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Speaker 1: One that comes to mind, as many of our classic

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Speaker 1: you guys think of a good excusive? Every years? I excuse.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking about? Ye man, best excuse you've ever used? Morning. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I was like, Shelley some stuff part. Wow, how much

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Speaker 1: I'm doing how are you? Rachel? Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: So we call his stair go Tuesday mornings, we do it.

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Speaker 1: We have your email here. What's going on with this

425
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Speaker 1: guy that you're dating? Tell us everything? Okay, So I

426
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Speaker 1: was writing you all because I'm in somewhat of a dilemma.

427
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Speaker 1: I'm a single mom. I don't get to go out

428
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Speaker 1: and date a lot. But I did just start getting

429
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Speaker 1: this new guy. I mean, he is amazing. So we've

430
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Speaker 1: been together for the past too much and he's to me.

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Speaker 1: He's really great with kids, so I know he would

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Speaker 1: be great with my son. Um. He's extremely financially stable,

433
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Speaker 1: which is like such a bonus. And my friends even

434
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Speaker 1: love him, and that's always, you know, big thing. You

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Speaker 1: want your friends to love your ear can Well. The

436
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Speaker 1: only thing is I am not attracted to him at all,

437
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Speaker 1: no matter how hard I try, I just I can't.

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Speaker 1: And my friends say that, like, you know, tractic can grow,

439
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Speaker 1: and I've heard Fred to say it. Fred has said,

440
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Speaker 1: you know, I love his slowly Bill on your show.

441
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Speaker 1: But you know, I don't know what to do, and

442
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Speaker 1: my number one priority is fun and this would be

443
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Speaker 1: a really great set up for us. You know, it's hard,

444
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 1: it's hard, and it'd be nice to have to help.

445
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Speaker 1: How do how do you wind up dating this guy

446
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Speaker 1: if you were never attracted to him? Like was this

447
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:32,560
Speaker 1: a money grab? All along? He was a friend of

448
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Speaker 1: a friend and you know, she's like, he's a really

449
00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 1: great guy, just you know, just try it out. So

450
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Speaker 1: we get there and you know, he's amazing. I mean,

451
00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: the conversation was great, but when it comes to that

452
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Speaker 1: physical traction there, you know, it's you have like perfect

453
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Speaker 1: on paper guy. It sounds like, which, yes, I think

454
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Speaker 1: I think every girl has probably dated one perfect on

455
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Speaker 1: paper guy in their life. I know I had, and

456
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Speaker 1: I tried really hard to like him too, or to

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Speaker 1: be like, you know, sexually attracted or like to have

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Speaker 1: that spark. And it's right putting a square peg into

459
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Speaker 1: a round hole. Sometimes it's just if it's not there,

460
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Speaker 1: I don't know how you know you can, especially in

461
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Speaker 1: the beginning, like if you don't have that right So

462
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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't know I've heard of.

463
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Speaker 1: I've heard of like friendships developing into romantic relationships because

464
00:24:17,880 --> 00:24:21,399
Speaker 1: over time, the like the friendship that you develop turns

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Speaker 1: into an attraction because you begin to see someone in

466
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Speaker 1: a different light. But what I haven't necessarily heard of

467
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Speaker 1: is somebody well, actually that's not entirely true. You hear

468
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Speaker 1: about this all the time and arranged marriages where people

469
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Speaker 1: they get together because it's arranged because that's what their culture, um,

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Speaker 1: you know, dictates or whatever, and they wind up becoming

471
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Speaker 1: attracted one to one another. They wind up loving each

472
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Speaker 1: other deeply, having successful marriages. But this, to me, you

473
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Speaker 1: keep you keep talking about the money, and so I

474
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Speaker 1: wonder if you would even be with this guy at

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Speaker 1: all if he didn't have any dough like, like, is

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Speaker 1: this even about the other aspects of your connection? And

477
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Speaker 1: because if it's not, then you're never going to be

478
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Speaker 1: attracted to this guy's now we're gonna change. I think

479
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Speaker 1: I might be attracted do it funny? You know? Yeah,

480
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Speaker 1: then if you're gonna become resentful, you know, should you stay,

481
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Speaker 1: he's gonna becomes you're using him? Well yeah, I mean this,

482
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Speaker 1: I feel like this is this is if you were

483
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Speaker 1: saying I like him for him, and I like everything

484
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Speaker 1: about him, and then I would say, maybe hang out,

485
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Speaker 1: hang on a little bit and see if the physical

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Speaker 1: attraction changes. But it sounds to me like you wouldn't

487
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Speaker 1: have picked him if he didn't have money, in which

488
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Speaker 1: case there's no, this is not probably going to change. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean this cool appearances don't typically change and get

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Speaker 1: better over time. So I mean you're right. You can't

491
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Speaker 1: force yourself to be turned on by somebody, you know. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Rachel,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna take some calls on this. I appreciate you. Uh,

493
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Speaker 1: good luck, thank you. Thanks. Yeah, this one seems free

494
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Speaker 1: cut and dry to me. One one three five. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I can understand, like, you know, when you are single, mom,

496
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Speaker 1: it is hard to date and you get back out there,

497
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Speaker 1: and if he does have every you know, perfect quality

498
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Speaker 1: aside from I can understand the idea of the security

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Speaker 1: for her and her child and blah blah blah. But

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Speaker 1: it just seems to be only you know, money motivated.

501
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Speaker 1: I don't think she's doing herself or her child any

502
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Speaker 1: favors if she's with a guy and she's forcing it

503
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Speaker 1: simply to to use him to be able to provide

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Speaker 1: for herself for her part of the family. Hey, Kelly,

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Speaker 1: Hi Kelly. Uh, you know a lot of times these

506
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Speaker 1: aren't all that cut and dry. This one seems pretty

507
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Speaker 1: cut and dry. Oh, for sure. The money is only

508
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,480
Speaker 1: gonna last, so long's I get real boring, real bath. Oh.

509
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Speaker 1: I think she should go because it's new and exciting

510
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Speaker 1: right now, and the money is great. But I think

511
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Speaker 1: after a while, Yeah, you need more in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: It can't just be. It sounds like she would like

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Speaker 1: that with him if he didn't have money. Like again,

514
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Speaker 1: it's one thing if she meets him like this, this

515
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Speaker 1: is a nice guy, and he takes her out and

516
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Speaker 1: and they developed this rapport and she she likes who

517
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Speaker 1: he is as a person, and you know, I would say, Okay,

518
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: don't don't necessarily run away right away just because you're

519
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Speaker 1: not attracted to him at this exact moment, if all

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Speaker 1: the other fundamentals are there. But she kept going back

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Speaker 1: to money, which makes me think all the fundamentals are

522
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:21,280
Speaker 1: not there. Oh, exactly, for sure. It's not. I mean

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Speaker 1: it's like, let's have a baby to save our relationship. Yeah,

524
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: it's not gonna work. Yeah, I agree, Thanks Kelly, have

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Speaker 1: a great day. Thank you glad you call him mad? Hey,

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Speaker 1: how you do? Mad? What's going on? Man? You heard

527
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Speaker 1: stay or go? What do you think? You can't really

528
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Speaker 1: say that she's using him for his money. He's probably

529
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Speaker 1: dating out of his bleeding. He's probably happy to spend

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Speaker 1: the money out and he's getting something out of it,

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Speaker 1: you know, like he's not just being held hostage for

532
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Speaker 1: his money, like exactly, well probably, And you think about

533
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Speaker 1: how many men are with women, Men with money that

534
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Speaker 1: get women that are like younger out of their league

535
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: like whatever, and they know the deal, they know that

536
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,520
Speaker 1: they're you know, I don't know. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: we could put him in that box automatically because she's

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Speaker 1: saying he's a good guy of good character, and he's

539
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Speaker 1: good to her and he treats her well, and he's

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Speaker 1: invested in her child and all these That doesn't sound

541
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: like a sex trade like a like like a like

542
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Speaker 1: a fair exchange without talking, but not just sex. He's

543
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: getting something out of it aside from sex, yeah, but

544
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: he's but he's not getting is a genuine connection that

545
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: he may believe that he is getting and without talking

546
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 1: to him, I don't know that we could say that.

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Speaker 1: I think I could only assume this guy probably thinks,

548
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: even if he is out of his league, that the

549
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 1: like is reciprocated and the like is not reciprocated here. Yeah,

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00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: thank you, man, have a good day. I mean, you

551
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 1: hear about guys all the time who have money and

552
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,800
Speaker 1: they get these hot girls. But I don't I don't

553
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 1: know about too many of these guys that are trying

554
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: to get the whole package. In that case, all they're

555
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: trying to get is one thing. And it sounds like

556
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,040
Speaker 1: he he thinks this is a real relationship. That's what

557
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Speaker 1: sounds like. Hey Sam, Hey, how's it going? Hey Sam?

558
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 1: What do you think? But you know what, I've been

559
00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: dating enough and I've been noticing a pattern the minute

560
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: they that comes out of them out there that they're

561
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: a single parent. You know, they're they're out for the money. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't agree with that. So wait a minute. Every

563
00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 1: single parent out there is only looking for a MoneyGram.

564
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: That's ridiculous. Honestly, it seems like a lot of women

565
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 1: are looking for security and at least with them, you know,

566
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Speaker 1: honest about it. You can't, like, you can't lump everybody

567
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Speaker 1: into that Category're saying the single parents out there that

568
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: they can't be also looking for love. Of course, they're

569
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Speaker 1: looking for security. They might prioritize security more because they're

570
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: going to involve another life in this in this dynamic.

571
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Speaker 1: But I don't think every by no means is every

572
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: single parent out they're a user. Well I can't say

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Speaker 1: every single parent. But when they start saying that I'm

574
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Speaker 1: a struggling single parent, and they keep bringing that up,

575
00:29:54,400 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 1: they I know I had experience that I don't. I

576
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like this is your personal experience

577
00:30:03,840 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I don't agree. Yeah, um, but thank you, Sam,

578
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: have a good day. Yeah, I don't. I don't know. Sally,

579
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I wish I wish we could get

580
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 1: hold of the guy and and and let him. He's

581
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: the one to stay or go. He needs to go. Yeah.

582
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: All we listen to her like I heart like this show.

583
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 1: Later on, yeahs up, maybe somebody will tell him like

584
00:30:27,200 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: this sounds like your situation. He doesn't sound like a

585
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 1: bad guy, I mean, and she describes him as a

586
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:36,920
Speaker 1: good guy, so I feel like he probably does think

587
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 1: this is for real, whether or not she's hotter than

588
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 1: him or not. And I feel like, you know, this

589
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 1: is all on false pretenses. This is the worst one

590
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: you've ever put on, Like she's a pig. I just

591
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: can't well, you know what he might be down though,

592
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: Like if he finds out that she's just in it

593
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:54,479
Speaker 1: for the money and like the security, he might be like, well,

594
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Speaker 1: that's cool. I like her, I want to hang out

595
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: with her. I like her kid, I'm willing to do

596
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: it too. You know. Oh, it's you find out thought sells.

597
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 1: That's not true. My gut tells me this guy is thinking.

598
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: He's that he's getting the whole package, and he's doing

599
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:11,800
Speaker 1: his best to be supportive and and uh and embrace

600
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: her life as it is, and and and that she's

601
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: sitting here telling us that she basically wouldn't be with

602
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,720
Speaker 1: him if not for the dough. She needs to set

603
00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: him free. Um, thank you, Sally. Ah. Yeah, you know,

604
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: it sounds like it's kind of early two months or whatever,

605
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,840
Speaker 1: especially if she knew she wasn't attracted to him yet

606
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah, yeah, thank you so much. Have a

607
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: great taste. I love you too. Bye. Hello, Julie. Yeah,

608
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: this statement a couple of calls ago is pretty outrageous.

609
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 1: And you're a single mom. Yeah, and I assume you're

610
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,320
Speaker 1: you're holding your own you take care of your own

611
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 1: children or child, and you take care of your own life.

612
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: And if you can find a guy who compliments that,

613
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: I would imagine that's what you're after exactly. Yeah. I

614
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: haven't dated much in the last couple of years because

615
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: I haven't really met that right person. And then I

616
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: can afford I'm you know, I have a good income

617
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: and I can take care of my own family. I'm

618
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 1: not looking for that. And I think it's a little offensive.

619
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 1: It's super offensive. I mean, when I was a single mom,

620
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't running the streets looking for the richest guy

621
00:32:16,720 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 1: I could find. I want you want something real, Yes,

622
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: of course, and even if you are struggling. I think

623
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 1: a lot of people out there single parents are struggling,

624
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 1: but they're not going to just bring anybody into their

625
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 1: child's life simply because the person has money. I don't

626
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 1: like the I don't like I don't like that. Thank you, Julie.

627
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 1: Have a great day. Hey, Eric, Hey going, Hey, stay

628
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: or go? What do you think? Let's just call spade

629
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: a spade. She's a gold digger. Sally hit the nail

630
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: on the head. She should be a shame for doing

631
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: what she's doing. She's always the reason guys to trying

632
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 1: to get out of the dating game. It's awful. Well, um,

633
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: you know, look, I think guys are guilty for using

634
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,280
Speaker 1: women or whomever for their own purposes too. I think

635
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: this is part ticular case. So it seems pretty clear

636
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: that she's after this one scenario scenario. Like Dally said,

637
00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: this is the worst one. Just listening to it, my

638
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:12,479
Speaker 1: ears were burning. Normally never call, but yeah, this one

639
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 1: was just so awful. I was like, I hope the

640
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: guy listens and here too. He's in four and he

641
00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: just out me too, me too, Thank you, Eric, have

642
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 1: a good day, man, appreciate you. Hey, Lily, Hi, Lily,

643
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:25,720
Speaker 1: let me just recab if you're just shooting it on

644
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,440
Speaker 1: stair or go um. Rachel reached out to us and

645
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: said that she's was set up with a guy who

646
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: is I guess friends of friends or whatever, and he's

647
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 1: pretty much everything on paper that she would want. He's

648
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: a nice except for one thing. He's a nice guy.

649
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: He has money. She mentioned the money three or four times.

650
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,600
Speaker 1: He's good with her child, friends love him, all this

651
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: different stuff, except she's not sexually attracted to him, and

652
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: is actually debating whether she stays with him because again,

653
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: of the money. What do you think I think you

654
00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 1: should go? You can't force that, you can't force antect

655
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: him someone and bringing a kid into it, it's not

656
00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: a good idea. That was messed up to him. Yeah,

657
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 1: suffered him to the child. I wish she did know

658
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 1: because she calls up here so nonchalantly and tells the story.

659
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's going to actually go um,

660
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: because that would mean that would maybe she would have

661
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: to sacrifice the spoils. Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I

662
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: thank you, Lily hav I mean, she was actually debating,

663
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 1: can I do the guy who I'm not attracted to?

664
00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 1: It's like it seems pretty obvious. No, but Aaron, hey, morning,

665
00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,880
Speaker 1: what do you think you know? I think it's obvious

666
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:42,759
Speaker 1: she should go. But here's the thing. She is more

667
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: than likely going to get what she needs from this

668
00:34:45,239 --> 00:34:48,120
Speaker 1: guy until she finds someone a little bit better because

669
00:34:48,200 --> 00:34:51,479
Speaker 1: she needs that security. Yeah, she'll wait, She'll wait until

670
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: she has a backup. Yeah, I honestly think because this

671
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 1: sounds very familiar to me, because I've found two a

672
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 1: couple of friends have been in a similar situation where

673
00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: they find its great fun and there's always a fun.

674
00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, maybe she should just take a

675
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: step back and instead of look for someone to rely

676
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:15,360
Speaker 1: on more or less, maybe she should look for someone

677
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 1: who's more compatible, more equal, because if you have an

678
00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: equal partner, then no one's better than nobody. And you

679
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: guys start at the same level and grow together, and

680
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,839
Speaker 1: once you grow together, that kind of manifests a more

681
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: organic Yeah. I gotta be honest with you that what

682
00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: you're saying right now makes a lot of sense. It's

683
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 1: the responsible, reasonable thing to do. And I don't know

684
00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: that she's necessarily thinking like that. She got to stop

685
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 1: introducing your kid do all these dudes. But like I said, again,

686
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: definite other thing. She shouldn't bring her kid in no quick. Honestly,

687
00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 1: I don't even bring their kid in until a year in.

688
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,799
Speaker 1: That's honest. But honestly, she's gonna get what she wants

689
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 1: out of them. And I mean, it sucks for him,

690
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 1: but then again, who knows. Maybe he'll still have a

691
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: relationship with the kid, because it sounds like that relationship

692
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:10,800
Speaker 1: is positive. I wish made her, but she made that

693
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 1: Maybe it is an exchange, you know. But I don't

694
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 1: think he knows. And maybe he would be satisfied with well,

695
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: well I think so, but maybe he would some people

696
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,080
Speaker 1: maybe say, hey, I got a hot wife, Um, I

697
00:36:23,200 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 1: got this kid. I wanted the family unit. I prioritized

698
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 1: that over anything. I got this appearance of this thing

699
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,879
Speaker 1: that looks great. But I gotta be in on it though,

700
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: right And I don't think that's I don't. My gut

701
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 1: tells me that's not what he's after. But um, Aaron,

702
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:41,080
Speaker 1: thank you man. Have a good day, you too, hey, Anna, Yeah,

703
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: what do you think I'm gonna give you the final

704
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 1: say on this day? Or go? What do you think

705
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: you think? So? I'm gonna think she needs to go.

706
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: He's making herself sound really really bad. On top of that,

707
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 1: she has a kid. She needs to send an example

708
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,360
Speaker 1: and whis she's seeking right now? People, As long as

709
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,719
Speaker 1: it's an officials a good point. That's a good point

710
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:01,879
Speaker 1: that brought up. I like it. Thank you so much, Anna,

711
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,640
Speaker 1: have a great day. Twitter users shared a screenshot from

712
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: Jeff blues website on Sunday that showed a screen for

713
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: setting up security questions to protect your account. So you

714
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,359
Speaker 1: know how you would type in your password and then

715
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:15,759
Speaker 1: your password like hence, you would type in a bunch

716
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 1: of questions and then they sometimes they supply the questions

717
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 1: for you, and then you'd have to you'd have to

718
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: get the questions right to get access to your password

719
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: or whatever. Yeah. Um, so one of the questions was

720
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 1: what is the name of your favorite child? Oh? Um,

721
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 1: and I don't have one. Well. On Tuesday, Jeff blues

722
00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: twitter account revealed the photo BOLDI stating say it, you

723
00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: have it, and then that went viral. Um. I assume

724
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,280
Speaker 1: you wouldn't pick that question if you don't have children,

725
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: But I wonder eight five nine, one, one h three

726
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: five are you willing to admit that you have a

727
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,799
Speaker 1: favorite child? And if so, which one is it? And why?

728
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: I am absolutely my mom's favorite, No question about she's

729
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 1: actually said that, so I believe that she asked. She

730
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: said it out loud. Yeah, you know. Yeah, I mean

731
00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 1: I think your sister feel oh well, probably dejected. I

732
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: love I love my sister to death, She's amazing. My

733
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 1: mom loves her to death too. But I think there's

734
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 1: a slightly inch over inch out inch my sister because

735
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: I was the first because I was an only child

736
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 1: for so long, boy, because I'm a boy. Um, I

737
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: just think she feels as though she relates to me better.

738
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: Do you think that, after you know your sister has

739
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 1: a baby and everything, that she might edge you out.

740
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 1: A lot of people are saying that, um, and I

741
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 1: think that that could possibly be true momentarily until of

742
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: course I create her christ child. Yeah, but then your

743
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 1: mom said that your sister's baby is going to be

744
00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:42,120
Speaker 1: her favorite because it's her first grandchild. I don't think

745
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: she said that she said it to me. She didn't, Yeah,

746
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: she did. She didn't mean she doesn't think that. She

747
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 1: doesn't think then what I create will be better. That's

748
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: all there is too. I don't. I don't know if

749
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:58,320
Speaker 1: that's true. First grandchild is usually the favorite. I don't know.

750
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: We'll see, we'll see, we'll say about that. Do you

751
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 1: think that's true though, because in your case it's not true.

752
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:08,399
Speaker 1: You said that Ashland is everyone's favorite and he's the third. Yeah,

753
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:12,319
Speaker 1: he's the golden child. He's the first boy. Why I don't.

754
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 1: I don't look at him, but what your niece is.

755
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: But I don't know. Aren't you the favorite in your family? Though? Um?

756
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:22,840
Speaker 1: How is your brother. Between me and my brother, I

757
00:39:22,920 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 1: would say I'm the favorite because your brother's kind of bad, right,

758
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: it would be kind of bad. He was, he's a

759
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,560
Speaker 1: good Yeah. No, I think you're the favorite, which means

760
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: your kid is better. So that's what I think happens.

761
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,439
Speaker 1: Plus we live here. He lives in Denver, so yeah,

762
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 1: they don't get to see access find Cindy. Oh hello, Hi,

763
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 1: good morning. You have a favorite. First of all, how

764
00:39:45,920 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 1: many kids you have? I have to have two? And

765
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: you have a favorite? Which one and why? At any

766
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: given moment it could be either one exactly? I see

767
00:39:58,520 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: how old are they? Uh? Sixteen and sixteen? Oh? Boy?

768
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: Are they? Like? Boy? Girl? What are you got going on?

769
00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:09,160
Speaker 1: Two girls? Two girls? And then really, isn't one that

770
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:14,440
Speaker 1: you connect with better on a more consistent basis? Um? No,

771
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: not really. We both we both have different relationships and

772
00:40:20,239 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 1: they're you know what, it's very different like girls, they're

773
00:40:22,760 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 1: very different. Yeah. I feel like when when it comes

774
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: to mom's if there is a boy in the equation somewhere,

775
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 1: it's usually the boy that's the favorite. Like my my brother,

776
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 1: Um is the baby, and so he's definitely the favorite

777
00:40:35,920 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 1: because he's my mom's only son. You know that's my

778
00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:46,879
Speaker 1: mom's favorite too. Yeah. Okay, well then I guess will

779
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,200
Speaker 1: always be the favorite because I'm the boy. Um. Thanks Toddie.

780
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 1: I have a good day. I don't I don't think.

781
00:40:51,680 --> 00:40:53,879
Speaker 1: I don't think it's gonna change, Kylin. Between your sister

782
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: and you. My mom always says I'm her favorite brown

783
00:40:57,080 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 1: eyed daughter. But if we're being honest, probably my sister

784
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:06,080
Speaker 1: she's easier to deal with. Yeah, is that true for now? Yeah?

785
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: She moves in with you. I'm such a mom to her.

786
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: I would not let her do anything. Hey, Kristen, Yeah,

787
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 1: Kristin Choe, you have a favorite niece or nephew. So

788
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: you don't have kids, you have nieces and nephews. Yeah,

789
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: I don't have kids, but my little nephew is my favorite,

790
00:41:25,160 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: which I wouldn't tell the others. But he's too so

791
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: he's really fun. He's been at fun stage. And my

792
00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 1: other nephews are thirteen or fourteen, so they're not very

793
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:36,920
Speaker 1: nice anymore. But do you think that he will remain

794
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 1: your favorite as he grows? Uh? I think I think so. Okay,

795
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: all right, now, thank you, Kristin, thanks for listening. I

796
00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:50,440
Speaker 1: have a great day, glad you called hey, Angela. Yeah, Angela,

797
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 1: you you know you're the favorite kid. I know I'm

798
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:59,400
Speaker 1: a favorite kid and said that. So yes. So my

799
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: mom always compares me and my sister. She says that

800
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 1: I'm her right hand. I'm always there when she needs me,

801
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,560
Speaker 1: and I'll do anything to help her. And then my

802
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 1: sister's the left hand. She's there the right hands, not

803
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:18,359
Speaker 1: around and kind of okay in a pinch, like now

804
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,040
Speaker 1: that I moved out, Like she's like, she's okay to help,

805
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 1: but like I really miss you, and like when I

806
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,239
Speaker 1: come back to visit, like I live like twenty minutes

807
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:30,399
Speaker 1: for my parents, so I'm not far at all. Yeah,

808
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: but my mom will be like, oh my gosh, my

809
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: daughter's home. My sister's like, I'm literally right here to you,

810
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,240
Speaker 1: standing right here. I've been home. What are you talking

811
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: about it. It's okay, the daughter's returning. Everything's fine. Oh wow, yeah,

812
00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 1: thank you, love you. I would say my dad probably

813
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,359
Speaker 1: favors my sister, So there's that. I think my dad

814
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 1: ty likes her better than me. So you think she's

815
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: got that going for No, I don't think that's sho, No,

816
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 1: I do. I do actually think that. Hey Maria, Maria.

817
00:43:03,239 --> 00:43:06,879
Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on from Maria. Hey Sarah, Hey,

818
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 1: Hey Sarah, good morning. How are you. I'm good, How

819
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,680
Speaker 1: are you great? Thanks for calling, Thanks for listening. So

820
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: who is your favorite child and why? He is my

821
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: son out of my four? Um, I have three girls

822
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 1: and one boy, and he is my favorite. She is

823
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: he's better to do anything. He never, he's never the

824
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: girl boy. It's the boy. Girls are hard. I mean

825
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 1: they're hard, like they are not easy to raise. Yeah,

826
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 1: minor minor eighteen, sixteen, fourteen and twelve. And he's my

827
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: sixteen year old. Yeah, and he's your favorite. He is,

828
00:43:41,400 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: and he knows it and all the girls know it,

829
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,800
Speaker 1: and it's no secret. That's funny. Thank you, glad you

830
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 1: call him a great day. Lexie. Hi, Lexi, Hi Lexi.

831
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 1: Your fiance's parents have a favorite kid. So what's the dynamic?

832
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:58,800
Speaker 1: How many and who and why? So my fiance is

833
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: the middle child, um, and he's the only boy and

834
00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 1: his younger sister is the bolden child of the family.

835
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: Oh wow, wow, Um, I could not tell you. I

836
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 1: don't understand it personally, maybe because she's possibly but they

837
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: are to the point where anythink she says it is

838
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:24,399
Speaker 1: like perfect, and the older sister and him he say,

839
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 1: don't have to say it anything. Whoa, oh Chris, yeah

840
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,279
Speaker 1: it kind of sounds like my family. Actually, yeah, no,

841
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: I love it. Thank you, have a great day. By Lexi.

842
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:38,800
Speaker 1: Let's hear the saying Natalie by Natalie. Okay, so you

843
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: have a theory about the grandchildren. Oh? Absolutely, So my

844
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: son is the first grandchild, and by far, my mother

845
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 1: totally favorites him, and I feel really bad because he

846
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:56,880
Speaker 1: gets like the best gift and she just absolutely tries

847
00:44:57,000 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: to like make it seem like she's playing favorite but

848
00:45:00,200 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: first grandchild, totally favorite. And then for me, I only

849
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:08,919
Speaker 1: have one kid, but my mother as well my oldest brother.

850
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:12,200
Speaker 1: Because there's three boys and one girl, I was by

851
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: far the least favorite, and my oldest brother always got

852
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 1: everything and first, to this day, the first grand kid.

853
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: I'm I'm the first grandkid in my family and my bubba.

854
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 1: It makes it very clear to everybody that I'm her favorite,

855
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 1: which thank god, because I'm definitely not my mom's favorite kid,

856
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:33,240
Speaker 1: but I'm the favorite grandkid. Yep, me too, totally first. First,

857
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 1: my first, my brother was firstborn, favorite, first grandchild, favorite,

858
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 1: I love you guys, though he love you too. Thank you.

859
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:44,920
Speaker 1: We'll see what happens here now. It's going to be

860
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 1: a contest, like who can have the first grandkid between

861
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 1: you and your sister. I bet you. I bet you

862
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,920
Speaker 1: have five sons and two favorites. Well, yeah, one of

863
00:45:59,000 --> 00:46:02,839
Speaker 1: them is just as more. He looks like my side

864
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: of the family, has more my personality in my life

865
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 1: and dislike and so he and I connected them all.

866
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:14,440
Speaker 1: And then there's another one who again personality wise, although

867
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: he looks like a clone off his father. Oh okay, yeah,

868
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: there's two that I connect more with. Okay, do you

869
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 1: like his father? On any given day, I was gonna say,

870
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: I didn't know if like the fact that he looked

871
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 1: like him was like, oh god, I think that was

872
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 1: a factor. And my mom being annoyed with me like

873
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 1: my whole life because I look exactly like my dad

874
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,120
Speaker 1: and she, you know, like she can't stand my dad,

875
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,960
Speaker 1: so she I think she was always looking at me like,

876
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 1: oh daddy, thank you, have a great day too. I'm

877
00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 1: glad you call a lot of people willing to admit

878
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:49,439
Speaker 1: that they've got all these phone calls. All these people

879
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 1: say they have a favorite kid. I know it's a thing.

880
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: I have a favorite dog. Like between my two dogs,

881
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: I like one better than the other. I call my

882
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 1: mom excepted sway too early. She was like five in

883
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 1: the morning in Arizona. But I don't I'd like to

884
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: confirm what she said to you, because I don't think

885
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:05,800
Speaker 1: she say it's in my face. I think maybe she

886
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 1: had been drinking, because I don't think she means that

887
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:12,400
Speaker 1: because I've asked her and she's told me a completely

888
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: different answer. So Millennials and gen Zers, I guess they

889
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: love to go to the bank because they prefer human

890
00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 1: interaction when it comes to banking, which, by the way,

891
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: you'll be able to do that all over all throughout

892
00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 1: Chicagoland if you see our friends at Winterest Community Bank.

893
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 1: A survey found seventy two percent of gen Z consumers

894
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 1: visit a physical bank branch at least monthly, the highest

895
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: of any group, and sixty percent of millennials say the same.

896
00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:40,320
Speaker 1: They're going to the bank to make deposits, pay bills,

897
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: and get face to face customer service. They say it's

898
00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:44,799
Speaker 1: important to deal with an actual person when it comes

899
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: to important transactions in banking. That's what I want to

900
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: know five nine one oh three five. What is the

901
00:47:51,200 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: and I I want to call going to the bank

902
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: old school. I don't want to say that because lots

903
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 1: of banks you can still go, a lots of reasons

904
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 1: to go. But what is kind of the old school,

905
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 1: non technologic equal thing that you still love to do?

906
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 1: For me? It's real books in a real bookstore, actual books, paper, smell, touch,

907
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: the satisfaction of completion. It sounds sexual. It is at sexually, yeah,

908
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: I mean it's yeah, it's the satisfaction of completing. Like you.

909
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: I read the book and I realized it's environmentally wasteful.

910
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: But you can donate the book, give it to somebody else,

911
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: um whatever. Also, libraries, I haven't been into a library

912
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:30,959
Speaker 1: in a long time, but I just read this book

913
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,919
Speaker 1: about libraries, and I'm back into libraries called Library Book,

914
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,400
Speaker 1: and it's a book about library. It's very it's a

915
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:39,719
Speaker 1: very good book. Well you should wake up because it's

916
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 1: a very good books had words in it, there were

917
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: pictures too. It was a very interesting book. It was

918
00:48:46,719 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: a book about I'll be honest, I thought it was

919
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: a true crime book because it's a story of initially

920
00:48:54,080 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 1: is a story about a guy who tried to burn

921
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 1: down a library in Los Angeles, and how they were

922
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:00,279
Speaker 1: investigating and trying to find him. But it really gets

923
00:49:00,320 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: into like how significant libraries are and the history of library.

924
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 1: It's very interesting. Libraries. Library is a cultural center for

925
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:10,319
Speaker 1: most invited, for most neighborhoods and also under privilege neighborhoods too.

926
00:49:10,440 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: Libraries turn me on. They make me horny. Did he

927
00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,400
Speaker 1: write that do we decimal? Do we decimal? What that

928
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:19,919
Speaker 1: was mentioned? Doe and his decimals? But what is sort

929
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 1: of the old school thing that you still love doing.

930
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: I still like writing like notes and letters and mailing

931
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 1: them and putting a stamp on them and putting them

932
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 1: in the mail. I like to do that. A lot

933
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 1: of people don't do that anymore. Yeah, yeah, rufie. I

934
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: still like going to the mall and shopping like im

935
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: and trying things on and seeing all the stuff in stores. Yeah,

936
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:45,400
Speaker 1: like I don't. I'm not an online shopper. Yeah, I

937
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:48,600
Speaker 1: mean so convenient. I like both. But yeah, I love

938
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 1: going to the mall. Sometimes I'll go out with my

939
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 1: friends and I won't be on my phone. Stop it,

940
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 1: what I swear. I kind of missed those days sometimes too.

941
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: You do that where the expectation wasn't that you were

942
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:05,040
Speaker 1: able to be contacted at any moment. Yeah, and my

943
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 1: friend's wedding, I left um at my friendancial's wedding, I

944
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 1: left my phone in the closet. My home wasn't on

945
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 1: an I can always tell if I had a good time.

946
00:50:13,719 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: If there's no pictures because I'm too busy like enjoying it. Well,

947
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: that's true, that's true. Yeah. The expectation now is that

948
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 1: you'll share everywhere you are, and I don't care what

949
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 1: anybody says, work or otherwise. If they email you, were

950
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: text you, there's an expectation that you're going to respond

951
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,960
Speaker 1: in a relatively short period of time because they know

952
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:32,840
Speaker 1: you got it, or they at least know you got it,

953
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:34,439
Speaker 1: so they ask you about it later and you don't

954
00:50:34,440 --> 00:50:37,200
Speaker 1: have a responsored answer. That's not acceptable. As we're in

955
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:41,240
Speaker 1: the olden days. If you if someone sent you an email,

956
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:42,920
Speaker 1: you may not be able to look at it until

957
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 1: the next day or when there was no email. Then

958
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,560
Speaker 1: they'd have to see you in person in order to

959
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:50,720
Speaker 1: tell you to do something. Now, they're right to email

960
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:52,520
Speaker 1: eight o'clock at nine, Big, did you get my email?

961
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: Was eight o'clock at nine. I wasn't working at eight

962
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 1: o'clock at night. Well, I sent you email o'clock a night.

963
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: You're an old soul. Yes, shall I just want it?

964
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 1: What is something relatively old? Old? Antiquated writing checks? Still

965
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:08,919
Speaker 1: write checks? Um? I don't even know when you could

966
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: do that? Are you a lady that's holding me up

967
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: online at Jewels? No? No, I don't check rotary stars.

968
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: I'll do it like I pay bills that way. You

969
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,160
Speaker 1: know that if you're the person who pays the check

970
00:51:19,200 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 1: if the grocery store, it takes like for king. Do

971
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 1: you love going to the bank too, like you said?

972
00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 1: The people I do? The guy says, though, I'm like

973
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 1: the youngest person to go in there really to interact

974
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: with it? Wow? Yeah, I mean you're like the only

975
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 1: customer I can guarantee there. Weren't you saying, Kalin that

976
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,399
Speaker 1: you don't even know how to deposit a check? Yeah?

977
00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 1: That's why this this study is funny to me because

978
00:51:41,840 --> 00:51:45,160
Speaker 1: I do everything on my phone or through the ATM. Yeah,

979
00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 1: like through my app, I can just do a picture

980
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 1: of the check ATM. So yeah, Hey Lissa, Hi are

981
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: you hi there? Good morning? What's the guy, And I

982
00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 1: don't want to call it old, but what's kind of

983
00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: the old school thing that you still like to do? Yeah,

984
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,399
Speaker 1: I take all my pictures with my cell phone still,

985
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 1: but then I go to wall dreams and of them

986
00:52:06,680 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: albums like tapping them and I can look through them

987
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 1: when I'm bored. I agree, my mom photo albums are

988
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 1: becoming obsolete and I still need to print out like

989
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,440
Speaker 1: a hundred thousand photos and makes yeah, because like as

990
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,920
Speaker 1: the I don't know, cloud sinking and all that stuff

991
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 1: sort of evolves, like I have a couple of old

992
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 1: iPhones that weren't that weren't sunk with the cloud, if

993
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 1: that's the way to say it. And so basically the

994
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: little time capsules like now, if I go back and

995
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 1: if I can find the charger and plug them in,

996
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:38,400
Speaker 1: they've got pictures on it from whatever time period I

997
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 1: had yea and dump them all over. You know. It's like,

998
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:43,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's cool, but otherwise they're gone forever.

999
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: As where we have physical photos, at least they're somewhere

1000
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,839
Speaker 1: even to look at them. Yeah, thank you, Alyssa. Yeah,

1001
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: let me you have a good day at lease or Elsie, Sorry, Elsie,

1002
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: how you doing. Good morning. Hi. What is the kind

1003
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 1: of old school thing that you still do? Oh? I

1004
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:04,080
Speaker 1: love working out with my iPod. Your iPod, I love that,

1005
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 1: not even your phone, like the straight up iPod. Yeah.

1006
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 1: I did not do well with texting and checking messages

1007
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 1: and then I watched like shows and I'm sitting on

1008
00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:17,200
Speaker 1: the chairs doing nothing for a second. Yeah, but yeah, no,

1009
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: I love doing it. That's true because if you have them,

1010
00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:21,799
Speaker 1: because now I bring my phone to the gym because

1011
00:53:21,800 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 1: as my music on it. But then then there's the

1012
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 1: phone stuff, you know, the emails of the text of

1013
00:53:26,600 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 1: the calls. But if you only have the iPod, now

1014
00:53:29,239 --> 00:53:30,640
Speaker 1: you just have the music and none of the rest

1015
00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 1: of the stuff. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And the old school

1016
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 1: iPods they weigh black five pounds, so you're still work out.

1017
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 1: You get that little shuffle with the cliff, so it

1018
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: actually fixed in all the pockets that are in your path.

1019
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:48,799
Speaker 1: Yeah that's true. Yeah, that's true. Thank you so much.

1020
00:53:48,840 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 1: Have a good day than what you call Hey, good morning,

1021
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:56,959
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you great? How are you great?

1022
00:53:57,000 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: What's the kind of kind of oldest should school thing

1023
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: you still doing? Um? I mean, I'm like a huge

1024
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:07,640
Speaker 1: movie fan. I still like to like buy movie tickets

1025
00:54:07,760 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: ahead of time, like a month ahead of time, and

1026
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: just going to the show like on Friday or Saturday.

1027
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I know everybody uses like training services and

1028
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:20,879
Speaker 1: everybody like, yeah, I like the theater two best thing,

1029
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,840
Speaker 1: Like it's always been my favorite. I don't know, it

1030
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:27,640
Speaker 1: just makes me feel warm, and well that's good because

1031
00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:29,200
Speaker 1: I know movie theaters are kind of having a hard time.

1032
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:30,640
Speaker 1: Bookstores are kind of having a hard time. So I

1033
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 1: think we're gonna keep them open single handedly, all of

1034
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,200
Speaker 1: us right here. I took my daughter to the Imax

1035
00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: last month, and I was like, oh, like just seeing

1036
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 1: the big, big, big screen. Yeah, it's so awesome. Yeah,

1037
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: thank you. Have a good day you two by banks? Man,

1038
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: people going to banks shout out to winterest. Yeah, let's

1039
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: go in there, man, check them out. They're like to

1040
00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 1: meet people in person, isn't that crazy? Kids? And I'm

1041
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: going to have a conversation when I can just text them,

1042
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,920
Speaker 1: no problem. We talked about men and women with stuffed

1043
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 1: animals before UM, and this study confirms it this morning. UM,

1044
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: eighty four percent of men still have at least one

1045
00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:14,439
Speaker 1: stuffed animal, which is more than women. Seventy seven percent

1046
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: of women say they have a stuffed animal, forty percent

1047
00:55:16,280 --> 00:55:20,800
Speaker 1: of adults say that they still interact with their stuffed animals,

1048
00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 1: and seventy six percent of those people asked consider themselves

1049
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: to be sentimental overall. Is there something that you're holding

1050
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: onto as an adult from your childhood that you will

1051
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:34,759
Speaker 1: that you refuse to let go of eight five five

1052
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 1: five nine one one three five point. I gotta before

1053
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 1: you go into the room and answer the phone, surely

1054
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: you have something from your childhood that you refuse to

1055
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:46,040
Speaker 1: let go of. Yeah, so, like, I, oh, hey, that

1056
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: was rough. Hello. So I have like a desk that I,

1057
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: you know, got as a gift when I was I

1058
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: think it's my communion or something, right, Like, it's a desk, right,

1059
00:55:53,480 --> 00:55:55,640
Speaker 1: but on this desk, like we used to collect stickers

1060
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 1: and all, like everybody to collect stickers and put them

1061
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,160
Speaker 1: on their folders and stuff. I put them all over

1062
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:01,040
Speaker 1: my desk and I they were all like the little

1063
00:56:01,040 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 1: ghetto ones that were like, you know, like little bit

1064
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,239
Speaker 1: ones from Jewelie Bay fifty sensible. Do you have one

1065
00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 1: of those um stickers of a little boy peeing on

1066
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 1: a Ford logo? I do have that. It's like he's

1067
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 1: got like a Mexican flag. So I have them all

1068
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 1: on that desk and like my mom tried to throw

1069
00:56:21,480 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: in that desk away so many times, but I was

1070
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: like Noah, Like it's it's comforting, Like this is like

1071
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,279
Speaker 1: my likes this. Could you still sit at it? Yeah?

1072
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:30,120
Speaker 1: I sit on it. All my stuff on it. Okay,

1073
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 1: it's one of my favorite like accessories. Like I'm not

1074
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: getting rid of it. It's ugly, it's really ugly, doesn't

1075
00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,440
Speaker 1: match my room, but I like it and I like

1076
00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:39,240
Speaker 1: the memories it brings me so well, you'll keep this forever.

1077
00:56:39,400 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: Probably I'm gonna give it to my kids. They have

1078
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,760
Speaker 1: all the homie stickers on the side. Mom was ratget

1079
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 1: one was the deal. May be the first time what

1080
00:56:50,000 --> 00:56:53,359
Speaker 1: your kids say you're radget now wouldn't be the first time.

1081
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,920
Speaker 1: Pauling this kid's called erect that's a whole different story. Um,

1082
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,640
Speaker 1: I stuff from your childhood that you that you hang

1083
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: on too because it as an adult, because it's said Tomental.

1084
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 1: You guys don't have anything. I mean I still have

1085
00:57:03,960 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: all my like Michael Jordan memorabilia, Like my whole bedroom

1086
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 1: was Michael Jordans, like cards, posters. It like, my room

1087
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: now looks like a half workout room, half storage from

1088
00:57:15,160 --> 00:57:18,480
Speaker 1: my mom's half Michael Jordans stuff still on the wall though, Yeah,

1089
00:57:18,520 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 1: my parents haven't taken it down. Well, yeah, my childhood

1090
00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: bedroom is my childhood bedroom. But as a kid, I

1091
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to like put posters up and do all

1092
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:28,960
Speaker 1: that stuff, so it looks like it did. Yeah, Like

1093
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: our house was my mom, you know, was a decorator,

1094
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: and she was very proud of the house and so,

1095
00:57:33,440 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 1: and she didn't want holes in the wall and so

1096
00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:37,439
Speaker 1: I didn't have any that stuff. So the room looks

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00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 1: exactly like you do when I was a kid, which

1098
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: is like a guest room. It does like a kid

1099
00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: ever lived there at all. What do you you have anything?

1100
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:45,960
Speaker 1: Is it like that you think you'll hold on to

1101
00:57:46,520 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 1: bring the room down. But my parents got divorced when

1102
00:57:49,880 --> 00:57:53,160
Speaker 1: I was really I was one and a half, so

1103
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 1: I never like all my my friends all had like

1104
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: their blinky or whatever. But I never got a tash

1105
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:00,920
Speaker 1: anything because I was doing the back and forth so

1106
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:03,880
Speaker 1: much and had different things, so I just never really

1107
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:07,919
Speaker 1: got attention. I remember I was jealous of kids whose

1108
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,480
Speaker 1: parents were divorced before my parents. No Listen, before my

1109
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: parents got divorced, because seriously, because because they had two houses,

1110
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 1: and oftentimes they would have like if it was joint custody,

1111
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 1: the kids would have like a computer at one house

1112
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 1: and a computer at another house, and they'd have like

1113
00:58:22,600 --> 00:58:24,560
Speaker 1: close at one house and clothes at another house, and

1114
00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 1: the stuff that their mom wouldn't buy him, their dad

1115
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: would by. So I remember being jealous of his kid

1116
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,640
Speaker 1: named Wyatt, because their parents were divorced. He had two

1117
00:58:30,680 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: of everything, Because he had two of everything, and I'm like,

1118
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:34,560
Speaker 1: you know, and all the all the cool stuff that

1119
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 1: one wouldn't buy him, the other one would. I was

1120
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,200
Speaker 1: so jealous until my parents got divorced, and then I

1121
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: was not jealous. Sucks, but I can remember being jealous

1122
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: of his kid for all the cool stuff he yet

1123
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: because his parents felt terrible about what they'd done to him.

1124
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: And now I understand why. Hey Veronica, Hi Veronica, good morning.

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00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 1: Something sentimental from your paths that you're never getting rid of?

1126
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:59,800
Speaker 1: My gar Field stuffed animal? Okay, and how old are you?

1127
00:59:00,920 --> 00:59:03,880
Speaker 1: Thirty four? It's thirty four, And what's the story with Garfield?

1128
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: I just had him since my earliest memory him and

1129
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:11,600
Speaker 1: my baby blanket and all. I remember when I was

1130
00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 1: a kid. I'm constantly stuff, you know, put my stuffed

1131
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 1: animals on my baby's blanket. And Garfield with my assistant,

1132
00:59:17,640 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: and I'd be the teacher. He like my buddy well,

1133
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: and I can't get rid of him. He's got these

1134
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:26,640
Speaker 1: big giant eyeballs. I love him. Okay, and where hard plastic? Oh? Yeah,

1135
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: I remember, I remember. Where does he live? He lived

1136
00:59:31,320 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 1: in my bathroom? Okay, in your bathroom? Yes? Can you

1137
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: wash him? We in there? No? No, I'm constantly in there.

1138
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:40,520
Speaker 1: I'm always been my makeup. I'm hiding away from the kids.

1139
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 1: Me and Garfield just hang out in the bathroom. If

1140
00:59:43,840 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: I go over to a woman's house and there's a

1141
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 1: Garfield with those big plastic guys staring at me in

1142
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:49,600
Speaker 1: the bathroom, I'm going to assume there's a Nest camera

1143
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,200
Speaker 1: in there and then I'm being recorded. No. No, he's

1144
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:55,640
Speaker 1: sitting out on my bathroom counter. He looks cute. I

1145
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 1: would turn him around so the eyes the direction. I

1146
00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: beg M, thank you, Veronica. I have a great day,

1147
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:05,360
Speaker 1: loving too. I'm actually surprised like that this substantially more

1148
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,040
Speaker 1: men who were holding onto a stuffed animal than women, Abigail,

1149
01:00:09,920 --> 01:00:13,080
Speaker 1: let's hear it, sentimental item, more items from your past

1150
01:00:13,160 --> 01:00:17,160
Speaker 1: that you're never getting rid of. All of my InSync memorabilia,

1151
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 1: nice sins. So obviously we're team in sync. Batch you

1152
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: boys for you, Yeah they didn't. Some of their songs

1153
01:00:23,360 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: did it for me, but not all of them. But

1154
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 1: in Sank Hit my Heart, I was married to jessin

1155
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:30,200
Speaker 1: Timberlake and to be married Jesse Alba. I was so sad,

1156
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: but Jessica, yeah, Jessica ble sorry, sorry, but I have

1157
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:38,680
Speaker 1: all of their like their rolling Stone magazine, a parents,

1158
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:42,080
Speaker 1: I have posters, I have dolls, I have cards, and

1159
01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 1: I go through my closet. I am so inporting anything,

1160
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:47,160
Speaker 1: like I get rid of stuff all the time. But

1161
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 1: I get to that stuff and I'm like, I just

1162
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:50,920
Speaker 1: can't do it. I can never do it at T

1163
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,880
Speaker 1: shirts and stuff. I want to say that InSync was

1164
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:56,720
Speaker 1: my first major concert and I was fifteen. I took

1165
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 1: a date and like a big arena concert was in sync.

1166
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:01,560
Speaker 1: Want to say, I took a date and I remember,

1167
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 1: I've never in my life heard louder noise than it's

1168
01:01:05,840 --> 01:01:07,440
Speaker 1: prior to that. Now I've been to a bunch of

1169
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 1: those shows and I but that was the loudest. I mean,

1170
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:13,160
Speaker 1: you talk about twenty thousand primarily women screaming at the

1171
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:15,240
Speaker 1: top of the lungs and girls. It was the loudest

1172
01:01:15,280 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 1: noise I've ever heard in my life. Yure. Yeah, So

1173
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:20,160
Speaker 1: you keep this stuff? Where is it? Like you still

1174
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: have a room because you're gonna wind up on waiting

1175
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: of you do. No, It's been my closet, like top

1176
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: shelf all the way in the corner. As I like

1177
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: organized us in my closet, I just keep putting it

1178
01:01:31,440 --> 01:01:32,920
Speaker 1: there and then I just can't get rid of it

1179
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 1: when I like go through it a new spring cleaning,

1180
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:36,960
Speaker 1: but I just can't have to stay there. And then

1181
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 1: sometimes I'll bring it out or go through the magazine

1182
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 1: or something. But for the most parties in the closet,

1183
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:43,240
Speaker 1: I have a gil Thank you, have a good day.

1184
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:47,760
Speaker 1: Thank you too. I glad you called. Hey, Rob? Yeah, Rob, okay,

1185
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: you're holding onto a doll from your childhood. Let's we

1186
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: need to learn more. Well, it's a like a beanbag

1187
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 1: filled small doll, probably a little bigger than come on

1188
01:01:57,120 --> 01:02:00,600
Speaker 1: hands and it's got a rubber doll head. It's bald,

1189
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: but has a hat which I lost years ago. And

1190
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 1: the smile on the rubber doll's base is similar to

1191
01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: the Chuckie doll before he went Psycho. So it's called

1192
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: Charlie choot you. And I've had it for he's got

1193
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:18,480
Speaker 1: stripes just like an engineer. And it's been my son's.

1194
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:20,919
Speaker 1: It sits on my son's bookshelf and he's twenty years

1195
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,840
Speaker 1: old now, but I passed it on him. It's been

1196
01:02:23,880 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 1: forty one years I've had that thing. Charlie choot you.

1197
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 1: What's a memory? Like, what's the deal? Did somebody give

1198
01:02:28,200 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 1: it to you? Your grandparents? Is something? Yeah? I couldn't.

1199
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell you. I just know one memory. I

1200
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:36,440
Speaker 1: was devastated. Somebody threw it up in a tree when

1201
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,040
Speaker 1: I was I don't know, probably ten years old, and

1202
01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 1: we managed to climb up and get it down. So

1203
01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:43,040
Speaker 1: he's been through quite a lot. But I can't remember

1204
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:44,920
Speaker 1: how I how I got it, but I've had it

1205
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,240
Speaker 1: since I was probably six or seven years old. Wow,

1206
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: Charlie choot you all right, man, thanks job, have a

1207
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 1: good day. Oh there it is. There's a complete Charlie

1208
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 1: choot you do. Charlie you just found it. Hey Mary Bess, Hey,

1209
01:02:57,360 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 1: how are you hi? Good morning? Um what do you

1210
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 1: what are you unwilling to part with from your childhood?

1211
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 1: So it's not me, it's it's my kids. Um. You

1212
01:03:05,640 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 1: know they've had like stuffed animals their baby blankets when

1213
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,960
Speaker 1: they were kids, and as they got older, um, like

1214
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 1: the blanking fairy would come and take their blanket, but

1215
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 1: it was replaced with like a more grown up o

1216
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:19,280
Speaker 1: their type choice. And but I touched their blankets and

1217
01:03:19,480 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: stuffed animals, and then when they went away to college,

1218
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:24,120
Speaker 1: I wrapped it up so that they would be able

1219
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:27,360
Speaker 1: to take it to college with them. And now after college,

1220
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: they're they're in their homes now or they're on their

1221
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 1: dressers in their bedrooms, still u as old as they are.

1222
01:03:33,560 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 1: That's very sweet. Yeah, it was pretty cool. I mean

1223
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:39,880
Speaker 1: they're they were all really surprised. Um, it wasn't as

1224
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 1: much as surprised, like as it started happening with siblings,

1225
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: they kind of expected it. But my oldest one was

1226
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,200
Speaker 1: like it brought the tears when he saw his ela

1227
01:03:48,280 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 1: back after so many years. Oh that's sweet. I think

1228
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,240
Speaker 1: my mom's doing something like that too. I think she

1229
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: holds on to like everything that I ever did, and

1230
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: then my sister, I think she doesn't do anything. M

1231
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 1: thank you Mary Beth. Could day. She's constantly like saying

1232
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:05,400
Speaker 1: to me like, I don't know if we get any

1233
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 1: kind of press or whatever. She's like, I need a

1234
01:04:07,080 --> 01:04:09,720
Speaker 1: copy of that for your memory book, and my sister's like,

1235
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:12,160
Speaker 1: you never asked me for a copy. I have a

1236
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:14,919
Speaker 1: master's degree, I have all these certifications. You never asked

1237
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:16,560
Speaker 1: me for a copy of anything. And she's like, oh,

1238
01:04:17,600 --> 01:04:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if like the memory book doesn't exist

1239
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:22,200
Speaker 1: or something for her. I have no idea. I think

1240
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:24,320
Speaker 1: my parents are only holding onto things of mine for

1241
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 1: blackmail purposes, like the letters from camp where I told

1242
01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: them how I hated them and I wanted them to

1243
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:31,920
Speaker 1: come and get me, like they've now. I used to

1244
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:33,880
Speaker 1: know where they were, Now I don't because I think

1245
01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 1: they know that I'm going to go get them and

1246
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: destroy them. I want to see that. I feel like

1247
01:04:37,640 --> 01:04:40,040
Speaker 1: they're going to emerge at my wedding or something like them.

1248
01:04:40,720 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 1: But the stuff that I keep, the stuff that I

1249
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,760
Speaker 1: really hang onto, is not even mine. It's my grandparents stuff.

1250
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:47,480
Speaker 1: Like if you walk around my house like I'm nostalgic

1251
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 1: about things that didn't belong to me, like I have

1252
01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:53,440
Speaker 1: my grandfather the last love letter he wrote to my grandmother,

1253
01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:56,320
Speaker 1: I haven't framed in my house. That's beautiful. And my

1254
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 1: grandmother bitched about it because he didn't go to the

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01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 1: store to buy her one. I'm like, uh, Nana. He

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01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:07,040
Speaker 1: couldn't walk, and so he penciled. I mean I should

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01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 1: take a picture of it and put it on my

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01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 1: see on my on my gram. He first, he drew it,

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01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 1: took like a piece of copy paper, and he pence.

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01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 1: You could see where he did the pencil first, because

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01:05:16,880 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 1: he didn't want to go pen first on the copy

1262
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: paper in case he messed up. I don't know why.

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01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:22,880
Speaker 1: You can see where he liked raised and he made

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01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 1: a heart and he wrote I love you ten times

1265
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:28,240
Speaker 1: and it got smaller each time. And then he signed it,

1266
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,440
Speaker 1: and she was mad at him because he didn't go

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01:05:31,600 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 1: to the store and buy her card. And then she

1268
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 1: wants to throw it away because she was mad at him,

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01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: and I took it and I framed it. She why

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01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: do you want this for? Like this is so if

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01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:41,960
Speaker 1: you're walking around my house, there's more stuff from other

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01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: people than it yea, than there is from from old people,

1273
01:05:47,160 --> 01:05:50,920
Speaker 1: old people. He'd ever been to a restaurant called Have

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01:05:51,040 --> 01:05:53,600
Speaker 1: It on seven? Yes, a long time ago, but yeah,

1275
01:05:54,160 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: yeah yeah, Um, I guess there were two locations. The

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01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: one I go to is the one on Wabash on

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01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,040
Speaker 1: the seventh floor of a random, nondescript building. You would

1278
01:06:03,080 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 1: not know that. I don't mean I did not ever

1279
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 1: know that it was there. It's where I get my

1280
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 1: hair cut, and a few maybe like a year ago,

1281
01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 1: Christy who cuts my hair, is like, you ever had

1282
01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: the gumbo and have It on seven? I'm like, well,

1283
01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,360
Speaker 1: where is this place? He's like, what's It's on the

1284
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 1: seven flour this building. I'm like, just dancys in this building,

1285
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:20,840
Speaker 1: Like yeah, you can get like I can get plastic

1286
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:22,640
Speaker 1: surgery in here. So I guess I can go eat

1287
01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: the gunbo and then get it sucked out. Anyway, Um,

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01:06:25,040 --> 01:06:27,680
Speaker 1: it's there. Yeah, So I went there last night. I've

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01:06:27,680 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 1: been going there. I go there all the time. The

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01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:32,600
Speaker 1: gumbo was unbelievable. And uh there's a girl that works

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01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:34,160
Speaker 1: there as she managed it, I guess, and I just

1292
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: she told me her name Once upon a time. I

1293
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 1: just screamed, Gumbo girl. Every time I walked in, I

1294
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:42,640
Speaker 1: just walk in. I guo. But she's I guess she's

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01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:46,840
Speaker 1: the niece of the of the owner. So that Jimmy

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01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,919
Speaker 1: the guy is his gumbo recipe, it's his restaurant. Jimmy's son,

1297
01:06:50,320 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 1: Uh is part of the Purple Pig Okay, so you

1298
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:56,160
Speaker 1: know it's a whole restaurant dynasty going on here. But

1299
01:06:56,520 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 1: so every time I walk in, I go Gambo girl.

1300
01:06:58,240 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 1: And she's like, I gotta tell you how unoriginal that

1301
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:02,800
Speaker 1: is because I'm the family of restaurant tours and this

1302
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:04,920
Speaker 1: restaurant's been around forever and that used to call me

1303
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: that in high school. And I so we were joking

1304
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 1: homegirl was there and Christie and Gumbo growing. I'm like, well,

1305
01:07:09,680 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 1: I can tell you that Gumbo grows a much better

1306
01:07:11,480 --> 01:07:12,919
Speaker 1: nickname than a lot of other things that you could

1307
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 1: have been called in high school. Um, so I want

1308
01:07:15,080 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 1: to know eight five five nine one h three five

1309
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: what is your nickname? And and why we did this

1310
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:23,800
Speaker 1: a couple of years ago and we got one that

1311
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 1: was really funny from Indiana. Shoot, and then and then

1312
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:32,440
Speaker 1: people started calling and going Nutter, was it nutter something

1313
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 1: like that? It was It was appropriate. It was really good. Yeah, yeah,

1314
01:07:37,600 --> 01:07:39,760
Speaker 1: do you remember? I know, I got it driving me crazy.

1315
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: Maybe I thought it was about balls or something. Maybe

1316
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: it about ball. Maybe he'll call in again. But it

1317
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:46,760
Speaker 1: was really really funny. And then people like I knew

1318
01:07:46,800 --> 01:07:50,440
Speaker 1: that guy. Yeah, what was your nickname? Or what is

1319
01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:53,320
Speaker 1: your it? Maybe you still? Maybe it persists. Fred was

1320
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:56,680
Speaker 1: my nickname all growing up because I changed my last

1321
01:07:56,760 --> 01:08:01,200
Speaker 1: name in between maybe third in fourth grade, because my

1322
01:08:01,240 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 1: parents got divorced. My mom changed my sister and my

1323
01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:06,160
Speaker 1: name to my mom's maiden name. And I show up.

1324
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 1: If you heard the story, then pretend like you never

1325
01:08:08,240 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 1: heard it, And so can I tell the same stories

1326
01:08:10,960 --> 01:08:12,280
Speaker 1: over and over again. I made a whole career out

1327
01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:14,360
Speaker 1: of it. So I come back to school. Kids start

1328
01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:16,200
Speaker 1: making fun of me, calling me Fred because I'm the

1329
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 1: kid now with a new last name. I come home

1330
01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 1: all upset. I want to be called Fred. My grandfather,

1331
01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 1: I said, hey, they call me Fred now because it

1332
01:08:22,520 --> 01:08:23,960
Speaker 1: was his last name, and he said, well they used

1333
01:08:23,960 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 1: to call me Fred, and instantly that it changed everything.

1334
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:31,720
Speaker 1: Now Fred was the best. Yeah. Yeah, So that's why

1335
01:08:31,760 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 1: when some people refuse to call me Fred, because that's

1336
01:08:33,800 --> 01:08:37,960
Speaker 1: my PERSONA like wow, yeah, but it was my name,

1337
01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:42,799
Speaker 1: you know, growing up too. So what is this Alex? Hi, Alex,

1338
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:46,560
Speaker 1: good morning, how are you doing? Alex? Your nickname? It

1339
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:50,880
Speaker 1: is a nickname that that you still have? Yeah, people

1340
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: still called me that in college. It was Dildo. His

1341
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 1: name was Dildo. That was the guy's nickname. That's right, Yeah,

1342
01:08:57,960 --> 01:09:03,920
Speaker 1: thank you, Nicole, Yeah yeah yeah, Dan, right, that's right. Okay, Alex,

1343
01:09:03,960 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 1: what was your nickname? What is it? Why? So my

1344
01:09:07,000 --> 01:09:09,920
Speaker 1: nickname is older. The reason for that is that my

1345
01:09:10,040 --> 01:09:17,240
Speaker 1: last name is Manella everyone. So, I mean I even

1346
01:09:17,280 --> 01:09:20,599
Speaker 1: did the TV in college and the people still like like, oh,

1347
01:09:20,720 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 1: it's Folder, and I'm like folder, that's good. That's a

1348
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:26,439
Speaker 1: good one. I like it. Thank you, Alex. Have a

1349
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:29,720
Speaker 1: great day. Glad you called it? Was that his name

1350
01:09:29,760 --> 01:09:36,439
Speaker 1: was Dylan or something. Yeah. Yeah, Hey Samantha, Yeah, Samantha,

1351
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:39,840
Speaker 1: is this the nickname you still have? Um? According to

1352
01:09:39,960 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 1: my brother, Yeah, what was that? My children? That sloppy Joe?

1353
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no why I went by Sammy Joe

1354
01:09:49,880 --> 01:09:52,280
Speaker 1: as a kid. And Adam Scandler was really big when

1355
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 1: I was a kid and they were releasing the tape

1356
01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:57,719
Speaker 1: from One Ladyland. Yeah, Saturday Night, so he would slay

1357
01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 1: one ladyland over and over again and still does to

1358
01:10:01,280 --> 01:10:04,840
Speaker 1: this day every time he visits me. Wow, sloppy. I

1359
01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 1: don't know if I want a big name. Didn't do

1360
01:10:09,040 --> 01:10:13,080
Speaker 1: it for a bad reasons. That's pretty funny to have

1361
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:18,000
Speaker 1: a great day. I'm glad you called um is it Dinah?

1362
01:10:18,800 --> 01:10:21,560
Speaker 1: It's I know? Okay, Oh god, I know where this

1363
01:10:21,680 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 1: is going. What was your nickname? Dinah Vagina? Oh my life,

1364
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 1: it's so easy. It's so easy. Oh, it was so whole,

1365
01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:39,439
Speaker 1: like China, Dinah, Dinah, that whole thing. So then yeah,

1366
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 1: my whole life. My mom was just that was an

1367
01:10:42,160 --> 01:10:44,960
Speaker 1: unfair name for me to get. Oh man, you got

1368
01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:47,759
Speaker 1: to think about that, I guess, not necessarily the immature stuff,

1369
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:49,760
Speaker 1: but like when you name your kid, you probably got

1370
01:10:49,840 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: to think about all variables, including the initials ye initials

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01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: yea yeah yeah yeah, so actually d m Z, which

1372
01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 1: you know then that also kind of went into like

1373
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:02,760
Speaker 1: high school people would tell me all that's like joke

1374
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, it was the online number number. Now

1375
01:11:11,280 --> 01:11:16,360
Speaker 1: serving it's my name and song. So it's like a

1376
01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:20,640
Speaker 1: nice name, but my fat like American names, and I

1377
01:11:20,760 --> 01:11:23,679
Speaker 1: didn't they figured out how to screw it up. Thank you, Dinna,

1378
01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:26,679
Speaker 1: have a good day. My sister calls me Bubba, which

1379
01:11:26,720 --> 01:11:29,400
Speaker 1: some people think is that uncommon. But I guess if

1380
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 1: I name my daughter someday, like my last name is Frederick,

1381
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:39,759
Speaker 1: so I can't name my daughter like Donna Teresa Frederick initials. Yeah,

1382
01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:43,160
Speaker 1: oh dts. It was a great name, by the way,

1383
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:47,200
Speaker 1: Donna Teresa. It was number one on my list. But um,

1384
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:51,599
Speaker 1: after the nine to two one oh character. But hey, Mary, Yeah,

1385
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 1: I'm Mary. What's your nickname? It's not mine, it's my husband.

1386
01:11:55,560 --> 01:12:00,000
Speaker 1: His nickname is chop Chops. Why yeah, because it's last

1387
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:04,760
Speaker 1: same as Lamb. Okay, all right, I like call him

1388
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 1: Mary Mary little Lamb all the time he's shopped. Um,

1389
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:16,600
Speaker 1: I guess Jill called the last time we did this,

1390
01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 1: and Jill's nickname was Jill doo Jill. Oh, so easy, Mary,

1391
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you, glad you called? Is

1392
01:12:24,760 --> 01:12:30,920
Speaker 1: it Cashoonshan? How you doing? By the way, uh, Pauline

1393
01:12:31,000 --> 01:12:33,160
Speaker 1: spelled a K A s h u N. Wouldn't it

1394
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:40,360
Speaker 1: be a un or something I know you or wh okay? Yeah? Anyway, Um,

1395
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 1: you can always tell them Paulin is answering. So what

1396
01:12:43,520 --> 01:12:47,519
Speaker 1: was Yeah? I have a couple. I'm going buy a

1397
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 1: cash money cash or kay money ka money Okay, like

1398
01:12:51,640 --> 01:12:55,400
Speaker 1: klan k bay Bay that's from Hurricane Chris kill a k.

1399
01:12:56,600 --> 01:13:01,559
Speaker 1: What are some other ones from? Rock? Kay Rock? I see,

1400
01:13:01,600 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 1: I gotta have a good Decagean Nicole, Hi? Hi? What

1401
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:12,439
Speaker 1: was you? Is this still your nickname? Um? Yes, to

1402
01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:14,360
Speaker 1: my dad. But first of all, I just have to say,

1403
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:15,840
Speaker 1: I am so excited to talk to you, guys. I

1404
01:13:15,920 --> 01:13:18,800
Speaker 1: listened to you every single day. Well, thank you so much.

1405
01:13:18,840 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 1: We appreciate you. Of course, my nickname was Sparkle Beach

1406
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 1: because of a barbie that I had when I was

1407
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:26,519
Speaker 1: a kid that I took everywhere with me. It was

1408
01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:29,479
Speaker 1: like a Sparkle Beach barbie with glitter and pink and

1409
01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:31,240
Speaker 1: blue in her hair, and I just thought she was

1410
01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 1: like the coolest thing in the world. Cold Beach. Yeah,

1411
01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:36,200
Speaker 1: so he still called me that. It sounds like a

1412
01:13:36,280 --> 01:13:41,760
Speaker 1: strain of marijuana. Maybe it is San Nicole, of course,

1413
01:13:41,800 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 1: And if it is is named for you. I guess

1414
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 1: Eli Eli E E E E l I E L

1415
01:13:54,240 --> 01:14:02,200
Speaker 1: I can see that. Eli. Yeah, my nickname is my

1416
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:07,000
Speaker 1: name is Elie. It is now Eli. I guess that's

1417
01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:10,840
Speaker 1: what she was going for Eli. He's like the substitute

1418
01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 1: teacher in Keene Peel I used to teach in Ncy

1419
01:14:20,240 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 1: for twenty years or whatever. It is a rod or

1420
01:14:31,400 --> 01:14:40,640
Speaker 1: the other one. Um, it was Daba. Your nickname was Dabba. No,

1421
01:14:40,920 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 1: my nickname is Dabba, which actually has a lot of significance.

1422
01:14:44,160 --> 01:14:47,000
Speaker 1: So my wife and I have combined blended family of

1423
01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 1: seven children. Okay, the older three called me Amba, which

1424
01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 1: is he is Hebrew for Dad, and my fiftist their

1425
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 1: dad had an issue with them calling you. So my

1426
01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:04,599
Speaker 1: oldest step Gid came up with the combination of Dad

1427
01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:08,920
Speaker 1: and Happa. Comind it to Dabah. It's really sweet, nice,

1428
01:15:09,280 --> 01:15:11,880
Speaker 1: it is amazing. I am so proud of that name.

1429
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:14,599
Speaker 1: And I just said my wife bought me a gift

1430
01:15:14,680 --> 01:15:18,280
Speaker 1: once that says that that there's only one Dabba in

1431
01:15:18,320 --> 01:15:21,080
Speaker 1: the world, and just make me so I well up

1432
01:15:21,120 --> 01:15:22,880
Speaker 1: every time I think about, Wow, you know, all these

1433
01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:25,720
Speaker 1: people call them with their preferative nicknames, and then and

1434
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,800
Speaker 1: then Dabba calls in here with a very sweet story.

1435
01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 1: Thank you so much for saving this segment. Thank God,

1436
01:15:31,960 --> 01:15:36,639
Speaker 1: and thank you. Now we go back to uh hey, Joe, Joe,

1437
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:42,679
Speaker 1: let's hear the nickname go, it's King Dome. He King Dome.

1438
01:15:43,240 --> 01:15:46,519
Speaker 1: Why because when I was in school as a kid,

1439
01:15:46,640 --> 01:15:48,600
Speaker 1: my head's like the same size head as I do now.

1440
01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 1: When I was a kid, I had a different Uh.

1441
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: I was thinking, that's that's that's nice. That's the legend.

1442
01:15:57,560 --> 01:16:01,160
Speaker 1: King Dome on the phone, everybody, Thank you, John, have

1443
01:16:01,240 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 1: a good day, man. Glad you call him Joshua. That's

1444
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 1: my friend, Joshua. He texted that his initials are A

1445
01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:19,160
Speaker 1: N L. No, no, no, that's unfortunate.