1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:06,119 Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone, it's. 2 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 2: The freendshell, Hey Sky, good morning. 3 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:09,520 Speaker 3: Good morning. 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 4: Hi. 5 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 5: So what's going on with this guy Jim? Of course 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 5: he is waiting by the phone. So you went out 7 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 5: with him? You feel like maybe you're being ghosted? Can 8 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 5: you kind of give us the backstory how you met, 9 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 5: about any dates you've been on and all that good stuff. 10 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, So I met Jim on the apps and it 11 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,120 Speaker 4: went out, and I mean I thought it was really 12 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 4: cute when we matched, and like I was even way 13 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 4: more into him, like when I realized he was super 14 00:00:33,200 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 4: funny too, and you have the same humor all of that. 15 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 2: And like, funny will. 16 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:43,960 Speaker 4: Get to me every time, like you know, like we 17 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 4: hit it off in the bath, like you got me. 18 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:49,920 Speaker 4: But yeah, so. 19 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 5: I if an ugly guy is funny, then is that 20 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 5: I'm asking for a friend? Oh yeah, Like if an 21 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 5: ugly and normal looking guy is funny, then that that's 22 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 5: the same as being hot and not funny. It helps 23 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,319 Speaker 5: if he's hot and not funny, would you go out 24 00:01:06,360 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 5: with him? 25 00:01:08,080 --> 00:01:10,680 Speaker 2: Probably? Not? OK, just just a sidebar here, all right. 26 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,240 Speaker 5: So anyway, so he was funny and you were attracted 27 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 5: to him, and you thought the date went well. 28 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:18,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, and we went back to his place, you know, 29 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 4: after hanging out whatever, We hung out some more and 30 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 4: like we ended up hooking up. 31 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 2: But I just I think he might have just been 32 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 2: using me. 33 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 4: I mean after I left his place, Like, I haven't 34 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 4: heard anything. He hasn't text me back, he hasn't like 35 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 4: answered my phone call or my messages or anything. So 36 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 4: I don't know what happened. 37 00:01:37,319 --> 00:01:39,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's not good. No one likes that. 38 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 5: So let's call this guy Jim and I'm going to 39 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:44,000 Speaker 5: play a song comeback. 40 00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:45,320 Speaker 2: We'll call him. You'll be on the phone. 41 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 5: I'm going to ask some questions on your behalf and 42 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 5: try and figure out what's going on. The hope, as 43 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 5: always is that he's got a good reason for not 44 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 5: reaching out and that he wants to see you again, 45 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 5: and then we'll set you guys up on another date 46 00:01:56,760 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 5: and pay for it. All right, let's get at the 47 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 5: bottom of this part two, when he met a phone 48 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 5: after Lady Gud got back. In two minutes, Fread Show's on, 49 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 5: Lady God Got the Fread shows You and a Bucks 50 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 5: in the show Down with Kiki will play in ten minutes. 51 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 5: The Entertainmer report, right, before that. Hey, Sky, All right, 52 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 5: let's call Jim. You met on the apps, you had 53 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:17,799 Speaker 5: what you thought was a really good date, you had 54 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:20,200 Speaker 5: some fun after the date, and you haven't heard from 55 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 5: him since, and you want to know why, as anybody would. 56 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:34,800 Speaker 2: Okay, let's call him now. Good luck. Hi is this Jim? 57 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 5: Yeah? 58 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 6: This is a gym. 59 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 3: Who's this? 60 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 2: Hey Gim? Good morning. My name is Fred. 61 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 5: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show, 62 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,079 Speaker 5: and I have to tell you that we are on 63 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 5: the radio right now, and I would need your permission 64 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 5: to continue with the call. Do you mind if we 65 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 5: chat for a second on the air. Won't take long. 66 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 5: You can hang up anytime. 67 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 6: I mean, I guess are what are you calling about? 68 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 5: Well, we're calling about a woman named Sky, who I 69 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 5: guess you met recently on one of the apps and 70 00:02:58,400 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 5: you guys went out on a date. 71 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 2: Do you remember meeting her? 72 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:04,400 Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, I remember Sky. 73 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 5: Okay, sounds a little bit labored, you know, one of 74 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 5: those like eh, okay. Well, so she called us and 75 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 5: had nice things to say about you and the date 76 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 5: and mentioned that you guys went home together and that 77 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 5: she hasn't heard from you since, and so she was 78 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 5: hoping that we could figure out maybe why you haven't 79 00:03:20,720 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 5: called her. 80 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 2: Can you tell us what happened? 81 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:29,400 Speaker 6: Oh wow, oh wow, I of course she did this. 82 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 6: Uh sure, Yeah, let's let's go ahead and just go 83 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 6: ahead and get this done with. So yeah, like, I mean, 84 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 6: you're right. We went out, did a great date, she 85 00:03:39,560 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 6: came back to my place. Things you know, things escalated, 86 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 6: she spent the night whatever. Right, So next morning I 87 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 6: wake up, he is not in best which is a 88 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 6: little weird. I'm like, all right, we'll make choose in 89 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 6: the bathroom, whatever the case may be. I hang out 90 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 6: for a little bit, check my email, and then I 91 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,320 Speaker 6: started hearing noises from my kitchen. So I'm like, you know, 92 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,440 Speaker 6: what's going on? I like, walk down stairs. I turned 93 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 6: the corner and there she is in my kitchen eating 94 00:04:04,960 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 6: a full course like breakfast and that I didn't. 95 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 3: Have, by the way, like she door dashed this food 96 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:13,920 Speaker 3: to my. 97 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 6: House and yeah, like that's I guess, but she didn't 98 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 6: get me anything. 99 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:27,520 Speaker 5: Oh no, we got over here and just just cooking 100 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 5: it up downstairs. 101 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 2: Yeah wow, Well maybe. 102 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 6: She cooked breakfast for me, Like maybe that's I mean, 103 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 6: that would be really sweet and thoughtful and it would 104 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 6: have been like, oh wow, this is definitely an awesome girl. 105 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,160 Speaker 6: Like I walk downstairs and she's got all this breakfast food, 106 00:04:42,160 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 6: but she doesn't have a thing for me, Like she 107 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 6: has nothing for me. She just ordered door dash to 108 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 6: my house for herself after spending the night with me, 109 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 6: and I paid for dinner the night before, mind you, 110 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 6: so like I don't know. It was just like one 111 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 6: of those situations where I walked down I'm like, oh, 112 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 6: did what did what did you get? And she just 113 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 6: talked about all things she got, and I realize this 114 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 6: is nothing for me. She didn't even order me like 115 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 6: pancakes or eggs or anything. 116 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:07,359 Speaker 5: Okay, so she didn't cook this stuff, like, she didn't emmeally, 117 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 5: guys set up down there. She didn't find stuff in 118 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,159 Speaker 5: your fridge and make herself something to eat or whatever. 119 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: You know. 120 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 5: She she just woke up and was like I'm hungry 121 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 5: and ordered iye hoop or whatever and then just sat 122 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 5: there and ate it. 123 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 3: And then sat there and ate it. 124 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 6: Didn't wake me up, didn't let me know she was 125 00:05:23,240 --> 00:05:26,799 Speaker 6: ordering anything, didn't like even consider me by getting me anything. 126 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 2: I can't even have. 127 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 6: Somebody super awkward breakfast, right, it was super awkward, and 128 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,719 Speaker 6: so eventually she left and I don't know, like I 129 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 6: sat on it for a little bit and I realized. 130 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 3: Like that was super weird. That's so weird. 131 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 6: That's and I was like, I don't this is not 132 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 6: somebody that I want to continue anything with. 133 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 5: Let me, Sky is here and it has been very quiet. 134 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 5: Are you want DoorDash right now? But get yourself something 135 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 5: to eat and leave us all out of it? And 136 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 5: I forgot to mention that gym. I sorry, very forgetful. 137 00:05:54,920 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: That's why over some door gash Sky the tables turned here. 138 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 5: Like let's say that Let's say he goes downstairs and 139 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:05,800 Speaker 5: orders himself a nice little McDonald's breakfast or something, and 140 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 5: you go down there, he's eating a big breakfast and 141 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:09,679 Speaker 5: he didn't get you anything. 142 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 2: You'd be like that way this guy for me, I mean, like, 143 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 2: how am I supposed to know what he likes to eat? 144 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 4: I mean, if he doesn't like to eat that fire. 145 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 2: If you want somebody to eat. 146 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 6: It was breakfast food, you know, like we're not talking 147 00:06:27,680 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 6: about some specialty like. 148 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 3: Restaurant as far as like sushi or. 149 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 6: Something like that. Like you couldn't order me pancakes and 150 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 6: eggs I mean and. 151 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 5: Like an order like you could you could if you 152 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 5: didn't want to order him anything starting to rupt you, gym. 153 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 5: But if you don't want to order anything, you could 154 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 5: just leave. You could just say, on the way home, 155 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 5: do what everyone else does and grab something from the 156 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 5: drive through your. 157 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:52,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, I planned on saving you some like, well that's nice. 158 00:06:52,960 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that would have been really often to eat cold 159 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 3: old food. 160 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 6: That would have been That would have been. 161 00:06:57,040 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 3: A better solution. 162 00:06:58,360 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 6: I guess. 163 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 3: I don't know. It was just super red. 164 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 6: It was like really awkward then, and I don't know, 165 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 6: like in my mind, I just found that incredibly inconsiderate. 166 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 6: I mean, it's one that like, if you want to 167 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 6: order food like that would have been fine, But the 168 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 6: fact that you didn't even think about ordering me anything 169 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 6: didn't wake me up to be like, hey, I'm thinking 170 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 6: about ordering some door dash and all that. Also, it's 171 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 6: a little presumptuous to think that you could just stay 172 00:07:18,320 --> 00:07:19,679 Speaker 6: at my place the next day. 173 00:07:19,480 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 2: To kill It's so rude. If a guy did that, 174 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 2: we would be killing him. Yeah, that's terrible. 175 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,160 Speaker 5: See, at first I thought you went down there and 176 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 5: opened his fridge and started cooking stuff, which as long 177 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 5: as there's something for really. 178 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: He rude would be right that, that would be rude, 179 00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:39,560 Speaker 2: That would be right here. I I can't even imagine. 180 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 5: Can you imagine a big tim you come home, you're 181 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 5: there and he orders, you know, door dash for himself 182 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 5: and didn't even ask you if you wanted something. 183 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, house, But yeah. 184 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 6: That wasn't the whole joke with like women too, where 185 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 6: it's like if you stop at a gas station and 186 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 6: you ask your girlfriend or wife and you're like, oh, 187 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 6: do you want anything? 188 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 3: They say no, you still have to get them. 189 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was a lie. 190 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, you order a full door desk breakfast and you 191 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: don't even get me. I mean even eggs and bacon 192 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: would have been a nice gesture, and I would. 193 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 2: Morning. I don't think, I. 194 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 5: Mean, I don't think it's gonna matter. Just take a shot, 195 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,440 Speaker 5: Just do what everybody else does, to Kiki's point, and 196 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 5: just shamefully eat it in your car so that your 197 00:08:25,640 --> 00:08:28,840 Speaker 5: partner doesn't know, like everybody knows when you're in a relationship, 198 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 5: you sneak and shame eat. Everybody knows that, and you, 199 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 5: on the other hand, right out in front of everybody, 200 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:35,960 Speaker 5: Like that's not very nice. 201 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm an honest triction, girl, that's some real big behavior. 202 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 5: And if you just got him something, then it's like 203 00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 5: it just justifies the whole thing. It's like, well, I 204 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 5: thought I would get you something, you know, like I 205 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,839 Speaker 5: and even if he doesn't like it, that doesn't matter. 206 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 5: It was the fact that you considered him, but instead 207 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,760 Speaker 5: you're eating in his house food. No, No, I don't. 208 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 5: I don't blame him, Skuy, I don't blame him. 209 00:08:57,640 --> 00:08:57,720 Speaker 2: No. 210 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 6: Here's the I love breakfast food. I love pancakes, I 211 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:04,080 Speaker 6: love the eggs. Brunch is honestly my favorite meal of 212 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 6: the day. I mean, who doesn't look pan You. 213 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 3: Never told me that, well we would have one gate Sky. 214 00:09:11,160 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 6: I'm I didn't tell you my. 215 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 3: Favorite breakfast food, but you know we talked about other things. 216 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 5: Okay, all right, look, Jim, I'll ask the question. I 217 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,719 Speaker 5: know the answer. Would you like to go out with 218 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 5: Sky for breakfast? Maybe we'll pay for it and both 219 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 5: of you get to. 220 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: Eat this guy. 221 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest, guy like you were fine, 222 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 6: but this was such a major wretch flag to me 223 00:09:33,240 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 6: that I'm just I'm gonna go ahead and say no. 224 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 6: And I think that you and I to just go 225 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 6: are separate ways, and maybe next time I order food 226 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 6: for the guy that you have, I don't know sky food, 227 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,640 Speaker 6: he's straight. 228 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 2: I don't know why. 229 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 5: This is surprising, okay anyway, but I never seem to 230 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 5: know why. Guys, Sky Jim, thank you for your time. 231 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: Best of luck to both of you.