1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,640 Speaker 1: Hey, it's brig and Jeffrey in the morning. We got 2 00:00:01,639 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: a brand new second date episode for you. 3 00:00:03,800 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 2: Yes, but for some time for reflection. 4 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:10,640 Speaker 1: Reflection, yes, because we got so many comments about the 5 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: very brand new episode, very first time ever. 6 00:00:14,120 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 2: Alexis asks you out very awkward last week. But thank 7 00:00:17,640 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 2: you guys so much. Your comments are so nice. 8 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 3: I was reading all of them and I was like, oh, 9 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:24,920 Speaker 3: I just wanted to expecting you guys are so sweet. 10 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 1: Yes, Ady said, Alexis, You're a freaking amazing I would 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: one percent let you ask my next day out. 12 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 3: That's what you took from that, Okay, Wayney said, finally, 13 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 3: my girl, Alexis has her time to shine, not gonna lie. 14 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 2: This might be my favorite part of the show from 15 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 2: now on, Love from poland Oh you want more? 16 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 4: Oh No? 17 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: And then Libby said I really needed a good laugh 18 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: today and Alexis did that for me. 19 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:53,440 Speaker 2: The beginning was cringe. Yeah, but you recovered it pretty well. Really, 20 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 2: I'm glad you did that. Didn't you see one about 21 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 2: how fast you take? 22 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 3: Yes, Chantelle said, I normally say to your show on 23 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 3: one point five speed because you talked too slow. But 24 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,839 Speaker 3: Alexis's new segment is the first time, I could slow 25 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 3: it down to one time's normal speed, so we're on 26 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 3: the same wavelength. 27 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: That's really funny. 28 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: So thank you so much for all the it got 29 00:01:12,480 --> 00:01:15,319 Speaker 1: over seriously comments on the No, you guys are so nice. 30 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:16,640 Speaker 2: Thank you, even though I know you were. 31 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 3: You know, it was the awkwardness most of you let 32 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 3: you know you like, yeah, I'm still recovering, but your 33 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: comments help. 34 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:22,759 Speaker 2: All right, We're going to get to a brand new 35 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 2: second date update right now. Brooke and Jeffrey in the 36 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,200 Speaker 2: morning Second date updates. 37 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 4: A popular influencer on Instagram recently got millions of views 38 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 4: for a ten second clip where she said she has 39 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:40,400 Speaker 4: a theory that the more attractive you get, the less 40 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 4: likely you are to get a boyfriend or a girlfriend, 41 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 4: and if you're a nine or a ten, you're basically 42 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 4: cooked and are never going to be able to lock 43 00:01:49,160 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 4: anyone down. 44 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 2: I can actually see this. My best friend was stunning. 45 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 4: You don't have to talk about me like I'm not 46 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 4: in the room. 47 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 1: And people are intimidated by her and they thought she 48 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 1: was me, but she wasn't. She was just shy and hot, 49 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: like it's not a you know, it's a hard combination 50 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: to live with. 51 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 4: But also she's rare because a lot of them are mean. 52 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, well. 53 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 4: They've earned that right because they're so hot. And I 54 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 4: wonder if our listener, Tammy, who's on the phone right now, 55 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 4: would agree with that, since she's actually the one who 56 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 4: sent me that clip. So, Tammy, you believe that? 57 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: Huh? 58 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, I sent that to you because I agree 59 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,480 Speaker 5: with it and I feel like it applies to me 60 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 5: right now. 61 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're the you're the hot girl having a 62 00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: hard time in. 63 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 2: The dating world. 64 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:36,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, like I've been told them I'm a nine or ten. 65 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 5: But if I am that attractive and you're that attractive, 66 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 5: then chances are you also already have like a very 67 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:47,240 Speaker 5: small group of people who are in your league at all. 68 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 5: So the chances of them, like, like, you have no chance. 69 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 2: You have no chance. 70 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: If you're really hot, there's not very many other hot 71 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: people to date, and you don't want to date down. 72 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 2: Is that what I'm hearing? Yeah, it's if you're looking 73 00:02:58,880 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: for equal in numbers. 74 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 5: Yeah, right, And like I used to be nice, I 75 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:03,360 Speaker 5: used to be too nice. 76 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 4: Okay what we just said, I was like. 77 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 2: Fast tense for. 78 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 4: You, But all the terrible men out there obviously couldn't 79 00:03:12,919 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 4: meet up to your nice standards, so you had to 80 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 4: get mean. 81 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,720 Speaker 5: Like after a while, you teach the sixes and sevens 82 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:24,799 Speaker 5: and oh sorry. 83 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 2: Oh that's what you said. 84 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, you teach them enough about themselves, like I was. 85 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 5: I was being ratified by like helping out guys that 86 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 5: morning my league, like when I was younger, you know. 87 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 5: And then it's like self improvement. And when you feel 88 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 5: like you're finally finding yourself on a new level, like 89 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 5: your world opens up. There are like levels of nines 90 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:41,800 Speaker 5: and tens, you find yourself and you're like, I made it. 91 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 4: Yeah, I am. 92 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 2: Not fully following all of this. I'm going to be 93 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: honest with you. 94 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 4: I'm fully with you. By the way, Tammy, I'm like, 95 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 4: our brains are connected. 96 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,680 Speaker 2: Can we get to your date that you're calling us about? 97 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 4: I want to talk about this more. But okay, I 98 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 4: guess you've met a guy though, that has matched your 99 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 4: standards you're holding for yourself. What's his name? 100 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 5: Yes, his name's Tucker. 101 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 4: Okay, okay. 102 00:04:05,000 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 5: And I didn't even know I had this standard, honestly, 103 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 5: because I have never seen his moves before. 104 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 6: His moves, his moves, like. 105 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 5: The moves he put on me were like, I mean, 106 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 5: they were like eleven moves. 107 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,600 Speaker 2: He reached around and put his arm. 108 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 4: That's a four screen. Tell us about Tucker. How you 109 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 4: guys met and what his moves were? 110 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 5: Too hot? We met off the app okay, yeah, and 111 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 5: first we got drinks. It was good drinks, and then 112 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 5: we watched the sunset and then after that we saw 113 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 5: a band that his friends were in. But like it 114 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 5: was the sunset moves? 115 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 2: What were the sunset moves? What do you do? 116 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 5: So here's what he does. He has like a little backpack. 117 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 5: He pulls out two notebooks and he gave me a 118 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 5: notebook and he was like, let's journal Oh wow, deep? 119 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 1: Why did I want him to pull out champagne for you? 120 00:04:57,839 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 4: Are you're not impressed with that? 121 00:04:59,400 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: I don't know. 122 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 3: I'm all for journaling on your free time, not on 123 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 3: a date. 124 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,839 Speaker 5: You liked the journal moves, Okay, it seemed corny, but like, 125 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 5: first of all, there weren't a lot of other people around, 126 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 5: so I was like a little more kind of natural. 127 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 5: And then like I don't know, it just turned out nice. 128 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 5: Like you know, we weren't even talking. 129 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, I don't understand, Like if this was all 130 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 1: great like, the drinks were great, the attractive level was great. 131 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 2: You guys connected. 132 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,720 Speaker 1: On a deeper like why wouldn't he be calling you back? 133 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 5: Yeah? I know. Well then we went to see the band, 134 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 5: so that kind of like changed it up, like we 135 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 5: didn't really get to live in that moment, Like, yeah, 136 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 5: we could have gone back to his place, you know 137 00:05:37,080 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 5: what I'm saying. 138 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 4: If he asked you. 139 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, if we could have jouraled at his 140 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 5: house too, Like, I don't know, it's like a good buffer. 141 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: So you didn't you didn't enjoy the band experience to 142 00:05:51,120 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 1: end the night. 143 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 5: Well she knew then, but I didn't, so I kind 144 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 5: of just like and I had just had a really 145 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 5: intense experience with him, and then it's like like we 146 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 5: weren't able to to connect on that level that we 147 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 5: had reached. So like we were there for maybe forty 148 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 5: five minutes. Oh and then he just walked me to 149 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,280 Speaker 5: my car, but he gave me a kiss. 150 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 2: Oh oh god. 151 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 4: It was a nice kiss. 152 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean it was like it didn't say much, 153 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 5: but it wasn't like an experience. It wasn't like it 154 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 5: was warm, like the lips are where the magic happens, 155 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 5: you know, Yes, that's. 156 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 4: A line for your journal for sure. Okay, So what's 157 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 4: happened since that night? 158 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 5: He isn't getting back to me, Like I only know 159 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 5: who he is through the app and that's infuriating too. 160 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 5: It was like we aren't connected on social so I 161 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,719 Speaker 5: don't know if he just like isn't using the app anymore. 162 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:40,240 Speaker 5: Like I'm telling you he's Prince Charming. 163 00:06:40,800 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: Wait, you're saying that. 164 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:43,839 Speaker 1: You can't find him online anywhere? 165 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 2: Is that what you're saying? 166 00:06:44,960 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, well I can't find him on mind, so I 167 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 5: can't stalk him and see someone in his life and like, yeah, 168 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 5: like he gave me his phone number, but I don't 169 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:53,159 Speaker 5: know I think he I don't think he forgot about me. 170 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 5: But like, I mean he's winning a life, so like. 171 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 4: Maybe no, he's not winning. He's not winning at life 172 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 4: because he doesn't have you in it, right right right? Yeah, 173 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 4: I'm not write that down journal. 174 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 5: Yes, it's a great move. 175 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:15,120 Speaker 1: That is myself Anyway, I'm disappointed in Tucker because you 176 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 1: shouldn't be the one that's seeking him out. 177 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,800 Speaker 4: He should be seeking you out as the nine and 178 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 4: ten to like fulfill his part of his life. Okay, 179 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 4: I'm gonna scratch that one out of the journal. That 180 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 4: one's not good. That's okay, but we're gonna make sure 181 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 4: that it hits right. When we come back, we'll call 182 00:07:30,840 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 4: Tucker and ask him why he's not calling back the 183 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 4: most gorgeous girl he's ever matched with on the dating app. 184 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 2: Hey, we don't know that she has to. 185 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 4: Be just she's talking. Anyway, We'll come back and do 186 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 4: it right after this. 187 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 3: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, Second date updates. 188 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 4: Why does God punish all the extremely attractive women of 189 00:07:51,600 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 4: this world? 190 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: Okay? 191 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 2: Confused? 192 00:07:54,800 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 4: I don't know, jeff I know all the fours and 193 00:07:57,680 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 4: fives are listening to this right now. Thanks. I feel 194 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 4: so bad for the nines and tents. They have it 195 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 4: so hard. 196 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 2: I mean, this is really the definition of empathy. 197 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 4: Yes, I never thought pretty privilege could be this dark. 198 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:16,679 Speaker 4: Is there a go fund me for these poor women? 199 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 4: What can I do to help? If you're thinking that, 200 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 4: here's what you can do. Text into seven eight, five, 201 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 4: nine to two and cheer on our listener. Tammy, a 202 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 4: self described hottie with all of the looks and personality 203 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 4: to offer, but no man on earth who can handle her. 204 00:08:33,840 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: I feel like you should start a nonprofit where we 205 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: adopt one. 206 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 4: We really should. The only guy who maybe can come 207 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:44,760 Speaker 4: close is Tucker, a good looking dude who took her 208 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 4: to an area to watch the sun set and busted 209 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:50,319 Speaker 4: out some journals so they could write down their feelings together. 210 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: And I thought that was. 211 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: Pretty cool because you were really concentrated on people's looks 212 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,800 Speaker 1: for a minute there. But then the activity that you 213 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 1: liked was really deep and thoughtful. 214 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:01,600 Speaker 2: So good for you. 215 00:09:02,120 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 5: Oh, I can't take responsibility for the journal idea, you know, 216 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:06,600 Speaker 5: but I did say yes to it. 217 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 2: Well, I know, but it's a thing that you liked. 218 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:10,719 Speaker 5: I mean, I will use it if he doesn't. If 219 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 5: he really doesn't like me, then I will use it 220 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 5: with someone else. 221 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 2: Okay, that's the. 222 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 4: Worst case scenario. Assuming Tucker would say no, I don't 223 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,679 Speaker 4: know why he would to another chance to go out 224 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 4: with you, well, a gorgeous woman the sunset with they 225 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:26,199 Speaker 4: journaled like it sounds like on his end, it was 226 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 4: a great night. 227 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 5: You guys are making me want to call him. Can 228 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 5: you just call him? 229 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 4: Yeah? 230 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,599 Speaker 1: Okay, God, I wish we could FaceTime though, because I 231 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 1: don't want to. 232 00:09:32,080 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 4: See this guy's She suffered long enough, let's get this 233 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 4: over with and hopefully get Tucker on the phone. 234 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 6: Here we go. 235 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 4: Hello, Hey is this Tucker? 236 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 6: Yeah? 237 00:09:50,120 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 4: Hey man, this is a radio show. We're called Brook 238 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 4: and Jeffrey in the Morning. 239 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, what's up? Good morning, Hey Tucker. 240 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 6: That was just mid workout. Is this important? 241 00:09:58,360 --> 00:09:59,199 Speaker 1: What is this about? 242 00:09:59,240 --> 00:09:59,560 Speaker 2: Oh? 243 00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:02,719 Speaker 4: Sorry? Yeah, so I don't mean to like get in 244 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:05,840 Speaker 4: the way of your hot and sweaty right now. Yeah, 245 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:12,079 Speaker 4: early morning works for putting that image in my head. Listen, Tucker, 246 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: We'll try not to waste too much of your time 247 00:10:13,840 --> 00:10:16,199 Speaker 4: because I know you've got important body sculpting to do. 248 00:10:16,720 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 4: But this is called a second date update, and we're 249 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 4: trying to help out one of our listeners that you 250 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 4: went out with recently, a lovely woman named Tammy. Oh okay, okay, 251 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:30,760 Speaker 4: do you remember her? 252 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 6: Yeah? What is this about? Why are you guys calling 253 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:35,800 Speaker 6: me out Tammy? 254 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 4: Because Tammy's a little bit confused. She thought the two 255 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 4: of you had a nice time together, but since then 256 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 4: you haven't been reaching out for another meetup. 257 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 6: Yeah. Well, to be honest, I was a little turned off. 258 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 4: What really, I mean? Can you tell us at what 259 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 4: point you were turned off during the night, Because we 260 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:59,000 Speaker 4: heard it and it sounded pretty good start to finish. 261 00:10:59,280 --> 00:11:02,559 Speaker 6: I'm not sure what she told you about what happened 262 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:03,760 Speaker 6: during our date, but. 263 00:11:03,840 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 4: I mean, we can give you a quick recap. There 264 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 4: was a sunset, there was journaling, there was a concert. 265 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 4: There was yeah, and your friends were like in the 266 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:11,720 Speaker 4: band or something. 267 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, So we were at the concert and you know, 268 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 6: we got drinks and I went to go look at 269 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 6: my journal and reflect, you know, and she was gone. 270 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 6: She went to the bathroom. So at that point I 271 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 6: went and looked at my journal. Okay, and I guess 272 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 6: they switched, so I pulled out hers instead. 273 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:32,359 Speaker 4: Oh so you accidentally grabbed hers? 274 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 6: Yeah, And I opened it up and I just started reading. 275 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: Oh oh she wouldn't you open it up and then 276 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: be like, oh, that's not mine. 277 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 2: I should close. 278 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 1: That isn't the whole point of journaling to share like unedited, 279 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 1: uninterrupted thoughts that no one would ever hear. 280 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,319 Speaker 4: Well maybe he didn't realize those weren't his thoughts until 281 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 4: he was. He's like, damn, my poetic. 282 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 2: It seems like such a each of privacy. 283 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 4: Man, Well, what about reading it was a turnoff? 284 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 6: Well, after I got a couple of sentences in I 285 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 6: kind of realized it was just all over the place 286 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 6: and it was all just about attractiveness nine tens. It 287 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 6: was kind of shallow she was. 288 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:18,840 Speaker 2: But she was writing that stuff down. 289 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, she was writting all that kind of stuff down. 290 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 6: And there was nothing about like the ocean or the 291 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 6: sunset or like peace, which is one of my journaling 292 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 6: is all about. 293 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:30,800 Speaker 2: I know, but I mean, give her a break. You 294 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 2: just sprung it on earth. She also didn't think anybody 295 00:12:33,360 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 2: would ever see it. 296 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, So what I'm trying to figure out what about 297 00:12:36,720 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 4: her not doing that? Like why is that a red flag? 298 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 4: Or why was that a turnof to you? 299 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 6: Well, because she was sort of writing about how he's 300 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 6: a nine, I'm a nine, and we should just end 301 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,720 Speaker 6: the concert and then just ask him to come to 302 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 6: his place. 303 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:55,719 Speaker 1: Oh, she was writing out exactly what she told him. 304 00:12:55,800 --> 00:12:58,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, she was like dream boarding. 305 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I think I just think I need someone 306 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 6: deeper or on my level and in terms of how 307 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 6: they act, and it just seemed pretty shallow at the 308 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 6: end of. 309 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 7: The day, I'm gonna say, journal did she loved that 310 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 7: exercise and that was the thing that attracted her to 311 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 7: you the most, Like I feel like that speaks to 312 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 7: what her priorities are. 313 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 4: Hey, Broke, don't speak for her. Tammy can speak for herself, 314 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 4: because Tucker, you should know she's actually on the other 315 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 4: line listening to this call, waiting to talk to you, 316 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 4: not going to be happy. 317 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of like reading your journal, but 318 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:38,199 Speaker 1: just out loud there. 319 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm just kind of stunned at what a creep 320 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 5: you are. 321 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:47,560 Speaker 4: Apparently, I'm assuming that's about Tucker and not Yeah. 322 00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:52,520 Speaker 5: I mean, who who micromanages someone's journal entries. 323 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 6: Someone with a personality I would. 324 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 5: Maybe Awker does. 325 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 2: This is evolving quickly. 326 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, he said it was an accident. He didn't mean 327 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:07,920 Speaker 4: to pick up your journal. 328 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 2: He just oh, and he didn't mean to read Sten 329 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 2: a little bit. 330 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 4: Music was going, the brain wasn't braining. You know. 331 00:14:17,920 --> 00:14:20,720 Speaker 6: You know you could have read my journal. It is 332 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 6: much deeper. You would have loved it. 333 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 4: Well, were you talking about? 334 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 2: I mean, now's the chance for you to share the 335 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 2: entry that you wrote. You haven't hear you? 336 00:14:29,200 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 6: I do, I do. 337 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 4: I don't know if we want to go down this path. Honestly, 338 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 4: He's like, she's a nine, I'm a jed sunset red. 339 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 4: I mean, you're kidding, bro it sounds like Tucker feels 340 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 4: like Tammy. You came off as being really shallow and 341 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 4: only interested in his looks surface level. 342 00:14:49,520 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 2: Is that fair? 343 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 5: I mean, first of all, I don't think you can 344 00:14:52,160 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 5: judge much about me from like ten minutes of just 345 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 5: writing whatever. That's like shallow. And then you kept both like, 346 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 5: what do you have a big stack of women's journals 347 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 5: back at your flop house? 348 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 2: Wait? He took your journals? 349 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, he just put them in his backpack. I thought, 350 00:15:07,560 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 5: you know, that's again, this is why I thought that, 351 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 5: like we were going to have a little like I want. 352 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 6: You know, you know, once I read that journal, I 353 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 6: realized I shouldn't have wasted any more paper on you, and. 354 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 5: I, Oh, it wasn't even a new journal. It already 355 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 5: had pages ripped out of the front. 356 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:27,640 Speaker 2: Oh, so you've done this to other women. You have 357 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 2: them right down their thoughts and then you judge them 358 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 2: on it. Take the journal. 359 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 4: Wait a minute, now you're sounding kind of shallow. Yeah, Tucker, 360 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 4: how dare you have standards for the type of women 361 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:37,800 Speaker 4: that you want to date? 362 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 6: Apparently apparently you think I'm a nine So I don't 363 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 6: do this, Shue. That's all you were writing about. 364 00:15:43,240 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 5: Anyways, Well, I think weird nines. Weird nines, you know. 365 00:15:47,880 --> 00:15:50,160 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm willing to go I'm willing to look 366 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 5: past them, honestly. 367 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 2: What oh what? 368 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 4: Wait, even though he betrayed you and read all of 369 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 4: your personal thoughts. 370 00:15:57,160 --> 00:16:00,520 Speaker 1: And just said all those terrible things, well okay, but 371 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 1: like you know, I'm sorry, Tucker. 372 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 5: Ear muff I do you know about bros like they 373 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 5: need some help? 374 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:07,160 Speaker 6: Yeah? 375 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 4: I mean I can hear his six back through the 376 00:16:09,200 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 4: phone right now. 377 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 2: You don't. 378 00:16:10,160 --> 00:16:13,200 Speaker 5: He's literally at them right he said, we're literally pumping 379 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 5: iron right now. 380 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 2: That's the girl. I do not want a project, no 381 00:16:16,560 --> 00:16:17,640 Speaker 2: matter how hot it is. 382 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 5: Speak for yourself. 383 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 2: Gee, you we're going to be a project either way. 384 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 2: Might as well be hot. 385 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 4: Hey, you know that's a good porn God. You know 386 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 4: that twenty five year old Brook would be all over 387 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 4: Tucker right now. 388 00:16:29,480 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 2: Oh I dated hot and dumb. 389 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, so let Tammy do the same, all right. 390 00:16:34,840 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 6: You know, I'm a little offended here that you guys 391 00:16:37,560 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 6: are making fun of me and Connie dumb. No I 392 00:16:40,680 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 6: bought two journals. 393 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 2: Oh well that's fair. 394 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, Brook, do you want to apologize. 395 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 2: Not one but you know what. You're right, Yeah, that 396 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,239 Speaker 2: is a sign of intelligence. 397 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 4: So now that we're finally all on the same page 398 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 4: and the other ones have been ripped out, let's just 399 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 4: ask nice Tucker, would you be willing to give Tammy 400 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 4: a second chance here and go out on another date 401 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 4: with her? 402 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 5: Come on, let's get some food. We didn't even get 403 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 5: a good meal before the last thing. 404 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,520 Speaker 4: Bro, you must be so hot, Tucker, he is all 405 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 4: about it. 406 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 6: Man. You know I'm gonna have to pass. What with 407 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:18,240 Speaker 6: that money that you would have paid for the date. 408 00:17:18,359 --> 00:17:21,480 Speaker 6: I think you should buy Tammy a notebook and she 409 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:23,800 Speaker 6: can do some journaling, hopefully a little bit better. 410 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, Tucker, we're not as deep as you, Bro. There's 411 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 4: no way we'd be able to pull it off. I 412 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 4: feel like journals. 413 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,520 Speaker 6: You guys should try it. It does a lot for 414 00:17:33,560 --> 00:17:33,960 Speaker 6: the soul. 415 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 1: Okay, I try writing or try reading somebody else's. 416 00:17:38,840 --> 00:17:39,800 Speaker 6: Little of this, little of that. 417 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:44,120 Speaker 4: All right, Well, hey, Tucker, we appreciate you being on 418 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:45,960 Speaker 4: with us. You can go back to working out and 419 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 4: making that body perfect. 420 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 2: And Tammy, you dodged a hot bullet, you really did. 421 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 5: I wanted that hot bullet so. 422 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:58,080 Speaker 4: Bad, all right, got the next line for my journal. 423 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 5: Well and Jeffrey in the morning. 424 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 4: Man, I respect a woman who goes after what she 425 00:18:06,440 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 4: wants and ignores all the glaring red flags because she 426 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 4: puts herself and her feelings first. You know, you want 427 00:18:14,480 --> 00:18:15,119 Speaker 4: what you can't have. 428 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 1: Jo I believed her at first when it was hard 429 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: for her to date, but then after hearing this, I'm like, girls, 430 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: because what you're picket? 431 00:18:23,160 --> 00:18:25,360 Speaker 2: You just did this to yourself. 432 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and she didn't mind it. She had no shame 433 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 4: saying she did not want to dodge that hot bullet. 434 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: At least it was all on the table for her. Yeah, 435 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,640 Speaker 2: it just didn't work out this time. 436 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 4: I hope we'll hear back from both of them in 437 00:18:37,320 --> 00:18:38,120 Speaker 4: an update. 438 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 2: Update I do, didn't he say? No. 439 00:18:41,840 --> 00:18:45,959 Speaker 4: I think it'll turn around. Oh, you'll reread her journal 440 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:48,959 Speaker 4: and see like, actually we are meant for each other. 441 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 4: Maybe the journal he reads because it felt like a 442 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 4: trick almost. Maybe I'm holding on to hope. Maybe that's 443 00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:58,280 Speaker 4: stupid of me. But if you've missed any Second Dates 444 00:18:58,320 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 4: in the last few months, go ahead and find us 445 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:03,320 Speaker 4: on Apple and Spotify wherever you get your podcasts, and 446 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:05,359 Speaker 4: binge us until your heart's content. 447 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 2: Hey, grate us a nine, or be honest and give 448 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 2: us a five.