Speaker 1: It's time take caps at cheater only.
Speaker 2: On the Jubile Show, Sophia is on the phone today
Speaker 2: for to catch a cheater and she's been with her
Speaker 2: boyfriend Cole for six months, long distance for three months,
Speaker 2: and now she thinks that he might be cheating. So
Speaker 2: we're going to see if we can catch him in
Speaker 2: just a second, but first, Sofia, tell us what's going
Speaker 2: on with you and Cole.
Speaker 3: Hi, thank you so much for I guess hearing me out.
Speaker 3: Hopefully we can sort this out. It's been kind of
Speaker 3: like really really hitting me, just like I'm just so
Speaker 3: confused at this point. So like about Michael and I've
Speaker 3: been together about six months now and everything was going
Speaker 3: so great, and then a few months in he had
Speaker 3: to move overseas to London actually for work, and he
Speaker 3: was like, we got this, we can do long distance.
Speaker 3: We talked about like possibly maybe me coming there at
Speaker 3: some point, but we've been doing like long distance thing
Speaker 3: for a few months now, And it was about a
Speaker 3: couple of weeks ago, like things really started to take
Speaker 3: a turn and I just like suddenly started to stop
Speaker 3: hearing from him as much. I mean I would sometimes
Speaker 3: go daze without really properly speaking to him, like there
Speaker 3: might be a text message or something. But I mean,
Speaker 3: he won't answer my calls, but he's I'll see that
Speaker 3: he's you know, like responding to other people on Instagram too,
Speaker 3: just like not but just not responding to me. And
Speaker 3: he keeps saying that he's being really busy with work.
Speaker 3: So I think that what happened is is that he
Speaker 3: met somebody over there possibly and he's just like doing
Speaker 3: this like slow fade thing maybe, but I'm really hoping
Speaker 3: it's not because he swears that, you know, he's just
Speaker 3: you know, really busy with work. But then I'm also
Speaker 3: seeing him like super active on social media and even
Speaker 3: responding to like stuff that my friends will post or
Speaker 3: memes that are sent to him by our mutual friends.
Speaker 3: So I just don't understand why he's not communicating with
Speaker 3: me directly.
Speaker 4: I can unders stand why your mind would go right
Speaker 4: to that place. I just wonder. I mean, this is
Speaker 4: for all of us too. You know, when we see
Speaker 4: people being active on social media and it's just like
Speaker 4: a like or an emoji or whatever here and there,
Speaker 4: it shows us that they're active and they're looking. But
Speaker 4: when you have to respond or talk to somebody that
Speaker 4: you care about that's more of like a paragraph, that's
Speaker 4: like a longer communication. So I don't know, maybe that
Speaker 4: just takes more effort, and he really is, you know,
Speaker 4: working and tired. This is just you know, benefit of
Speaker 4: the doubt. But it is something to think about because
Speaker 4: sometimes we're wrong.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And I'm really hoping that I am just
Speaker 3: like a little bit paranoid about it, and that it's
Speaker 3: just taking time to adjust, you know, with the long
Speaker 3: distance and everything. But we already only get you know,
Speaker 3: a few hours out of our day to like really
Speaker 3: connect with each other, so with the time zone change
Speaker 3: and everything. So that's why I'm just really hoping to
Speaker 3: try and I don't know, maybe see if I can
Speaker 3: get a little bit more clarity at least.
Speaker 4: That's really hard. Do you believe you ever done long distance? No? So, like,
Speaker 4: really you know how to stay connected?
Speaker 1: Your apart advice?
Speaker 2: I did longest? Well, I did. I was. I had
Speaker 2: broken up with my girlfriend when I moved away for
Speaker 2: a job, but she still thought we were together. I
Speaker 2: made it very clear we were broken up though, Oh
Speaker 2: but there was that was a very toxic situation, which,
Speaker 2: like all my relationships have been so so I guess
Speaker 2: I was in a long distance relationship.
Speaker 1: I just didn't know it. Okay, got it.
Speaker 4: Well, let's just well we know that Sophia's man knows that.
Speaker 4: So yeah, different story. I digress.
Speaker 2: We told us what grocery store he's a rewards card
Speaker 2: member of here, even though he lives lives in London.
Speaker 2: So we'll call and just say that he's still won
Speaker 2: flowers to be delivered to anywhere in the world the
Speaker 2: world sends them to you or somebody else.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, go a play.
Speaker 2: So I'll come back and get your to Catch a
Speaker 2: Cheater next if you're just joining us for to Catch
Speaker 2: a Cheater. Sophia is on the phone and she thinks
Speaker 2: that her boyfriend of six months named Cole might be
Speaker 2: cheating on us. So we're going to see if we
Speaker 2: can catch him in just a second. But before we
Speaker 2: do that, Sofia, why don't you catch everybody up on
Speaker 2: your situation.
Speaker 3: Yeah, So we've been together for about six months now,
Speaker 3: and then about three months ago he had to move
Speaker 3: for London for work and we agreed to do long distance.
Speaker 3: But a few weeks ago he just went kind of
Speaker 3: kind of Aid has been really unresponsive to me, but
Speaker 3: just also very active on social media and responding to
Speaker 3: other people, just like kind of ignoring me. And this
Speaker 3: is very not like him and not like us. So
Speaker 3: I'm hoping to try and get some clarity on that.
Speaker 2: Okay, So we're going to call him and pretend to
Speaker 2: be from the grocery store that he's an awards car
Speaker 2: remember at here, and do the usual, Say that he
Speaker 2: won thirty six long stem red roses to be delivered
Speaker 2: anywhere in the entire world, and we'll see if he
Speaker 2: sends them to you or to somebody else.
Speaker 1: You ready, I think I'm ready. Okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna call him right now. Hi, this is Jordan
Speaker 2: calling from I was looking for a Rewards Card member
Speaker 2: named Cole.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's that's me. That's uh yeah. What can
Speaker 1: I do for you? Cole?
Speaker 2: Congratulations you're this most big winner. Then think it's not
Speaker 2: a marketing call. Congrats.
Speaker 1: Oh that's weird, Okay, weird. I guess what did I win?
Speaker 2: Well maybe you haven't seen the signs, but every single month,
Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member, a random who gets
Speaker 2: free flowers delivered anywhere they want. Absolutely free. You just
Speaker 2: want thirty six long stem red roses, a box of candy,
Speaker 2: and a car to be delivered anywhere to anybody you want,
Speaker 2: anywhere you want, absolutely free. It's actually a three hundred
Speaker 2: and twelve dollars value.
Speaker 1: Okay. So, I mean this is gonna sound weird, but
Speaker 1: I actually moved I live in London now and all
Speaker 1: there in like three months. So oh so, I mean
Speaker 1: it might be my hex. You might have been using
Speaker 1: my account, so well, you know, how about we pass
Speaker 1: it on to the next person and give give them
Speaker 1: the gift?
Speaker 2: All right, So well you can still get flowers delivered.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's all right, I'll talk, thank you
Speaker 1: so much. Bye.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, of.
Speaker 2: Uh, Sophia, I think he did. He hung up, so
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try to call him back. But maybe it's
Speaker 2: the flowers being over here thing. I'm just gonna tell
Speaker 2: him who it is. Okay, is that cool?
Speaker 3: All right? Yeah? Yeah, I think that'll Yeah, that's.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, here we go try again.
Speaker 1: Yeah, hello, hi Cole. Yeah, it's just a grocery guy whatever.
Speaker 2: No, it's it's not. Actually, please don't hang out. My
Speaker 2: name is Jewbell. I host a radio show. Called The
Speaker 2: Jewbell Show. Hi, Cole, the whole show is here. I'm Nina, Hi,
Speaker 2: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: Oh well, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know if you ever listened to the show.
Speaker 2: We're not on the air in the UK in town, Yeah,
Speaker 2: but we're That was me calling you from pretending to
Speaker 2: be from the grocery store. So we do a segment
Speaker 2: on the show called to Catch a Cheater, where if
Speaker 2: you think your significant other might be cheating, you try
Speaker 2: to see who they send flowers to and your girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Sofia is actually on the phone right now.
Speaker 1: Wait, hold on, wait, wait what what what You're calling
Speaker 1: me because she thinks I'm cheating. That's that's fricking insane.
Speaker 1: That's crazy that she thinks that I'm the one that's cheating.
Speaker 4: Sophia.
Speaker 3: Well, why is that so crazy? I mean you you
Speaker 3: haven't selgn to me in weeks. Like I'm just trying
Speaker 3: to I'm just trying to understand what's done.
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I was, I was busy, and
Speaker 1: then you know what, like, uh, last week, Mark he
Speaker 1: let me know that he sent me a screenshot of
Speaker 1: your profile on Tinder. Oh why are you saying I'm cheating.
Speaker 1: I all I do is I don't have time to
Speaker 1: cheat you.
Speaker 3: Okay, First of all, I know I'm not on it,
Speaker 3: Like I don't know what your friend sent you, but
Speaker 3: I'm not actively on Tinder like it. I used to
Speaker 3: have it before you and I got together, but then
Speaker 3: we got to other and then I just deleted it.
Speaker 3: So the account might be still there, but like it's
Speaker 3: got to be an old profile there. I don't use Tinder.
Speaker 3: I don't have it, so I don't know what you're
Speaker 3: talking about.
Speaker 1: The picture is from that beach day that we had
Speaker 1: like two days before I left. Remember we went, we
Speaker 1: went to the beach. That's where that picture is from
Speaker 1: from two days before I left. So that now it's
Speaker 1: an old profile that has a recent picture. Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't think so.
Speaker 3: So what you were just gonna like never speak to
Speaker 3: me again and like not actually communicate with me or
Speaker 3: talk to me or anything. You just saying that that's okay.
Speaker 1: No, I was trying to find the word to tell
Speaker 1: you that you are a terrible person and that and
Speaker 1: that you know that I think that you're better off
Speaker 1: finding someone on your little Tinder app because that's what
Speaker 1: you deserve. Is that someone that's gonna sleep with you
Speaker 1: and give you herpes? What you know?
Speaker 3: Wow?
Speaker 4: Okay, really fast?
Speaker 3: Well are you so? Are you seeing somebody else or not?
Speaker 1: Like what's going on?
Speaker 3: Never, I've never wanted.
Speaker 1: I've never wanted anyone talked to another woman since we
Speaker 1: were saying sorry never.
Speaker 3: Okay, cool? Well whatever, then I guess I should just
Speaker 3: go back on Tinder.
Speaker 4: Then wait, Sophia, are you on Tinder then or not?
Speaker 4: Like you may be honest here for a second.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like not to look for dates?
Speaker 4: What why?
Speaker 3: And I'm just looking to connect with people since you know,
Speaker 3: Cole left, like he's gone, and I don't have very
Speaker 3: many friends here, like a lot of our friends are
Speaker 3: kind of scattered and busier with their partners, and mine
Speaker 3: was I thought you know who I thought was still
Speaker 3: my partner, you know, is thousands of miles away. So
Speaker 3: I was just using it to try and connect with people.
Speaker 4: Which I totally get. But there's something called bumble BFF yeah,
Speaker 4: or other apps just for friends Tinders that's more for different.
Speaker 3: Well okay, then I don't know, I don't know what.
Speaker 3: I don't know what. I don't know what to do now,
Speaker 3: Like I don't know. This is like kind of gone
Speaker 3: completely derailed. So I just I don't know what to
Speaker 3: do anymore.
Speaker 4: Well, cool, if Sophia is not cheating on you, are
Speaker 4: you still freaking out?
Speaker 1: I can't believe anything she says, and at this point,
Speaker 1: I don't think that there's any way to repair this.
Speaker 1: So Sylphia, I have a nice life. But wow, he's gone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he hung up, Sophia. It is weird to be
Speaker 2: on Tinder if you're in a relationship.
Speaker 3: Well, I guess, but I mean I think that's to
Speaker 3: each their own. He could have also like talked to me.
Speaker 3: He also los me like two hundred bucks, so maybe
Speaker 3: you can get that out of him.
Speaker 2: I don't know if I can do that, but yeah,
Speaker 2: good luck though. Hey, at least you guys were you know,
Speaker 2: you were together for six months, not like you know,
Speaker 2: super long and now you know.
Speaker 3: Yeah true, Yeah, I guess maybe I dodged a bullet too.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 4: You already got a jump start on Tinder, so.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, all right, well thank you, yep.
Speaker 1: By good luck?
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