WEBVTT - David McRaney on the Science Behind Persuasion

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<v Speaker 1>M This is Mesters in Business with Very Results on

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<v Speaker 1>Bloomberg Radio. This week on the podcast, I have an

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<v Speaker 1>extra special and fascinating guests. His name is David McCraney

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<v Speaker 1>and he is a science journalist and author. I first

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<v Speaker 1>came to know David's work through his blog and book

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<v Speaker 1>You Are Not So Smart, which was a fun review

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<v Speaker 1>of all of the cognitive foibles and behavioral errors we

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<v Speaker 1>all make. But it turns out that David was looking

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<v Speaker 1>at how people change their minds, how you persuade people,

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<v Speaker 1>and he thought the answer was found in all of

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<v Speaker 1>these cognitive errors. And if you could only alert people

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<v Speaker 1>to the mistakes they were making, whether it be fact

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<v Speaker 1>checks or just showing them their biases uh and the

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<v Speaker 1>heuristics they use and the rules of thumb they use

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<v Speaker 1>that we're wrong, hey would come around and see the light.

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<v Speaker 1>And as it turns out, that approach is all wrong,

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<v Speaker 1>and his mia culpa is essentially this book How Minds Change.

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<v Speaker 1>It turns out that persuading people about their fundamental beliefs

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<v Speaker 1>involves a very very specific set of steps, starting with

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<v Speaker 1>they have to want to change. They have to be

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<v Speaker 1>willing to change, which only occurs when people come to

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<v Speaker 1>the realization that they believe something for perhaps reasons that

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<v Speaker 1>aren't very good, and it's a process, it's an exploration.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fascinating the people he's met with and discussed, whether

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<v Speaker 1>it's deep canvassing or street epistemology, or some of the

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<v Speaker 1>other methodologies that are used to persuade people that some

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<v Speaker 1>of their really controversial political beliefs are wrong. He's met

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<v Speaker 1>with various people from all everything from flat Arthur's to

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<v Speaker 1>antivactors to the folks who have left the Westboro Baptist Church,

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty notorious and controversial institution. I found this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>really to be tremendous and fascinating, and I think you

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<v Speaker 1>will also. With no further ado, my interview with David McRaney. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been a fan of your work and I thought

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<v Speaker 1>when this book came out it was a great opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to sit down and have a conversation with you. Before

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<v Speaker 1>we get to the book, let's talk a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your background. You started as a reporter covering everything

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<v Speaker 1>from Hurricane Katrina, test rockets for NASA, Halfway Home for

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<v Speaker 1>homeless people with HIV. What led you to becoming focused

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<v Speaker 1>on behavior in psychology. Well, I thought that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna do for a living. I was. I went

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<v Speaker 1>to school to university to study psychology. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>would be a therapist, got that degree. But then as

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<v Speaker 1>I was doing that, uh, there was a sign up

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<v Speaker 1>on campus that said opinionated in big helvetica font and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, I am that would mean that

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<v Speaker 1>seems what is that? And said, you know, come down

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<v Speaker 1>to the offices of the student newspaper. I went down

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<v Speaker 1>there and said, how does this work? They said, just

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<v Speaker 1>email us stuff. You have an opinions piece you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do. I'm like m and I I wrote a

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<v Speaker 1>really like uh sophomore thing about Starbucks on campus because

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<v Speaker 1>it was just about to come into campus. And I

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<v Speaker 1>wrote that and wrote a couple of things. And then

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<v Speaker 1>there was a study that had just recently come out,

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<v Speaker 1>and who knows if it's replicated or stood the test

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<v Speaker 1>of time, but it was when your favorite sports team loses,

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<v Speaker 1>men's sperm counts go down. And I thought, our team

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<v Speaker 1>at our school had lost every single game that year

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<v Speaker 1>so far? What does that mean for the future progeny alumni?

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<v Speaker 1>That's right? And I thought it would be a great

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<v Speaker 1>headline that would be funny. And the headline I wrote was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, evidence suggests the sperm counts reach record lows

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<v Speaker 1>on campus. And uh one of my professors laughed about

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<v Speaker 1>it and asked the whole class that they had read it,

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<v Speaker 1>but they didn't know that I was in the class.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh, way, this could be fun

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<v Speaker 1>So I switched to journalism, and you know, went all

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<v Speaker 1>the way through the student paper and then went into

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<v Speaker 1>print journalism and TV journalist. But I once I've reached

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<v Speaker 1>a certain point in that world, I wasn't able to

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<v Speaker 1>write anymore. I was doing editing and helping other people,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just really wanted to write something. And it

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<v Speaker 1>just happened blogs were becoming very popular that time. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>my dad says, and uh others that were like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's way later. I'm thinking back to uh Yahoo's geo

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<v Speaker 1>cities and ye world. I mean, I'm I'm the o

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<v Speaker 1>G when it comes to blogging, go way way back.

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<v Speaker 1>I just happened to be there when they blew up

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<v Speaker 1>on the point of like they got book deals and

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<v Speaker 1>I started a blog called you Were Not So Smart

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<v Speaker 1>about all the cognitive biases and fallacies and heroistics that

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<v Speaker 1>I really enjoyed, and I wrote a piece about brand

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<v Speaker 1>loyalty that went viral and the rest is history. That

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<v Speaker 1>was asked to write a book about it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I will continue playing in this world.

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<v Speaker 1>But I started. I started the podcast to promote the

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<v Speaker 1>second book because the first book did so well. They said,

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<v Speaker 1>and do another really quickly, and I did, you are

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<v Speaker 1>less dumb now? You are now less dumb yet? And

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<v Speaker 1>I just so happened to start a podcast right when

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<v Speaker 1>podcasts were becoming a thing. I sent an email to

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<v Speaker 1>Mark Mayren because he had the number one podcast. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you do this? And he actually sent me

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<v Speaker 1>an email with a a point really h like each

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<v Speaker 1>with links to Amazon items and no kidding, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was very nice. And I got all this stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>started it up, and that has now becomes from the centerpiece,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's uh, I was there when I got going.

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<v Speaker 1>My My pitch for this podcast was WTF meets Charlie Rose,

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody knew what w TF was. I mean, they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know the acronym, nor did they know the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you know, you have to be a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a comedy junkie to have found that in the

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<v Speaker 1>early days. Later on it was ubiquitous. So sticking with

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<v Speaker 1>journalism when you were still writing, you seem to have

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<v Speaker 1>covered some really unusual and interesting stories. Tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>one of the more surprising things that you covered. I

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<v Speaker 1>always wanted to do feature pieces. That was the world

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<v Speaker 1>that I loved, and that was always in journalism school

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, uh, Frank Sinatra has a cold, electricoli

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<v Speaker 1>ascid test. I just wanted to write features. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to be there in person and and like tell you

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<v Speaker 1>explore humanity from the inside out my way and I

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<v Speaker 1>the Halfway Home for HIV positive men for homeless people

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<v Speaker 1>in the Deep South. That was a real turning point

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<v Speaker 1>for me because there's uh. I had to spend about

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks on that story, and I visited all the

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<v Speaker 1>different people, went to all the different meetings, and the

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<v Speaker 1>homelessness is very invisible in the Deep South. They often live,

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<v Speaker 1>uh in the woods. You know, they're looking for us

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<v Speaker 1>and they there's a lot of people in the Deep South.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think there is a homeless problem. And that

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<v Speaker 1>was a really interesting way to break that story into

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<v Speaker 1>the public. You know, consciousness of no, no, there's a

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<v Speaker 1>problem here. It's just hidden from you in a very

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<v Speaker 1>particular way, and a lot of people aren't even wear

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<v Speaker 1>their organizations that dealt with that, and that really show

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<v Speaker 1>me this is the world I want to be and

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<v Speaker 1>this kind of stuff I want to do. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>picking up a theme in both your writing columns and books,

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<v Speaker 1>which is there's a problem you don't know about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hidden, and here it is. That's the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>Like hidden worlds are it for me? Like I grew

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<v Speaker 1>up in a trailer in the woods in the Deep South,

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<v Speaker 1>and as an only child, I was always searching for

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<v Speaker 1>the others. I didn't know how I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>get there, and once I got at a hand was

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<v Speaker 1>extended into this stage. It's all I want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I call him taramissoum moments because I remember the

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<v Speaker 1>first time you had tarremsa I was I went to.

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<v Speaker 1>It was when I was still in the working for

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<v Speaker 1>a TV station. We had a little conference where people

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<v Speaker 1>in my position went and we went there and we

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<v Speaker 1>got tarmiseu as a dessert and I remember took a

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<v Speaker 1>bite of it and I was like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so damn good. What what is this, and

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<v Speaker 1>everyone there was like, uh, it's Tarmissus, And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, yeah, termisous loved the stuff and and but

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. That's what I'm pursuing now. I want more

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<v Speaker 1>of those things. I didn't know. I didn't know. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really quite interesting. So I guess it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>natural that you evolve towards behavior and cognitive issues. I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to ask you what led to it, but

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like that's something you've been driving for your

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<v Speaker 1>whole career. Yeah, it's a unity through humility. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>we're all absolutely stumbling and fumbling in the dark and

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<v Speaker 1>pretending like we're we know we're up to even here

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<v Speaker 1>in these fantastic, you know, bloomberg offices, like uh. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing I want to avoid is the sense that I've

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<v Speaker 1>got it all figured out. And there are massive domains

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<v Speaker 1>in psychology, neuroscience, and other social sciences that just start

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<v Speaker 1>from that place and then investigate it. And I find

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<v Speaker 1>that when I discover these things that we all share

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<v Speaker 1>that should give us a pause, should cause us to

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<v Speaker 1>feel humility. I feel like I'm in the right spot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to like dig deeper into those places

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<v Speaker 1>and reveal them so we can all be on the

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<v Speaker 1>same page that way. So blind spots, unknown unknowns, things

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<v Speaker 1>that we are just clearly clueless about, and the biases

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<v Speaker 1>that they're When I started out, things like confirmation bias,

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't you know there wasn't as just the tip of

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<v Speaker 1>the tongue as it is now and survivorship bias, things

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<v Speaker 1>like that. So I noticed in this book nothing written

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<v Speaker 1>about Dunning Krueger, nothing about Chaldoni's persuasion. Is that a

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<v Speaker 1>different approach to decision making and psychology? Like or because

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<v Speaker 1>I always assume there would be a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>an overlap there, I didn't want to retread anything there.

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<v Speaker 1>There's some foundational stuff that I do talk about in

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<v Speaker 1>the book that feel like you can never not talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>some which go back a century and like the introspection

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<v Speaker 1>illusion has to always be uh talked about. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the antecedence to our thoughts, feelings, behaviors, but we

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<v Speaker 1>are very good at creating narratives to explain ourselves to ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you always have to mention that in any

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<v Speaker 1>book about this topic, as far as concern and so

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<v Speaker 1>there's a little bit of that. But like Dunning, Krueger

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<v Speaker 1>and uh all the other big heavy hitters, I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>did not want to write How to Win Friends and

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<v Speaker 1>Influence People, Part Two because I wanted to come from

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<v Speaker 1>a very different perspective on all this, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want it to be a book specifically about persuasion, because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even start talking about actual persuasion techniques still

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<v Speaker 1>about page two hundred, Like, I show you people who

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<v Speaker 1>are doing things that could be labeled as persuasion techniques,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't get into the like the science of

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<v Speaker 1>it till later. Other you mentioned Dunning Krueger. I I

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<v Speaker 1>just recently spent some time with Old Dunning, Professor David

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<v Speaker 1>Dunning he um a former guest on the show. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think he's that old. I think, yeah, I say

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<v Speaker 1>old in the chow me pat you on the back

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<v Speaker 1>cut of right he Uh. I keep asking to come

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<v Speaker 1>back on the show, but he's working on a new

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<v Speaker 1>project and he's a new book on Dunning Crew. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know that a lot of people has been

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<v Speaker 1>all these people who want to knock it down and

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<v Speaker 1>and he's there have been attempts, but none have really

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<v Speaker 1>landed a blow. So we helped him out, or he

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<v Speaker 1>helped us out. My good friend Johansson has a YouTube

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<v Speaker 1>channel and uh it does explore different science Stuff's called

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<v Speaker 1>be Smart, and we were talking about that recently. There

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<v Speaker 1>was a story about someone who, uh, the pilot you

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<v Speaker 1>went unconscious and they've landed the airplane but they got

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<v Speaker 1>help from the tower. And we were talking about that

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I feel like I could land

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<v Speaker 1>an airplane based off all my video game experience, and

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<v Speaker 1>Joe said he thought he could too, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this has got to be done in Kruger, right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I said it would be cool if you did a

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<v Speaker 1>video where you got into like one of those commercial

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<v Speaker 1>commercial flight simulator and they just said, yeah, I try,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, land knock yourself. And so he got I

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<v Speaker 1>get I got him in touch with Dunning, and Dunning

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I can't wait to be part of this project.

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<v Speaker 1>So he both interviews back and forth with Dunning before

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<v Speaker 1>and after, and of course he gets in the simulator

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<v Speaker 1>and they hand him the controls and they say, okay, landed,

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<v Speaker 1>and of course he crashed. And you crashed it three times.

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<v Speaker 1>That's impressive, you know. Even David Dunning tells a wonderful

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<v Speaker 1>story about they never expected the research paper Dunning Krueger

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<v Speaker 1>on metacognition to explode. And he goes, I never thought

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<v Speaker 1>about trademarking it. He goes, go on, go on Amazon.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll see Dunning Krueger University shirts, key chains, all sorts

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff. He goes, there's a million dollars there. I

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<v Speaker 1>just had no experience in that, and I got a

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<v Speaker 1>little Dunning crugerd did not did not think about the

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<v Speaker 1>commercial side of it. So there's a quote I want

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<v Speaker 1>to share because it sets up everything. Uh, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sort of cheating. It's from towards the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the book. We do this because we are social primates

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<v Speaker 1>who gather information in a bias manner for the purpose

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<v Speaker 1>of arguing for our individual perspectives in a pooled information

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<v Speaker 1>environment within a group that deliberates on shared plans of

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<v Speaker 1>actions towards a collective goal. Kind of sums up everything

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<v Speaker 1>we do in a US. That was a lot of work,

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<v Speaker 1>with years of work within that little little that A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of that comes from something that's called the interactions model. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>They're sort of a peanut butter and chocolate have come

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<v Speaker 1>up and in this book because I've spent years talking

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<v Speaker 1>to people through you are not so smart, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would argue that we're flawed and irrational, right, And that

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<v Speaker 1>was there was a big pop psychology movement for that

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<v Speaker 1>about a decade ago, things like predictably Irrational and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>even the work of Knomen Diversky, like a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the like interpretation of that was like, oh, look how

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<v Speaker 1>dumb we are, right, and look how easily fooled we're

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<v Speaker 1>Look how bad we were probabilities. And one of the

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<v Speaker 1>incepting moments of this book was I did a lecture

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<v Speaker 1>and somebody came up to me afterwards. Her father was

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<v Speaker 1>had slipped into a conspiracy theory, and she asked, what

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<v Speaker 1>do I do about that? And I told her nothing

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<v Speaker 1>like but I felt gross saying it. I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I was locking my keys in my car. I felt like,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I know enough to tell you that, but

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<v Speaker 1>I know I don't. And also I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be that that pessimistic and centicle. And at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>the attitudes and norms on same sex marriage the United

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<v Speaker 1>States had flipped like very rapidly, We're that. So those

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<v Speaker 1>two things together I was like, I would I want

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<v Speaker 1>to understand this better. So I invited on my podcast

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<v Speaker 1>Hugo mercy A and he teamed up with Dan Sperber

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<v Speaker 1>and they created something called the interactions model, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a model that I only want to talk to them about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, changing minds, arguing, and it opened up this

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<v Speaker 1>whole world and through them, I also met with Tom Stafford,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's the interactionist model, and there's the truth wind scenario,

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<v Speaker 1>and those are sort of a peanut butter and chocolate

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<v Speaker 1>my come up. And it's because instead of looking at

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<v Speaker 1>people as being flawed in irrational, alsa is just as

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<v Speaker 1>biased and lazy, which is different. And what you're just

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<v Speaker 1>talking about what that paragraph is about the interactionist model,

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<v Speaker 1>which is uh, A lot of the research that went

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<v Speaker 1>into all those books from about a decade ago. They

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<v Speaker 1>were pulling from studies that were done on individuals and isolation.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when you pool all of their conclusions together

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<v Speaker 1>and you treat people as a group of people based

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<v Speaker 1>off that research, we do look kind of flawed, right,

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<v Speaker 1>we do look very irrational. But if you take that

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<v Speaker 1>exact same research and you allow people to do liberating groups,

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<v Speaker 1>you get much different reactions, much different responses, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>been furthered by the work of Tom Stafford. He's been

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<v Speaker 1>taking some of the old stuff from those old studies

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<v Speaker 1>and putting them to groups and even creating um social

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<v Speaker 1>media similarcrooms that work like Twitter and Facebook and stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>but have a totally different context, allows people to deliberate

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<v Speaker 1>and argue in different ways and you get much different results.

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<v Speaker 1>You get better results were much. A good example of

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<v Speaker 1>that is like, uh, you take something from the common

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<v Speaker 1>reflection task or something like a I'll make it real

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<v Speaker 1>simple so we don't have to like do any weird

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<v Speaker 1>math in their heads. Like you're running a race and

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<v Speaker 1>you pass the person in second place, what place you in?

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<v Speaker 1>And you know the intuitive answer You're start trying to

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<v Speaker 1>work it out in your head. But the answer one

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<v Speaker 1>if you like lean back, is well I replaced second place.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in second place. But if you ask people individually

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<v Speaker 1>you get a pretty high response fade where they get

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong answer. But if you take that exact same

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<v Speaker 1>question and you pose it to a group of people

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<v Speaker 1>and I do some lectures now and you say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna ask this question, keep the answer to yourself. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>does anyone to have the right answer. You know you

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<v Speaker 1>have the right answer. Raise your hand. Somebody raised their hand.

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<v Speaker 1>I say, okay, what's the answer. They give you the answer.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you say, explain your reasoning, and then they explain

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<v Speaker 1>the reasoning. When they give their answer, there will be

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<v Speaker 1>a grumble on the crowd. When they explain the reasoning

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<v Speaker 1>behind it, the crowd goes, Okay. Now, if you took

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's individual answer and pulled it together, you'd be like, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>this group got their wrong answer. But if you allow

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<v Speaker 1>that deliberation moment to take place where I explain how

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<v Speaker 1>reasoning to you, you get a group of people who

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<v Speaker 1>would go from eight percent in correct correct. And we

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<v Speaker 1>really set up for that. And the interactionist model is

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<v Speaker 1>all about this the work of Humorocity and Dan Spur

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<v Speaker 1>really have a great book about this, called The Enigma

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<v Speaker 1>of Reason. It's a it's not a light read, it's

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<v Speaker 1>really sort of you know, academic, but it's great because

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<v Speaker 1>they found, looking through the old research and their own

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<v Speaker 1>new research, that we have two cognitive systems, one for

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<v Speaker 1>producing arguments, one for evaluating arguments, and the one that

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<v Speaker 1>produces arguments does it very lazily and very in a

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<v Speaker 1>very biased manner. You can think of it like you

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<v Speaker 1>ask where do you want to go eat? And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I have three or four people after a movie like

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out in the lobby like I wanna I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go here, I want to go here, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go here, and UH they have biased reasons for that.

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<v Speaker 1>One person's says, hey, let's go get sushi, and the

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's like, we're over here and on my ex work there,

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<v Speaker 1>or or I someone to say I had sushi yesterday,

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<v Speaker 1>or I don't like sushi. That you can't predict what

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be the counter argument, so you to

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<v Speaker 1>present your most biased and lazy argument up front, and

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<v Speaker 1>you let the deliberation take place in the pooled UH

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<v Speaker 1>evaluation process. You all flow the cognitive labor to that

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<v Speaker 1>we're all familiar with doing that. Everyone has their ideas,

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<v Speaker 1>You trade back and forth, and we decide on the

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<v Speaker 1>group goal on the plan, which is what this evolved

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<v Speaker 1>to do. But we are also very familiar with the

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<v Speaker 1>way that plays out on the internet, which is not

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<v Speaker 1>good for an AUC is removed and you don't get

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<v Speaker 1>the same social cues coming right, So you get like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's say, my good friend Alistair Croll, who runs conferences.

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<v Speaker 1>He put it to me like this. He's like, on

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet, when you say, uh, I want a grilled

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<v Speaker 1>cheese sandwich, Uh, it's not an argument for for who

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<v Speaker 1>wants grilled cheese sandwiches? Should we get grilled cheese sandwiches

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<v Speaker 1>anywhere else? Agree with me? On the Internet, on most

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<v Speaker 1>of the platforms we use today, it's saying I want

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<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese sandwiches. Who wants to go with me to

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<v Speaker 1>the grilled cheese sandwich room? And so everyone who agrees

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<v Speaker 1>with that position and is already like, yeah, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to they get pulled off into a community

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<v Speaker 1>of people who want this and then a whole new

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<v Speaker 1>set of psychological act that was going to play, which

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<v Speaker 1>is all about being a social primate and being a community.

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<v Speaker 1>So there's no iteration, there's no debate, there's no consensus

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<v Speaker 1>forming as to what the best solution to that problem is.

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<v Speaker 1>You just have some salient issue and people form of

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<v Speaker 1>what looks like madness or what looks like some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of nefarious thing going down. One of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>the Internet gives us is the ability to group up

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<v Speaker 1>very quickly, and we are social prime rates. If we

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<v Speaker 1>go into a group, we start being worried about motivations

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<v Speaker 1>like I want to be a good member of my group,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be to be considered a trustworthy member

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<v Speaker 1>of my group, and so on, and you get a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of weird stuff we see today that that falls

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<v Speaker 1>into the domain of being polarized or being in a

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<v Speaker 1>system where everyone is. If you have in a group

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<v Speaker 1>people who agree with you in your current position, it's

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<v Speaker 1>very difficult to argue out of it because I can

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<v Speaker 1>always fall back to them from back and so that

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<v Speaker 1>that's some of the stuff that goes into that paragraph,

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<v Speaker 1>and it gets more complicated from there. But yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>that was very illuminating to me, and a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the new material in this book relates back to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Not that the earlier books were wrong or incorrect in anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>but I kind of took this as a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a mia Kalpa in terms of, hey, I was

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on one area, but really we need to focus

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<v Speaker 1>on a broader area in terms of not just why

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<v Speaker 1>we make these cognitive eras, but how you can change

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's mind who's trapped in some heuristic or other cognitive

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<v Speaker 1>problem that is leading them the wrong life. I did

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<v Speaker 1>not intend for this to be like some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>marketing phrase or trick, but it's the truth. But I

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<v Speaker 1>in writing a book of how Minds Change, I changed

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<v Speaker 1>my mind on a lot of stuff that I was

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<v Speaker 1>like depending on for like my career, and I'm happy

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. It feels really great to be on

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<v Speaker 1>the other side of some of these things and see

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<v Speaker 1>it more clearly and more, you know, more dimensionality to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's talk a little bit about the blog that

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<v Speaker 1>led to the books that really put you on the map.

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<v Speaker 1>You are not so smart? Um. I love the title

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<v Speaker 1>of this Why you have too many friends on Facebook?

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<v Speaker 1>Why your memory is mostly fiction? And forty six other

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<v Speaker 1>ways you're deluding yourself? Was there were there forty six chapters?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that just a random No? That was that was

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<v Speaker 1>exactly how many things are exploring in the book. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's great. So we already discussed what led you

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<v Speaker 1>to this area of research. Why did you decide to

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<v Speaker 1>go from blogging, which is easy in short form, to

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<v Speaker 1>writing a book, which anyone who has done it will

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<v Speaker 1>tell you it can be a bit of a slog

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<v Speaker 1>It was. Here's how that happened. I was just blogging

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<v Speaker 1>away back in the early days, and maybe you had

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<v Speaker 1>a thousand people reading my stuff. And that was back

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<v Speaker 1>way before medium and Twitter and any other way to

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<v Speaker 1>get your stuff out there. And when did you launch?

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<v Speaker 1>You are not so smart. I got into an argument

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<v Speaker 1>two of my friends about what was better the PlayStation

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<v Speaker 1>three of the Xbox three six. We got so mad

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<v Speaker 1>at each other that it was like I might not

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<v Speaker 1>be able to like hang out with them. And this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't a political Trump versus Biden debate. This is yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just the same psychology. And I couldn't get over, like,

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<v Speaker 1>why would I get mad about this? It's just a

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<v Speaker 1>box of wires and uh. And I, since I had

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<v Speaker 1>a background in psychology, I went and I had access

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<v Speaker 1>to the university library. I was I just was like,

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<v Speaker 1>there's got to be some material about this. And I

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<v Speaker 1>found a bunch of material and brand loyalty and identification

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<v Speaker 1>and group identity, and I wrote a little blog about it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I framed it as Apple versus PC. That we

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<v Speaker 1>mean those commercials were oute right there. And at that

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<v Speaker 1>time the blog Gizmoto had stolen the iPhone prototype. I

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<v Speaker 1>recall that, and like Steve Jobs, and they didn't steal it.

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<v Speaker 1>They found it in a bar. Found they found it

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<v Speaker 1>in a bar, and uh, Steve Jobs sent them emails says,

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<v Speaker 1>give me back my iPhone and they just they just

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<v Speaker 1>went for the hits and they super viral. And I

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<v Speaker 1>just assumed they had like a Google alert for stuff

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<v Speaker 1>written about Apple stuff. And I got an email said

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<v Speaker 1>can we reblog your blog post on this? And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, sure, And I went from a thousand

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<v Speaker 1>to two hundred and fifty thousand people, and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I should write a bunch of stuff on And so

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<v Speaker 1>that week I just started going like things in that

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<v Speaker 1>sort of area, and I wrote a lot more things

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<v Speaker 1>about like I learned helplessness and other issues, and I

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<v Speaker 1>had an audience and it and it was maybe four

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<v Speaker 1>months later. An agent reached out who had worked on

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<v Speaker 1>pre economics and said, I think this could be a book.

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<v Speaker 1>And she still my age. I actually met with her

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<v Speaker 1>two days. If I'm in town, I want to always

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<v Speaker 1>try to meet with because she changed my life. Alan

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<v Speaker 1>Bar amazing human being. And uh we turned it into

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<v Speaker 1>a book, and about half of it was already in

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<v Speaker 1>blog form. I wrote the rest of it for the

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<v Speaker 1>book and that book just really took off, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>still even today. It's like in nineteen different languages. It's

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<v Speaker 1>something every once in a while to beating number one

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<v Speaker 1>in a different country. It was recently number one in Vietnam.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's how I went from blog to book world.

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<v Speaker 1>But then they were like, hey, could you write another book?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, I sure can, and uh, I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to promote it. And at that time, podcasting had just

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<v Speaker 1>become a thing. I was listening to Radio Lab and

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<v Speaker 1>This American Life, and uh, I was like you, I

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<v Speaker 1>was listening to WTF and I said, I can. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do something like that, and I just started

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<v Speaker 1>up the podcast to promote it. And it just turned

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<v Speaker 1>out that the podcast was really where I could actually

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<v Speaker 1>explore this stuff, and I jumped into it. So so

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<v Speaker 1>there is a quote. I think this might be from

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<v Speaker 1>the back of the book. So I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>this is your words or a Blurbu'm stealing, but quote.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a growing body of work coming out of psychology

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<v Speaker 1>and cognitive science that says you have no clue why

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<v Speaker 1>you act the way you do, choose the things you choose,

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<v Speaker 1>or think the thoughts you think that's got the introspecting illusion,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's been a real centerpiece of my work for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. We don't have access to the antecedents

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<v Speaker 1>of our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, but we do have thoughts,

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<v Speaker 1>feelings of behaviors that requires some kind of explanation, and

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<v Speaker 1>we are very good at coming up with these post

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<v Speaker 1>hoc ad hawk rationalizations and justifications for what we're doing,

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<v Speaker 1>and those eventually become a narrative that we live by.

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<v Speaker 1>It becomes sort of the character we portray, and we

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<v Speaker 1>end up being an unreliable narrator in the story of

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<v Speaker 1>our own lives. And so the two it's like a

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<v Speaker 1>one two punch of you're unaware of how unaware you are,

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<v Speaker 1>and that leads you to being the unreliable narrator in

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<v Speaker 1>the story of your life. And that's fine, Like this

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<v Speaker 1>is something that is adaptive in most situations. But there's

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<v Speaker 1>when we get into some complex stuff like you know, politics,

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<v Speaker 1>running a business, designing an airplane. You should know about

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<v Speaker 1>some of these things because they'll get you into some

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<v Speaker 1>trouble that we never got into, you know, a hundred

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<v Speaker 1>thousand years ago. So a lot of this is evolutionary

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<v Speaker 1>baggage that we carry forward. But you touched on two

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite biases. One is the narrative fallacy that

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<v Speaker 1>we create these stories to explain what we're doing, as

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<v Speaker 1>well as hindsight bias, where after something happens, of course

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<v Speaker 1>we that was going to happen, We saw it coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about those two dies, well, they're the fallacy.

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<v Speaker 1>I love this. My good friend Will Store, who writes, um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a question I have for you love enemies of science.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Will so much. And he has a book

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<v Speaker 1>not too long ago he came up with the science

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<v Speaker 1>of storytelling, and uh, I love that domain all the

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<v Speaker 1>whole hero's journey, the Camp of Campbell. Right. The science

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<v Speaker 1>side of that is, most storytelling takes place exactly along

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<v Speaker 1>the same lines as retrospection. So your retrospection, looking back,

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<v Speaker 1>prospection looking forward. We tend to look back on our

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<v Speaker 1>own lives. As you know, we're the hero, were the protagonist,

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever we're looking at specifically, it's like, Okay, we

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<v Speaker 1>started out in this space, and then we went on

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<v Speaker 1>a exploratory journey, and then we eventually came back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>eventually we came back around with that new knowledge and

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<v Speaker 1>applied it. Yeah, yeah, you know that we have the

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<v Speaker 1>the synthesis and the anti thesis and all those things

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<v Speaker 1>are how we kind of see ourselves. Is how we

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<v Speaker 1>make sense of our past because we couldn't remember everything

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<v Speaker 1>that would be horrible we had, so we edit it

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<v Speaker 1>to be useful in that way. That's when when you're

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<v Speaker 1>watching a movie or reading a book and it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>seem to be work for you, it's because it's not

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<v Speaker 1>really playing nice with that retrospective system. But it's also

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<v Speaker 1>our personal narratives seemed to be very nice and tidy

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<v Speaker 1>in that way, and although they never are. If you've

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<v Speaker 1>ever told a story about something with someone who was

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<v Speaker 1>also there and they're like, it didn't happen that. My

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<v Speaker 1>wife says that all the time, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>what experience he had, but I was there, None of

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. That's right, And you, uh, if without people

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<v Speaker 1>to check you, what does that say? It says that

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<v Speaker 1>a whole lot of you, what you believe is the

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<v Speaker 1>story of your life is one of those things that

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<v Speaker 1>if we had a perfect diary of it or a

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<v Speaker 1>recording of it, or someone who was there who could

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<v Speaker 1>challenge you, it wasn't exactly the way you think it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was the professor after was it nine eleven or

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<v Speaker 1>some big events had everybody right down their notes as

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<v Speaker 1>to what they saw, what they felt, what they were experiencing.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I guess these were freshmen and then by

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<v Speaker 1>the time they become seniors they circle back and asked them,

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<v Speaker 1>now it's three years later, and not only do they

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<v Speaker 1>misremember it, but when showing their own notes, they disagree

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<v Speaker 1>with themselves. Yeah. Yeah, that's been repeated a few times.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll talk about it and how mind changed. Robert Burton

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<v Speaker 1>did this experiment after the Challenger incident. That was that

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<v Speaker 1>was the big one, right, But the one that in

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<v Speaker 1>that study was when it's signaling above the noise. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the most amazing part of it. You they have

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<v Speaker 1>you to write down whatever happened, at what you thought happened.

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<v Speaker 1>They also do a prospection wise, I think they've done

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<v Speaker 1>they've done it where you tell me what you think

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<v Speaker 1>is going to happen, and you put into a Manila envelope,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the thing happened, you know, whatever event takes place,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you ask people, what did you what did

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<v Speaker 1>you predict? Was going to happen, and they tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>I predicted exactly what happened. You take it out of

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<v Speaker 1>the minial envelope and it's not that and they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, there's no way. But even though that's my handwriting,

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<v Speaker 1>I never would have written. And that's the weirdest thing

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<v Speaker 1>in the in the Challenger study, uh, when he showed

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<v Speaker 1>people that their memory was absolutely not what they thought

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<v Speaker 1>it was, their first reaction was to say, you're tricking me, like,

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<v Speaker 1>like this is you wrote this, like somebody else wrote this.

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<v Speaker 1>And that seems so similar to something called anasignosia. And

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<v Speaker 1>anasignosia is the denial of disorder. And you can have

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<v Speaker 1>like a lesion or a brain injury that it calls

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<v Speaker 1>some something that's wrong in your body. But then on

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<v Speaker 1>top of that, you have this other thing, which is

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<v Speaker 1>denial of the thing that's wrong your body. So I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen cases where people have an arm that doesn't function properly,

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<v Speaker 1>and they'll ask, like, why can't you lift your arm?

0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:17.919
<v Speaker 1>Why can't you pick up this pencil? And they'll and

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<v Speaker 1>they'll say, oh, what do you do? And I can

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<v Speaker 1>pick that up? But what's going on with this arm?

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's my mom's arm. She's playing a joke on

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<v Speaker 1>me right now. Like the split brain patients where they

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand what they're seeing when they come up with

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<v Speaker 1>This is the greatest example we've been discussing is if

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<v Speaker 1>you if you have someone who has a they called

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<v Speaker 1>split brain patient, the corpus colos and that connects the

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<v Speaker 1>two hemispheres. They corpus colosomy is often performed when a

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<v Speaker 1>person has a certain kind of they have seizures that

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<v Speaker 1>they don't want a cascade. Um, you end up with

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<v Speaker 1>basically two brains, and you can use a divider so

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<v Speaker 1>that one I is going to one hemisphere wives going

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<v Speaker 1>the other. You can show a person in image. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>say you show them a terrible carrec mangled bodies, and

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<v Speaker 1>they feel very sick. But the portion of and you're

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<v Speaker 1>showing that too, is not the portion that delivers language.

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<v Speaker 1>So then you ask the person who is feeling sick,

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<v Speaker 1>why you feel sick right now? What's going on? They say, Oh,

0:28:06.840 --> 0:28:08.399
<v Speaker 1>I had something bad at lunch. You have we we

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<v Speaker 1>will very quickly come up with a narrative and our

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<v Speaker 1>explanation for what we're experiencing, and we do so believing

0:28:13.440 --> 0:28:15.880
<v Speaker 1>that narrative, even if that narrative is way far away

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<v Speaker 1>from what's actually taking place. So let's quickly run through

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<v Speaker 1>some of our favorite cognitive bias is going to be tested.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope I remember this. Let's go, um. Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>start with an easy one. Confirmation bias. Confirmation bias. When

0:28:28.240 --> 0:28:31.359
<v Speaker 1>people write about confirmation bias, they usually get it pretty wrong. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the way it confirms. It's a great way to

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<v Speaker 1>put it. The least sexy term in psychology is that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense stopping rule. You think they come up with

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<v Speaker 1>a better phrase, and that that just means when I

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<v Speaker 1>go looking for an explanation of something, when when it finally,

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<v Speaker 1>when it makes sense, I'll stop looking for information. Confirmation

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<v Speaker 1>bias is what happens. Here's the way I prefer to

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<v Speaker 1>frame it. Let's say you're at a tent in the woods.

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<v Speaker 1>You hear a weird sound and you think, oh, that

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<v Speaker 1>might be a bear. I should go look. So what

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<v Speaker 1>you have a negative effect in your body, you have

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<v Speaker 1>an anxiety. You go out looking for confirmation that that

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<v Speaker 1>anxiety is just or reasonable because as a social aspect

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<v Speaker 1>to it at all times, because we can't escape our

0:29:09.400 --> 0:29:12.440
<v Speaker 1>social selves, and so you're looking and maybe you don't

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:14.280
<v Speaker 1>find it, you know, maybe you don't find evidence that

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<v Speaker 1>points in that direction. Eventually you you modify your behavior

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<v Speaker 1>based off what you see with your flash lie. If

0:29:19.760 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 1>you do that online though an environment that's an information

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<v Speaker 1>rich environment. You have some sort of anxiety and you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for justification that that anxiety is uh is reasonable.

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<v Speaker 1>You'll find it. You'll find something right, and that will

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<v Speaker 1>confirm that you that your search was was good and

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<v Speaker 1>justified and reasonable to other human beings. So confirmation bo

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:41.920
<v Speaker 1>is very simply is just something happens that doesn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to disambiguate it. It's uncertain. You want to

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<v Speaker 1>reach some level of certainty. So you look for information

0:29:46.600 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 1>that based off your hunch, your hypothesis, and then when

0:29:50.200 --> 0:29:53.920
<v Speaker 1>you find information that seems to it's like confirm your hunch.

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:56.720
<v Speaker 1>You stop looking as if you like, did some something wrong,

0:29:56.960 --> 0:29:59.880
<v Speaker 1>as if you solved it. Why don't we as a species, look,

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<v Speaker 1>we're disconfirming information just to validate in most situations is

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<v Speaker 1>not adaptive, like confirmation bias is actually the right move

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<v Speaker 1>in most situations, Like if you're looking for your keys,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, you don't go looking for your keys

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<v Speaker 1>on Mars. You go looking for them in your kitchen, right,

0:30:14.040 --> 0:30:16.720
<v Speaker 1>and like it's the faster solution, and most of our

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<v Speaker 1>most of these biases go back to the adaptive thing

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<v Speaker 1>is the thing that costs the least calories and and

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:23.960
<v Speaker 1>gets you to this solution as quickly as possible, so

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<v Speaker 1>you can go back to trying to find food not

0:30:25.520 --> 0:30:28.440
<v Speaker 1>getting eaten. And in this case, most of the time,

0:30:28.600 --> 0:30:30.680
<v Speaker 1>most of the time confirmation bias serves as well. It's

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<v Speaker 1>in those instances where it really doesn't serve as well

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<v Speaker 1>that we end up with things like you know, climate

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<v Speaker 1>change or what have you. What about ego depletion, Oh, man,

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<v Speaker 1>ego depletion is one of the things that boy that

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<v Speaker 1>it goes back and forth. Uh. The original scientists are

0:30:43.960 --> 0:30:46.720
<v Speaker 1>still like hardcore into it. I love it. Uh. Whether

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<v Speaker 1>or not ego depletion is properly like defined or categorized,

0:30:51.640 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 1>the phenomenon does exist. The actual mechanisms of it aren't

0:30:54.440 --> 0:30:57.920
<v Speaker 1>well understood. But when you have been faced with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of cognitive tasks, uh, you start to have a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time completing more cognitive task and in general, hum

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<v Speaker 1>as well as issues that require willpower and discipline. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So the more you the more you use willpower, the

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<v Speaker 1>less willpower you have to use. It's finite, not not unended.

0:31:15.800 --> 0:31:18.000
<v Speaker 1>And this is not well understood a lot of the like,

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<v Speaker 1>here's why this is happening, Like haven't I failed to replicate?

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<v Speaker 1>So we have this phenomenon, but we still don't quite

0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:25.160
<v Speaker 1>understand what is the mechanism under allowing it. Well, let

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<v Speaker 1>me do one last one. The Benjamin Franklin And that's

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite Benjamin Franklin effect goes back to you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of my new book is is as in

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<v Speaker 1>this domain of justification and rationalization. Um, Benjamin Franklin had

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<v Speaker 1>someone who was opposing him at every turn. I call

0:31:39.320 --> 0:31:41.080
<v Speaker 1>him a hater in the in the previous book, back

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:44.000
<v Speaker 1>when that was a term. Yeah, and uh, he just

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:46.440
<v Speaker 1>had this political opponent that he, uh, he knew was

0:31:46.440 --> 0:31:48.360
<v Speaker 1>going to cause him real problems for the next thing

0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:51.080
<v Speaker 1>he was going up for. And uh, he also knew

0:31:51.080 --> 0:31:53.960
<v Speaker 1>that this guy had a really nice book collection. And

0:31:54.000 --> 0:31:56.560
<v Speaker 1>everybody also knew that Benjamin Franklin had a nice book collection,

0:31:57.120 --> 0:31:59.320
<v Speaker 1>and so he sent them a letter and said, there's

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:00.720
<v Speaker 1>a book that I've always wanted to read. But I

0:32:00.720 --> 0:32:02.560
<v Speaker 1>can never find I hear you've got a copy of it. No,

0:32:03.200 --> 0:32:05.640
<v Speaker 1>the who knows it seems from reading the literature that

0:32:05.800 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 1>been Refrancla totally had this book. And uh, but the

0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:10.280
<v Speaker 1>guy gave him the book as a favor, and he

0:32:10.360 --> 0:32:12.440
<v Speaker 1>was like very honored that been re Franklin asked for it.

0:32:12.880 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 1>I like to think of Benjamin Franklin just like put

0:32:14.400 --> 0:32:16.800
<v Speaker 1>it on a shelf and then wait, wait, waited a month,

0:32:16.840 --> 0:32:19.280
<v Speaker 1>and then took it back to him. Um, but he said,

0:32:19.280 --> 0:32:21.800
<v Speaker 1>thank you, I'm forever in your debt. You're the best.

0:32:22.040 --> 0:32:24.040
<v Speaker 1>And from that point forward, that guy never said another

0:32:24.080 --> 0:32:26.680
<v Speaker 1>negative thing about Benjamin Franklin. So what that comes down

0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 1>to is I just observed my own behavior. I did

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:31.719
<v Speaker 1>something that produced cognitive dissonance. I have a negative attitude

0:32:31.760 --> 0:32:33.200
<v Speaker 1>toward ben or Franklin, but I did something that a

0:32:33.240 --> 0:32:36.240
<v Speaker 1>person with a positive attitude would do. So I must

0:32:36.240 --> 0:32:38.680
<v Speaker 1>either think a strange thing about who I am and

0:32:38.760 --> 0:32:40.440
<v Speaker 1>what I'm doing, or I could just take the easy

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:43.160
<v Speaker 1>rout out and go I like Benjamin Franklin. And that's

0:32:43.200 --> 0:32:45.680
<v Speaker 1>that I think called that the Benjamin Franklin effect. I

0:32:45.720 --> 0:32:49.040
<v Speaker 1>find that really just fascinating that there are two phrases

0:32:49.080 --> 0:32:51.680
<v Speaker 1>that I'm in a note of in one of the

0:32:51.680 --> 0:32:55.560
<v Speaker 1>books that I have to ask about extinction burst, and

0:32:55.600 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 1>I have to ask what is wrong with Catharsis. Catharsis

0:32:59.800 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 1>the stincionburst is a real thing that I love. Uh.

0:33:02.360 --> 0:33:04.120
<v Speaker 1>I see that everywhere I see. I see that all

0:33:04.240 --> 0:33:06.680
<v Speaker 1>in society right now in many different ways. That extinction

0:33:06.760 --> 0:33:09.720
<v Speaker 1>bursts is u when you have a behavior that has

0:33:09.720 --> 0:33:13.640
<v Speaker 1>been enforced many many times, and you it's your body

0:33:13.720 --> 0:33:16.280
<v Speaker 1>even expects that you're going to perform this behavior, and

0:33:16.440 --> 0:33:18.920
<v Speaker 1>you start doing something like say dieting, or you're trying

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:20.800
<v Speaker 1>to keep smoking, or you're trying to do you're trying

0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:23.920
<v Speaker 1>to just extinguish the behavior. Right at the moment before

0:33:23.960 --> 0:33:27.520
<v Speaker 1>it fully extinguishes, you will have a little hissy fit.

0:33:27.640 --> 0:33:30.960
<v Speaker 1>You'll have a as they say back home, um, you'll

0:33:31.000 --> 0:33:34.440
<v Speaker 1>have a toddler outburst sort of thing where you're all

0:33:34.480 --> 0:33:37.080
<v Speaker 1>of your systems, cognitive systems are saying, why don't we

0:33:37.120 --> 0:33:39.440
<v Speaker 1>really really try to do that thing again, because we're

0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:43.600
<v Speaker 1>about to lose it? And the they call this an

0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:46.040
<v Speaker 1>extinction bursts. That moment of like if you're watching it

0:33:46.080 --> 0:33:48.080
<v Speaker 1>on a slope, it's sloping down down, down, down, and

0:33:48.120 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 1>there's a huge spike. And that could either be the

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:54.720
<v Speaker 1>moment you go back to smoking or relapse, or the fish.

0:33:54.840 --> 0:33:56.479
<v Speaker 1>It could be the death rottle. Depends on how you

0:33:56.560 --> 0:33:58.719
<v Speaker 1>how you deal with your extinction burst. I thought that

0:33:58.760 --> 0:34:02.640
<v Speaker 1>was fascinating, And then of Tharsis comes up. Why is

0:34:02.720 --> 0:34:09.279
<v Speaker 1>the concept of that cathartic surrender or finish the things problematic?

0:34:09.520 --> 0:34:13.040
<v Speaker 1>It's related to the extverse. There's a for a while

0:34:13.040 --> 0:34:15.879
<v Speaker 1>there this, especially in like nineteen fifties psychology, the idea

0:34:15.920 --> 0:34:17.560
<v Speaker 1>that like just get it out, you know, like like

0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:19.920
<v Speaker 1>if you're angry, go beat up a punching bag or

0:34:20.760 --> 0:34:22.960
<v Speaker 1>yell at people from the safety of your car. Yeah.

0:34:22.960 --> 0:34:24.520
<v Speaker 1>There used to be a thing in like the eighties

0:34:24.560 --> 0:34:30.520
<v Speaker 1>scream therapy. Yeah, I recall the unfortunately primal scream. Yeah.

0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:35.640
<v Speaker 1>Unfortunately or fortunately. Uh, the evidence, the evidence suggests that

0:34:36.080 --> 0:34:38.920
<v Speaker 1>what this does is reward you for the behavior, and uh,

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 1>you maintain that level of anger and anxiety and frustrations.

0:34:42.520 --> 0:34:46.480
<v Speaker 1>It's self rewarding, yea. And so it's uh, there are

0:34:46.480 --> 0:34:49.160
<v Speaker 1>ways to have cathartic experiences, but the ones where you

0:34:49.200 --> 0:34:51.680
<v Speaker 1>reward yourself for being angry tend to keep you angry

0:34:51.760 --> 0:34:54.200
<v Speaker 1>that that makes a lot of sense. And last question

0:34:54.200 --> 0:34:57.400
<v Speaker 1>on you are not so smart? Do we ever really

0:34:57.520 --> 0:35:01.160
<v Speaker 1>know things or do we just have a feeling of knowing?

0:35:02.880 --> 0:35:06.279
<v Speaker 1>Is an unanswerable question, thankfully, Uh from from you? No, No,

0:35:06.480 --> 0:35:09.120
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I feel like I know. That's uh.

0:35:09.320 --> 0:35:12.240
<v Speaker 1>Here's what's important to know about the Certainty is an emotion.

0:35:12.280 --> 0:35:14.239
<v Speaker 1>This is something that gets me in trouble. I think

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 1>in like rationalists and uh, you know, circles. But I

0:35:17.160 --> 0:35:19.280
<v Speaker 1>won't get you in trouble here. Well, thank you, because

0:35:19.320 --> 0:35:22.040
<v Speaker 1>like the the ideas like facts not feelings or your

0:35:22.440 --> 0:35:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, let's not get emotional, let's not make emotional appeals. Uh,

0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:31.160
<v Speaker 1>there's no dividing emotion from cognition. Emotion is cognition, and

0:35:31.320 --> 0:35:33.240
<v Speaker 1>certainty is one of those things that lets you bridge

0:35:33.239 --> 0:35:36.239
<v Speaker 1>the two because certainty is the emergent property of networks

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:39.120
<v Speaker 1>waiting something in one direction or another, and you feel like,

0:35:39.239 --> 0:35:40.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, if you want to do percentage wise, it's

0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:42.880
<v Speaker 1>is you can feel it. I ask you percentage wise,

0:35:42.920 --> 0:35:45.919
<v Speaker 1>like if I ask you did you have eggs last

0:35:45.960 --> 0:35:48.439
<v Speaker 1>week on Tuesday? And you're like, I think I did,

0:35:48.520 --> 0:35:50.560
<v Speaker 1>and like, well, like on a scale from one to ten,

0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:53.319
<v Speaker 1>like on a percentage wise on Saturday morning, I went

0:35:53.400 --> 0:35:56.640
<v Speaker 1>to the dinner, I had eggs. So that feeling that

0:35:56.719 --> 0:36:02.320
<v Speaker 1>you're getting, there's something generating that deepeealing, right, So the

0:36:02.360 --> 0:36:05.640
<v Speaker 1>feeling of knowing is something that's separate from knowing, but

0:36:05.920 --> 0:36:08.040
<v Speaker 1>as far as subjectively, it's the exact same thing. We

0:36:08.040 --> 0:36:10.120
<v Speaker 1>only get to see this objectively in some way, especially

0:36:10.120 --> 0:36:12.040
<v Speaker 1>in those like open up the middle envelope, let's see

0:36:12.040 --> 0:36:15.200
<v Speaker 1>what you actually said. So this is a pet peeve

0:36:15.280 --> 0:36:18.719
<v Speaker 1>of mind because here in finance there is this, for

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 1>lack of a better phrase, meme that the markets hate uncertainty,

0:36:24.040 --> 0:36:26.279
<v Speaker 1>and whenever people are talking about what's going to happen

0:36:26.280 --> 0:36:30.960
<v Speaker 1>in the future, well, it's very uncertain, to which I say, well,

0:36:31.000 --> 0:36:34.399
<v Speaker 1>the future is always inherently uncertain. When things are going

0:36:34.400 --> 0:36:37.880
<v Speaker 1>along fine and the market's going up, we feel okay

0:36:37.920 --> 0:36:40.800
<v Speaker 1>with our uncertainty, so we can lie to ourselves about

0:36:40.800 --> 0:36:43.480
<v Speaker 1>it very very easily, exactly. But when everything is terrible,

0:36:43.560 --> 0:36:46.960
<v Speaker 1>the markets are down, the Feds raising rates, inflation, Oh,

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:50.719
<v Speaker 1>the market hates uncertainty. Now at the uncertainty level, you

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:53.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't know the future before, you don't know the future now,

0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:55.920
<v Speaker 1>but you can no longer lie to yourself and you

0:36:56.000 --> 0:36:58.680
<v Speaker 1>have a sense of of what's going on. This is,

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 1>by the way, a very out liar view, because everybody

0:37:01.800 --> 0:37:03.799
<v Speaker 1>loves the uncertain. So well, I'm happy to sit here,

0:37:03.840 --> 0:37:05.879
<v Speaker 1>I despise. I'm happy to sit here and surrounded about

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:08.600
<v Speaker 1>all these people and take the position of, uh, you're

0:37:08.680 --> 0:37:12.840
<v Speaker 1>very wrong. Uh, the they are less smart. There is

0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:16.200
<v Speaker 1>no such thing as certainty. This is, you know, from

0:37:16.200 --> 0:37:19.879
<v Speaker 1>the scientific or psychological even philosophical domain. Everything is probabilistic

0:37:19.920 --> 0:37:23.000
<v Speaker 1>and we can like hedge our bets, but the concept

0:37:23.000 --> 0:37:24.920
<v Speaker 1>of certainty is way outside the domain of any of

0:37:24.920 --> 0:37:27.520
<v Speaker 1>these topics. Yeah, and and well, we'll talk about bertrand

0:37:27.560 --> 0:37:30.640
<v Speaker 1>Russell later. But it's a quote from your book that

0:37:31.239 --> 0:37:33.920
<v Speaker 1>always makes me think, well, let's let's talk about it now,

0:37:33.960 --> 0:37:38.719
<v Speaker 1>because it's such an interesting observation quote. The observer when

0:37:38.760 --> 0:37:42.360
<v Speaker 1>he seems to himself be observing a stone is really,

0:37:42.840 --> 0:37:46.160
<v Speaker 1>if physics is to be believed, observing the effects of

0:37:46.200 --> 0:37:50.400
<v Speaker 1>the stone upon himself. Right, Isn't that awesome? That is

0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:54.200
<v Speaker 1>right from this book How Minds Change by Day Man Here,

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:56.359
<v Speaker 1>it's a good book. The U I got that from

0:37:56.520 --> 0:38:00.920
<v Speaker 1>interviewing the Lately Ross who created the term naive realism.

0:38:01.320 --> 0:38:03.960
<v Speaker 1>It's another phrase I love, and this this is a

0:38:04.000 --> 0:38:05.600
<v Speaker 1>way to kind of get into naive realism. N I

0:38:05.640 --> 0:38:07.520
<v Speaker 1>realism is the assumption that you're getting a sort of

0:38:07.520 --> 0:38:10.160
<v Speaker 1>a video camera view of the world through your eyeballs,

0:38:10.640 --> 0:38:12.640
<v Speaker 1>and that you're storing your memories and some sort of

0:38:12.960 --> 0:38:17.120
<v Speaker 1>database like a hard drive and uh, and that when

0:38:17.120 --> 0:38:20.520
<v Speaker 1>I ask your opinion on say, uh, immigration or gun control,

0:38:20.600 --> 0:38:23.120
<v Speaker 1>that whatever you tell me came from you went down

0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 1>to the bowels of your castle to your scrolls and

0:38:25.440 --> 0:38:27.920
<v Speaker 1>pulled out the scrolls by candle light and read them all.

0:38:27.960 --> 0:38:30.200
<v Speaker 1>And then one day came up from that and emerged

0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 1>from the staircase and raised your finger and said, ha,

0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:35.960
<v Speaker 1>this is what I think about gun control. And it

0:38:36.239 --> 0:38:39.520
<v Speaker 1>minded what what's invisible in the process or what becomes

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:42.000
<v Speaker 1>invisible when we're at we're tasked with explaining ourselves. Is

0:38:42.040 --> 0:38:45.560
<v Speaker 1>that uh, all the rationalization and justification and all the

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:48.239
<v Speaker 1>interpretation that you've done, and all the elaboration, these all

0:38:48.239 --> 0:38:52.520
<v Speaker 1>these psychological terms, and that you Uh. This concept of

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:55.520
<v Speaker 1>nairealism is that you see reality for what it is

0:38:55.640 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 1>and other people are mistaken when you get into moments

0:38:58.200 --> 0:39:02.000
<v Speaker 1>of conflict and the The thing that bergand Russell said

0:39:02.000 --> 0:39:04.520
<v Speaker 1>is so nice because he is alluding to the fact

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:08.480
<v Speaker 1>that all reality's virtual reality, that the subjective experiences is

0:39:08.640 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 1>very limited, with the German psychologists called an un velt

0:39:12.640 --> 0:39:17.040
<v Speaker 1>the thing related to naive realism that was so surprising

0:39:17.040 --> 0:39:19.480
<v Speaker 1>in the book. And we keep alluding to evolution in

0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:24.240
<v Speaker 1>various things. I did not realize that the optic nerve

0:39:24.520 --> 0:39:28.120
<v Speaker 1>does not perceive the world in three D. It's only

0:39:28.480 --> 0:39:32.040
<v Speaker 1>two dimensional. And okay, so we have two eyes, so

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:35.239
<v Speaker 1>we were able to create an illusion of depth of

0:39:35.480 --> 0:39:38.640
<v Speaker 1>a third dimension, but the human eye does not see

0:39:38.680 --> 0:39:41.879
<v Speaker 1>the world in full three Yeah. I just while while

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:44.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm in visiting New York, I spent time with Pascal

0:39:44.440 --> 0:39:46.319
<v Speaker 1>who's in the book, and he's the one who like

0:39:46.800 --> 0:39:49.719
<v Speaker 1>ram me through all this. That's amazing, isn't it. It's uh,

0:39:50.000 --> 0:39:52.520
<v Speaker 1>the retina. I mean, you know, obviously at microscopic levels

0:39:52.520 --> 0:39:54.759
<v Speaker 1>it's three dimensional, but for the purpose of the vision,

0:39:54.760 --> 0:39:59.040
<v Speaker 1>it's a two dimensional sheet. And so we create within

0:39:59.120 --> 0:40:01.960
<v Speaker 1>consciousness the third dimension. But it's an illusion, just like

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:04.600
<v Speaker 1>every color is an elite. It's a very realistic illusion,

0:40:04.600 --> 0:40:07.600
<v Speaker 1>but it's an illusion, right, And and that's why paintings

0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:09.920
<v Speaker 1>can look nice because you play with the rules of

0:40:09.920 --> 0:40:15.080
<v Speaker 1>illusions that to create depth. And even people who who

0:40:15.239 --> 0:40:19.719
<v Speaker 1>gained vision late in life, the understanding depth and three

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:21.840
<v Speaker 1>dimensionality is something that takes a lot of experience. You

0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:23.880
<v Speaker 1>have to learn how to do it. And they oftentimes

0:40:23.880 --> 0:40:26.440
<v Speaker 1>they'll in experiments with people who just gained vision late

0:40:26.440 --> 0:40:29.880
<v Speaker 1>in life, they'll like put a telephone and run like

0:40:29.920 --> 0:40:31.879
<v Speaker 1>far away from them, and they'll they'll try to reach

0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 1>out to it. It's like thirty ft away because you

0:40:34.080 --> 0:40:36.279
<v Speaker 1>have to learn depth. That's something that we learned over time.

0:40:36.360 --> 0:40:38.600
<v Speaker 1>We you know, we did as children. Who don't you remember,

0:40:38.640 --> 0:40:41.240
<v Speaker 1>you don't really think about it. So let's talk about

0:40:41.280 --> 0:40:44.040
<v Speaker 1>how minds change. And I want to start by asking

0:40:44.560 --> 0:40:49.400
<v Speaker 1>how did a flat earther inspire this book? They actually

0:40:49.400 --> 0:40:51.160
<v Speaker 1>came in a little later in the process. I was

0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:55.880
<v Speaker 1>there was a documentary on Netflix. You may have seen it,

0:40:56.320 --> 0:40:59.759
<v Speaker 1>Behind the Curve, uh, and the producers of that were

0:41:00.080 --> 0:41:02.359
<v Speaker 1>ends of my podcast, and then they grabbed a couple

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:03.960
<v Speaker 1>of my guests for the show and everything, and I

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:05.239
<v Speaker 1>thought it would be you know, I would love to

0:41:05.280 --> 0:41:07.279
<v Speaker 1>help promote something. I didn't know this, but someone told

0:41:07.280 --> 0:41:09.200
<v Speaker 1>me I was in the credits and I looked in

0:41:09.239 --> 0:41:11.040
<v Speaker 1>the credits it was like, you know David, thanks to

0:41:11.080 --> 0:41:13.120
<v Speaker 1>David McRaney, And I was like, oh wow. So I

0:41:13.160 --> 0:41:15.239
<v Speaker 1>emailed them and said, hey, you want to come on

0:41:15.280 --> 0:41:18.040
<v Speaker 1>my podcast, we'll talk about your documentary. Because if I

0:41:18.080 --> 0:41:19.480
<v Speaker 1>had gotten a chance to make a Netflix show, it

0:41:19.520 --> 0:41:21.840
<v Speaker 1>had have been very similar because that's it seems like

0:41:21.840 --> 0:41:24.520
<v Speaker 1>it's about flat Earth, but it's actually about motivated reasoning

0:41:25.080 --> 0:41:27.960
<v Speaker 1>and identity and community and things like that, and community

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:30.960
<v Speaker 1>community is a huge part of it. Group identity, and

0:41:31.400 --> 0:41:35.920
<v Speaker 1>um that after that episode, Uh, they a group in

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:38.120
<v Speaker 1>Sweden do they put on something like south By Southwest

0:41:38.120 --> 0:41:40.360
<v Speaker 1>called the gather Festival. They asked, Hey, we got this

0:41:40.400 --> 0:41:43.680
<v Speaker 1>crazy idea. What if you go to Sweden and we'll

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:46.359
<v Speaker 1>get h Mark Sargent, who was sort of the spokesperson

0:41:46.480 --> 0:41:49.360
<v Speaker 1>for the flat Earth community, and we'll put you on stage.

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:51.080
<v Speaker 1>And I know you're writing a book about how minds change,

0:41:51.080 --> 0:41:53.040
<v Speaker 1>you can try to try out some of those techniques

0:41:53.080 --> 0:41:54.520
<v Speaker 1>on them. And I was like, oh, that sounds awesome,

0:41:54.600 --> 0:41:58.120
<v Speaker 1>So um I did. I went and I met Mark,

0:41:58.200 --> 0:42:00.919
<v Speaker 1>and uh, I found it very nice, very lovely man.

0:42:01.000 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 1>And I did try something at the point where where

0:42:03.640 --> 0:42:05.360
<v Speaker 1>I met him. I was about halfway through and that

0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:07.439
<v Speaker 1>wasn't great at the techniques, but I did an okay job.

0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:09.680
<v Speaker 1>That's that's towards the end of the book where you

0:42:09.680 --> 0:42:12.880
<v Speaker 1>actually describe um. He said it was one of the

0:42:12.880 --> 0:42:15.920
<v Speaker 1>best conversations he ever had. You don't call him an idiot,

0:42:15.920 --> 0:42:19.279
<v Speaker 1>you know challenges views. You're really asking how did you

0:42:19.520 --> 0:42:24.360
<v Speaker 1>come to these sorts of perspectives to get him to

0:42:24.480 --> 0:42:26.920
<v Speaker 1>focus on his own process. That's the whole idea of

0:42:26.960 --> 0:42:29.399
<v Speaker 1>the techniques I learned about in the book. Uh, we're

0:42:29.600 --> 0:42:31.800
<v Speaker 1>writing this book. I met many different organizations. Deeve Campels

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<v Speaker 1>are street epistemology, people who work in motivational interviewing and

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<v Speaker 1>therapeutic practices, UH, professional negotiation and conflict resolution. UH people

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<v Speaker 1>work in those spaces. And what really astounded me was

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<v Speaker 1>when I would bring the stuff that I was witnessing

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<v Speaker 1>to scientists or experts. They there was this underlying literature

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<v Speaker 1>that made sense. But none of these groups had ever

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<v Speaker 1>heard of this literature for the most part, and they

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<v Speaker 1>definitely hadn't heard of each other. But they did a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of a b testing thousands of conversations throw away.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't work keeping what did and they would arrive

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<v Speaker 1>at this is how you ought to do this, and

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<v Speaker 1>then would also be similar they had it was in steps,

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<v Speaker 1>the steps would be in the same order. And I

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<v Speaker 1>sorted think of it like, you know, if you wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to build an airplane, the first airplane ever built, no

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<v Speaker 1>matter where it was builder who did it, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>look kind of like an airplane. It's gonna have wings,

0:43:16.440 --> 0:43:18.719
<v Speaker 1>and it's going to be lighter than because you're dealing

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<v Speaker 1>with the physics that you have to contend with when

0:43:21.719 --> 0:43:24.360
<v Speaker 1>it comes to the kind of conversation dynamics that actually

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<v Speaker 1>persuade people or move people or illuminate them. They have

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<v Speaker 1>to work with the way brains makes sins of the

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<v Speaker 1>world and all of the evolutionary path that pressures all

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<v Speaker 1>of that. And so these independent groups discovered all that

0:43:35.360 --> 0:43:37.680
<v Speaker 1>independent of each other and of the science that supports them.

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<v Speaker 1>And Mark Sargeant, like when I first met him, I

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<v Speaker 1>shook his hand and said, look, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>like make fun of you or anything. Goes Oh, that's fine,

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:44.319
<v Speaker 1>make fun of me all you want. And he he

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<v Speaker 1>took out his phone and showed me the commercially've done

0:43:46.200 --> 0:43:49.280
<v Speaker 1>for LifeLock, whereas like, if I can do it, anybody

0:43:49.280 --> 0:43:51.680
<v Speaker 1>can do it, and he's totally okay with it. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what I did. And then when I sat

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<v Speaker 1>down with him, one of the essences, I know we'll

0:43:54.920 --> 0:43:56.239
<v Speaker 1>get to it, but it's like, you don't want to

0:43:56.239 --> 0:43:58.080
<v Speaker 1>face off and I need to win, you need to lose.

0:43:58.840 --> 0:44:00.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying. I'm not even to aiding you. What I

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<v Speaker 1>want to do is get shoulder to shoulder with you

0:44:02.440 --> 0:44:05.040
<v Speaker 1>and say, isn't interesting that we disagree? I wonder why

0:44:05.440 --> 0:44:06.799
<v Speaker 1>you want to pardner up with me and trying to

0:44:06.840 --> 0:44:09.479
<v Speaker 1>investigate that mystery together. And in so doing I opened

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<v Speaker 1>up a space to let him meta cognate and run

0:44:11.680 --> 0:44:14.160
<v Speaker 1>through how did I arrive at this? And that's what

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:15.360
<v Speaker 1>I did with him on stage, and you know, we

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<v Speaker 1>learned all sorts of things, like he he used to

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<v Speaker 1>be a ringer for a video game company, so that

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<v Speaker 1>so that's where his conspiratorial stuff first came from. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>so of course he wasn't just a guy showing these

0:44:25.080 --> 0:44:29.200
<v Speaker 1>contests weren't fair. They and it's always a name, they

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<v Speaker 1>had somebody skewing the outcome. Going through his whole history,

0:44:33.320 --> 0:44:35.480
<v Speaker 1>it was really clear how he got motivated into this.

0:44:35.600 --> 0:44:38.080
<v Speaker 1>But the thing that really kicked in was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>flat Earth is a pretty big group of people. They

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<v Speaker 1>have conventions, they have dating apps, and once he became

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<v Speaker 1>a spokesperson for it, and he's traveling around the world,

0:44:45.800 --> 0:44:48.200
<v Speaker 1>is going to Sweden, Like now he's not traveling around

0:44:48.200 --> 0:44:52.200
<v Speaker 1>the world, he's traveling up across surface. That's right. He

0:44:52.280 --> 0:44:57.799
<v Speaker 1>is traversing the geography Cartesian plane of planet, that's right.

0:44:57.840 --> 0:45:00.560
<v Speaker 1>And so that that was a really the sun flat also,

0:45:00.719 --> 0:45:03.440
<v Speaker 1>that's always my question. If the Earth is flat, is

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<v Speaker 1>the Sun of sphere, why would some celestial bodies be

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<v Speaker 1>There are schisms within the flat earth community. There are

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<v Speaker 1>many different models of flat Earth. The one that Mark

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<v Speaker 1>Sergeant is part of. They see the Earth that's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of it's almost like a snow globe. It's flat, but

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<v Speaker 1>there's a dome, there's a there's makes perfect sense to

0:45:21.160 --> 0:45:23.960
<v Speaker 1>and perfectly the Sun and the Moon are are are

0:45:24.040 --> 0:45:26.480
<v Speaker 1>celestial objects that are orbs. And when you ask my

0:45:26.560 --> 0:45:29.480
<v Speaker 1>good question was like, okay, well then it seems manufactured.

0:45:29.480 --> 0:45:31.320
<v Speaker 1>Who made it? God's or aliens? And he goes and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember leaning in and saying it doesn't matter. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>it the same thing? Well, you know, the Greeks figured

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<v Speaker 1>out five thousand years ago that the Earth was round

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<v Speaker 1>by just looking at the shadow of the sun cast

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<v Speaker 1>at the same time in different cities of different latitudes.

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<v Speaker 1>But five thousand years of progress, just hold a side. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't you would believe that the number of ways

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<v Speaker 1>that that has been explained away in you know, flat

0:45:58.719 --> 0:46:01.719
<v Speaker 1>earth world, there's a plenty of explanations for why that's,

0:46:01.760 --> 0:46:04.759
<v Speaker 1>you know, part of the big conspiracy. My favorite part

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<v Speaker 1>of the flat earth community was flat Earth Meets done

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<v Speaker 1>in Krueger with the guy who built a rocket to

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<v Speaker 1>go up in order to prove that the Earth was flat.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know what he saw because he crashed and died.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you recall this was like remember three summers ago,

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell I can I know exactly how the

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<v Speaker 1>response would like see see he took him out and

0:46:26.880 --> 0:46:30.520
<v Speaker 1>they took him out. So you mentioned several different groups,

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<v Speaker 1>The Street Epistemology and the deep canvassers were really fascinating

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<v Speaker 1>my book. Right, So a quick background, A well funded

0:46:41.360 --> 0:46:46.080
<v Speaker 1>group in California. We're trying to convince people to support

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<v Speaker 1>the Marriage Equality Act, which ultimately ends up failing in

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<v Speaker 1>California by three or four percent, and they had done

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<v Speaker 1>thousands of home visits, knocked on the door, Hey, we

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you about about this act and

0:46:58.000 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 1>why we think you should support it. And the failure

0:47:01.080 --> 0:47:04.319
<v Speaker 1>of that was a real moment of clarity, and they said,

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<v Speaker 1>we have to rejigger everything we doing because this is

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<v Speaker 1>totally ineffective. And the methodology they came up with that

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<v Speaker 1>standing shoulders shoulder and let's figure out why we think.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's explore why we think so differently. You know, in

0:47:17.440 --> 0:47:21.440
<v Speaker 1>politics and single issues, if you can move somebody a

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<v Speaker 1>tenth of a percent, it's huge. Their impact is a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred times that it's ten. It's astonishing. Tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about what this group does that's so effective

0:47:34.080 --> 0:47:37.520
<v Speaker 1>when they're supporting a specific issue. Yeah, the background you

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<v Speaker 1>gave exactly what happened. They wanted to understand how they lost,

0:47:40.800 --> 0:47:42.840
<v Speaker 1>and they went door to door asking They came up

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<v Speaker 1>with this idea. This Dave Fleischer, who runs the Leadership

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<v Speaker 1>Lab U c l A or USC and the LGBT

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<v Speaker 1>Center of Los Angeles, and they're extremely well funded, millions

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<v Speaker 1>of millions of dollars and the biggest LGBT organization of

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<v Speaker 1>its kind in the world, and the Leadership Lab was

0:47:57.560 --> 0:47:59.320
<v Speaker 1>their political action wing. And as they were doing this

0:47:59.400 --> 0:48:02.040
<v Speaker 1>cavasing thing and they lost in Prop eight, he wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to know, how could that be because this seems to

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<v Speaker 1>be an area where we would definitely wouldn't lose this,

0:48:06.480 --> 0:48:08.520
<v Speaker 1>And so he said, what if we just wouldn't ask people?

0:48:08.680 --> 0:48:10.200
<v Speaker 1>And so they did the exact same thing again. So

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<v Speaker 1>this time they knock on doors and say they went

0:48:12.160 --> 0:48:13.880
<v Speaker 1>to areas they knew that they law that they had

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<v Speaker 1>lost in help us understand, and if that somebody had

0:48:16.480 --> 0:48:19.040
<v Speaker 1>voted against it, they asked, why did you vote against it?

0:48:19.640 --> 0:48:22.920
<v Speaker 1>And they had these listening brigades about fifty seventy five

0:48:22.920 --> 0:48:24.960
<v Speaker 1>people would go out and knocked or the door, and

0:48:25.160 --> 0:48:28.600
<v Speaker 1>to their astonishment, people wanted to talk. When they started asking, like,

0:48:28.680 --> 0:48:32.279
<v Speaker 1>this is a non adversarial thing, it's just hear them out.

0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:35.279
<v Speaker 1>And when they did that, these conversations we go to

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<v Speaker 1>forty minutes and they started thinking, well, we need to

0:48:37.880 --> 0:48:40.960
<v Speaker 1>record these, and they started recording them, and somewhere along

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<v Speaker 1>the way, about three or four times people talk themselves

0:48:44.160 --> 0:48:46.320
<v Speaker 1>out of their position when you just stood there and listened,

0:48:46.760 --> 0:48:48.880
<v Speaker 1>don't You're not You're not nudging them, and you're not

0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:52.040
<v Speaker 1>challenging them, You're just letting them be heard. And so

0:48:52.080 --> 0:48:54.239
<v Speaker 1>they wanted to know what did we do there, what

0:48:54.360 --> 0:48:57.000
<v Speaker 1>happened in that conversation that led to that? So they

0:48:57.000 --> 0:49:00.480
<v Speaker 1>started reviewing that those specific conversations and taking bits and

0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:02.560
<v Speaker 1>pieces and testing out was that this wasn't that, was that,

0:49:02.640 --> 0:49:05.200
<v Speaker 1>this wasn't that. And they eventually when I met them,

0:49:05.200 --> 0:49:08.360
<v Speaker 1>they had done seventeen thousand of these conversations and recorded

0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:10.960
<v Speaker 1>on the video and they had a b tested their

0:49:11.000 --> 0:49:13.760
<v Speaker 1>way to a technique that was so powerful that while

0:49:13.880 --> 0:49:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I went there several times and went door to door

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<v Speaker 1>with them everything, but every time I went there would

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<v Speaker 1>be scientists there, there'd be activists from around the world

0:49:20.280 --> 0:49:22.319
<v Speaker 1>there because they were like, what have you done? What

0:49:22.360 --> 0:49:25.680
<v Speaker 1>have you discovered? And it's very powerful. And over the

0:49:25.760 --> 0:49:27.600
<v Speaker 1>course of writing the book, the research was done a

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<v Speaker 1>couple different times on them, and they found the numbers.

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<v Speaker 1>You're talking about twelve ten or twelve percent success, right,

0:49:32.840 --> 0:49:35.600
<v Speaker 1>And the method is very similar. You only really know

0:49:35.640 --> 0:49:37.640
<v Speaker 1>two of the steps, but you know it's about ten steps.

0:49:37.640 --> 0:49:39.600
<v Speaker 1>If you wanted to do it the full thing The

0:49:39.640 --> 0:49:42.200
<v Speaker 1>most important aspect of this is non judgmental listening and

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<v Speaker 1>non judgmental listening and holding. You're gonna hold space to

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<v Speaker 1>let the other person explore how they arrived at their

0:49:48.200 --> 0:49:51.279
<v Speaker 1>current position. In other words, you're going to help them

0:49:51.480 --> 0:49:56.719
<v Speaker 1>be very self reflective and figure out their thought problems.

0:49:56.719 --> 0:49:58.840
<v Speaker 1>It's probably good to give you a foundation of what motivational,

0:49:59.360 --> 0:50:01.799
<v Speaker 1>what motivated reasoning is right here. So you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's falling in love with someone and you ask them

0:50:03.719 --> 0:50:05.440
<v Speaker 1>like why do you like them? Like why you why

0:50:05.440 --> 0:50:07.040
<v Speaker 1>are you going to date this person? And they'll say

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<v Speaker 1>something like the way they talked, the way they walked,

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<v Speaker 1>where they cut their food, the uh, the music they're

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<v Speaker 1>introducing me to. When that same person is breaking up

0:50:13.560 --> 0:50:15.319
<v Speaker 1>with that same person, you ask why you're breaking up

0:50:15.320 --> 0:50:17.759
<v Speaker 1>with them, they'll say things like, well, the way they talk,

0:50:17.840 --> 0:50:19.279
<v Speaker 1>the way they walked, where they cut their food, the

0:50:19.600 --> 0:50:21.320
<v Speaker 1>dumb music they made me listen to. It. So reasons

0:50:21.400 --> 0:50:23.600
<v Speaker 1>for what will come, reasons against when the motivation to

0:50:23.719 --> 0:50:26.920
<v Speaker 1>search for reasons that will I rationalize and justify your

0:50:26.920 --> 0:50:30.239
<v Speaker 1>position change. As you've said all throughout our conversation, we're

0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:32.160
<v Speaker 1>often are very unaware of that and if someone comes

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<v Speaker 1>along and gives you an opportunity to self reflecting a

0:50:34.360 --> 0:50:36.400
<v Speaker 1>way where you will go through your reasoning process, you

0:50:36.400 --> 0:50:41.160
<v Speaker 1>will often start to feel moments of dissonance and question yourself.

0:50:41.640 --> 0:50:44.080
<v Speaker 1>And as long as the other party isn't is allowing

0:50:44.080 --> 0:50:46.439
<v Speaker 1>you to save face. And it's just non judgment and listening.

0:50:46.480 --> 0:50:48.839
<v Speaker 1>That's a big component of this and their technique. They'll

0:50:48.840 --> 0:50:50.840
<v Speaker 1>open up and say, okay, we're talking about that that

0:50:50.960 --> 0:50:53.399
<v Speaker 1>same sex marriage or transgender bathroom laws or something. They're

0:50:53.440 --> 0:50:55.640
<v Speaker 1>very political organizations, so the sort of the topics they cover,

0:50:56.160 --> 0:50:58.000
<v Speaker 1>they'll ask a person this is this is the biggest

0:50:58.040 --> 0:51:00.239
<v Speaker 1>part of everything, and this I urge every you wanted

0:51:00.239 --> 0:51:02.000
<v Speaker 1>to try this out on yourself and other people. You

0:51:02.000 --> 0:51:03.439
<v Speaker 1>can just do it on a movie like the last

0:51:03.480 --> 0:51:05.480
<v Speaker 1>movie that you watch. Let's what's last movie you watched?

0:51:06.719 --> 0:51:10.840
<v Speaker 1>The Adam Project? Okay, the Adam Project. Did you like it? Yeah?

0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:16.400
<v Speaker 1>Ryan Reynolds boom. It's so easy to say I liked it. Okay.

0:51:16.640 --> 0:51:18.759
<v Speaker 1>Now I ask on a scale from zero to ten,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you're a movie review or what would you

0:51:20.200 --> 0:51:23.560
<v Speaker 1>give it? Six? Seven? Okay? Why why does six feel

0:51:23.560 --> 0:51:26.000
<v Speaker 1>like the right number? Um, it's not a great movie.

0:51:26.000 --> 0:51:28.800
<v Speaker 1>It's not The Godfather, but it was entertaining and silly

0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:32.359
<v Speaker 1>and fun. You like The Godfather, you know that's a ten. Yeah,

0:51:32.480 --> 0:51:34.200
<v Speaker 1>you know what what do you think is the Godfather

0:51:34.239 --> 0:51:38.000
<v Speaker 1>has that this movie doesn't. It's much more sophisticated. It

0:51:38.080 --> 0:51:41.839
<v Speaker 1>tells a much more interesting tell. It's the characters are

0:51:41.920 --> 0:51:46.160
<v Speaker 1>much more fleshed out. They're more interesting. Um, the violence

0:51:46.320 --> 0:51:49.200
<v Speaker 1>is is gripping, whereas the violence and this is sort

0:51:49.239 --> 0:51:51.960
<v Speaker 1>of cartoony. So we're gonna step out of that conversation

0:51:52.000 --> 0:51:54.239
<v Speaker 1>when we come back to it. But now what this

0:51:54.280 --> 0:51:56.200
<v Speaker 1>is what I'm doing. I'm listening to you. I'm not

0:51:56.320 --> 0:51:58.360
<v Speaker 1>judging you, and I'm giving you a chance to actually

0:51:58.360 --> 0:52:01.239
<v Speaker 1>explore the reasoning and at and and your values are

0:52:01.239 --> 0:52:02.960
<v Speaker 1>starting to come up and things that are unique to

0:52:03.000 --> 0:52:04.920
<v Speaker 1>you and things you like about the world are a

0:52:04.960 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of times this is the first time a person

0:52:06.600 --> 0:52:08.799
<v Speaker 1>has ever even experienced that. And this is a moment

0:52:08.840 --> 0:52:10.879
<v Speaker 1>for you to start to understand yourself in a certain way.

0:52:11.200 --> 0:52:13.319
<v Speaker 1>And a conversation about a political issue you might start

0:52:13.320 --> 0:52:15.880
<v Speaker 1>pulling in things about where this actually, you know, the

0:52:15.920 --> 0:52:17.600
<v Speaker 1>first time you ever heard about this thing, and then

0:52:17.600 --> 0:52:19.600
<v Speaker 1>will become you see it superceived wisdom or you're being

0:52:19.600 --> 0:52:22.640
<v Speaker 1>influenced by others, and then all that comes into it's

0:52:22.719 --> 0:52:25.040
<v Speaker 1>very easy for you to extract that emotion and tell

0:52:25.040 --> 0:52:26.680
<v Speaker 1>me what you felt. I liked it, I didn't like it.

0:52:27.000 --> 0:52:28.960
<v Speaker 1>When I ask you to rationalize and justify it for

0:52:29.000 --> 0:52:30.800
<v Speaker 1>me and come up and go through your own personal

0:52:30.840 --> 0:52:34.120
<v Speaker 1>reasoning process, not my reasoning process. This is a unique

0:52:34.120 --> 0:52:35.440
<v Speaker 1>experience for a lot of people. And then the other

0:52:35.480 --> 0:52:37.560
<v Speaker 1>thing I can do is say you give it a six?

0:52:38.120 --> 0:52:41.839
<v Speaker 1>How come not say a four? You know, under five

0:52:42.000 --> 0:52:45.120
<v Speaker 1>I would think is something I didn't especially like. You know,

0:52:45.200 --> 0:52:47.239
<v Speaker 1>I smiled and laughed throughout it, and it get me

0:52:47.320 --> 0:52:50.600
<v Speaker 1>up detained for ninety minutes. That's and my nephews, that's

0:52:50.600 --> 0:52:53.400
<v Speaker 1>all I'm looking at, you see. And so we're getting deeper,

0:52:53.440 --> 0:52:55.440
<v Speaker 1>more and deeper deeper into the things that you you

0:52:55.480 --> 0:52:58.200
<v Speaker 1>look for entertainment, but we're talking about a political issue.

0:52:58.600 --> 0:53:00.680
<v Speaker 1>This something comes out of motivation interviewing, and they weren't

0:53:00.680 --> 0:53:03.520
<v Speaker 1>even aware of this. The deep camps, people therapists who

0:53:03.600 --> 0:53:07.040
<v Speaker 1>had dealt with people would come in for say alcoholism

0:53:07.080 --> 0:53:09.799
<v Speaker 1>or drug addiction, and you know, they already are at

0:53:09.840 --> 0:53:12.040
<v Speaker 1>a state of ambivalence. They want to do it, and

0:53:12.040 --> 0:53:13.359
<v Speaker 1>they all and they don't want to do it. That's

0:53:13.360 --> 0:53:16.520
<v Speaker 1>why they've come for help. But a psychologist would often

0:53:16.520 --> 0:53:18.680
<v Speaker 1>engage in something called the writing reflect They say, okay,

0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:20.120
<v Speaker 1>well there's here's what you're doing wrong. Is what you

0:53:20.120 --> 0:53:22.839
<v Speaker 1>need to do. Here's what you and you you will

0:53:22.880 --> 0:53:25.880
<v Speaker 1>feel something called reactants, which is that unhand me, you fools,

0:53:25.880 --> 0:53:28.799
<v Speaker 1>feeling that I'm telling you what to think, I'm shaming you.

0:53:29.280 --> 0:53:31.440
<v Speaker 1>And when you push away from it, you will start

0:53:31.480 --> 0:53:36.120
<v Speaker 1>creating arguments to keep pursuing the thing. And they this

0:53:36.200 --> 0:53:39.280
<v Speaker 1>was such a debacle that they developed something come motivational interviewing,

0:53:39.280 --> 0:53:41.760
<v Speaker 1>where I would start, I would start trying to evoke

0:53:41.840 --> 0:53:43.680
<v Speaker 1>from you counter arguments. And I can do that very

0:53:43.680 --> 0:53:46.160
<v Speaker 1>simply with the scale, because when I ask you why

0:53:46.200 --> 0:53:49.200
<v Speaker 1>not a four, the only thing you can really produce

0:53:49.239 --> 0:53:51.359
<v Speaker 1>for me your reasons why you wouldn't go away from

0:53:51.400 --> 0:53:54.040
<v Speaker 1>the six, which is also kind of going towards a seven.

0:53:54.640 --> 0:53:57.239
<v Speaker 1>And in a political discussion, that's how they'll open it up.

0:53:57.239 --> 0:54:00.080
<v Speaker 1>They'll say, we're talking about transitor bathroom law. Here's the

0:54:00.080 --> 0:54:02.359
<v Speaker 1>position that I'm talking about is coming up for a vote.

0:54:02.360 --> 0:54:03.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering where you're at on that like a scale

0:54:04.000 --> 0:54:05.920
<v Speaker 1>one was eer to ten. They'll tell them, and then

0:54:05.920 --> 0:54:08.279
<v Speaker 1>they'll say why that, And this is a moment. We

0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:10.480
<v Speaker 1>may stay there for twenty minutes, we go through how

0:54:10.520 --> 0:54:13.960
<v Speaker 1>you arrived at this number. And then in that the

0:54:14.040 --> 0:54:15.920
<v Speaker 1>deep campras to do something different from the other groups.

0:54:15.920 --> 0:54:19.240
<v Speaker 1>They asked the personal if they've had a personal experience

0:54:19.239 --> 0:54:23.760
<v Speaker 1>with this issue. And on the LGBT same sex marriage issue,

0:54:24.160 --> 0:54:27.040
<v Speaker 1>what seemed to have come up time and again was hey,

0:54:27.160 --> 0:54:29.520
<v Speaker 1>is there anybody gain your family? Do you want them

0:54:29.560 --> 0:54:32.120
<v Speaker 1>to have find love? Do you want them to find happiness?

0:54:32.200 --> 0:54:36.360
<v Speaker 1>And suddenly when it becomes personal, the political issue gets inverted.

0:54:36.400 --> 0:54:38.080
<v Speaker 1>That's right. You start really realizing how much of this

0:54:38.120 --> 0:54:40.319
<v Speaker 1>is abstraction, how much of this has received wisdom, how

0:54:40.360 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 1>much of this is political signaling our group I inter singly,

0:54:43.760 --> 0:54:46.279
<v Speaker 1>and not every time, but many times people who will

0:54:46.320 --> 0:54:48.640
<v Speaker 1>have a personal experience related to the issue, and that

0:54:48.680 --> 0:54:51.480
<v Speaker 1>personal experience really issue will create massive amounts of cognitive

0:54:51.480 --> 0:54:53.920
<v Speaker 1>dissonance on the position I just gave you. There's a

0:54:53.920 --> 0:54:56.640
<v Speaker 1>phrase which I was going to mention later, but I

0:54:56.719 --> 0:55:01.759
<v Speaker 1>have to share it. Excruciating disequal a brim is that

0:55:01.880 --> 0:55:05.520
<v Speaker 1>how you ultimately get to a point where either somebody

0:55:05.640 --> 0:55:08.560
<v Speaker 1>changes their perspective or or something breaks. This is how

0:55:08.560 --> 0:55:10.600
<v Speaker 1>we change our minds on everything, Like we're always changing

0:55:10.600 --> 0:55:13.239
<v Speaker 1>your minds at all times, like the everything is provisional

0:55:13.480 --> 0:55:15.680
<v Speaker 1>until yeah, and we don't we're not always We're totally

0:55:15.719 --> 0:55:16.880
<v Speaker 1>not aware of it most of the time. But this

0:55:16.920 --> 0:55:18.920
<v Speaker 1>comes to the work of a lot of psychologists. But

0:55:18.920 --> 0:55:21.760
<v Speaker 1>I focus in on p J because there's two mechanisms,

0:55:21.840 --> 0:55:26.279
<v Speaker 1>assimilation and accommodation. Assimilation is uh when something's ambiguous or

0:55:26.360 --> 0:55:29.000
<v Speaker 1>uncertain you when you interpret in a way that says basically,

0:55:29.320 --> 0:55:31.360
<v Speaker 1>everything I thought and felt and believed before now I

0:55:31.360 --> 0:55:33.560
<v Speaker 1>still think, feeling, believe it. This is just a modified

0:55:33.600 --> 0:55:38.359
<v Speaker 1>a little bit with you assimilated into your current model reality. Accommodation,

0:55:38.400 --> 0:55:40.200
<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, is when there's so many anomalies

0:55:40.200 --> 0:55:43.440
<v Speaker 1>build up or this is so counterattitudinal or counterfactual what

0:55:43.520 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 1>you currently have in your model reality are they they

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:48.520
<v Speaker 1>had called it a schema, you must accommodate us. You

0:55:48.520 --> 0:55:50.439
<v Speaker 1>can think of it like a child sees a dog

0:55:50.520 --> 0:55:52.920
<v Speaker 1>for the first time and they're like, what is that?

0:55:53.000 --> 0:55:55.920
<v Speaker 1>You say, it's a dog in their minds? Something categorical,

0:55:56.080 --> 0:55:58.640
<v Speaker 1>something like it's got four legs, walks on four legs,

0:55:58.840 --> 0:56:01.680
<v Speaker 1>it's not wearing any clothes, as it's furry as a tail,

0:56:02.360 --> 0:56:05.000
<v Speaker 1>it's non human dog. And then if they see like

0:56:05.040 --> 0:56:09.160
<v Speaker 1>a a orange dog or a you know, a speckled dog,

0:56:09.239 --> 0:56:11.760
<v Speaker 1>they can just say they can assimilate that and different

0:56:11.840 --> 0:56:13.960
<v Speaker 1>versions of the thing. I already understand. When they see

0:56:14.000 --> 0:56:16.920
<v Speaker 1>a horse, they might point at it and go big dog,

0:56:17.520 --> 0:56:21.120
<v Speaker 1>and they're really is an attempt to assimilate, Like I'm

0:56:21.120 --> 0:56:24.879
<v Speaker 1>interpreting it and look, it's got four legs, it walks

0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:27.000
<v Speaker 1>on four legs, it's non human, it's not wearing clothes.

0:56:28.000 --> 0:56:29.319
<v Speaker 1>What's going on here? And he said, no, no no, no,

0:56:29.480 --> 0:56:32.600
<v Speaker 1>that's not a dog, that's a horse. This requires an

0:56:32.600 --> 0:56:34.799
<v Speaker 1>accommodation moment because you need to create a category that

0:56:34.840 --> 0:56:37.600
<v Speaker 1>both horses and dogs can fit with it an overarching category.

0:56:37.960 --> 0:56:40.120
<v Speaker 1>And we're doing that all the time. Like there are

0:56:40.120 --> 0:56:43.600
<v Speaker 1>moments where we I think of things like that have happened. Uh, politically,

0:56:43.600 --> 0:56:44.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how politically you want to give a

0:56:44.840 --> 0:56:47.960
<v Speaker 1>let's like think about the insurrection right the For a

0:56:48.000 --> 0:56:50.120
<v Speaker 1>lot of people, I have positive attitudes toward a certain

0:56:50.160 --> 0:56:54.160
<v Speaker 1>political persuasion, and people within that positive attitude space did

0:56:54.200 --> 0:56:56.240
<v Speaker 1>something I don't like. So I have these two feelings.

0:56:56.280 --> 0:56:58.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm I feel negatively and I feel positively about what

0:56:58.680 --> 0:57:03.120
<v Speaker 1>has happened. You could accommodate and say, well, it looks

0:57:03.160 --> 0:57:06.160
<v Speaker 1>like people who share my political views sometimes do bad

0:57:06.200 --> 0:57:08.000
<v Speaker 1>things and I need to like have a more complex

0:57:08.080 --> 0:57:11.480
<v Speaker 1>view of things. Or you could assimilate, which is often

0:57:11.480 --> 0:57:14.200
<v Speaker 1>how we get into conspiratorial thinking, and say, well, I'm

0:57:14.280 --> 0:57:16.040
<v Speaker 1>looking at this. What if they didn't do that at all?

0:57:16.040 --> 0:57:18.120
<v Speaker 1>What if those were actors? What if those were people

0:57:18.160 --> 0:57:20.480
<v Speaker 1>who are pretending to be people that agree with me?

0:57:20.640 --> 0:57:23.400
<v Speaker 1>So how do you explain from that? Here's the fascinating thing.

0:57:23.840 --> 0:57:30.520
<v Speaker 1>There was widespread disapproval, especially from Republican leadership, and then

0:57:30.800 --> 0:57:35.840
<v Speaker 1>very quickly, within a sixty days, maybe even less thirty days,

0:57:35.880 --> 0:57:38.000
<v Speaker 1>that faded and then it was just a bunch of

0:57:38.040 --> 0:57:42.120
<v Speaker 1>tourists passing through UH through Congress. So was it just

0:57:42.280 --> 0:57:46.400
<v Speaker 1>strictly that sort of tribal thing that we needed to

0:57:46.400 --> 0:57:50.840
<v Speaker 1>to everybody to manage people just reverted back to their

0:57:50.840 --> 0:57:54.640
<v Speaker 1>tribalism because there was some consensus for a brief period

0:57:54.680 --> 0:57:57.880
<v Speaker 1>and then it went straight back to partisan politics. Was

0:57:57.920 --> 0:57:59.480
<v Speaker 1>that there's a there was a long stretch, and there

0:57:59.480 --> 0:58:02.840
<v Speaker 1>always is where you're you're being pulled in every direction. Uh,

0:58:03.080 --> 0:58:04.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't want to make a blanket statement.

0:58:04.600 --> 0:58:06.920
<v Speaker 1>Most people are pretty rational about what happened there. But

0:58:06.920 --> 0:58:09.280
<v Speaker 1>there's a certain ports and the population that went very

0:58:09.280 --> 0:58:14.200
<v Speaker 1>conspiratorial with it, and there is a deep crisis of

0:58:14.240 --> 0:58:15.840
<v Speaker 1>how to make sense of the world and where should

0:58:15.880 --> 0:58:19.440
<v Speaker 1>I put my allegiances and where my values expressed. And

0:58:19.480 --> 0:58:22.280
<v Speaker 1>what we would rather do is assimilate if we can

0:58:22.320 --> 0:58:24.320
<v Speaker 1>get away with it, because that allows us to maintain

0:58:24.320 --> 0:58:27.160
<v Speaker 1>our current model and move forward. And if we can

0:58:27.200 --> 0:58:29.360
<v Speaker 1>find an elite who says, no, it's okay to think

0:58:29.360 --> 0:58:31.240
<v Speaker 1>what you think. In fact, I agree with you. If

0:58:31.240 --> 0:58:33.240
<v Speaker 1>I can find peers who will who will support me

0:58:33.280 --> 0:58:35.520
<v Speaker 1>in that, if I can find groups having conversations on

0:58:35.560 --> 0:58:38.080
<v Speaker 1>the Internet who let me do this, I'll assimilate and

0:58:38.080 --> 0:58:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I'll stay within it, and as they say in psychology,

0:58:40.400 --> 0:58:43.160
<v Speaker 1>my social network will reassert its influence. So one of

0:58:43.160 --> 0:58:47.080
<v Speaker 1>the interesting things about the shift in UH same sex

0:58:47.160 --> 0:58:50.800
<v Speaker 1>marriage opinion the US is how sudden it was, and

0:58:50.840 --> 0:58:54.240
<v Speaker 1>when we compare it to things like abortion rights, Vietnam,

0:58:54.480 --> 0:58:58.080
<v Speaker 1>race voting, even marijuana, all those things seem to have

0:58:58.120 --> 0:59:02.320
<v Speaker 1>taken much longer or why is that? That was actually

0:59:02.400 --> 0:59:04.080
<v Speaker 1>the first question I had. I thought that that's what

0:59:04.120 --> 0:59:06.840
<v Speaker 1>the book was going to be about. There's a dozen

0:59:06.880 --> 0:59:08.560
<v Speaker 1>different answers of that question. That was sort of a

0:59:08.600 --> 0:59:13.280
<v Speaker 1>confluence of psychological mechanisms. The most influential part of his contact, right.

0:59:13.920 --> 0:59:17.120
<v Speaker 1>There's an idea in psychology called pluralistic ignorance, where you know,

0:59:17.360 --> 0:59:19.120
<v Speaker 1>you ask a lot of people have will have a

0:59:19.120 --> 0:59:22.880
<v Speaker 1>certain feeling inside of them, attitude or value, and they'll

0:59:22.880 --> 0:59:24.720
<v Speaker 1>feel like that the only person within their community who

0:59:24.720 --> 0:59:27.520
<v Speaker 1>has that feeling, and unless you surface the norm in

0:59:27.560 --> 0:59:29.000
<v Speaker 1>some way, they are not They won't be aware that

0:59:29.000 --> 0:59:30.480
<v Speaker 1>there are so many other people who feel the same

0:59:30.480 --> 0:59:33.800
<v Speaker 1>way they feel. Surface the norm, surface the norm, as

0:59:33.840 --> 0:59:36.640
<v Speaker 1>they put it. When I was asking political scientists about

0:59:37.000 --> 0:59:39.880
<v Speaker 1>um the shift and attitudes about same sex marriage, they

0:59:39.920 --> 0:59:41.800
<v Speaker 1>kept telling me this was the fastest recording shifts in

0:59:41.800 --> 0:59:44.080
<v Speaker 1>public opinion since we've been recording this since the twenties

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:47.760
<v Speaker 1>and since then. There was an attitude shift on COVID nineteam,

0:59:47.760 --> 0:59:49.280
<v Speaker 1>which I put in the book that was a little

0:59:49.280 --> 0:59:53.120
<v Speaker 1>bit faster, but in this case in which direction towards vaccination.

0:59:53.280 --> 0:59:56.120
<v Speaker 1>Vaccination yet which is kind of interesting because there was

0:59:56.160 --> 1:00:00.640
<v Speaker 1>an anti vaxor movement pre COVID that was really kind fringe,

1:00:00.800 --> 1:00:02.480
<v Speaker 1>and I went to one of the conventions for the

1:00:02.520 --> 1:00:03.800
<v Speaker 1>book best not in the book. It was part of

1:00:03.800 --> 1:00:06.600
<v Speaker 1>the cut material, the Lancet article on what is an

1:00:06.800 --> 1:00:09.800
<v Speaker 1>m R M or R m R and remember which

1:00:09.840 --> 1:00:15.320
<v Speaker 1>the Musles rebella MOMPS vaccine, which was substantly completely debunked.

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<v Speaker 1>But what ended up happening is that group seems to

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<v Speaker 1>gain a little bit of momentum, the anti vaxers, and

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<v Speaker 1>yet even around the world most countries are vaccinated, most

1:00:30.000 --> 1:00:33.160
<v Speaker 1>wealthy developed countries that with access to the vaccine, the

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<v Speaker 1>US is a laggered um, less vaccinations, less boosts, and

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<v Speaker 1>the most per capita deaths of any advanced economy, which

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<v Speaker 1>kind of raises the question how much of an impact

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<v Speaker 1>did the anti vaxers have, even though a lot of

1:00:49.080 --> 1:00:51.960
<v Speaker 1>people eventually came around and got the vaccine. The reason

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<v Speaker 1>I like to talk about flat earthers so much is

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<v Speaker 1>because the same psychological mechanisms are at play and everything

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<v Speaker 1>else that we like to talk about. But most most

1:00:57.720 --> 1:01:00.680
<v Speaker 1>people assume they would never be a flat right, But

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<v Speaker 1>you don't necessarily get that uniformity when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>things like same sex matters or or any or any

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<v Speaker 1>political issue, that anything becomes charged politically. And I use

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<v Speaker 1>flat earthers so much because they're pretty much neutral and

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<v Speaker 1>people can feel like they have some distance from it,

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<v Speaker 1>and the mechanisms. You can see those mechanisms at play,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I can say, and that's also in this

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<v Speaker 1>and you can see how it works the with same

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<v Speaker 1>sex marriage. That it's almost impossible to believe this as

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<v Speaker 1>a person talking to a microphone right now, in this

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<v Speaker 1>modern moment, like it wasn't very long ago. The people

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<v Speaker 1>argued about this as vehemently as they argue about like

1:01:36.000 --> 1:01:38.200
<v Speaker 1>immigration and gun control and everything else that's that's a

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<v Speaker 1>wedge issue today. And there were articles that would be

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<v Speaker 1>that would come out, but like this is something we'll

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<v Speaker 1>never get over. You should and you shouldn't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>this and Thanksgiving kind of things, right, And then the

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<v Speaker 1>course of about twelve years, but very rapidly, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>with three or four years, we went from more than

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<v Speaker 1>sixty percent of the country opposed to six in the

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<v Speaker 1>country in favor and around two thousand twelve ish, and

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<v Speaker 1>the it seemed like, how could this possibly have happened

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<v Speaker 1>where it come from. And I want to understand that too,

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<v Speaker 1>because I thought if I could take most of the

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<v Speaker 1>of the country and put them on a time machine

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<v Speaker 1>and send them back a decade, would they argue with

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<v Speaker 1>themselves and what happened in between these two moments, and

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<v Speaker 1>if they were going to change their mind about this,

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<v Speaker 1>what was preventing them from changing their mind the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>One answer to that is that a lot of things

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<v Speaker 1>that have changed when it comes to like social issues,

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<v Speaker 1>people were separate from one another in social contexts, whereas

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<v Speaker 1>with same sex marriage and other LGBTQ issues, coming out

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<v Speaker 1>was a very huge part of that. Any movement that

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<v Speaker 1>urged people to reveal their identities and to live openly

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<v Speaker 1>allow people the opportunity to go, well, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a family member like this. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>person who I care about who's being affected by this issue.

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<v Speaker 1>I have people who my plumber, my my hairdresser, my

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<v Speaker 1>brother and my brother, all this whole world, and then

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<v Speaker 1>that contact was part of that, right, I think that

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<v Speaker 1>is the key to this being so stealthy. Why nobody

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<v Speaker 1>saw it Because you go from I know a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who's gay, or I know a woman who's gay too.

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<v Speaker 1>I know lots of people who are gay, and over

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<v Speaker 1>that ensuing decade and the decade before, at least from

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<v Speaker 1>my perspective, it felt like lots of people both private

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<v Speaker 1>and public personas were coming out as getting and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you had Ellen come out, which was a big deal,

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<v Speaker 1>and you had Will and Grace on TV. It seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like it was just, you know, the momentum was building

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<v Speaker 1>and it was an exchange like that. And you talked

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<v Speaker 1>about in the book where where it's the cascade is

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for the network to be ready. That's EXAs where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm headed up. Thanks for kicking me over to The

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<v Speaker 1>culture is being influenced by the social change, and then

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<v Speaker 1>the social change in reflection influence of the culture, and

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<v Speaker 1>this back and forth is what creates a staggered acceleration

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<v Speaker 1>of the social change. Right, But what's deep within that

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<v Speaker 1>is understood a network science as cascades. And the best

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<v Speaker 1>way I could like quickly explain what a cascade is is, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever been to a party and everything seems

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<v Speaker 1>to be going up k and then all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden everybody leaves and you're like, what happened? Especially if

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<v Speaker 1>with the host, or have you ever like waited to

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<v Speaker 1>get into a restaurant, or if you remember back in

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<v Speaker 1>a university setting, you're waiting to get into a classroom

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<v Speaker 1>and uh, there's just a big line of people, and

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<v Speaker 1>then the door opens up and you could have gone

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<v Speaker 1>in at any time. These are examples of cascades, up

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<v Speaker 1>cascades and down castkades. So in a school setting or

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant setting, you're waiting a line. The first person

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<v Speaker 1>that shows up, they have an internal signal because they

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<v Speaker 1>have no information the doors closed. So maybe in the

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<v Speaker 1>past they tried to go to a classroom and they

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<v Speaker 1>open the door and everybody turned and looked at them,

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<v Speaker 1>and they felt real weird about it. Maybe they just

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<v Speaker 1>have a certain kind of social anxiety. There are all

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<v Speaker 1>sorts of nature nurture things to give them an internal

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<v Speaker 1>signal that says I should wait and see what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>So they take out their phone, they're playing with it.

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<v Speaker 1>The second person that shows up, they don't just have

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<v Speaker 1>an internal signal. They have one human being who seems

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<v Speaker 1>to be waiting and maybe they know something I don't,

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<v Speaker 1>So whatever internal signal they have is magnified by that.

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<v Speaker 1>They start to wait. Once you show up at a

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<v Speaker 1>door and there are two people waiting and you don't,

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're pretty sure you're gonna wait too. Once there

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<v Speaker 1>are three people waiting at a door, it's almost inevitable

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna get a line of people waiting because they

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<v Speaker 1>assume they're part of something, and everybody knows something they don't,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're not with a cascade. The only thing that

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<v Speaker 1>will break the cascade is new information out of the system.

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<v Speaker 1>The door opens up and like the professor's like, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you waiting? Or somebody who looks at their watch

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like, I figure we should have been in

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<v Speaker 1>here by now. Or you could have a real rabble rouse,

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<v Speaker 1>or you could have a subversive element. Somebody who's a punk.

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<v Speaker 1>They have a low threshold for conformity, you know, they're

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, I don't care what people think of me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna open the door, and that person will lead

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<v Speaker 1>everybody in. So what you end up here with our

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<v Speaker 1>thresholds of conformity. Uh. Some people need only a few

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<v Speaker 1>people around them to do something before they do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people need a lot. And any population is going

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<v Speaker 1>to have a large mix of people who have different

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<v Speaker 1>thresholds of conformity. If you think of it like an

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<v Speaker 1>old chemistry molecule with like balls and sticks connect to it,

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<v Speaker 1>each person is a node and each node has a

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<v Speaker 1>different threshold of conformity, and that threshold conformity is influenced

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<v Speaker 1>by how many people they know, so how many sticks

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<v Speaker 1>are connected to balls around them, and you end up

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<v Speaker 1>with clumps and claw sters of people who have different

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<v Speaker 1>thresholds as a cluster. Let's say you're at a party

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<v Speaker 1>and they want to go because you know they're they're

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<v Speaker 1>tired of being there, they have work in the morning

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. But there are other people in the group

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<v Speaker 1>who are like I would like to go, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't just be the first person that leaves. So

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<v Speaker 1>the person who has a reason to leave, or they

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<v Speaker 1>just don't care what other people think they leave the party.

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<v Speaker 1>That that encourages the next group of people who needed

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<v Speaker 1>one more person to back them up to leave. Now

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<v Speaker 1>there are people who actually did. They wanted to stay

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<v Speaker 1>at the party, but hey, if everybody else is leaving

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<v Speaker 1>but they're threshold conform you just got me out there,

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<v Speaker 1>like I should probably go. And then now you have

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<v Speaker 1>the people who are really we're gonna stay all night,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I guess in the last person here and

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<v Speaker 1>either they spend the night on your couch or they

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<v Speaker 1>leave and you're like, oh my god, what happened to

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<v Speaker 1>my party? This is cascades. This is a It's a

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<v Speaker 1>very fascinating part of human psychology because we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>massive groups of people, and you have a nation of people,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll have massive clusters of people that will have different thresholds,

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<v Speaker 1>and we often will have one in that group, many

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<v Speaker 1>of them called a percolating local cluster. Anyone listening, who's

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<v Speaker 1>in this world? I hope you're happy that I found

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<v Speaker 1>your stuff. This stuff was totally unfamiliar to me. The

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<v Speaker 1>stuff goes into like diffusion science and people studying how

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<v Speaker 1>rocks sink and floating local climate. So here's the here's

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<v Speaker 1>the best thing, uh, I've ever seen about to explain this,

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<v Speaker 1>you're driving down this is Duncan Watts. Yes, Duncan Watts,

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<v Speaker 1>the great sociologist. Everything is he is. He gave this

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<v Speaker 1>example to me and thank him forever for it. You

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<v Speaker 1>can imagine a road that people are driving down in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of a forest. There's uh, someone who smokes

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<v Speaker 1>a cigarette on the way to wherever they're going, and

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<v Speaker 1>they throw a cigarette out pretty much every time at

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<v Speaker 1>a certain spot in the forest. And they've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>this for years and nothing ever happens, and then one day, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>they tossed that cigarette out and it causes a seven

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<v Speaker 1>county fire. Now, if you look at this from a

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<v Speaker 1>sort of a great Man theory of history, or you're

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<v Speaker 1>looking for people who are innovators, if you look at

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<v Speaker 1>the whole old tipping point models and things like that,

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for the mavens and the connectors and everything. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it turns out the science doesn't really support that very well.

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<v Speaker 1>Has nothing to do with any individual being more connect

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<v Speaker 1>that are more powerful or more savvy than anybody else.

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<v Speaker 1>What it has to do with is the susceptibility of

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<v Speaker 1>the system to anybody throwing out a cigarette, meaning how

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<v Speaker 1>dry or droughts stricken, something happened in that system. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with dry leaves, with just the vulnerability of

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<v Speaker 1>that the vulnerable that's exactly how they that they're phrasing

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<v Speaker 1>the youth. The vulnerability of that particular aspect of the

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<v Speaker 1>network at that particular moment was quite vulnerable to any nudge,

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<v Speaker 1>any impact any strike. And the thing that really struck

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<v Speaker 1>me about his example was it could have been a

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<v Speaker 1>cigarette he tossed out, it could have been a lightning bolt,

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<v Speaker 1>it could have been a nuclear bomb. It didn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>how powerful it was, and it didn't matter how connected

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<v Speaker 1>the person was. You don't think of it any connection. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>In the science of that connectivity everything, it doesn't matter

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<v Speaker 1>that the cluster was vulnerable at that point. And any

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<v Speaker 1>complex system is going to be like the surface of

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<v Speaker 1>the ocean. There are is constantly moving around. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you think of that molecule model of human connectivity, it's

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<v Speaker 1>constantly morphing and changing as people their relationships change and

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<v Speaker 1>they move from one group to another. So the point

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<v Speaker 1>that's vulnerable is all is moving. So how do you

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<v Speaker 1>affect great change like same sex marriage or any other

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<v Speaker 1>social issue that we've seen in the past. You have

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<v Speaker 1>to strike at the system relentlessly, and if you're an individual,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to get as many people on your your

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<v Speaker 1>group to strike together, and because eventually you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>be the lip match in the dry forest. That's the idea,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to let luck be a big part

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<v Speaker 1>of it, because you're trying to find the percolating local

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<v Speaker 1>cluster that will create the cascade that will cascade all

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<v Speaker 1>along the network because you're different, thresholds of conformity are

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<v Speaker 1>moving in and out of the networks that you're affecting.

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<v Speaker 1>If you look through any of the history of people

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<v Speaker 1>who who have affected great social change, especially history of

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<v Speaker 1>the United States, UH, they had figured out some system

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<v Speaker 1>by which to get a lot of people together to

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<v Speaker 1>strike at the system relentlessly, and they were indefatigable. And

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<v Speaker 1>that was the most important aspect of the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>And there are all sorts of other ways to nudge

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<v Speaker 1>and move around, but that seems to be the essence

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<v Speaker 1>of it. And that example from COVID nineteen, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>the fastest social change now ever recorded. They use this.

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<v Speaker 1>What they did is they it was people who were

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<v Speaker 1>very hesitant to get vaccinated because it was in the UK.

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<v Speaker 1>People in certain religious communities were very hesitant because of

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<v Speaker 1>their past with the you know, the government of the UK,

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<v Speaker 1>and they didn't want to necessarily allow these government entities

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't understand very well to take a needle and

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<v Speaker 1>put something they didn't understand very well in their bodies.

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<v Speaker 1>So organizations got together with mosques and said here's the

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<v Speaker 1>sites where we'll have the vaccinations. And they they got

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<v Speaker 1>the the elites within that religious community too, to be

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<v Speaker 1>the first to vaccinate. And so what you end up

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<v Speaker 1>with is you have this wave effect of the least

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<v Speaker 1>hesitant among the most hesitants. So these are people with

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<v Speaker 1>the threshold, the threshold of performity where they will go, well,

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<v Speaker 1>all I need is one person I trust to do this,

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<v Speaker 1>they get vaccinated. Well, that's a new wave of people

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<v Speaker 1>who are vaccinated. So that next level of hesitancy says, well,

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<v Speaker 1>this number of people that I trust have been vaccinated,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get vaccinated. So now you have that next level

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<v Speaker 1>of hesitancy that they've been they've been saying, told two friends.

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<v Speaker 1>And you eventually wave your way through the cascades so

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<v Speaker 1>that when you get to that middle hump that's very

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<v Speaker 1>hard to get over, you have so many people vaccinated

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<v Speaker 1>around you, it seems kind of weird that you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be And it's okay. You only some of the holdouts

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<v Speaker 1>may take forever, the last people to buy the facts

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<v Speaker 1>machine or whatever, but they're in a world. But you

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<v Speaker 1>people that have already, and that's what we're aiming for

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<v Speaker 1>and so there are ways to UH to catalyze the

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<v Speaker 1>cascade effects, but you have to you have to think

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<v Speaker 1>of it in terms of the diffusion model. In this

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<v Speaker 1>regard is not that old fashioned, the early adopter holdout model.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's waves of conformity via the thresholds cafformity, where

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<v Speaker 1>you want to build up by saying this group influences

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<v Speaker 1>this group together, they become a new unit, and so

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<v Speaker 1>on and so on. Quite quite intriguing. So let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about this evolutionary baggage that we have.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems that so much of our decision making UH

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<v Speaker 1>is affected by mechanisms and processes which worked great on

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<v Speaker 1>the savannah, but in a modern world don't really seem

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<v Speaker 1>to help us and sometimes hurt us. Yeah, yeah, the

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's been a big part of all of

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<v Speaker 1>my work of the all these things are adaptive, as

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<v Speaker 1>that's the phrase you want to use, like, in all

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<v Speaker 1>things being equal, this is probably the best thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>But we get in certain situations where that are unique

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<v Speaker 1>to modern life, and it turns out that he can

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<v Speaker 1>get us in trouble. So that's the the baggage you're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about. Is one of those things where most of

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<v Speaker 1>the time it serves as well, but in very specific

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<v Speaker 1>situations it goes the other way. Huh. Really intriguing there.

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<v Speaker 1>There's there is some specific evolutionary or adaptive issues that

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<v Speaker 1>come up. Why do humans argue? And why is that

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<v Speaker 1>really a social dynamic that we all do when we

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<v Speaker 1>all evolved to do? I? You know, this is one

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite things that that change the way I

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<v Speaker 1>see the world. In researching the book The Um, a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of this also goes back to the interactions model.

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<v Speaker 1>With that Mercy and Sperber helped put together, UM, why

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<v Speaker 1>would we argue? Well, the human beings have this nice, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>complex and dense communication system that eventually became language, and

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<v Speaker 1>we depend very much on the signals from other units

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<v Speaker 1>in our social network to help us understand what's going on,

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<v Speaker 1>to make plans, to settle on goals, shared goals, to

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<v Speaker 1>decide to just do stuff, and so we do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of deliberating and arguing that space. The problem is, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>imagine it like, UM, there are three people, three proto

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<v Speaker 1>humans are on a hill and they're all looking in

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<v Speaker 1>different directions, and the none of us can see what

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<v Speaker 1>the other two can see, so you would benefit from

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of worldview that is the combination of all

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<v Speaker 1>three perspectives. So if I do trust these people, I

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<v Speaker 1>know them pretty well, and we're talking about going to

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<v Speaker 1>a certain place in the in the forest together or something.

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<v Speaker 1>One persons for it, one persons against it, I'll know

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<v Speaker 1>that the person who's for it is young. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>first time out. They don't know much about the world.

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<v Speaker 1>They're eager to show what they can do. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's why they like that. The other news hesitant. They

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<v Speaker 1>were in a bear attack two years ago, and they're

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if they really are there, maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>little over scared. This is also I have a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good idea of what how to modulate my trust about

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes into the deliberation process. The more people

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<v Speaker 1>involved in that process, the more complex against the more

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<v Speaker 1>I have to worry about. People could be misleading me.

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<v Speaker 1>They could be wrong just about about no fault of

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<v Speaker 1>their own, or they could be purposely misleading me because

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<v Speaker 1>they want to get an advantage over me. So um

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<v Speaker 1>they use the phrase we have a built in epistemic

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<v Speaker 1>vigilance for when people might be misleading us. The and

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<v Speaker 1>that serves as well too. The only problem is that

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<v Speaker 1>can lead to something they call a trust bottleneck. And

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<v Speaker 1>a trust bottleneck is when someone does actually in our

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<v Speaker 1>group come up with a very innovative idea. Maybe it's

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<v Speaker 1>a some sort of invention. They've created some sort of

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<v Speaker 1>new way of doing something. They have an idea about

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<v Speaker 1>going to a new territory where they're there's good things

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<v Speaker 1>for us to go do there. But it's there's a

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<v Speaker 1>risk and reward in it and this, but this person

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<v Speaker 1>really is right. If we get into an argumentation prod

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<v Speaker 1>yus that's too epistemically vigilant, then we will end up

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<v Speaker 1>not doing the thing that could benefit the group, And

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<v Speaker 1>so we have this trust bottleneck that could prevent the

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<v Speaker 1>calls groups to stagnate. So we developed another evolutionary mechanism

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<v Speaker 1>to get past trust bottlenecks, and that is arguing itself.

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<v Speaker 1>The argumentation process is how we get through the trust

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<v Speaker 1>bottleneck created by epistemic vigilance and go ahead. Ye, So

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna ask, why are we so good at

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<v Speaker 1>picking other people's arguments apart and so terrible at objectively

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<v Speaker 1>evaluating all loves so much? There's a uh this it

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<v Speaker 1>reminds me something the psychology called the Solomon paradox. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's in business too, with the we're really good

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<v Speaker 1>at giving out advice, it's very hard for us to

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<v Speaker 1>actually employ in our own lives. Like you, when somebody

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<v Speaker 1>has a problem, they tell you and you're like, here's

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<v Speaker 1>what you ought to do, But then when you have

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<v Speaker 1>that exact same problem, you don't do that thing. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>There's some really cool research recently where they have people

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<v Speaker 1>put on VR headsets and they walk into a room

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<v Speaker 1>in virtuality and see uh Freud sitting there and uh

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<v Speaker 1>Freud says, tell me about your problems, and they sit

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<v Speaker 1>down and they explained the problem they're they're having, and

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<v Speaker 1>then they run the second time, but the second time,

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<v Speaker 1>you are Freud and uh you see yourself walk in.

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<v Speaker 1>It's all been recorded. They even have an avatar with

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<v Speaker 1>your face and you hear the audio of yourself telling

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<v Speaker 1>your telling you as Freud what your problems are. And

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<v Speaker 1>they have around a sixty eight percent success rate of

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<v Speaker 1>the person having a breakthrough, Oh I see what I

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<v Speaker 1>ought to do now that they couldn't do on their own.

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<v Speaker 1>They need to get into this dynamic that we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about meaning looking at it from with through a different

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<v Speaker 1>path they need to be they had to get that

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<v Speaker 1>evaluation phase. So um, we have two cognitive mechanisms to

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<v Speaker 1>really simplify this. One for the production of arguments, for

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<v Speaker 1>the production of justifications and rationalizations, reasons why we are

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<v Speaker 1>doing something. It's important that in psychology reason is not

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<v Speaker 1>the big our reason of philosophy with propositional logic and

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<v Speaker 1>all that. It's just coming up for with reasons for

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<v Speaker 1>what you think totally rationalization, rationalization and justification and in

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<v Speaker 1>some cases just explanation and why why do we do this? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the the interaccess model is because we're always imagined the

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<v Speaker 1>audience that's going to be receiving the information. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>you in your shower you're thinking of how you're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>really stick it to that person on Reddit that you've

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<v Speaker 1>been arguing with all day? Right? Why? Because that's the

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<v Speaker 1>that's how that's how we produce reasons. But we also

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<v Speaker 1>do it alone. Like if I'm imagining I want to

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<v Speaker 1>buy something on Amazon or I want to take a

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<v Speaker 1>trip somewhere, You'll start rationalizing and justifying it to yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>And when you when you want a piece of cake,

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<v Speaker 1>you will come up with with a justification. We're getting

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<v Speaker 1>the cake right, like I didn't need anything to day,

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<v Speaker 1>or I did or exercise yesterday, or whatever it is

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<v Speaker 1>you need to do. You want to do it, but

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<v Speaker 1>you need a justification for it. There's a humongous body

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<v Speaker 1>of evidence that we don't even make the decisions that

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<v Speaker 1>are best. We only make the decision that's easiest to justify.

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<v Speaker 1>And um, huge mercy and spurn all these great experiments

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<v Speaker 1>where they have people um and one of them, they

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<v Speaker 1>had people they solve these word problems, and then they

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<v Speaker 1>would mix the answers up and have people evaluate other

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<v Speaker 1>people who have been looking at the word problem. But

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<v Speaker 1>of course the trick is when one of the answers

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<v Speaker 1>is their own, and they would find that when people

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<v Speaker 1>were thinking that they were evaluating other people's arguments, they'd

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<v Speaker 1>find the holes in their own like thinking and their

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<v Speaker 1>own reasoning, But if they thought they were looking at

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<v Speaker 1>their own arguments, they'd usually miss it. So it's an

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<v Speaker 1>effective trick. Maybe trick is the wrong word, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>an effective technique to get people to objectively self analyzes,

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<v Speaker 1>to make them believe they're criticizing someone else's argus right,

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<v Speaker 1>So the there and what it seems to be the

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<v Speaker 1>function here. Why this is so adaptive is that under

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pressure or doesn't even it doesn't even

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<v Speaker 1>need to be a group selection process. It's just simply

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<v Speaker 1>how the math works out. If you have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of different people with a lot of different experiences, and

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<v Speaker 1>they have a lot of different value sets, and they

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of different skill sets, and you're facing

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<v Speaker 1>a problem, you're trying to come up with a solution

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<v Speaker 1>to it, or you have a goal you want to

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<v Speaker 1>reach it, you will be much more effective as a

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<v Speaker 1>group if everybody presents their biased individual perspective and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't put a lot of cognitive effort into the production

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<v Speaker 1>of it, make it easy, cheap, and bias. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>offload the cognitive labor to that evaluation process that twelve

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<v Speaker 1>angry men experience where everyone looks at each other arguments

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<v Speaker 1>and goes, okay, this that, this, that, this that, and

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<v Speaker 1>over time that's developed these two mechanisms we have this. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why as individuals, and that's not one of the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest problems on the Internet is that we we do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of our deliberating these days and context that

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<v Speaker 1>incentivize the production of arguments, but don't really give us

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<v Speaker 1>much opportunity to go through that evaluation together. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>phrase you had in the book that that caught my eye.

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<v Speaker 1>Debate leads those who are wrong to change their minds,

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<v Speaker 1>and as a group, you want to get to the

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<v Speaker 1>best decision, the best outcome. On the Internet, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>as much a real collaborative discussion argument debate as it

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<v Speaker 1>is just people yelling past each other. Yeah, but it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like, you know, it looks like a real debate,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's not. Yeah, I feel like I'm doing that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I feel like I'm participating in some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of marketplace of ideas. It seems like I'm doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>But the way the platforms are currently set up, for

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<v Speaker 1>the most part, it's just people yelling people like writing

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<v Speaker 1>on a piece of paper what they think, feeling believe in,

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<v Speaker 1>dumping it onto a big pie, and then other people

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<v Speaker 1>running through the pile and guard like there's it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like a twelve angry man. We're not actually sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>a circle and and or you know, it's not like

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<v Speaker 1>a dinner party where we're I'm sure you've had dinner

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<v Speaker 1>parties or had guests over who have really wildly different

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<v Speaker 1>political views in you and you didn't like get into

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<v Speaker 1>twitter mind with them. You talked it out in some way.

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<v Speaker 1>That is that that aspect is something we've yet to

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<v Speaker 1>tweak the system to allow us in certain contexts. There

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<v Speaker 1>was a very amusing cartoon. I don't remember who who's

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<v Speaker 1>it was, but the line was, what did you do

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<v Speaker 1>when the United States was overthrown in the early twenty

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<v Speaker 1>one century? Oh? I tweeted my disapproval for and it

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<v Speaker 1>just you know what, what is a hundred forty characters?

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it scrolls by instantly. It's not really that

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<v Speaker 1>sort of engaged discussion. I don't mean to be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't mean to to poople on social media.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's great for what it is. It's just that

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<v Speaker 1>it is. But it also is what it is like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a It's a great tool for giving voice

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<v Speaker 1>to people who haven't been part of the conversation in

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. It's a great way to gauge what

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<v Speaker 1>are people thinking and feeling. But if we want to

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<v Speaker 1>do the deliberation thing, the argumentation thing that moves things around,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not so great at that yet and the question

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<v Speaker 1>is will will it ever be? Um? So, so you

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned twelve angry men. This is a this is a

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<v Speaker 1>great line in your book. All culture is twelve angry

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<v Speaker 1>men at scale. Yeah, go into some detail about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>as plays right off what we were just discussing, like

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<v Speaker 1>the the everything we've ever achieved as species of note

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<v Speaker 1>as came out of a lot of people disagreeing and

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<v Speaker 1>then like sorting it out and there are um we've

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<v Speaker 1>been great at creating some some institutions that do this

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<v Speaker 1>on purpose, like science when it's done well is a

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<v Speaker 1>group of people debating and argument with the other and

1:21:46.880 --> 1:21:48.840
<v Speaker 1>trying to tear each other's ideas. But there's a good

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<v Speaker 1>faith in signs and elsewhere that you may not get

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<v Speaker 1>on on Reddit or Twitter. It's so crucial to create

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<v Speaker 1>creating the rules of the game, and we all play

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<v Speaker 1>by it. And you I've that you if I meet

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<v Speaker 1>you on the street or I meet you on the internet,

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<v Speaker 1>like we may not be in a good faith environment,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to play by those rules that that That's

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<v Speaker 1>why it was so nice to create these systems of

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<v Speaker 1>argumentation like law and UH medicine and academia, the and

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<v Speaker 1>most of the people that we I'm very against the

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<v Speaker 1>great Man theory of things that where you imagine single

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<v Speaker 1>inventors coming up with amazing insights like no one ever

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<v Speaker 1>does anything in isolation like that. The and a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the even the people we've lauded throughout history, they

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<v Speaker 1>had either someone that they bounced ideas with across and against,

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<v Speaker 1>or they collaborated with, or they were absolutely assaulted over

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<v Speaker 1>and over again by people who disagreed with them, and

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<v Speaker 1>they had to refine their arguments in the presence of

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<v Speaker 1>all of that. And that's why I talk about culture

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<v Speaker 1>being twelve agrement scale like once any like society five

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<v Speaker 1>figures out a way to institutionalize those things. That's when

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<v Speaker 1>you get those massive leaps, and both in the social

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<v Speaker 1>domain and the political domain and the scientific and technological domains.

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<v Speaker 1>So so, given all of these things we've been talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>from tribalism to identity, how do we get people to

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<v Speaker 1>actually change their mind? What are the three key things

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<v Speaker 1>people need to have happened to them in order to

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<v Speaker 1>get a major shift in their position. We know it

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<v Speaker 1>would be difficult, I think, to pick just three things,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can think of a couple of things that

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<v Speaker 1>we fit in here. I think one thing I want

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<v Speaker 1>people to understand is all persuasion and self persuasion, uh

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<v Speaker 1>most mostly when it comes to change people's minds, what

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to do is alert them the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>they could change their mind. So a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>socratic process is you you're guiding them to something and

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<v Speaker 1>if they're not willing, then they're never going to change them.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's you know, we all we talk a lot

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<v Speaker 1>about how facts don't seem to work so well. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's only because the usually when you start arguing somebody

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<v Speaker 1>over an issue you want to present them, you'll say like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>read this book, Hey watch this YouTube video, Hey go

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<v Speaker 1>to this website, and you're like, that should do it.

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<v Speaker 1>But how's that? Has that ever happened to you? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>never has anyone sent me a YouTube video? And I've

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<v Speaker 1>been like, oh, okay, I never know it though, change

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<v Speaker 1>my mind, said nobody. And that's the idea of that

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<v Speaker 1>is you there's a reasoning. There's a chain of processing

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<v Speaker 1>involved in reasoning where you are probably unaware that you

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<v Speaker 1>went through all this and it landed on a particular

1:24:09.320 --> 1:24:12.120
<v Speaker 1>conclusion because it made sense to you had matched your

1:24:12.200 --> 1:24:14.160
<v Speaker 1>values and your attitudes and your beliefs on the matter,

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<v Speaker 1>and you have to afford the other person the opportunity

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<v Speaker 1>to go through that same process. You can't meet them

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<v Speaker 1>at the level of the conclusion, because what ends up

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<v Speaker 1>happening you just start tossing these these facts that support

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<v Speaker 1>your position at each other instead of having a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>in which we're looking at the issue together. Right. So

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<v Speaker 1>that's one thing, is like you can't copy and paste

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<v Speaker 1>your reasoning into another person. And when you're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>argue just based off facts and links and stuff, that's

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<v Speaker 1>really what you're suggesting they ought to do. So all

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<v Speaker 1>persuasion self persuasion. I have to open up a space

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<v Speaker 1>for you to explore your own reasoning, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>to open up a space for you to to entertain

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<v Speaker 1>different perspectives and to think about where your stuff comes from.

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<v Speaker 1>Was what we did earlier in the conversation. Secondly, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to recognize that we're social creatures, so people are

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<v Speaker 1>influenced by the signaling and the expectations of the people

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<v Speaker 1>around them. If you say anything to that person that

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<v Speaker 1>could be interpreted as you ought to be ashamed for

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<v Speaker 1>what you think, feeling, believe, conversations over. At that point,

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<v Speaker 1>no one was willing to be ostracized. The great sociologist

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke Harrington told me that there was an Eagles mc

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<v Speaker 1>Square of social science. It would be social death. The

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<v Speaker 1>fear of social death is greater than the fear of

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<v Speaker 1>physical death. Literally a quote I have written down because

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was so so, and she ran me

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<v Speaker 1>through a hundred examples where this is the true, from

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<v Speaker 1>war to excommunication, to go down the list. It is social.

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<v Speaker 1>Social death is actual death in most of history. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care who you are, what kind of profession

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<v Speaker 1>you're in. You're worried about other people around you, and

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<v Speaker 1>that profession think about you, and you're modulating your behavior

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<v Speaker 1>to go with and your modulating your beliefs, attitudes and values.

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<v Speaker 1>And when it comes down to it, if the situation

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<v Speaker 1>requires it, you'll put your reputation on the lifeboat and

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<v Speaker 1>you will let your body sink to the bottom of

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<v Speaker 1>the ocean if that's the situation you're put in. And

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<v Speaker 1>Dueling and all those things we do, I'll talk all

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<v Speaker 1>about the book Dueling Last a long time was really peculiar,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was just this system out of ann troll.

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<v Speaker 1>And if I'm trying to discuss an issue with you

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<v Speaker 1>and I've put you in that state of mind, you

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<v Speaker 1>there's no what you're what you're gonna do is react.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna push back against me. Then I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>get feel that feeling. I'm going to push back against you,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you push back harder, I push back harder,

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<v Speaker 1>and we end up in that stupid phrase of well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's agree to disagree. Well, we already agree to disagree.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how we sat down here, right. We're really saying

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<v Speaker 1>is stopped talking to me, And that's what that is,

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<v Speaker 1>is a nice we're agreeing to stop arguing with the data.

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<v Speaker 1>We're agreeing to to never actually advance this issue and

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<v Speaker 1>never talk to each other again. So never open up

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation with anything that could be interpreted as you

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<v Speaker 1>ought to be ashamed, even if they should be ashamed

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<v Speaker 1>of what they're feeling and thinking. If you're hoping to

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<v Speaker 1>persuade them, you have to not do that. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the so be aware that they're a social primate. You're

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<v Speaker 1>a social primate. Never try to copy and paste your

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<v Speaker 1>reading and the other person and the most important part

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<v Speaker 1>is that you have to get out of debate frame.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't don't create a dynamic work. I want to win,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to lose. I want to show that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm right and you're wrong. This is this is the

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<v Speaker 1>most crucial thing. If you take nothing else away from it,

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<v Speaker 1>take this, think of it. We're like hum, I find

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<v Speaker 1>you a reasonable, rational, interesting human being, and it's ad

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<v Speaker 1>that I disagree with you on this. I wonder why

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree with you? Our disagreement is a mystery. What

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<v Speaker 1>if we teamed up to solve a mystery together why

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<v Speaker 1>we disagree? And now we're taking all these things that

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<v Speaker 1>are adaptive and usually in a way that could actually

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<v Speaker 1>get us further along and settle. And what might actually

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<v Speaker 1>happen is we both realized we're both wrong. What we

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<v Speaker 1>we get to vin diagram ourselves. So you go from

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<v Speaker 1>face off to shoulder shoulder and this if There are

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<v Speaker 1>many different ways to go about it, but once you

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<v Speaker 1>get in that dynamic, you're much more likely to persuade

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<v Speaker 1>each other of something and move the attitude the room

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<v Speaker 1>quite fascinating. So let's jump to our speed round. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to ask all these questions thirty seconds or less.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do my best. These are These are what

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<v Speaker 1>we ask all of our guests, starting with what are

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<v Speaker 1>you streaming or listening? To? Tell us what what Netflix,

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<v Speaker 1>Amazon Prime podcasts kept you entertained the past couple of years?

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<v Speaker 1>Cool very quickly. My favorite podcast has always been are

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<v Speaker 1>still is Decoder Ring? I recommended to everybody. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Will A Paskin is amazing best show US stream and

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<v Speaker 1>recently it's definitely Severance. Everybody should have seen Severance by now.

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<v Speaker 1>Also the rehearsal. You can see the kind of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that I like watch. Someone just recommended the rehearsal and

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<v Speaker 1>said it reminded them of Severance and how out there?

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<v Speaker 1>Ye watch that? And then like, I'm among those people

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<v Speaker 1>that please video games the highest form of art. You

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<v Speaker 1>definitely play Death Stranding And I replayed BioShock recently because

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<v Speaker 1>I interviewed Douglas rush Kof and we were talking about

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<v Speaker 1>BioShock and it still holds up. Who are some of

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<v Speaker 1>your mentors who helped you develop your your view of

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<v Speaker 1>psychology and cognitive issues? And you know, persuasion Gene Edwards

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<v Speaker 1>my first, like the first psychology professor that took me

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<v Speaker 1>inside aside and said let's be friends and really talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it. I owe a lot to her, you know

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<v Speaker 1>people who I've met in real life. Whoever. James Burke

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<v Speaker 1>is the most influential person in my life. I loved

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<v Speaker 1>his show years ago. I think it was BBC How

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<v Speaker 1>the Universe Change, How the Universe change? And can actions?

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<v Speaker 1>And I can Connections only for people listening to this.

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<v Speaker 1>I worked with Johnson and UH, James Burke all over

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<v Speaker 1>all throughout COVID to develop a new Connection series really

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<v Speaker 1>and I can't say anything else about it, but it

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<v Speaker 1>will be coming out with in the next year. Very exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>I love his stuff. What are some of your favorite books?

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<v Speaker 1>And what are you reading right now? Let me say,

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<v Speaker 1>as far as authors, I love UH, John Jeremiah Sullivan, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlie Laduff, Michael Perry, Larry Brown, all these there are

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<v Speaker 1>either people who are in Southern Gothic literature or or

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<v Speaker 1>the Southern Gothic literature version of journalism. I can't get

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<v Speaker 1>enough of that stuff. Our last two questions, what sort

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<v Speaker 1>of advice would you give to a recent college grad

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<v Speaker 1>who was interested in a career of either journalism or

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<v Speaker 1>psychology or anything related to to your field. I'll give you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you two solid pieces of advice that aren't

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<v Speaker 1>just high minded like that sounds nice, and they can

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<v Speaker 1>put it on postcard things. This is what you gotta do.

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<v Speaker 1>Number one, Email the people that you admire or the

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<v Speaker 1>people you'd like to interview. I have about a seventy

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<v Speaker 1>percent success rate of when I was good starting out

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<v Speaker 1>of people. They will at least email you back and

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<v Speaker 1>say I can't talk, but you'd be surprised how many

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<v Speaker 1>people are willing to talk to you. Just do that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then on this on the back end, make content

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<v Speaker 1>out of that and give it away for free until

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<v Speaker 1>you build up an audience. We now live in an

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<v Speaker 1>environment we've been living in it for about twenty years

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<v Speaker 1>now where the people who are going to offer their

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<v Speaker 1>hand to get you on stage, they care about whether

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<v Speaker 1>or not you have an audience. Yet you can build

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<v Speaker 1>that audience without anybody's permission right now, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>do that by making content on TikTok YouTube, putting it

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<v Speaker 1>out on a medium wherever you put your stuff. So

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<v Speaker 1>do those two things back to back. Email the people

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<v Speaker 1>you want, and they make content out of those emails

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<v Speaker 1>and give it away for free into you have an audience,

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<v Speaker 1>develop your voice. Love that idea. Final question, what do

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<v Speaker 1>you know about the world of psychology, changing minds and

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<v Speaker 1>persuasion today that you wish you knew twenty or so

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<v Speaker 1>years ago when you were first getting started. No one's unreachable,

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<v Speaker 1>No one's unpersuadable. There's no such thing. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>of it more like if you try to reach the

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<v Speaker 1>moon with a ladder, you'll fail, and if you assume

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<v Speaker 1>from that that the moon is unreachable, then you really

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<v Speaker 1>learn nothing right. And that's what I actually had thought

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time. And it turns out the frustration

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<v Speaker 1>I was feeling to where other people should have been

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<v Speaker 1>directed to myself for not trying to understand, well, why

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<v Speaker 1>is this not working the way I thought it should work.

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<v Speaker 1>The assumption that they're stupid or they're misled, are there

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<v Speaker 1>nefarious in some way? That was a real misconception on

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<v Speaker 1>my part, the misconception that people are just absolutely unreachable

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<v Speaker 1>and unpersuadable. I have, through the work of this book

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<v Speaker 1>changed my mind. Thank you, David for being so generous

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<v Speaker 1>with your time. We have been speaking with David McRaney,

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<v Speaker 1>the award winning science journalist and author of the book

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