WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Sunset Scribbles

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's brig and Jeffrey in the morning. We got

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new second date episode for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, but for some time for reflection.

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<v Speaker 1>Reflection, yes, because we got so many comments about the

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<v Speaker 1>very brand new episode, very first time ever.

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<v Speaker 2>Alexis asks you out very awkward last week. But thank

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<v Speaker 2>you guys so much. Your comments are so nice.

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<v Speaker 3>I was reading all of them and I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to expecting you guys are so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Ady said, Alexis, You're a freaking amazing I would

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<v Speaker 1>one percent let you ask my next day out.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what you took from that, Okay, Wayney said, finally,

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<v Speaker 3>my girl, Alexis has her time to shine, not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 2>This might be my favorite part of the show from

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<v Speaker 2>now on, Love from poland Oh you want more?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh No?

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<v Speaker 1>And then Libby said I really needed a good laugh

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<v Speaker 1>today and Alexis did that for me.

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<v Speaker 2>The beginning was cringe. Yeah, but you recovered it pretty well. Really,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad you did that. Didn't you see one about

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<v Speaker 2>how fast you take?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, Chantelle said, I normally say to your show on

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<v Speaker 3>one point five speed because you talked too slow. But

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<v Speaker 3>Alexis's new segment is the first time, I could slow

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<v Speaker 3>it down to one time's normal speed, so we're on

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<v Speaker 3>the same wavelength.

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<v Speaker 2>That's really funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you so much for all the it got

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<v Speaker 1>over seriously comments on the No, you guys are so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, even though I know you were.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, it was the awkwardness most of you let

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<v Speaker 3>you know you like, yeah, I'm still recovering, but your

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<v Speaker 3>comments help.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, We're going to get to a brand new

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<v Speaker 2>second date update right now. Brooke and Jeffrey in the

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<v Speaker 2>morning Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>A popular influencer on Instagram recently got millions of views

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<v Speaker 4>for a ten second clip where she said she has

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<v Speaker 4>a theory that the more attractive you get, the less

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<v Speaker 4>likely you are to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 4>and if you're a nine or a ten, you're basically

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<v Speaker 4>cooked and are never going to be able to lock

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<v Speaker 4>anyone down.

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<v Speaker 2>I can actually see this. My best friend was stunning.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have to talk about me like I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>And people are intimidated by her and they thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was me, but she wasn't. She was just shy and hot,

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<v Speaker 1>like it's not a you know, it's a hard combination

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<v Speaker 1>to live with.

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<v Speaker 4>But also she's rare because a lot of them are mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well.

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<v Speaker 4>They've earned that right because they're so hot. And I

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<v Speaker 4>wonder if our listener, Tammy, who's on the phone right now,

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<v Speaker 4>would agree with that, since she's actually the one who

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<v Speaker 4>sent me that clip. So, Tammy, you believe that?

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<v Speaker 1>Huh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Yeah, I sent that to you because I agree

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<v Speaker 5>with it and I feel like it applies to me

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<v Speaker 5>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you're the you're the hot girl having a

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<v Speaker 1>hard time in.

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<v Speaker 2>The dating world.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like I've been told them I'm a nine or ten.

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<v Speaker 5>But if I am that attractive and you're that attractive,

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<v Speaker 5>then chances are you also already have like a very

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<v Speaker 5>small group of people who are in your league at all.

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<v Speaker 5>So the chances of them, like, like, you have no chance.

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<v Speaker 2>You have no chance.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're really hot, there's not very many other hot

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<v Speaker 1>people to date, and you don't want to date down.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what I'm hearing? Yeah, it's if you're looking

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<v Speaker 2>for equal in numbers.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, right, And like I used to be nice, I

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<v Speaker 5>used to be too nice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay what we just said, I was like.

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<v Speaker 2>Fast tense for.

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<v Speaker 4>You, But all the terrible men out there obviously couldn't

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<v Speaker 4>meet up to your nice standards, so you had to

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<v Speaker 4>get mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Like after a while, you teach the sixes and sevens

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<v Speaker 5>and oh sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's what you said.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you teach them enough about themselves, like I was.

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<v Speaker 5>I was being ratified by like helping out guys that

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<v Speaker 5>morning my league, like when I was younger, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>And then it's like self improvement. And when you feel

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<v Speaker 5>like you're finally finding yourself on a new level, like

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<v Speaker 5>your world opens up. There are like levels of nines

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<v Speaker 5>and tens, you find yourself and you're like, I made it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I am.

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<v Speaker 2>Not fully following all of this. I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 2>honest with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm fully with you. By the way, Tammy, I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>our brains are connected.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we get to your date that you're calling us about?

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<v Speaker 4>I want to talk about this more. But okay, I

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<v Speaker 4>guess you've met a guy though, that has matched your

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<v Speaker 4>standards you're holding for yourself. What's his name?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, his name's Tucker.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>And I didn't even know I had this standard, honestly,

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<v Speaker 5>because I have never seen his moves before.

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<v Speaker 6>His moves, his moves, like.

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<v Speaker 5>The moves he put on me were like, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>they were like eleven moves.

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<v Speaker 2>He reached around and put his arm.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a four screen. Tell us about Tucker. How you

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<v Speaker 4>guys met and what his moves were?

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<v Speaker 5>Too hot? We met off the app okay, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 5>first we got drinks. It was good drinks, and then

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<v Speaker 5>we watched the sunset and then after that we saw

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<v Speaker 5>a band that his friends were in. But like it

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<v Speaker 5>was the sunset moves?

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<v Speaker 2>What were the sunset moves? What do you do?

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<v Speaker 5>So here's what he does. He has like a little backpack.

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<v Speaker 5>He pulls out two notebooks and he gave me a

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<v Speaker 5>notebook and he was like, let's journal Oh wow, deep?

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<v Speaker 1>Why did I want him to pull out champagne for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you're not impressed with that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm all for journaling on your free time, not on

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<v Speaker 3>a date.

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<v Speaker 5>You liked the journal moves, Okay, it seemed corny, but like,

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<v Speaker 5>first of all, there weren't a lot of other people around,

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<v Speaker 5>so I was like a little more kind of natural.

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<v Speaker 5>And then like I don't know, it just turned out nice.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you know, we weren't even talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yes, I don't understand, Like if this was all

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<v Speaker 1>great like, the drinks were great, the attractive level was great.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys connected.

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<v Speaker 1>On a deeper like why wouldn't he be calling you back?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I know. Well then we went to see the band,

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<v Speaker 5>so that kind of like changed it up, like we

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<v Speaker 5>didn't really get to live in that moment, Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>we could have gone back to his place, you know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>If he asked you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean, if we could have jouraled at his

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<v Speaker 5>house too, Like, I don't know, it's like a good buffer.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't you didn't enjoy the band experience to

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<v Speaker 1>end the night.

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<v Speaker 5>Well she knew then, but I didn't, so I kind

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<v Speaker 5>of just like and I had just had a really

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<v Speaker 5>intense experience with him, and then it's like like we

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<v Speaker 5>weren't able to to connect on that level that we

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<v Speaker 5>had reached. So like we were there for maybe forty

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<v Speaker 5>five minutes. Oh and then he just walked me to

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<v Speaker 5>my car, but he gave me a kiss.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh god.

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<v Speaker 4>It was a nice kiss.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean it was like it didn't say much,

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<v Speaker 5>but it wasn't like an experience. It wasn't like it

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<v Speaker 5>was warm, like the lips are where the magic happens,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, Yes, that's.

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<v Speaker 4>A line for your journal for sure. Okay, So what's

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<v Speaker 4>happened since that night?

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<v Speaker 5>He isn't getting back to me, Like I only know

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<v Speaker 5>who he is through the app and that's infuriating too.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like we aren't connected on social so I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know if he just like isn't using the app anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm telling you he's Prince Charming.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you're saying that.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't find him online anywhere?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well I can't find him on mind, so I

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<v Speaker 5>can't stalk him and see someone in his life and like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>like he gave me his phone number, but I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know I think he I don't think he forgot about me.

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<v Speaker 5>But like, I mean he's winning a life, so like.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe no, he's not winning. He's not winning at life

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<v Speaker 4>because he doesn't have you in it, right right right? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not write that down journal.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, it's a great move.

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<v Speaker 1>That is myself Anyway, I'm disappointed in Tucker because you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't be the one that's seeking him out.

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<v Speaker 4>He should be seeking you out as the nine and

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<v Speaker 4>ten to like fulfill his part of his life. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna scratch that one out of the journal. That

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<v Speaker 4>one's not good. That's okay, but we're gonna make sure

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<v Speaker 4>that it hits right. When we come back, we'll call

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<v Speaker 4>Tucker and ask him why he's not calling back the

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<v Speaker 4>most gorgeous girl he's ever matched with on the dating app.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, we don't know that she has to.

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<v Speaker 4>Be just she's talking. Anyway, We'll come back and do

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<v Speaker 4>it right after this.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>Why does God punish all the extremely attractive women of

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<v Speaker 4>this world?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Confused?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, jeff I know all the fours and

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<v Speaker 4>fives are listening to this right now. Thanks. I feel

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<v Speaker 4>so bad for the nines and tents. They have it

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<v Speaker 4>so hard.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is really the definition of empathy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I never thought pretty privilege could be this dark.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there a go fund me for these poor women?

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<v Speaker 4>What can I do to help? If you're thinking that,

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<v Speaker 4>here's what you can do. Text into seven eight, five,

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<v Speaker 4>nine to two and cheer on our listener. Tammy, a

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<v Speaker 4>self described hottie with all of the looks and personality

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<v Speaker 4>to offer, but no man on earth who can handle her.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should start a nonprofit where we

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<v Speaker 1>adopt one.

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<v Speaker 4>We really should. The only guy who maybe can come

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<v Speaker 4>close is Tucker, a good looking dude who took her

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<v Speaker 4>to an area to watch the sun set and busted

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<v Speaker 4>out some journals so they could write down their feelings together.

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<v Speaker 2>And I thought that was.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty cool because you were really concentrated on people's looks

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<v Speaker 1>for a minute there. But then the activity that you

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<v Speaker 1>liked was really deep and thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 2>So good for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I can't take responsibility for the journal idea, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>but I did say yes to it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I know, but it's a thing that you liked.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I will use it if he doesn't. If

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<v Speaker 5>he really doesn't like me, then I will use it

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<v Speaker 5>with someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's the.

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<v Speaker 4>Worst case scenario. Assuming Tucker would say no, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know why he would to another chance to go out

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<v Speaker 4>with you, well, a gorgeous woman the sunset with they

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<v Speaker 4>journaled like it sounds like on his end, it was

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<v Speaker 4>a great night.

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<v Speaker 5>You guys are making me want to call him. Can

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<v Speaker 5>you just call him?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, God, I wish we could FaceTime though, because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to.

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<v Speaker 4>See this guy's She suffered long enough, let's get this

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<v Speaker 4>over with and hopefully get Tucker on the phone.

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<v Speaker 6>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello, Hey is this Tucker?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey man, this is a radio show. We're called Brook

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<v Speaker 4>and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what's up? Good morning, Hey Tucker.

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<v Speaker 6>That was just mid workout. Is this important?

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<v Speaker 1>What is this about?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry? Yeah, so I don't mean to like get in

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<v Speaker 4>the way of your hot and sweaty right now. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>early morning works for putting that image in my head. Listen, Tucker,

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<v Speaker 4>We'll try not to waste too much of your time

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<v Speaker 4>because I know you've got important body sculpting to do.

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<v Speaker 4>But this is called a second date update, and we're

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<v Speaker 4>trying to help out one of our listeners that you

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<v Speaker 4>went out with recently, a lovely woman named Tammy. Oh okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>do you remember her?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? What is this about? Why are you guys calling

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<v Speaker 6>me out Tammy?

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<v Speaker 4>Because Tammy's a little bit confused. She thought the two

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<v Speaker 4>of you had a nice time together, but since then

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<v Speaker 4>you haven't been reaching out for another meetup.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Well, to be honest, I was a little turned off.

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<v Speaker 4>What really, I mean? Can you tell us at what

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<v Speaker 4>point you were turned off during the night, Because we

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<v Speaker 4>heard it and it sounded pretty good start to finish.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not sure what she told you about what happened

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<v Speaker 6>during our date, but.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, we can give you a quick recap. There

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<v Speaker 4>was a sunset, there was journaling, there was a concert.

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<v Speaker 4>There was yeah, and your friends were like in the

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<v Speaker 4>band or something.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah. Yeah, So we were at the concert and you know,

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<v Speaker 6>we got drinks and I went to go look at

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<v Speaker 6>my journal and reflect, you know, and she was gone.

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<v Speaker 6>She went to the bathroom. So at that point I

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<v Speaker 6>went and looked at my journal. Okay, and I guess

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<v Speaker 6>they switched, so I pulled out hers instead.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so you accidentally grabbed hers?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, And I opened it up and I just started reading.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh she wouldn't you open it up and then

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, that's not mine.

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<v Speaker 2>I should close.

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<v Speaker 1>That isn't the whole point of journaling to share like unedited,

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<v Speaker 1>uninterrupted thoughts that no one would ever hear.

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<v Speaker 4>Well maybe he didn't realize those weren't his thoughts until

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<v Speaker 4>he was. He's like, damn, my poetic.

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<v Speaker 2>It seems like such a each of privacy.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, Well, what about reading it was a turnoff?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, after I got a couple of sentences in I

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<v Speaker 6>kind of realized it was just all over the place

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<v Speaker 6>and it was all just about attractiveness nine tens. It

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<v Speaker 6>was kind of shallow she was.

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<v Speaker 2>But she was writing that stuff down.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she was writting all that kind of stuff down.

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<v Speaker 6>And there was nothing about like the ocean or the

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<v Speaker 6>sunset or like peace, which is one of my journaling

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<v Speaker 6>is all about.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but I mean, give her a break. You

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<v Speaker 2>just sprung it on earth. She also didn't think anybody

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<v Speaker 2>would ever see it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So what I'm trying to figure out what about

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<v Speaker 4>her not doing that? Like why is that a red flag?

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<v Speaker 4>Or why was that a turnof to you?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, because she was sort of writing about how he's

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<v Speaker 6>a nine, I'm a nine, and we should just end

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<v Speaker 6>the concert and then just ask him to come to

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<v Speaker 6>his place.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, she was writing out exactly what she told him.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she was like dream boarding.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so I think I just think I need someone

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<v Speaker 6>deeper or on my level and in terms of how

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<v Speaker 6>they act, and it just seemed pretty shallow at the

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<v Speaker 6>end of.

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<v Speaker 7>The day, I'm gonna say, journal did she loved that

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<v Speaker 7>exercise and that was the thing that attracted her to

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<v Speaker 7>you the most, Like I feel like that speaks to

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<v Speaker 7>what her priorities are.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, Broke, don't speak for her. Tammy can speak for herself,

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<v Speaker 4>because Tucker, you should know she's actually on the other

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<v Speaker 4>line listening to this call, waiting to talk to you,

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<v Speaker 4>not going to be happy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's kind of like reading your journal, but

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<v Speaker 1>just out loud there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm just kind of stunned at what a creep

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<v Speaker 5>you are.

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<v Speaker 4>Apparently, I'm assuming that's about Tucker and not Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, who who micromanages someone's journal entries.

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<v Speaker 6>Someone with a personality I would.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe Awker does.

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<v Speaker 2>This is evolving quickly.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he said it was an accident. He didn't mean

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<v Speaker 4>to pick up your journal.

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<v Speaker 2>He just oh, and he didn't mean to read Sten

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit.

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<v Speaker 4>Music was going, the brain wasn't braining. You know.

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<v Speaker 6>You know you could have read my journal. It is

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<v Speaker 6>much deeper. You would have loved it.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, were you talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, now's the chance for you to share the

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<v Speaker 2>entry that you wrote. You haven't hear you?

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<v Speaker 6>I do, I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if we want to go down this path. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>He's like, she's a nine, I'm a jed sunset red.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, you're kidding, bro it sounds like Tucker feels

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<v Speaker 4>like Tammy. You came off as being really shallow and

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<v Speaker 4>only interested in his looks surface level.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that fair?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, first of all, I don't think you can

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<v Speaker 5>judge much about me from like ten minutes of just

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<v Speaker 5>writing whatever. That's like shallow. And then you kept both like,

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<v Speaker 5>what do you have a big stack of women's journals

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<v Speaker 5>back at your flop house?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait? He took your journals?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he just put them in his backpack. I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, that's again, this is why I thought that,

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<v Speaker 5>like we were going to have a little like I want.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, you know, once I read that journal, I

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<v Speaker 6>realized I shouldn't have wasted any more paper on you, and.

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<v Speaker 5>I, Oh, it wasn't even a new journal. It already

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<v Speaker 5>had pages ripped out of the front.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, so you've done this to other women. You have

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<v Speaker 2>them right down their thoughts and then you judge them

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<v Speaker 2>on it. Take the journal.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait a minute, now you're sounding kind of shallow. Yeah, Tucker,

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<v Speaker 4>how dare you have standards for the type of women

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<v Speaker 4>that you want to date?

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<v Speaker 6>Apparently apparently you think I'm a nine So I don't

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<v Speaker 6>do this, Shue. That's all you were writing about.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyways, Well, I think weird nines. Weird nines, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I'm willing to go I'm willing to look

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<v Speaker 5>past them, honestly.

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<v Speaker 2>What oh what?

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, even though he betrayed you and read all of

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<v Speaker 4>your personal thoughts.

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<v Speaker 1>And just said all those terrible things, well okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I'm sorry, Tucker.

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<v Speaker 5>Ear muff I do you know about bros like they

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<v Speaker 5>need some help?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean I can hear his six back through the

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<v Speaker 4>phone right now.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't.

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<v Speaker 5>He's literally at them right he said, we're literally pumping

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<v Speaker 5>iron right now.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the girl. I do not want a project, no

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<v Speaker 2>matter how hot it is.

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<v Speaker 5>Speak for yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Gee, you we're going to be a project either way.

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<v Speaker 2>Might as well be hot.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, you know that's a good porn God. You know

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<v Speaker 4>that twenty five year old Brook would be all over

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<v Speaker 4>Tucker right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I dated hot and dumb.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah yeah, so let Tammy do the same, all right.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I'm a little offended here that you guys

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<v Speaker 6>are making fun of me and Connie dumb. No I

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<v Speaker 6>bought two journals.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh well that's fair.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Brook, do you want to apologize.

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<v Speaker 2>Not one but you know what. You're right, Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 2>is a sign of intelligence.

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<v Speaker 4>So now that we're finally all on the same page

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<v Speaker 4>and the other ones have been ripped out, let's just

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<v Speaker 4>ask nice Tucker, would you be willing to give Tammy

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<v Speaker 4>a second chance here and go out on another date

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<v Speaker 4>with her?

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<v Speaker 5>Come on, let's get some food. We didn't even get

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<v Speaker 5>a good meal before the last thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Bro, you must be so hot, Tucker, he is all

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<v Speaker 4>about it.

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<v Speaker 6>Man. You know I'm gonna have to pass. What with

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<v Speaker 6>that money that you would have paid for the date.

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<v Speaker 6>I think you should buy Tammy a notebook and she

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<v Speaker 6>can do some journaling, hopefully a little bit better.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Tucker, we're not as deep as you, Bro. There's

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<v Speaker 4>no way we'd be able to pull it off. I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like journals.

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<v Speaker 6>You guys should try it. It does a lot for

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<v Speaker 6>the soul.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I try writing or try reading somebody else's.

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<v Speaker 6>Little of this, little of that.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Well, hey, Tucker, we appreciate you being on

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<v Speaker 4>with us. You can go back to working out and

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<v Speaker 4>making that body perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>And Tammy, you dodged a hot bullet, you really did.

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted that hot bullet so.

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<v Speaker 4>Bad, all right, got the next line for my journal.

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<v Speaker 5>Well and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Man, I respect a woman who goes after what she

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<v Speaker 4>wants and ignores all the glaring red flags because she

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<v Speaker 4>puts herself and her feelings first. You know, you want

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<v Speaker 4>what you can't have.

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<v Speaker 1>Jo I believed her at first when it was hard

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<v Speaker 1>for her to date, but then after hearing this, I'm like, girls,

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<v Speaker 1>because what you're picket?

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<v Speaker 2>You just did this to yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and she didn't mind it. She had no shame

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<v Speaker 4>saying she did not want to dodge that hot bullet.

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<v Speaker 2>At least it was all on the table for her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it just didn't work out this time.

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<v Speaker 4>I hope we'll hear back from both of them in

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<v Speaker 4>an update.

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<v Speaker 2>Update I do, didn't he say? No.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it'll turn around. Oh, you'll reread her journal

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<v Speaker 4>and see like, actually we are meant for each other.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe the journal he reads because it felt like a

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<v Speaker 4>trick almost. Maybe I'm holding on to hope. Maybe that's

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<v Speaker 4>stupid of me. But if you've missed any Second Dates

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<v Speaker 4>in the last few months, go ahead and find us

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<v Speaker 4>on Apple and Spotify wherever you get your podcasts, and

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<v Speaker 4>binge us until your heart's content.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, grate us a nine, or be honest and give

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<v Speaker 2>us a five.