1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning, 2 00:00:10,800 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: Today's tip is to take time to recognize and celebrate 4 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 2: your own growth. What can you do now that you 5 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 2: couldn't do. 6 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: A year ago? When you expand the time frame from 7 00:00:30,480 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: day to day, progress might be more apparent than it 8 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: is in the moment. As kids hit the end of 9 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: the school year, many will look back and see what 10 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: they can do now that they couldn't do in September. 11 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: Maybe it's writing their name, or setting the table, tying 12 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: their shoes, reading, staying home alone, making a basket when 13 00:00:57,440 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: the basketball goal is at full height, finding the area 14 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: under a curve, driving. Sometimes my kids have presented portfolios 15 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:09,120 Speaker 1: of their work at the end of the year. It 16 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 1: is really cool to see how even something like a 17 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:17,680 Speaker 1: self portrait can improve with time. It is satisfying for 18 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:24,199 Speaker 1: adults too, to reflect on new knowledge and skills. Progress 19 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: often happens gradually, but when we focus on a specific 20 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: and long time frame, like a school year, we might 21 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:39,600 Speaker 1: be able to recognize and celebrate our own growth. Maybe 22 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 1: when you started this year, you could barely run a mile, 23 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: and this spring you ran a five k. Maybe you 24 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 1: started a new job in late summer and felt a 25 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: little overwhelmed, but you just got a positive performance review 26 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:59,080 Speaker 1: and shared some insider knowledge with a new hire. How 27 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: cool is that. Maybe you've set up regular deposits to 28 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: your retirement account and you've actually stuck with a journaling habit. 29 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: Maybe you have finally hired enough people for your team 30 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: and trained them so well that work is starting to 31 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: feel less stressful. All of these are really big deals, 32 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:22,880 Speaker 1: but they are hard to see in the moment. It 33 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 1: doesn't feel much different to run one mile or one 34 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: point one miles. Maybe your job stress has fluctuated quite 35 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: a bit over time. Because of that, it can be 36 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: hard to say day to day that things are truly 37 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: getting better. But when we zoom back out to a 38 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: longer time horizon, progress often becomes more apparent. You never 39 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: have to do much, You just have to keep going, 40 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,520 Speaker 1: and in the long run, a lot of little steps 41 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:59,919 Speaker 1: add up now to be sure, maybe you don't see 42 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: progress on some things in life. A child who is 43 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 1: having academic trouble at the beginning of the year is 44 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 1: still struggling. Maybe a series of crises means your finances 45 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: are actually in worse shape than they were a year ago. 46 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: Unlike in school, life doesn't always move forward and set 47 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: steps with eighth grade following seventh grade like day follows night. 48 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: But if that is the case, maybe we just need 49 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: to zoom the time horizon out a little more. Life 50 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: goes up and down, and it is quite possible that 51 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: in another six months or a year things will be better. 52 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: So keep your eye on that and keep trying. You 53 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: just might have something to be proud of by the 54 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 1: time the next school year ends. In the meantime, this 55 00:03:56,200 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 1: is Laura. Thanks for listening and to making the most 56 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: of our tasks. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear from you. 57 00:04:11,320 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: You can send me your tips, your questions, or anything else. 58 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 3: Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram at 59 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 3: Before Breakfast Pod. That's b E the number four then 60 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:27,480 Speaker 3: Breakfast pod. You can also shoot me an email at 61 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 3: Before Breakfast Podcasts at iHeartMedia dot com. That Before Breakfast 62 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 3: is spelled out with all the letters. Thanks so much, 63 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 3: should I look forward to staying in touch. 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