1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:03,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they excited. Tell me. 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show, like 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 2: running in our diaries, except we say them aloud. 4 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:10,680 Speaker 1: We call them blogs Kalin's got. 5 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 3: One go Yes, thank you, dear blog. So one of 6 00:00:15,000 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 3: my greatest fears in life is asking people for money 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 3: that they rightfully owe me. But somehow I have put 8 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 3: myself in situations endlessly where I need to ask people 9 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 3: for money. Like I always be asking people for money. 10 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 2: So you ask people for money that owe me money, 11 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:38,000 Speaker 2: it is like, you wait, what do you mean? 12 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: Give me an example. 13 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 3: So, like, I I'm very uncomfortable asking for money for myself. 14 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 3: But you know, I like ride for my people harder 15 00:00:45,080 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 3: than I'll ever ride for myself. 16 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 1: So if someone owes Jason money, I'll show up to 17 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 1: the house with a bath. I'm like, hey up. But 18 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: if someone owes me money, I'm like, oh, it's okay. 19 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:53,760 Speaker 1: I'll discover it. 20 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know why. And so it's just 21 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 3: very uncomfortable for me. And currently the situation that I'm 22 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 3: dealing with. I spoke about it the other day on 23 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: the show. I am planning this bachelorette party for one 24 00:01:05,240 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 3: of my best friends weekend rather. 25 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: I am her maid of honor. 26 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:11,720 Speaker 3: And of course, like I'm planning this weekend, so I 27 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,320 Speaker 3: need to put my card down for a lot of things. Fine, 28 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 3: no problem, I'm a grown woman. I'm happy to do it. 29 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 3: I want everyone to have fun. However, a lot of people. 30 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 3: Actually one specific person, I won't even say that. 31 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:27,199 Speaker 1: I'll say there's one specific. 32 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 3: Person who I have been trying to get sixty six 33 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:36,240 Speaker 3: dollars from for what feels like an eternity, and I've 34 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 3: now asked three separate times. I don't know if there's 35 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 3: like a new way that I can ask, if there's 36 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 3: like a song and dance number, But each time it's 37 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 3: very difficult for me. Like I want to tear my 38 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 3: skin off, I want to walk into oncoming traffic. I 39 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 3: don't like asking for money. But also, like I make 40 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 3: it so clear in all the messages, Hey message me privately, 41 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: like I get it. Times are really tough. I can 42 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,240 Speaker 3: work with you. We can do payment plans if you 43 00:01:58,440 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 3: just let me know. 44 00:02:00,400 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: With people. Are you a credit union? Like what? 45 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: No? 46 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: Like? 47 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 2: No, No, everybody knows the etiquette. Everybody knows the etiquette. 48 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 2: You are planning, you are fronting, and and everybody knows 49 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: that if you if you owe money, you need to 50 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:20,280 Speaker 2: pay the money now, not later. And if you're agreeing 51 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 2: to go on a bachelorette party to Maine or wherever 52 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 2: the hell you guys are going lobster hunting or whatever. 53 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: You do, then that is what we're doing, lobster catching 54 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:29,080 Speaker 1: or whatever it is. 55 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 2: Then then you then you got to know that's going 56 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 2: to cost money and you have to be prepared to 57 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: pay for it. And if you don't have the money 58 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,960 Speaker 2: to go on the trip, then you have to say 59 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,560 Speaker 2: I can't go, so that people aren't becoming the bank 60 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 2: and you're becoming the bank. You know what I'm saying, 61 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,640 Speaker 2: because you you front all this stuff and then you 62 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: go back and ask people to pay you. Do you 63 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 2: want me to call this this person and say that 64 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: I'm the collection agency. 65 00:02:50,160 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 1: Let's call him right now on here. Yeah. 66 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 3: And it's like if it's one of my friends that 67 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 3: are in the group, like I'll be like girl, girl 68 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 3: like side, like I know you have the money, like 69 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 3: come on, please, you're just ignoring my text. But it 70 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 3: is not one of my close friends. And so that's 71 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 3: what's making it so difficult. And uh, she's very important 72 00:03:10,120 --> 00:03:11,679 Speaker 3: to the bride, so I and I don't want to 73 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 3: involve the bride. 74 00:03:12,639 --> 00:03:15,000 Speaker 1: Like I'm not going to be like a tattletale. But 75 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:16,679 Speaker 1: it's getting a little sick. 76 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 3: I mean, sixty six dollars and there's gonna be other 77 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 3: payments that are going to be more than sixty six dollars, 78 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:23,080 Speaker 3: much more. 79 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 1: And I'm like, ladies, please, like I hate this. I 80 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: hate this the whole like shaking my cup thing for 81 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: the money that's so like. 82 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 4: Kills me, Like I'm tired of it. 83 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: Like, let's be big girls. What if you did this 84 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 2: starting to reupt you, Pauline? What if you do this, Kitlin? 85 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 2: What if you were to say the remaining amount of money, 86 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 2: what if you were to estimate, like the remaining amount 87 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: of money everyone's going to win? 88 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: Is this thing next month? This month? 89 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 3: It is the last weekend in May, and I assume 90 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 3: there's more. 91 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: There's going to be more expense, right, there certainly will be. Yes, 92 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 2: how much do you think everyone's gonna wind up owing total? 93 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 2: Five hundred bucks a thousand bucks apiece? Like, how much 94 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 2: do you think it's going to cost total by the 95 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 2: time you're done. 96 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. 97 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:07,000 Speaker 3: But the reason that I was trying to separate it 98 00:04:07,040 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 3: is so that it doesn't seem so much and that 99 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 3: you know, with someone we can use this paycheck for 100 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: this payment and another paycheck for another payment. I don't 101 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,159 Speaker 3: want to like put it all into a bundle and 102 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 3: like ask people for that. I don't know, I just 103 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 3: feel like that's harder to do than like asking for 104 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:22,600 Speaker 3: little payments along the way. 105 00:04:24,240 --> 00:04:26,799 Speaker 1: I kind of feel like what my buddy did. 106 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 2: He's actually he's a lawyer, so of course he was 107 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,479 Speaker 2: he was thinking ahead. Yeah, he's a smart guy. But 108 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:36,799 Speaker 2: what he did, and and granted he has some dough 109 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 2: but like on the bachelor party I went to recently, 110 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: and it was the first grown up bachelor party I 111 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,559 Speaker 2: had been to, but he wanted all the points for 112 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 2: not only like the Marriott points or Hilton or whatever 113 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: it was, but he wanted the credit card points, like 114 00:04:50,160 --> 00:04:53,480 Speaker 2: the Miles. So he fronted all of the hotel rooms 115 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,600 Speaker 2: on his credit card, which was a lot. I mean, 116 00:04:55,640 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 2: I think I don't know how much it was. It was, 117 00:04:57,320 --> 00:04:59,320 Speaker 2: I mean we're talking thousands of dollars of course. Yeah, 118 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 2: and then he put everything on his card, the whole weekend, everything, 119 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 2: and then he sent us all a bill basically, and 120 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 2: was like, you each owe me this much and I 121 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,720 Speaker 2: need it in two weeks or less or whatever. And 122 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: so I get that that's a lot, but you don't 123 00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 2: have to pay the credit card. I don't know how 124 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 2: long your credit card has before there's interest on it. 125 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 2: But my thing would be, I think you should just say, hey, everybody, 126 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 2: I think it's you don't have to pay me till 127 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 2: the end. But I'm guessing it's going to be about 128 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 2: one thousand dollars a piece. I'm making this up, and 129 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:30,800 Speaker 2: that's going to be due within two weeks of the 130 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 2: end of it. And then just charge everything to your 131 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: card and that way it's one time, one bill, and 132 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 2: you're not chasing everybody down for money. And then if 133 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 2: you want and everyone's going to pay you, and if 134 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: there's someone who doesn't, then you can go to the 135 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:45,840 Speaker 2: bride after the fact, after she's aware of how much 136 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 2: everything costs, and be like, yo, you know low Lucy 137 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 2: over here, you ow a friend from college, low Lucy 138 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 2: over here, try not to pay me, and I'm going 139 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 2: to send her to collections if you don't. But I 140 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 2: guess it's just easier than trying to scrounge money out 141 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 2: of someone. A bunch of it just less work for you. 142 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just feel like my thing is it shouldn't 143 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: have to be. It's difficult. 144 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,919 Speaker 3: I think it's like extremely disrespectful if I'm being completely serious, 145 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:12,039 Speaker 3: like I could not rest. I can't rest if I 146 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 3: know someone money, like I literally will think about it 147 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 3: until I send it. And I think it's just hurts 148 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 3: me that I've been so like communicative about being willing 149 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,200 Speaker 3: to work with people because I love my friend. I 150 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 3: want her to have fun, and I think, you know, yes, 151 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 3: I could put it all into one bill, but I 152 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 3: think I'd still run into the same issue. And for me, 153 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 3: I don't ever want to involve the bride. I think 154 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 3: it would make her very uncomfortable to know what we're 155 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,680 Speaker 3: spending on her. It would be nice for her to know, 156 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 3: but you know, she's not paying for basically anything. 157 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 2: I just don't know how else to do it because 158 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 2: time we're staying on the text, they're saying, don't front money, 159 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,799 Speaker 2: and I get that. I get that, but I also 160 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 2: don't know how else to do it in an organized way. 161 00:06:49,720 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 2: And unfortunately, if you're the planner, I just I don't 162 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 2: know how else to do it? 163 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 5: I like a girl's group right now for this trip 164 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 5: that I'm going on. Huh, and the you know, the organizer, which, 165 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 5: like the U of the group, has been very transparent 166 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:06,359 Speaker 5: in the group chat dummy chat about what's old. 167 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 1: Right. 168 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 5: So here's my suggestion is to get in the group chat, 169 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 5: put hey, I've received money from Alison key key Paulina's 170 00:07:14,600 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 5: Jason right, and then be like I'm still missing money. 171 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: From put her. 172 00:07:21,400 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: Say wait a minute, the only person he left out 173 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 2: was me. Well, I paid, I paid you. 174 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 5: Friend still owes me sixty six dollars and put it 175 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 5: all in a group chat. Yes, people, I'm telling you, girl, 176 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 5: you gotta do it. Should I just say it's for 177 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 5: bookkeeping purposes? Girls? 178 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,480 Speaker 1: Just putting it here for everybody to see. Shouldn't I 179 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: message her? Primary person you got to put you would 180 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: six dollars. I don't play it by my money. 181 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 5: I don't like I don't like that a friend that 182 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 5: is gonna be like, hey, I'll pay because I won't 183 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 5: ever ask you for money. I'll just talk about you 184 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,080 Speaker 5: for twenty years. Don't you'll pay me back sixty six? 185 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: Good? 186 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 5: But in this case, I really think you have to 187 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 5: put her on blast in front of the other girls 188 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 5: because she looks crazy being how close she is to 189 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 5: the bride too. I know who she is to the bride. 190 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 5: That's insane that that you're the problem. You should not 191 00:08:13,320 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 5: be the problem. 192 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:14,920 Speaker 1: Oh, there's an app. 193 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 3: There's an app calt Why Yeah, I was just about 194 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:18,040 Speaker 3: to bring that up. 195 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: There is an app. 196 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 3: But that's more helpful if like, multiple people are paying 197 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 3: for stuff. If it's just one person, then it's it's 198 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:26,600 Speaker 3: just you pay that one person. 199 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 2: I just think it sounds like you're going to have 200 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:32,600 Speaker 2: an organizational nightmare if it's yeah, every week, hey I 201 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:34,520 Speaker 2: need this much and this much and this much and 202 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,679 Speaker 2: this much, and it all adds up to whatever it is. 203 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:38,760 Speaker 2: And again it's messed up that you would have to 204 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:40,840 Speaker 2: front or the other thing you could do I guess 205 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 2: is say, hey, I estimate this trip is going to 206 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 2: cost fifteen a thousand dollars a person or whatever. 207 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: Everybody owes me a. 208 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 2: G and then I will give you an accurate accounting 209 00:08:51,600 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 2: of how much we spent in the end, and if 210 00:08:53,040 --> 00:08:55,840 Speaker 2: there's leftover, then everybody, I'll give everybody money back or whatever. 211 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: Because that way, at least you're working off of and 212 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 2: the money that's alllready there, as opposed to you having 213 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:05,200 Speaker 2: to front all this cash and then become a debt collector, 214 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 2: because I just think it's a big pain in the butt. 215 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,600 Speaker 2: And if you if it's sixty bucks here and eighty 216 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,959 Speaker 2: bucks here, and then you're gonna start justifying in your mind. 217 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,199 Speaker 2: All right, I'm gonna let this sixty six go because 218 00:09:14,200 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 2: I still got to go get them for two fifty 219 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 2: for the hotels or whatever. And I just feel like 220 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 2: before long you're gonna have everyone's gonna owe you a 221 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 2: little bit because people forgot or they're not paying, or 222 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 2: they don't they don't want to. 223 00:09:25,280 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: Just what a pain. 224 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, but like the crazy, I gotta say, everybody, raise 225 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 5: your hand if you pay me mark, Yes, I'm a 226 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 5: count of three. Raise your hand if you pay the money. 227 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 4: Oh god, Okay, okay, Honestly, you need to have an 228 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 4: intervention with the chief ass who's not paying you, right girl, 229 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:43,680 Speaker 4: and record it and put it on TikTok Live and 230 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 4: everybody can see this is the person, this is the 231 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 4: cheap skates. 232 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: I'll just talk about it on the radio or when 233 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:50,199 Speaker 1: I think, yeah, you. 234 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,959 Speaker 2: Just accomplished the same thing. Yeah, you're right, stay or go. 235 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 2: In two minutes of Just Sabrina fred Show,