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Speaker 1: Bellahamine contributed to our little little sheet here that we

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Speaker 1: have a little shared document and people write their ideas

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Speaker 1: for the show into or in contribute whatever. And you

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Speaker 1: said summon to the effect of who am I supposed

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Speaker 1: to share graphic details about my life with if not

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Speaker 1: my husband?

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Speaker 2: Exactly?

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Speaker 1: So the question was how much mystery do you leave

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Speaker 3: So I'll put it out there?

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Speaker 1: Eight five's where's the line? Well, no, she'll tell her

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Speaker 1: story and she'll go back in. No, don't worry, Jason.

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Speaker 1: You're a full time member of the show. You get

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Speaker 1: to stay. Jason's immediate meet is to do someone else's job. No, No,

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Speaker 1: I want you to sit right there. She's gonna tell

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Speaker 1: her story and then go do her job. You don't

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Speaker 1: have to do everyone else's job. Do we have to

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Speaker 1: have that speech today? You do everyone else's job and

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Speaker 1: you don't have to. I want you to relax, put

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Speaker 1: your feet up if you want. Well, they're probably not,

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Speaker 1: because I don't worry about it, you know. I just

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Speaker 1: love how Jason's the first one to step up to

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Speaker 1: do somebody else's job. You don't have to do it. So, yeah,

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Speaker 1: what what is the situation ahead? What is the example

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Speaker 1: that you have when did this present itself in your relationship.

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Speaker 4: Well, a couple of days ago, I had to use

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Speaker 4: the restroom and I'm scared, and I tell I'm not shy.

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Speaker 1: No, well, I mean maybe a little shy. I remember

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Speaker 1: that this is the radio, but I mean not too shy.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like, I hope I can say this word

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Speaker 5: You can't.

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Speaker 2: I can't.

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Speaker 4: Okay, medical thing. It's a medical okay, proving. So I

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Speaker 4: tell Ben everything, like literally everything. And so the other

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Speaker 4: day I went to it into the bathroom and I

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Speaker 4: had hemorrhoids.

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Speaker 2: And I went and, well, I don't know if it's hemorrhoids.

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Speaker 2: I talked to my doctor.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you make things up.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we don't.

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Speaker 6: We don't.

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Speaker 1: We don't have to get to and okay, we don't

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Speaker 1: have to get to in a detail about Okay. So

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Speaker 1: there's something going on in the in the in the

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Speaker 1: booty area, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: And so I went to tell him.

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Speaker 3: So I went to tell him. The first thing you

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Speaker 3: thought to do is tell him, Yeah, of course.

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Speaker 2: I would tell him. And so I told him, I'm like, hey, baby,

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Speaker 2: I think I got him rights.

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Speaker 4: And then he like turns to me and he's like,

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Speaker 4: you know, you don't have to tell me everything.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, so who am I supposed to tell?

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Speaker 2: I have to tell somebody and you signed up for this?

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Speaker 5: Well he did?

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Speaker 1: Did he sign up to hear about everything going on

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Speaker 1: with you? I?

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Speaker 2: Sure, hope. So we've got eternity.

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Speaker 5: That's beautiful.

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Speaker 2: We have eternity to.

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Speaker 3: Check him out. Like I stopped.

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Speaker 1: It looks stop, yes, stop, but you've made Mike look

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Speaker 6: No, I've never had that problem. But like I would,

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Speaker 6: if he was like, there's something wrong with my bot,

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Speaker 5: You can't see those.

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Speaker 3: I think you think you can. I think I think

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Speaker 1: Mine.

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Speaker 5: We're okay.

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Speaker 1: I think they're like outside, I think I think you

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Speaker 1: can get both times. From what I understand, I too have.

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Speaker 1: I've thought I had all kinds of things going on,

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Speaker 1: and it turns out they took. I've had I've had

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Speaker 1: hypochondriac and I'm convinced that I've had everything.

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Speaker 3: I'm convinced that I had stars and you can see

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Speaker 3: everything bad ones.

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Speaker 1: Oh you just went ahead and googled that is that

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Speaker 3: You can see the bad ones, pulled them up on

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Speaker 2: I don't actually know if I have them.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to get to I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: We no, no, we don't. We don't.

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Speaker 1: Again, you don't need to tell us either. Okay, why

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Speaker 1: do you need to tell us everything?

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Speaker 2: I need to tell him, but.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to where's the line in your relationship? Thank you, Bella.

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Speaker 1: Now you can go into if anyone chooses about your issue.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, but you.

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Speaker 3: Tell him everything?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, everything everything you could think of. I tell them.

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Speaker 1: But why okay, before you go answer the phone? Then

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Speaker 1: why why is it important for him to know? It's

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Speaker 1: not It's like, I don't know whatever's happening in your body.

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Speaker 4: I just like telling him everything. I don't like being

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Speaker 4: the only one to know this stuff. But I'll tell

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Speaker 2: Like I'll tell everyone anything.

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Speaker 1: But there's stuff going on with you. I'm sure that

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Speaker 1: there's nothing he can do about it. Yeah, he's not,

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Speaker 1: as though you're like sick and he can care for you,

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Speaker 1: like this is a personal issue, and at some point

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Speaker 1: you probably want him to do things in that area,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that, but you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: the nether region.

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Speaker 2: I really've never done it before ever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I don't know why a guy or a

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Speaker 1: girl needs to have that information. I believe that we

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Speaker 1: like to call it around here, preserving the sexy, like

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Speaker 1: there's there's such thing as too much information.

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Speaker 2: I honestly don't care. We've been together since we were seventeen.

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Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean. I think the reason he's telling

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Speaker 1: you that is because he's like, I don't need it.

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Speaker 1: I don't need to know that, like he's he's the

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Speaker 1: one saying this, not me.

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Speaker 2: He said, I was getting grafted. Think about it.

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Speaker 4: He said, it was fine that I told him, but

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Speaker 4: the details were they should have.

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Speaker 3: Left them necessary necessary. Thank you, thank you, very nice,

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Speaker 2: Right now, we're going down with him, she said, don't

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Speaker 5: She said, I'll tell you on the radio, right, okay,

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Speaker 5: tells me that he does.

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Speaker 7: He's held against as well, like he doesn't want to

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Speaker 7: know these things. But that is the type that will

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Speaker 1: Like you come in here, Pauline and talking about all

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Speaker 3: Tell all these things?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely not? Absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: And he clearly doesn't listen.

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Speaker 5: No, no, he stopped doing that before we got married.

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Speaker 5: He's aing you better.

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Speaker 2: He's smart.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he is smart.

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Speaker 5: Smart man.

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Speaker 8: Literally.

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Speaker 7: I will tell him if things affect him or pertain

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Speaker 7: just big this is happening right now.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, stuff like that.

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Speaker 3: You know. Well, I mean, yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 7: I don't like explain or you know, make like a

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Speaker 3: Like that and do all that. Well that's good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I stopped doing that.

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Speaker 3: And Jason, you would actually have you had to do

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Speaker 3: the inspection before. No, not there, nobody would if he

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Speaker 1: But they have physicians for this, like there are people

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Speaker 6: But like you know, in the moment, we were like,

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Speaker 6: Like I'd be like, can you just look at this,

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Speaker 6: and then I would go to a doctor. I wouldn't

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Speaker 3: Show me. I don't know, it's been almost.

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Speaker 6: Fifteen years, like it literally there's nothing there.

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Speaker 3: So we just give up.

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Speaker 6: Then we just give up after fifteen No, it's just

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Speaker 6: know or hasn't seen in vice versa. I think it's comfort.

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Speaker 6: It's not giving up. I think it's comfort and trust. Caitlin,

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Speaker 6: I know I know the answer you probably well. I

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Speaker 6: mean he took your your vaginal suppot stories, so there's

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Speaker 2: We ingested those.

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Speaker 1: Well, I said, I don't know if yeah, yeah, whatever,

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Speaker 5: But well, I met like that was on his own time.

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Speaker 9: I didn't know he was doing that or I would

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Speaker 9: have stopped him. But I know I still preserve some things.

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Speaker 9: But like we've already. I mean we've only been together

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Speaker 9: like gone through some health issues where like I've had

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Speaker 9: had to help him throw up. So I mean we've

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Speaker 9: gotten there. But I don't do poop stuff. I don't

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Speaker 9: too in front of him. I will get a good

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Speaker 9: belt out. Yeah, so I tried to. But we have

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Speaker 9: a one bedroom. We have no fan in our bathroom,

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Speaker 9: which I am so pissed off about.

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Speaker 2: Still, so there's been a.

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Speaker 9: Little you know, things that maybe he could have heard

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Speaker 2: But I don't do duty stuff, okay, and kiki.

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Speaker 10: Oh, I don't do noneing. I don't play with bodily function,

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Speaker 10: thank you. But big T he's very open about anything

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Speaker 10: that he doesn't care.

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Speaker 3: But I'm very like h No, like Jason.

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Speaker 10: I will put a tripod on a phone and take

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Speaker 10: a picture of.

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Speaker 1: The So I am trying to take pictures and place

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Speaker 1: it on my body. I can't see. Before I would

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Speaker 1: ask anybody to help me with that, I mean there's

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Speaker 1: no one in my house and by myself, but I

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Speaker 1: mean I would go to a doctor before I would

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Speaker 1: ask the person who I'm making love to now.

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Speaker 9: With my girlfriends though it's any and everything. I mean,

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Speaker 9: my friend just offered to get an ingrown that I

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Speaker 9: had going on that I couldn't really see. So with

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Speaker 9: my friends were we've been through this life for too long.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and people are texting like he watched me

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Speaker 1: have a baby. There's no line I was gonna say.

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Speaker 3: But I don't.

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Speaker 1: I could miss the moment where you have a pimple

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Speaker 3: I don't. I'm not. I don't know.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, think of relationships like video games, and like you

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Speaker 3: I've reached the final boss.

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Speaker 9: Right, and like there's like a love there that's like unconditional.

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Speaker 9: Don't look at you differently because I hit this level

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Speaker 1: But that's the point. It's maybe we don't need to

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Speaker 3: I need you to have the kind of love where

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Speaker 1: Time, you know, and I don't need to remind you that, like, oh,

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Speaker 5: Maybe sometimes you can't hide it.

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Speaker 9: Like when you live with someone sometimes things accidentally, no,

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Speaker 9: It's like if you accidentally are doing one thing and

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Speaker 1: Must be some deity or something because I don't have

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Speaker 5: You're so lucky.

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Speaker 3: I just don't. I don't know why. I don't understand,

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm the same kind of human the rest of you

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Speaker 3: It never happens when you have.

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Speaker 5: Like a lady of the night over or you want.

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Speaker 10: To, let's lady one of those escorts.

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Speaker 1: Right right, the Asian ones. Yeah, No, I mean, what

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Speaker 1: I mean like when you have when I have a

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Speaker 3: Well, that's what a lady of the night is.

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Speaker 9: Okay, say that, and I guarantee she didn't.

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Speaker 3: Know what that meant.

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Speaker 5: I mean so much idea.

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Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not above a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: But I can honestly tell you that everyone who's who

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Speaker 1: of any kind, you know, friend, like when you have.

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Speaker 5: When you order those ladies, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, when you engage in prostitution.

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Speaker 11: You know.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know just how people say things to me.

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Speaker 5: None of that today.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so that that's never occurred. So now what so

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Speaker 3: when I have a guest over, what I know anymore?

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Speaker 7: Well, we have a guest over, like you're telling me,

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Speaker 7: it's so easy to conceal everything, Like when you hold

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Speaker 1: No one knew about it, none the wiser.

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Speaker 5: There's like noises I get made.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what I worry about is I can

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Speaker 1: and even if even if I'm not, I'm really trying hard.

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Speaker 5: What is that ice cream or beer?

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Speaker 2: Because I know those are issues for you for.

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Speaker 3: Both at the same time.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean sometimes I do that your your usual

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Speaker 3: Times, I do ye.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it's a great Tuesday night for me. I

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Speaker 1: I brought myself up and then and then I get

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Speaker 1: and just consume the dairy.

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Speaker 3: You know. That's some people.

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Speaker 5: That's what I figured you were like.

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Speaker 1: That's what I do. That's why I come in here Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: I'm skinny, man. It's a calm, I don't. I just

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Speaker 5: I guarantee someone's heard you before, just so you know it.

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Speaker 3: Don't maybe, but at least I made every effort for

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Speaker 5: That's all you can do to say anything. It's them

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Speaker 1: Your uper I mean, that might be a kind thing

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Speaker 9: Go right, all right, I'll try to put my boyfriend out.

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Speaker 5: Any of your out there.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I know I'm the weirdo, but I

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Speaker 1: just I don't I think there's It's not that I

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Speaker 1: don't care, it's not that I don't empathize, but like,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you if you're having certain issues

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Speaker 1: If there's something I can do for you, I will.

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Speaker 1: But other than that, there's I don't know what else

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Speaker 1: that I don't, I don't know what I think. That's

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes, I mean, there are immature men out

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Speaker 1: there who like think it's gross or whatever. I don't

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Speaker 1: think that at all. I just I can't offer you anything,

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Speaker 1: you know, so like I think sometimes when we are

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Speaker 3: It's not that, I mean, I grew up with women.

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Speaker 3: It's just I don't.

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Speaker 1: I can't unless I can go buy you something or

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Like this is it makes me uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: because it's like, uh, okay, I'm sorry, I mean, like

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Speaker 1: what am I supposed to do?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, and just listen to me.

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Speaker 7: Nothing you can do you can't take these this pain away,

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Speaker 7: cramp away man.

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Speaker 5: Nothing.

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Speaker 1: What worries me, though, is the stuff that happens when

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Speaker 1: I'm asleep, because I'm sure that I toot when I'm asleep. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and that's embarrassing and you can't obviously do anything about that.

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Speaker 1: But this is why I was saying yesterday, yesterday, yesterday,

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Speaker 1: where's this New York accent coming from? This is why

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Speaker 1: I was saying yesterday or the day before or whatever,

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Speaker 1: that I would probably be the skinniest person you've ever

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Speaker 1: seen if I live with somebody, because all this fat

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Speaker 1: stuff I do.

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Speaker 3: That's not true that all of fat stuff I do.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm serious, Like the stuff like I where I

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Speaker 1: you know, the aftermath.

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Speaker 5: Oh you do it in the car, Yeah, you do

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Speaker 3: Then the aftermath still happens.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, would you go and do it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, No, I wouldn't want the judgment. Honestly, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: lose fifty pounds if I ever get married. I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you to because no, well no, because some people say

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Speaker 3: I don't want to get caught up. I don't want

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Speaker 1: So I'm not going to eat the bag of Freedo's

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Speaker 3: What does this? Liz?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I Liz? What is you do?

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Speaker 12: What?

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Speaker 3: And who did?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 3: What is it?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Are you in a hot tub right now? No wondering?

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Speaker 1: Are you taking a bath?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 11: My phone just sucks?

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Speaker 1: Oh not too okay? So what what is the level

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Speaker 1: of comfort in your relationship? Or I guess former?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, so my ex had a hemorrhoid in her but

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Speaker 11: so she was like, can you put a hemorrhics cream?

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Speaker 11: And I was like yeah. So, bouncing back on what

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Speaker 11: Jason said, I feel like it's the level of comfort

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Speaker 11: and trust.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't need it here. Yeah, we don't need it.

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Speaker 1: You're a nice person, but we don't. We don't need it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Liz, How can't I say, I just I

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: We can we can stop right there, you know, like

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Speaker 1: right like like emergency contact status, but not putting things

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Speaker 9: You don't you have something I need for you to

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Speaker 9: look at them during the song.

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Speaker 1: Well we're not intimately romantic, so go ahead, come over you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'll look at it and go oh damn

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Speaker 1: and then make you feel bad. Headlines are next.

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Speaker 8: I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 3: It's the Fred Show, Jared, Welcome to the show. How

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Speaker 3: are you hey? I'm doing it all right? How are

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Speaker 3: you doing doing all right? What's going on with this woman? Rachel?

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Speaker 1: Of course this is waiting by the phone, trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out if you've been ghosted by this person. But

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Speaker 1: we need to know how did you meet? Tell us

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Speaker 1: about any dates you've been on, and then where things

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Speaker 1: are now?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 13: Yeah, I met Rachel at a party and we really

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Speaker 13: I got her number, we went out for drinks a

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Speaker 1: To me okay, and you met her in the wild,

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Speaker 1: which means that you, you know, you were able to

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Speaker 1: meet someone like that, because the dating apps can be

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Speaker 1: a little bit a little wild card, a little bit

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Speaker 1: of a wildcard.

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Speaker 3: We say this all the time.

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Speaker 1: It's like, you meet and then you get surprised, But

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Speaker 1: when you meet someone in person and hit on them,

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Speaker 1: you have a little bit better idea what your work with,

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Speaker 1: right exactly.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, that's why it's so disappointing that she's just completely gone.

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Speaker 1: Well and she would too, righte So, like, if she's

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Speaker 1: not calling you, it's probably not because you weren't who

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Speaker 1: you said you were, because well, she knew when she

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Speaker 1: gave you her phone number and agreed to go out

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Speaker 1: with you. So let's play a song. Come back in

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Speaker 1: like two minutes, I'm gonna call Rachel. You'll be on

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Speaker 1: the phone at the same time. I'm gonna see if

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Speaker 1: we can figure out what's going on, and maybe she

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Speaker 1: has a good explanation for not reaching out, and if

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Speaker 1: that's the case it, we'll set you guys up on

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Speaker 1: another date and pay for that.

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Speaker 3: All right, awesome, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Let's find out what's going on Part two of waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone. After this song, guy got Bruno Mars

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Speaker 1: back in three minutes Fred's Show, don't move, It's the

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Speaker 1: Fred Show, twelve hundred bucks, show Bizkiki, you can win

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Speaker 1: in ten minutes in the showdown the Entertainment Report before that, Hey, Jared, Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 3: Let's call this woman Rachel.

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Speaker 1: You met out and you guys are Shag's phone numbers,

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Speaker 1: and you went on a date and you thought the

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Speaker 1: date went great. But you haven't heard from Rachel since then,

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Speaker 1: and you want to know why she has a resp

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Speaker 1: on it to you? Calls, text, whatever, nothing, she's it

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Speaker 1: looks like she's ghosting you. That's right, Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: well let's call her now. Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Hello? Hi is this Rachel? Yeah, Rachel? Hi, my name

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Speaker 3: is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show,

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Speaker 1: and I have to tell you that we are on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now and I would need your permission

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Speaker 1: to continue with the call.

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Speaker 3: Can we chat for just a second? Would you mind?

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Speaker 11: Is this a call?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 9: No.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm really Fred and it's really the Fred

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Speaker 1: Show and we're really on the radio. I just need

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Speaker 1: a yes or no and then I'll tell you what

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Speaker 1: we're what we're doing here. You can hang up anytime, Okay, sure, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you. We're calling on behalf of a guy named Jared,

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Speaker 1: who I guess you met and went on a date with.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember a date with Jared?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I remember, I remember.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, he reached out to us and he told

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Speaker 1: us that he really enjoyed meeting you, and I guess you.

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Speaker 1: Guys exchanged numbers and then planned a date and went

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Speaker 1: on the date. But he says he hasn't heard from

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Speaker 1: you since then, so he's kind of one and why

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Speaker 1: you know what happened because his impression of the date

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Speaker 1: was was that it went really well, So he can't

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Speaker 1: get a hold of you, and he's curious about it.

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Speaker 12: Well, Jared was someone that I met at a party

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Speaker 12: and then we went out on a date a couple

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Speaker 12: of days later, and we were sitting at the bar

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Speaker 12: and when the check dropped, the bartender let us know

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Speaker 12: that some guy at the other end of the bar

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Speaker 12: had paid for it, and at that point Jared freaked out,

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Speaker 12: like lost it, and he claimed that I knew the

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Speaker 12: guy and that I was lying to him, and he

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Speaker 12: made a big scene at the bar, and so he

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Speaker 12: was even he was even accusing.

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Speaker 5: Me of knowing him.

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Speaker 12: So the bartender said that the guy just thought that

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Speaker 12: Jared was like my gay friend. Oh, so it was

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Speaker 12: just like a genuine misunderstanding.

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Speaker 1: So the guy at the other the bar was really

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Speaker 1: hitting on you, like he bought your drinks because he

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Speaker 1: wanted to get to you, and he didn't realize you

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Speaker 1: were on a date, is what happened?

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Speaker 12: But you were, Yeah, exactly. But I was just so

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Speaker 12: turned off by that reaction. It honestly scared me.

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Speaker 1: So I want to fight this guy because he felt

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Speaker 1: like this guy was moving in on his territory essentially. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but I mean, this is our first date. So we're

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Speaker 1: seeing that Jared has a bit of a temper. Let's

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Speaker 1: ask Jared about this. I forgot to mention that Jared

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Speaker 1: is here. I'm very forgetful, Jared, is this is this

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Speaker 1: how it went down? A guy bought your stuff and

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Speaker 1: then you freaked out, and then you like the rage

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Speaker 1: came out of you or something.

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Speaker 8: Look, I mean she's describing me like I turned into

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Speaker 8: the incredible Hulk. But I'm not going to sit here

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Speaker 8: and to say that I'm going to let a guy

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Speaker 8: pay for me and my dates drinks when I want

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Speaker 8: to date.

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Speaker 1: My I mean I probably would have been like, cool,

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Speaker 1: I'm going home with her or whatever. I'm even with her,

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Speaker 1: so nice, try a shot, But like you missed dinner.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, I didn't have to pay for this.

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Speaker 1: I mean I think I might be especially if I

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Speaker 1: don't know, I think I might be flattered.

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Speaker 8: No, I what self respecting guy would do that?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean he could try. I guess he misread

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Speaker 1: the situation. He wasted his money. She didn't run over

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Speaker 1: to him and you know, hang out with him. She

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Speaker 1: still hung out with you, right, I mean, it wasn't

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Speaker 1: like she got him walked away.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you're letting.

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Speaker 12: Him get the you letting him get the best of

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Speaker 12: you was honestly disrespectful to yourself and everyone around you.

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Speaker 1: And then the temper is probably not the hottest thing.

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Speaker 1: And the insecurity, which again, I mean, look, I can

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Speaker 1: understand why you wouldn't like it, but I mean I

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Speaker 1: don't think that's the time to like go off and

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Speaker 1: throw chairs and stuff.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you just met her.

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Speaker 8: Well, I honestly think that she knew the guy.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's the part that we're not talking about.

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Speaker 1: So you think this was like you think that they

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Speaker 1: were in on this, Like why why would she lie

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Speaker 1: about that? Like, I don't understand why she was there

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Speaker 1: with you.

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Speaker 3: I just say that she knew him.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I've never heard of someone being out on

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Speaker 8: a date and another guy just buys the drinks.

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Speaker 5: That's he thought that you were gay.

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Speaker 2: He just he simply thought you were gay.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, sure, yeah, I mean he thought you guys.

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Speaker 3: I guess to him it looked friendly. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean people are stupid, like they do dumb Men

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Speaker 3: do dumb things. Women do.

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Speaker 1: People do dumb things. He was trying to slide, you know,

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Speaker 1: it didn't work or whatever. He was trying to make

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Speaker 1: an impression and you were there with someone else romantically,

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Speaker 1: so he wasted his money. Okay, So I don't know why.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why you're freaking out, Jared. I mean

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Speaker 1: I might be like, yeah, I try, buddy, and then leave.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you have to go off on the dude.

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Speaker 8: Look I'm a man and I'm not going to have

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Speaker 8: my manhood tested like that.

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Speaker 10: Oh, Mar, why do you have trust issues like this?

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Speaker 10: Like she's telling you that she didn't know him. Why

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Speaker 10: don't you trust her?

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Speaker 1: Yea?

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Speaker 3: Why would she pretend not to know? I don't understand it.

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Speaker 1: Like, what what would be the harm in her going yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know the guy at the end of the bar,

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Speaker 1: like he's a coworker, I don't know, he's whatever, like

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Speaker 1: thanks for dinner, but I'm on a date and then leave.

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Speaker 3: I guess I don't you know.

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Speaker 1: It would be one thing if she got him, walked

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Speaker 1: over there and like chatted the guy up or something afterwards.

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Speaker 3: But she didn't do that, did she?

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Speaker 1: No, she did it all right? Well, look, Rachel, I'll

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Speaker 1: ask the question. I think I know the answer. But

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Speaker 1: now let's say he takes you at face value, and

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Speaker 1: we do I believe you that you don't know this person.

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Speaker 1: I don't know where he's coming up with that. Would

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Speaker 1: you like to go out with him again? If he

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Speaker 1: can tone it down, we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 8: Well, you know what Rachel had.

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Speaker 3: Seriously you Oh oh, so there's that temper.

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Speaker 5: I don't think it's a match.

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Okay, hey Jared, I mean deep breath here, It's okay.

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Speaker 1: We were trying to help you. Remember it is so frustrating, okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, well hey we wish wow. Kind of scared

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Speaker 1: now myself. All right, Jared, good luck to you. Rachel,

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Speaker 1: thanks for your time, good luck as well. The Entertainmer

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Speaker 1: Report is next. It one thy two hundred bucks, five

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Speaker 1: questions in the showdown. If you listen, then you have

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Speaker 1: the answers from the Entertainmer Report and you could start

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Speaker 1: the weekend with that money.

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Speaker 3: Next Fred Show