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Speaker 1: Ding dum culture. We're talking nails on both the hands

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Speaker 2: So I I go like mine, my nails become like pika.

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Speaker 1: Is that what it is?

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Speaker 2: Just it starts to flake like I peel layer by

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Speaker 1: I guess what we're all saying is we're nail biers

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Speaker 2: I've since been reformed. I've since reformed.

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Speaker 1: They look amazing. I have to say, no, I don't

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Speaker 1: know about that. They look great. And that's that you

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Speaker 1: it clearly. So when everyone looks at your fingers, it's

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Speaker 2: Those little cute Sure, sure, but you are. You're chronic

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Speaker 1: That is how my anxiety managed. That's right. You know.

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Speaker 1: When I was a little boy, I was flexible enough

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Speaker 1: Was the fetish born or killed in that moment? I

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Speaker 1: or something like. This has to stop. You have to

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Speaker 2: The habit is returning is as he's saying, because he's

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Speaker 1: Raining model comedian on HBO Max, which I did have

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Speaker 2: it's it's dirty. Put that away on your bathroom floor.

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Speaker 2: I wish it clumps. I wish I had nuggets of earwax.

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Speaker 2: And torso all like belped up, all up, all popped

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Speaker 1: Actually it's very algo so, and I might be totally

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Speaker 1: butchering this. Please, I hope this makes it two threads

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Speaker 3: Every once in a while, a piece of information about

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Speaker 1: What are your values? Really? How do you feel about biodogs?

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Speaker 3: This is a moment where I have to ask questions

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Speaker 2: We're not gonna answer them here. And I again might

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Speaker 1: But it ended it? But I did.

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Speaker 2: I'm with you, I'm with you. I'm like, wow, I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I.

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Speaker 2: Don't want because I feel like it's a dog. It's

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Speaker 3: It's a great question. There are I do think there

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Speaker 1: I don't fear. I don't feel that straight people can

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Speaker 3: Friend of a friend, Wow, this is juicy. Friend of

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Speaker 3: He's the worst. It was revealed to me recently at

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Speaker 3: a lunch. No less is the best place to get Yeah. Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: It's lunchtime right now. I think my lunch has been served.

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Speaker 1: What do you want?

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Speaker 3: younger than her. It's not agent appropriate. By the way,

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Speaker 3: It's all good. They're they're all in their thirty twties

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Speaker 1: To be with the other man, planning to cheat. That's

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't think he's very bright. Okay, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: Use women are very cunning. They think they're very smart.

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Speaker 1: I'm listening to her, and it took everything in me

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Speaker 1: to not be like, you know what I hope is happening.

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Speaker 1: I hope your husband is cheating on you. Do you

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Speaker 1: hope that if you are cheating on your husband gleefully

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I would hope that someone isn't just getting coucked up

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Speaker 2: Would you would you could be an amazing rapper?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I have it.

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Speaker 3: Within me, certainly, I definitely have it within me, I think.

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Speaker 3: But I was thinking just now, vacation is such a

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Speaker 3: vacation is really what you make of.

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Speaker 1: It can be cheating, it can be relaxing, It can

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Speaker 3: It can me relaxing, so many things vacation, it.

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Speaker 1: Can be wait that has your really coach number fifteen.

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Speaker 1: It can be so many things. Vacation. It can be cheating,

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Speaker 3: Those are like the three vacations, cheating, relaxing, museums.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can break them all down until like so

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Speaker 3: Are you an itinerary vacationer or are you a cheater?

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Speaker 1: I'm a shoh, that's the binary. Well, I was an experimenting.

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Speaker 2: I don't love an itinerary. Even though the last trip

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Speaker 2: I took friends on was very was mostly itinerary driven.

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Speaker 1: But actually no, there was.

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Speaker 2: There was moments of loose, unstructured time. Matt pertinent to

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Speaker 2: you and your story. Matt is a newly white guy

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Speaker 2: who loves Asian culture.

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Speaker 1: I've been to Asia like pretty much more than America

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Speaker 1: this year.

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Speaker 3: Are you wearing kimonos yet, because that's where it usually

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Speaker 3: ends up.

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Speaker 1: Do you have swords in the house. Here's what I'll say.

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Speaker 1: I learned how to dress myself in the hotel, last

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Speaker 1: hotel that we stayed in, and the outfit that they.

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Speaker 2: Go, oh, yes, yes, that was called it was it was.

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Speaker 2: It was like a modern uh to Tommy, sort of

485
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Speaker 2: like Riocan sort of thing.

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Speaker 1: Yes. And when I stepped out in the garb and

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Speaker 1: I saw myself in the mirror, yes, I said, I

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Speaker 1: belong here. Wow. And that's why I'm having what I'm calling.

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Speaker 1: I called it to you my big Asian year, Big

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Speaker 1: Asian year, a bay it can be a very Asian

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Speaker 1: year for you, and I think.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a lot of white guys who go down the

493
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Speaker 3: path of being obsessed with Asia. I'm obsessed with these guys.

494
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Speaker 3: Most of them have never been. That's one part of

495
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Speaker 3: the issue. It gets into Samurai swords pretty quickly. It

496
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Speaker 3: gets into kimonos pretty quickly.

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Speaker 1: It won't get there for what it usually gets.

498
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Speaker 3: Into an ironic facial hair. And right now you're facial

499
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Speaker 3: is looking very handsome and normal.

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Speaker 1: This is kind of where I stay. Yes, yeah, I

501
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Speaker 1: don't think I'll go somewhere crazy. You guys both look great.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I have to say thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: And I was, I was just admiring these frames. Thank

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Speaker 1: you very much. These new frames are these sort of

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Speaker 1: signature frames.

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Speaker 3: I want to tell you I've been wearing these for

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Speaker 3: a decade plus.

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Speaker 1: Yes, these are then, these are the ones. Thank you,

509
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Speaker 1: And it's seeing them in person that really is the

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Speaker 1: high impact.

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Speaker 3: You guys are special. You guys are special. You guys

512
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Speaker 3: are special guys. I like seeing you on this little couch.

513
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Speaker 3: I like being in the room with you.

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Speaker 1: Really, and that's why we have to do it again.

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Speaker 3: I see you so often in my phone, but to

516
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Speaker 3: see you, to see you guys, this is nice.

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Speaker 1: It's really nice. Can we just take a moment to

518
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Speaker 1: say this is nice? This isn't nice? We need to

519
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Speaker 1: go to dinner. It's like a jacuzzi being here. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 1: I have to say that one thing about where I

521
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Speaker 1: was just at, which is pouquette, right, you don't even

522
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Speaker 1: need a hot tub. Yeah, it feels like a bath

523
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Speaker 1: wherever you go. Is that true? Well, I guess, how

524
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Speaker 1: do you mean? I just I guess. I guess I

525
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Speaker 1: went there at the perfect time because and I'll tell

526
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Speaker 1: you something and let me let me ask you this question.

527
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Speaker 1: Is it possible that there's more salt in the water

528
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: in the seawater there? I felt so amazing. I literally

529
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: I realized. I realized that seawater really does heal. Ocean

530
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Speaker 1: water heels. What happened to you over there? Do you

531
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Speaker 1: guys feel me anyway? Ocean? I have the most incredible

532
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,400
Speaker 1: vacation in Puquet and went in the ocean, and I

533
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Speaker 1: literally left being like, okay, note to self, you have

534
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Speaker 1: to go in the ocean.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So this is the thing, Like this is so

536
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Speaker 2: well observed by the way, this whole like white guy

537
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Speaker 2: into Asian culture thing, Like I've really thought about this

538
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,040
Speaker 2: ever since, like just whenever you bring it up, because

539
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,480
Speaker 2: it's like there's different, so many different ways to be

540
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Speaker 2: white guy into Asian culture. You can be like the

541
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Speaker 2: Hassan Piker thing where he goes to China and now

542
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:45,680
Speaker 2: he's like China Max to the guys. Whe though, oh sure,

543
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Speaker 2: we'll take that out, but you.

544
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Speaker 1: Know what I mean, I can't leave it in from him. Hassan,

545
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 1: are you white or what? Okay?

546
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Speaker 2: Can I say we're saying white guy into Asian culture,

547
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 2: but it is it literally can apply to me.

548
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:01,280
Speaker 1: Oh I go.

549
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 2: I'm like one of these like weeby guys who like

550
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 2: goes to Japan and loves that. I go to China

551
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 2: and I love it. I go to like I have

552
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 2: not been south of China crazily or north of Australia,

553
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Speaker 2: north of five South.

554
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Speaker 1: Well, you loved parts of China.

555
00:25:12,760 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 2: I loved parts of China. No, Actually, this this past summer,

556
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 2: I was like, I see it all.

557
00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: You see all of China. I not see it all.

558
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 2: I see I see that. I see the the gamut

559
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Speaker 2: of what.

560
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 1: This can be. And it's pretty crazy. You described your

561
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Speaker 1: experience at Disney Shanghai as not being great.

562
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Speaker 2: Because the kids are shooting on the street, are shooting

563
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Speaker 2: on the side.

564
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Speaker 1: That kids are shooting on the side of that, because.

565
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Speaker 2: That's Chinese culture. It's like they're from the countryside where

566
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Speaker 2: it's like you just the kids are the kids squat,

567
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Speaker 2: there's a little pocket. There's a little like clip on

568
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Speaker 2: thing at the butt, and then they just they just

569
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Speaker 2: squat and they should on the.

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Speaker 1: There's a clip on thing on the button. They shoot

571
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Speaker 1: in the park, it's a little square.

572
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Speaker 2: The flap, it's a flap on the butt on the ground.

573
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Speaker 1: That's what I meant. I thought there was something receptacle

574
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Speaker 1: to capture them. It's just going straight to the of

575
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Speaker 1: the sort. That's Chinese. Not digging it. I hope that's

576
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Speaker 1: okay to say, not digging it. It's no, no, there's

577
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Speaker 1: nothing to do. I don't know. You don't know. There's

578
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: no there's no like you can clutch your pearls. Meanwhile,

579
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:09,600
Speaker 1: in Pouquette, you want any any person that you talk

580
00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,439
Speaker 1: to there, any woman that you talk to there, sometimes

581
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:14,439
Speaker 1: they'll just come up and they'll go CA, and that

582
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:19,920
Speaker 1: means that means like thank you, like and like yeah, yeah,

583
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Speaker 1: I just love Car. I love And then so when

584
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Speaker 1: when you're like a feminine woman, you go car and

585
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: then the men go cup. Well it's more clipped.

586
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Speaker 3: And there's a lot to be said about that, by

587
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Speaker 3: the way, if we want to dig into it, when

588
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Speaker 3: i'm abroad, people mostly say to me move or or

589
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Speaker 3: get out of the way, and do you I try

590
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Speaker 3: my best, but those places are so small.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the thing.

592
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Speaker 3: You go to another country. They're not used to seeing

593
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Speaker 3: a guy like me, so they're very, very interested in

594
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Speaker 3: me getting out of the way, and I share that

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Speaker 3: interest with them.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be in the way. It's one

597
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Speaker 1: of my reast favorite things to be. Who wants to

598
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Speaker 1: be in the way? Oh, I hate being in the way. Well,

599
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Speaker 1: have attention to Some people love being in the way.

600
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Speaker 3: Well, they're addicted to it. Some people don't know how

601
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Speaker 3: to not be in the way.

602
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Speaker 1: There's being in the way and being on display. And

603
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: I'll pick the ladder and that is my housewife's tag life.

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Speaker 3: Hello that thank you. That was really really beautiful and powerful.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. I didn't know I had that in me

606
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 1: until just there. I knew that you had it with you.

607
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 1: I guess I should have more self belief.

608
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 3: I knew that you had it within you the whole time.

609
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 3: I never dibted it for a second. How long have

610
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Speaker 3: you guys been doing the show?

611
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: Ten? We just did ten yearself, this actually is we're

612
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,880
Speaker 1: very much in the midst of our ten years, and

613
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Speaker 1: also our five hundredth episode was we were supposed to

614
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Speaker 1: do like a big like showcase episode for it, like

615
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 1: we were going to do the five hundred best Things

616
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Speaker 1: in culture stupid list, and we've totally missed it.

617
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Speaker 2: And now I don't think we can. We're well over

618
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Speaker 2: five hundred time. Literally, who's the time to do a podcast?

619
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Speaker 1: I don't know. I certainly do, but I don't know

620
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Speaker 1: how you guys, No, no, no, no, you don't. I'll say

621
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Speaker 1: when you when I have. There have been times that

622
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Speaker 1: you guys.

623
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Speaker 3: Have put out this podcast that I have said, surely

624
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 3: someone's gonna step in soon, Like you guys are so

625
00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 3: busy that I'm going, there's no way this is happening. Still,

626
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Speaker 3: it seems like it's so hard. I don't know how

627
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Speaker 3: you guys do it with two people.

628
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Speaker 1: And you know what's funny, Like we thought, like, oh,

629
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: Bowen's left Ustin now and now the podcast can like

630
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: be something like that, like we'll do it afresh every

631
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,520
Speaker 1: week and it can always be topical, and it hasn't.

632
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:12,000
Speaker 1: It hasn't been able to be that. Yeah, banking is

633
00:28:12,000 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 1: the name of the game. Banking is kind of has

634
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Speaker 1: to be the name of the game.

635
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 2: Any tricks for you when you bank, Like, don't talk

636
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 2: about it, don't talk about the kickcat robbery that just happened.

637
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Speaker 3: I'm always well, people are always trying to bring up the

638
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 3: kick cat robbery and I hate that.

639
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,960
Speaker 1: Now, just like just chit chatting, Like.

640
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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm so lucky because it's just me

641
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 3: and a guest and so it's just my schedule to

642
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,760
Speaker 3: mostly worry about. I mean, Nicole who engineers the show,

643
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:36,399
Speaker 3: and Chance who produces it, like there's two. But mostly

644
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 3: I just get to ask questions. I just throw questions

645
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 3: out and then I go, that was so interesting what

646
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Speaker 3: you said.

647
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Speaker 1: I have found the last few like big discourses that

648
00:28:43,080 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 1: have happened, I have had like really what seemed like

649
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: really unpopular opinions, like for example, the Timothy Shalomye stuff

650
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,880
Speaker 1: with the ballet and the opera. I think people were

651
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Speaker 1: being insane about that.

652
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Speaker 3: People are being completely insane because they're a little tired

653
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 3: of him.

654
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, that that's not fair, And that was really what

655
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: it was about the chapel roone of it all. I

656
00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 1: couldn't believe that we just took what this one person

657
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: like put on their Instagram as total fact, as total Bible,

658
00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 1: and kicked her ass again on social media, only for

659
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,960
Speaker 1: the security guard to come out and be like, guys,

660
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 1: she never asked me to do that. I work at

661
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: the hotel. I thought there was a problem, so I

662
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 1: went over there. She did not.

663
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,720
Speaker 3: They have a particular problem with Chapel. It's so to me,

664
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 3: it's so funny because every Chapel discourse is like she

665
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 3: will literally be like she will literally be like, hey, guys,

666
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 3: please just like, don't chase me down the street. I'm

667
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 3: going to dinner, right, And then the whole it will

668
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: be like you stupid, ungrateful.

669
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, how dare you? You dumb ungrateful bit you We

670
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: are gonna take you down. Don't come to Rio. You

671
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: banned from this, I disinvited from our great It's like contard.

672
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: It's really crazy.

673
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,160
Speaker 3: And also, Chapel is a Missouri girl, and I have

674
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 3: to tell you this was never supposed to.

675
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: Happen to us, this poor girl.

676
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,239
Speaker 3: I'm like this, it's just so I might give that

677
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 3: girl a break, give her a break.

678
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 1: I have been saying it the entire time, and I'm

679
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: just like, but because do you want to know what else.

680
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 1: It's so boring, Like all of these things are just

681
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: so boring.

682
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 2: How should we treat Missouri celebrities? You Chapel, Nikki Glazer,

683
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 2: John Ham.

684
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: You know NICKI still lives in Missouri. Yeah, I love Yeah,

685
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: I love about Nicky moved back to Saint Louis.

686
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 3: You know what the way you should treat us is.

687
00:30:21,640 --> 00:30:24,360
Speaker 3: I think I get pretty lucky. Everyone's pretty nice to me.

688
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 3: I think most. I mean, it's gotten a little weird recently,

689
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,240
Speaker 3: but most of the time I think people are very like, hey, sorry,

690
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 3: I love your stuff, blah blah, and then they run away.

691
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 3: I love that and I'm happy to take a picture

692
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,720
Speaker 3: or whatever. But I think just like what I mean

693
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 3: by that is like, I don't know, it would be

694
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 3: pretty jarring. A lot of these people who get famous,

695
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 3: like they did have some kind of preparation they had

696
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 3: they grew up with money, or they went to like

697
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 3: a big fancy school, or they like they they were

698
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:48,960
Speaker 3: around rich people at some point in their life. Like

699
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 3: when you really come from like rural ass Missouri and

700
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:56,200
Speaker 3: this shit just happens to you, totally cool, awesome, privileged life.

701
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 3: Wouldn't trade it, But it is, like I really feel

702
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:00,920
Speaker 3: for Chapel. I'm like, that is a fun, crazy experience.

703
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 3: It's a very very different, weird thing, and I'm just like,

704
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 3: I wish people would give her a break. That being said,

705
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 3: Chapel love you girl. Please tune out to this part.

706
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 3: The memes about it are very funny. I can't escape

707
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 3: the fact that the memes are fun always good. The

708
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 3: memes are good.

709
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:14,840
Speaker 1: The Zelda one is.

710
00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 2: It's like it's it's the Great Fairy from N sixty

711
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,880
Speaker 2: Morockery of time, pulling links hair, Like just found this

712
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 2: and she's like she looks like Chapel. She's got like

713
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 2: red hair and like all this like trelisy stuff in her. Yeah,

714
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 2: And it's that that made me like.

715
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: The memes are very funny.

716
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 3: You also, every once in a while, you will pop

717
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 3: up on my phone posting something that I have never

718
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,000
Speaker 3: heard about my Like you'll post like some kind of

719
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 3: cartoon figure I've never seen in my life, and You'll

720
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 3: be like back at it with this bitch, And I'm like,

721
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 3: I don't know what these little games are, but I

722
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,360
Speaker 3: want to come play with you. I want to come

723
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 3: play your little game. I don't know them, Come, come, come, I.

724
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,040
Speaker 1: Want to be involved. I feel like you have so

725
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: many fun games.

726
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:55,640
Speaker 2: I this is I'm really settling into this, this new

727
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 2: life of just like I can maybe I just I

728
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 2: just I'm a little concierge for people.

729
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: Maybe you should get on switch. That's Hassan's, that's Hassan's.

730
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:06,360
Speaker 1: Leave it to Hassan.

731
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 3: Leave it to Hassan to be on Twitch, to be

732
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,920
Speaker 3: talking about politics too much, to leave it to Hassan

733
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 3: to be too talking about gay guys too much. I

734
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 3: said this. I said this when I went a show.

735
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 3: He was talking so freely about game and I said, Hassan,

736
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 3: you better fucking man or hush it up.

737
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: I would agree, and I would say absolutely first in

738
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: line for that. You want to fuck us on? Oh deeply?

739
00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. And can I say I think all

740
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 1: these people like coming for Hassan want to fuck him too.

741
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: Oh sure, he's handsome. I like him.

742
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,400
Speaker 3: I like I like Hassan. I don't I don't need

743
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 3: to no offense, brother, I don't need to fuck him.

744
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,440
Speaker 3: But I think if I think, if you don't.

745
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: Need to fuck him, I would just be first in line.

746
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: If there was an option, like if there's gonna be

747
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 1: a sweepstakes.

748
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,000
Speaker 3: I think if he wants to keep talking to the

749
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 3: Austin the little gay guy on his podcast, if he

750
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 3: wants to keep talking to Austin crazy about gay stuff,

751
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 3: he needs to fuck somebody.

752
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 1: Has he been talking crazy about gaysta.

753
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 3: No, just like he'll be like, he'll be like when

754
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 3: I went on his show, he was like he was like,

755
00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 3: Austin's a selfish top and I was like, let's.

756
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: Take a pot. What do you think that means. Let's

757
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: let's take a pause.

758
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 3: I want to talk to everyone about what we think

759
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 3: that means.

760
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 2: Okay, wait, straight quote unquote guys, and this is again

761
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 2: has on. I believe men, but like straight guys are,

762
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: they love to talk and bandy about our little terms.

763
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 2: And multiple men at SNL, well meaning great guys would

764
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 2: just randomly turn to me and be.

765
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 1: Like, God, gay guys really have it figured out.

766
00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 2: You can fuck whoever you want. I'm like, stop, they

767
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 2: love this, that's not true.

768
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 3: Straight guys love to We do not have it figured out.

769
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if you've noticed. It's not going well

770
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 3: for many of us. Personally, I'm chilling, but I straight guy,

771
00:33:39,360 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 3: my straight guye buddies will love to tell me nothing

772
00:33:41,280 --> 00:33:43,800
Speaker 3: more than like they'll just really in a moment of

773
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 3: like weird introspection. We'll just be at lunch or something,

774
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 3: and they'll be like, god, the way you guys can

775
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 3: just get a blowjob on command?

776
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:56,200
Speaker 1: And I'm like, Hey, not true. Hey, what's going on?

777
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 1: Your wife is in the bathroom? What is going on?

778
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: Like it's really insane, do you know? That's what I'm

779
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: saying is It's like it's like whenever I feel like

780
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: there's them cheating judgment towards our community, I'm like, here's

781
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: the thing. We're just so out loud and proud and

782
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: exuberant about our mental illness and about like what's breaking

783
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: us down and has us broken as a community and

784
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: individuals we're in. But like the straits are so like

785
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: repressed about how about their bullshit that they end up

786
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: doing duplicitous, mean, nasty things to the people they love

787
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,640
Speaker 1: the most, Like they have not interrogated why they would

788
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:34,840
Speaker 1: make some of these choices because they haven't had shame.

789
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 3: Yes, are you guys doing monogamy? Can I ask that?

790
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 3: How's monogamy working?

791
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: Right now? I'm not familiar. Me and my boyfriend are

792
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 1: distance so it's like where does London but very abroad?

793
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 1: Like good God. So it's kind of like it's kind

794
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: of one of those things where it's just like you know, you're,

795
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: you're you figure it out, You're you're you're writing it out. Yeah,

796
00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 1: it is, it is. You know, it's never easy monogamy

797
00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 1: for you.

798
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know, this is what I'm thinking about.

799
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,879
Speaker 3: I was in an open relationship most of last year,

800
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 3: and I was always kind of making fun of open

801
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, I don't really want to

802
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 3: do that because I wasn't dating anyone right, And then

803
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:10,520
Speaker 3: it came down to date someone and I was like,

804
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:12,919
Speaker 3: oh god, maybe they really they're onto something over there.

805
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 3: I can't be carrying on multiple relationships. That's not for Caleb.

806
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:20,040
Speaker 1: No. Not then open was fun. I don't know. There's

807
00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: some look I do get a little jealous. I'm not

808
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 1: gonna lie to you. Other people, Oh hold on, no,

809
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,280
Speaker 1: I I in open.

810
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 3: I will say, like, there are a lot of people

811
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 3: that are open that are like I love when my

812
00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 3: man comes home and tells me about this hot guy

813
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 3: that he fucked, and I'm like, not me, I don't

814
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 3: like it. It doesn't turn me on I don't like it.

815
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 3: I don't mind it knowing that I'm gone as much

816
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,239
Speaker 3: as I am and whatever. But monogamy is coming up

817
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 3: a lot lately, and I'm like, I don't know, I

818
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 3: don't know what is it coming up a lot in

819
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 3: my head because I'm like, I want a family.

820
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 1: I want you Oh you do you do? Eventually?

821
00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:51,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I want kids, Like That's a big goal of

822
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 3: mine in life. And so I'm like, what am I

823
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 3: going to be open with kids? Like I'm gonna have

824
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,319
Speaker 3: like a kid and be like going out to see Like,

825
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 3: I don't.

826
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: Know, I know it people. I don't understand that, but

827
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: people do do it.

828
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 3: I also, yeah, every once in a while, of course,

829
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 3: I get swept away with the idea that I'm going

830
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:07,720
Speaker 3: to meet someone.

831
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

832
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 3: You guys ever get that idea that you're like, oh

833
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 3: my god, I'm gonna meet someone that makes it so

834
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 3: easy and fun to just like lok in forever totally

835
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 3: my total freaking is that the craziest thing you.

836
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: No, no, no, what if?

837
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,400
Speaker 2: Like having kids is like the glue that makes the

838
00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: open work, that makes the open work or the monogu war.

839
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: Well, this is a great question. That locks you in.

840
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,239
Speaker 3: Yeah what and we'll never know. That's what I'm curious about.

841
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I'm just wondering about it all.

842
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:32,879
Speaker 1: I feel like. Also, another thing is like I'm now

843
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,839
Speaker 1: thirty six, and I don't think I require or have

844
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 1: the urges to be like thinking about being on the

845
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: prowl in the way I was like, just monogamy in

846
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,919
Speaker 1: terms of energetically makes more sense because I'm like, yeah,

847
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: that sounds a lot easier and I don't have to

848
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: deal with someone, yeah, you know what I mean. Like nowadays,

849
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: it's kind of like it It's not like it was

850
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: where I could just hop on a dick when I

851
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,320
Speaker 1: was twenty five, you know what I mean. I'm just like, Okay,

852
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: what's going on? Yeah, I've had lunch and dinner. But

853
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 1: is someone knocking? Because I'll answer now It's like, okay,

854
00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: let me do the mental math here, Like I don't

855
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 1: know you guys on.

856
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 2: Grinder, I am having on it again and I am

857
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:18,959
Speaker 2: about to shudder again. I'm just like this is there's

858
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 2: nothing here?

859
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Truly? Also, because are you showing face on there? Yeah? Yeah,

860
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: I'm getting banned a lot. Yes, I have to text

861
00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 1: funny who works at Grinder, this poor.

862
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 3: Sweet soul who has has no business getting these nasty

863
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 3: vial texts from there. And I text him and I go,

864
00:37:37,719 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 3: I'm an Oklahoma stadium as horny as I've ever been,

865
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 3: And I've once again been banned from Grinder for impersonating

866
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,719
Speaker 3: Caleb Haarent. Which can I say that? Of the gig

867
00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 3: guys to impersonate, I have to imagine that Caleb Haarent

868
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 3: is not high on the list on Grinder. I don't

869
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:52,280
Speaker 3: feel like that makes a ton of sense.

870
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 2: I say the same thing to the guys who are like,

871
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 2: you're cat fishing. I'm like a fem Asian light.

872
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys hate people on here. You hate Asian

873
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 3: people on here, Like, no, I wouldn't pick Kayla. You

874
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 3: know I wouldn't pick like I would. Doesn't make it,

875
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 3: That doesn't make sense. We wouldn't crack Cafish that way, right.

876
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 3: I know who you catfish as when you do it,

877
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 3: and it's never Yourse, it's never me.

878
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 1: Yeah. I got damned one time because I was I

879
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 1: was in uh the Tampa area, and they're like, we

880
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:23,759
Speaker 1: knew it couldn't be you. I was like, no, I'm

881
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:25,319
Speaker 1: just weird in here. No, I just had to go

882
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: to Tampa. Actually just sometimes come to Tampa. It's like

883
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: a thing about me. If you had just sent me

884
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 1: a message, we could have gotten into it. I would

885
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:34,959
Speaker 1: have told you all about my part time Tampa life. Yeah.

886
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 1: I do have fun on grinder. I am. I am

887
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: like regularly meeting people off a grinder.

888
00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 3: I would say, really, but like I'm very specific about it,

889
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 3: and I'm I'm very like, yeah, I don't think It's

890
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,799
Speaker 3: not how it was when I was like twenty, I know,

891
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 3: you know, when I was twenty, I was like like

892
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 3: I was like, who, I'll do anything. I was doing

893
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 3: a on when I was twenty. What I was meeting

894
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 3: strangers without face picks when I was ten?

895
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:57,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't be doing that anymore.

896
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,520
Speaker 2: That's that's Chicago twenty. You're in your twenties, you're doing

897
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 2: an on.

898
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: Say that, say that, say that. I had like that.

899
00:39:06,520 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: I had like a like a really crazy six week

900
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: period on grinder when I was like when I was

901
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 1: in my like twenty six, twenty seven, I had a

902
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 1: sixer when I was seeing like I like, I'll just

903
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 1: say like four or five guys a week, Like I

904
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: was just like I had discovered it and I was

905
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: just like, I am on this and it was like

906
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: I was having like a little sexual revolution in myself.

907
00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 1: I say it's a six week period because it had

908
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 1: to end. I got syphilis. Of course, totally. That's the

909
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:37,319
Speaker 1: bottle man, the pirate STI.

910
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 3: That'll happen sometimes, an STI that we truly should not

911
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 3: even be saying if it's not in a pirate tux.

912
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 1: I thought I thought it was a joke. I was like, yeah,

913
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:49,480
Speaker 1: symphilis sure. It's just like no one gets that, got it? Matt.

914
00:39:49,480 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 1: I heard a story about you on the way over

915
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 1: here today. What's the story?

916
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 3: My assistant Michelle. Yeah, we're driving over here together, shout out, Michelle,

917
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 3: love you girl. So sorry about everything. I'm a nightmare

918
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 3: to work for. She used to work at a restaurant

919
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,919
Speaker 3: in Brooklyn. Uh, and I have to confront you.

920
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:04,919
Speaker 1: What's the rest? Oh God?

921
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 3: She said that you came in and she said you

922
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:09,800
Speaker 3: were not very nice.

923
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: I wasn't nice, I'm kidding. She said you were a

924
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:17,479
Speaker 1: total sweet Like I was. Imagine, he's the loveliest person

925
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: on earth. First of all, A I am industry and

926
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,879
Speaker 1: so I go in there, and I'm like, I make

927
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 1: sure that everyone knows that he's been on either side.

928
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 1: I I by when I say I'm industry, I mean

929
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm restaurant industry for ten years. Like, but I was

930
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 1: so shocked that I was possibly capable of that. I know, well, no,

931
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:42,759
Speaker 1: I'm totally kid. Restaurant dinner party, okay, yeah, okay, yeah,

932
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: somebody's birthday.

933
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, somebody said you were lovely, and I just thought

934
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 3: that was really sweet. I was really scared because when

935
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 3: she said I was like, oh my gosh, like I

936
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 3: love Matt. I hope this is a good story, because

937
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 3: I will say when I hear, when I hear, like

938
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 3: somebody be like, oh, Renes el Weggar came into my

939
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 3: coffee show.

940
00:40:56,200 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: I feel bad that Renee got the poll. But like

941
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 1: any celebrity, we only say her because she's notice But.

942
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:03,880
Speaker 3: It's like they'll say some random celebrity and they'll be like, ugh,

943
00:41:04,080 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 3: they were they were kind of rude to me, and

944
00:41:05,400 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 3: I'm going, I don't really believe that or listen to that,

945
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 3: only because it's like so many times I'll hear someone

946
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 3: say that and I'm like, it sounds like they were

947
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 3: just like kind of in a rush and having a

948
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 3: bad day, like they didn't like dress you down in

949
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 3: front of everyone or something.

950
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 1: They were just like.

951
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 3: You know, and it's like, that's not mean, that's just

952
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 3: being a person who has twenty things to do. So

953
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:23,719
Speaker 3: I wondered, and then it was that you were.

954
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 1: Well, I'm happy that that ended the way it did,

955
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: that story, because I will tell you people acting crazy

956
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: like that in restaurants. I can't abide by it.

957
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 3: Bowen and I had a beautiful night at with Selka Ones.

958
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 3: Oh really, do you remember our faded night?

959
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 2: But I do, of course I do, But I do.

960
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 2: We talk about it because I think it was best cases.

961
00:41:41,239 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 2: I think things happened exactly how they should have they

962
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 2: were meant to.

963
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:45,800
Speaker 3: Well, I it was funny because you were writing for

964
00:41:45,880 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 3: us and l and oh this is years ago, this

965
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:49,280
Speaker 3: is twenty nineteen.

966
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,320
Speaker 1: Yes, this is after my first season. You were screen

967
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: testing It wasn't your first right your first season? Right? Yes?

968
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,479
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I was screen testing for the show. And

969
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 3: I was like, I was like, Bowen, can we can

970
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 3: we go out and get food after my thing? And

971
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:04,719
Speaker 3: we Bonn took me to sell and I was like,

972
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 3: I feel like I was like you're gonna be on

973
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 3: the show, right?

974
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: Did you tell me that? I feel like we talked

975
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: about it.

976
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was like, and I even back, and

977
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,120
Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know, I think like I

978
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 2: just literally was like, they would never put an Asian person.

979
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: On, and I was like, they're not gonna put two

980
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: gay guys on, right. So I left. I left that meal.

981
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:22,799
Speaker 3: Being like Bone's getting on the show and this was

982
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 3: a fun exercise, but like, I'm not getting this job.

983
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: And then that is what happened.

984
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 3: But it was it was so you were so sweet

985
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 3: and lovely to me, and I was nervous about the thing.

986
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: It's terrible to the staff. You were horrible to the staff.

987
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 3: You berated them, and then Matt came in just to

988
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 3: be mean to them and then left, didn't even like

989
00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 3: have a bite with us, came in, braided them.

990
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: Left. Yeah, awesome, And I made sure it was Michelle.

991
00:42:43,520 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, get Michelle out here, get out of here,

992
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:47,320
Speaker 3: bring her in, get her out.

993
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 1: But it was so lovely and sweet. That was nice.

994
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 1: That was That was That was Chicago days.

995
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 2: What was the year What was the year post that

996
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 2: you that you defected from Chicago?

997
00:42:56,520 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: Chicago?

998
00:42:57,120 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 3: I left Chicago if you can possibly believe it. In

999
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 3: May of twenty twenty to move to Los Angeles.

1000
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 1: Okay, well, at that time that was kind of a

1001
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 1: That was was because because La was you know, quote

1002
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: unquote nicer place to be at.

1003
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 3: That totally nice so you could be outside. And I

1004
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:12,319
Speaker 3: was driving for Uber Eats at the time. I had

1005
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 3: no job. I had quit my job to do comedy

1006
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 3: full time in January of twenty twenty. Right, I'll have

1007
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 3: a laugh, right, And I thought I thought things were

1008
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 3: on the up, and then COVID happened.

1009
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 1: Nothing happened. I was making no money, so I was driving.

1010
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 3: For Uber and I was like, I'd rather be driving

1011
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 3: for Uber with the windows down, yeah, while people were

1012
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 3: dying left and.

1013
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 1: Right all winter. Yeah, I was like, let me get

1014
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:34,439
Speaker 1: out there. So I moved to La then Love.

1015
00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's all like like we're just a

1016
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 2: little path through Virgina Wood and then mean back up again.

1017
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,000
Speaker 1: Isn't it so cute? Though? Like, guys, we've been doing

1018
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:45,320
Speaker 1: this for a minute and that it's now at the

1019
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 1: point where it's just like, oh, how long have I

1020
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:51,760
Speaker 1: known Bowen? And the answer is seventeen years. Jesus Christ

1021
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: that's crazy. It's gonna be it's gonna be half our life,

1022
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: half our life soon. That feels crazy, just to quantify,

1023
00:43:58,200 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: like your adult life.

1024
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 2: Has met you in two thousand and eight, So what

1025
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 2: would we run up and say eighteen?

1026
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 3: Technically, technically, in a couple of years, you guys will

1027
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:06,759
Speaker 3: have had more life knowing each other than you did

1028
00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 3: when before you knew to me.

1029
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:09,319
Speaker 2: I know, you know what I mean, that's what Well,

1030
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 2: that's that's that's where I am with New York City

1031
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 2: or I'm like, I've spent most of my life here.

1032
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 2: It's the only place I've been an adult in. Am

1033
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 2: I robbing myself of something? I don't know what do

1034
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,879
Speaker 2: you mean? Like like I like by saying like, oh,

1035
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 2: I haven't lived anywhere else, but he knows where.

1036
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 1: He's going when everything goes down? Where going Ontario? Really?

1037
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: Why is that Lake Muskoka just lakes?

1038
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 2: Just there's no there's no there's If you look at

1039
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 2: all the map overlays, it's like no no wildfires, no tornadoes,

1040
00:44:36,520 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 2: no earthquakes, no flood.

1041
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: He's got his likeg Trepper, it's interesting. I think we

1042
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: all got to be preppered. No, it's interesting nowadays, because

1043
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: you talk to people and you realize some people in

1044
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:51,640
Speaker 1: your life have fully prepped, like we are, or our friends.

1045
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: Who's a couple. I was over there at their at

1046
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,480
Speaker 1: their apartment like a few months ago and they go, yeah,

1047
00:44:56,520 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: we're both getting guns and I'm like what, and they well,

1048
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:02,399
Speaker 1: when the grid goes down, we both need a gun

1049
00:45:02,440 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 1: because in case one of us goes. I was like,

1050
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 1: excuse me. They were like, yeah, well, if one of

1051
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 1: us goes, if one of us goes down, you need

1052
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 1: someone to cover. I was like, you guys have really

1053
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 1: thought about one.

1054
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 3: Of these people with these lesbians. O Hey, guys, see

1055
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 3: it's the lesbians that are doing it to me. And

1056
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 3: I heard something even more concerning recently, more concerning than

1057
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 3: gun if you can believe it. I was at lesbians

1058
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 3: house recently. They told me that they said, yeah, several

1059
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 3: of us just got walkie talkies. I said, I'm not

1060
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,320
Speaker 3: paying attention to now. I very clearly I'm not tapped

1061
00:45:27,320 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 3: into it for their compound that they're like already. I said,

1062
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 3: walkie talkies. If it comes walkie talkie time, give me

1063
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:35,040
Speaker 3: the gun.

1064
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:37,600
Speaker 2: If it comes walkie talkie time. I'm not doing walk

1065
00:45:38,560 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 2: well I go, I go like, if the grid goes down,

1066
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:41,439
Speaker 2: I'm out.

1067
00:45:42,200 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm killing myself. I'm not doing walkie talkies.

1068
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:49,920
Speaker 2: I am not doing walkies. I'm not doing generators. I'm

1069
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 2: not because then what we're camping, and I hate that.

1070
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 1: I'm not camping my love. When my Wi Fi goes out,

1071
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 1: I almost jump out a window. I'm not surviving when

1072
00:45:58,200 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 1: the grid goes down, I'm not at all.

1073
00:45:59,840 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 3: I I the things. I find the space in my

1074
00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 3: heart and soul to complain about my current present life. Yeah,

1075
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 3: you wouldn't want to see me. Also, it can't be

1076
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 3: that those things are called walkie talkies as the technical No, no, no,

1077
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:12,880
Speaker 3: there's gotta be a more technical term, right.

1078
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 2: Whatever it is. When the grid goes down, those nails

1079
00:46:16,200 --> 00:46:16,760
Speaker 2: bye bye.

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00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 1: No, God, don't do close ups on them. That's really importing.

1081
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 3: No, I'm not doing walkie talkies. I'm not doing survivalist stuff.

1082
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:22,920
Speaker 3: I like, will come to the lake with you for

1083
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 3: a little bit if I can still like drive, but

1084
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:28,399
Speaker 3: I'm not if the grid goes down, I'm not doing it.

1085
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,760
Speaker 3: One of my friends drew a map. Drew a hand

1086
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:34,919
Speaker 3: drawn map. Hot, I guess of how to get from

1087
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,280
Speaker 3: New York to this piece of land that their family

1088
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 3: owns in Pennsylvania in case we need to escape. I said, yeah,

1089
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 3: I'm just not. I'm obviously not reading the things you

1090
00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 3: guys are reading. I'm not.

1091
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: I can't be involved. We're running different races. Yeah, like

1092
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,239
Speaker 1: you're trying to fight, like with people. I'm like again,

1093
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 1: fighting with my microwave to work. Yeah's going on. I

1094
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 1: have a different job. Oh, the whole grid is fully

1095
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: working better than ever. Yeah, and I'm barely ser the

1096
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 1: grid is up. Yeah, and I'm barely getting by. I'm

1097
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:00,760
Speaker 1: in theory.

1098
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 2: It's Ontario for me, but it's like who knows, Like

1099
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:05,520
Speaker 2: at that point, I just I just hope I'm there

1100
00:47:05,640 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 2: when shit goes down, yeah, which is so unlikely.

1101
00:47:11,400 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: What do you guys want out of your life? Can

1102
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: I ask you an artist question? Yes? Yeah, you think,

1103
00:47:14,520 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 1: GI guy, we've been vulnerable. What else can we be? Earnest?

1104
00:47:18,239 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: I think we can be all sorts of things. That's

1105
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 1: really what this podcast has. What do you guys really want?

1106
00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:24,399
Speaker 1: What do I really want? You know what? I think

1107
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: I would like to I think i'd like my life

1108
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 1: and I like the way it's developing, and I want

1109
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 1: it to continue, but it's I stopped. Like I said

1110
00:47:34,600 --> 00:47:36,400
Speaker 1: the other day, I was like, I don't really believe

1111
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,560
Speaker 1: anymore making plans after like six months, like six months ahead.

1112
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:42,799
Speaker 1: It's like I can see my schedule and I can

1113
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: see what I'm doing for a few months, but like,

1114
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: I don't. I couldn't wrap my head around a five

1115
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 1: year plan or a grand plan for my life because

1116
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 1: I feel like that would weirdly be limiting. I'm like

1117
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,919
Speaker 1: open to things because I've surprised myself so far, I think.

1118
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 1: And then in terms of like you know, the romantic

1119
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: stuff and like all of that, like I think that

1120
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: right now, I'm in the mode of like I just

1121
00:48:07,960 --> 00:48:10,400
Speaker 1: want to follow good feelings and what is meant to

1122
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:14,880
Speaker 1: be will be. Yeah, but I can't. I don't know,

1123
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't. It's not that I can't make

1124
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: goals anymore. It's just that, like I don't think it

1125
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 1: would be useful for me.

1126
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:23,920
Speaker 3: I'm just kind of like, let's just see everybody's feeling

1127
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,879
Speaker 3: that way. Yeah, Yeah, I don't think anyone can see

1128
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 3: the future, which is a real I don't know if

1129
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 3: that's new or if that's like always been kind of

1130
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 3: happening or what. But I really don't think so many

1131
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 3: people living right now that are like our age or

1132
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 3: younger are really thinking twenty years from now and going like,

1133
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 3: I know what.

1134
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 2: That will look like because this is the first time

1135
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 2: in society. Someone was saying this on what like Al

1136
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:49,279
Speaker 2: Jazeer or something like, this is the first time in

1137
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 2: society where we are mourning the future.

1138
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:54,360
Speaker 1: In advance, right, That was pretty scary. We're not.

1139
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 2: That's like, this is the first times as a people

1140
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: that were like, oh, twenty years from now, well that

1141
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 2: that's so uncertain that like I can't and that puts

1142
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 2: you in a crazy existential funk where you're like, what

1143
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:07,359
Speaker 2: the fuck am I supposed to do now if like

1144
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 2: if like there's nothing to reap like in twenty years.

1145
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 3: I just watched this incredible documentary called Join or Die.

1146
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 1: Have you all seen that? Join or Die? Join or Die?

1147
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 3: Has anyone heard of this? It's so wonderful this guy

1148
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 3: and I don't remember anyone's names from it, sorry, But

1149
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 3: this research or research for a long time like like

1150
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,800
Speaker 3: governments and society, like societies and like little different like regions,

1151
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 3: and I think mostly in Italy at first, and then

1152
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:34,240
Speaker 3: he came back to the States.

1153
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 1: He's from the States.

1154
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,520
Speaker 3: He basically did research on like what makes people feel cohesive,

1155
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:40,799
Speaker 3: Like what is the basis of community, Like what makes

1156
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,399
Speaker 3: rich community where people feel bought into their democracies, and

1157
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:47,240
Speaker 3: like what is that thing? And he basically started charting

1158
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:51,319
Speaker 3: it with like involvement in social groups like kawanas or

1159
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 3: the Elks lodge, or choirs or like choral groups or

1160
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 3: you know these things that we used to have so

1161
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 3: many social clubs, like the Women's Suffrage movement started out

1162
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 3: like a women's social club, and like like many of

1163
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:05,239
Speaker 3: like w b D Boys's like speeches came at like

1164
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 3: social clubs, like places where people gathered to be like

1165
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 3: part of like societies and.

1166
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 1: Things like third spaces exactly.

1167
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 3: But the as as like mistrust in the government and

1168
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 3: like disenchantment with democracy has gone up in like a

1169
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 3: pretty straight line. Inversely, association with like groups has gone down.

1170
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 3: And I was so fascinated by this. It's a really

1171
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 3: really good documentary.

1172
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:28,800
Speaker 1: It's on Netflix.

1173
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,720
Speaker 3: Shout out you guys, shout out shout out love y'all,

1174
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 3: and and and all the streamers.

1175
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:41,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just love media.

1176
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,439
Speaker 3: I hope everything streams forever and it will and stop

1177
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 3: seeing movies to theaters.

1178
00:50:46,440 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 1: By the way.

1179
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 3: And it was really really good though, it was it

1180
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,359
Speaker 3: was really fascinating, and I was like, oh, yeah, we're

1181
00:50:52,360 --> 00:50:53,959
Speaker 3: really not in groups anymore.

1182
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 2: Because and like the perfect sort of recipe for whatever

1183
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:02,560
Speaker 2: like little manipulative things is like there's there's a reason

1184
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 2: like where we're less and less motivated to go and

1185
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 2: and seek out these spaces and clubs and stuff.

1186
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're on our phone. We're on our phones.

1187
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:12,799
Speaker 3: And also there's not there's no real belief, I think

1188
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 3: on the on on a mascot. I just was reading

1189
00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 3: maybe yesterday morning, about this town I think it was

1190
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 3: in Oklahoma, that their city council and their mayor.

1191
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,720
Speaker 1: You're obsessed with Oklahoma, by the way. I love Oklahoma.

1192
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: Can't god enough of it. I cannot get enough of it.

1193
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 3: Shout out to Olcahola, Oklahoma readers. What are your other

1194
00:51:28,719 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 3: ones public Oklahoma fans of this show?

1195
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 1: They're there on subgroup now Oklahoma Yeah, Oklahomas, ok Yeah,

1196
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:41,759
Speaker 1: I can't do right now.

1197
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 3: But I was reading something that this town they like

1198
00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,760
Speaker 3: approved a giant like AI data center. The city council

1199
00:51:48,080 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 3: and the town like got together and like marched into

1200
00:51:50,640 --> 00:51:55,840
Speaker 3: city Hall and turned in like a fully signed petition

1201
00:51:55,920 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 3: to have all of them recalled. Everyone on city council.

1202
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 3: The mayor entirely put up for like a recall immediately,

1203
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 3: and it was like the surge of like they do

1204
00:52:02,880 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 3: not want this fucking data center. They're being sold out

1205
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 3: by their officials. But it's you need it needs to

1206
00:52:07,400 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 3: be on that kind of scale for people to believe

1207
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 3: that we can affect change, because we can. It just

1208
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:13,800
Speaker 3: needs to be scaled down to where it's like manageable

1209
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 3: to take bites.

1210
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like somebody was saying, like the other day, it's

1211
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:20,359
Speaker 1: like even with the protests, like I feel like we

1212
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: were often hearing like this was the largest protest in history,

1213
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:26,400
Speaker 1: or like this was the biggest day. Like it still

1214
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: feels like when you zoom out and look at what's

1215
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 1: happening in the world, like there I understand that thought

1216
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,040
Speaker 1: of like Okay, well, how many times have we heard that?

1217
00:52:34,120 --> 00:52:35,920
Speaker 1: And yet it feels like the world is getting worse

1218
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: and worse and worse. But then when you think of

1219
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 1: community on a small scale, it's very easy for me

1220
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: to think about like people walking into a town hall

1221
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:47,080
Speaker 1: and like making change because people would be forced to listen.

1222
00:52:47,160 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 1: I think what's like so shitty is it's like it

1223
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: doesn't matter anymore, how large like a voice we are

1224
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: saying we don't want something. We're so separated from the

1225
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: people that can make change and make power and they're

1226
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:01,560
Speaker 1: so siloed off from us that it's like totally fruitless.

1227
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:04,600
Speaker 2: Yesterday they did like attacks the brit Rally and the Bronx,

1228
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 2: and someone was like it was great, like it was

1229
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 2: just like people who already know this, but like yeah,

1230
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:12,960
Speaker 2: but they were like so like I don't know, like

1231
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 2: it felt like interesting, like it we weren't sure like

1232
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 2: where this is all going. I was like, oh no,

1233
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,120
Speaker 2: the fact that you guys even like gathered is kind

1234
00:53:20,120 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 2: of like the win, right. It's like it's like where

1235
00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 2: you're saying, it's like these movements start out of literal

1236
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:30,319
Speaker 2: like biomass, like living, breathing creatures, like coming together for

1237
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:31,000
Speaker 2: whatever reason.

1238
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm really up two minds about it because I

1239
00:53:33,160 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 3: feel also that I had this conversation with a lot

1240
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 3: of friends after like twenty sixteen, because it was a

1241
00:53:37,680 --> 00:53:40,439
Speaker 3: very funny experience for me as someone who had lived

1242
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:42,920
Speaker 3: my whole life up intil that point in Missouri that

1243
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 3: so many of my friends on the coasts for the

1244
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 3: first time, we're being like, we got to pay attention

1245
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 3: to the middle of the country. And I was like, Oh,

1246
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 3: were you guys not? I was like, oh, I was,

1247
00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 3: And so that was really interesting to me. I learned

1248
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,399
Speaker 3: a lot from that moment. And then I have this

1249
00:53:56,800 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 3: kind of feeling that I'm like, something is gonna have

1250
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:00,600
Speaker 3: to give eventually, with the fact that like so many people,

1251
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,000
Speaker 3: like leftists, like good hearted people who really want a

1252
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 3: brighter future for all of us, we say that things

1253
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 3: are so dire right now, and we say that like,

1254
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:09,719
Speaker 3: this is really as bad as it can get, is

1255
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:12,840
Speaker 3: so existential, And then the truth is that if a

1256
00:54:12,840 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 3: bunch of us moved to other places and started like

1257
00:54:16,120 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 3: having hard conversations, I think we have the winning argument.

1258
00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 3: I think good people who want a better future that

1259
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:23,880
Speaker 3: is not controlled by a handful of billionaires actually have

1260
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 3: the winning argument. And a lot of working people who

1261
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 3: don't vote the way we think maybe they should agree

1262
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 3: with us.

1263
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:29,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, yep.

1264
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,160
Speaker 3: If it's so existential, a bunch of us are going

1265
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 3: to have to move to places like Ohio and get

1266
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 3: to work and we're not doing that, and so that's okay,

1267
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 3: but we're gonna have to like eventually do something about

1268
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 3: the cognitive dissonance of the statement that things are existentially

1269
00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,560
Speaker 3: dire and we have to make take drastic measures. And

1270
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 3: then also, nobody wants to move to West Virginia.

1271
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,919
Speaker 1: The thing is, though I feel like, like, yes, it's

1272
00:54:51,000 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: okay that people don't do that, but if that's not

1273
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,319
Speaker 1: going to be the case, if we're not going to

1274
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,279
Speaker 1: engage with them in like a real way like that,

1275
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:01,000
Speaker 1: then we have to at least, I think, make sure

1276
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 1: we're not siling siloing off in a media way. Right.

1277
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 3: I really want and this was almost and I don't

1278
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 3: think so honey for me, but it's not.

1279
00:55:07,480 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 1: But the.

1280
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 3: What I really want is for Democrats to start being

1281
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 3: who Republicans say they are. There's a Republicans keep saying

1282
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 3: that Democrats are these like transgender leftist radicals who want

1283
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:21,359
Speaker 3: to like destroy the billionaire class, and then you cut

1284
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 3: to Chuck Schumer and it's like he's not on estrogen,

1285
00:55:24,600 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 3: he's not sucking dick, he's not doing anything for working people.

1286
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,400
Speaker 3: But there's just nothing, and then their whole pitch, like

1287
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,200
Speaker 3: avin Newsom's whole pitch is like, hey, I'm not so

1288
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: different from the Republicans, And it's like, well, bitch, can

1289
00:55:33,160 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 3: you be right? Can somebody be what? Does does anyone

1290
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 3: have any interest in being different than these fucking Cretans?

1291
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 3: Like yeah, it makes me feel fucking crazy because you

1292
00:55:39,960 --> 00:55:42,319
Speaker 3: look at a place like Missouri where Trump wins by

1293
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 3: you know, fourteen, fifteen, twenty points whatever, and then abortion,

1294
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:48,520
Speaker 3: they passed the strictest abortion being in the country, and

1295
00:55:48,560 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 3: then they put it up for a referendum and the

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00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:52,840
Speaker 3: people voted down by three points. So that's a twenty

1297
00:55:52,880 --> 00:55:56,440
Speaker 3: plus point swing between Trump winning and a very contentious

1298
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 3: progressive issue winning with the same voters. Same thing with

1299
00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 3: leus marijuana, same thing with raising the minimum wage and

1300
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 3: giving people paid sick leave, all very leftist ideas. They're

1301
00:56:05,719 --> 00:56:07,839
Speaker 3: winning on the same ballots that Trump is winning. So

1302
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 3: we very clearly have a candidate problem. And I think

1303
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 3: if the solution was people like Gavin Newsom coming in

1304
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 3: with like a slick haircut and not wearing a tie,

1305
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 3: so we think he's regular spare me coming in and

1306
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 3: pairating the same things they're talking about. We've already had

1307
00:56:21,840 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 3: that choice We've already had that choice and it didn't work.

1308
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:26,520
Speaker 3: So I just feel crazy all the time. I feel

1309
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 3: fucking crazy.

1310
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: I mean I was watching something yesterday about like, well,

1311
00:56:29,520 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: it looks like Kamala Harris is running again, and so

1312
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 1: that means that her and Gavin Newsom will be at

1313
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,400
Speaker 1: the top of at the top of the polls. And

1314
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, that just sounds like a lot of

1315
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:41,520
Speaker 1: wasted time, guys, why because let's run someone crazy.

1316
00:56:41,600 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 3: Let's run someone Let's run a fucking a kooky leftist

1317
00:56:44,200 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 3: art teacher from like Middlebury, Ohio. Let's run someone nuts.

1318
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 3: Let's just go crazy with it.

1319
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:49,759
Speaker 1: I just don't think.

1320
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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but I just don't think Kamala and Gavin

1321
00:56:52,600 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 3: are going to do it.

1322
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:56,359
Speaker 1: We don't. I mean, it's just never gonna happen. It's

1323
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 1: because it just goes back to the thing of what

1324
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: people did in like I think holistically was that he

1325
00:57:02,800 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: was the type of like you can even tell him

1326
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:07,000
Speaker 1: the way he does his hair and the way he talks,

1327
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:08,359
Speaker 1: and he comes out and says things like we need

1328
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: to be more culturally normal, and that's gonna like fix problems.

1329
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, what exactly do you mean by that

1330
00:57:14,640 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 1: he is like so slyly or he thinks he's so

1331
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:20,040
Speaker 1: slyly homophobic. Meanwhile, it just is homophobia.

1332
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 3: Also, any any Republican with any level of like acumen

1333
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 3: is going to destroy him on that culturally normal shit.

1334
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:30,959
Speaker 3: I know he thinks he's courting middle voters, but brother,

1335
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,760
Speaker 3: you grew up rich in California. Yeah, your culturally normal

1336
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:35,480
Speaker 3: thing is not going to fly in the middle of

1337
00:57:35,520 --> 00:57:37,720
Speaker 3: the country. Like it doesn't fly with me. I'm like,

1338
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:40,440
Speaker 3: culturally normal, I don't feel anything like you. And it's

1339
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 3: not because I love trans people. I do, but it's

1340
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 3: like I don't feel related to you at all because

1341
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:48,920
Speaker 3: you're like a slick career politician who you want to

1342
00:57:48,920 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 3: be president so bad that I like, I hate it.

1343
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 3: That being said, I think if gay guys would podcasts

1344
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 3: for president, this country would be in such a good place.

1345
00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, God, he is always, He's always. You know nothing

1346
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: that we can do it. I think we can do it.

1347
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 1: A great team.

1348
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 2: Rogers Heron looks good on alone.

1349
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:13,120
Speaker 3: In the Supreme Court, you would be incredible in the

1350
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 3: Supreme Court. You would be incredible in the Supreme Court.

1351
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 1: I you in that robe. I was gonna say thank you.

1352
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 1: Why do you want to push back so bad? Though?

1353
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: I was like, because he wants to move to Canada,

1354
00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: I want him to Canada. I don't want. I don't

1355
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: want any of this. Speaking of culturally normal, oh wait,

1356
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: my god. Wait, we haven't asked of the question, which

1357
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 1: is how did you become culturally you? What was the

1358
00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,320
Speaker 1: culture that made you say culture was for you?

1359
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:43,800
Speaker 3: Okay, let me ask you. Is this supposed to be

1360
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:44,280
Speaker 3: one thing?

1361
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:45,720
Speaker 1: Anything? It can be.

1362
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:47,720
Speaker 2: It can be Missouri, It can be like a movie,

1363
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:49,680
Speaker 2: a show, a song, a singer.

1364
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 1: It can be any.

1365
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 3: Yes, okay. I have so many things to say. But

1366
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,760
Speaker 3: Wide Open Spaces album by The Chicks. Wide Open Space

1367
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,919
Speaker 3: is the album by the Chicks. Yes, formerly Dixie. Yeah,

1368
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,600
Speaker 3: we're not doing that anymore the Chicks. That album has everything.

1369
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 3: It has. It has your mom and your aunt scream

1370
00:59:06,040 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 3: singing along in the car. It has heartbreak. It has

1371
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,880
Speaker 3: killing a man who cheated on you or sorry abused you.

1372
00:59:11,240 --> 00:59:13,080
Speaker 3: It has he probably cheated too, Carl.

1373
00:59:14,000 --> 00:59:17,080
Speaker 1: It has it has it has fun dance tunes, it

1374
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 1: has fiddle.

1375
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 3: Wide Open Spaces by the Chicks is one of the

1376
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 3: greatest pieces of art we have ever seen in this country.

1377
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,280
Speaker 3: Thank you, and it really is what the American Project

1378
00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 3: was all leading to. Since then, who knows what happened

1379
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:30,440
Speaker 3: wide Open Spaces by the Chicks.

1380
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:31,920
Speaker 1: God, I love those ladies.

1381
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 2: Yea, the project ended and failed when when you know

1382
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 2: when the whole fucking thing happened.

1383
00:59:38,520 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: Yes, when they got in trouble.

1384
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 3: By the way, most people don't even remember this, when

1385
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 3: the Chicks got in trouble, what they not only were

1386
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 3: they right, but they didn't even say anything that crazy.

1387
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 3: It was one concert in Paris or London where Natalie says,

1388
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 3: we just want you to y'all to know we're on

1389
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 3: the good side with you. We are ashamed of this

1390
00:59:55,320 --> 00:59:56,919
Speaker 3: war and we're ashamed the President of the United States

1391
00:59:56,960 --> 01:00:00,960
Speaker 3: is from Texas. That's a fucking softball said crazier things

1392
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 3: like that is insane. They were right and they should be.

1393
01:00:04,440 --> 01:00:06,200
Speaker 3: Oh god, I love them so much, I could cry.

1394
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: I love them.

1395
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 3: They're so special and Natalie Maines is so principled, absolutely

1396
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 3: and so talented and I love her.

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01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:14,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love And you know what's crazy is it's

1398
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:18,840
Speaker 1: like what the Gaslighter album Like, which I also love,

1399
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: which was their most recent album, like it. I hated

1400
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 1: that it got tougher for her because her fucking husband,

1401
01:00:27,040 --> 01:00:30,440
Speaker 1: Adrian Pasdar from Heroes, which was such a disappointment as

1402
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 1: a Heroes fan that he was such like a you

1403
01:00:33,640 --> 01:00:36,800
Speaker 1: know what is the tights on my boat? Yes, like

1404
01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 1: that was so disappointing. I'm like, wow, this woman couldn't

1405
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: even catch a fucking break.

1406
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:44,240
Speaker 3: Brought her backstage at the Hollywood Bowl. Yeah, Adrian Pasdar,

1407
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 3: it is on site. Brother, It's really if I see

1408
01:00:46,760 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 3: you in the streets, we need to have minimum a

1409
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:52,480
Speaker 3: strongly worded conversation. Yeap, maximum glove up let's bo He's not.

1410
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 1: He's not on the streets anymore.

1411
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 2: No, there's no way but white up in Spaces this

1412
01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:00,640
Speaker 2: When did you encounter this album?

1413
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 3: Why upen Spaces came out in the late nineties, So

1414
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 3: I was a very young I mean most of my

1415
01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 3: early my mom is like my biggest inspiration in the world,

1416
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 3: and like pretty much everything good about me is because

1417
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 3: of my mom. And most of my music taste comes

1418
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,720
Speaker 3: from my mom, like blaring songs in the car and

1419
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 3: us like driving somewhere. I mean we just always had

1420
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 3: to go somewhere, Like we always had to go, Like

1421
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:23,560
Speaker 3: she was always rushing to get to work and drop

1422
01:01:23,600 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 3: us off at the babysitter or like we had to

1423
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:26,440
Speaker 3: go to like like it just feels like we were

1424
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 3: always driving because we were and yeah, I just she

1425
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:33,360
Speaker 3: would play. I feel like I really came to understand

1426
01:01:33,360 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 3: when I got a little bit older that like country

1427
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:40,400
Speaker 3: music by women at that time was really giving framework

1428
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:42,640
Speaker 3: for a bunch of women who didn't have like a

1429
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 3: formal education, giving them a framework for feminism. And it's

1430
01:01:46,440 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 3: like they were sitting around chatting like that. But it

1431
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 3: was the feeling of like I never saw the women

1432
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 3: in my life so alive as when they were listening

1433
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 3: to The Chicks and Shania Twain and Jodie Martina, Martina McBride,

1434
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 3: Faith Hill, like the list goes on and on and on,

1435
01:01:59,080 --> 01:02:03,200
Speaker 3: and Lee and Willmack like it just really yeah, it

1436
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:04,640
Speaker 3: made them light up in a way. And I think

1437
01:02:04,640 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 3: it's because it was like music for them about their

1438
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 3: lives that was so empowering. And so I really fell

1439
01:02:10,120 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 3: in love with that music because I saw all the

1440
01:02:11,600 --> 01:02:15,040
Speaker 3: women in my life like come alive to it. And yeah,

1441
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 3: the women in my life were always just genuinely for

1442
01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 3: the most part, funnier and like more vibrant and interesting

1443
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 3: than the men who were talking over them. And the

1444
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 3: talking over women thing has become like kind of like

1445
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,800
Speaker 3: a it got like beat over the head nauseatingly, I

1446
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 3: feel like to a point. But really, when I was

1447
01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:30,960
Speaker 3: growing up, was like these women couldn't get a word

1448
01:02:31,000 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 3: in edgeways, and they were funnier and smarter. Yeah, and

1449
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 3: that drove me fucking insane. And yeah, seeing them like

1450
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,800
Speaker 3: listening to Like the Chicks and singing along, I just

1451
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 3: felt that there was something going on that was like

1452
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:43,960
Speaker 3: very special. Yeah, and I fell in love with it

1453
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 3: because it was just the best feeling in the world.

1454
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 1: See. And I also wonder in the aftermath of all

1455
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:52,320
Speaker 1: that happening how frustrating that must have been for women

1456
01:02:52,360 --> 01:02:54,800
Speaker 1: who probably were being told by their husbands like we

1457
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 1: don't fucking like them anymore, like we're burning their albums

1458
01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 1: and doing the CDs, and like, how shitty it must

1459
01:02:59,720 --> 01:02:59,960
Speaker 1: have been.

1460
01:03:00,360 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I also feel like I don't want to I

1461
01:03:02,200 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 3: want to make sure that when I say that there

1462
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 3: wasn't a formal education around feminism, the women in my

1463
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 3: life were feminist in ways that people who have only

1464
01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 3: studied in the classroom could never like their feminism was

1465
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:16,640
Speaker 3: still important and real and powerful. They they were taking

1466
01:03:16,720 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 3: stances and making swings and stuff.

1467
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:19,400
Speaker 1: I just mean like.

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01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 3: Formally formally, Like there wasn't this thing that I experienced

1469
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:23,919
Speaker 3: when I went to college where a bunch of people

1470
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 3: were sitting around talking about ideas and being like this

1471
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 3: is why this should be this way, and like this

1472
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 3: is an example of this. Like it was more just

1473
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,320
Speaker 3: this lived experience of like, yeah, these shitty, annoying men

1474
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:35,440
Speaker 3: like ruining your life at every turn, and you just

1475
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:37,960
Speaker 3: kind of having like I think, like, yeah, I don't

1476
01:03:37,960 --> 01:03:39,960
Speaker 3: want to be There's there are many women I have

1477
01:03:40,000 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 3: known in my life that have had to stay with

1478
01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 3: a man because they they just could not afford to

1479
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 3: live right them and the things you have to put

1480
01:03:46,760 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 3: up with to be in that situation. Yeah, one of

1481
01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 3: the only times I saw them feel really like like

1482
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 3: up was when they were listening to this kind of

1483
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:55,000
Speaker 3: because they were liberating me.

1484
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:57,120
Speaker 1: Tho. Yeah, they were telling stories of like what it

1485
01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 1: might be like to like and I think that's there's

1486
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:01,920
Speaker 1: a system and being like what if we just kill them?

1487
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:04,600
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Like there's like there's that's

1488
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:06,160
Speaker 1: what I love about music is like you live in

1489
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 1: a different world for three and a half minutes, and like,

1490
01:04:08,280 --> 01:04:10,120
Speaker 1: for three and a half minutes people were living in

1491
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:12,880
Speaker 1: a world where it was like, you know, I cathartically

1492
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:15,320
Speaker 1: had this experience and listening to this song where I

1493
01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:17,720
Speaker 1: fucking killed my husband with my best friend or I got,

1494
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:20,640
Speaker 1: I got, I helped my friend that I'm seeing struggle

1495
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: out of a situation it didn't actually happen, but cathartically

1496
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 1: and like, you know, then live right.

1497
01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 2: But it's like, but the thing about music is that

1498
01:04:29,640 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 2: it is accessible. Yeah, you don't have to like at

1499
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 2: the time you have to like pop Thelm and Louis

1500
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,240
Speaker 2: in the VCR and like watch us watch a story

1501
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:40,240
Speaker 2: or a parable portraying like feminine power. In this way,

1502
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,400
Speaker 2: you can just like turn it on on the radio

1503
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:44,560
Speaker 2: or you could like put pop the CD in the

1504
01:04:44,600 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 2: car as you're driving, as it's like in the weather

1505
01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:49,400
Speaker 2: of your life, like the like just is in the

1506
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 2: climate of your life. Yeah, like that's the tricks are

1507
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:55,640
Speaker 2: fucking major. I'm I'm I need to go back and

1508
01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:57,920
Speaker 2: really give wide open spaces, like a full list, like

1509
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 2: like track to track listening because I always go to

1510
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 2: fly Fly is my spaces are right, like that is

1511
01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:08,040
Speaker 2: like just the three of them on that cover, just

1512
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 2: like Light on their Feet.

1513
01:05:10,320 --> 01:05:12,360
Speaker 1: Well that was like that and Fly were like the

1514
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 1: wide open spaces and that were like the peak, the peak.

1515
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:18,200
Speaker 4: Commercial, cheap peak, and the music was great yeah, but

1516
01:05:17,960 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 4: but also but not ready to make Nice was also

1517
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 4: but the Long Way that is just like that's the

1518
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 4: album of the year when where you're like, fuck, yes,

1519
01:05:27,000 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 4: at least.

1520
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 2: That was like the only like the vindication that we

1521
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 2: could have hoped for at the time. Now I think

1522
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 2: long term, it's like, of course we're all like on

1523
01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 2: the same page about the chicks. It's unfortunate what happened

1524
01:05:35,480 --> 01:05:38,480
Speaker 2: to them, but like them winning album of the Year

1525
01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,479
Speaker 2: for taking the Long Way. And I thought Gas Lighter

1526
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 2: was like I love like I feel commercially it did well, right,

1527
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 2: I think so it was deep in the pandemic where

1528
01:05:49,240 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 2: it came out.

1529
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 1: I don't know how much it was like and I

1530
01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:54,919
Speaker 1: don't I remember. I would listen to it constantly when

1531
01:05:54,920 --> 01:05:56,080
Speaker 1: it came out. I loved them.

1532
01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:04,640
Speaker 3: Music videos, great Texas man ooh yeah yeah. Also another one,

1533
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:06,840
Speaker 3: Did you guys ever see I'm always evangelizing about this,

1534
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 3: Did you guys ever see Monique's Queens of Comedy set.

1535
01:06:10,280 --> 01:06:13,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, this set changed my life. Wait and also

1536
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,080
Speaker 1: did you I'm sure you've seen the one where she

1537
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:16,240
Speaker 1: was went to the women's prison.

1538
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:16,919
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1539
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 1: No, Oh, she has such an incredible set and a

1540
01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 1: women's prison or she goes and it was just they

1541
01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:26,560
Speaker 1: were living for her, and I was just like, people

1542
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:28,480
Speaker 1: don't talk about her talent as a stand up. They

1543
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: don't talk about her talent across the board enough anyway.

1544
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:32,439
Speaker 1: They disrespect her at every turn.

1545
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:34,120
Speaker 2: Every She's been ahead of it at every time, with

1546
01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 2: the open relationship step with like I'm not shaving my

1547
01:06:36,040 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 2: fucking legs.

1548
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:37,960
Speaker 1: Hello, I'm.

1549
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:40,920
Speaker 2: Like, I'm not doing this shit that you're telling me

1550
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:41,120
Speaker 2: to do.

1551
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:42,080
Speaker 1: Nique is everything.

1552
01:06:42,080 --> 01:06:43,760
Speaker 3: Her Queens of Comedy set was one of the first times,

1553
01:06:43,800 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 3: I mean I grew up in such a like fatness

1554
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 3: was either like a bad thing or a joke. Like

1555
01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:50,360
Speaker 3: best case being fat was a joke, worst case in

1556
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 3: more normal was it was like this horrific thing to be, like,

1557
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 3: oh my gosh, if you were ever if anyone was fat,

1558
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:56,880
Speaker 3: it was like they were like dying to change it.

1559
01:06:56,880 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 3: It was really seeped into like my personhood, and Monique

1560
01:06:59,920 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 3: was genuinely the first time she opens that Queens of

1561
01:07:01,760 --> 01:07:04,280
Speaker 3: Comedy set, she came out and like she was big

1562
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,200
Speaker 3: fat woman at the time, and she came out in

1563
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:09,120
Speaker 3: this like leather rat like sexy, slinky little thing, and

1564
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:10,720
Speaker 3: she walked out and she was like, every fat bitch

1565
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:12,360
Speaker 3: in this room should be on their feet clapping for.

1566
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:12,840
Speaker 1: Me right now.

1567
01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:15,080
Speaker 3: She was like, skinny bitches don't have what it takes.

1568
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 3: Skinny bit like it just like.

1569
01:07:18,280 --> 01:07:20,880
Speaker 1: They just don't. She just like went in and I

1570
01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: have I.

1571
01:07:21,280 --> 01:07:23,560
Speaker 3: Had never seen a fat person like own a room

1572
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:25,800
Speaker 3: like that, And it was genuinely one of the first

1573
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,000
Speaker 3: times that I was like, oh, maybe I don't have

1574
01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 3: to hate myself, Like maybe there is a reality where

1575
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:33,200
Speaker 3: I can just like myself and feel confident. And I

1576
01:07:33,240 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 3: owe so much of my like six like any success

1577
01:07:36,560 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 3: I have or any like confidence I have on stage,

1578
01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 3: I genuinely owe at least in part to watching that

1579
01:07:42,400 --> 01:07:45,120
Speaker 3: set for the first So good if you if you're

1580
01:07:45,160 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 3: listening to this reader's publicist Oklahoma publicist, I'm coming to

1581
01:07:50,120 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 3: you now. If you have not seen this set, go

1582
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 3: watch it. It's really fucking amazing.

1583
01:07:53,760 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: Also, like that set and then this this prison set

1584
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 1: I'm referencing I'll never forget one it. One of the

1585
01:08:00,640 --> 01:08:03,840
Speaker 1: bits in any early stand up I watched at that

1586
01:08:03,920 --> 01:08:06,440
Speaker 1: time that stuck with me was hers from that prison set.

1587
01:08:06,760 --> 01:08:11,520
Speaker 1: It was her reckoning with homophobia, and I remember at

1588
01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 1: the top the homophobia that she was feeling. And I

1589
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:18,839
Speaker 1: remember at the time, I was probably like fourteen fifteen,

1590
01:08:18,880 --> 01:08:21,800
Speaker 1: sixteen years old, so hyper aware of when someone was

1591
01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:24,559
Speaker 1: being homophobic, especially in a stand up comedy set, because

1592
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 1: I was like, I really want I respected the art

1593
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 1: form and knew I wanted to do it someday or

1594
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:32,360
Speaker 1: something like it. And she went on this run about

1595
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,719
Speaker 1: how like she was pretty sure that one of her

1596
01:08:34,760 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: sons had a gay friend, and she was like, and

1597
01:08:37,320 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 1: this gay kid's coming over and I'm like, what the fuck?

1598
01:08:40,160 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 1: And then she did this run about how like her

1599
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 1: son looked at her and was like, what do you

1600
01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:47,519
Speaker 1: care if he's gay. He's a good person, and like

1601
01:08:47,680 --> 01:08:49,759
Speaker 1: I love him and like it's not a big deal.

1602
01:08:50,040 --> 01:08:52,080
Speaker 1: And she was like relating it to how she knew

1603
01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: a lot of the women in the audience were lesbian.

1604
01:08:54,080 --> 01:08:56,599
Speaker 1: She's like, Oho, here's gay and they were like yeah,

1605
01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:00,280
Speaker 1: And it was just like this this way too back

1606
01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 1: in with this ugly thing about her that she recognized

1607
01:09:04,800 --> 01:09:07,400
Speaker 1: was a part of like the fabric of what she

1608
01:09:07,760 --> 01:09:10,959
Speaker 1: thought at the time. But like was she was working

1609
01:09:11,040 --> 01:09:14,840
Speaker 1: through it in a real way that didn't feel icky

1610
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:17,160
Speaker 1: as an audience member or it didn't make me feel

1611
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 1: shitty as a little gay boy watching it. I was

1612
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 1: just like, this is how you, I think, you know,

1613
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:26,040
Speaker 1: walk through like a phobia that you had. And maybe

1614
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,040
Speaker 1: this could be a note that you know, every iconic

1615
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 1: male straight comedian that's you know, aged up now could take.

1616
01:09:33,720 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: But it was just more interesting for her to unpack

1617
01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:40,840
Speaker 1: what she needed to unpack than to be like, this

1618
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: is what I don't get, this is what I don't get,

1619
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:44,880
Speaker 1: this is what I don't get. It was just it

1620
01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: was more developed, and you're right, I think is because

1621
01:09:47,479 --> 01:09:50,880
Speaker 1: it was her womanhood that was allowing her that lens.

1622
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:53,040
Speaker 3: Yes, she liked gay permission. She really gave so many

1623
01:09:53,400 --> 01:09:56,160
Speaker 3: people permission to be themselves. Yeah, genuinely, I love her

1624
01:09:56,320 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 3: so much.

1625
01:09:56,920 --> 01:10:00,639
Speaker 2: And she gave us the iconic quote the jumped out,

1626
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:04,719
Speaker 2: the horror jumped out. Your behavior was horror like Coorike

1627
01:10:04,840 --> 01:10:07,000
Speaker 2: and the horror jum jumped out and jump back in.

1628
01:10:07,160 --> 01:10:10,720
Speaker 3: Charm School was we owe we owe so much to

1629
01:10:10,760 --> 01:10:13,400
Speaker 3: Monique on Charm School and it's not even like top

1630
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 3: ten of what we owe her thank you for, but

1631
01:10:15,360 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 3: goddamn she was.

1632
01:10:16,240 --> 01:10:18,160
Speaker 1: Goddamn she was still good on Charm School. That's why

1633
01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 1: there's no rules is because it was after Charm School

1634
01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:23,840
Speaker 1: that she won the Academy Award. That's why I say

1635
01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:25,639
Speaker 1: there's no rules in that entertainment. You can do anything

1636
01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:28,559
Speaker 1: as long as you're good enough. Because Monique like hosted

1637
01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:32,200
Speaker 1: Charm School and then after that won the most within

1638
01:10:32,720 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: three years and deservedly so, and by the way, didn't

1639
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: do the whole campaign bullshit. Yeah no, just just completely

1640
01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 1: annihilated any job she's ever been given. YEP, in a

1641
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: way that is also singular and memorable and real star quality,

1642
01:10:48,439 --> 01:10:51,280
Speaker 1: because there's not another Monique. No, there's not another money

1643
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:54,639
Speaker 1: in so many different ways, there's not her like vocal delivery,

1644
01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 1: her cadence, her like, her point of view, her bravery,

1645
01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:04,880
Speaker 1: her cur her choices artistically, there's just not. She just

1646
01:11:04,960 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 1: doesn't get the credit.

1647
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 3: And she played a horny, inappropriate, freaky legend on the

1648
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,800
Speaker 3: Parkers and we have to have to thank her for that.

1649
01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:15,680
Speaker 3: She's chasing that man down the halls and it was

1650
01:11:15,760 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 3: inappropriate but really funny, and I love her so much.

1651
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:20,160
Speaker 1: I would also say one of one of the top

1652
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:22,160
Speaker 1: ten things that I think we do her for is

1653
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 1: in beer Fest when she was when she said I'm

1654
01:11:24,760 --> 01:11:29,640
Speaker 1: gonna break your dick off when she was riding someone penis.

1655
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:33,040
Speaker 1: I'll never forget the beer performance in beer Fest, and

1656
01:11:33,080 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 1: you can. It's Supporting Actress nomination was deserved for beer

1657
01:11:37,439 --> 01:11:40,560
Speaker 1: Fest as well. A film that I'll remind you exists.

1658
01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:44,439
Speaker 1: Beers did I mean had to be two thousand and

1659
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:47,240
Speaker 1: six or two thousand and seven because the peer pressure

1660
01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:49,559
Speaker 1: that I must have felt to go somebody back, the

1661
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:52,760
Speaker 1: peer pressure can only be described, had to be during

1662
01:11:52,760 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 1: a time where it was socially advantageous for me to

1663
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:58,400
Speaker 1: attend the film, and so seeing beer Fest at ice

1664
01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 1: Lit Movie Theater, it must have been two thousand six.

1665
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 1: These are phenomenally answers. Really, I could go on and

1666
01:12:04,600 --> 01:12:06,759
Speaker 1: on on. Yeah, these are those are two that really

1667
01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:09,519
Speaker 1: stick out to me. Also, the movie Miss Congeniality or

1668
01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,799
Speaker 1: Hello Give Some give some favorite elements of the film.

1669
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:17,720
Speaker 3: Sandra Bullock. It's Sandra Bullock is once again one of

1670
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:19,599
Speaker 3: the best things that we have to offer the world

1671
01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:22,800
Speaker 3: as human beings and in the universe. Really, I would

1672
01:12:22,840 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 3: hold her. I would put her in a very small

1673
01:12:24,280 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 3: class of people that we should show to the We

1674
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:27,640
Speaker 3: should give her work to the aliens to say this

1675
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:28,280
Speaker 3: is what we can do.

1676
01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, Discovery, that's what a movie star is. This is

1677
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 1: what a movie star is. Bring that back. I mean,

1678
01:12:32,439 --> 01:12:33,080
Speaker 1: she really is.

1679
01:12:33,120 --> 01:12:35,640
Speaker 3: So there are a million million moments, but really I

1680
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:37,400
Speaker 3: was rewatching it recently and one of the moments of

1681
01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 3: psychotomy has when she's on the plane, okay, going to

1682
01:12:40,360 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 3: get her makeover, and she's watching the videos of like

1683
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:45,000
Speaker 3: the Queen's like she's trying to learn how to give

1684
01:12:45,000 --> 01:12:48,439
Speaker 3: an acceptance speech, and she's like and she's like really

1685
01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 3: going for it.

1686
01:12:49,280 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. I just was like God to be as.

1687
01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 3: Like charming and genuinely good acting and also fucking DNA

1688
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:58,880
Speaker 3: funny as she is. Yeah, many people think they have

1689
01:12:58,920 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 3: it and they.

1690
01:12:59,400 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 2: Just Joe I will never forget the way she says

1691
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 2: when Benjamin Bratt brings like his like hot new girl

1692
01:13:05,680 --> 01:13:08,080
Speaker 2: took the bar and she's eating ice cream, He's like,

1693
01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 2: I'll take a gin and talk and she'll have And

1694
01:13:09,840 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 2: then Sandra goes milk, milk.

1695
01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 1: So good. So many people. Yeah, we we just don't. Shatner,

1696
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:21,280
Speaker 1: Candy Bergen.

1697
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 3: Cansbergen, Cannesbergan stands up in the crown is perfectly on.

1698
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 1: Top of the head.

1699
01:13:25,439 --> 01:13:29,799
Speaker 3: And the talk about direction of the film, directing a film.

1700
01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 3: We're not directing films anymore, No, we're not. The crown

1701
01:13:33,120 --> 01:13:33,799
Speaker 3: should be placed.

1702
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:36,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, that was good. And I also like Benjamin Bratt.

1703
01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:39,960
Speaker 1: He was an iconic Cottia of the time. Michael came like,

1704
01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 1: legendary performance. Good me, he's with me, he says. The

1705
01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 1: year we lost the girl was a deaf mute. You

1706
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 1: can't please this woman has no talent. Legend, legend, desist, desist.

1707
01:13:59,439 --> 01:14:04,280
Speaker 1: So it's amazing, it's incredible. They just had God, I

1708
01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 1: just took the flight back from from Thailand and they

1709
01:14:07,880 --> 01:14:12,400
Speaker 1: had like Sandra Bullock's entire discography, and I did, I

1710
01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:19,479
Speaker 1: did choose to watch discograph, discog so her unique sound.

1711
01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:22,800
Speaker 1: Imagine she had like she was famous enough at one

1712
01:14:22,800 --> 01:14:24,559
Speaker 1: point where she could have been like, I'm doing music.

1713
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:27,759
Speaker 1: Remember when Reese with the Spoon flirted with that after

1714
01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:34,040
Speaker 1: walked the line, She's so good. But they were like,

1715
01:14:34,040 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 1: maybe she released an album and I believe that that

1716
01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:37,479
Speaker 1: was like flirted with for a second, but no.

1717
01:14:37,520 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 2: Because this is the year when Scargo was coming out

1718
01:14:39,360 --> 01:14:41,960
Speaker 2: with the music like the girls were the girls of

1719
01:14:41,960 --> 01:14:45,479
Speaker 2: that ILK were coming out with with with songs opened.

1720
01:14:44,960 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 1: For me, We'll do it and half the way have

1721
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:51,439
Speaker 1: you heard have you heard her song Burial? No? Sorry,

1722
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:55,040
Speaker 1: Mother Mary? She's done a song with Charlie xc X

1723
01:14:55,240 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 1: Jack Antonoff, and I believe she co wrote on it. Yes,

1724
01:14:58,680 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 1: it's called this is a bi Oh my gosh. She's

1725
01:15:01,439 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: giving like sort of gaga Charlie xcxx pop star. In

1726
01:15:05,320 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 1: her other movie coming out next month, it's called Mother

1727
01:15:08,120 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 1: Mary with MICHAELA. Cole, where she plays like it's like

1728
01:15:11,479 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 1: it's like a sapphic like pop stars, like sort of

1729
01:15:15,200 --> 01:15:17,600
Speaker 1: like weird, freaky, deeky little.

1730
01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 3: And by the way, you talk about another person that

1731
01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:20,960
Speaker 3: we should give up to the dailiens to.

1732
01:15:20,880 --> 01:15:21,800
Speaker 1: Show what we're capable of.

1733
01:15:21,840 --> 01:15:26,559
Speaker 3: AND's performance in of course everything but we can we

1734
01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:27,639
Speaker 3: do not talk enough.

1735
01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:30,519
Speaker 1: Are married about getting married?

1736
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 3: Okay, but let me raise you this her performance in

1737
01:15:34,200 --> 01:15:34,960
Speaker 3: Broke Back Mountain.

1738
01:15:35,160 --> 01:15:37,360
Speaker 1: Oh please her on the phone when she just goes

1739
01:15:37,960 --> 01:15:41,280
Speaker 1: mm hmm, she just makes a little noise. Hello.

1740
01:15:41,920 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 3: It's called acting, and we don't see it enough anymore.

1741
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:46,160
Speaker 3: She's so goddamn good.

1742
01:15:46,160 --> 01:15:49,200
Speaker 1: Movie, so fucking good in it, and everyone else got

1743
01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:52,280
Speaker 1: all the air. But like, and I also appreciate that

1744
01:15:52,320 --> 01:15:54,320
Speaker 1: movie for what it did for Michelle Williams and she

1745
01:15:54,400 --> 01:15:57,439
Speaker 1: deserved that. But Anne got lost in the conversation and

1746
01:15:57,479 --> 01:16:00,559
Speaker 1: she was giving a great blonde performance. Yes she was.

1747
01:16:00,760 --> 01:16:03,800
Speaker 3: She was phenomenal. She's phenomenal in that movie, and I, yeah,

1748
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:04,360
Speaker 3: she really is.

1749
01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 1: What was the when you were saying Rachel getting married?

1750
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:11,080
Speaker 1: I haven't seen it? Watch out of it.

1751
01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:13,680
Speaker 2: She's like, in recent interviews, has been like I like

1752
01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:16,760
Speaker 2: they asked her, like, what's like an undersung role of yours.

1753
01:16:16,760 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm really proud of Rachel getting married, and

1754
01:16:18,800 --> 01:16:19,519
Speaker 2: as she should be.

1755
01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:21,559
Speaker 1: I'm gonna watch it. I gotta say too. I did

1756
01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:24,639
Speaker 1: recently watch rewatch the clip of I Dreamed the Dream

1757
01:16:24,720 --> 01:16:26,719
Speaker 1: and you forget she did it in one take? Yep,

1758
01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,960
Speaker 1: like it was done. It was done live in one take,

1759
01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 1: right there in her face, and you you think, like,

1760
01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:35,000
Speaker 1: because lame is kind of when you look back at it,

1761
01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:37,720
Speaker 1: people are like, oh iffy about like the the very

1762
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,120
Speaker 1: close up singing and sort of the way it was done.

1763
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:45,360
Speaker 1: She killed it really singing and using her voice and

1764
01:16:45,400 --> 01:16:50,599
Speaker 1: acting it in a way that was no fucking around.

1765
01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 1: What can you tell us about the big film that

1766
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:56,400
Speaker 1: was part of too? You know, it's so funny, you guys.

1767
01:16:56,479 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 3: When I I had kind of like sworn off auditioning

1768
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:00,600
Speaker 3: for the moment when not I just came through, I

1769
01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 3: was like, I'm not really auditioning right now. I'm really

1770
01:17:02,320 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 3: tired of like going out for stuff and and and

1771
01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:05,479
Speaker 3: just kind.

1772
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: Of like not really.

1773
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:08,400
Speaker 3: I felt like I was self taping all the time.

1774
01:17:08,680 --> 01:17:10,040
Speaker 3: We all go through arrows like that where it's like

1775
01:17:10,040 --> 01:17:12,479
Speaker 3: I'm self taping constantly. The things I ended up getting

1776
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 3: are from a friend anyway, I just was like, I

1777
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 3: can't do it for a moment. I need some space

1778
01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 3: to breathe. And then this one came through and I

1779
01:17:18,240 --> 01:17:20,960
Speaker 3: I literally in my head was like if someone asked

1780
01:17:20,960 --> 01:17:23,400
Speaker 3: me to put five thousand dollars down on if I

1781
01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:25,840
Speaker 3: would get it, or if one of you or like

1782
01:17:25,880 --> 01:17:28,599
Speaker 3: Bennie Skinner would get it. I almost did an audition

1783
01:17:28,640 --> 01:17:30,479
Speaker 3: because I was like, this is so one of those guys,

1784
01:17:30,479 --> 01:17:31,960
Speaker 3: Like I was like, they they are good. This is

1785
01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 3: like a Matt Bow and Bennie and I and I

1786
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:36,439
Speaker 3: did and I taped for it anyway, and it was

1787
01:17:36,520 --> 01:17:38,719
Speaker 3: so fucking fun.

1788
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:39,559
Speaker 1: It was so cool.

1789
01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:42,720
Speaker 3: And I, by the way, someone should put us in

1790
01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:43,840
Speaker 3: Bennie in a movie, the four of Us.

1791
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:51,639
Speaker 1: Hello, someone write down and someone just write that down.

1792
01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 3: But it was so fun, like it was crazy to

1793
01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:58,120
Speaker 3: be a part of and and and is so like

1794
01:17:58,200 --> 01:18:00,760
Speaker 3: I'm most I think Disney people will tell us if

1795
01:18:00,840 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 3: I'm allowed to say this or not, but most of

1796
01:18:02,200 --> 01:18:04,240
Speaker 3: my stuff is with Anne in the in the movie,

1797
01:18:04,280 --> 01:18:06,080
Speaker 3: and she's so phenomenal.

1798
01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:08,599
Speaker 2: Disney adults would tell you.

1799
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 1: At Disney adults will let me say. Anything's possible. I

1800
01:18:15,880 --> 01:18:18,200
Speaker 1: almost more a Mickey Waffle sweater today. That would have

1801
01:18:18,240 --> 01:18:18,840
Speaker 1: been really cute.

1802
01:18:18,960 --> 01:18:21,840
Speaker 3: I know, okay, but I so I almost got on

1803
01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:22,639
Speaker 3: a tangent about Mickey.

1804
01:18:22,720 --> 01:18:26,920
Speaker 1: Okay, so I so, okay, you and An, most of

1805
01:18:26,920 --> 01:18:29,280
Speaker 1: your stuff is with An. She's so lovely, Yes, she's

1806
01:18:29,280 --> 01:18:29,880
Speaker 1: so lovely.

1807
01:18:29,920 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 3: I hadn't had the pleasure of meeting her until the

1808
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:35,519
Speaker 3: film Warmest, Loveliest, most energetic, like really made me go

1809
01:18:35,560 --> 01:18:37,560
Speaker 3: inward about how much energy I bring to work. Like

1810
01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 3: I was like, I need to step up, like if

1811
01:18:39,560 --> 01:18:41,559
Speaker 3: Anne Hathaway is as busy as she is and she's

1812
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:44,439
Speaker 3: bringing this level of like I think I'm a warm,

1813
01:18:44,560 --> 01:18:47,360
Speaker 3: energetic person, but she was bringing to the point where

1814
01:18:47,360 --> 01:18:48,800
Speaker 3: I literally at one point was like, Ann, I just

1815
01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:51,280
Speaker 3: have to say, like, the level of energy you bring

1816
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 3: every day is psychotic. I do not know how you're

1817
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:55,439
Speaker 3: doing it, Like I'm so in awe and I'm like,

1818
01:18:55,479 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 3: how do you find the energy? And She's like, I

1819
01:18:56,840 --> 01:18:58,240
Speaker 3: just tell myself that I have it, And I'm like,

1820
01:18:58,400 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 3: you are on another level when I tell you. She's

1821
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:04,120
Speaker 3: going before shots, she's going into like what's supposed to

1822
01:19:04,120 --> 01:19:06,640
Speaker 3: be her office and being like, hey, guys, can we

1823
01:19:06,680 --> 01:19:07,280
Speaker 3: talk really quick?

1824
01:19:07,320 --> 01:19:08,679
Speaker 1: Like can we collab? Like I think this.

1825
01:19:08,600 --> 01:19:10,960
Speaker 3: Base would be different for her and can we move

1826
01:19:10,960 --> 01:19:14,040
Speaker 3: this over here? Like a true fucking artist. Yeah, and

1827
01:19:14,040 --> 01:19:15,519
Speaker 3: not in an annoying way, in a way that's like

1828
01:19:15,560 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 3: genuinely respectful of everyone's craft, like knew what everyone did,

1829
01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:23,360
Speaker 3: Like yeah, I just was very her and Marylyn stand

1830
01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:26,800
Speaker 3: like all of them watching them work. I was just like, Wow,

1831
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:28,479
Speaker 3: this is really I knew it would be cool because

1832
01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:30,320
Speaker 3: I'm a huge fan and I like watched the original

1833
01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:32,639
Speaker 3: as like a closeted eleven year old boy in Missouri

1834
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:35,120
Speaker 3: and like it, Yeah, I could cry, Like it was

1835
01:19:35,200 --> 01:19:38,400
Speaker 3: just so sweet and cool, but she was. She was

1836
01:19:38,680 --> 01:19:41,400
Speaker 3: a delight and such a true talent. It's crazy, a

1837
01:19:41,439 --> 01:19:44,280
Speaker 3: true pure talent, going from like conversing like this to

1838
01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 3: being like all right and speeding and then just fucking

1839
01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:50,799
Speaker 3: into it acting like I don't know, I feel sometimes

1840
01:19:50,800 --> 01:19:52,960
Speaker 3: silly to compliment people and the things that are like yeah,

1841
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:54,800
Speaker 3: they snap right into character and they knew all their lines.

1842
01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 3: But it's like she's so busy and she's operating at

1843
01:19:57,240 --> 01:20:00,280
Speaker 3: such a high level on and off the camera. I

1844
01:20:00,280 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 3: I'm a huge.

1845
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:02,640
Speaker 1: Fan and I'm very inspired by her.

1846
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 2: Ass Oh my god, Cale, that's not no, this is

1847
01:20:05,800 --> 01:20:08,360
Speaker 2: this is so worth talking about. Like yes, we're talking

1848
01:20:08,400 --> 01:20:11,000
Speaker 2: about someone who's like acclaimed at their craft. But it's

1849
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:14,439
Speaker 2: like it's important to talk to like kind of pop

1850
01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:17,360
Speaker 2: up in the hood for other people and just for

1851
01:20:17,520 --> 01:20:20,519
Speaker 2: us like among amongst ourselves, amongst friends. It's like, oh,

1852
01:20:20,520 --> 01:20:22,599
Speaker 2: because then it like gives it a reason for being.

1853
01:20:22,680 --> 01:20:25,479
Speaker 2: Then it like motivates like if we're lucky enough to

1854
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:28,760
Speaker 2: like be in front of the camera again in that capacity,

1855
01:20:28,800 --> 01:20:31,679
Speaker 2: then like yeah, like You're inspiring my ass to be like,

1856
01:20:31,800 --> 01:20:34,960
Speaker 2: oh yeah, you can be like collaborative in that sense

1857
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:38,080
Speaker 2: and like way in because I am so used to

1858
01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:40,400
Speaker 2: like the pecking order of the call sheet or whatever,

1859
01:20:40,439 --> 01:20:42,880
Speaker 2: and I'm like, okay, like I'm not I'm not like

1860
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 2: number one here. Let me like let everybody else make

1861
01:20:44,960 --> 01:20:47,760
Speaker 2: the decisions for me. But it's like, but I'm just saying, like,

1862
01:20:48,000 --> 01:20:49,320
Speaker 2: please talk about this stuff.

1863
01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:52,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's really inspiring. I'm like very I fucking love

1864
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 3: acting so much and getting to watch people do it

1865
01:20:54,600 --> 01:20:57,280
Speaker 3: at that level and people who have like or look

1866
01:20:57,280 --> 01:21:00,320
Speaker 3: if if if Anne Hathaway or Meryl Streep or Stanley

1867
01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:02,880
Speaker 3: Tucci wanted to be nightmares on that set, yeah, they

1868
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:04,640
Speaker 3: could totally get away with it, and people do and

1869
01:21:04,680 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 3: they just ought not to. And I feel like, yeah,

1870
01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 3: I just feel very inspired by that. And it makes

1871
01:21:10,120 --> 01:21:12,599
Speaker 3: me even more frustrated with the people who show up

1872
01:21:12,640 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 3: late and don't know their lines and things that I'm like, look,

1873
01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:18,639
Speaker 3: if Anne Hathaway can show up on time, be kind

1874
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 3: to everyone in a fucking twenty mile radius and like

1875
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 3: genuinely give warmth and attention to everyone and know her

1876
01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:27,080
Speaker 3: lines and kill the performance and care, I'm.

1877
01:21:26,880 --> 01:21:29,240
Speaker 1: Like you can do it too, You can do it,

1878
01:21:29,280 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 1: you know what I mean?

1879
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:33,160
Speaker 3: And I'm mostly talking about men, but yeah, I just

1880
01:21:33,200 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 3: am so inspired by her work ethic and yeah, being

1881
01:21:36,240 --> 01:21:37,639
Speaker 3: part of the movie Too is really fucking cool.

1882
01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:40,160
Speaker 1: So excited, you know What's kind of what Movie Too

1883
01:21:40,200 --> 01:21:42,800
Speaker 1: is kind of like it feels like there's like a

1884
01:21:42,920 --> 01:21:47,040
Speaker 1: reassessment of it happening. Is Interstellar. It feels like it

1885
01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:50,400
Speaker 1: keeps coming up. Yeah, like over the past like six

1886
01:21:50,439 --> 01:21:53,040
Speaker 1: months or so, I keep hearing people being like, actually,

1887
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:55,519
Speaker 1: have you watched that? Because it's great and she's one

1888
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:59,120
Speaker 1: of the best parts of it where she's she has

1889
01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:02,280
Speaker 1: that I remember is that random when you first watched it?

1890
01:22:02,280 --> 01:22:04,800
Speaker 1: It's like very random where they're like banging their heads

1891
01:22:04,840 --> 01:22:06,240
Speaker 1: against the wall, but how they figure out like the

1892
01:22:06,240 --> 01:22:09,000
Speaker 1: time space continuum or whatever. And Anne Hathaway is like

1893
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:10,720
Speaker 1: the only woman in America who could sell this. But

1894
01:22:10,760 --> 01:22:13,080
Speaker 1: she's like her eyes well with tears. She's wearing that

1895
01:22:13,160 --> 01:22:18,320
Speaker 1: like pixie cut. She's like, what if love is the answer? Hell?

1896
01:22:20,880 --> 01:22:21,519
Speaker 5: Wake it up?

1897
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:25,320
Speaker 1: And I'm like I like on the page, I'm like huh.

1898
01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:27,519
Speaker 1: And then I'm like what and like I'm full sobbing.

1899
01:22:27,560 --> 01:22:29,720
Speaker 1: I'm like what if it's love? Yeah, and then it

1900
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: kind of was. It was spoiler alert, it was love.

1901
01:22:33,040 --> 01:22:35,760
Speaker 1: He's in that little library and spoiler yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1902
01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:38,680
Speaker 1: It's crazy movie. It's a crazy nut. So at the

1903
01:22:38,720 --> 01:22:41,680
Speaker 1: time I couldn't hear it right, like because the sound like,

1904
01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:44,840
Speaker 1: I mean, we usually have some guys in here who

1905
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 1: like are down to clown with Chris Nolan movies. They're

1906
01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:51,400
Speaker 1: not like, you're here, you are all right? He doesn't

1907
01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:58,600
Speaker 1: really like it like Nolan. No, I'm sure. I don't

1908
01:22:59,280 --> 01:23:00,320
Speaker 1: you know what I can't with.

1909
01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:04,400
Speaker 3: I watched the Dino's documentary, The Dinosaur Documentary on Netflix recently.

1910
01:23:04,439 --> 01:23:07,639
Speaker 1: Do you guys see the side? I didn't press play? Wow,

1911
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:08,639
Speaker 1: don't watch it? Stones?

1912
01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:12,520
Speaker 3: What the fuck is going on? What happened with the dinosaurs?

1913
01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 3: There's a part of this documentary. It's narrated by Morgan Freeman.

1914
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:17,360
Speaker 3: Obviously incredible choice. Hopefully got paid a lot.

1915
01:23:17,360 --> 01:23:19,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure he did it rained for a million years

1916
01:23:19,840 --> 01:23:23,280
Speaker 1: at one point, I guess what, So, what the fuck

1917
01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:24,280
Speaker 1: are you talking about? Yeah?

1918
01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:26,880
Speaker 3: That is so crazy. I shouldn't know anything about that.

1919
01:23:27,400 --> 01:23:29,120
Speaker 3: The passage of time. Like I literally almost had a

1920
01:23:29,120 --> 01:23:31,760
Speaker 3: panic attack. I was so scared they start talking about

1921
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:35,160
Speaker 3: the dinosaurs. Basically, the fact that humans exist is crazy

1922
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 3: and our lives are so small, just so you know.

1923
01:23:37,439 --> 01:23:38,800
Speaker 3: And the idea that it rained for.

1924
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:41,599
Speaker 1: A million years is gonna go ahead and be something

1925
01:23:41,640 --> 01:23:42,880
Speaker 1: I should have never heard about it. And this is

1926
01:23:42,960 --> 01:23:44,760
Speaker 1: separate from the Ice Age, which was, by the way,

1927
01:23:44,800 --> 01:23:47,599
Speaker 1: a whole age hello, where it was ice Hello.

1928
01:23:48,120 --> 01:23:50,439
Speaker 3: And the dinosaurs, by the way, they were here then

1929
01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 3: they weren't. Now maybe they're birds. I'm not can't be involved.

1930
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Speaker 1: They do say that they were likely birds.

1931
01:23:55,840 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 2: They were like, well, it's just that any color we

1932
01:23:58,400 --> 01:24:02,760
Speaker 2: like applied to them is yes, is conjecture. Yeah, like

1933
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 2: and drastic park. It's like, that's not what they looked like.

1934
01:24:05,600 --> 01:24:06,760
Speaker 2: They might have had feathers, babe.

1935
01:24:06,800 --> 01:24:08,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't know if they could have had feathers.

1936
01:24:08,920 --> 01:24:09,719
Speaker 3: It's really scary.

1937
01:24:09,720 --> 01:24:14,400
Speaker 1: But the idea that it's.

1938
01:24:12,520 --> 01:24:14,320
Speaker 3: Oh, I'm gonna try to cry because the idea that

1939
01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:17,639
Speaker 3: it rained for years, it is so crazy.

1940
01:24:17,680 --> 01:24:21,080
Speaker 5: What do you mean by that rained? First of all,

1941
01:24:21,160 --> 01:24:24,160
Speaker 5: a million years happened, right, let's start there. Yeah, the documentary,

1942
01:24:24,200 --> 01:24:26,040
Speaker 5: first thing it does puts up it puts up an

1943
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:27,960
Speaker 5: earth clock, takes it back to two hundred and sixty

1944
01:24:27,960 --> 01:24:31,719
Speaker 5: million years ago. That didn't happen in my personal opinion,

1945
01:24:32,280 --> 01:24:32,960
Speaker 5: do I mean that?

1946
01:24:33,160 --> 01:24:35,519
Speaker 3: No? Am, I I just can't process the idea that

1947
01:24:35,520 --> 01:24:37,240
Speaker 3: there's been two hundred and sixty million years What do

1948
01:24:37,320 --> 01:24:38,000
Speaker 3: you mean by that?

1949
01:24:38,080 --> 01:24:40,720
Speaker 2: What can't you process that? Like, like, where do you

1950
01:24:40,760 --> 01:24:41,160
Speaker 2: fit into?

1951
01:24:41,240 --> 01:24:44,200
Speaker 3: Basically, like the fourteen hundreds is where you start from.

1952
01:24:44,240 --> 01:24:47,120
Speaker 3: That totally from on Caleb's timeline. Everything started in like

1953
01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:49,480
Speaker 3: the fourteen hundreds. They were speaking.

1954
01:24:49,200 --> 01:24:51,800
Speaker 1: English, which can you imagine being alive at that time

1955
01:24:51,840 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 1: when you're always filthy, everyone's sick, and you're probably gonna

1956
01:24:54,960 --> 01:24:56,360
Speaker 1: die from like a sword.

1957
01:24:56,240 --> 01:24:58,080
Speaker 3: Right, But I understood some things, like I understand like

1958
01:24:58,080 --> 01:25:00,479
Speaker 3: the little hats they wore, understood maybe some things they

1959
01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:00,920
Speaker 3: were saying.

1960
01:25:01,120 --> 01:25:01,960
Speaker 1: I get the fashion.

1961
01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:05,080
Speaker 3: But I'm scared of everything that happened before that, and

1962
01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:06,600
Speaker 3: I'm scared of everything that will happen after this.

1963
01:25:06,880 --> 01:25:10,519
Speaker 2: Yes, I think I think it's because there's no media

1964
01:25:10,520 --> 01:25:13,840
Speaker 2: portrayal of it, of dinosaurs of the years that was

1965
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:16,360
Speaker 2: raining you. You should have on like an whatever extra

1966
01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:21,440
Speaker 2: screen you have lying around, just put on like Mesozoic

1967
01:25:21,479 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 2: era screensaver. Yeah, and you should just see what like

1968
01:25:24,439 --> 01:25:27,040
Speaker 2: what the world might have looked like back then, just

1969
01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:27,479
Speaker 2: just there.

1970
01:25:27,720 --> 01:25:31,439
Speaker 1: Yeahs as Google AI, what were the vibes during the

1971
01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:34,480
Speaker 1: million years of rain? Give me vibes, give me millionaire's

1972
01:25:34,560 --> 01:25:36,960
Speaker 1: rain vibes. Because you've seen the fourteen hundreds on TV

1973
01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:38,800
Speaker 1: and in movies and you can you can, you can

1974
01:25:38,840 --> 01:25:40,680
Speaker 1: you can process that because you've pictured it. Yeah, I

1975
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:43,360
Speaker 1: think you have not pictured raining for a million years,

1976
01:25:43,400 --> 01:25:45,840
Speaker 1: which of course you have it because because there's because do.

1977
01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:48,280
Speaker 3: You Okay, so I guess the way you're talking right now,

1978
01:25:48,360 --> 01:25:50,960
Speaker 3: going it feels like, are you guys comfortable knowing that

1979
01:25:50,960 --> 01:25:52,640
Speaker 3: it rained for a million years?

1980
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:55,960
Speaker 2: I can believe. I can believe that it happened. But

1981
01:25:56,000 --> 01:25:58,360
Speaker 2: the Dinos documentary it's just one one movie, not not

1982
01:25:58,400 --> 01:25:59,120
Speaker 2: aboun two parts.

1983
01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:01,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like part. It's like a part. It's an episodic.

1984
01:26:01,960 --> 01:26:04,240
Speaker 3: It doesn't show you guys out all till I think

1985
01:26:04,280 --> 01:26:06,880
Speaker 3: about like, okay, no, it stresses me. As have been

1986
01:26:06,880 --> 01:26:12,160
Speaker 3: friends for seventeen years, right, imagine that whole time, first

1987
01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:14,559
Speaker 3: of all, and would never stop, would never stop during

1988
01:26:14,560 --> 01:26:16,960
Speaker 3: the whole time you've been friends, right, and then let's

1989
01:26:17,000 --> 01:26:21,439
Speaker 3: say that goes on for basically another million such least.

1990
01:26:21,400 --> 01:26:24,320
Speaker 1: At least though then you you are born into a

1991
01:26:24,320 --> 01:26:27,240
Speaker 1: world where it rains, and you never know life where

1992
01:26:27,240 --> 01:26:30,320
Speaker 1: it doesn't, so actually you'd probably get pretty used to it. Yeah,

1993
01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:31,519
Speaker 1: it's a really good point.

1994
01:26:31,680 --> 01:26:32,960
Speaker 3: I wasn't born in the rain, so I have trouble

1995
01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:33,760
Speaker 3: understanding it.

1996
01:26:35,400 --> 01:26:35,960
Speaker 1: Scary.

1997
01:26:36,200 --> 01:26:38,280
Speaker 2: You can only lock into stuff if I'm Stone.

1998
01:26:38,360 --> 01:26:40,839
Speaker 1: Now, if I'm watching, Oh, don't watch The Perfect Neighbor.

1999
01:26:41,800 --> 01:26:45,759
Speaker 1: Oh that's tough, my neighbor. Oh that's perfect. Also Netflix

2000
01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:49,920
Speaker 1: shout out. It was an Oscar nominated documentary that I

2001
01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:53,559
Speaker 1: put on the other day, which is it's it's entirely

2002
01:26:53,840 --> 01:26:57,519
Speaker 1: police bodycam footage that they strung together a narrative and

2003
01:26:57,520 --> 01:27:01,200
Speaker 1: it's I can't even get into it. I didn't know

2004
01:27:01,240 --> 01:27:03,640
Speaker 1: what it was about, and I put it on and

2005
01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:06,360
Speaker 1: I had been too stone to watch that, and I wasn't.

2006
01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:08,400
Speaker 1: I had to lay down for like three hours afterwards.

2007
01:27:08,439 --> 01:27:11,960
Speaker 1: It was horrifying. But what's better. High on Netflix's Age

2008
01:27:11,960 --> 01:27:14,400
Speaker 1: of Attraction. I don't know. I thought you would say,

2009
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:19,559
Speaker 1: I thought you're gonna say Stone is the best film ever.

2010
01:27:20,640 --> 01:27:25,080
Speaker 1: Age of Attraction is a Netflix Netflix television series that

2011
01:27:25,200 --> 01:27:28,320
Speaker 1: is new. Basically, it's about all these singles get in

2012
01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:30,439
Speaker 1: the house and no one can reveal their age. The

2013
01:27:30,600 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 1: one climb for age. The one question you can't ask

2014
01:27:32,840 --> 01:27:35,320
Speaker 1: is how old are you until you make a connection

2015
01:27:35,360 --> 01:27:36,760
Speaker 1: and then you go to the promise room and you

2016
01:27:36,800 --> 01:27:39,400
Speaker 1: put a promised ring on each other to each other.

2017
01:27:39,439 --> 01:27:41,400
Speaker 2: Then it's it's like it's basically love's blind. You find

2018
01:27:41,400 --> 01:27:42,200
Speaker 2: out at that.

2019
01:27:42,120 --> 01:27:44,280
Speaker 1: Point you're going to move in together, and only then

2020
01:27:44,320 --> 01:27:46,920
Speaker 1: after you've made the commitments to move in together can

2021
01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:50,439
Speaker 1: you reveal your age. And it's like, you know, wouldn't

2022
01:27:50,479 --> 01:27:52,680
Speaker 1: you know it? Like like people that you would have

2023
01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:56,400
Speaker 1: never guessed where sixty are, Like people that look thirty

2024
01:27:56,400 --> 01:27:59,200
Speaker 1: five are really twenty two. And then it's about like, Okay,

2025
01:27:59,200 --> 01:28:01,920
Speaker 1: we've just real this person that I've been getting to

2026
01:28:01,960 --> 01:28:04,840
Speaker 1: know for four or five days that I thought was

2027
01:28:04,880 --> 01:28:06,840
Speaker 1: maybe within a ten year age range for me, we

2028
01:28:06,840 --> 01:28:09,599
Speaker 1: actually have like a thirty three year age difference. And

2029
01:28:09,680 --> 01:28:12,000
Speaker 1: what does what does that knowledge do? And what is

2030
01:28:12,040 --> 01:28:14,160
Speaker 1: the dynamic? How does it change when we're living together

2031
01:28:14,200 --> 01:28:17,559
Speaker 1: with that knowledge? When I introduce you to family members

2032
01:28:17,560 --> 01:28:20,360
Speaker 1: that come in And what's great about the show is

2033
01:28:20,439 --> 01:28:23,240
Speaker 1: it starts like Love Island, where they're coming into the

2034
01:28:23,320 --> 01:28:25,200
Speaker 1: villa and it's like they're blown out and they're making

2035
01:28:25,240 --> 01:28:27,280
Speaker 1: its perfect and it's like they're perfectly like you know,

2036
01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:30,040
Speaker 1: airbrushed and like the filter is on. And then once

2037
01:28:30,040 --> 01:28:33,160
Speaker 1: they start living together, it becomes like a real docuseriies

2038
01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:36,519
Speaker 1: where it's just like I just don't understand how can

2039
01:28:36,560 --> 01:28:40,479
Speaker 1: you be celibate? But last night like ride me and

2040
01:28:40,520 --> 01:28:43,800
Speaker 1: have an orgasm, just I just don't understand, like why

2041
01:28:43,840 --> 01:28:46,360
Speaker 1: we can't go there? And she's like, if you can't

2042
01:28:46,439 --> 01:28:49,920
Speaker 1: understand my celibacy, then what am I even doing here?

2043
01:28:50,160 --> 01:28:53,880
Speaker 1: He's like, you're not celibate. We fucked, We basically fucked.

2044
01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:55,280
Speaker 1: I just didn't put it in you. She's like, I

2045
01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:57,760
Speaker 1: can't believe you'd even say that on camera. You wrote

2046
01:28:57,800 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 1: him no penetration and came not that it's the details. No,

2047
01:29:01,280 --> 01:29:03,280
Speaker 1: I am on confusing, No, but there was a moment

2048
01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:05,559
Speaker 1: you have to watch it, yeah, Like and it's just

2049
01:29:05,920 --> 01:29:09,320
Speaker 1: it's crazy. It's like it's it's the way it evolves

2050
01:29:09,400 --> 01:29:12,519
Speaker 1: and from one type of reality show into another. I

2051
01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:14,160
Speaker 1: think it's kind of a flip on the form in

2052
01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:16,320
Speaker 1: a way that I was appreciating, like I was in

2053
01:29:16,400 --> 01:29:19,360
Speaker 1: because it was so silly and stupid, and then once

2054
01:29:19,520 --> 01:29:23,160
Speaker 1: that disappeared, I was just like I couldn't believe how

2055
01:29:23,200 --> 01:29:25,680
Speaker 1: personal they were getting and what it was picking up.

2056
01:29:25,720 --> 01:29:27,840
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, wow, we're in it in a

2057
01:29:27,880 --> 01:29:30,719
Speaker 1: way that like after the honeymoon phase of meeting someone,

2058
01:29:30,760 --> 01:29:34,160
Speaker 1: you're then in it. Yeah. But but they like really

2059
01:29:35,680 --> 01:29:38,200
Speaker 1: they went hard when it came to like you know,

2060
01:29:38,400 --> 01:29:41,680
Speaker 1: mapping in terms of the way they were shooting on

2061
01:29:41,760 --> 01:29:43,439
Speaker 1: the way that the people were feeling at the time,

2062
01:29:43,479 --> 01:29:47,439
Speaker 1: like it was good, get high and watch it.

2063
01:29:47,680 --> 01:29:50,479
Speaker 3: I might have to, I'm really yeah, for nothing else,

2064
01:29:50,520 --> 01:29:52,439
Speaker 3: I'm wondering if maybe you would do me the favor

2065
01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:55,120
Speaker 3: of sending me the timestamps of the celibacy stuff.

2066
01:29:55,360 --> 01:29:57,280
Speaker 1: Yeah. But the thing is, it's so much better when

2067
01:29:57,280 --> 01:30:00,000
Speaker 1: you've seen what it comes before it. Like I can't

2068
01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:03,439
Speaker 1: even described to you that, like the way that they're

2069
01:30:03,520 --> 01:30:06,120
Speaker 1: filmed and like it goes from full a love isle.

2070
01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:07,840
Speaker 1: You tried to watch, I tried, but I have not

2071
01:30:07,880 --> 01:30:10,360
Speaker 1: gone to like the like the look and feel chef

2072
01:30:10,400 --> 01:30:12,000
Speaker 1: you felt it had like a little bit ick.

2073
01:30:12,720 --> 01:30:15,719
Speaker 2: I was just like, I this is not like grabbed

2074
01:30:15,720 --> 01:30:17,120
Speaker 2: me yet, because I think you need to wait for

2075
01:30:17,160 --> 01:30:19,040
Speaker 2: the actual reveals. Whe you're like, oh, even eyes of

2076
01:30:19,080 --> 01:30:22,360
Speaker 2: yours thought this person was forty years, you know, older

2077
01:30:22,479 --> 01:30:23,240
Speaker 2: or younger or whatever.

2078
01:30:23,360 --> 01:30:25,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean like, yeah, I guess I should give it.

2079
01:30:26,200 --> 01:30:28,439
Speaker 1: The biggest age difference is thirty three years, and there's

2080
01:30:28,439 --> 01:30:31,080
Speaker 1: another one that's twenty seven years, and like you really can't.

2081
01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 1: Like you're blown away when you find out that's what

2082
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:35,320
Speaker 1: it is. I don't believe it. Yeah, I mean it,

2083
01:30:35,360 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 1: you're really blown away. Twice I was born away. Twice

2084
01:30:39,120 --> 01:30:41,439
Speaker 1: I was blown away. I was like, Okay, yeah, I

2085
01:30:41,520 --> 01:30:42,639
Speaker 1: knew that. I saw this coming.

2086
01:30:42,880 --> 01:30:44,479
Speaker 3: See because I have the gay guy scale of like

2087
01:30:44,680 --> 01:30:46,880
Speaker 3: you know how they can age trees with rings, Yeah,

2088
01:30:46,920 --> 01:30:49,040
Speaker 3: I can do that with torsos now because of being

2089
01:30:49,080 --> 01:30:50,920
Speaker 3: on grinder since I was seventeen years old, right, Like,

2090
01:30:50,920 --> 01:30:52,760
Speaker 3: if I just see a torsow, I'm like forty three.

2091
01:30:52,920 --> 01:30:53,960
Speaker 1: Oh that's amazing.

2092
01:30:53,960 --> 01:30:55,479
Speaker 2: You know how you can tell We need to get

2093
01:30:55,520 --> 01:30:57,479
Speaker 2: the list of we need to give a list of

2094
01:30:57,479 --> 01:30:58,200
Speaker 2: gay powers.

2095
01:30:58,360 --> 01:30:59,960
Speaker 1: We need to know there's a list of gay power.

2096
01:31:00,200 --> 01:31:01,240
Speaker 1: Have you heard of this? No?

2097
01:31:01,840 --> 01:31:05,840
Speaker 2: So it's like it's like any gay gay man has

2098
01:31:05,880 --> 01:31:09,360
Speaker 2: like six of these, like eighty gay powers. Maybe I

2099
01:31:09,439 --> 01:31:13,400
Speaker 2: have the list of map reading telling aging men based

2100
01:31:13,439 --> 01:31:15,400
Speaker 2: on their torsos, like you know.

2101
01:31:16,960 --> 01:31:19,000
Speaker 1: So I don't have the list of gay powers. But

2102
01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:22,400
Speaker 1: the gay thing I do have is my Ariana Grande

2103
01:31:22,479 --> 01:31:25,320
Speaker 1: Tour set list that I made when I was high

2104
01:31:25,400 --> 01:31:28,080
Speaker 1: on the plane. And I said this to me. When

2105
01:31:28,080 --> 01:31:30,600
Speaker 1: I said Ariana set list, my version spelled with a B.

2106
01:31:31,040 --> 01:31:35,080
Speaker 1: So it says my version with a heart, and I

2107
01:31:35,120 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 1: think it's perfect. I really believe you. His encoores were insane.

2108
01:31:39,040 --> 01:31:41,880
Speaker 1: This is this is my Ariana Grande concert. The intro

2109
01:31:42,000 --> 01:31:44,160
Speaker 1: end of the world short version into yes and to

2110
01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:47,080
Speaker 1: be all right, intertrue story into supernatural. Then she takes

2111
01:31:47,120 --> 01:31:49,639
Speaker 1: a break because she deserves it. Then we go back

2112
01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:53,240
Speaker 1: into the past, breathing one last time. Ari think about it,

2113
01:31:53,520 --> 01:31:55,599
Speaker 1: dangerous woman, take a little bit of a break. Yes,

2114
01:31:55,640 --> 01:32:00,519
Speaker 1: it's time to honor positions. We do positions five and

2115
01:32:00,560 --> 01:32:02,879
Speaker 1: POV after POV, I'm sure we have like a beautiful

2116
01:32:02,920 --> 01:32:05,599
Speaker 1: like montage and like a like an eternal Sunshine montage

2117
01:32:05,600 --> 01:32:08,960
Speaker 1: into the song Eternal Sunshine, Twilight Sign, twilight Zone, no

2118
01:32:09,080 --> 01:32:11,639
Speaker 1: tears off to cry break. This is when we're being

2119
01:32:11,640 --> 01:32:14,040
Speaker 1: a slot into you break up with your girlfriend, the

2120
01:32:14,080 --> 01:32:16,360
Speaker 1: boy is mine, seven rings. We need a break. It's

2121
01:32:16,560 --> 01:32:20,400
Speaker 1: wicked time popular into every different show. There's a different

2122
01:32:20,479 --> 01:32:24,880
Speaker 1: musical theater cover into think about it, Ariana the way

2123
01:32:25,680 --> 01:32:29,000
Speaker 1: break God is a woman, break free? Thank you? Next down,

2124
01:32:29,360 --> 01:32:31,719
Speaker 1: Encore is imperfect for you, and we can't be friends.

2125
01:32:32,040 --> 01:32:34,320
Speaker 2: We can't be friends. This is the Encore works imperfect

2126
01:32:34,320 --> 01:32:35,120
Speaker 2: for you. Doesn't make sense?

2127
01:32:35,120 --> 01:32:37,200
Speaker 1: I think is awesome. Of course.

2128
01:32:37,320 --> 01:32:40,960
Speaker 2: I love musical different musical theaters. Song every I think.

2129
01:32:41,080 --> 01:32:43,000
Speaker 1: I think we'll see something like that. It could be fun.

2130
01:32:43,240 --> 01:32:49,559
Speaker 1: We'll see something this I could have done real work.

2131
01:32:50,000 --> 01:32:51,880
Speaker 3: This is what I do to your team, pinging you

2132
01:32:51,960 --> 01:32:55,240
Speaker 3: left and right back. You need to hear you check

2133
01:32:55,280 --> 01:32:59,120
Speaker 3: your docu sign. I'm busy with my version. Please do

2134
01:32:59,360 --> 01:33:01,920
Speaker 3: dot loup please signor sign.

2135
01:33:05,320 --> 01:33:07,519
Speaker 1: And maybe time it's time, Okay, it's time for I

2136
01:33:07,560 --> 01:33:10,840
Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. This is that segment we do.

2137
01:33:11,560 --> 01:33:13,679
Speaker 1: It's time and so this is we put one minute

2138
01:33:13,720 --> 01:33:16,360
Speaker 1: on the clock and we we sort of shred you

2139
01:33:16,400 --> 01:33:18,599
Speaker 1: know what I mean? This This mic has been drooping

2140
01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:20,680
Speaker 1: the whole time. I don't I think it's not worth

2141
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:22,320
Speaker 1: it to fix it now. That's what I do. Just

2142
01:33:22,360 --> 01:33:24,000
Speaker 1: want to say. I think it's probably okay, right, I

2143
01:33:24,040 --> 01:33:26,880
Speaker 1: sound okay, all right. That's a little bitts for y'all.

2144
01:33:26,920 --> 01:33:30,120
Speaker 1: At home, you have something, Yes, I do, I do

2145
01:33:30,200 --> 01:33:32,400
Speaker 1: have something. Okay, this is matt R. I don't think

2146
01:33:32,400 --> 01:33:34,400
Speaker 1: so many time starts. Now, I don't think so, honey,

2147
01:33:34,439 --> 01:33:38,800
Speaker 1: you asking me if I talked about you in therapy? Oh,

2148
01:33:39,240 --> 01:33:42,439
Speaker 1: this is none of your business. I don't. And the

2149
01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:45,640
Speaker 1: thing is like, be prepared for the answer, you know

2150
01:33:45,640 --> 01:33:47,680
Speaker 1: what I mean, because you might ask did I come

2151
01:33:47,760 --> 01:33:50,000
Speaker 1: up in therapy? And I might be like yeah, and

2152
01:33:50,080 --> 01:33:52,639
Speaker 1: then you might be like oh, and then either you're

2153
01:33:52,640 --> 01:33:55,519
Speaker 1: gonna ask me what happened. I probably won't say, but

2154
01:33:55,560 --> 01:33:58,160
Speaker 1: you're gonna into it that it probably wasn't great, or

2155
01:33:58,200 --> 01:34:01,519
Speaker 1: that you were a long discussion, or you're gonna be like,

2156
01:34:01,560 --> 01:34:04,080
Speaker 1: oh cool, and then you're gonna spin out for hours

2157
01:34:04,080 --> 01:34:06,800
Speaker 1: about how you came up in therapy. And I don't

2158
01:34:06,800 --> 01:34:08,360
Speaker 1: think so, honey, that I'm gonna tell you. So you're

2159
01:34:08,400 --> 01:34:12,240
Speaker 1: gonna be alone with that spinning. Also like true narcissism

2160
01:34:12,280 --> 01:34:14,800
Speaker 1: revealed to ask did I come up in therapy? Even

2161
01:34:14,840 --> 01:34:17,920
Speaker 1: as a joke. My therapy is my therapy. Your therapy

2162
01:34:17,960 --> 01:34:20,439
Speaker 1: should be your therapy. I'll never ask if I came

2163
01:34:20,520 --> 01:34:23,639
Speaker 1: up in your therapy. But like, and I just feel

2164
01:34:23,640 --> 01:34:26,680
Speaker 1: like at this point it's like what happens between me

2165
01:34:26,760 --> 01:34:28,720
Speaker 1: and Stacy is between me and Stacy, and you have

2166
01:34:28,760 --> 01:34:31,280
Speaker 1: to respect that relationship. And it's one that I've built

2167
01:34:31,320 --> 01:34:34,280
Speaker 1: over time. We have our thing. You stay at home.

2168
01:34:34,600 --> 01:34:36,800
Speaker 1: If you're asking, you probably are in my therapy. And

2169
01:34:36,840 --> 01:34:39,559
Speaker 1: that's one minute. Wow, beautiful. I like that. Thank you.

2170
01:34:39,640 --> 01:34:41,800
Speaker 1: I just it's happened a couple of times, and I'm like,

2171
01:34:41,840 --> 01:34:44,439
Speaker 1: do you want the answer? I don't think they do.

2172
01:34:44,520 --> 01:34:45,920
Speaker 1: I don't think they do. I don't think they do.

2173
01:34:46,040 --> 01:34:50,760
Speaker 1: A guy, it has been three people have brought this

2174
01:34:50,880 --> 01:34:53,000
Speaker 1: up to me. Have I come up in therapy? I

2175
01:34:53,040 --> 01:34:56,320
Speaker 1: haven't asked you that question. No, I don't think you've

2176
01:34:56,320 --> 01:35:00,559
Speaker 1: asked me. Did You wouldn't ask any therapy because it's

2177
01:35:00,720 --> 01:35:03,080
Speaker 1: you do come up once a session. Sure, it's but

2178
01:35:03,120 --> 01:35:06,360
Speaker 1: it's like it's the equival like lurking on like a

2179
01:35:06,439 --> 01:35:08,439
Speaker 1: message board or like searching your own name.

2180
01:35:08,520 --> 01:35:10,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like you don't want to know, don't I

2181
01:35:10,280 --> 01:35:11,360
Speaker 2: actually don't want to know.

2182
01:35:11,479 --> 01:35:13,280
Speaker 3: It's better for you to not ask, and it's better

2183
01:35:13,280 --> 01:35:14,320
Speaker 3: for me to not just stay.

2184
01:35:14,840 --> 01:35:18,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just it's it's it's my business, my version,

2185
01:35:18,320 --> 01:35:20,559
Speaker 1: my version. But by the way, when I say you

2186
01:35:20,560 --> 01:35:23,000
Speaker 1: come up in therapy. It's just because you're constant in

2187
01:35:23,040 --> 01:35:25,280
Speaker 1: my life, so you're always, You're always. Can you see

2188
01:35:25,320 --> 01:35:29,080
Speaker 1: that I did not inquire further? And those are boundaries

2189
01:35:29,200 --> 01:35:35,000
Speaker 1: my version, my bestie, my boundaries, boundaries, my version, boundaries,

2190
01:35:35,080 --> 01:35:41,960
Speaker 1: my person Taylor's version. Anyways, Okay, are you ready? Yeah, okay,

2191
01:35:42,080 --> 01:35:43,840
Speaker 1: it's actually it's actually pertinent to this thing where were

2192
01:35:43,880 --> 01:35:45,880
Speaker 1: discussing earlier. This is Bowen Yang's. I don't think so

2193
01:35:45,880 --> 01:35:47,839
Speaker 1: many as time starts now, I don't think so many.

2194
01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:51,080
Speaker 2: Q tips aren't supposed to go in your ears. They

2195
01:35:51,200 --> 01:35:55,200
Speaker 2: keep telling us this, and yet no amount of p

2196
01:35:55,680 --> 01:35:58,120
Speaker 2: R of messaging of whatever.

2197
01:35:59,040 --> 01:36:01,080
Speaker 1: It's too late. Yeah, they're in there.

2198
01:36:02,000 --> 01:36:04,920
Speaker 2: You can't the bell has been wrong. We cannot unring

2199
01:36:04,960 --> 01:36:08,320
Speaker 2: the bell. You're never going to win, Big Cotton. I'm

2200
01:36:08,360 --> 01:36:11,679
Speaker 2: so sorry. It's okay, This is this is what happens

2201
01:36:11,720 --> 01:36:16,360
Speaker 2: when it's it's it's done. I don't know who least

2202
01:36:17,040 --> 01:36:18,840
Speaker 2: in the box, but this is all we're gonna do

2203
01:36:18,880 --> 01:36:20,800
Speaker 2: with you. We're not gonna clean our keyboards with this.

2204
01:36:20,960 --> 01:36:23,680
Speaker 2: We're not gonna crafts with this. We are going to

2205
01:36:23,840 --> 01:36:26,120
Speaker 2: stick this in our ear, whether it's good for us

2206
01:36:26,240 --> 01:36:29,080
Speaker 2: or not. And Toney it's the only thing that's digging

2207
01:36:29,160 --> 01:36:33,760
Speaker 2: these little is hitting these veins out of my canals.

2208
01:36:34,360 --> 01:36:34,960
Speaker 1: Q tips.

2209
01:36:35,560 --> 01:36:39,920
Speaker 2: There's no point, there's it's fruitless, it's feudal. Let us

2210
01:36:39,960 --> 01:36:42,080
Speaker 2: do it. Stop it with, says, Then you're gonna get

2211
01:36:42,080 --> 01:36:44,040
Speaker 2: me angry because I don't like being told what I'm

2212
01:36:44,080 --> 01:36:46,280
Speaker 2: not supposed to do, because guess what I'm gonna be

2213
01:36:46,320 --> 01:36:46,720
Speaker 2: doing it.

2214
01:36:46,880 --> 01:36:49,120
Speaker 1: And that's when minute Bowen hates being told what to

2215
01:36:49,520 --> 01:36:52,120
Speaker 1: and not to stick in. Tell me what to or not,

2216
01:36:52,280 --> 01:36:54,280
Speaker 1: don't tell me what goes where. I'll push it where

2217
01:36:54,320 --> 01:36:57,280
Speaker 1: I need to push it exactly. And the thing is like,

2218
01:36:58,040 --> 01:37:00,320
Speaker 1: you're right. It is the only way to really get

2219
01:37:00,320 --> 01:37:01,840
Speaker 1: in there. Get in there and get it out of there,

2220
01:37:01,840 --> 01:37:04,080
Speaker 1: and do a pencil every now and then, Oh goodness,

2221
01:37:04,200 --> 01:37:09,320
Speaker 1: a pencil, a pencil like the eraser side of course, pardon,

2222
01:37:09,880 --> 01:37:15,040
Speaker 1: I need a fine point. You are doing a scantron

2223
01:37:15,080 --> 01:37:17,320
Speaker 1: in your ears. Bowen. That's really bad.

2224
01:37:17,320 --> 01:37:18,479
Speaker 3: I want you to go back to cute now. I'm

2225
01:37:18,520 --> 01:37:20,799
Speaker 3: definitely like if you didn't like his, I don't think so, honey.

2226
01:37:21,040 --> 01:37:22,960
Speaker 3: Now have the context that without the C tip, it's

2227
01:37:22,960 --> 01:37:24,400
Speaker 3: a pencil, it's a sharp side in.

2228
01:37:24,439 --> 01:37:27,680
Speaker 1: There's lead, there's lead and poem. It's so crazy, as

2229
01:37:27,680 --> 01:37:30,240
Speaker 1: a noted fan of the television series Girls, that you

2230
01:37:30,240 --> 01:37:35,000
Speaker 1: would shove anything in there that could perforate in your drum. Nothing.

2231
01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:40,240
Speaker 3: What, that's what she says. Nothing smaller than an elbow

2232
01:37:40,280 --> 01:37:42,640
Speaker 3: in there. Becky and Baker, Hello.

2233
01:37:43,880 --> 01:37:48,640
Speaker 1: Great star, wonderful, a great star. Okay, Well that was me.

2234
01:37:49,000 --> 01:37:52,040
Speaker 1: Okay my turn? Are you ready? Okay? I think so? Okay, Okay, Well,

2235
01:37:52,040 --> 01:37:53,960
Speaker 1: this is the moment people have been waiting for. This

2236
01:37:54,080 --> 01:37:56,080
Speaker 1: is Caleb hearns. I don't think so, honey. His time

2237
01:37:56,080 --> 01:37:56,679
Speaker 1: starts now.

2238
01:37:56,800 --> 01:37:59,000
Speaker 3: I don't think so, honey. Innovation where innovation is not

2239
01:37:59,080 --> 01:38:02,120
Speaker 3: needed enough. We have done too much. There are so

2240
01:38:02,120 --> 01:38:03,600
Speaker 3: many things that we already know about. I'm going to

2241
01:38:03,640 --> 01:38:07,160
Speaker 3: start off by saying, car door handles, we figured that out.

2242
01:38:06,960 --> 01:38:10,639
Speaker 1: In the nineteen sixties. Oh my god, in the nineteen sixties.

2243
01:38:10,680 --> 01:38:12,400
Speaker 1: It is a little thing that you pull that opens

2244
01:38:12,439 --> 01:38:15,400
Speaker 1: the goddamn door. I've had it. Why is it a button? Now?

2245
01:38:15,600 --> 01:38:17,680
Speaker 3: Why is the button hidden? I have to rub my

2246
01:38:17,720 --> 01:38:19,639
Speaker 3: hand around the entire frame of the door to find

2247
01:38:19,680 --> 01:38:21,840
Speaker 3: the button. I have to knock on the door three

2248
01:38:21,880 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 3: times and answer a troll's riddle to get out of

2249
01:38:23,840 --> 01:38:24,559
Speaker 3: the fucking vehicle.

2250
01:38:24,760 --> 01:38:28,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, no more new car handles thirty seconds. What else?

2251
01:38:28,160 --> 01:38:28,719
Speaker 1: Diet coke?

2252
01:38:28,800 --> 01:38:30,760
Speaker 3: It was working when I asked the restaurant if they

2253
01:38:30,760 --> 01:38:32,120
Speaker 3: have a diet coke and they say, we actually have

2254
01:38:32,200 --> 01:38:35,680
Speaker 3: a housemaid artisanal Italian. We all have something else, and

2255
01:38:35,720 --> 01:38:39,200
Speaker 3: it's a fucking problem. I want diet coke at the restaurant.

2256
01:38:39,320 --> 01:38:41,320
Speaker 3: We are innovating things at the BlackBerry should have been

2257
01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:44,520
Speaker 3: where we stopped with phone. Why are we on iPhone seventeen?

2258
01:38:44,560 --> 01:38:46,439
Speaker 3: The BlackBerry was a perfect phone and we ruined it.

2259
01:38:46,600 --> 01:38:49,439
Speaker 3: Planes are getting smaller. Why you guys already figured out

2260
01:38:49,439 --> 01:38:50,880
Speaker 3: how to make maxim money for us and make us

2261
01:38:50,880 --> 01:38:52,880
Speaker 3: more uncomfortable. Ex Second, the overhead be shul get bigger,

2262
01:38:52,880 --> 01:38:54,800
Speaker 3: the seat sho get bigger, bigger. Stop innovating things that

2263
01:38:54,840 --> 01:38:56,439
Speaker 3: do not need to be innovated, thank you.

2264
01:38:56,560 --> 01:38:59,240
Speaker 1: And that's one minute. And it is at this point

2265
01:38:59,280 --> 01:39:02,360
Speaker 1: that I will say, first, this is a this. We

2266
01:39:02,400 --> 01:39:04,559
Speaker 1: needed to talk about this, and I want to talk

2267
01:39:04,600 --> 01:39:10,400
Speaker 1: about hotel lights. Hello, Oh my god, it's not the

2268
01:39:10,400 --> 01:39:11,880
Speaker 1: first time it's come up. You need to put your

2269
01:39:11,920 --> 01:39:13,360
Speaker 1: key in there for it to work. You need to

2270
01:39:13,360 --> 01:39:15,599
Speaker 1: forget it. Oh, I'm so sick of it hotel lights.

2271
01:39:15,640 --> 01:39:18,479
Speaker 1: What was the other one? I was thinking of toilets everywhere, toilets.

2272
01:39:18,520 --> 01:39:21,759
Speaker 1: What's going on toilets? Because you want to know what everywhere?

2273
01:39:21,800 --> 01:39:24,960
Speaker 1: Does sell flush now? And they they're like, oh, well,

2274
01:39:25,040 --> 01:39:27,400
Speaker 1: just hit the button. The buttons are getting smaller and

2275
01:39:27,400 --> 01:39:29,240
Speaker 1: they're hiding them at different points on the toilet.

2276
01:39:29,400 --> 01:39:33,160
Speaker 3: Yes, they're they're guys. They're putting out new toothbrushes every day.

2277
01:39:33,760 --> 01:39:36,960
Speaker 3: We've certainly figured it out. Figure we have figured it out.

2278
01:39:36,960 --> 01:39:38,760
Speaker 3: There are things that we just figured out. No new

2279
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:40,840
Speaker 3: car now, if you want to put the car and drive,

2280
01:39:40,840 --> 01:39:45,360
Speaker 3: you don't pull it, you just turn like ab no stop.

2281
01:39:45,439 --> 01:39:48,080
Speaker 2: They're even coming for our ship with the glasses. Hello,

2282
01:39:48,640 --> 01:39:51,439
Speaker 2: don't innovate on the glasses. What's happening with that? The

2283
01:39:51,600 --> 01:39:52,639
Speaker 2: fucking ray ban meta?

2284
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:54,120
Speaker 1: Yes, it's like crazy.

2285
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:56,640
Speaker 2: Nobody ever wear that in front of me?

2286
01:39:56,800 --> 01:40:01,280
Speaker 1: Yes, ever ever? Ever? Using AI to respond to emails,

2287
01:40:01,439 --> 01:40:04,439
Speaker 1: I forget it. You don't make like any class.

2288
01:40:04,000 --> 01:40:06,160
Speaker 3: Eighty five thousand dollars a year to respond to emails.

2289
01:40:06,160 --> 01:40:07,960
Speaker 3: The least you can do is fucking hit the keys.

2290
01:40:08,000 --> 01:40:08,320
Speaker 1: Bitch.

2291
01:40:08,680 --> 01:40:11,280
Speaker 3: I have had it with the innovations. Not get off,

2292
01:40:11,400 --> 01:40:13,600
Speaker 3: not get off my offense to anyone who's using I

2293
01:40:13,680 --> 01:40:14,640
Speaker 3: just no offense.

2294
01:40:14,360 --> 01:40:17,439
Speaker 1: To any anyone who's an innovator, anyone who identifies as

2295
01:40:17,439 --> 01:40:18,920
Speaker 1: an innovator, no offense.

2296
01:40:18,600 --> 01:40:20,479
Speaker 2: To you, but just directed at the right thing.

2297
01:40:20,600 --> 01:40:23,320
Speaker 3: Ten your gap on innovations. That's what I'm asking for.

2298
01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:27,639
Speaker 1: I truly agree. And there was another. There was another one. Oh,

2299
01:40:27,840 --> 01:40:33,200
Speaker 1: with email. I hate seeing at the bottom of Gmail

2300
01:40:33,280 --> 01:40:37,840
Speaker 1: the suggested responses. Sure never makes any fun. Oh, I'm

2301
01:40:37,880 --> 01:40:40,280
Speaker 1: telling you. Sometimes it'll be like, well, that's a perfect response,

2302
01:40:40,320 --> 01:40:42,840
Speaker 1: and I'll that's a that's a perfectly loved response or

2303
01:40:43,040 --> 01:40:45,240
Speaker 1: a good response to this email, and then I actually

2304
01:40:45,240 --> 01:40:47,599
Speaker 1: think about clicking it. I'm like, no, can I based

2305
01:40:47,600 --> 01:40:49,839
Speaker 1: on principle, I'm not using your answer.

2306
01:40:49,920 --> 01:40:52,040
Speaker 3: I auto populated one on accident recently, because you know

2307
01:40:52,080 --> 01:40:53,559
Speaker 3: how Gmail now would just like if you accidently hit

2308
01:40:53,600 --> 01:40:55,400
Speaker 3: tab it or like type it out for you. It

2309
01:40:55,439 --> 01:40:58,960
Speaker 3: typed out scarily exactly what I would would have said,

2310
01:40:59,000 --> 01:41:02,040
Speaker 3: like lowercase, like hey y'all, dashed out like it is

2311
01:41:02,080 --> 01:41:03,200
Speaker 3: my exact email voice.

2312
01:41:03,280 --> 01:41:04,040
Speaker 1: It typed it out.

2313
01:41:03,920 --> 01:41:06,040
Speaker 3: For me, word for word what I needed to respond.

2314
01:41:06,200 --> 01:41:10,400
Speaker 3: I deleted it, and yeah, I mean I'm not doing

2315
01:41:10,400 --> 01:41:12,320
Speaker 3: it now. I'm not doing it. It's scary to me.

2316
01:41:12,280 --> 01:41:14,720
Speaker 2: And watching into the Oklahoma City Hall.

2317
01:41:14,920 --> 01:41:16,120
Speaker 1: Yes it knows me.

2318
01:41:16,400 --> 01:41:18,679
Speaker 2: I will say, Cali, you have gorgeous Asian eyes.

2319
01:41:19,400 --> 01:41:22,280
Speaker 3: You know what, Bowen, thank you for saying that. That

2320
01:41:22,400 --> 01:41:23,519
Speaker 3: is so beautiful and special.

2321
01:41:23,600 --> 01:41:26,840
Speaker 2: You have a gorgeous lash length on a beautiful brown

2322
01:41:27,520 --> 01:41:28,600
Speaker 2: almond adjacent I.

2323
01:41:28,880 --> 01:41:31,400
Speaker 3: People often think that I am not white, and I'm

2324
01:41:31,439 --> 01:41:33,040
Speaker 3: not gonna lie to about that. Sometimes people think in

2325
01:41:33,080 --> 01:41:35,200
Speaker 3: Pacific Islander sometimes they think I'm Hispanic.

2326
01:41:35,240 --> 01:41:36,800
Speaker 1: Why would you lie about that? I would never lie

2327
01:41:36,800 --> 01:41:37,920
Speaker 1: about that, And that's what I'm telling you.

2328
01:41:38,000 --> 01:41:40,200
Speaker 3: Sometimes, you guys, people think I'm not white, and every

2329
01:41:40,200 --> 01:41:43,160
Speaker 3: time I receive it as a beautiful compliment and really

2330
01:41:43,200 --> 01:41:45,040
Speaker 3: don't know what to say after I say, unfortunately, I'm

2331
01:41:45,080 --> 01:41:46,839
Speaker 3: just white. Of course, I think being white is an embarrassment.

2332
01:41:46,880 --> 01:41:48,240
Speaker 3: It's one of the worst things that's ever happened to me.

2333
01:41:48,439 --> 01:41:50,280
Speaker 3: And also we can't deny.

2334
01:41:50,160 --> 01:41:52,080
Speaker 1: There are privileges. No, that's all you have.

2335
01:41:52,120 --> 01:41:53,719
Speaker 3: Do you guys want to unpack white privilege?

2336
01:41:55,200 --> 01:41:56,799
Speaker 1: I was thinking today was the day.

2337
01:41:57,120 --> 01:42:00,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's time we did that. Anyway, that's for next

2338
01:42:00,240 --> 01:42:01,200
Speaker 2: time Caleb comes on.

2339
01:42:01,360 --> 01:42:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, you will return, and also we should do dinner. Dinner.

2340
01:42:05,560 --> 01:42:07,120
Speaker 1: I actually don't know why I thought you were a

2341
01:42:07,320 --> 01:42:09,760
Speaker 1: LA person. Well it used to be. Yeah, you were

2342
01:42:09,880 --> 01:42:11,439
Speaker 1: that used to be. But now I am a New

2343
01:42:11,479 --> 01:42:14,760
Speaker 1: York person. Okay, Well, Kenny dinner. Whenever we'd like, we're

2344
01:42:14,760 --> 01:42:17,880
Speaker 1: going to the Fly Look restaurants, a real jerk is

2345
01:42:17,920 --> 01:42:21,200
Speaker 1: coming through. Three three real jerks are coming. But just

2346
01:42:21,280 --> 01:42:23,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, we leave and we get a terrible reputation.

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Speaker 1: We were only lovely. Oh that'd be fun, though. It

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Speaker 1: be kind of fun because at least we know the truth. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's how I always feel. Yeah, I know the truth.

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Speaker 3: When I hear rumors about us, and I always am,

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Speaker 3: I go I the.

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Speaker 1: Trut least I know the truth. The truth of this

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Speaker 1: episode was that it was a blast, and you gotta

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Speaker 1: listen to so true. You gotta watch the special, you

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Speaker 1: gotta watch Devil Worst Productuo to be to be promoting

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Speaker 1: Devil Worst Product too, just congrats.

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Speaker 3: Also funny for me to be promoting It's like, I

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Speaker 3: think they've got it covered.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I look at that cast list and I'm like, yeah, sure,

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Speaker 2: Lady Gaga, Yeah sure to Caleb Harre.

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Speaker 1: And we wanted on the show. Thank you guys for

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Speaker 1: having me. We Love You. We end every episode with

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Speaker 1: us with a song what Up Big Spaces Room to

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Speaker 1: make Masday?

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Speaker 6: She needs new basis She knows High Stage six.

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Speaker 2: For more of that, listen to the album and song

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Speaker 2: WI Happened Spaces by the Checks, Bye Yeah Last Culture.

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Speaker 2: Racis is the production by Will Ferrell's Big Money Players

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Speaker 2: and iHeartRadio podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Created and hosted by Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang, Executive

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Speaker 1: produced by Anna hasby A and produced by Becca Ramos,

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Speaker 1: Edited and mixed by Duck Beam and our music is

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Speaker 1: by Henry Kamerski