WEBVTT - Red Carpet Official 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.280 Hell I Suck at Dating with de Nungler and Jared 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:10.920 Haven and I heard radio podcast What's going on Everyone, 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:13.760 and welcome to an all new episode of help I 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:18.759 Suck At Dating. I um joined the Zoom a little 0:00:18.760 --> 0:00:21.560 bit late today and I heard Jared going off about 0:00:21.680 --> 0:00:26.680 something about Aquaman and Spiderman and it's just so frustrating. 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:29.640 No what needs to hear this? But like a quick backstory, 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:31.080 a couple of months ago, I don't know if you 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.519 guys heard, Henry Cavill got announced that he's reprising his 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:36.199 role as Superman, which I was very much anticipating and 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:38.760 very excited about because I really enjoyed Manistel and I 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:41.920 love Henry cavill playing the superhero playing Superman, and he 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:44.360 hasn't been in a movie quite some time because they've 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:48.400 made seventy four thousand Batman's which is okay, I love Batman, 0:00:48.479 --> 0:00:51.760 but just give me my Superman. So they finally announced 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:53.520 that he's back. He made a cameo and black Adam, 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:56.000 here we go. Henry Gavelo announced he went on all 0:00:56.040 --> 0:01:01.480 this press tour. He was on UM seacrestin Kelly. Obviously, 0:01:01.520 --> 0:01:04.040 I heart Radio Seacrest tie right there and said I'm 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:07.320 back as Superman for future films, and then two months 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:10.160 later it's reporting that it might not happen, and it's 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:12.320 very frustrating and I don't need to I don't need 0:01:12.319 --> 0:01:15.080 to vent about it anymore. I never I'm obviously not 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:17.840 as big into the superhero comic book thing as you are. 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:22.160 I do remember seeing Man of Steel, and I think 0:01:22.160 --> 0:01:24.040 I saw in theaters, which is pretty rare for me 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:27.080 to a c A movie in theaters and be for 0:01:27.120 --> 0:01:29.280 it to be a superhero movie, because I'm not a 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.520 big superhero movie fan. I saw me in the Steel 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:36.080 in theaters and this hasn't happened many times to me 0:01:36.120 --> 0:01:40.319 in my life. I want to say three, maybe last 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:44.520 maybe maybe too. Don't tell me what I think. I think. 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:46.440 I think you know where this is going. It was 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:49.760 one of the very few movies where I really strongly 0:01:49.800 --> 0:01:54.120 considered leaving the middle of the movie. Why it was 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:58.520 so so bad, I don't, honestly, my blood is boiling 0:01:58.600 --> 0:02:01.280 right now. I don't want to talk about it because 0:02:01.280 --> 0:02:04.360 it's just gonna piss like. Here's the thing with that is, 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:08.359 if I had no pre understanding of Superman, which I don't, 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:10.120 I do, but I don't, you know, like I have 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:14.400 the general idea of Superman's um origin story, lot of stuff. 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:18.800 If I had zero, that movie sets up absolutely nothing. 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:21.519 All of a sudden, Lois Lane comes in. Oh he's 0:02:21.520 --> 0:02:23.600 in love with her. When did that happen? I have 0:02:23.680 --> 0:02:26.000 no idea. Hope she got lost in a tornado, but 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:27.919 don't worry, Superman is always going to be there to 0:02:28.000 --> 0:02:32.040 save her. It was it was lost in it. I 0:02:32.040 --> 0:02:34.079 don't remember that's that would be that part of it 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:38.120 was almost as bad as um the Avatar the Last 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:42.920 Airbender movie, And because that was the point in the 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:45.400 conversation when I can no longer take you seriously if 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:50.120 you're comparing Man of Steel to Airbender or whatever the 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:53.480 hell it is, Avatar the Last Airbender. Yeah, we're not 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:56.000 having this kind of For the record, I'm a big 0:02:56.000 --> 0:02:58.600 fan of the cartoons of Avatar the Last Airbender or 0:02:58.600 --> 0:03:02.560 when I was younger, and the movie huge disappointment. Man 0:03:02.600 --> 0:03:06.040 of Steel. I didn't have expectations and I was still disappointed. 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:09.840 So that's to say is about that. But I'm happy 0:03:09.880 --> 0:03:11.440 to move on because I don't want you to reach 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:14.119 out through the screen and strangle me. Um. So what's 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:17.120 going on, Jared, how are you. I'm good. Actually, we 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:20.480 have a hot topic including and involving a Batman Robert Pattinson. 0:03:20.720 --> 0:03:22.280 Why don't we just get right into the first hot 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:25.640 topic because you know, nice little segue. So the star 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:28.920 of the New Batman movie, which I did very much 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:31.840 like Robert Pattinson, I didn't like it. I didn't love it. 0:03:31.880 --> 0:03:34.079 The first time I saw it. I thought it was okay. 0:03:34.120 --> 0:03:36.400 But I saw it again and I liked it a 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:38.440 lot more. Can I say before you get before you 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:40.240 get into the hot topic. I liked it. The thing 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:43.400 I didn't like about it was it was like, the 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:45.520 Riddler is his main enemy this movie, and then you 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:47.119 don't see the Riddler for like an hour and a half, 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:48.560 and you're like, what happened to the guy that he 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:51.280 was supposed to be fighting against? Yeah, there's one of 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:53.160 my gripes in the movie is that there's just way 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:58.160 too much going on. I couldn't agree with you more exactly. 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:00.480 The Riddler has gone for a good like hour of 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:03.200 the movie, and you're like, Okay, that's right, He's still 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.320 in this movie. Because there's just so much going on 0:04:05.400 --> 0:04:08.680 with all these different characters, and it is far too long. 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:10.880 I'm all down for a three hour movie. But when 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:12.480 you know I'm two and a half hours in and 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:15.720 I'm like, okay, I'm feeling it, then you should have 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:19.120 cut the movie by thirty minutes. Anyway, Robert Pattinson and 0:04:19.200 --> 0:04:24.760 Suki Waterhouse made their red carpet debut after five years 0:04:24.800 --> 0:04:27.000 of dating. Can I also just have a little gripe 0:04:27.000 --> 0:04:30.440 as well? Towards the English language? Why is the t 0:04:30.720 --> 0:04:35.839 silent with debut? David? I don't know. That's two questions, 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:39.800 soft Tea, What the hell is? Why could you imagine 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:43.320 trying to learn English and reading that word? Why would 0:04:43.360 --> 0:04:50.200 anybody read that word other than debutt? Day? But how 0:04:50.320 --> 0:04:54.240 is that debut? I'm gonna google this real quick because 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.960 I'm also curious. So anyway, while you google it, I'll 0:04:57.000 --> 0:04:59.920 continue with the hot topic. Five years of dating, Robert 0:05:00.000 --> 0:05:05.760 Pattinson Suki Waterhouse made their red carpet day. BEU, that's crazy. 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:08.320 I mean, I'm sure that they've posted publicly, have grown 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:10.760 out in public, and have had pictures taken in them. 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:14.160 But anyway, December three was the day that will live 0:05:14.240 --> 0:05:17.520 in infamy where the Batman star Robert Pattinson and the 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:22.720 persuasion star Suki Waterhouse attended The Dire Men Fall If 0:05:22.720 --> 0:05:26.560 I'm saying that right, it's the three Show and Giza, Egypt. Wow, 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:29.720 that's pretty awesome. They walked to red Carpet together for 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:32.680 the very first time, and they've been linked since two 0:05:32.720 --> 0:05:35.240 thousand and eighteen. The couple have kept their relationship as 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:39.520 private as possible, with which makes their debut all the 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:42.919 more special. So, Dean, two things. One do you have 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:45.400 any answers with us about debut? And two what do 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:47.200 you think of some of the benefits about keeping your 0:05:47.200 --> 0:05:52.320 relationship private, especially you come from a public relationship as well? Well? 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:55.839 The debut thing, I think is just a mystery of language. 0:05:56.240 --> 0:06:00.520 Who knows why? Um? And the other question is keeping 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:04.080 a relationship private? Man? Props to props to Robert Pattinson. 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:06.520 I'll be honest, I don't know who Suki Waterhouses. Do 0:06:06.560 --> 0:06:10.279 you no idea? Oh my gosh, she's beautiful though, I 0:06:10.320 --> 0:06:11.920 just look through up. She's a model, and have you 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:16.240 seen Robert Pattinson. Of course she's beautiful. Robert Pattinson is 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:21.000 also very beautiful. Yes, I can only imagine. Well, it's 0:06:21.040 --> 0:06:24.720 got to be different for these like Megas celebrities because 0:06:25.520 --> 0:06:28.520 I I would have trouble keeping a relationship secret. But 0:06:28.720 --> 0:06:31.159 the reason for that is you go on a dating 0:06:31.160 --> 0:06:33.400 show and the only thing people are interested in is 0:06:33.440 --> 0:06:36.440 your dating life, and so you know, you do you 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:38.520 go to an event, that's all they're asking you is 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:40.919 who are you dating? Blah blah blah. I mean, we 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:43.200 have a podcast that like when I was single on 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:47.480 this podcast, I was dating people that I wouldn't talk about, 0:06:48.480 --> 0:06:53.200 and it was like hard to talk about the past 0:06:53.279 --> 0:06:56.840 tense in the current tense because like I'm not talking 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.760 about being single now, I'm talking about having been single 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:01.840 three months ago. But then the person I'm dating here 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:03.320 is the podcast and like, well why are you talking 0:07:03.320 --> 0:07:05.400 about being single on the podcast? And so then eventually 0:07:05.800 --> 0:07:07.440 like either that comes to ahead and we had to 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:09.600 go our separate ways, or I had to come out 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:12.560 like there becomes like a point in the relationship where 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:14.520 you have to become public with it or you end 0:07:14.520 --> 0:07:20.160 the relationship. So personally, I couldn't do it. That's why, um, 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.239 I've talked about this maybe on this podcast. I've definitely 0:07:22.280 --> 0:07:25.680 talked about it too, some of like my Bachelor Nation 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.760 friends where because entering a relation and I talked about 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:32.480 with you. Actually entering into a relationship with someone from 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:37.000 the show on the show is so much easier than 0:07:37.120 --> 0:07:40.000 like soft launching people on Instagram and stuff having been 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.840 on the show, because like, oh, the world or the 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:46.440 audience gets to see you to be in a relationship 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.840 publicly on their television screen and they don't have to 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:52.120 like randomly hear about it on social media because like 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:56.800 people only there's so many people that only get their 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:59.240 news from not their news, but I'm sorry, they're like 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:02.840 relationship up to it's from television, whereas like people are 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:05.800 still commenting on my social media, which is funny because 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:07.720 obviously if they looked at my social media they would know, 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.120 but they're still commenting on my social media, like I 0:08:10.120 --> 0:08:12.480 can't believe Kalen's lived in the van for four years 0:08:12.520 --> 0:08:14.920 and it's like, well, no, she never lived in the van. 0:08:15.240 --> 0:08:17.160 We just talked about that on television, and so it's 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:19.280 like you're using that information that you got four years 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:22.520 ago and just expanding on it up until now. So 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:27.120 all that to say, I I don't know what I'm 0:08:27.120 --> 0:08:29.560 saying actually, now that they think about it, all I'm 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:32.240 saying is I couldn't keep a relationship secret because it 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:35.520 always came to a head before that point, and I'm 0:08:35.600 --> 0:08:37.400 very grateful that I don't have to do that anymore, 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:39.600 because some of the most stressful days of my life 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:43.240 were coming into this podcast, having to talk about being 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:46.680 single in Los Angeles when I wasn't single, and then 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:49.040 feeling the wrath on the other side of it. So 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:53.040 thankfully those days are behind me. Yeah. I mean, someone 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:54.520 that can relate to this, and there was actually an 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:57.240 All Sweekly article written about it would be Tasha Adams 0:08:57.280 --> 0:09:00.880 because Dasia was obviously the bachelorette, and she will talk 0:09:00.960 --> 0:09:04.520 to us weekly about her and the split between her 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:08.440 and Zach Clark and how they've really never publicly addressed it. 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:12.240 So keeping a relationship quiet is pretty hard. I'm assuming 0:09:12.280 --> 0:09:14.840 also talking about why you guys broke up it's probably 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:17.040 equally as hard because you get asked about it all 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:20.080 the time. So I kind of want to read this 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:22.720 because tatious it's pretty interesting to me, She goes, My 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:24.720 biggest lesson was to remain true to myself, and I 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:27.920 felt like I did that. I'm really proud of that. 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:29.600 I feel like some people called up in the mix 0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:31.920 of everything and I think the best way, the best practice, 0:09:31.960 --> 0:09:33.960 is just to be you. She's talking about dating advice, 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:36.360 and I think with that all these things have come 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:39.080 and it just kind of finds out your your true self. 0:09:39.559 --> 0:09:41.240 She kind of talks about dating advice, and then she 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:44.480 addresses the whole Zach situation. Him and I both know 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:47.520 the truth and where we stand. And I've actually never 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:51.000 said anything in the media about our relationship except we're 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:53.880 no longer together. And I know people might think otherwise, 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:56.600 but that's literally the only statement we've ever given out. 0:09:56.679 --> 0:09:59.040 I think that's just something about maturity and how we 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:01.400 decided to proceed. And at the end of the day, 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:04.560 no one else need needs to know anything else. She 0:10:04.600 --> 0:10:07.240 goes on to say, people really want me to be 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:10.520 in a couple relationships. My biggest priority. Truthfully, I've said 0:10:10.520 --> 0:10:13.120 it before. I know people don't believe me, but it 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:15.800 really is just working on me, just kind of finding 0:10:15.840 --> 0:10:18.280 my own way in New York City, but also focusing 0:10:18.280 --> 0:10:22.000 on things that really make me happy, which our philanthropy efforts. 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:24.319 And I really loved the fashion industry as well, fitness, 0:10:24.440 --> 0:10:29.880 my mental health, so uh interesting, you know what I 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:33.959 do have to commentation for her privacy, Like she sets 0:10:33.960 --> 0:10:37.560 a pretty good tone for keeping keeping that private, which 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:40.160 is really really commendable. Um. Who also did a really 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:45.560 good job was Claire Claire Crawley who, like she like 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:48.640 launched her relationship online with her boyfriend and then like 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:50.640 a month later they were engaged. And it's not because 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:52.640 they got engaged after a month of dating. I think 0:10:52.679 --> 0:10:55.120 they were like dating for a year and then she 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:59.440 just happened to like launch him on social media right 0:10:59.440 --> 0:11:01.520 before they got gauge, And so she was dating this 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:03.800 guy for a long time and didn't really let anyone 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:07.439 know about it, which is very very commendable as well. Um, 0:11:07.559 --> 0:11:10.520 I do think that we we I mean not to 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:13.040 take anything away from them. They did fantastic. We were 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:16.199 kind of putting a tougher situation because not only do 0:11:16.280 --> 0:11:18.440 we also have the social media like they have, but 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:21.520 we have this podcast which I love this podcast to death. 0:11:21.559 --> 0:11:23.680 I'll die for help. I suck a dating and stuck army. 0:11:23.880 --> 0:11:25.600 But they were, like I always say, and there were 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.079 times like and you can attest to this, I'm curious 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:29.319 to hear what you have to say about it too, 0:11:29.360 --> 0:11:31.680 Like before you and actually started dating and you were 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.920 hosting this podcast. Granted, you weren't quite as much of 0:11:34.960 --> 0:11:37.959 a philanderer as I was. You were always like, I 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:40.439 don't think he really dated that much in Los Angeles, 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:42.320 so it was a little bit easier for you. But 0:11:42.360 --> 0:11:44.520 it was kind of stressful coming onto this podcast every 0:11:44.520 --> 0:11:47.240 week talking about your dating life when it was very unstable, 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.560 you know, Oh yeah, I mean the good news for 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:52.240 me was that pretty much it's coming on this podcast 0:11:52.240 --> 0:11:56.400 for me started to host simultaneously aligned with Ashley and 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.440 I being together. So I've kind of always been a relationship. 0:11:58.440 --> 0:12:00.599 But can you talk about Can talk about that for 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:02.840 a second, because you and actually didn't renounce your relationship 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:06.199 until like six months in. Well, we wanted to make 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:09.240 sure that we it was exactly what we thought it 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:10.840 was gonna be when we first got together before we 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:15.240 announced publicly, because it would have been it's ridiculous of 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:18.120 us if we dated for a week, posted about it 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:20.439 on social media, and then broke up two months later, 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:22.479 with all the baggage that we had with our relationship. 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:24.840 When we started dating, I mean, we had a pretty 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:26.839 good idea this is gonna be a forever type thing, 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:28.360 and of course when we knew that it was that 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.040 was the case, you know, three or four months in 0:12:30.679 --> 0:12:33.400 that's when we decided to come out publicly with our relationship. 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:36.760 But it's it's hard to especially coming from a bachelor's standpoint, 0:12:36.880 --> 0:12:38.600 you know, like you said, we come from this dating show. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:40.600 That's really what we're known for, what people really care 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:43.920 most about us. It's kind of like a business decision. 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:46.160 And I've talked about it before on this podcast about 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:48.560 Ashley and I, you know, whether it be doing brand 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:53.600 deals together, posting you know, uh, paid advertisement, and I 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:56.040 remember being so insecure about it in the beginning because 0:12:56.040 --> 0:13:00.200 it felt an authentic not not like the product it's off, 0:13:00.200 --> 0:13:02.800 but like to do it together. I was like, actually, 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:05.439 people are just gonna think we're not a real couple 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:09.040 and that we're faking it. And you know, she was like, 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.360 who cares what people say? Like we know the truth, 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:14.080 that's all that matters. I said, all right, Yeah, that's 0:13:14.080 --> 0:13:16.200 a good point. Actually. So it's hard because there is 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.640 that balance between you want to keep things private and 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:20.679 play some things close to the chest, but also for 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:23.839 us with this podcast and with social media and the show, 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:26.400 it is a little bit like, you know, people want 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:28.120 to know about our dating life, so it's it's a 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:30.880 little bit of like quote unquote business to us, which 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:33.640 is wacky to think about, right well, and for us 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:36.000 to not only do they care about our dating lives, 0:13:36.000 --> 0:13:38.840 but brands that want to work with us would weigh 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:41.920 rather incorporate our significant others into the break into the 0:13:41.960 --> 0:13:45.560 ad because it just gets more attraction. I guess, yeah, 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:50.480 who gives a funk about us? Man? Yeah, Oh my gosh. 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:53.240 So I went to the jingle Ball last week and 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:56.160 I saw that in Los Angeles jingle Ball I heard 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:59.040 Radio Festival put it on with Capital One. You're pretty 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:00.800 much like an influencer at this point. Bro, you walked 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:04.240 the red carpet, you were a jingle ball taking picks. 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:06.680 I walked in that red carpet. It's the first red 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:08.840 carpet I've walked in, Like who knows how long, two 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:13.280 or three years it They cared so much less about 0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:17.120 me than I remember them caring about me in the past. 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:19.840 It was like, and I like, you know, you do 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:22.200 a red carpet at least like four years ago, fresh 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:24.440 off the Bachelor, that you would do like eight interviews, 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:27.960 take a bunch of pictures, and then they would like 0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:30.840 usher you away. They bring into like a swag room, 0:14:30.880 --> 0:14:33.240 give you a bunch of free stuff. I walked up 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:36.280 with Kaitlin Killen looks fantastic, I look like a bum 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:39.280 per usual And they were like killing takes a bunch 0:14:39.320 --> 0:14:40.600 of pictures, and so she walks out and takes a 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:42.600 bunch of pictures. I walk out, takes a bunch of 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:45.080 pictures with her, and then like no one asked me 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.040 for a picture around myself, which is good. I took 0:14:47.040 --> 0:14:49.200 a couple, but that wasn't important. I don't want that. Anyways, 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.240 we did two interviews and then we left, and then 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:54.440 that we were completely like brushed behind the carpet, which 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:56.760 is fine, but it was so interesting because I remember 0:14:56.760 --> 0:14:59.160 those red carpets being way more chaotic and high energy, 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:01.400 and it wasn't really like that. But all this to say, 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:03.560 jingle ball. We went there and it was a blast. 0:15:03.600 --> 0:15:07.400 We saw Dualipa, Jack Carlo Um, Oh, this guy that 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:11.520 I really liked, what was his name? Um crap, I'm 0:15:11.520 --> 0:15:13.360 not gonna remember. I really like Deve Cameron. And then 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:18.080 there's other there's other guys something Louis Capolli, Louis Capaldi. 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:20.600 He was so good. If you haven't heard this guy. 0:15:20.640 --> 0:15:22.840 You have to listen to him. He is so talented 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:28.200 and hilarious. Anyways, this goes back to what you just said. Um, 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:30.360 it was what I thought was a child like a 0:15:30.440 --> 0:15:33.440 kid's event, like the I think the age range in 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:37.240 my head was like ten years old to sixteen years old, 0:15:37.360 --> 0:15:39.360 like that was like their target demo for this event. 0:15:39.640 --> 0:15:41.480 And even like the kids in front of us were 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.000 like these younger boys who were dancing all the TikTok 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:45.600 songs and filming each other, having a blast. And it 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:48.200 was great to see every artist that went on stage. 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:52.320 Pit Bull was there, freaking pit Bull. Um. Every artist 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:54.920 that was there was like up on stage, cursing like 0:15:54.960 --> 0:15:57.920 a drunken sailor, like dropping f bombs. And I was 0:15:57.960 --> 0:16:00.240 looking around and I was like, there's little kids next 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.120 to me. This is really like kind of out of 0:16:02.160 --> 0:16:04.360 control for an iHeart radio events. So I want to 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:06.320 go on record and say that I think that we 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:09.840 should have uncensored F bombs and what you just said, Jared, 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.680 that should not get censored. In my opinion, judging by 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.040 the criteria, that I hurt radio, now I step forward 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:19.080 for us. Yeah, but it's gonna hurt advertising. So I'd 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:22.160 rather not. Um, we have to be a family show, 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:23.880 you know, for the kids. We we do it for 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:25.920 the kids. Dude, What was I going to say about 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:28.160 jingle Ball? Oh? I was talking about the Red Carpet. Dude. 0:16:28.200 --> 0:16:30.600 That's so funny because honestly, it is crazy. How when 0:16:30.600 --> 0:16:33.320 your first off the show, it's like E and Entertainment 0:16:33.320 --> 0:16:36.040 to nine and access to Hollywood and Good Morning America, 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:37.800 and then you go to the Red Carpet years later 0:16:37.840 --> 0:16:40.640 and it's like, hey, the Cleveland Gazette, Jared, come talk 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:43.240 to us, like, oh, I would love nothing more. Yes, 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:46.320 please ask for me. You're like, you want to talk 0:16:46.360 --> 0:16:49.800 to me? Oh my, I'll talk to you for an 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:51.160 hour if you want. What do you want? And then 0:16:51.200 --> 0:16:53.120 they asked us like they asked us like two questions 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:55.280 each and it was like literally thirty second interviews. And 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:57.560 then I was like, all right, see you it's always 0:16:57.560 --> 0:16:59.600 about other people. They're like, do you have anything about 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:01.320 the Victoria a great thing? You're like no, I don't 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:03.040 really know him. They're like, okay, you have a good one, 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:07.720 all right bye, thank you. Unately, we have a we 0:17:07.760 --> 0:17:09.680 have a fresh engagement. So they asked us at least 0:17:09.680 --> 0:17:12.960 like pertinent questions, but it was. It was a sobering experience, 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.520 not in a bad way, not in a bad way. 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:18.240 And even I just got a haircut yesterday and the styler, 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:21.480 the hair cutter, the stylist was she's like, your your 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:24.160 Dean from The Bachelor, right, And I was like, yeah, yeah, 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:25.800 I'm I was on that show. And she's like, you 0:17:25.880 --> 0:17:28.240 must get recognized all the time, and I was like, yeah, 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:31.560 you know, no, I don't. I did a long time ago. 0:17:31.760 --> 0:17:34.600 And I get maybe like one person two people a 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:37.040 month that are like, hey, you're that guy. So it's 0:17:37.040 --> 0:17:40.399 definitely died. Hey you're that guy. Bro. I'm like, you're right, 0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:43.080 I am this guy. I'm the guy. I am a guy. 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:46.440 My name is Dean Um. But yeah, so that's that's 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:49.080 my little soapbox. I guess about. I heard Radio Music Festival. 0:17:49.119 --> 0:17:50.840 It was a blast. If you guys have the chance 0:17:50.880 --> 0:17:55.440 to go, you have to go. It was very very fun. Um. Well, 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:58.000 before we get into so we're gonna have callers this week. 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:00.720 Usually we do two episod it's a week we have 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:03.200 the callers on Thursdays. But we don't have a guest today, 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:06.399 so we figured let's bring on three guests a k 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:08.440 the callers on this podcast, So we're all going to 0:18:08.520 --> 0:18:11.800 do it this week today, callers best part of the 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:14.800 episode are coming up. We do have some dating trends 0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:17.000 that I want to get into, the top eight dating 0:18:17.000 --> 0:18:21.760 trends of two heading into But before we do that, 0:18:21.840 --> 0:18:34.159 let's take a quick break. All right, welcome back to 0:18:34.160 --> 0:18:36.679 help I suck at dating Dean and myself. We have 0:18:36.720 --> 0:18:39.720 some callers coming up to answer your questions about dating. 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:41.200 Before we do that, I didn't want to get into 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:43.640 this article that I saw in Mashable, the top eight 0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:48.840 dating trends of twenty two. Luckily this doesn't really affect 0:18:48.880 --> 0:18:50.919 Dean and I because we don't date anymore. Do you 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:52.800 like do you go on dates with Kalen? Do you 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:58.120 guys plan dates? We get dinner at a restaurant four 0:18:58.160 --> 0:19:02.280 times a week, the same restaurant. Oh no, but we 0:19:02.359 --> 0:19:04.920 go on like dinner dates. You go on dinner dates 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:08.760 four times a week? Yeah, that's it's it's a combination 0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:11.360 of like going on dates and just being lazy because 0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:15.399 we hate cooking for ourselves. Um has she has been 0:19:15.440 --> 0:19:18.680 eating chicken lately, so she's been vegetarian for the past 0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:20.560 three years, and she's getting into chicken because she wants 0:19:20.560 --> 0:19:23.159 the protein content. And she's been cooking a little bit 0:19:23.160 --> 0:19:25.199 more for us, which has been delicious. Oh and I 0:19:25.240 --> 0:19:28.960 just bought us tickets to Avatar Way of Water next weekend, 0:19:29.200 --> 0:19:33.680 which that'll be exciting. Max. I don't know, I don't 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:36.120 think so, Actually, you should go see it. I yeah, 0:19:36.160 --> 0:19:37.239 I want to come. I want to see it. I mean, 0:19:37.240 --> 0:19:39.720 it's like a three hour epic. I'm you love the 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:43.840 first Avatar, right, I love that. That was the first. 0:19:44.280 --> 0:19:46.119