WEBVTT - Talk Daddy To Me: It Takes Two

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<v Speaker 1>This is Suckers. I'm Keeling Bell, I'm Dean Bell, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Jared Haven at iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey everybody, welcome to an on new episode of Suckers,

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<v Speaker 2>Jared's edition.

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<v Speaker 1>It's me myself.

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<v Speaker 2>And and I am alone and talking to myself. It's Sunday,

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<v Speaker 2>January twenty eighth.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know something like that. We're we're right around there.

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<v Speaker 2>Dawson's birthday is coming up the thirty first, so happy

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<v Speaker 2>your early birthday to my son. He's turning two. On

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<v Speaker 2>his first birthday, he met Tom Brady. So on his

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<v Speaker 2>second birthday, you know, I'll get him an Aladdin toy.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's disappointing for him, garrely top meeting Tom Brady, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 2>but very excited for that. That's what's going on this

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<v Speaker 2>week with me. Obviously, just came back from Disney, talked

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<v Speaker 2>about that. Oh and that's right. We announced that Ashley's prego's.

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley is pregnant. We are expecting our second kid. We

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<v Speaker 2>have not revealed the gender yet. That is coming soon.

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<v Speaker 2>We know it though, So it's going to be very

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<v Speaker 2>hard to not refer to this child as either a

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<v Speaker 2>girl or a boy. But I'm going to do my best,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, we have a new one coming and they'll

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<v Speaker 2>be here. July twenty ninth is the d date. So

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley is, you know, not halfway there, but she's doing good.

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<v Speaker 2>She's nauseous, which sucks. I feel bad for that. She's

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<v Speaker 2>still debilitated a little bit here and there, and she

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<v Speaker 2>still has bad nights of throwing up occasionally.

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<v Speaker 1>It just kind of randomly comes.

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<v Speaker 2>And of course, you know, her body's just not her

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<v Speaker 2>own body anymore because there's a living thing growing in there.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's uncomfortable to say the least. But her pregnancy

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<v Speaker 2>is a lot better this time around than the first one,

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<v Speaker 2>which is great. And she's already fourteen weeks. Fourteen weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>so I don't know, it feels like, let's see here July,

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<v Speaker 2>so what like March, March something that she'll be halfway

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<v Speaker 2>something like that, which already cut right.

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<v Speaker 1>Around the corner.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean we're already in February nearly, which is crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Super Bowls almost upon us. I don't know if you

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<v Speaker 2>guys watched the NFL, but I just saw the Chiefs

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<v Speaker 2>win again because Patrick Mahomes is just you know, he's

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<v Speaker 2>I saw someone compare him to Thanos from Avengers, which

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<v Speaker 2>is a good comparison because Patrick Mahomes is inevitable and

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<v Speaker 2>Taylor and Travis the Tea's teen t just makes my

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<v Speaker 2>head hurt, you know, Listen, Taylor, I have so much

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<v Speaker 2>respect for this woman. She's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>But I can't do it. Can't do it, guys, can't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I can't do it anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, rooting for whoever's playing the Chiefs in the super Bowl,

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see. I can talk about the Super Bowl here

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<v Speaker 2>on this podcast, though, because even if you don't like sports,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys are all going to watch the Super Bowl

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<v Speaker 2>because we're going to watch the commercials. We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>watch the halftime show, which is Usher. Why is it

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<v Speaker 2>two thousand and four?

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<v Speaker 1>Listen?

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<v Speaker 2>Usher is an incredible musician who has so many hits

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<v Speaker 2>that we've probably forgotten about because I looked up Usher's

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<v Speaker 2>playlist and it was like his not his filmography, but

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<v Speaker 2>his songography.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what you'd call it.

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<v Speaker 2>The music he's done in the past. He has so

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<v Speaker 2>many hits I'm like twelve years ago, which is fine, Like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm an old man. I'll watch Usher during the halftime show,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's just crazy because it feels so underwhelming. It's

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<v Speaker 2>almost like, wait a minute, can the NFL not get

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<v Speaker 2>anybody else? They just got Rihanna. It's a huge one.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh they had m and Ah. I love that La Show.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you guys remember two years ago

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<v Speaker 2>when the Super Bowl was in LA and it was

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<v Speaker 2>like Eminem fifty cent, Mary J. Blige, Snoop Dog, Doctor

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<v Speaker 2>Dre because obviously Compton, they're all from southern California, and

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<v Speaker 2>that was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that was so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>So it doesn't feel like that's happening in the year,

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<v Speaker 2>but like in terms of like any guest surprise, it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Gonna be us show.

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<v Speaker 2>What the hell was I talking about? Ashley is pregnant,

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<v Speaker 2>Yes she is. I'm a little nervous, little nervous because

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<v Speaker 2>to make more of a sports reference. But you guys

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<v Speaker 2>will get this, Like when you have one kid, you

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<v Speaker 2>could play his own defense. It's two on one, so

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, if he goes left, I got him, if

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<v Speaker 2>he goes right, she's got him, and like we can

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<v Speaker 2>just take care of him. But now we got two

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<v Speaker 2>playing on man on man, it's one on one. Like

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<v Speaker 2>ash you get one kid, I'll get the other and

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<v Speaker 2>like god speed, you just take care of your you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you do your job. I'll do my job, and then

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<v Speaker 2>together our jobs as parents will be completed. That's nerve wracking.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like all right, ash like you know, you take

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<v Speaker 2>care of him, I'll take care of this one. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's like all right, Like it's just it's just me

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<v Speaker 2>and you, so just me and you. There's no mama

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<v Speaker 2>in sight. Mom is out, Mama's got our own things

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<v Speaker 2>going on. And if if this new kid's anything like Dawson,

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<v Speaker 2>that's going to be issues because Dawson is attached to mama.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of uh.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes me sayd a little bit because a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of times I'll take him out of the house and

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just do something with him one on one. And

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<v Speaker 2>we do this quite a lot because I really I

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<v Speaker 2>love being with him one on one because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden, I become the center of attention.

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<v Speaker 2>He's so reliant on me. He's just happy to be

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<v Speaker 2>with me, and he's reaching out holding my hand. He's

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<v Speaker 2>just the best. But then as soon as Ashley enters

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<v Speaker 2>the picture, everything is Mama, Mama, Mama. He literally pushes

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<v Speaker 2>my hand away, and it's like, bro, dude, we're cool.

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<v Speaker 2>There's no reason to have this animosity between the two

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<v Speaker 2>of us. When mom is here, we can all be

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<v Speaker 2>cool together. You don't have to choose. It's not like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>if mom and dad are in the room together, I

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<v Speaker 2>have to choose one. No, no, no, you got us both.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the great thing. So anyway, but I'm curious, when

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<v Speaker 2>you know the new one comes around, how Dawson will be.

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<v Speaker 2>I think every parent has this fear that you know

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<v Speaker 2>the first kid is going to grow as ze men

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<v Speaker 2>because all of a sudden, the intention is not all

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<v Speaker 2>on them, or we're not going to love the second

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<v Speaker 2>kid as much because I've never loved anything as much

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<v Speaker 2>as I love Dawson. So in my mind and in

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<v Speaker 2>my heart right now, it's like, how could I ever

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<v Speaker 2>love anything as much as I love Dawson. It's impossible.

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<v Speaker 2>But of course, before Dawson existed, I mean, I've been

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<v Speaker 2>on this earth for over thirty years. I loved things,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm capable of loving new things. And I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>that you know, in a couple of years, when I

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<v Speaker 2>grow attached to our new child, and you know, they

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<v Speaker 2>did start developing their own personality, not going to love

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<v Speaker 2>them for different reasons than then how I love.

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<v Speaker 1>Dawson.

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<v Speaker 2>I remember I was talking to Tanner. Uh So, you

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<v Speaker 2>guys know Tanner and Jade uh from bechelor Paridity season two.

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<v Speaker 2>They've been married for seven years now, three kids, and

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<v Speaker 2>h you know, Tanner's brutally honest. I love it, one

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<v Speaker 2>of his greatest qualities.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I asked him. I was like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>have a favorite? You know, you have three kids?

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<v Speaker 2>And he goes, no, you know, obviously he was talking

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<v Speaker 2>about how you know, he had such an attachment with

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<v Speaker 2>Emmy because that was their first but now that their

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<v Speaker 2>kids are all, you know, coming into their own so

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<v Speaker 2>to speak, you know, developing their own personalities, with their

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<v Speaker 2>own quirks, and uh, the only their own things that

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<v Speaker 2>they love, you know, And I know Tanner wouldn't lie

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<v Speaker 2>to me. He was like, dude, I just love them

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<v Speaker 2>all equally, now differently, Like I love them differently.

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<v Speaker 1>It's weird. It's hard to explain.

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<v Speaker 2>But he also said, like, you know, the first year

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<v Speaker 2>or so, it's you know, you're gonna have a favorite,

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<v Speaker 2>but so like the first year of this kid's life,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm still gonna be like team Dawson.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I have no doubt that once I start

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<v Speaker 2>really growing attached to our our newborn, that I'll love this,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the new baby, just as much as I

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<v Speaker 2>love Dawson. I'm glad Ashley's due during the summer. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's nice because then you can take like a

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<v Speaker 2>newborn out for walks and go outside because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>in the Northeast, obviously the weather's pretty big deal. And

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<v Speaker 2>then you know, it's not like when when you know,

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<v Speaker 2>Dawson was born in January, couldn't really go outside that

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<v Speaker 2>much because it's just cold, and we're not going to

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<v Speaker 2>take a new born out outside, you know, twenty degree weather.

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<v Speaker 1>So but but yeah, we're going right back into it

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<v Speaker 1>now the child. But it'll be fun.

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<v Speaker 2>You know. I'm excited for that family of four. I

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<v Speaker 2>had a family of four growing up with my sister

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<v Speaker 2>and my parents. Ashley had a family of four with

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<v Speaker 2>her sister and her parents, so we kind of feel

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<v Speaker 2>most comfortable with that. Well, you know, you know, two kids,

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm excited about that. But you know, I think

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<v Speaker 2>for us right now, just kind of figuring out where

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<v Speaker 2>we want to end up I think we've been both

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<v Speaker 2>very honest about, you know, the conversations we've had between

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<v Speaker 2>living in Rhode Island living in d C closer to

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<v Speaker 2>her parents. Obviously, right now we're Rhde Island. I love

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<v Speaker 2>Rhode Island. I love being here. But you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>can totally see us ourselves moving down there too, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'd be fine with that, you know. I'm told Ashley

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<v Speaker 2>that is as well, and she doesn't believe me, and

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<v Speaker 2>I really would be It's more of I think it's

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<v Speaker 2>more so just it's like anything, you know, if you

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<v Speaker 2>guys are listening to podcasts and if you had to

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<v Speaker 2>move to a new area, if you're thinking about moving

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<v Speaker 2>to a new area, it's tough because like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what I would do down there. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>have Audrey's up here, which is great, and that takes

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<v Speaker 2>up a lot of my time. And it's like, don't

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<v Speaker 2>get me wrong, there are a lot of times I

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<v Speaker 2>wish I could get away from Audrey's and not be

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<v Speaker 2>there as much, because it's extremely stressful and hard to

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<v Speaker 2>make money right now owning your own business, especially in

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<v Speaker 2>Rhode Island. Actually, unfortunately, there was an article on this

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<v Speaker 2>website called wallet hub. I saw someone post about it

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<v Speaker 2>that said the Rhode Island was the worst state to

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<v Speaker 2>open a small business in, which, you know, I can

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<v Speaker 2>understand why it's expensive. You get a lot of taxes.

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<v Speaker 2>It's also you know, Rhode Islanders. Things that I love

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<v Speaker 2>about Rhode Islanders is that we're very stuck in our

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<v Speaker 2>ways and like we like going to the places that

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<v Speaker 2>we'd be going all of our lives. But also is

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<v Speaker 2>tough to open a new business because a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>people just want to go to the places that they

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<v Speaker 2>know and they love. But also I'm trying to be

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<v Speaker 2>a place that people know and love, and I think

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing a pretty good job of that. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of a lot of long ways to go

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<v Speaker 2>on that. But you know what's interesting about this podcast,

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<v Speaker 2>it's literally just me rambling, you know. It's just like

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<v Speaker 2>my inner thoughts, just spilling all the beans just from

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<v Speaker 2>my gut, my heart, my mind. I like it, though

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if you guys like it.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you do. I like it. But yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>right now, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, with the second baby on the way to trying

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out like how realistic is a move down

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<v Speaker 2>to northern Virginia, you know, and I think it's pretty realistic.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a lot of things I love about that area,

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<v Speaker 2>and there's a lot of things that I could see

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<v Speaker 2>myself doing while while while living down there. But you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we have to get our ducks in order obviously try

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<v Speaker 2>to figure out like would we keep our place up here,

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<v Speaker 2>would rent it out? These are all the things that

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we we're not making any decisions on right now.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'd be lying if I said that in twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty five, you know, just next year. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>could totally see it happening. Especially let's see, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>how the rest of Ashley's pregnancy goes. I know she

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<v Speaker 2>loves being down there when she's pregnant, which makes total sense.

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<v Speaker 2>She loves being with her parents, you know, she and

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<v Speaker 2>I love being with her parents. They do such a

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<v Speaker 2>good job taking care of Dawson. Her mom's so good,

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<v Speaker 2>her sister's so good with Dawson, and there's such giant

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<v Speaker 2>helps that it's nice to have that. And especially when

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<v Speaker 2>Ashley is not feeling well and she could use the help.

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<v Speaker 2>I could use the help, so you know, that's a

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<v Speaker 2>big factor. And then of course, after the baby comes

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<v Speaker 2>you know, we'll need some help. I'll take some time

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<v Speaker 2>off from Audrey's to ensure that I could be home

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<v Speaker 2>and taking care of the newborn and helping Ashley with Dawson,

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<v Speaker 2>doing whatever I need to do to make sure that

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<v Speaker 2>things are going well. But I'd be lying if I

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<v Speaker 2>said it wouldn't be easier down in northern Virginia, then

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<v Speaker 2>it would be up here just for the simple effect

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<v Speaker 2>of the help that we have. So, you know, we'll see,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll see what the rest of the year brings. But

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<v Speaker 2>also it's all exciting things. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really not stressed out about it, honestly, I'm it's

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<v Speaker 1>just we're breathing, you know. I think about that a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately, there's a friend of it was one of my

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<v Speaker 2>cousin's friends, forty years old, passed away from cancer this

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<v Speaker 2>past week. Just a tragic story. Got to know her

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<v Speaker 2>well pretty well. Her names Gina, and she was always

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<v Speaker 2>around holidays or any parties that we had. And of

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<v Speaker 2>course her and Sarah had like a core group of friends.

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<v Speaker 2>My cousin's name is Sarah. She probably had like four

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<v Speaker 2>or five and anyway, it just makes you think about

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<v Speaker 2>life and how you can never take it for granted.

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<v Speaker 2>And there's a lot of stress full things in this

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<v Speaker 2>life that get me stressed, you know, But I try

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<v Speaker 2>to really center myself and just say, there's really nothing

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<v Speaker 2>to be to be that stressed about, because life, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>is going to go by fast. It sucks, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>just the reality of the situation. Everybody tells you that's

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<v Speaker 2>what happens. And you know, I'm thirty How old am

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<v Speaker 2>I my? Thirty six years old? No, I'm thirty five.

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<v Speaker 2>I just turned thirty five, but you know, just thirty five.

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<v Speaker 2>That's crazy. I don't know how the hell I've been

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<v Speaker 2>on this earth for thirty five years. I feel pretty

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<v Speaker 2>grateful for it, pretty lucky. But anyway, I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>actually going to do it for this week's episode, which

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<v Speaker 2>is crazy is a sure one, but usually we try

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<v Speaker 2>to do about fifteen minutes here. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>I ended on a morbid note, but yeah, everybody who's

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<v Speaker 2>listening to this, I hope you're enjoying it, and just

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<v Speaker 2>make sure you just try to try to think about

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<v Speaker 2>positively and be optimistic.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. I heard someone say how.

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<v Speaker 2>Optimism like, if you're optimistic, you can really move mountains

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<v Speaker 2>and you can change things just by being to mystic

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<v Speaker 2>and positive about something. And the older I get, the

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<v Speaker 2>more I believe that, and so try to just remember that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we're here, we're living, and that's a great thing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a wonderful thing. It reminds me of a Rob

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<v Speaker 2>Thomas song. God, I'm so lame. I don't care though.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called one less die and one less Day from

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<v Speaker 2>Dying young. And I love that song so much because

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<v Speaker 2>it just is a great reminder that we're one less

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<v Speaker 2>day from dying young and getting older is a privilege. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not a right, it's a privilege. And anyway, I

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<v Speaker 2>just wanted to reinforce that I love you all. If

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<v Speaker 2>you guys are listening to this, you listen to Suckers.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a brand new episode coming out this week.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it probably already drops. To make sure you

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<v Speaker 2>listen to that. With Kaitlin Dean and myself. You can

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<v Speaker 2>follow us on social media. You can follow me on

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<v Speaker 2>social media at Jared Haven and comment on any of

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<v Speaker 2>my photos of videos. I try to comment back as

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<v Speaker 2>much as possible because I really do read people's comments,

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<v Speaker 2>both bad and good. Honestly, the bad doesn't bother me anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's such a cliche thing to say, like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't care what people think about me. It really

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't bother me all that much anymore. Sometimes I find

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<v Speaker 2>it entertaining to read funny things about me. AnyWho just

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<v Speaker 2>want to say thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love you all.

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<v Speaker 2>I really do appreciate it, and make sure you guys

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<v Speaker 2>tune in next week. We're hopefully ah, I suck just

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit less