
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,879
Speaker 3: I wish I would have known this is how you

496
00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:44,440
Speaker 3: felt before I got pregnant with your baby.

497
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: Facts.

498
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,679
Speaker 3: There was a moment of silence before he started crying

499
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 3: like a beta.

500
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 1: I had to.

501
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 2: Really turned it into a whole ass baby.

502
00:23:56,160 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 3: It really is, though, and he left for the night

503
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 3: to day at his mother's sise.

504
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 1: Stop acting like a little baby.

505
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 4: I'm going to my mom.

506
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 1: I'm going to my momy me. I'm a big of

507
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:17,320
Speaker 1: what I say.

508
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 3: He hasn't called back yet, and my mother in law

509
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 3: and sister in law have called me, berating me, saying

510
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 3: I broke Jake's heart with what I said, and I

511
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 3: need to apologize immediately.

512
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 1: Pause you are both women? Are you kidding me? Are

513
00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:36,919
Speaker 1: you kidding?

514
00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 2: Maybe he didn't say what he said? Yeah, he probably.

515
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 4: Yeah.

516
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,720
Speaker 1: He was like, she said she didn't want to be

517
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,199
Speaker 1: a mom to our child, and.

518
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:45,919
Speaker 2: I asked her to turn off a light switch and

519
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 2: she said no. And by the way, I don't want

520
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 2: to be a mother to your child. Yeah, he's like, hey,

521
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,160
Speaker 2: maybe mind? He said it, like, hey, maybe mind turning

522
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 2: off a light switch. I wish I would have known

523
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 2: you'd ask me shit like that before I got pregnant

524
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 2: with our child.

525
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 1: Now I don't know what to do. Should I get

526
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 1: rid of it?

527
00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's exactly what he said, And until I apologize,

528
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 3: he is not coming home.

529
00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 4: Tantrable alert.

530
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. Really, I do not know how to feel.

531
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,960
Speaker 3: So am I the a hole for yelling at my

532
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 3: husband after he said he isn't helping me with anything

533
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 3: during his pregnancy because it's a mother's job to deal

534
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:26,399
Speaker 3: with it.

535
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 2: No, you're not the a hole, But holy shit, dude,

536
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 2: you are in a tricky situation pregnant with a dude

537
00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 2: who just like showed his true colors.

538
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:41,879
Speaker 3: I so like, oh, it's it's really bad, but I

539
00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 3: do I do have a clap back.

540
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been saving. I've been saving.

541
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 3: So he's like, Okay, you're the mom, you're the woman.

542
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 3: You have to do all the chores. You have to

543
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 3: do it, Like why are you sitting around? Turn off

544
00:25:52,040 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 3: a light, sweep something, cook something?

545
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 1: Right?

546
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 3: She should be like, why are you standing by the

547
00:25:56,640 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 3: door and sleeping when you should be making money? Yeah,

548
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 3: I'm confused because you're the provider, but yet you he

549
00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 3: lays about for eight hours a day. I'm confused, Like,

550
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,360
Speaker 3: you should be up and working right like you are

551
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 3: constantly and I would be babying you and you know,

552
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 3: being not you. I'm babying you and not helping you

553
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,240
Speaker 3: become a real father by allowing.

554
00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 1: You to just layze about for eight hours every night.

555
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: I mean, I think that is an excellent clap back, man,

556
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,760
Speaker 2: just like, oh, get back to work.

557
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:33,800
Speaker 1: How dare you come into this house?

558
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 3: I mean the actual answer is like divorce, divorce, But yeah,

559
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 3: that's one thing she could do to annoy him.

560
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, man, But I do not envy this relationship.

561
00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 4: I at all do not