Speaker 1: Hey, it's brig and Jeffrey in the morning. We got
Speaker 1: a brand new second date episode for you.
Speaker 2: Yes, but for some time for reflection.
Speaker 1: Reflection, yes, because we got so many comments about the
Speaker 1: very brand new episode, very first time ever.
Speaker 2: Alexis asks you out very awkward last week. But thank
Speaker 2: you guys so much. Your comments are so nice.
Speaker 3: I was reading all of them and I was like, oh,
Speaker 3: I just wanted to expecting you guys are so sweet.
Speaker 1: Yes, Ady said, Alexis, You're a freaking amazing I would
Speaker 1: one percent let you ask my next day out.
Speaker 3: That's what you took from that, Okay, Wayney said, finally,
Speaker 3: my girl, Alexis has her time to shine, not gonna lie.
Speaker 2: This might be my favorite part of the show from
Speaker 2: now on, Love from poland Oh you want more?
Speaker 4: Oh No?
Speaker 1: And then Libby said I really needed a good laugh
Speaker 1: today and Alexis did that for me.
Speaker 2: The beginning was cringe. Yeah, but you recovered it pretty well. Really,
Speaker 2: I'm glad you did that. Didn't you see one about
Speaker 2: how fast you take?
Speaker 3: Yes, Chantelle said, I normally say to your show on
Speaker 3: one point five speed because you talked too slow. But
Speaker 3: Alexis's new segment is the first time, I could slow
Speaker 3: it down to one time's normal speed, so we're on
Speaker 3: the same wavelength.
Speaker 2: That's really funny.
Speaker 1: So thank you so much for all the it got
Speaker 1: over seriously comments on the No, you guys are so nice.
Speaker 2: Thank you, even though I know you were.
Speaker 3: You know, it was the awkwardness most of you let
Speaker 3: you know you like, yeah, I'm still recovering, but your
Speaker 3: comments help.
Speaker 2: All right, We're going to get to a brand new
Speaker 2: second date update right now. Brooke and Jeffrey in the
Speaker 2: morning Second date updates.
Speaker 4: A popular influencer on Instagram recently got millions of views
Speaker 4: for a ten second clip where she said she has
Speaker 4: a theory that the more attractive you get, the less
Speaker 4: likely you are to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend,
Speaker 4: and if you're a nine or a ten, you're basically
Speaker 4: cooked and are never going to be able to lock
Speaker 4: anyone down.
Speaker 2: I can actually see this. My best friend was stunning.
Speaker 4: You don't have to talk about me like I'm not
Speaker 4: in the room.
Speaker 1: And people are intimidated by her and they thought she
Speaker 1: was me, but she wasn't. She was just shy and hot,
Speaker 1: like it's not a you know, it's a hard combination
Speaker 1: to live with.
Speaker 4: But also she's rare because a lot of them are mean.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well.
Speaker 4: They've earned that right because they're so hot. And I
Speaker 4: wonder if our listener, Tammy, who's on the phone right now,
Speaker 4: would agree with that, since she's actually the one who
Speaker 4: sent me that clip. So, Tammy, you believe that?
Speaker 1: Huh?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I sent that to you because I agree
Speaker 5: with it and I feel like it applies to me
Speaker 5: right now.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you're the you're the hot girl having a
Speaker 1: hard time in.
Speaker 2: The dating world.
Speaker 5: Yeah, like I've been told them I'm a nine or ten.
Speaker 5: But if I am that attractive and you're that attractive,
Speaker 5: then chances are you also already have like a very
Speaker 5: small group of people who are in your league at all.
Speaker 5: So the chances of them, like, like, you have no chance.
Speaker 2: You have no chance.
Speaker 1: If you're really hot, there's not very many other hot
Speaker 1: people to date, and you don't want to date down.
Speaker 2: Is that what I'm hearing? Yeah, it's if you're looking
Speaker 2: for equal in numbers.
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, And like I used to be nice, I
Speaker 5: used to be too nice.
Speaker 4: Okay what we just said, I was like.
Speaker 2: Fast tense for.
Speaker 4: You, But all the terrible men out there obviously couldn't
Speaker 4: meet up to your nice standards, so you had to
Speaker 4: get mean.
Speaker 5: Like after a while, you teach the sixes and sevens
Speaker 5: and oh sorry.
Speaker 2: Oh that's what you said.
Speaker 5: Yeah, you teach them enough about themselves, like I was.
Speaker 5: I was being ratified by like helping out guys that
Speaker 5: morning my league, like when I was younger, you know.
Speaker 5: And then it's like self improvement. And when you feel
Speaker 5: like you're finally finding yourself on a new level, like
Speaker 5: your world opens up. There are like levels of nines
Speaker 5: and tens, you find yourself and you're like, I made it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I am.
Speaker 2: Not fully following all of this. I'm going to be
Speaker 2: honest with you.
Speaker 4: I'm fully with you. By the way, Tammy, I'm like,
Speaker 4: our brains are connected.
Speaker 2: Can we get to your date that you're calling us about?
Speaker 4: I want to talk about this more. But okay, I
Speaker 4: guess you've met a guy though, that has matched your
Speaker 4: standards you're holding for yourself. What's his name?
Speaker 5: Yes, his name's Tucker.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay.
Speaker 5: And I didn't even know I had this standard, honestly,
Speaker 5: because I have never seen his moves before.
Speaker 6: His moves, his moves, like.
Speaker 5: The moves he put on me were like, I mean,
Speaker 5: they were like eleven moves.
Speaker 2: He reached around and put his arm.
Speaker 4: That's a four screen. Tell us about Tucker. How you
Speaker 4: guys met and what his moves were?
Speaker 5: Too hot? We met off the app okay, yeah, and
Speaker 5: first we got drinks. It was good drinks, and then
Speaker 5: we watched the sunset and then after that we saw
Speaker 5: a band that his friends were in. But like it
Speaker 5: was the sunset moves?
Speaker 2: What were the sunset moves? What do you do?
Speaker 5: So here's what he does. He has like a little backpack.
Speaker 5: He pulls out two notebooks and he gave me a
Speaker 5: notebook and he was like, let's journal Oh wow, deep?
Speaker 1: Why did I want him to pull out champagne for you?
Speaker 4: Are you're not impressed with that?
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: I'm all for journaling on your free time, not on
Speaker 3: a date.
Speaker 5: You liked the journal moves, Okay, it seemed corny, but like,
Speaker 5: first of all, there weren't a lot of other people around,
Speaker 5: so I was like a little more kind of natural.
Speaker 5: And then like I don't know, it just turned out nice.
Speaker 5: Like you know, we weren't even talking.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I don't understand, Like if this was all
Speaker 1: great like, the drinks were great, the attractive level was great.
Speaker 2: You guys connected.
Speaker 1: On a deeper like why wouldn't he be calling you back?
Speaker 5: Yeah? I know. Well then we went to see the band,
Speaker 5: so that kind of like changed it up, like we
Speaker 5: didn't really get to live in that moment, Like, yeah,
Speaker 5: we could have gone back to his place, you know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: If he asked you.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, if we could have jouraled at his
Speaker 5: house too, Like, I don't know, it's like a good buffer.
Speaker 1: So you didn't you didn't enjoy the band experience to
Speaker 1: end the night.
Speaker 5: Well she knew then, but I didn't, so I kind
Speaker 5: of just like and I had just had a really
Speaker 5: intense experience with him, and then it's like like we
Speaker 5: weren't able to to connect on that level that we
Speaker 5: had reached. So like we were there for maybe forty
Speaker 5: five minutes. Oh and then he just walked me to
Speaker 5: my car, but he gave me a kiss.
Speaker 2: Oh oh god.
Speaker 4: It was a nice kiss.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was like it didn't say much,
Speaker 5: but it wasn't like an experience. It wasn't like it
Speaker 5: was warm, like the lips are where the magic happens,
Speaker 5: you know, Yes, that's.
Speaker 4: A line for your journal for sure. Okay, So what's
Speaker 4: happened since that night?
Speaker 5: He isn't getting back to me, Like I only know
Speaker 5: who he is through the app and that's infuriating too.
Speaker 5: It was like we aren't connected on social so I
Speaker 5: don't know if he just like isn't using the app anymore.
Speaker 5: Like I'm telling you he's Prince Charming.
Speaker 2: Wait, you're saying that.
Speaker 1: You can't find him online anywhere?
Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 5: Yeah, well I can't find him on mind, so I
Speaker 5: can't stalk him and see someone in his life and like, yeah,
Speaker 5: like he gave me his phone number, but I don't
Speaker 5: know I think he I don't think he forgot about me.
Speaker 5: But like, I mean he's winning a life, so like.
Speaker 4: Maybe no, he's not winning. He's not winning at life
Speaker 4: because he doesn't have you in it, right right right? Yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm not write that down journal.
Speaker 5: Yes, it's a great move.
Speaker 1: That is myself Anyway, I'm disappointed in Tucker because you
Speaker 1: shouldn't be the one that's seeking him out.
Speaker 4: He should be seeking you out as the nine and
Speaker 4: ten to like fulfill his part of his life. Okay,
Speaker 4: I'm gonna scratch that one out of the journal. That
Speaker 4: one's not good. That's okay, but we're gonna make sure
Speaker 4: that it hits right. When we come back, we'll call
Speaker 4: Tucker and ask him why he's not calling back the
Speaker 4: most gorgeous girl he's ever matched with on the dating app.
Speaker 2: Hey, we don't know that she has to.
Speaker 4: Be just she's talking. Anyway, We'll come back and do
Speaker 4: it right after this.
Speaker 3: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second date updates.
Speaker 4: Why does God punish all the extremely attractive women of
Speaker 4: this world?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 2: Confused?
Speaker 4: I don't know, jeff I know all the fours and
Speaker 4: fives are listening to this right now. Thanks. I feel
Speaker 4: so bad for the nines and tents. They have it
Speaker 4: so hard.
Speaker 2: I mean, this is really the definition of empathy.
Speaker 4: Yes, I never thought pretty privilege could be this dark.
Speaker 4: Is there a go fund me for these poor women?
Speaker 4: What can I do to help? If you're thinking that,
Speaker 4: here's what you can do. Text into seven eight, five,
Speaker 4: nine to two and cheer on our listener. Tammy, a
Speaker 4: self described hottie with all of the looks and personality
Speaker 4: to offer, but no man on earth who can handle her.
Speaker 1: I feel like you should start a nonprofit where we
Speaker 1: adopt one.
Speaker 4: We really should. The only guy who maybe can come
Speaker 4: close is Tucker, a good looking dude who took her
Speaker 4: to an area to watch the sun set and busted
Speaker 4: out some journals so they could write down their feelings together.
Speaker 2: And I thought that was.
Speaker 1: Pretty cool because you were really concentrated on people's looks
Speaker 1: for a minute there. But then the activity that you
Speaker 1: liked was really deep and thoughtful.
Speaker 2: So good for you.
Speaker 5: Oh, I can't take responsibility for the journal idea, you know,
Speaker 5: but I did say yes to it.
Speaker 2: Well, I know, but it's a thing that you liked.
Speaker 5: I mean, I will use it if he doesn't. If
Speaker 5: he really doesn't like me, then I will use it
Speaker 5: with someone else.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's the.
Speaker 4: Worst case scenario. Assuming Tucker would say no, I don't
Speaker 4: know why he would to another chance to go out
Speaker 4: with you, well, a gorgeous woman the sunset with they
Speaker 4: journaled like it sounds like on his end, it was
Speaker 4: a great night.
Speaker 5: You guys are making me want to call him. Can
Speaker 5: you just call him?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, God, I wish we could FaceTime though, because I
Speaker 1: don't want to.
Speaker 4: See this guy's She suffered long enough, let's get this
Speaker 4: over with and hopefully get Tucker on the phone.
Speaker 6: Here we go.
Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Tucker?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Hey man, this is a radio show. We're called Brook
Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's up? Good morning, Hey Tucker.
Speaker 6: That was just mid workout. Is this important?
Speaker 1: What is this about?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Sorry? Yeah, so I don't mean to like get in
Speaker 4: the way of your hot and sweaty right now. Yeah,
Speaker 4: early morning works for putting that image in my head. Listen, Tucker,
Speaker 4: We'll try not to waste too much of your time
Speaker 4: because I know you've got important body sculpting to do.
Speaker 4: But this is called a second date update, and we're
Speaker 4: trying to help out one of our listeners that you
Speaker 4: went out with recently, a lovely woman named Tammy. Oh okay, okay,
Speaker 4: do you remember her?
Speaker 6: Yeah? What is this about? Why are you guys calling
Speaker 6: me out Tammy?
Speaker 4: Because Tammy's a little bit confused. She thought the two
Speaker 4: of you had a nice time together, but since then
Speaker 4: you haven't been reaching out for another meetup.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, to be honest, I was a little turned off.
Speaker 4: What really, I mean? Can you tell us at what
Speaker 4: point you were turned off during the night, Because we
Speaker 4: heard it and it sounded pretty good start to finish.
Speaker 6: I'm not sure what she told you about what happened
Speaker 6: during our date, but.
Speaker 4: I mean, we can give you a quick recap. There
Speaker 4: was a sunset, there was journaling, there was a concert.
Speaker 4: There was yeah, and your friends were like in the
Speaker 4: band or something.
Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, So we were at the concert and you know,
Speaker 6: we got drinks and I went to go look at
Speaker 6: my journal and reflect, you know, and she was gone.
Speaker 6: She went to the bathroom. So at that point I
Speaker 6: went and looked at my journal. Okay, and I guess
Speaker 6: they switched, so I pulled out hers instead.
Speaker 4: Oh so you accidentally grabbed hers?
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I opened it up and I just started reading.
Speaker 1: Oh oh she wouldn't you open it up and then
Speaker 1: be like, oh, that's not mine.
Speaker 2: I should close.
Speaker 1: That isn't the whole point of journaling to share like unedited,
Speaker 1: uninterrupted thoughts that no one would ever hear.
Speaker 4: Well maybe he didn't realize those weren't his thoughts until
Speaker 4: he was. He's like, damn, my poetic.
Speaker 2: It seems like such a each of privacy.
Speaker 4: Man, Well, what about reading it was a turnoff?
Speaker 6: Well, after I got a couple of sentences in I
Speaker 6: kind of realized it was just all over the place
Speaker 6: and it was all just about attractiveness nine tens. It
Speaker 6: was kind of shallow she was.
Speaker 2: But she was writing that stuff down.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was writting all that kind of stuff down.
Speaker 6: And there was nothing about like the ocean or the
Speaker 6: sunset or like peace, which is one of my journaling
Speaker 6: is all about.
Speaker 2: I know, but I mean, give her a break. You
Speaker 2: just sprung it on earth. She also didn't think anybody
Speaker 2: would ever see it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So what I'm trying to figure out what about
Speaker 4: her not doing that? Like why is that a red flag?
Speaker 4: Or why was that a turnof to you?
Speaker 6: Well, because she was sort of writing about how he's
Speaker 6: a nine, I'm a nine, and we should just end
Speaker 6: the concert and then just ask him to come to
Speaker 6: his place.
Speaker 1: Oh, she was writing out exactly what she told him.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she was like dream boarding.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I think I just think I need someone
Speaker 6: deeper or on my level and in terms of how
Speaker 6: they act, and it just seemed pretty shallow at the
Speaker 6: end of.
Speaker 7: The day, I'm gonna say, journal did she loved that
Speaker 7: exercise and that was the thing that attracted her to
Speaker 7: you the most, Like I feel like that speaks to
Speaker 7: what her priorities are.
Speaker 4: Hey, Broke, don't speak for her. Tammy can speak for herself,
Speaker 4: because Tucker, you should know she's actually on the other
Speaker 4: line listening to this call, waiting to talk to you,
Speaker 4: not going to be happy.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of like reading your journal, but
Speaker 1: just out loud there.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm just kind of stunned at what a creep
Speaker 5: you are.
Speaker 4: Apparently, I'm assuming that's about Tucker and not Yeah.
Speaker 5: I mean, who who micromanages someone's journal entries.
Speaker 6: Someone with a personality I would.
Speaker 5: Maybe Awker does.
Speaker 2: This is evolving quickly.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he said it was an accident. He didn't mean
Speaker 4: to pick up your journal.
Speaker 2: He just oh, and he didn't mean to read Sten
Speaker 2: a little bit.
Speaker 4: Music was going, the brain wasn't braining. You know.
Speaker 6: You know you could have read my journal. It is
Speaker 6: much deeper. You would have loved it.
Speaker 4: Well, were you talking about?
Speaker 2: I mean, now's the chance for you to share the
Speaker 2: entry that you wrote. You haven't hear you?
Speaker 6: I do, I do.
Speaker 4: I don't know if we want to go down this path. Honestly,
Speaker 4: He's like, she's a nine, I'm a jed sunset red.
Speaker 4: I mean, you're kidding, bro it sounds like Tucker feels
Speaker 4: like Tammy. You came off as being really shallow and
Speaker 4: only interested in his looks surface level.
Speaker 2: Is that fair?
Speaker 5: I mean, first of all, I don't think you can
Speaker 5: judge much about me from like ten minutes of just
Speaker 5: writing whatever. That's like shallow. And then you kept both like,
Speaker 5: what do you have a big stack of women's journals
Speaker 5: back at your flop house?
Speaker 2: Wait? He took your journals?
Speaker 5: Yeah, he just put them in his backpack. I thought,
Speaker 5: you know, that's again, this is why I thought that,
Speaker 5: like we were going to have a little like I want.
Speaker 6: You know, you know, once I read that journal, I
Speaker 6: realized I shouldn't have wasted any more paper on you, and.
Speaker 5: I, Oh, it wasn't even a new journal. It already
Speaker 5: had pages ripped out of the front.
Speaker 2: Oh, so you've done this to other women. You have
Speaker 2: them right down their thoughts and then you judge them
Speaker 2: on it. Take the journal.
Speaker 4: Wait a minute, now you're sounding kind of shallow. Yeah, Tucker,
Speaker 4: how dare you have standards for the type of women
Speaker 4: that you want to date?
Speaker 6: Apparently apparently you think I'm a nine So I don't
Speaker 6: do this, Shue. That's all you were writing about.
Speaker 5: Anyways, Well, I think weird nines. Weird nines, you know.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm willing to go I'm willing to look
Speaker 5: past them, honestly.
Speaker 2: What oh what?
Speaker 4: Wait, even though he betrayed you and read all of
Speaker 4: your personal thoughts.
Speaker 1: And just said all those terrible things, well okay, but
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm sorry, Tucker.
Speaker 5: Ear muff I do you know about bros like they
Speaker 5: need some help?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I mean I can hear his six back through the
Speaker 4: phone right now.
Speaker 2: You don't.
Speaker 5: He's literally at them right he said, we're literally pumping
Speaker 5: iron right now.
Speaker 2: That's the girl. I do not want a project, no
Speaker 2: matter how hot it is.
Speaker 5: Speak for yourself.
Speaker 2: Gee, you we're going to be a project either way.
Speaker 2: Might as well be hot.
Speaker 4: Hey, you know that's a good porn God. You know
Speaker 4: that twenty five year old Brook would be all over
Speaker 4: Tucker right now.
Speaker 2: Oh I dated hot and dumb.
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, so let Tammy do the same, all right.
Speaker 6: You know, I'm a little offended here that you guys
Speaker 6: are making fun of me and Connie dumb. No I
Speaker 6: bought two journals.
Speaker 2: Oh well that's fair.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Brook, do you want to apologize.
Speaker 2: Not one but you know what. You're right, Yeah, that
Speaker 2: is a sign of intelligence.
Speaker 4: So now that we're finally all on the same page
Speaker 4: and the other ones have been ripped out, let's just
Speaker 4: ask nice Tucker, would you be willing to give Tammy
Speaker 4: a second chance here and go out on another date
Speaker 4: with her?
Speaker 5: Come on, let's get some food. We didn't even get
Speaker 5: a good meal before the last thing.
Speaker 4: Bro, you must be so hot, Tucker, he is all
Speaker 4: about it.
Speaker 6: Man. You know I'm gonna have to pass. What with
Speaker 6: that money that you would have paid for the date.
Speaker 6: I think you should buy Tammy a notebook and she
Speaker 6: can do some journaling, hopefully a little bit better.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Tucker, we're not as deep as you, Bro. There's
Speaker 4: no way we'd be able to pull it off. I
Speaker 4: feel like journals.
Speaker 6: You guys should try it. It does a lot for
Speaker 6: the soul.
Speaker 1: Okay, I try writing or try reading somebody else's.
Speaker 6: Little of this, little of that.
Speaker 4: All right, Well, hey, Tucker, we appreciate you being on
Speaker 4: with us. You can go back to working out and
Speaker 4: making that body perfect.
Speaker 2: And Tammy, you dodged a hot bullet, you really did.
Speaker 5: I wanted that hot bullet so.
Speaker 4: Bad, all right, got the next line for my journal.
Speaker 5: Well and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 4: Man, I respect a woman who goes after what she
Speaker 4: wants and ignores all the glaring red flags because she
Speaker 4: puts herself and her feelings first. You know, you want
Speaker 4: what you can't have.
Speaker 1: Jo I believed her at first when it was hard
Speaker 1: for her to date, but then after hearing this, I'm like, girls,
Speaker 1: because what you're picket?
Speaker 2: You just did this to yourself.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and she didn't mind it. She had no shame
Speaker 4: saying she did not want to dodge that hot bullet.
Speaker 2: At least it was all on the table for her. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it just didn't work out this time.
Speaker 4: I hope we'll hear back from both of them in
Speaker 4: an update.
Speaker 2: Update I do, didn't he say? No.
Speaker 4: I think it'll turn around. Oh, you'll reread her journal
Speaker 4: and see like, actually we are meant for each other.
Speaker 4: Maybe the journal he reads because it felt like a
Speaker 4: trick almost. Maybe I'm holding on to hope. Maybe that's
Speaker 4: stupid of me. But if you've missed any Second Dates
Speaker 4: in the last few months, go ahead and find us
Speaker 4: on Apple and Spotify wherever you get your podcasts, and
Speaker 4: binge us until your heart's content.
Speaker 2: Hey, grate us a nine, or be honest and give
Speaker 2: us a five.