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All 12 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 2: thanks to Live Nation. Jason, the people must know. Okay, 13 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: they think you're walking around here. 14 00:00:34,280 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: With a new knee. 15 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: But guess what in Jason fashion, Yeah, just just to recap, 16 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 2: you were you were going to have knee surgery before Christmas. 17 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: Yes, literally like. 18 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 2: Wijay's was rescheduled from several weeks before. This was the 19 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 2: second time around for knee surgery. 20 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: Yes, but yet didn't happen. 21 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 3: Did not happen, So yeah, I talked a little bit 22 00:00:57,920 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: about this before the HOLIDAYBI was supposed to have my 23 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 3: meniscus repaired on the Tuesday before Christmas, and I planted 24 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:06,760 Speaker 3: out that time because it was the holiday, and I 25 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:09,039 Speaker 3: had time to be off my feet and whatever. And 26 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 3: then I get a call literally the friday before saying, oh, 27 00:01:12,800 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 3: we don't have physician clearance because you have to go 28 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 3: to your doctor and get cleared whatever to be put 29 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,319 Speaker 3: under anesthesia. And I did do that already, but no 30 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 3: one told me that it has to be thirty days 31 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:29,479 Speaker 3: before your surgery date. So mine had expired, and they 32 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 3: told me the friday before. Of course, the friday before Christmas, 33 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 3: no one's open, no one wants to work, no one 34 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 3: wants to do anything, so I couldn't get anywhere, and 35 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 3: now I had to push it to February. 36 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: So just to catch everybody up if you didn't and 37 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 2: correct me if I don't have all the details right. 38 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 2: But if you're new to this show or the story, 39 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 2: Jason needs knee surgery. He's needed it for about seven years, 40 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:52,560 Speaker 2: so he's hoppled around finally decided to do it, so 41 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 2: you schedule it right. The doctor works in a surgery center, 42 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 2: but the doctor was insurance approved and the surgery center 43 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 2: was not, and we don't find We didn't find that 44 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: out for round one until a few days before you 45 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: were supposed to get it before. 46 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, So they were like eight thousand dollars please, and 47 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:13,040 Speaker 3: I was like, that's not gonna work. 48 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:16,399 Speaker 1: So let me figure some same building, same buildings, right 49 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: floor up. 50 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 2: The doctor's good, yeah, the table that he operates on 51 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:21,239 Speaker 2: not good. 52 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 4: Good. 53 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 2: Insurance didn't like that, which which if you know anything 54 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 2: about insurance, then you know that this is par for 55 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 2: the course. 56 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:27,480 Speaker 1: Like okay. 57 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 2: So then they were like, okay, we'll find you a 58 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 2: new doctor and a new surgery place. So you were 59 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 2: ready to go for round one and then this was 60 00:02:35,960 --> 00:02:41,400 Speaker 2: round two and that's where the clearance expired. But how 61 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 2: did no one like when you first checked in with 62 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,640 Speaker 2: new doctor and new surgery table, how did they not 63 00:02:46,800 --> 00:02:48,440 Speaker 2: say like, okay, we're gonna need to make sure this 64 00:02:48,480 --> 00:02:50,760 Speaker 2: clearance is like how did why are we just now 65 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: looking at that? 66 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 3: I think because they were so flabbergasted by how we 67 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:56,960 Speaker 3: got to that point that they were like, okay, like 68 00:02:57,480 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 3: you know, we'll figure out, like this is we ran everything, 69 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 3: this is your covered, like we're good to go. And 70 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 3: and God bless the scheduling girl because she was calling 71 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 3: around trying to figure out how to get me in 72 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 3: before the holiday and it just didn't work. 73 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 5: Out. 74 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 3: So here we are now it's February. So February, February seventeenth. Yes, 75 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 3: oh yeah, that's a text right here. That's interesting. It's true. 76 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 3: I had forgotten too. Speaking of rescheduling, what happened to 77 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 3: Fred's special guest? 78 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: Oh, it couldn't talk. Well, I forgot about that. So 79 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 1: for my. 80 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: Birthday in November, you guys had scheduled and a guest. 81 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 2: You couldn't tell me who it was, and they weren't 82 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 2: cleared to talk until the seventeenth of December, and then 83 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: we wound up going on vacation. 84 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: Yes, and then we couldn't talk to them. Yeah. Are 85 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: we ever talking to them? I don't know. 86 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 3: I meant ghosted. I think we moved up around a 87 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 3: little too much. But we might have scared them. But 88 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 3: we're gonna try to try again. 89 00:03:54,440 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: Can you tell me not yet? 90 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 2: No? Can you give me like the fine people at 91 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 2: home who were curious. Can we have like a like Friday? 92 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: Can we have a day where you really Yeah, well 93 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 2: you will tell us if we're who it was going 94 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: to be. 95 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's fair if we don't. If we 96 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 3: don't get them by Friday, then we'll. 97 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 6: You know who it was well, yeah, I'm hoping, I'm 98 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 6: hoping they picked back up interesting and I. 99 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:20,240 Speaker 1: Was excited about it. He's so excited that I forgot. 100 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 6: But I just remember now, I know, I know what 101 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 6: you wanted to take that day. 102 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,640 Speaker 7: I was like, bummer, but we were not going to 103 00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 7: just come in just for that. Yeah, okay, because they 104 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:30,280 Speaker 7: will still be well. 105 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 1: Thank you do Texter six y three oh for reminding. 106 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 1: Thank you yeah, and for all the people who cared 107 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 1: about Jason. For Jason. Yeah, it's true, but it's fine. 108 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: It'll be good. 109 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 2: Good, You're gonna You're gonna be hot girl summer with 110 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 2: a new knee. 111 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: Ooh yeah, these Megan knees. I'm about to get watch out. Okay, 112 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: let's stay or god more Pread Show. Next, This is 113 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 1: the Pread Show. 114 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 2: Kelly Clark City is returning to Las Vegas in twenty 115 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 2: twenty six for her Studio Sessions Las Vegas residency. You 116 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 2: can enter now for a chance to win a trip 117 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: for two to the July twenty fourth show, a two 118 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: night hotel stay at Flamingo Hotel and Casino in Las 119 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,640 Speaker 2: Vegas July twenty third through the twenty fifth, and round 120 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 2: trip airfare text text Vegas to five seven seven three 121 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 2: nine right now for a chance to win. A confirmation 122 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 2: text will be sent. Standard message and data rates may apply. 123 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 2: All thanks to Live Nation. The Fred Show is on. 124 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 2: It's stay or go. 125 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 1: Meredith is here. By the way. 126 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 2: You can hit us up with your relationship matter, and 127 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 2: then we'll talk about you with you, and then hang 128 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 2: up on you and talk about you behind your back, 129 00:05:38,360 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: and then everyone else listening we'll talk about you too. 130 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: Fred Show Radio on Instagram. Find us there, dms Hey, Marredith, good. 131 00:05:43,800 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: Morning, Hey, good morning. 132 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 2: We do it with love, though we talk about you 133 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 2: with love for the most part. I mean, unless you 134 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 2: say something crazy then maybe not. But welcome, Thank you 135 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: for your message. What's going on with your husband? You're 136 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,160 Speaker 2: seeing a side of him, you say that you've never 137 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 2: seen before, right right. 138 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 8: So okay, first I'm just going to say, like I 139 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 8: know this is stay or go, I just want to 140 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 8: say I'm not actually considering leaving my husband right now. 141 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:16,720 Speaker 2: Well, no, because if you're even see the fine print, 142 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 2: if you agree to come on here, then you have 143 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,160 Speaker 2: to do at the end what we say, even if 144 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 2: that means mere cloading your entire life. So I'm gonna 145 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:26,479 Speaker 2: have to let you go. Okay, so you're not You're 146 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 2: not actually going to leave them, but this is something 147 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 2: that is happening that obviously led you to think, Okay, 148 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:36,120 Speaker 2: I needed I need a secondary opinion on this, so 149 00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: I'm gonna write a morning radio show which makes perfect sense. 150 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:41,800 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Okay. 151 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 8: So recently we started looking for like a babysitter, Mari 152 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 8: were a nanny for our five year old daughter, because 153 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 8: I recently started a new job, has longer hours than 154 00:06:55,680 --> 00:07:01,239 Speaker 8: I was working before, and my husband also works full time. 155 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 8: So I started looking and I was sending over options 156 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 8: of just some different people to my husband, and okay, 157 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 8: I sent over a guy that I thought was like 158 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 8: a good fit. He's just like a young guy in 159 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:24,400 Speaker 8: his twenties. He says, he's, you know, trying to like 160 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 8: babysit to make money ball. He's going to school to 161 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 8: get his masters. And my husband just like lost it 162 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 8: over this. 163 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: So I have the options that you gave him. 164 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 2: There were some women, and then there was this dude, 165 00:07:41,440 --> 00:07:44,480 Speaker 2: this twenty something year old student, master's student, but a 166 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 2: guy babysit, which I was thinking about this when I 167 00:07:47,200 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 2: was reading this earlier this morning why don't guys ever babysit? 168 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 2: And I think that this guy, I guess his objection 169 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 2: is that it's a man. It's a man who you 170 00:07:56,400 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 2: were proposing would watch your daughter. And that was his issue. 171 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 8: Yeah, Like I sent all women and then this one guy. 172 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 8: And it was the guy that sent him up. He 173 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 8: was saying, like, you know, it's crazy that I would 174 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 8: let another man watch his child. What Yeah, okay, And 175 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 8: he was saying like, no sane straight man would ever 176 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,880 Speaker 8: want to or be good at watching a child that's 177 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 8: not his own, because. 178 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,440 Speaker 1: Anyone I'm sorry here. 179 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 8: Saying this guy must be sick in the head, and 180 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 8: like just all this stuff. I was like, this is 181 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 8: a lot. 182 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:42,839 Speaker 1: Yeah that is because I can see Okay. 183 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 2: At first, I'm like, all right, you have five year 184 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 2: old daughter, a guy watching your daughter. Okay, So there's 185 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 2: some relatability things there. Maybe you know some I don't know, 186 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 2: a woman and another and a girl they might connect 187 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 2: on you know, having the same parts in the same 188 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 2: thing whatever. But like, but girls watch little boys. Women 189 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,959 Speaker 2: watch little boys, you know, when they out of context, 190 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 2: that sounds bad, But you know, women babysit little boys. 191 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 2: So I don't think it's inherent. No, I don't think 192 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 2: you have to do be like that. But I never 193 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: had a male babysitter growing up, so why not? 194 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know. I was surprised by his reaction, 195 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 8: I mean to say the least, because, like, I don't know, 196 00:09:24,520 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 8: I just thought he was fairly open minded or you know, progressive, 197 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 8: and I was just kind of shocked because he made 198 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 8: me look a bad mom for even considering letting you know, 199 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 8: he said, strange man watched our kid. 200 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 2: Because I'm trying to be open minded here, I mean, 201 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 2: I don't know that a man has ever applied. I 202 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: don't know of a situation where there's a dude who 203 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: wanted to babysit any of my friend's kids, or or 204 00:09:52,320 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 2: when I was young. I mean, it was always a woman, 205 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 2: and I think typically you think about women having nurturing 206 00:09:57,000 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 2: tendencies and motherly tendencies and that kind of thing that 207 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 2: but maybe that's a stereotype. I mean, why can't I 208 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 2: I guess, why couldn't a guy? And I'm not trying 209 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 2: to be woke here, I mean I'm really asking a question, like, 210 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 2: for the first time in my life, why couldn't a 211 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 2: guy accomplish that? If he's if he passes the same 212 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 2: sort of background check and and you know, ethic sort 213 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,960 Speaker 2: of vibe check of a woman, why why, I guess 214 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: why couldn't he. 215 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I'm just kind of, 216 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 8: like I said, I just kind of want someone else's 217 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 8: opinion because I'm just questionable. Thing like, am I. 218 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:36,559 Speaker 1: The crazy one? 219 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 8: Is this a ridiculous idea? 220 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. 221 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 8: I'm I just kind of want other people to weigh in. 222 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 8: Let me know, like, yeah, am I considering this? Or 223 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 8: is my husband just you know, overreacting. 224 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 2: I kind of want to know what people think too. 225 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 2: Either way, eight five five five nine three five you 226 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 2: can call him text the same number. You guys should 227 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 2: the you guys should the focused group on this. Meredith, 228 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,000 Speaker 2: have your radio on and let's see what people have 229 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:04,920 Speaker 2: to say, and thank you for calling it for sharing 230 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:05,559 Speaker 2: good luck. 231 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, thank you. 232 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:08,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 233 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: Honestly though, and people, we're getting some texts he's speaking 234 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 2: so much to his own insecurities. Bringing up sexuality perpetuates 235 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 2: the stigma that's just jumping around here. We're getting a 236 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 2: lot of texts about this, like faster than I can 237 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,719 Speaker 2: read them all. Just someone mentioned that bringing up sexuality 238 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 2: adds to his stigma that gay men are somehow more 239 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 2: likely to be predators. Okay, Ja, Dad is protecting his daughter, 240 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: not saying anything bad would happen between mail nanny and daughter. 241 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: But in today's worldwide risk it I don't know. 242 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,559 Speaker 2: I've watched a lot of a lot of datelines in 243 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 2: twenty twenties and stuff about you know, women doing stuff. 244 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: I've watched a lot of Doctor Phil. Yeah, a lot 245 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,199 Speaker 2: of Doctor If. I've watched some Doctor Phil. It's weird 246 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 2: all I mean, it's. 247 00:11:58,360 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: On repeating the house. But I don't know. 248 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 2: It's an Honestly, it's a thing I had never considered 249 00:12:06,840 --> 00:12:09,400 Speaker 2: because I guess in my mind it's always I've always 250 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:13,719 Speaker 2: had female babysitters and nanny's growing up. Would you let 251 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 2: you know you're you're the mom in the room of 252 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: Paulina and Gegee's two? 253 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,839 Speaker 1: Would you let a guy? I guess you have your 254 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: best friend, Yeah. 255 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,560 Speaker 9: Well her godfather slash, my best friend has watched her 256 00:12:24,960 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 9: many of times, and I trust them more than I 257 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 9: trust myself sometimes, like they're so good with her. But 258 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 9: I was actually asked this question recently if I would 259 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,480 Speaker 9: hire because I do look for babysitters here and there, 260 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:36,080 Speaker 9: and we have a couple of rotation and they're all girls. 261 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 9: I mean they're all high school kids too, So that 262 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 9: might say something too. Maybe the industry slow right now 263 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 9: because I'm like, oh, you know, everyone's young and they 264 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 9: want to, you know, do this job, which I love. 265 00:12:44,720 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 10: But I'm like, why are there not men applying? 266 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 9: And I kind of question that myself, but maybe because 267 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 9: of society and the way that like we're set up. 268 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 10: It's typically not a job that men go for. 269 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 9: Typically, And I know friends had episode on this too 270 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 9: where they. 271 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 10: Hired a nanny, remember that, Yeah, and they were. 272 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 9: Like a big fight about it and he was a 273 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 9: great i think candative too for the job or something. 274 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 7: And it was Freddy Prince Junior. Yes, the money, the manny. 275 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 1: That's funny. 276 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,440 Speaker 10: If I'm not mad at it, would it be my 277 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 10: first preference? Maybe not? 278 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 9: And I think just because I'm like set up that way, 279 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 9: you know, because society, or maybe because like I'm conditioned 280 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 9: to think that a man wouldn't want this job, or 281 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 9: to be honest, even be good at this job. 282 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 10: And that's that's not true. 283 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:23,599 Speaker 7: I will say, it's not always one hundred percent, So 284 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 7: don't come for me. 285 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 6: But sometimes though, you do see little girls like it's 286 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 6: just a neat and them like. 287 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 7: They want to play with babies, they want to care 288 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:31,560 Speaker 7: for things. 289 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 6: I've noticed that, so maybe it's just that they're more 290 00:13:34,160 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 6: drawn to it. But I don't I see why a 291 00:13:38,760 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 6: man couldn't do a good job as well. 292 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 2: I have a friend of law enforcement who texted and 293 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 2: it's just just sits it. I won't say who because 294 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 2: I have several because I don't want to win going 295 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 2: for him. But this is apparently statistics, Okay, eighty eight 296 00:13:50,320 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 2: percent to over ninety three percent of sex predators are male. 297 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 2: Why take the chance? Okay, again, that's this is this 298 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:59,720 Speaker 2: is one person's statement. I haven't verified that I believed 299 00:13:59,720 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 2: in this person. Yeah, but you know, someone else texted. 300 00:14:02,480 --> 00:14:05,559 Speaker 2: No man, period should be babysitting young children. Too many predators. 301 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,679 Speaker 2: Maybe if the guy was a friend of the family. Well, 302 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 2: if those statistics are right, then I get it. But 303 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 2: you know, and I'm not picking on teachers, but there 304 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 2: are a lot of female teachers and every day I 305 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 2: feel like we're seeing some story. And again this is 306 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: not this is not on female teachers at all. But 307 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 2: to say that that no man should be watching a 308 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 2: child because only women should be. 309 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: That's that's sort of a pretty wide. 310 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 2: Net to cast, because you do hear about female teachers 311 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 2: taking advantage of your again, not a lot of them, 312 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 2: not a dominant amount. But again, I don't think you 313 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 2: could say with certainty that if a woman watches my 314 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 2: kid that we are one hundred percent better off than 315 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 2: if a guy would. Now, maybe statistically you're you're a 316 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,720 Speaker 2: lot better off, but not entirely, you know what I mean. 317 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 2: You can't we can't make a blake and statement about that. Hey' Shelley. Hi, Hi, Shelley, 318 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: good morning. What do you think would you let a 319 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:06,960 Speaker 2: guy who was qualified and background checked in the same 320 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 2: all the same qualities you would look for in a 321 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 2: woman who watch your kid? 322 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 11: Absolutely? I mean he's a college students studying. He's probably 323 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 11: looking at something where he could study. You know, guys 324 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 11: are qualified to watch kids. They teach, coaching, their school counselors, 325 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 11: There are counselors and kids who go out to camp. Guys. 326 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 11: Some guys just have that pictury you state about them. 327 00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:42,800 Speaker 11: I don't see anything wrong with it. 328 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, thank you Shelly here, thank you have a 329 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 2: great day. 330 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:53,440 Speaker 1: Appreciate you, love your show. Thank you, Love you, Emma, Emma, 331 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: you agree with the husband? 332 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 12: I do? 333 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough? 334 00:15:57,240 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 12: Why well, I'm a teacher and I have babysaid before, 335 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,960 Speaker 12: and I don't think he's not a decent man. I mean, 336 00:16:07,240 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 12: there's a lot of decent men out there, but I 337 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:16,000 Speaker 12: just statistically, the numbers are hired. If I don't know 338 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 12: this guy, I wouldn't hut him. 339 00:16:17,680 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 7: I wouldn't put my son in charge of any man. 340 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 12: I don't let the sleepovers. I don't. It's it's just 341 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 12: it's scary out there. I agree with the dad. I mean, again, 342 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 12: he might be a decent man. There's a lot of them, 343 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:34,960 Speaker 12: but why take the chance if the numbers are not 344 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 12: in your favor? 345 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, thank you, Emma. Have a good day, 346 00:16:38,680 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: you too. Glad you called? 347 00:16:40,160 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 2: Uh? 348 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 1: I am Aaron. You are a male nanny? Yay, Yes, 349 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 1: that's correct. You is what you do? Okay? 350 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 2: And do you get First of all, I'm curious, like 351 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: what was your motivation in getting into this? And second 352 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 2: of all, do you do you feel like you're unfairly judged? 353 00:16:57,480 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? 354 00:16:57,800 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 13: So I've actually been doing it for like the last 355 00:17:00,000 --> 00:17:03,600 Speaker 13: fifteen years. I've kind of always been in childcare my 356 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 13: whole life. I started babysitting when I was like twelve. 357 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 13: But yeah, I would say, like number one, I definitely 358 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:11,360 Speaker 13: am not. 359 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,119 Speaker 1: Paid what I'm worth. 360 00:17:13,320 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 13: Like, you know, the base rate for most nannies is 361 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 13: like around twenty five dollars an hour, and I don't 362 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 13: get that, mostly because I am a man, and yeah, 363 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 13: like it takes a little longer for me to get 364 00:17:26,760 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 13: jobs and stuff. 365 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 1: And I do think, yeah, that it's like a societal thing. 366 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 13: But I've been doing it for like fifteen years, and 367 00:17:36,359 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 13: there's some families that will like seek me out, especially 368 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 13: if they have boys. But what's funny is most of 369 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 13: the families I've worked for actually has been little girls. 370 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: Interesting. 371 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, Like I say this truly, when I read 372 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:53,080 Speaker 2: this this morning, it's sort of wait a minute, like, right, well, 373 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:56,200 Speaker 2: why not exactly? And why would I always gravitate towards 374 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:57,919 Speaker 2: hiring a woman if I had a kid, Because I 375 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,639 Speaker 2: just would because I'm programmed, I guess because that's what 376 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 2: I always had, that was my exposure. 377 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:03,600 Speaker 1: So I guess that's what I would do. 378 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 2: But and I also don't know how many men there 379 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 2: are in your industry, you know, Aaron, I guess I 380 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:12,840 Speaker 2: think you're still probably pretty rare. But but I guess 381 00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:15,600 Speaker 2: you could also argue that's because it's harder to get 382 00:18:15,640 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 2: a job because people have this sort of idea in 383 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:19,280 Speaker 2: their mind that guys shouldn't do it. 384 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely. 385 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 13: And you know, I do want to say that, like 386 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:26,480 Speaker 13: the statistics that everyone's bringing up, those are reported cases. 387 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 13: So most of the cases reported are men. That doesn't 388 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:32,920 Speaker 13: mean women are not, also sell your editors. 389 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:34,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, fair enough, thank you man. 390 00:18:34,320 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 13: Also because you know, because of the stigma, men don't 391 00:18:37,920 --> 00:18:41,080 Speaker 13: report when something does happen, yep, because they're shamed and 392 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:43,640 Speaker 13: they're made to feel awful about it. But it's happening. 393 00:18:43,720 --> 00:18:47,640 Speaker 13: It's definitely happening. So those statistics don't tell the whole number, 394 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:49,800 Speaker 13: the whole story, you know, Aaron, thank you, have a 395 00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:50,200 Speaker 13: good day. 396 00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:52,000 Speaker 1: Thank you. 397 00:18:52,040 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 2: I think fair enough? Is I keep saying fair enough? 398 00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: It's like, because I mean, these are all interesting points. Yeah, 399 00:18:57,600 --> 00:19:01,119 Speaker 2: Hey Kelly, right, Hi, So you grew up with both 400 00:19:01,200 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 2: male and female babysitters and no issue. 401 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:13,640 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, my mom hired some family friends and we 402 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,800 Speaker 5: had a blast with the male babysitters. They were a 403 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:22,720 Speaker 5: lot more, you know, like willing to let kids be 404 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 5: kids and run around with us and get on the 405 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:31,199 Speaker 5: floor with us and run around outside with us. I 406 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 5: think that the biggest thing is you have to trust 407 00:19:34,440 --> 00:19:36,919 Speaker 5: the people, and you have to do your research. And 408 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 5: if it's somebody that you don't actually know in person, 409 00:19:40,600 --> 00:19:43,080 Speaker 5: you just have to do the background checks and check 410 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:46,359 Speaker 5: the references and all that. There's risks either way if 411 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 5: you're inviting somebody who you don't know into your home. 412 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, makes sense, Thank you, Kelly, thank you. Yeah. 413 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:55,160 Speaker 2: I mean, well, I had female babysitters when I was young, 414 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:57,480 Speaker 2: and they were men hanging around. They were their boyfriends 415 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:59,239 Speaker 2: that would come over from my parents left. And they 416 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 2: weren't interested. They weren't predators to me. They were waiting 417 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:05,360 Speaker 2: for me to go to bed so they could make 418 00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 2: out with the babysitter on the couch. 419 00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 1: That's what that was about, Nicole. Hello, Hi, hey, good morning. 420 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:17,640 Speaker 2: You will not hire a mail nanny because of statistics. Correct, Yes, 421 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 2: and so I have even if your background checked the person, no, no, 422 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 2: I interrupted you. But even if you even if you 423 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 2: really like really dug deep and looked into this person 424 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 2: and they had references and a clean record and an 425 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 2: interest in childcare or in this case, getting a master's 426 00:20:32,200 --> 00:20:33,240 Speaker 2: maybe an education or. 427 00:20:33,240 --> 00:20:33,800 Speaker 1: Something like that. 428 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 7: Correct, I know I still will not take that chance. 429 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 10: Okay, bar Nicol, thank you, thank you. 430 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:47,399 Speaker 2: Fair enough, someone said, ask Pauline she would allow a 431 00:20:47,400 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 2: guy to take care of a daughter. 432 00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: Well I did, yeah, right off the top, I asked 433 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 1: the mom in the room. 434 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, hey, welcome to the show. 435 00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 1: This is good. 436 00:20:58,320 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 11: You know. 437 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:01,200 Speaker 1: He came here everywhere the consider of our Yeah, the 438 00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,840 Speaker 1: guncles are watching her now, Jamie. You had a male 439 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:05,959 Speaker 1: babysitter growing up. 440 00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 4: Yeah. His name was Bob. 441 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 1: Babysitter. Yeah. 442 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:21,919 Speaker 4: Man, but he babysat me and my brother and my 443 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:26,640 Speaker 4: three sisters till I was twelve, and there was nothing 444 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 4: wrong with it. I never actually had girl babysitter. 445 00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 7: Was always a male, and Bob was cool above. 446 00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, he was the only Bob I knew. His name 447 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,040 Speaker 4: wasn't Robert, his name was Bob. 448 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 2: That's a very interesting fact about Bob the babysitter, because 449 00:21:43,960 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 2: you're right, you don't meet a lot of Bob's. 450 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,760 Speaker 1: You meet a lot of Roberts go by Bob. You 451 00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:50,359 Speaker 1: just don't meet a lot of Bobs. 452 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:51,439 Speaker 10: What was the story? 453 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 7: Was he a student? Was he a professional babysitter? 454 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,120 Speaker 1: What was no? 455 00:21:56,240 --> 00:22:04,639 Speaker 4: My so, my grandma uh knew him years ago, and 456 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 4: by the way that I can remember, my parents just 457 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 4: started letting him baby sit us. And then my when 458 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 4: I lived at my grandma's for a little bit, he 459 00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:18,159 Speaker 4: was our babysitter and we would go to his house. 460 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,120 Speaker 2: Actually, okay, so you had like a real life mister Rogers. 461 00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:24,360 Speaker 2: You know, you go over there and you'd put us 462 00:22:24,400 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 2: you change sweaters, you know, and you put different shoes on, 463 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 2: and you'd go out to the back and play in 464 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 2: the sandbox. It all sounds weird now, and that's what 465 00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 2: that's what mister Rogers did. 466 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 7: And he took offite he was home. 467 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:35,160 Speaker 1: He was a good man. 468 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:42,640 Speaker 2: Uh interesting, Thank you, Jamie, I gotta go okay, but yeah, honestly, 469 00:22:43,000 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 2: my takeaway from that was that his name was Bob 470 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 2: and not Robert. Was Bob a text. I'm a criminal prosecutor. 471 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 2: I would never hire a male sitter. We even looked 472 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 2: for female only daycares for our son. I've had a 473 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 2: lot of child porn in essay cases. They're always male. 474 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,240 Speaker 2: Female predators usually exists with high school age victims, but 475 00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 2: males exist with babies and little kids. 476 00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: Is terrifying. 477 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 10: All right, there you go, the scary world. 478 00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: It is so scary.